How long to wait in between messages?

Naima_x · 2019-07-09T12:49:52+00:00

But at times I feel like it would be better to ignore her and respond back in 5 days. What do you guys do?

Thats playing games, and playing games is corny af. Unless you have a good reason to be gone for 5 days, then what was the point of all that?

Actually timing your messages is lame af and unnatural. If you're worried that youre texting too much or too fast, then preoccupy yourself with something else, or sit back and seriously think about what youre going to say.

The difference between 5 minute, 10 minutes, 30 minutes isn't even a factor if the conversation wasn't going anywhere to begin with.

Report_Topside · 2019-07-09T11:54:54+00:00

I think it's great you are seeking advice and don't let me deter you but part of learning is actually researching and reading beforehand and trying to find the answers yourself. That goes for anything in life. As for you question though, it gets asked almost daily on this sub. Have a look through my post history and you will see how many times I have explained in absolute detail how bad online communication is for sparking interest unless it is already established in real life. Spend some time looking through the subreddit as a whole there is a wealth of information already here. Bottom line is you should use online communication as a means of organising a face to face.

NessunoDiImportante · 2019-07-09T12:05:38+00:00

I wait approximately 5/10 minutes between each message. If I get bored texting then I just disappear for one hour or two. Getting bored multiple times means I'll probably never text that girl again.

Anyway, I think how long you should wait between messages depends on your personal preferences. Anything is good apart from replying immediately

lapetitedeath · 2019-07-09T12:38:07+00:00

I think waiting that long between messages is just going to turn the conversation stale. If it’s an interesting/heated conversation wouldn’t you wanna reply quickly so as to talk back and forth properly?

cowvin26 · 2019-07-09T16:39:15+00:00

You kids an your confangled DMs and emiticons and whatever else. I'm in the "logistics-only when texting" camp. Build attraction in person, where you can do something with it. Anything over the phone is a distraction to these girls, it's like watching a movie or reading a book. It isn't real to them.

Unless it is and you're just out there killing it out there. I've been wrong once or twice before.

Title	How long to wait in between messages?
Author	DragonDinner22
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	July 9, 2019 11:48 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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