| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.Not in this fight as this is a war of words, semantics, and rhetoric. Which is why men have lost so far, although there some meaningful recent gains | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 06:04 PM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.It feels like being angry at my own children tbh. Like I love you but you’re just being stupid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:57 PM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.It’s like a dictator who’s allergic to their subjects’ anger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:56 PM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.And I want women to know that’s “how they are”. That they are weeding out humans from society. Like abortions. And how abortion stats are the same as child mortality stats when there was no learn medicine. My work here is trying to get women to understand themselves by understanding men and their own masculine/sexual side | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:55 PM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.Yeah but the argument needs to be put to rest. They’ll keep spreading it if we don’t fight back rhetorically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:51 PM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.When you become indifferent, you actually become more desirable which gives you more reason to be angry at them lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:42 PM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.No they shouldn’t. They should listen to them and understand why they’re angry. And have enough compassion to mitigate the anger not increase it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:28 PM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.How low men can go to get laid should be studied | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:27 PM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.There’s no data here. Only speculation and hypothesis driven thinking. That’s my hypothesis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:23 PM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.I think given the size of society and inspired by the law of large numbers, it probably comes down to a 50/50 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:18 PM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.The law is man made rules inspired by the bible (the other man made BS) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:17 PM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.If I left the keys under the visor, yes. And it’s not my “ fault”. Fault is shared | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:11 PM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.Yes it’s wrong to do so but in honest reality, the victim always carries some blame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:09 PM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.I think the real answer is that both are equally true. Even those “angry” friends and parents’ influence comes from their own practical experiences that you’re “unlucky” enough to vicariously experience. Humans have a hard time sharing blame. Judea pearl (a mathematician that formulated causality) argues that humans came up with the concept of causality solely to be able to assign blame to someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:08 PM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.I agree %100. It’s pure ethos based meaningless rhetoric | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:02 PM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.Having angry parents or friends, can jump start it but actual practical experience of failure is the greatest teacher there is -yoda | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:01 PM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.While I think bulk of the responsibility is on the individual, there is also an aspect of violation of social contract by the society from the individual’s pov that carries some responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 04:59 PM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.Humans/children aren’t born angry and resentful so the answer is a resounding no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 04:51 PM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.Yet the “fear” ends up creating even more anger. Have you heard of a self fulfilling prophecy? Or manifesting fears? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 04:50 PM |
| – | Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid.So women who say that incels don’t get laid because they are bitter are only seeing half the truth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 04:49 PM |
| 0 | “Pair bonding™️” feels like a self-serving male fantasy about how men wished women attached to menBecause men lose their pair bonding ability with more partners, we think women are the same. While you’re right in pointing out the difference in the level of this phenomenon between genders, it is still a universal phenomenon as we witness it in animals and pets too. The main difference in men and women experience of “love” I think is that men think in terms of loving each other. Women see it as both together loving ourselves (but love the woman more a little bit) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:45 PM |
| – | If you have to use Money or Status to attract a Women she just doesnt like you that much.The moment I drop what I do to a woman before she shows genuine interest, is the moment I have given up on any prospect of long term partnership with her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:40 PM |
| – | If you were born male, do you think you'd be doing better than other men in areas that you criticize men for?It’s a thought exercise. You have to have a brain first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 07:41 PM |
| 1 | If you were born male, do you think you'd be doing better than other men in areas that you criticize men for?These are great questions for women to ponder upon on their path to enlightenment. Shifting perspective from the self is a necessary step towards self knowledge and peace | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 05:51 PM |
| – | Women get autoimmune disorders more than men because they have it worseWe don’t know you better than you do. We know ourselves better than you do yours. Most of you haven’t even heard of peace (with one’s self). You’re fighting. But you’re also growing. Growth requires a fight. We can’t wait to see you make it. We have told you about ourselves (although many of you don’t like it) but we’re also very curious to hear from you teaching us about yourselves once you know yourselves and are at peace with yourselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 10:52 PM |
| – | Women get autoimmune disorders more than men because they have it worseI think it’s lack of self knowledge and not understanding/detaching their own sexuality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 10:34 PM |
| -1 | Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here?Goodbye victim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 05:57 PM |
| -1 | Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here?Again with the myth of “millennia of oppression.” Oppressors always need “historical” myth to justify their oppression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here?You can disseminate ideas. It’s not about the individuals. If anything they’re just vessels for ideas. Ideas will spread and take a life of their own and evolve into impactful things if they are actually good ideas. You give birth to ideas here, they move on to evolve or die “darwinisticly” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 05:32 PM |
| -1 | Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here?They fully know it’s rhetoric and they fully know it’s a war they didn’t declare | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 05:29 PM |
| -1 | The mockery of "unselected" men is a proxy victory. Women celebrate their loneliness because they are powerless against the elite men who actually exploit them. The target at low hanging fruit to make themselves feel better.Majority of women have become “options” for the elites. Wage slaving and maintaining themselves in little apartments as “independent” women waiting to get lucky and get picked up by one of the elites. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 04:40 AM |
| 1 | We should shut this sub and focus on our own livesI’m starting to have fantasies about this sub. We gotta burn it down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemSelf honesty. I’ll take pity sex any day too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 02:32 AM |
| 0 | The mockery of "unselected" men is a proxy victory. Women celebrate their loneliness because they are powerless against the elite men who actually exploit them. The target at low hanging fruit to make themselves feel better.I’m a lesbian masc trans woman. I actually go by he/her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 02:32 AM |
| 0 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemYou know your place in the world? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemI’m trying to awaken something in women here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 01:31 AM |
| 1 | The mockery of "unselected" men is a proxy victory. Women celebrate their loneliness because they are powerless against the elite men who actually exploit them. The target at low hanging fruit to make themselves feel better.Most of my problems disappeared when I accepted that “women are just bad people” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 10:58 PM |
| -1 | The mockery of "unselected" men is a proxy victory. Women celebrate their loneliness because they are powerless against the elite men who actually exploit them. The target at low hanging fruit to make themselves feel better.The little one is very connected to the brain men understand their little one better than women. Men not thinking of their little one is pre enlightenment knight shit. If anything women are too disconnected with their little one and think too much with your brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:33 PM |
| 0 | The mockery of "unselected" men is a proxy victory. Women celebrate their loneliness because they are powerless against the elite men who actually exploit them. The target at low hanging fruit to make themselves feel better.Which is what I say after ghosting someone after we’ve had sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 06:54 PM |
| -2 | The mockery of "unselected" men is a proxy victory. Women celebrate their loneliness because they are powerless against the elite men who actually exploit them. The target at low hanging fruit to make themselves feel better.Women could free us both from the elites by fucking us and not fucking the elites and becoming their wage slaves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 06:53 PM |
| – | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.You all “sow your wild oats” when you’re younger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenWe’d rather work resolving that irrational fear that women have than to cross the road and enable it. Men actually find it insulting and ignorant that women are afraid of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 04:43 PM |
| 1 | The mockery of "unselected" men is a proxy victory. Women celebrate their loneliness because they are powerless against the elite men who actually exploit them. The target at low hanging fruit to make themselves feel better.In male comedy punching up is funny. In female comedy, punching down is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 03:53 PM |
| 0 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemIt literally is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemI know. Women complain about objectification. Some clothes extenuates my admiration | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:58 AM |
| -1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemLow T? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:57 AM |
| -1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemIt’s trying to help women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemWhich is the reason men care about their wiener. Cause if they don’t, no one else would | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:37 AM |
| 0 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemI see a person. That person doesn’t see me 😭😭 Jokes aside, I think it’s like women walk around and us weak men get stumped under the feet of giants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:14 AM |
| 0 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemWill women go through enlightenment throughout my lifetime is the real question on my mind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemMaybe not terminally online people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits Them“I’m the bad guyyyyy…. Duh” Own it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemWe need to fix the wage gap. Men deserve the same amount of money for the same work performed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemI used soften language in “major source of power”. Women’s main power is their looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemI’m sure patients aren’t in yoga pants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemMaybe for a woman in healthcare | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemI’m sure there’s a subreddit somewhere for you two go vent and “touch grass” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 09:55 PM |
| -1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemThey always check to see if you’re looking at them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemNo I want women to speak the truth to themselves about it. Keep doing what you’re doing. But also know what you’re doing. If there’s anything I want women to actually do is to cut the crap about it and own it. Face themselves. Accept themselves. Any woman that reaches Billie eilish “bad guy” status is an enlightened woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 09:34 PM |
| -1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemThey are not just doing their own thing. They are deliberately choosing their clothing optimized to visually attack the male mind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemMen love getting objectified too. We’re just not hypocritical about it because we know ourselves better than they know themselves. I just ordered reigning champ grey sweat pants for example. Proudly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 09:20 PM |
| 0 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemOr women could do their part and reduce their use of their power a little bit? Like beat us less with these thoughts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemPersonal stuff in the DMs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 09:09 PM |
| 0 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemNot trolling but I use the attention from women here to understand their perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits Them21 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemYou’re right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemThe truth is the request. Whether it’s demand or ask and the tact of it is secondary. The truth is what matters. Whether the answer is yes or no is what matters. If anything being “tactful” about it feels deceitful and manipulative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemI’m sure there are plenty. Just not enough apparently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemYou probably don’t get nearly objectified as someone who does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemWomen’s “normal” clothes had been optimized for male gaze | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemWhat’s the difference between demand and ask? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemCause some women lie about it and it starts this whole thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 08:26 PM |
| – | If women cannot be at peace with being the more sexually valuable gender, heterosexual dating can't become better.Ooof I wrote a post about this. This is how Reddit gets you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 08:26 PM |
| 0 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemIt’s a violation of consent nonetheless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 08:15 PM |
| 0 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemSubtly going from complaining about the wage gap to bragging about our earning tells you a lot about a gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 08:14 PM |
| -1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemNazi much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemI actually have and if there were a lot of those guys around, I wouldn’t wear gay leathery clothes to walk around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemWomen say a guy looking at their body in public is objectification. And it is. In that moment I as a man don’t see a person. I see skin I want to touch. In that moment and it’s usually a moment or a minute. And every man catches himself in that moment. Sexualization for men is objectification but of course not totally. But specially initially, it’s more objectification than not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:54 PM |
| 0 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemWomen say a guy looking at their body in public is objectification. And it is. In that moment I as a man don’t see a person. I see skin I want to touch. In that moment and it’s usually a moment or a minute. And every man catches himself in that moment. Sexualization for men is objectification but of course not totally. But specially initially, it’s more objectification than not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:54 PM |
| – | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemI’m not asking for empathy. I’m holding up a mirror | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemThis is not about me. It’s about women’s hypocrisy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemI’m very familiar with that story and it’s about forcing women to wear it. Now that they have removed the enforcement, only a minority of women don’t wear the hijab. You forget the part that the burka is also used by the women to hide themselves from creeps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:48 PM |
| – | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemBe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:39 PM |
| -2 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemYeah like my attention could go to observing the beauty of a flower or the magnificence of a beautiful bird, but they take it by force without my consent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:30 PM |
| 0 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemI don’t consent to further interaction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:28 PM |
| – | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemProstitutes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemYou can only kill me. Ankle device won’t do shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:22 PM |
| 6 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemWomen say a guy looking at their body in public is objectification. And it is. In that moment I as a man don’t see a person. I see skin I want to touch. In that moment and it’s usually a moment or a minute. And every man catches himself in that moment. Sexualization for men is objectification but of course not totally. But specially initially, it’s more objectification than not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:07 PM |
| 0 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemI’m an ape. Just like you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:02 PM |
| -3 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemMen/slaves/dogs get used to managing pain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:01 PM |
| – | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemWe both know who’s the real secret pervert here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:59 PM |
| -1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemYou complain about objectification. When you complain about it and I end up doing it in my mind, I feel bad. I’m saying you’re lying to yourself somewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemNo women should know themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:53 PM |
| -1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemHave you asked them if they want to speak in public? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:52 PM |
| -1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemMaybe that’s propaganda fed to you to justify invading those countries and take their resources? Or for some ethno state to advance its agenda in those regions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:51 PM |
| -1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemThat’s what you think. Objectification is also your word. I just see a curve and I say nice curve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemShe is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemI don’t consent to be subjected constant battles of self control | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:41 PM |
| 0 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemThere is physical violence, verbal violence, visual violence. All are forms of violence. Time to show a mirror to women’s violence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:39 PM |
| 0 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemThen “objectification” is also a you problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemDave Chappell said it best how the scene from the book pimp taught him what capitalism was | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:35 PM |
| -2 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemIt’s at women. You need enlightenment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:34 PM |
| 0 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemKnow thyself. But it’s probably too late | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:33 PM |
| -1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemReported! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:32 PM |
| -1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemIt feels awesome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemCause there are less “physical” distractions. It’s easier to focus on the eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemI’m fine. I’m exaggerating to emphasize the reality, hypocrisy, and lack of self knowledge in women. This post is directed at women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemYou literally described mechanisms of prostitution | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:25 PM |
| 0 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits Themlol athleisure wear these days are basically bikinis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:24 PM |
| 0 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemWhy is my mind to be allowed to be “raped” by such thoughts when I’m just trying to get my morning coffee? It’s a violation of consent. I don’t want to have these thoughts about anyone besides my significant other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:21 PM |
| – | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemWhen you first use your power on your first victim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:19 PM |
| 0 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemNahhh most of them seem pretty contend They think you’re whores | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:18 PM |
| -6 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemNahhh most of them seem pretty contend They think you’re whores | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:18 PM |
| -2 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemI’ve personally worked on data from monkeys’ brains on this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:16 PM |
| -1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemThis has nothing to do with pedophiles. I see what you’re doing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:14 PM |
| 0 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits Themwtf? I actually don’t want my brain to think of a nice ass when I’m deeply thinking about serious scientific problems. It’s a violation of consent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:13 PM |
| -2 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemI don’t think I’ve given consent to women who walk around in bikinis when I’m trying to get my coffee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:12 PM |
| -1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemYeah. Like I do not consent to these women visually attacking my brain when I’m trying to get a cup of coffee but I would love my gf to visually “attack” me everyday | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:11 PM |
| -8 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemI haven’t heard women in Islamic countries complain about objectification. I understand multiple languages and follow many gender discourses around the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:09 PM |
| -6 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemIt’s outside of men’s control. They’ve done scientific experiments on male brain responses to visual cues. It’s like a knee jerk reaction. A focus that is designed/evolved to push life forward | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemIt was a metaphor for older women in the society you grew up in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemYou say it’s objectification. I just see a nice ass and I think and say “nice ass!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:06 PM |
| -2 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemNot if you talk to them and know their name. But you don’t know %99 of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:05 PM |
| -2 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemWhen I see and I want and I can’t have, I feel bad. They make me feel bad when I’m just trying to get a cup of coffee. USA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:02 PM |
| 0 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemThey don’t know themselves. Or they do but think they’re so cunning that no one sees through them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:01 PM |
| – | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemYour mothers and aunts created the problem by OPEC ing the sex for your dad’s friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:00 PM |
| -5 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemBrain is hijacked. Focus is lost. Control is lost. Lives are ruined if it’s everyday everywhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:58 PM |
| 0 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemKnow thyself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:57 PM |
| -4 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemIt’s just showing women’s hypocrisy and lack of self knowledge. Women need an enlightenment movement among themselves. They should pay a visit to the temple of Delphi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:56 PM |
| -16 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemYou absolutely can do something about it. In fact you just have to stop actively trying to objectify yourself. Like not doing anything about it solves your problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:54 PM |
| -11 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemIt’s much easier to see women as people when you’re not wearing makeup and tight revealing clothes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:52 PM |
| -16 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemNo we understand. We’re just asking women to stop whining about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:51 PM |
| – | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemReported for making this sub personal ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:50 PM |
| -1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemSimply exist is not putting $20000 a year into appearances and objectifying clothes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:49 PM |
| -1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemMen have no control over the effect of being visually “hit” with a beautiful woman when we are trying to get coffee. Women know this and know this power and still do the hitting every day everywhere. The philosophy of burka is women giving up their power for the sake of men (similar to men giving up their physical power for the sake of women) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:48 PM |
| – | If women cannot be at peace with being the more sexually valuable gender, heterosexual dating can't become better.<image> “Stop whining! Be like me” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:29 PM |
| – | If women cannot be at peace with being the more sexually valuable gender, heterosexual dating can't become better.Also, stay mad is a declaration of war. Watch Gaza before you try FAFO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 04:56 PM |
| – | If women cannot be at peace with being the more sexually valuable gender, heterosexual dating can't become better.Not mad at all. More like disappointed. When you treat fuck toys like fuck toys you don’t care about being chosen. You choose. That said, you never say it to their face. Only behind their back 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 04:51 PM |
| – | If women cannot be at peace with being the more sexually valuable gender, heterosexual dating can't become better.We also don’t care what you think about our objectification. The way we see it you’re the crazy one who KNOWS that the source of your power is from being objectified and act upon it but then make up complaints about being objectified. Gimme a break. We don’t care. We will cat call you. Talk about your ass behind your back since your showing it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 04:46 PM |
| – | If women cannot be at peace with being the more sexually valuable gender, heterosexual dating can't become better.Whenever a woman is not wearing “objectifying” clothes, somehow magically, I lose the ability to sexually objectify that woman. Either wear a burka or a pant suit or stfu | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 04:38 PM |
| 1 | What are men wanting in terms of dating?But men are ugly and rough and unfuckable. A woman’s embrace is where it’s at | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t Createlol my boy “lived his youth” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 04:55 PM |
| 0 | What are men wanting in terms of dating?Yeah being sexually selected is very important for men. They wait till marriage people might hold a bit of resentment specially if the girl has done that with someone else in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 11:05 PM |
| 1 | What are men wanting in terms of dating?Ironically the scenario I described is exactly how men actually fall in love, otherwise the pressure damages the falling in love circuits. Which is kinda hilarious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:31 PM |
| -1 | What are men wanting in terms of dating?All the women I meet say no to that and almost all say yes to dating for love | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:13 PM |
| -1 | What are men wanting in terms of dating?Honestly what men really want is no real connection either. Or rather a cosmic connection from eye contact only. Similar to the gay community. Those few women have so many 10s as options it’s almost impossible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:00 PM |
| 1 | What are men wanting in terms of dating?Sex, NSA sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠Deep down we all know where that comes from. It’s similar with incels. “Blaming” the other gender comes with low self worth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 06:52 PM |
| 5 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠History matters! Unfortunately that self worth comes from being sexually selected and a history of not being selected. The equivalent in women would be a history of being cheated on. A women’s self worth comes from their man not selecting anyone else. A woman will that history will feel worthless and will probably give up dating. It’s in our dna. Our only option is to acknowledge this and not shame it and work around it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Most men here don't just have dating problem, they're severely under-socialized in general.There are 1000 year old poems about lesbian strippers scissoring on stage in Baghdad in the caliphate, Lilith of “Babylon” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Most men here don't just have dating problem, they're severely under-socialized in general.It all happened under the guise of protecting women from sexual trafficking: https://www.pbs.org/kenburns/unforgivable-blackness/mann-act | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Most men here don't just have dating problem, they're severely under-socialized in general.Wrong! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Most men here don't just have dating problem, they're severely under-socialized in general.If you think sex work is the solution, you shouldn’t be telling men to get sex from prostitutes. You should be asking other women why they banned it? Ask them why they wanted to ban alcohol too? Why don’t they want men to have things they want? Even if it’s not from them? Answer is : because they want men to want it from them and be dependent on them for those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 08:19 PM |
| -2 | If you could be born as a woman instead, would you?Evil is also necessary. I guess I’m just happy it’s not me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 08:14 PM |
| -1 | If you could be born as a woman instead, would you?Cause idk what it’s like and despite all the benefits, I might also become a sadistic narcissistic lil asshole. I know how being a man makes me compassionate, merciful, and “holy” and I wouldn’t wanna lose that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 08:06 PM |
| – | Desperation isn’t that bad.Women make things personal all the time here. Do you know how many times I’ve heard “you might be unattractive” here. How is being juvenile more of a personal attack than that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 07:55 PM |
| -1 | If you could be born as a woman instead, would you?Maybe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 07:52 PM |
| 0 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreatePower is control and influence. Ownership is totalitarianism which you’re proving my point about women’s heinous intentions when you deceived us with feminism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Why should men feel sympathy for women’s right to an abortion?Is it true that the percentage of abortions today are the same rate as child mortality was before modern medicine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 03:02 AM |
| 3 | I don't understand why men take pride in saying they have low standardsOur standards are a direct function of the number of our options. Imagine how many men would have accepted to hookup with you VS how many would have accepted to become your boyfriend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 03:00 AM |
| -3 | Female entitlementThen your point is invalid. Women demand to be treated like goddesses and they are flakey narcissistic gatekeepers of heaven. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateWomen in the 70s and 80s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 02:18 AM |
| -1 | Female entitlementInstead of saying men should treat women like people. I think women should instead say men should treat women like women treat each other. Also the only way for men to learn is to look at how women interact with each other. But a lot of women don’t get to be around women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 02:16 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand why men take pride in saying they have low standardsTrue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 02:06 AM |
| -1 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateYou told us the only reason that you wouldn’t fuck all men was the patriarchy and the system and societal pressure and lack of freedom. Turns out you were just using us. Most older men were against feminism and knew what you were up to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 02:03 AM |
| -3 | Female entitlementWomen are not treating men like people. And women definitely don’t want to be treated the same way men treat each other. Do you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 01:55 AM |
| -4 | Female entitlementHow does men understanding it resolve issues? If any man would say women make too big of a deal out of sex. Just look at gay men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 01:31 AM |
| 5 | I don't understand why men take pride in saying they have low standardsFor hookups not ltr. Women have low standards for ltr. High standards for hookups. Men have low standards for hookups. High standards for ltr. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateYou have to call the threats of scorched earth people. Otherwise they won’t stop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Desperation isn’t that bad.How is that an attack? It’s just an observation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 01:25 AM |
| -5 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateOnly gay couples are truly equal. In access to sex and resources. It was the dream that was sold to men. And then you rug pulled us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateMen are doubling down on the burn down. Like I’m with you let’s burn it all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateHow does it feel to burn it all down? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 10:29 PM |
| -1 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateMen are not immune but the influence is more evolved (since enlightenment. Before that men believed the craziest narratives to justify their actions), although still has a lot of negative influences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 10:11 PM |
| 0 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateYou have to come to one of my lectures. It’s a long story but it starts with. Society is essentially divided into two spaces. Public spaces and private spaces. The main division is beyond the physical barriers of people’s homes, but also barriers of information………… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 10:09 PM |
| 0 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateImagine we’re in 2015 before the men “reacted” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateThese guys here in the comments deny that you and your “awakening” exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 09:50 PM |
| 0 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t Create8 years of no pussy 😭😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Desperation isn’t that bad.Fat cats and starving dogs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 08:59 PM |
| -2 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateWhat’s next, parents should tell their children to stay away from black people? Because they are poorer and more prone to crime? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateEach of those men’s wealth and power is controlled and shared with at least one woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateSource because you’d like to dig more into this idea or you wanna call bs on something? Is all of this because you feel like your reality is threatened? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 07:21 PM |
| -4 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateYeah all these wars over resources stem from women wanting “nicer” things and stronger men. And I’d say their agency in those atrocities shows that they had enough power (not oppressed in relation to men) and shatters the delusion of oppression. It was a balance of power that looked differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 07:09 PM |
| -2 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateYeah that’s something dads shouldn’t tell their daughters. There are moms who tell their sons to be weary of gold diggers and deceiving women. It’s the same thing. Those dads should stop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 07:08 PM |
| -4 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateYou think these animals understand critical and probabilistic thinking? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 06:49 PM |
| -2 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateYes. Power was always more balanced. Now women have taken the male powers too and have become totalitarian. It’s like saying not having all the power is oppression. Entitlement to total power | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 06:49 PM |
| -4 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateThat women as a gender were the oppressed gender. That apparently white women had nothing to do with slavery? IMPOSSIBLE. That Nazi women didn’t exist. Every atrocity that any other sectionally ,besides gender, has done, women are to be blamed for it as much as men. So it’s stupid to buy this narrative of oppressed powerless women who have been absent from these violations and have now just woken up. Specially the more we see the sadistic and narcissistic nature of women (thanks to letting women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 06:46 PM |
| 0 | Desperation isn’t that bad.Most men are like desperate hungry dogs. If you feed us when we’re hungry we’re gonna be more loyal to you and that when feeding us when we already had steak and have more waiting for us elsewhere. We’re also less likely to be loyal if we think we have taken/earned our food. Do with that what you will. Keep feeding dogs who are drowning in it and get your heartbreak. It’s your own making so you deserve the heartbreak | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 06:35 PM |
| -4 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateThose problems with men’s behavior today are influenced by the guilt they wanna impose on modern men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 06:11 PM |
| -4 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateIt’s hilarious that you think that’s true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateI had a three year 50/50 relationship in 2010s. Good times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 05:06 PM |
| -1 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreatePersonally, I’m always in the kitchen helping the women and ranting on how much feminism sucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 04:28 PM |
| 0 | Desperation isn’t that bad.This is your lack of understanding of men (and yourself essentially). Another dynamic is that men are loyal and prefer openness over secrecy. In a non sexual context, when a man openly pleads to another man, and he gets helped, he feels forever indebted to that other helping man and it builds a type of loyalty. Desperate men who are openly desperate are also pleading to be loyal to someone. It’s something very natural to men in male-male dynamics. Gay community is also replete with it. How you s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 04:26 PM |
| -1 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateYet all along women have been actually enslaved, and owned by the patriarchy and they perfected it. The actual patriarchs are living the best lives men could live thanks to their newly collard sex (and wage) slaves. You’ve been retcon’d | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 04:17 PM |
| -2 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateI’m not so sure about that. The historical narratives and the language form thoughts and the judgment you have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateBecause there won’t be any woman left who’s mind is not polluted with their bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateHahaha thanks for the lol. Let’s agree to disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 04:12 PM |
| -5 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateMore mythology than history. I've always preferred mythology to history. History is truth that becomes an illusion. Mythology is an illusion that becomes reality-Jean Cocteau | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 04:11 PM |
| -4 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateYou can leave them alone but they won’t leave your wife alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 04:10 PM |
| 0 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateThat’s my strategy whenever I successfully quit Reddit for a while lol. Just don’t care. Like I would care more about plants and animals than people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 04:09 PM |
| – | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateYou’re clearly an incel who decided to worship at the altar of a woman so you can get access to some mediocre pussy (and get to call other men what you hate the most about yourself. Being an incel) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 04:06 PM |
| 4 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateThey won’t leave the remaining 3 out of 5 alone. They feel like it’s their purpose in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 04:04 PM |
| -4 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateThey want the deal that those men in 1397 had. You get to live and some other men in the future will pay the price. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 04:01 PM |
| -9 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateIt’s interesting that you think that. You clearly don’t know yourself enough. But hey, only a few (usually really old) women do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 03:59 PM |
| -7 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t Createlol you clearly haven’t been in feminist spaces | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 03:56 PM |
| -5 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateYou haven’t been fed historical narratives about oppression of women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 03:52 PM |
| -1 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateAre you sure about that? How much of your beliefs about men are formed by all the feminist (bullshit) historical narratives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 03:51 PM |
| -2 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateIf only women knew themselves around to know that they are evil and that evil isn’t that bad and it’s necessary….. Like we all see the dark kylo ren style revenge fantasy of feminism. Just own it. We don’t necessarily dislike it. We just really dislike the hypocrisy. More and more of them are admitting they are monsters though and owning it. Think Billie eilish bas guy. So that’s a good sign. Like seriously grow the fuck up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 03:51 PM |
| -3 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateActually Chad has a harem. What women don’t understand is that you might have perfected the patriarchy instead of destroying it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 03:48 PM |
| 0 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateTake walk around female spaces and see how men are treated like they are less than dogs. You must be quite the Uncle Tom if your blind to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 03:47 PM |
| -12 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateNo one called women hypergamous or incapable of love in the 90s. Don’t be like Israel where you cite the reaction of the Palestinians as justification for the original crime | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 03:46 PM |
| -13 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateAre you sure about that? How much of your beliefs about men are formed by all the feminist (bullshit) historical narratives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 03:44 PM |
| – | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateI’d say that 2 out of 5 women you meet irl have this wall up because they consume too much it. Like…gtfo here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 03:44 PM |
| 0 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?The number of shitty employer I’ve met who can’t vet or hire for shit would surprise you. How about a little bit of just going along with the world and not think that you know more than god? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 03:42 PM |
| – | Desperation isn’t that bad.You think you’d get raped or assaulted by a desperate man? Or you think you’d have his absolute loyalty? In any case, enjoy being a heartbroken nobody in a harem. You only have your own female brain to blame for your misery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 03:15 PM |
| 0 | Desperation isn’t that bad.Yeah but when it’s quiet, how can it be a signal if it’s a secret? The men you encounter are secretly desperate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 02:45 PM |
| -1 | Desperation isn’t that bad.Desperation could just be a state and not acted on. You’d probably be surprised by how many men live quiet lives of desperation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Desperation isn’t that bad.Making desperate men even more desperate and, give even more options to Chad. Women are sex robots for Chad lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 04:16 AM |
| 0 | Desperation isn’t that bad.Men are attracted to women who want pity sex: just like gays are with other men. Only women have this resentment towards men who are down which ie sadism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 03:45 AM |
| – | Desperation isn’t that bad.You might still be a child. A real woman has maternal instincts and views the “penetration” as taking a person in their embrace, not getting penetrated and violated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 03:32 AM |
| 0 | Desperation isn’t that bad.If they were attracted to men, they %100 would. Gay sex scene is filled with pity sex and it’s an active popular fantasy. “Straight” women just aren’t attracted to males. It’s like this deep resentment and hate towards men which I hypothesize is actually women’s self hatred and hatred of their own sexuality and masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Desperation isn’t that bad.Maybe a virgin man but not necessarily a thirsty man. If you’re upfront about it, %99 of men would accept it. Men don’t wanna commit. Boys do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 12:31 AM |
| 2 | What red flags in women do men commonly miss?Instant buyer’s remorse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 08:58 PM |
| 1 | How do the conversations about women willing to do naughtier things with past partners come up?You wanna do something, you ask have you done this before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 08:57 PM |
| 0 | Desperation isn’t that bad.Honestly pity sex gets a bad rep too. There are periods that a man is really down and in a dark place and pity sex can really help the man leave that place. But women don’t wanna help men. They only accept you if you crawl out of that dark place on your own. Unfortunately, many men don’t make it (suicide, dead inside, checked out, etc.) I’m starting to think they also get a sadistic pleasure from seeing a man down and in a dark place. I just wish they knew themselves and their sadism and narciss… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 08:53 PM |
| -1 | How can men be sexualy attracted to their past prime wives?Sexuality is complicated. Women don’t understand. Only a caricature childish understanding of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 06:55 PM |
| 3 | The "problem" with paying is that men here don't like the types of women willing to pay for themselves on dates.Absolutely not reality 1.She shows she’s pathetic because she sees being an adult as being an asshole 2.they’ll take any woman for sex not relationship. There’s a huuuuuuge difference 3.insta models? So far away from the typical male experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 06:54 PM |
| 9 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?Poor guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 06:49 PM |
| 16 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?The analogy is so telling of how women see men. The fact that they can’t comprehend the evil in it is hilarious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 06:48 PM |
| 17 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?They punish you for losing by pushing you down to even become a bigger loser They reward you for winning by pushing you up to even become a bigger winner Honestly, they can be lonelier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 06:45 PM |
| 5 | The ideal human society is 80% female and 20% male.I’m already a lesbian masc trans woman. I think that’s the purple pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 02:01 AM |
| 3 | The ideal human society is 80% female and 20% male.You can also do that by “trans”ing %60 of men. Every 6 and below | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 01:34 AM |
| -1 | What red flags in women do men commonly miss?Many of them will probably say “that she a hoe” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 11:53 PM |
| – | Do men get crushes on older women?There’s two type of crushes : I like her and I wanna be with her for the rest of my life 2.i like her but I don’t wanna be with her for the rest of my life Older women get the latter, sometimes the “liking” is even stronger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 06:46 PM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementSo letting him cover is a signal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 02:56 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementThanks for sharing your thoughts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 02:33 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementAddressed in the post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 01:28 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementHe might have been taking a revenge on women. Honestly it’s a good strategy to try out good restaurants and have a women pay for some of your food 😈 you won’t see her again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 12:07 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementAgain there’s a distinction between actions outside the date and actions during the date. I personally don’t care about high BC but for the men who, it’s because those “actions” are outside the date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 06:56 PM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is Entitlementhttps://youtu.be/BZd5yJGKMmM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 06:10 PM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementAnd men are happy to weed out gold diggers who can’t spell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 06:09 PM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementPeople who are wealthier than you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 06:00 PM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementNo man wants to be a clown 🤡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 05:59 PM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementHow can you know you’re interested in a stranger enough to pay for her meals? Isn’t the date the venue to find out if you’re really interested in her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 05:59 PM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementBecause that would take away the simping behavior that they have all gotten fat on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 05:57 PM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementYou dodge a bullet and potentially a lifetime of misery | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 05:56 PM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementIf she would replace you for paying her meal, you’re dodging a bullet by avoiding her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 05:55 PM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementYou’d be weeding yourself out. Thank you for your service to men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 05:54 PM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementSo equality only when it benefits you? Figures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 05:54 PM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementWomen aren’t desperate enough yet. I think soon they will be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 05:53 PM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementWe just don’t see it that way. Since childhood we are put in a harsh race and what we do in that race defines who we are. This is about work and beating the competition in jobs, school, sports. That and genetics. These define who we are. Not jester clowning for a woman. If anything jester clowning lowers our self esteem and makes us feel inadequate that we have to do it in order to get selected. If we were selected for what we do for the woman, and not what we have done outside of the date, we w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 05:24 PM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementWomen need their own enlightenment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 05:05 PM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementThey are either gaslighting us or gaslighting themselves. In either case, the default should be don’t believe women in these matters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 05:02 PM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementWomen in the kitchen was also a tradition | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 04:54 PM |
| 0 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementRelationships in hell maybe. Everyone is attracted to that and women at best only do the “I’ve got you” for the ice cream. Not the $300 meal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 05:23 AM |
| 3 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementEntitlement looks ugly to every man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 04:58 AM |
| 3 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementThis is why I have my other post about women not understanding men. Men want to be selected for who they ARE not what they can DO. Beat the competition by who they are / have become. Competing by what a man can do makes men feel like jester clowns. Furthermore the idea of a woman choosing you over someone else because you paid is kinda disgusting to men. Women need enlightenment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 04:57 AM |
| 0 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementEvery first date that has resulted in sex and long term relationships, I’ve paid. I think we should normalize using paying as a signal for sex. Heck, we even have it in pop culture “you’re not gonna buy me dinner first?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 04:23 AM |
| -1 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementIf someone REALLY wants a stranger, they are either naive or disingenuous. I think another norm that should be there is weighing the meaning of paying for the whole thing based on the level of financial resources a man has. The %50 from the employee should be stronger signal of interest than the %100 from the CEO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementI’m gonna use this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 03:55 AM |
| 3 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementTo all the commenters who say this post is obvious. Here’s your evidence ☝️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 03:54 AM |
| 5 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is Entitlementdon’t you ask these attractive men out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementYeah by ugly women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementI personally don’t go on a second date if we don’t have sex on the first date because I know exactly what I want from a long term partner. And every time I pay for dinner on the first date and we don’t have sex, they ALWAYS come back for a second date. ALWAYS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementMost people set their goals as “trying” to change the world. You avoid failure the moment you start trying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 03:44 AM |
| 0 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementThat’s a conversation that is too weird to have. Which is why we go by these socially accepted of theatrics of when the bill comes and she offers and he says no way i got this. These are cultural artifacts . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 03:42 AM |
| 0 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementIn many cases men who feel entitled after paying. They keep paying until they have sex (conquest/make their money’s worth back) and then ghost. Unfortunately, this is far too common which can be avoided if women insisted on paying or have sex when they’re not paying (not paying as a signal for consent). Are a string of free things worth the heartbreak? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 03:40 AM |
| 7 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is Entitlement💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 03:31 AM |
| 5 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementSome people don’t care about looking ugly 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementAnd I’m telling them that it’s as ugly as an entitled incel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 01:54 AM |
| 0 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementThey are not just telling men they should pay. They are also telling women to be entitled. He is the sole champion of women and feminists on the “male issue”. My post is directed towards women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 01:49 AM |
| 0 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementEven in abundance, you still invest time and energy into a single date and the entitlement shouldn’t be there (it’s almost universally there in reality) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementMen are told by mainstream figures like Scott Galloway that they SHOULD pay regardless. It’s ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 01:37 AM |
| 5 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementI’ve met probably around 20-30 women over the past few years and none of them stated it upfront. In a very liberal huge city. I think women should take this to heart that if the men pays he feels entitled to sex (he might not take it), so they should insist on 50/50 if they don’t want to have sex. Honestly this should be the most clear and polite way to signal whether we want to have sex or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 01:21 AM |
| 6 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementYes. You should work towards all those things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 01:19 AM |
| 8 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementI did I wrote a post about it a while ago and I got hordes of women saying that’s crazy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 01:14 AM |
| -1 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementKinda agree. It’s exactly like when men say there is nothing wrong if she doent hook up on the first date. I will simply choose/commit to the woman who does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 01:10 AM |
| 14 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementI’m saying this is cultural issue and needs to be resolved on a cultural level not personal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 01:08 AM |
| 0 | Men had their Enlightenment in the 17th and 18th centuries. Women’s may be about to comeWhat else was there besides written word? To communicate ideas across space and time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 12:00 AM |
| -1 | Men had their Enlightenment in the 17th and 18th centuries. Women’s may be about to comeKnow thyself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 11:56 PM |
| -6 | Men had their Enlightenment in the 17th and 18th centuries. Women’s may be about to comeI’m sure there have been and there are many women that have figured it out for themselves. But being able to articulate it and then pass it on and then someone else reading it and pushing things forward step by step is a cooperative collective inter generational inquiry to find the truth. Women have just started doing this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 11:55 PM |
| -1 | Men had their Enlightenment in the 17th and 18th centuries. Women’s may be about to comeI’m sure there were. That’s not the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 11:53 PM |
| -2 | Men had their Enlightenment in the 17th and 18th centuries. Women’s may be about to comeEnlightenment is the product of a handful of very special men throughout history having a conversation. It’s academia and it’s a collective inquiry to find the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 11:52 PM |
| -3 | Men had their Enlightenment in the 17th and 18th centuries. Women’s may be about to comeKnowing yourself is essentially knowing your own sexuality fam. Which almost none of Yall do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 11:13 PM |
| -10 | Men had their Enlightenment in the 17th and 18th centuries. Women’s may be about to comeThat’s a consequence of enlightenment and knowing ourselves. Talk to me when you know what you want and it doesn’t change 1000 times throughout your life or day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 11:12 PM |
| -5 | Men had their Enlightenment in the 17th and 18th centuries. Women’s may be about to comeI don’t think you really understand the post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 09:01 PM |
| -8 | Men had their Enlightenment in the 17th and 18th centuries. Women’s may be about to comeThe only medium was books and yes %99 of books before enlightenment were written by men (men who read the previous books written by men) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 08:50 PM |
| -5 | Men had their Enlightenment in the 17th and 18th centuries. Women’s may be about to come%99.9 of books written before the enlightenment were written by men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 08:49 PM |
| -11 | Men had their Enlightenment in the 17th and 18th centuries. Women’s may be about to comeExcept they didn’t have the discussions or media. Also, Islamic scholars contributed to the male enlightenment discourse during medieval periods | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 08:34 PM |
| -18 | Men had their Enlightenment in the 17th and 18th centuries. Women’s may be about to comeWomen don’t know themselves the same way men do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 08:29 PM |
| -1 | How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man?Good for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:19 PM |
| -3 | How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man?So a bunch of jersey wearing basic midwestern white trash? Jk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:16 PM |
| 1 | How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man?Delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man?As they should | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 03:21 PM |
| 2 | The Scum manifesto has some good points…This whole men “date for other men”. Is this coming from that Sean Penn taxi driver movie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 03:15 PM |
| 0 | How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man?Is that the opposite of your friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 03:10 PM |
| -1 | How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man?Its capitalistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 08:55 AM |
| 0 | How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man?Let’s say %25 of people don’t get to have what the remaining %75 do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 08:54 AM |
| 1 | How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man?Many men have had %0 of the same experiences as other people. It’s a sad pitiful truth. You know the word pathetic did not originally have a negative connotation. Etymologically, it just means that which evokes extreme emotions or pathos. Assholeness has become such a norm that if someone’s existence makes people feel things, they blame the person for ruining their day by letting others see his misery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 08:08 AM |
| 0 | How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man?I suppose it’s the same here. All the women are saying that same thing. Which is probably as absurd as the sex, Chad, OF, and BB narrative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 08:05 AM |
| 1 | How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man?This is one of my conclusions after 2 years of ppd: The dating life that men wanna have is wasted on women and the dating life women wanna have is wasted on men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 07:49 AM |
| 1 | How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man?Miss out? Why would they get into a relationship if they wanted that in their 40s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 07:48 AM |
| 2 | How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man?Except fashion designer, jewelry maker, etc. are your specific wants. To reframe your examples into alignment with the subject at hand (dating): Now imagine everyone wanted to be a fashion designer and most get to be but you’re the only one who didn’t. No one got in a car accident except for you and few other ones like you. No one got sexually assaulted expect for you and few others. Everyone got to travel to Europe and Asia and Africa except for you and a few other losers. I’d be interested to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 07:47 AM |
| 1 | How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man?Yeah. You couldn’t have the life you wanted as a man. Almost no man does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 07:36 AM |
| 1 | How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man?Like someone having hookups and fwbs in their 40s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 07:35 AM |
| 6 | How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man?It’s adorable that you think you’d have more sex as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:47 AM |
| 1 | How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man?Are your groups of friends a group of chads? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:46 AM |
| 3 | How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man?What if you lose your virginity at 26? How would you live the rest of it? So imagine you failed at your teen and early 20s flirts and casuals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:44 AM |
| 2 | How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man?How much sex have you had? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 05:43 AM |
| – | If Men Had Understood Hypergamy, Would They Have Supported Feminism?But that’s designed for hunter gatherer times where human rights didn’t exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 02:04 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men are constantly contradicting themselves when they shame a woman for doing OF or being a porn starBring out the whore. We’re all waiting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 12:34 AM |
| 3 | If Men Had Understood Hypergamy, Would They Have Supported Feminism?How are you so sure that it’s “simply true”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 10:56 PM |
| 0 | A lot of men are constantly contradicting themselves when they shame a woman for doing OF or being a porn starSo many women are ashamed of their own whore/pig. They don’t know that we all like that whore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 10:29 PM |
| 0 | A lot of men are constantly contradicting themselves when they shame a woman for doing OF or being a porn starI think the fact there are so many whores kinda proves that there’s a whore in every woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 06:31 PM |
| 6 | A lot of men are constantly contradicting themselves when they shame a woman for doing OF or being a porn starIt’s similar to how women expect below average worker drone men to do their job and clean their streets for them but would never date them and shame them for being losers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.They are literally discovering their sexuality as we speak | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.Its capitalistic. One advice men rarely get is that you gotta start at the bottom. It’s almost impossible to pull a 7+ without some initial confidence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.Maybe! Maybe the ones who have hookups are just louder. They are definitely cooler | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 09:47 PM |
| 0 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.Because men have had a thousands years old scholarly tradition of writing down their thoughts in an inter-generational dialogue, they have come to a better understanding of themselves, their own feminine side, and better understanding of femininity. The dialogue essentially needed a handful of figures to have the conversation. I’d say it culminated in the enlightenment and neitzsche was the finishing touch. Women have just started but are catching up quick. The female brain hasn’t had this dialo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.I’m sure there are a handful of women over 25 who’ve never had casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.Must be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.Yeah that’s covered in under “special problems” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:53 PM |
| -6 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.Women don’t understand men. Men understand women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.If they can, yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:35 PM |
| 10 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.LMAO suuureee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:35 PM |
| 9 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.You’d be the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:12 PM |
| -1 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.Cause they can and they are human beings. The ones who don’t have special problems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.The key is understanding that you’d be too under the same circumstances | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:06 PM |
| – | Have you ever lost attraction after seeing someone naked I, as a woman, haveWhy do you feel guilty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexFuck yeah 🤘🤘 You shouldn’t be on Reddit. This place is for damaged people. Unless it’s a character, which I totally get it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexHave you slept with every man you’ve found attractive? And that there hasn’t been any you found attractive that you didn’t sleep with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexSo there aren’t any men, that women find attractive, but won’t have sex with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexWomen are not sleeping with most of the men they are attracted to. The selectivity is applied unto the subset of men that are attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexThat’s the point, I hypothesized that if women became less selective, the sex would become better for women because men overall will get better at sex. The situation right now is Harry and Tom don’t have any experience and casual sex with them is subpar while Dick knows what to do but he’s spoiled by all of his options in his harem that he doesn’t deliver to %99 of his options. I.e. Dick has become selective. Women becoming less selective does two things :1.Dick becomes less spoiled and more car… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexYeah the “majority of dudes who have casual sex” are a minority of dudes that all women have casual sex with. And they suck the way you described them because women give them access to a harem. 🤷♂️ My theory is that if women would become less selective, it would be better for everyone. The dudes who get casual sex, the dudes who don’t, and the women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexThose are dudes who get casual sex (minority of dudes) and they are like that because they can get always get it from their different options. I.e. they just don’t care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexYes if women want better casual sex experience, they should let men practice. Women are complaining about not orgasms during casual sex but they are depriving the men of the experience that can make them good at casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexYou make my point for me thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexBeing less selective makes more sex happen and generally people will get better at sex. This is a skill and experience issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 07:30 PM |
| 0 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexThe ones who aren’t good might be that way because they don’t care enough. They have too many women available to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexIt’s an observation champ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexWomen getting to select is different than women’s selectivity. Women’s selectivity is women selectivity among men. Attracted to some but not the most. Selectivity means “this one, not those ones” Because women seem to share a lot of criteria for selecting, a lot of them point to the same one when they say “this one” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 05:00 AM |
| 0 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexThe more selective women become, the less the men they will select will care about the women’s orgasms, and therefore the larger orgasm gap becomes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 04:34 AM |
| – | Q4w: who fucks better?It’s a movie about a one night stand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 11:37 PM |
| – | Q4w: who fucks better?Like before sunrise (1995)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexStill %75 of all orgasms are had by men and %25 of total orgasms by women. Because for each orgasm the man who orgasms gives, there are 4 orgasms he receives. The values you calculated are the likelihoods of a woman or a man having one orgasm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 09:56 PM |
| 0 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexWhich can only be learned through experience. Some men have too much experience and options and in many cases don’t care enough to cater to any individual ( a symptom of too many options). Some men have too little and are too self conscious to be able to get someone else to relax | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 08:42 PM |
| – | Q4w: who fucks better?Women select men with lots of experiences and those men probably know how to make the experience great if they want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 07:46 PM |
| 0 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexI’m not selling anything. What I do here is charity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:45 PM |
| 0 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexIt’s a skill. A type of social skill. And it goes both ways. Both making strangers feel safe around you and being able to feel safe around strangers are essentially social skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexLucky girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexI will get them laid. Mark my words 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:21 PM |
| 0 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual Sex“Just use four words. Harder, softer, faster, slower” is not an awkward conversation to have with a stranger and in most cases it gets the job done | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:20 PM |
| 0 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexThose are learned with experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexPeople go at it at different pace. Some who go through it early might look like “naturals” but there naturals don’t exist and I definitely wasn’t. Men are made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:13 PM |
| – | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexGooner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexSome will. Many won’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:10 PM |
| -2 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexLmao maybe I don’t have anything to say to YOU | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexLearning what things to say to reassure your partner so she wouldn’t be self conscious (which is just really saying what you think in that moment and how hot she is to you and shot like that), is a skill that is learned through experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:07 PM |
| 5 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexHaving a plethora of options? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexPersonally I’ve gotten better at pleasing a new partner throughout my life and through experience (mostly learned to openly communicate about sex) and I’ve grown up with a lot of men who ended up going through a similar journey | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:03 PM |
| -2 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexGo read Plato and Aristotle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexYes but do you see the unintended consequences of this mentality for women? As described in the post. I personally don’t suffer those consequences because most men don’t think like me. I actually think the necessary change should not only be women becoming less selective (masculine) but also men thinking more like me (feminine). It would make virgin women less sought after and balance things out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexMost “naturals” I know weren’t born naturals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:48 PM |
| -2 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexLogic is the ONLY “reality” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexMaybe you’ve never experienced it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:42 PM |
| -4 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexIf you have a plethora of options, you don’t necessarily want to sleep with many of your options more than once | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexCommunication is a two way concept? 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexI agree but even then, for guy to just stfu and let a girl ride his face is a skill that is learned from experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexIf you think jerking off alone is better than cumming with a partner, goon away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:36 PM |
| 0 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexYou might but there might be things that you can never learn and so many give up learning and end up in a dead bedroom situation. Here we’re talking about orgasms during casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:36 PM |
| -3 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexYou’re right. That one comes from pure logic. There are exceptions meaning the woman is so hot that most of his the other alternatives end up getting the short end of the stick with that guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:33 PM |
| 4 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexYou’re wrong. I love women authors and I’ll definitely look into her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:29 PM |
| 0 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual Sex-Abundance causes selfishness -Communication is the key skill that comes with practice -Agreed. But also needs skills | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:28 PM |
| -1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexIf women are less selective, two things happen: 1.no more abundance/feast for the desirable men 2.no more famine for the undesirable men It would create a balance if women’s selectivity matched men’s selectivity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:27 PM |
| 0 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexIt also takes time to get to know a woman’s body. Sexually prolific men are prone to ghost and disappear and not be persistent enough in a fwb situation to get the woman there eventually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexIt’s probably a factor but the man knowing how to communicate with the woman is probably the most effective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:24 PM |
| -1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexAll of the propositions here are rooted in previous discussions in this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexI was just as shocked when I found out about this too. We think they function like us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:08 PM |
| 0 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexA key apprehension to casual sex that women mention is lack of orgasms. This post is addressing casual sex only. Although I’m also arguing that lack of experience can have consequences into long term committed relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexWhat if he did? And most of your encounters before your partners ended up in orgasm? Wouldn’t that be better than jerking off alone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:41 PM |
| -3 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexBe less selective, which would result in : 1.incentivizing the minority to try 2.the majority to learn And therefore, more orgasms for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexThe ones who don’t care, are probably the ones who never had one. I think all humans who have orgasms agree universally that it’s amazing. What a pity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:37 PM |
| 0 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexThere’s so much potential and so many potential orgasms going to waste. It’s like collectively shooting yourself in the foot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:35 PM |
| 0 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexHe’s being clever. I’m just marching his language | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:33 PM |
| -2 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexYour anatomies are %99 percent the same. You might like different things. Learning to communicate is a skill that comes from practice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:33 PM |
| -4 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexBruh, if she’s cumming while riding your face, she might not be thinking about you and remembering that one time someone did that to her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexEnding up in a relationship, and being a sexless loser up until that relationship, are not mutually exclusive I for one am apprehensive towards virgins and inexperienced women (or “sexless loser women” )because they wouldn’t know how to please me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:27 PM |
| -7 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexPersists into relationships because many sexless losers never get to learn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:21 PM |
| -3 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexHow would they learn without actually experiencing it? Can you become an athlete by reading books about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexSome people don’t really want anything in life, but to understand it This is about women’s complains about not orgasming in casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:16 PM |
| 7 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexSome men know what it takes to get a woman to orgasm and just don’t care enough to do so. Others just don’t know and have had no way of learning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:13 PM |
| 2 | If you have to perform niceness or play jester on a date, then you’re not actually desired.Is she from Iraq? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:55 AM |
| 2 | If you have to perform niceness or play jester on a date, then you’re not actually desired.Yes instant consent is sexier than delayed/conditional consent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?It’s a form of power. Women can visually “defeat” men. It’s like fucking a man’s mind and then discard it like it’s nothing. It’s analogous to walking around and getting slapped/dominated/overpowered by everyone you encounter. Some men like it. Some men are true subs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?Accepting the world (selectivity) as is a feminine paradigm. Changing the world that is, is a masculine paradigm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Resentment in the marketThis is something deeper than what robots could understand. Keep scrolling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Weak males need protection like other minority groupsI’m saying I don’t know. I’m not as smart as the government. I don’t know how to do placebo controlled random trials. I let the government figure it out. Is that so hard to digest? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Weak males need protection like other minority groupsAsk the government for help. I’m not the government. I promise you they’ll have solutions. Ask first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Weak males need protection like other minority groupsThe feds wouls swat them on day two | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 04:05 PM |
| 0 | Weak males need protection like other minority groupsA network of lgbt organizations and annual month long festivals definitely help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Weak males need protection like other minority groupsThe government will figure it out if it should | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Women consistently reinforce that attraction is Amoral. Yet continue to moralize unsuccessful Mens inability to be selected. Depending on Narrative and ContextThis sounds a “hotter” girl took the man you wanted at some point? Is that when you realized you need social skills are necessary ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 03:44 PM |
| 6 | Women consistently reinforce that attraction is Amoral. Yet continue to moralize unsuccessful Mens inability to be selected. Depending on Narrative and ContextAnd many women, when pushed, admit that they only care about looks when it’s a hookup (no future) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 03:43 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women's expectations are written by players who center their lives around womanizingAre you talking about overweight porn stars? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 09:56 PM |
| 1 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.“If you don’t like what’s being said, change the conversation” - Don Draper | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for.Don’t worry. Men commit to the best they think they can get. Men go low for hookups/ons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 02:50 AM |
| – | I just needed to put this out.That guy was gay. He couldn’t get a hookup or ons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 02:40 AM |
| – | I just needed to put this out.Some people just wanna burn everything. I don’t blame them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 12:52 AM |
| – | I just needed to put this out.Like the Chinese guy at the end of everything everywhere all at once | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Who told men being nice would lead to sex?Then say the words “yes. when it comes to casual sex, I only care about physical looks” or if you can be really honest say “when I’m horny and I just wanna nut, I only choose based on looks” The meaning and the implication of these is different than “women find certain physical characteristics attractive” or “not afraid to admit what they find attractive” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Who told men being nice would lead to sex?No you didn’t answer my question. You answered a question I didn’t ask. And I know it’s on purpose because I am sure you’re not that dumb (?) and it’s out of fear, shame, guilt, and lack of understanding of the self (know thyself). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Who told men being nice would lead to sex?“Women do not have a hard time admitting what they find attractive” nice try playing with words. I see what you’re doing and you just made my point. Coward | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 07:55 PM |
| 4 | Who told men being nice would lead to sex?Women would acknowledge the existence of an unattractive man? Let alone give him advice on how to become physically attractive? Also why do women had a hard time admitting that they are as shallow as men when it comes to casual sex? Is there a sense of guilt and shame? Also do women listen to men for advice or ask their “competition?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Who told men being nice would lead to sex?For water? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 03:14 PM |
| 5 | Why do men slut-shaming?Madonna/whore much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 03:12 PM |
| 4 | Who told men being nice would lead to sex?So men should walk up to women with a band of money to get laid? Is that the advice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 03:08 PM |
| 5 | Who told men being nice would lead to sex?I know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 03:08 PM |
| 5 | Who told men being nice would lead to sex?What should men be told to you in your opinion as advice on how to get laid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 12:34 PM |
| -2 | Why do men slut-shaming?Cause there’s a woman who slut shames (sometimes their mother) and they want to win her approval. Men love sluts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 11:54 AM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADShe might’ve beaten a few of em but a good chunk of em she couldn’t keep around so them beat her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 04:31 PM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADHey that means he beat 66 other guys. Or some may interpret it as 66 other guys beat him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Is an average woman dating an average man considered "settling?"Q1: in her delusional mind, she’s settling. Realistically, he’s more than she deserves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 02:21 PM |
| 1 | No one told men marriage was gonna be a nonstop fuck fest.It’s like saying when women were not let into work spaces, that was their issue not men’s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 02:19 PM |
| 2 | No one told men marriage was gonna be a nonstop fuck fest.For most men there is no guaranteed sex besides commitment and the oldest profession is not an alternative for some men because it’s not real. Hookup culture is not an option to half of men due to physical/psychological reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 01:32 AM |
| 0 | Men and women do not live the same lifeNo they just have more pleasure with people who wouldn’t connect with them. That type of “connection” pales in comparison to platonic connections men have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 06:25 PM |
| -4 | Men and women do not live the same lifeNah they don’t have an advantage when it comes to commitment. In face they are desperate for it for most of their lives same way men are desperate for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 05:54 PM |
| 1 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.No she was another Nietzsche | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 05:50 AM |
| 0 | The difficulty gap between attractive and unattractive women is not large enough to justify lowering your standards as a man. It is for a womanYou might be right. That might explain the “difficulty gap”. In the game that women play in life popularity matters a lot more than men. So you glow up early and never experience the step function. Or almost all women experience it early when you learn how to take care of yourself. So you also experience a step function but earlier and more universally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Ideas of ways to be less resentfulMy understanding is that older women stay away from young men because they don’t wanna “ruin” them. It’s a consequence of golden rule thinking. Women don’t like older men fucking young women for some reason so they don’t fuck young men for the same reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 02:10 AM |
| 3 | The difficulty gap between attractive and unattractive women is not large enough to justify lowering your standards as a man. It is for a womanMany men including I have experienced this all or nothing phenomenon. It’s either almost all women would or none would. It’s a step function. You also experience when you start dating someone. For women it’s closer to a gradual spectrum | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 01:13 AM |
| 3 | The difficulty gap between attractive and unattractive women is not large enough to justify lowering your standards as a man. It is for a womanOne hundred percent. Women’s programming (in always rejecting a certain fixed percentage of men no matter the circumstances) is working against them in this case. It makes sure unattractive ones never get a chance. Pity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Ideas of ways to be less resentful2.we’re talking about sex without commitment. 3.it’s still way better than nothing. Some young men never experience just the warmth of the physical touch of a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 12:42 AM |
| 6 | "Women should take me as I am!" is men also being picky like women if he's not likable.It’s like they are just realizing men are human beings too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 09:41 PM |
| 1 | I’ve seen the idea that sex for some women can be tied to emotional validation like feeling desired, cared for, or emotionally connected. But I’m curious about situations where a hookup is mainly based on physical attraction or opportunity.Many women talk about how their brains turn off during sex, it’s fascinating. Wondering how true it is. I mean most women close their eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 06:15 PM |
| 2 | I’ve seen the idea that sex for some women can be tied to emotional validation like feeling desired, cared for, or emotionally connected. But I’m curious about situations where a hookup is mainly based on physical attraction or opportunity.That would be interesting to see. That on a large scale what kind of male escort would be the most popular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 06:13 PM |
| 1 | I’ve seen the idea that sex for some women can be tied to emotional validation like feeling desired, cared for, or emotionally connected. But I’m curious about situations where a hookup is mainly based on physical attraction or opportunity.I was listening to Aella talk to some uptight women about not being scared of SW and do exposure therapy for their disgust response to strangers. Honestly I think SW can potentially become like gig work where anyone can participate in. It’s just overall a more honest system. The main blocker is other women having a visceral reaction to it. You’re good. Keep going. Godspeed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 06:08 PM |
| 1 | I’ve seen the idea that sex for some women can be tied to emotional validation like feeling desired, cared for, or emotionally connected. But I’m curious about situations where a hookup is mainly based on physical attraction or opportunity.🥹 please teach your sisters the way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 06:02 PM |
| 1 | I’ve seen the idea that sex for some women can be tied to emotional validation like feeling desired, cared for, or emotionally connected. But I’m curious about situations where a hookup is mainly based on physical attraction or opportunity.You DID consider dating the man you had sex with in 2020 then. Also what? You’re in a polycule? Respect 🫡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 05:52 PM |
| 0 | I’ve seen the idea that sex for some women can be tied to emotional validation like feeling desired, cared for, or emotionally connected. But I’m curious about situations where a hookup is mainly based on physical attraction or opportunity.I love how women try to reverse the table by saying stuff like “be my sex toy for the night”. You try to rage bait men by saying what you think is how the worst kinda man describes a hookup. We know it’s not true. We know that every single man you sleep with, you lowkey hope he stays and becomes the one and not disqualify themselves after | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Ideas of ways to be less resentful1.education, teaching boys and girls practical courage and etiquette and cross gender understanding in dating 2.normalizing older women/younger men casual sex 3.regulating/destigmatizing/decriminalizing physical sex work (with trained sex workers) Just off the top of my head | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Women saying they wouldn't date younger is meaningless.Modern young men like older women. And there is this whole idea of learning the ropes from an older experienced woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Ideas of ways to be less resentfulYeah we’re moving backwards. Or maybe it looks like that cause society is going through a cycle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Women saying they wouldn't date younger is meaningless.Even when the food is begging you to eat it, you just don’t do it. You’d be helping them out in life if you have sex with them. You think you’re protecting them. They resent you for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 03:03 AM |
| 0 | Ideas of ways to be less resentfulBack then there was famine on both sides. We can keep moving forward and eliminate the famine or move backwards and balance famine on both sides. Yes or even older women with younger men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 02:51 AM |
| 1 | I find women from other countries respect men more than in USA?How come it’s happening at the peak of women’s power in history? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 02:27 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand the big deal about going DutchThose men are offended either because 1.it’s like pocket change to them or 2.they have bought into the propaganda that men have to pay and don’t wanna risk it 3.think that if it’s gonna be a ons, they definitely have to pay (I haven’t gotten a kiss without paying) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Ideas of ways to be less resentfulThis is not an idea for you but a general idea to think about. It seems like the whole problem comes from men just wanting sex. I think it’s a famine mentality that causes this and the minority of healthy men who don’t experience the famine, seem to end up being suitable partners. Well, let’s make sure the next generation of men grow up like women and don’t grow up with a famine mentality. Specially during those formative years where most women also experiment with sexuality. This would make the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 02:22 AM |
| 3 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.No I agree with what you wrote. Although you wrote it sarcastically. Personal validation through forms of sexual selection is deeply ingrained into men and women’s dna. You can’t do anything about it. Cest la vie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 12:55 AM |
| 2 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.And women’s ego is only validated with monogamy (dick validation) Cest la vie indeed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 12:49 AM |
| 1 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.They don’t know themselves yet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 12:45 AM |
| 0 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.Just drop the word “ego” and be done with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 12:42 AM |
| 3 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.Without men’s support, it wouldn’t have happened. To you that sounds like not being a terrible person. Ok. To me being a woman in 2026 and not actively supporting men’s issues the way men supported women’s liberation is being terrible person. So you should actively do what you can to help with men’s issues, without expecting any gratitude. Otherwise you’d be a terrible person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 12:26 AM |
| 1 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.For supporting women’s lib | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 12:05 AM |
| 2 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.Specially a stranger, if the stranger is hot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 08:38 PM |
| 1 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.And they say this instead of “thank you for your support, we couldn’t have done it without you” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 08:35 PM |
| 1 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.Women’s lib | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 08:06 PM |
| 0 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.Something about men understanding their own feminine side and generally understanding women as a consequence. Women don’t know their masculine side yet because there hasn’t been a female Nietzsche yet. Understanding is necessary for empathy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 08:06 PM |
| 0 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.Ahhh you mean women are just scared beings and men who can’t get laid have tragic endings ( buying bath water) as a consequence ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 08:02 PM |
| 0 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.Thousands of years of scholarly tradition. (Men writing down their thoughts). Women just started recently but are catching up much much faster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 07:16 PM |
| 1 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.Please explain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 07:15 PM |
| 2 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.Why does my very expensive therapist keep insisting that women are just as horny as men? What’s that about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:08 PM |
| -3 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.Way more men empathize with women than women. I know why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 05:55 PM |
| 0 | I find women from other countries respect men more than in USA?It should matter to those who have a lot of critical things to say about history (men) And the planet is not gonna blow up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 05:54 PM |
| -2 | I find women from other countries respect men more than in USA?Some women of today will not be remembered positively in history | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"We built so much technology so women would be safe in sex. And women are safe from dangers of sex. Also sex shouldn’t be painful, see a doctor. The problem is it seems like no matter how much safer and more pleasant the sex becomes for women, they would still hold on to this irrational crazy fear like someone who is afraid of their own shadow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 02:34 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?Insist and pay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 11:21 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?No yeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 10:36 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?Pay for the first date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 09:46 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?Humans make norms and norms become laws | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 09:44 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?According to awful women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 09:42 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?They would become slaves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 09:38 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?The norms precede the laws | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 08:56 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?Tarzan must have the best life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 08:55 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?It’s just an example. There’s more. Ask ai | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 08:54 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?Icy 🥶 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 08:53 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?Aristocrat’s (cat’s) definition of survival is way different than a peasants (dog’s) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 08:52 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?lol projecting much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 08:47 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?The post is about the statement “women to need men anymore” and “men are obsolete” that has been everywhere in the zeitgeist since the 90s. Also lol maybe that’s what men should start doing, only marry a woman that you’d be financially dependent on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:50 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?Society has always had a solution for women who wanna survive without having sex but with a more simple lifestyle. No more nice things. A convent is an example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:47 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?If women think today that men are obsolete because of financial independence, they don’t understand love the way men do and they show us their true nature in how they view men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:44 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?The wold of the past was set up that way by men and women. Stop degrading our grandmothers. The work you had to do to be independent was of no interest to women. There were no office jobs back then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:42 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?It’s something men understand. Something about women being incapable of love the way men understand love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:27 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?The idea that a woman couldn’t survive in a society without marrying a man is funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:25 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?“Shitty fucking assholes” 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:24 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?For most of history education and scholarship was not generally valued by society and women. Up until the Industrial Revolution, the only valuable things were hard power, and gold. Since the Industrial Revolution, education became tangibly valuable and women’s movements and interest in education followed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:22 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?What do kids have to do with a woman’s survival ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:12 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?Good for women of today. But it makes women of the past look horrible (which may say something about women generally) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:10 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?BECAUSE the vast majority of women were not interested in education, the norms around colleges being fraternities were formed. I’m sure there were a minority of women who wanted to break norms, but not large enough to change them. We have norms today about female spaces that deny men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:09 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?I think becoming a nun would have been a better choice than to sell yourself and leach of another person to survive like a parasite. Idk I’m a mammal ape, I don’t think like parasites | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:01 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?That’s just them acting dumb and hiding their true selves and showing their lack of self awareness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:59 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?Thanks 🙏. Pay attention here guys ☝️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:58 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?So in those relationships before 70s the woman was only there because of financial resources. What a lovely wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:58 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?Bank accounts are modern inventions. A century max. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:56 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?Nice. Everyone pay attention here ☝️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:55 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?And your dependence was only financial? You have no idea that this actually makes women look bad? Women seem to lack self awareness here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:54 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?Up until the enlightenment, women were not even interested in education. They thought it was for gay nerds lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:53 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?Women are fascinated by love the way men are fascinated with sex. It’s obsession over something not accessible to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:50 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?Not at all. They go after more toxic guys. lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:45 PM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?It’s just something an employer would say and women lack self awareness when they say it. Like a sex robot will never replace the nourishment a real woman gives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 06:43 PM |
| -2 | Do abusive men have good personalities?lol is personality just defined as : personality = human - looks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 03:51 AM |
| 0 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?A lot of women around the world are showing themselves in less clothes and most seem to be sexually available. When there is so much available, the man who gets more wins. 🦍🦧 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 03:49 AM |
| -1 | Do abusive men have good personalities?What’s an ideal “great personality”? Examples from pop culture? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 02:48 AM |
| 3 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?It is true though, men still want the sex and women still want the ltr but both neither are chasing it anymore. It’s over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 01:13 AM |
| 0 | Could the sexual objectification of women actually have had a role in the rise of the manosphere?Women raising the bar for LTRs is as hilarious as men raising the bar for casual/ONS lol It sounds like an incel raising his standards for sex It sounds like someone increasing the price of a product he’s selling that no one is buying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 12:01 AM |
| – | Women don't really view men as human beings in romantic contextsIs women saying “women want to date men they are attracted to” a euphemism for “some men are just unattractive” ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 08:11 AM |
| 1 | With the saying "She's not yours, its just your turn". In the end us men is just another option to you right?It’s a planet with 8 billion people. Any irrational fear you might have, there’s already at least a case for it. OR you can bring in a toy to a ONS to have a man AND an orgasm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 07:05 AM |
| 1 | With the saying "She's not yours, its just your turn". In the end us men is just another option to you right?Suuuurrrreeeee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 06:51 AM |
| 1 | With the saying "She's not yours, its just your turn". In the end us men is just another option to you right?The pool of candidates for ONS must definitely be larger than the one for relationships. Gimme a break on social judgment and safety in 2026, and grab vibrator so you cum | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 06:12 AM |
| 0 | With the saying "She's not yours, its just your turn". In the end us men is just another option to you right?Then by that logic ONS are also never losses. Why don’t women have them all the time? Orgasms? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 05:10 AM |
| 0 | With the saying "She's not yours, its just your turn". In the end us men is just another option to you right?But ideally you would’ve loved it if you loved olives and didn’t have to try chocolate or vanilla r … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 04:43 AM |
| -1 | With the saying "She's not yours, its just your turn". In the end us men is just another option to you right?Lol it’s not me it’s life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 04:41 AM |
| -3 | With the saying "She's not yours, its just your turn". In the end us men is just another option to you right?It is for women unfortunately. I mean you’d prefer to find the one you align with as fast as possible right? Ideally the first bf or the second or idk the fifth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 04:40 AM |
| -3 | With the saying "She's not yours, its just your turn". In the end us men is just another option to you right?They don’t have to but every person you end up with that doesn’t align is a loss on your part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 03:49 AM |
| -2 | With the saying "She's not yours, its just your turn". In the end us men is just another option to you right?Life is a game. You win more the faster you figure out what you want in a relationship and who you’re compatible with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 03:24 AM |
| -4 | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itThey know we want them and we know they want us. We pull back, they’ll come to us. Men are becoming defeminized and can win this game of chicken. Just act cool guys 😎 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Men only need sex to assert themselves over women.It’s a perspective and it’s a negative view of the concept of surrendering. Negative view of the idea of letting go. Lack of trust in the person you’re surrendering to. Shit like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Women have ruined cold approachingThey have made approaching more risky but if you think about it, they’ve made it hotter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 01:25 AM |
| 2 | If women treat sex as a reward, men should treat his money as a reward.I would use the word commitment instead of money. It’s more general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 06:45 PM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt’s a preference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 04:17 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADLevel of experience is qualitative and subjective. Also no one has a problem with a girl with high BC. Her BC just has to be less than the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 03:39 PM |
| 4 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADOr marry someone on the same experience level. Marry a husband who has fucked in party bathrooms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 03:35 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADwomp womp womp. your personal exceptional experience is irrelevant due to it not being normal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 02:50 AM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADMaybe that’s why you’re a hupersexual cult leader and not your average female | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Kinky sex is not "treating a man better"That just sounds like mental health and mental incoherence problem. You must’ve been way more enthusiastic then. Cause I wouldn’t do kinky stuff with someone I’m not enthusiastic with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 02:40 AM |
| 6 | Kinky sex is not "treating a man better"This rule applies to people who have done kinky stuff and have enjoyed them. People who know what they are, they know they indicate the level of enthusiasm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)They are not getting enough in their relationship or didn’t get enough before their relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 01:12 AM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADOr imagine I would cook a gourmet dinner with candles for an ex but heat up Di gornos for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 01:11 AM |
| – | Q4W: Is attraction fixed, or does it adapt to what’s available?Interesting! That seems to be the theme with women. With men it’s reversed. When you’re young, your type is “has a pulse”. As you get older, you get more selective. It’s as if men and women are moving in opposite directions. One is born is heaven and falls towards hell and the other is born in hell and is ascending towards heaven. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 12:24 AM |
| 11 | Kinky sex is not "treating a man better"Women have this amazing ability to gaslight themselves into believing any subjective reality that is useful for them and makes life better for them, but they overdo it where they try to gaslight the entire universe into the reality that they want to create for themselves. It’s an amazing ability to reframe things into your own liking and men’s main issue is not having any of that skill at all but it can get out of hand and out of balance. Women do too much subjectivity and men do too much object… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 09:05 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI think the same of women. You’re all equal pieces of shit But for different reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 08:03 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADMen ask each other about them all the time as they see it as the ultimate measure of success in life. Most of the time, men state it unprompted to gain social approval among other men. (Again this is not the case among gay men because gay men fuck, it’s not scarce, and therefore it’s not a measure of success among gay men. If you’re upset why men see it as a measure of succeeding in life, don’t blame the men. It’s not them, it’s the circumstance of scarcity created by the universe and women) Eno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 08:00 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI’d be shocked if what I said wasn’t the case. I just know primates have this deep ingrained sense of fairness in them. Just give a chimp a banana and watch what the one who didn’t get any would to you and the other chimp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 07:56 PM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt’s also called “sowing your wild oats”. It’s a qualitative subjective limit. Very common concept among men and women. The idea of wild days of youth. A smirk that comes to your face when you’re asked about your sexual adventures in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 07:45 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADOk so it’s the first one. He probably got laid enough to not care. No pussy famine for him, only feasts of pussy probably. Ofc not every man thinks the same as me but I know most of the different ways men think. Including the ones that are different than mine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 07:45 PM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt’s not about exact same experiences. It’s more about having “enough” sexual experiences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 07:27 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIf he isn’t insecure, it’s because he has never experienced famine. It’s very rare to experience famine and not feel insecure about food afterwards. Another reason why your husband might not care is if he’s much older than you. I wouldn’t feel as bad if a much younger girl had pool house bathroom sex before me as opposed to someone my own age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)I’m sure you have your reasons and I’m sure they are valid to you but it doesn’t change anything about the reality of the resulting scarcity because of those reasons and sex becoming a reward because of that scarcity. Again there are two perspectives here. Let’s not mix what the man’s perspective is with what the man thinks the woman’s perspective is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 07:22 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIf men were entitled to sex, they would 🍇 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 07:12 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADImagine finding out I took my exes to Michelin star restaurants for our first dates and the taking you to tacos 😁. If that hurts, it’s probably because of your insecurity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 07:11 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIf your husband had had sex with some girl in a pool house bathhouse in the past, he wouldn’t care. If he struggled during those years when you were having sex with guys in pool house bathrooms, he wouldn’t feel good about knowing that you did and he didn’t. It’s petty but it’s how humans are and you are no different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 07:07 PM |
| -2 | Women’s mating strategy (Hard to get) ruining our societal civilization, thus women need to change their tactic from Hard to get to Fair to getTo think that a woman could care about “societal civilization” and not just her immediate personal interests and her kin’s interest is naive. It’s like asking Satan to put himself in God’s shoes lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:49 PM |
| -1 | Bad men should be unselected. This Responsibility Falls Mostly on Women. The Freedom of Sexual Selectors and Responsibility.The way women see it is that good men are already good so they can be left alone. But bad men need to be ‘turned’ good. So they take let bad men enter their bodies with the hope that they can domesticate them by carrying them in their womb and nurturing them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:45 PM |
| 0 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)Commitment is a reward (and women know it) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)You don’t put out as easily as gay men. You create scarcity by restricting access. You somehow contradict yourself saying you like sex when you reject a man that wants to have sex with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:25 PM |
| 5 | Kinky sex is not "treating a man better"The level of kink indicates the level of enthusiasm. Therefore it does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)Just look at gay men and their attitudes towards sex. They see it as a mutually enjoyable act and a mutually rewarding act. You tell me what makes gay men and straight men have such different attitude towards sex. The answer is very very very simple. Access! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)Heck, even those men could be a myth. The point still stands | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)With the minority of men who are drowning in it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)Vast majority of women sure. Vast majority of men either don’t or have accepted their faith and have gotten into relationships so that they can have sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:02 PM |
| 4 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)There is the woman’s perspective and there is the man’s perspective. Just cause the woman doesn’t see it as giving rewards, doesn’t mean the man doesn’t see it as getting rewards. Also this is more true in the beginning of relationships and the first few times sex happens. That’s when it feels most like a reward and an overall metric that you’re doing ok in life. There was a line from the grandpa in white lotus season 2. He said “the embrace of a woman, makes you feel like you’re doing alright i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)It is scarce for the vast majority of men and for most of their lives, and “treating it like a reward” is not the reason why. Evidence : look at gay men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)It is scarce and therefore a reward | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 04:59 PM |
| 6 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)That is a luxury men don’t have and because it is something men really want and can’t have anytime they want, men are conditioned to treat it as a reward. If men could also just have sex because they liked to have sex, men also wouldn’t see it as a reward. The problem is scarcity and thirst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 04:58 PM |
| 0 | Its not that women can “sense misogyny”. Its that men with no social awareness nor self awareness cant hide their red flags.To be honest I kinda like her. Sometimes I just wanna hold her in and tell her don’t worry everything is gonna be ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 11:33 PM |
| 4 | Its not that women can “sense misogyny”. Its that men with no social awareness nor self awareness cant hide their red flags.It’s either X doesn’t cause Y, Y causes X. Or X doesn’t cause Y, Z causes Y. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 05:35 PM |
| 1 | If Christianity Is Returning to the West, Not Giving Women an Orgasm Should Be a Sin AgainThat’s just modern Protestant churches. Kinda like the equivalent of jihadis. Your church was a Christian jihadi church. Medieval Christianity and old world Catholicism and orthodoxy don’t view women’s orgasm the way your church did. I’m sorry you grew up in that hell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 07:39 PM |
| 0 | Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship?Why don’t women blame their own biology too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 05:08 AM |
| 0 | Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship?Apparently you can’t. The only thing that can be done is us making things more fair for ourselves and not give a fuck if things become unfair for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 04:59 PM |
| -2 | Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship?That’s fair. It’s a zero sum game. We’ll keep that in mind as we make things more fair for us and unfortunately probably less fair for you but oops can’t do anything about that. Lets see who wins | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship?You’re bad because you’re ok with something being unfair when you’re not at a disadvantage. But you’re all whining and complaining when something is unfair to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 04:34 PM |
| 8 | Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship?You’re bad because you’re ok with something being unfair when you’re not at a disadvantage. But you’re all whining and complaining when something is unfair to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 04:33 PM |
| -3 | Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship?One day it will | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 04:32 PM |
| -3 | Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship?Men have evil in their heart. Women have evil in their mind. Men have good minds. Women have good hearts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship?Lmao username checks out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship?No one wants to fuck you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship?No to your second question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship?Stop goooning to the handmaid’s tale | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship?Human society is waiting for women to admit that they are “unfair” people and own it. Be bad. There’s a necessity for evil. Just stop the BS pretending that you’re good. It’s 🤮 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 03:10 PM |
| 8 | A lot of women's expectations are written by players who center their lives around womanizingAnd a lot of men’s expectations are written by women who seduce them through screens by knowing exactly which buttons to push | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 12:29 AM |
| 0 | Men need their own way out of romantic dependencyNo it just means proximity. It can be physical like bodies touching or it can be emotional or spiritual like a relationship. Men have a dependence on physical intimacy. Like feeling physically intimate with a another person of the opposite sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Men need their own way out of romantic dependencySex is not just ejaculating. It’s intimacy and a person allowing you to be physically intimate with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Men need their own way out of romantic dependencyIt’s too risky and also too expensive and it doesn’t feel right. It’s not about just ejaculating. It’s a matter of the heart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Men need their own way out of romantic dependencyYou can’t it’s illegal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 01:15 PM |
| – | women hate “choose better” because they dont like the responsibility of when their choices go bad. And it only applies to them.Tbf, it’s a lot of pressure to make the selection given the BS that they believe and their fears | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Nice guys should accept being alone👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Nice guys should accept being aloneDisclosed above ⬆️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 05:28 PM |
| – | Nice guys should accept being aloneNope, just scared of rejection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 05:15 PM |
| – | Nice guys should accept being aloneNope tall and fit (no abs but fit. Sometimes dad bod) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 04:31 PM |
| – | women hate “choose better” because they dont like the responsibility of when their choices go bad. And it only applies to them.Women hate hearing it because they take pride in their selection in the first place and many go out their way to make it known to the unselected ones. Perhaps if they toned down the “I select him and not you”, they wouldn’t hear the “choose better”s and “told ya”s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 04:15 PM |
| – | Nice guys should accept being alone6’2”, 300k, 8 inches Haven’t kissed a girl since 2019 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Men need their own way out of romantic dependencyIt’s sex not relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Far too many men cannot see that they have undesirable trait's and behaviors which results in not just nobody wanting to be around them but nobody wanting to date them either and it's an issue which will follow many for their entire life.You witches should put together a ranked short list (maybe long list) of all the anti social behavior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 01:38 AM |
| 5 | Men on here are contradictoryIt’s because you’re lumping ons/casual and commitment together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 08:34 PM |
| 7 | The biggest thing right now we can do to help men is to teach boys as young as possible, to drop as much as possible, any and all need for female validationSexual selection as a form of validation is deeply ingrained in our dna. Granted in different ways for men and women. You can’t get rid of it. Trying to teach men to not feel worthy from being sexually selected is like trying to teach women to not to feel worthless when the man they select, selects someone else (“cheats”) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 05:55 PM |
| 1 | If sex work was truly a job as any other, we would have no problem promoting it for high schools studentsTo women. Which is what being a sex worker makes you to men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 04:46 PM |
| 2 | If sex work was truly a job as any other, we would have no problem promoting it for high schools studentsSex work should be thought of as gig work. Like driving for Uber. You don’t encourage students to become Uber drivers. But they should also know that it’s perfectly fine. And if you do it full time, it’s ok but you’re kinda a loser if you do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 04:09 AM |
| 1 | If women could detect misogyny/bitterness/dating frustration, the signs would be identified and widely publicizedWell then : women also bad but there are good ones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 04:29 PM |
| 1 | If women could detect misogyny/bitterness/dating frustration, the signs would be identified and widely publicizedAnd men should strive to be one of the good ones while their gender is hated? Literally the entire women’s discourse is “men bad but there are good ones” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 06:22 PM |
| 5 | It's Reasonable for the Man to Pay for Everything in an Age Gap RelationshipBro I went out with a girl 5 years older than and she still got offended by 50/50 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 10:50 PM |
| 1 | If women were physically stronger, we'd be seeing a lot more cases of female on male sexual assault.We’d be seeing women murdering way more men than the other way around. We’d have avengers end game. Half the male population would be eradicated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Are men lonelier?I think women are actually lonelier but women are comfortable being lonely. Men are not. You could argue that generally, men are more extroverted and women are more introverted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 12:26 AM |
| 0 | People shouldn't shame men for paying female hookers for sex.It’s that the men you interact with would be less thirsty for sex with you and you’d have less leverage. That’s the argument Trafficking is a concern but let’s not classify monogamous pimp-hooker relationships as trafficking. That’s not a SEX TRAFFICKER, that’s just a loser who makes the wife work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 01:13 AM |
| 2 | People shouldn't shame men for paying female hookers for sex.Yeah you’re basically at the same status of a SW rn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 12:55 AM |
| 0 | People shouldn't shame men for paying female hookers for sex.That’s actually exactly why you’re doing it for the same reason. At least some of your sisters have the tact to hide their hatred of the SW and make it about trafficking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Only Mid Girls give up sex freelyHot girls “deserve” to not give up sex early. Mid and low girls don’t 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 12:38 AM |
| 1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.An open mind opens hearts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 09:05 PM |
| 0 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.Or they can change their circumstances as strong men do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 08:50 PM |
| 0 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.Good. Therefore men should only be exclusive with women who would have sex with them as fast as Chad. Or don’t and process internally and accept being a worthless loser lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 08:32 PM |
| 1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.You could say the same thing about a husband sleeping with a prostitute. It doesn’t mean much to him. Therefore she has the same two choices to process her internal feelings about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 08:22 PM |
| 3 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.If your husband or boyfriend desires/fucks another woman, how would you feel about yourself? (Be honest)(are you a woman?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 07:51 PM |
| 1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.Your beliefs are false. Most men haven’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 07:48 PM |
| 4 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.No this is a deep biological phenomenon. Again similar to how women get their worth from male selection (of other women) (stop ignoring this, unless you’re willing to admit that this is also some nonsense in women’s head) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 06:05 PM |
| 2 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.Some are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 06:02 PM |
| 4 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.Because men getting their worth from female selectivity is an internal male feeling that women want to invalidate. Women are trying to say that their selectivity doesn’t mean much (in a casual setting) whereas it does mean a lot for men. Women like you are saying that men just SHOULDNT feel this way. Stop trying to invalidate this male feeling. Again this is the exact equivalent of a woman’s feelings about the man sleeping with someone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 05:55 PM |
| 2 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.Women being crazy is and always has been the problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 05:52 PM |
| 1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.No one needs to know about it so your value is safe. You have secrets, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 05:46 PM |
| 1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.I want other women to debate you on whether you lose value or not? Regardless of what value society assigns to you, do you think you lose value when you sleep around? Isn’t this in your head? Similar to how what men say is purely in their head? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 05:40 PM |
| 5 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.Newton and Tesla were as upset with women as any modern incel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 05:37 PM |
| 3 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.When a man does all that, women would fuck him casually which he uses as evidence of self worth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 05:36 PM |
| 1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.That’s how me value themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 05:35 PM |
| 2 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.How come the vast majority of men haven’t? (While the vast majority of women have?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 05:35 PM |
| 8 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.The evidence points to the contrary. Such guys seem to be the most successful with women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 05:33 PM |
| 2 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.Stop invalidating men’s feelings and gaslighting men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 05:27 PM |
| 1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.What gives a person value with regards to sex, depends on whether the person is a man or a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 05:25 PM |
| 1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.Men who wanna sleep with someone besides their gf/wife also don’t think too much of it. It’s the wife/gf who feels unworthy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 05:07 PM |
| 3 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.It’s about who else fucks/fucked his girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 04:38 PM |
| 5 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.So if a husband chooses to fuck someone else, the wife doesn’t feel unworthy? She doesn’t feel “not enough”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 04:37 PM |
| 2 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.Whatever criteria women use to decide who they have casual sex with, that criteria is what determines men’s worth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 04:35 PM |
| 0 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.When a woman is horny, I’m sure there is more than one option available. Because the woman selects among her options, she (even though it may be inadvertently) CREATES the hierarchy by putting one man above another. Men’s hierarchy EXISTS because women CREATE it with their sexual selectivity. You wanna kill the patriarchy, make sure no man is left unfucked. Otherwise YOU ARE THE PATRIARCHY. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 04:25 PM |
| 2 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.If women select men who they think has higher value, then how is this insane? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 04:22 PM |
| 1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.When it comes to sex, it depends on whether the person is a man or a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 04:21 PM |
| 29 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.The guy himself probably cares most. I think it’s an internal feeling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 04:20 PM |
| 3 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.And women perpetuate the idea that : if their man desires other women = she has no value/worth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 04:19 PM |
| – | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women sleeping with top-tier menIdk what that word “sexist” means. Does it mean someone who has a lot of sex and is an expert in sex? I just say what I see and think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 08:06 PM |
| – | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women sleeping with top-tier menLiterally what I just said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 06:06 PM |
| – | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women sleeping with top-tier menNot women. Women care mostly about themselves and their vicinity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 05:51 PM |
| – | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women sleeping with top-tier menMen feel special when a woman selects them from her options. Women feel special when a man DOESN’T select any of his other options. Two ways of making someone feel special: 1.choosing them 2.not choosing anyone else I’d argue that if 2 makes you feel special, you’re insecure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 05:51 PM |
| – | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women sleeping with top-tier menSince when do women care about the welfare of people they don’t know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 05:45 PM |
| – | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women sleeping with top-tier menIt’s like men get hurt by women’s selectivity and women get hurt by men’s lack of selectivity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 05:08 PM |
| 1 | It is not society’s fault that there are men who dont know the difference between casual sex and a relationship.It’s a sort of political realism. Society accepting reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 10:20 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemLike anthropomorphizing the patriarchy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 12:01 AM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemMen only get obsessed with sex when they don’t have it. It’s a biological imperative. The capitalist patriarchal machine wants a lot of men to be sexless and obsessed with sex so it can sell them fantasies. Women and feminism in this case are only puppets of the patriarchy to parrot slogans (like sex addicted males) to achieve patriarchy’s end goals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 09:55 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemHahahaha who? No one who likes power that much is a good person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 07:43 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemApparently we can only sustain that on a village level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 07:01 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemPhilosophers of history have written a great deal about this. It is essentially the male desire to be selected and the female desire to select. These are to blame. Both and neither at the same time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 06:00 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemAll those issues are derivatives/latents of female sexual selectivity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 04:57 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemIf you think about it long enough, you’ll realize that it’s the main problem humanity faces. Men essentially go to war for resources and resources end up in female sexual selectivity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 04:45 PM |
| 2 | People can feel physical and sexual desire without having sex.Well. Turns out she can’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 04:08 PM |
| 4 | People can feel physical and sexual desire without having sex.It’s insane levels of delulu. It’s entitlement to both “Chad” and the “beta” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 11:21 PM |
| 6 | People can feel physical and sexual desire without having sex.Sub mediocre girls thinking they deserve to fuck “Chad” and then settle for mediocre guys is CRAZIER. “Deserve” seriously f outta here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 09:34 PM |
| 3 | People can feel physical and sexual desire without having sex.It’s a matter of self respect. You can only love someone who makes you feel like a hunk. Otherwise you don’t have self respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 09:07 PM |
| 0 | People can feel physical and sexual desire without having sex.PREAAACHH | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 08:48 PM |
| 0 | People can feel physical and sexual desire without having sex.Preach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 08:48 PM |
| 2 | People can feel physical and sexual desire without having sex.No one is saying she’s not attracted to the guy she makes wait. What men are saying is that she’s not AS attracted to him AS she was to that hunk a few summers ago. It’s about being “good enough” or “the best” or “one of the better ones” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Normal adults accept that their fantasies will rarely become reality.What’s the overlap? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Wanting people to be honest that they just want sex is not the same thing as being sex negative.I think a lot of men would agree to that. Good deal. I think a lot of women don’t know this. Or they do and are afraid of oral too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Wanting people to be honest that they just want sex is not the same thing as being sex negative.1.Admitting to “I want sex” shouldn’t be shameful but women make it shameful for men. “Men just want one thing” shames “I want sex” 2.if women don’t benefit from casual sex (yet), should we educate men so women also benefit from casual sex or should we educate women that they shouldn’t partake in it if they don’t cum? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 11:46 PM |
| 8 | Normal adults accept that their fantasies will rarely become reality.How does the ven diagram of women who are easy or picky overlap with women who expect paying on the first date. P.s. hardly skeptical of your hypothesis that a woman is either easy or picky. Are they also like that throughout their lives or they have phases? Even if it is true at a given phase of life, are the type of guys the same or different in different phases? Isn’t it always about the type of guy technically speaking? P.s.s. Women expecting men to pay on first date in 2026 gives me this fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Horny men pretend to care about romance so they can justify being selfish.What the fuck is casual sex? Is it a perspective thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.If she has hooked up or done a ons before, it means her parameters can have the right values for the right person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 01:19 AM |
| – | There is no reason for women to ever believe “men feel love through sex”.Fuck love. There is fulfillment in letting yourself be used. Hopefully used for good. It’s like what we all want. To be useful for good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.I at least would sleep with her early and don’t make her wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.I give them a chance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.I want women who would settle for me to stay the hell away from me. That’s why I like ugly Reddit girls. They bend the knee faster and easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.Yes it’s true. She isn’t attracted to me like she was to Chad. Which is why she’s a waste of my time and my money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 06:41 PM |
| -1 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.You don’t see them often | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 06:34 PM |
| 5 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.Absolutely. I don’t act on it all the time. I can’t fathom two people with mutual attraction not acting on it. For reference look at gay men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.No it’s about stinky pussies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 04:48 PM |
| 12 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.Either a woman has had immediate sexual attraction for a partner or she hasn’t. And that matters because we can’t be inside people’s heads. We can only judge them by their actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Feminists will do all sorts of mental gymnastics to avoid admitting that women objectify themselves whenever it's convenient, and would rather demonize male sexuality instead.Humans are objects too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 07:53 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThe problem is that beggars don’t get anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 11:03 AM |
| -1 | What do you like about men?I agree. That’s the thing with darkness. It can be anything. And men particularity like that in women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 04:53 AM |
| -5 | What do you like about men?I was gonna add that I think women don’t understand that men actually appreciate those dark imaginations. So no reason to fear the dark thoughts. They are a feature, not a bug. I wish you courage my sisters and mothers and wives. You guys have done great so far. Keep going. Don’t be afraid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 04:24 AM |
| -17 | What do you like about men?It’s because they don’t have the imagination of men have so they need interaction to build a picture. Like they need to be led. And it’s not that they don’t have the ability to imagine. They are afraid of letting their imagination run buck wild. And for good reason cause it can really really dark | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 01:17 AM |
| 0 | Question for Women: If I can guarantee to you that all future hookup experiences will be like the typical male hookup experience, would you sleep around more?Yeah testosterone is what makes men look ugly and less sought after and have less sexual experiences. The root underlying cause of all imbalances are essentially biological just not evolutionary biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 07:34 PM |
| -2 | Question for Women: If I can guarantee to you that all future hookup experiences will be like the typical male hookup experience, would you sleep around more?What you don’t understand is that the reason that most men aren’t attractive to them is not some biological programming. Anyone who sleeps with a lot of people will eventually find most people unattractive. Women just do all the experiences early on and get it out of the way. But as a result they find most men unattractive. Life is a trade off. They don’t get to experience the yearning and the resulting spirituality that most men get to experience. Many of them do. And many men also get to fuck … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Sex isn't as big a deal as most people make it out to be.How do you define a slave any way? Iykyk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Sex isn't as big a deal as most people make it out to be.So women are the real privileged gender? Are women oppressing men as their slaves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Do you ever wonder if the dating situation isnt as dire as the narrative?The devil likes to invert the truth 😈 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Do you ever wonder if the dating situation isnt as dire as the narrative?Or the narrative is dire to make dating hard? 🤯🧘♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Heterosexual women almost always want the dominant, masculine man.They want someone who’s able to protect and deflect bad actors from outside. Someone strong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 04:44 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵When something is beautiful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Heterosexual women almost always want the dominant, masculine man.They want to dominate the man but also want the man to dominate others (for them) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 06:29 PM |
| 0 | If immediate sex is required, then a relationship was a secondary optional goal.A relationship with a strong foundational first step is still the goal. *if she hasn’t had immediate sex before i.e. virgin, careful non virgin, etc., no immediate sex is required | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:17 AM |
| 0 | I disagree with "there is someone out there for everybody"It’s statistically true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Men should be able to treat women like objects the same way women doPlease do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 03:26 AM |
| – | Women can't start having sex on the first dateWe should be open about protection and red lines. Maybe we should put it our profiles. I get that it ruins it kinda but hey it’s a compromise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 01:46 AM |
| – | Women would have a more satisfying experience in dating if they approached first.Reverse the reversal by reversing the reversed 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 05:38 AM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Maybe the substandard sex and how you got there made him change his mind about the stuff he said. He didn’t lie when he said them, he changed his mind based on his standards and he owes you 0 explanation for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 03:50 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.No rape is when the man feels entitled to sex. Not when consensual sex happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:27 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Fucking and how we get there is where men assess their standards. If she is up to the standards, she’s a keeper. Everything before fucking is just a prelude. A prologue. An introduction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:23 PM |
| 24 | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.And men don’t owe an explanation for dumping women after fucking women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 01:29 PM |
| 1 | What do you wish women would understand about dating women?Perspective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 12:20 AM |
| – | The ugly truth is that both feminism and the Red Pill are correctThat’s why the real truth is in the purple. Both red pill and blue pill. Read/watch “the color purple” 👿 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 06:08 PM |
| 4 | It’s easier than ever to date hear me outAlso in the 60s, the average woman’s mind wasn’t hijacked by a boat load of propaganda specifically designed to keep them alone, afraid, enslaved, and imprisoned in little apartments with little jobs and little pets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 11:39 PM |
| – | “We want consistency” is a lie. If it wasn’t about immediate sex, you would never require it.No I do not think that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 08:07 PM |
| – | “We want consistency” is a lie. If it wasn’t about immediate sex, you would never require it.Female intrasexual competition | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 08:02 PM |
| – | “We want consistency” is a lie. If it wasn’t about immediate sex, you would never require it.Women like sex on their own terms which is with one person and lots of it. Men like sex on their own terms which is with different people and lots of it. The irony of this paradox of human misery is that most women and men get the opposite of what they actually like and want. We just need to get over our wants and focus on our needs and we all need to accept this and STFU. 🤫 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 06:52 PM |
| – | “We want consistency” is a lie. If it wasn’t about immediate sex, you would never require it.Men like sex and women don’t. We get it. Get over it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 06:25 PM |
| – | The big disconnect in modern dating: ending the first date strong vs. going for the same-night hookupIt’s the other way around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 08:42 AM |
| – | “Choose better” until that means women wont fuck a stranger.Women who hookup and are lustful are cooler 😎. Always! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 07:11 PM |
| 1 | If Christianity Is Returning to the West, Not Giving Women an Orgasm Should Be a Sin AgainFrench used to call it petite mort (little death) kinda related to the cycle of death and rebirth of life. Also this is not a “shit on Christianity” show. It’s an advertisement for the Vatican and this is scene is filmed inside the actual Sistine chapel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 03:52 PM |
| 1 | If Christianity Is Returning to the West, Not Giving Women an Orgasm Should Be a Sin AgainBut apparently religious men used to put in the work to make women cum like it’s their only way to avoid hell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 04:26 AM |
| – | The primary biological drive that has driven male ambition for all of human history is WOMEN (to attract a mate/secure a wife/and provide for a family), and the fact that its out of reach for men today is why they are opting out of societyI like to use the word “special” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 12:54 AM |
| 0 | If Christianity Is Returning to the West, Not Giving Women an Orgasm Should Be a Sin AgainGood for you. Spread your secrets with your sisters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 11:02 PM |
| -1 | If Christianity Is Returning to the West, Not Giving Women an Orgasm Should Be a Sin AgainNo orgasms for you then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 10:40 PM |
| 0 | If Christianity Is Returning to the West, Not Giving Women an Orgasm Should Be a Sin AgainIt’s all one religion in the end | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 10:12 PM |
| 1 | If Christianity Is Returning to the West, Not Giving Women an Orgasm Should Be a Sin Again2nd cumming? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 10:12 PM |
| 2 | If Christianity Is Returning to the West, Not Giving Women an Orgasm Should Be a Sin AgainMost def | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 10:12 PM |
| 1 | If Christianity Is Returning to the West, Not Giving Women an Orgasm Should Be a Sin Againlololol my man 👊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 10:11 PM |
| – | The primary biological drive that has driven male ambition for all of human history is WOMEN (to attract a mate/secure a wife/and provide for a family), and the fact that its out of reach for men today is why they are opting out of societyMaybe humans are special in some way… like all the children of mother Earth. Each is special in their own way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 09:04 PM |
| 0 | If Christianity Is Returning to the West, Not Giving Women an Orgasm Should Be a Sin AgainIt’s a YouTube video from a show about Catholicism, abortion and female orgasm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 06:59 PM |
| 1 | If Christianity Is Returning to the West, Not Giving Women an Orgasm Should Be a Sin Againhttps://youtu.be/E9dlLFU9fCE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 06:34 PM |
| 1 | If Christianity Is Returning to the West, Not Giving Women an Orgasm Should Be a Sin Againhttps://youtu.be/E9dlLFU9fCE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 06:33 PM |
| – | The primary biological drive that has driven male ambition for all of human history is WOMEN (to attract a mate/secure a wife/and provide for a family), and the fact that its out of reach for men today is why they are opting out of societyIt’s not about hard vs easy. That’s more of a woman’s imperative. This is something that you as a woman likely can never understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 06:02 PM |
| 1 | If Christianity Is Returning to the West, Not Giving Women an Orgasm Should Be a Sin AgainMany people think science is wrong these days. Might as well make women cum | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 05:55 PM |
| – | The primary biological drive that has driven male ambition for all of human history is WOMEN (to attract a mate/secure a wife/and provide for a family), and the fact that its out of reach for men today is why they are opting out of societySuicide and opting out are also part of our biological imperative if we see ourselves as a failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 05:48 PM |
| 1 | If Christianity Is Returning to the West, Not Giving Women an Orgasm Should Be a Sin AgainMight as well believe orgasm is necessary for conception since science is wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 05:46 PM |
| 0 | If Christianity Is Returning to the West, Not Giving Women an Orgasm Should Be a Sin AgainAsk the closest priest. I ain’t one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 05:32 PM |
| 1 | If Christianity Is Returning to the West, Not Giving Women an Orgasm Should Be a Sin AgainAvery Ames used a a lot of em dashes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 05:27 PM |
| 2 | If Christianity Is Returning to the West, Not Giving Women an Orgasm Should Be a Sin AgainThey believed making her cum is the only way or one of the two ways for making conception happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 05:26 PM |
| 1 | If Christianity Is Returning to the West, Not Giving Women an Orgasm Should Be a Sin AgainI mean if they think science is wrong. Might as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 05:24 PM |
| – | Equality between genders should always be strived for, but perfect equality can never fully exist in reality due to unavoidable biological differencesWe should instead strive for a balance as ICE and FIRE can never be equals. A symbiosis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 02:38 AM |
| – | Men Need to Stop Debating Women and do the Work😘😈 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 06:21 PM |
| – | Men Need to Stop Debating Women and do the WorkBut you’re probably not that attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionTruth is the language of compassion and love tears through their divisive bullshit and they hate it. Fucking losers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 12:23 AM |
| – | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionStop the demagoguery. Do you get paid to do this or you’re just a loser? Answer me. Are you a pathetic loser? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 12:21 AM |
| – | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassioncompassion is feeling for someone, recognizing their suffering and being moved to help alleviate it. Any more stupid questions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassioncompassion is feeling for someone, recognizing their suffering and being moved to help alleviate it. That’s what it looks like. Not actions or anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionMany places : https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTIwDI_j318/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 12:14 AM |
| -1 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionEven if you could empathize with men, your empathy is useless. Your compassion might end up helpful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 12:12 AM |
| -2 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionGoogle empathy vs compassion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 12:10 AM |
| -1 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionBy being compassionate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 10:53 PM |
| -2 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionCompassion is a great virtue to have towards anyone in any bad situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionAll you have to do to see how women really are is ask them what would you do if you were a man (had a penis). The answer is almost unanimously become a psychopathic fuckboy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassion👎 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 10:34 PM |
| – | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionThis is not a real person. It’s AI | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionAt least with the right language, we can separate the psychopaths from the compassionate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionYes. Much much less so than the US. And this is despite the fact that there’s still stigma (and surveillance and lack of discretion) in those countries. I’ve been to all those countries and know many people from all of those counteies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 10:01 PM |
| – | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionYeah you’re an AI | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 09:55 PM |
| – | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionWomen are not a hive mind. Each person has their own abilities and capacity. Compassion means “what can I do to alleviate the problem?” I, not WE. Just do what you can. For the vast majority of men what you can do is definitely not just have pity sex with them. But, I wouldn’t rule out the fact that many some women might. “Pity sex” was a form of worship in ancient Babylon and Ancient Greece for SOME women. SOME women not ALL women I not We Capisce? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionI’ve answered this multiple times in the thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 09:42 PM |
| -2 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionThe absolute bare minimum for compassion is just simply “wanting their suffering to be alleviated” That needs to be said because many women here say things like “they deserve to be lonely because x y x” “I don’t give a F about them”. The bare minimum for compassion is don’t be like that. Or if you wanna take it a step further, at least oppose those views. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 09:41 PM |
| – | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionBitch you weren’t alive for most of history. What men did in the past has nothing to do with your ass. Gimme a break | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 09:31 PM |
| -4 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionOr maybe you don’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionAnd yet when it was legal, you didn’t have an epidemic of sexless men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 09:26 PM |
| -1 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionJust five minutes of thinking about alleviating the problem is a concrete example of compassion. Attacking the men for being down is opposite. It’s psychopathy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 09:25 PM |
| – | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionNo you’ve been attacking the homeless and pushing them towards suicide. It’s psychopathy disguised as compassion but it’s a terrible disguise. We can see right through it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 09:23 PM |
| – | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionJust because you can’t think of a solution or the only dumb possibly solution your mind can think of is “give them a chance”, it doesn’t mean that women having pity sex with men is the solution. You can’t think of anything. Fine. Don’t do anything. Don’t say anything. Just have compassion and don’t make things worse by attacking the men who are suffering. JFC | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 09:22 PM |
| -2 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionIf all women spoke as a hive mind…. Then at least we know lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionAt this point I’m sure you’re a fed or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 08:05 PM |
| -1 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionSex work is illegal and highly stigmatized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionDon’t empathize. One could argue that empathy is sleeping with them or you becoming celibate forever to empathize with them. Have compassion. It’s okay to not do anything or say anything but still have compassion. It’s the attitude that matters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionYou need compassion yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionWhat does your response have to do with what I said? It’s a non sequitur | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:53 PM |
| -2 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionYeah if you talk a lot to homeless people, they’ll eventually might ask to spend a night inside your house. You don’t need to say yes and you shouldn’t take it as a reason to lose compassion for their problem. At least I don’t. You do you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionDo you have compassion for the homeless who act crazy? I do because I know what not getting a proper night sleep for a while can do to a human brain but I bet you don’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:49 PM |
| -4 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionMaybe that’s your answer. There are billions of people out there. Sometimes all it takes is one good idea from one person. The first step is establishing compassion (not empathy) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:41 PM |
| -4 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionMy post says “we should come up with a solution” a lot of people disagree with that compassionate statement. I would say my post is absolutely necessary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:40 PM |
| 0 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionI’m arguing that compassion from women in this instance might be more useful to men than compassion from men. I can’t really get into it here. But I’m referring to the spirituality/materialism or masculine/feminine duality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:35 PM |
| -2 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionYou’re a funny little fella. Thanks for the chuckle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:33 PM |
| 0 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionI think it’s a language problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:32 PM |
| -1 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionI agree with the material change. But you could argue that women are more in touch with the material world and they probably have the right ideas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:31 PM |
| -1 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionIs it also a little fun to see them bitch about their issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:30 PM |
| -6 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionExactly. Compassion is essentially caring enough to think whether you can do anything or say anything. But you have to be compassionate first to be able to come up with ideas and solutions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionOne of the biggest and most important differences is that empathy can only be directed to one person at a time whereas compassion can be directed at groups of people and take in multiple perspectives. This is my favorite example that I posted here couple of times. Let’s say someone is drowning in quicksand. Empathy is jumping in and drowning with them. Compassion is asking “that’s not my problem but can I do something?” “Ah yeah, here’s a branch to hold on to. Bye!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionMaybe when it comes to dating, women are more psychopathic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionThat’s being compassionate. You’re already doing a lot and showing good character by showing that you care. And I believe that enough compassion will result in the right ideas that will take care of the problem. But the first step is compassion which you have taken | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:04 PM |
| -17 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionLet’s say someone is drowning in quicksand. Empathy is jumping in and drowning with them. Compassion is asking “that’s not my problem but can I do something?” “Ah yeah, here’s a branch to hold on to. Bye!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 06:55 PM |
| -2 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionMaybe we can realize that although women are very empathetic, they are not necessary compassionate (self serving game theory life strategy) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 06:54 PM |
| 0 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionBecause the venue is PPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 06:53 PM |
| -12 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionEmpathy and compassion are NOT synonyms. You can’t have both at the same time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionCompassion is never owed. The question is do you think you can do something to alleviate their suffering? If the answer is no, then you can just move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 06:51 PM |
| -2 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionHow did you show compassion? What did that look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 06:46 PM |
| -6 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionThe point of compassion is that accepting that it is not your problem. But still thinking “is there something I can do to make the situation a little better?” The answer could be yes or no depending on the person. You don’t need to feel their pain to be compassionate. I’d argue that feeling their pain would probably prevent you from thinking clearly about what the solution could be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 06:46 PM |
| -7 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionIdk yet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 06:43 PM |
| -5 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionI don’t have the answer but I believe that if we all (men and women) become compassionate enough, we’ll figure it out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionIdk. It takes work and ingenuity to figure it out. But the first step is adopting a compassionate attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 06:42 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?There’s both blue and red in purple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 03:59 AM |
| 0 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?Never listened to a single dating guru | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 03:21 AM |
| 1 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?A lot of women (in this sub) say that they would hookup/ons with a guy if they don’t like him and if they like a guy on a date, they would just sleep with him and never talk to him again. Do you think that’s true for a certain percentage of women? Is it more like these women are kinda acting like cartoonish asshole guys who say “yeah she wasn’t gf material so I fucked her and then left her” ? Like the female version of that? Whether it’s a lie or not, the concept really short circuits men’s brai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 11:41 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?But if you didn’t like the guy’s personality, and don’t see a future with him, you would hookup with him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 11:03 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?Never? Really? Never ever? How old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 01:57 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?So no one night stands? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 11:37 AM |
| 1 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?Lust has evolved to precede love. Kill the lust, you’ll kill the love too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 04:16 AM |
| -2 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?For men there is not a signal more honest than sex from women. Words, attitudes, sentiments can all be dishonest. So it’s about the raw honesty of fire in the end. It’s a test. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 04:05 AM |
| 3 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?Agreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 03:49 AM |
| -1 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?No complaining. Higher BC the better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 03:46 AM |
| 0 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?That’s how it should be but I agree that it isn’t unfortunately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 03:41 AM |
| -1 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?Id argue that all of that “seeming easy” or “seeming dirtied” is actually women’s own internal chatter. It’s not even real. It’s like a self slut shaming mechanism. Which evolutionarily kinda makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 03:38 AM |
| 1 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?You’re an angel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 03:32 AM |
| -2 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?My only problem is women preventing themselves from following the flow of life because of fears of “looking easy” or “being slut shamed”. Those fears are there to impede authentic connections that are supposed to happen. If you want to sleep with someone whenever (first date, first week, etc.), you should. You shouldn’t listen to those fears. And if you don’t have those fears and still choose to not sleep with the guy. The guy can’t get to any other conclusion that she just doesn’t like him enou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 03:27 AM |
| 1 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?Exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 03:22 AM |
| 0 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?wtf? 😳 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 03:22 AM |
| 1 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?She’s doing me a favor by filtering herself out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 03:19 AM |
| -1 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?Most women partake in casual sex and ons in 2026? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 03:19 AM |
| 2 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?True | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 03:18 AM |
| 0 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?Let’s just say I’m a people person. As my job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 02:49 AM |
| 1 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?Those are your internal fears that might prevent you from sealing the deal with the one man who you’re supposed to be with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 02:46 AM |
| 0 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?Women who have casual encounters and ons clearly can reach that threshold of “liking someone enough” easily | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 02:45 AM |
| -4 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?It’s a way to filter out the undesirables | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 02:43 AM |
| -3 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?I don’t care about “women.” I want the one woman who’s gonna be my one and only to start our journey with passion and fire of love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 02:42 AM |
| – | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?Fuck off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 11:44 PM |
| -2 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?*aren’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 11:43 PM |
| -4 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?The word of the day is “either”. Pump and dump is specially likely when I despise her personality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 11:10 PM |
| -1 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?At least women should consider this when they think that “if I sleep with him, he might think I’m easy” that some men might hold the opposite view cause men aren’t a monolith. I know radical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:47 PM |
| 0 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?On the other post, more women were supporting that 1 source | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:32 PM |
| -1 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?I didn’t say she lied. I said “most women….” Can be a lie (or a falsehood which is usually from someone believing a lie) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:29 PM |
| -1 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?Well men aren’t a monolith either and to me it signals not enough interest. So even if she asks for a second date, her ass is getting ghosted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:28 PM |
| -8 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?Men are not a monolith. If she fucks, I take her seriously. Otherwise, it’s either ghosting or pump and dump (to get my money’s worth back. I usually don’t) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:22 PM |
| -7 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?You’re more of a monolith and less diverse than you think | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:21 PM |
| 0 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?No but I want to create a room where people who have different opinions talk to each other and state their arguments for why or why not they disagree. And I’d like to listen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:20 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?It’s really hot for a casual fwb to come to you after a date with a loser who paid for her dinner lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:14 PM |
| -1 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?Idk I hope the opponents challenge this. Lots of mixed signals. Lots of contradictory statements. Lots of lies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:10 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?I can only take a woman seriously if she sleeps with me from the start. I guess men are not a monolith either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:05 PM |
| -8 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?Yet women make statements like “most women are … “ “women do …” etc. all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:03 PM |
| 7 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 09:54 PM |
| 6 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 09:37 PM |
| -5 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?A woman here on another thread said “most women will sleep on the first date with a guy the really like” Is that not true? Hence the word “most” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 09:37 PM |
| -5 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?A woman here said “most women will sleep on the first date with a guy the really like” Is that not true? Hence the word “most” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 09:36 PM |
| 2 | The Reason why Men can act like sluts but Women can't is because of Women💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character.Vast majority = high probability. Hey men, if she doesn’t fuck you on the first date, there’s a very good chance she doesn’t really like you. Treat her accordingly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character.“Most women don’t take it slow with a guy they really like” Men should take this to the heart next time a woman takes it slow with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character.Well none of your partners seem to be the ideal partner that %99 of the women they encounter want to date them but not casually fuck them. But there’s something here in what you said. “Most women don’t take it slow when they really like a guy anyway” This This should be written in gold. I value relationships a lot but my literal test to commit to a woman is whether or not she would fuck on the first date. Otherwise it’s either ghosting after first date or pump and dump | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 08:26 PM |
| – | Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character.She’s asking why I value it so much? I’m asking her, is there no value in it? I ask this specific question to cancel out her use of the word “so much” in her rhetoric. With all of that im establishing that clearly THERE IS VALUE IN CASUAL SEX FOR ALL HUMANS. If there is something of value to you and you never get that, you become “thirsty” for it. And if you’re an idea partner for a woman, she would never give you casual sex or fuck on the first date. Which is the twisted logic that causes all o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character.Cause the ideal man is ideal for a relationship. And women wanna take it slow with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 08:13 PM |
| -4 | Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character.Nahhh, the media you consume tells on you that the vast majority of you want the same partner. Women want what other women want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character.Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 07:54 PM |
| – | Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character.Im just trying to speak in your monkey language. She used the word “value” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 07:49 PM |
| -2 | Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character.You need to eat foods that are good for your brain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character.You just said your causal fwbs are the ones you don’t consider for a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character.She said it not me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 07:47 PM |
| 0 | Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character.I value everything that has value. I don’t compare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 07:47 PM |
| 0 | Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character.The best men don’t hate women until they are corrupted by your twisted logic and become the worst men that actually hate women and get all the casual sex in the world they want. They get rewarded for hating women. Your purpose is to corrupt good without even knowing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 07:42 PM |
| -1 | Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character.Your logic makes sure the best men in the world don’t ever benefit from that value in life. Ever. And the worst men get the most of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 07:35 PM |
| -3 | Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character.If casual sex has no value, why do you partake in it? Clearly there’s a value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 07:31 PM |
| -7 | Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character.You women don’t see how twisted your logic is? Or what it causes? That means the ideal man that everyone wants never gets casual sex. You make the ideal man you ask for into thirsty incels you hate. I guess it is true that without knowing, your purpose is to corrupt the good. And it’s working | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 07:19 PM |
| -2 | Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character.Slut shaming is just their (women) internal chatter. Their internal bullshit that they have smear all over the world. No one thinks you’re easy if you fuck on a first date. ONLY YOU DO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 07:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The concept of "financial celibacy" is petty and unfairOnly prostitutes ask for money upfront. Either be proud of being a prostitute or start acting like a wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 05:43 PM |
| 0 | It makes more sense for women to chase men than for men to chase women.Yeah technically you won’t be fuckable when you’re fucking everyone up the ass. We’re ass fucking you’re economy too. And it’s working | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 03:54 PM |
| -3 | Feminism is the loser cult for matriarchal washouts.Anally fuck the matriarchy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 03:47 PM |
| 1 | It makes more sense for women to chase men than for men to chase women.The plan is for all of us to be miserable and accelerate the spread of darkness and pain in the world. And it’s working 😈 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 03:42 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The concept of "financial celibacy" is petty and unfairI think it’s a genius idea. All this money is yours if you convince me that you are worth a marriage. If I’m spending a few hundred dollars on you for a date, that means I think you’re only worth a fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 02:54 PM |
| 0 | It makes more sense for women to chase men than for men to chase women.It happens in real life and it actually works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 02:51 PM |
| 1 | It makes more sense for women to chase men than for men to chase women.HUNT! or get HUNTED! to both men and women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 02:34 PM |
| -1 | It makes more sense for women to chase men than for men to chase women.Nahhh. The simps will do the job themselves. They will eventually pump and dump, and show their true nature. Maybe the solution is allowing women to get fucked enough by “simps” until they wake up and stop rewarding simp behavior and mistake it for genuine affection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 02:33 PM |
| 0 | It makes more sense for women to chase men than for men to chase women.“I send the first message” is that first message “chase me” ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 02:23 PM |
| 2 | The average woman would fail at dating as a MenThese are purple pill arguments that want to bring men and women together. Sure it’s easy to play the same game as women and just play on pure self centered game theory and fuck your way through women and break their hearts along the way but that’s not beating them. That’s joining them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 04:16 PM |
| – | Why shouldn't I think your average women has an edge with tolerating singleness that most men could never get, because of their easier access to FWB and ONS?I thought we were supposed to think “women are people just like us” I guess not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 09:54 PM |
| 1 | When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously.🫂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 02:15 AM |
| 1 | When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously.I stand corrected. I shouldn’t talk about stuff I don’t know much about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 12:42 AM |
| 1 | When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously.Your bones don’t get their strength from exercise. Genetics and diet determine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Men demand empathy from women, and at the same time they punish women for being empathetic.That’s true. But it’s ironically the only pain they ask women for empathy for. The rest of the pains, they’re good or they have other support. It’s a form of resentment if you think about it. It’s flipping the script of feminism onto it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Men demand empathy from women, and at the same time they punish women for being empathetic.Not having sex is a pain for men, and there are other pains of course. But you can’t empathize with this particular pain. It would be paradoxical. Maybe if we legalized it and removed the stigma and there was at least some money exchange? Maybe idk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 01:14 AM |
| 4 | When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously.It does two things : 1.makes overpowering other men easier 2.gets you laid. It’s healthier to do moderate exercise, eat less, put less stress on your body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 01:11 AM |
| 4 | When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously.You actually are healthier and live longer the more slender you are. If we’re optimizing for health and longevity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 01:09 AM |
| 16 | When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously.The creepiest guy I knew wore a fake wedding ring and banged models although he was the most heinous looking mofo out there. Like he looked like a leper. But the ring did its magic. No one hates women more than women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 10:05 PM |
| 15 | When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously.If muscles didn’t work, the weights section of gyms wouldn’t be the busiest area | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Women should just cut off any access to intamcy till they get the result they want.Hot guys should wear burkas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 09:05 PM |
| -1 | Men demand empathy from women, and at the same time they punish women for being empathetic.I don’t think you understood my particular comment here. If a woman can in theory give the man the experience that its lack has caused him pain, she can’t empathize with him but not give him the experience that he wants. If she truly empathized with him, she would feel the pain that he is feeling and because that feeling is unbearable, she would pity fuck him just so that feeling of pain would stop in her. If she truly empathized. I see cancer kids in commercials. I feel the pain that their fami… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 09:04 PM |
| 0 | Men demand empathy from women, and at the same time they punish women for being empathetic.Other men can empathize with men. Women can’t. It’s paradoxical for women to empathize with men. Can someone rich empathize with someone with no money? Not really. I mean the ones that maybe do donate to charities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingI’d even say it’s more like women are almost exclusively hooking up with those guys. Women’s sexuality is primarily about power | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 07:16 PM |
| 1 | It’s smart for a man to stop being friends with a women after she rejects himYeah she would’ve hooked up with him if he was hookup material (HUM). If she was girlfriend material and she rejected you, you should never speak to her again. But otherwise, she should grow the f up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Should men be openly critical of women who are bad or boring in bed ?Women reject criticism. They can’t be bothered with anything. They believe in subjective reality and absence of truth. They are always the heroes of their stories because they can masterfully lie to themselves and make themselves believe anything. They are CATS 🐈 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | It’s smart for a man to stop being friends with a women after she rejects himDepends on the girl and especially whether you hit on her for a hookup or dating. I’d say I agree with you if you wanted to date her. If you’re not hookup material, it’s not on her. Speaking from experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Men should not approach without obvious signalsMen should look for signals that have plausible deniability. Make a judgement only after receiving a half signal. If she hadn’t noticed you yet to give you a half signal with plausible deniability, then you do something for her to notice you also with plausible deniability. Ask something, or say something that isn’t a “hit” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 12:01 AM |
| 2 | People use “icks” to compensate for an being uninteresting personWhat needs to be talked about more are icks that women give men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 09:44 PM |
| 1 | What advice would you give a woman to find a good men?Find a man who doesn’t get laid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 09:09 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men marry women because they want constant access to sex, not because of her personalityThis should make you think about “why is this sex thing so important to them?” There must be something you don’t understand. Or you do understand but you hate. If so, you hate it because you hate a part of yourself. Why do you hate yourself? Who hurt you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Women are OK with men decentering them. There is much more pushback from menMen can only decenter women when they have children. Women have the ability to decenter men because they can have children. Biology is king | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Some Women Are So Obsessed With Older Men That It Makes You Wonder . . .Women are attracted to power not beauty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 05:11 PM |
| – | Women Argue Against What They Think You're Saying Instead of What You Actually SaidMen’s sexuality and specially men’s motivation for sexuality is the most important misunderstood thing about men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 02:55 PM |
| -2 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?My therapist says women are as horny as men if not more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 01:25 AM |
| 0 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?Not sure what you mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?I always found men very ugly and it baffled me that how is it that these women are into us? Then I realized that I was right. They were never into us the same way we’re into them. They just don’t like us as much as we like them. Oh well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 11:44 PM |
| 12 | Women Argue Against What They Think You're Saying Instead of What You Actually SaidIt’s not gendered but unfortunately, it’s a gender problem. Men and women are for the most part oblivious to their differences and they project themselves onto each other. It’s a natural (though juvenile) human tendency to project your own thinking and reasoning onto others. Men and women do this to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Men who ask out a female friend 9 out of 10 times naturally developed feelings for her and didn’t put her in the “fuck zone”1 out of 100, I hit on a female friend just to get rid of her. Nightmare scenario is them saying yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 10:22 PM |
| 56 | Women Argue Against What They Think You're Saying Instead of What You Actually SaidWe do the same to them all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 10:19 PM |
| 0 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherSame way you’d reject a gift | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 10:12 PM |
| -1 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each other“I don’t want anything to do with you and your attraction to me means nothing to me” Oh if only women understood that men’s attraction is not one of conquest. The urge to conquer the world comes after rejection. If only women could get out of their power obsessed heads | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherCause I think they are related. No person deals with both. Men deal with their evil urges and women deal with their own. I never have to really deal with an urge to reject someone and you never have to deal with the urge to conquer everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherI’d say I know how to deal with it and confront it better than most people. I’m still aware of what evil it is that I’m confronting so it’s actually easier to deal with it once you understand its evil nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 07:31 PM |
| -1 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherApples and oranges can’t be compared. It’s like saying you think something sour is better than something sweet? Really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherIm sure it’s something beyond just me . I refer to loads of books and poems and tragedies written about it. I can just read history | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherDefinitely not in the way women reject men. Never | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherCruelty is immorality in my set of values. Be it to a human, a cockroach, or a plant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherI think these two are very very related and their relation has a “chicken and egg” cyclical nature. I can’t say which is worse. In mathematics, we call this a duality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 07:22 PM |
| 0 | Sexuality is toxic.She doesn’t understand because what you describe is men’s experience of sexuality. A lack and a yearning. It is not the same for women so she can’t fathom it. To them sexuality is only about one thing : power | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 07:19 PM |
| 0 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherWhy does it feel cruel when you are on the receiving end of rejection? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 07:13 PM |
| 8 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherMen’s sexual urge to conquer everyone is also an evil biological urge that needs to be controlled. Societal interpersonal dynamics are also biological paradigms. Everything about us can be looked at from a biological lens because that’s what we are. Bags of biological goo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherIt’s like they are biologically programmed to filter out half of the male population in each generation. In other words, it’s a biologically institutionalized evil system and women don’t have control over their biological urges. They can’t control themselves and their disgust. No self control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 07:06 PM |
| 4 | I think women should refuse to pay for anything on a dateMost women see their sexuality as some sort of commodity in one way or another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 03:48 PM |
| 3 | I think women should refuse to pay for anything on a dateMost prostitutes are women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 03:45 PM |
| 3 | I think women should refuse to pay for anything on a dateIf both parties abided by this, he’d pay for the date, she wouldn’t make him wait. No one is humiliated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Women, what is the reason you don’t do onlyfans? (not trolling)The devil works in mysterious ways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Women, what is the reason you don’t do onlyfans? (not trolling)The REAL reason is always shaming from other women and most importantly getting shunned and expelled from sisterhoods | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Men are not more upfront than women be for realNietzsche discovered “will to power” in women. Maybe a Nietzschett will discover a “will to be overpowered” in men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 01:20 PM |
| -1 | Men are not more upfront than women be for realEven if I hadn’t read Shakespeare or Plato, I would’ve still benefited from their collective wisdom indirectly through the other media I’d have consumed. Their work is already a part of the collective consciousness and knowledge of humanity. We just need women to do the same. We need a lady Nietzsche to figure out the other side and finish the puzzle for all of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Men are not more upfront than women be for realMen’s understating of their dark side came after thousands of years of inter generational dialogue of many great men and their ideas. Women started talking academically 150 years ago | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Men are not more upfront than women be for realYou still don’t know why you’re attracted to power. Hence you are still exploring your dark side. FSoG is the first step. Accepting that it’s there. Now you have to find out why it’s there and understand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 12:52 AM |
| 4 | Men are not more upfront than women be for realCaricatures work because they contain some truth. We should both be aware of and accept these truths about ourselves and our dark sides. The problem is women don’t want to confront their dark side and they wanna live in this pretend life where they are heroes and don’t have a dark side. I’m not talking about talking about these truths in the context of a relationship. I’m referring to the discourse here that wants to ignore these truths even as a caricature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 12:20 AM |
| 0 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?They care what women say. Some weak ones care about what other men say but we consider them women or gay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 06:08 PM |
| 0 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?I’d argue that if other women were okay with slut, men would’ve LOVED to wife up sluts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Felons and bullies getting alot of sex partners does not mean women in general like assholes.There’s a part of men that loves whores and sluts. Doesn’t mean men all get with whores and sluts. It means the whores and the sluts get with the men they want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 01:46 PM |
| – | Men are lonely because women are changed.Some successful men want their mere existence to be enough. Wanting to fuck after hearing about my achievements in life and my “performance” doesn’t feel as good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 08:20 PM |
| – | Men are lonely because women are changed.Reciprocity is not desirable for women. Or it is when it only benefits them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Access to sex is a terrible reason to form any serious kind of relationshipYes cause they are members of my society and them thriving improves the overall happiness of the community I live in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Men are lonely because women are changed.Men don’t slut shame women my guy. Women do. The men who partake are weak, creepy, and diabolical. They usually have an agenda. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 09:23 PM |
| 7 | Access to sex is a terrible reason to form any serious kind of relationshipAnother point. “No one cares that you can’t get laid” is more reason to give him to take matters into his own hands. Maybe if someone cared, he wouldn’t have resorted to lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 02:09 PM |
| 4 | Access to sex is a terrible reason to form any serious kind of relationshipWhen someone doesn’t wanna commit. That means they don’t wanna commit to YOU. All men wanna find their ideal partner at all times and it’s perfectly natural when they learn that YOUre not it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 01:58 PM |
| -2 | Access to sex is a terrible reason to form any serious kind of relationshipIslam says sex is a right and a need for both men and women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 01:35 PM |
| 5 | Men are lonely because women are changed.What’s the “equal” effort that the woman puts in? I’m curious lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 08:07 PM |
| 0 | Women are not romantic.Consenting adults | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Women are not romantic.Prohibition era didn’t prove that alcohol is bad. It proved that banning it is oppression | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:51 PM |
| 11 | Men are lonely because women are changed.Because women look for relationships for the most part, they project all their inner demons about relationships onto men (like this post) thinking that men are lonely because they can’t get into relationships. All this gender war is a consequence of fucking. Causal sex and lack thereof. OP is right that men want a woman to desire them just for existing, because that’s what casual sex means for men. That just existing is enough. Men wanna be desired just for existing the same way they desire wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Women are not romantic.Maybe in 2020s USA. But if you average out over history and geography, it pretty much evens out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Women are not romantic.Yeah this whole thing is a double edged sword fucking both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Women are not romantic.Fucking Chad who has a lot of options rarely feels like love for women because the Chad doesn’t really care for the woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Women are not romantic.Women are obsessed with love because they lack it. Men are obsessed with sex because they lack it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 12:26 PM |
| 1 | If a guy friend had a crush on you, but you rejected him but wanted to stay friends with him; but later you got a new bf, would you be considerate of your friends feelings?Friends help each other out, otherwise, they’re not friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 02:56 PM |
| – | Please stop telling men they are single because they lack a social life or have bad social skillsMost men loose their social life and social circle because women don’t like them. It’s the other way around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 12:21 PM |
| – | What's something you wish the opposite sex understood more about your experiences?Spread the word | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 02:54 AM |
| – | Men are more misandrist than women will ever beMen are slaves and slaves are Uncle Toms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 03:45 AM |
| 1 | What's something you wish the opposite sex understood more about your experiences?Male sexuality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 03:41 AM |
| -2 | Schopenhauer proves that even when society bends over backwards to privilege men, they just can't help but resent womenMaybe the laws reflect the balance, and the compromise and “the deal” that the sexes have reached. Maybe the laws are just what our grandparents negotiated amongst themselves. The balance is different in different places and times and it’s constantly being negotiated all the time. In some places and times, it favors the men and it favors the women in others, so it can be a little skewed but it has never been nor will it ever be oppressive. I find it disrespectful to my grandmothers and their neg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 06:46 PM |
| 13 | Schopenhauer proves that even when society bends over backwards to privilege men, they just can't help but resent womenOR….hear me out here…maybe….just maybe…. Society never bent over backwards for men and the narrative of women’s millennia of oppression is not accurate. The sexes seem to have reached different balances in their relations in different eras and regions. These balanced situations all include compromises by both sides. But compromise can feel like oppression to a certain type of person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Too many men just want validation and admiration, not love.Because they don’t feel desired. It’s a delicate thing. All the talking points about a woman’s past, BC, being selected is about this fact about men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Too many men just want validation and admiration, not love.Men just want to be desired by the women they desire. All men are like this. Incels are men who desire women but are not desired by the women they desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Too many men just want validation and admiration, not love.Nope that your biggest misunderstanding about male desire and many men’s misunderstanding of their own desire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Too many men just want validation and admiration, not love.Men want to be desired by which they desire. It’s a form of the golden rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 09:03 PM |
| -2 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.That man must’ve been desperate for some affection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 08:46 PM |
| -3 | FULLY destigmatising sex work is a net positive for men but bad for certain feminist narrativesWomen get the right to vote -> prostitution, alcohol, “fun” becomes illegal. Women are puritans | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 01:48 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?Why are you being racist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?By that virtue, you shouldn’t have a preference for either. So you shouldn’t be happy or sad about sleeping with just one person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?Then since there was nothing to lose and there was something to gain, you must have mixed feelings about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?So you wouldn’t have lost something. Would you have gained something had you explored? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?Question is, do you think you’d have lost something if you explored a little bit first? Or you think you lost something by not exploring? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 09:26 PM |
| 7 | Male spaces are infected with the “Men are victims” complex.Every shitty boy is %50 likely to have a shitty mom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 05:23 PM |
| 7 | Male spaces are infected with the “Men are victims” complex.Many women’s masculine side also never grows past a 12 year old boy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 05:22 PM |
| 4 | Male spaces are infected with the “Men are victims” complex.I can. It’s called being devoured by the mother. https://youtu.be/9DLzVwtLz7M?si=2prKBh3U4B8WDn0J | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 05:18 PM |
| 4 | Male spaces are infected with the “Men are victims” complex.Most of that is women being more masculine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 05:01 PM |
| 7 | Male spaces are infected with the “Men are victims” complex.Boys, if allowed to be free, will roam around in a pack like dogs or wolfs. You’re talking about boys that are feminized by their mothers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 04:58 PM |
| 5 | Male spaces are infected with the “Men are victims” complex.Maybe mentally a 12 year old girl. Maybe that’s why they get such a visceral reaction. Cause it’s something sooo familiar to women. The sense of entitlement and all. “I want my pony” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 04:33 PM |
| 8 | Male spaces are infected with the “Men are victims” complex.The whole “incel problem” stems from men operating in their feminine side which have revealed some inherent flaws and contradictions in feminist thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 03:56 PM |
| – | Many of women's sexual instincts were meant for concubinesNahh they are just shitty people like anyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Nice guys and loser men are just scapegoats for womenIt’s not their fault, they have had to develop a discriminatory strategy. The only way out seems to be a like if we get a Jesus like figure that unites men and gets most men to stop chasing women and let them come to us. Like cats 🐈 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 10:25 PM |
| 0 | Men should NOT be so forthcoming or honest about their intentions despite how much women claim they shouldYou shouldn’t say but the trick is that you shouldn’t say the opposite either. Gotta keep em guessing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 07:39 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?I don’t know for sure if they are lying but another women here in the comment mentioned that women lie about wanting variety for safety | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?No the ones that don’t agree with me “might” be lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 11:55 PM |
| -2 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?1.Sex is good for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?Cause it’s the perspective I agree with. Maybe you and your sisters need to have a debate about life experience and judgement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 11:07 PM |
| -2 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?On some things, yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?I understand that people can have differences AND similarities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 11:01 PM |
| -1 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?The purpose of the hypothetical is to reveal the flaw in the thinking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 10:59 PM |
| -4 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?It’s basic logic. Everyone knows that you need experience to be a good judge if you wanna choose someone for life. But maybe some are just too dumb to think that far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?Either that or some are lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:44 PM |
| -1 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?Weasels and cockroaches always survive lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:42 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?And no man is always gonna be only attracted to just one person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:42 PM |
| -1 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?Either that or some are lying 🤥 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?They are either lying to world or to themselves which looks really pathetic either way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:40 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?How would you know if you’re making the right choice without experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?Or they are lying to the world or themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:37 PM |
| -1 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?Is the “I don’t like variety” that women have said (like women here) since the dawn of history a construct of the patriarchy? Could it be that the women who say it are actually being dishonest, because they don’t wanna sound like a slut and therefore a construct of the patriarchy that scares them into submission? Could it be that a propensity for variety and thinking of being sexually experienced as a virtue a universal human quality? I mean the argument is clear. You need experience to be a goo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?That a dick is a dick and sexual variety is not important. It’s the dominant message coming from women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?Their message has been the dominant message from women since dawn of history. Part of the patriarchy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:26 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?Our nightmare is not being desired by women we desire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:25 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?There are women here who disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:23 PM |
| -4 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?There are women here who disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:22 PM |
| -2 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?There are women here who disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?There are women here who disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:22 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life?There are women here who disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:22 PM |
| 5 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismYeah that’s why men should adopt the strategy of lying to women about being serious to get their sex. Who cares if the woman ends up crying. To each their own strategy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismYou’re evil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:24 PM |
| 5 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismSo men should treat sex and women like money power, and things. You have to work for “things”. Understood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismSuuuurrreeeee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at womenHumans absolutely have the right and the right reason to be angry at their god, especially if their god is women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Biggest reason men are mad at women? Miserable paths.Who the hell wants a tradwife? These kids are crazy. It’s just about sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 06:32 AM |
| 0 | Biggest reason men are mad at women? Miserable paths.The reason men are mad women is that women played a bait and switch game with rallying for feminism and abolition of gender roles. They abolished their gender roles, but imposed a new set of gender roles that favors them. There is truth to what you’re saying but it’s not the reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 05:53 AM |
| 5 | Biggest reason men are mad at women? Miserable paths.You still have to do shit you don’t wanna do just to survive on your own. It’s about sex and it always has been. Everything is in a sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 05:39 AM |
| – | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?I won’t. Fat women are for casual sex only | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 06:30 PM |
| – | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?No I want her to be interesting and charismatic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 06:01 PM |
| – | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?Seems fair. Why did you hurt him in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 05:56 PM |
| – | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?So is having an annoying loud girlfriend. So embarrassing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 05:55 PM |
| – | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?So is having a fat girlfriend. So embarrassing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 05:44 PM |
| – | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?Duhhh! It’s what the man wants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 05:43 PM |
| – | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?What you “want” is only half of the equation. Thank you for your attention to this matter! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 05:39 PM |
| – | Help me understand the "not girlfriend material" phenomenonIt’s that very early on (could be in the first 10 minutes), you see red flags that you know for sure this woman is not the one for you. But you’re still sexually attracted to her so what do you do? I agree that she probably finds this insulting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 12:24 AM |
| 1 | if men dislike high maintenance women then how come they are still pursuing them?Sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 06:21 PM |
| – | Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related.YOU SOUND SO ENTITLED TO SEX UGHHH | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 03:40 PM |
| 5 | Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks.You’ll probably have it after your first divorce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Gender war stalemate favors menThere’s no winning in war for either side. It’s just that one side ends up losing less and that’s gonna be men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks.Huh? Any human with access to sex will first have a phase and then ready to settle down now. Don’t listen to what people say, look at what they do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 04:21 PM |
| 12 | Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks.Same with men who have “sowed their wild oats” or have had “a phase” or “enough experience”. They are also not sex obsessed like women. It’s basically access that determines your attitude. Some very unattractive women that have the same level of access as men also act like men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Gender war stalemate favors menHey it worked for women. Whining might just work. It did something during the last election (which itself is evidence that the stalemate favors men) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 02:17 PM |
| 0 | Gender war stalemate favors menThey wanna be treated like women because they wanna get what they want with whining. Nothing wrong with what they want which is sleeping with a lot of women. They should just go out there and get what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Gender war stalemate favors menWell… it is what it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Gender war stalemate favors menI think the older a man is, the higher the likelihood of casual sex. Young women like older fit guys. And the longer a man survives being alone, the higher the chances he’ll be wealthier and more fit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Gender war stalemate favors menWhat’s the difference between sex and romance? Is it related to Italy or Rome? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Gender war stalemate favors menThe whining is just some men wanting to be treated like women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 09:29 PM |
| -21 | Male Loneliness Epidemic is a societal problem.Less female only spaces. Inclusivity of people you disagree with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 07:57 PM |
| -10 | Male Loneliness Epidemic is a societal problem.Tell him it’s ok if he wants to be himself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 07:55 PM |
| 15 | Male Loneliness Epidemic is a societal problem.Be inclusive of males in social activities Raise awareness Vote for programs that promote male youth development Let the minority of women who are willing to have sex with men in exchange for money do so without any stigma or persecution | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Do every woman go through a hoe phase?I think the ones that value partnership also want someone who wants the same. So if someone has gone for “experience” in the past, they would be categorized in the group that value “experience” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 06:51 PM |
| 1 | The reason men place so much value on sex is because women are very selective with who they have sex withIt’s a pretty good metric to gauge your worth. Whether women select you for sex over others or not. If women either choose everybody or choose nobody, then it won’t work as a metric. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 03:35 PM |
| 4 | The reason men place so much value on sex is because women are very selective with who they have sex withThey both cause each other. Women being selective makes men obsessed with sex. And men being obsessed with sex makes women more selective. It’s a positive feedback system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 03:33 PM |
| 1 | The reason men place so much value on sex is because women are very selective with who they have sex withIt’s so diabolical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 03:27 PM |
| 3 | The reason men place so much value on sex is because women are very selective with who they have sex withIf there’s an inequality that doesn’t benefit them, not doing anything about it is not enough. They demand you to confess to them that it doesn’t exist. Cause they can’t live with themselves causing inequality so they choose to ignore or change the truth for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminatedUnderstand men and stop demonizing men’s sexuality and their “porn addiction”, which is understanding your own masculine side, which is activated whenever you get your fuck on in a hookup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 05:38 PM |
| 0 | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminatedI think women wearing hijab is the closest technological thing we have to what you’re describing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 03:12 AM |
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