This article is spergy/bloated, but I do think about it sometimes when women seem to run "psy-ops," because it makes me wonder about the strategy behind their communication-methods.

I know a girl who is like 10/10 in looks. She has >100K IG followers and even a whole subreddit of pervy followers. She could model and probably will at some point.

I noticed these patterns with her (and I also noticed the same patterns with at least two other hot girls I used to hang out with):

  • if you ask her something on text she will often say "I'll let you know," and then just never get back to you (this might be psychologically smart; it lets you say, "No," without actually having to say No, so she gets to have it both ways)

  • if you text her things she will often just respond with a cryptic "(:"...which I assume means "I don't have time for this bullshit but I want to somehow not be rude"...I would like to know about that whole trend of cryptic response

  • she will lie...she will do X and then deny it (until there's actual proof, like someone screen-capped her talking about how she did it, at which point she just accepts that it happened, but up until that point she denies it and calls the one who said that she did it a liar and uses the skull "I'm dead" emoji to signal how laughable the idea is that she would do that)

  • she will gaslight: she wears clothing that the average women would consider way too revealing, and often she will totally gaslight you in the weirdest way...someone will say that her bra is showing and she will say that it isn't when it clearly is, or on her Youtube channel (she vlogs and all these pervs tune in) she will be wearing insanely short shorts and someone will comment on them and she will say "You can't even see my shorts!" when you clearly can

1: How do men and women communicate differently? Are women more non-literal/subcommunicative/deceptive? What about gaslighting, lying, plausible deniability, intentional ambiguity, etc.? Are men more straightforward?

2: How do in-demand/super-attractive women communicate vs. women-in-general?

3: Is there anything notable about the way that high-SMV men communicate? How does it differ from the average man, if at all? How does it compare to the way that an in-demand/super-attractive woman communicates?