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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | How do you sleep with multiple women without feeling guilty?Lol 😂 | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 08:14 PM |
| 1 | How do you sleep with multiple women without feeling guilty?😂 | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 07:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you sleep with multiple women without feeling guilty?No, I’m pretty sure she thinks I’m seeing other people because she asked me what do I think about guys that sleep around and I didn’t say a word | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 07:20 PM |
| 2 | How do you sleep with multiple women without feeling guilty?😳 | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Do you always pay for dinner on dates$30 dollars!!! 😳 What kind of coffee are you drinking? I can understand $10 a drink, but $15! 😂 | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Is approaching hard or easy outside the USA?So in Europe is it more about being transparent, authentic, and being an actual man? | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 02:28 PM |
| 12 | Is approaching hard or easy outside the USA?If you are good in the US then you’ll be good anywhere | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 02:57 AM |
| 0 | Nearing 30's; I feel my space is not good enough for women my ageA studio apartment on the beach with beach front views is a lot different then a studio apartment in a low income area. There’s luxury studio apartments in some areas that exceed $10k a month. At the end of the day you don’t own what you live in and neither does she. Try to acquire real estate as quick as possible | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 06:40 PM |
| 0 | I turned religious then stopped Cold Approaching altogetherI have found church girls by cold approaching. You find many different people by cold approaching | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Should I leave here a note? Last time??No problem! | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 11:46 PM |
| 6 | Should I leave here a note? Last time??She’ll survive, please have some self-respect | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Handling rejection!I’ll say take it as a compliment or something like that. I’d rather leave them feeling good rather than be negative. You don’t want to start a fire. Yes rejection can suck at times | /r/seduction | 01/02/25 02:49 AM |
| 6 | How do I get over my fear of talking to girls?By talking to them. There are no shortcuts | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 07:21 PM |
| 2 | What is the gym equivalent for females?Pilates | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 03:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with the rejectionWell said | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Ethical rules in dating multiple women?Okay, you got me 😂 | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Ethical rules in dating multiple women?We haven’t even talked about exclusivity she said she wants to take things slow | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Here’s how to approach women without making them feel uncomfortable:What did he say? It got removed | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Favorite responses when a girl says she had a dream about you?🤦♂️ 😂 | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 07:27 AM |
| 16 | If most women look away immediately as soon as you lock eyes with them, is this is good indicator that you're ugly? (NO COPE ALLOWED)Think about what you do when you are shy. You would look at the ground when someone you like approaches you when you were younger | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 02:45 AM |
| 94 | My crush just told me that I am handsomeBe a man and ask her out | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first dateIt’s needy to avoid holding there hand because you think it comes across as needy lol | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first dateI already read that one. I think I’ll reread it | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first dateI can’t put my arm around her waist when we are sitting down on a bench lol. It was not friendly though I put my arm around her and told her to “come here, don’t be shy” I put my hand under her chin and gently turned her head and she pointed to her cheek | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first dateThank you for such a detailed response. The first 2 girls I went out with I barely flirted and didn’t make a move I don’t think it is even worth explaining lol. The 3rd girl I went out with we held hands, but I didn’t going in for the kiss. The 4th girl I went out with I did go in for it. We went to a rooftop bar and sat next to each other on bar stools over looking the ocean. She immediately started touching my shoulder/arm as soon as we were sitting next to each other. She asked me a lot of qu… | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first dateGoing in for the kiss or actually kissing? | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first dateYes please give me some things I could say. I would greatly appreciate that. Yeah, I thought going in for the kiss is risky, but the timing and escalation has to be build up to it and the conversation probably has to have some sort of sexual undertone. | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first dateI think you’re right | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first dateI met all of them in real life before I asked them out either through a mutual friend or through a group hangout like volleyball and stuff like that. I had at least a 30 min to 1.5 hour convo with them. One of the girls even asked for my number. Are there statics on what the ratio is of having actual chemistry with a women. Is it 1 out of 5 or something like that? Other people are saying my game sucks 😂 | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first dateCaptain obvious | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first dateLol 😂 | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first dateI’m not being needy when I text her sometimes I don’t even text them after the date. I’ll sometimes get the text I don’t feel spark if I don’t even text them after the date. The girls I go out with are very attractive this is the first time I’ve ever gone out with girls this attractive before 8 out of 10 and up. I don’t have more then two drinks on the date. I don’t even know if the convos are interesting at this point. What I do know is they do most of the talking during the date and they are a… | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first datePhysically? Wtf? | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 02:13 PM |
| 11 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first dateEvery time I grabbed their hand they never let go. I would let go if I needed to use my hand then they would grab it once I move it towards them again. Yeah the comfort part is a bit difficult for me ugh I’ve learned my lesson with dinner 😂 | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 08:15 AM |
| 5 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first dateHow do I make things fun because I think I do a really good job when I run into a girl at an event, through mutual friends and ect. They always seem to enjoy talking to me, laughing, being playful and will ditch their friends to keep talking. Sometimes they ask for my number, but on the date I get nervous and it takes me a while to loosen up. I thought I was good at talking to girls I guess I’ve been humbled | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 08:11 AM |
| 12 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first dateMost of the time we would get dinner at a restaurant at the beach by the pier. Yes I know restaurants are bad, I learned my lesson. The last two girls I went out with we got drinks. We would talk about passions, hobbies, and etc. The women would do about 80% of the talking. After dinner/drinks once we leave I would immediately grab her hand and walk to the pier, get ice cream, or just look at the ocean/bar hop. I would sit down and put my arm and around her and we would continue talking. Sometim… | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 08:05 AM |
| 3 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first dateWhat would be considered validating their beauty? | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 07:15 AM |
| 11 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first dateAh that makes sense. Any good books your recommend? My game is good at picking up until I go out on a date. I get nervous I think | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Can't get second dates?Girls want to feel special not used. You’re trying to escalate physically way too fast. Making out is fine, but trying to go all the way one the first date is going to turn most girls off. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 11:01 PM |
| 7 | Hiking date in 2 hours, help!Hold her hand and if she doesn’t let go she probably will let you kiss her. Keep in mind some women don’t kiss on the first date especially religious ones. | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Call her again?She texted me back | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Call her again?There is nothing wrong with giving a detail of the story | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Call her again?Good point | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Call her again?I’ve had this happen in the past before more then once and everything turned out fine. People have lives. Not everyone plays World of Warcraft that is eager to answer every call that comes their way | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 02:35 PM |
| 4 | Call her again?Yes people do lol, you’re telling me you haven’t missed a call in the last 6 months. | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 02:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys cope?Who said you’re not allowed to? Use common sense | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 04:11 PM |
| 4 | Do you have to physically escalate on the first date?If you can read body language you know when and when not to go for it than your fine. Obviously don’t continue going for it if she pulls back. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Do you have to physically escalate on the first date?Going in for the kiss isn’t groping lol | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 05:11 PM |
| -2 | Do you have to physically escalate on the first date?Asking for consent??? Doesn’t that come across as insecure | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 05:05 PM |
| -3 | Do you have to physically escalate on the first date?Who is going to ask, “can I give you a kiss” lol | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 05:04 PM |
| 9 | Do you have to physically escalate on the first date?Ah that is a good point | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 04:52 PM |
| 7 | What's the worst way you've ever fumbled a babe?I didn’t make a move at all | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 01:38 AM |
| 33 | What's the worst way you've ever fumbled a babe?I had two girls invite me to there place. I didn’t make a move at all | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Would the gym help (19M)?At your weight it will make a huge difference | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 08:17 AM |
| 1 | I'm proof that having success / money doesn't get you laid. (27/M)Are you successful in other areas of your life like fitness, and having good friends you look up to? | /r/seduction | 14/09/23 08:36 AM |
| 1 | I won’t see this one chick in person again is it better to ask her out via text or calling?I’ll go ahead and do that | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 10:15 PM |
| 5 | Was the bartender hitting on me?Yeah I figured that when I got home ugh I felt so bad :/ | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Was the bartender hitting on me?Haha well it doesn’t hurt to ask lol | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Coworker says I’m cute, but doesn’t date/hook up with coworkers. What do I do?Ikr? I’m pretty sure I could get her though I just got to be super alpha. She is down to hangout with me one on one and she knows I think she is cute. | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Coworker says I’m cute, but doesn’t date/hook up with coworkers. What do I do?She did tell me she would make out with coworkers though. So I don’t know if that is a complete friend zone. | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Coworker says I’m cute, but doesn’t date/hook up with coworkers. What do I do?Lol | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Is the a window of opportunity to ask out a chick short after you meet her?Ok thank you for replying. I will keep what you said in mind | /r/seduction | 12/12/17 08:07 AM |
| 3 | Help me decipher third date?Don’t focus on sex. You did everything fine you respected her when she didn’t want to go any further. I think your find dude. | /r/seduction | 10/12/17 09:47 PM |
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