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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 12 | Decree violations | Dealing with the Ex / STBX | Dull-Stick2040 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 02:10 AM |
| 8 | Parenting conflict | Rant | Dull-Stick2040 | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/03/26 08:42 PM |
| 5 | Family Pictures | Need Support | Dull-Stick2040 | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/25 02:51 PM |
| 4 | Money | Rant | Dull-Stick2040 | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/25 04:20 PM |
| 1 | I think it’s time to pull the plug… | Need Support | Dull-Stick2040 | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/25 08:32 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | I don't want a divorce, I just don't want to be married to her anymoreI feel this. I remember also wanting the relationship I had, just not with the person I was with. It’s a rough feeling. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/26 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Home Buyout QuestionI was allowed to borrow money from my parents to buy out my ex’s portion of the house. I don’t know if she paid a tax penalty on the money she received. Your state laws may be different. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 02:17 AM |
| 6 | Glad there is some support hereIf things between the two of you are still civil, maybe you could seize the moment for a fast, undisputed divorce? It hurts like hell but if it moves fast, you may he able to save yourself a fortune. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/25 06:28 PM |
| 6 | Men who divorced with kids — how do you feel now?We’ve been separated for a little over two months, officially divorced one. Four kids together - 50/50 custody. Personally, I’m lonely - but less lonely than I was with her. My kids are handling it well. Of course they’re hurt, and a couple have acted out in school. But they’re going to be ok. I think I’m a better father now. Before I was in survival mode. I was almost always in a state of high stress, even in my own home. Not anymore. I have dedicated time to myself, I can create the home with … | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/25 06:09 PM |
| 4 | My ex claimed she ‘didn’t need sex.’ Found her on Tinder. What the hell?My ex never wanted sex. She clung to a variety of reasons, but the last one she used before we split was she is demisexual - she needs a strong emotional connection to feel sexual. But she also wouldn’t put in much, if any, effort to building that connection and rejected most of my efforts. After I told her I want a divorce she lamented that our last sex didn’t last longer. A little while later she mused about having a one night stand on her next birthday. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/25 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Does judge spend much time reviewing dockets when uncontested?My mediator divorce was signed the same day it was dropped off on the judge’s desk. Due to custody split, my shift at work changed. By extension I took a 10% pay cut. I didn’t get any flak for my reduced pay. If you’re worried about getting screwed on child support, my state has it written into the divorce decree that any change in pay of 30% or more must be announced so child support can be recalculated. Either party can initiate a recalculation of child support after 2 or 3 years, as well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/25 01:53 PM |
| 9 | Do you guys ever look at where the ex is now and feel bad?We’re in the early stages of divorce right now. She started packing things yesterday. So far everything is amicable, and I’m grateful for that. She has been having lots of small epiphanies lately - how to make small improvements in herself, how to budget, how to be more independent, etc. I’m simultaneously happy for her for finally realizing these things - things I tried to talk to her about for years - and also internally screaming why couldn’t you realize this earlier?! | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/09/25 03:59 PM |
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