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Hard to be trigger words when they are actuate. That said the reason you care is because you feel under attack because I spoke badly about TRP. Oh by the way I don't do political nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 05:45 PM
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Said nothing about casual sex/ons.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 09:54 AM
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I'm not speaking for all women. Then why frame your position as such?: Women don't talk like this elsewhere online.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 08:29 AM
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Why do I have a feeling this is turning into a "not all [insert gender]" thing? No one is saying except for maybe some RPers that women want to be dominated 24/7. They and many of us are saying women have fantasies where they want to be dominated and that most women have such fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 05:50 AM
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I was trying to get at that the vast majority of women want to be dominated in some way sexually. Now as to how or how much that's going to vary greatly, but its basically nearly most women have such fantasy in being dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 05:03 AM
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You do realize I used quotes for a reason right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 04:54 AM
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I think you be scared/shocked to learn how popular the daddy thing is among women. Really makes you wonder why so many women have such a fetish for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 04:52 AM
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Rape, be taken, you are splitting hairs really. The whole rape fantasy thing and that be taken boils down to the same thing really. Which is a woman giving up control and a man wanting her so much he has to have her and go "your mine". As they say about actual rape and it applies here, its about power less about the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 04:51 AM
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I agree with this although who knows exactly what the percentage is. I would say "80%" do. I say that much due to how much women ate up 50 Shades of Grey and from Porn Hub's search data from women. Plus how many women have rape or rape like fantaites. As well as seeing from the BDSM world how common it is for women to take on the sub role.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 04:47 AM
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You're one guy. With a limited perspective. Telling me, a woman, what women like. All while speaking for all women on what they like. Bit ironic no? More so I doubt you are having sex with women (chances you being a lesbian or that bi even are pretty low going by current stats), which means you aren't seeing what they actually want. More so look at how many women where drawn to 50 Shades of Grey and how they went on to film two more movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 04:37 AM
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I don't think your an outlier unlike CombatStacey, as I think most women are very much like you. In that you find being dominated appealing, but its not something you want 24/7. Its like with food. Say you love pizza. Is it something you want every meal time? No. You may want steak or fish instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 04:27 AM
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How are you remotely getting men in touch with their emotions out of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 04:23 AM
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And things like rape is what I figured you where referring to in regards to having bad experiences with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 06:51 PM
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How is it crazy when it's literally the main thing I hear about in regards to bad experiences with men? And I doubt at this point every woman would have such a story. I've heard quite a few stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 06:13 PM
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Yes sexual preferences changes as well. Where did I say one sudden becomes aroused by a dad bod?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 05:53 PM
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And things like rape is what I figured you where referring to in regards to having bad experiences with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 03:09 PM
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I know, I meant how much do you deal with the labor vs management.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 03:08 PM
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Which change over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 03:00 PM
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There's so many other ways to be masculine, and attractive. No there is really isn't. I don't think you realize just how limited masculinity is still today. I like a sharp-edged, refined type of guy. So the James Bond type.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 02:52 PM
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And how much of those blue collar workers are the laborers and not management?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:43 PM
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We live in a pretty safe world so women don't need as much protection. Doesn't mean they want to feel safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:32 PM
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Tell me who they fucked prior. What does that have anything to do here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:29 PM
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https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2013/crime-in-the-u.s.-2013/tables/table-12/table_12_crime_trends_by_population_group_2012-2013.xls Rape and that all violent crimes for that matter overall are down and continue to decline. Really the whole 1 in 5 women being rape stat should really be looked at, especially now that for the past 5 years we recognize women can rape men as well despite feminists doing their best to fight against this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:05 PM
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Well ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 07:51 AM
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I like how BPers and such go nuts over RPers pulling AWALT but have no problem pulling the same card when it suits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 07:34 AM
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You realize NYC is majority women right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 07:29 AM
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Did you see me joking?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 07:29 AM
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Stats say otherwise. But I guess we are pulling the AWALT card then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 07:28 AM
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Most women don't have bad experiences with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:33 AM
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There's plenty on reddit and they funny enough seem to only exist in feminist subs like Trollx or GenderCritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 11:48 PM
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Ya because of fear mongering.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 11:47 PM
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The MeToo guys who got fired were in public-facing positions and there were usually multiple allegations against them (from subordinates). More like the firings you heard about where of well known men. You don't seem to realize or more so seem to grasp how other men who weren't well known got fired as well. It’s like you just completely ignored the last sentence of my comment You mean despite the fact that I proved you wrong on your last sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 11:44 PM
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I produce one when you can produce an academic study on men cheating more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 08:32 AM
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Did you know 30% of people think the sky is green?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 08:26 AM
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The case itself is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 07:25 AM
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And? The news only covered it AFTER he step down not BEFORE. No one knew it was going on until the story broke when he step down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 07:22 AM
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She should get with a different man then. I still doubt a working class man will do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 07:20 AM
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You should read the news more often. You do realize the CEO of Intel resigned because he was dating an employee?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 07:17 AM
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Ya and none of it being academic. Every time the whole cheating thing gets brought up here no one posts anything academic but only polling numbers. Apply some actual critical thought here, if you cheated are you going to admit it in some poll?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 07:13 AM
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Even in non high profile cases this happens. No employer especially today want's a worker accused of raping a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 07:12 AM
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Is it? As often not in those cases they don't go to the police to report it. And this is more said as means of regret not as intent to get the guy into trouble. Its like when a kid gets caught with their hand in the cookie jar and they try to blame the other kid for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 07:09 AM
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You might be put in prison, but probably not. You might have a damaged reputation but it would probably be short lived, if it got any traction. It's possible that the worst case can happen, but that's probably magnitudes lower risk. You left out being killed over being falsely accused of rape. And the damage to your rep very much depends on where you live. Live in a big city, it likely be short lived if your some average joe. But if your in a small town, your fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 07:03 AM
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Keep in mind this is filed rape charges. Meaning the DA thought they had enough to processcute for rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:59 AM
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Keep in mind a portion of those are female on male rape claims. FBI changed their definition to include male victims of female rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:57 AM
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So? Its not far to say a portion of false rape claims are due to regret sleeping with some guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:56 AM
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None of which deal with being accused of a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:54 AM
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But I have a lot of trouble believing any company would fire an employee for being accused of a crime without any involvement from law enforcement. Before metoo I would say the same, but after metoo I believe this. No company wants an employee who is accused of rape at their company. And companies especially the big ones have change their policies to reflect this. The CEO of Intel resigned over fraternizing with another employee. Think about this for a second, the CEO of one of the biggest chip …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:53 AM
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Sure you can. Most states are at will employment and there's no state law that I am aware of that says you can't fire someone who was accused as a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:46 AM
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Is it really enough for him to lose his job? Yes. Men have lost their jobs as well been killed over being falsely accused of rape. I don't think false rape is some epidemic thing, but its not some minor thing feminists play it off as.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:44 AM
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To me a false accusation is a deliberate and intentional one, a criminal act. What about the women who cry rape because they regret sleeping with the guy but cried wolf because of social stigma?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:42 AM
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Is #MeToo an appropriate counterweight to this sort of thing? It was, but it quickly became not. However, when public opinion is mobilized against misconduct, the marginalized may suffer. What did you think was going to happen when you run an online campaign with zero thought put into it especially in terms of the backlash? Did feminists not think men weren't going to take a defensive stance? Did feminists seriously thought men where simply fall over themslves in admitting they are all a bunch o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:41 AM
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What good will that do?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:34 AM
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I'm sure Kavanaugh would not do that now. I bet he would now more than ever. He is part of the upper class. The rich is so rarely actually held accountable for anything they do. The only way to be held accountable as a rich person is to piss off other rich people. That's literally the only way this happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:32 AM
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But I do think they’re blinded by bias, and have shown themselves to be completely incapable of any objective analysis of the problem. Pretty much. Feminists want to skew everything to paint the picture that women have it worse no matter what. The CDC rape study is a prime example of this where they didn't even classified female on male rape as being rape but a totally different category. So this skewes the official results to make rape worse for women still.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:30 AM
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Not really. It what caused it to flame up. But its more rooted in MRA fear mongering over false rape claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:18 AM
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Which i doubt given that the majority of their living expenses would be going to things like rent and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:02 AM
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If they where all bad marriage prospects then why do women keep on marrying rich men? As its rich men who use drugs the most and yet women still want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 05:51 AM
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I find that hard to believe really given that working class men are far less likely to do such a thing given their limited incomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 05:49 AM
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TIL fake means unreliable data. If someone told you the sky is green you going to believe them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 05:48 AM
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For a LTR? Ya I do think that seeing women overwhelmingly prefer men with a college degree. Also most women aren't going to date a 7 foot man, he be deemed too tall by most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 05:47 AM
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So?
/r/PussyPassDenied14/09/18 03:47 PM
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The marriage rates are declining, but not as much as divorce. Ya they are actually. Marriage rates are at their lowest rates ever. Still, pretty much everyone ends up married or in long-term partnerships. Outright wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 03:34 PM
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I think a woman making slightly more reduces the threat of getting divorce raped? One would think. Probably less child support and I could claim primary caregiver? If your in the US good luck with that as a father. As the courts are going to give her custody the vast majority of the time and make you pay on top of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 03:29 PM
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Most people in the world are poor. So? This sub is focused on the US and the EU. Sources https://www.marketwatch.com/story/women-are-about-to-control-a-massive-amount-of-wealth-but-cant-find-anyone-to-manage-it-2017-05-12 If it only applies to the united states, then it is not the norm. Because why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 03:19 PM
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Yup. Currently some 30% of married women are the breadwinner in the household.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 03:18 PM
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But the push back against this way of thinking is unprecedented Its also the first time men really fought back against their gender roles. One would think feminists would support it, but the fact they are critical of it speaks volumes. they expect men to be superhumans who give women all the positive aspects of life and maintain our gender roles while women are free of any burden and liberated. I don't think they expect men to be superhumans more than expect men to provide and remain in their ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 03:11 PM
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It is sustainable and most couples today are dual income, but even there the woman still wants the man to make more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 03:09 PM
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These threads tend to ignore love/feelings when speaking of the value of the opposite sex, as if that isn’t a huge part of it. Some times it is a huge part, other times its not. Some people get married because the guy knocked up the woman. Others got married because of arranged marriage. While others got married for economic reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 02:57 PM
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These transactional type threads completely ignore love and the fact that most people if they have the option choose this these days. If most people had the option to choose then explain why women still want men to be the breadwinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 02:34 PM
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Feminism has no interest in removing men's dependence on women, but again feminism isn't about men's issues nor ever will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 02:33 PM
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there's 6 in 7 men living in poverty in 2014 And you got that where exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 02:31 PM
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Even in the US being poor is going to vary. As there's a huge difference in being poor in say Detroit than say San Francisco. As in one city you barely have a functional police force and in the other you have various resources trying to help you including bussing you to another city (ya the US has this thing in bussing the homeless everywhere).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 02:28 PM
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Unless they are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 02:26 PM
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Ya those cheating stats by and large are bullshit along with who puts more effort into the marriage. As both are things we are going to lie about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 02:25 PM
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More women are good marriage prospects than men. Your funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 02:24 PM
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Let me guess UMC? As the men I know only spend money on the basics and really don't spend much on themselves. But again me and the men I know aren't UMC.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 02:23 PM
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Most women are lower middle class or poor. lol. Let me guess zero sources to back this up at all. Since most women are lower middle class or poor You do realize women have more wealth than men right? Most women need men. Ya no. If they did they be still financially dependent on men. That is clearly not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 02:21 PM
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Not in the slightest. Its a view that is very much remain strong and shows zero signs of dying off. And really outside of sugar momma's I doubt really any woman would want you as a SAHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 02:07 PM
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Cheer how? By going ya. I think its a good thing men are going their way and want all men to do so. Then again I am one for giving everything feminists want as well. Men no longer approach let alone talk to women in the streets. Men not paying for dinner. Women in charge of all companies, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 01:44 PM
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Uh people in this sub actually do acknowledge people whining over this. Some of us like me cheer when people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:50 PM
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Feminists complain about i They do in their own little parts of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:42 PM
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Its not linked to feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:32 PM
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I would more say most men aren't bothered by feminism until they interact with it or it affects them in some manner. A example of this is Title IX and that with the kangaroo courts made to handle rape claims against them. Or they decide to seek help for say DV and realize they are the ones getting arrested or deny help because they are a man. This is when men care about feminism really.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:30 PM
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Totally different topic/subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:17 PM
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Na just really "its okay when I do it but not when you do it" mentality.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/09/18 12:13 PM
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That depends on context. Kim is in the media for looks and drama. The sugar daddy thing is in the media because the majority are against it but is rising in popularity at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:05 PM
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There's no reddit site rule against racism.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/09/18 11:30 AM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 11:04 AM
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Ya the Chinese aren't going to be taking over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 10:27 AM
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If no one was concern it won't be part of mainstream media.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 10:25 AM
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Most of society frowns upon it but a section of it does not. See the whole sugar daddy thing per example.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 10:08 AM
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Studied by academics not by TRP which doesn't study crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 09:56 AM
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Marriage rates are down as well, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 09:42 AM
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Why do I have a feeling all 70 of those women came from similar backgrounds/class, but you going to chime in saying they aren't? If there was a pattern among women that was universal I would think it be highly studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 09:41 AM
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If you think all women are the same, you should get out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 09:25 AM
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They were not always a gold digger. And you know that how?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 09:25 AM
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Not all expect the man to pay their way, but they do expect the man to be the breadwinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 11:38 PM
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You do know downvoting is against the rules right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 09:10 PM
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Ya they totally say that outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 07:57 PM
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Because women and men totally don't talk about what they look for on dates at all. We simply hand over our resume's and go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 07:30 PM
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Because people like to bitch. You find the same case anywhere you look really.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 06:38 PM
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Some do if they can in social conversations. I know it may be bit of a shock that women and men socialize before they decide to date each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 06:37 PM
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I am saying women initially do this when they first meet the guy or go on the first date. As that's where she learns about what job he has and probe him on his income level, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 05:50 PM
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How do you get inside women's minds like this? Its called talking to women. I know crazy right? Sheeconomy? What's that some random theory thought up by a butthurt MGTOW coper? Economic/marketing buzz term. As I already told you google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 05:49 PM
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Group think, tribalism, really the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 05:32 PM
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I mean people sitting back and judging your relationship “you can do better” type shit. I know. A woman is by and large going to compare her value least current value to the man when she first meets him or goes out on the first date, while 3rd parties are not only more numerous but likely to do this more than once.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 05:30 PM
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Nope 6th.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 05:26 PM
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I think you feel like they do it more as multiple people are comparing the couple's values than a single person doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 04:55 PM
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If jobs where leaving CA (which they are largely not), then explain why its the 5th largest economy in the world? There's too much money there for companies to simply up and leave when a state's economy is that good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 04:50 PM
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It's never been easier to find a job Sure if you have in demand skills, but if you don't then good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 04:48 PM
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It's hard for us to pay student debts, find steady jobs after graduation and get a good home quick enough. Most people have no financial knowledge, the job market has change, and why should everyone get a house? Religion and nationalism (even if I'm mot a fan of them) and the like aren't really connecting us so we get a lot of political dividing. While part of the political dividing is due to society being more physically separated, its also due to group think. By that I mean we find like minded…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 04:47 PM
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How is the economy built in women's favour? Look up sheeconomy. We cannot help who we are and arnt attracted to, it's got nothing to do with having an inflated sense of self worth or accomplishment. We can't help who we are initially attracted to, but its when women start to get to know the guy is when the self worth and/or accomplishment kicks in. And that's when she starts to compare her value to his.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 04:21 PM
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A more social economy less masculine jobs/culture. Ya no. We don't have a social economy, we have a info/tech/service economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 04:08 PM
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I can only guess she blames him for her misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 03:53 PM
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It is the main reason as women overall have priced themselves out of the dating market and they don't want to adjust to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 03:47 PM
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Can you move the goalpost bit more to the left?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 02:48 PM
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No, but good luck getting a second date as a guy when you don't pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 02:25 PM
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So who is paying you to waste your time on this sub and that thread at that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 05:05 AM
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women spend so much money on their appearance Which is literally their choice that no one is forcing them to do. It’s only fair. So if I pay then your putting out?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 05:04 AM
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If they date down they can find one, but they won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 04:58 AM
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So your a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 04:55 AM
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I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 03:52 AM
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Overall yes. But not necessary on a one to one basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 03:40 AM
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It doesn't suggest it than say it outright. As it literally says its on going and not silence (making it constantly verbal).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 07:11 PM
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no one is advocating constantly asking. I literally gave you a link showing other wise. Here I post it again: https://nmcsap.org/prevention/what-is-active-consent/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 06:29 PM
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How is that convenient to me? They get over their anger, learn TRP is overall crap and take on a purble pill instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 05:49 AM
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People are largely raised as BP but then life itself drives them into being RP or purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 05:01 AM
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I would argue they are more purple than blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 05:00 AM
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I doubt BP will disagree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 04:56 AM
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There seems to be an ever growing disconnect between how current day relationships are and what we think they should be. As we still cling to the old views of relationships all while relationships themselves are in the opposite direction. In that they are made of people that often not don't fit the typical roles. Saying that I think people still take on roles in relationships but its more in flux today with a lot of push back.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 04:54 AM
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This is something TRP misses. TRP like feminism/TBP don't seem to be interested in biology. I say that as TRP thinks that no woman will resist Chad and as soon as they see Chad the panites are off in a heart beat. And they think Chad is universal at that. Reality is women are attracted to a wide range of men. There are some universal items, with things like height. But there's no golden standard if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 04:45 AM
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Wished far more men realize and/or learned this. As this is very much true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 04:43 AM
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No one promotes constantly asking for consent throughout the entire sexual encounter, Ya they do with active consent. The way some guys here talk about consent, it’s like they think it‘s this huge turn off that’ll ruin their chances. Because the majority of women will be turned off by a guy constantly asking for consent. More so there's I would say a large portion of women that want the man to simply go for it without ask. Say that due to how common the whole rape fantasy is with women, and that…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 04:40 AM
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Multiple people including you seem to have issues reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 01:11 AM
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So divorce. Not everyone is married these days. In fact far less couples are married today than ever before. Far more couples are cohabiting instead. Everything shows that they clearly don’t. Even though they don't. Um, yes it is. Your own source says otherwise. And other sources that are better than yours say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 01:08 AM
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Keep living in that fantasy land of yours buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 01:03 AM
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Uh? It depicts a reality that doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 12:57 AM
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which is overkill even by most feminist’s standards How is it overkill when they promote such a thing? If anything this story is a win for the consent-is-sexy team. How?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 07:09 AM
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How does that tell you its a woman's market?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 06:43 AM
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More like 1:1000000000000000000000.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 06:43 AM
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That's why you get the manufactured ones instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 06:37 AM
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Uh just buy a man's wedding band....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 06:33 AM
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Because displaying loads of femininity totally gets the chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 06:30 AM
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and good looking guys can get laid based on their looks alone, but not by hot girls. it's the fatties and 5/10 barely fuckable chicks who chase hot dudes. the hotter girls absolutely do demand more than just good looks, they will not tolerate awkward/lame acting hot dudes. You don't get out much do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 06:19 AM
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You also have birth control and abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 05:57 AM
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I don't think its because your scary but more so we live in a post metoo world. So men are now walking on eggshells. To put it one way a portion of gen y think asking a woman out for coffee is considered sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 05:56 AM
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You forgot least a high 5 figure job and college degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 05:54 AM
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No strawman here, and followed the conversation. Don't get mad simply because someone had a different opinion than yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 05:24 AM
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what is she supposed to do? Sya he either changes or she leaves. Men seriously don’t know what they want. I think the lot of them actually do. Now wonder women divorce you all. You do realize this is like not even in the top 10 reasons for divorce right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 05:23 AM
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Lol says the same kind of man that would most likely call a woman that directly communicates, as nagging. Ya no. You seem to have trouble with knowing what words mean. There's a difference in going "hey I am doing a lot of the household duties and want you to pitch in more" and repeating "take out the trash". the hesitation from women to immediately directly communicate and complain about things going wrong, doesn’t just come out of nowhere. Ya because it comes from how they communicate not beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 12:45 AM
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I don't think you know what passive aggressive means.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 12:38 AM
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I know its not how relationships work, but its a way to judge to see how serious they are about being in a relationship. As often not past history is a tell for future behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 02:45 PM
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Take it you didn't read the comment chain?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 01:20 PM
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I think they are trying to say that it can be an indication on if the person is going to stick around or not. As would you hire someone that stayed at a company for several years or has worked at several companies but all for short amount of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 11:38 AM
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If anything, I feel like we're in agreement that gender roles shouldn't be so linear. Maybe? My thing is more of is one pitches in more in one area when the other is pitching in more. So if your a breadwinner and the other is not, even if they are working as well I would expect that person to do more around the house than the breadwinner would do. Granted this isn't exact or anything. But my point/issue was shifting more of the caretaking load onto the breadwinner even when they are already doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 11:35 AM
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Is "do your own dishes and laundry sometimes" the same as "caretaking for the entire household on top of paying for it"? Nope. One is done when living alone, the other is not. And as I asked you before is it equal for men having to be the caretaker for the household and be the breadwinner? As that is what women seem to be pushing for. Even if they aren't and just want men to do more around the house how is that equal when men are working more than the woman is? You say its common sense that it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 10:00 AM
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The type of violence doesn't matter, violence is violence. And suicide isn't necessary violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 09:35 AM
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I can't find a way to make your assumption to make sense. Nothing I said was an assumption. Look up violence and poverty. There's a shit load of research on it that goes back decades to say the least. If you still answer to me vaguely I'll just assume you don't even make sense to yourself. Or its me not wanting to unpack and explain to you the huge ass nuance over poverty and crime. And why the absent fathers and environment are the two huge reasons for men being violent. Its much more I am simp…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 09:15 AM
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That doesn't sound logically consistent to me. Because I didn't say that and your putting words in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 08:52 AM
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Why do you continue to ignore the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 08:51 AM
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So you think men should not only be the breadwinner but the caretaker as well I gather then? While the woman doesn't need to take on other roles? As I can't help but notice you intentionally ignored my question on this being equal or not. Is it really that labor-intensive? I wager it can be if your working 40+ hours a week while living with someone else who doesn't work as much as you while expecting you to do the lions share of the housework at the same time. Mind you I am not talking about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 08:17 AM
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But by the statistics it seems that lack of masculinity leads to what you're talking about, isn't it? Doesn't look like it to me. Like I said its more lack of father and environment. These men are generally born in poor areas, areas that promote violent crime. Giving these men masculinity isn't going to work especially when they are already born with a portion of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 08:02 AM
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Hyper masculinity is extreme masculinity that is toxic but non extreme masculinity isn't toxic. Femininity isn't promoting hyper masculinity more than the lack of a father figure and environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 07:46 AM
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Some women do. I more meant why don't women want to be the breadwinner? As I don't see any women claiming they want to be. In fact I see women not wanting to be the breadwinner. how there seem to be far more men incapable of contributing equally to the household So men should not only be the breadwinner but also contribute more to the household? How is that equal? than there are women incapable of pulling a paycheck. Its not simply pulling the paycheck. Its more of them pulling a paycheck that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 07:35 AM
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Ya no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 07:26 AM
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The trend seems to be that women want to do both roles and expect their male partners to follow their lead. Women don't want both roles, they in fact want to be absent of roles while expecting their men to fill both the breadwinner and caretaker roles. In short women want their cake and eat it as well. They'd rather just stick to their traditional role. Maybe the baby boomer men do, but not younger men. They actually want to break free of their gender role and stop being the breadwinner society …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 07:26 AM
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Obviously she doesn't, but a lot of couples do though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 07:22 AM
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These are women also pulling a paycheck, but getting stuck with all the housework and childcare as well. I highly doubt that given that stat wise men are doing more at home now while still being subject to being the breadwinner. More so often not women who do pull a paycheck in these relationships make less than the man does and often work part time. Why are some men incapable of pulling their own weight at home? Why are women incapable of being the breadwinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 07:12 AM
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Sure, but this is where the whole gender role thing comes into play. Men today are still expected to be the breadwinner while the woman is the home caretaker. but it seems now men have to be both while the woman doesn't need to be either. Yes both should take care of the house/apartment, but it seems here and that in society women want men to do more around the house all while still being the breadwinner. So much for equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 06:45 AM
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So men must not only be the breadwinner but also be the home caretaker? I doubt men are claiming to not be aware of such things but more expecting the woman to do these things. But it seems now men have to take on two gender roles. I guess it makes sense with women not tied to a gender role anymore and being free of their old gender role.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 06:37 AM
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I'd say your criticism goes both ways. It does, but I would say its something that applies more to women than men due to general ways of communication with men generally more direct and women more passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 06:32 AM
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Be more assertive about what you need in your marriage. Be like Ana. More like actually communicate what you want/need in your relationship. Stop expecting men to mind read things. As so often not it seems women think men are going to pick up their non verbal often not passive aggressive hints that the man supposed to pick up on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 01:31 AM
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With that being said, it’s interesting to see how the work/life balance of mothers in the midwestern US., mostly white and middle to upper class, have changed since I was in high school about 14 years ago. The same sort of change I wager has happened countrywide. And that largely due to breaking women's financial dependence on men. How it plays out locally is going to be different, but feminists unhitched women here which is great, but feminists didn't go all the way as that would actually be ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 01:28 AM
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The more that men act like women the happier feminists think they are going to be. Let alone be more dateable, not. Even feminists have said outright they find masculine men (ie toxic masculinity) as being attractive. The feminists and BPers like Westside here don't seem to get women don't want to date feminine men and how toxic masculinity is being used it's being applied to all of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 01:18 AM
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Or its because if they do they be seen as pedophiles, na that can't be it must be due to masculinity which is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 01:13 AM
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The responses I got were "so you are saying that masculinity is toxic". Probably because toxic masculinity has been applied to all of masculinity. Like I told you positive masculinity doesn't exist, if it did you be able to prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 01:08 AM
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I have no idea why these men would expect that the rest of us would give them a pass and they would be exempt from ridicule as well. Yet BPers and feminist give women a pass here when they spew their hateful and toxic views of men. Funny how that works. I’m sorry but this is the most bogus claim that I’ve ever heard. Let me guess its men who reinforce "toxic masculinity" not women as well. This is despite women making up half of society are the ones that reward it when it comes to dating. There …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 12:51 AM
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Nope. Hard to argue in bad faith when the OP of this thread is even proves my argument here. Edit: /u/WestsideMoonWalker You do know downvoting is against the rules right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 12:25 AM
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So women aren't part of society got it. And how can men take advantage of the resources that are there when they are going to be turned away and deterred from them? This is besides no one encouraging them to get help to begin with. Those resources aren't going to appear because society doesn't think men can be victims period.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 12:20 AM
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So what if that doesn't mean what it means when feminists are using it to mean it as masculinity is toxic. And again positive masculinity doesn't exist. If it did you be able to point to it existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 12:13 AM
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Them collectively being less traditionally masculine will, though. Which is nothing but an opinion. This of course ignores things like male disposability, men not allowed to be victims, etc etc. Basically all of men's problems. As men being well feminine isn't going to fix anything when everything else is still going the other direction. More so as I pointed out to you women as a group have zero interest in dating men who are feminine. You may find such men attractive, but women as a whole do no…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 05:26 PM
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I'm not saying that each man has to be less masculine. We like more caring, progressive, sensitive and open men Ya you are in fact saying men should be less masculine and be more feminine. I'm saying that toxic masculinity as a culture needs to go. Which is saying masculinity needs to go, not simply certain masculine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 05:19 PM
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Wrong and wrong. http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2014/04/male_rape_in_america_a_new_study_reveals_that_men_are_sexually_assaulted.html http://time.com/3393442/cdc-rape-numbers/ https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2016/11/the-understudied-female-sexual-predator/503492/ Its not good to spew false info.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 05:14 PM
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The reality is that a lot people were already negative and bitter because of real world experiences. Exactly. Feminists and that BPers here seem to think no man ever had a single bad experience with women or that in life in general. They seem to think life is perfect for men. More so something the OP is hugely not getting here is the whole matter of perception and macro vs micro. As the OP is applying her immediate view of reality on a macro level and it simply doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 05:11 PM
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I have always gone to length to tell other men going through a tough time that it is ok to reach out for help Problem is society thinks otherwise and such there's lack of resources for men that want/need help.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 05:05 PM
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Because that is what toxic masculinity means. Notice how positive masculinity doesn't exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 05:03 PM
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First of all, masculinity is a full package, it's not inherently toxic or not, it's just masculinity. Its a full package, but there are parts of it primary hyper masculinity that is toxic, but I agree that masculinity itself isn't toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 05:03 PM
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You may think that but then you won't be listening to men, something feminism has a huge problem with doing so. As among men gay men last time I check had the highest suicide rates. These men I would argue will less likely to be masculine and more open with their emotions than that of a straight man. And yet they commit suicide far more. Have you ever thought that the issue wasn't masculinity but society itself? Step back and look at what resources there are for those that need help. And look at…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 05:01 PM
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They can walk safely at night. They can wear whatever they want without being judged. One stats say otherwise. And two what planet you live on? Last time check men where restricted in what they can wear where as women where not least in western countries. Teaching men about consent isn't the same as saying they are rapists. It's teaching that rape is a huge problem in our society - what with 1 in 5 women having experienced rape or assault or molestation - and men have to do their part in dealing…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:57 PM
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How is the removal of masculinity a model for how society should be and could be? The thing is for as much as you feminists work to kill masculinity women are always going to be drawn to it and reward it. Women by and large do not want to date and that marry a man that acts/behaves like a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:45 PM
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And women as well. Why you don't include women here is beyond me. As this only further supports the whole feminism blames men and doesn't hold women responsible. Women make up "half" of society. To say they have zero impact here is well bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:43 PM
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Just because you don't see it doesn't mean its not happening. As you basically admitted to you are in a niche group. As your left wing/progressive. So I doubt you live in an area with any conservatives or that moderate liberals. As if you did you would see men with masculine traits you deemed toxic getting laid. More so basically every guy in this thread has said in this sub that if they didn't act masculine they ain't getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:35 PM
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Men initiate divorces less as I wager they rather stay in a crappy marriage than be divorced and single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:30 PM
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Damn inmate. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:29 PM
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Domestic abuse? Cheating? Emotional abandonment? None of those things are solely due to masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:28 PM
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Boys as early as 14 attach their worth to their sexual prowess. Ya because boys at that age start being exposed to the whole "men are horny monkeys" mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:26 PM
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Why should we when they reward the very behavior they claim to not find attractive? The thing is when it comes to dating and what women say what they want, us men learned to never listen to it because so often not women go for men who don't fit what they find attractive in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:23 PM
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Toxic Masculinity is as old as patriarchy. I somehow doubt masculinity being toxic is that old, given that its only been more recent that masculinity itself has been viewed negatively. We like more caring, progressive, sensitive and open men, at least from my experience. And your experience doesn't speak for all women. The fact is women still find masculinity attractive, even feminists find it attractive despite them viewing it being toxic. This is why I say WOMEN not men reinforce current day m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:16 PM
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Those guys are getting swiped because they’re extremely attractive, not because their career is “model”. Would say its both actually. As being a model has a level of social status to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 12:43 AM
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that fat people are lazy... and this was the main reason they didn't like fat on themselves and others... Wager this is largely due to them doing something about being fat and seeing other fat people not doing anything about it but remaining fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 12:41 AM
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Thing is society use to have a tougher skin and could take non PC talk. Where as today people are so dam sensitive you have to walk on eggshells, least you hurt their precious feelings. But I guess that is what we get when we raise a whole generation on everyone getting a trophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 12:39 AM
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Has their ever been a particular experience behaviour from a woman that has killed all sexual attraction to her? Yes. If so, what? Primary its either been them being an attention whore or insane/possessive/crazy/etc. There's a couple of times its been them using text speak or they are well stupid/dumb. I don't care how hot a woman is if she has any one of these traits it kills the attraction and I stop showing any interest in her. Story time! No story time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 10:14 AM
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Sure for guys under 30. Those over 30 won't even if they have the stones for it as they learned about crazy girls and women with no personalities and such. In short they learned their lesson to screen women first before pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 11:44 PM
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How long would you give the relationship before you knew the answer? There's no hard set answer to this really. As for me I would let the relationship run its course. What would it take for you to come to a final decision? Besides seeing that the woman I am dating isn't worth marrying? Or would you just draw out the relationship simply for convenience? I would "draw" it out as dating someone doesn't mean you are looking to get married. Lots of people cohabitate now relationship wise and I see no…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 09:41 AM
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Yup and has long term and deep effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 07:14 AM
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Maybe in fantasy land.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 06:14 AM
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Women are a lot more demanding in terms of "what's good enough". I know a lot of women who have really high standards and remain single because there's "no guys I'm attracted to" out there. Some women are pricing themselves out of the dating market, which leads men to fight over a smaller pool of available women. Women do have high standards, but all college educated women are pricing themselves out of the market not due to having high standards but due to the college education gap. As there's f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 06:13 AM
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And China
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 06:07 PM
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I was a bit sad she wasn't a bit more friendly to me If you want that then go talk to women in a small town or least not a major urban area. I say that as people not just women are more uptight/stuck up/etc in the major population areas where as those in smaller population areas are far more friendly and what have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 02:07 PM
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Yup. TRP holds the same sort of double standards feminism/TBP does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 01:36 PM
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Trp is proud of being amoral Which is funny as they are moral as heck to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 01:35 PM
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A mix economy isn't necessary a capitalist one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 12:31 PM
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Then I have to say your parents are extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 12:31 PM
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That guy is fucking whipped. And I can't imagine she is going to keep her toy for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 10:34 AM
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I would say it actually helps attracting a certain group of women actually. As there are a minority amount of women that love men that get all into fashion. Though often not it seems the guys that get all into fashion like in the OP's example are almost always skinny and under 5'10" it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 10:31 AM
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I didn't think one has seen what New Balance shoes look like today.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 10:28 AM
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Its a matter of opinion really at the end of the day. I agree with you that what the mods there wear is ugly. But fashion is by and large a matter of opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 10:27 AM
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Would add to this that they make time for you and show effort to want to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 07:42 AM
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Not drunk and I don't even get what is said.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 07:41 AM
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There's loads. But its not so much what is or isn't observable but more so HOW TRP and that everyone else for that matter observes some act or behavior. As everyone is only observing a snapshot of one's behavior and not observing all of one's behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 07:41 AM
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the Red Pill is closer to reality, because it actually examines reality lol. TRP cites evolutionary psychology to support its nonsense while promoting/pushing for traditionalism. How it's closer to reality than TBP is, is beyond me. Its much more that TRP is capitalism or more so currently Trump's economic "policy" which is in short trickle down economics (which has proven not to work). While TBP is more I say social democracy, ie mix economics with a noticeable amount of a social net.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 07:37 AM
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I don't get it either and one of my uh hobbies is economics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 07:32 AM
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Don't know how old you are, but I say you lucked out a lot. As I grew up when female on male violence wasn't even a thing and you didn't dare bring it up as you got mocked for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 06:43 AM
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Money does matter. But I think it's gonna be dependent on what class you are. And UPM women is probably not gonna wanna date a Poor man. And a 1% is probably not gonna wanna date a MC person either. So long as you're in the same class. I think you can make roughly less and still be "attractive". Thanks for agreeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 10:47 AM
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Women definitely don't get the no-tolerance "DO NOT HIT A GIRL" kind of messaging that men get. They get instead "hit him he deserved it" message instead. I admit this may be dead with the younger generation of girls but female on male violence is far more normalized in media and in society that no one bats an eye at it except for MRA's and anti feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 09:11 AM
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I think this idea now brings hope to men. Because even the most undesirable man can still hold on to the hope for a high-value woman if he can just make enough money. One I like how you contradict yourself with the very last sentence. Two as I already mention to you, hypergamy is still very much a thing. High status women are ONLY going to date high status men. They aren't going to date down. I really don't know why you think men's status doesn't matter when it very much still does.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 09:09 AM
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You forgot status, income, etc as well. Saying that women aren't attracted to status when hypergamy is still very much a thing is outright laughable. Women aren't going to nor are they dating men who make less money than them. That is really the simple fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 09:05 AM
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You are though giving a pass to women as you said yourself violence women commit isn't that bad and that its not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 05:36 AM
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I think they are mad over you saying when a women does it is no biggie but when a man does it its a biggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 01:04 AM
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What you just said was appalling. No more appealing for what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 01:01 AM
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One they are a woman two they did say "no big deal": it's simply not as big of a deal because it's not as dangerous or lethal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 12:45 AM
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I was not conditioned to hit men Most women aren't, but more are doing so. Likely because one they know they can get away with it. Two its being promoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 12:25 AM
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it's probably because a woman hitting a man is simply not as dangerous. And you think this is a reason why? Chances are the effects of the violence are not going to be that egregious. Chances are the effects of the violence are not going to be life changing. Chances are she's not going to break any of his bones or accidentally kill him. So what. As long as people like you give a pass to women using violence against men its going to continue and that become more a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 12:05 AM
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Red Pill users on here have a tendency to white wash The Red Pill and pretend it is just “regular dating advice” Because some of it is just with TRP hate. TRP loves to claim all of its dating advice is unique to them and something they came up with. In reality least some of the advice has been around well before TRP existed. Now look at this post. It would be easy to find a Blue Pill user who would detract this view or even find it “misogynistic”. You have a tendency to twist words around to fit…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 11:33 PM
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I am sure they will. Toxic masculinity and patriarchy and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 11:18 PM
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Try reading them again and downvote harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 10:48 PM
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And why should indulging being a woman should mean getting free things? All that is doing is giving cause to the guy to expect something in return, something I highly doubt you agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 03:12 AM
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I am saying that is what feminists are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 03:08 AM
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I can’t say I appreciate that too much. I missed out on a lot of free shit and experiences and I don’t think it made me any better off tbh 😂. I started ignoring her advice by 24. I missed out on too much free between 16-24 so I’m telling young girls to live it up! Milk it. I didn't miss a thing. You seem to be or that more so intentionally missing this as you keep on avoiding this. I can only wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 12:54 AM
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Uh where did I say I viewed it as negative? Pew did a poll recently showing masculinity being viewed as a negative thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 12:45 AM
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Which has nothing to do with you promoting women should get free stuff from men, something that promotes the whole Nice Guy thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 12:20 AM
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And women used to be committed to insane asylums for “Borderline Personality Disorder” when really they were being gaslit and validly distressed. Pretty sure that was due to misconceptions about periods. Men and women have always been shamed for their perceived masculinity or femininity. Nope. Masculinity was once viewed as being a positive thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 11:59 PM
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I missed out on too much free between 16-24 so I’m telling young girls to live it up! Milk it. Ya I think not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 11:57 PM
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Toxic masculinity is something taking part in mainstream media though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 11:44 PM
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I didn't. More so saying to raise your son's well can mean anything. I can only wonder why you insist on avoiding promoting women getting free stuff from men and its relationship to Nice Guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 11:44 PM
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I also didn't say anything good about femininity, socialism, or capitalism, so I'm pretty sure that's just your bias showing. Or its me refuting the whole toxic masculinity not meaning all of masculinity being toxic like you so claimed. positive masculinity is a concept in feminism Prove it then. As last time I check it wasn't a thing as last time I check feminism wanted to get rid of masculinity as we know it and redefine it to be femininity instead. Fyi, many feminists aren't women, and many w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 11:28 PM
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I missed out on too much free between 16-24 so I’m telling young girls to live it up! Milk it. Ya I think it is in your household.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 11:23 PM
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Obviously context matters. No it really doesn't. https://unbalanced.media/toxic-masculinity-in-sports https://collegian.com/2017/04/sports-for-dummies-how-sports-contributes-to-toxic-masculinity/ https://www.theodysseyonline.com/the-best-cancer-fighting-veggies-eat-this-not-that The reality and thing is sports especially football are getting ever more so negative imagine much like how masculinity is now viewed as being a negative thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 11:23 PM
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Last time I check toxic femininity doesn't exist within feminism, only exists well in the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 11:15 PM
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I can only guess your roommate is young?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 11:00 PM
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I don't do the whole facebook crap, but I do have the discussion on being exclusive with each other though. Seems to me to be the correct and right thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 10:59 PM
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And the cycle of Nice Guys continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 10:57 PM
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Notice how you say nothing good about masculinity? Notice how even within feminism positive masculinity isn't even a thing or that a concept? Notice how feminists (ie women) want to define what masculinity is and that make it be femininity?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 10:54 PM
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Toxic Masculinity— Violent Aggressive / low FTO adrenaline junkie So otherwords toxic masculinity is masculinity. As you are saying football players (the American football) are being toxic because they are violent aggressive during the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 10:47 PM
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I'm a feminist man who rejects toxic masculinity. So you reject masculinity then, cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 10:43 PM
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The funny thing in switching the gender is somehow women get a free pass in their hate towards men and them shaming men. More so its even promoted for them to do it, /r/TrollXChromosomes is a prime example of this even. But when its men who are doing it they are labeled as being sexist and what have you. One just have to love the double standard here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 04:02 AM
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And funny thing about pitbulls is that their reputation by and large comes from how people been treating them and making them be aggressive dogs when in reality they are really not. I wager the same applies to men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 03:51 AM
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OP is making the point that it makes no sense to the goal of bluepill It does with the BP wanting to promote the idea of Nice Guys. Hard to promote it without something to point to and go look over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 01:21 AM
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What traits in particular do you think most women wouldn't like? Him not being dominate, always checking in on you, not getting you gifts, not taking you anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 12:59 AM
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Why do you think that women wouldn't "put up" with him? Because of his childish ways. While you are okay of dating a child, women by and large do not want to date such a man, they want to date and marry an adult man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:56 AM
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I think plenty of women are like this. And you think that why exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 02:24 AM
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You think that why? I don't think most women are willing to put up with your husband. As least what you said about him he comes off to me as a child if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 02:24 AM
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It’s very obvious many of them have mental disorders. I don't think they really do have mental disorders more than they are simply frustrated and mad. And that these men aren't doing anything to help themselves. They aren't trying to become more social. Or that even getting out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 06:52 AM
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They don't want to hear men complain when they can't find a woman. But women complaining about not able to find a man is mainstream and acceptable. The best part is the double standard doesn't stop there, but men are told to shut up about it and women and feminists tout how women are scared of men attacking and killing them. As if that's going to happen (from a statistical standpoint its really not).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 06:44 AM
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You can hide your anger short term, but that's it. But even there I would argue you can't totally hide it. Its going to come out no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 06:29 AM
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Don't forget he has a thing for Ivanka.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 06:28 AM
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Or it does work, and it engenders more hate and anger at the perception that their awful view of women is reinforced. So then it doesn't work then. as RP would say "get wealthy and all your problems will go away." What ever happen to "just lift bro"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 06:28 AM
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You serious think being a dick is a 24/7 thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 06:20 AM
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Go head and sue. The only asset I have is my truck that's worth $5k and it's approaching 95,000 miles on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 05:51 AM
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Doesn't work at all in my experience It doesn't work for everyone, nor on every woman. Also, even if it does work, the women reacting well to you being a dick, probably not the women you want to be around. And you say that why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 09:34 AM
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TRP doesn't work. If it did then it won't be harboring the hate and anger it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 09:22 AM
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What makes you say that? Uh history. And what does it have to do with washed up prom queens living vicariously through their daughters? Besides them turning out to be well the opposite of their parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 06:58 AM
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No he just pays them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 06:14 AM
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Very much so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 06:13 AM
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Have to agree with that. As I told people numerous times, if I want to go to a strip bar/club I just go to an actual club. I be able to get a free lap dance at a club unlike a strip club where I have to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 05:38 AM
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I wager they be hypocrites. As they see girls doing the same as them and say how sluttly looking they are without realizing they did the same. Though saying that there's a general pattern of "progressive"/liberal views in one generation followed by conservative/regressive ones. In short I wager gen z (or what ever the hell they are calling it) will end up being on the conservative side while gen y will be liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 05:35 AM
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But you clearly don't understand this happens to women all the time. The one time it happened to a man is clearly the outliner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 05:31 AM
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I take it you don't live in the US? I ask as Trump lashes out daily it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 05:30 AM
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Which is really /r/niceguys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 05:28 AM
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Women are wonderful effect, its the strongest within feminism where men are bad/evil and women are good no matter what. As notice how when ever you hold a woman accountable let alone actually accountable feminist shriek and yell misogyny? I wager this is why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 05:27 AM
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This is one of the main problems with the whole consent movement thing. As it thinks language is clear more so everyone is clear in how they use it. Let alone they think us men are mind readers and know every single female social cue in the word (if that was the case men would be far better at dating). Reality is language isn't clear nor do people use it clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 05:21 AM
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Ya you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 01:41 AM
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Advertisers. If you looking to get young women off Snapchat and your close to or over 30 you got issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 01:07 AM
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Why would they lie in that direction? So it will go viral. Doesn't that make the video's point (sexual harrasment is a problem) better, not worse? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 06:26 PM
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I've never met a woman who didn't get a little bothered hearing that men find late teen women the most attractive. I don't blame them tbh. I don't either and I say that as a guy. Mind you I am talking about a guy way older saying this as a early 20 something guy I can understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 04:51 PM
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I feel like women in that scene are less concerned about looks as long as you can play the role well. What do you think of that? Women in the BDSM scene either care about looks or not. I would say most do care about looks even when they don't. As if they see well Chad they are going to be instantly interested in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 04:43 PM
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It is and I wager it close down in 5 years and the founder will wonder why he didn't sell it for massive amounts of money when he could.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 04:35 PM
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Its core user base is from 18 to 25. And how the heck is it massively important to fucking young women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 04:34 PM
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Sure if you want to pay $5.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 04:33 PM
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I think the women that are in their 20's that go for the way older man aren't doing it for the status but more because they have daddy issues. As they seem to want someone to take care of them more in the sense of their dad will not in the sense of a partner would.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 04:32 PM
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Would say that more depends on the age gap and how young the woman is. A 50 year old with an 18 year old is more likely to get this reaction than a 50 year old dating a 30 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 04:27 PM
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I highly doubt it was even a full 10 hours of video at that. It was likely more like an hour at most and edited down to say the least. Its not hard to see that the video was made for agenda reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 04:22 PM
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Ya I did read your comment. You blame her for staging this which she didn't do. Girls do stupid, selfish stuff constantly, basically nonstop. She didn't do anything extra to trick these guys beyond what a typical woman will do to a man and think nothing of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 12:57 AM
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Oh ya can't forget about the whites dam they are trashy and racists.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 09:52 PM
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It was about "all victims vs all aggressors". Wrong. It was about female victims and male aggressors. There just happens to be an abundance of male aggressors which shouldn't be surprising if you look at any crime statistics. You do realize it only been like 5 years since we counted female rapists right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 09:51 PM
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Besides it being highly edited to say the least and showing barely any street harassment?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 09:45 PM
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So? No one force the men to show up either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 05:28 AM
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Your whole comment was blaming her for setting this up when she didn't set this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 04:07 AM
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Clearly a produced, staged event. Sure, which the woman herself could have put on. The guys who stuck around out of boredom or a desire to go viral surely knew at that point that an actual date was not and had never been on the table. Or because they where paid. As your own article said upto 150 showed up but only 50 stayed and for the video to go viral way more than 5 guys needed to stay around. And yet every post I’ve seen about the stunt is full of comments berating the girl like it was all h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 04:05 AM
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Ya as they where the face of it literally. Rob does a really good job of hiding in the background when he does these videos. Now that it came out he did it the most of the comments here are blaming him for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 01:12 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 01:10 AM
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Uh she wasn't the one organizing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 01:03 AM
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Because "men are trash" is trendy and in and of course bashing men is all the rage today.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 01:03 AM
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She did it for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 01:02 AM
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That be him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 01:01 AM
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So it was the guy who created the clearly faked video of a woman getting harassed in NYC. And likely paid 50 or nearly 50 guys to say around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 01:01 AM
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Really? The whole thing was about female victims and male aggressors. How does that not favor women over men when it so easily could been about all victims of sexual abuse against all aggressors?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 10:15 PM
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Can't say I am surprised. I can only guess they are 25 and under.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:40 PM
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What do you think Snapchat was for? Posting selfies with stupid things covering your face?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 06:24 AM
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Of course Snapchat girls are a lot nicer, they have to be so guys will pay to get access to their private snaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 03:24 AM
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I am one of those "older people" (despite being under 40 but above 30) yet I use Facebook to keep in touch with family a they are literally spread out worldwide.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 03:22 AM
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This is exactly what I'm talking about, though. Red Pill anti virtue signals all the time (I think of it as 'vice signaling'). Which is really virtue signaling to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 03:20 AM
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We really need to improve sex ed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 04:06 PM
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Beauty isn't arbitrary. Even though it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 04:05 PM
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https://www.fpa.org.uk/sites/default/files/orgasms-in-women-an-online-survey.pdf Online survey? Ya that can be thrown out. http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/147470491401200507 /u/IWillR0peAnyDayNow you seem to purposely skip over the part that says the following: Women who began having sexual intercourse at earlier ages had more sex partners, experienced more orgasms, and were more sexually satisfied with their partners. There's numerous articles and what have you talking about how wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 04:04 PM
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Again look up what metoo was actually about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 11:12 AM
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Just because a male victim took part doesn't mean metoo was actually about them. As if you look up what Metoo was about you see it wasn't about male victims or female abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 10:51 AM
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This doesn’t seem to fit your worldview because you’re arguing with me like I am. My argument isn't directed at you personally but feminism as a whole. You say you want to see feminists criticize her but when presented with evidence they do you stick to your earlier talking points. Ya because I am talking specifically about what she did to her sister in relation to metoo. I know and that even acknowledge feminists have criticised her for other things. There's loads of that out there. But none of…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 09:28 AM
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lol. Let me guess you didn't even read it and pulling a BiggerD move.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 09:07 AM
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Feminism isn’t a brand with official news outlets. No, its a brand with no leader that never holds itself accountable and blames others and when a feminists does wrong they are quick to say they aren't a feminist. When I say feminist spaces, I’m talking about groups of real people having discussions, either in person or online, small groups or big communities, sharing articles, debating each other, expressing their opinions. I yet to see any such place exist online, especially on reddit as least…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 08:58 AM
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Uh Google Scholar links to published work from journals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 08:16 AM
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I forgot? I was pointing out your flawed assumption/ad hominem. I actually do read feminist articles and what have you. As I find its so much easier to mock, attack, bash, etc feminism than relying on anti feminists who are more prone to twisting things, as ponting out what feminists are saying to you is so much better really. Here’s a much more recent article about Dunham calling her out on her latest transgression (calling an accuser a liar because she’s friends with the accused) and also goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 08:13 AM
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You forgot I also read feminist websites like Feminist Current where they said she wasn't a child molester and all sexual violence is commited by men. You know the feminist spaces I so wasn't looking in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 06:38 AM
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Its not a competition its calling out the double standard here. The women you mention never had their careers threaten over the accusations. Nor has any woman that's been accused of such a thing. Yet the men who have been had their careers threaten let alone losing them and that facing court. You can't name a single woman where this happened to because it never did happen nor will it all while men will continue have their careers threaten over it and women walk way without a slap on the wrist. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 06:30 AM
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I am going by what I seen online. More so metoo was NEVER about male victims and female abusers. More so the fact you didn't name one single high profile female abuser (not that there is one) being shamed to the point of losing her job further supports my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 05:45 AM
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You know most feminists don’t like her, right? Find that hard to believe giving that I didn't see any feminist calling for blood when her book came out on what she did. She got her ass dragged for supporting a male friend of hers who was accused. I highly doubt it was done by feminists. As anti feminists jumped on her big time when it came out she raped her sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 05:44 AM
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High profile serial abusers have been publically shamed to the point of losing jobs. No, high profile MALE abusers have been publicly shamed to the point of losing jobs and that in fact have lost their jobs. Not a single female abuser has lost their job and in fact gotten support when been accused on top of it. Male victims have been supported plenty. No they haven't. They aren't even part of the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 05:30 AM
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How does that show the group is holding itself accountable when Asia is getting off? Her career isn't going to be damaged by this much like when it came out Lena Dunham raped her sister HBO didn't kill her show Girls. I realize that came out before metoo but my point still stands. When a man is simply accused his career takes a hit no matter what. A woman doesn't even face the same thing. And even if she gets convicted she walks way just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 05:27 AM
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No one spoke about women being the abusers the first time round. Wasn't about going after female abusers. Some men who highlighted their abuse before were also excluded from the conversation. Welcome to feminism. Men's jobs and reputations were on the line from accusations alone. And feminism and women cheered. Its funny how when a woman is accused none of this happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 05:11 AM
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Men claiming victory when women are condemned. And women here don't do the same when its reverse?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 04:59 AM
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Total and utter bullshit. The movement is getting weaker while the impact remains. The movement was all about favoring women over men. Its been feminism's motive from the get go.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 04:58 AM
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Thing is the group is NOT holding itself accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 04:55 AM
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though where was it when MeToo was about women suffering at the hands of the evil men? Yes. That was literally the whole point of metoo. It was never about the male victims and female aggressors. Even feminists told male victims to shut up and not take part. And feminists are never going to target female aggressors, heaven forbid they hold women accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 04:53 AM
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Metoo was never about male victims or female abusers though. And no purge is going on nor is going to happen. The only thing is going to happen is men going to act more defensively around women and women losing out on career opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 04:50 AM
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Stop worshiping Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 10:39 AM
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Did you actually read the part you quoted?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 09:16 AM
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More like the rate of men being bugged is far less. To put it one way your average woman in public is going to get attention from men no matter what. Your average man is going to get zero attention from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 11:18 PM
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So your a contradictory anarchist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 07:32 PM
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Yup. But I do have to say that is one compelling rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:51 PM
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My views on gender roles are fairly conservative Which basically makes you not left wing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 07:44 AM
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That seems pretty contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 07:04 AM
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Not that hard to read. Manly men are often not politically conservative and much more on the masculine side. Something the left wing folk like you are against. What is so hard to understand about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 06:18 AM
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Manly men are often not conservative and heavily masculinity. Everything that left wing folk are against.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 04:13 AM
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A lot more iron clad than yours that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 04:11 AM
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If anything, it sounds like you agree. Nope. I've traveled the country, met many different types of people, made a point of integrating into as many social groups as possible and then focused on maintaining friendships with the people I got along with best So? That doesn't mean you gone out of your bubble. People often not like to stay with and interacted with like minded people. You even admitted to going after specific type of people. Traveling doesn't show nor say you gone out of your bubble.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 01:23 AM
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What model Lexus? Don't know it off hand, but its like 2 years old. BTW, every single fuel injected car (cars since like the mid 80s) has a computer that runs it. I ain't talking about the ECU. I am talking about everything they been adding to cars after the 90's. Ie, tire pressure sensors, lane change warnings, etc etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 11:44 PM
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Do you read? I literally just stated none of those terms as being neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 11:38 PM
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No it doesn't. Look you can say it does all you want but that doesn't make it so. Even BiggerD agreed with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 11:35 PM
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Men are socialized by men. They learn how to act and behavior by watching other men. TIL men stay home and raise boys apparently and not women like I been told all my life and seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 11:07 PM
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Ya it is true and its kinda hard to work on an engine when computers are integrated into the engine itself. Though I am sure you think I can change the oil on it all without needing to reset the computer or anything at all. Which I would have to which means buying an overpriced tool from Lexus. Ya no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 11:05 PM
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Thanks for agreeing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 10:57 PM
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I am sure that be news to someone like say Queen Elizabeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 10:53 PM
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No it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 04:18 PM
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If someone is apologizing in an appropriate setting (ie because they actually offended someone) the words "doing it too much" wouldn't be applicable. Because that's not too much. That's the expected amount. I am more talking about constantly making sure someone isn't offend more than actually offending them. I live in a universe where I carefully cultivate a social network of people who are intelligent, thoughtful, creative and emotionally mature people that can carry a good conversation and pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 04:16 PM
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Male disposablity means nobody cares when things are going badly for men or if bad things happen to men. It doesn't mean that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 04:09 PM
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What? Gay also means happy. Liking feminine things (fruity drinks, caring about clothing, hair styles, exc) How is this even an answer? Women don't say that. Toxic men do I never said women said this. And toxic men don't say this normal men say this even. Ask any man if he can be emotional around a woman he is with and you find them saying no. As women find men being emotional as being a turned off and not something that is attractive. If they did then more men would open up more. Its like as if…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 04:07 PM
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That makes zero sense. But again you think men being feminine is strong and men being masculine is weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 04:02 PM
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Men are also the reason women were disenfranchised TIL women didn't take part in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:58 PM
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You mean how liberals and feminists flip out when people call them mean words? Bit ironic don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:56 PM
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I like how hard you are trying to make feminine means strong and masculinity means weak. It doesn't work like that, never has and hopefully never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:55 PM
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None of those terms are neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:53 PM
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I've notice the same. I lost count how many times people are shocked that I know how to use tools and what have you. Granted I live in a large urban area but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:52 PM
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That's part of it. The other part is more things today can't be fix with run of the mill knowledge. For example I know how to and can easily change the oil in my Toyota Tacoma, as its pure engine. But my dad's Lexus which is a couple years old has so much computer junk in it there be no way for me to replace his car's oil because of all the electronics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:50 PM
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I think your thinking of Canada. They have sorry trademarked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:47 PM
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I'd suggest people that "do it too much" are probably just overcompensating out of inexperience Or doing it as heaven forbid they offend someone. I think men in modern times are more likely to have MORE TYPES of strengths, and are more encouraged to explore them. In ancient times, only high-status/income societies had the luxury of literacy, education, art ect. Today, most men are literate, most men have read books and are able to pursue hobbies that build broader skillsets. They're also more he…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:47 PM
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Disposable doesn't mean useless. Ya it does. To use your example once your done using the latex gloves you throw them out and don't use another pair until you need them. This is what the whole male disposability means. Men are used for what ever then toss to the side until they are needed again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:40 PM
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Who the hell would be scared of being happy? And how is being feminine as a guy being strong? How is embracing or taking on things that make you weak makes you strong? Explain that to me. Because as its said so often here, women don't want men who are emotional but strong/stoic instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:37 PM
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Like the 20th century. Even when they did dueling and such that was more an upper class thing and was far more about their image than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:19 PM
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You do realize what you just did right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:17 PM
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Now their only value and place is in games physical labor and as ATMs. Fix it for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:14 PM
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In other news people don't like getting insulted. But really though I highly doubt that given the fact I've done that before. But how does that refute what I said here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:14 PM
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https://www.politifact.com/personalities/alexandria-ocasio-cortez/statements/?list=speaker https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/fact-checker/wp/2018/08/10/fact-checking-alexandria-ocasio-cortezs-media-blitz/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.68d2b9fbb0e2
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:11 PM
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I think I will. And claiming to be manly means more than likely you aren't. Its like saying how alpha you are, as the reality is you aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:06 PM
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What about dueling and debts of honor or whatnot? This ain't the 19th century.....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:03 PM
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From a mental/emotional standpoint I have to say weaker. As men today have become softer in comparison to the past. This is besides there being an ever growing subset of men apologizing for being a man and that more men being ever so more politically correct today than ever before. Granted people don't have thick skins today like they use to back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 02:21 PM
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You liberals least with the politicians are fighting amongst ourselves even. See Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez per example. She's shaping up to be the democrats Sarah Palin. She's made so many false claims its not even funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 01:37 PM
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Liberals and conservatives are so getting a long these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 10:38 AM
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I’m left wing but I want a manly man. That seems pretty contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 10:37 AM
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you say dating scene favors guys as a whole? Yup. If you said it favors the top 30-40% I’d probably agree. When it comes to LTR ya, but for hooking up you don't need as nearly as much though. A lot more women today are doing FWB or casually dating today than settling down because of the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 06:29 AM
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Ya matter of perception messes with people but with how the market is today its 180 from what it was. As before men where the college educated ones and women where not so the market was full of dateable men. Now that's reverse and women are still push hypergamy. The amount of men who are deemed traditionally date material are fewer today. This is why you are having more women date at their level now but refusing to date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 03:21 AM
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Not anymore it doesn't. It use to pre 2000 or so, but today it favors men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 02:26 AM
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As the question says how has it changed for you since your 20’s? In short its become easier actually. But I cough that up to the dating market as a whole no longer favoring women. Do you still use the same techniques to get women? Yup. Do you attract the same caliber? Maybe different? I've always attracted different caliber of women. From the single mom to the upper class woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 02:00 AM
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As if you look at all the consent programs and such and its all aimed at men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 01:37 AM
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Just because it makes sense to you doesn't mean it makes sense to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 01:09 AM
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You are making zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 01:00 AM
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While its a crime feminists seem to want it only applied to men not women as well. As if you look at all the consent programs and such and its all aimed at men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 12:47 AM
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We don't even call women's violence "violence". Very much true. For example when ever a female teacher rapes an underage male student the media often not says she had an affair with the male student, they don't say she raped him or what have you. Not one single person would claim that any of their attacks were abuse because "I'm stronger". And this is part of why its much more harder for male victims here to come forward when their attacker is a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 12:34 AM
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How about calling for her to get fired? That be a start. As all you doing now is saying "ya what she did was wrong, but it has nothing to do with being a feminist". How is that calling them out? I would prefer you to one embrace this feminists as your own and say as a feminist what she did as a feminist was hypocritical and should be fired for it and actually be held truly responsible and not get a slap on the wrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 12:31 AM
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So you haven't call her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 12:08 AM
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Just because one does something that goes against what they are for doesn't automatic make them not something they are still are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 11:22 PM
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remain quiet on this This has in fact happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 11:19 PM
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Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 11:14 PM
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It is about gender equality, ie making women equal to men. That has always been what it is about. No, it's always been about women's inequality never about gender equality. To put it one way you can't have Axyz = Bxyz to become A = Bxyz by addressing only one side of the equation. Whether or not someone wants to call someone out for their actions has nothing to do with what they are labeled as. Even though it does has to do with what they call themselves as. The fact you continue to refuse to ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 04:33 PM
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So its not about gender equality then. Its about equality for women which isn't gender equality. Thanks for confirming it. Also thanks for proving the point feminists won't call out other feminists or hold them responsible for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 04:07 PM
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They can be, but that isn't what is going on here and we both know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 03:45 PM
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It both confirmed my suspicions that feminists don’t want their own to be subject to the same system they’re forcing on everyone else There's plenty out there that shows feminists don't want the same rules/laws applied to them that they want applied to men. So, my question is: why just a suspension? You know the answer. I give you a hint it has to do with her gender. I hope there are more cases like this. There will be and you are going to see male victims getting the same sort of treatment fema…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 03:37 PM
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Colleges aren't law courts, so title 9 needs to go. Nope. The whole Dear Colleague Letters need to go which basically happen actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 03:29 PM
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I don't know why people think or say it is. Maybe because you feminists say all the time feminism is about gender equality not about women's equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 03:27 PM
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Her suspension is a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 03:24 PM
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Its very clear what is meant by being disturbed and disappointed that a feminist tool is used to take down a feminist. As its been pointed on this sub many times, feminists love to make others that being men held accountable for their actions but never hold other feminists accountable for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 03:23 PM
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That very much sums up the issue here. Feminists love to pull the feminism isn't a monolith card when it suits them. But never taking ownership when one of their own does bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 03:19 PM
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Employee's aren't students but if employees are subjected to Title IX then I would think similar rules apply to them then. Meaning here the professor should been fired much like how a student would be expelled.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 01:34 PM
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when that happens to a man, though, the men and manospherians act like he’s been sentenced to public execution and talk about how unfair it all is for anyone to even investigate because of ~injustice~. i expect that act will be dropped this time now that a woman is the target, though. There's no act here though as there's very much a double standard here. As here you have a woman that was found "guilty" under Title IX violations and was suspended. Where as ever time a female college student accu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 12:54 PM
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What I find interesting are the "real" feminists saying that title 9 and me too is to stop male perpetrators only. Fun to finally have that out in the open. Probably because Dear Colleague Letters (which where created from Title IX) was solely aimed at men along with metoo. Feminists are actually getting up in arms over male college students using Title IX against them. Which is pretty awesome seeing feminists pushed for the law and its now being used against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 12:41 PM
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Hush you they are sleeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 12:37 PM
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And I look forward to feminists either defending her or remain quiet on this. Further showing the double standard here in feminists not calling out women and that feminists who sexually target men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 12:11 PM
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I take it you didn't read the article? They found her at fault and slap her wrist. All she is getting is a year vacation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 12:09 PM
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The university has suspended Professor Ronell for the coming academic year. So she be teaching no problem after her one year vacation as if nothing happened. “We testify to the grace, the keen wit, and the intellectual commitment of Professor Ronell and ask that she be accorded the dignity rightly deserved by someone of her international standing and reputation,” the professors wrote. Not shocking at all feminists defend her, but again its a female feminists so she goes inside the bus instead of…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 12:08 PM
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They are predatory because they exploit low skilled or immigrant workers who don't have other options. Temp agencies are able to let people go at any time because of lack of work, with no repercussions. Slow day today? You only get 4 hours. It lets companies skirt tax laws because even though there are 200 people working in the factory, technically the company only employs 10. This lets your company, even if there are hundreds of people working there, to be classified as a smaller company. So ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 01:04 AM
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I've asked what you think men should replace their old identity with. I've asked what you think is inherently good about masculinity that's worth preserving. You never asked me these questions. I want to know what you think society is losing by this feminist attack on all you hold dear A lot in short. As its an attack on being manly as in being aggressive, cocky and what have you. Women are attracted to masculinity because they are biologically wired to it. Imagine if all the men stop being masc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 08:19 PM
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They're also predatory and used to skirt taxes and laws which benefit employees. Ya no. How the heck is temp agencies predatory let alone used to skirt taxes and laws? Companies that use temp agencies either use them to fill temp positions or as way to hire people as the temp agency does all the work in looking for people and screening people. Which saves the company time and possibly money. It is an employees market if you have a certain set of skills. It is an employers market if you don't. Ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 08:11 PM
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4% is just a stat. I know its a stat. Wages are going up and been going up. Companies use temp agencies all the time to not deal with having to interview and screen hires as they rather focus their efforts elsewhere in the company. As far as great paying jobs goes either go into trades or learn a skill or become popular online via streaming or making video's or Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 06:21 PM
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Parking spaces for women only So women get some parking places in China big whoop. I ain't talking about China nor is anyone else. Freedom of expression I take it you didn't read your own link which was about journalist and not the ability to say what you want? More so does because the UN makes it a human right doesn't mean it actually exists in other countries which was my point. I consider this argument done and dusted. If you think that then you should debate more as all you did was make to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 06:06 PM
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It being under 4% doesn't mean it is an employees market. It actually does even if you don't have high in demand job skills. As when unemployment is below full employment companies are going to have trouble finding workers to fill the positions they need to fill. @Eartherry seems out to lunch Or that blocked me or knows she is wrong in her argument that she knows herself she can't support. Either way I doubt we will ever get a reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 05:51 PM
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Oh I think it's totally fair to use him as an example, because the "ideal" is what trickles down to the influenced masses. If that was the case then lower class men would be emulating the upper class men. But we both know they don't. Lower class men want to be in the upper class man's shoes, but have zero intentions to take on or emulate his behavior. They emulate other men of lower class. So while you may think Winstien is the perfect example he's really not. Look to each other, your contempora…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 04:49 AM
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I clearly said trickle down equality didn't work. I didn't say feminism was at fault here. There are some things feminism shares blame in when it comes to men's issues, but in what I am talking about here they don't have any fault other than claiming addressing women's issues will address men's issues which isn't the case at all. As how can you address one side of the equation but not the other and say the otherside will magically be addressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 10:11 PM
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There's zero point explaining it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 09:33 PM
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Just go be a monk you be much happier, as clearly you are too thick headed and stubborn to realize how you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 09:05 PM
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I bet you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 08:46 PM
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Someone Like Harvey Weinstein for example. With someone like him you need to seperate class from gender. As someone like him got away with what he did because he not only in a position of power but had money as well. Its extremely difficult to combat and fight someone with money and power. Especially someone like him where he can kill your career by blacklisting you. Maybe because they're men and they largely do their own thing, idk. Or its more they are out there wondering around trying to find…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 08:34 PM
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Blank image.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 07:37 PM
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There's too many similarities between you and the other guy, like 99% match if you will. And the second picture you posted had the woman with like 1% body fat saying she the type of woman you only go for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:32 PM
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Not in your case they don't. The guy I am thinking of was from Europe like you. He too thought women should approach him and not the other way around. He also thought women with more than 1% of body fat where fat/obese. He also thought his presence was rude to women. The two of you are pretty darn close.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:06 PM
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I only count civic society as that's the true litmus test of whether a class is being catered to at the expense of another. For example, if a homeless man and a middle class woman can call the same police and both expect someone to show up and help then neither holds a privilege the other doesn't in that case. So you only count some made up standard, got it. But with your example do you really think a homeless man is going to have a cellphone? As such have the ability to call? I live in the US. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:03 PM
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Because you sound awfully like a guy that use to post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 05:37 PM
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False. Too bad its not. Next time don't use wikipeida. This is also false. Nope. Ratio speaking less men are getting educated. Pretty this isn't true either. Nope. And an increasing amount of homeless men is due to rising costs of living in the major cities like Los Angeles where they can't afford an apartment or even do roomates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 05:22 PM
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Did you use to have an account here under a different name?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 05:10 PM
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How the heck do women get more parking spaces? Explain that one to me? And last time I check freedom of speech was not a human right outside of the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 05:06 PM
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Where did I say they where at fault here? I said trickle down equality doesn't work. To put it into math terms you can't get A = B with out addressing both sides of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 05:02 PM
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No, not an insult. There are men with a variety of fetishes out there, that your fetishe are fat women is perfectly alright. Most men prefer skinny women, like most women prefer tall/fit men over fat guys. So both it is along with intentionally playing dumb. I said nothing about liking fat women. You proved my point you think any woman with more than 1% of body fat is obese. I slept with a 20 year old last month. Its funny how you mock other men around your age going after young women but someho…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 10:27 AM
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Ah, so you like fat women? Can't decide strawman or insult. The fact you replied as such shows you know I am right. Is there anything wrong with respecting the most valuable group of women in the world?? You aren't even respecting them. Your being an incel with a woo is me complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 10:20 AM
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Women who dislike men as she does, who keep clamoring that all women are of high value, are women who are trying to convince themselves that they are attractive. Women who hate men come in all shapes and sizes. I agree they generally aren't attractive but its never good to assume. I'm not being ironic. Not intentionally but you to don't like to talk about things or that acknowledge things that don't fit your view point. https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/06/19/article-2344758-1A68A6A0000005DC-…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 09:57 AM
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Crickets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 09:51 AM
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"gender is a social construct" is not a claim that's debatable Says who, you? As its very much debateable. What we are saying is that masculinity refers to the sociocultural expectations and standards that are placed on men. Even tho masuclinity is also biological something you say isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 09:51 AM
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You just said my head was full of sand. Because you are being more stubborn than a donkey and that repeating the same rhetoric over and over all while showing you are willing to budge. I'm on team "I have yet to hear a better argument yet". You yet to present one. You say I am wasting your time and not putting any effort in, but all you doing is making short replies that say nothing. Explain to me how a homeless man has more privilege than a middle class woman. And do more than say "he does". Br…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 09:37 AM
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More parking spaces Women don't get more parking spaces. You can’t control what they say Sure you can. You pass laws dictating what one can say or not say. US is the only country with freedom of speech being "law" and an actual thing. It doesn't exist anywhere outside of the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 09:27 AM
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The goal is equality with men. Even though its not. Nor was this ever the goal. You don't achieve equality by making women more equal than men. which is when society gives men no privileges women don't have. But women having privileges over men is okay, but I am sure you will deny any privilege women have over men. Things like more scholarships for women than men. Breast cancer getting far more money than prostate cancer. Women getting off easier than men for the same crime. Etc etc. this is a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 09:25 AM
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I hear France is trying to criminalize catcalling you could move there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 09:21 AM
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she isn't young nor attractive and she still gets catcalled, How do you know what she looks like? More so she never claimed she was catcalled in your example. I usually avoid mirrors, don't want to look at the wrinkles my face is developing. You also want to avoid ironic things you say as well. Talking about a normal weight -> http://i.imgur.com/m9p7b7P.jpg Face shot is worthless without the body.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 09:12 AM
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All you doing is repeating over and over how the world is black and white. How am I supposed to refute that when it's clear you have your head in the sand? And how did I even insult your intelligence?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 09:01 AM
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Still takes longer to find than in a classroom filled with college girls. Dude was in his 30s too, and she was like no more than 20. What a creepy loser ew that guy was. Can't make this stuff up. Because people on PPD don't like to talk about things that don't fit their worldview. If only I had a mirror. Then those girls have faces like dumpsters. A lot of them aren't obese. But you and RP think any woman with 1% body fat is obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 08:58 AM
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Let's see: he qualifies for Medicaid (in certain states), food stamps, just about any kind of assistance (again, depending on where he lives). He's welcome in every industry. When he speaks, people will listen, not second-guess everything he says. Never dealt with the homeless have you? You have to live in fantasy land to think this let alone say this. Set away from the kool aid and step into reality, I assure it it will shatter your perspective which is beyond flawed its not even funny. how doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 08:46 AM
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And you are trying?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 08:38 AM
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It's true, tho, sadly, the vast majority of people in the USA are fat You believe everything you read online don't you? California ain't all of America Hot women exist all over the country. Look up daytona beach bike week per example. Bro, I left my house just now to get a coffee and wouldn't you know I saw a girl getting hit on as soon as she left her house? And this wasn't some guy she knew, as the guy smiled and said, ''aren't you a pretty little thing, what's your name?'' Dude was in his 30s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 08:34 AM
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Nah, that might be so in America, where there are so few attractive women than those get snatched up as early as in high school and then they get mate-guarded by their partners like a Danish treasure trove Don't ever leave your basement, heaven forbid you learn something about the world you live in. This is besides speaking out of your ass. Young women don't need to resort to online dating to get men. If that was the case then explain why young women are using online dating then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 07:52 AM
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lol wut? Explain how a homeless man has more advantages than that of a middle class woman does. As that makes zero sense. As there's no reality where this is actually the case. We also don't live in a so called patriarchy there's literally no supporting evidence for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 07:08 AM
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She lived through a time where being the candidate for president was a pipe dream. Factually wrong. Yes I know, black men, whatever. You seem adamant to ignore reality and that more so facts as much as possible. Is it because it disrupts your black and white view of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 07:06 AM
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That basically reinforces my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:57 AM
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You effectively saying I am more privilege than Hillary Clinton despite I am not even upper class. And women have no part in society apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:55 AM
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Too bad that is factually wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:43 AM
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Or drunk on the kool aid. I mean look at what's going on in the US where liberals think the sky is constantly falling with Trump has president.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:43 AM
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Ya we have its called nuance. You should read a history book its full of it and disproves your whole black and white view. But I guess a homeless man has more privileged than a middle class woman does.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:42 AM
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Welcome to feminism enjoy your stay. But your experience is why education is getting more criticism as the liberal bias and pro woman stance is ever growing. That said in a couple of years or so I wager men's issues will start affecting women and more so the economy in mass to the point even feminists can no longer downplay or marginize men's issues like they been doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:40 AM
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I think it's a problem that men don't have positive rituals to replace the gross ones. There's that, but its more the lack of male identity. Men today are trying to cling to the old male identity nut that identity is viewed as evil/bad/etc. And no one is offering a new one. The one feminists want men to take is feminine as fuck and the large majority of women won't find it attractive in the slightest. Whether it's an oppressive father or societal expectation I think men under tremendous pressure…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:37 AM
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The sort of feminists that push to have it all are feminists you live off their parents and ask them for money for Starbucks. They wonder stuff like why boys aren't raised in a way to make women less afraid in general and then shit on the women actually doing it. I am amused feminists think they are entitled to men being raised as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:28 AM
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Male suicide has gone up not down. More men aren't getting college educated. Male homeless has gone up. Male incarceration has gone up. Etc etc. The point of it not shown to work is all of men's issues have by and large gotten worse not better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:23 AM
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Because the world is so black and white that there's no grey to it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:21 AM
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equality in the feminist context was raising women to parity with regard to the status of men Feminism isn't even about that its about addressing the inequalities women faced and addressing their issues. It was never about putting women on the same level/status as men. That's what they claim, but their actions speak otherwise. As now there's a whole host of inequalities with areas of women being more equal than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:19 AM
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I find it amazing how feminists yet to realize what sort of message they are sending to non feminists and how its causing a rise of anti feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:17 AM
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And its no wonder she is a single parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:15 AM
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We need less. They take part in male hate subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:13 AM
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feminism has never been for men So why do you feminists keep on claiming its about gender equality? women had (still have) little to no power. Too bad this statement is 100% non factually wrong least to the US. But again no matter what the facts actually say and show feminists will deny reality when it refutes their narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:13 AM
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Problem is trickle down equality doesn't work and has shown not to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:10 AM
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Things have gotten better, obviously. According to feminists its worse than its ever been.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:10 AM
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I don’t understand why feminists have to always bring gender into any issue. Because to them its about gender and that about women. As feminists think no matter what women always have it worse than a man does.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:08 AM
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so programs that help homeless women will help homeless men too right? Not necessary. There are homeless programs strictily for women only. They seemingly actually get more help and resources than that of homeless men do simply because they are women. Something that is true for other areas. Breast cancer for example gets far far more money than that of prostate cancer despite the numbers not being that far different. I don't understand why men are bent out of shape. What the hell do they even wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:07 AM
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we make judgements off of the sources available to us. We also make judgements on what we see/experience as well. But I think now it's mostly about dismantling the patriarchy, which also benefits men. It's been about removing supposed men's "power" in society least since 2nd wave feminism. And no in no shape or form will this benefit men. As what instead is happening here is feminists pushing to remove the power feminists claim men have to give to women. This has resulted in women becoming more …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:04 AM
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You think guys aren't approaching attractive women left and right? Nope, because they aren't. In real life attractive women are often the least approached. As most guys assume she is taken. Online its a total 180 where they are hit up left and right by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 12:33 AM
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Ya all that means is you don't understand the illness which is my point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 12:29 AM
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The reality of watching women getting hit on by the dozens everyday? And the younger they are, the more it happens? Buses, trains, restaurants, grocery stores, and it even gets worse in nightclubs, as it is expected. This 18 year old girl has legions of men after her, so it is proper for a man to show respect to her by not talking to her, other than business-client pleasantries. Don't ever step outside the world is a pretty scary place full of things that will shatter your bubble. Best to stay i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 01:06 PM
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Ya no just no. I can't even reply to this total utter nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 01:03 PM
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So you don't know what men actually go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 10:42 AM
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Even though its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 10:38 AM
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It is. I guess your death bed is only a couple of years away then. Instead of talking about the chicks they are fucking OR AT THE VERY LEAST TRYING to fuck, they start talking about video games and you guess it, porn. Oh the horror of men not living up to being horny monkeys 24/7. She is 18 years old. She is at the prime of her life. Why would she spend time online? she's not 30. She's not having her eggs rotting and looking for a dude to pay up. She's probably fucking 3 or 4 chads at the same t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 10:36 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 03:11 AM
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Which is what exactly? As it seems to change to whatever RPer uses it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 03:05 AM
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You keep saying I am wrong but done nothing to actually show that I am in fact wrong. As saying I am wrong doesn't make me wrong. And women are very much pushing men away from being SAHD. As I said before and I keep on saying it SAHD are not attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 02:54 AM
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Women are wonderful is strong here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 01:07 AM
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yes, they would. No. They. Won't. If they where I would think far more men would be doing the SAHD thing yet they aren't in fact far more say they are pushed out or alienated in doing so. More so women as a group do NOT find SAHD attractive. GC and AM have valid points. males can and should be criticized. they are neither flawless nor some angels. it isnt hate, it is criticism. hate =/= criticism. GC and AMR do not have valid points and both are male hate subs. Even Againsthatesubs has even labe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 01:04 AM
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"Old" rap songs it seems are getting popular which makes me feel dam old but happy that least rap that you can hear the words too is coming back.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 12:32 AM
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I take it you aren't a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 12:31 AM
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You didn't have enough value What makes you think its about value and simply the woman not finding him attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 12:30 AM
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mothers who want to go back to work would gladly switch places with the dad. No. They. Won't. i am a feminist And you take part in GenderCritical and AgainstMensrights, two known male hate subs. women are breadwinners now. They been so for a while primary due to being single moms. males are still holding onto the role of the breadwinner (the partner who brings money home) because times are changing. Wrong. Men are still "holding" on the role because society doesn't allow them to be SAHD. It has …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 12:26 AM
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How exactly does that prove that I am lying and strawmanning when I am not? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Me_Too_movement#2006_(Tarana_Burke) https://variety.com/video/tarana-burke-metoo-powerful-men/ https://www.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comments/77fura/men_and_metoo_lets_talk_action_what_can_we_do/dolosz7/ https://www.feministcurrent.com/2017/11/02/good-reason-exclude-men-metoo-narrative/ Please by all means tell me how I am lying and strawmanning feminists, go on I wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 12:11 AM
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I find that hard to believe as you have to go out of your way to not hear what the mainstream media is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 11:53 PM
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Then I can only assume you live in a cave as mainstream media was covering it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 11:40 PM
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An old man such as I am, at twenty-eight If you think 28 is old I don't know what to say. This is a 18 year old girl. Since when are teenager boys and dudes aged 18-25 shy about hounding girls they want to fuck? So what if she is 18, she is going to be hounded far more online than IRL. I'm not talking about the Middle-East here. Then why are you bring up how women live in the Middle East? As that is what your literally doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 11:38 PM
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It was women exchanging stories with other women about their own experiences through female dominated social media. A man would literally have to go out of his way to be exposed to it. I take it you aren't from the US? As it became mainstream news here, meaning men didn't need to go out of their way to be exposed to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 11:31 PM
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I know. What does that have to do with women dating down let alone appreciating a SAHD? Most families today are dual income with the man being the breadwinner. Something society still to this day demands the man to be. Funny how feminists have done nothing at all to address this, must be female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 11:19 PM
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I doubt he would.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 11:14 PM
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Fear Uncertainty Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 11:13 PM
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Again one is reactionary the other is done to help prevent something from happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 11:12 PM
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Hard to argue against histeria.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 11:09 PM
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that is not part of the MeToo movement Even though it was. As it was about encouraging women to speak out and go after the men that abused them. How was it directed at men? Seriously? It was literally about women who where sexually harassed/abused by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 01:27 PM
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Probably because it was largely a US only thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 01:25 PM
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I could have been a creep, as many men are The only way to actually be a creep is to be one. The girl already has enough on her plate with boys her own age hounding her for pussy as it is. Pro tip the hotter the woman is the less likely men are hounding her for attention in real life. Anyway, i feel that women should not interact with men other than their brothers and fathers and potential boyfriends to be and husbands, to minimize potential rapes and harrasment as much as possible. All of those…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 01:24 PM
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The FUD is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 01:22 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 01:22 PM
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Women can't abuse "MeToo" because they aren't accusing anyone and they aren't pressing charges against anyone. Despite the fact they are doing both. None of this was directed at men as abusers beyond a vauge 'well if the shoe fits'. It was actually directed squarely at men. It will open up more jobs for women and with half of the work force to afraid to leave the kitchen, salaries will increase again. It won't open up more jobs for women and salaries won't increase because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 01:21 PM
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It shows a deep misunderstanding of the issues people (not just women, men are victims too) are actually trying to talk about, and it trivializes the legitimate complaints being made and stories being shared. Who would have thought a campaign launched online with no oversight has its messaged misunderstood. By the way metoo was NEVER about male victims, in fact feminists told male victims to shut up and not take part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 01:15 PM
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If a man isn't hot, there's always a chance he's going to be called a rapist, or a creep, or an entitled piece of shit or whatever lol, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 01:13 PM
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women just weren’t as vocal about expressing discomfort before I have to see if I can find the link, but they where vocal in the 90's over this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 01:11 PM
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Don't you understand that's all sarcasm and ironic misandry as clearly misandry ain't real.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 01:08 PM
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You do understand one is reactionary while the other can help prevent from something from happening right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 08:45 AM
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You don’t seem aware that “using caution” and “being afraid” are not the same thing. I am actually am. You don't seem to get that when around mental ill people you have a probability of something happening and with nothing to limit it or protect yourself from it from happening. Where as with extreme sports/activities you can take precautions to prevent something from happening or that lessen the chances of doing so. As you said yourself you never did an extreme sport without a helmet, you can't …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 04:25 AM
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Women as a whole as no woman wants to be the breadwinner, that's the mans job after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 04:10 AM
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The chances of a man attacking you as a woman doesn't exactly make it a potential threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 12:29 AM
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A lot of women though tend to smile when they are talking even when they aren't into the guy. But I was more thinking of the whole playing hard to get thing. As so many women least to play this game and such us guys think every woman was playing this game so we act as if every woman was. I wager less women are playing this game, but guys haven't gotten the memo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 11:41 PM
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Because no woman has ever raped or killed a man right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 10:56 PM
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I am simply watchful of behaviors that could harm me. There's a difference in being watchful with men with mental health disorders and men without them. All humans are potentially dangerous. I can't imagine how its like to live in a life of fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 10:53 PM
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as every man poses a potential threat Even though they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 10:49 PM
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Some women aren't clear with their signals as well, but somehow its always the fault of the man here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 10:48 PM
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And? How does that refute what I said? I can easily say from that that your female friends are dating men who are more educated and/or have higher career levels than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 07:42 AM
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Never made up any definitions, and the link I gave you clearly defines the collars. But I guess you never had a rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 07:40 AM
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How am I being obtuse? But ignoring the definitions I gave you. You clearly said that managing an auto body shop wasn't blue collar work No I didn't. FYI you do realize downvoting is against the rules right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 06:51 AM
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Or is it possible your classification system possibly flawed? Or you are intentionally being obtuse and know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 06:40 AM
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Do you think there's a clear definition between between white and blue collar work in the US? Yes because there is such a clear definition between the two. Have you worked in the "primary trades"? I never worked in the trades. The work I do sits on blue and pink collar work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 06:30 AM
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You seriously don't know what blue collar means? I am asking as I find that well shocking honestly. By blue collar I mean blue collar work, ie primary trades.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 03:02 AM
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She said she is UMC and she wants an attractive successful man. Meaning she wants at least an attractive UMC or UC man. So how exactly did I make a presumption when she literally stated what she wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 03:01 AM
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That it is the exception not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 02:42 AM
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Its universal enough that ya I can. my friend is a CFO and is engaged to a dude that manages an auto body shop Managing a body shop isn't straight up blue collar.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 02:40 AM
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I didn't presume anything, I am merely talking about their dating pool which is smaller than they think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 02:38 AM
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I live in L.A.. They're everywhere I find that doubtful. that only leaves a few million for me! I doubt its a few million when you do the math.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 02:37 AM
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Just stating facts. The amount of men who are UMC and UC and attractive isn't exactly a big pool. Don't know why you think you have a large dating pool when most of those men are taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 01:05 AM
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lol. So really you have a small dating pool that you think is bigger than you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 12:44 AM
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Gender studies should certainly and always should be looked down upon. Education shouldn't be looked down upon. And I think STEM earnings are often over hyped when you compare them to other majors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:37 PM
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What does law or medical school have anything to do here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:35 PM
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I wager your young? I ask as at some point reality is going to hit and you not going to like your hubby not making any money at all let alone you being the breadwinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:33 PM
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Women actually often don't feel the same way as they prefer men of the same class as them or higher. A white collar woman isn't going to date a plumber for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:32 PM
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And my dating pool is still huge. What makes you think your dating pool is huge? Is your income under 50k and your without a college education?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:22 PM
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it's male expectations that should change? Why not female one's as well? Women aren't dating down as a group or that even to any real degree for that matter. Women still choose to remain single than have to date down. Even all the freaking out about The Children could be quite easily solved by greater acceptance of SAHDs. SAHDS isn't something women going to find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:21 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 06:05 AM
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And you think beta men aren't fucking why exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 02:26 AM
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You must be so dislocated from reality. Nope. I hold the view people don't act rationally when it comes to dating or that hooking up. More so going the extra mile if you will isn't necessary going to improve your chances of getting laid as not every woman is going to find you attractive and even if she did she can be turned off by numerous things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 11:33 PM
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"gender is a social construct" applies best to purely cultural norms like "boys wear blue and girls wear pink" which is unequivocally a "social construct" without relation to the physiological attributes of sex, so in that case yes "gender is a social construct" It does, but it also applies to behavior as well. For example its often viewed within feminism that "boys will be boys" is a social construct. In those cases its really not, its more biological as its biological for boys to do things lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 10:30 PM
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Same goes for the US where new born boys where wrapped in pink.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 10:27 PM
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Spoken like an incel. I am done with the pity party.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 10:26 PM
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TRP never said that the factors I stated originated with them. They actually do try and claim they do until one points out they don't. Are you actually trying to argue that if you are fit, well groomed and confident, this does not improve your chances of getting laid? I already answered the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 10:10 PM
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Have you even look at what your saying to me? Your acting like a typical incel wanting a pity party because women aren't approaching you because heaven forbid you approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 09:44 PM
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My bad read it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 12:18 PM
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How is it invalidation? They are making an affirmative claim no?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 12:14 PM
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Because stats trumps anecdotal instances. A large amount of women go thru life of never been a victim of sexual abuse. So despite feminists constantly saying all women will and more so some strange man will rape you the stats say otherwise. If you want to live a life of fear then never ever be around your own father then. As your own father is the man that's most statistically likely to sexually abuse you out of all the men on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 12:09 PM
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they wouldn't even be able to carry a knife unless in their purse Even tho they be able to, least a small one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 11:06 AM
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I've still been the victim of sexual abuse Stats say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 10:54 AM
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I carry a knife. Won't do crap in such a situation. A tazer will be better. But you best check your local laws. As least in the US the police can come after you for using an unlawful weapon. I think they should give all of us guns too. No one is stopping you from getting a gun. Don't know why you should be given one. Especially with the fact it be pointless to have one in such situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 10:54 AM
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Nobody, but nobody's first instinct upon fucking up is to admit they fucked up. Some of us do at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 10:35 AM
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Yes as none of that originates with TRP. TRP also though promotes you to be "alpha" and what have you and show that woman who is boss. This is besides it pushing for traditionalism which really doesn't work that well today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 08:20 AM
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In fact you should just learn to read my comments before replying to them. You said nothing of the sort to the comment I replied to. And where you did say that you said the following: It's a social construct because you can't define masculinity without specifying the historical and cultural context. Something that's masculine in one culture can be seen as feminine in another. Once again saying masculinity is nothing but a social construct having no biological side to it. Also try reading what I …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 07:59 AM
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By saying masculinity is a social construct you are saying there's not a biological side to it. You have always defined as masculinity as ONLY being a social construct and NEVER defined it or said it has a biological side to it. In fact you basically have denied it has a biological side to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 07:46 AM
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Masculinity is a social construct I guess biology doesn't exist at all apparently. But again it doesn't seem to be a thing within feminism as everything is a social construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 07:37 AM
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And yet you haven't been able to provide evidence for this except for obvious misinterpretations. You know I have and thanks for proving me right, again. Well given your track record what do you expect? I actually expect a debate, but given your track record you cleary can't or that matter won't. But I guess I be reporting you for breaking the sub rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 07:26 AM
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Not missing the point. You seem to think people operate in black and white terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 07:24 AM
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TIL girls don't learn anything from their fathers when it comes to behavior as clearly they learn all their behavior from their mothers. Also lol at the suggestion only poor people punch walls. Try reading what I said. I never suggested that. But it seems the point did more than flew over your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 06:15 AM
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If you want to get laid, sure TRP works. Even to get laid it doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 05:36 AM
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it doesn't mean that masculinity is toxic You keep on saying this and yet I keep on seeing feminist articles frame it as such. Of course you throw insults at me and say I can't read and say strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 05:36 AM
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Toxic masculinity is about getting rid of that kind of parenting Bullshit claim is bullshit. Toxic masculinity isn't about getting rid of said parent, its about removing masculinity itself. As I told you numerous times and you failed to show or counter numerous times positive masculinity does not exist within feminism or that matter academia. so what's the problem with getting rid of the extremes? That's the problem you aren't getting rid of the extreme but the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 05:34 AM
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I said nothing about being taught masculine gender role stuff. I am talking about learning aggressive behavior (hitting a wall is NOT gender role stuff) from being in such an environment. We are partly the product of the environment we grew up in. If one grows up in a poverty stricken area they are going to have different behaviors than that of one growing up in an upper class area.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 05:25 AM
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I’m not really sure what your point is anymore. That toxic masculinity is really masculinity. And positive masculinity doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 04:59 AM
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So she's not at all learning that behavior. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 04:35 AM
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Don't you know everything is a social construct biology ain't a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 04:25 AM
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It’s a common tactic to focus on the bad in society when you want to change it, rather than the good. All it does is prove the positive doesn't exist. Unfortunately it seems like many men now have rejected the term, essentially bowing out from conversation about what constitutes toxic masculinity vs positive. They rejected the term as the meaning of the term changed and there was NEVER a conversation about what constitutes toxic masculinity. Feminist decided all on their own what it meant and ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 01:26 AM
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The term was not really single-handedly invented by one person, but rather developed over time with input from both men and women. Men where non existent during second wave feminism and barely a thing now during 3rd/4th wave feminism especially on an academic level. Connell was the first one least credited to do so to lay down the base of how toxic masculinity was originally defined. It since been redefine to say the least. I recommend looking up Terry Kupers and his thoughts on toxic masculinit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 01:08 AM
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There's really not pressure on men to use physical aggression as an outlet for their anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 12:59 AM
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If a little girl grows up seeing his angry, emotionally disturbed father punch walls as an outlet for her rage, she is being taugt by example to do just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 12:43 AM
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You do realize when the term was coined it was define saying male gender roles as being toxic not masculinity itself as its defined today as. It was actually developed as a concept by men. Wrong. It was developed by a woman like everything else with feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 12:10 AM
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No one pressured men to punching a wall when he gets mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 12:06 AM
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Ya it doesn't mean that. If it didn't then why doesn't positive masculinity exist within feminism let alone academic feminism? And that why are feminists trying to dictate what masculinity should be?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 12:01 AM
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Ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 03:03 PM
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Because believe me. I would have banged her without reservation if she had just shown a little initiative, if she had made me feel beautiful. Instead she just did what they all do everyday. Oh boo hoo. You are 6'6''. And you think women are lining up to talk to me? Think again. I also had women tell me I am too tall for them. I ain't doing anything masculine for them to feel horny! Have you even look at what your saying to me? Your acting like a typical incel wanting a pity party because women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 01:54 PM
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My issues is that I'm here all decked up, shaved, perfumed, dressing good, waiting for women to approach - because you know women have a varied taste in men not just Alpha males! - and women do not approach me at all. They just stand there being creepy, staring at my lips and blushing. I want to feel like a man, and since men(chads) get approached, I want that validation in my life. Your issue is you are acting and being like an incel all while going woo is me. How do you get women to approach y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 12:20 PM
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Because all they do is stare at me and smile and play with their neck or hair. it makes me feel unsexy. Like, apparently I am aesthetic enough for attention whores to notice me, but I am not aesthetically compelling enough for them to risk rejection? Which wouldn't happen, because these chicks are young and attractive. That's what I want. I want them to stop looking at me because it makes me feel uncomfortable, like they are judging me, and that they are thinking to themselves, ''eh, I guess I'd…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 12:10 PM
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I am putting them into context, you are not. You instead are listening to talking points and not actually looking at the stats as the stats go against what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 11:26 AM
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At least you admit being sexist despite what the stats actually say.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 11:13 AM
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So there's not plenty of said women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 11:04 AM
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I agree, which I said allow them to operate the microwave with a parent around. That way there's an adult is there if the kid screws up, and lets face it the kid is going to screw up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 10:36 AM
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It's more dry in here than in Melania's snatch when he tries to touch her. Dry heat is nothing and it getting close to 125F isn't as bad as you think. Like I said come to the US and that the southern states during the summer time and you know what actual heat is like. Women don't approach me. I can only wonder why. I once had a chick sit in front of me on the train, and for the next 20 minutes she spent the entirety of the ride staring at me, smiling at me and trying to give me bedroom eyes. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 10:14 AM
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Since more women are typically caretakers, that makes sense So why then would you want a female when you acknowledge a female is more likely to be violent here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 09:59 AM
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Nope. Its comparing to male on female violence to male on male violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 09:58 AM
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They still need some direction and having them operate the microwave on their own at that age without a parent around is bit more risk than I would want to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 09:52 AM
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It's 116F in Europe, dude. With temperatures risking going up to 120F Let me know when it hits 125 and we can talk. I am also wagering this is a dry heat which is far better than a humid one. Trust me 100F with 80% humidity will fucking kill you, literally. i have no idea what FUD is. Fear Uncertainty Doubt Alright, man, when I start seeing women approaching men who don't look like a combination of Backstreet Boys pretty and giants, I will start believing that the world is not like I say. I give…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 10:27 AM
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I have never sweated so much in my life. Oh poor you. Come to the US for the whole summer time and that live in the southern states then I may have some empathy for you. Anyway, this is how the world works. Again no it doesn't. You see that if you actually got out, but you refuse to and live in a bubble you created yourself out of FUD. There's no hope for you as long as you live like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 09:44 AM
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Hey don't ever go outside and live in FUD. There's no point in trying to convince you the world operates way different than you think it does when you live in some basement never to leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 09:23 AM
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Sure. But we are talking about women as a whole here are we not? As women as whole prefer men who are college educated and not blue collar workers. Its seems really only when they are force to give such a guy a chance (due to lack of "dateable" men) do they realize the value in blue collar men and change their view least some.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:58 AM
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No, it's because it's not proper for a female doctor to attend to a male patient. Women should be attended by female doctors, and male doctors should attend male patients. Please tell me you are either from the Middle East or India. As that's the only way this remotely makes this backwards ass thinking makes any sense. I ain't getting in a position of vulnerability with a woman with #metoo flying around worlwide. The FUD is real. Not every Chad in the world, no. But every woman who isn't obese h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:54 AM
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Why do you bring facts into this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:51 AM
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That's what we call FUD and not doing one's homework on the stats. As if you look at the stats male on male violence happens at a far higher rate than that of male on female violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:51 AM
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Rather give them a cardboard box some crayons and some paper and leave some gram crackers out for them with some water. Using Netflix is lazy parenting and only going to get the kid addicted to such things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:50 AM
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The kid is 11 years old though, so realistically I would just leave them on their own if I couldn’t find a single person we knew to help out. That implies the parents where good parents that didn't do everything for their kid. That is a rarity I say these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:47 AM
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If we're talking about ways to give yourself a good job and income, yeah, blue collar education can be great--we'll never stop needing or outsource plumbers and electricians, and they make an excellent living. But not excellent jobs to get a date with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:43 AM
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Although many men like to throw the "I don't care what the world thinks of me", I doubt that anyone who isn't completely antisocial would not enjoy the social boost of dating a well-standing woman. Us humans largely want to be accepted by others, but not all of us will enjoy the social boost of dating a well standing woman. Not all of us are all about our status. This is tangential, but I think the reason many man get really angry when they get cheated on by a woman is because they feel it hurts…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:20 AM
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You are right, we care. Didn't know you spoke for all of us men. To me, social status is important because I care about my own social status. So you care what others think of you more than anything else as you think imagine is everything? In fact, I might even say that I feel slightly more attracted to the girl with lower social standing, because I know that she will look up to me, I know that she probably won't have other guys like me in her own circle and she will value me more because of that…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:17 AM
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Education IS part of status Are we talking formal or street or blue collar education? I ask as while most women prefer formal/academic education, it seems more are finding that being educated in blue collar ways is a good thing. But so often than not being blue collar in today's society holds less status and often not negative status.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:09 AM
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Women will pick status over looks every time whereas the opposite is true of most men. If they did I think the dating landscape would be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:03 AM
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Who the hell would want to marry a female doctor? In the past 10 years I had one female doctor and I hated it. She acted more like a man than the men I've met, and she was a petite 4'10'' little thing that projected more masculinity than the male doctors I've ever had. I can't imagine her going home and leaving the masculine persona when she gets home and starting to act like a woman. So female doctors are a monolith because you had a single bad experience with one female doctor? Only after they…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:02 AM
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You can literally say the same about women. But why should us men should do anything about it? You and feminists say all the time how men aren't entitled to women and their bodies so why are you entitled to men doing something about YOUR problems? Do you not see the irony and hypocrisy here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 07:18 AM
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Being pressured to marry isn't the same as being forced to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 07:15 AM
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How exactly where they forced to marry some 50 years ago? The US never had forced marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 07:15 AM
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Women still want gender roles upheld When it comes to men but not for them. Which is part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 07:13 AM
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Many times these women want to have it all Because they where told they could have it all and I wonder who told them that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 07:10 AM
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Where these women forced to marry or pressured to marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 07:06 AM
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I’m just trying to grasp why society makes this the end all be all of women’s existence. Like we’re all going to roll over and die if we don’t find some man to commit to us. Do you not think this isn't changing in society? I feel like a lot of guys just take up space. If you hate men so much then just ignore them. Why continue to spew your sexism and hate towards men? You doing no one any favors. You are hurting yourself and feeding into RP speak as well giving us anti feminists more ammo to use…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 07:04 AM
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Your entire post is like you're trying to convince yourself and others on why it's just not worth it. You have seen the sort of posts the op has made in this sub right? I ask as she be doing men and her self a favor by well ignoring men and stop hating on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 07:01 AM
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How is that solely the fault of the woman and not the man as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 06:52 AM
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I guess the diff is a hookup app vs a social app. Yup. I certainly say Meetup is an social app than a dating app. As you can't talk to other women on there. Well you can but its really setup to only talk to the organizer(s) of the group if there's questions or issues or what have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 01:34 PM
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A little less than 30% of couples meet through mutual friends. A bit more than 20% meet in bars or restaurants, with another 20% or so finding a partner online. The rest (~30%) meet through some part of their daily lives - church, family, neighborhood, work, or school. The data is kinda old, its from 2012, but I wager today meeting thru mutual friends is up, bars/clubs is down and online is up. I also wager a lot of couples have "met" each other thru Meetup. Meetup is literally an app to find gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 01:14 PM
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Most people do have money to go to a club/bar, its more of the views of dating and the whole dating scene is changing. It use to be you went down to the local mall or what have you to meet the opposite sex and now you use your phone to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 01:09 PM
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Its a Christian blog you expect otherwise? But that doesn't refute my point on various comments/replies from RPers agreeing with her in terms of the woman needing to be a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 11:54 AM
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Ya they are and this is coming from an atheist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 10:56 AM
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No no don't you see only the outliers are the norm everything in the middle are the actual outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 04:38 AM
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Why did you link an article specific about Christian values like it applies to anyone else? If you look at the various comments from RPers they seem to be agreeing with the Christian blog.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 04:25 AM
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I never understood why TRPers acted as if we lived in Alhambra and the top 20% of men kept 80% of women locked away in a harem. I don't think they are actually acting like that. More saying that 80% of women go for 20% of men and that a large portion of those women rather date such a man or not date at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 11:01 PM
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I would say so, but I have a feeling with gen y that won't be totally true and with gen z they still be caring about it when they are in their 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 10:58 PM
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They are motivated by their bottom line. But they also know they gain goodwill by doing this as well as there's more talk and what have you over player toxicity. I mean there's numerous videos highlighting this on Youtube with Overwatch alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 10:57 PM
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because assholes reduce the playtime of other players Doesn't seem like it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 10:31 PM
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They are also punishing them for being toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 10:26 PM
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white cishet males make up the bulk of people in power, both historically and in present day. I didn't realize the world only consist of the US. As I didn't know white men where in charge in Asia or that in Africa or the Middle East. All these years I never knew the oppressive royal families of the Middle East where white men. Women and POC are more likely to be in poverty than white men, this is a fact. And men are far more likely to be homeless than that of women are and white men depending on…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 10:19 PM
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So because I am a capitalist I am now a reactionary? You are making zero sense here. Also go tell feminists there are various forms of power. I been trying to tell them that but they are stuck on gender being the only base of power and seats of power being the only form of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 09:56 PM
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Na I rather not. I also don't get why the far right always hates the Jews. Like what did the Jews ever did to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 09:54 PM
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It didn't affect it, but it shined a light on it though and has started an attempt to address it. See Blizzard punishing players with toxic behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 12:59 PM
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Reddit does favor men slightly. And women in some areas do face oppression in the west but its nothing like what feminist portray it as.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 12:56 PM
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Not even politically. All the do politically is aim to protect their interests and nothing more. They aren't trying to push their religious views onto everyone else like the Christians are (least some of them).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 12:54 PM
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I am talking about feminism as a whole as it views power as being gender based and I am saying its class base. And how can I be a brocialist when I am a capitalist? I am against socialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 12:46 PM
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I am a brocialist or that fishfirework48 is one? I am not denying women weren't or are oppressed. I am denying how feminists frame it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 12:15 PM
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Don't think the Jews do least in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 12:13 PM
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Most of major internet communities as a whole are pro-men. Debatable. Youtube for example as whole I would say is more 50/50 actually with it likely favoring women over men. Reddit itself I would say favors men but has a large women's side to it. as a whole most feminist ideas get shut down in mainstream reddit. As they should be. But feminists on reddit are pushing to make feminist ideals mainstream on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 11:37 AM
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Because women have historically and still experience epistemic sexism. And men haven't? They make more grand assumptions about male superiority So do women. Historically men have been the oppressors, and women the oppressed Even though even historically its been haves that been the oppressors to the have nots. As even historically it was never gender that was the oppressor but class. The only people that view history this way are feminists and people that never actually read up on history. You c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 11:33 AM
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Already stated my claim and I haven't contradicted myself at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 10:46 AM
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So your basis for believing that superintelligent AI will never replace humans in the future is that current technology hasn't done it yet? Strawman. Your only claim is really that because it hasn't happen yet, with current primitive automation, it will never happen in the future with much more advanced tech? Never claimed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 10:13 AM
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You know, Nemo, maybe when AI comes about it'll be good at creating less obvious alts. Aren't you clever. This isn't an alt. That account got perma banned by the admins. On what basis do you believe this? Already told you and gave you links. I already told you, I'm not repeating myself. No you didn't. I asked and you never delivered. What claim are you making then? Go back to the start of the conversation. Stephen literally said AI could disrupt the labour market. He also said it could create au…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 09:16 AM
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Yet. Nor will it. As I told you we been automating for centuries and it has yet to replace humans. And if you think current day automation is a Win XP powering a touchscreen you really have no clue what your talking about here. We are talking about the future when true AI is developed. For the SECOND TIME, what is true AI? Explain to me how that won't harm the labour market. Never made that claim. I literally quoted Stephen Hawking, he knows more about AI than you do. Read what I quoted, as it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 08:15 AM
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It does however say human labour is already being squeezed out of the overall labour market percentage-wise. Getting a smaller slice of the pie. But not saying its replacing humans jobs wise. If you're defining automation is the invention of tractors then sure. I am not and you know I am not. So what the fuck will anyone need humans for? Maybe we'll all become batteries. Or we'll be obsolete and killed off... that's a real possibility posed by Stephen Hawking, it's not sci-fi anymore. And humans…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 07:57 AM
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From your first link Which doesn't say people are losing jobs from automation. This points to it harming the human labour market in the future if that trend continues then, doesn't it? Nope. You do realize we been automating for centuries right? You can go back to the early farming days of when humans invented the plow. And why can't I base my views on what automation will do on the future on what its done now when we been doing it for centuries? Also what exactly is real AI? They can hire fewer…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 09:22 PM
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You think automation hasn't reduced jobs? http://archive.is/Vv6pu https://www.newscientist.com/article/2148924-workplace-robots-have-had-little-impact-on-jobs-in-germany/ No I don't think it has reduce jobs. They use big screens for ordering now instead of people. They still use people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 10:23 AM
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You may be shocked to learn there's more to economics than supply and demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 05:07 AM
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No they don't. RPers are traditionalists.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 01:08 AM
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No they don't. They want a stay at home wife who serves them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 12:17 AM
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The only men that complain about it are really RPers. All other men are fine with it and more so I say a majority of men actually demand women to have careers today.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 09:35 PM
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Do you not understand young workers even now have high unemployment? Do you not understand companies will find ways to not pay higher wages?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 09:32 PM
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And I am saying not all jobs will pay more than they do now. Again fast food jobs for example will go back to hiring young workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 09:30 PM
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Because men don't take on any risk at all when they have sex with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 09:29 PM
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I know and companies will adjust to it. And why do people think this or that will speed up automation when we already been doing automation and it hasn't reduce the number of jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 09:25 PM
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And the share of lower middle class and poor Americans also declined. Meaning more people are moving up not down.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 09:22 PM
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Again no they won't. They just hire more young workers instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 12:57 PM
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I probably should, right? Lol. Best check your country/state/local laws first.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 10:26 AM
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Decent jobs are easy to come by now. Removing women from the workforce will do more harm to not just women but men as well. As men would have to pay for everything and have the woman financially dependent on him. I doubt most men will want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 10:24 AM
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Also, since the labor force would shrink, all jobs would pay better. Even though they won't. A job at a fast food joint isn't going to pay better because women aren't working when they simply hire male teens and male college students at minimum wages.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 10:21 AM
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Class and career are often linked to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 10:16 AM
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If Tinder did a review system I bet you it solely only applied to the men. Having a review system for women is just begging for abuse plus it be seen as being sexist somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 10:14 AM
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The odds that a working class girl grows up to be an UMC professional are much less. Even though they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 09:21 AM
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You know this has nothing to do with class but much more what the person is like right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 08:42 AM
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So one bad experience means all women? Seem to me you didn't learn the right lesson in that you didn't learn that you should screen better. There are lower middle class women that do in fact want to strive for more and are doing something about it. While there are women, just like men for that matter, that talk the talk but never walk the walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 07:24 AM
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I am guessing you had a bad experience with low level class and not a woman from least the middle class?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 05:57 AM
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Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 03:08 AM
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Pretty much. She did to her credit admitted she wanted her cake and eat it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 12:55 AM
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Still the same claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 11:43 PM
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The idea that women collectively have increased their standards is absurd. Why? You said yourself that women "select mates based on certain phenotypic traits displayed through (amongst other things) status and resources". Women improved their own lives which meant their standards went up as men has to well provide more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 11:04 PM
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even if you think i'm entitled You literally said that you wanted your cake and eat it as well. How is that not entitlement? there is so much subtle female labor that goes into relationships that can't be reduced to money. Sure, but a relationship should be a give and take. Not something that's one sided which you said yourself that you want, which you don't have with your current boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 10:33 PM
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I know they are different words. You seem to think there's no middle here in that women nor men will date someone making as much as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 10:31 PM
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When men want to marry women who will not outdo them financially men are displaying hypogamy. Look the word up using a real source. Yes please do look up the meaning of the word hypergamy as it doesn't mean what you think here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 10:08 PM
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What? Men aren't your servants. If you want men to serve you then you best be Stacy then and constantly be looking hot then and be cooking and give us men good sex as isn't that what a woman suppose to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 10:06 PM
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At least you admit your entitled. I give you that. I can only wager how you reply to men doing the same to you. I take it you are single?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 10:05 PM
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You pretty much implied all the nurses where fucking all the old men in the hospital.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 10:04 PM
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It may not be on equal footing but no one is going to be shitting on your job that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 10:02 PM
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Because that's mostly the cause of this. Even though its not. Its women have increased their standards pass what the market is meeting or that was meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 10:00 PM
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First it’s career women are pricing themsleves out of the market. Then it’s men will happily date women who make tons more money than them. None of these statements contradict each other nor blame women for anything. The first statement is about women still having overall the same traditional dating standards that have existed for decades now finding out there's a shortage of datable men around. And women well pricing themselves out of the dating market. As far fewer men today are college educat…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 09:46 PM
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While TRP has twisted the meaning of hypergamy to basically mean women won't date them unless they are Chad, the actual meaning of hypergamy does in fact apply only to women and not to men. Men aren't seeking out women of higher class to date and marry, women are as women are the ones that still demand men be the breadwinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 09:43 PM
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they are not intelligent overall. Just because they lack a formal education doesn't mean they aren't intelligent overall. Intelligence comes in many forms. Do you know how to find a stud in a wall and that without using any tools? I highly doubt it seeing your UMC and in my experience UMC folk don't like getting dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 09:39 PM
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Its snobby, but its reality. Women put more importance on formal education than that of men do when it comes to dating. So dating someone without said education is well dating down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 09:35 PM
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Have you actually been in a hospital before? As I somehow doubt you have if you think all the nurses are fucking every man in the hospital.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 09:31 PM
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So you want your cake and eat it as well then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 09:20 PM
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yeah because that's what men are supposed to do Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 09:19 PM
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So women can and do have a choice to date down. But don't as they don't think they should and are refusing to date down. And such women aren't dating down as much as this sub says women are. Women rather remain single than date a guy that is less educated and make less money than them. At most women accept men that make as much as them but demand men that make more than them, least be as educated or more educated than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 09:17 PM
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Usually you see a degreed or certified woman marrying a tradesman who earns comparably to her and who makes up for lower educational achievement and earning power with other masculine traits. Is it really dating down when you are dating someone who makes as much as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 09:15 PM
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Where did I say anything about Cosby?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 08:48 PM
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Love the strawman. More so I love how you totally avoided the questions. I can only guess you can't answer the question as you want to shove your views down the throat of black men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 06:08 PM
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Even though it won't be what they say. But please by all means continue to make claims you knowlying can't support.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 06:07 AM
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No one will care outside of MRA's and some others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 06:06 AM
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Have you heard most black men’s response to #metoo? Nope. It hasn’t been progressive in the least. Why should it be progressive or that to your liking? Why should people more so MEN respond how you want us to? You feminists say us men aren't entitled to women, it being their bodies, minds, etc. The same applies to you women and that feminists more so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 05:54 AM
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If there's proof then present it then, as otherwise you are making a claim you can't support. Saying it happen doesn't prove it happened as its pretty easy to say anything happened as long as its not too far fetched.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 09:52 AM
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Sounds like you want to lower the burden of proof to that simply to the word of the woman is all is needed to convict. As if she was sexual assault then clearly the man must did it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 09:37 AM
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The fact there's the lack of proof is my proof. How can not disprove something that doesn't happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 09:35 AM
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The police and other authorities absolutely are not doing it. Which is a total and utter lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 09:33 AM
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I want to see guys being forced to have sex with disgusting women like many women were forced to have sex with their disgusting boss to keep their job or get a well-deserved promotion and then say that it ain't sexual assault because it's not in the job description of what the legal term of sexual assault is. Gotta love revenge fantasies. More so what you describe here with women almost never actually happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 09:25 AM
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Should we then not define what sexual assault is? Or let it be defined however women want to define it as?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 09:23 AM
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You are aware that metoo was started by a black feminist right? Pointing that out as I don't think there is really this conflict of race or gender within the minority community least how you painting it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 09:20 AM
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So does this mean I can make judgements about you based upon what you are saying here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 08:05 AM
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We are focused on the real predators By focusing on the real predators you mean focusing only male predators? As the metoo was ONLY about focusing on female victims and male predators. Male victims where told by feminists to shut up and not take part. Once again you are a part of the problem here with your false information. How is it false info to say nobody gives a damn about male victims? Metoo was NEVER about male victims and as I already mention feminists told male victims to shut up and no…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 08:03 AM
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The feminist poster here, like OP, are searching for a 'gotcha' moment as if RPers are morally obligated to support MeToo while forgetting these double standards. There's no gotcha here that's going on only pointing out a double standard by feminists. Did feminists make a big deal when Lena Dunham admitted to sexually assaulting her own sister? No. More so she was allowed to keep on producing the HBO series Girls at that. Did feminists make a big deal when Amy Schumer raped a drunk man? Nope the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 07:35 AM
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It's only when women are victims, I guess Yup. And your Mindy example shows the power women have today, something feminists are so often amendment to deny women have in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 07:11 AM
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The MeToo movement would have been fine if it remained true to its original goal: a place for real victims (female or MALE) to speak up and raise awareness. Metoo was NEVER about male victims and male victims where told by feminists to shut up and not take part in it. Emily Linden said she did not care if innocent men were destroyed in the process. The goal is to defeat Patriarchy... Source? It also has been hijacked by feminists Uh a couple of feminists created it actually. Unless they have bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 06:51 AM
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Abusing your mod powers? Anyway mod mail here we come.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 10:33 AM
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poppy_blu you do know downvoting is against the rules right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 03:46 AM
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Gotta love strawmans.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 03:27 AM
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The constitution doesn't cover everything, abortion for example Ya it kinda does actually. LOL you linked to very comment where I said: Nope. Linked to the very comment where I said the following: It's the rich/upper class who run the US not men. The link takes you direct to it. So what is the point of this exchange? Besides you needing to read up on how the US operates and should really take a hard look at the world around you? Nothing at all. By hey all men are privilege right and women are no…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 12:10 AM
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Who did you think decided these cases that changed laws at the state level You mean change laws in accordance with the Constitution which the Supreme Court uses primary to set legal precedents? Again they don't make law or set policies now do they? What exactly do you think lobbyists do but buy Congressional votes? Well its a damn good thing they aren't buying politicians to actually get favorable laws passed, oh wait they are more than buying votes. If you really think the courts and businesses…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 11:38 PM
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Are we talking professional sports team or amature? And male friends hanging out isn't something I consider to be a male space. I consider a male space as something where only men can go to physically to talk to/interact with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:41 PM
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It is progress, but we are only going to go so far as us humans need our gender identity. As its how we define gender and interact with one another. Without it we won't function.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:40 PM
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I know. By the way I am worse than right wing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:38 PM
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Do you live under a rock? Nope do you understand how the US works? Judges and CEO's don't run the country, never have. They aren't dictating policy or making law. Your problem is you think this is about men vs women and that one has to lose for the other to win. It’s about the haves and have nots, which has nothing do with gender. Many of those have nots getting fucked are men, probably more so these days. This is coming from the woman that thinks all men are privileged and women are not. I do l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:32 PM
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I mentioned that it's about standards and how society thinks a man should be. Why do you lie? It's not my fault that you didn't understand that I'm talking about societal standards Not my fault you didn't made that clear. Maybe once bring up actual arguments. Maybe you should have clicked the link.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:16 PM
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Oh look another ignorant person. I also didn't know I was right wing, interesting. But you do gotta love identity politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:08 PM
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I know what your talking about, my point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:06 PM
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Uh what male only spaces still exist today that don't have women taking part in them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:05 PM
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Eh I am not to sure most men will be really shamed over getting a woman's drink today. I never gotten shame over ordering a strawberry frappuccino from Starbucks and that is literally a pink drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:04 PM
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You can't do that without removing masculinity it self. But not everything is labeled masculine or feminine. There's a a portion there that is neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 01:51 PM
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I didn't know judges and CEO's run the country. Oh by the way did you know women hold more wealth than men in the US? Woops there's another fact that goes against your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 01:50 PM
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I didn't know this was a man. As per the course you show you should really educate yourself. It's the rich/upper class who run the US not men. But please don't let the facts disrupt your narrative here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 01:16 PM
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Maybe you should been more clear in what you where saying then. You going to address the other parts of what I said or you going to ignore them like usual when you know you are wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 01:09 PM
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That would mean giving men their own space and more so the boys club that have largely died off. The very thing feminists have moved to end. I highly doubt your solution is truly that realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 12:51 PM
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Just because you are unwilling to accept my arguments Dude you don't even argue anything. All you do is cry strawman and say you can't read. That isn't an argument despite what you may think. Again why are you even here when you don't even argue? Explaining to you what words and sentences actually mean is debating. You don't even do that. All you do is reply with condensing replies that be better in /r/iamverysmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 12:38 PM
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I mean that is what gender is going to be. What makes you think that? That is quite the far-fetched claim. You made a radical leap as you so said yourself. at the very least the current way that gender is though of could change for the better And you think removing all gender identity will be better why exactly? There's numerous biological differences between man and woman, removing gender identity will well screw things up to say the least. I wager removing gender identity will cause mental iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 12:28 PM
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Can you really not understand this simple difference? Can you really not understand meaning of words? You said nothing about societal standards but standards on appropriate behavior. Can you really not understand this simple difference? Read more carefully. Yes please do read more carefully also do try to click on the link. Better yet don't as we both know its you with the actual reading issues and strawman issues. Why not? Society has no incentive to do so and has more incentive to keep things …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 12:25 PM
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I don't think that at all. The solution would be to get rid of the idea of classifying everything as “masculine” and “feminine” Are you or are you not advocating to remove masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 11:40 AM
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You proved that you completely misunderstood the sentence you were quoting, but nothing else. You mean like how the only thing you proved is not debate at all and only cry strawman's and reading comprehension? Pointing out that you need to read more carefully instead of only looking at a text and assuming that it means what you already assumed it does isn't "only insulting". Because you use in such a way. Besides you already acused me of trolling, which last time I checked was against the rules.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 11:38 AM
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"toxic masculinity" isn't about behaviors, it's about standards on appropriate behavior. Which means its about behaviors. Masculinity is a social construct Remember kids biology ain't real. These are certainly things that society can improve. But won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 11:13 AM
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It's a strawman because you've never proven it to be true Do you know what a strawman is? As for someone that loves to use it to no end you sure do misuse it. I actually have proven it to be true and all you did was claimed I can't read. As I asked you before, why are you even here if you aren't going to debate but only insult others?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:37 AM
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Can't say I am surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:16 AM
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The only narrative I’m observing here is the one the allows men who aren’t making it life to blame their failures on feminism and “gynocentic society” and pretend their own lack of motivation to better themselves is “because feminists are keeping us men down!” “Society is keeping us men down!” You seem to love strawmanning things don't you? And I like how you lack self awareness to realize you are actually pushing pushing a narrative of that men are privileged and women are not and only women ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:16 AM
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The dictionary. LOL Or biology 101. So out of mid air, thanks for confirming. Didn’t you post another comment in this thread that feminists and society are trying to make men feminine? I said feminists where not society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:12 AM
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You do realize that even if only 10% of women prefer a Channing Tatum over a Jared Leto then Magic Mike could still make a huge profit. Yes. But I was more referring to the movie as a whole not just Channing. that 10% still leaves a huge number of women. It does. But then you start to break the group down and soon it's not that huge of a group anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 09:54 AM
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You’re telling me that there are not millions and millions and millions of men in america who are doing fine? Yup. If you educate yourself you would see this, but that would disrupt your narrative. As its clear you rather listen to feminist talking points than actually look at the facts. Don’t straw man me. Talk to the mirror much? I am not the one strawmanning here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 09:40 AM
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Now you’re just hamstering. Nope. Just pointing out you have a perception problem and continue to have one. Tough you seem to also have a growing black and white view here as well. If you don’t see that as a privileged group then I don’t know what the fuck to tell you. Just because you are part of the 10% income wise doesn't in it self mean you are privilege. A lot of people also have student loans to pay off. Then there's the whole cost of living to factor in. But its clear the world operates i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 09:36 AM
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How is that pretty privileged? Is it pretty privileged as you don't have a 4 year degree and not making 6 figures? Or is it because you live in a low cost of living area? Now say you live in San Francisco and made 6 figures which is the median income there, now are you still pretty privileged? I know you will, but all you doing is proving my point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 08:23 AM
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If you think men are doing fine then you should educate yourself. But that would disrupt your whole narrative of men are privilege women are not. And who said anything about being held back by feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 08:23 AM
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Can't help the willful ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 08:17 AM
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This is pretty basic stuff here. And this so called basic stuff here got pulled out of where? You’re too invested in the narrative that “society” is preventing men from being men. Nice strawman there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 08:16 AM
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That's extreme black and white thinking, but not an actual argument. Just because you say its not an argument doesn't mean its not one. Nope. That's just a strawman based on a lack of reading comprehension. I see you still resorting to yelling strawmans and not actually debating, but we both know you won't actually debate. But there's no strawman here, nor have you even proven it to be a strawman. Source required. On which part?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 08:14 AM
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Why do you need feminists to give you permission to be masculine? Who said I was asking? I am merely pointing out feminists want to remove masculinity and not allow it if they had the chance to. As to feminists masculinity is bad and evil and sadly society agrees with them. And people wonder why men are having problems today, oh wait my bad all men are privilege according to you so how can they? The “men” in men’sLib, huh? They’re not real men to you? The quotes are there because there is also w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 07:50 AM
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Gender and biological sex are two different things. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 07:43 AM
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You have proved nothing. Only that it was first coined and defined by feminist not by the MMM which you so claimed. In its original form within the Mythopoetic Men's Movement Like I said your wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 07:42 AM
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It really depends on the tattoo(s).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 07:26 AM
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Now point out where I said the MMM used a different meaning. Again feminists originally coined the term NOT the MMM. And the original feminist meaning of the word isn't the one used today. What part don't you get here other than you purposely being ignorant?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 07:16 AM
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Or you live in one type of social circle. Women in your country aren't a monolith. So why make them out to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 07:04 AM
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My link proves you wrong and you simply can't admit it and instead keep on posting ignorant made up bullshit. She says nothing to what you are saying, all you doing is spinning here. And I never claimed the MMM had feminists had different definitions of toxic masculinity. Face it you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 07:03 AM
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Do you mean IRL or in fiction like the Twilight guys? IRL and that in terms of the woman wanting to date the guy besides having sex with them. the gym rats don't do particularly well with women Matter of perception. That said I posted links showing that women least US wise perfer the more tone/fit man than the skinny hipster.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 06:53 AM
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And you clearly making up bullshit as you know you got proven wrong here and can't admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 06:19 AM
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No, I said removing the concept of gender, as it is clearly constructed. You didn't say this, you said remove the classification of masculine and feminine things not gender itself. Removing gender you might as well nuke all humans as being genderless is never going to work in human society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 06:07 AM
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I mean when you can show me that wearing pants is a biological trait linked to someone's sex, sure. Its not so much linked to sex other than its a means to keep us warm. Again, I do not want this and I just said that. The solution would be to get rid of the idea of classifying everything as “masculine” and “feminine” You are very much advocating for such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 06:06 AM
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Author clearly said otherwise but its clear you are being willfully ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 06:01 AM
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Certainly biology does have an impact on it, but it can not possibly account for all of the differences. Biology has more than just an impact on it, it also affects it and that more do dictates it. Yes its not 100% everything but it certain makes up a noticeable portion to say the least. But you just can't claim social construct and ignore biology because it doesn't fit in with your pov. Again, wearing pants is certainly not "part of our biology", and again there is a lot of examples of things p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 05:09 AM
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I do love the total dismissal here of actual facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 04:58 AM
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I mean that's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 04:57 AM
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We aren't as male only spaces are viewed as being bad/evil/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 04:14 AM
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In its original form within the Mythopoetic Men's Movement Wrong. It was originally came from feminists but with a much different meaning than today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 04:13 AM
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Most toxic 'masculine' behaviors are actually issues of class and not being a man. "Toxic" masculinity isn't an issue of class its an issue of feminists wanting to rid of masculinity and make men feminine instead. Toxic masculinity is any behaviors that are ultimately self-destructive to a man's goals or well being. Or just plain destructive. No, its masculinity itself being labeled as being toxic. Masculinity itself has a negative view and even the "men" in /r/MensLib admit to positive masculin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 03:40 AM
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The solution would be to get rid of the idea of classifying everything as “masculine” and “feminine”, as these are merely constructs that humans made to understand the world and are certainly not absolutes. Despite the fact biology says otherwise. Saying we should get rid of masculinity is akin to saying get rid of testosterone. It is quite possible that masculinity/femininity are completely indispensable as the culture may not be able to function without it. You think? The whole animal kingdom …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 03:31 AM
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They normally don't, but its been known to happen. Ya I get into interesting conversations with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 03:18 AM
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Last time I checked republicans have had control of the legislative branch since the Bush era. You should check your facts then. Democrats had control of Congress under Obama. Again, why should we all care about there “not being jobs” in these podunk towns? Why should we care about women's issues? And we’re not removing jobs - the corporations you insist on supporting are moving operations overseas. You love assuming things don't you? And I never said you liberals are removing jobs I said you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 03:17 AM
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They aren't but they are also not overdosing on opioids at the same rate as the men are, which there IS a gender and that race issue. But I guess the whole men don't have gender issues trope continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 10:56 PM
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A lot of men here focus on that type of attractiveness as we see you women often going for that type of attractiveness the most. We don't see you women finding the geeky looking guy being found attractive least physically speaking. Yes us men saw some women go nuts for the men in Twilight though we all thought you where crazy as it seem a lot of mid 30 something moms going nuts for early 20 somethings, kinda creepy to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 10:54 PM
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Even though it has everything to do with skin tone and physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 10:53 PM
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most fancy Tom Hiddleston So you talked to most women then or is it really women in your own social circle that talk the most about Tom? I forgot which Thor movie it was but there was a scene where Chris got topless and every single woman in the theater if you will meowed. And if women really did wanted the dainty man then explain why women aren't pushing for this in men but the total opposite instead? many fancy Idris Elba. Who isn't exactly danty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 10:50 PM
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Far more women tho prefer Chris over such guys. If they didn't then Magic Mike wouldn't have done so well that it got a second movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 10:18 PM
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And you assume I am conservative why? More so you should inform yourself to what's really going on with the coal miners. As clearly you don't have the slightest clue in the world. As for much as you feminists preach about intersectionality you do sure hell suck big time at it, this is besides you feminists not knowing a single thing about economics. As if you actually read up on whats going on with the coal mining, you would know that often not there's no other jobs in town and the town is liter…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 10:09 PM
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More like it is. There's studies on this showing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 10:00 PM
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I know. I am more talking about a ton coming out, as in heading north to 8 pints worth of blood coming out sort of deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 09:59 PM
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Ya I am more talking about the gunshot kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 09:58 PM
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Say she's having her period and needs a tampon or is bleeding out due to it? Or say giving birth? Basically anything where having another female there is better than a male there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 01:48 PM
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And what if he hides behind you as a woman is having a female emergency?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 01:33 PM
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But I have a feeling you still wouldn't change your mind. You mean like how you wouldn't? And I be up to trade places with you as I like have a 4 year degree something I don't have. Thought I still be a minority not like I am already one. Ya white guy here is a minority for where I live in the US. I also in trading places with you have a far lower rate of dying or using drugs as well and have access to loads of affirmative action programs to boot. So ya I be up for it. I have a son. I find that …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 01:31 PM
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Sounds like you have a problem with perception. But you go tell those while men in the declining coal mining towns who are overdosing on opioids just how well they have it. And they don't believe such things because again it's a perception problem. Feminists have been telling the same lies for decades now that they are so blinded to reality its not even funny now its just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 01:22 PM
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Men especially have difficulty recognizing what women find attractive about dainty pretty boys. Because nothing is actually attractive about them to most women. As if you take a dainty pretty boy and take a guy like say Chris Hemsworth (ie built, had pronounced masuline features, etc). Who do you think is going to get women's attention every time?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 01:16 PM
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wishing to be 6'3'' has more to do with the increasing heights men are going through in the western world. No it has to do with people idolizing height especially women. People naturally give us taller people more power right off the bat for no reason other than we are tall. And far more women are drawn to men who are tall and men want that attention as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 01:13 PM
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Wouldn't it depends on context?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 01:09 PM
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Complain that women/feminism/society are oppressing them despite the ridiculously privileged lives they live lol. Gotta love feminism rose colored glasses and the bias view of the world. If you think men have it so good then become a transgender and experience what this guy did. But I have a feeling you still won't change your mind. Heck I bet you even having a son won't change your mind. Project their own failures with women as women's inability to empathize with men Because there's in fact an …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 01:08 PM
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And what makes you think you can't or that help cause a change in society?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 03:18 AM
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And what fact would that be? The empathy gap is real and something that's been studied even.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 03:14 AM
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MRAs have been agitating for 100 years and they have not won a single legislative or policy victory. They haven't even been around for that long. I want it to change, but it never will. And what you are doing about it other than taking to reddit to whine over it? I do find it funny you want things to change all white being RP which is about promotion traditional gender roles the very thing you are bitching over. Pretty ironic don't you think? Elimination of sexual harassment laws and policies Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 01:09 AM
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But in my perspective, women are nowhere near to understand what's the problem with men, yet. There's not going to be a yet when feminists aren't going to allow men's issues to be discuss to any real degree or have men a real voice in feminism. And subs like Menslib do nothing to help either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 01:06 AM
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A little honesty, self-awareness and empathy can go a long way. And self reflection from other parties. I do get the feeling that at some point, a discussion about why women find certain "toxic" traits in men so alluring is going to be needed, because female attention is keeping toxic masculinity alive to an annoying degree. At least one feminist outright admits to wanting to remove masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 01:03 AM
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This is something I feel pretty strongly about and I am frustrated that there are so few men willing to talk about it. Why the hell would we? We know what will happen if we do. I get pissed when men come into feminist circles and start, uh, mansplaining, about how life is for women and they know everything about we should fix it. Do you get pissed when women and more so feminists do the same to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 12:57 AM
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And you say might because why? I am guessing its because of your own mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 12:49 AM
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No, its because politics is personal. Do you give a rats ass about some person in another state or hell the person down the street politically speaking? No. But you are likely to care about those close to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 12:48 AM
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Its been largely lies from the get go, but they are so ingrained in feminism that its impossible to fight against them due to feels over reals.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 12:46 AM
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Women have been raised so entitled and privileged over men that when a man comes along that doesn't treat them that way they cry oppression You clearly don't understand that equality is when women are more equal than men. Because after a lifetime of privilege equality feels like oppression. More like women had it bad back in the day so now its justifiable to make women more equal than men today as that's clearly equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 12:44 AM
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Who cares about those dying right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 12:41 AM
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She didn't say this during the election, but said it a good decade earlier in the late 90's. Someone, likely 4Chan or the Russians, dug it up and put it out there and people ate it up and democrats found something they couldn't defend without knowingly look sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 12:40 AM
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That would mean a net gain for men's lives. But be a net loss for women somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 12:38 AM
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More so saying there's too many "beta" men is a matter of perception nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 07:54 AM
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Besides his mental health? It doesn't, well unless he gets an STD from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 12:24 AM
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Loss of bodily function is a medical issue. Not one that is needed to function. Losing the ability to get an hard on isn't a medical issue. Men don't get pregnant after being raped. No but women have gotten pregnant after raping a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 12:16 AM
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Viagra actually treats a medical condition that the person taking the drug suffers from. Old men not getting hard isn't a medical condition. Women't don't really have the option of not being raped. Nor do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 12:09 AM
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What do you mean "legal drugs"? Uh legal drugs as in drugs cops/DEA aren't going to arrest you over. I am very much aware of the side effects legal chemo drugs have. My mom is taking such a drug that has a side effect of death. So I am quite aware to say the least. There isn't a medical need. There isn't here in regards to BC for men, but that doesn't mean we won't stumble upon a need or connect something here in that if a man taking a BC pill helps correct a medical condition. I say that as tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 11:18 PM
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while a man's assets continue to increase it's always an upward spiral for men And you assume this goes for men why exactly? Do women not have careers or do they all work in retail or what have you never pursing careers? More so what makes you think all men or that even most men always move up in life? People get fired, recessions happen, etc etc. Shit load of men lost their jobs in the recession and men where far harder hit by the recession that of women where. for women, the older they get, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 11:10 PM
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How are they doing the rest of you a favor? For women they are limiting your selection of women with 0% body fat. I would say with men it gives you less competition, but lets face it a guy that has some extra weight but makes good money doesn't need looks. Not that men need looks as much as women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 11:01 PM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 10:54 PM
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There is but its more of a soft wall if you will than the hard wall that TRP so often makes it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 11:44 AM
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And most women at 33 still have their pick of quality men. No they don't. Most quality men are taken at that point. Most women are able to nab quality men by their mid 20's or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 11:43 AM
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If you think that then you should get out more, but I also have a hunch TRP thinks any woman with more than 1% of body fat is bloated.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 11:39 AM
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It's not difficult to eat well, exercise, wear sunscreen and moisturize. As long as you keep up the discipline. Doing it for say a week or even a month is easy, doing it for years is something else and that's where a lot of people fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 11:36 AM
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the thing with "the wall" is that once you hit it, it becomes significantly harder to lock down a guy. this is an inarguable fact. that late in the game you are competing with young and hot girls in their 20s, the competition will be there Could say the same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 11:33 AM
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So for men these drugs seem to get evaluated like vaccines for non-existent diseases which means almost no side effects are ethically tolerable for men. I don't think anyone is only going for a zero side effects but more minimal side effects. As I said when they created the female BC it got rushed out, they aren't doing that here with the male one. They are taking their time with it. I wager part of it aside from the ethical reasons is due to them learning more about the male body. As this is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:11 AM
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How many guys would actually be inclined to take this drug when their girlfriends/wives are already on birth control? I wager a portion will. But I think the main market here is more the single men and that the men that demand to go bareback on women. As I can see women pushing men to take the pill as well. As just because the woman is taking the pill doesn't mean there's no chance she get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 09:53 PM
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They are working on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 09:51 PM
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The argument is that women suffer from the pill - so why shouldn’t men? A lot of people especially women here have revenge fantasies they want to carry out. it certainly doesn’t show such negative side effects as low dose oral anabolic steroids in men. Actually it does or that can depending on the woman. When they created BC for women back in the day they never did an impact study on the effect of the pill, it was rushed out to get it out as quick as possible in short. With the male bc they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 09:49 PM
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Pretty sure they canceled the testing due to the side effects it was having where too server on the men in the test group (some where going suicidal).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 09:45 PM
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Its not that common anymore but it seems to kinda make a comeback. And if you continue to be skeptical of strangers well lets just say its never good to live in a glass house dare something breaks and cuts yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 09:14 PM
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No we are talking about men being creeps. people do get conditioned to view abuse as normal Kids yes, adults no. When you said people I thought you where referring to adults. But even kids can learn about healthy relationships and learn how to avoid abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 09:12 PM
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Love how you ignored that I literally mentioned male victims right there in the comment. You literally mention gay or bi men, I guess straight men aren't victims as well. I actually fully support things like r/menslib and a lot of the stuff the Good Men Project has written. Menslib is nothing but another feminist sub aimed at addressing women's issues. And the Good Men Project is well a total joke. It has nothing but fluff pieces to pander to men to say "see feminism addresses men's issues!" whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 09:09 PM
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I don't know what the FUD is, but online communities don't hold much weight to me. FUD is Fear Uncertainty and Doubt. Best example of it is promoting the myth that telling women men are hiding just waiting to rape her if she walks alone at night, when in reality the stats say otherwise. And just because online communities don't hold much weight to you doesn't mean it holds more weight to others. Social media is largely female dominated and when they promote such viewpoints it only adds to the ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 11:33 AM
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Believing that "men are collectively creeps/The Worst" makes a woman (or even a gay/bi guy) who gets abused by a man MUCH more likely to excuse it/ not hold the abuser accountable/ let it happen again In what universe does this happens? Doing this really only feeds into the FUD and online it feeds into the circle jerk. I mean look at any female sub (which likely will be a feminist sub) and you see how often they go "men are creeps", and even though they don't say all men they might as well as th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 10:27 AM
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Fear Uncertainty Doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 04:00 AM
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You can. The issue if you will here, is the presumption of sex. As when you bring someone home from a bar you really think they are going to assume you actually going to watch tv or something? No they are going to assume you want to have sex. Now if you don't say sex is off the table one is going to assume this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 03:13 AM
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Stop listening to the FUD......
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 03:11 AM
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Most men aren't creeps (said a feminist, no less!). Then why are you women and that more so feminists keep on promoting how men are creeps so dam much? All you doing is harming women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 03:10 AM
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Its not a new phenomenon at all, its just something that's been labeled and made aware of of late. And no MRA's nor TRP have made it an uphill battle, how can they when they lack the ability to do so? Ya the mock it because the whole nice guy awareness thing is getting ridiculous now. And in no way all that progress can be lost. We aren't going to revert to the 50's any time soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 03:08 AM
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Uh where? You brought up personality when the OP is asking an economic question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 10:07 PM
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What does their personality have to do with an economic question?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 08:37 PM
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Take a look at this guy. You mean guy that was royalty and such had the power to get away with it? I bet if you find a painting of the common man from the 1600's you find they are dressed quite differently. So it's pretty clear that manliness and masculinity are very slippery concepts that No they are not slippery concepts. Yes what is deem masculine and feminine changes but I am more talking about men taking on more feminine traits and less masculine ones. Meaning they are less masculine and mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 08:36 PM
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The argument is that women who live in more egalitarian societies are more turned off by BS, which is supported by at least some evidence. Even in so called egalitarian societies women still prefer men with BS as really BS by and large is nothing more than female privilege and what person doesn't want to forgo their privilege? most feminists are not that interested in prescribing a lifestyle for other women Yet they get upset over women who want to take up traditional female gender roles, and mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 10:58 AM
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I have certainly met women who are upset about men holding doors or paying for their dinner, I imagine you have too Such women are nothing but a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 10:53 AM
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Still seems like the same thing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 10:23 PM
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I am not so sure they will though. As those men won't be that masculine themselves and would have embraced femininity more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 10:16 PM
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You left out the best one, trophies for showing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 04:44 AM
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I linked to various links, but the actual year of when millennials start is debatable. When I was born I was in the overlap years of that gen x and millennials, so I could say I am gen x tho I identify more with millennials as I grew up with the internet least as a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 04:43 AM
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What defines millennials is debatable year wise. Some use 1981 others use 1998 while others use 1982.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 04:41 AM
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And what difference is that? As really showing vulnerability is showing weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 03:06 AM
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So, I've noticed that a lot of men born in the late 90s and early 00s do seem to have a bit more of a softer, swishy vibe about them. Not all, but a noticable proportion. Notice the same and makes me cringe really.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 03:04 AM
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Some sources say I'm Millennial some say I'm X. I take it you are born in the mid 80's? There's an overlap in years here with the two over the mid 80's.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 03:02 AM
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You seem to skipped over the part that far more men are raped in the military than that of women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 08:06 AM
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How can there be more men than women in litigation when more women than men get law degrees? There's also a lot of guys like me that aren't extroverted and suck at networking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 07:56 AM
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They use to, they don't any more as by and large it doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 07:44 AM
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