| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | "How do I ask for a woman's number?"But whatsapp still needs the phone number, right? | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 11:28 AM |
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| 2 | How to act when given too much attention?I met someone, had a great chat, she gave me her number. I text her to give her my number back and asked her out. She said that would be great. So I text and said Monday 7pm at this place. She didn't reply for a day and then said she's going through some family stuff so can we put it on hold for a bit. I obviously messed up but no idea how. Literally 2 texts and all sounded positive until the end. | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 07:37 PM |
| 0 | Really slow reader of texts but quick replierSo, what? Give up and not bother communicating anymore? Call her out on it? | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 01:08 PM |
| -8 | Really slow reader of texts but quick replierIf she read it and ignored it, I'd agree with you that she doesn't care. | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 01:07 PM |
| -12 | Really slow reader of texts but quick replierBut she's replying positively and quickly once she reads it. If I wasn't a high priority for her, she'd take ages to reply. Plus, we're at the early stages. I actually wouldn't expect to be a high priority yet anyway. | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 12:42 PM |
| 0 | Unsure whether to chase or waitOK so what would you say if you wanted to check in on someone and see how they are? I thought asking about their day was pretty polite. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 12:17 PM |
| 5 | Unsure whether to chase or waitI think "miss you" might be a little much considering we've had 1 chat and a couple texts. But my instinct is to reach out, double text, and just say something like "I'm free on this day" and then she can match that with her availability if she wants. But my instincts are normally wrong! So I thought I'd see what the consensus is | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Unsure whether to chase or waitMy instinct is to text and check in and say "I'm free on this day" as a way of moving things along, but my instincts haven't really served me well previously haha | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 11:29 AM |
| 0 | Unsure whether to chase or waitReally? Even just to say "hey, how's your day going" or something easy like that | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Is my fantasy just destined to never happen?How do I know how they like me to dress? | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Is my fantasy just destined to never happen?Let's assume the answer to those is no | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 10:07 AM |
| 3 | How long should you wait before texting her after getting her number?Sure, everyone loves shows. | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 03:32 PM |
| 8 | How long should you wait before texting her after getting her number?So she gave you a number for something specific? Not because she was interested in you? | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 01:52 PM |
| 4 | How long should you wait before texting her after getting her number?How did you get her number? There's a cute waitress I always see and I'm struggling to think of a good way. What did you do? | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Best way to ask out, or give my number, to a shop workerSo, you reckon just ask her out, in front of a queue of people? | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaches in UKCould you explain how | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Help getting over oneitisMight be true. Who knows. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Help getting over oneitisThe thing is, I have other options. But I just can't seem to find someone I like better | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Help getting over oneitisI'm absolutely in love with the fantasy. Probably not the reality. Just finding it tough to not imagine the fantasy, you know | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 04:24 PM |
| 0 | Help getting over oneitisI haven't found anyone hotter yet. That's part of my problem. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Help getting over oneitisDon't know that for sure! | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 04:23 PM |
| 1 | What to textSure, but my question was, if you found yourself in that situation - for whatever reason, maybe you worked with them and you've got a no colleagues rule so you were just friends etc etc - what would your approach be | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | What to textSo, how would you have approached it? Imagine a situation where you're friends with a girl, and you develop feelings over time. What's your approach? | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 03:53 PM |
| 1 | What to textIt wasn't particularly random, we've been flirting and there's been a few vibes. I basically said - hey, let's actually go out on a proper date and that's what she said she had to think about. It wasn't totally random, but I guess she'd only considered friends up until now. | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 03:48 PM |
| 1 | What to textI kind of felt like if I was going to risk the friendship, the minimum I needed to say was that I've been thinking about it and I've got some feelings! | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Do things work for 40 year olds?But no one is telling me what they do and how | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Do things work for 40 year olds?What do you mean? There's no way girls are stopping me on the street or in coffee shops etc | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Do things work for 40 year olds?I've heard a lot of people say this but no ones telling me how. Where are you meeting them? What are you saying? | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 10:36 AM |
| 3 | Do things work for 40 year olds?Can you give me details of your cold approach techniques? | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 07:40 AM |
| 7 | Do things work for 40 year olds?Help me copy you | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 11:23 PM |
| 6 | Do things work for 40 year olds?What about if I have my life together, I have money, house, car etc and I look average. I look like what I am. A 40 year old guy. I'm not grey hair or fat or bald, I'm probably average. Reasonable shape. No one looking at me thinking I look really old But no ones looking at me thinking I'm a hot George Clooney older guy either. Still hope? | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 11:00 PM |
| 22 | Do things work for 40 year olds?I don't look old. I probably look mid 30s but I'm not like a 40 year old that looks 50. I'm in reasonable shape. Not super muscly but I've got a swimmers build. Like slim and cardio fit but I haven't got huge arms or anything. I'm pretty happy with my life. Got a load of hobbies and friends and work and a few things I get up to. I've just never had to approach girls. Not a fan of dating sites so I'm kind of relying on meeting strangers or friends of friends. And I know I'll mess it up because my… | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Controlling emotionsCould you elaborate | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 07:56 PM |
| 0 | Controlling emotionsThe problem with that is, I know her. I know everything about her. I know how she would be, and I know we'd be compatible. That's the worst part. I could forget it if it was just looks. It's the whole package. It's very tough to ignore. But I'll make my move next week and whatever happens, happens. But if it doesn't go well, I want to get on top of these emotions. | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Controlling emotionsWhy wouldn't I just ask her out and if it goes well, then great and if not, that's the same outcome as you? | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Controlling emotionsBut how I do find those other women attractive if my mind only sees one person? | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Controlling emotionsI agree. Asking for tips to not feel like this. | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 05:16 PM |
| 3 | How to ask a girl on a date through text ?That's interesting you mention a time period. I'm texting someone and they only text me after 10pm. I think they must be busy in the evenings and they text me when they get into bed. But it's a bit annoying because I can't get text banter going with such long gaps. | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice on the best course of actionI'm 99% sure what she's thinking. But she does slip in sentences like "it's nice having someone to talk to" and "I just wanted to check in with you, it's been a few days since I've spoken to you, and you're a valued friend". Those things are putting some doubt in my head | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 04:00 PM |
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