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Dude, i think that is exactly what happens. Women like to be victims in a way that it gives them status i believe. I mean men do this also of course but women really seem to love this and now more then ever. It makes sense, being a victim gives you a special status and gives you extra attention and being treated a certain way. Its valuable. Its protection. Its power. Power that can be abbused also. See this is the type of shit that is behind ''metoo''. Why is it called metoo? Why was the most po…
/r/MensRights04/12/25 02:53 PM
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I once had a female friend and she told me she was raped by her ex-boyfriend, 500 times. She said it with a smile on her face. Is that something somebody would say with a smile on their face? How come you are raped 500 times and at rape number 499th you did not think to yourself: Perhaps its time to say something or end the relationship? And yea she had borderline personality disorder, she told her myself. There dangerous fucking women everywhere and society does not recognize it or pretends it …
/r/MensRights03/12/25 02:50 PM
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We need to create a world where toxic behaviour from men and women is called out for. Shit like this. Problem is it does not happen. Women do not get hold acountable for their toxic behaviour in society. There is no ''toxic femininity''. We call out men being toxic and manipulating women for sex for example. Wich is something we can agree on men do a lot more then women. But is there ANY societal awereness of: Women using you just as a source of attention. Or a source of safety/finance. Their lo…
/r/MensRights02/12/25 10:03 PM
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So basically.. half the people in my country are full of shit. Research shows that about half the population thinks DEI is important. This shit is genuinely just sad because it really feels i'm surrounded by a bunch of indoctrinated people.
/r/MensRights15/11/25 03:04 PM
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So far i have been manipulated by women over and over again (i'm a hard learner). Women who where slightly older. Women who where younger then me. Ok so now what? Where is this ''power dynamic'' because of the age difference? Where are the feminists and women and people complaining about how women abbuse THEIR power. For example.. because nobody ever told me how women actually are, and because feminists deem any criticism of women as misogyny.. i fell in the trap thinking a lot women gave a shit…
/r/MensRights14/11/25 12:41 PM
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Good point. Its things like this that show their intentions are not pure. Just like women who cry about women not having certain positions of power (The glass ceiling) and without prove say its discrimination. Meanwhile these same women expect men to do all the dangerous jobs. Thousands of men dying each year beacuse of work-related illness or injury. Death count is four times higher then in women. And death count the job itself is 92% men. Most feminists are just traumatized women who victimize…
/r/MensRights13/11/25 07:01 PM
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I have to say at this point i don't really know anymore what counts as ''they know this''. But i get what you mean that you could explain why DEI is bad in just 20 seconds to a DEI advocate and most of them will not just change their believes. And really i have spoken to people who really just basically did not think about it long enough. Its one of those things that can ''sound good'' just from the appearance or surface level of it, but then if you dig deeper into the components you find out ho…
/r/MensRights11/11/25 06:59 PM
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I bet that if all women would become men for one day. And men became women for one day. That everyone would just be shocked at the difference's and how it would be better and worse at the same time. And then everyone would just appreciate eachothers struggles more, and be very happy to go back to being a man/women (Not sure how this would work with trans people but that is besides the point).
/r/MensRights10/11/25 08:12 PM
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Have nothing to add to this. That pretty much sums up the situation i guess. That story about the theater is nuts. Except maybe that all these marginalized groups are learned groups. What i mean is that people know about certain groups that are marginalized because it was teached. But.. what about autistic people like myself? Never heard a single woke person defend me or talk about me. How come? Because my autism obviously hinders me in getting a chance at life then being a woman. Or being black…
/r/MenSupportMen05/02/25 02:05 AM
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I'm already in a path that is several times darker then what i just spoke about. Don't worry this worry does not worry as much as you might think it worries me in fact its low on the list of worries. PS: What i just said sounded dumb and edgy lol.
/r/MenSupportMen05/02/25 01:49 AM
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Part of the reason i made this post was because someone in this reddit group said: ''the more I started passing the more I spent time interacting/feeling comfortable around cis men, and the more I was able to see how decent many of them are. It’s unfair to write people off because of a misstep, because if we did we’d end up writing everyone off. I suspect that if you spent more time with cis men your views on this may change.'' If you would copy paste this text, and replace cis men with either 1…
/r/MenSupportMen05/02/25 01:47 AM
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Why do you say this?
/r/MenSupportMen04/02/25 02:15 AM
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What does this list look like?
/r/MenSupportMen04/02/25 12:00 AM
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I agree. History repeats. Now that Trump is president you will see a shift in people's behaviour. And basically i predict that there will be a overreaction or correction to how some transpeople or transactivists behaved. As in the voice and behaviour of a few loud or crazy ones now represent the voice and behaviour of the entire trans community. Wich is a awfully bad representation. But thats how people will few them. And a lot of them do probably know its a bad respresentation but will over rea…
/r/MenSupportMen03/02/25 11:02 PM
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'but it's a mistake to think 'if we can just hold women back, then things would be more equal for men'. '' Are you saying that thats what i'm doing?
/r/MenSupportMen03/02/25 08:39 PM
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i find it difficult to read all that if you already assume i'm jealous at women. '' First thing first, this is all contingent on the woman in question being attractive,'' does not matter because the guy would also be rejected for the same reason. And yea ok whatever you just write so many weird assumptions and use wrong logic things i'm not even going to bother to talk to you srry.
/r/MenSupportMen01/02/25 04:43 PM
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Both men and women are loved conditionally yes. But i think the main difference Chris is pointing out is that if you are a depressed lonely loser like i am, and you don't have a job and you don't have a goal in life? Most women don't want you. Its repulsive to them. Chances of romance and love and long term relationship are close to zero. A woman can be in the same position and live in a carton box outside and if she's cute enough there is a line of men waiting for their turn to love her.
/r/MenSupportMen01/02/25 03:10 PM
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''My wife has a tendency to be “all in”. If everything is ok, I’m the best husband ever. I do something wrong, and she claims that she has been coping with my shit for years.'' Thats how women with borderline personality disorder view things btw. You are either the best doctor there is. Until you make one mistake. Then you are the worst one in their eyes.
/r/MenSupportMen31/01/25 09:49 PM
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I swear to get that whole Johny depp thing and how women and media reacted to it really opened my eyes. Its an prime example of über sexism towards men and its scary how people and especially media went along with it. I personally had a woman tell me once that Johny Depp Was a Rapist. 10 seconds later i google this and i see no convinction of him being a rapist, only a accusation. Then two years or so later when he won the trial she then posted on FB ''Well fuck them both, they are both toxic'' …
/r/MenSupportMen26/01/25 05:46 PM
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Bro i have no idea why people are downvoting your comment really. I think they are really missing your point lol. The fact that you say things make sense from why people act the way they act FROM THEIR PERSPECTIVE AND LOGIC AND EMOTIONS.. does not mean you mean that its overal logically sound, and that you support them.
/r/MenSupportMen26/01/25 05:34 PM
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no thanks.
/r/MenSupportMen26/01/25 05:07 PM
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oh like that. You know what is bullshit. i Tried giving constructive criticism towards my sister and used the word ''unhealthy'' of what my opinion is of her behaviour. She said that me choosing that word itself is absurd. And did not even react to my questiong if she thinks her behaviour is healthy. This after years of conflict and problems and her saying she is trying her best to save our relationship. Rate the bullshit level on that.
/r/MenSupportMen26/01/25 01:40 AM
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And being biased towards your ''own'' group means you have to discriminate others. If you benefit one group, that means the group that does not have the benefit is now in a disadvantage. Yea i get you. And i think its .. well.. stupid really. Honestly this is a thing people don't get also anyway. That benefiting certain people is dicriminating others. For example you have this video game company called CD-Projekt red that made Cyberpunk, you probably heard about that or played it. And they had t…
/r/MenSupportMen25/01/25 09:36 PM
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Hmm yea maybe. Women also compete with eachother of course but not in the same way men do. Do men like women that are seen as high status? Sure. But as much as women are attracted to and seeking out men with a high status? Hell no. Like Chris Rock said: When a guy tells a guy friend about a girl he met, the first thing that friend will ask is ''What does she look like''. When a woman tells her female friend about a guy she met, the friend will ask ''What does he do?'' I think there is a generati…
/r/MenSupportMen25/01/25 07:19 PM
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Does that mean that women where NOT biased when they WHERE oppresed. Or where they even MORE biased then xD In that case when does it ever stop? Something about all of this makes no sense. I think its kinda clear to me that from birth both girls and boys get fed a certain perspective about what it means to be a man and a woman. How to behave like one. And what your position is in this world. Clearly girls are fed some kind of perspective that they are behind the boys and they need to prove thems…
/r/MenSupportMen25/01/25 07:11 PM
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That is another problem. Most therapists are women. And it makes sense women on average might be less able to help and understand men, just like the reverse. So on average i think men are not getting the help they need with their problems at a therapist because the therapist is looking at everything tru a feminine perspective. My problem is that because my mother was the only emotional connection i had as a child i more attracted to women being friends with them or my therapist. I can barely tal…
/r/MenSupportMen25/01/25 06:58 PM
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Right. Sot this is like the only psychologist i found after 9 years that could help me and understands trauma, childhood emotional neglect, attachment problems, compless ptss. She's by far the most intelligent, yet even she seems to do this... well why am i saying this as if intelligence has anything to do with it. As always it only has to do with emotions. But i find it quite shocking that even the best psychologist i found that should be very aware of what it means to be mature or not also doe…
/r/MenSupportMen25/01/25 06:30 PM
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Welcome to what exactly?
/r/MenSupportMen25/01/25 05:16 PM
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You got me thinking. Perhaps the fact that something is (possibly) in your control makes the judgement of that only more uncomfortable instead of less. And it also depends on the value's people attach to certain things. If a woman rejects me because i have brown eyes and she only likes men with any other color of eyes, i would think ''wow thats such a weird reason'' but i would really feel hurt by it. Because i know that most people do not have this preferences. Now i'm not short at all but i 10…
/r/MenSupportMen13/12/24 07:37 PM
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Ok lol.
/r/MenSupportMen09/12/24 02:03 PM
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Because i wanted to do it.
/r/MenSupportMen09/12/24 02:02 PM
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Sorry to hear that. Honestly myself i am very confused about what the whole list is of things that woman want and how much it counts. I can see certain things count more then others but its confusing. For example women say they do not care about looks as much as males do. Wich i think has some truth in it. But i feel like its not as if they care less about looks, its that they naturally care about more things vs men, on average. So imagine you care just as much about looks as a guy does care abo…
/r/MenSupportMen09/12/24 02:00 PM
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Yup i agree. I have a problem with the double standard, not the desires people have. If i was a woman i'm pretty sure i would prefer a taller guy as well.
/r/MenSupportMen09/12/24 01:53 PM
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great you immediately did not read what i wrote after that ''Or at least the vast majority want a guy that is tall. And even the women that do date guys smaller then them would still have prefered a taller guy if it was possible.'' I specifically wrote that AFTER someone else also complained and still its not clear i do not literally mean ALL women but the vast majority. Shit, guess i have to change it again for folks like you.
/r/MenSupportMen09/12/24 01:52 PM
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i'm not
/r/MenSupportMen08/12/24 10:53 PM
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key bye.
/r/MenSupportMen08/12/24 09:09 PM
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''Further, women have tended to be judged much more harshly about their weight than men tend to be about our height'' i find this hard to believe. I imagine its roughly equal. But i also still do not get your point. People do not have the luxury of choice, therefor focussing on any positive trait you might be lacking or someone els might be lacking is pointless? Thats the point?
/r/MenSupportMen08/12/24 07:42 PM
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its a total non-issue for you. Great. Congrats. That means you personally do not belong to the people it IS a issue for. Amazing. Oh and: OMG!
/r/MenSupportMen08/12/24 07:13 PM
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How is the one thing that is relevant for you being rejected by a woman, irrelevant. This docu makes a clear picture of how relevant height really is: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZbG05ePWRQE Yes there is a whole list of things women want and some things are more relevant then others. For example your height is more relevant then your eye color. And you not the biggest jerk on earth is more relevant then your height. The fact that i pick out one relevant trait does not mean other ones are not…
/r/MenSupportMen08/12/24 07:11 PM
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I exaggerate when i say its ''just feeling hungry for a few months''. Yes it can depend a lot on someone's mental health. It requires dicipline. Some people gain weight so much more easy then others. And some people have to lose a lot more. Having to lose 20 pounds or 100 pounds is a big difference, especially in terms of how long you have to be on a diet. One might have to be on a diet for like 3-6 months (Thats most people btw), and on the extreme end it could take something like two years. Bu…
/r/MenSupportMen08/12/24 07:05 PM
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What thing exactly is irrelevant?
/r/MenSupportMen08/12/24 06:43 PM
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You don't have to read things so literal. Yea no duh no ALL women, not 100.000% of women, want taller men. But the vast majority do, that is my point. Research shows that even the women who DO that men smaller then them even, prefer men that are taller. So short guys have worse of a chance with those women compared to taller guys.
/r/MenSupportMen08/12/24 06:40 PM
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The Ironic thing is that, well partially i did cut them off for a while. Or more like avoiding them. Fleeing away. And they still do not connect my fleeing away to their own behaviour. Oh no, the focus is more on their hurty hurt feeling of ''you are leaving me''. And those feelings are strong enough to not be aware that the other person is also feeling because, because if he was not feeling bad he would not avoid you. Duh. Or that your son or brother avoids you because of themselves, but no, no…
/r/MenSupportMen30/11/24 01:14 AM
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Hey its ok asking questions its just nice someone takes all that time to help me. But i might be telling to much to be honest. Yea the fact that mother and daugther behave in similar ways is of course another hint. Because one is biological sometimes. And the other is of course that a daugther mostly looks to her mother as an example of what normal behaviour is. The mother forms your picture of your own feminine identity. For boys its the same but they look at their father. It forms their male i…
/r/MenSupportMen27/11/24 11:12 PM
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Hey. Yes my sister has this fear of abandonment. Literally as in, she told me that herself several times. Also my mother i called her today, first time i recorded the whole conversation. My whole aim was just for her to tell me what else i should say when i criticise someone and using the word ''unhealthy''. The whole conversation is a mess of flip-flopping opinions. I wrote everything we said to eachother word for word down so i can show it to my friend and a social worker and what they can mak…
/r/MenSupportMen27/11/24 09:01 PM
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Thanks. You are right. I called her today again, my mom. I recorded the 30 minutes phones call, first time i ever did that. That typed the whole conversation down. You know, people might think that if someone acts ''sensitive'' in a relationship its not such a big deal. Its just that someone is sensitive. But if that person see's their sensitivities as completely normal, and see YOU as the person crossing their boundaries, thats not a minor problem. Its a absolutely destructive force for having …
/r/MenSupportMen27/11/24 08:36 PM
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Thanks for reading all that. How they communicate, i don't remember clearly. All i know that me the youngest of the family already thought things like ''Why do they act so bad, like monkey's'' and ''Nobody is listening to eachother'' when i was age.. 12?.... 10?... 9yo? If two people are only communcating based on what they are feeling it can be so bad they are not even aware anymore what the problem is they are talking about. One time when i was 15 or something both of them had a discussion in …
/r/MenSupportMen27/11/24 12:56 PM
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I'm confused as to how you could live with a wife like that. I mean i could not live like that, but thats just me personally. But you do seem to describe the typical of more cliché/average way woman react to thing and conflcit or problems. It really seems as if males go straight to: How to solve this thing. (On average). And women are way more often focussing on: How does this make me feel. To me its a bit crazy of someone is just venting, and thats all they do. Its ''unhealthy'', oh boy i said …
/r/MenSupportMen27/11/24 12:17 AM
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--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ( Second part of response ) SO THERE.. that is one example of ME having to walk on eggshells around her my whole life because of things like that. And that is something i call ''unhealthy''. Sorry you had to read all that crap but i had to give you the full context of how crazy it is. Other things she does is for example when months later i want to talk about her behaviour …
/r/MenSupportMen27/11/24 12:02 AM
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Hey i will try to explain. (Ok i wrote a whole book sorry.) Well for example one side of her is almost identical to my mother. At least in my eyes she is someone who can interpret something you do or say as a rejection of herself even tho that is not the case. Or interpret something you do or say as something that will lead or just sounds as if it COULD lead to conflict. And that fear then triggers i think separation anxiety. The thing is, she thinks what what she is percieving is realistic. And…
/r/MenSupportMen27/11/24 12:02 AM
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thanks yea i hope so.
/r/MenSupportMen25/11/24 11:16 PM
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Thanks for the advice you are right. And well whenever i show that i am hurting is whenever i get angry. Both of them can not handle anger. In fact they can not even handle my anger if its not about them but about someone or something else. If i explain my mother i am hurt, she just replies in ways that only show how she does not understand me. If i get angry, then they get overwhelmed by the feeling ''i did something wrong'' and only become more defensive. Then i'm the bad one and they are vict…
/r/MenSupportMen25/11/24 10:37 PM
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Actually in a way they are not teaching me how to recognize the type of woman you don't want to date at the same time. Because your brain subconsiously lights up when meeting women that are similar to your mom. You feel attracted to them. Even if you swear you hate people who are like your mom that is toxic, you end up with women who have those traits. All i learned is that whenever i feel like i ''have an instant connection'' with a woman, thats a massive big red flag and alert. That just means…
/r/MenSupportMen25/11/24 10:23 PM
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Yes that is very true men have more focus on ''fixing'' things. I'm a typical male with male thinking. My mother and sister very female. So we are very opposites. I just do not get how feelings are more important then what someone is actually saying. So me saying: I. Think. That. Your. Behaviour. is. unhealthy. Results in a male probably reacting with things like: Why do you think that? I do not agree with that and here is why. What do you mean with that? Why do women have to react like this mos…
/r/MenSupportMen25/11/24 01:50 AM
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thanks.
/r/MenSupportMen25/11/24 01:30 AM
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Raise my sister? I am trying to have a healthy relationship with her. Its not possible to have a healthy relationship with someone if you have to walk on your toes because of someone sensitivities of wich she thinks are not sensitivities but ''healthy boundaries'' as she puts it. Thats the current problem. How is that ''in essence raising your sister''. Yea i live sparately from them for a long time. Not sure what you mean with ''sharing every detail with them''. Did i say i do that? I don't. Bu…
/r/MenSupportMen25/11/24 01:29 AM
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Ah okay i get you. I'm a 33yo living in my own house in the Netherlands. You said you can't change them and you said you can not control people but i bet you meant change then? And no of course i am not responsible to change their behaviour. Its just that my mother said the same thing about my sister. The you can not change others you can only affect yourself. That makes sense to me in a certain way, but at the same time sometimes people can use this to make you not hold someone else acountable.
/r/MenSupportMen24/11/24 11:42 PM
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thanks. ''Endlessly fixating on feelings is a really good way to never solve the problem.'' --- ''If you try to steer the conversation away from feelings and toward the issue itself, you're accused of being cruel and insensitive.'' I never heard words more true holy crap that applies to this situation so much. This is them in a nutshell btw. Its as if they are not even aware this does not solve the problem. One time when i was 16yo or something my sister and mother had a argument. I asked them: …
/r/MenSupportMen24/11/24 11:07 PM
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Thanks for your reply. I asked my mother what i should have said instead of using the word ''unhealthy'. Don't remember what she said but she did not gave me some other term i could use. She's very bad of reacting to content of what i am saying and often replies with something that has nothing to do with it. I think when i asked her this she said that what i should do is not make things personal and something?.. At least she did not provide me with another option of what to say. The weird thing …
/r/MenSupportMen24/11/24 09:59 PM
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You can not hold other people acountable? I mean sometimes you do, sometimes you don't. If you can't then there is no point in trying. Or are you saying you should not try at all? They don't self destruct. They just find men and friends that put up with their bullshit and prob suffer without knowing it like most men do and there are no consequences for their actions. What has my age living situation and country to with how to handle this situation, seems completely spererated from this.
/r/MenSupportMen24/11/24 09:05 PM
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