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Not in this fight as this is a war of words, semantics, and rhetoric. Which is why men have lost so far, although there some meaningful recent gains
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:04 PM

It feels like being angry at my own children tbh. Like I love you but you’re just being stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:57 PM

It’s like a dictator who’s allergic to their subjects’ anger
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:56 PM

And I want women to know that’s “how they are”. That they are weeding out humans from society. Like abortions. And how abortion stats are the same as child mortality stats when there was no learn medicine. My work here is trying to get women to understand themselves by understanding men and their own masculine/sexual side
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:55 PM

Yeah but the argument needs to be put to rest. They’ll keep spreading it if we don’t fight back rhetorically
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:51 PM

When you become indifferent, you actually become more desirable which gives you more reason to be angry at them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:42 PM

No they shouldn’t. They should listen to them and understand why they’re angry. And have enough compassion to mitigate the anger not increase it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:28 PM

How low men can go to get laid should be studied
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:27 PM

There’s no data here. Only speculation and hypothesis driven thinking. That’s my hypothesis
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:23 PM

I think given the size of society and inspired by the law of large numbers, it probably comes down to a 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:18 PM

The law is man made rules inspired by the bible (the other man made BS)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:17 PM

If I left the keys under the visor, yes. And it’s not my “ fault”. Fault is shared
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:11 PM

Yes it’s wrong to do so but in honest reality, the victim always carries some blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:09 PM

I think the real answer is that both are equally true. Even those “angry” friends and parents’ influence comes from their own practical experiences that you’re “unlucky” enough to vicariously experience. Humans have a hard time sharing blame. Judea pearl (a mathematician that formulated causality) argues that humans came up with the concept of causality solely to be able to assign blame to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:08 PM

I agree %100. It’s pure ethos based meaningless rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:02 PM

Having angry parents or friends, can jump start it but actual practical experience of failure is the greatest teacher there is -yoda
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:01 PM

While I think bulk of the responsibility is on the individual, there is also an aspect of violation of social contract by the society from the individual’s pov that carries some responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:59 PM

Humans/children aren’t born angry and resentful so the answer is a resounding no
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:51 PM

Yet the “fear” ends up creating even more anger. Have you heard of a self fulfilling prophecy? Or manifesting fears?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:50 PM

So women who say that incels don’t get laid because they are bitter are only seeing half the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:49 PM
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Because men lose their pair bonding ability with more partners, we think women are the same. While you’re right in pointing out the difference in the level of this phenomenon between genders, it is still a universal phenomenon as we witness it in animals and pets too. The main difference in men and women experience of “love” I think is that men think in terms of loving each other. Women see it as both together loving ourselves (but love the woman more a little bit)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:45 PM

The moment I drop what I do to a woman before she shows genuine interest, is the moment I have given up on any prospect of long term partnership with her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:40 PM

It’s a thought exercise. You have to have a brain first
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:41 PM
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These are great questions for women to ponder upon on their path to enlightenment. Shifting perspective from the self is a necessary step towards self knowledge and peace
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:51 PM

We don’t know you better than you do. We know ourselves better than you do yours. Most of you haven’t even heard of peace (with one’s self). You’re fighting. But you’re also growing. Growth requires a fight. We can’t wait to see you make it. We have told you about ourselves (although many of you don’t like it) but we’re also very curious to hear from you teaching us about yourselves once you know yourselves and are at peace with yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:52 PM

I think it’s lack of self knowledge and not understanding/detaching their own sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:34 PM
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Goodbye victim
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:57 PM
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Again with the myth of “millennia of oppression.” Oppressors always need “historical” myth to justify their oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:45 PM
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You can disseminate ideas. It’s not about the individuals. If anything they’re just vessels for ideas. Ideas will spread and take a life of their own and evolve into impactful things if they are actually good ideas. You give birth to ideas here, they move on to evolve or die “darwinisticly”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:32 PM
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They fully know it’s rhetoric and they fully know it’s a war they didn’t declare
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:29 PM
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Majority of women have become “options” for the elites. Wage slaving and maintaining themselves in little apartments as “independent” women waiting to get lucky and get picked up by one of the elites.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:40 AM
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I’m starting to have fantasies about this sub. We gotta burn it down
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:15 AM
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Self honesty. I’ll take pity sex any day too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:32 AM
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I’m a lesbian masc trans woman. I actually go by he/her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:32 AM
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You know your place in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:31 AM
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I’m trying to awaken something in women here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:31 AM
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Most of my problems disappeared when I accepted that “women are just bad people”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:58 PM
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The little one is very connected to the brain men understand their little one better than women. Men not thinking of their little one is pre enlightenment knight shit. If anything women are too disconnected with their little one and think too much with your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:33 PM
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Which is what I say after ghosting someone after we’ve had sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:54 PM
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Women could free us both from the elites by fucking us and not fucking the elites and becoming their wage slaves
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:53 PM

You all “sow your wild oats” when you’re younger
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:50 PM
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We’d rather work resolving that irrational fear that women have than to cross the road and enable it. Men actually find it insulting and ignorant that women are afraid of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:43 PM
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In male comedy punching up is funny. In female comedy, punching down is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:53 PM
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It literally is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:59 AM
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I know. Women complain about objectification. Some clothes extenuates my admiration
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:58 AM
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Low T?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:57 AM
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It’s trying to help women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:38 AM
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Which is the reason men care about their wiener. Cause if they don’t, no one else would
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:37 AM
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I see a person. That person doesn’t see me 😭😭 Jokes aside, I think it’s like women walk around and us weak men get stumped under the feet of giants
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:14 AM
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Will women go through enlightenment throughout my lifetime is the real question on my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:36 AM
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Maybe not terminally online people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:13 PM
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“I’m the bad guyyyyy…. Duh” Own it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:12 PM
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We need to fix the wage gap. Men deserve the same amount of money for the same work performed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:17 PM
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I used soften language in “major source of power”. Women’s main power is their looks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:15 PM
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I’m sure patients aren’t in yoga pants
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:00 PM
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Maybe for a woman in healthcare
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:56 PM
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I’m sure there’s a subreddit somewhere for you two go vent and “touch grass”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:55 PM
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They always check to see if you’re looking at them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:35 PM
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No I want women to speak the truth to themselves about it. Keep doing what you’re doing. But also know what you’re doing. If there’s anything I want women to actually do is to cut the crap about it and own it. Face themselves. Accept themselves. Any woman that reaches Billie eilish “bad guy” status is an enlightened woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:34 PM
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They are not just doing their own thing. They are deliberately choosing their clothing optimized to visually attack the male mind
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:28 PM
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Men love getting objectified too. We’re just not hypocritical about it because we know ourselves better than they know themselves. I just ordered reigning champ grey sweat pants for example. Proudly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:20 PM
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Or women could do their part and reduce their use of their power a little bit? Like beat us less with these thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:11 PM
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Personal stuff in the DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:09 PM
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Not trolling but I use the attention from women here to understand their perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:06 PM
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21
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:05 PM
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You’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:03 PM
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The truth is the request. Whether it’s demand or ask and the tact of it is secondary. The truth is what matters. Whether the answer is yes or no is what matters. If anything being “tactful” about it feels deceitful and manipulative
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:02 PM
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I’m sure there are plenty. Just not enough apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:51 PM
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You probably don’t get nearly objectified as someone who does
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:51 PM
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Women’s “normal” clothes had been optimized for male gaze
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:48 PM
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What’s the difference between demand and ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:47 PM
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Cause some women lie about it and it starts this whole thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:26 PM

Ooof I wrote a post about this. This is how Reddit gets you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:26 PM
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It’s a violation of consent nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:15 PM
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Subtly going from complaining about the wage gap to bragging about our earning tells you a lot about a gender
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:14 PM
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Nazi much?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:57 PM
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I actually have and if there were a lot of those guys around, I wouldn’t wear gay leathery clothes to walk around
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:56 PM
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Women say a guy looking at their body in public is objectification. And it is. In that moment I as a man don’t see a person. I see skin I want to touch. In that moment and it’s usually a moment or a minute. And every man catches himself in that moment. Sexualization for men is objectification but of course not totally. But specially initially, it’s more objectification than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:54 PM
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Women say a guy looking at their body in public is objectification. And it is. In that moment I as a man don’t see a person. I see skin I want to touch. In that moment and it’s usually a moment or a minute. And every man catches himself in that moment. Sexualization for men is objectification but of course not totally. But specially initially, it’s more objectification than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:54 PM

I’m not asking for empathy. I’m holding up a mirror
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:53 PM
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This is not about me. It’s about women’s hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:52 PM
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I’m very familiar with that story and it’s about forcing women to wear it. Now that they have removed the enforcement, only a minority of women don’t wear the hijab. You forget the part that the burka is also used by the women to hide themselves from creeps
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:48 PM

Be civil
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:39 PM
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Yeah like my attention could go to observing the beauty of a flower or the magnificence of a beautiful bird, but they take it by force without my consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:30 PM
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I don’t consent to further interaction
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:28 PM

Prostitutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:24 PM
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You can only kill me. Ankle device won’t do shit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:22 PM
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Women say a guy looking at their body in public is objectification. And it is. In that moment I as a man don’t see a person. I see skin I want to touch. In that moment and it’s usually a moment or a minute. And every man catches himself in that moment. Sexualization for men is objectification but of course not totally. But specially initially, it’s more objectification than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:07 PM
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I’m an ape. Just like you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:02 PM
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Men/slaves/dogs get used to managing pain
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:01 PM

We both know who’s the real secret pervert here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:59 PM
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You complain about objectification. When you complain about it and I end up doing it in my mind, I feel bad. I’m saying you’re lying to yourself somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:57 PM
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No women should know themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:53 PM
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Have you asked them if they want to speak in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:52 PM
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Maybe that’s propaganda fed to you to justify invading those countries and take their resources? Or for some ethno state to advance its agenda in those regions?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:51 PM
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That’s what you think. Objectification is also your word. I just see a curve and I say nice curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:44 PM
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She is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:43 PM
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I don’t consent to be subjected constant battles of self control
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:41 PM
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There is physical violence, verbal violence, visual violence. All are forms of violence. Time to show a mirror to women’s violence
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:39 PM
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Then “objectification” is also a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:37 PM
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Dave Chappell said it best how the scene from the book pimp taught him what capitalism was
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:35 PM
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It’s at women. You need enlightenment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:34 PM
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Know thyself. But it’s probably too late
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:33 PM
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Reported!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:32 PM
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It feels awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:31 PM
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Cause there are less “physical” distractions. It’s easier to focus on the eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:27 PM
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I’m fine. I’m exaggerating to emphasize the reality, hypocrisy, and lack of self knowledge in women. This post is directed at women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:26 PM
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You literally described mechanisms of prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:25 PM
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lol athleisure wear these days are basically bikinis
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:24 PM
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Why is my mind to be allowed to be “raped” by such thoughts when I’m just trying to get my morning coffee? It’s a violation of consent. I don’t want to have these thoughts about anyone besides my significant other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:21 PM

When you first use your power on your first victim
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:19 PM
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Nahhh most of them seem pretty contend They think you’re whores
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:18 PM
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Nahhh most of them seem pretty contend They think you’re whores
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:18 PM
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I’ve personally worked on data from monkeys’ brains on this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:16 PM
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This has nothing to do with pedophiles. I see what you’re doing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:14 PM
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wtf? I actually don’t want my brain to think of a nice ass when I’m deeply thinking about serious scientific problems. It’s a violation of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:13 PM
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I don’t think I’ve given consent to women who walk around in bikinis when I’m trying to get my coffee
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:12 PM
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Yeah. Like I do not consent to these women visually attacking my brain when I’m trying to get a cup of coffee but I would love my gf to visually “attack” me everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:11 PM
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I haven’t heard women in Islamic countries complain about objectification. I understand multiple languages and follow many gender discourses around the world
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:09 PM
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It’s outside of men’s control. They’ve done scientific experiments on male brain responses to visual cues. It’s like a knee jerk reaction. A focus that is designed/evolved to push life forward
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:08 PM
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It was a metaphor for older women in the society you grew up in
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:07 PM
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You say it’s objectification. I just see a nice ass and I think and say “nice ass!”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:06 PM
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Not if you talk to them and know their name. But you don’t know %99 of them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:05 PM
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When I see and I want and I can’t have, I feel bad. They make me feel bad when I’m just trying to get a cup of coffee. USA
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:02 PM
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They don’t know themselves. Or they do but think they’re so cunning that no one sees through them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:01 PM

Your mothers and aunts created the problem by OPEC ing the sex for your dad’s friends
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:00 PM
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Brain is hijacked. Focus is lost. Control is lost. Lives are ruined if it’s everyday everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:58 PM
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Know thyself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:57 PM
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It’s just showing women’s hypocrisy and lack of self knowledge. Women need an enlightenment movement among themselves. They should pay a visit to the temple of Delphi
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:56 PM
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You absolutely can do something about it. In fact you just have to stop actively trying to objectify yourself. Like not doing anything about it solves your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:54 PM
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It’s much easier to see women as people when you’re not wearing makeup and tight revealing clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:52 PM
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No we understand. We’re just asking women to stop whining about it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:51 PM

Reported for making this sub personal !
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:50 PM
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Simply exist is not putting $20000 a year into appearances and objectifying clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:49 PM
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Men have no control over the effect of being visually “hit” with a beautiful woman when we are trying to get coffee. Women know this and know this power and still do the hitting every day everywhere. The philosophy of burka is women giving up their power for the sake of men (similar to men giving up their physical power for the sake of women)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:48 PM

<image> “Stop whining! Be like me”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:29 PM

Also, stay mad is a declaration of war. Watch Gaza before you try FAFO
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:56 PM

Not mad at all. More like disappointed. When you treat fuck toys like fuck toys you don’t care about being chosen. You choose. That said, you never say it to their face. Only behind their back 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:51 PM

We also don’t care what you think about our objectification. The way we see it you’re the crazy one who KNOWS that the source of your power is from being objectified and act upon it but then make up complaints about being objectified. Gimme a break. We don’t care. We will cat call you. Talk about your ass behind your back since your showing it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:46 PM

Whenever a woman is not wearing “objectifying” clothes, somehow magically, I lose the ability to sexually objectify that woman. Either wear a burka or a pant suit or stfu
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:38 PM
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But men are ugly and rough and unfuckable. A woman’s embrace is where it’s at
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:40 PM
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lol my boy “lived his youth”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:55 PM
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Yeah being sexually selected is very important for men. They wait till marriage people might hold a bit of resentment specially if the girl has done that with someone else in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:05 PM
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Ironically the scenario I described is exactly how men actually fall in love, otherwise the pressure damages the falling in love circuits. Which is kinda hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:31 PM
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All the women I meet say no to that and almost all say yes to dating for love
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:13 PM
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Honestly what men really want is no real connection either. Or rather a cosmic connection from eye contact only. Similar to the gay community. Those few women have so many 10s as options it’s almost impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:00 PM
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Sex, NSA sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:44 PM
1

Deep down we all know where that comes from. It’s similar with incels. “Blaming” the other gender comes with low self worth
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:52 PM
5

History matters! Unfortunately that self worth comes from being sexually selected and a history of not being selected. The equivalent in women would be a history of being cheated on. A women’s self worth comes from their man not selecting anyone else. A woman will that history will feel worthless and will probably give up dating. It’s in our dna. Our only option is to acknowledge this and not shame it and work around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:20 PM
1

There are 1000 year old poems about lesbian strippers scissoring on stage in Baghdad in the caliphate, Lilith of “Babylon”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:06 AM
1

It all happened under the guise of protecting women from sexual trafficking: https://www.pbs.org/kenburns/unforgivable-blackness/mann-act
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:30 PM
1

Wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:22 PM
1

If you think sex work is the solution, you shouldn’t be telling men to get sex from prostitutes. You should be asking other women why they banned it? Ask them why they wanted to ban alcohol too? Why don’t they want men to have things they want? Even if it’s not from them? Answer is : because they want men to want it from them and be dependent on them for those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:19 PM
-2

Evil is also necessary. I guess I’m just happy it’s not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:14 PM
-1

Cause idk what it’s like and despite all the benefits, I might also become a sadistic narcissistic lil asshole. I know how being a man makes me compassionate, merciful, and “holy” and I wouldn’t wanna lose that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:06 PM

Women make things personal all the time here. Do you know how many times I’ve heard “you might be unattractive” here. How is being juvenile more of a personal attack than that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:55 PM
-1

Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:52 PM
0

Power is control and influence. Ownership is totalitarianism which you’re proving my point about women’s heinous intentions when you deceived us with feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:42 PM
1

Is it true that the percentage of abortions today are the same rate as child mortality was before modern medicine?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:02 AM
3

Our standards are a direct function of the number of our options. Imagine how many men would have accepted to hookup with you VS how many would have accepted to become your boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:00 AM
-3

Then your point is invalid. Women demand to be treated like goddesses and they are flakey narcissistic gatekeepers of heaven.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:51 AM
1

Women in the 70s and 80s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:18 AM
-1

Instead of saying men should treat women like people. I think women should instead say men should treat women like women treat each other. Also the only way for men to learn is to look at how women interact with each other. But a lot of women don’t get to be around women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:16 AM
2

True
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:06 AM
-1

You told us the only reason that you wouldn’t fuck all men was the patriarchy and the system and societal pressure and lack of freedom. Turns out you were just using us. Most older men were against feminism and knew what you were up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:03 AM
-3

Women are not treating men like people. And women definitely don’t want to be treated the same way men treat each other. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:55 AM
-4

How does men understanding it resolve issues? If any man would say women make too big of a deal out of sex. Just look at gay men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:31 AM
5

For hookups not ltr. Women have low standards for ltr. High standards for hookups. Men have low standards for hookups. High standards for ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:28 AM
1

You have to call the threats of scorched earth people. Otherwise they won’t stop
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:26 AM
1

How is that an attack? It’s just an observation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:25 AM
-5

Only gay couples are truly equal. In access to sex and resources. It was the dream that was sold to men. And then you rug pulled us
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:23 AM
1

Men are doubling down on the burn down. Like I’m with you let’s burn it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:29 PM
1

How does it feel to burn it all down?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:29 PM
-1

Men are not immune but the influence is more evolved (since enlightenment. Before that men believed the craziest narratives to justify their actions), although still has a lot of negative influences
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:11 PM
0

You have to come to one of my lectures. It’s a long story but it starts with. Society is essentially divided into two spaces. Public spaces and private spaces. The main division is beyond the physical barriers of people’s homes, but also barriers of information…………
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:09 PM
0

Imagine we’re in 2015 before the men “reacted”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:59 PM
3

These guys here in the comments deny that you and your “awakening” exist
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:50 PM
0

8 years of no pussy 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:23 PM
1

Fat cats and starving dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:59 PM
-2

What’s next, parents should tell their children to stay away from black people? Because they are poorer and more prone to crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:42 PM
1

Each of those men’s wealth and power is controlled and shared with at least one woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:26 PM
1

Source because you’d like to dig more into this idea or you wanna call bs on something? Is all of this because you feel like your reality is threatened?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:21 PM
-4

Yeah all these wars over resources stem from women wanting “nicer” things and stronger men. And I’d say their agency in those atrocities shows that they had enough power (not oppressed in relation to men) and shatters the delusion of oppression. It was a balance of power that looked differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:09 PM
-2

Yeah that’s something dads shouldn’t tell their daughters. There are moms who tell their sons to be weary of gold diggers and deceiving women. It’s the same thing. Those dads should stop
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:08 PM
-4

You think these animals understand critical and probabilistic thinking? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:49 PM
-2

Yes. Power was always more balanced. Now women have taken the male powers too and have become totalitarian. It’s like saying not having all the power is oppression. Entitlement to total power
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:49 PM
-4

That women as a gender were the oppressed gender. That apparently white women had nothing to do with slavery? IMPOSSIBLE. That Nazi women didn’t exist. Every atrocity that any other sectionally ,besides gender, has done, women are to be blamed for it as much as men. So it’s stupid to buy this narrative of oppressed powerless women who have been absent from these violations and have now just woken up. Specially the more we see the sadistic and narcissistic nature of women (thanks to letting women…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:46 PM
0

Most men are like desperate hungry dogs. If you feed us when we’re hungry we’re gonna be more loyal to you and that when feeding us when we already had steak and have more waiting for us elsewhere. We’re also less likely to be loyal if we think we have taken/earned our food. Do with that what you will. Keep feeding dogs who are drowning in it and get your heartbreak. It’s your own making so you deserve the heartbreak
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:35 PM
-4

Those problems with men’s behavior today are influenced by the guilt they wanna impose on modern men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:11 PM
-4

It’s hilarious that you think that’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:36 PM
2

I had a three year 50/50 relationship in 2010s. Good times
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:06 PM
-1

Personally, I’m always in the kitchen helping the women and ranting on how much feminism sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:28 PM
0

This is your lack of understanding of men (and yourself essentially). Another dynamic is that men are loyal and prefer openness over secrecy. In a non sexual context, when a man openly pleads to another man, and he gets helped, he feels forever indebted to that other helping man and it builds a type of loyalty. Desperate men who are openly desperate are also pleading to be loyal to someone. It’s something very natural to men in male-male dynamics. Gay community is also replete with it. How you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:26 PM
-1

Yet all along women have been actually enslaved, and owned by the patriarchy and they perfected it. The actual patriarchs are living the best lives men could live thanks to their newly collard sex (and wage) slaves. You’ve been retcon’d
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:17 PM
-2

I’m not so sure about that. The historical narratives and the language form thoughts and the judgment you have
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:15 PM
1

Because there won’t be any woman left who’s mind is not polluted with their bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:14 PM
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Hahaha thanks for the lol. Let’s agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:12 PM
-5

More mythology than history. I've always preferred mythology to history. History is truth that becomes an illusion. Mythology is an illusion that becomes reality-Jean Cocteau
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:11 PM
-4

You can leave them alone but they won’t leave your wife alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:10 PM
0

That’s my strategy whenever I successfully quit Reddit for a while lol. Just don’t care. Like I would care more about plants and animals than people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:09 PM

You’re clearly an incel who decided to worship at the altar of a woman so you can get access to some mediocre pussy (and get to call other men what you hate the most about yourself. Being an incel)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:06 PM
4

They won’t leave the remaining 3 out of 5 alone. They feel like it’s their purpose in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:04 PM
-4

They want the deal that those men in 1397 had. You get to live and some other men in the future will pay the price.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:01 PM
-9

It’s interesting that you think that. You clearly don’t know yourself enough. But hey, only a few (usually really old) women do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:59 PM
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lol you clearly haven’t been in feminist spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:56 PM
-5

You haven’t been fed historical narratives about oppression of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:52 PM
-1

Are you sure about that? How much of your beliefs about men are formed by all the feminist (bullshit) historical narratives?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:51 PM
-2

If only women knew themselves around to know that they are evil and that evil isn’t that bad and it’s necessary….. Like we all see the dark kylo ren style revenge fantasy of feminism. Just own it. We don’t necessarily dislike it. We just really dislike the hypocrisy. More and more of them are admitting they are monsters though and owning it. Think Billie eilish bas guy. So that’s a good sign. Like seriously grow the fuck up
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:51 PM
-3

Actually Chad has a harem. What women don’t understand is that you might have perfected the patriarchy instead of destroying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:48 PM
0

Take walk around female spaces and see how men are treated like they are less than dogs. You must be quite the Uncle Tom if your blind to it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:47 PM
-12

No one called women hypergamous or incapable of love in the 90s. Don’t be like Israel where you cite the reaction of the Palestinians as justification for the original crime
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:46 PM
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Are you sure about that? How much of your beliefs about men are formed by all the feminist (bullshit) historical narratives?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:44 PM

I’d say that 2 out of 5 women you meet irl have this wall up because they consume too much it. Like…gtfo here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:44 PM
0

The number of shitty employer I’ve met who can’t vet or hire for shit would surprise you. How about a little bit of just going along with the world and not think that you know more than god?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:42 PM

You think you’d get raped or assaulted by a desperate man? Or you think you’d have his absolute loyalty? In any case, enjoy being a heartbroken nobody in a harem. You only have your own female brain to blame for your misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:15 PM
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Yeah but when it’s quiet, how can it be a signal if it’s a secret? The men you encounter are secretly desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:45 PM
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Desperation could just be a state and not acted on. You’d probably be surprised by how many men live quiet lives of desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:20 AM
1

Making desperate men even more desperate and, give even more options to Chad. Women are sex robots for Chad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:16 AM
0

Men are attracted to women who want pity sex: just like gays are with other men. Only women have this resentment towards men who are down which ie sadism
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:45 AM

You might still be a child. A real woman has maternal instincts and views the “penetration” as taking a person in their embrace, not getting penetrated and violated.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:32 AM
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If they were attracted to men, they %100 would. Gay sex scene is filled with pity sex and it’s an active popular fantasy. “Straight” women just aren’t attracted to males. It’s like this deep resentment and hate towards men which I hypothesize is actually women’s self hatred and hatred of their own sexuality and masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:30 AM
1

Maybe a virgin man but not necessarily a thirsty man. If you’re upfront about it, %99 of men would accept it. Men don’t wanna commit. Boys do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:31 AM
2

Instant buyer’s remorse
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:58 PM
1

You wanna do something, you ask have you done this before?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:57 PM
0

Honestly pity sex gets a bad rep too. There are periods that a man is really down and in a dark place and pity sex can really help the man leave that place. But women don’t wanna help men. They only accept you if you crawl out of that dark place on your own. Unfortunately, many men don’t make it (suicide, dead inside, checked out, etc.) I’m starting to think they also get a sadistic pleasure from seeing a man down and in a dark place. I just wish they knew themselves and their sadism and narciss…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:53 PM
-1

Sexuality is complicated. Women don’t understand. Only a caricature childish understanding of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:55 PM
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Absolutely not reality 1.She shows she’s pathetic because she sees being an adult as being an asshole 2.they’ll take any woman for sex not relationship. There’s a huuuuuuge difference 3.insta models? So far away from the typical male experience
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:54 PM
9

Poor guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:49 PM
16

The analogy is so telling of how women see men. The fact that they can’t comprehend the evil in it is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:48 PM
17

They punish you for losing by pushing you down to even become a bigger loser They reward you for winning by pushing you up to even become a bigger winner Honestly, they can be lonelier
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:45 PM
5

I’m already a lesbian masc trans woman. I think that’s the purple pill
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:01 AM
3

You can also do that by “trans”ing %60 of men. Every 6 and below
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:34 AM
-1

Many of them will probably say “that she a hoe”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:53 PM

There’s two type of crushes : I like her and I wanna be with her for the rest of my life 2.i like her but I don’t wanna be with her for the rest of my life Older women get the latter, sometimes the “liking” is even stronger
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:46 PM

So letting him cover is a signal?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:56 AM

Thanks for sharing your thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:33 AM

Addressed in the post
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:28 AM

He might have been taking a revenge on women. Honestly it’s a good strategy to try out good restaurants and have a women pay for some of your food 😈 you won’t see her again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:07 AM

Again there’s a distinction between actions outside the date and actions during the date. I personally don’t care about high BC but for the men who, it’s because those “actions” are outside the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:56 PM

https://youtu.be/BZd5yJGKMmM
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:10 PM

And men are happy to weed out gold diggers who can’t spell
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:09 PM

People who are wealthier than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:00 PM

No man wants to be a clown 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:59 PM

How can you know you’re interested in a stranger enough to pay for her meals? Isn’t the date the venue to find out if you’re really interested in her?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:59 PM

Because that would take away the simping behavior that they have all gotten fat on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:57 PM

You dodge a bullet and potentially a lifetime of misery
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:56 PM

If she would replace you for paying her meal, you’re dodging a bullet by avoiding her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:55 PM

You’d be weeding yourself out. Thank you for your service to men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:54 PM

So equality only when it benefits you? Figures
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:54 PM

Women aren’t desperate enough yet. I think soon they will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:53 PM

We just don’t see it that way. Since childhood we are put in a harsh race and what we do in that race defines who we are. This is about work and beating the competition in jobs, school, sports. That and genetics. These define who we are. Not jester clowning for a woman. If anything jester clowning lowers our self esteem and makes us feel inadequate that we have to do it in order to get selected. If we were selected for what we do for the woman, and not what we have done outside of the date, we w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:24 PM

Women need their own enlightenment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:05 PM

They are either gaslighting us or gaslighting themselves. In either case, the default should be don’t believe women in these matters
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:02 PM

Women in the kitchen was also a tradition
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:54 PM
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Relationships in hell maybe. Everyone is attracted to that and women at best only do the “I’ve got you” for the ice cream. Not the $300 meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:23 AM
3

Entitlement looks ugly to every man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:58 AM
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This is why I have my other post about women not understanding men. Men want to be selected for who they ARE not what they can DO. Beat the competition by who they are / have become. Competing by what a man can do makes men feel like jester clowns. Furthermore the idea of a woman choosing you over someone else because you paid is kinda disgusting to men. Women need enlightenment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:57 AM
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Every first date that has resulted in sex and long term relationships, I’ve paid. I think we should normalize using paying as a signal for sex. Heck, we even have it in pop culture “you’re not gonna buy me dinner first?”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:23 AM
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If someone REALLY wants a stranger, they are either naive or disingenuous. I think another norm that should be there is weighing the meaning of paying for the whole thing based on the level of financial resources a man has. The %50 from the employee should be stronger signal of interest than the %100 from the CEO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:22 AM
1

I’m gonna use this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:55 AM
3

To all the commenters who say this post is obvious. Here’s your evidence ☝️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:54 AM
5

don’t you ask these attractive men out?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:52 AM
1

Yeah by ugly women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:51 AM
1

I personally don’t go on a second date if we don’t have sex on the first date because I know exactly what I want from a long term partner. And every time I pay for dinner on the first date and we don’t have sex, they ALWAYS come back for a second date. ALWAYS
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:49 AM
2

Most people set their goals as “trying” to change the world. You avoid failure the moment you start trying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:44 AM
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That’s a conversation that is too weird to have. Which is why we go by these socially accepted of theatrics of when the bill comes and she offers and he says no way i got this. These are cultural artifacts .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:42 AM
0

In many cases men who feel entitled after paying. They keep paying until they have sex (conquest/make their money’s worth back) and then ghost. Unfortunately, this is far too common which can be avoided if women insisted on paying or have sex when they’re not paying (not paying as a signal for consent). Are a string of free things worth the heartbreak?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:40 AM
7

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:31 AM
5

Some people don’t care about looking ugly 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:31 AM
1

And I’m telling them that it’s as ugly as an entitled incel
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:54 AM
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They are not just telling men they should pay. They are also telling women to be entitled. He is the sole champion of women and feminists on the “male issue”. My post is directed towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:49 AM
0

Even in abundance, you still invest time and energy into a single date and the entitlement shouldn’t be there (it’s almost universally there in reality)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:42 AM
3

Men are told by mainstream figures like Scott Galloway that they SHOULD pay regardless. It’s ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:37 AM
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I’ve met probably around 20-30 women over the past few years and none of them stated it upfront. In a very liberal huge city. I think women should take this to heart that if the men pays he feels entitled to sex (he might not take it), so they should insist on 50/50 if they don’t want to have sex. Honestly this should be the most clear and polite way to signal whether we want to have sex or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:21 AM
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Yes. You should work towards all those things
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:19 AM
8

I did I wrote a post about it a while ago and I got hordes of women saying that’s crazy…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:14 AM
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Kinda agree. It’s exactly like when men say there is nothing wrong if she doent hook up on the first date. I will simply choose/commit to the woman who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:10 AM
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I’m saying this is cultural issue and needs to be resolved on a cultural level not personal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:08 AM
0

What else was there besides written word? To communicate ideas across space and time?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:00 AM
-1

Know thyself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:56 PM
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I’m sure there have been and there are many women that have figured it out for themselves. But being able to articulate it and then pass it on and then someone else reading it and pushing things forward step by step is a cooperative collective inter generational inquiry to find the truth. Women have just started doing this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:55 PM
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I’m sure there were. That’s not the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:53 PM
-2

Enlightenment is the product of a handful of very special men throughout history having a conversation. It’s academia and it’s a collective inquiry to find the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:52 PM
-3

Knowing yourself is essentially knowing your own sexuality fam. Which almost none of Yall do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:13 PM
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That’s a consequence of enlightenment and knowing ourselves. Talk to me when you know what you want and it doesn’t change 1000 times throughout your life or day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:12 PM
-5

I don’t think you really understand the post
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:01 PM
-8

The only medium was books and yes %99 of books before enlightenment were written by men (men who read the previous books written by men)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:50 PM
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%99.9 of books written before the enlightenment were written by men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:49 PM
-11

Except they didn’t have the discussions or media. Also, Islamic scholars contributed to the male enlightenment discourse during medieval periods
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:34 PM
-18

Women don’t know themselves the same way men do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:29 PM
-1

Good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:19 PM
-3

So a bunch of jersey wearing basic midwestern white trash? Jk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:16 PM
1

Delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:22 PM
1

As they should
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:21 PM
2

This whole men “date for other men”. Is this coming from that Sean Penn taxi driver movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:15 PM
0

Is that the opposite of your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:10 PM
-1

Its capitalistic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:55 AM
0

Let’s say %25 of people don’t get to have what the remaining %75 do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:54 AM
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Many men have had %0 of the same experiences as other people. It’s a sad pitiful truth. You know the word pathetic did not originally have a negative connotation. Etymologically, it just means that which evokes extreme emotions or pathos. Assholeness has become such a norm that if someone’s existence makes people feel things, they blame the person for ruining their day by letting others see his misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:08 AM
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I suppose it’s the same here. All the women are saying that same thing. Which is probably as absurd as the sex, Chad, OF, and BB narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:05 AM
1

This is one of my conclusions after 2 years of ppd: The dating life that men wanna have is wasted on women and the dating life women wanna have is wasted on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:49 AM
1

Miss out? Why would they get into a relationship if they wanted that in their 40s?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:48 AM
2

Except fashion designer, jewelry maker, etc. are your specific wants. To reframe your examples into alignment with the subject at hand (dating): Now imagine everyone wanted to be a fashion designer and most get to be but you’re the only one who didn’t. No one got in a car accident except for you and few other ones like you. No one got sexually assaulted expect for you and few others. Everyone got to travel to Europe and Asia and Africa except for you and a few other losers. I’d be interested to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:47 AM
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Yeah. You couldn’t have the life you wanted as a man. Almost no man does
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:36 AM
1

Like someone having hookups and fwbs in their 40s?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:35 AM
6

It’s adorable that you think you’d have more sex as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:47 AM
1

Are your groups of friends a group of chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:46 AM
3

What if you lose your virginity at 26? How would you live the rest of it? So imagine you failed at your teen and early 20s flirts and casuals
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:44 AM
2

How much sex have you had?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:43 AM

But that’s designed for hunter gatherer times where human rights didn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:04 AM
1

Bring out the whore. We’re all waiting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:34 AM
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How are you so sure that it’s “simply true”?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:56 PM
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So many women are ashamed of their own whore/pig. They don’t know that we all like that whore
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:29 PM
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I think the fact there are so many whores kinda proves that there’s a whore in every woman
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:31 PM
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It’s similar to how women expect below average worker drone men to do their job and clean their streets for them but would never date them and shame them for being losers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:31 PM
3

They are literally discovering their sexuality as we speak
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:25 PM
3

Its capitalistic. One advice men rarely get is that you gotta start at the bottom. It’s almost impossible to pull a 7+ without some initial confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:13 PM
1

Maybe! Maybe the ones who have hookups are just louder. They are definitely cooler
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:47 PM
0

Because men have had a thousands years old scholarly tradition of writing down their thoughts in an inter-generational dialogue, they have come to a better understanding of themselves, their own feminine side, and better understanding of femininity. The dialogue essentially needed a handful of figures to have the conversation. I’d say it culminated in the enlightenment and neitzsche was the finishing touch. Women have just started but are catching up quick. The female brain hasn’t had this dialo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:45 PM
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I’m sure there are a handful of women over 25 who’ve never had casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:37 PM
2

Must be
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:11 PM
1

Yeah that’s covered in under “special problems”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:53 PM
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Women don’t understand men. Men understand women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:37 PM
1

If they can, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:35 PM
10

LMAO suuureee
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:35 PM
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You’d be the same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:12 PM
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Cause they can and they are human beings. The ones who don’t have special problems
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:07 PM
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The key is understanding that you’d be too under the same circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:06 PM

Why do you feel guilty?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:35 AM
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Fuck yeah 🤘🤘 You shouldn’t be on Reddit. This place is for damaged people. Unless it’s a character, which I totally get it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:35 AM
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Have you slept with every man you’ve found attractive? And that there hasn’t been any you found attractive that you didn’t sleep with?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:58 PM
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So there aren’t any men, that women find attractive, but won’t have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:54 PM
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Women are not sleeping with most of the men they are attracted to. The selectivity is applied unto the subset of men that are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:34 PM
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That’s the point, I hypothesized that if women became less selective, the sex would become better for women because men overall will get better at sex. The situation right now is Harry and Tom don’t have any experience and casual sex with them is subpar while Dick knows what to do but he’s spoiled by all of his options in his harem that he doesn’t deliver to %99 of his options. I.e. Dick has become selective. Women becoming less selective does two things :1.Dick becomes less spoiled and more car…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 09:56 PM
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Yeah the “majority of dudes who have casual sex” are a minority of dudes that all women have casual sex with. And they suck the way you described them because women give them access to a harem. 🤷‍♂️ My theory is that if women would become less selective, it would be better for everyone. The dudes who get casual sex, the dudes who don’t, and the women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:30 PM
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Those are dudes who get casual sex (minority of dudes) and they are like that because they can get always get it from their different options. I.e. they just don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:20 PM
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Yes if women want better casual sex experience, they should let men practice. Women are complaining about not orgasms during casual sex but they are depriving the men of the experience that can make them good at casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:32 PM
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You make my point for me thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:30 PM
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Being less selective makes more sex happen and generally people will get better at sex. This is a skill and experience issue
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:30 PM
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The ones who aren’t good might be that way because they don’t care enough. They have too many women available to them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:06 PM
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It’s an observation champ
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:05 PM
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Women getting to select is different than women’s selectivity. Women’s selectivity is women selectivity among men. Attracted to some but not the most. Selectivity means “this one, not those ones” Because women seem to share a lot of criteria for selecting, a lot of them point to the same one when they say “this one”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:00 AM
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The more selective women become, the less the men they will select will care about the women’s orgasms, and therefore the larger orgasm gap becomes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:34 AM

It’s a movie about a one night stand
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:37 PM

Like before sunrise (1995)?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:27 PM
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Still %75 of all orgasms are had by men and %25 of total orgasms by women. Because for each orgasm the man who orgasms gives, there are 4 orgasms he receives. The values you calculated are the likelihoods of a woman or a man having one orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:56 PM
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Which can only be learned through experience. Some men have too much experience and options and in many cases don’t care enough to cater to any individual ( a symptom of too many options). Some men have too little and are too self conscious to be able to get someone else to relax
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:42 PM

Women select men with lots of experiences and those men probably know how to make the experience great if they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:46 PM
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I’m not selling anything. What I do here is charity
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:45 PM
0

It’s a skill. A type of social skill. And it goes both ways. Both making strangers feel safe around you and being able to feel safe around strangers are essentially social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:35 PM
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Lucky girl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:23 PM
1

I will get them laid. Mark my words 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:21 PM
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“Just use four words. Harder, softer, faster, slower” is not an awkward conversation to have with a stranger and in most cases it gets the job done
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:20 PM
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Those are learned with experience
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:14 PM
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People go at it at different pace. Some who go through it early might look like “naturals” but there naturals don’t exist and I definitely wasn’t. Men are made.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:13 PM

Gooner
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:11 PM
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Some will. Many won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:10 PM
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Lmao maybe I don’t have anything to say to YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:09 PM
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Learning what things to say to reassure your partner so she wouldn’t be self conscious (which is just really saying what you think in that moment and how hot she is to you and shot like that), is a skill that is learned through experience
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:07 PM
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Having a plethora of options?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:04 PM
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Personally I’ve gotten better at pleasing a new partner throughout my life and through experience (mostly learned to openly communicate about sex) and I’ve grown up with a lot of men who ended up going through a similar journey
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:03 PM
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Go read Plato and Aristotle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:00 PM
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Yes but do you see the unintended consequences of this mentality for women? As described in the post. I personally don’t suffer those consequences because most men don’t think like me. I actually think the necessary change should not only be women becoming less selective (masculine) but also men thinking more like me (feminine). It would make virgin women less sought after and balance things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:00 PM
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Most “naturals” I know weren’t born naturals
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:48 PM
-2

Logic is the ONLY “reality”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:44 PM
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Maybe you’ve never experienced it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:42 PM
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If you have a plethora of options, you don’t necessarily want to sleep with many of your options more than once
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:40 PM
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Communication is a two way concept? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:39 PM
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I agree but even then, for guy to just stfu and let a girl ride his face is a skill that is learned from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:38 PM
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If you think jerking off alone is better than cumming with a partner, goon away
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:36 PM
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You might but there might be things that you can never learn and so many give up learning and end up in a dead bedroom situation. Here we’re talking about orgasms during casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:36 PM
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You’re right. That one comes from pure logic. There are exceptions meaning the woman is so hot that most of his the other alternatives end up getting the short end of the stick with that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:33 PM
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You’re wrong. I love women authors and I’ll definitely look into her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:29 PM
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-Abundance causes selfishness -Communication is the key skill that comes with practice -Agreed. But also needs skills
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:28 PM
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If women are less selective, two things happen: 1.no more abundance/feast for the desirable men 2.no more famine for the undesirable men It would create a balance if women’s selectivity matched men’s selectivity
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:27 PM
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It also takes time to get to know a woman’s body. Sexually prolific men are prone to ghost and disappear and not be persistent enough in a fwb situation to get the woman there eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:25 PM
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It’s probably a factor but the man knowing how to communicate with the woman is probably the most effective
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:24 PM
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All of the propositions here are rooted in previous discussions in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:17 PM
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I was just as shocked when I found out about this too. We think they function like us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:08 PM
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A key apprehension to casual sex that women mention is lack of orgasms. This post is addressing casual sex only. Although I’m also arguing that lack of experience can have consequences into long term committed relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:45 PM
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What if he did? And most of your encounters before your partners ended up in orgasm? Wouldn’t that be better than jerking off alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:41 PM
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Be less selective, which would result in : 1.incentivizing the minority to try 2.the majority to learn And therefore, more orgasms for women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:39 PM
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The ones who don’t care, are probably the ones who never had one. I think all humans who have orgasms agree universally that it’s amazing. What a pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:37 PM
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There’s so much potential and so many potential orgasms going to waste. It’s like collectively shooting yourself in the foot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:35 PM
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He’s being clever. I’m just marching his language
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:33 PM
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Your anatomies are %99 percent the same. You might like different things. Learning to communicate is a skill that comes from practice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:33 PM
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Bruh, if she’s cumming while riding your face, she might not be thinking about you and remembering that one time someone did that to her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:30 PM
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Ending up in a relationship, and being a sexless loser up until that relationship, are not mutually exclusive I for one am apprehensive towards virgins and inexperienced women (or “sexless loser women” )because they wouldn’t know how to please me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:27 PM
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Persists into relationships because many sexless losers never get to learn
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:21 PM
-3

How would they learn without actually experiencing it? Can you become an athlete by reading books about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:17 PM
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Some people don’t really want anything in life, but to understand it This is about women’s complains about not orgasming in casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:16 PM
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Some men know what it takes to get a woman to orgasm and just don’t care enough to do so. Others just don’t know and have had no way of learning
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:13 PM
2

Is she from Iraq?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:55 AM
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Yes instant consent is sexier than delayed/conditional consent
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:52 AM
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It’s a form of power. Women can visually “defeat” men. It’s like fucking a man’s mind and then discard it like it’s nothing. It’s analogous to walking around and getting slapped/dominated/overpowered by everyone you encounter. Some men like it. Some men are true subs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:41 AM
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Accepting the world (selectivity) as is a feminine paradigm. Changing the world that is, is a masculine paradigm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:03 AM
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This is something deeper than what robots could understand. Keep scrolling
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:58 PM
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I’m saying I don’t know. I’m not as smart as the government. I don’t know how to do placebo controlled random trials. I let the government figure it out. Is that so hard to digest?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:16 PM
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Ask the government for help. I’m not the government. I promise you they’ll have solutions. Ask first
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:13 PM
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The feds wouls swat them on day two
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:05 PM
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A network of lgbt organizations and annual month long festivals definitely help
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:05 PM
1

The government will figure it out if it should
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:03 PM
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This sounds a “hotter” girl took the man you wanted at some point? Is that when you realized you need social skills are necessary ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:44 PM
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And many women, when pushed, admit that they only care about looks when it’s a hookup (no future)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:43 PM
1

Are you talking about overweight porn stars?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:56 PM
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“If you don’t like what’s being said, change the conversation” - Don Draper
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:10 PM
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Don’t worry. Men commit to the best they think they can get. Men go low for hookups/ons
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:50 AM

That guy was gay. He couldn’t get a hookup or ons
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:40 AM

Some people just wanna burn everything. I don’t blame them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:52 AM

Like the Chinese guy at the end of everything everywhere all at once
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:51 AM
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Then say the words “yes. when it comes to casual sex, I only care about physical looks” or if you can be really honest say “when I’m horny and I just wanna nut, I only choose based on looks” The meaning and the implication of these is different than “women find certain physical characteristics attractive” or “not afraid to admit what they find attractive”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:32 PM
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No you didn’t answer my question. You answered a question I didn’t ask. And I know it’s on purpose because I am sure you’re not that dumb (?) and it’s out of fear, shame, guilt, and lack of understanding of the self (know thyself).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:14 PM
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“Women do not have a hard time admitting what they find attractive” nice try playing with words. I see what you’re doing and you just made my point. Coward
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:55 PM
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Women would acknowledge the existence of an unattractive man? Let alone give him advice on how to become physically attractive? Also why do women had a hard time admitting that they are as shallow as men when it comes to casual sex? Is there a sense of guilt and shame? Also do women listen to men for advice or ask their “competition?”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:10 PM
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For water?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:14 PM
5

Madonna/whore much?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:12 PM
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So men should walk up to women with a band of money to get laid? Is that the advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:08 PM
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I know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:08 PM
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What should men be told to you in your opinion as advice on how to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:34 PM
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Cause there’s a woman who slut shames (sometimes their mother) and they want to win her approval. Men love sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:54 AM
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She might’ve beaten a few of em but a good chunk of em she couldn’t keep around so them beat her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:31 PM
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Hey that means he beat 66 other guys. Or some may interpret it as 66 other guys beat him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:08 PM
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Q1: in her delusional mind, she’s settling. Realistically, he’s more than she deserves
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:21 PM
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It’s like saying when women were not let into work spaces, that was their issue not men’s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:19 PM
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For most men there is no guaranteed sex besides commitment and the oldest profession is not an alternative for some men because it’s not real. Hookup culture is not an option to half of men due to physical/psychological reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:32 AM
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No they just have more pleasure with people who wouldn’t connect with them. That type of “connection” pales in comparison to platonic connections men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:25 PM
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Nah they don’t have an advantage when it comes to commitment. In face they are desperate for it for most of their lives same way men are desperate for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:54 PM
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No she was another Nietzsche
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:50 AM
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You might be right. That might explain the “difficulty gap”. In the game that women play in life popularity matters a lot more than men. So you glow up early and never experience the step function. Or almost all women experience it early when you learn how to take care of yourself. So you also experience a step function but earlier and more universally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:18 AM
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My understanding is that older women stay away from young men because they don’t wanna “ruin” them. It’s a consequence of golden rule thinking. Women don’t like older men fucking young women for some reason so they don’t fuck young men for the same reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:10 AM
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Many men including I have experienced this all or nothing phenomenon. It’s either almost all women would or none would. It’s a step function. You also experience when you start dating someone. For women it’s closer to a gradual spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:13 AM
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One hundred percent. Women’s programming (in always rejecting a certain fixed percentage of men no matter the circumstances) is working against them in this case. It makes sure unattractive ones never get a chance. Pity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:49 AM
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2.we’re talking about sex without commitment. 3.it’s still way better than nothing. Some young men never experience just the warmth of the physical touch of a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:42 AM
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It’s like they are just realizing men are human beings too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:41 PM
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Many women talk about how their brains turn off during sex, it’s fascinating. Wondering how true it is. I mean most women close their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:15 PM
2

That would be interesting to see. That on a large scale what kind of male escort would be the most popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:13 PM
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I was listening to Aella talk to some uptight women about not being scared of SW and do exposure therapy for their disgust response to strangers. Honestly I think SW can potentially become like gig work where anyone can participate in. It’s just overall a more honest system. The main blocker is other women having a visceral reaction to it. You’re good. Keep going. Godspeed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:08 PM
1

🥹 please teach your sisters the way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:02 PM
1

You DID consider dating the man you had sex with in 2020 then. Also what? You’re in a polycule? Respect 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:52 PM
0

I love how women try to reverse the table by saying stuff like “be my sex toy for the night”. You try to rage bait men by saying what you think is how the worst kinda man describes a hookup. We know it’s not true. We know that every single man you sleep with, you lowkey hope he stays and becomes the one and not disqualify themselves after
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:46 PM
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1.education, teaching boys and girls practical courage and etiquette and cross gender understanding in dating 2.normalizing older women/younger men casual sex 3.regulating/destigmatizing/decriminalizing physical sex work (with trained sex workers) Just off the top of my head
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:32 PM
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Modern young men like older women. And there is this whole idea of learning the ropes from an older experienced woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:14 AM
1

Yeah we’re moving backwards. Or maybe it looks like that cause society is going through a cycle
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:23 AM
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Even when the food is begging you to eat it, you just don’t do it. You’d be helping them out in life if you have sex with them. You think you’re protecting them. They resent you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:03 AM
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Back then there was famine on both sides. We can keep moving forward and eliminate the famine or move backwards and balance famine on both sides. Yes or even older women with younger men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:51 AM
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How come it’s happening at the peak of women’s power in history?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:27 AM
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Those men are offended either because 1.it’s like pocket change to them or 2.they have bought into the propaganda that men have to pay and don’t wanna risk it 3.think that if it’s gonna be a ons, they definitely have to pay (I haven’t gotten a kiss without paying)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:25 AM
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This is not an idea for you but a general idea to think about. It seems like the whole problem comes from men just wanting sex. I think it’s a famine mentality that causes this and the minority of healthy men who don’t experience the famine, seem to end up being suitable partners. Well, let’s make sure the next generation of men grow up like women and don’t grow up with a famine mentality. Specially during those formative years where most women also experiment with sexuality. This would make the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:22 AM
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No I agree with what you wrote. Although you wrote it sarcastically. Personal validation through forms of sexual selection is deeply ingrained into men and women’s dna. You can’t do anything about it. Cest la vie
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:55 AM
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And women’s ego is only validated with monogamy (dick validation) Cest la vie indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:49 AM
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They don’t know themselves yet
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:45 AM
0

Just drop the word “ego” and be done with it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:42 AM
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Without men’s support, it wouldn’t have happened. To you that sounds like not being a terrible person. Ok. To me being a woman in 2026 and not actively supporting men’s issues the way men supported women’s liberation is being terrible person. So you should actively do what you can to help with men’s issues, without expecting any gratitude. Otherwise you’d be a terrible person
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:26 AM
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For supporting women’s lib
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:05 AM
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Specially a stranger, if the stranger is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:38 PM
1

And they say this instead of “thank you for your support, we couldn’t have done it without you”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:35 PM
1

Women’s lib
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:06 PM
0

Something about men understanding their own feminine side and generally understanding women as a consequence. Women don’t know their masculine side yet because there hasn’t been a female Nietzsche yet. Understanding is necessary for empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:06 PM
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Ahhh you mean women are just scared beings and men who can’t get laid have tragic endings ( buying bath water) as a consequence ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:02 PM
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Thousands of years of scholarly tradition. (Men writing down their thoughts). Women just started recently but are catching up much much faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:16 PM
1

Please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:15 PM
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Why does my very expensive therapist keep insisting that women are just as horny as men? What’s that about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:08 PM
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Way more men empathize with women than women. I know why
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:55 PM
0

It should matter to those who have a lot of critical things to say about history (men) And the planet is not gonna blow up…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:54 PM
-2

Some women of today will not be remembered positively in history
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:33 PM
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We built so much technology so women would be safe in sex. And women are safe from dangers of sex. Also sex shouldn’t be painful, see a doctor. The problem is it seems like no matter how much safer and more pleasant the sex becomes for women, they would still hold on to this irrational crazy fear like someone who is afraid of their own shadow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:34 PM

Insist and pay
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:21 PM

No yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:36 PM

Pay for the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:46 PM

Humans make norms and norms become laws
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:44 PM

According to awful women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:42 PM

They would become slaves
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:38 PM

The norms precede the laws
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:56 PM

Tarzan must have the best life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:55 PM

It’s just an example. There’s more. Ask ai
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:54 PM

Icy 🥶
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:53 PM

Aristocrat’s (cat’s) definition of survival is way different than a peasants (dog’s)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:52 PM

lol projecting much?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:47 PM

The post is about the statement “women to need men anymore” and “men are obsolete” that has been everywhere in the zeitgeist since the 90s. Also lol maybe that’s what men should start doing, only marry a woman that you’d be financially dependent on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:50 PM

Society has always had a solution for women who wanna survive without having sex but with a more simple lifestyle. No more nice things. A convent is an example
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:47 PM

If women think today that men are obsolete because of financial independence, they don’t understand love the way men do and they show us their true nature in how they view men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:44 PM

The wold of the past was set up that way by men and women. Stop degrading our grandmothers. The work you had to do to be independent was of no interest to women. There were no office jobs back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:42 PM

It’s something men understand. Something about women being incapable of love the way men understand love.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:27 PM

The idea that a woman couldn’t survive in a society without marrying a man is funny
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:25 PM

“Shitty fucking assholes” 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:24 PM

For most of history education and scholarship was not generally valued by society and women. Up until the Industrial Revolution, the only valuable things were hard power, and gold. Since the Industrial Revolution, education became tangibly valuable and women’s movements and interest in education followed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:22 PM

What do kids have to do with a woman’s survival ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:12 PM

Good for women of today. But it makes women of the past look horrible (which may say something about women generally)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:10 PM

BECAUSE the vast majority of women were not interested in education, the norms around colleges being fraternities were formed. I’m sure there were a minority of women who wanted to break norms, but not large enough to change them. We have norms today about female spaces that deny men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:09 PM

I think becoming a nun would have been a better choice than to sell yourself and leach of another person to survive like a parasite. Idk I’m a mammal ape, I don’t think like parasites
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:01 PM

That’s just them acting dumb and hiding their true selves and showing their lack of self awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:59 PM

Thanks 🙏. Pay attention here guys ☝️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:58 PM

So in those relationships before 70s the woman was only there because of financial resources. What a lovely wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:58 PM

Bank accounts are modern inventions. A century max.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:56 PM

Nice. Everyone pay attention here ☝️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:55 PM

And your dependence was only financial? You have no idea that this actually makes women look bad? Women seem to lack self awareness here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:54 PM

Up until the enlightenment, women were not even interested in education. They thought it was for gay nerds lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:53 PM

Women are fascinated by love the way men are fascinated with sex. It’s obsession over something not accessible to you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:50 PM

Not at all. They go after more toxic guys. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:45 PM

It’s just something an employer would say and women lack self awareness when they say it. Like a sex robot will never replace the nourishment a real woman gives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:43 PM
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lol is personality just defined as : personality = human - looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:51 AM
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A lot of women around the world are showing themselves in less clothes and most seem to be sexually available. When there is so much available, the man who gets more wins. 🦍🦧🫈
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:49 AM
-1

What’s an ideal “great personality”? Examples from pop culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:48 AM
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It is true though, men still want the sex and women still want the ltr but both neither are chasing it anymore. It’s over
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:13 AM
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Women raising the bar for LTRs is as hilarious as men raising the bar for casual/ONS lol It sounds like an incel raising his standards for sex It sounds like someone increasing the price of a product he’s selling that no one is buying
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:01 AM

Is women saying “women want to date men they are attracted to” a euphemism for “some men are just unattractive” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:11 AM
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It’s a planet with 8 billion people. Any irrational fear you might have, there’s already at least a case for it. OR you can bring in a toy to a ONS to have a man AND an orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:05 AM
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Suuuurrrreeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:51 AM
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The pool of candidates for ONS must definitely be larger than the one for relationships. Gimme a break on social judgment and safety in 2026, and grab vibrator so you cum
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:12 AM
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Then by that logic ONS are also never losses. Why don’t women have them all the time? Orgasms?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:10 AM
0

But ideally you would’ve loved it if you loved olives and didn’t have to try chocolate or vanilla r …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:43 AM
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Lol it’s not me it’s life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:41 AM
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It is for women unfortunately. I mean you’d prefer to find the one you align with as fast as possible right? Ideally the first bf or the second or idk the fifth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:40 AM
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They don’t have to but every person you end up with that doesn’t align is a loss on your part.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:49 AM
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Life is a game. You win more the faster you figure out what you want in a relationship and who you’re compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:24 AM
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They know we want them and we know they want us. We pull back, they’ll come to us. Men are becoming defeminized and can win this game of chicken. Just act cool guys 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:28 PM
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It’s a perspective and it’s a negative view of the concept of surrendering. Negative view of the idea of letting go. Lack of trust in the person you’re surrendering to. Shit like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:46 PM
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They have made approaching more risky but if you think about it, they’ve made it hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:25 AM
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I would use the word commitment instead of money. It’s more general
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:45 PM
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It’s a preference
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:17 PM
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Level of experience is qualitative and subjective. Also no one has a problem with a girl with high BC. Her BC just has to be less than the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:39 PM
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Or marry someone on the same experience level. Marry a husband who has fucked in party bathrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:35 PM
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womp womp womp. your personal exceptional experience is irrelevant due to it not being normal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:50 AM
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Maybe that’s why you’re a hupersexual cult leader and not your average female
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:43 AM
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That just sounds like mental health and mental incoherence problem. You must’ve been way more enthusiastic then. Cause I wouldn’t do kinky stuff with someone I’m not enthusiastic with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:40 AM
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This rule applies to people who have done kinky stuff and have enjoyed them. People who know what they are, they know they indicate the level of enthusiasm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:14 AM
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They are not getting enough in their relationship or didn’t get enough before their relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:12 AM
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Or imagine I would cook a gourmet dinner with candles for an ex but heat up Di gornos for you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:11 AM

Interesting! That seems to be the theme with women. With men it’s reversed. When you’re young, your type is “has a pulse”. As you get older, you get more selective. It’s as if men and women are moving in opposite directions. One is born is heaven and falls towards hell and the other is born in hell and is ascending towards heaven.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:24 AM
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Women have this amazing ability to gaslight themselves into believing any subjective reality that is useful for them and makes life better for them, but they overdo it where they try to gaslight the entire universe into the reality that they want to create for themselves. It’s an amazing ability to reframe things into your own liking and men’s main issue is not having any of that skill at all but it can get out of hand and out of balance. Women do too much subjectivity and men do too much object…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:05 PM
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I think the same of women. You’re all equal pieces of shit But for different reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:03 PM
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Men ask each other about them all the time as they see it as the ultimate measure of success in life. Most of the time, men state it unprompted to gain social approval among other men. (Again this is not the case among gay men because gay men fuck, it’s not scarce, and therefore it’s not a measure of success among gay men. If you’re upset why men see it as a measure of succeeding in life, don’t blame the men. It’s not them, it’s the circumstance of scarcity created by the universe and women) Eno…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:00 PM
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I’d be shocked if what I said wasn’t the case. I just know primates have this deep ingrained sense of fairness in them. Just give a chimp a banana and watch what the one who didn’t get any would to you and the other chimp.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:56 PM
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It’s also called “sowing your wild oats”. It’s a qualitative subjective limit. Very common concept among men and women. The idea of wild days of youth. A smirk that comes to your face when you’re asked about your sexual adventures in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:45 PM
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Ok so it’s the first one. He probably got laid enough to not care. No pussy famine for him, only feasts of pussy probably. Ofc not every man thinks the same as me but I know most of the different ways men think. Including the ones that are different than mine
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:45 PM
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It’s not about exact same experiences. It’s more about having “enough” sexual experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:27 PM
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If he isn’t insecure, it’s because he has never experienced famine. It’s very rare to experience famine and not feel insecure about food afterwards. Another reason why your husband might not care is if he’s much older than you. I wouldn’t feel as bad if a much younger girl had pool house bathroom sex before me as opposed to someone my own age
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:26 PM
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I’m sure you have your reasons and I’m sure they are valid to you but it doesn’t change anything about the reality of the resulting scarcity because of those reasons and sex becoming a reward because of that scarcity. Again there are two perspectives here. Let’s not mix what the man’s perspective is with what the man thinks the woman’s perspective is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:22 PM
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If men were entitled to sex, they would 🍇
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:12 PM
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Imagine finding out I took my exes to Michelin star restaurants for our first dates and the taking you to tacos 😁. If that hurts, it’s probably because of your insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:11 PM
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If your husband had had sex with some girl in a pool house bathhouse in the past, he wouldn’t care. If he struggled during those years when you were having sex with guys in pool house bathrooms, he wouldn’t feel good about knowing that you did and he didn’t. It’s petty but it’s how humans are and you are no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:07 PM
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To think that a woman could care about “societal civilization” and not just her immediate personal interests and her kin’s interest is naive. It’s like asking Satan to put himself in God’s shoes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:49 PM
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The way women see it is that good men are already good so they can be left alone. But bad men need to be ‘turned’ good. So they take let bad men enter their bodies with the hope that they can domesticate them by carrying them in their womb and nurturing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:45 PM
0

Commitment is a reward (and women know it)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:35 PM
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You don’t put out as easily as gay men. You create scarcity by restricting access. You somehow contradict yourself saying you like sex when you reject a man that wants to have sex with you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:25 PM
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The level of kink indicates the level of enthusiasm. Therefore it does
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:21 PM
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Just look at gay men and their attitudes towards sex. They see it as a mutually enjoyable act and a mutually rewarding act. You tell me what makes gay men and straight men have such different attitude towards sex. The answer is very very very simple. Access!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:19 PM
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Heck, even those men could be a myth. The point still stands
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:12 PM
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With the minority of men who are drowning in it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:09 PM
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Vast majority of women sure. Vast majority of men either don’t or have accepted their faith and have gotten into relationships so that they can have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:02 PM
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There is the woman’s perspective and there is the man’s perspective. Just cause the woman doesn’t see it as giving rewards, doesn’t mean the man doesn’t see it as getting rewards. Also this is more true in the beginning of relationships and the first few times sex happens. That’s when it feels most like a reward and an overall metric that you’re doing ok in life. There was a line from the grandpa in white lotus season 2. He said “the embrace of a woman, makes you feel like you’re doing alright i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:38 PM
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It is scarce for the vast majority of men and for most of their lives, and “treating it like a reward” is not the reason why. Evidence : look at gay men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:29 PM
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It is scarce and therefore a reward
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:59 PM
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That is a luxury men don’t have and because it is something men really want and can’t have anytime they want, men are conditioned to treat it as a reward. If men could also just have sex because they liked to have sex, men also wouldn’t see it as a reward. The problem is scarcity and thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:58 PM
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To be honest I kinda like her. Sometimes I just wanna hold her in and tell her don’t worry everything is gonna be ok
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:33 PM
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It’s either X doesn’t cause Y, Y causes X. Or X doesn’t cause Y, Z causes Y.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:35 PM
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That’s just modern Protestant churches. Kinda like the equivalent of jihadis. Your church was a Christian jihadi church. Medieval Christianity and old world Catholicism and orthodoxy don’t view women’s orgasm the way your church did. I’m sorry you grew up in that hell
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:39 PM
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Why don’t women blame their own biology too?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:08 AM
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Apparently you can’t. The only thing that can be done is us making things more fair for ourselves and not give a fuck if things become unfair for you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:59 PM
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That’s fair. It’s a zero sum game. We’ll keep that in mind as we make things more fair for us and unfortunately probably less fair for you but oops can’t do anything about that. Lets see who wins
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:57 PM
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You’re bad because you’re ok with something being unfair when you’re not at a disadvantage. But you’re all whining and complaining when something is unfair to women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:34 PM
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You’re bad because you’re ok with something being unfair when you’re not at a disadvantage. But you’re all whining and complaining when something is unfair to women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:33 PM
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One day it will
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:32 PM
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Men have evil in their heart. Women have evil in their mind. Men have good minds. Women have good hearts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:16 PM
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Lmao username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:14 PM
2

No one wants to fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:14 PM
4

No to your second question
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:45 PM
3

Stop goooning to the handmaid’s tale
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:41 PM
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Human society is waiting for women to admit that they are “unfair” people and own it. Be bad. There’s a necessity for evil. Just stop the BS pretending that you’re good. It’s 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:10 PM
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And a lot of men’s expectations are written by women who seduce them through screens by knowing exactly which buttons to push
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:29 AM
0

No it just means proximity. It can be physical like bodies touching or it can be emotional or spiritual like a relationship. Men have a dependence on physical intimacy. Like feeling physically intimate with a another person of the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:43 PM
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Sex is not just ejaculating. It’s intimacy and a person allowing you to be physically intimate with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:10 PM
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It’s too risky and also too expensive and it doesn’t feel right. It’s not about just ejaculating. It’s a matter of the heart
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:00 PM
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You can’t it’s illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:15 PM

Tbf, it’s a lot of pressure to make the selection given the BS that they believe and their fears
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:52 PM
1

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:23 PM
1

Disclosed above ⬆️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:28 PM

Nope, just scared of rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:15 PM

Nope tall and fit (no abs but fit. Sometimes dad bod)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:31 PM

Women hate hearing it because they take pride in their selection in the first place and many go out their way to make it known to the unselected ones. Perhaps if they toned down the “I select him and not you”, they wouldn’t hear the “choose better”s and “told ya”s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:15 PM

6’2”, 300k, 8 inches Haven’t kissed a girl since 2019
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:59 PM
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It’s sex not relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:08 PM
1

You witches should put together a ranked short list (maybe long list) of all the anti social behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 01:38 AM
5

It’s because you’re lumping ons/casual and commitment together.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:34 PM
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Sexual selection as a form of validation is deeply ingrained in our dna. Granted in different ways for men and women. You can’t get rid of it. Trying to teach men to not feel worthy from being sexually selected is like trying to teach women to not to feel worthless when the man they select, selects someone else (“cheats”)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:55 PM
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To women. Which is what being a sex worker makes you to men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:46 PM
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Sex work should be thought of as gig work. Like driving for Uber. You don’t encourage students to become Uber drivers. But they should also know that it’s perfectly fine. And if you do it full time, it’s ok but you’re kinda a loser if you do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:09 AM
1

Well then : women also bad but there are good ones
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:29 PM
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And men should strive to be one of the good ones while their gender is hated? Literally the entire women’s discourse is “men bad but there are good ones”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 06:22 PM
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Bro I went out with a girl 5 years older than and she still got offended by 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:50 PM
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We’d be seeing women murdering way more men than the other way around. We’d have avengers end game. Half the male population would be eradicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:56 PM
2

I think women are actually lonelier but women are comfortable being lonely. Men are not. You could argue that generally, men are more extroverted and women are more introverted
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:26 AM
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It’s that the men you interact with would be less thirsty for sex with you and you’d have less leverage. That’s the argument Trafficking is a concern but let’s not classify monogamous pimp-hooker relationships as trafficking. That’s not a SEX TRAFFICKER, that’s just a loser who makes the wife work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:13 AM
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Yeah you’re basically at the same status of a SW rn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:55 AM
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That’s actually exactly why you’re doing it for the same reason. At least some of your sisters have the tact to hide their hatred of the SW and make it about trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:40 AM
1

Hot girls “deserve” to not give up sex early. Mid and low girls don’t 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:38 AM
1

An open mind opens hearts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 09:05 PM
0

Or they can change their circumstances as strong men do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 08:50 PM
0

Good. Therefore men should only be exclusive with women who would have sex with them as fast as Chad. Or don’t and process internally and accept being a worthless loser lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 08:32 PM
1

You could say the same thing about a husband sleeping with a prostitute. It doesn’t mean much to him. Therefore she has the same two choices to process her internal feelings about it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 08:22 PM
3

If your husband or boyfriend desires/fucks another woman, how would you feel about yourself? (Be honest)(are you a woman?)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:51 PM
1

Your beliefs are false. Most men haven’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:48 PM
4

No this is a deep biological phenomenon. Again similar to how women get their worth from male selection (of other women) (stop ignoring this, unless you’re willing to admit that this is also some nonsense in women’s head)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:05 PM
2

Some are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:02 PM
4

Because men getting their worth from female selectivity is an internal male feeling that women want to invalidate. Women are trying to say that their selectivity doesn’t mean much (in a casual setting) whereas it does mean a lot for men. Women like you are saying that men just SHOULDNT feel this way. Stop trying to invalidate this male feeling. Again this is the exact equivalent of a woman’s feelings about the man sleeping with someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:55 PM
2

Women being crazy is and always has been the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:52 PM
1

No one needs to know about it so your value is safe. You have secrets, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:46 PM
1

I want other women to debate you on whether you lose value or not? Regardless of what value society assigns to you, do you think you lose value when you sleep around? Isn’t this in your head? Similar to how what men say is purely in their head?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:40 PM
5

Newton and Tesla were as upset with women as any modern incel
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:37 PM
3

When a man does all that, women would fuck him casually which he uses as evidence of self worth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:36 PM
1

That’s how me value themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:35 PM
2

How come the vast majority of men haven’t? (While the vast majority of women have?)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:35 PM
8

The evidence points to the contrary. Such guys seem to be the most successful with women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:33 PM
2

Stop invalidating men’s feelings and gaslighting men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:27 PM
1

What gives a person value with regards to sex, depends on whether the person is a man or a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:25 PM
1

Men who wanna sleep with someone besides their gf/wife also don’t think too much of it. It’s the wife/gf who feels unworthy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:07 PM
3

It’s about who else fucks/fucked his girl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:38 PM
5

So if a husband chooses to fuck someone else, the wife doesn’t feel unworthy? She doesn’t feel “not enough”?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:37 PM
2

Whatever criteria women use to decide who they have casual sex with, that criteria is what determines men’s worth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:35 PM
0

When a woman is horny, I’m sure there is more than one option available. Because the woman selects among her options, she (even though it may be inadvertently) CREATES the hierarchy by putting one man above another. Men’s hierarchy EXISTS because women CREATE it with their sexual selectivity. You wanna kill the patriarchy, make sure no man is left unfucked. Otherwise YOU ARE THE PATRIARCHY.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:25 PM
2

If women select men who they think has higher value, then how is this insane?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:22 PM
1

When it comes to sex, it depends on whether the person is a man or a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:21 PM
29

The guy himself probably cares most. I think it’s an internal feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:20 PM
3

And women perpetuate the idea that : if their man desires other women = she has no value/worth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:19 PM

Idk what that word “sexist” means. Does it mean someone who has a lot of sex and is an expert in sex? I just say what I see and think.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:06 PM

Literally what I just said
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:06 PM

Not women. Women care mostly about themselves and their vicinity
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:51 PM

Men feel special when a woman selects them from her options. Women feel special when a man DOESN’T select any of his other options. Two ways of making someone feel special: 1.choosing them 2.not choosing anyone else I’d argue that if 2 makes you feel special, you’re insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:51 PM

Since when do women care about the welfare of people they don’t know?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:45 PM

It’s like men get hurt by women’s selectivity and women get hurt by men’s lack of selectivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:08 PM
1

It’s a sort of political realism. Society accepting reality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:20 PM

Like anthropomorphizing the patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:01 AM

Men only get obsessed with sex when they don’t have it. It’s a biological imperative. The capitalist patriarchal machine wants a lot of men to be sexless and obsessed with sex so it can sell them fantasies. Women and feminism in this case are only puppets of the patriarchy to parrot slogans (like sex addicted males) to achieve patriarchy’s end goals
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:55 PM

Hahahaha who? No one who likes power that much is a good person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:43 PM

Apparently we can only sustain that on a village level
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:01 PM

Philosophers of history have written a great deal about this. It is essentially the male desire to be selected and the female desire to select. These are to blame. Both and neither at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:00 PM

All those issues are derivatives/latents of female sexual selectivity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:57 PM

If you think about it long enough, you’ll realize that it’s the main problem humanity faces. Men essentially go to war for resources and resources end up in female sexual selectivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:45 PM
2

Well. Turns out she can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 04:08 PM
4

It’s insane levels of delulu. It’s entitlement to both “Chad” and the “beta”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 11:21 PM
6

Sub mediocre girls thinking they deserve to fuck “Chad” and then settle for mediocre guys is CRAZIER. “Deserve” seriously f outta here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:34 PM
3

It’s a matter of self respect. You can only love someone who makes you feel like a hunk. Otherwise you don’t have self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:07 PM
0

PREAAACHH
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 08:48 PM
0

Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 08:48 PM
2

No one is saying she’s not attracted to the guy she makes wait. What men are saying is that she’s not AS attracted to him AS she was to that hunk a few summers ago. It’s about being “good enough” or “the best” or “one of the better ones”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 08:46 PM
1

What’s the overlap?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:26 AM
1

I think a lot of men would agree to that. Good deal. I think a lot of women don’t know this. Or they do and are afraid of oral too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:23 AM
1

1.Admitting to “I want sex” shouldn’t be shameful but women make it shameful for men. “Men just want one thing” shames “I want sex” 2.if women don’t benefit from casual sex (yet), should we educate men so women also benefit from casual sex or should we educate women that they shouldn’t partake in it if they don’t cum?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 11:46 PM
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How does the ven diagram of women who are easy or picky overlap with women who expect paying on the first date. P.s. hardly skeptical of your hypothesis that a woman is either easy or picky. Are they also like that throughout their lives or they have phases? Even if it is true at a given phase of life, are the type of guys the same or different in different phases? Isn’t it always about the type of guy technically speaking? P.s.s. Women expecting men to pay on first date in 2026 gives me this fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 11:46 PM
1

What the fuck is casual sex? Is it a perspective thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:22 AM
1

If she has hooked up or done a ons before, it means her parameters can have the right values for the right person
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 01:19 AM

Fuck love. There is fulfillment in letting yourself be used. Hopefully used for good. It’s like what we all want. To be useful for good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:50 PM
2

I at least would sleep with her early and don’t make her wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:31 PM
2

I give them a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:17 PM
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I want women who would settle for me to stay the hell away from me. That’s why I like ugly Reddit girls. They bend the knee faster and easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:05 PM
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Yes it’s true. She isn’t attracted to me like she was to Chad. Which is why she’s a waste of my time and my money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:41 PM
-1

You don’t see them often
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:34 PM
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Absolutely. I don’t act on it all the time. I can’t fathom two people with mutual attraction not acting on it. For reference look at gay men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:18 PM
1

No it’s about stinky pussies
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:48 PM
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Either a woman has had immediate sexual attraction for a partner or she hasn’t. And that matters because we can’t be inside people’s heads. We can only judge them by their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:19 PM
2

Humans are objects too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:53 AM
1

The problem is that beggars don’t get anything
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:03 AM
-1

I agree. That’s the thing with darkness. It can be anything. And men particularity like that in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:53 AM
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I was gonna add that I think women don’t understand that men actually appreciate those dark imaginations. So no reason to fear the dark thoughts. They are a feature, not a bug. I wish you courage my sisters and mothers and wives. You guys have done great so far. Keep going. Don’t be afraid
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:24 AM
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It’s because they don’t have the imagination of men have so they need interaction to build a picture. Like they need to be led. And it’s not that they don’t have the ability to imagine. They are afraid of letting their imagination run buck wild. And for good reason cause it can really really dark
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 01:17 AM
0

Yeah testosterone is what makes men look ugly and less sought after and have less sexual experiences. The root underlying cause of all imbalances are essentially biological just not evolutionary biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:34 PM
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What you don’t understand is that the reason that most men aren’t attractive to them is not some biological programming. Anyone who sleeps with a lot of people will eventually find most people unattractive. Women just do all the experiences early on and get it out of the way. But as a result they find most men unattractive. Life is a trade off. They don’t get to experience the yearning and the resulting spirituality that most men get to experience. Many of them do. And many men also get to fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:13 PM
1

How do you define a slave any way? Iykyk
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:04 PM
1

So women are the real privileged gender? Are women oppressing men as their slaves?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:19 PM
3

The devil likes to invert the truth 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:04 AM
2

Or the narrative is dire to make dating hard? 🤯🧘‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:55 AM
1

They want someone who’s able to protect and deflect bad actors from outside. Someone strong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:44 AM
2

When something is beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:46 AM
3

They want to dominate the man but also want the man to dominate others (for them)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:29 PM
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A relationship with a strong foundational first step is still the goal. *if she hasn’t had immediate sex before i.e. virgin, careful non virgin, etc., no immediate sex is required
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:17 AM
0

It’s statistically true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:40 AM
1

Please do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:26 AM

We should be open about protection and red lines. Maybe we should put it our profiles. I get that it ruins it kinda but hey it’s a compromise
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:46 AM

Reverse the reversal by reversing the reversed 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:38 AM

Maybe the substandard sex and how you got there made him change his mind about the stuff he said. He didn’t lie when he said them, he changed his mind based on his standards and he owes you 0 explanation for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:50 PM

No rape is when the man feels entitled to sex. Not when consensual sex happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:27 PM

Fucking and how we get there is where men assess their standards. If she is up to the standards, she’s a keeper. Everything before fucking is just a prelude. A prologue. An introduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:23 PM
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And men don’t owe an explanation for dumping women after fucking women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:29 PM
1

Perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:20 AM

That’s why the real truth is in the purple. Both red pill and blue pill. Read/watch “the color purple” 👿
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:08 PM
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Also in the 60s, the average woman’s mind wasn’t hijacked by a boat load of propaganda specifically designed to keep them alone, afraid, enslaved, and imprisoned in little apartments with little jobs and little pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:39 PM

No I do not think that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:07 PM

Female intrasexual competition
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:02 PM

Women like sex on their own terms which is with one person and lots of it. Men like sex on their own terms which is with different people and lots of it. The irony of this paradox of human misery is that most women and men get the opposite of what they actually like and want. We just need to get over our wants and focus on our needs and we all need to accept this and STFU. 🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:52 PM

Men like sex and women don’t. We get it. Get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:25 PM

It’s the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:42 AM

Women who hookup and are lustful are cooler 😎. Always!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:11 PM
1

French used to call it petite mort (little death) kinda related to the cycle of death and rebirth of life. Also this is not a “shit on Christianity” show. It’s an advertisement for the Vatican and this is scene is filmed inside the actual Sistine chapel
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:52 PM
1

But apparently religious men used to put in the work to make women cum like it’s their only way to avoid hell
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:26 AM

I like to use the word “special”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:54 AM
0

Good for you. Spread your secrets with your sisters
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:02 PM
-1

No orgasms for you then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:40 PM
0

It’s all one religion in the end
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:12 PM
1

2nd cumming?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:12 PM
2

Most def
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:12 PM
1

lololol my man 👊
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:11 PM

Maybe humans are special in some way… like all the children of mother Earth. Each is special in their own way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:04 PM
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It’s a YouTube video from a show about Catholicism, abortion and female orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:59 PM
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https://youtu.be/E9dlLFU9fCE
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:34 PM
1

https://youtu.be/E9dlLFU9fCE
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:33 PM

It’s not about hard vs easy. That’s more of a woman’s imperative. This is something that you as a woman likely can never understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:02 PM
1

Many people think science is wrong these days. Might as well make women cum
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:55 PM

Suicide and opting out are also part of our biological imperative if we see ourselves as a failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:48 PM
1

Might as well believe orgasm is necessary for conception since science is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:46 PM
0

Ask the closest priest. I ain’t one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:32 PM
1

Avery Ames used a a lot of em dashes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:27 PM
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They believed making her cum is the only way or one of the two ways for making conception happen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:26 PM
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I mean if they think science is wrong. Might as well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:24 PM

We should instead strive for a balance as ICE and FIRE can never be equals. A symbiosis
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:38 AM

😘😈
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 06:21 PM

But you’re probably not that attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 03:11 PM
2

Truth is the language of compassion and love tears through their divisive bullshit and they hate it. Fucking losers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:23 AM

Stop the demagoguery. Do you get paid to do this or you’re just a loser? Answer me. Are you a pathetic loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:21 AM

compassion is feeling for someone, recognizing their suffering and being moved to help alleviate it. Any more stupid questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:18 AM
1

compassion is feeling for someone, recognizing their suffering and being moved to help alleviate it. That’s what it looks like. Not actions or anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:17 AM
1

Many places : https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTIwDI_j318/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:14 AM
-1

Even if you could empathize with men, your empathy is useless. Your compassion might end up helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:12 AM
-2

Google empathy vs compassion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:10 AM
-1

By being compassionate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:53 PM
-2

Compassion is a great virtue to have towards anyone in any bad situation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:37 PM
1

All you have to do to see how women really are is ask them what would you do if you were a man (had a penis). The answer is almost unanimously become a psychopathic fuckboy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:36 PM
1

👎
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:34 PM

This is not a real person. It’s AI
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:33 PM
1

At least with the right language, we can separate the psychopaths from the compassionate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:02 PM
1

Yes. Much much less so than the US. And this is despite the fact that there’s still stigma (and surveillance and lack of discretion) in those countries. I’ve been to all those countries and know many people from all of those counteies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:01 PM

Yeah you’re an AI
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:55 PM

Women are not a hive mind. Each person has their own abilities and capacity. Compassion means “what can I do to alleviate the problem?” I, not WE. Just do what you can. For the vast majority of men what you can do is definitely not just have pity sex with them. But, I wouldn’t rule out the fact that many some women might. “Pity sex” was a form of worship in ancient Babylon and Ancient Greece for SOME women. SOME women not ALL women I not We Capisce?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:48 PM
1

I’ve answered this multiple times in the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:42 PM
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The absolute bare minimum for compassion is just simply “wanting their suffering to be alleviated” That needs to be said because many women here say things like “they deserve to be lonely because x y x” “I don’t give a F about them”. The bare minimum for compassion is don’t be like that. Or if you wanna take it a step further, at least oppose those views.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:41 PM

Bitch you weren’t alive for most of history. What men did in the past has nothing to do with your ass. Gimme a break
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:31 PM
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Or maybe you don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:29 PM
1

And yet when it was legal, you didn’t have an epidemic of sexless men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:26 PM
-1

Just five minutes of thinking about alleviating the problem is a concrete example of compassion. Attacking the men for being down is opposite. It’s psychopathy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:25 PM

No you’ve been attacking the homeless and pushing them towards suicide. It’s psychopathy disguised as compassion but it’s a terrible disguise. We can see right through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:23 PM

Just because you can’t think of a solution or the only dumb possibly solution your mind can think of is “give them a chance”, it doesn’t mean that women having pity sex with men is the solution. You can’t think of anything. Fine. Don’t do anything. Don’t say anything. Just have compassion and don’t make things worse by attacking the men who are suffering. JFC
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:22 PM
-2

If all women spoke as a hive mind…. Then at least we know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:29 PM
3

At this point I’m sure you’re a fed or something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:05 PM
-1

Sex work is illegal and highly stigmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:00 PM
0

Don’t empathize. One could argue that empathy is sleeping with them or you becoming celibate forever to empathize with them. Have compassion. It’s okay to not do anything or say anything but still have compassion. It’s the attitude that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:55 PM
3

You need compassion yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:53 PM
2

What does your response have to do with what I said? It’s a non sequitur
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:53 PM
-2

Yeah if you talk a lot to homeless people, they’ll eventually might ask to spend a night inside your house. You don’t need to say yes and you shouldn’t take it as a reason to lose compassion for their problem. At least I don’t. You do you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:52 PM
2

Do you have compassion for the homeless who act crazy? I do because I know what not getting a proper night sleep for a while can do to a human brain but I bet you don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:49 PM
-4

Maybe that’s your answer. There are billions of people out there. Sometimes all it takes is one good idea from one person. The first step is establishing compassion (not empathy)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:41 PM
-4

My post says “we should come up with a solution” a lot of people disagree with that compassionate statement. I would say my post is absolutely necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:40 PM
0

I’m arguing that compassion from women in this instance might be more useful to men than compassion from men. I can’t really get into it here. But I’m referring to the spirituality/materialism or masculine/feminine duality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:35 PM
-2

You’re a funny little fella. Thanks for the chuckle
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:33 PM
0

I think it’s a language problem
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:32 PM
-1

I agree with the material change. But you could argue that women are more in touch with the material world and they probably have the right ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:31 PM
-1

Is it also a little fun to see them bitch about their issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:30 PM
-6

Exactly. Compassion is essentially caring enough to think whether you can do anything or say anything. But you have to be compassionate first to be able to come up with ideas and solutions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:10 PM
1

One of the biggest and most important differences is that empathy can only be directed to one person at a time whereas compassion can be directed at groups of people and take in multiple perspectives. This is my favorite example that I posted here couple of times. Let’s say someone is drowning in quicksand. Empathy is jumping in and drowning with them. Compassion is asking “that’s not my problem but can I do something?” “Ah yeah, here’s a branch to hold on to. Bye!”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:09 PM
1

Maybe when it comes to dating, women are more psychopathic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:06 PM
1

That’s being compassionate. You’re already doing a lot and showing good character by showing that you care. And I believe that enough compassion will result in the right ideas that will take care of the problem. But the first step is compassion which you have taken
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:04 PM
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Let’s say someone is drowning in quicksand. Empathy is jumping in and drowning with them. Compassion is asking “that’s not my problem but can I do something?” “Ah yeah, here’s a branch to hold on to. Bye!”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:55 PM
-2

Maybe we can realize that although women are very empathetic, they are not necessary compassionate (self serving game theory life strategy)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:54 PM
0

Because the venue is PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:53 PM
-12

Empathy and compassion are NOT synonyms. You can’t have both at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:52 PM
1

Compassion is never owed. The question is do you think you can do something to alleviate their suffering? If the answer is no, then you can just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:51 PM
-2

How did you show compassion? What did that look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:46 PM
-6

The point of compassion is that accepting that it is not your problem. But still thinking “is there something I can do to make the situation a little better?” The answer could be yes or no depending on the person. You don’t need to feel their pain to be compassionate. I’d argue that feeling their pain would probably prevent you from thinking clearly about what the solution could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:46 PM
-7

Idk yet
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:43 PM
-5

I don’t have the answer but I believe that if we all (men and women) become compassionate enough, we’ll figure it out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:43 PM
2

Idk. It takes work and ingenuity to figure it out. But the first step is adopting a compassionate attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:42 PM
1

There’s both blue and red in purple
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:59 AM
0

Never listened to a single dating guru
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:21 AM
1

A lot of women (in this sub) say that they would hookup/ons with a guy if they don’t like him and if they like a guy on a date, they would just sleep with him and never talk to him again. Do you think that’s true for a certain percentage of women? Is it more like these women are kinda acting like cartoonish asshole guys who say “yeah she wasn’t gf material so I fucked her and then left her” ? Like the female version of that? Whether it’s a lie or not, the concept really short circuits men’s brai…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:41 PM
1

But if you didn’t like the guy’s personality, and don’t see a future with him, you would hookup with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:03 PM
1

Never? Really? Never ever? How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:57 PM
1

So no one night stands?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:37 AM
1

Lust has evolved to precede love. Kill the lust, you’ll kill the love too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:16 AM
-2

For men there is not a signal more honest than sex from women. Words, attitudes, sentiments can all be dishonest. So it’s about the raw honesty of fire in the end. It’s a test.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:05 AM
3

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:49 AM
-1

No complaining. Higher BC the better
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:46 AM
0

That’s how it should be but I agree that it isn’t unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:41 AM
-1

Id argue that all of that “seeming easy” or “seeming dirtied” is actually women’s own internal chatter. It’s not even real. It’s like a self slut shaming mechanism. Which evolutionarily kinda makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:38 AM
1

You’re an angel
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:32 AM
-2

My only problem is women preventing themselves from following the flow of life because of fears of “looking easy” or “being slut shamed”. Those fears are there to impede authentic connections that are supposed to happen. If you want to sleep with someone whenever (first date, first week, etc.), you should. You shouldn’t listen to those fears. And if you don’t have those fears and still choose to not sleep with the guy. The guy can’t get to any other conclusion that she just doesn’t like him enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:27 AM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:22 AM
0

wtf? 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:22 AM
1

She’s doing me a favor by filtering herself out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:19 AM
-1

Most women partake in casual sex and ons in 2026?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:19 AM
2

True
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:18 AM
0

Let’s just say I’m a people person. As my job
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:49 AM
1

Those are your internal fears that might prevent you from sealing the deal with the one man who you’re supposed to be with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:46 AM
0

Women who have casual encounters and ons clearly can reach that threshold of “liking someone enough” easily
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:45 AM
-4

It’s a way to filter out the undesirables
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:43 AM
-3

I don’t care about “women.” I want the one woman who’s gonna be my one and only to start our journey with passion and fire of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:42 AM

Fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:44 PM
-2

*aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:43 PM
-4

The word of the day is “either”. Pump and dump is specially likely when I despise her personality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:10 PM
-1

At least women should consider this when they think that “if I sleep with him, he might think I’m easy” that some men might hold the opposite view cause men aren’t a monolith. I know radical
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:47 PM
0

On the other post, more women were supporting that 1 source
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:32 PM
-1

I didn’t say she lied. I said “most women….” Can be a lie (or a falsehood which is usually from someone believing a lie)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:29 PM
-1

Well men aren’t a monolith either and to me it signals not enough interest. So even if she asks for a second date, her ass is getting ghosted
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:28 PM
-8

Men are not a monolith. If she fucks, I take her seriously. Otherwise, it’s either ghosting or pump and dump (to get my money’s worth back. I usually don’t)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:22 PM
-7

You’re more of a monolith and less diverse than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:21 PM
0

No but I want to create a room where people who have different opinions talk to each other and state their arguments for why or why not they disagree. And I’d like to listen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:20 PM
1

It’s really hot for a casual fwb to come to you after a date with a loser who paid for her dinner lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:14 PM
-1

Idk I hope the opponents challenge this. Lots of mixed signals. Lots of contradictory statements. Lots of lies?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:10 PM
1

I can only take a woman seriously if she sleeps with me from the start. I guess men are not a monolith either
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:05 PM
-8

Yet women make statements like “most women are … “ “women do …” etc. all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:03 PM
7

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:54 PM
6

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:37 PM
-5

A woman here on another thread said “most women will sleep on the first date with a guy the really like” Is that not true? Hence the word “most”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:37 PM
-5

A woman here said “most women will sleep on the first date with a guy the really like” Is that not true? Hence the word “most”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:36 PM
2

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:23 PM
2

Vast majority = high probability. Hey men, if she doesn’t fuck you on the first date, there’s a very good chance she doesn’t really like you. Treat her accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:54 PM
3

“Most women don’t take it slow with a guy they really like” Men should take this to the heart next time a woman takes it slow with them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:33 PM
1

Well none of your partners seem to be the ideal partner that %99 of the women they encounter want to date them but not casually fuck them. But there’s something here in what you said. “Most women don’t take it slow when they really like a guy anyway” This This should be written in gold. I value relationships a lot but my literal test to commit to a woman is whether or not she would fuck on the first date. Otherwise it’s either ghosting after first date or pump and dump
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:26 PM

She’s asking why I value it so much? I’m asking her, is there no value in it? I ask this specific question to cancel out her use of the word “so much” in her rhetoric. With all of that im establishing that clearly THERE IS VALUE IN CASUAL SEX FOR ALL HUMANS. If there is something of value to you and you never get that, you become “thirsty” for it. And if you’re an idea partner for a woman, she would never give you casual sex or fuck on the first date. Which is the twisted logic that causes all o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:20 PM
1

Cause the ideal man is ideal for a relationship. And women wanna take it slow with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:13 PM
-4

Nahhh, the media you consume tells on you that the vast majority of you want the same partner. Women want what other women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:56 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:54 PM

Im just trying to speak in your monkey language. She used the word “value”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:49 PM
-2

You need to eat foods that are good for your brain
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:48 PM
3

You just said your causal fwbs are the ones you don’t consider for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:47 PM
2

She said it not me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:47 PM
0

I value everything that has value. I don’t compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:47 PM
0

The best men don’t hate women until they are corrupted by your twisted logic and become the worst men that actually hate women and get all the casual sex in the world they want. They get rewarded for hating women. Your purpose is to corrupt good without even knowing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:42 PM
-1

Your logic makes sure the best men in the world don’t ever benefit from that value in life. Ever. And the worst men get the most of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:35 PM
-3

If casual sex has no value, why do you partake in it? Clearly there’s a value.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:31 PM
-7

You women don’t see how twisted your logic is? Or what it causes? That means the ideal man that everyone wants never gets casual sex. You make the ideal man you ask for into thirsty incels you hate. I guess it is true that without knowing, your purpose is to corrupt the good. And it’s working
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:19 PM
-2

Slut shaming is just their (women) internal chatter. Their internal bullshit that they have smear all over the world. No one thinks you’re easy if you fuck on a first date. ONLY YOU DO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:16 PM
1

Only prostitutes ask for money upfront. Either be proud of being a prostitute or start acting like a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:43 PM
0

Yeah technically you won’t be fuckable when you’re fucking everyone up the ass. We’re ass fucking you’re economy too. And it’s working
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:54 PM
-3

Anally fuck the matriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:47 PM
1

The plan is for all of us to be miserable and accelerate the spread of darkness and pain in the world. And it’s working 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:42 PM
2

I think it’s a genius idea. All this money is yours if you convince me that you are worth a marriage. If I’m spending a few hundred dollars on you for a date, that means I think you’re only worth a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:54 PM
0

It happens in real life and it actually works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:51 PM
1

HUNT! or get HUNTED! to both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:34 PM
-1

Nahhh. The simps will do the job themselves. They will eventually pump and dump, and show their true nature. Maybe the solution is allowing women to get fucked enough by “simps” until they wake up and stop rewarding simp behavior and mistake it for genuine affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:33 PM
0

“I send the first message” is that first message “chase me” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:23 PM
2

These are purple pill arguments that want to bring men and women together. Sure it’s easy to play the same game as women and just play on pure self centered game theory and fuck your way through women and break their hearts along the way but that’s not beating them. That’s joining them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:16 PM

I thought we were supposed to think “women are people just like us” I guess not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:54 PM
1

🫂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:15 AM
1

I stand corrected. I shouldn’t talk about stuff I don’t know much about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:42 AM
1

Your bones don’t get their strength from exercise. Genetics and diet determine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 11:57 PM
1

That’s true. But it’s ironically the only pain they ask women for empathy for. The rest of the pains, they’re good or they have other support. It’s a form of resentment if you think about it. It’s flipping the script of feminism onto it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:10 AM
2

Not having sex is a pain for men, and there are other pains of course. But you can’t empathize with this particular pain. It would be paradoxical. Maybe if we legalized it and removed the stigma and there was at least some money exchange? Maybe idk
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:14 AM
4

It does two things : 1.makes overpowering other men easier 2.gets you laid. It’s healthier to do moderate exercise, eat less, put less stress on your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:11 AM
4

You actually are healthier and live longer the more slender you are. If we’re optimizing for health and longevity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:09 AM
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The creepiest guy I knew wore a fake wedding ring and banged models although he was the most heinous looking mofo out there. Like he looked like a leper. But the ring did its magic. No one hates women more than women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 10:05 PM
15

If muscles didn’t work, the weights section of gyms wouldn’t be the busiest area
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 09:06 PM
1

Hot guys should wear burkas
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 09:05 PM
-1

I don’t think you understood my particular comment here. If a woman can in theory give the man the experience that its lack has caused him pain, she can’t empathize with him but not give him the experience that he wants. If she truly empathized with him, she would feel the pain that he is feeling and because that feeling is unbearable, she would pity fuck him just so that feeling of pain would stop in her. If she truly empathized. I see cancer kids in commercials. I feel the pain that their fami…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 09:04 PM
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Other men can empathize with men. Women can’t. It’s paradoxical for women to empathize with men. Can someone rich empathize with someone with no money? Not really. I mean the ones that maybe do donate to charities.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 07:57 PM
4

I’d even say it’s more like women are almost exclusively hooking up with those guys. Women’s sexuality is primarily about power
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:16 PM
1

Yeah she would’ve hooked up with him if he was hookup material (HUM). If she was girlfriend material and she rejected you, you should never speak to her again. But otherwise, she should grow the f up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:43 PM
1

Women reject criticism. They can’t be bothered with anything. They believe in subjective reality and absence of truth. They are always the heroes of their stories because they can masterfully lie to themselves and make themselves believe anything. They are CATS 🐈
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:16 PM
1

Depends on the girl and especially whether you hit on her for a hookup or dating. I’d say I agree with you if you wanted to date her. If you’re not hookup material, it’s not on her. Speaking from experience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:13 PM
2

Men should look for signals that have plausible deniability. Make a judgement only after receiving a half signal. If she hadn’t noticed you yet to give you a half signal with plausible deniability, then you do something for her to notice you also with plausible deniability. Ask something, or say something that isn’t a “hit”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:01 AM
2

What needs to be talked about more are icks that women give men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:44 PM
1

Find a man who doesn’t get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:09 PM
1

This should make you think about “why is this sex thing so important to them?” There must be something you don’t understand. Or you do understand but you hate. If so, you hate it because you hate a part of yourself. Why do you hate yourself? Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:07 PM
1

Men can only decenter women when they have children. Women have the ability to decenter men because they can have children. Biology is king
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:46 PM
1

Women are attracted to power not beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:11 PM

Men’s sexuality and specially men’s motivation for sexuality is the most important misunderstood thing about men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:55 PM
-2

My therapist says women are as horny as men if not more
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:25 AM
0

Not sure what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:21 AM
2

I always found men very ugly and it baffled me that how is it that these women are into us? Then I realized that I was right. They were never into us the same way we’re into them. They just don’t like us as much as we like them. Oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:44 PM
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It’s not gendered but unfortunately, it’s a gender problem. Men and women are for the most part oblivious to their differences and they project themselves onto each other. It’s a natural (though juvenile) human tendency to project your own thinking and reasoning onto others. Men and women do this to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:25 PM
1

1 out of 100, I hit on a female friend just to get rid of her. Nightmare scenario is them saying yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:22 PM
56

We do the same to them all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:19 PM
0

Same way you’d reject a gift
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:12 PM
-1

“I don’t want anything to do with you and your attraction to me means nothing to me” Oh if only women understood that men’s attraction is not one of conquest. The urge to conquer the world comes after rejection. If only women could get out of their power obsessed heads
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:56 PM
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Cause I think they are related. No person deals with both. Men deal with their evil urges and women deal with their own. I never have to really deal with an urge to reject someone and you never have to deal with the urge to conquer everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:41 PM
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I’d say I know how to deal with it and confront it better than most people. I’m still aware of what evil it is that I’m confronting so it’s actually easier to deal with it once you understand its evil nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:31 PM
-1

Apples and oranges can’t be compared. It’s like saying you think something sour is better than something sweet? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:30 PM
1

Im sure it’s something beyond just me . I refer to loads of books and poems and tragedies written about it. I can just read history
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:27 PM
1

Definitely not in the way women reject men. Never
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:25 PM
1

Cruelty is immorality in my set of values. Be it to a human, a cockroach, or a plant
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:23 PM
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I think these two are very very related and their relation has a “chicken and egg” cyclical nature. I can’t say which is worse. In mathematics, we call this a duality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:22 PM
0

She doesn’t understand because what you describe is men’s experience of sexuality. A lack and a yearning. It is not the same for women so she can’t fathom it. To them sexuality is only about one thing : power
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:19 PM
0

Why does it feel cruel when you are on the receiving end of rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:13 PM
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Men’s sexual urge to conquer everyone is also an evil biological urge that needs to be controlled. Societal interpersonal dynamics are also biological paradigms. Everything about us can be looked at from a biological lens because that’s what we are. Bags of biological goo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:11 PM
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It’s like they are biologically programmed to filter out half of the male population in each generation. In other words, it’s a biologically institutionalized evil system and women don’t have control over their biological urges. They can’t control themselves and their disgust. No self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:06 PM
4

Most women see their sexuality as some sort of commodity in one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:48 PM
3

Most prostitutes are women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:45 PM
3

If both parties abided by this, he’d pay for the date, she wouldn’t make him wait. No one is humiliated
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:14 PM
1

The devil works in mysterious ways
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:17 PM
1

The REAL reason is always shaming from other women and most importantly getting shunned and expelled from sisterhoods
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:09 PM
1

Nietzsche discovered “will to power” in women. Maybe a Nietzschett will discover a “will to be overpowered” in men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:20 PM
-1

Even if I hadn’t read Shakespeare or Plato, I would’ve still benefited from their collective wisdom indirectly through the other media I’d have consumed. Their work is already a part of the collective consciousness and knowledge of humanity. We just need women to do the same. We need a lady Nietzsche to figure out the other side and finish the puzzle for all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:16 PM
2

Men’s understating of their dark side came after thousands of years of inter generational dialogue of many great men and their ideas. Women started talking academically 150 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 02:51 AM
2

You still don’t know why you’re attracted to power. Hence you are still exploring your dark side. FSoG is the first step. Accepting that it’s there. Now you have to find out why it’s there and understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:52 AM
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Caricatures work because they contain some truth. We should both be aware of and accept these truths about ourselves and our dark sides. The problem is women don’t want to confront their dark side and they wanna live in this pretend life where they are heroes and don’t have a dark side. I’m not talking about talking about these truths in the context of a relationship. I’m referring to the discourse here that wants to ignore these truths even as a caricature.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:20 AM
0

They care what women say. Some weak ones care about what other men say but we consider them women or gay
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:08 PM
0

I’d argue that if other women were okay with slut, men would’ve LOVED to wife up sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:54 PM
1

There’s a part of men that loves whores and sluts. Doesn’t mean men all get with whores and sluts. It means the whores and the sluts get with the men they want
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:46 PM

Some successful men want their mere existence to be enough. Wanting to fuck after hearing about my achievements in life and my “performance” doesn’t feel as good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 08:20 PM

Reciprocity is not desirable for women. Or it is when it only benefits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:51 PM
3

Yes cause they are members of my society and them thriving improves the overall happiness of the community I live in
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:11 AM
1

Men don’t slut shame women my guy. Women do. The men who partake are weak, creepy, and diabolical. They usually have an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 09:23 PM
7

Another point. “No one cares that you can’t get laid” is more reason to give him to take matters into his own hands. Maybe if someone cared, he wouldn’t have resorted to lying
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:09 PM
4

When someone doesn’t wanna commit. That means they don’t wanna commit to YOU. All men wanna find their ideal partner at all times and it’s perfectly natural when they learn that YOUre not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:58 PM
-2

Islam says sex is a right and a need for both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:35 PM
5

What’s the “equal” effort that the woman puts in? I’m curious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:07 PM
0

Consenting adults
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:05 PM
1

Prohibition era didn’t prove that alcohol is bad. It proved that banning it is oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:51 PM
11

Because women look for relationships for the most part, they project all their inner demons about relationships onto men (like this post) thinking that men are lonely because they can’t get into relationships. All this gender war is a consequence of fucking. Causal sex and lack thereof. OP is right that men want a woman to desire them just for existing, because that’s what casual sex means for men. That just existing is enough. Men wanna be desired just for existing the same way they desire wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:48 PM
1

Maybe in 2020s USA. But if you average out over history and geography, it pretty much evens out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:00 PM
1

Yeah this whole thing is a double edged sword fucking both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:53 PM
1

Fucking Chad who has a lot of options rarely feels like love for women because the Chad doesn’t really care for the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:49 PM
1

Women are obsessed with love because they lack it. Men are obsessed with sex because they lack it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:26 PM
1

Friends help each other out, otherwise, they’re not friends
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:56 PM

Most men loose their social life and social circle because women don’t like them. It’s the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:21 PM

Spread the word
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 02:54 AM

Men are slaves and slaves are Uncle Toms
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 03:45 AM
1

Male sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 03:41 AM
-2

Maybe the laws reflect the balance, and the compromise and “the deal” that the sexes have reached. Maybe the laws are just what our grandparents negotiated amongst themselves. The balance is different in different places and times and it’s constantly being negotiated all the time. In some places and times, it favors the men and it favors the women in others, so it can be a little skewed but it has never been nor will it ever be oppressive. I find it disrespectful to my grandmothers and their neg…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 06:46 PM
13

OR….hear me out here…maybe….just maybe…. Society never bent over backwards for men and the narrative of women’s millennia of oppression is not accurate. The sexes seem to have reached different balances in their relations in different eras and regions. These balanced situations all include compromises by both sides. But compromise can feel like oppression to a certain type of person
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:30 PM
1

Because they don’t feel desired. It’s a delicate thing. All the talking points about a woman’s past, BC, being selected is about this fact about men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:36 AM
1

Men just want to be desired by the women they desire. All men are like this. Incels are men who desire women but are not desired by the women they desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:28 PM
1

Nope that your biggest misunderstanding about male desire and many men’s misunderstanding of their own desire
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:00 PM
1

Men want to be desired by which they desire. It’s a form of the golden rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 09:03 PM
-2

That man must’ve been desperate for some affection
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:46 PM
-3

Women get the right to vote -> prostitution, alcohol, “fun” becomes illegal. Women are puritans
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:48 PM
0

Why are you being racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:08 PM
1

By that virtue, you shouldn’t have a preference for either. So you shouldn’t be happy or sad about sleeping with just one person
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:34 PM
1

Then since there was nothing to lose and there was something to gain, you must have mixed feelings about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:43 AM
1

So you wouldn’t have lost something. Would you have gained something had you explored?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:04 PM
1

Question is, do you think you’d have lost something if you explored a little bit first? Or you think you lost something by not exploring?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 09:26 PM
7

Every shitty boy is %50 likely to have a shitty mom
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:23 PM
7

Many women’s masculine side also never grows past a 12 year old boy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:22 PM
4

I can. It’s called being devoured by the mother. https://youtu.be/9DLzVwtLz7M?si=2prKBh3U4B8WDn0J
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:18 PM
4

Most of that is women being more masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:01 PM
7

Boys, if allowed to be free, will roam around in a pack like dogs or wolfs. You’re talking about boys that are feminized by their mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:58 PM
5

Maybe mentally a 12 year old girl. Maybe that’s why they get such a visceral reaction. Cause it’s something sooo familiar to women. The sense of entitlement and all. “I want my pony”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:33 PM
8

The whole “incel problem” stems from men operating in their feminine side which have revealed some inherent flaws and contradictions in feminist thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:56 PM

Nahh they are just shitty people like anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:02 AM
1

It’s not their fault, they have had to develop a discriminatory strategy. The only way out seems to be a like if we get a Jesus like figure that unites men and gets most men to stop chasing women and let them come to us. Like cats 🐈
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:25 PM
0

You shouldn’t say but the trick is that you shouldn’t say the opposite either. Gotta keep em guessing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:39 PM
0

I don’t know for sure if they are lying but another women here in the comment mentioned that women lie about wanting variety for safety
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:56 PM
1

No the ones that don’t agree with me “might” be lying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:55 PM
-2

1.Sex is good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:09 PM
1

Cause it’s the perspective I agree with. Maybe you and your sisters need to have a debate about life experience and judgement
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:07 PM
-2

On some things, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:06 PM
1

I understand that people can have differences AND similarities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:01 PM
-1

The purpose of the hypothetical is to reveal the flaw in the thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:59 PM
-4

It’s basic logic. Everyone knows that you need experience to be a good judge if you wanna choose someone for life. But maybe some are just too dumb to think that far.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:47 PM
1

Either that or some are lying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:44 PM
-1

Weasels and cockroaches always survive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:42 PM
0

And no man is always gonna be only attracted to just one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:42 PM
-1

Either that or some are lying 🤥
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:41 PM
1

They are either lying to world or to themselves which looks really pathetic either way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:40 PM
0

How would you know if you’re making the right choice without experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:38 PM
1

Or they are lying to the world or themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:37 PM
-1

Is the “I don’t like variety” that women have said (like women here) since the dawn of history a construct of the patriarchy? Could it be that the women who say it are actually being dishonest, because they don’t wanna sound like a slut and therefore a construct of the patriarchy that scares them into submission? Could it be that a propensity for variety and thinking of being sexually experienced as a virtue a universal human quality? I mean the argument is clear. You need experience to be a goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:33 PM
1

That a dick is a dick and sexual variety is not important. It’s the dominant message coming from women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:27 PM
1

Their message has been the dominant message from women since dawn of history. Part of the patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:26 PM
0

Our nightmare is not being desired by women we desire
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:25 PM
0

There are women here who disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:23 PM
-4

There are women here who disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:22 PM
-2

There are women here who disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:22 PM
1

There are women here who disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:22 PM
0

There are women here who disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:22 PM
5

Yeah that’s why men should adopt the strategy of lying to women about being serious to get their sex. Who cares if the woman ends up crying. To each their own strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:11 PM
3

You’re evil
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:24 PM
5

So men should treat sex and women like money power, and things. You have to work for “things”. Understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:23 PM
2

Suuuurrreeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:20 PM
1

Humans absolutely have the right and the right reason to be angry at their god, especially if their god is women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 10:58 PM
3

Who the hell wants a tradwife? These kids are crazy. It’s just about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:32 AM
0

The reason men are mad women is that women played a bait and switch game with rallying for feminism and abolition of gender roles. They abolished their gender roles, but imposed a new set of gender roles that favors them. There is truth to what you’re saying but it’s not the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:53 AM
5

You still have to do shit you don’t wanna do just to survive on your own. It’s about sex and it always has been. Everything is in a sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:39 AM

I won’t. Fat women are for casual sex only
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:30 PM

No I want her to be interesting and charismatic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:01 PM

Seems fair. Why did you hurt him in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:56 PM

So is having an annoying loud girlfriend. So embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:55 PM

So is having a fat girlfriend. So embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:44 PM

Duhhh! It’s what the man wants
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:43 PM

What you “want” is only half of the equation. Thank you for your attention to this matter!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:39 PM

It’s that very early on (could be in the first 10 minutes), you see red flags that you know for sure this woman is not the one for you. But you’re still sexually attracted to her so what do you do? I agree that she probably finds this insulting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:24 AM
1

Sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:21 PM

YOU SOUND SO ENTITLED TO SEX UGHHH
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 03:40 PM
5

You’ll probably have it after your first divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:38 PM
1

There’s no winning in war for either side. It’s just that one side ends up losing less and that’s gonna be men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:22 PM
2

Huh? Any human with access to sex will first have a phase and then ready to settle down now. Don’t listen to what people say, look at what they do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:21 PM
12

Same with men who have “sowed their wild oats” or have had “a phase” or “enough experience”. They are also not sex obsessed like women. It’s basically access that determines your attitude. Some very unattractive women that have the same level of access as men also act like men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:21 PM
2

Hey it worked for women. Whining might just work. It did something during the last election (which itself is evidence that the stalemate favors men)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:17 PM
0

They wanna be treated like women because they wanna get what they want with whining. Nothing wrong with what they want which is sleeping with a lot of women. They should just go out there and get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:22 PM
1

Well… it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:02 PM
1

I think the older a man is, the higher the likelihood of casual sex. Young women like older fit guys. And the longer a man survives being alone, the higher the chances he’ll be wealthier and more fit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:34 PM
1

What’s the difference between sex and romance? Is it related to Italy or Rome?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:31 PM
1

The whining is just some men wanting to be treated like women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:29 PM
-21

Less female only spaces. Inclusivity of people you disagree with
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:57 PM
-10

Tell him it’s ok if he wants to be himself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:55 PM
15

Be inclusive of males in social activities Raise awareness Vote for programs that promote male youth development Let the minority of women who are willing to have sex with men in exchange for money do so without any stigma or persecution
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:37 PM
1

I think the ones that value partnership also want someone who wants the same. So if someone has gone for “experience” in the past, they would be categorized in the group that value “experience”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:51 PM
1

It’s a pretty good metric to gauge your worth. Whether women select you for sex over others or not. If women either choose everybody or choose nobody, then it won’t work as a metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:35 PM
4

They both cause each other. Women being selective makes men obsessed with sex. And men being obsessed with sex makes women more selective. It’s a positive feedback system.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:33 PM
1

It’s so diabolical
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:27 PM
3

If there’s an inequality that doesn’t benefit them, not doing anything about it is not enough. They demand you to confess to them that it doesn’t exist. Cause they can’t live with themselves causing inequality so they choose to ignore or change the truth for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:12 PM
2

Understand men and stop demonizing men’s sexuality and their “porn addiction”, which is understanding your own masculine side, which is activated whenever you get your fuck on in a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:38 PM
0

I think women wearing hijab is the closest technological thing we have to what you’re describing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:12 AM
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