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She needs to grow up. Sounds a bit immature in my opinion. You need a woman who will respect you as the lead. Are you ready to be the lead in your relationship?
/r/MensRights01/08/22 03:25 AM
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Lol. Church, and even then some are still pretty feminist. Hispanic cultures are very heavy on family as well. You just have to find someone who shares your values. For me my Christian religious values keep me loving and respecting my husband above all. Following his lead, serving him when I can. It is truly fulfilling because men and women clearly were made biologically for this. We operate better when falling into that rather than fighting it. I'm not saying the woman's got stay at home and ch…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/22 06:55 PM
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Unless you have a great wife who serves you and gives you kids to prolongs your legacy. Though I will add, it is harder to find these days. You are also black pilled, it seems.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/22 05:10 PM
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Clearly black pilled, you are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/22 01:34 PM
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Thankss I'll miss you too. Guess this is goodbye. </3
/r/RPChristians23/03/21 03:40 AM
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Bye bye
/r/RPChristians23/03/21 03:09 AM
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I'm not sure that would go well if she really told her husband that. I think the least effective way a wife can influence her husband is telling him he sucks and to improve himself. Afterall, that's what blue pilled marriages do, women tell their husbands what to do. Men have to find that on their own and wives have to subtly encourage them in that direction, not overtly.
/r/RedPillWives06/03/21 02:18 PM
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What is the correlation between traditional and red pill wife? Just curious. I thought generally, red pill wife meant someone who supports their "Captain" however their Captain sees fit. Do all captains desire traditional wife's? Do majority captains want a trad wife? Again, genuinely curious.
/r/RedPillWives04/03/21 05:22 PM
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Really, no one is going to suggest he joins r/marriedredpill ?
/r/RedPillWives20/02/21 11:01 PM
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Demons in the house? For some reason this doesn't sound like a first time occurrence. lol
/r/askRPC10/02/21 01:20 AM
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Ok, have you had a wife speak to you like you were an idiot? It is still a *test* to you to combat the thoughts and negative feelings that come with that. For a man who is developing frame or does not even know what frame is, he is probably less likely to succeed in that endeavor with a wife who is cutting him down. He is more likely to develop a frame with a wife who treats him like the man God created him to be. The bible says, we are made in the image of God. Man is made in God's image to ref…
/r/RPChristians10/02/21 01:04 AM
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If you treat your husband like a fool he will become a fool. If you treat him like a king, he will become a king. You can bring his leadership out in many ways: Asking him what he thinks is the best decision to make in every situation for your family: it can be as simple as, "what would you like to eat for dinner to night," or more seriously, "what do you think we should do with our tax return." Recognize his answer and follow the great leadership he has provided. Be happy to see him when he wal…
/r/RPChristians09/02/21 04:58 PM
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Thank you for taking the time to write out your analysis. I am a fan of Gary Thomas. I read his book, "Loving Him Well." Written to women on respect and submission. Been wrestling with this post today. Specifically the Chapter 17 analysis. "Jesus once said, "No one who has left home or wife or brothers or sisters or parents or children for the sake of the kingdom of God will fail to receive many times as much in this age, and in the age to come eternal life" (Luke 18:29-30). Did you get the part…
/r/RPChristians23/01/21 10:32 PM
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Totally normal. I've heard girlfriends of mine ask their husbands to do the same when they're feeling engorged. What is the goal here? Is she asking purely on the basis of wanting to produce intimacy with you? Or is she simply looking for relief? Either way, it's permissable. But if she is looking for the latter you can maximize your benefits with using a manual breast pump in tandem. The goal, I believe she is looking for, is to induce the "let down reflex," which is accomplished through suckin…
/r/RPChristians04/01/21 09:18 AM
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Love it!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/20 09:53 AM
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I'm pretty sure women hit the wall sooner than men. Also, where is the reference you are citing these statistics from?
/r/RedPillWives25/11/20 08:19 PM
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As I keep saying, women who are striving to live by The Spirit do not do this. It sounds like a 'Christian' woman living by her flesh.
/r/RPChristians11/11/20 05:26 PM
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Curious, does traditional = red pilled?
/r/RedPillWives05/11/20 02:35 PM
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Yeahh. I def have been there. You have a good doctor too for not just prescribing you the SSRI from the start. Alot of people can heal with just COB and exercise like they recommend, but some people who already practice those and need a little extra boost can benefit greatly from the meds. I prayed about taking meds for years, and tried every mode of therapy before hand. The SSRIS helped the most efficiently.
/r/RedPillWives21/10/20 01:42 PM
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You gotta get your house in order. If you cannot practice "stopping" the negative thoughts, SSRI's help.
/r/RedPillWives20/10/20 12:32 PM
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You should talk to u/red-curious he's a divorce lawyer!
/r/RPChristians14/10/20 08:54 PM
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Are you divorcing your wife, she divorcing you, or do you just feel so hopeless about the situation to where you feel like divorce is the only option?
/r/RPChristians14/10/20 05:06 PM
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Christian women living by their flesh are all the same, but hopefully you can find a wife who strives to live by The Spirit.
/r/RPChristians13/10/20 10:37 PM
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I need to set goals for myself in this area too, but I highly recommend the resource "Digital Minimalism" by Cal Newport. It really had me ask myself, do I want to be on my deathbed and say, "wow I really regret the amount of time I spent mindlessly scrolling on social media."
/r/RPChristians08/10/20 06:42 PM
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Happy cake day!
/r/RPChristians08/10/20 01:21 AM
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Anniversary is coming up! What a great opportunity to care for your wife!!
/r/RPChristians07/10/20 07:01 PM
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How serious are you about your relationship with Christ? Scripture says, "therefore if you are in Christ you are a new creation, the old has passed and the new has come. All of this is from God who gave us reconciliation to himself." Do you believe that is true? God says, "go and sin no more." This is the first step: to believe this and go on without sin. Next step, how is your community? Do you have a community of like-minded Christian women? I highly suggest joining us at r/rpcwomen for encour…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/20 03:22 PM
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Thanks John. My husband does not follow RP, but he is a great leader of our household. I was the one who followed RP about a year ago. I do discuss it with him casually. We will talk more in the discord channel! I can see that you really love her and want things to work out. Would love to hear more about y'alls relationship.
/r/RPChristians23/09/20 11:39 PM
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Hey! Currently reading 48 Laws of Power. Alot of the men here have too. Come join the discord server for discussion! Also, does your wife know you contacted a divorce lawyer? I would tell her so, sometimes that's enough to shapen a woman up. Sounds like you guys are in a rough spot and your wife does not respect you at all. I was a wife similar to yours during the beginning in our marriage. I used the word divorce alot (yeah I know, I was really mean), I verbally abused my husband. I was a very …
/r/RPChristians23/09/20 06:43 PM
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You just said you are divorcing but single. Which one is it? Also are you two Christian?
/r/RPChristians13/09/20 02:55 AM
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I have had a baby and I do not have loose skin or strech marks. Stop co.paring your weight gain to like having had a baby. It is not. You did this to yourself and have to hold yourself accountable. Use this anger to work harder and show him just how good you can look. Stop fishing for compliments. Get your makeup and style game right and take flattering photos to send him. You must have superior genetics in this department because even the thinnest women who get pregnant can get lose skin. Ignor…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 03:58 PM
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Looks like Byrd created her book based on a rebutle of Pipers book. If you're looking for a super egalitatian Christian viewpoint, then Byrd is the author for you!
/r/RPChristians04/09/20 11:42 PM
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Excellent post!
/r/RPChristians31/08/20 11:38 PM
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Good for you girl!! It's great that you are so self aware and know exactly what you want and need before entering a marriage. Unfortunately men in the developed word are too busy jerking off to straighten up! Sorry!! I hope God has the perfect man for you.
/r/RPChristians21/08/20 09:23 PM
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50% chance.
/r/RPChristians18/08/20 03:37 AM
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I have been passively acknowledging his headship lately and he is responding well. I think I will bring it up too about how i was wrong and try not to be to obvious about RP. Red Pill Wives has a discord that is greatly beneficial for these teachings. It doesnt sound like alot of our husbands are RP either. Though we've seen alot of improvement in our husbands from our actions.
/r/RPChristians13/08/20 03:28 AM
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Wow great post! Let me ask you a follow up question for practical application. Before I was RP, I was not a submissive wife. This became very evident after my first child. I had a huge problem not having control over my babies schedule, and our domestic responsibilities. I ultimately made my husband agree to me that, "I am the best care provider for our daughter." and "he will never be able to do what I do." We agreed that I am the "project manager" over our daughters life and he will refer to m…
/r/RPChristians13/08/20 12:23 AM
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How does the church not know why is dating who? Do they not sit together during church service?
/r/RPChristians10/08/20 05:57 PM
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Please read the top pinned post on this subreddit about crossposting. Thx
/r/RPChristians10/08/20 02:03 AM
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Agreed. Though let's say OP was the worst partner in the relationship, it would still go without saying that they'd probably be best apart!
/r/RPChristians04/08/20 08:37 PM
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The Bible says wives submit to your husband's. This man is not your husband and by you staying with him, will not help, but enable him in his sinful behavior.
/r/RPChristians04/08/20 04:51 PM
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Excuse me? You made a promise to marry him? You are NOT MARRIED! DO NOT make the mistake of marrying him. That is not love and how Christ embodies love toward his church. RUNNNNN the other way. Cancel the lease. Whatever your emotions are telling you right now, I want you to RUN THE OTHER WAY. He is controlling, manipulative, has a temper, slothful, insecure. Probably selfish in the bed too! Break up with this immature boy and find yourself a man. You have been faithful with your schooling, with…
/r/RPChristians04/08/20 04:26 PM
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"Potential" red flags? Are you serious? There are read flags up and down and she needs to break up from this controlling manipulative man. ASAP!
/r/RPChristians04/08/20 04:22 PM
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Ooo I like that idea alot. Do you find the child care center to be a safe place?
/r/RedPillWives02/08/20 04:04 PM
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In that case, good!
/r/RPChristians28/07/20 02:27 PM
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Oh, personally none of my secular friends, even when out at the bar for brunch, never joke around with other people about 'wanting to have sex with an American.' Unless that's something they're looking for and opening themselves up to. It's not wise to be surrounded with people like that. Didn't even happen when I was in college several years ago. I think men would like to think that happens often, it doesn't, unless like I said, you're hanging out with people who are looking for that.
/r/RPChristians28/07/20 02:11 PM
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You're weak with lust and temptation. What does your pornography use look like? Why are you getting so close with secular women to where they're joking to you about what it would be like to sleep with an American?
/r/RPChristians28/07/20 12:56 PM
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Oh man. I cannot stress this enough but I cannot afford to be 140 lbs and I never have been in my life. I have larger hips and broader shoulders. When I'm not pregnant, I don't have weight to lose anywhere! I can send pic for reference if needed.
/r/askRPC19/07/20 10:09 PM
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Oh man, I cannot lose anymore weight or I will look anorexic. I have an athletic build, wider frame and wider hips so 145 is the lowest I will ever be. I was 140 once (when I went vegan) and I was told by many (after the fact of course) that I looked sickly. And it's true. Anyways, thank you for the uh breakdown analysis of hip to waste ratio I will look more into and I cannot wait to get back into lifting when I'm not pregnant. I mean I have a full body workout routine for lifting and toning. I…
/r/askRPC19/07/20 09:20 PM
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I thought Red Pill Christians thought it was ok to watch porn and to sleep with other women as long as that woman was not married? I've def seen that on this sub.
/r/askRPC19/07/20 08:49 PM
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Lol what do you want to know my bra size 😂 I'm 5.6 and normally 150! (170 now due to pregnancy - all baby) Idk what my body fat percentage is because I'm not overweight. Nothing to work on body weight wise though I may get facial injectioms to help. I do lift weights and do yoga, I get 8.5 hours of sleep every night. I wear sunscreen, do all the anti-aging stuff. I think I have undiagnosed health issues that are causing the earlier aging but have seen a bunch of doctors and blood work to no avai…
/r/askRPC19/07/20 08:47 PM
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Yes but did concubines get in the way of this? These are just sexual partners, not wives.
/r/askRPC19/07/20 08:36 PM
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Sorry, I don't understand all the RP language what does cuckqueen mean? I am a good serving sexually willing wife. I do my best to serve him always.
/r/askRPC19/07/20 08:35 PM
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Yeah I've always wondered that phenomenon myself. Ive never struggled with obesity in my life. Nevertheless he deserves a more youthful woman.
/r/askRPC19/07/20 06:56 PM
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I developed alot of wrinkles all around. My face has sagged, my Breasts and skin on my chest is wrinkled. I've lost muscle definition no matter how many bi-cep curls I perform. I have not gained weight surprisingly, but struggle to keep it on and my skin had collagen loss. Like I said, I should be 26 year old looking, but I look like I'm 35. I never smoked and only moderately drank. I eat pretty healthy. I personally think its a genetic disorder, but doctor's have not said anything is wrong ther…
/r/askRPC19/07/20 06:49 PM
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I think you totally deserve it. It's in your nature!! I hate how suppressed men are and then they're unhappy with their overweight wives down the line and that's not fair and honestly humiliating toward the wife. I never want my husband to feel stuck with me down the line! Though, I didn't expect to age so rapidly so quickly and that's why I'm having such a hard time right now.
/r/askRPC19/07/20 06:42 PM
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So basically it's not a sin for me to allow him to have other women? I think that would solve some of our issues.
/r/askRPC19/07/20 06:37 PM
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Oh I'm def not a complainer. I have learned so much through the years and am probably the most respectful wife I know. Just after reading all of this red pill stuff and after studying scripture I really think poligamy is not out of the question. How can men be monogamous for their lives? Especially with aging wives? Edit: also do you have a pic of you two that you would share if you don't mind?
/r/askRPC19/07/20 06:32 PM
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Listen to the advice you got 5 months ago here. You simply have not acted. Read the sidebar for RP Christians or message one of the mods.
/r/RPChristians17/07/20 08:38 PM
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So you want her because she's a 9/10? And she's barely legal, but mature for her age. LOL
/r/RPChristians14/07/20 05:25 PM
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XXX church help my husband overcome pornography addiction. Before we were married, he was free from porn for a year and a half. Pathback Recovery is also another program I've heard is great as well. Praying he can find the root of this fruit in his life!
/r/RPChristians13/07/20 07:32 PM
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Came back to ask if he proposed yet
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/20 10:17 PM
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I think your feelings of guilt come from a lack of understanding of the gospel and the Grace and Freedom that come with election. There is nothing you can do to lose your salvation because God choose you and he promises that all that the Father has given him, he will bring with him till the end. Keep your relationship strong with the Lord. Remember that Jesus hung out with what society would deem in our Christian circles, "worldly" and "darkness."
/r/RPChristians11/07/20 05:51 PM
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Do it. Don't let your Christianity stop you from entering into realms that are "unchristian." I struggled with this for many years being into the EDM scene before I was saved. I also really LOVE trap music and I missed many opportunities to go to events based on my 'religiosity.' Learning the true gospel about how partaking in a music event would not cause me to go to hell was so freeing. Once I learned that it was too late because I have two kids and cannot enjoy something that I once would. Be…
/r/RPChristians11/07/20 04:25 PM
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Also do not have kids with her
/r/RPChristians08/07/20 12:28 AM
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Where do you find these women? It's not normal for people do go through this that quickly. Get the two of you into counseling and rebuild.
/r/RPChristians08/07/20 12:26 AM
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Anyone who wants you to blow 30k on a wedding is crazy and will have many other issues coming. My wedding was 8k and only because my mom was making most decisions. If I were to two it all over again I would have budgeted a grand a most and made it freaking work.
/r/askRPC07/07/20 06:57 PM
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Yes, he did, but he felt good enough for sex (: they said he can have it whenever he can Lol
/r/RPChristians07/07/20 02:59 PM
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My husband just got one a week ago, he was so thrilled to get it. Weve already had sex twice afterwards.
/r/RPChristians07/07/20 11:34 AM
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I think the plain and simple answer is that these *snowflakes* (and I believe the word is being used appropriately in this context) are not used to confrontation. Most people have never had to work on themselves in areas of confrontation which results in people getting angry manifestinng physically, verbally, etc. We are no longer living in an era of hard work on oneself, but do everything in our possible strength to avoid confronting people to any degree. You took them out of their comfort zone…
/r/askRPC06/07/20 11:57 PM
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To live is Christ and to die is gain. Lol jk...ok bye.
/r/RPChristians30/06/20 02:55 PM
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I will also say that I have always had this desire of being desired and persued by my husband in this way, but after asking so many times and it being a negative experience I am embarrassed to ask him again, but longing for it. Embarrassed because if he wanted to do it, wouldn't he just go out of his way to do it or is it reasonable for him to always expect me to ask for it?? Maybe my perception of wanting to be pursued is distorted. I guess our culture makes it seem like guys are enthusiastic a…
/r/askRPC28/06/20 03:22 PM
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Thank you! I will try and am looking forward to it.
/r/askRPC28/06/20 02:01 PM
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I don't know and don't know how to ask the question to him. I am pregnant right now, though that didn't affect our sex with the last baby. I do workout, and yes, work on dat ass. Wardrobe is what he prefers. Covid has brought us in close proximity to one another due to work in our little apartment, so maybe he's just needing more space than usual from me? Unless he's never been attracted to me at all, this has always been a thing, though he's expressed the contrary. I personally think he's insec…
/r/askRPC28/06/20 07:55 AM
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Hey! Great questions to think about. I will give you two examples: One being my best girl friend and her husband. He probably consumes cannabis as infrequently as you, in fact, he went out of his way to get his medical marijuana card. Wife respect his decision, has even done it a couple times herself (not enjoying it at all), but not judging her husband who she respects, for partaking in it. The second is my other girlfriend, who's husband took part in consuming marijuana around the holidays wit…
/r/RPChristians27/06/20 06:29 PM
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It is so sad and grinds my gears that women in the church DONT GET THIS. That's why I joined RPW because they do it better than women in the church.
/r/askRPC25/06/20 11:32 AM
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