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You weren't fun in her eyes. Who cares. You can't cater to everybody. Just be yourself and you'll weed out all the people who aren't compatible with you anyway. You'll be boring to some girls and fun to some no big deal.
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:55 AM
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Don't care about it so much. Just focus on yourself. Go lift weights or do boxing. Do the things that make you happy and whatever it is you feel like is your purpose in the world. ​ An unbothered attitude can get you some good lays.
/r/seduction21/06/22 12:43 AM
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It comes down to a matter of self-worth. Nobody has the perfect self-esteem, even The Rock says he has his moments of feeling inadequate. ​ Work on your confidence and self-esteem. This takes a long time. Not going to wake up and feeling like a million bucks, (unless you have a gram of coke next to you, but that only lasts 30 minutes) but start anyway. Start working on these things. ​ If you don't think much of yourself and are relying on validation from women, you are going to place them higher…
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:09 AM
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It's worth having sex with. Not worth dating. ​ All this bullshit they say doesn't matter when her sub-conscious takes over. Like when your dicks in her mouth and she's being all cute and cuddly afterwards. These concepts and ideologies created within the last century are not going to over-ride millions of years worth of bio-evolution. ​ They are fighting our innate drive which will cause a disaster in terms of relo.
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:58 AM
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An obese virgin, with a bunch of pick up tricks up his sleeve isn't going to beat a muscular dude with proper grooming sorting out his life who talks to women normally.
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:53 AM
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Considering the fact that you have zero knowledge or experience, there are two ways you can go about this: ​ Improve yourself to the point where you are more confident in who you are. Gym, diet, grooming. Go through the gradual process of putting yourself out there and screwing up and embarrassing yourself with women, because that's the only way you are going to figure this shit out. Drink half a bottle of Pepe Lopez, go out with your friends and just see what happens. ​ There is no true shortcu…
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:50 AM
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Meh, don't beat yourself up about it. Obviously you're somewhat a man of nobility. You're considerate. ​ Just say I've got a lot of things to do today, you'll have to go home soon and we'll talk later. Don't bring up that you will pay for her Uber. Unless she's dead broke you will have to negotiate something.
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:51 AM
4

Do the bare minimum in terms of gaming, and invest that energy the gym instead. Or start a business or go do Kickboxing, tennis whatever. Better for your mental health and you get more results than you might think.
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:45 AM
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Yep, it's a newbie thing. 'I have to do as much as I can to make women attracted to me in order to increase my chances of banging X amount of women'. ​ Medium experienced guys such as myself, or even the veterans, stop caring. ​ You can't really control what another human will think of you. All you can really do is work on yourself and your own attractiveness, and see what happens. Throw the bait in the water and just see. Do the bare minimum for your own health. All these stupid Tom and Jerry g…
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:41 AM
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Pretty much. And I'm happy for these men. It makes life simple and peaceful. Doing nothing and getting laid sounds great. ​ The thrill of the chase gets old when life starts throwing bigger fish for you to fry.
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:29 AM
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Well we live in a digital age, so approaching random women during your/her day-to-day activities happens far less. It's almost socially unacceptable, compared to say the 60's or 70's. ​ If the guy is physically attractive (8 and up), I don't think the women will mind. Anything less than this and you're going into the sex offender registry. Whether they reject the hot guy or not, it's nonetheless an ego boost for the day that such a hot guy approached her.
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:25 AM
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It goes against everything game says. You have to be self-assured and have your life together in order to get women to even look your way. These guys don't have anything sorted, so it proves the dichotomy. ​ Edit: Grammar
/r/seduction16/06/22 01:39 AM
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No matter what you do, you are going to come off as creepy to some women. I know chads who have been labelled and earnt a creepy reputation before, because of how blunt they were. They figured, they wouldn't need game bc their face is model material. Which is somewhat true, but you get the gist. So fuck it, can't avoid it. Just shoot your shot.
/r/seduction24/05/22 07:35 AM
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Just go out and do it. It's uncomfortable at first but thats like everything in life. Face the music and eventually you won't care.
/r/seduction24/05/22 07:23 AM
0

Banging 18 y/o is fine
/r/seduction24/05/22 07:06 AM
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18 year olds on average don't have a clue what they're doing in bed and aren't super enthusiastic. On one hand I enjoy it though, I completely take the lead with them and give them a man dicking. And they love it. You can kind of just do whatever you want and it impresses them. Less performance criteria so zero anxiety on my end. Beats any 18 year old who've they've slept wih. Then again I'm 25, when I was 18 I didn't have a clue what to do either.
/r/seduction24/05/22 07:02 AM
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Nothing like fucking an 18 year old. Best feeling in the world. Would never want to be in a relationship with one.
/r/seduction24/05/22 03:46 AM
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Women are flawed like us. They are also superficial like us. Everybody is shallow to some degree, with the monks being the only possible exception. They aren't aliens or demi gods, talk to them like their humans.
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:31 AM
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By becoming a genuinely more attractive person, more people will we be attracted to you. Women, men, non-binary whatever. This is Newton's law of seduction.
/r/seduction21/05/22 08:18 AM
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Just stop caring about what they think and become a bad ass. This takes 3-4 years of embarrassing yourself to fully understand.
/r/seduction21/05/22 08:12 AM
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By socializing in a context outside of trying to get into panties
/r/seduction21/05/22 07:38 AM
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The only way to win in the digital world is to be good looking. Even then, it's not a walk in the park.
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:54 AM
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Genuine inner game helps men much more than whatever bullshit RSD is trying to sell to you this week.
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:47 AM
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I think it's good to surpass our conditioning and separate our sense of self worth from whether attractive women sleep with us (or not). Your self worth is based on much, much more substantial matters. Sure it feels great if hot women want to fuck you, sure it sucks when women don't want to fuck you. But what feels even better is when you feel like you are living up to your potential and providing value to your fellow man. The more you work on your own purpose and become firm in you masculinity,…
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:33 AM
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Cold approaches are a thing of the past. We live in the feminist digital revolution so this is perceived as creepy, unless your social skills are off the hook.
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:29 AM
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I think it's great that you display a free thinking attitude. Without it, there would be no progression in the world. For better or for worse I wouldn't know, we're both better off heading to r/philosophy to discuss that instead of here. Anyway, this can translate and transfer to other areas of our lives, which will naturally make us higher value people (as opposed to pretending to be high value like how RSD wants you to do). If you're a real high value masculine man, you will have an easier tim…
/r/seduction21/05/22 02:33 AM
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If you get in good shape, groom yourself and aren't too awkward most of the attracting part is already done.
/r/seduction21/05/22 02:22 AM
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There isn't much to really know, nor would I want to know. Big Bang theory will show you the correlation between conceptual comprehension and getting laid/a gf.
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:17 PM
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You need to join the marines
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:11 PM
0

Just be sexual. You'll never get in the friend zone.
/r/seduction13/05/22 04:38 AM
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The accumulation of wealth, despite the inconsistent fluctuations in the stock market, is a fairly logical process. There is no 10 step sequence to attraction like Pick Up guru's would like you to believe. They capitalize on the male need for rationale , to make profit. Women's attraction to men, for the most part, is completely irrational and sporadic.
/r/seduction12/05/22 10:10 PM
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All you have to do is look them in the eyes and kiss them, provided you have enough IOI's. No need for deep talks at a club. You can't even hear each other.
/r/seduction12/05/22 02:16 AM
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I've seen people have more success just by going out for a good time and dancing. We all know that one guy who goes out to get laid, and never does
/r/seduction12/05/22 02:10 AM
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Talk about anything. Literally anything, but yourself.
/r/seduction03/05/22 07:08 AM
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having a lot of tattoos means you only have to do 50% of what you would usually have to
/r/seduction03/05/22 07:05 AM
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I was a friends with a rich kid, who could never get laid no matter how many times he bragged about his car. It will give you more options (access to gold diggers or superficial women) but with normal women it will just get some initial attraction going. You still have to do some work to get laid.
/r/seduction01/05/22 04:49 AM
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You have to grind anyway. Even if you leave the West and isolate in the Himalayas, you still have to do some kind of labor. You might as well go all out in your career, or at least attempt to become an entrepreneur on the side. And if you hate what you do or hate 60 hour weeks, you can figure something out. Take a lower paying job with less hours, but at least it isn't making you miserable. Just live below your means, save/invest and you'll liberate yourself quicker. I agree that you can still g…
/r/seduction01/05/22 04:40 AM
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there are always ways to fix that
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:43 PM
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At one point in time, it was for validation. I was extremely insecure at the time and didn't even realize it. Sleeping with women gave me temporary 'confidence' . But it wears off quick. External validation will not fix what is going on inside. Now, I sleep with women because I'm horny and I like sex. Sure it does feel nice knowing chicks dig you, but I practice hard to steer my ego away from clinging on to this as the ultimate source of validation.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:11 PM
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Learn how to be confident in social situations. This goes back to primitive times. A man who couldn't interact with his tribe would have a significantly harder time surviving in the wilderness. Awkward tendencies will go away the more you socialize. If you can run your mouth in front of 20 people, doing it in a date becomes easier. Watching YouTube videos or reading a book on how to mingle isn't going to teach you anything. You have to get out there in the real world and experience it. You can l…
/r/seduction30/04/22 03:34 AM
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Money fixes a lot but doesn't fix everything.
/r/seduction30/04/22 02:44 AM
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I've had more success posting pictures with my boys. Going out, having a sincere and genuine time. Plastering pictures of yourself with women just makes you look like a superficial try hard. You really want other women to know that you hang out with attractive women.
/r/seduction30/04/22 02:36 AM
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Having financial freedom is a terrific thing to aim for. Who wants to struggle all their life? Who wants to spend their entire life living paycheck to paycheck and being a wage slave? People who do this drastically sell themselves short of a fulfilling life. All it takes is a bit of effort and your life can be amazing. With the right financial education, you can purchase the freedom so many dream about. It's difficult, but not impossible. In saying that, it would be wise to monitor your ambition…
/r/seduction30/04/22 02:26 AM
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Its not hard to tell when a girl has fuck me eyes and when she doesn't.
/r/seduction30/04/22 02:22 AM
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As long as you don't look like the hunchback of notre dame, it isn't really that hard.
/r/seduction30/04/22 02:20 AM
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50% of the people who lurk around in this sub will tell you to use and invest your time into learning a whole bunch of shady push/pull tactics, which to a degree end up becoming borderline involuntary negging, to win over that 'one girl'. I'm not saying that they don't work, because they can, but honestly you would be much better off investing that same amount of energy and time into yourself as it will benefit you beyond getting laid. Do things that make you happy, and feel like a valuable heal…
/r/seduction30/04/22 02:16 AM
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Honestly, I had more success with inner game than I ever did trying to use military tactics to get laid.
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:09 AM
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Thank you for response, good perspective. To elaborate more, even if we meet in person, attraction signs are there. But the question (from her) 'so what are you looking for?' comes up a lot earlier than expected. I say 'just testing the waters', 'going with the flow', sometimes downright 'just sleeping around' if we've had a few drinks. Can't help it, alcohol makes me blunt. I could use my magic tricks to sleep with her, even if she already knows I'm not serious, but then I question my virtue. I…
/r/seduction20/04/22 06:54 AM
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Yea only do this if you genuinely are somewhat interested in the dancing. If you're going there solely for women, you're a sociopath.
/r/seduction20/04/22 04:04 AM
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people who actually get laid don't keep track
/r/seduction20/04/22 01:33 AM
2

dude thats almost $40,000 you've spent on hookers
/r/seduction20/04/22 01:28 AM
2

Just say 'definitely not you'. Head high, walk off and drink some more.
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:13 PM
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Seduction is all acting
/r/seduction19/09/21 04:53 AM
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I’ve already bedded my fair share of women. I just hate the acting process. Not for me anymore.
/r/seduction19/09/21 03:44 AM
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Yea I do too but it gets to the point where it’s like ‘Ah this shit here we go again’ when meeting a new woman. Gets real repetitive the sex is even worth all the energy you spend gaming her. Rather go see a hooker and cut the crap.
/r/seduction18/09/21 11:20 PM
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Just kiss her. It’s a bold move and shows you don’t really care. It’s the only way to really find out what’s going on. Worst case scenario is that she rejects your advances. Which doesn’t even feel that bad. I think being rejected by passively asking for a kiss is much more of a knife to your manhood. The more experience you gain with women, the better your social intelligence will become and you can make better informed decisions from your own understanding of when to kiss her.
/r/seduction14/09/21 11:17 PM
1

Man like after a year of trying to be one I just fucked my whole life up
/r/seduction03/09/21 08:54 AM
1

I’ve just always found it fake and phoney that’s just me and could never bring myself to do it. I come from Russian heritage maybe that’s the difference between me and most people.
/r/seduction31/08/21 08:40 AM
0

Sex
/r/seduction31/08/21 05:30 AM
1

Start doing Muay Thai it will fix everything
/r/seduction30/08/21 11:11 AM
1

Yea that’s calling them sexy over a screen which takes half the balls, in real life this would happen at a drastically lower rate
/r/seduction16/08/21 03:43 AM
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I’ve always hated cheesy day game where dudes go up to women and start asking for directions or asking them where’s a good place to eat. It’s just so phoney. Saying something simple like you think they’re cute is the best way to do it. It’s a gun blazing, chest out and authentic method. A lot of women will respect it. Sure you’ll have the indirect guys who say that compliments demonstrate Lower SMV but come on I think that’s only the case once you actually start hanging out.
/r/seduction15/08/21 05:01 AM
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Hmm. Interesting situation. Far more common than you might think. On one side of the spectrum, you could have a dude who never speaks at all and will be perceived as insanely boring though he may be a good pair of ears for your words to fall on when times are low. On the other extreme end, is a guy who never stops talking about himself. Believe me, no matter how confident this facade may seem, nobody actually likes this guy (including himself). I think the best way to be is to find that middle g…
/r/seduction15/08/21 04:58 AM
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Nobody wants to come across as creepy. I had a massive fear of coming across as a creep, because it’s human decency to not want to disturb others of course. This fear stopped me from doing anything with women. One day I just stopped caring and went full on perv. Who cares what women think of you, you’re going to come across as a creep perv but just accept it, all men are like this.
/r/seduction15/08/21 04:47 AM
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Anything that is foreign to the mind is uncomfortable. Our primitive safety mechanisms basically signal to us that the most optimal way to live life is inside a cardboard box until our day of passing, far far away from anything that even presents the slightest of dangers. I was a very anxious, fear mongering pusssy for all of my childhood/adolescence. It wasn’t until I hit 20 I started divulging into all of this self improvement shit. Through studying teachings of Taoism, Buddhism and Hinduism I…
/r/seduction15/08/21 04:45 AM
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Meh, fuck it, just do it. If you don’t get any resistance (either physically or verbally) you’re good to go. We’re supposed to initiate and lead the interactions and stopping and asking for consent will come across as more of a seeking of re-assurance rather than genuinely wanting to know if she wants to have sex with you or trying to act out of virtue. I can guarantee her vagina will become more dry than the Sahara if you stop and ask for consent. The only time women stop and sign legal documen…
/r/seduction15/08/21 04:41 AM
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Yes certainly. I’ve never had a relationship start up from a club, though I’m almost certain it could have if I wanted it to. I’ve seen it happen to a lot of people I know though. A lot of these relationships (not all) are complete do stagers though. That’s because usually both these people are stuck in party mode, which is hard to integrate into a relationship.
/r/seduction15/08/21 04:37 AM
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I can’t do much at the end of the day. It’s just the pain of losing haha And yea I think I can over-game. I’m guns blazing with my game, don’t care and say whatever I want and most of the time it works. I’ve had girls tell me they’re overwhelmed by me. They find me attractive but maybe in their heads too attractive.
/r/seduction12/08/21 06:37 AM
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Tattoos definitely help me get laid. I’m covered from neck to toe lol. But don’t get tattoos to get laid. Get it if you genuinely like art.
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:26 AM
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Excellent response. That is where our focus should be. When everything is right internally, everything else should fall into place.
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:27 AM
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Girls want to fuck hot guys. This is putting all the trillions of purchased pick up books into one sentence. Your points are definitely not invalid. They’re just over complicating what is essentially the least logical thing on earth.
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:11 AM
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If you’re hot, confident and not autistic you’ll get laid. Anybody is capable of improving their grooming and fitness. Getting ripped is obviously not an easy proccess. But it will translate into other areas of your life. Put that effort into applying scummy sales techniques then you will be good at just that and nothing internally. You will be nothing but a phoney with impeccable con-artistry. I’ve been both. An honest man has nothing to fear.
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:05 AM
1

Go a bit deeper into their teachings my friend
/r/seduction08/07/21 03:44 AM
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Hmm. I wouldn’t say it’s all they care about. But it will score you a lot of points in the scoring system. It’s superficial and bad for business but it’s true. Anybody that denies this is just angry. You can use external manipulative tactics and they will work. Or you can just take the more simple route and become ripped and confident with who you are. If you’re still having issues then those are inner game issues and not really sex issues. Both these methods work. One just requires probably abo…
/r/seduction08/07/21 03:42 AM
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If you’re hot and confident a lot more girls will be willing to have sex with you. It’s as simple as that.
/r/seduction08/07/21 03:29 AM
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Hot girls want to screw hot guys. Become hot and the lack of sex will be solved. Pick up is a bunch of crap. All that should be preached is inner game. The rest should take care of itself as long as the self isn’t malnutritioned.
/r/seduction08/07/21 03:26 AM
0

The concept of consensual sex is generally as simple as this: Hot girls want to screw hot guys. That’s it. The rest is just playing on little loopholes to create a sense of optimism in order to open a flow of profit. You can learn all the side tricks of game in the world if you wan’t. I’m not going to say that all their methods won’t work because it will. I’ve done that, some of these methods do actually work (70% crap 30% works). But this transcends the issue of trying to get laid. Putting all …
/r/seduction08/07/21 03:12 AM
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The folks at RSD are obviously a lot more intellectually sound than I am. But their methods are unnecessary. Ineffective? Of course not. But unnecessary ? Totally. Think about all the naturals you’ve come across in your life. Sure, they may have had certain attributes gifted to them that we both lack, but nonetheless I highly doubt that to this very day they have even picked up a seduction book in their life. They just let things flow. They let life roll out. This issues transcends sex problems.…
/r/seduction08/07/21 02:53 AM
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Getting ripped is hard. But not that hard. I’m not expecting you to look like Arnold in 12 months. Just look better than shit. That’s all. The thing about pick up is that all these techniques are usually very phoney and external. I’m not saying they don’t they don’t have their place because I’m not God and it’s not what I says goes. I just honestly think this is a much more simple solution. It sounds pessimistic, but honestly if anything it’s realistic . Girls are just as shallow as we are (surp…
/r/seduction08/07/21 02:44 AM
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32 over the course of 3 years. I am 22 and lost it at 19. I technically started talking to girls at 18 and had no clue what I was doing. Can remember each encounter vividly. I was involved in the party scene a lot so about 50% of these encounters were alcohol and drug induced so I can’t really say I gamed these chicks. The other half were a mix of work colleagues, random girls from Facebook, lucky cold approaches, and just some girls that I knew.
/r/seduction08/07/21 12:46 AM
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Exactly. That’s great to hear.
/r/seduction08/07/21 12:40 AM
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That’s biologically correct however
/r/seduction07/07/21 05:51 AM
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Females are males both have it unfair in their own respective aspects. I don’t think a women will be able to fully comprehend the difficulty of dating as a male. A LOT of effort is needed to win women over. Whilst I don’t disagree with the commonly preached idea from a lot of the top men to ‘not chase women’ and ‘switch roles and make you win over’ it is ultimately the decision of women whether sex happens or not. As men our society your bed post is a huge part of your overall worth. Women are i…
/r/seduction07/07/21 04:36 AM
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Well everybody’s experience is different but if you’re a ripped dude who isn’t autistic you can have just as much success as a RSD pick up robot overloaded with 7000 different plans of attack loaded in his arsenal. Trust me I’ve been both and my mental health was better when I thought less about my interactions with girls. Pick up just hyper rationalises what is quite frankly the least logical thing to exist.
/r/seduction07/07/21 04:24 AM
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I think I should have worded it better. Sex won’t make you fulfilled. Sex is a big part of human nature so you’re right we need it to function and be happy. But it’s only a piece of the pie.
/r/seduction07/07/21 04:17 AM
0

Good girlfriend > 100000 whores. Honestly. I do think every man should experience being a player though. You can reach your own conclusions because they might be different to mine.
/r/seduction07/07/21 04:13 AM
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It’s true. Seduction strategies are very over complicated when they don’t have to be.
/r/seduction06/07/21 10:42 AM
1

And yes you are right the internet is the worst way to meet women
/r/seduction30/06/21 03:31 AM
1

Sexting isn’t the same as trying to confirm sex
/r/seduction30/06/21 03:30 AM
0

I meant to refer to Instagram for that point.
/r/seduction30/06/21 01:07 AM
1

That’s just how it is. There’s no real logic in attraction. End of the day we are merely suppressed apes who embrace the man made concept of sophistication. Attraction just comes down to being hot.
/r/seduction24/06/21 03:24 AM
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Online dating is complete utter shit. Waste of time. Real life is what matters. All this energy dudes put into creating an online profile would do them much more good if they applied this in real life. In saying that though, I do think certain apps provide better results than others. Through Facebook and Instagram, your chances are slightly higher solely due to the fact of having mutual friends. This makes you come off as not a complete stranger.
/r/seduction24/06/21 03:19 AM
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Just call her don’t be a pussy
/r/seduction24/06/21 03:15 AM
2

That’s just how women are
/r/seduction20/06/21 12:43 AM
1

Don’t take it too personally. I know it doesn’t feel too great getting these reactions from the opposite sex, but see it from their perspective. These girls have no clue who we are from a bar of soap. Like in any RPG, we/they are just insignificant cameos. In this hyper digital age, approaching a female for a conversation almost seems alien.
/r/seduction17/06/21 11:57 PM
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Personally, I prefer to just be straight up. Chest out, spine straight, look them in the eyes and command you have their number. Don’t ask for it like they do in the movies. While I’m not saying it doesn’t work, I’ve seen men try and use indirect approaches trying to conversation about various topics but it comes off as very phoney and one step below cowardly. Women know what you want. If you want to have a genuine conversation about astrology while waiting for your pizza then have one. If you w…
/r/seduction31/05/21 06:11 AM
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I’ve been down those nihilistic roads years go. So deep in the existential rabbit hole. There’s no quick fix for it, it’s a long gruelling healing process. Especially if others consider you a bit more intellectual than the general. If casual sex is aggravating you more then stop it. Stop anything that is intensifying negative emotions. Definitely easier said than done but work on it. What I did was a lot of soul searching. Exploring foreign philosophy. I don’t know who you are and how you operat…
/r/seduction31/05/21 01:45 AM
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I’ve been through similar experience myself. What I can say is, it really depends what you want deep down. If you want sex with multiple women, being someone you’re not will increase your bed numbers as opposed to being authentic. Girls get super wet over tough guys which is how you’re coming off. That’s just how the world is. But in the process you may lose touch with your true self. If you feel like you’re not being honest with yourself than take a step back. There is a middle point where you …
/r/seduction31/05/21 01:33 AM
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While this is good advice, it won’t be suitable for all. I’ve always found it real phoney, though it does boost the chances of her actually coming over because you appeal to her innate desire for connection as opposed to the general desire for sex. The way I see it, Females get fucked by males and that’s how it is. I’ve never been one to imply we engagement in less than sexual activities (cooking or going hiking) unless I was looking for a relationship. If you just want to fuck then act like it.…
/r/seduction31/05/21 01:26 AM
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Sounds like he’s got to do some soul searching. Which can be intense and difficult to navigate. Try and pinpoint what is making him feel so negatively and improve on that. Find his why. Find what makes him feel fulfilled and better. Sure, he could apply some phoney pick up techniques at the bar. They could possibly help him get some numbers on the bed but it goes deeper than that for certain individuals. It’s a whirlwind of a rabbit hole. I’m not saying manipulative facade based pick up techniqu…
/r/seduction30/05/21 11:00 AM
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When I was 18 I used to flat with my cousin. He had his mate stay with us for a while for free. He was a broke ass dude on welfare, fairly good looking and tall, but he didnt shower for 2 weeks at one stage I kid you not. But in the 2 months he was with us he fucked more hot girls than anybody I knew at the time. He was incredibly insecure at heart, but he was naturally talkative and didn’t give 10 fucks about anything and put himself out there. I wouldnt even say he was the most confident dude …
/r/seduction30/05/21 09:48 AM
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The ways of the west can convince us that this type of energy is just all in our heads and it isn’t real. But when you take time to explore spirituality you will gain your own understanding. Call me a weed smoking monk hippy horny wacko, but I really do think it’s energy. Energy recognises energy. You can only get that with certain people as the same with friends
/r/seduction30/05/21 09:42 AM
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You have to really find the confidence within yourself. Which is a task for people with deep rooted self esteem issues. Nobody completely has a perfect self esteem with zero insecurities but it is true that some people sway more towards the positive side of the spectrum. This is all inner game stuff. It doesn’t matter if 20 hot girls are attracted to you, if you aren’t attracted to you. It is all about you. The more you work on yourself the better you will feel which will translate naturally whe…
/r/seduction30/05/21 07:03 AM
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While I do think this is generally good advice, not only in terms of seduction but life in general, it is far too broad a statement to apply in a very grey area like seduction. Rules of thumb will always do you more good than bad, but there is a range of factors to be analysed (which comes with experience or natural social intelligence) as each individual case of sexual interaction is unique. If you are naturally charming and charismatic, by optimising that ability it will become your strongest …
/r/seduction21/05/21 11:54 PM
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Attention won’t make you happier. Trust me. The novelty wears off as with anything that’s external. You can have heaps of girls give you attention but if you don’t like who you are it won’t mean a thing. But sure it is nice to know. Getting attention from girls isn’t rocket science. All you have to do is groom yourself well. Find a style that suits you. Walk bold and act like the man and there you have it.
/r/seduction14/05/21 07:14 AM
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Women don’t need to learn anything about seduction they are just born seductive no matter how good/bad looking you are
/r/seduction14/05/21 03:12 AM
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Don’t overthink it just work on yourself and be a man that makes you happy
/r/seduction14/05/21 02:46 AM
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There isn’t really a black and white answer for this. It isn’t really categorised between ‘direct’ and ‘indirect’ techniques’ , it’s more like a spectrum. On both extreme ends you have super indirect (asking for directions which is really wimpy) and on the other you have super direct (I want to have sex with you). I’ve always liked to be direct and obvious that you’re hitting on her, through tones and actions more per se over specific wording, but also socially conscious enough that you can conv…
/r/seduction09/05/21 11:03 PM
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No matter what you do in life you are always going to regret in something. Whether you’re Buddha or Bill gates. I think sleeping around is a good experience. As you said, you don’t see the hype about it and I totally understand that and even somewhat agree. But you’re judging something you have never experienced. I think it would be good for you to experiment and try, because, after all our days on this Earth are numbered. I’ve slept around and I have come to the conclusion that I prefer sex wit…
/r/seduction08/05/21 01:49 AM
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Say put your number in my phone like you’re commanding her to do it. In a very assertive way. Feminist wouldn’t agree with it but it works better than asking like a 5th grader.
/r/seduction26/04/21 08:08 AM
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If you’re under 24 then appearance does seem to be the most important thing. When you’re older not so much.
/r/seduction26/04/21 08:05 AM
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This is my take on cold approaching. I’ve never been a fan of indirect approaches. Like walking up to girls and pretending to ask for directions. Or making bullshit small talk while waiting for your coffee. Be legit and be honest. Don’t run after women like a rapist. When you see a pretty girl make strong eye contact, stop her while she’s in front of you and say ‘hey you’re catching my eye. Give me your number’.
/r/seduction26/04/21 07:05 AM
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It depends on the person. Everyone draws confidence from different things. For the most part though I think it is much better to base your confidence on who you are as a person. It is much more authentic and soulful. That’s how you’ll feel happier.
/r/seduction26/04/21 07:01 AM
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The only time you’re getting laid in 5 minutes is if you’re a celebrity or you’re visiting a brothel.
/r/seduction26/04/21 06:59 AM
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I used to feel like this. We’re brainwashed (don’t know about other societies but in the west) from a young age to believe that pretty girls are better than us. So of course at first you’re going to subconsciously elevate their status and be anxious and weird. You have to really reinforce that you are equal to them and they are equal to you. Because they are. Pretty girls shit and piss just like you do. Treat yourself as an equal to them, realise your worth and this will go a long way. The only …
/r/seduction26/04/21 06:57 AM
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Yea. It doesn’t matter if all these girls like you. Do you like you?
/r/seduction26/04/21 01:52 AM
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Feistiness
/r/seduction25/04/21 07:13 AM
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For most people yea but if you’re charming enough you can pull cheesy lines off
/r/seduction24/04/21 10:44 PM
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Wanna know what else is tall?
/r/seduction24/04/21 02:35 AM
1

Get a new girlfriend
/r/seduction24/04/21 02:15 AM
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Don’t bother trying to look well off to impress girls. If you genuinely want to be well off , then work on actually being well off. Bill Gates wears a $50 polo and some $40 jeans whenever he does a seminar. You stated you live frugally which is terrific so you’re already halfway there. Stick to the frugal mindset you have. Don’t waste money on superficial things to make yourself ‘appear’ wealthy. Screw people’s perception of you. You are your own perception. Majority of these expensive material …
/r/seduction23/04/21 03:34 AM
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Depends on the girl. An 18 year old will be intrigued if you’re wearing the latest yeezys or Jordan’s. A conservative 30 year old may like how your dress shoes match the rest of your outfit. End of the day, these things are good, but all the do can score you extra attraction points, just because you are wearing a certain type of shoe doesn’t mean you are instantly going to seal the deal.
/r/seduction10/04/21 11:15 PM
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The question seems like its about my situation but I'm adressing women in general. I'm interested in understanding the dynamics of womens friends becoming easier once you fuck one of them. Cant seem to find anything on Google about it.
/r/seduction22/10/19 06:20 AM
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Women are predictable and uninteresting (most). Especially the ones that frequent night clubs. They're all eye candy nothing else. They have insane emotional issues and big egos, and can't handle infatuation well lmao. Good healthy average girl > Hot promiscuous bad bitch
/r/seduction21/07/19 11:11 AM
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Push/pull = look like i dont care about her = more alpha?
/r/seduction09/07/19 12:40 PM
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I know these girls through social circles (school, nightclubs) and I agree that it only adds to what has already been built. You cant really build.attraction straight from online communication.
/r/seduction09/07/19 12:01 PM
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