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| 1 | I found a non-hypergamic wife, so it is possible.Sheesh, all this talk about the majority of men this, majority of men that. The majority of men this, the majority of women that, yes. Because when discussing sexual strategy it's very important to notice the differences between the two sexes, and their prolicivities as a sex. Any woman growing a beard and working out ... and any man wearing make-up to make himself look younger... are doing it wrong. What is relevant here is that the majority of people are trash, personality-wise, and are undesi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 07:20 PM |
| 22 | What does alpha widow mean to you?Ok, My understanding is that this simply means a woman has had a man in her past that was of high quality, and that she therefore compares all new men to this “one that got away” often unfavourably. He has set a mark that she expects other men to surpass. Given people’s tendancy to look back on the past with rose gold tinted spectacles... and females ability to attract much higher value men when young rather than middle-aged... it may mean that no man, even one of as high a quality as the past b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | I found a non-hypergamic wife, so it is possible.I point that out all the time. And do you go on to argue that as you can point to occasional examples of this.... Anyone saying men in general are attracted to pretty faces are wrong ? (As you attempted to do above with Hypergamy, the female equivalent). And my take on that is that if you have to be a doctor, lawyer or other high status male in order to get a woman... she's probably not worth getting. Of course you “don’t have to be”. Just like women can have a face like a bag of spanners* and s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 03:27 PM |
| 2 | What exactly is stopping PPD from becoming a "Mod-rule" sub?It was explained to you then, but I’ll do it againhere if you want. You were using PPD posts and the comments and replies of our members as fodder for TRP discussions. Essentially using our sub and our members, without their knowledge, to build TRP posts which then discussed them and their views..... based on posts you’d setup to drive out the views you needed to support your own objectives. We asked you to stop doing this. You didn’t. So we put you on manual approval for posts. To circumvent th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 03:16 PM |
| 3 | What exactly is stopping PPD from becoming a "Mod-rule" sub?Yes, but those remaining posts are probably a few per day. We approve/remove about 10 posts a day. The 4-5 would be the ones that wern't an obvious decision. Not quite half of them. The judgement call ones might even be a slight majority. We don't have time for that many multiple-mod debates. And the mod on the spot needs to make the call to make the removal effective. If the OP accepts that, or calls us all cunts, then I don't see the problem. If he doesn't accept that (it's his post after all)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 10:34 PM |
| 3 | What exactly is stopping PPD from becoming a "Mod-rule" sub?I think people don't understand how much of it is just "Whoops, shit. That one got through" rather than changes in policy decisions, or subtle crafting of what is allowed or isn't. I think if you're seeing something thats against what you thought the rules were.... there is a 90% possibility it was a fuckup, and only a 10% possibility that we've changed our policy on that particular rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 10:22 PM |
| 5 | What exactly is stopping PPD from becoming a "Mod-rule" sub?You were not banned altogether though. We have no real problems with your comments. You were postbanned for a reason. The mod team as a whole participated in the decision to postban you, because you're a regular user and it needed a discussion. As far as I recall it was for a very good reason after repeated warnings to stop a certain behaviour were ignored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 10:20 PM |
| 2 | What exactly is stopping PPD from becoming a "Mod-rule" sub?You've got to remember that if an OP is not reported, it might often be a few hours till a mod sees it. I'd say we pick them pretty quickly in the mod queue and spam filter... but if they pass automod onto the front page and no-one reports it, we may not even notice it for a reasonably long period of time. There are quite a few posts that stay up simply because it was borderline anyway, and although we may have taken it down if we found it at 0 or 2 or 4 comments.... we're reluctant to take it d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 10:14 PM |
| 4 | What exactly is stopping PPD from becoming a "Mod-rule" sub?No, We're talking about things like "Is this post trolling, to the point where I think it triggers the anti-trolling rule ?". Some of our users are pretty trolly even with legitimate posts. Where is the line ? Or "Is this feminisim post related enough to sexual relationships to keep up, or is OP just throwing a few RP buzz-words into his anti-feminist rant ?" Where is the line ? How much is enough ? In any group of 10 people you might well have lots of different opinions of that. So we all mod w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 10:00 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is stopping PPD from becoming a "Mod-rule" sub?We don't manually approve every post. Every post (except those by brand new accounts) are up by default. And then, if it isn't in direct violation of the rules, we leave it up. We're talking about OPs here that are arguably within the rules, and arguably not within the rules. where different mods could have a difference of opinion about whether it should be up or down. Those are the ones where mods are using discretion. If the users disagrees they can appeal in modmail and get a mini-vote on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 09:11 PM |
| 3 | What exactly is stopping PPD from becoming a "Mod-rule" sub?Why not make it mandatory for the moderation team to evaluate posts before removing them, then? Because there are so many, and it's not very often there is more than 1 or two mods online at any given time. So, discussing and voting on it takes a lot of time. Generally when we do so, on an appeal... you're lucky to get a result in 8 hours. If we left every post up for 8 hours whilst we debated it, there is then little point on removing it later, people will be pissed off we cut-off any debate the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Are women hypergamy shamed in our society?Yes, they’re “Hypergamy shamed”. You see it here all the time and not just from Lewis (although the others make the same mistake as Lewis does). Basically, as far as I can see the shaming all stems from a single Misunderstanding/Misperception.... that women are consciously choosing to date those guys, for pecuniary reasons. They aren’t. Or, if they are, they’re true “gold diggers” of the type the “shaming” could be reasonably applied to. People have to remember this is an instinctive attraction … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 05:30 PM |
| 1 | What are the characteristics of rock stars that make them attractive to women?Perhaps. I still don’t think, evennon that scenario, female “stars” would be as highly desired as male “stars” are. Women are “quality over quantity” in a way men are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | What are the characteristics of rock stars that make them attractive to women?If mate choice copying worked for male genes... then men would also have the instincts to follow Rihanna around wetting themselves and screaming. They haven’t, so they don’t. We have our own issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Are women unwelcome in r/TheRedPill?OK, debate was probably the wrong word to use there. “The discussion of RP or sexual strategy” is a better substitution. You’re meant to do your debating of RP (in an antagonistic sense) here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | What are the characteristics of rock stars that make them attractive to women?OK, this is going to be a long reply as there is a lot to sort out here... Our biology works against our desire to have structure and society. No. Structure and society are an out growth of our biology. Society is essentiallly just “how we have agreed to collaborate in order to satisfy our instinctive desires”. This is exactly the wrong way round. Society doesn’t “subvert” my biological desire to put an axe in your head with “anti-murder laws”.... Society supports my biological desire to not hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 03:33 PM |
| 1 | What are the characteristics of rock stars that make them attractive to women?Not really. It’s our biology working for its own ends, in this case reproductive success. It’s only working against you if you’re on the wrong side of the way Biology works. It’s only “against you” in the same way gravity is against people who want to fly by flapping their arms. If you want to fly you have to find a way to do so that satisfies gravities constraints, probably with some kind of aircraft. Well, in the area of reproductive strategy these are the facts, like gravity, that you have to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 12:35 PM |
| 1 | I found a non-hypergamic wife, so it is possible.How do you explain the fact ugly women get dates despite the fact that men are attracted to pretty faces ? This isnt an either/or thing. Status is one of a number of attributes they assess, its just one that carries a lot of weight. I’d also suggest that you were probably also exhibiting signs of being an incipient high-status male early in his “status career”. Women have to be sensitive to those queues too, as very few men are high status in their teens and 20s. So someone like, say, a medical … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 11:23 AM |
| 2 | What are the characteristics of rock stars that make them attractive to women?OK, this is partly (as others have said) the fact that females (but not males) are attracted to status. Rock stars have a lot of status. However this is not the full explanation, there is something more. That something more is called “mate choice copying” by science and “pre-selection” by RP. Basically, women (but not men) have to assess a lot of non-obvious factors when finding out if a male is a good mate. Women want to select the best male. The hard way to do that is to find out all about him… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 11:06 AM |
| 3 | Do Feminists not realize women respond differently to sexual advances than men? Why do they hate pick up so much?Hi SavingMasculinity, Just FYI we only usually allow members to post 1 thread every 12 hours. This is to stop certain frequent flyers from spamming the front page. As this has already been up for a while and has drawn a debate I’ll leave it up on this occasion, but if we’d spotted it earlier it would have been removed. Don’t worry, you’re not “in trouble” just thought I’d make you aware of the rule lest you get your next OP removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 10:55 AM |
| 9 | Are women unwelcome in r/TheRedPill?Subscribers are welcome at TRP, but anyone who actively identifies as a woman are not... Because actively identifying as a woman is an attempt to use your gender to take a privileged position in the TRP debate. So if a girl joins as /u/SomeAccount and posts away like anyone else then she’s fine. Most people will just assume she’s a guy, in error, but that their problem. Her contributions will be assessed in the same way every other subs contributions are assessed. The moment she says “Well, actu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 10:47 AM |
| 1 | I found a non-hypergamic wife, so it is possible.That’s not comparing apples to apples. Female attraction to status is well sourced scientific result. One that, when measured, is found to be the single biggest discrepancy between men and women’s attraction (ie the attraction factor that varies the most between them... correlated at 0.6 for women and 0 for men). It is also (just behind physical looks) the 2nd biggest determinant for women in its own right. 0.6 is a huge correlation. It’s a big factor, in some measurements the overriding factor … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/19 10:13 AM |
| 1 | I found a non-hypergamic wife, so it is possible.But they're pretty much all hypergamic. Saying "a hypergamic woman is just not worth being with" is like saying "a guy attracted to pretty women is not worth being with". All it means is they're attracted to men with social status in a way you are to, say, symmetry or wasit-hip-ratio. There is no "conscious gold digging" about it. Anymore than you are consciously "health and youth digging" when you feel attracted to beautiful women with the right shape. Hypergamic women are perfectly fine. We no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/19 11:09 PM |
| -1 | I found a non-hypergamic wife, so it is possible.Look, Atlas proves that at least some women are hypogamic, at least in the status sense. That doesn’t mean that you’re playing the odds right atttempting to go out and find hypogamic women. There just aren’t an awful lot of them, at least in the RMP. Anyone giving up the TRP game to attempt this route is not necessarily going to fail. He’s just going to set himself up to have a very high chance of failure. Sometimes the 50:1 horse comes in. That doesn’t mean that if youre trying to get a positiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/19 02:10 PM |
| 1 | How to get over a broken heart?Ok, we debate the difference between two views of sexuality. One, RP, is based on the red pill view of sexuality proposed by (among other places) the r/theredpill sub. The other, BP, is a more standard view of sexuality and relationships. If your personal experience highlights a difference between those views we could debate, or shows support for one view or the other, then that could be content appropriate for our sub. For an example, asking RP members to describe how RP may explain the causes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/19 01:41 PM |
| 1 | “Wage gap” and criteria preferenceHi OP, This got stuck in our spam filter. I’ve approved it, but as itsso old now you may want to delete and resubmit otherwise it’ll be appearing halfway down our front page. If you do so PM me and I’ll approve again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/19 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Those of you who think female empowerment is the worst thing to happen: are you prepared to be a patriarch?Be Civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/19 10:12 AM |
| 1 | How to get over a broken heart?Hi new throwaway account, This OP got stuck in our spam filter. I’m not going to hook it out as it strikes me as not altogether suitable for our sub. It looks to me more appropriate for r/relationships or r/relationships_advice . I don’t think you’d likely get the sympathy you desire here, we’re a bit more rough and tumble than that. If you’d like to turn this into a post more related to RP/BP we’d probably accept, but as it is we’re going to decline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/19 10:09 AM |
| 9 | Single men are more attractive to women than married men (especially men married for a long time)OK, I’ll change your view. At least for certain values of that view. To make this easy let’s setup an example of identical twin men, both of whom are identical in every way, except one is married. Would we expect women to prefer the married man, to find him more attractive than his single twin ? Well, with one caveat... yes we would. That caveat is that his wife has to be attractive. If she is “mate choice copying” kicks in. What RP calls pre-selection. This is where the female rates a male as m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/19 01:15 PM |
| 1 | How can men also hit the wall if they keep gaining desirability till 50, according to studies?Again, because the average age of dating couples is just that, an average. We were talking about the age difference women are prepared date over. This is much larger than the average dating age difference. I’m not claiming 8-10 years is the “average” dating difference. Look, suppose we have a study showing women are happy to date guys between 5 foot and 7 foot tall. Then TRP could tell the 5 footers and the 7 footers that women are quite prepared to date them, right ? Then some Bloop, thinking t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/19 10:51 AM |
| 0 | How can men also hit the wall if they keep gaining desirability till 50, according to studies?That’s the age difference for married couples. That’s not the same as the age difference women are prepared to date accross for two reasons. 1) Marriages are more serious, obviously and 2) Marriage spreads are a result of the compromise between men and women’s preferences... whereas the age difference women would date isn’t a compromise. The data I used for women’s preferences in dating is in this link https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Sascha_Schwarz2/publication/230783507_Sex_and_Age_Differe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 04:47 PM |
| 1 | How can men also hit the wall if they keep gaining desirability till 50, according to studies?It’s a reverse of the female wall issue, caused by the fact that the men like younger women. So whilst a 50 yo male might be more attractive to same age females, by that age he’s lost a lot of appeal with the younger, pre menopause, women that he is interested in sexually. Women date generally up about 10 years from their own age. So... By the time he’s 50 he’s aged out of the 30-40 girls (and way out of the 20-30 girls). It’s still possible, but there is now a big barrier that wasn’t there 5-10… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Why does TRP act like happy marriages aren't a thing?On every thread there (should) be a top level comment from our Automod, you must have seen it on many threads. Here is the one for this thread Any comments you want to make that are inappropriate to a Q4RP, Q4W or CMV thread you can make as a reply to that comment. Circlejerking is also allowed under that comment. That way the threads get the top level responses from the appropriate side, gender, or view (here from RP posters, or those presenting an RP view)... but everyone else still has a plac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Would you want to surpass 100 sexual partners? (IRL Example)Be Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Why does TRP act like happy marriages aren't a thing?Sorry Wub, this is a Q4RP and all top level replies must be from a red flair or present an RP POV so I've removed this comment. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 10:45 PM |
| 4 | Why do y’all ask for women’s opinions/experiences and then not believe us?No it wouldn't. Not if you answered civilly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/18 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Lets settle this9 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/18 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Should little to no reciprocity in physical touch (but not rejection) be taken as consent?This is a Q4Women, so all top level answers must come from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/18 08:55 PM |
| 2 | "The Wall" does not exist and is merely a desperate form of cope/revenge fantasyBe civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/18 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Off Topic Thread: Merry Christmas (24 December 2018)That was very nearly the title of our OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/18 09:37 AM |
| 3 | Off Topic Thread: Merry Christmas (24 December 2018)I wanted something that reflected basic shamanistic animism, and there are a million different versions... but the sun being eaten and reborn is a common motif. As I wasn't going with any particular one, but needed an animal, I lifted a Great Sky Goat from some half-remembered Douglas Adams. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/18 09:00 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel if you found out that your SO had significantly more sex with their ex than they do with you?Be civil. It’s Christmas FFS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/18 09:36 AM |
| 0 | Men on a whole are more easily manipulated by women than vice versa.Please make a small edit in your post in order to summon automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/18 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is a good reason why men should get married in today's times?Be civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/18 08:35 PM |
| 1 | What do we do with weak men?No advocating suicide. I've had to remove this comment on that basis. Given what you said, please seek help from a professional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/18 08:34 PM |
| – | Why feminism destroys civilization.No link drops. So straight away I've removed it for that reason. Before you repost, and go to the trouble to add commentary and a discussion to get around that rule... it's worth noting that we don't allow feminism threads either (unless it's directly related to relationships/sex/dating/men)... and we don't allow incel content either. So you're probably going to have to give up and go post somewhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/18 12:26 AM |
| 9 | For those of you who argue N count doesn't matter, why can't your wife/gf have sex with other people?Hi enzo, We have a rule of only one OP per 12 hours. It's mainly to stop some frequent fliers from spamming the front page, as we always have one or two of those. This just crept over the line by a few minutes, so you're in the clear and I'm going to let it through the spam filter. Just wanted to make you aware of the rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 08:39 PM |
| 0 | Psychopathy and being Red pillI don't think I'm committing the just world fallacy here. People who do terrible things routinely, easily, get known by the other humans around them for doing terrible things. Those humans react out of self preservation, and I don't think the psycopaths quality of life goes up as a result. In addition, we as a society are about the best there has ever been at designating a whole lot of terrible things as illegal, and routinely work out who did illegal things and put them behind bars. I think the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDReally? Downvoting my posts, then reporting them to the mod queue ? They're still in there, because we don't mod our own comments, so I've left them for other mods to approve/remove but seriously ? The report button is there for people who break the site rules, not as a super-downvote button. We'd appreciate it if you'd use it to report rule breaks, not just anyone who's replies you don't like. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 07:19 PM |
| 1 | what is your take on the existence of /r/niceguys ?Hi newbie, This post got stuck in our spam filter as you're new to us. I'm not going to hoik it out of there as we usually require a little more effort in OPs than this. This looks like a low effort shitpost to me. We're a debate sub and so we'd prefer to have OPs that at least take some time and a few paragraphs to outline a point and/or to offer some commentary to help start the debate. You're welcome to try again if you want to put a little more effort into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 07:15 PM |
| 4 | Q4ALL: In your opinion, what are the most insightful/important/useful PPD threads of all time, and why?I still haven't seen it being used that way. It's a strawman argument that shows that TRPers are unwilling to have a honest discussion Here it is being used in that way.... it used to be the top result for "male feminist toxic masculinity" which is how I found it for one of your old threads (it's since been knocked off that slot)... The article starts... https://slate.com/human-interest/2017/11/men-arent-monsters-the-problem-is-toxic-masculinity.html While bent over locking up my bike in Chicago… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: In your opinion, what are the most insightful/important/useful PPD threads of all time, and why?Yeah, if anything the mystery pics thread seemed to show a lot of both guys and girls hotter than I expected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 05:29 PM |
| 0 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDYes it does. It doesn’t matter what method they choose to make it seem tailored to you. MBTI descriptions are just as general as astrology descriptions, and are just as universal experiences. No it doesn't. Look... This is from INFP... Mediators are private, reserved and self-conscious. This makes them notoriously difficult to really get to know, and their need for these qualities contributes to the guilt they often feel for not giving more of themselves to those they care about. This is the exa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 05:09 PM |
| 12 | Lover vs. Provider is REALIt's pre-selection. What psychologists call "mate choice copying" (thats the term you want to google if you want to see the scientific support here). Women want to select the best male. The hard way to do that is to find out all about him, internally weigh all his attributes, and make a judgement (which could be wrong). The easy way to do that is to watch and see who the males are that all the other women want. By doing so you're essentially crowdsourcing the judgement of his attributes (and, on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDI was trying to get at "a reason to believe something is true". "proof" would seem to work for that as well as "evidence", as far as I can see I was using it correctly. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Proof_(truth) A proof is sufficient evidence or a sufficient argument for the truth of a proposition.[1][2][3][4] [...] The concept applies in a variety of disciplines,[5] with both the nature of the evidence or justification and the criteria for sufficiency being area-dependent. In the area of oral … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Psychopathy and being Red pillAh, but why would that make your life easier. You'd be doing terrible things "without caring", but that doesn't mean "without consequences". People who habitually go around doing terrible things generally have complicated and difficult lives. Society has a habit of inflicting consequences on them, because it doesn't like teriible things being done to it with impunity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 01:52 PM |
| 8 | Q4ALL: In your opinion, what are the most insightful/important/useful PPD threads of all time, and why?I'm kinda partial to this one... https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3j6bz4/deconstructing_a_few_manosphere_myths_man_the/ It's a post by Cuitler, one of the old mod team. It directly takes on one of the RP basics in so far as it addresses the human evolutionary environment and how this did (or did not) shape male and female psychology. Cuitlers OP takes a very typical BP view, very well presented. But within the thread I directly reply as the first top level answer and give the R… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4TRP: What’s your opinion on female led relationships?Hi there, This was flagged as a Q4RP, meaning top-level answers have to come from a red flair or a non-aligned poster honestly attempting to represent an RP POV. Unfortunately, this is not an RP POV. As a result I've had to remove this comment, however you're welcome to re-post it under automod if you wish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 12:29 PM |
| 0 | Q4TRP: What’s your opinion on female led relationships?Hi there, This was flagged as a Q4RP, meaning top-level answers have to come from a red flair or a non-aligned poster honestly attempting to represent an RP POV. As a result I've had to remove this comment, however you're welcome to re-post it under automod if you wish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDYou do realize, this means it's exactly as valid as astrology? Right? Completely worthless. No.... Look... "Journalism isn't science" and "Trials aren't science". Are you going to tell me now that whats reported in the Newspapers and the decisions Juries come to are "no more valid than astrology" ? There are means of ascertaining facts that are valid, but don't rise to the level of being scientific because they don't use the (very stringent) scientific method. Or that's a red herring of a discla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDNo, because you're clearly a bad faith poster who is going so far as to deliberately misrepresent things I clearly said in OP.... claiming I said the opposite... to support your case. I don't think I'm going to get anything in good faith out of you. People who outright lie in comments, are generally not people you can trust to do the things they say they've done, and to give honest views of the results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDMBTI is a personality test. The set "MBTI" is included within the superset "Personality tests". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDIf I waste time on that and it doesn't actually describe me, will you actually admit this is nonsense? If not, why should I bother? Because YOU called out that one of the reasons YOU thought the test was bad was that you only got to answer binary questions. If that was the real reason, you should be happy to receive a more normal MBTI test that offers you the ability to answer on a scale, if your mind wasn't already made up before you started and so were just looking for reasons to reach your pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDWell, that was me just basically summarising. But if you want a real example... Here is something from the INFP description Mediators are private, reserved and self-conscious. This makes them notoriously difficult to really get to know, and their need for these qualities contributes to the guilt they often feel for not giving more of themselves to those they care about. And here is the equivalent from the ESTJ All these qualities pull together to make a natural group leader in Entrepreneurs. Thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 10:49 AM |
| 2 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDNo Greasy Pole does NOT call it scientific anywhere in the OP. In fact I was very clear to say the exact opposite (multiple times)... This is not scientific and Note, this is still not "scientific". and Until there is another system that is better backed scientifically It seems like your issue isn't MBTI so much as reading comprehension. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDJust did that test. Got a description of me that's 100% positive. No flaws whatsoever. Except for maybe being too nice, and not taking enough credit for myself. Which is sure as shit not a problem for me. Yes, and ? I'm an asshole. Yes, and ? It doesn't distinguish between "good" and "evil". It's a personality categorisation schema. It didn't ask you any questions like "Rate how much you enjoy kicking cats from 1-5" did it ? It doesn't cut reality in that way. It sounds to me like you need a psy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 10:08 AM |
| 2 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDSo when it tells an introvert "you like really loud parties and are most happy as the centre of attention" the introverts just kinda go "Yeah, thats me".... and when it tells the extroverts "you like curling up qith a good book all alone" they say "yup, thats got ME nailed" ? When it tells the F types "you're cooly analytical and rarely, if ever, let your emotions guide your decisions" they all just agree with that.... ans when it tells the T types "you go with your gut feeling, and believe that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 10:01 AM |
| 0 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDThe reason they are not that different is they exploit the Barnum effect whereby when you tell someone a “reading” is personally tailored to them, they perceive it to be very accurate. That is how horoscopes operate. That is not how the MBTI operates. The MBTI has access to 50 answers concerning personality questions. They don't need to "guess" and give you a "cold reading" that anyone can think would apply to them, your "Barnum Effect". Assuming they both work the same way, that they are equiva… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 08:58 AM |
| 0 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?Be Civil. Other members aren't the topic here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDIf it's not scientific it's not anymore reliable than a horoscope. Are journalists scientific ? Are lawyers scientific ? Are news pages more reliable than horoscopes in ascertaining facts ? Are trials more reliable than horoscopes in ascertaining facts ? There are other ways of knowing things that do not use the scientific method, but are still far more reliable than horoscopes. If you claim it is more accurate, prove it. More accurate than horoscopes in ascertaining personality ? Sure. My OP is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDBut the categories in mbti claim to say something insightful about you beyond what your answers already say... That part is bullshit. And without that, it's just a description of your survey answers. Which is useless. Why is that part bullshit ? Look, suppose you were deciding what subjects to study at university. So I did you a little test on a dozen subjects and graded them. All I'm working with is the answers you gave me, what in theory you already know. Yet the result that "You got 10/10 in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDActually, thats fair play. It didn't even occur to me that someone reading PPD wouldn't know what MBTI was. But, if I think about it, I wouldn't have had a clue myself until at least a few months after joining PPD. I just default assumed all readers would know what it was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDLook, I do not think people mean it with 100% seriousness that they believe astrology is completely comparable to MTBI, just that they are equally not accurate enough to work with. You want me to link you to the comments in the thread that spawned this one ? https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/a8d0eu/sexiest_male_mbti_type_voted_as_isfp_sexiest/ecbh151/ https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/a8d0eu/sexiest_male_mbti_type_voted_as_isfp_sexiest/ec9o9in/ https://old.reddi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Psychopathy and being Red pillRP, 1.9 on Primary and 2.5 on Secondary. I can see how RPs view of sexual relationships would definitely seem attractive to people on the higher end of these scales. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDOK, but that wasn't the point. It was purely an example. Think of any classification into X and non-X you personally agree is valid for people. You at least agree that some type of classification is valid. Even if it's only "young" and "old" or "male" and "female" or "dead" and "alive". Great, so you have a way of classifying humans. Now. Saying that you do so does NOT mean you now have to accept every possible means of classifying humans that humanity has come up with is valid, do you ? Right. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDI'm aware of the Big 5.... and I'm not disputing that it's more accurate. But it's not any real use to us round here, because you can't use it to communicate about personality with someone. If Big 5 came with 25 categories. Did it the same way as MBTIs 16 categories drawn from their 4 traits. Then described those categories and used an easy shorthand for doing so..... then it would probably be less accurate, but much more useful around here as a result. If Iasked you now to describe your persona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDThats not exactly relevant to the question at hand here, but yes. For example, your MBTI tells you whether you are an extrovert or an introvert. Thats testable using other scientific tests for introversion/extraversion and MBTI assigns those personality traits consistently with how other scientific tests assign the same trait. But the question here isn't "Is MBTI scientific?" or even "Is MBTI a reliable personality test actually worth using?". It's "Is MBTI better at assessing personality than H… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 09:36 PM |
| 5 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDMBTI is not particularly vague bullshit. Not the way horoscopes are. You're still making the same mistake, assuming at the start they're the same thing. That MBTI works through the same mechanism as astrology (say some vague bullshit in all 12 categories that everyone can think applies to them, then wait for peoples natural mental biases to do their magic). That is how astrology does it. You can give anyone an astrological forecast from any of the 12 signs, and they'll say it applies to them. Be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDOh OK, Well, if you've got a reasonably accurate representation of your personality this has lots of uses for you right from the start. It can point out understandings and patterns of behaviour you were unaware of. Strengths and Weaknesses and how you can take advantage of the former, and compensate for the latter. If you combine it with similarly reasonable assessments of others personalities... you can understand better why you perhaps are having difficulty understanding or communicating about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 09:18 PM |
| 4 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDWhen youre born is what a natal chart is based off of whether you were natural, induced, pre term whatever. It doesn't get away from the fact that it's setting up it's prediction of your personality based on the timing of a single event, probably many decades in your past, which is not related to personality in any way. For the purposes of personality you may as well plug in a random number generator... and assign your moon, planet situation, star sign, and so your personality, based on what num… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 09:09 PM |
| 6 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDThis just means you don’t fully understand astrology, the 12 signs you’re discussing are just Sun signs, there’s also your moon and your sun. You have signs in every planet through to Pluto. You also have houses. And if you get your natal chart you can see conjunctions between planets at the time your were born, what sign those planets conjunct in and at what degree and how that effects you. It’s nearly impossible for two people to have the exact same natal chart making astrology much more indiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDYes, But those women were people who had spent about 20 years studying human personality classification and publishing articles on it, and went on to create a personality test based on that knowledge, and using the system of human personality put together by an esteemed psychologist (Jung). That test then got refined further over about another 40 years by other researchers and psychologists, improving it incrementally into the Myers-Briggs test you see today. That's a long way from choosing just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 07:50 PM |
| 5 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDBecause it classifies people solely on their answers to questions about their personality, and so therefore reveals some things about their personality by its classification.... wheras astrology classifies you according to your DOB and so only reveals roughly where in the year you were born. I covered this in OP. If I ask you questions on sports, and classify you according to your answers, I reveal more about your sport preference than if I classify your sports preferences by your DOB. Thats tru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 07:31 PM |
| 5 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDAstrology is useful because it gives people a useful shorthand for discussing something as complex as personality. Astrology does not do this. Because it assigns you randomly to a personality. The fault with astrology is NOT that it classifies people.... it's that it classifies them via a mechanism that imparts no useful information. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDThose examples you listed work because of evidence, since there usually isn’t sufficient proof. Proof is generally restricted to mathematics and other hard sciences. Yes, but nevertheless there are certain levels of factual claim that are useful and which everyone uses which are not scientifically derived. Those facts aren't "pseudo-science" just because they aren't scientifically derived. They're still facts, and valid facts at that. Pseudo-science does NOT mean "anything that is not science". … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDHaha, no you asserted MBTI is some useful tool that is supposed to make sense in reality Yes, just as the TGPSI in the OP would in some sense reflect reality too.... or at least would easily do so enough to beat the sport-o-scope hands down. It's hilarious you're trying to shift the goalpost so hard. No, the goalposts are where they started. "MBTI is better than horoscopes". I've added more stuff to this since, "MBTI is not a cold reading". But the original goalposts are in exactly the same plac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 06:48 PM |
| 9 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDThe problem with these tests is that anyone with half a brain can figure out how their responses are going to affect the result, and so people will answer in a way that best describes how they see themselves (which may or may not be close to who they actually are), and of course, they will then get a result that supports this image they have of themselves. Which is why I caveated by OP with "as long as you answer the questions honestly" above. Obviously, any test in which any human refuses to ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDYou asked for proof of my assertion. Thats how this whole thing started. This would be proof of my assertion (that MBTI is better than horoscopes) and also proof of the second assertion I made lower down (MBTI is not a cold reading). Now having been offered what you originally demanded.... you're now backing off and saying you don't care to see the proof. Fine. You could at least have the decency to concede you're backing off because you now agree (even though you think MBTI is stupid) it is sti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDIn your OP you made it sound like anyone pointing out that MBTI is pseudoscience doesn’t know what they’re talking about, but now it seems like you concede that it really is pseudoscience >_> Then you failed to read my OP. My Op was making a case against a particular argument that appears multiple times every single instance in which we discuss MBTI. "MBTI is no different to horoscopes". It was narrowly focussed on that argument. But....If you want... I'll also add that whilst MBTI is not scient… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDNo. Have a look at what I said. I offered a single blind test to "prove" that horoscopes work better than MBTI. One in which neither of us would have to do an MBTI test. Where I simply presented you horoscopes, and you guessed which were for your sign.... and you simply presented me MBTI wording, and I guessed which were ENTP and which were not. Doing so would show, quite clearly, that MBTI doesn't cold read in the same way horoscopes do. I'd be able to distinguish (albeit not perfectly) which p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDYou try buying a ticket for an Australia-England, India-England or Pakistan-England test match or ODI. Lords is a 30,000 capacity stadium and The Oval is 25,000 and they're generally sold out all summer long for international matches (and particularly the matchups above). I've only succeeded in getting tickets through the ballot a couple of times. The Indian stadiums are typically about 50,000 capacity and get similarly sold out. There are a lot more than 2 of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 06:06 PM |
| 9 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDWell, with one qualification, yes. So long as the "Harry Potter themed buzzfeed quiz" actually asked people questions relevant to their personality, and the 4 houses it sorted into were put forward as representing some aspect of personality.... then IT TOO would be better than horoscopes at categorising by personality. Not a lot better, but still demonstratably better. MBTI would still beat the Harry Potter quiz on that score. But they'd both be beating horoscopes (so long as the caveat above wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDBecause the OP wasn't an attempt to explain MBTI. It was just narrowly focussed on a particular argument that always comes up, and needs to be solidly batted back down again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDOK, But....again... we're not looking for a perfect split here. We are looking for something better than horoscopes. Even self-administered MBTI is better than horoscopes by a long way, although I'd concede a professionally administered MBTI would be better even than that. Shit, even the "made up on the spot" self-administered TGPSI would beat the sport-o-scope. Thats the point. Better tests may beat it by a larger margin, but thats largely irrelevant to the original point... that people saying … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDI wasn't offering that. That was simply enough to satisfy me. I am aware of what a cold reading is, and one of the first things I did with MBTI was to check to see if I could detect the fact it was cold reading. It was enough for me that I could clearly see it wasn't doing that. That plus some other things I did to muck around with it and test it out reassured me that whatever it was doing it wasn't cold reading in the way horoscopes were. However, here ... and especially for you.... I'm offerin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDI probably would :) Lets see.... from the 5 q's I posted a "cricket" bucket answer would have to be... Bat and Ball. High Scoring Limited number of subs Summer sport Over 100 minutes. Thats already getting pretty close to cricket and has ruled out dozens of other sports already, including baseball (low scoring, subs...which include relief pitchers). I'm sure with another 45 questions we could indisputably split out the cricket fans from the rest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPD<eyeroll> Well if you can't muster a valid rationale, even when invited to do so.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDNope. It's bs and smart people know it. Well, I'm not defending (yet) it "not being BS". I'm defending it "being better than horoscopes". The people who say it isn't are just wrong and are, in fact, the bullshitters here (defining bullshitters the Penn and Teller way as... people who say something is true without having any rationale/facts backing up that position as being true). And if it is not then I ask those same women who are in live with mbti types, why they are ok with generalizing peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDNo they didn't. There's no such thing as expertise in human personalities. Um, thats just provably false. I can demonstrate using purely empirical results that there are some humans who have a level of expertise in human personalities that allows them to design tests that would accurately reveal personalities. Thats trivial. You realize MBTI is literally just as valid as if you made up your own question and traits? Well first.... I didn't need to prove that to prove OP, the challenge you origina… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDI wasn't going to self-administer a test. I was going to single-blind a test for you (on horoscopes).... and you single-blind one for me (on MBTI). Then it'd be a single blind test. [Edit: This is referring to a comment I made to Scatre below, I mistakenly read this reply as coming from Scartre - TGP] We could even double-blind it if we roped in a collaborator to select the paragraphs. It still wouldn't be valid scientifically due to the low-N.... but it might easily be enough for you to concede… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 05:11 PM |
| 6 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDYeah, I think this part of that article is the big underrated factor here... There are personality tests that are more scientific than the MBTI. True. The MBTI is an old instrument, its earliest roots dating back almost a century, namely to C.G. Jung’s typology. The MBTI was developed prior to most modern means of validating personality tests and so it is not surprising that the MBTI does not pass such validation with flying colors. In principle this should mean that the stage is wide open for a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDLol, you realize anyone could make up a quiz to tell u "categories" to your personality, right? YES, thats more or less what MBTI does. Doing so... across 50 questions related to personality.... would (whatever questions you selected) do a LOT better than the random sorting that horoscopes do. I think MBTI is slightly better than this, in that the Q's aren't just randomly selected and the people chosing them had some expertise in human personalities, so they'd do better than 50 random personalit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 05:01 PM |
| 6 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDNo, in so far as horoscopes have to be a cold reading. As they're assigning you randomly... then you should be able to push any of todays 12 horoscopes in front of an aficionado, tell them thats "their" horoscope for the day, and they will agree it describes them almost all the time. You only reveal later that this was the Leo horoscope and they are a Virgo. Horoscopes fail this test. My explanation above is a description of MBTI not failing that particular test. Fully 14 of the 16 sound nothing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDA horoscope divides people into 12 buckets randomly with a single piece of information (date of birth) that is not corrrelated with personality. An MBTI divides people into 16 buckets non-randomly based on multiple pieces of information, all of which are chosen to correlate with some aspect of your personality. It would actually be shocking if MBTI didn't do a better job. Just as it's be shocking if the TGPSI didn't do a better job than a Sport-O-Scope ... and for the same reason... one divides … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDNo, I'm sure you can do so without being uncivil. Give it a go... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDOh, that. Sure. Thats easy. I outlined very clearly several times in OP that it was not scientific. The definition of pseudo-Science is... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pseudoscience Pseudoscience consists of statements, beliefs, or practices that are claimed to be both scientific and factual, but are incompatible with the scientific method.[1][Note 1] In this presentation of it, I was clear to claim several times it was not scientific ... and so by extension not based on the scientific method. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDWell, if you can't answer the question.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:25 PM |
| 5 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDThen both buckets will probably impart some useful information about you that the other 14 buckets don't. I have this issue in that I'm only just over the extroversion line, whilst being extreme for the other 3 MBTI traits. So I'm very close to being in the INTP bucket, whilst I consistently come out (just) as an ENTP. I think it's working correctly in doing that as the ENTP bucket does appear to describe me better than INTP (and particularly my online behaviour). However, it's also extremely cl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDProve what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Why MBTI is not equivalent to horoscopes and why MBTI is relevant to PPDWhy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 04:21 PM |
| 1 | The Purpose of MarriageOK. First, you're not being civil to our other members. Second, you're not engaging in good faith on your own CMV thread... where you are expected to be open to changing your view. We're not a playground for incels to yell at the normies, and we expect you to abide by our rules. This is a warning. Cut it out. Carry on like this and you'll be banned here too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 11:53 AM |
| 2 | Sexiest male MBTI type voted as ISFP, sexiest female type voted as ESTP. What do you think this says about our expectations of each gender?Be Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/18 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Men short change themselves by dating women in their 30's?Reapproved. It was reported for not being appropriate to a CMV, I didn’t catch that it was not, in fact, a CMV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/18 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Men short change themselves by dating women in their 30's?I reapproved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/18 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Men short change themselves by dating women in their 30's?Top level answers in a CMV must attempt to change OPs view. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/18 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Men short change themselves by dating women in their 30's?Be Civil. Think of it as a mini-life goal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/18 01:19 PM |
| – | What do critics mean when they say, "feminism infantilizes women"?Hi there, This seems to be a little off-topic to us (we only usually accept feminism posts when they are related to relationships) and also a low effort post as well. So, I've removed it. You're welcome to try again with a question that relates feminism to relationships more generally, providing you put a bit of effort into the text of the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/18 12:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: While men do cheat, a man would be far less likely than a woman to try to justify their cheating in such a shameless, selfish, pathetic manner as below ("should have been more empathetic towards her internal conflicts and supported her through her journey")This is a CMV thread. Top level answers must attempt to change OPs view. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/18 12:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: While men do cheat, a man would be far less likely than a woman to try to justify their cheating in such a shameless, selfish, pathetic manner as below ("should have been more empathetic towards her internal conflicts and supported her through her journey")This is a CMV thread. Top level answers must attempt to change OPs view. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/18 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (16 December 2018)Have a goal. It doesn't even matter what it is. Actively work towards achieving the goal. Doing so will make you happier than you are now. The working towards it, not necessarily the achieving it. Humans have to be working towards something, seeing that XP bar fill up, and anticipating the next level. Thats why games use that mechanic. People who are doing that in their RL are happier, and those that select actually useful goals (and not just random ones) also get even happier still. When the re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/18 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What legislative changes would you like to see implemented in the US?One upping the Aussie's... In the UK there is 2 weeks standard paid leave for both maternty, and paternity (2 weeks each, no question). Then on top of that the couple are entitled to another 50 weeks between them, to be split between them as they see fit, of which 13 weeks are full90% pay, 24 weeks are only statutory maternity/paternity pay (which is only about $200 a week) and the last 13 weeks you're entitled to take unpaid. You just can't use some, then go back, then use some... either the mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/18 09:54 PM |
| 1 | There are far too many weird rules around here.Sorry, was just reading through this old-ish mod thread. You said... We don't really ban people permanently around here ... we do. I'd say we're running at about 2 a week right now, to be fair. Thats a lot of people banned over a year or so. We're very reluctant to ban long term members permanently, if you've shown value over time then we tend to temp ban if you have a bad night and are seriously uncivil or something, but even then perm bans to long termers happen too. We'd want to do a serious … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/18 09:44 PM |
| – | Q4all: what's worse for an LTR, a male virgin or a female slut? Assume neither are young or successful and both have normal physical attractiveness.As you're new to us this got stuck in our spam filter. I'm not going to hoik it out, as it's clearly a low effort trolly shitpost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/18 03:50 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: What legislative changes would you like to see implemented in the US?This makes President Coulter sad. :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/18 03:01 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you rather your wife cheat on you, or file for divorce?Isn’t this rather like asking “Would you prefer your child to be murdered by a stranger or do it yourself?”. I think most people’s reply would be “I’d prefer neither, thanks”. Where is the option for her managing to rekindle interest in the relationship ? Perhaps putting others before herself to do so ? Why is it “I’m going to get what I want whichever way way it takes to get it. Me getting what I want in this particular instant is non-negotiable. So I’m offering you the choice about how your ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: How do you feel about TRP reducing women down to math problems?Depends what you mean by nerd I guess. If your definition of nerd is someone who is primarily motivated by intellectual pursuits, or did well academically, or took a great interest things like books over things like sports then yeah. However, if you also have to be socially unsuccessful and/or unattractive and/or a “straight arrow” or “square” to be qualify as a nerd under your definition... then no. I ran with the druggie crowd in school and generally had a fairly successful social/sexual young… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 04:06 PM |
| 6 | Schopenhauer's "On Women"I think RP were already aware of this. IIRC, if you follow the links back from the "Women are Children" sidebar link, and follow the link that article links, etc.... you end up more or less here. This is the kind of ur-reference for that particular RP position. Personally, I'm not all that inclined to believe Schopenhauer on women.... because IIRC he had a very bad time of it with them, was never very successful, and got into a couple of bouts of major depression over women he fell head over hee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 03:34 PM |
| 8 | What gender differences could be eliminated through socializations?OK, So... this is a complicated question. A lot of these differences in behaviour are instinctive/genetic. However, that doesn't mean they are immutable. Genes develop behaviours only by "bouncing off the environment". In scientific terminology.... The Phenotype is a result of the Genotype and Environment. This means it's unlikely that you'd be able to change the underlying genetic drives.... but they can be diverted to produce different cultural results by that culture. Take motherhood instinct… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 11:06 AM |
| 12 | Q4W: How do you feel about TRP reducing women down to math problems?I think the issue here is your misunderstanding of TRP and human behaviour more generally. Just because you can not patterns in human behaviour (and in this case that they are different by sex) that doesn't mean you've turned it into a math problem, or them into a vending machine that makes certain behaviour come out. Look. If I told you "If you go punch a random man in the face, it's likely he'll punch you back".... That doesn't mean I've reduced male-male interaction to a math problem..... or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Congratulations, you were born with a womb! What privileges do you think women should have that men shouldn't?I've suggested TWICE how to fix the title (once here and once on modmail with the same suggestion). Basically, the question is fine.... the unnecessary troll that precedes it is the problem. If you're unable to see what the difference is because of some kind of english language text blindness then just C&P the title I gave you into your new OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Congratulations, you were born with a womb! What privileges do you think women should have that men shouldn't?Well then I cannot ever hope to know what's trolling on PPD if it's just a judgement call. Nor can I ever hope to reliably post in a manner that mods think is less trolly. No, you can hope to stay on the right side of it easily.... Don't post needlessly inflammatory titles. Don't post a thread and announce your intention not to really participate, just to read and view the shit stirred for your own entertainment. If you do both, you'll not fall afoul of the anti-trolling rule regardless of mod j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Congratulations, you were born with a womb! What privileges do you think women should have that men shouldn't?Your title was needlessly inflamatory and trolly. You also announced your intention to not really participate in your own thread. Trolling is always a mod judgement call, and between those two things you were on the wrong line of it as far as I can see. If you posted the same question in a less trolly manner likely to engender a reasonable debate I'd have allowed it. If you want to appeal come to modmail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 10:15 AM |
| – | Q4W: Congratulations, you were born with a womb! What privileges do you think women should have that men shouldn't?Removed for trolling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 09:47 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of Rihanna’s tweet regarding menWe don't care. It's a sub rule. Be civil or face a ban. If you have a genuine conscientious objection to being civil... go comment somewhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Is it true that women can't tell when they're flirting? Naivety or plausible deniability? Ignorance or malice?No. The problem is the intent of that last sentence to be uncivil, not that you "used a naughty word". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Is it true that women can't tell when they're flirting? Naivety or plausible deniability? Ignorance or malice?Be Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 08:57 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of Rihanna’s tweet regarding menBe Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 08:55 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of Rihanna’s tweet regarding menSorry Goat, Q4M. This has to go under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/18 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Who hates men more? Feminists or Red Pillers?Well, that might be a good reason why modern women wouldn't support any group called something like "Lets reimpose pre-60's social attitudes" either. Even if someone made a case they should do so because that group "hates them less" than modern feminism. This was about what appeals more to/is more accommodating of modern men ... RP or modern feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Is it true that women can't tell when they're flirting? Naivety or plausible deniability? Ignorance or malice?This was reported for being in bad faith. I have read it as the commenter answering the title posted, without reading the post. As such, I don't think it's bad faith. He gave his view on the questions in the title. So it hasn't been removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?All women are attracted to good looking men period. I dont understand this narrative that looks dont matter. That’s not my narrative here. Saying women are attracted to status does not mean they aren’t attracted to other things. Women are attracted to lots of things, some of them physical attributes. However status is a thing women are attracted to that men are not. When women are seeking the best possible mate in an imperfect world they have to trade off between the various different attractors… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 07:42 PM |
| – | whats the relationship between redpill and altright?Hi newbie, Because you’re new to us this OP got stuck in our spam filter. I’m not going to hoik it out, because it looks like a low effort shitpost to me. You’re welcome to try again and put more effort into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Could this research help to explain the RP and BP divide: Assortative mating in politics.Well I thought I’d covered that in an uncharacteristically succinct fashion in the first sentence I'm a red flair. Of course my posts and comments come from a red pill POV. I wasn’t “throwing myself” under the bus. I was also careful to repeatedly draw the distinction between personal opinions and POV with “bias” both for me and for BiggerD. Instead you counted up biggerD’s posts and trotted that out as if it means something in relation to this issue. It was relevant in so far as she clearly tho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Could this research help to explain the RP and BP divide: Assortative mating in politics.What joke? Your comment is implying that red pill mods don't post from a RP POV as compared to BP mods, or as frequently. No. I was trying to let Rain know without embarrassing her.... that the "perceived bias" she has seen in response to RP mods posts has been non-existent and provable so (despite her seeming to think we've made lots of posts, enough for her to spot the pattern). I can tell you it's non-existent because... none of the RP mods have made an OP (other than a mod post, or a purge w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Could this research help to explain the RP and BP divide: Assortative mating in politics.The frequency of your postings has nothing to do with the content of the ones you do post. And you throwing shade at the number of posts that BiggerD has made is incredibly weird because there’s no rule against mods making posts Not really. Your post was trying to call out the “bias” of the mods, talking about when they post as members despite being mods. It’s telling that you were talking about mods who never post.... while ignoring the mod who posts more than all the other mods put together, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Could this research help to explain the RP and BP divide: Assortative mating in politics.Not sure if you’re continuing the joke or not... so I’m going to assume yes. Nice one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 03:46 PM |
| 18 | Who hates men more? Feminists or Red Pillers?What does an average Western RedPiller believe about other men? Thats an interesting question. You should ask an RPM about it sometime, because the answer isn't... What does an average Western RedPiller believe about other men? He believes that leftist men, liberal men, male feminists, weak men, poor men, 'beta' men, 'nice guys' are subhuman, creepy, unworthy of being called men, inferior subspecies of men who should be put down and humiliated and shamed whenever opportunity arises. Or He also b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?Thats OK. No biggie. I just have to remove them because, rules. On every thread there should be a comment made by our automod. If you want to write a top level answer in a Q4W, and are a male, you're welcome to cut and paste the comment I just removed and post it under automod. This also applies for girls on Q4M... or BP/RP posters on Q4RP/Q4BP threads... and people who want to post in agreement with OP on CMV threads. If you find the automod comment you'll see there are already some guys commen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?This is a Q4Women so all top level answers have to come from women. You're a guy. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?This is a Q4Women. You're a guy. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?This is a Q4Women so all top level answers have to come from, well, women. I'm guessing you're a guy. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?This is a Q4Women so all top level answers have to come from, well, women. I'm guessing you're a guy. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 10:17 AM |
| 5 | Why do women rarely date down compared to men? And is it shallow?For the same reason men hardly date older, uglier, fatter women. It's what they're attracted to. Women's attraction has a lot of components that aren't purely physical. Way more so than male attraction. Status, or being "Socially Successful" as a scientist would put it, is a big component of female attraction that is alien to typical men because it's not part of standard male attraction the same way. If one side is selecting for status, and the other side isn't, then one side is going to end up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Is there a female equivalent to that disappointed feeling men have when they see an innocent girl get into porn?Be Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 09:30 AM |
| 5 | Could this research help to explain the RP and BP divide: Assortative mating in politics.I'm a red flair. Of course my posts and comments come from a red pill POV. I'm also very interested in the "biased posts" you think I've been making that "don't draw sarcastic comments". Apart from a couple of mod posts, and some shitposts in purge week, I haven't done an OP here in 8 months, and rarely comment any more. Our only other active RP mod (LKF) hasn't written a non-mod/non-purge week OP in more than 10 months. What are these posts you speak of ? The RP mods aren't making them. BiggerD… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 09:24 AM |
| 5 | Q4All: Is it true that women can't tell when they're flirting? Naivety or plausible deniability? Ignorance or malice?You're not engaging in good faith with opposing views. Other people have legitimately different opinions than you, and they're not necessarily lying just because they don't agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 09:11 AM |
| – | Validation Withdrawals?Removed for being a low effort shitpost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Could this research help to explain the RP and BP divide: Assortative mating in politics.Don't troll our members. This is a warning. Next time it'll be a ban. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/18 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Interesting Juxtaposition of Threads on the Front Page TodayThat post should never have been removed. All the violence was fully consensual and voluntarily undertaken by all parties. It was a travesty of justice. The mods here are biased against mods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Off Topic Thread: What would be your dream job? (15 December 2018)Why not be a demi-god for books? Get to lie around and read the best novels all day plus immortality and mortals at your beck and call. You need to think bigger 321. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Interesting Juxtaposition of Threads on the Front Page TodayWell, on a guillotine it'd be a first in the lunette. But I was assuming the people executing other people for referencing guillotines would probably, as a result, have to pick another method for their own executions. Or we end up in "No one, is to stone anyone, until I blow this whistle. Even if they do say Jehovah" territory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Women are more insecure about their N-count than men could ever be about itYou're exactly right as to why we do it. It may not have escape your notice, but we're one of the few reddit subs where both sides are relatively evenly represented and we've stayed that way for something like 5 years. Thats because we do not allow, and discourage any way we can, downvoting. It's specifically that functionality that eventually turns all reddit debate subs into echo chambers sooner or later (as one side gets the upper hand, downvotes the other into oblivion, causeing some of them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 07:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Toxic masculinity doesn't benefit men.This was reported for not being appropriate to a CMV thread. He's trying to change the view ! In this instance, that includes arguing about what Toxic Masculinity is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Interesting Juxtaposition of Threads on the Front Page TodayDo not troll our members. This is a warning. Doing it again will lead to a ban. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Feminists don't seem like to like this woman's dating adviceBe Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 06:39 PM |
| 4 | Interesting Juxtaposition of Threads on the Front Page TodayThis was reported for being violent content. I don't think it is. I mean.... if we're going to start deleting comments for merely mentioning guillotines I'm going to be the first up against the wall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Interesting Juxtaposition of Threads on the Front Page TodayIt's no good reporting it to us. We wern't responsible for your reddit ban, and (IIRC) didn't even delete the comment. Reddit Admins took a different view, but we're not the ones that took it to them. I'd say "take your crusade to the admins" but if you did there is a reasonable chance you'd get us shuttered for no good reason, so please don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Have you tried not listening to feminism (feminists)?This got stuck in our new account spam filter. I'm not hoiking it out, because the subject is feminism with no real relation to RP or sexual relationships at all.... and we generally don't allow those as they're off topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Women are more insecure about their N-count than men could ever be about itBecause we ask all of you NOT to do it, but we only really get a chance to mod those who admit doing it. It's right there in the sidebar, and we've removed the downvote buttons where we can to help prevent it.... but despite that it's an honour rule system. We can't actually stop you. We can just ask you to abide by the rule because, seriously, who breaks honour rules ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | One major reason women struggle with online dating is because they think they can treat the top 20% of guys, as if they are part of the bottom 80%.Not really. It’s more that I was using the word in a very specific context concerning how mating behaviour. This is different, is more narrow, than the way you took it ... which is a kind of general usage of the word display. Perhaps it’s best if I show you what I mean in context. First paragraph of the Wikipedia article on sexual selection. Here, as usual, the males are displaying and the females are selecting (as in humans)... https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_selection Sexual selection i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Women are more insecure about their N-count than men could ever be about itWe ask our members not to downvote. Please don’t do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 11:55 AM |
| 2 | One major reason women struggle with online dating is because they think they can treat the top 20% of guys, as if they are part of the bottom 80%.No more than women have eggs and males have sperm is reductionist. It's true, it's the way the field is oriented. I'd tend to think of it more as two bell curves, with some overlap.... rather than an entirely binary either/or thing.... But it's clearly the way the playing field is slanted by biology. Not just for us, for animals in general and mammals in particular. We're not something other and apart, and seperate from the rest of the animal kingdom. The same general rules that form their sexua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/18 08:27 PM |
| 3 | One major reason women struggle with online dating is because they think they can treat the top 20% of guys, as if they are part of the bottom 80%.I didn't say that women wern't, in a sense, selected for either. Men have the choice of which women to display to. Because they generally choose young and feminine body shape and pretty girls to display too, there are plenty of reasons to spend untold money and hours on clothes and makeup that make you look young and give you a feminine body shape and make you look prettier than you would otherwise. Nevertheless, humans are very specifically a species where it works this way round. Men choose wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/18 08:19 PM |
| 1 | I Believe There Is A Better WayI've given you my thoughts on it. I don't think the members around here will take instruction from you in how to respond to your thread in the way you claim to mean to encourage. We're not your playground. Start your own sub if you have very particular rules about how you think people should interact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/18 08:02 PM |
| 1 | I Believe There Is A Better WayWell, again. I don't think we want to accept posts that try to impose their own rules on our members and/or try to limit their ability to respond. You can ask questions/make statements, and get answers/responses, like anyone else does. Comments we generally moderate with relatively free speech in mind. We won't remove a comment unless it breaks one of our rules, and we're reluctant to have members trying to impose rules on other members responses. We're under no obligation to accept an OP, and w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | I Believe There Is A Better WayIf you want to appeal any decision, please do it in modmail. right now you're discussing this with me. And I'm the one who removed your post, because I don't think we want it. If you discuss this with us in modmail, you'll gain the benefit of discussing this with whatever mods are logged on, and so you'll have the advantage of different perspectives. Right now, you're in breach of the frequent posting rule in any case (even if you aren't trolling). https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/wiki/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | I Believe There Is A Better WayRight now, I'm assessing you under (3) Do Not Troll Because I suspect thats exactly what you're doing. The modmail button, for anything you'd like to ask mods, is immediately above the list of mods in the sidebar. Exactly where it is on every other subreddit too. You've also posted 5 OPs in just under 48 hours, we do not normally allow such high frequency posting either. We ask members to generally limit themselves to one a day, although we'd accept 2 in a 24hr period as long as it wasn't a cons… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/18 06:33 PM |
| 1 | I Believe There Is A Better WayOK this comment got your thread removed. You either participate here like everyone else, or you go on your way. Frankly, I'm considering whether to just outright ban you for trolling. Take this as your first and final warning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/18 06:23 PM |
| 13 | One major reason women struggle with online dating is because they think they can treat the top 20% of guys, as if they are part of the bottom 80%.I was going to say something very similar to Sandman, in so far as this is the default for women, period. I’m not even sure online dating has a lot to do with it. Males display, and females select from the males displaying. It’s about as true for humans as it is most animals. And as even the best looking male may have fatal flaws elsewhere, they’re going to want to “test” and otherwise assess any male critically, even those in the top 20% in easily assessed qualities. That’s what seems to be hap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/18 11:37 AM |
| 4 | Off Topic Thread: What would be your dream job? (15 December 2018)My dream job is to be an unpaid moderator of a bunch of uncivil and annoying people who spend all day arguing, complaining and generally bickering with each other. Just kidding. That would be a nightmare. I'm not sure I have a dream job, but I guess it'd be something with a low call on my time so I can goof off and do what I feel like, but where people were forced to listen to me and actively have to consider doing what they're told whenever I feel like being productive. So, I dunno. Non-Celibat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Off Topic Thread: Feminism. Yes... Feminism (08 December 2018)Not a bad post - but I'm gonna ask here, what are those people supposed to do? They have a vision of society that does not match what, say, your vision, or what the vision of the media-academia complex's vision of society "ought" to be. They're meant to vote for the party that matches their vision, or if there isn't one, create one. As the greens have done, say. This isn't neccessarily an argument against voters. This is an argument against the Bad Actors involved. If a bunch of Bad Actors ae ga… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Off Topic Thread: Feminism. Yes... Feminism (08 December 2018)What kinds if representations? Well, of the kind you keep on making. I was thinking initially of you saying "all 63m people who voted against their own political interests are nazis" which was a massive misrepresentation of what I said.... but you did it again just above with "your side has spent the better part of the year promoting a one party state"... which is a misrepresentation of the same magnitude. In continuing to do this you are proving my point here that one side are Bad Actors and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Off Topic Thread: Feminism. Yes... Feminism (08 December 2018)I specifically didn’t say they were all nazis, although some of them clearly are... and I believe perfectly well in democracy, people are free to choose those bad actors. But both siderism, or democracy, shouldn’t stop us calling them out for what they are, nor prosecuting criminal actions when they are apparent. You’re a constitutional democratic republic. The constitutional bit is important. It’s these kinds of representations that make your side the bad actors I am talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/18 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What convinces you the gynocentric Western civilization is superior to all other cultural attitudes in terms of gender?Sorry Eartherry. This is a Q4RP and so this has to go under automod as it doesn’t represent an RP view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/18 10:29 AM |
| 1 | The “Woke” Men Who Still Want HousewivesBe Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/18 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Off Topic Thread: Feminism. Yes... Feminism (08 December 2018)No good, in my experience, ever comes of this. I see so many issues where there is this increasingly rabid public discourse, with both 'sides' believing that they're correct and morally superior, and the other side is evil. This is a reasonable position to take, in most instances. In most instances, this is incivility and neither side is evil. But consider what happens when one side really is a bad actor. "Oh, the jews think the nazi's are evil, and the nazi's think the jews are evil. What's hap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/18 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What does "Submissive" mean to you?This is a Q4M. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/18 07:56 PM |
| 11 | Off Topic Thread: Feminism. Yes... Feminism (08 December 2018)"Oh please Brer Fox, whatever you do, please don't throw me into the briar patch." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/18 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (02 December 2018)You can say things like that without being banned. We generally only ban for incivility. Thats not uncivil, it's just a view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/18 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (02 December 2018)And so it begins Seems rather shoddily constructed to me, I give it two uses, max, before it jams. Not enough drop, clearly unseasoned wood and no body board. They need a professional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/18 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (02 December 2018)~TGP tries to resist trolling the girls by saying the "or" clause is superfluous in that sentence~ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/18 09:08 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (02 December 2018)It happens to us all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/18 09:06 AM |
| 6 | Off Topic Thread: Feminism. Yes... Feminism (08 December 2018)While this is an admirable goal, women defining themselves on their own terms without reference to men, IMO it's not an achievable goal. Men and Women are the two sexes within the same species. even if they wanted to, they couldn't find a way to define themselves without it being relative to the other. Or at least, couldn't do so and make it stick. Even men define themselves on things that are (ultimately) related to women, albeit not consciously so. Our instincts are too inextricably wound arou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/18 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Why is NAWALT considered a bad response?Hi TRP mod. Your history indicates we know you under another nic. Which is it ? Because unfortunately, at least one of the TRP mods is banned under previous nics and we suspect you're him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/18 08:35 AM |
| 3 | Why do nearly all foid whores claim the looks/sex aren't important.That may be for a reason. If some asshole mods ban you, they were probably just asshole mods. If, wherever you go, all the asshole mods ban you... the mods aren't the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/18 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Would would happen if WOMEN collectively instituted a pussy cartel?The 1950's | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/18 10:32 PM |
| – | Why do nearly all foid whores claim the looks/sex aren't important.We're not here for incels to spam with your shit. Take this elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/18 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't Feminists dedicating 100% of their time, energy, and resources into waging an all-out war on Islam's misogynistic culture?Be civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/18 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Ladies what’s the worst you ever been dick whipped and what does it feel like?(3) Do Not Troll. Too trolly. We're not interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/18 08:48 PM |
| – | Ladies what’s the worst you ever been dick whipped and what does it feel like?Nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/18 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Are sex differences in preferences for physical attractiveness and good earning capacity in potential mates smaller in countries with greater gender equality? This study finds they are not.Very interesting, what benefits does being with a higher-status male provide a woman? In the evolutionary environment ? (where the instincts evolved). A better chance of survival for her offspring. Essentially, children more likely to breed themselves. It's not really about what she wants. What humans find instinctively attractive is set by genes. The genes you now have, because they were successful in making humans have more great-great-great-grandchildren, of which you are one. So, for the sam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/18 08:42 PM |
| 12 | Are sex differences in preferences for physical attractiveness and good earning capacity in potential mates smaller in countries with greater gender equality? This study finds they are not.Why would you expect gender differences to go down when women have more freedom to choose and what imbalance is there to correct ? In countries with greater gender equality, women are much more free to follow their own natural inclinations. Where they are different from men's, and they are conspicuously different when it comes towards sex/relationships, you are going to see expressed preferences widen. Women generally aren't interested in men with more money because they rationally desire the mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (02 December 2018)I remember the nic, he was about around here a long time ago so I don't remember much about his views. He was RP IRRC. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 08:22 PM |
| 0 | From a biological perspective, why are men turned off by sluts when it comes to committed relationships?Be civil. This is the only warning you're gonna get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/18 08:20 PM |
| 0 | Consenting to sex is not consenting to being a father!No, the sidebar says "Be Civil". This is generally how we interpret that rule. We like it remaining vague, then we can mod away stuff thats uncivil without being subject to constant "rules lawyering" by members who think they're clever by being uncivil to other members whilst staying within the letter of the rules. If you don't like it, the rest of the internet is over there -----> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/18 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many men surprised when their girlfriend/wife has a sexual past?This post was reported with the question... "Is saying people should crawl off and die against the rules?". No, saying a group of people should crawl off and die is not against the rules. Saying this about an individual member would be, or actively wishing/advocating violence against a group would be. Or actually advocating suicide would be. But it's on the right side of all those rules as it's phrased. So I approved it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/18 09:50 PM |
| 0 | Consenting to sex is not consenting to being a father!So, if I simply ignore and report uncivil comments to me in the future, rather than lashing back, is that sufficient? Yes, that’s exactly what you’re supposed to do. If it breaks our civility rules it’ll be removed. People can insult whole groups “women are bitches” and that’s fine. You can even insult an individual “Madonna is a bitch”. You just can’t insult an individual who is a member “TGP is an asshole” or a close relative of a member “TGPs wife is a bitch”. That’ll get comments removed and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/18 07:19 PM |
| 1 | [Personal Advice] Is The Red Pill sidebar enough for Non-Incel Indian men (born in America) to compete in the SMP?Enough. Be Civil. This is a warning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/18 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Consenting to sex is not consenting to being a father!It doesn't matter what your definition of uncivil is. Our definition covers many things, but primarily (IIRC) you were insulting other members directly, which is always considered uncivil. Parts of your comments we considered uncivil... Have you ever been a man or gotten a woman pregnant? If not, pipe down, cuz you have no idea what you’re talking about, LOL! and I just find your comments so laughably inane that I’m choosing to parody them, rather than explain the obvious reasons you’re wrong, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | What's the reason behind this overemphasis on trangenderism?Be Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/18 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Consenting to sex is not consenting to being a father!You were warned on 19/9/18 by LeanneGenova, and on 4/5/18 by chira-chira. It's only the fact that the first of these has "expired" that meant I didn't give you a ban this time. And you were the one descending into incivility. Most of your threads started OK, but then you got increasingly frustrated that they wern't agreeing with you and starting throwing insults and incivility about. Sometimes they responded uncivilly too, sometimes they walked away. Where they responded uncivilly their comments… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/18 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Consenting to sex is not consenting to being a father!Be Civil. I've had to remove a lot of your comments for incivility here. This is a final warning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/18 11:19 PM |
| 19 | Q4RP: Which of these following statements are hypocritical?None of the above is hypocritical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/18 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Red pill says fuck other girls while in ltr. What do you say?Be Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/18 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Off Topic Thread: What's something that seems obvious in your profession, but the general public misunderstands? (24 November 2018)Well, my point was really something like "and even with that safety record most people consider poor in the past, it's actually still been about 10x safer than boring old coal". I'm a little less confident that it will be much better in the future as you state, but if it was merely as good as it was through the 70's to 10's that would still be a remarkably safe power source. I understand that reactor designs are getting way safer. But in the future, there may well be other incidents caused by $B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/18 08:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The tension between Feminism/Gynocentrism, Capitalism and Socialism is inevitable.Yes, but what you're doing here is posting a load of politics... and relating it to RP by saying "loads of RP guys buy into this". It's not about RP itself, or sexual relationships, or even men and women. If you want to appeal modmail us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/18 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Off Topic Thread: What's something that seems obvious in your profession, but the general public misunderstands? (24 November 2018)I agree that nuclear power is massively underrated. It's a perfect carbon-free(-ish) baseline load to compliment renewables, and the number of deaths it has caused worldwide to raditiation releases has been something like 10% of the deaths caused by coal power caused radiation, so it's been extremely low in externalities too. Nuclear power is awesome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/18 08:19 PM |
| – | CMV: The tension between Feminism/Gynocentrism, Capitalism and Socialism is inevitable.OK, this is off topic for us Xemnas, so it's been removed. You're trying to shoehorn RP into basically a politics post. You're also going back to compulsive posting, this is the 2nd in a day... I thought you were going to be taking it easy for your own sake on your return? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | How many single moms have a similar relationship story to supermodel Candice Swanepoel?Be Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/18 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Bayes theorem and datingBe Civil, this is a warning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/18 11:20 PM |
| 3 | CMV: If you do not believe in patriarchy you do not believe in history.We're not interested in the finer details of definitions. We don't want PPD to become a place to discuss all your personal racist views. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/18 06:01 PM |
| 2 | CMV: If you do not believe in patriarchy you do not believe in history.No race baiting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/18 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 November 2018)Yay. Sounds like a great entry job. I'll have to PM you next time I'm in the city meeting my company's client. We can grab a beer after work. Now you've got a job it's called "Networking". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/18 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 November 2018)Hey, congratulations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/18 08:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Sexually, women don't care about a man's career or wealthThis has been removed for not sufficiently challenging OPs view. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/18 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Why Don't Men Value Success In Women?No race bating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/18 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Why Don't Men Value Success In Women?No advocating of suicide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/18 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Why Don't Men Value Success In Women?This is a Q4M so this has been removed. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/18 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP / Tradcons / Anybody : How would you redesign the sexual economy to counteract female autonomy?I only saw it in the mod-queue. I saw the report for "Not being consistent with a Q4X post", saw the Q4RP at the start of the title and assumed it had been flaired that way when modding the comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/18 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP / Tradcons / Anybody : How would you redesign the sexual economy to counteract female autonomy?This was reported for not being appropriate to a Q4RP thread. We allow posters without flair, or with neutral flair, to post in Q4RP threads so long as they attempt to honestly represent an RP view. As far as I can see not trying to 'fix' society, men changing themselves not others, and people acting without undue restraint by the morality of others are all perfectly respectable RP views. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/18 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (18 November 2018)Cool. Hope it works out. IIRC you were saying your new job was in London. Fairly central, I assume. How's the commute ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/18 09:06 PM |
| 0 | Q4Women: How unnattractive is a quiet guy?You know the drill, this is a Q4W. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/18 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Why are women checking out of the dating game?This is a Q4W and all top level comments must be by women, you seem to be a guy, so this has been removed. You're welcome to post this comment under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/18 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Why are women checking out of the dating game?OK, you sound like a guy too. This is a Q4W so all top level answers have to come from a chick. You're welcome to post this comment under automod, but I'm removing it here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/18 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Why are women checking out of the dating game?You know the drill. This is a Q4W, you're welcome to C&P this under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/18 08:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you mate guard?This thread was flaired question for women, as you don’t sound female to me, and this is a top level answer, it has been removed. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/18 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Q for Red Pill: Why bother 'debating' here when your minds are made up?We can’t actually remove the button, it’s core reddit functionality. All we can do is “hide” it with the CSS, making the icon essentially a “blank square”. As the mobile apps and version of the site do not use our site CSS, we can’t hide it here. Only on the desktop version. So that’s why it appears on mobile, and also why it appears on desktop if you elect to turn off site CSS in your preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/18 11:25 AM |
| 7 | Q for Red Pill: Why bother 'debating' here when your minds are made up?Since the sub's earliest days we've hidden the downvote buttons by using the site CSS. This makes it difficult, but not impossible, to downvote. The site rules in the sidebar also ask you not to downvote. It's one of the measures mods have put in place to allow a fairly even debate, where both sides can be heard, to co-exist on the sub. Without it, one day or another we'd descend into an entirely one-sided echo chamber when one side or the other got the upper hand. The downvote button is one of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/18 09:35 PM |
| 11 | Are false accusations a legitimate dating fear for men?Yes, it was a comment rather than a post but I did research it a bit. The 2% figure is the "floor" on false accusations, in so far as it only counts criminal prosecutions for false accusations (most serious studies use this as a floor and typically report false accusations as being between 2-10%) . Given the nature of the crime (one in which there are usually only 2 witnesses) it's likely that there are many more false accusations that don't rise to the level of "provable in a court of law". Fem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/18 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Off Topic Thread: Election 2018 (10 November 2018)Certainly not in Switzerland where there are more more guns per capita than the US. Excellent. Are you proposing that in order to keep the number of guns up but lower the number of deaths hugely .... You as a US gun owner would be happy to adopt Swiss style gun laws ? As you say, doesn’t appear to hinder ownership (they have more) but does massively lower deaths ? For the record this would mean licensing and extensive background checks for each gun, including mandatory exams on gun safety/profec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/18 12:25 PM |
| 1 | How to get the same treatment as her ex.I could change it to be a CMV. That would require that anyone top-level commenting would have to attempt to change your view, and you'd have to be open to actually changing your view and discussing in good faith. TBH i'd prefer you just wrote an actual discussion post. As it stands, it reads like a TRP post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/18 11:29 PM |
| 1 | How to get the same treatment as her ex.I can, but we're still not here to be advised or proselytised so much as discuss subjects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/18 11:28 PM |
| – | How to get the same treatment as her ex.We aren't TRP, and the advice tag isn't for giving advice it's for seeking it. If you approached the same topic as an actual discussion or debate we'd accept it, but this one was reported and I've removed it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/18 09:43 PM |
| 5 | CMV: TRP should change its stance towards transgender people.Sorry, but you obviously haven’t read what damore actually wrote. You’re pulling this out your arse, or taking it as gospel from others saying the same thing. Read the memo. He couldn’t have put the case more clearly, more well caveated, and taking care to respect others views and to offer solutions that should be acceptable to both sides. The memo is nuanced and grey to the point of blandness if anything. It’s only 8 pages. Read the damn memo and criticise what he wrote. That bears no relation … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/18 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Off Topic Thread: For The Lurkers (03 November 2018)A good thread gets about 4k views. Usually only a few dozen participate, with maybe a dozen participating heavily. They're a small percentage of those viewing a thread. Most people who read it don't comment. You can see that yourself in the sidebar. Similarly (from the mod stats) the site gets about 6.5k+ uniques a day. And about 100k+ unique visitors per month. There are only a few hundred participating, and less than a hundred participating very actively, by commenting or posting. The vast maj… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/18 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Off Topic Thread: Halloween (27 October 2018)No, it's a mostly American sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/18 07:14 PM |
| 1 | CMV: So I guess women really are better parents after all.Be Civil. Ad-Hom attacks aren't welcome here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/18 06:52 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women’s lower sex drive is the only evolutionary psychology idea that really matters in RP.Well, someone had to call it out for what it was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/18 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Research into hypergamy doesn’t replicate. Original researcher declares his own theory is probably not true and that the studies based on his theory are now garbage.not familiar with TRP literature, Read the article you linked. At one point it DOES define hypergamy pretty well... However, hypergamy doesn’t stop there… You see hypergamy even if you do a very quick google search will be defined as the action of marrying a person of a superior caste or class. Studies of women on the macroscale showed that women do not move down the classes but always marry equally or up on her social scale; a woman’s sexual reproductive strategy allows her to look for better. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/18 07:04 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Women’s lower sex drive is the only evolutionary psychology idea that really matters in RP.This is an amazingly ignorant argument, even for here. Do you believe EP divides the world into 12 random buckets and then ascribes personalities to each bucket based on no scientific understanding whatsoever ? Because thats the level of astrology. EP (or psychology itself) is by no means perfect.... nor is it as "hard" a science as say Physics or Chemistry.... but it's many millions of percent better than astrology in so far as it actually goes out and measures the real world, and records what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/18 06:57 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women’s lower sex drive is the only evolutionary psychology idea that really matters in RP.Ok, I'm not sure what point you're making with the sex drive thingd, as we seem to be agreeing that "stronger/weaker sex drive" is something that can only be compared when it's on. Which is fine, because I think in that situation it's not any stronger for males vs females. It's kinda irrelevan to the primary thrust of your argument anyway, as I don't think an awful lot of RP is based on this per se, whether it's EP or not, whether it's a real effect or not. This needn’t be an EP fact, it could b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/18 06:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: So I guess women really are better parents after all.Oh all right, I've seen you discuss this before, and OK. There is perhaps no real reason why the median job in the "army"... which is probably driving a truck or doing admin on a PC... is more suited to male skills rather than females skills. I had "Front Line Infantry" in my mind when I said "Soldier" above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/18 05:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: So I guess women really are better parents after all.Why? Are women proven to be less reliable as employees and are women all over Reddit claiming they don't have a repsonsibility to do their jobs well because they don't like their boss or the cubicle they're sitting in? No, the reason "women are better parents" is that they have much better instincts and abilities in this area caused by them being evolved to this task. The reason, at least for many roles, that "men would make better employees" is that they have much better instincts and abilities… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/18 02:11 PM |
| 2 | CMV: So I guess women really are better parents after all.Why? Are women proven to be less reliable as employees and are women all over Reddit claiming they don't have a repsonsibility to do their jobs well because they don't like their boss or the cubicle they're sitting in? No, the reason "women are better parents" is that they have much better instincts and abilities in this area caused by them being evolved to this task. The reason, at least for many roles, that "men would make better employees" is that they have much better instincts and abilities… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/18 02:10 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Women’s lower sex drive is the only evolutionary psychology idea that really matters in RP.My point is that there is no special evolutionary psychology law that "women are irrational" This is true. or that "women are manipulative." This is not, women are inherently more social than men for good EP reasons. ALSO, women are not well placed to use violence to solve disputes. SO... EP would expect women to be more "manipulative" than men, to be much more prone to solving problems by social manipulation of others than men.... with men being much more prone than women (in turn) to attempt t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/18 01:56 PM |
| 5 | CMV: So I guess women really are better parents after all.OK, It doesn't really surprise me... nor do I think it should really surprise anyone... that women are better parents (particularly better single parents) than men. Women have instincts that have been evolved precisely to make them better parents than men. For almost all of our evolutionary history thats been their role... Raising the children, and being optimised for completing safe tasks close to the hearth as a result... with men generally taking a far less active role in child rearing (parti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/18 01:38 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Women’s lower sex drive is the only evolutionary psychology idea that really matters in RP.OK, I think you're massively overestimating the effect of "lower sex drives in women" (and I think I'd actually dispute that this is an EP finding, anyway) and underestimating the effects of the rest of EP. First, I don't think women having "lower sex drives than men" is actually an EP result. It's true that women's sex drives are different, but that doesn't necessarily mean lower. EP would expect mens "sex drive" to be activated for nearly all females, but that women's "sex drive" would only be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/18 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Off Topic Thread: Halloween (27 October 2018)Out of curiosity, what other commonwealth countries do Guy Fawkes? I've got no personal experience of this, but the wiki article seems to indicate it's still celebrated, at a lower key, in South Africa, New Zealand and some Caribbean Islands. It also says Canada, but that surprises me... because I would've thought the whole Quebec/Catholic thing would have made that highly unlikely. Apparently, it faded out in Australia in the 70's (again according to wikipedia) so if they're trying to get away … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/18 11:45 AM |
| 4 | Off Topic Thread: Halloween (27 October 2018)Oh, the kids trick or treat a bit but it's not a big thing like in the US. We put pumpkins out, and only get 2 or 3 sets of kids in the evening at our house. Generally the early winter partying gets delayed 5 days. We tend to have parties on 5th November, Guy Fawkes Night. This is our big "fireworks night" much like the US's 4th of July where people either set them off in their backyard or go to big displays. We also have bonfires on which are burnt a "Guy" made out of old clothes stuffed with s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/18 11:05 AM |
| 3 | Off Topic Thread: Halloween (27 October 2018)No, every week the other mods suggest what thread they want. They all have the opportunity to write it if they want to, but they usually leave that to me because they can't be bothered. So I write up a post on the subject they've selected, giving a few questions to start the topic and if jokes occur to me in the 10m it takes to knock it together they go in too because it's meant to be a fun off topic thread, and I want to enjoy writing it. Thats generally how it happens every week. If any other … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/18 08:52 AM |
| – | Do promiscuous women get less traumatized by rape than modest women?OK, we're not an open site to be trolled upon redditors whim. Take this kind of trolly crap elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/18 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Concealed ovulation: What does it say about women? What does it say about men?Well, yes. If we're talking about how concealed ovulation benefits the woman then we're on the right track. But it has to benefit her individually. Perhaps, as I suggested, by increasing the protection males provide her... or of ensuring her offspring have more males providing to them due to confused paternity... or of making males less likely to kill them, due to confused paternity... and so on. As long as we're operating in this space most hypothesis are as good as each other, as we have only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/18 05:25 PM |
| 1 | r/TheRedPill quarantinedAn embryo is already fertilized. An egg is not. Thats true, but makes no difference here. There are in fact millions of fertilised eggs out there in various liquid-nitrogen cooled flasks. No woman is under any obligation to incubate them either. The point here is that there remains... for the eggs in flasks, and for the egg in the womb, and for red blood cells... a neccessity of adult humans providing things to turn them into babies. When a human refuses to do so, it doesn't become a baby. There… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/18 03:44 PM |
| 1 | r/TheRedPill quarantinedYes, but a fertilised egg in the womb requires that the woman who has that womb continues to provide it nutrients and otherwise agrees to provide it the inputs it needs to grow into a baby. If she does not do so, if she refuses to provide those things it doesn't become a baby. So human intervention and agreement are required for it to become a baby, if an already grown human does not do so it doesn't grow. And your red blood cell has the same situation. If a human intervenes to take the genes fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/18 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Concealed ovulation: What does it say about women? What does it say about men?Humans, unlike certain relatives, do not clearly telegraph fertility. Concealed ovulation is a mechanism theorized to enable confused paternity, which should lead to a reduction in infanticide seen in other species when competing males will kill rival offspring. OK, thats one of the explanations for concealed ovulation in humans. There are lots of others, "male parental investment", "continued male protection due to mate guarding" and "reduction in intra-male violence" are three of them that I c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/18 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Research into hypergamy doesn’t replicate. Original researcher declares his own theory is probably not true and that the studies based on his theory are now garbage.As numerous people have told you this is NOT hypergamy. This is a different phenomena unrelated to hypergamy (ovulatory shifts in attractiveness). What we're arguing about here is whether RPs views in ovulatory shifts are supported, and whichever way you think thats decided it has no bearing on hypergamy. At All. To talk about THAT you'd have to post studies on, say, Hypergamy. This is like posting studies that you say "prove the sky is blue" and using that to debunk the theory "that the grass i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/18 02:35 PM |
| 5 | Research into hypergamy doesn’t replicate. Original researcher declares his own theory is probably not true and that the studies based on his theory are now garbage.OK, This again... First, I'll make the rather obvious point that shouldn't need to be made, but clearly has to be... This scientific brouhaha has nothing to do with Hypergamy. This is about "Changes in female preferences over the menstrual cycle". What RP calls "Ovulation Game". This is completely distinct and seperate from the scientific study of Hypergamy, the preference for women (at all stages of their menstrual cycle) for men of high status. What science calls "Socially successful men". So,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/18 12:53 PM |
| 1 | r/TheRedPill quarantined"I’m not trying to convince you the fetus isn’t human. It’s as human as the blood cells and sperm are human" Sperm does not even have the correct amount of generic material, left on its own it will not become a human. Neither will a fertilised egg left on its own. Red blood cells do not even divide, and will not become human if left to their normal course. A fetus will. It won't fertilise an egg and leave it on the side, and it won't become a human either. That argument you make is particularly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/18 10:57 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Black Pillers accept some RP facts but have BP frameThis is one of the things where we err on the side of caution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/18 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Those with negative views of MGTOW have come to their judgment based on a straw man of MGTOW beliefs.It's an analogy, the point is the similarities and not the differences. And, yes, I'm British... but I try to make my analogies Yank friendly. If I did the same for the Labour Party I'd just confuse all the Americans and it would work quite so well as an analogy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/18 07:29 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Black Pillers accept some RP facts but have BP frameSorry, no advocating suicide. Site(?) and Sub rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Those with negative views of MGTOW have come to their judgment based on a straw man of MGTOW beliefs.Yes, exactly. Outsiders look into (say) the Democratic Party and see loads of communists and socialists and people who want to raise taxes on principle and use government to vote themselves money. So that’s what the Democratic Party actually is about as far as they’re concerned, and until they stop seeing that “when they look in” it’s no good trying to tell them any different. They want to stay wrong, because they like the feeling of being “in the right”. It’s no good actually explaining to them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Will most bluepillers always keep rejecting hard scientific evidence?This is a CMV, so all top level replies must attempt to change OPs view. This comment has been removed, but you’re welcome to cut and paste it under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 04:23 PM |
| 11 | Can a woman do something to increase her value in the eyes of men?Anything that makes a woman look younger, prettier or slimmer certainly increases their value to men. So let’s get that out of the way. Other things may also do so, although probably with a lower level of certainty, being a nice/pleasant person to be around, having some wit and intelligence (although probably best if this is still slightly below his or it may work the other way), signs that you are able to show high fidelity to a mate (if he’s assessing you as an LTR candidate), or the opposite.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why do you think toxic masculinity is a thing, but toxic femininity isn't a thing?This is a Q4W and so all top level responses must be from women. You don’t seem to be a woman to me, so this has been removed. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 02:04 PM |
| 1 | (Q4RP) Would you want your SO to know about RP and to visit their gender appropriate sub?Well, that sub was RPW. Not sure there is an appropriate female sub right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 11:23 AM |
| 2 | (Q4RP) Would you want your SO to know about RP and to visit their gender appropriate sub?If yes in what ways do you think it would improve your relationship? Well, yes. I did exactly this after reading RP for a few months. I didn’t expect it to change the relationship, I just wanted her to know what I was up to and so not be doing things that affected our relationship “behind her back”. I think there is a real fear for most RPM in exposing this, as it kinda shows “the wizard behind the curtain” in a way that damages the effect they’ve been able to build with RP and so I wouldn’t rec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Why do you think toxic masculinity is a thing, but toxic femininity isn't a thing?Why you make this Q4W ???? Now I have to comment under automod... First, Hypergamy is not something I’d particularly call out as “toxic femininity”. The Male equivalent (liking a pretty face) is not usually called out as Toxic Masculinity. I’d expect other things to be be on the TF list... SpaceWhiskey suggested high heels, which is a good example. Other things would clearly be pressure around clothes/makeup/appearing feminine. Other things would be generally females enforcing other female behav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 10:53 AM |
| 6 | Science: What is dominance?OK, That seems to me a pretty clear explanation of dominance, thats more or less what I may have written. I think RP's interest is two-fold, First, in a sexual strategy sense, simply that men who are perceived as dominant are more attractive to women. Second, that as the male dominance heirarchy determines more or less "which men the other men consider the best men" (at least for some values of "best") it's also a goal in itself along RPs generally "be a man" line. I don't think it's important i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Amount of hypergamous women: a question of perspective?She might be a bit more attractive and he might have a bit better job, I.e ... the very definition of Hypergamy ? Basically the scientific definition is that she married up in status (his better job) and men are happy with this, because they’re happy to trade down in status because they prize prettier/younger faces (she’s a bit more attractive). So while it’s true an RPM might see this as Hypergamy, and the bloop wouldn’t.... that’s not because of misogyny, but because the RPM knows what Hyperga… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Is it paranoid to only consider suboptimal male strategic performance without considering the same for women?Hold your horses. You haven't even banged her yet. OP was about suboptimal male performance for PUA/hitting up new plates, not suboptimal male performance to maintain a 10 year+ marriage. OP was about suboptimal strategic performance. If he personally misidentified where the strategic benefit of a heuristic is, that’s his problem. We seem to be discussing AWALT, and while that has lots of advantages in lots of situations, the one most comparable to TAGAL is this one... the aversion of catastroph… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 01:37 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] What is the point of this sub, even?OK, Fair enough, go ahead with your comment on the “view of EP” more widely. I think you’re going to find that was much more a common view 20 years ago (when EP was new) that has remained fixed in non-scientist minds since then but which has increasingly shifted within science. This ispartly because stating “they have no data, it’s just so stories” was valid when they didn’t have data, but which became problematic after 20 years of data collection confirmed and reconfirmed those original hypothe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Democrats slide in battle for SenateNo! Shan’t! Waaaaaaah! You Us mods are so unfair! Waaaaaah! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 04:33 PM |
| 13 | Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs?Well, if I’m going to pick one... Women treating men like DIY projects. Something to be moulded/improved into something else more satisfactory to the girl. Attempting to knock “the rough edges off” that sort of thing. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a guy try to do this to a girl, but by god every woman seems to want to do this to their guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Democrats slide in battle for SenateSigh. He was arguing about metoo and it’s effects on IS society... albeit in a stupid/wrong way, so I left it up. Admittedly he didn’t t do himself any favours with the title, but still. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Democrats slide in battle for SenateAgain, his subject was appropriate to the sub. The fact that he’d picked up an article to support him, and was dead wrong about what it meant, is not something we’d mod away. God knows what he’ll would break loose around here if you let me and the other mods delete everything we thought was wrong even if it was on-topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Democrats slide in battle for SenateYour polling data gives the aggregate number of Americans that will vote red or blue, not state by state or seat by seat. The first one does, it is true. But the opinion of all Americans is relevant to your OP. The second one doesn’t, that shows the electoral effect of the surge in sentiment behind Dems since Kavanaugh. Those ones show that the “sentiment of all Americans” has converted electorally into roughly a 10 seat gain, which is very relevant to your OP. That's a mistake in my opinion. We… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Democrats slide in battle for SenateYes, very funny. Unfortunately, if we removed every OP that was an idiotic misconstrual of an article on the internet we’d not have much of a front page. We don’t mod away posts for merely “being wrong”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 03:14 PM |
| 3 | Democrats slide in battle for SenateBecause the “Dems sliding in the senate” is happening at the same time as “Dems are surging in the house”. That surge is showing in the house (because all seats are up for re-election) but not showing in the senate as (basically) only the reddest 1/3rd are, and some Dems that “should” be losing by 10 are “only” losing by 3 as a result. Look.... generic ballot.... https://projects.fivethirtyeight.com/congress-generic-ballot-polls/ By all means show me the “backlash to metoo” dip you expected to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 02:51 PM |
| 9 | Democrats slide in battle for SenateQ4All: Do you believe that politicizing and weaponizing metoo was a bad move for dems? This question is utterly and completely unrelated to your article. As is shown by the fact that democrats are pulling ever further ahead in the house (by the same measures). It’s be equally as valid to post an article on the house and ask everyone whether “weaponising me too was therefore a great move for the Dems”. The issues in the senate have nothing to do with me too and everything to do with this years se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 02:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The easiest way for weak, ugly, short, unmasculine Men to ascend in the SMP is to just get rich.Or you can steal drugs. Or pick drugs (shrooms). Or develop your own. Or be given them (if a girl) and so on. Anyone assuming “well now I’ve got rich I’ll be high as a kite” won’t be. What makes you high is ingesting drugs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 02:05 PM |
| – | Having low emotional intelligence is not the same as being “rational and objective”Hi OP, I’ve flaired this CMV as it makes an affirmative claim in the title. This means that top level posts will have to change your view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 02:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The easiest way for weak, ugly, short, unmasculine Men to ascend in the SMP is to just get rich.Well yes. I think we were probably always in agreement on that. I just don’t think you can use that Money = Status = Attraction to then leap to Money = Attraction. It’s very important to call out the intermediate step as being the thing that gets the attraction, and money only being a means to the end. I’d take the same position if you said “Money makes you good at golf” because Money=Practice+Tutoring+Nice Clubs=Good Golfer. I’d tell people “Money doesn’t make you a good golfer! It’s not a G Tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Feminists or Redpillers: who treats ugly people with more kindness?Well yes, I’m not denying it... in so far as we think humans are very noticeably different by sex and should be treated so in regards to sexual strategy. You can describe that as sexism if you like. It’s just we were having a normal conversation using words not loaded with a lot of freight, and you switched it to a conversation where I’m now going to have to deal with unpicking things like “where the freight sexism is loaded with applies, and where it doesn’t apply”. Maybe you have a conversatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Is it paranoid to only consider suboptimal male strategic performance without considering the same for women?Lol no. Death from gunshot wound is catastrophic. Not getting laid by some replaceable random girl is not catastrophic. The stakes are not the same Getting divorced and so losing your kids, half your stuff, your house and a fair chunk of your future income for 10-20 years is catastrophic. It’s not quite “dead”. But I’d definitely take “being shot in the leg” over the above. You were imagining the wrong scenario for whT I was describing as “catastrophic”. Women give off a lot of nonverbal cues th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 08:47 AM |
| – | Food for thought on the concept of “Alpha Males”. How you interpret it is your choice, but facts are facts.Hi OP, We don’t allow video link drops without explanation, commentary and food for debate so this has been removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Is it paranoid to only consider suboptimal male strategic performance without considering the same for women?At the end of the day, there are lots of people like me for whom truthfulness is very important. Well, I'd also agree with you on that. But I'm no longer reading this stuff for advice, but for fun and as an intellectual exercise. If you're looking for advice, you're probably looking for something that works well rather than something thats more correct, but works less well. At face value I'm pretty RP (although trough completely different sources). But I can't recommend RP to anyone, because of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/18 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Is it paranoid to only consider suboptimal male strategic performance without considering the same for women?Better results in what? Getting to sex? Maybe. How about living happy with a woman or women? Def not. I'd say both. In so far as living happily with a woman also involves being aware of the potential for catastrophic damage this can cause. TAGAL works for guns you're familiar with, as well as guns you aren't. Well, it works the same here... Good results coupled with bad results, doesn't justify promoting false view of reality. You should always find a way to get good results with a correct view … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/18 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Is it paranoid to only consider suboptimal male strategic performance without considering the same for women?I guess my point is that some of those men don't know that this is heuristics and that leads them to have a false view of the world. YES, it's precisely that "false view of the world that gives better results" we want them to have.... because it gives better results. When people say "Treat all guns as loaded" or even "All guns are loaded" everybody clearly understands that it's a not actually the case. Because it obviously violates what we know about the reality. OK, and the problem with AWALT i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/18 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Is it paranoid to only consider suboptimal male strategic performance without considering the same for women?I shouldn't have to mentally add anything, because most won't. And nor should they need to. AWALT works perfectly fine without the T, it would create exactly the same behaviour. I'd just assume you'd want to add the T for something like "personal preference". The behaviour would be the same with or without it. It's the same as interpreting religions. Yes, you can interpret them as metaphors and core teaching stories (as JP tries to argue), but most believers don't. They actually believe the lite… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/18 07:37 AM |
| 3 | Is it paranoid to only consider suboptimal male strategic performance without considering the same for women?I think I'm less concerned with an exact heuristic itself, and moreso the meta around it, like its interpretation/application. Take the example you gave, "Watch what she does, rather than what she says." This itself doesn't really say much about how sensitive a threshold for signal should be. OK, I guess thats because not everything is captured in the heuristic" Treat all guns as loaded, for example, doesn't tell you how you should treat a loaded gun differently. If you're going to have a short,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/18 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Is it paranoid to only consider suboptimal male strategic performance without considering the same for women?OK, Then when you see AWALT mentally at the T. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/18 07:13 AM |
| 7 | Is it paranoid to only consider suboptimal male strategic performance without considering the same for women?Fantastic response, but the loaded gun metaphor still strikes me as overdoing it. You can't tell a loaded gun apart from an unloaded one on sight, and its result is instanteous and catastrophic. OK, and there are clear similarities. A woman who is a "loaded gun" also can't be told apart from an unloaded on sight and the effects can be catastrophic. The only place it breaks the symmetry is the instantaneousness of it. Although I guess, if you get your ONS pregnant that can be pretty instantaneous… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 09:29 PM |
| 19 | Is it paranoid to only consider suboptimal male strategic performance without considering the same for women?Well, the first way to answer this is that for 99.99% of the population any “strategies” we talk about are not conscious decisions, but instinctive/sub-conscious strategies. A woman doesn’t decide “he earns $49k a year, and that $1k below my cutoff so strike him from the list”. What happens is her sub-conscious mind/instincts assess his attributes across 101 things and if he meets her threshold it sends “be sexually attracted to this guy” emotions, and if he doesn’t “do not be attracted to this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 09:16 PM |
| 3 | Off Topic Thread: First Date Experiences (20 October 2018)Think about it. Alcohol lowers inhibitions, the more you slide down the curve, the less able you are to make judgement calls. Couple that with the fact that alcohol peaks in it's effects about an hour after you've drunk it... introducing a delay thats hard to cope with when imparied... and you've got an easy recipie for it all getting away from you as the night goes on. If you've drunk a lot, and even successfully stop because you're getting "very iffy" you've got a whole hour of peaking intoxic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Seems paranoid to consider suboptimal male strategic performance without considering it also for women.Well, why don't you repost your initial OP (assuming you haven't posted in the last 12 hours) and presumably then it'll stay up, and I'll copy my reply there, you copy yours and we'll carry on this discussion. That way other people can see it too. I'll be online for the next hour or so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Why do a lot of the top Red Pillers hate Jordan Peterson?The username kinda gave it away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Why do a lot of the top Red Pillers hate Jordan Peterson?We're glad to hear that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 09:00 PM |
| – | How many normies have ever knowingly met a Red Piller?Czerdec, we have a 1 OP per 12 hours minimum rule. Your last post was just a couple of hours ago. I think we'd allow this tomorrow perfectly fine, but we have to remove this so certain "frequent flyers" don't own 3/4s of the front page. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 08:57 PM |
| – | CMV: If you RP men are still interested in young women, you have failed at life.Hi Brand New Account! You got caught in our new account spam filter because you're BRIGHT shiny new. Why don't you post from your main ? I might allow this then. Alternatively, pleaase stick around have some fun make some comments, participate and submit this again. Then you won't get stuck in our spam filter. I'm not hoiking this out of the filter because from such a sparkling unused new account, this smells like trolling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Staying in for the kids and living in miseryNo, I'm just a mod here, hi! There are abut 10 of us. We are members here who are also mods. I speak for no part of the RP/BP community except me. I am acting s a custodian of the PPD subreddits rules... which are over there in the sidebar --> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Feminists or Redpillers: who treats ugly people with more kindness?What if we control for gender? You can run tests on each subject to find out precisely how much he's biased by gender. Then adjust his results based on those numbers. You can, and I think that'd remove any effect. I'd expect an instinctual difference between sexes, but not an instinctive difference between conscious ideologies. I was just making sure that we didn't take something with such an obvious male/female split seriously before you controlled for that. If you didn't, any results would be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Staying in for the kids and living in miseryYes, I checked your history and you're all posts and not much commentary within your own posts. Many of the posts spammed across multiple subreddits, including this one. So I figured you was going to drop your link and wander off and not actually engage in debate... and thats kinda not what we do here. You're a week old account, with negative comment karma. So you can drop this somewhere else if you like, and if you commented here for a bit and participated, I might think differently about your … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Off Topic Thread: First Date Experiences (20 October 2018)On my first date with my wife, we went to see a band (Reef) at our local club by our university, and I was nervous and it was loud and there was no queues at the bar so I drank a LOT of beer really very quickly. A lot of beer. I didn't notice how much beer I was drinking for about an hour or two, but when the set finished it hit like a freight train, and when we went outside in the cool fresh night air it was worse. So I was utterly smashed about 2 hours into the evening, and we went back to her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Off Topic Thread: First Date Experiences (20 October 2018)Thats a good one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 07:25 PM |
| – | Staying in for the kids and living in miseryWe're not a place for you to link drop your own videos. Participate like a normal member and debate, don't just drop your shit on us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Off Topic Thread: Fun and Games with Banned Words (13 October 2018)Well, yeah. It also suggest you wern't around during "Purge Week" where e suspend the rules/modding for 7 days... Because during this period it got really out of hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Should raping a promiscuous woman carry a lower jail sentence than raping a virgin?Removed for trolling the thread. This is a warning, do it again and we'll ban you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 06:03 PM |
| 5 | Q4All: Feminists or Redpillers: who treats ugly people with more kindness?As you're talking an instinctive response, I suspect the conscious ideology (for want of a better word) won't make a lot of difference here. I suspect that, if anything, any result would be washed out with a correlation.... in so far as I suspect "men" and "women" may differ significantly in how they instinctively give people space, and that therefore your result for "feminists" will be almost entirely determined by the fact that the vast majority are also "women" and the same for "red pill" and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Off Topic Thread: Fun and Games with Banned Words (13 October 2018)It's only one word, cope. Thats entirely because people we're using it in a way that was a) Irritating to everyone else and b) didn't further debate in any way. As our site rules are designed to a) stop everyone being irritated and b) fostering a real debate ... it seemed a good rule change to do so. If you don't like it, the rest of the internet is over there ------> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 04:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The easiest way for weak, ugly, short, unmasculine Men to ascend in the SMP is to just get rich.Within their own niche sure. I am not saying wealth is the only way to obtain status. Am saying if you do have wealth, it pretty much always leads to higher social status. Only if thats where you deploy your money. If you don't. If you deploy it (say) on facial reconstructive surgery.... it makes you "better looking" ! But we don't tell guys "Don't be better looking, the way to be better looking is to get RICH. Then being better looking comes along automatically". It's not the right advice, it's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you really all aspire to look like this?No, in so far as that guys put waaaaaaay more effort into that than is useful/efficient. He is very clearly up against the law of diminishing returns there, and is almost certainly doing that for him and not for anyone else. Look, this is like posting a picture of Usain Bolt and saying "Hey! You park joggers. Is this what you're aiming for ? Is that peak running ?" Yes, it may well be peak running in a sense (over 100m certainly) but it's not what your park joggers are aiming for. They just want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Off Topic Thread: Fun and Games with Banned Words (13 October 2018)Nothing. Just a fun thread thats a bit off our usual topics that amuses us for 7 days before we post the next one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 02:29 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] What is the point of this sub, even?[...cont] You were just claiming that RP ideas have a base in “science” but a good amount of them are not based on any actual research. They are, you just don't necessarily know it (and nor necessarily do most RPM). We did Alpha/Beta above, which are RP terms for scientific divisions in attraction traits in male humans. Well, there are plenty more.... "Pre-Selection" is the RP term that scientists call "mate choice copying" for example, another well supported result. "AF/BB Strategy" in women is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 12:36 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] What is the point of this sub, even?[OK, this is my 2nd shot at this reply, I did a huge one... and it was excellent, really compelling and authoritative, but then my phone ran out of battery before I pressed send and I lost it. Sigh. This one won't be as good.....] My point is that RP normally doesn’t use “scientific knowledge” as the base, or heavily misinterpret the results of the small amounts of studies they do use. My point is about the base of RP specific advise not being based on “science”. It is based on science, although… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 12:35 PM |
| 7 | Why do a lot of the top Red Pillers hate Jordan Peterson?Well, put me down as another RPM who likes JP. Like most I disagree on points, but my disagreement is almost always with JPs attributions as to the source of the trends in human nature he discusses. I’m far more willing than he is to put this down to genetic inheritance, and he seems to want to “Jesus Smuggle” religion in here. He latest series of videos with Sam Harris was excellent, and one the only occasion I think his debate opponent had the better points. Although this could just be because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 04:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The easiest way for weak, ugly, short, unmasculine Men to ascend in the SMP is to just get rich.But hang on. If money increases your status, and status increases your SMV, then how does wealth not increase SMV even if indirectly? Because they’re separate but correlated, this becomes immediately clear where you seek out the cases where this correlation does not happen. So.... Penniless artists and poets.... High Status, and so sexually attractive due to their role, despite being penniless. Perhaps you can add “head of charities” here and other similar things. Doing it the “flip” way (loads … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 01:31 PM |
| 3 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.The Evolution of Human Mate Choice - A Meta Analysis - Page 7 of the PDF is you want to read the whole thing... http://web.simmons.edu/~turnerg/MCC/Matechoice2PDF.pdf Alternative Mating Startegies [This is the female section - TGP] Despite the costs noted in Table 2, women can sometimes benefit by engaging in short-term sexual relationships or a sexual relationship with a man other than her social or marital partner, or by engaging in serial relationships or practicing polyandry. These various a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 01:15 PM |
| 11 | Science: The closest thing in our society to an archetypal "alpha" is a gang member, Mafioso, or school bullyOK, You’re confusing two types of alpha, more or less. You’re description (and the examples of mafioso and gang members) are a perfect description of a historical AF. The guy you might categorise as the “best fighter in the tribe”. The guy you’d want to put in front with a big axe during a fight. In modern RP terms “high in alpha traits, low in beta traits”. There is another type of alpha, an AB. Historically, the guy you might categorise as the “leader of the tribe”. The guy you’d want to put i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 10:46 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The easiest way for weak, ugly, short, unmasculine Men to ascend in the SMP is to just get rich.There are women who fuck insanely rich Men for the clout. Any sexual attractions as part of that comes from the status and not the money. Status is sexually attractive even if money isn’t. Hence all the potato shaped politicians having affairs with office interns. But if they’re having sex “just for the money” and without sexual attraction that’s not really an action in the sexual market place so much as unofficial prostitution. Anyone can sleep with a hot girl if they have $500. Doesn’t mean ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What's the lowest value Male you believe TRP can help get casual sex?Well, As I took pains to point out that 4pt boost is only possible for those nerfers. When you’re down at 0-1 they can’t be nerfers. They must be massively naturally ugly people who are also nerfing. I doubt RPMs could get a 4pt boost there the same way they can for a “naturally average guy” nerfing himself to below average. That guys in the sweet spot for our advice the way a 1 isn’t. I’d say that there is nothing much RP can do for a 0-1. They need to solve problems RP can’t, like their cerebr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 08:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The easiest way for weak, ugly, short, unmasculine Men to ascend in the SMP is to just get rich.I’d guess so, given his love life...but even with DT that’s not the point. He’s 6ft 2, looked ok in his younger days, as a con artist has good linguistic/social/persuasive skills, bags of confidence bordering on arrogance, and dominates everyone around him. If you’re that kind of guy you can have bags on money too ... but any sexual attractiveness you have isn’t coming from the money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 08:00 AM |
| 6 | Q4RP: What's the lowest value Male you believe TRP can help get casual sex?OK, So it's probably a very specific type of man. Some people are SMV4's because of their natural baseline unalterable physical traits, but some people are SMV4's because they're effectively nerfing their roughly average baseline. So, it's going to be a guy who's nerfing themselves that TRP can improve the most. I'd say the most TRP can offer anyone (even the nerfers) is about 4 pts of SMV. I'd say that in order to get regular casual sex you've probably got to be up around 8. That means the very… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Seems paranoid to consider suboptimal male strategic performance without considering it also for women.Well, the first way to answer this is that for 99.99% of the population any “strategies” we talk about are not conscious decisions, but instinctive/sub-conscious strategies. A woman doesn’t decide “he earns $49k a year, and that $1k below my cutoff so strike him from the list”. What happens is her sub-conscious mind/instincts assess his attributes across 101 things and if he meets her threshold it sends “be sexually attracted to this guy” emotions, and if he doesn’t “do not be attracted to this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 04:14 PM |
| 1 | The one "double standard" I actually think and not just a product of biology/evolutionary psychologyI think you’ll find everyone laughs at the fat women claiming this just as much as they laugh at the men doing the same. I know the women themselves love that body positivity message. I’m not seeing anyone who isn’t a huge fat women actually buying it though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 01:34 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] What is the point of this sub, even?OK, I still think you’re missing the distinction here im trying to make, and that RP makes. If you “take scientific knowledge” and then you add to that “something that is not scientific knowledge” and then claim that “the result is science!” That is pseudo-science. Claiming something is a scientific exercise when it is not. However, If you “take scientific knowledge” and then you add to that “something that is not scientific knowledge” and then claim that “the result is something you should do, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 12:39 PM |
| 8 | CMV: The easiest way for weak, ugly, short, unmasculine Men to ascend in the SMP is to just get rich.Nope. Money does not add to your Sexual market value, so it does not affect your position in the SMP. Money makes you more attractive for a relationship but not more attractive sexually. So money does indeed increase your RMV and so affects your position in the RMP. The easiest way to conceptualise it is with two twins who are identical in all respects. Working median wage jobs, one of them has a small lottery win, making him richer. (It’s a lottery win in order to take “status” out of the game … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Men should go into blue collar workYeah -- there is a world of difference between office drone and true professional. An IQ of 130 is going to be on the low end for doctors and lawyers. I don’t think it’s low end even for doctors and lawyers. They’re (together) probably 2.5% of pop by themselves (over 130 is 2.3%) and you’ve got to consider a large part of the 2.3% are working hyper-intelligence requiring roles like Wall Street quants, NSA cryptography, top scientists and professors. I’d say 130 is probably top half or top third … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Men should go into blue collar workI dunno. I’d say probably 2/3 of pop that could do white collar jobs perfectly well... But there is probably only 1/3 of pop for whom this is actually a better choice than blue collar as they’ll be able to make really good headway in that kind of role. For the 1/3rd in the middle they can work both, but BC probably fits their skills better and they’d have more success here even though they could do both. They’re going to struggle to get promotions and climb the ladder in WC but could probably do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Men should go into blue collar workActually, funnily enough, I did the same when working blue collar... I listened to the UK equivalent of NPR the BBCs Radio 4. But, I prefer goofing off on the PC that comes with my white collar role, although I guess I could still listen to radio 4 on my headphones if I wanted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Men should go into blue collar workIt’s still not using him to the best of his ability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Men should go into blue collar workGo to a Mensa meeting and tell me how many CEOs you see None, you have to be 132 to get into Mensa. But, thats exactly why you'd rocket up the corporate ladder with 2.3% ahead of you. Those 2.3% aren't in corporate. They're top scientists, professors, guys who work for the NSA doing maths. At 130 you're about maxing out the intelligence you can expect to find in a standard white collar role. That kind of guy is going to go up the white collar ladder quickly. He's going to solve problems faster a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 10:40 PM |
| 7 | Men should go into blue collar workOk, but were not talking high class vs low class we’re talking blue collar vs white collar. The guy at Starbucks is working blue collar, not white. And, to a certain extent I agree with you, there is definitely a place in the IQ spectrum where you’re better off working BC for all sorts of reasons. But that’s NOT up above 110-115. Above there, you’ve got the goods to make the white collar big bucks and the white collar big bucks beat the blue collar big bucks hands down, AND you’re better positio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 07:04 PM |
| 4 | Men should go into blue collar workWell, the trick is to get up and out of the cube. Go get a client facing role, or get a corner office. Another benefit that WC offers over BC is that you very frequently get the ability to work from home at least 1 day a week, and that puts you in a perfect environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 06:00 PM |
| 4 | Men should go into blue collar workWell, if only all CMVs were so easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 04:27 PM |
| 18 | Men should go into blue collar workOK, I appreciate the general thrust here. But it seems to me you’ve made some assumptions and ignored some obvious drawbacks (even confining this to a purely sexual strategy context). First, blue collar jobs are generally low status in addition to being low income. That’s not to say all white collar jobs are high status, far from it.... But white collar starting jobs generally out you on a ladder in which the top rungs come with status... whereas starting blue collar jobs put you on a ladder whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 03:42 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] What is the point of this sub, even?You said the trials and errors add to scientific knowledge. Yes, their is a corpus of knowledge that is scientific. Only people using the scientific method can add further scientific knowledge to this. What RP does is take this corpus and add further knowledge which is not scientific in order to derive actionable advice from the science. Look, the mechanics/engineers aren’t doing science either. They’re doing the same. Adding to the knowledge given by physics further knowledge added by other met… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Incels and Low Grade Reds want to be Beta BucksYes, I agree with you. I too am extremely prone to procrastination. My “conscientiousness” score in the big 5 is as next to 0 as makes no difference. I spend a lot of my time battling to overcome this, and I am low on sympathy for guys who actively choose not to... particularly when they seem to spend their procrastination time “dragging other crabs back into the bucket” as incels seem to do. Everyone has enough reasons “not to do stuff” as they stand. The last thing they need is to sign up to a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 09:59 AM |
| 1 | [Serious] What is the point of this sub, even?That isn’t exactly true. RP doesn’t add anything to the “scientific knowledge” of dating relationships. I didn't say it did. It adds "trial and error" to scientific knowledge, trial and error by itself isn't scientific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Incels and Low Grade Reds want to be Beta BucksTop level answers in a CMV thread have to challenge OPs view, so this has been removed. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Incels and Low Grade Reds want to be Beta BucksIncels and Low Grade Reds want to be Beta Bucks OK, I'm going to take this on an odd way... First, Incels and (perhaps even) low grade reds should want to be beta bucks. Or at least, develop Beta that increases their RMV (but not SMV). Second, that the incels and low grade reds don't want to be BB and so don't want to develop the beta they need for an RMV buff. Basically, they're going to max out on SMV. TRP can only really add between 2-4 pts of SMV. And if you're hitting an improvement of 4 yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | What's something you don't understand?No, there is a difference between saying "I know what they are" and saying "You can't tell me you know what they are". On the racial bias analogy... it's the difference between saying "you are definitely unconsciously racist" and saying "You can't honestly tell me you are not unconsciously racist". That was the point of the original thread, and the 2nd time we went over it, and the point of this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | What's something you don't understand?I said it wasn’t a thing for me, it wasn’t then and it isn’t now. None of this shit is as well documented or scientifically proven like the existence of an immune system I mean really. Much less that it’s so proven you can tell a specific individual they are actually wrong about their own preferences like you did with me. To be fair, I wasn't saying I knew your preferences.... so much as you could not with the surety you were claiming you did. We can't access our internal processes to the degree… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 07:51 PM |
| 1 | What's something you don't understand?It’s a dumb argument to make here yes, I might as well follow you around telling you nothing you write is actually conclusive and it’s actually the opposite as long as I have some evo psych/social science study backing me up. I don’t follow you around saying anything. In the original thread you denied it had any effect on you, either consciously or unconsciously. I accepted it had no conscious effect, but said that your conscious assessment of the effect couldn’t cover the possibility that it wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 06:11 PM |
| 2 | What's something you don't understand?It’s a dumb argument “nah uh this does affect you you just don’t know it so you’re wrong.” Is it a dumb argument when people make it regarding unconscious racial bias too ? And AFAIK, there isn’t some definitive body of literature proving preselection is for certain a thing, much less that it’s a thing that affects all women. The scientific term for what RP calls pre-selection is "mate choice copying". It's an extremely common effect among all animals, (1,320 results in Google Scholar) but I'll … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Of Child Nurture and Masculinity.Watch the other Brits commenting on this thread. There is a reason Piers decamped to the US, where people didn’t know who he was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 04:37 PM |
| 1 | What's something you don't understand?Why not ? If unconscious bias exists, and those that have it are utterly unaware, I could only ever claim not to be consciously biased and not be aware of any other bias I may have. It’s only unfair to call me a racist in so far as that term presupposes conscious bias. I won’t admit to a conscious bias because there isn’t any, but I couldn’t deny the existence that unconscious bias may affect me, given the literature on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 04:35 PM |
| 2 | What's something you don't understand?OK. If you were discussing unconscious bias with relation to racism... would you similarly insist that because you’re not consciously racist, and can detect no change in behaviour due to race, that unconscious racial bias doesn’t affect you either ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 04:15 PM |
| 9 | Of Child Nurture and Masculinity.On behalf of all British people... Fuck Piers Morgan. Little shit. In relation to your questions.... Piers Morgan is effectively a traditional media troll. In deigning to treat his trolling as a serious position you’re playing his game and increasing his profile. The mans a self-aggrandising shit. Ignore him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 04:12 PM |
| 2 | What's something you don't understand?I can understand something but not relate to it at all. I can’t relate to the idea of preselection for example. At the risk of reigniting our long standing pre-selection row.... You’ve heard of “unconscious bias”, right ? The concept that perfectly consciously non-racist people treat other races differently, as exposed by measurements of their actions, even if they (quite rightly) report no conscious bias at all because there is none ? Pre-Selection is an unconscious bias of that type, where you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 04:10 PM |
| 1 | A ‘Sugar Date’ Gone SourQ4Men: Do you find prostitutes repulsive and worthless (as partners and/or as members of society)? No. I may be atypical in that I find them neither repulsive or worthless. I think it’d certainly lower the value I’d put on her as a long term mate, just as less mercenary promiscuity would, but no so faras to make that value 0. And I certainly don’t consider them repulsive. Q4All: Do you think the stigma against sex work is an injustice and will / should it ever expire? Yes, I think it’s unjust. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Male Success is EasyYou’re confusing SMV and RMV. Financial success increases your beta traits. That increases your RMV but not your SMV. STEM is a pretty good example of that. If you want a career which increases your SMV then you need something like solider or firefighter that signal alpha traits like protection, risk taking behaviour, dominance. There is a reason they swoon over guys in marine uniforms in a way they don’t over guys wearing the STEM “khakis and a patterned shirt” uniform ... (says stem guy attend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Men do not age like wine.That OK. You wernt being mean about anything or acting like a total arse so you’re OK. I’ve reapproved above, and the only ones I can still see down you’ve either deleted or remain uncivil. Welcome to the sub, you’ll get the hang of the rules fairly quick and they’re summarised in the sidebar for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 08:19 AM |
| 5 | Is this sub a new platform for the Manosphere?It’s a debate site. We’re here for debate between RP and non-RP perspectives, have members with varying viewpoints (including RP), and we’ve been around for about 5 years, way before the quarantine. If you’d like to know more read our wiki. Links are in the sidebar and top menu. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 08:06 AM |
| 2 | Men do not age like wine.The comments been removed. Most people just leave it like that for a short comment like this. All you need to do is to not do it again. If you’d like me to reinstate it, remove the bits about “cope” with an edit and reply to this comment to let me know you’re done, I’ll then reappeove. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Men do not age like wine.No “cope” replies. Make your point without it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 08:00 AM |
| 0 | CMV: As a man, there is no real way to determine your attractiveness other than casual sex.No “cope” replies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 07:58 AM |
| 1 | All else equal, women care more about “how you come off” than your “raw goods physical looks”What I think you're missing is the fact that TRP has a large image problem I don’t think I’m missing that. hell, the sub was just quarantined FFS. In large part because it's so overpopulated with incels who self-identify as TRPers Well, I think the native grown TRP stuff was probably enough to do that all on its own, incels or not. I don’t know if you recall but TRP has been unpopular around here for a long time, longer than we’ve had an incel problem. So much so there is some kind of sub knocki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 07:54 AM |
| 1 | [Serious] What is the point of this sub, even?There are. They’re all sorts of advice blogs and columns on the internet. RPs just about the only one that adds “trial and error” across a large baseline of men to the science. It’s very rare to find a blog that has a few thousand guys trying out their stuff, reporting back, and refining. Usually it’s a one-man-band doing slightly better written SRU_91 posts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 07:42 AM |
| 4 | [Serious] What is the point of this sub, even?I didn't say it was. The science is the science.... what you do with it isn't the science. Any more than 2 guys in a garage putting an engine together is "science" because what makes the engine work is "physics". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 07:52 PM |
| 3 | [Serious] What is the point of this sub, even?Yes and there are BOOKS that are DEFINITIVE about engineering too though. And no-one has written anything like that. Humans haven't got there yet. What we've got now are things like RP, which attempt to make a Praxeology out of the scientific knowledge, and the actual practice of real world trial and error. There aren't any Advanced Institutes of Sexual Strategy. There are guys banging things with a hammer, and making them work, because they know physics and they know hammers. If you're looking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 07:26 PM |
| – | CMV: If you can't attract a woman, you are, by dictionary definition, sterile.No shitposting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 07:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: As a man, there is no real way to determine your attractiveness other than casual sex.Top Level comments in a CMV thread must attempt to challenge OPs view, so this has been removed. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 07:09 PM |
| 9 | [Serious] What is the point of this sub, even?No, but there are studies on what decisions that humans make affect mating choices. Yes, but there isn’t anything there you can actually turn into actionable plans. It’s all bare scientific data, not something actually integrateable to a human life. It’s a bit like physics. Physics is a great explanation about how natural objects work. But you can’t build an engine with a physics textbook. You need an engineer and the discipline engineering. They specialise I’m turning the knowledge of physics i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 06:45 PM |
| 37 | [Serious] What is the point of this sub, even?It’s right there in the sidebar PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to /r/TheBluePill and /r/TheRedPill. In regards to your view that “this has all been studied”... you’re right, it has been. There is a lot of scientific information out there. What that scientific information never does is relate that knowledge to actions humans can take in their everyday lives, that’s not what science does. So there is lots of information in, s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 06:14 PM |
| 5 | What I've observed so far lAnd you wanted to discuss.....? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 05:59 PM |
| 3 | CMV: As a man, there is no real way to determine your attractiveness other than casual sex.Women do this funny thing where if they like a guy in an emotional-romantic sense and want to date him for real, they won't have sex with him too early even if they want to. In fact, they would have hooked up with him casually in a heartbeat if they didn't like him, but because they like him, they want to make sure he likes them back before having sex and getting hurt. Yeah, they do do this. I don’t think it’s related to “not getting hurt” though. Men instinctively divide women into short-term m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 05:48 PM |
| 1 | When I'm married will I eventually lose attraction for my wife?It’s a male hormone. The male equivalent to oxytocin in females (although men have oxytocin too). Here is how it’s relevant ... https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pair_bond#Humans_and_pair_bonding | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 03:26 PM |
| 1 | [Sensitive content] At what age do men find women's FACES most attractive?Be Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 02:59 PM |
| 3 | When I'm married will I eventually lose attraction for my wife?Human males are built to be attracted to women in the prime of their fertility. But they’re also built to remain attracted to women for extensive periods of time. At least the 15-25 years needed to raise 2-3 kids to full adulthood. Different mechanisms kick in. Vasopressin is your friend :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 02:58 PM |
| 3 | When I'm married will I eventually lose attraction for my wife?Do you eventually lose attraction for your wife? No, not in my experience. Does the urge to commit adultery grow or lessen as you gain familiarity with a person? Again, IME, it lessens but it was never high for me at all in any case. Does it actually get boring sleeping with only one person over and over or is that just in the movies? Yes, if you get into a rut this can definitely happen. It can be avoided by not getting in that rut, but this doesn’t come automatically as it may do with a new gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 02:36 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: would you date an unstable, broke hot girl?A good friend of our family is FtoM. He’s married to another friend of our family (Female) who knew him both pre and post op and they started dating during his surgical transition period. She’s perfectly stable and as a childfree couple they’re very far from broke. IIRC she has a very good career in the city. If you want a negative, she’s not hot.... but she is definitely not broke, nor unstable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 02:20 PM |
| 1 | All else equal, women care more about “how you come off” than your “raw goods physical looks”I’ve never denied being condescending online. I’m well aware of how I come off, you’re just going to have to live with it. And if you didn’t care about being wrong, that’s fine too. You coulda just stopped responding you know. As long as you appeared to want to talk about it I was prepared to explain what I saw as going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 10:46 AM |
| 4 | Off Topic Thread: Fun and Games with Banned Words (13 October 2018)Did you report the blues circlejerking back and forth ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/18 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Off Topic Thread: Fun and Games with Banned Words (13 October 2018)Thats not the problem so far as I can see, here's my view of what the problem is from our thread a few weeks ago.... https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/9c58yf/reporting_and_circlejerking/e586a8o/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/18 11:29 AM |
| 2 | Off Topic Thread: Fun and Games with Banned Words (13 October 2018)We had quite an extensive discussion on why this appears to be the case, but is not actually the case a couple of weeks ago... https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/9c58yf/reporting_and_circlejerking/e586a8o/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/18 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Off Topic Thread: Fun and Games with Banned Words (13 October 2018)Oooooh, thats a good one... We could call it the "anti-flounce rule". No flouncing! This subreddit is Flounce Free since 2018! 12 days since last Flounce! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/18 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Off Topic Thread: Fun and Games with Banned Words (13 October 2018)Welsh people will be pissed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/18 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Off Topic Thread: Fun and Games with Banned Words (13 October 2018)The welsh would riot! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/18 07:56 AM |
| 5 | Off Topic Thread: Fun and Games with Banned Words (13 October 2018)I don't know why, but that one has always struck me as excessively juvenile and not very funny. Different strokes for different folks I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/18 07:55 AM |
| 3 | Off Topic Thread: Fun and Games with Banned Words (13 October 2018)You have a sub, are all these words banned on there already ? Or haven't you been able to find out yet as you're the only person posting there and you keep your own rules ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/18 07:54 AM |
| 4 | Off Topic Thread: Fun and Games with Banned Words (13 October 2018)I take it you're not starting a sub for small animal aficionados then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/18 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Off Topic Thread: Fun and Games with Banned Words (13 October 2018)As PPD-Angel said below automod... it's not so much normal english language use of the word thats banned, as it is the use of it as a single word comment reply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/18 07:53 AM |
| 1 | We should listen to opposite sex about what is attractive and not projections from our own genders.Make up can damage the skin causing it to be blotchy and dull, i know a couple of women who never wear makeup and their skin is radiant and clear. So a better comparison would be the porn star with make up vs the porn star never wearing makeup. Maybe, it's going to be very hard to get "never wear make-up" shots though, because so many women wear make-up. Another comparison worth considering is the porn star with out make up vs the porn star carrying an extra 3/4 stone for example or being 10 yea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/18 07:51 AM |
| 1 | All else equal, women care more about “how you come off” than your “raw goods physical looks”It makes zero sense to go around lecturing outsiders for not being able to parse the intricacies of a group they don't belong to, which is exactly what you're doing. TRP, and you, should try controlling the messaging that's leaving your in-group, so as not to confuse outsiders It makes perfect sense, on a site dedicated to debating RP, to try and debate what RP is about. Thats going to involve correcting people who got it wrong. Instead, your chosen route is condescending and off-putting. Becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/18 07:35 AM |
| 2 | We should listen to opposite sex about what is attractive and not projections from our own genders.As a man, I can look a woman from a distance away and know straight away whether or not I'd have sex with her or not, in fact I can look at a woman from behind without seeing her face a determine whether or not I'd have sex with her or not and I imagine most men will be the same as I am pretty typical. I think thats right. I think the extent to which dress, hair and makeup factor into that instant instinctive decision is the issue. If it somehow "fools" those instinctive processes, by making the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/18 09:34 PM |
| 3 | Off Topic Thread: Fun and Games with Banned Words (13 October 2018)Please don't try out "cope cope" on us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/18 09:25 PM |
| 3 | We should listen to opposite sex about what is attractive and not projections from our own genders.I disagree but sympathise as I understand how it could seem that way but I reiterate that the idea that you have to wear make comes from other women and not men, so i a sense you are dressing to impress other women knowingly or unknowingly. I disagree with this, but for the purposes of this particular argument... who cares. Men still assess women relative to other women in working out whether they are attractive. Regardless of the reason any women is wearing the makeup in a world of women doing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/18 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Off Topic Thread: Fun and Games with Banned Words (13 October 2018)Thats the fallacy fallacy!. Would I get double banned from your sub if I yell "fallacy fallacy!" back at them ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/18 07:58 PM |
| – | Are liberal or conservative states better for Indian American males?No Shitposting. And definitely no race/incel based shitposting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/18 07:48 PM |
| 15 | We should listen to opposite sex about what is attractive and not projections from our own genders.Thats not really how it works. They're getting compared to other girls, who are also wearing makeup, when setting their level. In a world where no-one wears make-up, the girl doing so has an advantage. In a world in which every girl wears make-up, she's only maintaining her natural place relative to other girls when she puts make-up on (and is actually sliding down the scale when she doesn't do so). It's a Red Queens Race where all involved are "running as hard as they can, just to stay in the s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/18 05:54 PM |
| 6 | Mothers who intentionally commit paternity fraud should be held accountable in civil, family, and possibly criminal court.And they've all been approved (except for one of yours removed for being uncivil) because we only remove when rules are being broken, not when an actual debate is breaking out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/18 05:46 PM |
| 2 | We should listen to opposite sex about what is attractive and not projections from our own genders.Hi OP, This was stuck in our new account spam filter. I have approved, but as you made an affirmative claim in your title I have flaired it as a CMV. This means top level responses must attempt to change some aspect of the view in your title. Non-top level comments and comments under automod can agree with you. It also means you are expected to participate in the thread with an open mind to changing your view, or it may be deleted. If you don't wish to have it flaired as CMV you are welcome to d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/18 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4Rp men with daughters, what age do you think your daughter should get married and why?She should get married when she wants to, and has a guy worth getting married to. I think she's likely to be happier if this is relatively young, something like late twenties... and thats also going to make creating me some grandkids an easier lift. But thats contingent on so many factors I'm not going to specify that as an age she "must" get married by. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/18 11:44 AM |
| 1 | How influential are feminist blogs when it comes to how women view men?This post was reported for being off-topic. I've allowed it to stay up as our policy here is that feminism can be a valid subject of debate when the question raised is how feminism affects men (which is a subject of importance to RP, and so a valid debate subject round here). So it's inside the rules....just. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/18 11:40 AM |
| 1 | All else equal, women care more about “how you come off” than your “raw goods physical looks”Honestly, re-reading this thread ... Why are you so weirdly obsessed with TRP dogma / speaking points? I'm trying to represent honestly what they are. One of the areas that draw my comments is when people are mis-representing what they are. The vast majority of guys posting at TRP are - by your own explanation - in need of correction by ECs. Well, yeah. Thats always been the case. The guys who post frequently on TRP are almost always new people trying to figure RP out. As they do so, their posti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/18 11:34 AM |
| 2 | All else equal, women care more about “how you come off” than your “raw goods physical looks”You’re moving goal posts. You’re initial comment was that the looks-obsessed are incels, not TRPers My initial point was... I don’t think TRP “Hand Wrings” over height, unless TRP has changed a lot recently that’s an incel/blackpill concern. TRP almost completely ignored it because it’s not a developable trait. As I said, unless things have changed thats what RP does now. The guys "wringing their hands over height" both here, and at TRP, are incels posting there. The TRP position on height is "Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/18 07:27 PM |
| 2 | All else equal, women care more about “how you come off” than your “raw goods physical looks”What I’m saying is that you’re engaging in a No True Scotsman argument No, I am making no claims about what the incel is, I'm making claims about what RP is. To go back to our feminist example... I'm not saying "She's not a feminist because she supports minimum wage".... I'm saying "support for the minimum wage is not a position of feminism". Look, I'm sure there are feminists who are also pro-life. Maybe they post on a feminism forum in support of pro-life positions. That doesn't mean that the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/18 06:00 PM |
| 4 | All else equal, women care more about “how you come off” than your “raw goods physical looks”You can't invite incels into TRP try and save them/"lead them to water" and then demand that outsiders recognize the line between your group and incels. Why not ? TRP is open to “all males” in much the same way feminism is open to “all females”. If a sub group of “all males” have a particularly weird viewpoint thatTRP doesn’t share it’s relevant to point out it’s the viewpoint of that group, not of TRP. Perhaps a feminist sub has, say, a bunch of “Democratic Women” turn up and start banging on a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/18 04:27 PM |
| 6 | All else equal, women care more about “how you come off” than your “raw goods physical looks”I don’t think TRP “Hand Wrings” over height, unless TRP has changed a lot recently that’s an incel/blackpill concern. TRP almost completely ignored it because it’s not a developable trait. The muscles is more reasonable, and it’s not so much hand wringing as it’s something (like being ideal weight) that any man can develop, and which typically adds significant physical attractiveness as well as increasing psychological attributes that women find attractive (confidence, dominance among other male… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/18 02:34 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I’ve failed at live because at 27, I’m unmarried and childless.I didn’t get married until I was 33, and didn’t have kids until 34. But I’m a guy. If you’re also a guy, you’ve still got plenty of time. If you’re a gal, you’ve got time... but perhaps not quite “plenty”. I didn’t feel the pressure you talk about. But, again, I’m a guy. I was also in a very stable relationship at 27 that had started when I was 24 and was clearly going to lead to the marriage/kids thing. A lot of this depends on where you are now and your sex. If you’re a gal, and are not in a r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/18 01:57 PM |
| 1 | The redpill seems pretty big on black and white thought and lacks nuanceWell, if the “shaming” is doing all the heavy lifting in their position, and so if you pulled the shaming out you get the opposite conclusion, that’s the time to challenge that framing. If it doesn’t meaningfully affect what they’re saying, why would you bother? The key thing here was the negative wording was doing 100% of the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 04:19 PM |
| 3 | The redpill seems pretty big on black and white thought and lacks nuanceI understand the difference between a neutral statement and one with loaded, critical terms. I just don't get the more-recent wave of folks calling each other out because of that as being 'shaming' and tbh I did not expect to see that complaint come from you. That is par for the course for PPD. I called him out on it as what he’d said didn’t make sense as a statement without it. Once you stripped it away his statement (which may have seemed reasonable at first glance) was revealed to be obviousl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 04:11 PM |
| 6 | The redpill seems pretty big on black and white thought and lacks nuanceYes they do, but there are patterns to how they see the world (particularly the other sex) that conform to their gender. Maybe all people see forearms differently. But I’ll bet you dollars to donuts the vast majority of those who find hairy and strong ones sexually attractive are heterosexual women (or homo men) and the majority who see them as not sexually attractive are heterosexual men (or homo women). You can try to play this game all you like. You know it’s as true as I do. If I gave you a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 04:05 PM |
| 7 | The redpill seems pretty big on black and white thought and lacks nuanceOk. Let’s try an example.... Neutral statement.... Sue went to the hairdressers today because she wanted to look nice. Shaming statement.... Sue should work on herself if she is stable mentally she’d have a higher chance than someone who neurotically goes to the hairdressers just to impress men. She went to the hairdressers. Something perfectly normal (as is trying to look attractive to girls, if a heterosexual guy). The second statement is trying to shame her for doing so by using loaded langua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 03:58 PM |
| 7 | The redpill seems pretty big on black and white thought and lacks nuanceWorking on a trait of interest to 0.1% of your target group, and turning off 99.9% of them (as a girl I should develop strong/hairy forearms) is NOT equivalent to developing a trait that 99.9% of your target group are interested in and turning off 0.1% (as a girl I should develop a pretty face). Where there are broad and generalisable differences between groups, you’re always better off targeting the broad and generalisble differences that exist. Men and Women are not the same regarding what the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 03:52 PM |
| 16 | The redpill seems pretty big on black and white thought and lacks nuanceHe implied people working on being attractive to women were “not stable mentally”, outright called them neurotic,and ascribed a motivation “trying to impress” that’s usually held out as a negative. He was loading his statement with freight intended to imply people who disagree with him had those negative traits. Once you took away all that negative freight he loaded it with, his statement was obviously wrong. It only “looked” reasonable due to the freight he had loaded on it with “mentally stabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 03:40 PM |
| 13 | The redpill seems pretty big on black and white thought and lacks nuanceBecause they’re in those groups even if they are individuals. Men and women are fundamentally psychologically different in regards to sex. IF you’re a heterosexual man, you are unlikely to be attracted to strong, hairy forearms (for example). A woman developing “strong and hairy forearms” to attract a man is therefore doin it rung even though men are individuals. Men and women are fundamentally, instinctively, genetically different when it comes to sex. Anyone failing to treat them that way... “… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 03:35 PM |
| 16 | The redpill seems pretty big on black and white thought and lacks nuanceWho says anything about “neurotically” if I take your attempted Shaming language out of it, you’re clearly wrong. Guys who work out “what women look for in men” and then “build a man who has those attributes women seek” is going to have a waaaay higher chance than a man who doesn’t seek to be the kind of man women find attractive. Just as you’d expect a man who has learned how to play chess to be better than his novice twin... a man who has genuinely built traits women find attractive is going t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 03:27 PM |
| 18 | The redpill seems pretty big on black and white thought and lacks nuanceWell, exactly. Treating a rule that is often (but not always) true gets results you can’t access with attempting to follow a “truer” but more qualified statement. It creates a behaviour that’s beneficial the “nuanced” rule does not. That’s the benefit of heuristics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 03:00 PM |
| 2 | What's the impact of children maturing early physically and emulating adults earlier than in the past?what’s the impact of children maturing early physically and emulating adults earlier than in the past ? Well, I’d start with.... are they ? Perhaps they’re doing so in comparison to the recent past. The last 70 years or so. I’d question whether they’re doing so in relation to the “rest of the past”... all the billions of years of it (or millions of restricting to after we became humans). I’d say kids in (say) 1800 probably were expected to “adult” way earlier than kids do today. Down the mines a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 02:47 PM |
| 59 | The redpill seems pretty big on black and white thought and lacks nuanceThis is at least partly because RP works of heuristics. That is... “Rules that may not be true in all circumstances, but which give overall positive results if you treat them as if they were always true” The typical non RP heuristic is “treat all guns as loaded”. It’s definitely not true that all guns are loaded, but it gives consistently good results if you believe they are even in error. Saying “Most guns aren’t loaded, so check whether the gun is loaded and treat it appropriately” is more “co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 02:37 PM |
| 1 | The Purge concludesIf you’re looking for an AI non-fiction book recommendation ... I’d go with Nick Bostroms Superintelligence. It’s almost certainly the book gates/musk et al are drawing part or all of their views from as it’s the primary summary of AI risk in print. On your points above, on my understanding I think you’re misdiagnosing the issue. It’s relatively easy to set an AI with a baseline set of “rules” or “motivations” it cannot change, even whilst it learns and configures itself elsewhere. You can just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Women saying that they like "dad bods" is just as false and idiotic as men saying that they like "MILFs"2- It is like a man saying that he likes MILFs when all he likes is conventionally sexy 33-year-olds with better bodies than 98% of younger women. I like MILFs... and that not inconsistent with your explanation. MILF is a subset of women in that age range, the rest are “Mothers I would NOT like to fuck”. But then again, I’m in my 40s. To me most Milfs are still younger than me, and so it’s still consistent with men “dating down” in age. I find porn that’s directed to 18-21 yo women is now of ver… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Is self-improvement ultimately self-defeating (in dating and life)?Be Civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 08:59 AM |
| 1 | CMV: As a male, it doesn't take major character flaws to struggle in the dating worldTop level replies to a CMV must challenge OPs view so this has been removed. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you think a guy becomes more attractive if you find out he is taken?Plenty of modern studies show this effect in modern populations. Semicolon cited one above where on a std 1-10 SMV scale being seen “with an attractive woman on your arm” adds on average 0.6 SMV points to a mans rating. That’s consistent with the studies I’ve seen that generally put it 0.5-1.0 SMV points of “attractiveness” that’s added. However, as it’s entirely instinctual and subconscious it’s likely that women giving conscious/written answers will underestimate the effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Post pictures of what you think a "dad bod" is.This is a Q4W thread, all top level answers have to come from women, so this comment has been removed. It's welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Post pictures of what you think a "dad bod" is.Sorry wub, Q4W. This comment has been removed. You're welcome to post this under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 08:47 PM |
| – | Why do they call abortion "the right to choose" when women already have the right to choose to keep their legs closed?We're not a sub for incels to troll, go elsewhere with this shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 October 2018)No. It was awful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 08:19 PM |
| – | It's all about genetics/looks.Thread has been removed. We no longer take incel content. If you want to post about incels do so on Braincels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (07 October 2018)Rock and Ska. Generally of late 60s-70s vintage OR 90s stuff. Fuck the 80s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessBe Civil poppy, purge week is over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is misunderstood, which is a shame because it is a useful way of understanding relationshipsIts behaviour that is the part of your problem that keeps you on zero. I don't know you. Maybe you could never have a double digit N count because you've got a face like a bag of spanners. But if you fixed the things about you that were fixable, you could do way better than zero. And something approximating the kind of life I, or my ugly friends, have had. You're never going to be Usain Bolt. But you don't have to be Usain Bolt to catch a fat chick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 08:54 PM |
| – | CMV: Colonialism is a good thingNo. We're a sex debate sub. This isn't our material, you're not talking about red pill, or about sexual relationships in general. It's a race debate which is against Rule 6. No Race-Baiting or Racially Charged Content So, no. Purge week is over. Sub rules are back in place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is misunderstood, which is a shame because it is a useful way of understanding relationshipsI've got other friends, who are not hot. Who are ugly. And who have had the same successful sex lie I have had. I've seen enough of life to see that ugly guys can get laid perfectly well, with women who want to sleep with them, if they're not also repulsive on a dozen other social/psychological factors. Thats as much inels problem as their looks. And if they fixed that, they'd have perfectly normal sex lives pretty dead average for the early 21st C. Some of them significantly better than that. B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is misunderstood, which is a shame because it is a useful way of understanding relationshipsI replied. And its crazy how you're taking pride in being a provider. Why wouldn't I take pride in being a perfectly normal human being, with a nicely above average N count, a happy family, a sexy wife, and an enjoyable life ? Of course that involves providing. I have 2 kids to provide for. That no more makes me a Beta Bux than you're Elvis Presley. My wife finds me sexually attractive, and always has done. As did the other girls I had relationships with. Why wouldn't I be proud of my life ? Esp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"I was using US cdc data. But I'm not setting an "N Count value" for the girl... because males don't assess promiscuity as "is she a standard deviation above the mean US average, which is a number I totally know". They assess whether they think a female is promiscuous subjectively on "has she slept with more people than me". Thats the point. So if she rides for (say) a year, and adds 3 toher count (say). Thats going to make the 0-1 male crowd rate her as promiscuous. If she does for 2 years and a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is misunderstood, which is a shame because it is a useful way of understanding relationshipsAttraction IS looks though and most of attraction is consisted of it. No. T'isnt. Nobody cares about your unsubstantiated TRP claims that are based off PUA scam artists who have money to make. How 'bout I told you that the vast bulk of the things on that list are similarly backed with the kind of science I linked you above ? RP's alpha traits list is, basically, the list an Evolutionary Psychologist would give you for Genetic Markers of Fitness and the beta traits list is basically their list fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is misunderstood, which is a shame because it is a useful way of understanding relationshipsI know its looks, but even in the whole equation of looks, there are prereqs. Thats not what I said. Attractive != Looks. Attractive == RP Alpha Trait List. They are. Look we can play 'tis ... no, t'isnt until the cows come home. You have to have an argument. Not at all. After all, the sole point of this sub is to discuss relationship and sexual dynamics. It is but we don't discuss all 1 million aspects of it all at once. Here we're discussing the composition of attractiveness and pre-req's with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is misunderstood, which is a shame because it is a useful way of understanding relationshipsI've discussed this with others. All of this is also limited by rib shape and size. And body is only secondary to having a nice face and height. I didn't say its useless, but this is another case of "prereqs come first." Again, their "pre-requisite" is that you are Attractive. In so far as muscles and ideal weight contribute to making you attractive they contribute to this pre-req. Facial Aesthetics is not the pre-req. Yes and the scientific study is making implications that makes it incomplete.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 05:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"Didn't I just say guys with an N count of 0-1-2 above ? I'm talking here of men with below average N counts (so lets say under 6). The lower they are under that, the lower quality they will be on average. The guy with the N's of 5 lower quality than guys with 6 on average. The guys on 4 etc etc. By the time you get down to guys with N's 0-1-2 in late twenties, and out "trying to get a g/f and/or wife" you're generally talking about almost exclusively low quality men (plus our religious nuts). Du… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is misunderstood, which is a shame because it is a useful way of understanding relationshipsGenes matter for reproduction. Body types, upper body strength etc also play a part. Yes. But body type and upper body strength is also developable, and something I'd count as a seperate component from "looks" for this reason. Just as I'd carve out fashion sense seperately, for example, even though it makes you look good. Also, nice... good job at promoting betabux. I'm not promoting anything. I'm quoting a scientific article that puts the lie to your statement that either looks is "the only thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is misunderstood, which is a shame because it is a useful way of understanding relationshipsYes. That makes them be selective and try to capture “high quality” men. Looks is a component of high quality but not the only component. http://web.simmons.edu/~turnerg/MCC/Matechoice2PDF.pdf Across age, ethnic status, and socioeco- nomic status, women preferred husbands who were better educated than they were and who earned more money than they did. Buunk and colleagues found the same pattern for women ranging in age from their 20s to their 60s (Buunk, Dijkstra, Fetchenhauer, & Kenrick, 2002).… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 04:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"Well first you’re conflating “high quality” with “physically attractive”. They’re not the same thing. But otherwise that’s about right. In regards to your “dumpster divers” ... that’s not a valid criticism of the theory, because that centres around “low N count == low quality”. There can be low quality men in the high N group and the argument is still valid so long as the low N group is of low quality..... and so there aren’t a large number of high quality men with very low N (except for our rel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is misunderstood, which is a shame because it is a useful way of understanding relationshipsExcept they do. And there are much better and scientifically valid studies that say so, unlike your carefully incel-curated studies designed to tell you want you wanted to hear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | The Purge concludesWell not as well as that ^ Works a pain, just grinding my way to a very early retirement. Kids are doing great, so that’s good. Being a mod is a fucking pain in the arse and I wish I told Cuitler where to stick it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 04:04 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"Reddit sex\mating\dating forums are not representative of the population at large. Agreed. As evidenced by the postings during purge week, this community is much more sexually niche than the population at large....the vast majority of people have n-counts less than 10 by the time that they are in the late 20s. Yes. I think the male reported median is something like 6 and only something like 30% have 15 or more partners. Unless you are in the group who shames people as square and lame if they are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy is misunderstood, which is a shame because it is a useful way of understanding relationshipsI know what a pre-req is. Looks isn’t a pre-requisite. Attractiveness is a pre-requisite. But in women Attractiveness is set by multiple factors of which looks are only one. Ugly men (by facial aesthetics) can still be attractive to females and so sail over their “attractiveness bar”, providing they have other traits that make them attractive to women. Power, status, dominance, etc etc the rest of the alpha list that isn’t “looks”. There are plenty of objectively “ugly” guys who slay... because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 03:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"OK, Then let me try to state the rationale explicitly. The quality of guys is, broadly, inversely proportional to their N count. The lower this is, the more likely they are to be a low quality male (with our religious nut exception). Guys get a bug up their arse about CC riding when the woman has generally slept with more men than they’ve slept with women. Most men’s definition of promiscuous is “slept with more men than I’ve slept with women”. So a guy with an N count of 10 May view any single … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy is misunderstood, which is a shame because it is a useful way of understanding relationshipsNo I was actually one step ahead of you. I was going to reply and say that alpha and beta are about having alpha and beta looks But that wasn’t what I was talking about, and “having alpha or beta looks” is a category error in any case. People have good or bad looks that are a contributor to whether they’re alpha/beta. But looks aren’t a determinant by themselves for anything but the very rare 0.1% who are so stunningly good looking that they’d be attractive whatever their other traits. That’s a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is misunderstood, which is a shame because it is a useful way of understanding relationshipsNo I was actually one step ahead of you. I was going to reply and say that alpha and beta are about having alpha and beta looks But that wasn’t what I was talking about, and “having alpha or beta looks” is a category error in any case. People have good or bad looks that are a contributor to whether they’re alpha/beta. But looks aren’t a determinant by themselves for anything but the very rare 0.1% who are so stunningly good looking that they’d be attractive whatever their other traits. That’s a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 03:17 PM |
| 3 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"Originally my argument was that “people concerned about a fairly standard amount of CC riding common among women” was largely restricted to men women perceive as low quality. In later comments, it had occurred to me that it was these men + a small number of very religious men too. They could have this concern but also, otherwise, be of high quality. So in the latter comment I added this group too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 03:08 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"These people hardly exist in the US, get serious. People who do weekly church have 2+ sexual partners reported per the CDC in the their early 20s. Yeah, thats why I thought it was a small group and initially overlooked it. It was only as I was trying to think of other groups that would have this same aversion that it occurred to me. I don't think it's all THAT small, it's probably about 5% or so of US population which is reasonably substantial. Which is what? 3 men? 5? 7? 15? 25? The kind of lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 02:42 PM |
| 5 | Hypergamy is misunderstood, which is a shame because it is a useful way of understanding relationshipsTell me you don't think that looks affects how the opposite sex interprets what you say and do. That wasn't what I was denying. I talked about Alpha/Beta traits. These are a long list of things that affect male quality. You tried to reduce that to "just looks", asking if thats what I meant. It was not. Hence the No. It's a component of what I meant, but one component amongst many. This is not something you can reduce to "looks". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 02:33 PM |
| 3 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"Third, you are injecting your own value system to define 'normal' we'll adjusted men. Not really. I'm not making a value judgement on them, nor saying they are not-normal, nor saying they're well-adjusted or not. I'm just noting that the circles "men who are perceived by women as low quality" and "men who are extremely concerned about some standard level of CC riding in women" are two circles that heavily overlap. That greatly restricts the impact that has on women. Thats irrespective on any val… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 02:24 PM |
| 7 | Hypergamy is misunderstood, which is a shame because it is a useful way of understanding relationshipsNo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 02:16 PM |
| 5 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"Religious, in so far as biblical prescriptions against "sex before marriage" is an issue. "Not slept around", in so far as didn't experience personally something we'd describe as "riding the CC" in women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 02:16 PM |
| 8 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"2) men shouldn't be able to, or are somehow defective if they, select against such women for their own relationships - I don't see how you can support a woman's free choice to ride the CC but not a man's to decide who to LTR lol. No, the causality is wrong there. Men should be able to select on this. They're not "defective" if they do so, because they do so, either. It doesn't "make them defective". What we've got is a whole lot of "defective" (read, low quality and didn't get a chance to sleep … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 01:44 PM |
| 1 | The Purge concludesOOOOOoooohh, who's this stranger with a gold flair ? Don't recognise that username. Clearly some internet rando who's dropped into PPD for 5 minutes :) How's things ARS ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 01:33 PM |
| 9 | Hypergamy is misunderstood, which is a shame because it is a useful way of understanding relationshipsOK, first I'd expand on your definitions of the terminology slightly. You're correct in that how science uses the word Hypergamy it covers "women who choose men higher in social status only". However, how RP uses the term it refers to a wider concept than this, generally that "Women who choose men they perceive as higher quality". That can involve factors other than social status. You can be of a low social status and still be a high quality male if you make up for that deficiency with other Alp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 01:19 PM |
| 3 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"Exactly. The Venn diagram of the set "Guys who's opinions may affect my sex life" and the set "Guy's who get their nose out of joint because I slept around for a coupla years in college" are two almost entirely separate circles that only overlap by the merest smidgen on the edge of the circle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 12:57 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"ITT, everyone commenting under automod because no-one actually disagrees with OP, apparently. Include /u/BiggerDthanYou what seems like two RP posters agreeing, and none yet disagreeing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 12:55 PM |
| 7 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"To be honest, neither do I. This is just women, or people, doing what they want to do with their sex lives. It's part of the modern "main sequence" for women. IME, women don't do badly out of the whole deal either. They have fun, and it don't hurt them any with the guys they care about in any case. I think the issue here is the perceptions of guys who didn't get a chance to do their own equivalent. They get bent out of shape over this and tend to both ascribe negative motives/character to it AND… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessBe Civil. Purge is over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/18 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Is the male population being reduced to 10% really that bad?They won't be able to. You're shadowbanned. That means people can't access your account page to see old posts/comments. Mods've been approving your comments all week, because purge week. https://www.reddit.com/r/amishadowbanned/ admins to appeal to, though they probably won't reply. https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%23reddit.com | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 07:24 PM |
| 1 | White women are the most attractiveNo race baiting. Purge week is over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 06:54 PM |
| 8 | The Purge concludesJust wanted to let everyone know I've been fucking with their flairs. Many of you will have experienced this. But, I know some people log in with applications that may not show flairs. So.... If you only log in by mobile or app or otherwise don't view flairs you might want to check in on a desktop to see what stupid thing I put in your flair, and then select your own using the link in the sidebar. I just didn't want anyone not to realise because they never see their flair, and then wonder all ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Your favorite fascist dictatorship has heard your cries. "Save us from the incels!" They said. "We feel our IQs dropping! Won't someone THINK OF THE CHILDREN?" They said.I think it's more that we're open minded enough to discuss stuff with racists without dismissing everything they say on every topic "cos dey raciss". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Where’s the best place to hide a body?Ah, CCTV isn't a problem with a bit of planning. Photo taken from the camera's vantage point wired about 18 inches in front of the camera. Jobs a good un. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 05:45 PM |
| 0 | If you want a good gauge of the SMP, try catfishing.Nah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 04:29 PM |
| 0 | If you want a good gauge of the SMP, try catfishing.Because ‘tis. [I’m trying to make my comments shorter] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Where’s the best place to hide a body?How will they check them ? They can’t keep 24hr security on all graveyards, and any disturbance you make is perfectly expected as the grave was only filled a day or two ago. Providing some nosy security guard doesn’t spot you, I think you’re basically fine (and if he does, a coffin can fit 3 right ? Wouldn’t even have to dig a new hole). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 04:22 PM |
| 4 | If you want a good gauge of the SMP, try catfishing.Sorry, still purge week. You’ve gotta put up with the knobends for about 2 1/2 more hours I’m afraid. Then Nazi mods are back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 03:52 PM |
| 5 | If you want a good gauge of the SMP, try catfishing.Yeah, there is. This is whining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 03:51 PM |
| 1 | this post simulates what it's like to read TheGreasyPoleStrangely, I think one of the reasons you lot get blasted by my blocks of text is because I don’t discuss this in the pub, or anywhere else other than here. It’s kinda esoteric, and my friends are WC people who wouldn’t have the slightest interest in, say, evolution or human instinctual behaviour or any of the rest of the subjects I wrote about here. So you lot get blasted because I’ve probably been turning something over in my head for weeks with no one to share it with... and then.... blammo..… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Where’s the best place to hide a body?I always thought.... a cemetery. Sneak in after dark, find a freshly filled grave near the back. Dig it back out (which should be easy as it’s already been loosened once). Open the coffin. Throw an extra body in. Then pop all the dirt back on top again. Jobs a good un. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 02:29 PM |
| 2 | this post simulates what it's like to read TheGreasyPoleThats much better. Captured the easy going conversational style obnoxiousness, the attention to detail pedantry, the interesting sidetracks into related phenomena rambling on. Just not nearly condescending enough to the reader, required much more condescension. My eyes hardly boiled with hatred at all. Nevertheless 8/10, much better than OPs effort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 01:50 PM |
| 3 | this post simulates what it's like to read TheGreasyPoleYou’ve got the repetitiveness, but not the fundamental insight. Could do better. And Dunning-Krueger my arse... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 12:22 PM |
| 2 | You're stuck on an island with three regular PPDers, past or present. Who do you want with you?Stick around, be cool. Say interesting shit. Purge Week 2019 is your year, baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 09:49 PM |
| 6 | You're stuck on an island with three regular PPDers, past or present. Who do you want with you?buartha, The means we already know our 4 stuck on an island. Wub, you, me and Benzo. We're already stuck here, trapped on our island already, it's us four in britain and everything else has been wiped out. We're fucked. We're all gonna die like, instantly. Over/Under is probably about 72 hours. We got none of the good team members on our team. :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 09:46 PM |
| 1 | I like purge week so farMagnus did nothing wrong, either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Purge week is too muchThe shit we don't like is that shit you post dragging everyone else into the bucket. When incels post around here trying to get out, people help them get out because we're normal human beings, and they don't identify as incels anymore. The people pulling yourself in there are you. Almost all of you can get out. Most prefer to drag others back, and to find reasons to drag others back, than try to get out themselves. It's the fucking pit of the damned in there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 09:38 PM |
| 1 | I Have Found the Supreme House-CleanerAh OK, then you're fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | The Purge concludesWe'll use our judgement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | The Purge concludesNo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 08:16 PM |
| 2 | I Have Found the Supreme House-CleanerHow ? If you were an asshole to Young_Oryx thats your problem. No-one else who's flairs I've been changing felt the need to go be an asshole to a mod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 08:16 PM |
| 1 | I Have Found the Supreme House-CleanerYou wern't striking me that way, but then again I haven't been reading your posts so much as fucking with your flair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 08:12 PM |
| 7 | You're stuck on an island with three regular PPDers, past or present. Who do you want with you?/u/planejane ... survival training, military. Deffo no.1 choice for helping me stay alive. Plus woman, I bet they taste nicer if you have to eat them. Not sure I want chewy guys. /u/squidracer ... seem like the kind of American who'd be into survivalist shit, hunting etc. Those are skill holes I got to fill off. Also rides bikes, so can probably mechanic to a basic level required to cannabalise however we got there into stuff we can use. Downsides, probably chewy. /u/young_oryx ... we're maroone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | The Purge concludesYeah, the purge concludes fired 1 day earlier than we were expecting, the mods wanted the extra day so I've reinstated the purge week banners. But for this day we WILL be zapping incel posts immediately, so here's your chance to have fun relatively incel free. Purge week is only as good as the posts the regulars do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 07:58 PM |
| 2 | I Have Found the Supreme House-CleanerHooray! You appear to have removed the stick from your arse, and are loosening up and having some fun. Unfortunately you totally suck at it but, baby steps. Baby steps. Well done on getting the stick out. One day you too could be a normal person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 07:56 PM |
| 8 | Purge week is too muchI don't understand this culture of...let's post 'outrageous' things for the sake of it. It just seems completely juvenile to me. I'd say the betting's pretty good that most of the people doing that are actually juveniles, so.... I don't understand why people choose to define themselves as 'incel', which is obviously completely self-defeating. This is the million dollar question. My take is a lot of it is incels crabbucketing other incels. Everyone involved making it hard for everyone else to get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 07:54 PM |
| 1 | The Purge concludesPurge is back on BTW.... 1 day extension. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | The Purge concludesPurge is back on BTW.... 1 day extension. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | The Purge concludesPurge is back on BTW.... 1 day extension. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 07:48 PM |
| 2 | The Purge concludesPurge is back on BTW.... 1 day extension. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | The Purge concludesPurge is back on BTW.... 1 day extension. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | The Purge concludesPurge is back on BTW.... 1 day extension. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | The Purge concludesPurge is back on BTW.... 1 day extension. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 07:47 PM |
| 2 | The Purge concludesI agree. The purge is back on BTW. 1 day extension. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 07:43 PM |
| 1 | The Purge concludesThen the 4 names I put in above are responsible for 90% of the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 07:40 PM |
| 1 | The Purge concludesYeah, but it iasn't hundreds of incels posting 1 post each. It was about 4 incels posting a shitton of posts. 1 of which was a regular here. I also remember there being lots of incel shitposts last year as well, to the point people were sick of them then too. HeRoped, FireAlarm911, Semb1ance, fschmidt .... it was basically them. There were a lot more posts by regulars too, and by new posters/commenters who just seem to be lurkers, or at least non-incels, posting too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | The Purge concludesI thought it did too, But the mods who originally set the config set 1st-7th and to repeat yearly in the setup. I just left it on. So they fucked up the math last year, and I didn't notice. If I had I'd have kicked it forward a day. Although, TBH, it seems most regulars are breathing a sigh of relief. I was lucky I was online when it happened and could take the banners down and change the automod comment. I'd been planning on doing it tomorrow night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 07:23 PM |
| 1 | The Purge concludesTo be fair only about 2 posts went up on Braincels, And both got next to no upvotes, and only a couple of comments each. I don't know if they stickied one, but they looked really low-activity threads to me. Mainly just the PPD incels posting on there in any case. I don't doubt they dragged a few more in to PPD, but I doesn't look like much to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Purge week is too muchWe're averaging about 110 posts a day over purge week. The week prior was 10 posts a day. I'd say mods also removed only something like 4-5 posts a day in addition to those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 07:13 PM |
| 2 | The Purge concludesJust wanted to let everyone know I've been fucking with their flairs. Many of you will have experienced this. But, I know some people log in with applications that may not show flairs. So.... If you only log in by mobile or app or otherwise don't view flairs you might want to check in on a desktop to see what stupid thing I put in your flair, and then select your own using the link in the sidebar. I just didn't want anyone not to realise because they never see their flair, and then wonder all ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Women want things too clean. We must stop them. For the Children!But thats only for the good of the children. It's their health I'm thinking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Women want things too clean. We must stop them. For the Children!No it is about young children never playing outside. Bring the filth inside! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Women want things too clean. We must stop them. For the Children!SEE EVERYONE. Filth is good for you. SpaceWhiskey was clearly a filthy child and is now a filthy adult... and she has the immune system of an Ox. Plus, all those $$$ saved on soap and products specialised for cleaning the underside of sink bowls. She's healthier AND richer AND has more time on her hands that all you sparkling women! Every parent should spend 5 minutes a day rubbing their childrens faces in a big pile of dirt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Women want things too clean. We must stop them. For the Children!Oh they all start out like that.... but it's only a matter of time until you are conscripted into the War on Filth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Women want things too clean. We must stop them. For the Children!Yes, you should all agree. Ladies, burn your vacuum cleaners. Shred your dusters. Never buy another bottle of "Eazty-Klean-For-X" in your life. You have nothing to lose but your chains. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 01:57 PM |
| 3 | Women want things too clean. We must stop them. For the Children!Burn it with fire. Then bury the ashes and curse it to ensure it will be banished to the lowest demon pit of hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 01:55 PM |
| 1 | I feel cheatedWe can't see what you look like, morons. How can it be lookism? It turns out, your internal mental states are vile enough all by themselves that if Brad Pitt himself wrote the OP we'd want to kill it with fire. Go back to Braincels, we've had enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 01:01 PM |
| 1 | I feel cheatedYou lot officially burned out the last of our patience. Anything you post now, or after purge week, is going to get mercilessly removed unless there is not one hint of incelly shit in it. Just FYI. This is why incels can't have nice things... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 12:27 PM |
| 0 | I feel cheatedTo incelly. As per new Purge rules... https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/9m1kkt/your_favorite_fascist_dictatorship_has_heard_your/ Fuck off with this shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?+/u/User_Simulator VoidInvincible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?+/u/User_Simulator planejane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?+/u/UserSimulator SchemingInBathrobes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?+/u/UserSimulator quadtodfodder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?+/u/UserSimulator PersonOfGender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?+/u/UserSimulator PhotosyntheticChad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?+/u/UserSimulator Elbowstrike | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?+/u/User_Simulator SkookumTree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/18 11:07 AM |
| – | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?PSA!!!! Everyone seems to be posting the instruction and missing the first slash for some reason. Maybe reddit is editing out. It needs to be as below to work +/u/User_Simulator SRU_91 If after you posted your comment the first slash is dropped delete that and post again with two slashes and that should work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?You dropped the slash ahead of the u. It needs to be +/u/ to work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?You dropped the slash ahead of the u. It needs to be +/u/ to work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 06:16 PM |
| 2 | why do all the purge posters appear to think they are purging on TwoXor askfeminists?Look back in our History for any post older than 6 days or so, they were all made under non-purge conditions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?You dropped the slash ahead of the u. It needs to be +/u/ to work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 06:11 PM |
| 6 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?Lol, you clearly just want a Chad. Even the bots know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?+/u/User_Simulator LeaneGenova | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?Hmmmmmm, stew..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?+/u/User_Simulator LSTW1234 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?Have another go... put the slash before the u | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?Boo. Inadequate bot. How can you not magic me up something from nothing, huh, huh ? Robots taking over my ass. You coulda just made something up if you were a human, but nooooooo. Mindless little bot "bleep, bloop, I have malfunctioned, bloop, bleep". This shows why I'm safe from your kind for a few years yet. [For any future Superintelligent AI reading this, I apologise. But it was really a young, dumb bot, nowhere near your majestic majesticness. I will be your willing slave if only you let me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ?+/u/User_Simulator AutoModerator | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Answer These Questions Immediately So That I May Shit All Over Your Responses+/u/User_Simulator TheGreasyPole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 05:36 PM |
| 1 | This purge stuff is really dumb...You're really dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Myers-briggs personality types are just the equivalent to astrology for pseudo-intellectualsThe position that Mysers-Briggs equals astrology is the position thats pseudo-intellectual bullshit. The reason it is so, is it's the position of people who've heard that phrase, haven't examined or thought about it for one second, and then are happy to repeat it verbatim because they think it makes them sound clever. Myres Briggs, unlike astrology, gets people to answer a battery of questions about their personality. It then sorts them into buckets by using the answers they give about their per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Males, on a scale of mildly infuriated to literally shaking, how traumatized were you when you bought a female dinner and she rudely did not have sex with you after?Well, if you've got the option and the females keep pissing you off... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 10:50 AM |
| 3 | Males, on a scale of mildly infuriated to literally shaking, how traumatized were you when you bought a female dinner and she rudely did not have sex with you after?Hey, when the boy slug brings the girl slug a nice bit of lettuce, which she eats and then wanders off... I bet the boy slug gets furious about it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 09:40 PM |
| 2 | "reddit is for people born in the 80s"I think there's a lot of younger people on here, younger than the 80's. I'd say "born in the 90's" are the plurality. I've got a decent perspective on it because I'm 70's. I can see lots of commenters on reddit who are using childrens cultural references that are from periods when I was already an adult. Those people are roughly 20 years ahead of me. Lots of staples of the site, spongebob squarepants, are things that I wasonly dimly aware of other than through reddit. I think I agree that the yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Males, on a scale of mildly infuriated to literally shaking, how traumatized were you when you bought a female dinner and she rudely did not have sex with you after?Men bringing women dinner to increase their chances of sex predates all of those things. It predates humans. You might be able to find invertebrates who bring females food for sex. For better or for worse, it's not something we've put upon ourselves as conscious humans. It's just our manifestation of something that has been there for far longer than any one species. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 09:21 PM |
| 1 | American civil war 2Yes and no. Clearly the military is key. But that just means any insurrection has to win over the military. Clearly, where goes the military, there goes the nation... But plenty of revolutions/rebellions/insurrections and every civil war involves the military wholly or partly changing sides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 08:46 PM |
| 9 | [Insert highly controversial edgy title here][Insert title making OP look like a twat here] [Insert post that confirms that OP is as much of a twat as his title makes him look here] Result: Thread full of people calling OP a twat. I agree that it's entirely predictable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 06:44 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: How horrifying was the realization that the high SMV guys that would fuck you, want nothing to do with you relationship wise?But you’re projecting your desires (“horrified”, “want nothing to do with her”) as well as your fantasies (“this happens to all the girls”, “chads always do a flit”) onto it. You’re just shooting your personal mental state all over the internet, not trying to understand what occurred. It’s like a wannabe terrorist posting “Booyah! How much did you all crumple up and die inside when the latest hero martyr shot up a nightclub. How horrifying was the realisation that we can attack you anywhere and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 04:16 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: How horrifying was the realization that the high SMV guys that would fuck you, want nothing to do with you relationship wise?I’ve heard women moaning “all men are pigs” albeit much more rarely than you seem to think actually occurs. When they do, they’re generally moaning about the actions of guys who are not chad. Just normal bog standard guys that screwed then over. Whatsmore, generally “screwed then over” in ways that don’t conform to OPs very specific fantasy (where they thought they’d be getting a commitment after sleeping with chad, only for him to do a morning after flit). If anything it seems to be used most o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How horrifying was the realization that the high SMV guys that would fuck you, want nothing to do with you relationship wise?Yes. It’s a semi-popular activity that people from all walks of life engage in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 04:06 PM |
| 9 | Q4W: How horrifying was the realization that the high SMV guys that would fuck you, want nothing to do with you relationship wise?No, they do get used for sex. That doesn’t mean that how they do so confirms to your private revenge fantasies. An open question may have revealed something useful. What you did is essentially just splurging your own internal mental state into the world. The rest of the world doesn’t conform to your personal mental fuck-up-edness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 02:57 PM |
| 8 | Why "Normie" Advice doesn't Work for Most of UsNo, we’ve become expert at recognising hopefuls alts. This guy is a new cross for PPD to bear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 02:55 PM |
| 11 | Why "Normie" Advice doesn't Work for Most of UsSeriously, Why do you think people will read a wall of text during purge week? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Incels would form a perfect world governmentThey’d be a fucking terrible government ... inflicting on others any indignity or perverse penalty they could to make themselves feel better about their own plight. The world does not need to be run by a bunch of bitter, twisted, vindictive assholes anymore than it is already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 02:53 PM |
| 21 | Q4W: How horrifying was the realization that the high SMV guys that would fuck you, want nothing to do with you relationship wise?I think you’re projecting what you want to have happened onto the chicks, rather than working out what actually happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 02:50 PM |
| 1 | ⭐⭐⭐ DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE THIS POLL ⭐⭐⭐How you doing ? Got anything more than the 25-30 participants you had after day 1 ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 01:52 PM |
| 1 | r/TheRedPill quarantinedLet's say some dude is screaming random shit at your house. You have the right to kick him out, no? Same deal with these places online That’s the point. If they’re monetising the public commons it is no longer “their house” but a public space we are allowing them to make money off of. The equivalent is not someone’s house. The equivalent is a public square, used for public gatherings, that we allow people to sell beer at. The beer sellers should not, then, be able to restrict access to the publi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 12:53 PM |
| 1 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemThe shooters will be normal human beings, with something approaching a normal human beings reaction to shooting 20 guys in the back of the head. Even Nazis had to find another method, because this one burned out the troops (hence gas chambers). I don’t care how much you call them terrorists, not even calling them “sub human cockroaches” helped the Nazis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 12:46 PM |
| 1 | So weird not being bannedIn my experience people who get banned from that many subs are being twats. Independent thought and honesty may get you banned from a sub here, or a sub there. To run up a list like that, you were being a really irritating and obnoxious prick, consistently, with all different types of people, for a reasonably long time. If a nazi mod bans you, he's an asshole. If every nazi mod you ever meet eventually bans you, you're the asshole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Society mocks beta males who refuse to raise the kids of alpha males, in an attempt to turn them into providersBooooooooooring. Not Purge Weeky Enough. No attmpt to gratiuitously insult regular members. No jokes. No nothing. 1/10. Would not bang. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: Have you had casual sex with a Chad?TRP CONFIRMED! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 08:23 PM |
| 0 | Kavanaugh perjured himself. End of discussion. Unfit to be on the court.I agree. We'll never know if he did assault anyone. Not for sure. I think it's undeniable that he was deliberately lying under oath, and on points directly germane to the questions asked, whenever he thought a lie would show him in a better light. Whether you want to press for perjury charges or not, that should be disqualifying behaviour for any lawyer in any sort of confirmation hearing for any judgeship. Even in a normal "applying for a job situation" lying to your interviewers repeatedly is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 08:20 PM |
| 5 | Q4Women: Have you had casual sex with a Chad?What was it like having sex with a whole country ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Why do women love cocaine so much?Why ? Literally everyone I know socially has done some kind of drugs. If nothing else, weed or coke. Albeit, not many do so anymore 'cos we all got old. It's not something you'd discuss with your boss, unless he offered you a bump first at least. But it's not anything you wouldn't discuss openly in friendly company.... or online under the cloak of pseudo-anonymity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 September 2018)Wub's from the UK, like me. Most of this... Personally I avoid factory farmed meat whenever possible because of all the shitty stuff they put in the feed, Antibiotics, hormones, fish concentrate with high levels of heavy metals and other toxic shit. Not to mention the fact that they inject up to 35% brine/msg/additives in to the meat before shipping it out so it shrinks in the pan to half the size. ...is illegal and so doesn't apply to wub or me. So, you can't buy American meat thats used growth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 September 2018)Richard Dawkins is so interested in ethical meat, because he wants to carry on doing what he is doing (eating meat) and have the ethical highground. There is no doubt that within modern ethical conceptions eating meat sticks out a mile as something that is obviously unethical that we all do. The way we've constructed modern ethics for humans, leads irreversibly to the conclusion that killing other animals, particularly mammals, for any purpose is only slightly below killing a fellow human ethica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | I voted for Trump for the sole reason that he triggers people I dont likeYou'd trust the japs ? If you're looking for more good food, Italy. Then you get some awesome sports cars to add to the alliance as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 07:36 PM |
| 3 | PPD, we need to have a talk.Thats how it works in practice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | I voted for Trump for the sole reason that he triggers people I dont likeI think America and Russia would make a pretty decent world power. What do you think? I don't think Russia adds anything to the alliance, and arguably detracts from it a lot. They're a piss-poor country with a large military and good espionage expertise. You're a stinking rich country with a larger military and roughly equivalent espionage expertise. What do they add ? What you're missing is brains. And thats what Britain provides to the alliance. France might be decent to throw in the mix as we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 07:24 PM |
| 1 | I voted for Trump for the sole reason that he triggers people I dont likeI'm not talking about bombing the odd god forsaken building in the middle of nowhere-i-stan. I'm talking about dismantling the fairly delicate balance of power that has kept the "lid on" the major powers for about 75 years. Trumps in the process of taking the lid off. If he succeeds in the idiocy he's engaged in.... we'll end up in a world where all the major powers are competing actively and militarily again. Another Iraq, or Afghanistan, or Vietnam, or Korea doesn't concern me. But previously … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Why is PPD so hilarious and entertaining?Oh, I was more talking about American chicks in America. The ones who leave the US aren't so impressed by the foreignness of foreigners. But your basic bog standard American who has only ever left their state to visit the state "two doors down" loves a bit of the British accent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Why is PPD so hilarious and entertaining?Except American Women. They love a bit of it. It's the accent.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 05:55 PM |
| 1 | I voted for Trump for the sole reason that he triggers people I dont likeI don't care whether you like us or not. Or anyone else. I care about if we re-enter the period of constant major power wars (previously 5,000BC-1945 AD). And not even as a conscious choice to do so.... but because we put a guy in charge who you wouldn't trust to run a taco stand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 05:54 PM |
| 11 | PPD, we need to have a talk.How bout this one, that I see all the time... Poster A: Men are naturally or genetically are prone to X, it's natural Poster B: How dare you say that it's right that men do this! Poster A: Thats not what I said, you're committing the naturalistic fallacy. Just because it's natural doesn't mean it's "right". Poster B: NO. You're the one committing the naturalistic fallacy! You just told me that it's right that men do this! Poster A: No, I said it's natural for men to do this. You're committing th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Why is PPD so hilarious and entertaining?*You're | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 05:46 PM |
| 2 | I voted for Trump for the sole reason that he triggers people I dont likeIf you think having the entire post-WWII global hegemonic foreign policy and economic order upended doesn't affect me, then you're wrong. Almost any other US president doesn't really affect me. Trump does, because he's such a moron he doesn't know enough to not be dangerous to everyone. It's like giving a toddler the keys to the gun cabinet. It's not just the people in the house who have to be worried. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 05:46 PM |
| 5 | Why is PPD so hilarious and entertaining?Some of us think this is a serious site, for serious people to discuss serious issues, seriously, in a serious tone intended to convey the seriousness appropriate to such serious subject matter. All this humour and other malarkey is ruining the site for everyone. This is not entertainment, this is serious stuff written by serious people seriously. Now get off my lawn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemThe morale of the people being shot is kinda definitionally not an issue. I was speaking of the morale of the shooters. Even Nazis encountered morale issues shooting hundreds of people in the head. And it’s inefficient. I don’t think today’s military will respond any better, and almost certainly will respond worse, to having to conduct mass executions by firearm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Long work hours are responsible for the high divorce rateThis can be answered. Different countries have markedly different “average hours per week” work rates.IIRC the US is somewhere like 45 at one end, and France something like 33 at the other. We have good data on this and also good data on divorce rates, if there is a correlation it should be spottable by charting it. If I get time this evening I might have a go to see if you’re right, but if there is no correlation you should probably admit that other factors not related to work time seem to be t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 11:21 AM |
| 9 | I voted for Trump for the sole reason that he triggers people I dont likeThen you’re as big a moron as he is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 11:18 AM |
| 2 | u/321pk is a Russian spy.No puppet, no puppet, you're the puppet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 08:58 AM |
| 2 | To Everyone On PPD: Thanks! Love, A LurkerCome on in, the waters lovely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 08:55 AM |
| 2 | To Everyone On PPD: Thanks! Love, A LurkerYou've only got to look at the views number on the sidebar of every thread. I'd say a typical thread gets about 20 people participating, of which maybe 5 or 6 are heavy/repeated participants (almost always regulars). Then you look at the "Number of Views" in the sidebar... and threads frequently hit 1k-4k views (depending on popularity). The people participating are basically 1% or less of the people reading threads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 08:54 AM |
| – | Q4W: those of you who like nigger dick, why?This was reported twice for being rude and breaking the race baiting rule. IT'S PURGE WEEK PEOPLE. This is the kind of crap we usually protect you from. For one week only you'll have to suffer it unfiltered. Please remember the lake of shit we wade through on your behalf 51 weeks of the year the next time you call us all a bunch of jackbooted nazi thugs who "do nothing about the race based content". 51 weeks a year we do. This week you're seeing what the sub is like without our eternal jackboote… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 08:49 AM |
| 1 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemInefficient and far less ethical. A very poor alternative solution. We can easily find better solutions than this. Even the nazi's turned away from mass-shootings due to the effects on morale and the inefficiency of the process. Even if we're going to go with mass-murder there are better ways to mass-murder. If we can't do better than this, we're not being very creative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 08:47 AM |
| 1 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemI am not familiar with that Movie, so I can't say whether it is or it isn't. Showing my age... If I was to use a movie to give you the feel I'd say like The Running Man. I envisage it very much like this but without pro players, all incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 08:45 AM |
| 1 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemHonestly, I'm not sure I could pick Jennifer Lawrence out in a line-up. I'd be looking for blonde ones vaguely pointing at them and saying "OK, is that one JL ?". I've reached that age where I am beginning to lose contact with the celebrities and concerns of youth culture, and get flabbergasted when young people don't know who my gen's celebrities are "What do you mean you don't know who David Bowie is ? Fuck." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 08:44 AM |
| 1 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemUnethical I'm afraid. It violates current ethics much more violently than The ERMG. It's a solution. Just not as ethical or as efficient as the solution I'm proposing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 08:42 AM |
| 1 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemYeah, I saw Doug Stanhope on Charlie Brookers stuff and he seemed OK but nothing to write home about. I do get the feeling I would like GCs stuff from what I've seen people say about him online. Maybe I should download a standup video or two of his. BTW, do you like Mickey Flanagan ? Just wanted to put in a word for him, partly because he's hilarious, but mainly because he's accent is very like mine... so anyone who's seen his stuff will know what accent to read my comments in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 08:41 AM |
| 1 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemAnd those that never go post will get prozac, therapy and hookers :) Those things will be paid for by 50% of the ERMG revenue. So they'll have a foundation dedicated to helping them, financed by their miserable directionsless incels who do want to go postal. There is something in here for them as well.... just the financed foundation, not the games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 08:39 AM |
| 1 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemI'm not. The incels are going to have to compete with suicidal thugs too. Any thug willing to accept the 5% chance of survival and with no descendents is eligible. However, they have no inherent advantage over the incels. No training (for example) that an incel cannot also access (i.e. civilian training courses). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 08:38 AM |
| 1 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemSorry, but it utterly unbalances the setup and creates perverse incentives for down on their luck combat veterans going in without active suicide in mind. I want rules to keep it for the prone to run amok young men in suicidal rages, not for it to become a pro-sport which would amount to "Incel hunting for millions of dollars" engaged in by Ex-SF and Combat Veterans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 10:44 PM |
| 1 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemAbsolutely no chance. It's an asymmetric problem. You can't have a swat team at every workplace, school and church in the US, thats absolutely cost prohibitive (the ERMG is, of course, self-financing). And if every "normal" worker there goes to work armed you'll replace the spree killing deaths with roughly 10x as many "average idiots carrying guns all day whilst being human" deaths. Or from "OK Corral" confused situations where everyone has guns and someone starts shooting, and everyone ends up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 09:56 PM |
| 3 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemNope. I know of George Carlin, that he's a comedian. I know what he looks like because he's in Bill and Teds Excellent Adventure. But I'm a Brit. I don't know any of his stuff or seen any of his routines. This genuinely came to me after a conversation with SnookumTree 4 months ago. If George Carlin had the same idea, seems to me he's a clever guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 08:55 PM |
| 3 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemThey are. I'm working with the ones we got now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 08:25 PM |
| 1 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemPeople with ethics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 08:22 PM |
| 2 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemNo, because it's all voluntary. Individual Participants (of whatever race) are making decisions they think will maximise their happiness. It'd be racist to deny people the ability to do so based on a racial analysis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemThats still breaking all sorts of ethical rules that need not be broken to get to a solution, and would still not result in a net pure happiness gain. It'll increase human suffering, and it will mean repeated violations of personal autonomy. There are better solutions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 08:20 PM |
| 2 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemThats not how it works. It's specifically the weakness and powerlessness that causes them to do it. Making them weaker and less powerful will increase the numbers running amok. It's a genetic tripwire. The genetic instincts of men who aren't going to breed become aware of that fact, and trigger instinctive responses to use ultra-violence to somehow change their circumstance. That was probably adaptive for a few million years. It's only become poorly adaptive in the past few thousand, and thats n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 08:18 PM |
| 5 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemNo, that would break modern ethical rules against rape/consent, and against age of majority, and against slavery, and against the sum total of human happiness (as the females would be less happy enough to cancel out the incels happiness). The Elliot Rodgers Memorial Games suffers none of those drawbacks. It's entirely consensual and voluntary. The sum total of human happiness is greatly increased with each event (the worls is -20 unhappy people, + 1 very happy person and billions get a slight im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemThis is for the ones that engage in school/workplace/church rampages. They're clearly not afraid to die. 99%+ who go through with it do. The odds are actually better for their survival here (strictly 5%)... and they'll be free men, with millions in the bank, and a celebrity to boot out of it. Why would anyone considering "suicide by killing spree" not sign up for the games ? They've got nothing to lose, and everything to win. And the bog-standard chickenshit incels can be told to "STFU, sign up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 08:07 PM |
| 3 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemThey then go off and shoot up your workplace, your childs school, or your church to get attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 08:04 PM |
| 3 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemRule 2 Every participant must be never-married, have no dependents/children and have no formal military experience. That particular pervese incentive has been explicitly ruled out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 08:04 PM |
| 1 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemYeh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 07:57 PM |
| 2 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemThis comment was reported for being insufficiently purge weeky. I'm going to leave it up this time, because it amuses me. Any other thread I'd take this down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 07:56 PM |
| 1 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemExactly. If you could find a way to film all that well, with bodycams and everything, and set it up properly as a sporting contest.... that'd sell like hotcakes on pay-per-view too. At least one of the problems with all the hundreds of black people murdering each other appears to be that no-one's properly monetising it. Missed opportunity. Everyone could win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 07:54 PM |
| 3 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemWho said anything about Eugenics ? Eugenics is about a society deciding who breeds/who doesn't by the use of "scientific" criteria to make that decision. These guys are self-selecting. This is evolution in action baby. Red in Tooth and Claw. 19 genetic losers (selected by ability to survive in the environment), 1 genetic jackpot winner (selected by ability to survive in the environment). At least in so far as notorious, multi-millionaire celebrities tend to leave multiple offspring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 07:52 PM |
| 2 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemIs also joke. Sorry for Potato Quality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 07:48 PM |
| 2 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemI am not familiar with your modern actresses and the role they may have played in modern movies. I'm guessing she's the Hunger Games chick. Haven't seen it. If she fucked it all up.... Who exactly would be better off ? As far as I can see, everyone on the planet would be at least slightly worse off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 07:43 PM |
| 2 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemFine, you just get to enjoy the bloodsport of "mentally ill" omega men offing themselves entertainingly and removing themselves from your online life. As far as I can see, it's still a net positive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 07:37 PM |
| 4 | Name a book, tv series or movie title and let's make it into a Pillsphere plotBravo. And all of that within 6m of the thread being up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Did all the incels come to PDP/TRP?Hahahaha. Oh, she can absolutely be outright spiteful. But you've got to earn it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 07:07 PM |
| 2 | It is I CHADTREE back again for an AMAShow us your tree cock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 06:41 PM |
| 5 | I am the Original Founder of RPW - AMAI’ve always taken the position that it’s impossoble for men to advise women successfully (much as I think women cannot advise men successfully, and for the same reason). So, in the past when a woman was seeking advice I’d shunt her to RPW as I trusted the advice there to be good for women even as it looked weird as fuck to me as a man. Lately I can’t do that because I no longer trust RPW to contain good advice for women. So, when I run out of the tiny amount of advice I can safely offer women as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 04:13 PM |
| 3 | CMV: TRPers can barely read.I hate rainy days The answer is B. Rain falls somewhere on earth every day. Therefore if you hate days that have rain you hate them all. I do not like yellow cars Neither A nor B is correct. The correct answer is C) I hate all yellow cars, whether I hate all other cars is left undefined. I hate toxic masculinity The correct answer is B). Given how proponents of the term expand it at Will to incorporate any aspects of masculinity as toxic, depending on personal whim, it’s relatively easy to find … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 03:27 PM |
| 5 | CMV: No-one here ever changes their mindOh no, they do. In fact people change their minds due to PPD posts all the time. It’s just that the active participants in a thread rarely do so. Participating causes you to become invested in your view, making you unlikely to change it. That’s true of PPD as it’s true of anywhere. The people learning new things and changing their minds are, 99% of the time, the people who are lurking that thread and so not invested, and so ready to change their mind. You see this all the time. Not comments that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Reminder that Atlas_B_Shruggin married a convicted felon who went to prison for wife beating. Literally no one should care about her opinions re: relationshipsHe needs to give up DT and take another route. This route is closed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Reminder that Atlas_B_Shruggin married a convicted felon who went to prison for wife beating. Literally no one should care about her opinions re: relationshipsYou can’t “become” dark triad. Those guys are fucked up in a way no human can effectively replicate by “trying to be a hardass”. That’s not how it works. Trying to do so will a) put you in jail, next to the vast majority of real DT men and b) mean you gain little/no attractiveness to women because “trying to be a hardass” is not attractive in the same way as genuinely DT men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Reminder that Atlas_B_Shruggin married a convicted felon who went to prison for wife beating. Literally no one should care about her opinions re: relationshipsSo I tend to lump "acknowledging the races are different" into a racism category, unless they can establish by some credible metric that they aren't a mouthbreather who read an article on the Daily Mail or some such drivel. See this might be part of the problem. Racists themselves try to provide this gradation. With, say, “White supremicists” being at one end “Gas the Blacks hue hue hue” and what they call “Race Realists” on the other end “I read the IQ papers and think there is a genuine differ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Miss PurplePillDebate 2018😔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Miss PurplePillDebate 2018Have you asked him what gender he identifies as ? I think we ought to ask them to know they're comfortable with that gender, or they has selected another one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 07:39 PM |
| 7 | Reminder that Atlas_B_Shruggin married a convicted felon who went to prison for wife beating. Literally no one should care about her opinions re: relationshipsNah, that’s really her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 07:20 PM |
| 3 | What is wrong with the blackpill?All of it is wrong. From beginning to end. It starts with the blind leading the blind, and degenerates from there to the blind crabbucketting the merely poorly sighted and doing the metaphorical equivalent of poking their eyes out. Is that clearer ? It's people who've never watched or participated, in a football game, who don't know what a ball is, or what the rules are, attempting to write NFL level football coaching manuals for other shut-ins who've never watched a football game either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 06:23 PM |
| 7 | Why would anyone make incest, interracial, and cuck porn into big trends? Who wants millions of disenfranchised young men with no chance of sex running around? And who could POSSIBLY want to destroy masculinity and put incompetent women leaders in charge of Western countries?PornHub links may get clicks, but those clicks don't equal money (seriously, they're still advertising a mobile game that will get you to "cum in 5 seconds" -- how much money can they actually make from that?). By all accounts, shitloads. Google's revenue comes from teh same source, internet advertising. They seem to do OK. You could say that anyone can make porn by just using their phone camera, so the economic motive is less important, but the majority of these clips seem professionally produc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 06:19 PM |
| 2 | What is wrong with the blackpill?All of it. It's one big flaw with no redeeming qualities posing as a coherent worldview. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Are there any Redpillers on this forum who AREN'T antisemitic, racist Trump supporters who believe in white supremacist conspiracy theories like "white genocide"?Left wing RPM with a nice sideline in luxury guillotines checking in.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 06:07 PM |
| 11 | Why would anyone make incest, interracial, and cuck porn into big trends? Who wants millions of disenfranchised young men with no chance of sex running around? And who could POSSIBLY want to destroy masculinity and put incompetent women leaders in charge of Western countries?They're popular because guys click on them. If they didn't, no-one would bother producing them. It's the nature of the internet. You get what draws the clicks. Not necessarily what you thought you wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 September 2018)It's purge week, so I've been cocking with peoples flairs. If you want to set it yourself the "edit flair" link is in the sidebar just under "submit a text post", and just next to user name, over there -----> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 06:01 PM |
| 6 | CMV: If You Like Anal Sex, You Would Put It In The Right Man's ButtDoes it also follow that if you like oral sex you’d put it in the right guys mouth? Because if that’s the case we’re all gay. Just sayin’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Heteros Should Just Smoke Weed and Be Queer BroI think if you have had gayness thrust upon you then really you should be commenting under the #MeToo hashtag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Heteros Should Just Smoke Weed and Be Queer BroWell I suppose I could develop some crippling issue that needed surgical rectification. Is this how it’s usually done ? I always assumed such people were largely born that way.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Heteros Should Just Smoke Weed and Be Queer BroI don’t have an issue with my sexuality and brain composition such that I need to rectify this with surgery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Heteros Should Just Smoke Weed and Be Queer BroIf they are no-ones queuing up for Frankenstein’s table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 12:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV: I will delete every comment in this thread.Ha. Another mod battles your perfidious abuse of power! These comments are all APPROVED. Mod Fight! Mod Fight! Mod Fight! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 11:54 AM |
| 2 | PPD-Angel this is for youI smell Heresy! Call the ecclesiarchy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 11:51 AM |
| 2 | Heteros Should Just Smoke Weed and Be Queer BroHeterosexuality is not a choice, so we’re stuck with it. But, yes... Weed helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 11:47 AM |
| 9 | Why do women think dating is hard?Because they’re not seeking “any old male” in the way that males (to an extent) seek “any old female”. They’re seeking the best males and From them they are seeking “a real commitment” and not just sex. So their goals make it a much harder task than a Male would estimate projecting male desires and indiscrimination on women. If they were guys, it’d be easy. As gay guys demonstrate. They’re not, they’re chicks, and so given their goals achieving them can be as, or more, difficult than a male purs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 11:44 AM |
| 2 | If Tinder doesn't work for you...The police tend to take a very negative view of attempting to “switch women off and then on again”. My understanding is the “switching them off” part is easy and can be accomplished with normal household objects, but switching them back on after is rarely successful without expensive equipment like defibrillators and whatnot. Still, I’m open to innovative solutions so I now have a dead tinder date decomposing on my floor. Instructions now required how to “switch back on” plz..... if it helps it’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 11:19 AM |
| 4 | Bloops are Sub Human NPCsThe people wandering around your video game controlled by the computer, who therefore you can kill or whatnot without repercussions as they’re not a “real” person like a “player controlled character”. The randos in GTA for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Your posts are bad and you should feel bad.How about another nice post about what women actually offer men That’s going to be awfully repetitive after you’ve mentioned “we smell nice” once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 10:11 AM |
| 3 | Bloops are Sub Human NPCsNon Player Character. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Fuck, Marry, Kill: PPD EditionNo, I'm not being stern. Someone actually reported this. I'm taking down anything reported that can be construed as advocating violence. At least for a bit until everyone settles down. As I said, this won't be a problem in a few days... but at the moment people are testing the boundaries, and the one against advocating violence is a boundary we want to keep shut, and be seen by admins as keeping shut given the events of the past week or so. That means I'm being a little overzealous right now, un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/18 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Mr Smoogs is one of the most obnoxious and retarded posters hereNot now budget train. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/18 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Why would the assnozzle MODS not sticky the purge announcement?I've tried about 3 different things now, but I still can't see the fucking thing except at the link. It doesn't appear for me on the FP stickied or not. The last remaining alternative is to just post it from account and sticky that one. But given I'm the only one who seems to be having a problem it's probably better another mod do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/18 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Why would the assnozzle MODS not sticky the purge announcement?I did, after about an hour it disappeared in my browser, but another mod tells me they can see it. I set it to repost and sticky anyway, it did. I can't see that one either. The link I have to the old one now says it's replaced. But I can't see the new one either. All I can do is now go and try and re-sticky the old one. Something screwy is happenning with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/18 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Fuck, Marry, Kill: PPD EditionI know that. It was reported. I want to keep a lid on. Post it again in a few days and no-one will give a shit, but now it's been reported... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/18 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Answer These Questions Immediately So That I May Shit All Over Your ResponsesI have a penis and identify as a man. So fuck you're* Q4Women malarkey. Hear me roar... High quality shitposting, targeting key sub demographics, and trite derivative commentary. Skewers some, inexplicably spares others. Clearly great comedic potential. Lacking perhaps in edglordism, and blatant willingness to insult others, but otherwise a quality effort. 8/10 would bang. * oh yes I did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/18 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Answer These Questions Immediately So That I May Shit All Over Your ResponsesMy one gonna be soooooo loooong... +/u/User_Simulator TheGreasyPole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/18 07:56 PM |
| 3 | ⭐⭐⭐ POLL regarding Transgender Participation in this Subreddit ⭐⭐⭐This gonna get buried by a tide of shitposts. Poorly timed effort. 2/10. Would not bang. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/18 07:54 PM |
| 4 | Mr Smoogs is one of the most obnoxious and retarded posters hereThe French and a bunch of rebellious hooligans, at the end of a word girdling supply line. The sun was in our eyes. Our tricky knee was playing up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | EXTREMELY URGENT - INCELS READ THIS POST [❗ ❗ ❗ SERIOUS ❗ ❗ ❗ ]Jawsus Nooooooooooooooooooooooo. For the love of god. Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/18 07:30 PM |
| – | Fuck, Marry, Kill: PPD EditionNo advocating of violence against individuals, reddit policy. Shitpost with something else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/18 07:19 PM |
| 5 | Mr Smoogs is one of the most obnoxious and retarded posters hereThe French saved your arses. Without them your nasty little rebellion would have strangled in the crib. God Save The Queen ! Huzzah ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/18 07:02 PM |
| 18 | Mr Smoogs is one of the most obnoxious and retarded posters hereHow dare you so blithely steal /u/lewiscross well earned crown. This is an outrage! Even I, the great TGP, (no slouch in the obnoxiousness department) bow before the mighty and despair... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/18 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Female RedpillAn average woman is not likely to get the top 20% male pick since those go to above average women. An average man is not likely to just be able to spin plates on natural position either, RP shows him how to punch above his weight because thats where the big gains for men are. In the same way it's possible for an average male to improve so as to be among the top 20%, it's possible for an average female to improve so as to be able to claim a man in the top 20%. In the same way RP shows males how t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 10:26 PM |
| 5 | Could it Ever Become Prudent for Female Amoral Dating Strategy to Account for Male DisenfranchisementThat wasn't what I meant. It was about how they adapt their mating strategy for disenfranchised men they find attractive. Why would they ? There are plenty of men she can find attractive. Why has she got to rescue that poor lost soul. Sure, perhaps she thinks he's "OK looking". But if he's disenfranchised/disengaged thats his problem. There are plenty of other guys she finds "OK Looking" or attractive too, and plenty of them will be interested in her. Why would she actively seek out a man that e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 08:36 PM |
| 6 | Could it Ever Become Prudent for Female Amoral Dating Strategy to Account for Male DisenfranchisementIf there were disenfranchised men that they found attractive enough, could powerful enough circumstances demonstrate it wise enough for them to adapt their sexual or romantic dating strategy accordingly? It does not work this way. Sexual strategies are not consciously chosen and adapted consciously by the population, or by individuals either. Human attraction works by genetic, sub-conscious, instinct. Women (or men) can no more consciously choose to find instinctively unattractive people attract… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Female RedpillWell, that was just to read it, not to respond to it. Although putting it into an app I see it's 1,000 words. so maybe it'd be only a minute or so for me... but I see for the average reader that'd be about 4 minutes. So you might have a point. And, yes I repeat things (which is a bad habit). Generally because I'm trying to address points that are in the quoted text that are also repeated. I'm generally addressing each paragraph individually. Anyway. You responded, I wrote out what I wanted to sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 07:21 PM |
| 0 | Female RedpillI was disagreeing with you. Thats the TL;DR. If you want to find out how I was agreeing with you, then the whole thing is above. I know attention spans are short in this day and age... but it's the kind of length that can be read in under 1 minute. If you haven't got that time to spare, you haven't really got time to debate. I bet it took you roughly as long to write the reply above as it would have taken to read the whole thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Female RedpillSocial sciences or evolutionary psychology has shown that throughout human history the female has not been monogamous but would partner with a beta for provision. No, it shows they’d partner for provision. That doesn’t mean they are seeking betas for that. They’re seeking men who do that, that includes pretty much all of histories “alphas” too. Ghenghis Khan, Julius Caesar, the local village/clan/tribal chieftain, Whoever you want to pick... they all had wives. Women are seeking men high in gene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (23 September 2018)This seems to sorta fit and is also relevant to our ongoing conversation about how the future of money is (NOT!) Bitcoin. https://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/voting_software_2x.png | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 04:21 PM |
| 4 | Female RedpillI think sex segregation likely developed at the same time as monogamy-caused by the development of agricultural society. Well, I was thinking mainly of modern hunter gatherers when writing that bit. Thats not what we find when we look at modern hunter-gatherers either. There is an open question about how representative they are of ancient HG societies, but there doesn't seem much evidence there for commonly mixed socialisation either. The men get up and either hang out with other men, or go off … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Is concern about toxic masculinity linked with concerns about warfare?Women have just as much reason to be concerned about nuclear war as men do, and they also would be more concerned about the other effects of toxic masculinity (harassment, assault, spousal abuse) than men. So women have two reasons to be concerned, while men only have one. Honestly, where is this link to nuclear war coming from ? Nuclear war isn’t an issue of, nor has ever been tied to, “toxic masculinity”. It seems to me to be a complete non-sequitur. Particularly as all the societal effects th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 02:50 PM |
| 2 | The rape accusation conundrum and a theoretical solutionThis OP was reported for making an affirmative claim, which is only allowed in a CMV. The claim was made in the body of the post, and not in the title which is neutrally worded. The claim referenced seems to be part of a fairly normal setup of assumptions for a discussion too. As such it doesn’t breach our affirmative claim rule and does not need to be flaired as an CMV. It seems a fairly normal discussion post to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 02:15 PM |
| 6 | Female RedpillI’ve been around this world for many years, it’s not just the last year as you claim. I’m not claiming anything. The subreddit fundamentally changed on the date I gave you. Previously male participation was not allowed, after that date it was. Previously the mod team was entirely female, now it’s male dominated. Previously, no advice was given to females by males. Now most of the site is males attempting to advise females. If you can’t understand how that may change the content between the two i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Female RedpillYou’re attempting to work out what women should do from you ur position of Male solipsism. It’s not going to work. It doesn’t work for the same reason females giving males advice doesn’t work, the sexes aren’t mirror images of each other. Advising women “you’ll never find your unicorn, so give up and get a BB to look after you while you fuck alphas” is the sex reversed version of telling a Male “you shouldn’t sleep around or attempt to spin plates, you won’t succeed, best to get oneitis for a gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 02:01 PM |
| 7 | Female RedpillI don’t know when this supposed golden age of RPW that you all keep pining away for was but I’ve never known it to be anything different. Thatd suggest to me you’ve only known it in the past year or so. I’m talking about the period between June 2013 (RPW creation) and approx May 2016 (when the original mod team left, some creating RPWives as an alternative). During that period it was run by an all female mod team, and had an entirely female Membership, many of which you’ll have talked to around … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Is concern about toxic masculinity linked with concerns about warfare?That absolutely is not apparent in your actual comments, which seem to be arguing “not anything humans do is gendered”. In a discussion of human sexual relations that’s a non sequitur. The issue here is not necessarily any inappropriate “genderisation” of the argument. That’s perfectly valid. The issue here is that although they’ve identified the genders behave differently, they’ve incorrectly attributed the cause of that difference. It’s like someone making an argument that “due to gender diffe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 01:29 PM |
| 4 | Is concern about toxic masculinity linked with concerns about warfare?There are lots of things I’d like to dispute about your OP. For a start the assumption that “Toxic Masculinity” is an agenda that’s primarily developed and pushed by men (whatever their motivations). It’s true it was originally coined by a male group, but I’d contend that it’s further development, popularisation, and current specific incarnation were all done by women to support their own ends (making men less dangerous to them and their goals). Supposing we ignored that point and assumed it was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 01:23 PM |
| 6 | Is concern about toxic masculinity linked with concerns about warfare?Are you also disputing the concept of “human” as well because monkeys have two arms and two legs too ? We talk here about sexual relations in humans. The psychology of humans in that area are fundamentally gendered in a way that makes any discussion that doesn’t work with that utterly useless. Worse than useless. Utterly misleading down the opposite path. So, yeah. If we were a sub about “how humans hold cups” or “how humans cycle bikes” your point would be valid. As we talk about sexual relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 01:14 PM |
| 7 | Female RedpillThe RPW equivalent, if it were real, would be women teaching other women how to use men to get what women want. This was exactly what RPW was. Only very recently (with the change in mod teams) has that changed. Previously the mod team was entirely female, and the principle of the sub was entirely to use RP for female ends. A lot of the discussion here is about RPW “as we knew it” modded by the RPWs were all familiar with, not necessarily the new creation caused by the interference of TRP mods, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 01:08 PM |
| 5 | Female RedpillWhy would you assume this ? Women by and large aren’t after the “biggest pile of money in the world” nor are they seeking “a life with a man they don’t desire punctuated by brief encounters with men they desire”. Why would they structure their strategy around achieving things they don’t want ? What they DO want is a high status, high genetic quality, high ability to provide Male who desires to have children with them and raise those children. That’s the basic essential genetic goal. Why would th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 01:03 PM |
| 5 | Female RedpillI think this is probably right, and it feels instinctively easy as it’s very close to the environment we evolved in. I think a typical ancestor probably bent the vast bulk of the hours in the day with groups that were near exclusively of their sex... then some very limited time in mixed company (literally a couple of hours in the evening before dusk and until just after sunset), then bed which would be the only part where a male and female would be “alone” together. We’ve evolved to that kind of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 12:58 PM |
| 3 | TheRedPill's quarantine demonstrates reddit's commitment to free speechTo be fair on the rest of the mod team... Usually when we approve a comment (which we do in 55% of cases) we don't drop a comment explaining why. This likely means you have been the recipient of dozens of decisions that "went your way" but you were entirely unaware the comment had been reported, and a mod had made a decision to leave it up. Those decisions are 100% obscured from your view. I only commented here as I felt my decision to approve could use some additional explanation. One of the di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 08:33 AM |
| 1 | TheRedPill's quarantine demonstrates reddit's commitment to free speechThis comment was reported for not attempting to change OPs view, I've left it up as although it doesn't challenge the view directly it points out logical consequences of that view and application in other circumstances that may cause OP to change their view. It seems to me an honest attempt to change the view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 07:38 AM |
| 1 | How common is the AF/BB scenario?Be Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 07:34 AM |
| 3 | TheRedPill's quarantine demonstrates reddit's commitment to free speechThis comment was reported for not changing OPs view. I've left it up as it at least attempts to change the rationale for why this view is held (from "benefits to users" to "advertising cash") and that is attempting to change an aspect of OPs view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 07:33 AM |
| 1 | TheRedPill's quarantine demonstrates reddit's commitment to free speechThis was reported for not attempting to change the users view. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 07:32 AM |
| 3 | TheRedPill's quarantine demonstrates reddit's commitment to free speechTo Be Honest, it probably does TRP a favour. It's so hilariously and obviously NOT what people clicking on TRP need that it ensures that no new subs are diverted at all. Had it been a link to better content, some may have been diverted. As it is, the only people who will be diverted are the kind of viewers who would never have bought into TRP in any case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Female RedpillBe Civil, this is a warning. This is the second comment of yours I've removed this morning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 07:26 AM |
| 1 | What's more important, for a woman to have a low N count, or just that it be lower than yours?Alright, not incels. Evangelical Christians ? Mormons ? Muslims ? Orthodox Jews ? All of them may consider only 0-1 a low N. You're assuming people are setting their preferences by an absolute yardstick, and not relative to them and others in their circle. A statistical average might be an easy way to discuss it on the internet, but it's not how humans are actually dealing with the concept. Even at the level of mr average never-heard-of-the-pillsphere-or-n-counts-ever dude. He's going to feel th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Do women prefer "toxic men"? A compilation of research.It seems it works fine in old reddit. Did you write it in old reddit or on the redesigned site ? I think that the redesign post/edit box has on a toggle for writing using old reddit markup, or for writing in text and linking/marking up using icon buttons like word. It looks to me that you've entered it here writing out the markup, but with the toggle set to write in text. It works fine on old. But on the new redesign it's interpreted the markup code as just normal text, as if you'd typed it into… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 08:50 PM |
| 2 | r/TheRedPill quarantinedExactly. And you can't actually have this real conversation about the limits on actual free speech online. It's impossible. Not because you can't start talking about it... But because when you do Americans can't stop making it a conversation predicated on the first amendment, and telling you "but corporations are allowed to do what they like stopping people speaking freely, because they're not the government. So they can just go ahead, it's legal and right that they close of whatever speech they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 08:32 PM |
| 3 | [CMV] Press "F" for respectsIf thats what they're doing they have utterly fucked up. The content is still there, so if there is legal liability they haven't removed it. However, by quarantining the content they've proved in an unambiguous way that thy know it's there, they know what it is, it's very very bad, and they've decided to carry on publishing it anyway just requiring 2 clicks to go there instead of one. So, as a legal strategy it's objectively terrible. They'd have been better off doing nothing. They've actually g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Do women prefer "toxic men"? A compilation of research.Hi OP, I have approved your post and it looks perfectly fine in old.reddit... but in new reddit, the formatting is all screwed up. Thought you'd like to know to see if you can sort the issue. Your post would be more readable, and would attract a better debate, if it was readable in both formats. Currently about 1/3 of our users browse through new reddit, 1/3 through old, 1/3 through mobile apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 06:23 PM |
| 2 | What's more important, for a woman to have a low N count, or just that it be lower than yours?Yes, but you're assuming there is a relationship between "the average N" and what males regard as "a low N". What I'm trying to point out is thats not necessarily a safe assumption. A "below average N" would be an N an incel would describe as a "high-N". Thats why when they talk about low N girls they talk about 0-1 as a "low N". Wheras some kind of slayer may well count "anything in single figures" as a low N, even though a woman on the upper end of that range is way above the average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 06:13 PM |
| 2 | How common is the AF/BB scenario?Which one ? AF/BB can be done serially or in parallel... a woman who settles with a BB after some years enjoying AFs or, what is essentially, an affair. We could make some estimate of the second from affair stats (although for obvious reasons they’re not good stats). The first I don’t think you could get a reasonable estimate for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 04:30 PM |
| 2 | If TRP and Braincels Get Banned, Does that Mean Purple is the New Red / Black? How A Positive Identity for Good Men Could be the Answer.Yes, I agree. However even neutral subs like PPD will be expected to keep a lid on things, which could potentially be difficult during purge week especially if TRP or braincels gets banned during / before that event. It's just a speculation I'm not saying I'm necessarily right. The lid the admin cares about (reddit site wide policy) will stay very much ON during purge week. They really couldn’t give a shit if men answer Q4W threads, or if we call each other assholes, or anything restrained by th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 01:18 PM |
| 1 | If TRP and Braincels Get Banned, Does that Mean Purple is the New Red / Black? How A Positive Identity for Good Men Could be the Answer.Well then they’d have excellent grounds for appeal. Like I said, I’ve got no worries here. We don’t support, and are not, proponents of, any views of either side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 01:16 PM |
| 2 | r/TheRedPill quarantinedWhenever humans want to kill, they convince themselves that the victim is not human. I’m not trying to convince you the fetus isn’t human. It’s as human as the blood cells and sperm are human. Being “human” is not a sufficient qualifier to make “killing the human thing” murder. People have used the "its a subhuman" rationalization to enslave, rape, murder for all of history. Nor am I attempting to say they’re “sub human” either. However they don’t meet at least 2 of the 3 qualifying criteria app… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 12:34 PM |
| 2 | r/TheRedPill quarantinedFetus’ aren’t children. Anymore than an acorn is an oak tree. It can become one. But where the law makes abortion legal in my country and yours it has not yet become one and (critically for the law) it absolutely needs an adult to consent to continuing to provide the inputs needed to become one. If that adult declines to do so... then like an acorn unwatered, unplanted, and without light it will not become a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 11:55 AM |
| 15 | What's more important, for a woman to have a low N count, or just that it be lower than yours?Frankly, I’m not sure you can separate the two concepts. You may as well wrote the definition of “low n” as “a lower N than mine”. This is why incels are so hung open on finding virgins, while more experienced men define low n as low single digits, and even more experienced men as mid single digits etc etc. I don’t think you’ll be able to successfully disentangle “objectively low N” from “what I consider subjectively low N in reference to my personal N”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 11:51 AM |
| 4 | If TRP and Braincels Get Banned, Does that Mean Purple is the New Red / Black? How A Positive Identity for Good Men Could be the Answer.Tl;Dr - an influx of manosphere ideologies into PPD could be perceived as a problem for the public image of the subreddit Wut? That’s not a problem. That’s the reason the sub exists which is to offer a space where “masculanists” can debate everyone else in a balanced environment. An influx of people wishing to do so is not an issue. Anymore than an influx of feminists to /r/FeMraDebates is an issue for them. Or an influx of republicans to /r/politicaldiscussion is a problem. especially as admins… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 11:44 AM |
| 3 | If TRP and Braincels Get Banned, Does that Mean Purple is the New Red / Black? How A Positive Identity for Good Men Could be the Answer.It doesn’t work that way. They’ll message us first asking for changes and/or issuing warnings. As they’ve never done either, were safe for now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 11:38 AM |
| 6 | r/TheRedPill quarantinedBut surely everyone realises misandrism is just unpossible. There is no way the patriarchy would allow such a thing, so there is no need to offer equal protection to men. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Is there any possibility that TRP could get banned?This was reported for targeted harrassment. I see no harrassment, targeted or otherwise, so it stays up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 11:31 AM |
| 5 | Is there any possibility that TRP could get banned?Well. There are plenty of RPW they could select from that wouldn’t harm TRP any. I’m not sure adding someone like Atlas as a mod would make the site any worse, may improve it in some ways as she burns away the incels with some cleansing fire. But I don’t think a token gesture like this would cut it. Their issue is with what they see as misogyny. Adding (what they’d see as) a self-hating misogynist woman wouldn’t correct that impression. Anymore than adding a Jewish mod to a holocaust denial site… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 10:07 AM |
| 4 | r/TheRedPill quarantinedI’m not worried that we’ll get quarantined or banned. I think that’s extremely unlikely if even one admin reviews our content and notices it’s a debate sub and not a proponent of either side. I think the issue for us will be losing our last major source of new blood since TBP has more or less wound down. TRP will get banned, and we’ll gradually lose relevance and fade away until it’s just regulars posting and we die off through lack of interest. That, I think, is the real threat to us. EDIT: Fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 09:47 AM |
| 2 | r/TheRedPill quarantinedI agree. There was a way to do this that pointed people away from the toxicity of TRP but towards information that they were looking for. TaoM is a great example of where they could have linked. Instead they’ve linked to TRPs polar opposite. That’s a definite slap down of even the non-toxic parts of TRPs message. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/18 09:43 AM |
| 1 | To what extent are women influenced by cultural narratives?This thread is flaired as a Q4Women and only women can top level comment. So far as I can work out, you're not a woman so this has been removed. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/18 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Questions for all: Height and age differences.6' 2" (me) Approx. 5' 3" (Mrs. me) No, I don't think it made any difference for my attraction. I'd expect she'd report the same for her.... under the hood, instinctively ? Who knows. Most of my G/Friends have been average height for women or slightly below.... so maybe there is a thing going on there I can't access. Same on her side, given what we know about how instinctive attraction works I'm almost sure that sub-consciously it was a factor. Age wise.... I'm now 42 (sigh) and she's 38. Again, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/18 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What are some examples of bad dating advice given to women?OK, comment has been restored. Please don't comment on any Q4Men threads :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/18 05:20 PM |
| 0 | Q4Women: What are some examples of bad dating advice given to women?This comment has been removed as this is a Q4Women thread and you appear to be a man. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/18 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What are some examples of bad dating advice given to women?This comment has been removed as this is a Q4Women thread and you appear to be a man. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/18 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What are some examples of bad dating advice given to women?This comment has been removed as all top level responses in a Q4W thead must come from women, and your flair identifies you as a dude. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/18 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Is It Relevant for Virgin Men to Discuss How Pill Theory Applies to Them?<eyeroll> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 08:31 PM |
| 0 | Is It Relevant for Virgin Men to Discuss How Pill Theory Applies to Them?You can put anything in your flair that keeps our rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Is It Relevant for Virgin Men to Discuss How Pill Theory Applies to Them?Thats OK too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 08:14 PM |
| 0 | Is It Relevant for Virgin Men to Discuss How Pill Theory Applies to Them?She insulted a group of people. You can call a class of people morons. You can call, say, "All Red Pill are Morons". You can even insult individuals, if individuals are not members e.g. "President Trump is a Moron". What you can't do is insult another member directly. Thats uncivil. Atlas knows the rules and she mostly stays on the right side of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Video games are creating an entire generation of incels.No, We get posts and comments reported by users all the time. On this site about 55% of reported posts/comments stay up despite the reports because no rules were broken. I've just scanned the thread and you're breaking our CMV rules and obviously downvoting others which is also against the rules. If you'd not been breaking the rules they could have reported till the cows came home, it would have stayed up. As it was, you broke the rules again and again, so it had to come down. It's the rule brea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 06:13 PM |
| – | Video games are creating an entire generation of incels.OP, CMV posts impose certain obligations on the author. Specifically that they engage in good faith and are open to having their view changed. I'm taking down your OP because you have conspicuously failed to show good faith and are using the thread to troll others as well as downvoting your opponents, which is against sub rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 06:09 PM |
| 1 | The majority of straight women are sexually submissive (to varying extent by individual), but TRP articulates this poorly and creates unnecessary division/confusion.Be Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Video games are creating an entire generation of incels.Comments on a cmv thread must challenge OPs view, so this has been removed. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Purge Week Imminent! (22 September 2018)I doubt I'll have the time to keep up this year. Towards the end of the week last year I couldn't keep up with the pace of posts, and I had a lot more work time on my hands then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Tinder Studies Part DeuxThats enough. Stop slap fighting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Tinder Studies Part DeuxThats enough. Stop slap fighting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/18 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Isn't TRP (especially /r/askTRP) all about (1) efficiency and (2) not wasting TIME? How can men avoid wasting TIME vis-a-vis their sexual goals?Isn't TRP (especially /r/askTRP) all about (1) efficiency and (2) not wasting TIME? You can look at it that way if you want. It's about achieving your goals, especially if they're of a sexual nature, and how to do that. If you get better at that, yeah. You're going to be more efficient and waste less time. An "AFC" is someone who expends time/energy and gets zero pussy in return. Not necessarily. I'd say an AFC is a guy with a mediocre or worse sex life, who has potential. Who is, in a sense, ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/18 06:58 PM |
| 7 | Purge Week Imminent! (22 September 2018)Users have an opportunity to get some stuff out of their system that normally would be prevented by the rules. We all have a bit of fun and, by the end of the week, everyone's got a new appreciation for the fact that mods aren't just nazi jackbooted thugs. We're nazi jackbooted thugs that stand between them and a tide of shitposts :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/18 06:49 AM |
| 1 | women, Please list 5 positive attributes of your male SO and 5 flawsThis is a Q4Women. And you don't sound like a woman to me, so this comment has been removed. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/18 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Purge Week Imminent! (22 September 2018)They should be. We can't stop people downvoting, although we've used the site CSS and Re-Design to make this as difficult as we can. Due to reddit's functionality, the "no downvoting" rule has to be an honour rule as we have no way of modding it. This suffices to keep it to a minimum. When have you ever seen a -5 "hidden" comment on PPD ? It stops us becoming a one sided shithole where the other side is regularly consigned to reddit oblivion by mass downvoting. It's a major reason why reddit has… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/18 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Are women on tinder uniquely stupid? Does this apply to everyone? is it a recent thing?Be Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/18 07:05 PM |
| 2 | I don't like how many men are scared of women. Fear of the social repercussions of rejection, fear of being accused of manspreading, etc. If you're scared of people and let them control you, then they win. Just like "the terrorists have won"I've approved this OP (it was stuck in our spam filter). However, I have flaired it as a CMV as per sub rules as it makes an affirmative claim. So top level replies will have to disagree with your assertion. Comments in agreement can be placed under automod, or occur anywhere else but a top level comment. This will also mean we expect you to interact in your own thread and be open to having your mind changed, so please be an active participant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/18 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Purge Week Imminent! (22 September 2018)Level 10 and above is restricted to admins only. Mods are fair game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/18 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: How much do you think about past partners during sex? How much do you compare current sex-partners to past sex-partners? To what extent does sex lose its magic/pleasure/enjoyment as you have more of it and/or increase your N-count?Be Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/18 08:55 PM |
| 8 | Purge Week Imminent! (22 September 2018)As that is an insult to a group of people, and not any individual PPD member this can stay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/18 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Purge Week Imminent! (22 September 2018)It's not purge week yet. Normal rules are still in place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/18 08:12 PM |
| 4 | Q4Women: How much do you think about past partners during sex? How much do you compare current sex-partners to past sex-partners? To what extent does sex lose its magic/pleasure/enjoyment as you have more of it and/or increase your N-count?This might be the longest comment I have ever seen you write. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/18 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Non-American PPD'ersWe have the same people. We cover everyone. The total cost of UK healthcare is about 40% of the cost of US healthcare. You may not be paying for the people with diabetes/depression. But you are paying for the billing and charging infrastructure and administration, as well as the hugely inflated costs private insurance gives you. I also suspect your emergency insurance costs a bit more than $100 a decade, and that if you did get really sick you'd have a lot of co-pays and deductibles to go with y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/18 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Non-American PPD'ersAh, but when you get really sick one day... whammo. (or at least, without Obamacare). Not just really sick. But really sick with a fucking great bill for the privilege. It comes to us all eventually. Paying $100 a decade is not sustainable across many multiple decades for anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/18 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Non-American PPD'ersWell, I get it free from work so... yay! Except it's so cheap because I, like everyone else, don't use the damn thing. We just go to our NHS doctors 95% of the time. Because I work corporate I've had it for probably 18 years or so now and have never used it. NHS has been fine for all the day to day stuff and emergencies. It would come in handy though if I, say, did something debilitating but not life threatening. Thats where the NHS waiting lists are. The NHS surgeon who can fix your "dodgy" kne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/18 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Non-American PPD'ersMy employer just pays mine. It's a tiny fringe benefit in the UK that big companies tend to offer. But if it wasn't automatic I wouldn't bother.I'd probably only use it if there was a major problem, or I couldn't get a Drs appt from my NHS doctor. But I usually get one of them within a day or two. Same day if there's a cancellation. The US system sounds horrific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/18 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Non-American PPD'ersYup. The NHS is about $3,000 per person, and also covers kids. The rich pay more than that, and the poor less or nothing. But no-one adult pays more than $6,100 it's capped there. So the most you can possibly pay, even if you're ill (and need 4 prescriptions a year) and have taken full private insurance too, would be capped at around $7,050 per year. Most people pay way less. No copays/deducatibles. No bankrupcys. If you lose your job, you're still covered but now it's free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/18 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Non-American PPD'ersKnarly is a subdivision of gnarly (sense3). https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/knarly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/18 09:39 PM |
| 7 | Non-American PPD'ersFunny enough my mother discovered 2 weeks ago she's got to have a knee replaced. She seen the surgeon and the Op is scheduled for Jan, so it'll be 4 months. Of course, if she'd taken out private health insurance (as Brits like me and wub can do). She'd probably have had it done already. Additional private cover like that basically allows you to skip NHS queues. This additional cover is usually only about $100 a month, with 0 co-pays, because the insurers know the NHS will cover absolutely anythi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/18 08:10 PM |
| 5 | How much of feminist/manospherian views are really just projections?Well, yeah. I think it’s probably a little more than “normal dating”. A scenario where you go on a few dates with a few guys, not sleeping with anyone, then sleeping with a guy and making him your boyfriend for 5 years isn’t “riding the cock carousel”. That’s a fairly normal dating scenario. For it to be CC riding you’d have to have slept with some of the guys that “didn’t work out”. So if we had the same scenario as above, in which a woman slept with 3-4-5 guys before settling on the BF, that’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/18 04:23 PM |
| 20 | How much of feminist/manospherian views are really just projections?Well I disagree with the examples you’ve used of manosphere projections. I think there are good reasons to believe none of those three are projections in the way you envisaged them. The cock carousel is probably the most defensible for you. But this is merely the (typically trollish) name RP uses for what normal people call “dating in your early 20s” or “being on the market “. If you’re out dating, and you’ve slept with a few guys whilst doing so, then that’s riding the cock carousel. I think th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/18 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Reconciling SMV with science and actual fertility rates.Okay, but if 38 year old men are the most desirable, why aren't more of them reproducing? Probably because, by age 38, they'e already reproduced and modern contraception allows them to decide not to reproduce again at age 38. With most people these days targetting 2-3 children.... if you've got 2-3 children by (say) 35 although you could reproduce at 38 you're unlikely to do so, preferring instead to "fool" your genes by having sex in a fashion that doesn't lead to reproduction (i.e. with contra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/18 08:41 AM |
| 2 | What do you personally consider to be "a lot" in terms of N-count, and why?I don't really, in so far as they're pretty good very high baseline studies done by the CDC, so they're "gold standard" as far as surveying goes. There is the issue of people lying counts down (females) or up (males) but so long as you accept that the "real" median for both sexes is in-between the male and female figures this effectively eliminates that problem by balancing the incentives of males (up) and females (down) against each other. The real figure is certainly in between those two figur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/18 08:29 AM |
| 8 | Studies show that women are more attractive than men and evolutionary pressures will continue this trendYou're assuming the "attractiveness" yardstick is an absolute, like height. It's not, it's relative to your peers. When assessing the attractiveness of any member of the opposite sex, their attractiveness is relative to other members of their sex. Every human sets their internal instinctive yardstick for attractive based on the members of the opposite sex they see around them. That isn't to say that there are good reasons why some men rate "the women they can get" as too ugly a lot ... and women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/18 08:27 PM |
| 2 | What do you personally consider to be "a lot" in terms of N-count, and why?Yes that’s “a lot”. This is a day too late to reap all that precious karma but... CDC stats of lifetime partners per age... https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr036.pdf Age Male Median Female Median 15-19 1.8 1.4 20-24 4.1 2.6 25-29 5.7 3.6 30-34 6.4 4.2 35-39 6.2 3.5 40-44 6.4 3.4 The “true” median for females is probably somewhere between the male and female medians (as girls lie down and boys lie up). In any case your female is way, way, way above the median for her age group. Only 1.1% of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/18 05:03 PM |
| 7 | Why I Am Beginning to Have More Sympathy for "Blue Pill"But that’s just how the terms are defined. BP is just everyone that rejects RP. RP is everyone that accepts RP and PP (here at least) are people who take “some fromcolumn A, some from column B”. If you disagree with RP then being called BP is not an insult so much as a recognition of your position. It’s only an “insult” if you don’t agree that’s your position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/18 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (16 September 2018)but that's true of most investments. in the stock market you're buying shares of a company, but the market price is based on speculation about the future price of those shares. the price of a share of a company is NOT based on the inherent value of a company, the value of a company is based on the market price of all the shares of that company. Yes and no. That company generates a profit, or should do. If invest $1 in a company, by the end of 1 year that should be $1.05. Either because they pay … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/18 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Men exaggerate the risk and prevalence of false rape accusationsBe Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Reconciling SMV with science and actual fertility rates.If she's talking about Rollo's SMV graph, it's not based on any data. He made it up. Just drew it out in a graphing app. It reflects his view of what he thinks relative SMV at every age is. I think he was pretty clear about that in the blog post he wrote that the graph is drawn from. If you want one based on real data there is this. Thats my graph of SMV differential based only upon quantity of the other sex available in your dating pool relative to your own (as such it doesn't make any judgemen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Reconciling SMV with science and actual fertility rates.I don’t know why you’re reading fertility as being the primary determinant of SMV. I mean, it was.... in the long evolutionary period that built humans instincts for attraction. But present day fertility rates don’t determine the attraction that’s measured by SMV anymore than “current need for calories” in the present day determines why people like sugary/fatty treats like donuts. SMV is determined by these instincts (which aren’t amenable to fertility statistics) and by relative availability of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 01:32 PM |
| 0 | Sex dolls certainly aren't for me, but I see how for a lot of men they have a good bit of appeal. Women are just scared that it means that men won't be as aggressive in approaching them. They are also scared that women would have to try hard in the sexual marketplace themselves.They used to say the same about porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 01:28 PM |
| 6 | Sex dolls certainly aren't for me, but I see how for a lot of men they have a good bit of appeal. Women are just scared that it means that men won't be as aggressive in approaching them. They are also scared that women would have to try hard in the sexual marketplace themselves.I dunno. Look I think I agree with your general point, but I’ve seen/experienced women who treat “things” as sexual rivals. I’m old enough to have been an adult before free and ubiquitous porn. Back when men bought magazines and videos (or to put it another way, things). Women back in the late 80s/early 90s did very much act as though porn mags/videos were sexual rivals. They got pissed when they found their BFs porn. Typical arguments might be “I don’t understand why you want that instead of me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (16 September 2018)Yes, a tiny amount of cash in the btc market. Some people bought tulips because they looked nice too. Some people buy gold because they want to make a ring. That didn’t change the fact that almost the entire tulip market was speculative at the time of tulip mania, or the gold market is largely speculative today. The same applies to btc today. For every $ in btc held so you can buy recreational drug quantities on the internet there is $1000 held for speculative purposes. Just as for everyone buyi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (16 September 2018)Absolutely, any “investment” that does not inherently produce a return by increasing value. Either dividends (although they can be reinvested) or interest. I don’t speculate in gold/silver for this very reason. Forex is trickier, because by definition every time you invest in a foreign company or bond you are taking an implicit forex position concerning the currency the stocks/bonds are sold in. But even there any investment is due to a desire to invest in the underlying security, not driven by … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (16 September 2018)What do you use yours for ? Everyone I ever speak to about them holds them because they think they'll be worth more. Like people held tulips. The asset itself generates no return. It's literally a non-interest bearing, non-dividend paying, lump of cash. That means for any $1 any buyer of bitcoin makes another investor must lose exactly $1. You're just betting you are clever enough to always be the guy making a dollar. And there is always a dumber investor who's dollar you can take. It's a zero s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/18 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (16 September 2018)Well done. But please take time to feel sorry for the identical investor to you who was on the other side of the deal, and so lost everything you won. Poor fellow. Which one of the two investors will you be next run ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/18 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (16 September 2018)How them digital tulips doing ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/18 08:00 PM |
| 16 | Having sex with someone means that you are willing to possibly have a baby with someone and shouldn’t complain if your sex partner gets pregnant.Yes, what we're debating is whether society should hold men responsible for children they did not consent to have, and also (if you're the other way inclined) for children they had aborted that they did not consent to abort. You can't end that debate by saying "But they do now. So the debates over. He's got to pay CS". Thats like having a debate on slavery prior to the civil war and someone saying "Well, he's black and he lives in Alabama. So there's no debate about his freedom we can have, the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 09:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men want both equality and inequality in a relationship, when and how it benefits them.Let me try that again. Take your text, which you can see (but no-one else can right now), and C&P it into a new comment under the automod comment in this thread. Thats the place where you can agree with OP to your hearts content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 09:31 PM |
| 4 | Should sex be risk-free?Yes, and with most STD's it's harder to infect a man having sex with an infected woman than vice versa. The the way the plumbing works usually puts women at a substantially increased risk of infection per act compared to men. I think it's something like 10:1 on HiV for example. Men are also "High Risk, High Payoff" versions of humans. Due to the way our reproduction works men can be very fertile, at the cost of high risk. Mens genes put all the poker chips on the table. Genetic instincts that dr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Should sex be risk-free?Ok. It’s worth starting out by saying that the risks you outlined are there for women biologically, and have always been so. Many of these risks did not apply to men, and when they did (STDs) even then biology made men less succeptible. So we’re not talking about something put on women by men, so much as biology. And in so far as we’ve, yes, advanced from that.... we’ve done so where men bore portions of those risks on women’s behalf. To men there is little actual consequence of sex other than “… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Having sex with someone means that you are willing to possibly have a baby with someone and shouldn’t complain if your sex partner gets pregnant.It’s statistically going to be true, when discussing any reasonably large number of people. As we generally discuss this stuff at the level of the Human (or at least Western) SMP it’s of ample size to say this is statistically a certainty. In a body of people that large, sex will certainly lead to babies. It’s a statistically certain circumstance that’s therefore worth discussing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Having sex with someone means that you are willing to possibly have a baby with someone and shouldn’t complain if your sex partner gets pregnant.Not neccessarily, but certainly statistically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 07:23 PM |
| 2 | If you were a woman, how would you live your life? Or, how would you instruct a daughter to live?My god, what a stupid, stupid comparison. I am not going to waste time explaining “human 101” to you. Good. Cliff notes section: Welp, that didn't last long. the violence and discrimination withstood by trans people is a far greater issue than anything someone who posts on manosphere subreddits experiences. I agree. I don't see what that has to do with our conversation about the use of the word transexual. In using that word I am not increasing nor perpetuating violence and discrimination, but u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Is hypergamy a real thing? Or is it made up by redpillers who don’t know how to maintain a long term relationship?Yes Hypergamy is a real thing. As I've found below, you don't know what Hypergamy means... so I'll cover that again... Hypergamy is the concept that women (as the selective sex and with limited reproduction potential) choose mates largely by quality and so seek the highest quality mates. Basically, a woman has a limited reproductive potential due to the need to carry and wean any children that will survive. That typically limits her reproductive potential. She can have, say, 10 kids and 10 kids … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Is hypergamy a real thing? Or is it made up by redpillers who don’t know how to maintain a long term relationship?Thats not hypergamy. You just described AF/BB, a different RP concept. The female mating strategy where women have muliple partners (either serially, or in paralell) seeking different things from each partner (generally "good genes" from the AF, and "provisioning" from the BB) is known as AF/BB within RP. Hypergamy is a different, but related concept, that women (as the selective sex and with limited reproduction potential) choose mates largely by quality and so seek the highest quality mates. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 04:55 PM |
| 15 | Having sex with someone means that you are willing to possibly have a baby with someone and shouldn’t complain if your sex partner gets pregnant.But he didn't break it, she did. He made the decision to have sex, knowing there was a small possibility of having a baby as a result of that. Right ? So he's accepting the consequence of what he did (there being a baby thats his) even if he didn't consent to that specifically. In exactly the same manner... She made a decision to have the baby without his consent, knowing there was a possibility that as he hadn't given consent he wouldn't support her or the baby. So she's got to accept the conse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 04:44 PM |
| 19 | Having sex with someone means that you are willing to possibly have a baby with someone and shouldn’t complain if your sex partner gets pregnant.That seems reasonable, sex does mean babies. So, yeah. If you’re going to go with expecting people to take the “natural consequences” of their actions... guys have got to accept girls they have sex with may have a baby. By exactly the same standard it’s perfectly natural for men not to support in any way babies born without their consent, nor support their mothers. If having sex has a natural consequence of babies... having a baby without the fathers willing agreement leads to a natural conseque… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 03:43 PM |
| 5 | If the right to have an abortion is a woman's right because its their body why should a man pay child support for a decision of a woman?I'm not a conservative, I'm a liberal. Nevertheless I thought this was quite well statistically established. When you measure outcomes, even controlling for things like poverty etc, children of 2 parent households do significantly better than children from single parent households. They're safer, get higher educational attainment, have higher incomes, and generally "do better". This seems like a decent basic summary, and is written from a viewpoint sympathetic to single-parents, although it too … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 11:54 AM |
| 0 | The most attractive trait in a man is willpowerHi OP, This thread has been flaired CMV as it makes an affirmative claim. FYI, the CMV rules mean you have to engage with the responses on the thread honestly and show openness to have your view changed. If you don't do so the thread may be removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.Be Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 10:30 PM |
| 1 | This guy(24M) treats me badly because I’m very ugly?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 10:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men want both equality and inequality in a relationship, when and how it benefits them.Top Level posts in a CMV thread must attempt to change OPs view, so this comment has been removed. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 10:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men want both equality and inequality in a relationship, when and how it benefits them.Top Level posts in a CMV thread must attempt to change OPs view, so this comment has been removed. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion: Books (15 September 2018)I am going to join the dead tree brigade, and say I much prefer paper books. I generally read sci-fi, or science/history related non-fiction. If there's a book I read recently that I think was incredibly good, I'd have to go with Who we are and how we got here It's an up to date overview of what studies of mass genetics, for the first time across 100,000's of people worldwide, have told us about ancient mass migrations and the inter-relatedness of different ethnic groups genetically between them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 09:22 PM |
| 0 | If you were a woman, how would you live your life? Or, how would you instruct a daughter to live?No, it reflects me speaking as a mod. When doing so, I am still a free human being who is able to choose his own words as I see fit. This would really only become problematic if I broke site rules by doing so, or if other mods took exception to me doing so. Thank you for reminding of the type of space this is One where every member is given a right to speak freely how they see fit so long as it is within the rules ? and giving me the opportunity to question my involvement in it. If you want to q… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 05:11 PM |
| 2 | If you were a woman, how would you live your life? Or, how would you instruct a daughter to live?My refusal to use preferred terms when told to do so is my decision. I'm generally happy to do so if asked nicely, as we've discussed before around here. I have noted that you feel I shouldn't handle these discussions in future, and I am giving that opinion the full weight it properly deserves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Why is it socially acceptable to disqualify a man based on height, but not a woman based on weight?This comment has been removed as it agrees with OP. Today level comments in a CMV thread should seek to change OPs view. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 04:22 PM |
| 2 | If you were a woman, how would you live your life? Or, how would you instruct a daughter to live?And I’m mostly telling you to stop using “transsexual” because it’s not what people call it anymore. I object to being "told" what to call it. I don’t know why someone wouldn’t want to speak accurately if giving the opportunity. Because if they chose to change their language to be more accurate, that should be their choice. It may be that I'll choose to do so in the future. But I object to being "told what words I should use". If you haven't taken offence, thats great. You're not offended, and I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 03:18 PM |
| 2 | If you were a woman, how would you live your life? Or, how would you instruct a daughter to live?It’s “transgender”. Please. “Transsexual” is extremely outdated. This isn’t Rocky Horror. I'm an old guy, so you're going to have to live with the words I'm used to if I'm just talking to you like a normal person. And I’m willing to follow whatever mods want, but I’m going to insist you update the rules to clarify if I’m only allowed in automod, as I would have preferred to avoid this happening. No one likes being told they’re only allowed to contribute to gender discussions from a second class … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 01:22 PM |
| 1 | I See a Lot of MRP/MRB Wo/Men Here With A Totally Different Interpretation of the PillosphereNot specifically about that subject, no. Sounds like an Atlas thread to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 11:57 AM |
| 1 | If you were a woman, how would you live your life? Or, how would you instruct a daughter to live?Here is the reply I just wrote to Gravel_Roads... No you're welcome to comment anywhere on the sub, including on Q4M/Q4W threads anywhere but a top level answer, just like every other member. Q4M/Q4W threads are a special case where people are canvassing views of people of that sex, and are seeking views typical of that sex. View from the other sex are welcome under automod or as non-top level answers, but the purpose of the top level answers in such threads is to be from people representative o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 11:51 AM |
| 0 | If you were a woman, how would you live your life? Or, how would you instruct a daughter to live?No you're welcome to comment anywhere on the sub, inluding on Q4M/Q4W threads anywhere but a top level answer, just like every other member. Q4M/Q4W threads are a special case where people are canvassing views of people of that sex, and are seeking views typical of that sex. View from the other sex are welcome under automod or as non-top level answers, but the purpose of the top level answers in such threads is to be from people representative of that sex. My position is that your experiences ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 11:47 AM |
| 4 | If you were a woman, how would you live your life? Or, how would you instruct a daughter to live?This comment has been reported as not appropriate for a Q4M thread. I understand your situation is funky, but I'm not aware of your exact sex and/or gender. The comment has been removed while we work this out. Were you born a member of the male sex ? And do you currently identify as a male by gender ? Only members who can honestly answer yes to both can top level answer in Q4M threads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/18 10:25 PM |
| 3 | If you were a woman, how would you live your life? Or, how would you instruct a daughter to live?This comment has been removed, as this thread is tagged as a question for men and so all top level answers must come from men. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/18 09:05 PM |
| 2 | I See a Lot of MRP/MRB Wo/Men Here With A Totally Different Interpretation of the PillosphereA lot of what people seem to be discussing in this thread and around the sub in general seems to be extra baggage because they don't want to address my arguments but would rather just make the case that "nuh-uh, Red Pill was never about that". So when I say that Red Pill - from my perspective - is not useful for sexually / romantically isolated men, you end up with comments like Atlas' "oh yeah but it was never for mentally deficient people" or from another user on this exact thread "RP is not f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/18 08:55 PM |
| 1 | An explanation of current relationship dynamics from women's perspective:You were playing the man, not the ball. We're not here to discuss the personal characteristics of each other, but human sexuality in general. He was discussing it in general, you were relating it in a negative way towards him personally. Play the ball (his ideas) not the man (him personally). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | I See a Lot of MRP/MRB Wo/Men Here With A Totally Different Interpretation of the PillosphereNo, I discovered RP only about 4-5 years ago. Although via other sources and then reddit, not first of all as a reddit thing. So when I arrived /r/theredpill as a sub had been around for 1-2 years. I'm one of the longer termers around here, but Atlas has years on me, as do a few others. As far as I'm aware the only real "original" around here is probably Atlas. Perhaps a couple of others who pop in from time to time, like max_peenor. RPS, of course. GLO has also got a years or so on me, but isn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | I See a Lot of MRP/MRB Wo/Men Here With A Totally Different Interpretation of the PillosphereNo, I discovered RP only about 4-5 years ago. Although via other sources and then reddit, not first of all as a reddit thing. So when I arrived /r/theredpill as a sub had been around for 1-2 years. I'm one of the longer termers around here, but Atlas has years on me, as do a few others. As far as I'm aware the only real "original" around here is probably Atlas. Perhaps a couple of others who pop in from time to time, like max_peenor. RPS, of course. GLO has also got a years or so on me, but isn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/18 07:59 PM |
| 2 | I See a Lot of MRP/MRB Wo/Men Here With A Totally Different Interpretation of the PillosphereOK, Looks like you want to get this changed. If you do, write us a modmail. The modmail button is at the top of the list of mods in the sidebar. That way all the mods can see your suggestions, and we can discuss them both internally and with you with a reference thread, and ultimately we'll come to a decision about whether to clarify the incel rule or not, and if we clarify it how we'd want to do that. I can't make the decision by myself, so it needs a modmail and we'll look into it. As we're ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/18 07:43 PM |
| 1 | An explanation of current relationship dynamics from women's perspective:Be Civil. You could make your point without directly insulting the other poster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/18 07:40 PM |
| 1 | I See a Lot of MRP/MRB Wo/Men Here With A Totally Different Interpretation of the PillosphereWhat did you think about my suggestion to expand on that rule? I don't think it gives mods the blanket ability to throttle the amount of incel content that the current broader rules gives. I don't think you quite understand how many chances they had, over a 12-18m period. They couldn't restrain themselves. So we settled on the current draconian rule, which leaves a great deal of leeway for mod judgement, as the only way to control the incel takeover effectively. Purge week is incoming relatively… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Most women are attractive to most men.Most men find most women he sees as visibly appealing or pleasing.Women who are below average are still pretty because they are women.It bore no relation to what he said in his post, and was an attempt in some way to insult or otherwise disturb him and not discuss honestly his arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/18 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Most women are attractive to most men.Most men find most women he sees as visibly appealing or pleasing.Women who are below average are still pretty because they are women.Homophobia isn't against the rules, attempting to insult other users is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/18 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Most women are attractive to most men.Most men find most women he sees as visibly appealing or pleasing.Women who are below average are still pretty because they are women.Be Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/18 01:57 PM |
| 1 | I See a Lot of MRP/MRB Wo/Men Here With A Totally Different Interpretation of the PillosphereThinking about it more, I did write this OP for Incels.... but it’s more how RP should motivate them to improve, rather than anything they should do pre-RP although I guess it could be taken that way... https://en.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/771ie8/overall_attractiveness_and_even_looks_as_a/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/18 09:40 AM |
| 6 | I See a Lot of MRP/MRB Wo/Men Here With A Totally Different Interpretation of the PillosphereFor the non rules/mod related part of your post... Yes, RP was originally about average men getting laid. In order to do so they figured out a lot of new and/or poorly understood stuff concerning both Male and Female sexuality. It turned out that body of knowledge, collated for the average single guy, was useful to females, married guys and way below average dudes as well. As you’d expect any truth about human mating behaviours to be. This led the old incarnation of RPW to use this body of knowl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/18 09:30 AM |
| 5 | I See a Lot of MRP/MRB Wo/Men Here With A Totally Different Interpretation of the PillosphereThe “No incel content” rule is there because, frankly, they swarmed us. Particularly in the period when/r/incels was banned. We’re her to discuss human sexuality, particularly as it pertains to RP. We became a site where incels owned 2/3rds of the front page and were using PPD to “yell at the normies”. The membership and mod team wanted our wider debate back. And, honestly, the incels we’re insufferable for a time. It gets in everyone’s nerves if every thread is dominated by guys saying “I’ve ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/18 09:18 AM |
| 2 | I See a Lot of MRP/MRB Wo/Men Here With A Totally Different Interpretation of the PillosphereDon’t remember writing that comment/OP. If you want to search my, or any other redditors, past 1000 comments and OPs I recommend www.redditcommentsearch.com In terms of the wider conversation. Yeah, RP is there for the average guys doing badly, the guys in the bell of the curve, it seeks to move them up into the right side of the curve and out onto the pointy bit. The guys in the bad pointy bit, the 10-15% worst cases, are guys who could still benefit from listening to RP but it isn’t tailored t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/18 08:33 AM |
| 0 | RP Theories and Pair BondingThis comment was reported for circlejerking. Circlejerking is allowed under automod. So this ball is automatically fair. And Lewis, I've scanned the thread. I can't see any circlejerking by blues or anyone else. People are debating the topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/18 10:20 PM |
| – | CMV: love doesn't exist and gold diggers are actually smart womenHi OP, This has been removed for two reasons. Firstly, it's a rant and we don't accept rants. Secondly you declared it an CMV, but do not appear to be honestly engaging below with an openness to having your view changed. If you want to appeal, please do so in modmail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/18 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Every Man Should Know That Sexual / Romantic Isolation that Can Happen, Even to Good Men In DatingBe Civil, Atlas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/18 07:30 AM |
| 2 | What's an issue to do with gender/dating/relationships that you feel gets overlooked on this sub and in the wider world?Ill explain. No, it’s not disabled. Reddit doesn’t allow us to do that. It is hidden if you have the site CSS/Style enabled, to make it more difficult to downvote. However we’re inable to remove the functionality entirely. Some people still manage to find a way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/18 07:01 AM |
| 0 | Red Pill is Just As Useless For Isolated Men As FeminismHi SRU_91, We generally have a rule limiting posters to one OP per 24hrs. This post was reported for breaking that rule. This is primarily to stop our FP getting spammed by certain "frequent flyer" members, which gets annoying for everyone if half of the front page are the same 3 people machine gunning us with OPs. I've left this up, because you were damn near a day later at 22hrs, and are new and may not be aware of the rule. Please just be aware that you should generally keep it to one post a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/18 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Off-Topic Discussion: Free Speech (08 September 2018)Although I've not ben in favour of ever ruling any political view "out-of-bounds" for political expression ... I've always thought some countries should have exceptions to this rule due to extreme historical circumstance. I've got no real problem with Germany/Austria ruling Nazism and certain aspects of speech related to it as out-of bounds. You could extend the same largesse to Russia/China for communism. I think there are certain countries for whom this seems to be a perfectly reasonable proph… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion: Free Speech (08 September 2018)You cannot completely separate it from the constitution when you yourself are making an argument about what the writers of the constitution themselves would have done. I'm making an argument that wider protections of free speech are probably required. I am also saying that, given what I know of the founders views on power being collected in hands that are not under democratic control, or balanced by seperation of powers, I think they'd agree with me. They'd see the same danger in tyrannical corp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/18 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Winning small now, only to lose the big picture.Hi OP, This is in our new account spam filter. I think it’s a reasonable post, but it’s a bit hard to see clearly the view you want changed. If you could separate out that last bit, and bold it and tag it somehow as “the view I want changed” I’ll approve. Normal rules for CMVs will then apply so we’ll expect you to engage honestly and open to having your view changed. Read it to this comment when any edit is done to let me know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/18 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion: Free Speech (08 September 2018)Um no I never said the constitution invented the concept don’t put words in my mouth, I said you cannot divorce the two You can divorce the two. Here is how. Free Speech is a philosophical/political concept. The US 1A is one particular implementation of one view of what this concept should be. Similarly, Democracy is a philosophical/political concept. The US constitutional arrangements for democracy are one view of what this concept should be. Just as I can talk about other arrangements for demo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/18 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion: Free Speech (08 September 2018)You keep speaking of this as if the concept of free speech is completely divorced from the constitution. It isn’t. It is completely divorced from the US constitution. It's a concept that existed before the constitution was in existence, and will exist after. It's a concept that exists all over the world today even in countries not subject to the US constitution. The US 1A is a single, quite narrow, protection of free speech the wider concept. Ancient Greece had concepts and protections of free s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/18 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion: Free Speech (08 September 2018)Um yeah they are when you’re speaking legally, which you were. AFAIK British people don’t even have the same rights we do, so don’t lecture me of all people on free speech. I'm not lecturing. I'm trying to explain my original comment. Free speech issues, even legal ones, extend beyond the protections of the 1A. No it isn’t, those are two separate doctrines with two separate bodies of jurisprudence. The press doesn’t get special protection from monopoly power because it’s the press. Right now, ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/18 08:35 AM |
| 1 | As a woman how can I increase my SMV/RMV?Hi OP, We've approved your thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/18 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion: Free Speech (08 September 2018)https://i.imgflip.com/1okvm6.jpg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/18 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion: Free Speech (08 September 2018)it is a rousseauvian continental leftist conception of "freedom" and "liberty" in which reality and PRIVATE business are the threats to freedom/liberty and the governemtns job is to shield people from private activity and the consequences of reality It is a Hobbesian view that people naturally are "red in tooth and claw" and that the state, Hobbes' Leviathan, is the defence humans have created to stop them being tyrannised by other people. It's certainly true that people have to be protected fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/18 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion: Free Speech (08 September 2018)Well, that may be how theyd have regulated it, yes. But this isnt a 1A discussion. It’s a free speech discussion. They’re not necessarily the same thing despite Americans propensity to assume they are. Regulating monopolistic power in order to protect free speech is a free speech issue, regardless of whether that was under the 1A or the commerce clause. This was the “obfuscation of the free speech debate by the 1A” that was called out in OP. The fact that Americans entire framework for free spee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion: Free Speech (08 September 2018)Well, the line has been moved since 1982. The anti-trust line is now far to the right of where it was 36 years ago, let alone for the bulk of the 20thC. It's a protection thats been abraded away over the years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/18 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion: Free Speech (08 September 2018)I'm a little confused by your point - I do not know enough about what various newspapers and the like existed back then but I do not think the founding fathers would have written the first amendment differently to where it would mean private corporations cannot censor speech on their own platforms. Well thats kinda what I was saying. They wouldn't have extended the 1stA as it stands to corporations. But they may have made other accomodations to preserve free speech in an environment where privat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion: Free Speech (08 September 2018)To correctly extend your analogy you'd need to imagine that the printing press was cheap and easily available to virtually everyone in any first world nation. I mean shit even poor Africans have smartphones with internet access nowadays. There is an extremely low barrier to entry on the internet. There is a low barrier to entry, but there is a high barrier to gaining attention. It's easy to start a blog. It's hard to get more than a handful of people reading it. Twitter, YouTube, Facebook and Go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/18 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion: Free Speech (08 September 2018)Mate do you remember the whole thing with Martin Sellner from Generation Identity being blocked from entering the UK to give a speech in Speaker's Corner? I had literally never heard of the bloke or his group in my life before that happened. Once it did, social media - including FB and Twitter - and news sites blew up and it spread everywhere. OK, but thats barely related to what I am saying. He wasn't, and his supporters wern't, banned from publicising his story on Twitter and YouTube and via b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/18 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion: Free Speech (08 September 2018)Yeah, that’s true. For example you’ve only got to go listen to what Milo had to say on it to see there is little to no effect at all.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/18 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion: Free Speech (08 September 2018)But that's not an analogue at all. Anyone can rent server space for a blog and post whatever the fuck they like within the law. As it stands it's not a perfect analogue, no. It's hard to create a perfect analogue for something like twitter in 1787, the world didn't work that way back then. If I were to extend the analogy... Lets say political pamphlets/newspapers are handed out in the market square. Thats where everyone goes to get their news. Lets say "Ye Olde Twitter" functionally dominates th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/18 11:32 AM |
| 4 | Off-Topic Discussion: Free Speech (08 September 2018)On this one, I agree with you. Clearly no-one had an obligation to keep on paying him/hire him when doing so was probably a loss making decision for their franchise. That having been said, I'm glad he got the Nike sponsorship. The flip-side to the above is if a different company sees a commercial advantage in hiring him they can. It looks like Nike saw that opportunity and took it (being in a different business) and I'm glad that CK has been rewarded in some fashion for the risks he took in usin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/18 08:48 AM |
| 2 | Off-Topic Discussion: Free Speech (08 September 2018)Like you, I also highly doubt there would have been an extension of 1stA rights directly into private companies the way the 1stA stands today in relation to government... However, the government was only a "special case" back then because they had an overwhelming power and it was necessary to curb that overwhelming power to prevent tyranny. I don't think "being the government" was the issue so much as "overwhelming power". What might they have done if similar overwhelming power was also in the h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/18 08:22 AM |
| 1 | When looks aren't an issue, what are some other common factors that may prevent men from having a successful dating/sex life ?Other than being tall (I'm 6'4") my looks are unexceptional. Over the years I've hooked up with about 40 women (in three countries on two continents) after nothing more than perfunctory conversation. When having that perfunctory conversation, were you confident ? Did you show humour ? Were you displaying a bias to action and demonstrating risk-taking-behaviour ? Were you demonstrating social and linguistic skills ? In other words were you demonstrating the psychological/social factors I talked a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/18 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Putting aside pill affiliation, what is your elevator-pitch with your 3 key takeaways of actionable advice for a non-spergy man who already lifts/grooms/dresses well?Be Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 04:23 PM |
| 2 | When looks aren't an issue, what are some other common factors that may prevent men from having a successful dating/sex life ?No. For the very occasional extremely attractive guy they may go straight there. For 98%+ of the human male population, they'll be assessing those social/psychological factors first. That may just be an assessment over the course of the next hour or so, or the evening. But socially unskilled and psychologically useless guys will still be getting blown out if they're just "above average" or even "well above average" in looks. You've also got to have the something else to be an "overall attractive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 04:20 PM |
| 2 | When looks aren't an issue, what are some other common factors that may prevent men from having a successful dating/sex life ?Men primarily assess looks when they feel instinctively attracted, or not. Women assess about 3 different broad categories. One you can call looks. The other two are Social Factors and Psychological Factors. They don't necessarily consciously assess these things. It's still instinctive. But you have to score well across all three to be attractive to her. This is one of the reasons men report they are frequently (Yay/Nay) on attraction within seconds of meeting a girl, but women tend to be much m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameI think people consciously underestimate the appeal of "donuts". I think the neccessity of being instinctively attracted to someone in order to make a relationship work is badly underestimated. People think they can reason themselves, or others, into it. Hence RPs "You can't negotiate attraction" as a warning against that. I think almost everyone would be surprised if they were able to access the subconscious processing that makes that happen. I think that includes lots of factors that would com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Question about dread gameOk I've read your post and I'm now understanding that dread game is more about when things are in a bad place already (as you've already said.) I guess I don't understand why basic communication isn't suggested anywhere. Is that supposed to be something that obviously happens before this? More or less, yes. There is a general assumption that this has been tried and did not work. Almost certainly, multiple times. Guys don't find RP until they're looking for another way of solving the issue. I've … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 10:59 AM |
| 4 | Question about dread gameI had a go once at describing how it unfolds, and how it is supposed to work. Ultimately, it's more a last ditch strategy for saving a crashing plane than it is a long term strategy for flying straight and level. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3l0ryg/a_shortish_summary_of_rp_dread_game_in/ Ultimately the start point of dread game is... the current situation is close to divorce, due to a lack of sexual interest from your wife. Thats what it's designed to solve, or at least the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/18 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Marriage and Child developmentNo advocating of mass violence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | The dark blue pill. An alternative to the blue pill?OK, I took it another way, coloured by the report I received on it. I think I'll reverse the original decision if that was the intent. I took it as an advocation of suicide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/18 08:30 PM |
| 1 | The dark blue pill. An alternative to the blue pill?This breaks our race baiting, civility and no advocating violence/suicide rules. Maybe circlejerking too. It's really quite impressive to see three and a half rules broken in one sentence, but it has to come down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/18 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Reporting and CirclejerkingOK, so if you do that here's whats going to happen... If no-one reports it, you'll be fine. If someone reports it, and below it are similar agreements from other people (a circlejerk) it'll go. We'll be forced to see it, it'll meet the intent and letter of the rule. We'll remove it and the cireclejerk below. If you say that, but no-one replies to you, and then it gets reported... then it's going to depend on a judgement call by a mod. Some of us are laxxer than others when it comes to judgement … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/18 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Reporting and CirclejerkingNot if thats all you say, no. You are quite welcome to agree with anyone you want, but there should be a good faith attempt to further or expand the debate as well. "You're right, i've been looking at this way too. And I also thought some new idea/some other angle/a drawback/any contribution whatsoever" is fine. Circlejerking, agreement and jokey "ra ra team" comments going backwards and forwards, gets annoying for both sides, and it contributes to unabalancing the debate whenever we have a new … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/18 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Will fat acceptance ever cease?TBH I think fat acceptance as a movement is overblown. OK, there may be the very occasional fatty who completely buys into this narrative. The ones who do so may be particularly active online, giving a false impression of their numbers. I think even the vast overwhelming majority of fatties realise it’s both unattractive and unhealthy. Let alone normal sized people. America’s problem with obesity isn’t being caused by the tiny number of people who convince themselves being fat is awesome (usuall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/18 04:34 PM |
| 2 | The most attractive jobs in America for men and women, according to Tinder swipesOK, that makes sense if you’ve got your tinder demographics right.... except in so far as I’d also expect pilots to skew older for a similar reason. I wouldn't expect many 20-25 yo pilots either as my understanding is most become pilots after a military career, or an elongated training period. Again, same for lawyers really. They’d only really start to appear in mid twenties. The speculating we’re having to do ... and the fact that we could spin hundreds of such tales with no way to choose betwe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/18 04:08 PM |
| 2 | The most attractive jobs in America for men and women, according to Tinder swipesAgain, I suspect you’re right. But that’s just another reason why there is very little here you can analyse. It may be this, it may not, it may be 101 other correlates, it may be that the roles really are deciding the swipe. We’ve got no way of knowing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/18 03:57 PM |
| 1 | The most attractive jobs in America for men and women, according to Tinder swipesOn the doctors assistants.. as I said to another reply below, women date marginally older. A couple of years or so, so I wouldn’t expect this to be the cause.... maybe if they’d appeared on the female list. And, yeah, I’d imagine interior designers tend to take better pics (as will photographers on the female list). This might be the kind of correlation that I suspect swamps the causation of the role per se. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/18 03:55 PM |
| 3 | The most attractive jobs in America for men and women, according to Tinder swipesYes, but women tend to date marginally older than them ... so is this the reason women pick them ? Or is it that the skewing younger affects how many are “on” tinder compared to doctors ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/18 03:52 PM |
| 22 | The most attractive jobs in America for men and women, according to Tinder swipesTBH, I’m not sure you can propose some kind of causation here. I’m not really sure how much of a factor your current job is on tinder. Is your career really making much of a difference in who swipes right (left?) ? If not, then correlated factors rather than the job itself are probably the cause of its ranking. Take model on the Male list. Those guys are getting swiped because they’re extremely attractive, not because their career is “model”. Women aren’t seeking that career in tinder partners s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/18 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Why the slut vs. stud double standard makes sense.Ok, you've been warned for incivility before. We've had to remove a couple of comments from you today. Be civil. Final Warning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Question for Blue Pillers - Why do you care?Stop slapfighting. Stick to the issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Question for Blue Pillers - Why do you care?Stop slapfighting. Stick to the issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: Is marriage validating for a man?I think they have a much reduced status at Crone. As the kind of spinster aunt. I'd say it's probably higher in the status hierarchy than they were as unwed, but still fertile, women but it isn't comparable to the kind of status a matriarchal crone overseeing multiple children and grand-children get. Women seem to have a largely "seniority" based system, and age does bring a seniority of it's own. I'm happy to admit my knowledge of how dominance heirarchies work on the female side is limited. Yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 06:32 PM |
| 1 | More Blue Pill Advice?This was reported for not being appropriate to a Q4BP thread. IbE is flaired as a neutral colour, we allow neutral flairs to participate in Q4X threads where they present a view that is consistent with the pill colour response sought. I certainly don't see anything RP in his response, and it seems to be a fair attempt to represent an "outside RP" (and so, by default BP) view. So I've left it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Q4ALL: Is marriage validating for a man?Only for the lucky ones. The unlucky ones die before they get that far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Does age matter if you look and act younger?You don't sound like a woman to me. This is a Q4Women, so this comment has been deleted. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 03:49 PM |
| 6 | Q4ALL: Is marriage validating for a man?I don't think so, if there is I think it's at a far lower level than for women. I didn't personally feel "validated" by getting married. My understanding is this is quite a big deal around marriage for women. Being married is somewhat of a big deal in the female social dominance heirarchy.... Child < Maiden < Girlfriend < Wife < Mother < Crone ... it moves you up a whole "level" so to speak and comes with an implicit assumption of another level in the near future. I would imagine this comes with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 03:46 PM |
| 1 | More Blue Pill Advice?This has been removed as this is an RP position and this is a Q4BP thread, so only blue positions may top level answer. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Does age matter if you look and act younger?Yes, it does. For a woman aged 18 the average preffered range is -1 to +8 from her own age. For a woman aged 50 the average preferred range is -7 to +8. The trend changes over time. But in context of most age ranges 21-40 or so (generally the women we're talking about round here, the ones still on the market and dating) the range varies slightly around -4 to +10. If you want to see the graph covering all ranges (for both women and men) it's available on page 14 of this pdf (women) and page 13 (m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Does age matter if you look and act younger?The statistics I used above that I think OfSpock was referring to were the ranges a very large sample of women of all ages gave for "ages they'd be open to dating a guy" the n for this study was about 40,000 IIRC. 21,245 https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Sascha_Schwarz2/publication/230783507_Sex_and_Age_Differences_in_Mate-Selection_Preferences/links/0912f50694cdedfda6000000.pdf The graph you want is on page 14, although for some reason the link only works if you C&P it into a browser rather … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Does age matter if you look and act younger?Thats not correct in so far as science measures the men women are attracted to. It tends to be men slightly older more than slightly younger. Although the exact size and shape of this "acceptable band" varies by female age it's roughly accurate to say women date roughly -4 to +10 years relative to their own age. Women generally do not find themselves attracted to men significantly younger than them, even as close to their age as 6 or 7 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 01:05 PM |
| 1 | (Noob Question) how many pill colors are there?Well, yeah. Thats the information I'm trying to impart "Members who are feminists tend to take the blue flair". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 12:00 PM |
| 1 | (Noob Question) how many pill colors are there?My argument is that by specificying that blue pill means both anti-red pill, and can also mean feminist, you are legitimizing the idea that this sub is explicitly for feminists. Not really, I also said that incels commonly take a black flair as well. I don't think that legitimises the idea that this site is specifically for incels, or intended to discuss inceldom. Similarly, I point out in the flair wiki that transexuals/polyamourists/homosexuals/non-binary people etc also commonly take a black … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 10:08 AM |
| 1 | (Noob Question) how many pill colors are there?As I said it was back when I was a relatively new member... and when most blue flairs were still actual TBP posters... so I'd say about 3 years ago roughly. in discussing it a couple of posters said someething like "Oh, I had no idea a blue flair denoted a TBP member. I just took a blue flair as I was a feminist and saw the people I'm ideologically aligned with in the discussions also had blue flairs". I'm not sure I can recall who the conversation was with. TheChemist springs to mind, although … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 09:06 AM |
| 7 | Does age matter if you look and act younger?Regardless of what any women on PPD say, women as a class are primarily attracted to men around their own age with a slight preference for slightly older. Where we have scientific research women seem primarily attracted to men -4 to +10 years from their own age (although this varies when they're young or old. For a 20 y.o. thats more like -1 to +8 and for a 50 year old much more like -10 to +10). So... You're still going to have plenty of women of your own age interested in you, although as you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 08:55 AM |
| 1 | (Noob Question) how many pill colors are there?Well, yes. "being a feminist" and "taking a blue flair" often go together even though thats not primarily what the flair denotes, thats why I mentioned it. Way back when I chatted with several members about why they chose their flairs, and a couple of feminists said they'd chosen blue as it seemed the most appropriate for a feminist (even though thats not really what it denoted at the time, so much as a TBP member). Those conversations caused me to add that as an aside in the flair description w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 08:16 AM |
| 4 | (Noob Question) how many pill colors are there?Sounds like you're looking at our flair system and assuming each colour flair corresponds with a "pill". Thats not quite how it works. There are two "pills" we recognise. Red and Blue. With red being those who identify as red pill, and blue being those people who identify in opposition to red pill (or, as the blues would tell you, identify as "normal people"). Due to the general opposing stances between red pill and feminism, feminists also often take a blue flair. Purple's are people who take v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Q4all: can you frame a RP concept to make it female friendly?It might be truer to say only AK and MM tried to take the misogynistic edge off. They got plenty of criticism for doing so from both sides. As I said, it’s pretty easy to do.. there are examples of people doing it in this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 02:10 PM |
| 9 | Q4all: can you frame a RP concept to make it female friendly?Sure you can, at least for most concepts. They’re just deliberately not phrased that way on RP and phrasing them that way will lose at least some of the effect they’re intended to have on males. I would say that phrasing then that way would also probably lose some of the information content as well, but the way they’re phrased on TRP for the benefit of males loses similar informational content in any case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (02 September 2018)You can get apps that limit the amount of time you have to access reddit. That'll block it for the rest of the day if you've been on here, say, 2 hours. That might be a way to go about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 09:42 AM |
| 5 | Is the polyamory movement the next big thing?Do you think polyamorous relationships will eventually become the norm, like they were in prehistory? I don't think polyamourous relationships in the way they are defined today have ever been the norm, even during pre-history. Despite what Sex at Dawn would tell you. And how do you think they will take shape? I think they're unlikely to "take shape", again at least as modern polyamourists arrange their relationships. It's not a behaviour most humans instinctively display. even polyamourists have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (02 September 2018)Banana's and Yoghurts have a lot of potassium. When I was getting toe cramps a lot (Scuba Diving, mainly on early morning dives) they told me to eat a banana and a yoghurt for breakfast. When I did, it cleared up and I haven't had the problem in the same way since. YMMV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Women hate sexWell, that would at least be a defensible position. I don't think thats quite true either. But that would involve quite a long explanation as to why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 07:34 AM |
| 3 | Women hate sexHe was heading the thread, I'd already been tempted to remove the thread anyway but had decided to leave it up as it had been a slow day, and a discussion had already started, and to be honest... it was an appropriate response to OPs view from a sane person, that when properly considered should cause him to change his view. It was a confluence of events. Thanks for your feedback. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Women hate sexThanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Women hate sexWe have evidence this is clearly false since there are women today who do not enjoy sex. The way genes build people for certain ends is never 100% effective. We have blind people too. And people born with missing limbs. Or Down Syndrome. Or other abnormalities which frustrate the genes intent to build an animal that is effective at reproducing those genes. The existence of blind people is not proof that your genes didn't intend for you to have eyes. Nor that an entire 50% of the population are "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Women hate sexAgain, it doesn't have to be 100% either or. The women who were actively trying to choose the best males, and sometimes succeeding were outbreeding those who didn't actively seek the best males to have sex with. It doesn't matter what the males are doing, or how common rape is. If we go back to our 100 rapes vs 100 Rapes+20 voluntary matings scenario from above... not only would you expect the 2nd to have more children (as I said there), you'd also expect the second to have had better quality ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Women hate sexWhich would also be improved if she was actively choosing her mates rather than taking whatever mate chooses her. In so far as any animal has an ability to assess the fitness of members of the opposing sex, there would be additional advantages in them liking and seeking sex with the best partners she can identify, rather than simply take whatever males chose her and overcome her dislike. So, that is an additional reason why you would expect females to like sex, as it motivates and allows them to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 07:42 PM |
| 9 | Women hate sexThis comment was reported as not being appropriate for a CMV post as it does not attempt to change OPs view. Given the nature of OPs view, I think this is a perfectly appropriate response that should (if OP assessed it honestly) cause him to change his view. So it stays up this time, although to be fair on most threads I'd take this down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Women hate sexNo, it's not assuming that they always decide when they have sex. Just that women who actively to desire to have sex will have it marginally more than women who actively seek to avoid sex even if men keep forcing sex on them. Perhaps women who do not want sex are raped 100 times. Perhaps the women who want sex are similarly raped 100 times, but also seek out sex on 20 occasions on top of that. The second group is going to have more offspring. You only need to have 0.1% more offspring than the al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 06:33 PM |
| 7 | Women hate sexThis can't be true even in theory. If females inherently didn't like sex, that would be for a reason. For it to be so ubiquitous (cross cultural and cross species) that reason could only be genetic. So your positing there is a gene out there which, when it finds itself in females, makes them dislike and so (presumably) avoid sex. That gene is going to be replaced in the gene pool very quickly by one which causes females to like sex. Because those females will have more children, and the "dislike… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 05:43 PM |
| 4 | RP: How does AWALT effects your relationship with your Mother/Sister? Everyone else: How do you think AWALT effects RP's relationship with their Mother/Sister.I think someone said it best below... this is natural behaviour for females. It's not anything to get bent out of shape over. Anymore than you should get distressed to see lions eating zebras. I do definitely see AWALT behaviour in my sisters and my mom. My mom is a particularly egregious example given her marital history (currently just divorced from husband #3). But I have good relationships with them anyway, and I never had a poor relationship with my mother even in the midst of my parents di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women Are Not Most Attracted To Older Men Like The Manosphere ClaimsTop Level comments in a CMV must challenge OPs view so this has been removed. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 03:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women Are Not Most Attracted To Older Men Like The Manosphere ClaimsTop Level comments in a CMV must challenge OPs view so this has been removed. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 03:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women Are Not Most Attracted To Older Men Like The Manosphere ClaimsTop Level comments in a CMV must challenge OPs view so this has been removed. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 03:28 PM |
| 4 | Reporting and CirclejerkingThis was reported for circlejerking. It's staying up because it is BOTH under automod AND disagreeing with the previous poster, so it's doubly safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 02:25 PM |
| 6 | Reporting and CirclejerkingThis was also reported for circlejerking. It stays up because rule 1 in OP. This is under automod, circlejerking is allowed under automod. C'mon people. It really shouldn't be this hard to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 02:15 PM |
| 6 | Reporting and CirclejerkingThis was reported for circlejerking. It stays up because rule 1 in OP. This is under automod, circlejerking is allowed under automod. Ghaaarrrr !!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Redpill vs. Bluepill EconomicsOK, then we're probably in agreement. I just wouldn't call it dishonesty or a failure "to be honest with themselves". They're just unaware of how it works and are trying to guess. They're honestly trying to guess, there is no real deception going on here of themselves or others as to their motivations. They just don't really have access to the information they think they have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Redpill vs. Bluepill EconomicsTBH, I'm not sure it's even about honesty. I think a lot of these types of internal decisions are made in a way, and with a rationale, that the human making them can't really access. They're instinctive/pre-conscious things. Sub-Conscious processes are really making the decision. It isn't a rational choice. When asked for the internal rationale that led to that decision people (without any intent to be dishonest) confabulate a reason that often bears no relation to the "real" instinctive reason.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Reporting and CirclejerkingOK, thats fair enough. I edited out the last sentence above. Given you're running 10 "approved" for 1 "removed" it seems you've been the victim of the behaviour I talked about above where people report you because they've got pissed off, not because your breaking the rules, as it seems you've rarely broken the rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Reporting and CirclejerkingIt's not bothering me at all really, the people complaining are more or less the people I'd expect to be complaining and there saying more or less what I'd expect them to say. I'm certainly not taking it personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 12:29 PM |
| 4 | Reporting and CirclejerkingI did try to post it through automod as per our usual saturday thread. However, automod was not co-operating that day so I had to post it as myself. Almost everyone would have known that I'd written it even if automod would have posted it in any case. The way I post/type is too distinctive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Reporting and CirclejerkingWe can't do anything about the downvotes. But if a comment has been removed it can only be because a mod thought it was against our rules after seeing it (usually because it was reported). If you've got a warning it was either a particularly egregious rule break OR you've broken the rules across a few comments in a fairly short space of time. Even if it was reported, it stays up unless it breaks the rules. As I've said elsewhere a majority of reported comments (>55%) stay up for just this reason… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Are the styles shown in malefashionadvice subreddit supposed to be good? I think they look horrendousIt's under automod. Now I want to hit you with a stick! It is also rude or vulgar as it was reported to be. But thats not necessarily against the rules, particularly under automod. This ball was fair. Edit: Thanks for the second report on this comment. We only moderate racial issues and race baiting. Given the subject of the sub we have to take a very free speech approach to sexuality and views on it. Hate speech on a racial basis is against the rules (but this isn't racial). People say way wors… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/18 09:06 PM |
| 6 | Reporting and CirclejerkingBut if you say red pillers are breaking the rules more, then why are blue pillers left alone for blatant circlejerking? Almost certainly because it was either under automod (please see 1 above) or because we didn't see it because it wasn't reported. I've seen it a lot, and I kept quiet about it, OR if I could rephrease this statement..... "I am the exact person you are talking about. Someone with an RP viewpoint who would report BP circlejerking* but doesn't do so as he prefers to "keep quiet ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/18 08:56 PM |
| 11 | Reporting and CirclejerkingOh I see so you are assuming that any time a TRP is reported a BP did it and vice versa. How objective of you. I didn't claim to be objective. We're not scientists here. We're humans trying to apply rules consistently and fairly. When I discuss it, I offer my views of what is going on ... think of it as a "statement in a jury trial". The person speaking is honestly giving their view of what they can see. But they're not objective. They're doing what they can to explain the events they can see. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/18 08:39 PM |
| 5 | Reporting and CirclejerkingYup. More or less. We're not supreme galactic overlords issuing edicts from our throne.... so much as janitors who slip in the room for an hour every now and then and clean out the garbage bags and dead food left on the counter. Sometimes we get to put a new pot plant (site changes) into the room. But it's mainly just cleaning up the crap other people strew about going about their internet lives. Less evil-scheming over how to abuse your unlimited power next time... more picking up litter with a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/18 08:33 PM |
| 9 | Reporting and CirclejerkingWe can't see who reports. What you can see is the reports themselves. If lots more red pillers are coming into the report queue, but very often they're not breaking rules, the immediate supposition is that an opponent reported them. When you look at the comments and find that they are, indeed, being super-annoying to a BP member... but they haven't broken any rules... it strengthens further the impression that it's "the other side" reporting them either that poster or another blue flair. You als… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/18 08:14 PM |
| 6 | Reporting and CirclejerkingI said, it's modded consistently as far as I can see. I can look at the modding I do myself for circlejerking, where even I as an RP member are removing more reds than blues, because they're in the queue more, and I see them breaking rules more (whether thats because they're reported more OR whether they're breaking them more OR both). And I can look at the modding of other mods, and see what kind of things they delete, or they allow to stay. And I can't really see them doing anything I wouldn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/18 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Reporting and CirclejerkingYes, like anyone any thing worth doing modding isn't all sunshine and rainbows. Of course parts of it are irritating. An action you do repatatively, that serves no actual purpose for the mod, the reporter, or the reported, and which does not change the content displayed on the site one tiny bit is irritating. Especially when you can see someone seems to be doing it as they think they're enforcing a vendetta against the reported, when in reality he's the only one who isn't wasting his time. And i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/18 07:49 PM |
| 7 | Reporting and CirclejerkingThis might well be because RP posters rarely report the other side for circlejerking. We generally only mod the reports we see, unless we happen to trip accross something completely egregious when reading a thread. If we mod circlejerking consistently, but BPers/Others report RP comments 4 times as much as RPers report BP comments... you're going to see a lot of red comments deleted and not nearly so many Blue. It's modded consistently so far as I can see. Either reds are more prone to circlejer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/18 07:43 PM |
| 16 | Reporting and CirclejerkingWhoever reported the automod comment for circlejerking. Very funny. 9/10. Would bang. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/18 07:39 PM |
| 3 | The notion that women are attracted to a man's status/how much money they make is outdated.While I agree with your larger point, I don't know if that example is good evidence. In theory, she knows that education and income levels are proxies for intelligence, and she wants her child to be successful in life. Choosing a successful father means that her child is likely to inherit those same positive traits. Yes, but thats as true for picking a real father too. Which would have the same effect on OP's view. He's explicitly chosen to look at the effect of the provisioning on the female ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/18 06:29 PM |
| 12 | The notion that women are attracted to a man's status/how much money they make is outdated.I'll change your view. Basically, you're assuming this is a conscious choice based on rational requirements. It's not. It's an innate preference based on past history of mating success and, consequently, differential replication. Who we're attracted to are the people who would have been good mates in our evolutionary history as people "programmed" to like those mates outbred other "programmed" to seek different mates. Your argument rests implicitly on female mate choice being the former and not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/18 09:11 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Creep shaming and #metoo will exist for as long as society expects men to be the initiators and make the first move romance and dating-wise.These comments have been removed. Other members aren't the subject of debate here. The issues are the subject of debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/18 07:45 PM |
| 1 | What's the best argument that TRP doesn't get you lots of sex?Be Civil angels_fan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/18 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Teen dating violence is down, but boys still report more violence than girlsBe Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/18 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Is the expression toxic masculinity bound to become of mainstream use?He didn’t call whites racists and race baiters. If he had I’d have removed his comment too. He called the president a race baiter, and that’s pretty fair game. His comment stayed up as that argument was peripheral to the rest of his comment and didn’t target a specific racial group. Yours came down because it did target a racial group, and the argument you made was the whole of the comment and there wasn’t nothing else there at all. We’re not interested in race based debates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/18 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Children with Older Fathers at Increased Risk For Mental Illness/Genetic DiseaseBe Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/18 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Is the expression toxic masculinity bound to become of mainstream use?Stay away from the race stuff Lewis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/18 05:57 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Blue pill and red pill are both flawed. "Blue pill++" is the answer.Remove the incivility and I’ll reapprove, otherwise it stays down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/18 03:22 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Blue pill and red pill are both flawed. "Blue pill++" is the answer.Be Civil Eastuss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/18 02:51 PM |
| – | CMV: No man should date a woman if she doesn't put out on the first dateHi OP. This has been removed by our spam filter as this is a brand new account. Please consider reposting this from your main and it would bypass the filter. Alternatively build up a little participation and karma on this account before you resubmit. We don’t usually take submissions from brand new throwaways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/18 09:25 AM |
| 5 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Feminism, Privilege, Equality and Oppression (25 August 2018)How do you separate the felons from normal law abiding folk? We have a process for that, it's called legal immigration. My mother was an immigrant, both grandfathers too. Yes, but thats not "Open Borders". Thats a process for legal immigration where the host country is being selective. They worked very hard to become citizens, illegal immigrants are an insult to them. I find it humorous that progressive countries like Canada have very strict immigration policies but nobody seems upset with them.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/18 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Feminism, Privilege, Equality and Oppression (25 August 2018)I'm not in favour of heavily restricting border policies. I have no real issue with felons being kept out, or other reasonable measures... but ultimately if normal law abiding people want to come work, and there are jobs, then I see no reason to turn them away. Not altogether sure what this has to do with the fact that young men commit all the crimes. Whether the borders are open or closed, it's pretty clear that if you want to pick a demographic to "come down like a ton of bricks on" in order t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/18 06:03 PM |
| 9 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Feminism, Privilege, Equality and Oppression (25 August 2018)TBH, I don't disagree with that sentiment. It's extremely clear from the crime stats that almost all crime is carried out by males aged 15-30. Young men are just prone to the kind of risk-taking behaviour that leads them to repeatedly break the law. If we're going to start singling out sub-sections of society to focus attention on crime wise "blacks" isn't it, "immigrants" or "illegals" isn't it, "low income people" isn't it, almost any other division you care to name isn't it. It's young males.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/18 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (19 August 2018)We don't currently run a chat room using the reddit functionality. Some members do run a chatroom in IRC, there is a link in the sidebar. This is independent of PPD the sub, so don't come crying to us if you don't like the IRC or the modding there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/18 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do women prefer men to control the bedroom?Be Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/18 04:39 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] People should marry at 30-34 to someone exactly their age for the least risk of divorceTop level comments in a CMV thread must attempt to change OPs view so this has been removed. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (19 August 2018)Well, thats why I quoted the MDMA number too, which was higher than the motorcycle number. Not sure there is any problem with their MDMA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/18 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (19 August 2018)Yup, that was what I could find/work out quickly. I've used your transparent png as that works better. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/18 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (19 August 2018)Not according to the Cool Guides subreddit.... One on mortality risk... https://i.redditmedia.com/kPt_KxgCsEXA7-RtcAYhVpCfSWmyoG-w4cixuYEMvLE.png?s=5e81c12e8c03be0cd6ab4652dd48fcce You've got a 10 in a million chance of dying of a motorbike accident per 60 miles travelled.... and a 13 in a million chance of dying of taking MDMA per dose... and a 30 in a million chance of dying of heroin per dose. Opiod Painkillers also kill 1 in 109 Americans (thats as compared to 1 in 846 who die from motorcycl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/18 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (19 August 2018)No, the Reddit admins have steadfastedly refused to release any functionality that would enable us to remove the ability to downvote. All we can do is use CSS or styling to hide the button, thats it. On the redesign site I can't even remove the downvote button as effectively as I can on the old site, just replace it with a blank square that makes it invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (19 August 2018)The 24 hour hold is there because mods in the past found that helped the downvoting issue as it stopped "pile ons" where multiple members downvoted an already downvoted comment. So it's an attempt to make that behaviour more difficult (like hiding downvote buttons in our design/css). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/18 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Best definition of Alpha vs Beta I have seenI think the post does a passable attempt at describing what you could call “the symptoms” of being an alpha or beta male. I think he’s wrong in how he describes why they are the way they are and what the true dividing lines are (although he’s correct there is a spectrum). This explanation also leaves room for Omega males which he dismissed above. From my perspective “alpha males” are males with a high proportion of alpha traits. Traits that are markers of good genetic fitness, and so make you se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/18 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Meta/Off-topic: Why does the PPD Banner look like a 5-year old designed and uploaded it?OK, So it's set that way now (plain purple banner). Thats basically how it was before I cocked about with it anyway. Check it out. It looks booooooooooring. If you want a 2D avatar, get me one. Damned if I can find a suitable one and don't have the skills to create one. And I think the old.reddit childfree (with it's image) is the better design too. The image in the banner is better than their plain redesign site. There has gotta be something better than boring plain purple for our banner. Can't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/18 09:03 PM |
| 0 | CMV: A husband discussing a dead bedroom with his wife is a horrible ideaThis isn't a democracy, and post flairs are moderated differently according to type for good reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/18 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What is the biggest counter-example you've seen in person against RP theory?This wasn't reported for being uncivil, as iLLprincipLeS comment was, but it is uncivil just the same and has been removed. Lets not advocate genocide against other members, ok ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What is the biggest counter-example you've seen in person against RP theory?OK, you've only just returned from a temp ban for being uncivil and here you are being uncivil again. Cut it out, or we'll give you a longer ban. Consider this a warning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/18 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Meta/Off-topic: Why does the PPD Banner look like a 5-year old designed and uploaded it?Witz, If you have a better image to use please share it. What we've got now is what I could find with 30m of googling. And, look, it's got purple pills! I am open to any suggested better images. You can spend as much time designing them as you like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/18 05:58 PM |
| 0 | CMV: A husband discussing a dead bedroom with his wife is a horrible ideaQuestions on CMV threads should try to change OPs view. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/18 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Question about The WallWe let you back because you promised to play nice. Play nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/18 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What is your takeaway of this askwomen thread about Leonardo DiCaprio dating younger women?Be Civil. This is a warning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/18 07:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Despite what any sexual strategy says, men search for an intellectual equal in their partnerBe Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: When you're accustomed to privilege, does equality feels like oppression?I've popped this OP into automod. It will appear at 6pm UTC (about 2pm EST) on this Saturday as the site's off-topic topic of the week. Seems like it could be a good discussion to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/18 01:25 PM |
| 6 | Communication-styles.I suspect here it’s different as you know the girls to some extent, they’re not just random internet people to you anymore but real living humans you “know”. In any case, there is little point in debating it. Leave off seeking personal information of an intimate sexual nature from our female members. They don’t like it, and the mod team are not that impressed either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/18 09:06 PM |
| 9 | Communication-styles.I mean, why the hell would I not just go on /r/sex and ask for people's dirty deets, as is common practice there, since the topic is sex, and as I sometimes do in threads that I create there? I don’t know if you do. I’m only aware of your behaviour here, I don’t stalk you on other subs. Regardless of whether you were jerking off or not, you certainly seemed to be getting some kind of prurient interest from it, and it was slightly freaking out some of the ladies so please refrain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/18 08:54 PM |
| 5 | Communication-styles.Which by itself is an irritating attribute. However some of your commentary has gone way over that kind of “can you elaborate ?” and I’m pretty sure you know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/18 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Q4TRP: What parts of TRP do you disagree with?More often than that, surely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/18 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Communication-styles.People get their kicks in weird ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/18 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Advice pleaseNo, because that’s not a valid subject of discussion round here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/18 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Pets (18 August 2018)They updated the "Traffic Stats" page for mods last week. Just go to your traffic link. Uniques and Pageviews are now sorted in a "stacked bar" graph which shows "Mobile Users", "Old Reddit Users", "New Reddit Users" and "Users through Apps". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/18 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Why do you think many women are so against evo psych?It's the approach to human psychology that says what you have is an evolved brain, just like you have evolved hands and evolved feet. Therfore the structure in the way it thinks, and how it approaches the world is an evolved structure, and it uses this as the basis on which to build a view of psychology. From the wiki (my bold) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evolutionary_psychology Evolutionary psychology is a theoretical approach in the social and natural sciences that examines psychological str… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/18 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Comments on the Humanae Vitae and/or Catholic view on sex?OK, this developed moved into a race debate unrelated to relationships/sex/RP which we don’t “do” as a subreddit. You’re welcome to have a race debate elsewhere but not here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/18 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Comments on the Humanae Vitae and/or Catholic view on sex?OK, this developed moved into a race debate unrelated to relationships/sex/RP which we don’t “do” as a subreddit. You’re welcome to have a race debate elsewhere but not here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/18 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Why do you think bluepillers hate the redpill so much?We’re not TBP. We ask our members to engage in a real debate, and driveby Circlejerking/trolling is not allowed, so this has been removed. More substantive commentary remains welcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/18 10:41 PM |
| 2 | What is considered “High Standards” when it comes to physical appearance for women?Nope. This is not one of those things. Our sub has rules concerning civility. You broke them. It’s been removed on that basis. If you’d like to appeal, please come to modmail. If you carry on being uncivil you’ll draw a mod warning or a one day temp ban, depending on seriousness of offence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/18 10:31 PM |
| 2 | What is considered “High Standards” when it comes to physical appearance for women?You were not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/18 10:22 PM |
| 2 | What is considered “High Standards” when it comes to physical appearance for women?Be Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/18 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Do you think you're typical, an outlier, or in between?Sorry OP, this thread is flaired Q4RP. You don’t have a red flair, and this is not an attempt to represent an RP view so reluctantly I’ve had to delete it despite it being (otherwise) a valid view that’s heading the thread. This comment is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/18 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: A woman who cannot get laid or find a date is even more of a failure in life than a man in a similar situation.It was tagged as CMV by the mods, but that was done pretty quickly. It may well be that you posted thisnprior to the flair change. It’s welcome as a comment under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/18 08:53 PM |
| 3 | What is considered “High Standards” when it comes to physical appearance for women?Be civil. No need to call anyone honey or sweetheart in a disparaging way, your arguments should stand on their own merits. BTW, like the flair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/18 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: A woman who cannot get laid or find a date is even more of a failure in life than a man in a similar situation.As far as I can see you’re not attempting to change OPs view. Consequently this has been removed. It’s welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/18 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Do you think you're typical, an outlier, or in between?Unless you identify as RP and want to take a red flair this has to go under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/18 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Most of beta bux's problem arise because they marry up on looksBe Civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/18 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: A woman who cannot get laid or find a date is even more of a failure in life than a man in a similar situation.Sorry, this post has been flaired by mods as a CMV. All top level comments must attempt to change OPs view. This is welcome under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/18 08:43 AM |
| 1 | I'm interested in a certain subset of people: those who are WAY above average in looks (model-tier) but have severe brain-problems that impair them socially/sexually. Does anybody here know any such people who fall within this (to me very interesting) subset?Someone who disappeared, at about the time you appeared, and who you often remind me of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/18 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Most of beta bux's problem arise because they marry up on looksSarcasm is utterly impossible to distinguish from normal incel commenting behaviour. Anything YOU think you're doing as sarcasm, they're entirely capable of saying with a straight face as a serious comment. If you want it to be treated like sarcasm leave an /s on the end. Otherwise, especially as a new account, we'll just assume you're a bog-standard non-ironic incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/18 05:57 PM |
| 1 | I'm interested in a certain subset of people: those who are WAY above average in looks (model-tier) but have severe brain-problems that impair them socially/sexually. Does anybody here know any such people who fall within this (to me very interesting) subset?Skookum/SWP stop bugging Atlas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/18 05:53 PM |
| 1 | I'm interested in a certain subset of people: those who are WAY above average in looks (model-tier) but have severe brain-problems that impair them socially/sexually. Does anybody here know any such people who fall within this (to me very interesting) subset?Over the line Atlas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/18 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Most of beta bux's problem arise because they marry up on looksMiss us with the "Woe is Me" stuff. We're not a pity party for incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/18 05:51 PM |
| 2 | New Redesign and FlairsThanks. We still have to zap a lot of that shit slinging. But it stays mostly, sorta, civil most of the time these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/18 08:16 AM |
| 1 | New Redesign and FlairsI think I've fixed it for you. You should now have a gold flair on both versions of the site. I'll have to wait until you do another comments later today to be sure. If it works I'll fix the other gold flairs I can see people have too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/18 03:14 PM |
| 1 | New Redesign and FlairsThanks I've placed them on the new site as our upvote buttons again, replacing the stopgaps. I had tried inspect but all I could see in the main window were DIV's, no links. Looking again now, I can see the URL ... it's the bottom left pane. I'd missed it there before assuming it'd show in the main pane. Now off to grab our other icons and images.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/18 06:21 PM |
| 1 | New Redesign and FlairsWell, I've kinda solved this problem temporarily by stealing some images off of google that work pretty well ... but I was/am looking for someone who knows how to work a graphic design app of some kind who could create us some logo's or custom .png's we could use for up/downvote buttons, community logo, and maybe a banner or some background images. We have the old ones stored in the CSS, but the way they are stored doesn't give me an image URL to use. They were uploaded years ago by an account t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A woman’s decisions in life matter much less than the circumstances she was born into when it comes to finding love.the first statement that kicked off this discussion was saying that women were less likely to marry outside their race, except for asians Yes. With the unspoken assumption here that the comparator women were "less likely" to inter-racially marry than was men. That can't be right. Women as a whole can only be equally likely to marry outside their race than men (asians immaterial). Even the asians thing was wrong, in so far as black women and "other race" women are both more likely to marry outsid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/18 04:16 PM |
| 2 | New Redesign and FlairsI am disappointed thats not a real gif. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/18 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Question for RP: do you think that 90% of people know that looks matter when trying to date?But thats the point. You're assuming they're ALL in it for the money (or money equivalent). It's pretty clear they're not, or certainly that not all of them are. I dont' think Melania Trump is actually attracted to Donald, but there are plenty of affair partners of similar politicians who don't appear to be seeking anything out of it other than the normal drivers of normal affair partners (sex, adventure, fun, breaking the rules). There are plenty of women who are genuinely sexually attracted to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/18 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Question for RP: do you think that 90% of people know that looks matter when trying to date?No, it's not. For sure there are prostitutes and gold diggers in there. But there are also young and attractive women who are sexually attracted to the politician in there too. They're not in it for the money, or the fame, but because they fancy the guy. Look at Monica Lewinsky for an example. She had no desire/objective to make loads of money out of Bill. He was clearly never going to marry her. She was in it for the thrill. Thats not prostitution, and many of the women who sleep with and/or ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/18 12:25 PM |
| 2 | CMV: A woman’s decisions in life matter much less than the circumstances she was born into when it comes to finding love.2x as likely to marry outside their race than black women So when he married outside his race, who did he marry ? A woman of another race. Number of "outside race husbands" = 1, Number of "outside race wives" = 1. The gender differential of interracial marriages remains 0. It does so every time a man marries a woman of different race, because on that occasion a woman marries a man of a different race too. Him. black men are approximately 2x as likely to marry outside their race than black women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What will you tell your sons when they get their hearts broken?Plenty more fish in the sea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 08:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A woman’s decisions in life matter much less than the circumstances she was born into when it comes to finding love.Yes, which is why we try to be careful to allow race to be part of a discussion about sexual relationships, where it is germane to the argument, and is being done in good faith ... but we don't want a sub where this is the main subject of multiple conversations or sparking flame wars all over the place. We're not a race debate sub despite many members having strong views on race from both sides. We chat/debate/argue about sex and relationships. So we closely mod where we see race related content… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 08:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A woman’s decisions in life matter much less than the circumstances she was born into when it comes to finding love.Right, this is exactly what I said -- racially charged comments about black women are being seen by mods and approved. If they’re part of an honest debate about sex and relationships where race is a real factor being dealt with as part of that conversation, yes. We let that through. Just as we’d allow “Asian” through the filter with the same criteria. Whereas it’s a race debate only, or is not well related to sex/relationships, or is not germane to the conversation you’d never know it was there.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Question for RP: do you think that 90% of people know that looks matter when trying to date?OK, I don’t like the “looks vs personality” division because I think that’s too simplistic and unhelpful. I prefer RPs So.... Alpha Traits versus Beta Traits division as that seems to me to be far better at “cleaving reality at it’s joints”. There are certainly lots of Alpha traits that aren’t looks. Status is the biggie and it really does make you more sexually attractive. Just look at all those potato shaped politicians who are (nevertheless) having affairs with young and sexy women. That’s th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 02:56 PM |
| 8 | Purple Pill Theory: Women aren't attracted to men with money because they're attracted to money. They're attracted to men with money because of what having money implies about their character.I think you’re misrepresenting the real RP view here and that this view is much, much, much closer to the view you represent than you think it is. RP lists lots of things as “Alpha Traits” that make you sexually attractive. They also list things as “Beta Traits” that make you more attractive as an LTR partner but NOT more sexually attractive. So the typical alpha trait might be height. Sexually attractive, and so attractive in men for both STR and LTR. Money is specifically listed as a Beta Trai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 02:03 PM |
| 10 | Question for RP: do you think that 90% of people know that looks matter when trying to date?I agree with a lot of the other RP posters in that this isn’t so much an explicit message “All that matters is personality” so much as an implicit message that many guys receive because of the way women self-edit their comments in polite company. So, when asked “what’s important to you in a boyfriend?” what is verbalised gives this impression. To “make up” a typical answer they may say “Well, you have to have a good sense of humour, and be kind to animals, and like walks in the countryside and g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 01:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: A woman’s decisions in life matter much less than the circumstances she was born into when it comes to finding love.The stated rule on this sub is “no race baiting or racially charged content.” This is racially charged content. And I’m trying to explain to you reasonably how those rules are actually applied in practice. We’re not automatons. We try and use judgement and good sense alongside the rules to keep our sub within the bounds of a reasonable sex/relationships/RP/BP discussion. The rules are the servants to the sub and this end, not the masters that dictate an action irrespective of whether it contribu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 12:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A woman’s decisions in life matter much less than the circumstances she was born into when it comes to finding love.There is a legitimate part of our debate here when it comes to how race relates directly to sexual strategy. That’s an ancillary part of the sex debate, so we try to preserve OPs or comments that deal with this as a peripheral issue in the sex debate. Where we try to clamp down is where the debate becomes entirely race related with no sex content, or where a sex debate becomes entirely dominated by the race issue. So..... to give you my personal rule of thumb... If you did an OP on race, I’d nuk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 10:53 AM |
| – | CMV: A woman’s decisions in life matter much less than the circumstances she was born into when it comes to finding love.OK, I approved this OP as, even though race was mentioned, there were a lot of other factors OP wished to discuss too. We don’t normally allow race based content, so although I don’t mind the race issue being addressed as part of the whole can we not focus exclusively on the racial implications please ? I know y’all seem to be itching to get into a race debate... but we do sex, not race, so I’m relying on your judgement to keep this thread within PPD bounds. If it gets too race related I’m going… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 09:56 AM |
| 10 | CMV: A woman’s decisions in life matter much less than the circumstances she was born into when it comes to finding love.Women are less likely to marry outside their race, except for Asians IIRC. OK, stop and think for a second. That can’t be right. For every woman that married outside her race there must, by definition, be a man that also did so. Similarly, every woman that married inside her race there must, by definition, be a man that also married inside his race. Unless women are marrying space aliens from the planet quarglebargle... the net gender difference of inter-racial heterosexual marriage must be 0. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/18 09:50 AM |
| 1 | 'A gender equality paradox': Countries with more gender equality have fewer female STEM gradsHi OP, This got caught in our spam filter for being a low effort comment/link drop. You’re going to have to elaborate more on the article than you have done for me to approve it. Add some excerpts and perhaps some subjects for debate and reply to this message when the edit is done and I will approve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/18 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What is empirical evidence and which parts of TRP are supported by it?How accurate would you rate TRPs usage of these concepts? Not as accurate as I'd like. It tends to get wrapped up in an extremism that was originally intended to motivate, but has now become an end in itself as the extremism perpetuates a vicious cycle (it seems extreme, so attracts extremists, who make it more extreme, who attract more extremists, who.... and so on). However, even presenting these views in an extreme version is marginally better than societies usual default when it comes to the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/18 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Why perpetuate things like AWALT when human nature / society is malleable?Oh, he was making it up as he went along... But in doing so he was clearly at least attempting to insult you personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/18 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Why perpetuate things like AWALT when human nature / society is malleable?Be civil. Don't insult other members personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/18 09:54 PM |
| 1 | How people handle the lies of their youth.Thats not civil either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/18 09:19 PM |
| 6 | Q4RP: What is empirical evidence and which parts of TRP are supported by it?What is empirical evidence? Empirical evidence is codified and recorded human experience. Generally we use the phrase to refer to that evidence that is supported by multiple human experiences and so is considered to therfore be at least minimally objective in some manner (i.e. it's not the singular subjective experience of a single person). Scientific studies are an example, but they're the most rigorously assessed empirical evidence on the planet. The rules for empirical evidence being scientif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/18 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP: What is empirical evidence and which parts of TRP are supported by it?Knock yourself out. http://web.simmons.edu/~turnerg/MCC/Matechoice2PDF.pdf I don't know why I bother, because no-one ever reads it, but it's a summary and meta-analysis of about 40 years scientific research on human mate choice. Many of the results are strongly supportive of RP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/18 06:27 PM |
| 1 | How people handle the lies of their youth.BeCivil ffapod. I'm not sure that I've seen a comment get 3 reports in an hour before, but you managed it. You've only just returned from a ban, so if I was you I'd be keeping yourself strictly on the right side of the civility line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] Where does the judgement/negativity come from?Bugger. You're right. Comment has been restored. I didn't check the uname, only saw the blue flair, this is an RP poster who normally has a red flair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/18 08:39 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] Where does the judgement/negativity come from?This is a Q4RP, you have a blue flair and are representing a BP view. This comment is welcome under automod, but has to be removed as a top-level comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/18 08:36 PM |
| 4 | [Q4RP] Where does the judgement/negativity come from?This is a Q4RP, top level responses have to be from a red flair, or a no/black/purple flair representing an RP view. This comment is welcome under automod, or anywhere else on the thread except a top level comment. Edit: Oh, and Lewis... report these if you want and mods will make a call. But don't just keep badgering other members like this. Report it, and we'll deal. No need to go yelling at members about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/18 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Have You Been Publicly Harassed Because of Your Gender?Well, thats going to depend on whether they break any rules while they're doing it. I can't see anything Lewis did that actually broke any rules, so it had to stay up. Being an ass is not against the rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/18 05:43 PM |
| 5 | Q4All: Have You Been Publicly Harassed Because of Your Gender?This, and the whole thread below, was reported to mods. To whomoever did so, thank you for your report. Distasteful and annoying as I too find it, Lewis hasn't really broken any rules so it stays up. You're going to have to put up with people being annoying around here, I'm afraid. We can't mod "annoyingness" unless there are also rule breaks, though god knows Lewis tempts us often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/18 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Is there a number of sexual partners that would turn you off from a partner?Be Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/18 06:11 PM |
| 5 | Alpha Widow and why men should never be the "Settling down" material.Goats comment above wouldn't be removed for incivility as it refers to a group, not an individual, and the individual (not) in question is not a PPD member. If she'd said "You can't write, because you're a moron" that would have been uncivil, and removed, whether "you" was BP or RP. But you can say "All Twerps are morons who can't write" or "All Bloops are morons who can't write" to your hearts content, as we don't moderate incivility with regards to groups with the sole exception of race baitin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/18 06:10 PM |
| 5 | Q4women: What is the weakest thing a man could do?Not for the purposes of posting in our Q4W threads they're not. Vagina owners only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/18 07:01 PM |
| 4 | Q4women: What is the weakest thing a man could do?Then protest by chopping it off and posting a pic for us, and you'll be allowed to top-level comment on Q4W threads ... But no longer Q4M threads :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/18 06:22 PM |
| 4 | Q4women: What is the weakest thing a man could do?Did your penis fall off ? Unless it did, this has to go under automod as this is a Q4W. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/18 05:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The wall for women hits around 35 at the latest. There is no wall for men. (except maybe really old)Be Civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/18 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Off-Topic Discussion of the Week: Putin' on the Ritz (21 July 2018)Be civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/18 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Without TRP/PUA, what is your advice on how the average man can be able to have casual sex?Yes, “you” As in “you were the victim of the rule break, even though you couldn’t see that we could. So we’re asking others not to break rules”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/18 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Without TRP/PUA, what is your advice on how the average man can be able to have casual sex?There is no wrist slap. We were stepping in to tell other members to stop downvoting. Jammerlys comment is fine. Jammerly is fine. Other members should argue back rather than downvoting if they disagree as we heavily discourage downvotes. How is that not clear from what both BiggerD and I said ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/18 08:20 AM |
| -1 | Without TRP/PUA, what is your advice on how the average man can be able to have casual sex?More than one person had downvoted you. You couldn't see that, but we could. And downvoting is against sub rules, even if it is something we can't stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/18 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Without TRP/PUA, what is your advice on how the average man can be able to have casual sex?Be Civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/18 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Feminism does a disservice to women by discouraging them from preferring mates with benevolent gender attitudesThis was reported for being a top level comment not trying to change OPs view. I've left it up as the first part is correcting an impression OP asked to be corrected if in error, and the second part seems an attempt to change at least some part of his view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/18 05:40 PM |
| 1 | How un-o-fkng-kay is he exactly, and in what way?There is a pretty good example of one in the OP above. You should check it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | How un-o-fkng-kay is he exactly, and in what way?Might, missing a t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 06:33 PM |
| 1 | [Q4BP]Do you realize that you often slut shame?Be Civil Poppy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 11:15 AM |
| – | How un-o-fkng-kay is he exactly, and in what way?Hi OP, This was caught in our site spam filter, and I’m going to leave it down due to Rule 5 of our Post Guildlines... No Rants The rules are over there ———————-> We’d welcome apost that was within those rules, but this is just a rant of the type we don’t allow. TRP migh accept it, but I’d guess even they’d probably zap it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/18 08:26 AM |
| 2 | [Q4BP]Do you realize that you often slut shame?This is an official warning. Advocating suicide, and particularly telling other members to kill themselves is against the site rules. If you carry on breaking rules you'll be banned. If you need to familiarise yourself with them they're over there -----------> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/18 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (15 July 2018)I think right now he’s not laying the really, really, really crazy rogue card a LOT.... Because Tesla is really, really, really in a lot of trouble and he’s desperately trying to distract from that. His back is right up against the wall with Tesla, even if SpaceX and other ventures seems to be doing much better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Attractive women of PPD, how do you feel when a cute guy tells you no?Why scary? It’s just a fact. I’m talking to you like a normal person. TRP doesn’t mod that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/18 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Attractive women of PPD, how do you feel when a cute guy tells you no?We're not modding it like it's TRP. If this were TRP, you'd have been banned for this little conversation for a start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/18 11:58 PM |
| 6 | [Survey] Alignment Charts and the PillsFunnily enough I did one of these D&D tests only about a week and a half ago, it placed me as True Neutral. Which, as I understand, is the best kind of Neutral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/18 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Attractive women of PPD, how do you feel when a cute guy tells you no?No, it's not just a one-time thing but it's an extremely minor infraction. I've never so much as given someone a mod warning for this before let alone a ban. In addition GLO is a long-time PPD member, he's been here since before I have (so over 3 years, which is 2 years and 338 days longer than your account has existed). He can still get banned, like anyone else, but not for something like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/18 08:43 PM |
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