| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 48 | There really is no upside to marriage, is there? | Dramatic-Ad7192 | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/23 02:41 AM | |
| 32 | I hate my life after divorce | Dramatic-Ad7192 | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/23 08:34 PM | |
| 13 | Does your ex still haunt your dreams? | Rant | Dramatic-Ad7192 | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/24 09:08 AM |
| 4 | Tax question | Dramatic-Ad7192 | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/23 03:27 PM | |
| 1 | I never even got to have kids | Dramatic-Ad7192 | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/24 02:05 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 6 | Does a woman that helps a man even exist?I’m pessimistic these days | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/25 05:20 AM |
| 5 | I loved my wife and the life we had, I’m doubtful I’ll find another woman like her.If you’re lucky enough to even date now, you’re one step ahead of me. Shits been whack for me | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/25 11:17 PM |
| 2 | The idea of dating is exhausting. I want to skip ahead to where we are snuggling on the couch watching a movie.lol I think about that all the time | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 12:30 AM |
| 1 | When did you stop wearing your wedding ring?I destroyed mine lmao | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/24 04:16 PM |
| -4 | When you love your wife.. but you still initate the divorce.Guess you got your answer about how she feels about being married to a cheater | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/12/24 07:03 PM |
| 2 | When you love your wife.. but you still initate the divorce.But she was still upset at finding out you had a girlfriend. Aka you hid it from her? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/12/24 06:57 PM |
| -11 | When you love your wife.. but you still initate the divorce.So you’re a cheater | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/12/24 06:55 PM |
| 13 | How many of you are still friends w your ex wife?Fuck no | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/24 02:48 AM |
| 4 | Wife suggesting we won’t make it as a married couple. All because of Trump.That’s just her excuse bro. She’s exiting | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/24 08:04 PM |
| 6 | Believe what she saysWomen are like that. They don’t come back because they are different creatures than men altogether | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/24 10:51 PM |
| 11 | The hardest partHardest part was accepting that she had changed from who she was before the marriage | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/24 02:55 PM |
| 7 | Checked her social mediaHappened to me too. Guy she said not to worry about. Guy from her past. Like it was her plan all along to string me along and make me set them up financially. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/24 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Is online dating worth it?I haven’t had luck but i did get a few hits on bumble | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/24 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Old wedding bandI destroyed mine | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/24 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Why do men take divorce so hard?This | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/24 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Dating dry spellSame bro. It’s ruthless out there | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/24 07:46 AM |
| 3 | I feel like damaged goodsSame bro. Haven’t had a date in ages either | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/24 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Ex wife keeps bringing new boyfriend to my houseGross | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/24 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Has a “break” ever worked on rekindling a marriage?Never heard of it working | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/24 11:12 AM |
| 6 | Why don’t men go on “healing journeys”?Where the fuck am I supposed to go exactly | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/24 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Could she have done anything?Yeah probably but oh well | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/24 05:43 AM |
| 6 | What actually would happen if my ex got a permanent restraining order against me?I had a temporary restraining order and lost my GlobalEntry so that was annoying. There’s probably other government stuff like that which you’d lose access to. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/24 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Wife did not come on my real brother marriage because of fights we have? Reason enough to not stay together?What’s a real brother marriage | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/24 12:28 PM |
| 8 | Anyone is staying single permanently?Not by my choice. People are fucking weird here now | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/24 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Going thought a divorceNo kids thankfully | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/24 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Are you looking for some sanity in this crazy process? Check out this video. Men have feelings too. Mostly men commenting and feeling validated in the comments.The tropes hold this reality shit show together | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/24 06:52 PM |
| 5 | Going thought a divorceYeah mine filed first and restraining order and everything. Meanwhile I was told by others I just needed to make a grand love gesture. Like this ain’t no fucking love movie where everything turns out ok. It’s just bullshit trash that needs to die | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Starting overGood luck! | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/02/24 05:22 PM |
| 13 | Starting overBruh you’re younger than I am. You could still get mid 20s women who are childless. I’m left with single moms and broken spirits | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/02/24 05:00 AM |
| 4 | Has anyone’s Ex-wife ever apologized for putting them through hell?Lmao | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/24 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Did your Wife start seeing a Therapist before she filed for Divorce?After doing several therapies for various things unrelated to but also related to my divorce, I’ve got the impression that therapy is for the therapist | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/02/24 04:25 AM |
| 6 | 18 months later and still dreaming about her every single night.Bro it’s been the same for me | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/24 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Photos and history?Kept them. Look at them every now and then. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 06:34 AM |
| 2 | She's Not Yours, Its Just Your TurnIt’s a total scam | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/23 01:43 AM |
| 4 | Is there a scientific or evolutionary reason so many women are so negative towards their husbands after kids?They fall in love with the kids | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/23 10:59 PM |
| 5 | Am I screwed for the rest of my life?Lol getting married again? Wew | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/23 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Did you ever get tempted to remarryI believed in love. Can’t say that anymore | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/23 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Experienced wife going batshit crazy?Yep. Wanted a conversation with her but got a restraining order based on lies instead. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/23 04:02 AM |
| 4 | My ex said a woman’s heart is a deep ocean full of secrets?After all, the deepest parts of the ocean never see the light | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/23 11:06 PM |
| 8 | "Too Good to Leave, Too Bad Stay" Didn't Help Me and I'm Still Filled with DreadI hear ya. I miss everything about my wife and it’s mainly my fault for giving up. Just wish I would’ve known better. Still pretty much clueless these days. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/23 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Fucking killing this single dad life🔥🔥🔥 | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/23 06:10 PM |
| 2 | I would have left me too.I know the feel | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/23 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Newlywed of 1 year and contemplating divorce. Hard time seeing a futureIt’s done man | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/23 05:58 AM |
| 27 | She cheated but won’t sign papers unless I say I want a divorce.Don’t let her have that satisfaction. Totally a power move by someone who lost their power over you. Edit: don’t [over]react either | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/23 05:53 AM |
| 2 | I’m depressed over my wife. I ruined our marriage but I miss her so much. I’m the bad husband and this sucksSame bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/23 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Do you think they regret it?I doubt it and it’s not worth it. Move on | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/23 06:30 AM |
| 22 | What is the scientific name for when a woman rewrites history in her mind?Herstory | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/23 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Have any of you had them try to come back?Can’t relate | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/23 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Struggling between wanting to reach out and fix things, or let it go.Therapy | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/23 01:48 AM |
| 19 | Just got into an argument with my exAll I can say is don’t let her rile you up. Exes are like energy vampires feeding off you til the end. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/23 01:43 AM |
| 4 | Divorced men in your 40s, have you had any success OLD?I’m half convinced OLD apps are old news and a wasteland of inactive profiles | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/23 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Ex wife won’t settledWomen and money amirite? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/23 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Men are not interested in friendshipOk man speak for yourself | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/23 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Advice to men: Don't be fooled by those who advise you not to co-habitat or date, nearly all cases in family court are marriage related. If you don't sign the marriage certificate, there is little chance you will end up in family courtAka don’t get married huh | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/23 07:39 PM |
| 6 | Have anyone of you guys completely left dating since Divorce?Not intentionally. Had a few dates but modern dating (apps) sucks and I have no game for pickups | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/23 05:57 PM |
| 6 | Does it ever get better with a narcissist?Nope and they’ll gaslight you all day. Just cut them off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/23 03:56 AM |
| 24 | As a woman who finds herself dating a lot of divorced men, what should I ask to gauge if he is in a healthy place mentally for dating post divorce? What should I watch out for?Wait you date a lot of divorced men and you haven’t figured out red flags by now? Shouldn’t you be the expert here? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/23 12:37 AM |
| 12 | Advice to men: It is very difficult or impossible to recover financially from a divorce after a long marriage, you are almost always better off hiding assets and risking a penalty vs certainty of lower living standard for the rest of your lifeListen… divorce really sucks but statistically the divorced woman becomes much less wealthy over the rest of her life compared to the divorced man | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/23 02:58 AM |
| 10 | The BEST parts about being divorcedBeing able to leave dishes in the sink a wee bit longer without being bitched at for not helping with chores | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/23 04:48 PM |
| -1 | If we can't agree on what to do with the house, what happens?Burn it down | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/23 03:19 AM |
| 5 | Am I fucked?I mean usually immigration officers love investigating that shit so it’s not really on him | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/23 03:18 AM |
| 9 | Am I fucked?Contact immigration and fuck that botch | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/23 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Would you consider cohabiting with men (platonically) for the rest of your lives opposed to marrying again?Maybe. Bitch tore my life apart and turned all our friends against me. Would be nice to have a buddy again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/23 06:16 PM |
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