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What led you to convert?
/r/RPChristians19/01/19 07:37 PM
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Reading your part one post, I'm surprised you had this issue with this girl considering your previous successes. It seems like you treated this one as a unicorn and didn't adhere to your usual principles (i.e. you didn't escalate, state intentions early enough, buy gifts etc) that you normally won't do with other girls. Reading your part about where she states shes waiting for god to reveal to her her potential partner makes me question whether girls actually mean what they say. This part struck…
/r/RPChristians18/01/19 08:50 PM
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Good points. Does that also address the "i know what happens at camp" that OP made?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:16 PM
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Thank you for your service. Do you mind elaborating more on your reasoning of "guys in armed forces?" What happens on camp that makes you list that? Please feel free to PM me your response if you don't want to post it here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 10:02 PM
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Same guy 5 times a day. Told me she never really enjoyed it though. Makes me wonder as I get older (24) how many girls I meet will be like that, and getting over the past sexual history she’s had
/r/askTRP19/12/18 11:41 PM
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Seems like to me you gotta really believe the redpill mindset to apply it. Girls can sense fake sht miles away
/r/askTRP19/12/18 11:39 PM
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Either she was never attracted to you in the first place, or your character was incongruent with your actions. Girls reasons for breaking up are bullshit. I think you gotta follow redpill principles that are part of who you are. Be fluid. The principles here are a tool box so take whatever you seem fit.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 11:34 PM
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Takes time to process it. Keep doing what you're doing. Out of curiosity what made you kick her out?
/r/askTRP16/11/18 01:48 PM
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Hope you learned to not cohabitate with a girl unless you two are married. I think the easiest way is to toss out all the gifts. It doesn't help that you see her everyday though. What happened between you two?
/r/askTRP14/11/18 05:39 PM
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Sorry for your lost. I appreciate your lengthy comment. When and how do you find out a girls n-count? My ex gf brought it up before we became exclusive
/r/askTRP08/11/18 02:18 AM
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Thats wild. Same story with me where we had good sex and she told me those things along with marriage and kids, but then tells me she needs to spend some time working on herself. Been dating almost a year. I'm so confused
/r/askTRP07/11/18 08:31 PM
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Out of curiosity, why did it end? It seemed like everything was going well on your end considering your lack of investments in her
/r/askTRP07/11/18 07:50 PM
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Why did she say she loves you, then goes on to break up with you the next day? Genuinely curious cus something like that happen to me too
/r/askTRP07/11/18 07:45 PM
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Only an issue if you make it an issue. Some girls won’t date guys shorter than them or under 6 ft or whatever. That’s a blessing in disguise cus it helps you filter her out from the spot. Focus on things you can control
/r/askTRP03/11/18 05:47 AM
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Hey man hang in there. Similar experience happened to me recently. Best thing you can do is focus on yourself and learn from your mistakes. It takes time to go through it. As much as people like to say don’t take her back, it’s likely true. Obviously it’s your life so you can do whatever you want, but most of us here advise you it will be a bad idea for numerous reasons.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/18 05:34 AM
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They're jealous of your success. I'll bet money they'll do the same shit if given the opportunity.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 02:33 PM
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I'm the same age as you and also make over 60k. Before i got my job, i was getting 0 girls. After i got my job and decided to focus on myself with hobbies (lifting, reading, and cooking primarily) and changed my mindset with girls and life, everything changed. How often are you putting yourself in situations to fail with women? I got rejected a ton, but I was also a lot more successful. I'm short as fuck and i'm asian. If it can work for me, it'll work for you
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 06:02 PM
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I read a quote on TRP saying "If you place her on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." This has really helped me avoid idealizing one special woman and understand they are human beings and have flaws, just like the rest of us. Hope that helps.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 02:11 PM
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Comments here are spot on, especially with the crab-in-bucket analogy. This concept extends beyond your friends. People don't like to see you succeed. Keep doing what you're doing man.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 08:30 PM
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This post hit me on every god damn level. My LTR started and ended the exact same way you described it. She said some bullshit reason like how we aren't compatible anymore or at different points of our life. At the end of the day, she wasn't emotionally invested anymore. Thank you for this insightful post.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 02:20 AM
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Got it. I definitely should've spent more time dating her prior to entering exclusivity. Lesson learned for next time
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 01:41 PM
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I'm kinda new to this, and thats great advice from the two pointers you made. We've dated for a month, then entered exclusivity. I thought any exclusive relationship was a LTR?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 01:07 PM
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Great post. I see a lot of similrity between this post and "the way of the superior men." Particularly when you said a man has to focus on his mission over the LTR.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 01:27 AM
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Tbh this is a tough decision. Sidebar suggests to never ask your female friend out, because most of the time it wouldn't work. Is the girl worth the risk of losing the friendship? Carefully consider the choices and make your decision there.
/r/seduction22/06/15 05:31 AM
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Dude you're 20, don't worry about not having opportunities to approach women. Continue working on yourself and whatever goals you have. If you actually want to cold approach, go to cafes or bookstores. A friend can host a bbq and invite a ton of people so you can approach there as well. You don't need to "remind" yourself to approach. If you think the girl is cute, just go up to her and say hi and introduce yourself.
/r/seduction12/06/15 04:20 AM
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Do it asap. The longer you wait, the more you will over-think the situation.
/r/seduction27/05/15 11:11 PM
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Try one more time. She has a life and could have been busy / forgotten about texting you. Don't take it personally. If things don't fall through, move on.
/r/seduction27/05/15 11:05 PM
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Welcome to the dating world, where all sorts of shit happens. Girls will flake on you and throw all sorts of curve balls at you. I know its hard at first, but when you meet more and more girls, one blowing a date off with you isn't such a big deal. A lesson to learn from your experience is to not get emotionally involved as quickly.
/r/seduction27/05/15 11:04 PM
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Well, try to have a connection. For example, if I wanted to talk to a girl in my class, I would ask her about a homework assignment or a test coming up. This gives me a "bridge" to talk to the girl about. I am not trying to say that you HAVE to have a connection. It can be as easy as teller her that shes cute.
/r/seduction25/05/15 02:32 AM
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Literally just go up and say hi. No need for fancy openers.
/r/seduction23/05/15 06:01 PM
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Hey man, don't think that way. You're tall and you lift, so you already pass the physical aspect that women are looking for. Its never too late to seek women. You lack experience? To get good at anything, you MUST attempt to do it. For example, not everyone is a prodigy when it comes to playing the guitar. They lacked experience initially but they practiced and practiced. Just like that, you can do the same with girls. All it takes is the first step.
/r/seduction22/05/15 12:59 AM
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The best way to get her off your mind is to talk to other girls. Go out there and live your life. You don't have time to ponder your thoughts all on one girl.
/r/seduction20/05/15 04:46 PM
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