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Please help me be a pick me. That’s what I just read. Just when I think I can’t find anything more desperate. Why do you like this person? Did he show you a d!ck pic and it was large! What did he do for you that literally no one else anywhere else isn’t better? I want you to read what you wrote out loud. Matter of fact write it in pencil and paper and read it out loud. I need you to feel the letters you wrote and HEAR IT then record it and listen to yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/26 04:33 AM
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As a female former hard Core Video gamer…you’re wrong. Very wrong and this won’t work in the long run. People online talk trash and that’s what it is. Can he not wear head phones so you don’t have to hear it. I’m also a minority group too but getting bothered about online crazy people is a bit much. It’s just online fun. And stuff like this is why I’m glad I waited to marry caz I’d rather play my games than deal with this at that age.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/26 10:43 PM
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Do you want an ugly baby?
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/26 06:53 PM
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I’m with you
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/26 01:12 AM
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Yeah she needs to date more to get social practice in
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/26 03:45 PM
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Maybe you should date more men so you can stop with the early attachments
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/26 03:44 PM
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Drink slippery elm tea or pills in the meantime. But find out the reason
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/26 10:04 PM
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Looking at people as individuals and not as gender. One man may look at you and address you properly and the other won’t all in the same day and place. Also understanding not everyone is for everybody. There are more bad people or people with issues than good people that fit you. That even goes for same sex friendships. People grow up and values change. Some get better and others worse based on intellect and experiences and desires for growth.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/26 05:04 PM
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Tell him to sell 60 acres of the land for a data center for 50 million THEN I’ll see your perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/26 04:53 PM
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Girl no offense but you should probably get help. Do you have any upstairs issues? Are you special needs? He’s 23. He doesn’t even know who he is. If he’s from a rich family then I’d understand. But…you need to update us on that
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/26 05:43 AM
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Girl I couldn’t get past the first 3 sentences. Why are you dating someone that’s mentally a minor. You know every man is 5 years younger in the head than their age.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/26 05:40 AM
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I know your sad but sometimes it isn’t always the wife and I hope you’ll realize that.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/26 03:30 PM
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He most likely cheated cheated cheated on you but just don’t want to say it and this is the best light way to do it. You deserve better
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/26 06:19 AM
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For sure. But I bet his ex wife or girlfriend would feel the same way if he put that same effort he put in you with her right now but he isn’t. Women just don’t leave men that they have kids with nor let them have less custody. It’s not in our nature to break a family or not want to marry the man we get pregnant by. Think about this. Really think about this from the woman’s perspective. If you was her and had 2 kids by a man and you felt the need to give him less custody…why would you do that? Y…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/26 08:23 PM
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Girl don’t be with a man with kids at your age. Please. Sounds like you want stress. Especially a man that has less custody of his children. The flag is bleeding
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/26 03:28 PM
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😮‍💨
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/26 11:51 PM
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Yep
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/26 01:42 AM
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Women buying sex is like buying tap water
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/26 04:22 PM
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No it’s pathetic to consider a flower from the grocery store equal to a sex act. I can buy myself flowers.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/26 03:43 PM
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The only equivalent to getting head is getting head back. I’d never trade sex for flowers unless I didn’t like the guy. And he most likely won’t get head.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/26 03:39 PM
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Everything you’ve heard is a lie. They want you but they get mad that you’re not putting out for them. You need to stop focusing on what they want and focus on being the best version of yourself and they have to accept that. Edit: I didn’t read all of your post and thought you was a woman. Anyways my thoughts still apply though.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/26 07:22 PM
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She actually can if he has an iPhone. That’s how one of my girlfriends found out caz the computer was linked to the phone. It’s 2026. And check Google Photos they are all synced to the email address. Every photo they take on the phone is automatically uploaded to the cloud which is straight on the computer
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/26 12:38 AM
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Because the possibility of living a lie could hit over time. But it’s better in my opinion to do what you gotta do vs doing nothing and losing your head when he arrives. It would only give him an upper hand if she’s correct but doesn’t have evidence.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/26 07:31 PM
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Girl you know what you gotta do. Do it. Do it now and look for clues. Honestly I’d snap the moment I see him. Don’t wait till he arrives for you to put pieces together and clues.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/26 10:35 AM
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Because those women clearly don’t know how to read or don’t read the Bible and just listen. She’s probably from some cult that doesn’t allow women to read the Bible for herself.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/26 01:14 PM
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What part do you not understand that women don’t like or care about other women and their well being? Be honest? And God forbid if anything happened to the other wife no woman really wants to care for her child. I personally didn’t marry a man with another child. I would never do it. Some do but it’s not in my heart to not take care of non blood. Even in the Bible Rachel and Leah didn’t like each other at all and was competing. Let’s be honest.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/26 01:12 PM
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Well you want an opinion on traditional marriages that has drastic change but don’t want biblical explanations points. It doesn’t work like that. At least not with me when I do my best to actually live by Gods word. Just tell him he can enjoy his life with his beliefs but he is leading yal straight to hell in a hand basic with his ideology. Don’t bring up God and false religion and then say you don’t want to hear biblical examples. He lead you wrong. End of story. It’s really not hard to pack yo…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/26 01:05 PM
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You should just let him have his one sided open relationship….BY HIMSELF. He can be as open as he wants to be and date all the women he wants. Let him do that. But for you…move on or enjoy an STD
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/26 06:20 PM
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Ok…I have 2 thoughts…have you tried looking up what to do with your PMS? I’m a firm believer in taking over the counter stuff like Pamperin or Midol. Whichever one works for you. Pamperin makes me calm down. I also take magnesium to help me relax and have you heard of Kana? It’s an all natural herb that changes my entire day and puts a big smile on my face. Is really nice and legal. Look into it. As for your husband it sounds like he has a financial issue himself and doesn’t know how to tell you…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/26 12:49 AM
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Not trying to insult anyone but I believe men are 5 years mentally younger. So you’re 25 dating a mentally 20 year old person.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 02:50 PM
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Sorry for all the typos
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/26 03:04 AM
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Honestly I still need to think on it but the first thing that comes to mind is not telling him that’s my family called about it. It’s such a big deal in our culture with hair and looks. When they child doesn’t look good they will talk about me. All the women. Not him. It’s not in my head it’s what we do and get ostracized for it. I even talked to my neighbor about it we are the same age and married the same time and men from almost the same culture. She’s also family planning and she knew exactl…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/26 02:42 AM
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Before I said that comment it was while I was getting him ready for school so the next day and the only thing he would say is what he didn’t like but acted like I can’t say nothing and I didn’t. Then he started picking lint out our son’s hair saying look at that. “When did you even change the bed sheets there’s lint.” When I change them regularly and no I didn’t say anything about that to even defend myself. I just wanted to get out the door on time. Before I left the house I made that statement…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/26 01:54 AM
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So that’s not the exact order of how the story went. I’m sorry for writing that way. When he said I did a good job he still wasn’t happy about what I did. He began to lecture me about how he felt about it being cut in the first place. Then he started the silent treatment. That’s when I said don’t make this about you. So everything you said is exactly what I did and what happened. So there’s that. And he does care about the hair. Keeps saying he wants it long but doesn’t do anything to help. He’s…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/26 12:30 AM
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I pray mine would if things happened by his hand (which it hasn’t) but I haven’t seen proof of him taking him places alone YET. But that’s what it feels like in my head.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/26 04:58 PM
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It’s because if something does happen you’re the one to take him to the hospital and wait. (Sorry I needed to rant too 😮‍💨)
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/26 05:01 AM
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The forum has said what it said. You either listen or not
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/26 03:09 PM
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A lot of people get educated at your age. I’m in my 30s and starting my entire career over after my industry decided to leave my state and now the country.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/26 12:14 AM
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You never had control over anything. He’s 21 and has nothing to give you. Why would you want a future with someone so young
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/26 04:10 AM
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Understood. Going to working and living your best life is great. I honestly think now is a great time to just focus on being a better version of yourself and becoming mature and living for yourself. I got married in my 30s and have my first at 35. I don’t regret it! I’m not saying wait that long but don’t think you’re on this crazy clock. It’s all a mind game. Unless your family has a history of issues I wouldn’t worry. Even then science can help.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/26 10:35 PM
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No you just don’t want to go back to your family because they don’t like him and your situation. You’re wrong OP and you need honest people to tell you you’re ruining your life. Not your family not your husband and you need therapy. Nothing about this is normal and you sound like something from a bad movie. Don’t turn into a life time story and leave this man! You sound delusional. Moderators im not trying to be disrespectful im trying to push direct advice before she gets in a no turn back situ…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/26 10:00 PM
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Your parents and family will take you back. I know that for a fact. You’re 23 and young. I know it seems otherwise. But I think your family was right about this marriage. Leave. I say this as an older woman who has been through enough to see what you need to see. Listen to your parents and apologize. It’s time to be mature and make your own decisions but you can take note better and have better.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/26 09:53 PM
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Just be serious and stop worrying about those who say that about women. At this rate all women are partying so hard they won’t have any luck anyways by that statement.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/26 12:45 AM
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Girl…never let a man know where you live unless you’re 100% sure he’s not insane and that you want him to be your boyfriend and you’ve been dating for a while. You better learn how to drive before you find something to actually be nervous about.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/26 03:36 AM
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I was a big gamer before I had a child. My husband was not. He tried. I prefer to have a man that’s focused on work and not games so I can relax and game but that’s just me. It may be years before I can game again BUT you never know.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/26 08:26 PM
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Girl if you’re that scared just take a plan b for 35$ at Walmart with coupon online. Remember plan b only works when you’re not ovulating and only PUSHES ovulation to another date IF YOU’RE NOT OVULATING ALREADY. I’m sure you can grift someone here for more than that 35$. Anyways you sound like a bot. Today is your last day for the pill if you go to the store now.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/26 12:40 PM
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I think it depends on the person. I was happy alone and single. But of course wanted sex but yeah. To me learning to be fulfilled in life is not something you should rely on a partner for. So if women are saying they are happy single I believe it.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/26 07:40 PM
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Thank you! Now that I’m older I’m starting to see how common that mentality is with women. Sometimes it’s not always the man that has issues. Looking in the mirror is hard for many women.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/26 09:13 PM
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Also to make another point on a personal level I had a girlfriend that was divorced from a man she knew since college. He moved into her house, he never had a career job and finally left her after even having his sister move in for a few years. Years later I asked her what does she want in a ma now. She said this time I want someone that really tall. I was like…what does that have to do with anything?! The way she said it was as if a tall person wouldn’t have left her. Keep in mind her ex husban…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/26 01:33 PM
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It’s not that hard to write something of substance of what actually matters for having a man. You wrote one part which was preserving your language and culture, what about religion, what about work ethic and leadership responsibility. What about yourself and what you want to do in life, stay at home or going back to work or running your own business. Does the guy gotta be a home owner or do you need both of you to buy it together. Are they living with mom still or not. You can get straight to th…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/26 01:18 PM
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When I mentioned persevering the cultural language I was referring to her children learning the language paragraph. Which to be was the only relevant thing.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/26 12:54 AM
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You didn’t mention anything of substance that actually matters to your survival in this world except preserving your cultural language
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/26 10:34 PM
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Good for you for putting yourself first in a non married situation
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/26 02:47 AM
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You’re better off thinking of how to empire build and help your husband in his business and maybe start your own
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 01:56 PM
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Cons are everywhere with everyone. As long as you are respected and visa versa.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 03:34 AM
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A woman getting sex is like getting tap water and bragging about it. We know you can do it. Also be aware of diseases men can’t test for but women can such as HPV. So even if yal test and it’s clean all around, hpv won’t show up with him. Which can lead to cervical cancer. Just letting you know but I hope you get these guys tested.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/26 01:35 PM
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You’re missing the point of everything. Again it’s not about him it’s about her. If he’s that ugly why did she even give him 5 min of her time? I’m not saying looks don’t matter. They do. But for some reason she is here talking about how all her friends have hot men and she doesn’t. Again it’s not about him at all. You’re totally missing it. This is equivalent to women that get with men that calls them a B$&: but then looks at other friends men and see they are treated like a queen and wonders i…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/26 12:38 AM
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You should keep dating other people and continue to date them too.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/26 09:45 PM
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This has nothing to do with him. Dating is more about reflecting on yourself and your values more than anything. And she asked people in their 30s so I’m answering. I was superficial too and that’s ok! But I’m asking questions to help her think. She only brought up dating other guys in her age because her friends are doing that and no other reason. Maybe she just didn’t say? I’m just saying…. Before you date someone no matter the age you should know what you want and why. I only had 2 relationsh…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/26 07:00 PM
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Depends. If you feel like you’re missing out then leave. If you’re not don’t leave. You sound superficial honestly. I don’t mean that in a bad way but just keeping it real. You should know wha you want before getting into a relationship not wanting what your friends have. It all sounds silly honestly.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/26 05:44 PM
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Yeah girl you gotta let him handle it. Sounds like some man business. But make sure he doesn’t borrow again though. I’d bring that up at least. And encourage him to be a good saver. Help him build.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/26 03:06 AM
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Ok…. Not trying to get into your business but why can’t you travel with him to his family? Are you sure there is no way? Also you’re not the only one that lack when the man is not around. Don’t be hard on yourself. It’s normal. But you need to simply care for yourself though. Do you not go to work or at least out to grocery shop right? You get yourself motivated to get out and get fresh air. Going for a walk to keep your weight down and getting some sun for good energy. After that you will have …
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/26 03:02 AM
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lol oh boy. So when you get married it’s like your relationship starts over. Being married is like finally arriving to ground zero. lol. You’re a wife now and you have to both talk about what each other expects. That usually comes from marriage counseling before marriage. I feel like before marriage and during there are things you talk about right…. But then once in the situation you realize you both may need to talk about it again and understand one another more clearly. There are reasons why r…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/26 03:05 PM
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Hard to answer because not every man is going to treat you in the same manner of how your husband should treat you for you to act like you’d be a good wife. Idk. You have to vet. Not give wife privileges. Marry faster not later. What I mean is don’t take 4 years to marry. It creates a strange line in a relationship especially if you know he’s going to marry but you still act like a girlfriend because you are.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/26 03:19 AM
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We have separate accounts but I also have a credit card attached to his account. He just tells me when I need to be mindful on spending. Idk I think you’re messing up. Once you become mother of his child you should be fine if you’re worried about securing the bag. But your real concern should be your name on the house.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/26 05:00 PM
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Don’t dream of what you want but a healthy relationship with you being able to sustain yourself. You never know what you’ll walk into. I never wanted to be a trad wife that’s at home but here I am. It’s not bad but originally I was one making my own money almost 6 figures but life happened. Nothing bad but you never know if you’ll need to help your husband someday and be ready. Especially in this economy.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/26 01:34 PM
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Yeah some people do and those that did are divorced. At least the ones I knew. Why rush? How about find a man that actually graduated and made a name for himself. You’re dating with the intent that he would actually even graduate and become someone when he may become no one. You may have thought that but if my son said he was going to college to find a spouse I’d be furious. I didn’t take him to school for a woman. I took him to get highly educated so he can find a great job. No sane woman wants…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/26 05:04 PM
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Honestly never having a boyfriend at 20 is ok. No man at your age is going to be a provider at that age. He has nothing to offer you but his penis and that’s why it’s like that. Just like you most likely have nothing to offer him. Focus on study only and not men and get out of college to have something. I’m not saying don’t date but I’m saying realize who you date is just a complete distraction and not someone to take you to the next level.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/26 01:33 PM
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It seems like you need friends or like making friends or like being Nosey
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/26 10:39 PM
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It seems like you need friends or like making friends or like being Nosey
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/26 10:39 PM
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It’s not wrong to think this way but how we address people is always important too. Wording is key. You can get your answer another way
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/26 09:42 PM
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Yeah hun you gotta set that pride aside. I used to complain about my husband driving but I don’t anymore. He has gotten better after so many tix though. But I have learned to let him take lead and stop trying to control if I thought it was ok for my to be with him I should feel safe in the car. Same for him when he ask me to drive when he’s tired.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/26 01:58 PM
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Wish I could help. I just couldn’t imagine having 6 kids. Do you have any type of help? I’d be a control freak too if I had 6 kids. Can you not hire someone to take off the load or balance. Sounds like you need to save yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/26 02:36 AM
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You need to get dressed and go out without the kids by yourself and see what he says
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/26 04:01 PM
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After reading your post and other comments yeah you got married too young. Maybe not to the wrong person but just simply young. If I was you…if it’s possible you need to go on a personal vacation or a woman’s vacation. Travel out of the country with few other married women alone. Make your own decisions and thoughts and live it up having fun. If you can’t go over seas go within the country and live it up. You needed proper alone time. I’d never give myself to a man at 18. You’re not missing anot…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/26 05:15 PM
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Yeah, totally. That sounds like a great plan. You got this girl!
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/26 10:08 PM
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How can you ruin something that isn’t? I’m sorry but I don’t know what’s going on with the mental and women. It’s really not that hard to just talk to a man and be straight up. If you don’t know what you are then you need another man.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/26 03:13 PM
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Hey! Instead of more drugs I highly suggest you find natural things to get your hormones back to the way they should. Drugs of any kind is not the way in my opinion unless it’s a life or death situation or short term. Like really short. You need a gentle transition back. I’m not saying don’t take birth control. But in my opinion drugs just aren’t the way. The side effects is too much. Do you have a herbalist store where you live or homeopathic person within the city. Just think on it and look it…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/26 01:43 PM
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Can’t really offer advice to a person that already knows the answer. Staying with someone that walks ahead of you and doesn’t protect you? Hmmm…. It is what it is.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/26 10:10 PM
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I have fun with my child lol. The child drives me crazy sometimes but yeah. I TRY to have fun with my husband but life be lifing most of the time. Other than that…yeah being single is more fun if you’re looking for fun. I could always take care of myself. But you know the world has to go around.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/26 02:43 AM
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Honestly…. Don’t listen to men on what they want. They really don’t know. They will say this and that but still look at insta models or anything flashy. Do what you want to do and look how you want. If it’s over the top, be over the top. If you want plain jane be that. Whatever it is do it for yourself caz you can only keep up with who you actually are. I personally prefer balance. I think all men like eyes done and pronounced look with the eyes and brows but don’t look like a clown like you dre…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/26 07:16 PM
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It’s not about expecting it’s about what you want to do and putting it out there vs them spending money on you thinking they can buy you. Also it’s you putting your standards on the line and steering the direction of how you want to be treated. The only man that should guide you is your boyfriend/husband. But during weeding you need to take full control of who has access to you and let them know up front. It took me a while to understand this. Men love a challenge so they are either into getting…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/26 09:45 PM
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The moment he asked for the date was the signal of possibly wanting anything. That was the moment to be up front. I know it’s hard but just like he don’t mind asking for you to come to his apartment within the first few meetings and surface level chats was very bold for you to not be just as bold.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/26 09:10 PM
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I’m confused…why wouldn’t you ask the intention immediately. Unless I just want a free meal I immediately tell them before the date is scheduled that I’m not sleeping with them
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/26 09:05 PM
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I think you need to look into why you fear growing old and alone. You know people die on wedding days honey moons and have to start all over. You don’t know what’s promised. If not that you could walk into thinking you found the one just for it to all be lies. Let me tell you something… marriage can be great but I used to be that girl that played video games all day long, getting faded, traveling all over the world, and all that regularly up till 34 years old. Now those days are behind me but I …
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/26 06:29 AM
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THIS! Date for fun! Anything more is a waste
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/26 10:52 PM
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EXACTLY
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/26 10:50 PM
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Sometimes when I see women here that just became legal and taking about Risk and relationships it’s like seeing a toddler talking about going to high school. Girl…my advice is to simply enjoy your life and have fun but don’t make permanent mistakes. What a lot of younger women don’t understand is getting married or being in a REAL relationship that leads to marriage is like asking for more work and responsibilities for no reason. Question, are you really ready to clean up after your husbands mes…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/26 10:41 PM
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Lucky you! I don’t try to have it perfect but I do try to have dishes cleaned and counter clear at least. That’s the best I can do. What about the looks?
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/26 02:17 PM
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lol no. I’m just saying what I said earlier because that’s the likelihood of the success of young marriages. In this economy most men in their 20s aren’t ready at all. High value men aren’t really a thing like that in their 20s. Same for women in my opinion. But men for sure. So these people get married and they usually have failed marriages. I know and have heard plenty of men in relationships that seemed promising but they got the boot from the girl because he wasn’t a provider yet then later …
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/26 06:03 PM
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Them same men probably already got a divorce by the time you 30 or broke off engagement
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/26 01:32 AM
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I got married at 33 and still felt like I had time
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/26 03:18 AM
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For some reason I couldn’t read past the first two paragraphs where you said together 10 years and living with his parents.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/26 04:35 PM
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I don’t understand why you didn’t date multiple men while dating someone like this?
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/26 02:58 AM
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THIS
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/26 03:22 AM
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Honestly I’d try it out. A lot of men love Elon because he’s a man of wealth and deals with cars. Men love cars. No matter how far left or right you need to separate hobbies and politics in my opinion. As long as you are same faith, not racist, not scheming or taking advantage of the poor. Also rich people think different and that’s why they are rich. And that’s ok. Just feel him out and leave out politics. I say this as a black woman.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/26 10:40 PM
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I’m confused. Why are you on red pill women? Not knowing what you want to do with someone is strange. This isn’t like being hungry or not. This is your body that you should be firm on how it’s going to be treated. When you don’t know what you want for yourself it’s a turn off for men. You shouldn’t come off confused. Before I meet up with any man I tell them up front on FaceTime or whatever that I’m not the type to sleep with them. They know up front. I know up front. And if I am I tell them up …
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/26 10:08 PM
6

No you need to tell him RIGHT NOW that you’re going to have sex or not! These things shouldn’t be a guess! You don’t wait till in a situation.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/26 08:24 PM
2

Yikes. This is why guys don’t greet married at a woman’s convenience.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/26 08:21 PM
5

Honestly when it comes to stuff around the house I do it or hire someone to do it. Our dryer went out and I ordered parts but after realizing it still won’t work or my husband couldn’t figure it out either we realized it’s cheaper to buy a dryer on Facebook marketplace and get them to fix everything up. $200
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/26 10:11 PM
4

It feels good to hear from women that are thinking clearly on this app. Congrats.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/25 01:57 AM
3

I’d never plan it. I’m a stay at home but not by choice. I think every woman will become one eventually for a chapter in life but you better become a skilled woman. When it comes it will come just get a good man.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/25 12:20 AM
3

Every woman will answer differently. For me I’d say a man that you can see the will take care of you and will be a dad for sure. I choose my spouse based on I knew if anything happened to me our children would be fine ideally. I needed to know that part more above anything else. I can control my own happiness ideally. It sounds sad maybe but survival and security is first instinct. I see and hear about too many abandoned kids. But after that I feel like a lot of men fall short on other things a …
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/25 08:37 PM
1

You asked a lot of questions. But to answer who I’d rather date is no one because both of those men lead to the same end results
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/25 08:28 PM
3

I’m not saying men do or don’t care about body count I’m saying you need to care about why is best for YOU YOURSELF because if you only do things for someone else vs yourself you’ll always fail and only fail. My personally is for my own protection, mentally, spiritually and physically and for God himself. Being careful and abstaining and being patient means protecting my mind. It means preventing STD, it means not allowing connections from different spiritual attachments clinging to my spirit, i…
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/25 02:50 PM
3

Seems like you should work on yourself spiritually and stop making your body count about how men value you. Instead look at how you value yourself and go about life and that.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/25 02:15 AM
-4

Idk. If he’s jumping over the fence to date me, he’s probably doing that to other women. My shorts were short that day so I know my butt had to have been popping real nice that day. But I think how a man carries himself is very important. I prefer real chill like and classy.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/25 12:57 PM
-10

The only thing bad is that now we can’t weed out the good or the bad fast enough. I’d never accept a cat call. I’ve had a man jump over a fence from a restaurant to talk to me in front of all his guys. He was good looking but I was already dating. But I don’t think I’d accept a guy that jumps over a fence to talk to me. The acrobats were nice though.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/25 04:40 AM
1

Ok…. I’ll be very honest with you. No one cares about your purity but God. So don’t hold it to a standard for a relationship because men don’t care. They actually see you as someone to be conquered and will challenge you more. I’m telling you as someone that’s older that stayed a virgin for a long time( I at least got ate out). It might take a long time for you to marry. And that’s ok. Don’t let no one pressure you. Just understand most men would rather try to get you to have sex and then leave …
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/25 12:39 PM
5

Highly disagree. Cooking is an essential to everyday life. But maybe I think like this because I enjoy cooking. But it’s not a bad thing to show. I never saw cooking as something I’m rewarding. I was going to cook regardless.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/25 12:39 PM
2

I didn’t read your post but offer to pay the tip. If you go to church in the morning get coffee or tea. Stuff like that. Don’t have sex.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/25 12:35 PM
1

Question…do you think after you have sex the dating pool will get better? Or you’re going to magically have more sex after getting laid the first time? Don’t mean to break your heart but the dating pool is simply trash
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/25 05:36 AM
2

And what church would marry them if this is an issue. I think there is a bigger issue here.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/25 02:01 AM
2

Ok…yal do need to match with your faith. And honestly both arguments are not good in my opinion. Assuming y’all are Christian from what it sounds like…what if you went to church every day? Some people do that. Is the problem really about Saturday vs Sunday or something else? I go to church on Sunday but sabbath day is technically Saturday. And yal not eating the same beliefs in food is also an issue. Not because it’s different but because he makes fun of you for not eating it. My brother married…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/25 01:59 AM
1

Just enjoy the dates and free stuff while seeing other people. Don’t take this serious.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/25 08:30 PM
5

Hey! I feel you but let me tell you something…. At the 2 year mark or even before that you’ll want to go back to work to some degree. The vibe and mindset only last till they are able to walk. It’s natural part of what you’re going through. Don’t shut down your business.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/25 08:29 PM
2

lol well it all boils down to do you want to be married or do you really want to be a wife/husband. And most people at that age don’t. And when life changes we have to be ready to understand how to work through them and talk about it. And honestly she needs to right now learn how to talk about what she wants sexually with a man and know what she wants to do and always be open about it but of course the one she thinks she’d marry. There should be some sort of conversation had before marriage and …
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/25 01:06 PM
20

Unfortunately you can be compatible but after life events you’re no longer compatible. Time changes everything so idk.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/25 06:20 PM
6

I need more context.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/25 12:09 AM
7

lol this was a good read. Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/25 10:08 PM
7

You need to not go to his place! Don’t invite him to your place. You’re already messing up
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/25 08:09 PM
-5

Ok I didn’t read all of this l I’ll be honest. But you need to act very hard to get. Change to the prize. Play his game. DON’T HAVE SEX AND MAKE IT CLEAR YOU’RE NOT FOR SALE! And next time he says he’ll take you out the country act uninterested! Tell him you don’t believe in going out of the country with someone you don’t know and if you did you’d rather pay your own way. Act like you have zero interest in his money! You have to be different than all other women if you want to win! Don’t be desp…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/25 08:09 PM
0

Good sex varies. But you’re never know. It all sounds like assumption
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 09:18 PM
2

You can’t have everything. That’s my point.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 09:05 PM
0

You have to give in somewhere. And to me that somewhere should be serious relationship over sexual desires. Unfortunately. You might wound up not getting both.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 08:49 PM
-3

This sounds really complicated. You can always say looking for a serious relationship and put 50 shades of grey as favorite movies? 😏🤣
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 08:46 PM
8

I mean if you’re not texting back vagina throbbing I don’t know. 🤷🏾‍♀️ there was only one right response in both pov.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 05:36 PM
4

All men would be shocked about make up. But yeah I’d expect my man to help me with my nails and hair
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 04:53 PM
6

Sounds like you need to buy your own. Honestly I go into my relationship looking a certain way and I’m expecting him to help me maintain the look he found me. So if I regularly get my hair done nails and dress nice I expect him to help maintain that but you went in broke and not looking like whatever so he thought you were plain Jane possibly.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 04:45 PM
9

This is very false
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 02:04 PM
5

Those men are delusional. Most 23 year olds are in college and making tik tok videos all day! What’s in your bank account?
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/25 02:24 PM
0

I know you’re right to feel this. But I need to be upfront. With you being in your studies your focus should be on you and what you desire within yourself. Not focusing on a man. I say this because I personally don’t believe one can focus on gaining a career and actually be a true submissive wife. Being a wife comes with a lot of responsibility especially if you have children. This all may not be with him as time goes by but focusing on yourself and this degree is key. It’s simply having your pr…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/25 02:20 PM
12

Please get self help and encouragement. It’s not that wise to date as a minor and woman’s peak isn’t 23
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/25 02:38 AM
3

Yeah I want to know about why sex life is gone when u have no children and he’s not working hard
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/25 12:11 PM
8

I’d do it but you have to be really good about it. Maybe be like working out or something and be like I might need a coffee or tea after this or whatever you drink that’s near by. And then say would you like to join me if you’re not busy?
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/25 05:45 PM
1

No. Biological females are like robots. Be boop be bop. 🤖
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/25 08:21 PM
2

Get creative in bed and introduce some things.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/25 12:33 PM
4

So you never know how you turn out pregnant. I was at a smaller size for myself. I’m a curvy woman. I got pregnant and didn’t blow up. Some women blow up because their blood pressure goes up and holding water etc not because of food. Maybe certain foods caused it? But I heard men talking at my baby shower saying she still looks really good pregnant like at her wedding. I didn’t get pregnancy nose either. After I gave birth all the fluid came and bloating. The big nose the fat feet. All that. But…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/25 04:17 PM
3

Myself…🤷🏾‍♀️ I used to take weed edibles before being intimate and it would make me have 3 Os with my husband. I don’t get high anymore but does that mean he can’t get me there without me being faded? Tools are what they are they just help you. Same for using vibrators especially if your man is gone or you’re gone for a while
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/25 11:56 AM
2

I get it but for me dating someone that has zero plans for me and my desires as a mother and wife is more against my principles than allowing a man spending his money on me for temporary gratification. You need to jump ship immediately since you’re getting nothing.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/25 11:52 AM
1

You’re very wrong
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/25 03:33 AM
1

I guess I’m confused because why be with him if you don’t believe in baecations? I’d definitely would go on a vacation with him but be in an open relationship and talking to other men to find my husband. He’s made it clear that since he doesn’t want marriage he wants to be used. So why not?
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/25 02:05 AM
1

My husband’s money is my money and mine is his. So I don’t get your point
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/25 09:55 PM
2

Don’t be surprised if your child isn’t yours
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/25 03:26 PM
14

Finances don’t complete a relationship or person. Finances can be gained by anyone at any time. Men shouldn’t equate financial status as their selling point caz things happen
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/25 01:39 PM
3

It’s very relevant for her sanity
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/25 01:36 PM
1

I highly agree with you. But once you walk down that aisle everything changes. My best friend of 15 years was my maid of honor and I’m currently debating on ghosting her. Other fiancés said the same thing then they got married now everyone is acting funny.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/25 12:19 AM
3

Yeah. My dad was/is a Mr.fix it so I was really confused when my husband wasn’t. But he at least has the money for everyone to do it. I also realized I enjoy house projects.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 10:06 PM
1

Understood
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 10:04 PM
11

Toy?
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 10:02 PM
1

Nice! I never understood Discord but that seems cool. I feel that too by the way. You’re definitely encouraging me to step out more for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 08:05 PM
19

lol when I buy things I only buy what I can set up because my husband isn’t going to do it. And if something needs repair I call a repair person. Not all men aren’t built to be Mr.fix it’s just like not all women are supposed to do hair and clean. Sometimes you gotta hire folk.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 07:09 PM
2

Oh wow! What a great view point on all fronts! Thanks for the thought! And that’s cool on the DnD! 😆 I’m a a big nerd myself.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 04:49 PM
0

This is a good way to look at things. I guess when I was younger I never went out to go look for a man. I actually went out to hang out with my friends and talk to them. So my idea of going out is different.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 04:27 PM
5

Do you or would you have your own little flings to while he’s gone?
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 05:32 AM
3

Amen
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 05:29 AM
72

Sure if he respects my need for another man
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 05:27 AM
1

That’s a great way to think about it
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/25 03:36 AM
1

Big facts
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/25 10:26 PM
1

Right!?
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/25 01:55 PM
2

I’m sure even would be using it too. So we have to put in that factor. Honestly I’d see it as a sign of immaturity because the AI version of someone undressed wouldn’t be real. This is almost giving men that watch cartoon anime porn. Weird.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/25 01:53 PM
-4

I only remember the ones that gave me jewelry and I still have those.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/25 02:13 AM
0

I think I type how I talk. I didn’t call her a doormat which is why I say that’s not you. But just advised her to not be one just in case.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/25 12:16 AM
1

I must have amnesia then
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/25 12:03 AM
6

Piece of advice. When you get older in your 30s. No one is going to remember you to be honest. You’ll be just that one girl back in my younger days out of the many or even few.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/25 05:10 PM
3

This is bad advice. People shouldn’t focus on that especially at this age when it comes to relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/25 05:09 PM
2

More chances is that he’s just trash vs it’s you and that’s most cases in general
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/25 04:06 PM
7

He’s just trash. Believe it or not a lot of women are just throwing themselves out there at men on one night stands etc more than we think so there is no reason to commit. But I don’t believe his story about being 35 and hurt. Grow up. Totally using this as an excuse.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/25 03:08 PM
-1

I get it but this guy has already said the kind version of what you’re wanting to hear and that’s not good enough for you either. Now I’m giving you the face value and that’s too harsh. What do you want? Us women need to normalize not having a conclusion to relationships. When a guy ghosted me I blocked him. He finally reached on via email where of course I didn’t know how to block at the time. Reaching and apologizing. Did I take him back? NO. Turns out it wouldn’t have worked anyways because w…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/25 09:54 PM
2

We don’t have a broad option we have broad delusions. Thinking the person we talk to supposed to be randomly loyal to us. Act like your lover is a needle in a hay stack.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/25 09:51 PM
-1

Men want what they want. And that’s not you. Don’t be a door mat
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/25 09:34 PM
1

THIS! I believe a transparent woman on goals wins faster. Men don’t like mind games as much as they like playing them 😭🤣
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/25 07:12 PM
2

I disagree. I’m not saying take a complete nose dive but in my past I’ve had men that I actually was compatible with “fun” wise(non sexual fun)but when I told them who I was at the beginning they didn’t HEAR me because they were too invested in thinking of me sexually. His brain couldn’t get past it! So when we got to that stage he thought I was a liar and fooled him. Like he thought I was joking that I wasn’t a promiscuous woman. He tried to come back and do right but I was done. Point is being…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/25 07:07 PM
5

This guy is right! And honestly you want to scare them off on the first date. You need to weed out the people that think you’re just another body instead of a real woman with a brain and values self.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/25 07:01 PM
2

So life don’t work like that. The first job you get isn’t your last so why would your first man be the one you marry. You’re not ready to date at all. Is your first female friend your forever best friend your girls travel with?
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/25 06:58 PM
1

Yes, yes she does.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/25 01:30 PM
1

Uh…you need to get yourself together and snap out of it. This whole I want to be transparent is just being full of yourself. You’re full of yourself. Now call the company and ask them how many different people mow lawns that are available and ask for names. Then tell them you want that person that’s different from the manager to do your lawn. This is not hard.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/25 01:29 PM
1

So the house we was in was too crowded and small to pull him to the side. And pulling him to the side wouldn’t matter because he would have still wondered why I couldn’t take care of whatever matter on my own. There was no win. Especially when you’re guest, everyone wants to know what do you need help with. The other women wanted to try and take my baby but my baby wasn’t going to no one but us. I get your point but it’s not like that. My GMA house is one of them old tiny homes from the 50s. Usu…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/25 01:05 PM
10

Forgot to add when I met back with my mother she gave me a look and shrugged her shoulders. Said you don’t know what all I’ve went through growing up. They can be something else. FYI mom is like 73. Also my uncle has been married 3 times and has a new woman every time I visit every 2 years.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/25 06:37 PM
5

This
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/25 02:52 AM
3

Yeah. And we need to normalize husbands paying for wives self vacations while men be at work. My old cousin has a stay at home wife. He pays for their Disney vacations while he works. Her happiness and seeing his kids happy is what brings him joy. That’s what’s normal. Not men complaining about why the wife not around. Don’t get me wrong, having the husband around is a great thing but most men that run a business don’t have time for vacations. Unless you’re a CEO Fortune 500 type man.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/25 05:00 PM
0

I guess I don’t understand why women would feel like they can’t leave a man in his own space. Is he gone die if you leave? Is he a baby or a pet that needs care or on life support?
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/25 04:36 PM
3

Girl you could have ended this text thread saying…Update, found out my now ex is trying to cheat and we broke up. Everything else is irrelevant. To be honest with you this man isn’t worth it if he’s holding you hostage. After I got married I went to another country with one of my girlfriends for almost a month. Seriously. Of course my husband was feeling a little sad but we video chat everyday and came back and had great romance not going back and forth on nonsense.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/25 12:59 PM
9

I waited 4 months with my husband
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/25 07:36 PM
38

Nope
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/25 05:58 PM
-1

The way women talk these I can’t really tell. One min a woman talk all modest but once you talk to them the next day they kiking and laughing with the man right out of his hotel room just to never see him again
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/25 03:51 PM
-31

Believe it or not some women like the idea of training a young man in bed and that’s all they are for.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/25 09:16 PM
-13

This. There is only a few reasons why men or women would date drastically young people. And that’s to control the narrative. I have lady friends that date men that just got out of college. I don’t judge her but I get why but I’m like…you really just don’t want to settle down huh? 😩🤣. The life of the party and remembering the good ole days and getting high is fun. Especially if he doesn’t complain about eating 🐈😻 but it’s not too long before she remembers the crazy that these young men bring.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/25 08:30 PM
1

Look…I understand this is red pill women…I’m a woman in the entertainment industry…we know how to party hard. But understand I’m also very aggressive and assertive when I’m not around my man so men know not to try me. Be like that. Usually in order to get in these spaces you gotta have some sort of back bone so I’m assuming she does. Maybe she is getting rape vibes because the men are funny? But I also have joined in on men’s locker talk back in the day so idk I’m just a woman that used to being…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/25 08:06 PM
0

I’m confused. Do you not know your co workers? Are you new to the company? Men can be bad but they aren’t that bad that you gotta be scared. I grew up with a mom that told me never take an open drink and never leave your drink. If you’re that scared don’t drink at all. I’ve always been in an all male industry and honestly i don’t like hanging out with none of them because they are only going to continue talking about work all day and I’m not interested. Especially while drinking.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/25 07:01 PM
2

It’s so sad and real and I’m sure many undiagnosed with these food ailments because everyone else eats it so why not me? I was 30 going on 60. I’ll never forget
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/25 10:53 PM
0

I highly disagree. He’s 30 and needs help outside of drs. Drs only want to push meds and bull crap vs a true health person that pushes healthy living. You know how hard it is to work feeling like that? I say this because I was there myself but struggled alone. Not trying to make this about me but I was so bad I was walking with a brace.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/25 03:33 PM
2

So…I understand you’re saying he’s tried auto immune stuff but I just want to confirm. When I was that age I started having issues like that and found out I had celiac disease. They tried to deny that being the issue but it was. I was determined. The blood test I did showed I had it. They were shocked. The endoscopy for some reason didn’t show that. Anyways, ever since I gave up gluten my entire life changed. Most of our issues I believe they stem from the gut health. I encourage you to do the p…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/25 03:31 PM
1

Do the 7 day vaginal suppository. The longer the better. There is the one by AZO that we see in regular stores. Then there is solary brand. There products are nice in general. But honestly a man going raw in a woman and coming to you will help it grow. Even trying new penis is a cause.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/25 11:47 PM
3

Try YouTube videos and just watch 3 of them explaining the car and see if that helps
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/25 09:48 PM
3

Have you tried pre biotic for this chronic infection? I really suggest you to start there vs here for help. What is he brings something to you? I understand you allow this but yeah this doesn’t help yeast infections
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/25 09:43 PM
5

Have you tried herbs like slippery elm? I’d do the pills and tea. Don’t take both at the same time. Maybe in between. It’s good for when you’re sick too
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/25 03:29 PM
4

My husband keeps buying wine that’s not my style but it’s still decent wine. Don’t know how to make him code well unless we go to a vineyard. Maybe we should be more boujie to make it make sense. So I get you.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/25 01:18 PM
2

This is what I call d!ckm@tized.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/25 07:39 PM
2

Not trying to give advice but no need for anything serious at this age. Just enjoy people for who they are and what they can do for you. I know it sounds crazy but that’s that age range.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/25 03:28 PM
9

That’s really nice you found this. But until he puts a ring on it there is no need for that level of submission. Sorry not sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/25 11:47 AM
2

Things happen at 20. Don’t get hung up and just move forward
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/25 12:28 PM
3

I highly understand. To me the key is not being like the other women. Don’t sleep around and don’t sleep with him before being official and still make him wait after that.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/25 07:19 PM
1

I don’t believe in being fat just for my own health so I’m always trying to do something to help myself. And I’m a plus size woman but I’m tall so I hit the right curves. But keep in mind when you get pregnant it gets really real and hard. So I recommend losing weight for that. But anyways before my husband I dated a man that tried to fatten me up because he preferred BBW. Like bigger than what I was. He loved my big booty caz I curve out very well. Lol I’d probably be on statins if I stayed wit…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/25 06:09 PM
4

Depends on the age.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/25 05:25 PM
2

A lot of people have types not just men. I’m sure she could say she prefers Brad pit but she doesn’t say that out loud huh?
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/25 05:33 PM
-6

Why do you feel strange dating others? Is it that weird or what
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 06:49 PM
6

Lol I’m not against it. She’s the one that wanted “help” 🫣😆 the only thing that kills fun is work.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/25 10:16 PM
7

Get a job that keeps you too occupied? This is a strange question. Sounds like you have a lot of free time. Which is fine but I guess I never had all that energy. Idk
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/25 06:29 PM
15

So I did online dating and was very strict about my profile and not sounding like the fun girl at all. So it was listed in my profile about what I wasn’t going to do more than anything and my religious beliefs along with not sleeping around and all that. On the actual date which I silently demand that we meet within 7 days or he’s not serious at all. So we meet on simple coffee date(so I can escape if he’s crazy or cat fish) I tell him about myself casually and and what I like to do, work, tv sh…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/25 11:52 PM
28

Believe it or not but you’re in charge of how the relationship goes in the beginning. You tell them in the first date that your intention is marriage PERIOD. And if you’re not ready to tell them your intention is to not get married. This is all first date stuff. If this doesn’t happen in first date then what in the world are you guys talking about
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/25 10:48 PM
3

I never wait for my husband for anything I want to do
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/25 01:06 AM
1

Second this
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/25 04:25 AM
1

That’s not the truth if you actually date within your race of people that have that. And we don’t even know if she even looks like that. And usually only men tend to have a bigger nose than most. Not women.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/25 01:54 PM
3

Oh hell no! Mother of 3!? RED FLAG RUUUN! No woman wants that from both perspectives. Do you really believe his wife wanted to leave a marriage of 3 kids?
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/25 01:00 AM
1

Can’t say much but have you made sure he’s full after work. It’s hard to talk when hungry. Also suggest relaxation things like a bath if possible or massage each other.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/25 12:55 PM
0

Girl just focus on grind your nails and hair done and soak in the moment. Find a cute outfit or 2 and new shoes. That should be your focus.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/25 12:47 PM
1

Thanks! And sure.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/25 11:49 PM
2

So yes, wait till you’re in a relationship then wait 90 days. A job makes you wait 90 days before benefits so why not. And so what if he thinks you’re testing him. I say why not. I don’t see what’s bad about that I wouldn’t make it mad obvious but I’d be clear and say I personally don’t believe jumping in bed fast like that with someone I just met for health reasons. Mental and physical. People change over time and change their minds and I at least wait to make sure that I’m sure about you. Girl…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/25 11:44 PM
3

I couldn’t read everything but it’s good that you waited at least till 25 because men aren’t even ready till that age to even consider marriage as an idea. So…now the best thing you can do is tell them in the first 3 dates that you’re still a virgin. Ideally date 2 if it comes up about stuff like that. Make sure you do it in person caz they won’t believe you and you need to see the expression on their face. Also the guy you do have sex with make sure you make him wait 90 days at least. Anyone ca…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/25 11:23 PM
0

Idk man they say the frontal lobe isn’t even fully developed at her age yet so you may as well learn as much as possible. The likelihood of these guys being her husband is slim to none. Just enjoy their company and don’t get stressed.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/25 03:28 AM
6

At her age I disagree. There is no such thing as high value if you haven’t even went on dates with these men yet. How does she even know? She’s assuming they are high value.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/25 09:19 PM
2

Make your available schedule for weekends. One guy on Saturday and the other on Sunday. If it’s 3 guys do an early breakfast for one. Not all these guys are going to date you properly. If they don’t set up the date in 7 days of knowing you then they aren’t serious.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/25 09:16 PM
3

Exactly. It’s the young folk that are blind while we’re trying to tell them. What’s the point of Reddit if you’ll only listen to an echo chamber
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/25 01:48 PM
2

Right. Like how are you devout claiming a childhood church just to throw it down the drain the moment it actually matters in life more than anything.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/25 01:06 PM
2

And then the possibility to become the second wife since she’s not even the first
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/25 01:04 PM
3

THIS! LISTEN TO THIS!!!
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/25 01:25 PM
5

You better get married legally at your child hood church! These laws are in place for many years for many reasons! Don’t be foolish.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/25 01:20 PM
41

He’s right. Sorry. Honestly if he was on Reddit asking this same question from his perspective, everyone would be telling him to leave you. No offense.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/25 12:32 PM
1

It works but when I was on I was extremely honest and not fun sounding. I took the more serious religious route with cute photos that weren’t revealing. It helps reduce losers but you’ll still get them. If a man takes longer than 7 days to see you he’s not serious.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/25 12:21 PM
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I don’t have any experience in that area but I think both husband and wife should focus on looking good and losing weight and not losing self if possible. Getting your groove back. Not out of fear but out of self love and always be up to something good like life is going for you. Not that that changes what could happen caz honestly your man either has that mindset or not. Like did he leave a woman for another woman already in the past for being BETTER or was this out of love? I feel like men hav…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 09:27 PM
2

Real solution is to first detach yourself from the situation all together and realized he has moved on. Second is bring up any holidays or festivals that are coming up that you want to go to or gatherings that require spending money. Tell him that you want him to take you to said event. Get him to pay for the stuff at said event by pointing out what you like such as food and stuff they have for sale at vendors. Don’t go over board just pick an item. But honestly you need to detach yourself and t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 03:37 PM
3

I would address that I’m only dating for marriage and I don’t believe in dating forever to get married. I’d address that in the first 3 dates after realizing he’s not a catfish.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/25 01:32 PM
2

I don’t understand how this is a question for red pill. I shouldn’t have to ask how long caz even the guys that were trash still knew to spoil me. Didn’t spend a dime. Is there not a way to turn this around to your advantage to claim what you lost or are you really the loser 100%? I’m not saying that as an insult I’m saying this as someone trying to help you get back.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/25 01:17 PM
2

Only one is your husband
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/25 03:35 AM
1

I mean…. You can’t take everyone serious and we know who is playing chess vs checkers when we go on dates and the moment I see the guy is barley doing what he gotta do I play along
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/25 11:45 PM
1

This is tough since you went in saying no marriage but it’s natural to change your heart. I just hope you don’t get hurt in the process. I think I’d take a very chill approach. Like a very relaxed approach. Be like…you know life brings about changes….and I never thought I’d feel the way I feel about you right now. What if we thought of being more permanent couple if things keep going the way they are now?
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/25 03:56 AM
2

No you just haven’t realized that the ones that won’t accept you are the ones you really don’t want in the first place and most likely would divorce in the longer run. You say BW are most likely to be alone yet divorce rates in America are extremely high anyways amongst other races so I don’t know what to say.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/25 03:00 AM
1

Naw this is as real as it gets. Can’t imagine being red pill with a traditional mindset and a traditional man that wants everything fake and altered and non original. People that are red pill are more old school minded and you just sound to new aged with the plastic surgery. Most traditional men like authenticity so I don’t know what to say.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/25 02:57 AM
3

Understand if you find someone and have a baby by them they will be confused why the baby looks different. It’s like misrepresenting
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/25 12:48 PM
1

I understand what you are trying to say but it’s not because something is wrong with black women. Also if I wanted to marry another race, I would have and could have.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/25 12:36 PM
1

I understand that completely as in prefer my own 100%. But you’ll never catch me wishing I was something else or find me in a nip tuck situation. Society within and outside of each culture we’ll have preferences. I get it. But carrying yourself with shame is not it. You got the complexion you got because your parents liked one another at some point to think it’s ok to create you. Even if you’re an accident baby, your mother and father was good enough to stick it in. So why can’t she find someone…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/25 10:19 PM
3

I get that but I myself been to Asia and had men jumping over fences to compliment me and I had my natural hair braided perfectly, and everything. Even with my lighter skinned friend that’s Carmel color with the straight wig. They complimented me, talked to me and everything. It’s really how you carry yourself and having game.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/25 08:21 PM
3

Believe it or not but people that look like you get married
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/25 08:10 PM
5

I was going to mention Asian but…I feel like OP. Has underlining issues that need to be settled first.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/25 04:45 PM
10

Right
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/25 04:40 PM
10

Ok…so I downvoted you for the ethnic Rhynoplastic surgery. Please become more high value naturally. You sound really self hating. Marriage isn’t so important that you think you should be a whole different race just to get married. Women of all back ground struggle. Have you focused on trying to get with men outside of your community? Like Christian African men or something. Also if you’re trying to date white, the white men that marry black women usually date the ones that look very ethnically b…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/25 04:39 PM
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He’s a guy you date to enjoy free stuff while you find your real husband. Not every person is a red pill conversation
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/25 09:09 PM
2

Would it be hard to walk away if you found out he was sleeping with someone else or naw? I’m just curious
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/25 03:44 PM
9

I’ve had guy friends like this. Many of them. Realize I said guy friends.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/25 06:20 PM
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You should go to a really nice park in Yokohama area. They have tea ceremonies and very relaxing vibe. Are the cherry trees supposed to bloomed yet to like they are in the US or is it still cold? Honestly the cards are in your hand. You’re in another country without kids and enjoying life as a single independent woman while he’s stuck with children probably looking for a baby sitter to relieve him. Make sure you go to a spa/onsen and have a bite of sushi and a shot of sake for me!
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/25 01:23 AM
1

Lots of youth was at the park this spring and showing off their new running outfits and gym bodies doesn’t hurt to jog the belt line in something tight and curvy. May end in getting a tea or coffee with some dude while you’re in the middle of stretching.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/25 12:45 PM
1

Divorce rates are so high and you don’t really know if these guys are quality. How? Have they received inheritance? They got 6 figures and work at Google already? How are they high quality besides just making good grades? None of you all have been put under real high pressure.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/25 12:40 PM
4

Everyone thinks that they know what they want to do at 18. I laughed at all the stay at home women in my class rooms. Well…I guess the joke is on me now. Just go enjoy life. Go to festivals, go back to the movie theaters, go out to eat, bars. Do it with someone or alone. Sometimes being alone is peaceful even in relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/25 03:46 AM
2

College should be about going to school and getting a career not finding a man. I just don’t understand why people try to tie themselves down to useless children that just left mom’s house. If my son was dating you at 22 I’d tell him myself not to get married.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/25 03:19 AM
3

Unfortunately that’s just how life is in this economy and the stresses of a man that desire to provide. Unfortunately until he strikes gold and starts getting employees and multiple streams of revenue, you’ll need to be happy you have a working man vs the video gamer guy.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/25 09:33 PM
1

Yes. And also not realizing that men are totally different and see you different from how you see them. Even if you have zero intentions of marriage at that moment or do they see everything so different. And they are more immature that you if you’re both 21 he’s actually 5 years younger mentally. That’s why you still see some date a 17 year old when they shouldn’t.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/25 12:56 AM
1

Well…. To keep it short, it’s easy to jump a man’s bones at that age. You’re a walking piece of meat and the wandering eyes were crazy back then. I’d lie to you if I said I didn’t sneak myself into the men’s dorms and in the bathroom back in my day during after hours and shower. But after going through things with the opposite sex and seeing how well or lack of you become less d!$(&matized. You want it but you become more wise about it. Once you realize you need to play chess instead of checkers…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/25 10:43 PM
0

That’s understandable. Didn’t mean to offend. I just stumbled upon this creator on YouTube that has helped me in the past several weeks and so has my friends. It has millions of views so I don’t know how popular he is or isn’t. Anyways let’s carry on
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/25 01:45 PM
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Feel that leading and directing is and can be feminine. Mothers lead, teachers lead. We need female leaders. I’ve been wanting to do project management for a while and has done a great job leading in my field but never got that chance to do project management. Maybe you’re looking into this too deep. Also I enjoy being feminine but I’ll never be lead by a man that is not my husband. I’d rather be the boss of everyone else.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/25 11:24 PM
0

Or it could be cultural differences
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 08:47 PM
1

I feel that.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 12:47 PM
1

I honestly didn’t mind the convo till that particular question. Would I have wanted to talk still? No. I had a play date.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 12:43 PM
0

That’s ok that you feel that way but I know what I know from my own personal experience. Everything does change when you get that proposal. When you know you know. I had a friend that disagreed with me too until she got that proposal. Lost friends or almost lost friends by the time we got married. Things get weird. And I too thought just like that before I got the proposal when others warned me about it all testing friendships. It is what it is. And women getting baby fever after being around ba…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 12:33 PM
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I can see that. From my own personal experience as a woman that’s married and around women that aren’t, I have kept my business very private and didn’t tell friends I was trying or was pregnant till I was 5 months pregnant. But during that time hiding and keeping life to myself I had even my closest friend tell me that if I got pregnant she would ask me if I was sure about it. I got mad at her caz she double down on her statement like she would try to convince me because the economy was bad. But…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 04:53 AM
1

For sure, I understand that. I guess I’d be more on edge about bringing it up to women that are new moms. I could be wrong and I’m my head but it’s giving would I abort my baby vibes. Idk. But I’m pro mind your business more than anything.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 04:44 AM
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Ah! Interesting. Question, have you ever looked into toxicology? Ran into a video on it and the woman mentioned her struggles of never getting pregnant to be able to get pregnant naturally in less than 6 months after getting rid of the toxins in her life. It was wild. I wish you the best. Check this out. https://youtu.be/rObAX1r8r0s?si=OCCwUflM-Sut6RPe
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 12:42 PM
2

Lol correct. They were something like that. They called themselves lawyers. I was confused.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 12:37 PM
1

Ok…I don’t know what your problems are but never sell yourself short. Chad may want to save you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/25 03:53 AM
13

I just don’t understand how men or just people in general don’t comprehend the damage that comes along with the madness of their selfishness
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 02:05 PM
4

If I stayed I would obviously find another man on the side. That would make sense to me. You have to balance it out. But ideally I’d leave after running o up that credit card a few times and securing myself. Also I think I wouldn’t dwell on all this either just caz everyone else is getting divorced lol. That’s exhausting. But I feel you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 01:36 PM
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Everyone says no one deserves to be cheated on. At the end of the day do you really want to be a doormat? It’s like can you REALLY stay with someone that isn’t sure about you?
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/25 04:09 AM
1

He’s probably talking to someone else and trying to make it work with them. I don’t understand the point of this relationship. I’d already be on dating app by now.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/25 02:55 AM
1

You need to find someone else. Can’t imagine someone saying this to me and I stay. Yikes.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/25 02:51 AM
2

Ok first of all it’s just tv. Seconds, it’s tv. 3rd it’s tv
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/25 07:05 PM
4

He’s not going to start a business for you to be a second wife. And let you go to grad school as a second wife. Why can’t you do that for yourself? Also why not just get help from a woman versus waiting for a man to do this for you? Are we as women just looking for a DEAL! 🤣 who are you? Howie Mandel? Being red pill to me isn’t about being a save me type woman. Waiting for Superman to save you from your crises. It’s about being high value woman.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/25 02:59 AM
1

South Korea has something like that especially for the rich. There was actually a Korean drama based on it and it was pretty wild. Bribing for the best man and knocking other women out the match making pool. It wouldn’t be honest.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/25 04:47 AM
2

You can be traditional and still get married later. For some people it may be more healthy to voluntarily submit vs just going with the flow of what someone told you to do. For me, getting it out of my system as a career only focused woman was best so submitting now is easier for me more than the younger more immature version of me. Not saying I was rebellious but it’s also hard to find a man at a young age to even submit to which makes submission young very complicated.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/25 04:41 AM
9

A lot of daughters don’t get along with their mom like that to trust her to pick a man out. And I love my mom but she’s too different for me.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/25 12:13 AM
10

I highly disagree. Marriage is not the key to happiness. Marriage adds to that but subjecting your daughter to what you have is not it. I loved getting married at an older age. Some women don’t want kids early.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/25 11:12 PM
0

I don’t need this advice. I’m just telling it how it is. Along with what she said in her post of living a healthy life and not making a lot which this country is not set up like that. It’s pure capitalism.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/25 09:54 PM
3

It’s not like that anymore because less people are being exploited for hard labor work. And America has to keep status quo which has people working for a low wage but still not good enough to sustain a decent life
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/25 06:59 PM
1

Exactly that
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/25 03:36 PM
2

Lol no. Not at all. Only thing I can say is that my husband when he was my boyfriend he was the only man I’d ever say yes to. Unlike everyone else so there may be a point to saying the one that has earned it will get it naturally.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/25 03:13 AM
3

THIS! I didn’t want to say it but since I see it I’ll claim it. Giving away wife duties as a girlfriend is a big no for me. I need to at least be a finance.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/25 03:11 AM
7

He’s not the one for you. 3 years and you haven’t met the kids? Not normal. No man should control where you go unless it’s truly not safe! Submission doesn’t mean controlling at all. Now if you have a history as an alcoholic I’d understand. Your man seems worrisome.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/25 03:05 AM
2

Lol right! It’s funny! I got married at 34 so I get it! I just highly advise the less people involved the better. Including your friends. I know it sounds much but you’ll have more peace. I’d just keep things to yourself and your man and whoever you hire. Most I’d involve someone is cake tasting but I’d already have it picked out. People love being involved with free snacks.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/25 11:19 PM
1

Question since you are common with heirlooms and since it was repurposed would it be ok for OP to repurpose it into a necklace now that it’s hers? She can wear it for the wedding
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/25 05:10 PM
3

Understandable. That’s nice. But maybe OP should accept the token and pass it down but get her own to pass down that’s revisions and modified for this generation. OP has her own fashion sense and everyone’s hands are different. When I was looking online for what I wanted I thought I wanted it. But when I put it on at the store it wasn’t for me. So I tried a few and wore what worked for me.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/25 04:23 PM
0

Op don’t feel like you need to explain yourself here. If it’s a real heirloom your husband and you would have already known about it. And he would have been ready to propose with that for the first woman he was ready to wife up since his mom gave him the heirloom years ago. Not something created on spot.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/25 02:16 PM
3

I understand you’re trying to help her see another point of view but from my point of viewof view if this was a REAL family heirloom, why is OP husband just now finding out about it? This should be a given well in advance not something created on the spot! I’d be respectful and accept the heirloom but in the same breath say let’s go shopping for my own and forget this even happened.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/25 02:13 PM
0

Amen! Girl yes! I understand exactly where you’re coming from. Definitely be nice about it but don’t be a people pleaser. You’ll only come off fake in the long run.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/25 05:03 AM
0

No girl you need to go to the store with him and pick out your style! All this old school mess has to go! I picked my everything out and don’t regret it and then he proposed months later in his own surprising way. What’s next, are you gonna wear her wedding dress too? fyi I love my people but I picked out and bought my dress by myself because I didn’t want opinions. Took me less than 2 hours at a boutique shop. The less people less drama. No bridzilla. Look if this isn’t some type of princess Di…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/25 04:52 AM
0

lol I’m surprised you came here. If I was your girlfriend I’d help you! 😆
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/25 01:53 AM
1

You’ll see
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/25 06:20 PM
2

Ah ok! Yeah this makes sense now! 😆 you’ll slow down after a few disappointments. ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/25 04:47 PM
2

lol how old are you? If you don’t mind me asking? My drive hasn’t gone down but I haven’t been like this since….a few years after i started my period back when I was 16-23?
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/25 03:05 PM
0

Sounds like you’re just not that into your guy. I just don’t have a wandering eye that is intentional. It’s not like these guys are invisible. I just don’t allow myself to keep looking. Or maybe take the approach that they are someone’s husband or boyfriend already
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/25 03:02 PM
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Maybe you’re not intimate enough? Lol wandering eyes aren’t good. Most I can say is I personally know there are good looking men out there but I also don’t allow myself to stare at people. Now I have found myself scrolling social media and got hunger desire that you mention but only because these men are being click bait but no one is looking sexualized in real life like that walking down the street. Honestly social media got to go.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/25 05:33 AM
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I think what women are saying is the desire to sleep with others and give attention to others is faded. But they are still attracted to other men. I mean it’s ok. You can even find other females beautiful and still be straight so why not men and still not desire them intimately.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/25 05:26 AM
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Girl just make sure YOU look good and buy Spanx
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/25 02:17 AM
7

He left you…. How can you not be mad.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/25 06:08 PM
3

Why are you with someone you make fun of?
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/25 09:48 PM
6

Lol my husband would care less. Just tell your husband you’ll report anyone that is rude towards you and your marriage. But honestly just do you. Have you thought of real estate instead? So you can continue making money? Men are there too? Men are everywhere. If you stay at the house you can also find a man while grocery shopping.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/25 10:39 PM
1

Yes and no. It’s hard currently caz I have a newborn but before the baby yes I did but right now trying to find a balance and change with a baby. Such as getting into women’s groups with the church and Bible study classes. Things that are baby friendly. Was thinking about taking baby to the library for reading time and meeting other mothers. Still looking for new things. I want to do comedy clubs but that’s not really baby friendly
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/25 10:10 PM
1

Correct. I’m not slowing down or stopping for him just Caz something went wrong with work or exhaustion for him. Now I do try to be cost efficient but yeah
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/25 07:46 PM
2

I bought tickets to my favorite comedian that’s touring. He’s either available or not but I’m not waiting to find out ya know?
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/25 02:47 PM
3

Good on you! And you’re not starting over you’re starting FRESH! Use words better. You aren’t going from zero you’re going from having more experience and dropping off this baggage to the trash can and releasing bad energy. You’re about to breathe again laugh again smile again. You’re not starting over. Starting over would be having a good man or child that passed way or miscarried.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/25 02:46 PM
7

I know you may not realize this but just because you’re 40 doesn’t mean you don’t have value. But the more you stay with someone like this it devalues you. Think of it like fruit. You can buy a peach brand new but if you set it next to a rotten fruit it will turn faster than it should. Bad men will age you faster, make your mental health and possibly even fertility go down from just stress. I couldn’t even see myself carry full term successfully with a man like that. But a good man can add years…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/25 06:18 AM
12

So his money is his money. So why are you with him? Honestly you could find a better man than this by the end of the week.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/25 11:20 PM
22

What are you asking when you already made a list? Finding a good man is hard but it isn’t THAT HARD. This is unbearable
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/25 11:16 PM
3

Yeah, you got this. Just be creative and thoughtful. The more thoughtful you are he won’t feel strange about things and his decision of getting a younger lady.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/25 01:56 AM
15

This dynamic is interesting and you sound like you’re going to mess it up over petty things. Don’t lose this guy. Contribute towards the trip and tell him at first you just didn’t understand how but you do now. Start looking into ways to contribute. Like simple things like making the trip more comforting. For example if you’re going to the beach buy the cooler and ice pack for the alcohol, buy the good beach towels and over head to protect from the sun. Get sun screen and other things men don’t …
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/25 07:58 PM
1

Sound serious and straight forward
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/25 02:55 PM
2

Someone who makes you laugh or loves to see you laugh
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/25 12:57 PM
6

It’s not even the fact that it’s porn it’s a waste of money and resources instead of finding and putting effort towards real women. You should ask him if you had a account to watch men what would he think.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/25 09:29 PM
0

This is not it. At all. Always be nice and true to self period! There is no “set” characteristic depending on salary. Fake meets fake and real meets real. That’s not always the case but don’t be something you aren’t. Be something you desire to be and desire to attract. But always be nice and stop looking at yourself as a target!
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/25 02:46 PM
1

No need. Just enjoy what you have and understand it’s ok if things don’t work out. Honestly I’d date out.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/25 04:41 PM
10

Men aren’t that bad that you have to be in defense like that
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/25 12:57 PM
1

I’d gladly go. What country is it
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/25 12:49 AM
2

I think you’re definitely on to something about the ADHD. and I thought about what you said…of course it’s not intentional….we are working things out. I’ll try the instructions. 😮‍💨
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/25 07:27 PM
12

No, there is nothing modern about me and nothing traditional about my husband being messy in an unreal way. Imagine cleaning a house. Guest room, child’s room and spare room. The office I leave alone but I literally can’t walk around the office because he has the entire floor covered in papers! It’s not even safe for the baby to be over there! It’s just paper all over the office floor!! WHY!?!? Then imagine the guest bedroom room you clean he decides to take a nap in the bed that has clean sheet…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/25 10:14 PM
19

I highly disagree with you. Being stay at home doesn’t mean subservient nor does red pill mean that. The house is clean until he puts his clothes all over the place and leaves his shoes all over the house. Explain to me why are 7 pairs of shoes in the dining room? I’m ready to die on this hill!
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/25 10:06 PM
5

So…as a new mom that is married…. Honestly…I want you to take a few things under consideration. And I say this as a woman that also thought of what if I did do what you did years before marriage….AND currently married how would I sustain if I was single again and let me tell you it’s mega hard. Do you have family near? Any support system? Anyways to answer your question I’d honestly probably stop hanging with you. What women don’t calculate is what else that comes with the journey. It’s hard sis…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/24 06:22 AM
2

You should find your pen name for him. Something that feels right out of your mouth. I come from that same back ground but I know I’m loved in my family but it wasn’t a loving love where we gave hugs and I saw mom and dad hold hands and hug. Wasn’t a thing. Try it after making love or after he does something for you. See what sticks or comes to mind first after doing those things.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/24 03:29 PM
4

You make that be clear on the first date when you talk about what you want in a relationship
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/24 09:28 PM
3

I don’t think that would help. He is in the dark even after they show no respect. Sounds oblivious to emotions to me
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/24 01:53 AM
31

Square 1 is always better than fake squares. But you need to learn how to control the squares without being controlling.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/24 05:18 AM
13

I don’t understand how people let politricks run their relationships. These guys are literally creating debates going back and forth trying to get a raise while you get nothing but a break up. And at the end of it all they Biden and Trump smile and shake hands and have peaceful gatherings while you have what? Left wing right wing but on the same bird. Make sure you’re in agreement about things that really make a difference in your life not what Supreme Court “could” do and internet jaurgon
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/24 06:39 AM
4

I’m center. Or center right
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/24 11:49 PM
2

lol right? College was pretty much it. When I was serious about it. That’s probably where everything went wrong wearing heels around campus and going up and down bleachers seats
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 11:12 PM
3

You have to ask them what they think. My man loves it but I personally don’t wear extremely high caz my knees are jacked. Especially after child birth
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 10:54 PM
7

Truth is it really isn’t a real movement in South Korea at all. I say that as a person that’s been there and consume lots of Korean content
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 05:21 PM
0

No. Men are very aggressive when they want what they want and he doesn’t want you
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 12:55 AM
2

However long it takes to plan. 8 months for me
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/24 09:55 PM
2

You sound like you just want to get laid. If you was a guy that’s how you sound.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/24 04:32 AM
-1

Are you serious? Everyone that’s married have gotten divorced by then because everyone’s changed by 30 anyways. Most people don’t reach prime until 25. That’s when prime starts believe it or not. Unless you only see urself as a birthing tool. Even then why would you lock yourself in. If I was you and that desperate to find commitment it would be to a rich man that can take me over seas, not someone at 21.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/24 04:22 AM
-3

Because you’re 21 and no one takes young people serious. And honestly you’re too young to be stuck on commitment. Not when you have so much to gain from your youth. Take advantage of it. You’re not even the best version of yourself yet
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/24 12:52 AM
8

Your mindset will change once you respect yourself more. When you won’t treat yourself like that or no one else you know, shut it down
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/24 11:35 PM
2

Yeees! That makes a lot of sense. I’ll look deeper into the book too. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/24 12:18 AM
2

Yes it would be a great conversation with him when he’s able to really slow down or whatever. With him fully supporting us it’s tough meeting mine. Part of me also feels that if I REMEMBER to meet his he will maybe naturally reciprocate mine but also through talking about my love language. We shall see
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/24 11:05 PM
1

You need to love yourself first
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/24 08:20 PM
1

Most guys don’t think commitment at that age and honestly I get that. What’s the point of being committed when you can’t provide for the person. Is he still living with parents or relying on finances from them?
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/24 02:40 AM
10

I wonder what’s up with the children here on these forums? 🧐 if I had any advice, if it takes time to be a wife it’s ok. Don’t rush yourself into decision and know it’s ok to also date outside your race but make sure it’s no one fetishized you because you’re a future woman of color. Don’t allow anyone to pressure you into doing things you don’t want. And understand that boys take a loooong time to mature before they become real providers to take care of you. So it might be till your 25 fyi befor…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/24 09:50 AM
1

They can always start a go fund me if the woman needs money
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 10:04 PM
2

Ok so if you told your husband you had a fling how would he act?
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 10:02 PM
9

He’s going to do it again
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 09:23 PM
2

I understand. I didn’t send while he was out and about just before
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/24 08:43 PM
3

2 is working 😫 I understand.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/24 07:33 PM
1

Wow! Oh boy. Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/24 07:32 PM
4

See when I tried to say have fun and enjoy your life on another person post someone said I wasn’t being red pill enough. But if you don’t play the game you’ll be old not finding nothing.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/24 07:31 PM
3

Ok… I’ll be honest I couldn’t read all of your post…honey you’re just 21. Most guys your age unless they are from an Amish or cult isn’t trying to be serious right now. Keep being the best you without expecting anything in return for a while unless you date older men. Don’t expect boys to be on a serious red pill level. They can’t provide for you and isn’t trying to. Would you want your son to take you seriously at this age if you had one and are you on the level of really being where you need t…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/24 07:28 PM
3

I don’t know honestly. I had recently just stopped working for myself within the last year so things aren’t the same and having a lot of trust in him type energy going on. He’s the head of the house type thing. He tells me he gots it and he’s actually in the midst of making more money once he gets things situated. That is the goal to get to that next step of higher bracket income. Which he is doing it extremely well and I have been highly supportive of that and trying to be a real cheerleader. I…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/24 08:07 PM
1

Understood
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/24 06:58 PM
3

One min things are fine and he’s spending money etc then the next thing his truck needs a major repair or something like that and things get tight. It’s only going to lead to another conversation on control or something like that. I’m at SAHM but just wish he had more management. No I don’t push him in the direction of needing more but in a thought of hey let’s watch Dave Ramsey and save type thing. Unfortunately I married a husband that has to go through a bad experience in order to learn from …
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/24 06:56 PM
4

No of course not. there are too many people in the world right? We all can always start over!!! Just not with the same man. Unless you really know how to flip there script with this guy and hold the line. You might have to show them you’re now virtuous and had a life change. My brother and his wife were previous lovers and then came back again many years later. My brother and his now wife had a life change before they came back and was virtuous till marriage. Apparently they were both in the str…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/24 03:37 AM
3

That’s fair. I ill try to be clear on how to distinguish the fine line treatment for exs vs husband better next time
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/24 02:05 AM
1

No no no
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/24 03:04 AM
3

That’s interesting. I guess there are groups for everyone in a way ya know? You either subscribe to it or don’t. My man would have to be Jeff Bezos rich for me to not care but you better believe I’d have a side man.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 09:43 PM
8

Couldn’t imagine willingly dating a Nick Cannon
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 01:43 PM
1

I understand. And if that works for her that’s great. I personally can’t imagine basing my friendships off of politics but that’s just me. Politics usually don’t bring out the best of people. Just tense passion and emotion with the moment vs fun.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 12:44 AM
3

I’ve made friends with my professors so you’re fine
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/24 08:45 AM
1

I don’t think I’d go to a political campaign for friends. Mainly because the focus isn’t you it’s the politics. Even when you’re outside of it or once the election is over in two months the relationship will most likely end too especially if one loses. Instead try conservative like festivals. Maybe invite your parents out to the last BBQ fest in your town and try to run into folk or a music fest or pumpkin fall fest. Everyone loves the fall. I’m sure there will be lost of apple cider events goin…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/24 08:40 AM
2

But they won’t see that or acknowledge it or care but call the right extremest. I call the kettle black
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 06:41 PM
2

They are the worst girl! And no offense to them but they are just lesbians only over there anyways it seems. They banned me after asking a question would you be ok if your man was Bi sexual or transgender. I said I had no issue with the community but dating a man with that lifestyle wouldn’t be my preference. As respectful as I was I was still called a bigot
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 02:09 PM
10

Girl forget that page! Part of the problem with that page is that they can’t stick to the subject which is natural hair. Why can’t they focus on NATURAL HAIR!?! Anyways I’ve been banned from black pages before RPW because I have a red pill mindset. I’m glad to have found a page of women that stand out from whatever the so called Reddit norm
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 01:59 PM
2

Ah man. Yeah I wonder what kind of mentality is that that makes them like that. Smarter than everyone. Or maybe just over it? Idk
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 01:51 PM
1

Yeah she’s always bringing something up some type of reminiscing vs moving forward in the now and it sounds so condescending. I also know mom suffer from anxiety.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 03:49 AM
1

I get that but it starts with my mom looking at other mother daughter relationships and telling me she wish we did those things knowing good and well she has no desire to. Or like I mention in the original post she would say she wish she spent more time teaching me how to do some type of domesticated type job. The way she says it is in a way that makes you think I’m a seriously flawed person and failed in life. Like she has failed me because I don’t fold laundry the way she does or some stupid w…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 02:51 AM
1

Loved I’m just grateful to have found it at all. ❤️ if you had to choose just one of the books you recommended which would it be for your marriage? I have a free credit and want to use my last one real quick. And that’s a shame about your mom too. And you’re right to tell me just let it be and she will change if she wants. She literally said to me today if she reads about empowerment she probably would have felt empowered to leave long time ago. I reversed her statement at the end of our convers…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 02:22 AM
2

Forgot to mention that I cooked breakfast for my dad this weekend. Something he wanted. Mom made it very clear that she wasn’t going to do it. She don’t like it. All it was was shrimp and grits. I don’t know why my mom get so hell bent and think she’s ok. She tried to make an excuse and say he comes home out of no where wanting food as if I’m supposed to just get up and cook. My mom is retired fyi. Seeing her makes me question everything. My dad has always proved himself as high value man. He ha…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 01:52 AM
1

I highly discourage anyone from this time period to take dating at 20 years old-25 seriously. Men are mentally 5 years younger in the head. She’s better off dating way older men but there is a reason old men aren’t chosen by that time too because older women see through the stupid. Working on self for a while is key to being a high value woman before being worried about some boy. She will naturally be seen if she works on self.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/24 01:35 PM
0

All I have to say is I hope you’re on birth control and you practice safe sex! That’s the number one thing that really matters more than feelings caz you can’t go back from THAT. Other than that understand this is your finance. Just chill and relax around him and don’t make it a mission. Take it slow. I’m married and still have to take it slow at times caz that’s just what it is SOMETIMES. Just try to get to know each others bodies. Sometimes men aren’t that patient and want to dive in but you h…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/24 04:45 PM
8

Exactly
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/24 10:26 PM
8

Before you get married and have kids get educated and find a good job. Clearly don’t be a Dr since you afraid to be gone all day. I love being SAHM but I became a mom at 35. So I’ve done my career and enjoyed it. I do see myself getting back to a career in the future but my children are first. I don’t want a stranger dealing with my children but I do want to go back to work.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/24 01:12 PM
-1

You’re 21. Why bother with all these committed relationships. Get what you want out of life vs pouring out. You have control not the men. These guys are not your husband. If you have to ask if it’s a red flag it most likely is 100%. Enjoy life and your dating opportunities while you’re young. Get free things. And guess what…you don’t have to have sex for it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/24 01:02 PM
1

Exactly this!
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/24 01:44 PM
2

Well first off talking to multiple men at once will help you never be in this situation ever again. I can’t inside investing into one person that hasn’t spent anything on me or zero quality time.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/24 01:42 PM
1

True but let’s ask where she and these men are from. I dated only men not of my culture so…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/24 04:47 AM
1

Ok….i don’t know who’s approach you’re taking but I’m curious…how long were these men chasing and pursuing you? The way you type your first paragraph I’m thinking you already vetted these guys. But it seems like you’ve not even made it to first base by the time I read the second paragraph. To me chasing is after a month or more of dating not at hello. How old are these guys and how long were you talking to them? Also I feel as if when a man ask you to split the bill you’re not presenting yoursel…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/24 02:54 PM
-1

Astronomy is in your first sentence. Quote my boyfriend likes to talk about planets
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/24 08:04 AM
1

There is a big difference in Astronomy(science) vs Astrology ( love predictions of the future)
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/24 09:06 PM
2

Sorry but your boyfriend isn’t going to watch mean girls and listen to spice girls and kpop with you. No man is.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/24 09:05 PM
-1

I disagree.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/24 05:04 AM
8

Why can’t you be friends with people at school vs dating app? What other communities are you part of? Dating app people don’t become friends…ever. Think about it…you find your future spouse one day and tell him your friend is what? Just some guy you met that didn’t work out but we best friends!? Get church friends, work friends, neighbor friends, but not hinge friends.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/24 05:04 AM
3

So the most I can say that I realized is…my husband simply wasn’t interested in the dinner date. Period. It still makes it rude regardless right? As a society we went from don’t have your elbows on table to who cares about what you do we’re on our phones. But later on during that date we went to a comedy club and he was fully into it and into me. There was lots of men with there women and drinking lounge energy. We was cuddled up at our table as much as we could listening to the jokes. We were V…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/24 12:56 PM
2

When you find out let me know too. Smh
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/24 12:42 PM
15

Please continue painting. Don’t diminish your light because you’ll only have less time when baby comes! Being yourself is important.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 04:47 PM
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Wait what the hell…how does a wife after marriage become a gold digger?!?!?!? Oh lord. I thought I knew what to say after that
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 04:40 PM
3

Ok. I was under the impression you was from the USA for some reason. Now that makes sense about your perception of friends and city hopping.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/24 11:24 PM
2

Hmmm…you must have a lot of money saved or just come from money because most financially literate or savings type at the age of 28 doesn’t think let’s move to establish random connections in a random city for a year just to leave and establish a permanent connection to another city when I’m 30. I’ve never heard of this thought process. Are you not working or what? Especially in this economy. I feel like you have too many loose ends in this story to answer your question because you don’t sound re…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/24 08:43 AM
1

He would appreciate me just letting it go. If he gets to it he will. It be doesn’t he don’t.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/24 05:12 PM
1

Ok
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 06:28 PM
5

Will do. 😮‍💨
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 06:24 PM
1

I agree with you but my personality is such a minimalist. My husband isn’t. I would have loved if my husband said sell it if it was reversed. My husband on the other hand now that I think about it more…he’s a spender regardless and that in itself bothers me lol. But that’s just who he is…. This reminds of my mom explaining she buys my dad all these new clothes but he keep wearing the same worn down stuff. It’s annoying.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 06:15 PM
1

Ok well let’s keep in mind what OP said about growing up fast and raising herself. Not everyone has support. I live not too far from home but far enough and it’s hard when your husband is at work all day and you have to do everything else. Op stayed here parents were addicts. Hopefully her in-laws are there to help.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/24 04:56 AM
2

I wouldn’t call it negative. Just more so realistic. It’s more realistic than her expecting her husband to plan the wedding alone. Not saying men don’t. My husband helped but not in areas men step out in. Men really do just show up. Even when they want a large wedding and you don’t. They aren’t picking out flowers, and color coordinating. They will help with the pastor and ceremony and food choices. But it’s better to expect to be a help mate and have a mind set of being the one to get things do…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/24 11:00 PM
7

I don’t understand these serious relationships as a teen. Date around
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/24 06:53 PM
1

Understood. Did you have family support?
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/24 06:51 PM
-4

Unfortunately welcome to the beginning of how marriage is. Your husband wants something but doesn’t want to put it together. It’s up to you to do that. Find the church and place he wants to go. Show him photos and put it all together. Good luck
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/24 06:44 PM
12

This is a good post but I feel like there may be confusion because so women that are less experienced might dive heads in RPW within the first week of meeting a man and that’s dangerous. Women aren’t taught how to date and therefore might accidentally throw themselves at a man when it’s not ideal time. There was a post of a woman inviting a man over to cook for him when they just met. Man didn’t show any initial interest or even called it a date. It was very alpha female of her but yet also humb…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/24 10:24 AM
1

I’m not saying that but I’d rather do it without kids first because why not. And you’ll have to wait for a while before you travel with your child. First year traveling with a new born out of the country isn’t very realistic especially if you’re mainly breast feeding. Not saying you can’t do it but why would you.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/24 10:09 AM
2

I’m trying to remember what I did. I didn’t do that in Dubai unless I wanted duty free. Which I’m sure you do.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 10:41 PM
2

You can’t get it ordered or an Indian relative or friend to send it to you? My husband is non American too so I understand with these naming ceremonies and stuff. But there’s got to be another way besides going to Asia for a belt unless you just want to go.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 09:56 PM
6

Make sure you travel everywhere first before you get pregnant. At least where you desire to always have gone. I left the country a few times.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 09:03 PM
6

So first off, instead of 10 months asking you need to ask in 10 days what do they seek in a relationship or if they even want one. Also you need to see parents sooner. Idk. I’m sorry this happened. But motives are discussed before relationship begins not during it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/24 07:26 PM
1

Understood but there are plenty of women that do those things trying to woo a man but nothing about them stands out. They are all just one and the same vs standing out in the crowd. Understanding this generation not every man wants to get married, so what makes you as a woman different from the other women is what you also have to ask. If your statement was true, there would be more married women in the church. Idk.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/24 03:07 PM
3

Right but putting yourself in a good position also means living your desires and knowing what they are before the man. To me going from what she said to married isn’t ideal. At least become an interesting person that has experienced something besides mom and dads house will gain you points and may put you in a position to actually run into a man vs feeling down and closed off. There are types of women out there and there’s the woman who got her and her friends drinks paid for or the woman that a…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/24 09:50 AM
1

You’re just 19. You shouldn’t be thinking about dating anxiously. I’d honestly be anxious about traveling and seeing the world with girlfriends if I was your age again. Getting free drinks from men and living the care free life. Debt free. Use your time wisely and get anxious about getting money.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/24 09:35 PM
1

Coffee dates are only good for first time meets. You’ve already met him and cooked for him. He needs to do more than give you coffee. Jeeze at least wine and cheese. Something less casual after already meeting. That’s what I did to meet my cat fish people. Not trying to compare but I went on coffee date with my now husband and he immediately wanted to take me to dinner right after and other things after that and buy things without me putting out.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/24 08:58 PM
1

I have a new born and trying to figure this out too. I get my hair done and make sure I leave milk at the house for my husband to feed. I wear my short shorts and tight shirts that fit in the right places. I’m very curvy. Right now I’m looking on Amazon for make up. Just simple eye brow pencil that’s really good and eye shadow and SIMPLE eye lashes caz I have none. I can’t really afford to get nails done but I feel like I should be able to do simple feet package. Toes shouldn’t go undone in summ…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/24 05:14 PM
2

As a woman that’s dating outside the culture I also highly understand. So strange. There is nothing you can do. Most I try is to be silly with him. I did realize ignoring him works sometimes or I just started reading empowered wife and working on self seems to work but you’re not a wife so I don’t know
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/24 04:24 PM
1

He’s not into that nor me doing that to completion. You ever watch sex and the city? That season with charlotte and her Scottish husband that sees her a certain way and can’t do certain things because it’s his wife. Yeah that’s my husband.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/24 04:18 PM
1

That’s not the problem. I said my love language is physical touch. I just got on birth control but even then understand that’s hard to come by with the baby being new born. Also his exhaustion lowers his libido. As long as I’m rested I’m ready to go. Sex does/did help but it’s more than just sex going on here unfortunately. So far the book I was suggested about empowering wife might definitely be for me. Just trying to keep reading and processing the assignment. Also going from pregnant to new b…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/24 11:08 AM
0

Girl…. You might have a great guy or a goober. Who knows? You need to get to know him. That’s only fair. Anyone telling me to drop my career I need to know what’s in that bank account and debt ratio. Don’t sign a prenup and make sure you get a nice cut if things go south.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/24 06:39 PM
3

But you’re just 19. You just became romantically available last year. The guys I crushed over in high school are highly unattractive by the time I turned 23. They are not the prize. You are. Honestly until you’ve realized that you’re not ready for dating. A woman’s persona changes by the time she’s 23. And then again in her late 20s you’re not even the best version of yourself yet. Be the best you. Also understand without all this me too movement the likelihood of people hitting on you in person…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/24 09:44 PM
3

Then you’ll need to be patient if you’re not willing to age up. Let those guys enjoy their video games and free time. Taking care of you and kids is extremely low priority. They just became men yesterday. Think of it like this… If you had a son that was 18 years old would you expect him to go out and find a wife or be focused on a career and making money. Also why do you want to be married so bad? For sex or because of something else?
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/24 06:23 PM
2

It’s a front I’ve realized. Great app to bring a woman home to your family to prove you aren’t gay. The men on there I dated were defective in some type of way when I met them in person finally. I can’t tell you why. No offense to them but women are very vulnerable there and unlucky. Maybe now things are improving since everyone I’d coming out of the closet.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/24 06:00 PM
5

I’m a black woman. In my 30s living my dream that some may say is most American dream to a very small extent of what this economy will allow in America. House, husband, child. What I did was not focus on finding my husband but focused on my career. Why? Because men at the age of 18 can’t provide for me. They can’t buy a house or take care of a dog let alone a child. If you want to be married now you need to look for older men that want a young youthful woman. They will take care of you most like…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/24 04:54 PM
4

They are under cover gay over there
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/24 03:39 AM
7

First off you’re only 19. I at least held out to an extent till 27. Not saying I recommend doing what I did but understand when I was your age I dated a guy in college that wanted sex and cheated on me with another woman. He also cheated on her with her best friend and has a baby by her best friend he cheated with. Do you see where I’m going with this? Your best option is to bar smart and focus on your desires caz men will drag you into a hole. Be wise with your self and whoever you decide make …
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/24 03:34 AM
5

Thank you. I just downloaded the audio book.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/24 10:28 AM
1

I think you’re looking too deep into this. You just met each other for the first time. RELAX. Talking on the phone isn’t real dating. Sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/24 12:17 AM
4

You have bigger issues than anime for this guy. I’d leave based off other information.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/24 02:48 PM
5

Right caz let’s all forget 50 shades of grey sold out book and movie
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/24 02:47 PM
3

As an anime nerd that’s female, He’s not going to change for you. But you should let him know if you had a house together the decor will be real house decor and photos. Also I’ve been to Japan. If you think he’s weird oh boy…in that country they have women dressed as maids that talk in a high pitched voice and have this barely legal vibe. They serve men as their masters. Is like legal prostitution. If he would participate in that…then yeah he’s weird. But anime is just anime. It’s a small part o…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/24 02:44 PM
1

lol not a guy but I am a total nerd. Back when I lived in my own apartment I had half naked photos of the Jason 5 as my Computers wallpaper. I also had Pokémon in my wall and other anime characters on my bedroom wall. Also collected swords etc and light sabers. It’s not female themed. I’m sure any guy and female friend would think I’m weird but it’s just my space. My husband and I got a real house together and I can’t wait to help our kids decorate like I did while I put all my old apartment stu…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/24 02:30 PM
1

If engagement is too binding you need to find another man. I mine in with my now husband caz I knew he was going to propose and be married within a year of proposal. We got the house sand everything all in the same time frame
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/24 06:47 PM
10

Have you heard of the 5 love languages? Start off like that too? Gift giving is one and receiving. Just be sly with it and learn what his love language is too so he won’t feel left out.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/24 01:10 AM
1

Sorry. I never associated alcohol with negativity. I just socially drink cause why not. But I just won’t post about drinking no more.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/24 10:48 AM
3

She’s telling the truth unfortunately.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/24 04:44 AM
2

Wow…so true. Thanks for this insight. I’m married but just needed to hear this from someone. I need my space too for sure and silence.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/24 04:44 AM
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