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| 73 | What've you rediscovered about yourself since being single?Gosh so much 1) my SA PTSD was not as crippling as I thought, I dated a man that (now looking back) would say things to send me into horrible flash backs than walk me through it so I thought at the time he was helping 2) never went out/Did much that was fun Bc he never wanted to and going without him was a guilt trip 3) CONFIDENCE I was dressing in heavy baggy clothes Bc he was insecure, I love my style, I get stopped all the time to get told I look great/ my outfits are nice I get to enjoy gett… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 01:44 AM |
| 115 | Just found this and I am so shocked! Nobody can tell me that this isn’t some form of abuseThe sad part is if/when she realizes how wrong this is, she’s going to have YEARS left to gain back to hair she lost not to mention the mental toll of looking in the mirror and seeing everyday until it grows back what she let him do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 10:45 PM |
| 77 | Just found this and I am so shocked! Nobody can tell me that this isn’t some form of abuseI’ve heard of this It’s suppose to be such a power trip Taking years of effort and time to waste of “stealing” a woman’s beauty To degrade | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 10:43 PM |
| 84 | Just found this and I am so shocked! Nobody can tell me that this isn’t some form of abusePpl with self esteem issues Sometimes go for someone that openly degrade them like that. It’s such backwards logic but the idea goes they see themselves like “x” ie the username so when they find someone that openly acknowledges that insecurity it’s like seeing someone that knows and “accepts” (vocalizes and preys on said insecurity) them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 10:42 PM |
| 49 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these.Here’s a big one “Feminist/woke” men who the second a woman disagreed with them suddenly have every nasty thing to say I.e. a lot of liberal men that act disgusted by catcalling but will not hesitate to threaten sexual harm/ spew insults to a republican woman !!!! respect and ethic doesn’t apply to only women you agree with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 08:19 PM |
| 72 | What do you think of MGK & Megan Fox? Apparently MGK cheated on Sommer Ray to be with her, then tried to make himself look like the victim when he was already dating Megan.Not to mention the man has an actual daughter that calls him daddy and Meghan says it anyway🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 12:34 AM |
| 155 | “But I love casual sex. I have a high sex drive and I don’t want a loving relationship.”Ppl who pay prostitutes(especially good looking men that CAN easily have casual sex) are usually very depraved and want to A. Live out a violent fantasy B. Degrade or disrespect women in sex work Bc they look at them as less compared to other women C. Has strange fetishes/kinks that they’d only get to live out if they paid someone Or D. Has some sort of mental conflict If someone was to go into prostitution the most bland average man is a lot safer than a good looking man that doesn’t need to pa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 09:42 PM |
| 92 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)I actually love the fact that he says he just wants someone that can keep up with him. As if a mid aged sexual inexperienced man is somehow beyond the realms of normal stamina. This is a man that cums his pants pretty sure anyone can “keep” for 15 seconds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 04:18 PM |
| 4 | Such Entitlement!It’s a college rec group lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 11:15 PM |
| 27 | Such Entitlement!I like the idea of throwing a fit but last thing I want to here is some bs about “dressing appropriately” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 07:31 PM |
| 126 | Such Entitlement!That’s the plan I refuse to team with any of the men, last thing I need is a man trying to show off to the others he can fight a girl(Bc he’d prolly get his ass kicked by a guy) and I end up in the ER | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 07:29 PM |
| 27 | Such Entitlement!I might just go back as I was with out adding more fabric and not letting them feel they “won” but damn would it be nice to simple log exist in a setting as a woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 06:19 PM |
| 78 | Such Entitlement!I mean 9/10 I do get that label and I own up to and I can do it very well, but I really am sick of being the rude, mean one for not taking shit from others. Like I just wanted to work out and now I’m second guessing if I can even go dressed how I want | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 06:18 PM |
| 48 | Such Entitlement!I’m really debating quitting but I’m trying to push myself to go a least twice, Mostly Bc first day a lot of ppl show up and never come back so my hope is most of the pervy ones don’t show up I hate exercising with baggy clothing on but it’s time for me to pull out the xxL tshirt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 06:09 PM |
| 47 | Such Entitlement!Wasn’t sooo not a meat market, Prett sure I’d have noticed if any one of them actually looks buff The mod was nice in person and it seemed like they respected her enough to not do anything that Made her uncomfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 06:01 PM |
| 144 | "All ages considered!"Best part of the add was the second part that said “I’ve had a bad experience with a girl on this page before.” Like yeah I’m sure you posted an add in a college town and it’s was most likely a young good looking girl that only wanted to watch ur kid and go home. They think real life is like porn. The 18 yr babysitter soooo Wants to sleep with you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 05:11 PM |
| 763 | "All ages considered!"Sooo weird I was looking for jobs in my area the other day and a man had a listing saying “ 1 lovely lady” for a babysitter 🙃. It really is crazy how little social awareness there is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 02:23 PM |
| 7 | Came across this while doing research...He also looks much older than her But really she was the one with power to stop it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:37 AM |
| 26 | Came across this while doing research...Wow Woman most likely also abused losses her son to the abuse of a violent monster Wonderfully worded | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:37 AM |
| 21 | Why should you never let a man know how much you love him?You shouldn’t because, men will take that as a green light. You love them more so you will tolerate more. | /r/askFDS | 25/08/21 11:38 PM |
| 70 | Male Neurodivergent PANDERING, and my seething resentment about itI remember so much as an adult now how absolutely vicious educators where to me as a child. Looking back I know for a fact if I had been able to articulate the way I was treated none of them would have still had jobs. Specifically getting screamed at in my face as a small 10yr by a 6’+ 50 yr man at 7am until I fainted. Lucky him no one was there. God he tried to manipulate my parents to see if I could be sent back a few grades and I’d never read at a level needed just to cover it up. But the rag… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 03:10 PM |
| 39 | No words.That documentary broke my heart. Especially considering some of the girls said he was the only one there ever really nice to them Compared to the adults in charge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:57 PM |
| 12 | “… way more benefits from you being my slave.” 🤬Now I want to say that what’s going on in Afghanistan is not acceptable but from the bottom of my heart FUCK you to every person treating it as though they have moral high grounds when this is how men in the west think, and mass shooting over not having sex FYI: the Taliban isn’t operating currently with slavery sexual or other, but every one wants to play games and devils advocate on how they’d participate and what they’d do. ALONG WITH ALL THIER SOXK FANTASIES YOUR CULTURES ARE NO BETTER. Look… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 01:29 AM |
| 2 | “Pre-owned” this isn’t in the Far East FYI it’s Western cultureNow I want to say that what’s going on in Afghanistan is not acceptable but from the bottom of my heart fuck you to every person treating it as though they have moral high grounds when this is how men in the west think. FYI: the Taliban isn’t operating currently with slavery sexual or other, but every one wants to play games and devils advocate on how they’d participate. YOUR CULTURES ARE NO BETTER. Look at LDS and women married off at 13 before you play your stupid games | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 01:27 AM |
| 7 | Keep The Same EnergyI feel it’s an awful thing to say but ……… it’s men with single mothers. They see a family unit of one person (a woman) do everything, and that’s how they expect life. A family until with two parents is a partnership and you see that the work is split. Women raised by single mothers want to be independent and do it all , men raised by single mothers want someone that will do all of it for them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 03:11 PM |
| 5 | I'm SICK of hearing about how the rise of incels, and that"Inceldom" is a new strange modern phenomenon. IT'S NOT.I did an entire research project on the correlations and causation between social media, and radicalization specializing in terrorist groups, terrorist attacked and the social media forums/recruiting/networks The startling fact is both men and women that join radical groups have a strong sense of other-dom and specialness They feel as though atrocities and danger won’t actually touch them, that others in the group may be crazy, dumb, psychotic but not them. They feel that are a special exception… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 11:15 PM |
| 31 | I'm SICK of hearing about how the rise of incels, and that"Inceldom" is a new strange modern phenomenon. IT'S NOT.See Twitter was a very large recruiter tool for ISIS, almost over night it was able to complete work on its algorithm and terms to block its use as a recruitment tool ( with NSA pushing obvi) but it can be done Rn with Facebook and the 2016 election scandal they have pushed for change arguably less and not as much as with Twitter There’s no push for women’s protection, look at the pornhub scandal of trafficked and underaged girls It was not pushed by government or men It was a woman led campaign | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 07:59 PM |
| 82 | I'm SICK of hearing about how the rise of incels, and that"Inceldom" is a new strange modern phenomenon. IT'S NOT.I truly believe it’s a form of radicalization. I studied critical intelligence and counterterrorism in college. They way Icels try to recruit is very on par actually with isis. The begin with small ideas that may appeal and slowly peddle so much content at such a rate that it draw people in while offering a form of belonging until they believe ideas that disgusted them. And partly the rise of the internet. Incels 50 years ago didn’t have a community to share hate and intensify. It use to be emba… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 07:27 PM |
| 274 | [deleted by user]A…..teacher???! If he can find a 19 attractive abs consider it appropriate he should not be near ANY young girls especially in an educational role and more so an authority role | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 07:44 PM |
| 24 | In shock. A post about a woman finding violent fantasies on her bfs accountsHer first instinct was and the comments laughed at her form think the police would care about “drawings” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 04:41 PM |
| 15 | In shock. A post about a woman finding violent fantasies on her bfs accountsAdvice for relationship, reversed with an underscore Tho it might be deleted now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 04:40 PM |
| 33 | In shock. A post about a woman finding violent fantasies on her bfs accountsWatch if you had stuck a finger in ~his~ privates he’d have had a cow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 04:38 PM |
| 44 | In shock. A post about a woman finding violent fantasies on her bfs accountsThey’re protecting their own The defensiveness in the comments are 100% ppl that consume that form of porn They want to argue they’re not disturbed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 04:37 PM |
| 28 | In shock. A post about a woman finding violent fantasies on her bfs accountsSome how sexual liberation became the acceptance of any evil hidden behind sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 04:35 PM |
| 68 | In shock. A post about a woman finding violent fantasies on her bfs accountsOnce I wanted to test the waters with an ex that was very much into kink, my deal? I’ll try anal if he tried it At first he was all for it, said it’s exploration and such and I’d be so hot pegging etc Tone changed soooo fast when I told him he had to go first I would try it after him, and we both never did it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 04:33 PM |
| 20 | In shock. A post about a woman finding violent fantasies on her bfs accountsHe hated women so much he’d watch porn about dressing up like a woman and being on the receiving end? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 04:29 PM |
| 32 | Reminder ✨Sending paragraphs is begging a man for an apology and an excuse so you can justify taking them back If he’s guilty or had a reason he’d have messaged you with a paragraph | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 08:25 AM |
| 547 | In shock. A post about a woman finding violent fantasies on her bfs accounts❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️ Porn as disgusting as it is isn’t one genre ! Someone who seeks our violent content craves violence ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 08:23 AM |
| 260 | In shock. A post about a woman finding violent fantasies on her bfs accountsNo doubt She put in her post her bf was a nerdy/virgin/ shy guy So pretty much a large demographic of Redditers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 08:20 AM |
| 9 | Women are viewed as property by even self-proclaimed 'progressive' peopleThis is very important in learning what you seek/find in relationships and life. It’s how standards are born. I’ll never forget when I was maybe 10? My uncle was 30 married a girl that turned 18 a few weeks before the wedding, right after started to hit her. Everyone had an excuse on why it was okay, she was very close to the family she’s not an outsider where it would matter, she would fight with him a lot, etc No one stood up for her, but when she packed up took the baby and went home? She was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 08:18 AM |
| 17 | Men and their hypocrisy🙄 notice how he expects women to build men but doesn’t expect men to do the same. And of course pickmeishas will try to do it every time EVEN THOUGH he admitted men think pickmes are dumb for building them up🤦🏾♀️“ if a man comes to you at your lowest it’s to sink you further” idk where I saw it but I’ve never seen anything truer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 05:02 PM |
| 5 | No post has ever made my blood boil this much. This man treats his disabled GF like a servant and wont even keep a CHAIR FOR HER TO SIT IN. Women need to be taught from birth that its better to be alone your whole life than put up with a man who doesn't give a fuck about you!!I see your point I spent most of time growing up around women like that, so I’m very quick to dismiss and ignore their take on things, mostly Bc they spew nonsense Arguing with people who will never change is exhausting but when you hear things like that and are not use to it it is very un-nerving | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 07:21 PM |
| 28 | No post has ever made my blood boil this much. This man treats his disabled GF like a servant and wont even keep a CHAIR FOR HER TO SIT IN. Women need to be taught from birth that its better to be alone your whole life than put up with a man who doesn't give a fuck about you!!Tbh i do not care about the opinions of a woman living in misery with a smile it’s not the trauma Olympics to boost she had 6 kids and babysits her husband I’m more concerned with the couple He’s complaining he hasn’t got any since his wife gave Birth and has a history of being sexual abuse ? And it was only 2 months without sex. I’d assume She’s bleeding still from birth and has nipples covered in cream to stop chaffing, and with a new born has no time to even eat or care for herself properly. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 03:59 PM |
| 54 | No post has ever made my blood boil this much. This man treats his disabled GF like a servant and wont even keep a CHAIR FOR HER TO SIT IN. Women need to be taught from birth that its better to be alone your whole life than put up with a man who doesn't give a fuck about you!!It’s crazy because if you see a post about a woman with a disabled man, the woman will move mountains to make sure he’s comfortable take care of the home, family etc Without a single expectation The reverse is man trying to physically push and neglect his girlfriend until serious damage is cause And by that point ? She’ll be of no use to him and he’ll go find a younger more able bodied girl to do his laundry and remind him not to have nails poking from his floor boards while children visit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 03:49 PM |
| 89 | No post has ever made my blood boil this much. This man treats his disabled GF like a servant and wont even keep a CHAIR FOR HER TO SIT IN. Women need to be taught from birth that its better to be alone your whole life than put up with a man who doesn't give a fuck about you!!He asked her first what to get her ~then~ told her to make it at home. It’s wasn’t just showing he thought he was above her he did it on purpose to remind her It’s a tea shop she loved, and pointed out her foster parents took her there. He negging her very much intentionally | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 03:44 PM |
| 13 | Since breaking up…I breathed The constant stress of feeling not wanted/valued/waiting for him to leave was gone. I did better than I ever had academically, I started reading more and focused on me Mostly I didn’t have a ball or tension in my gut the stress I had made me feel physically sick and drained I was so tense to the point I felt like I couldn’t bend normally I just thought I was out of shape I don’t feel wound up anymore I’m not stiff I breath easier abs have no weight on me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 06:17 AM |
| 5 | looking for examples of hyper-competency and then low-value behaviorThat’s sweet of you 🤍 He was a loser lol and gone for good, nothing has ever been truer to me than the quote “if a man comes at your lowest point it’s to sink you further” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 10:43 PM |
| 7 | looking for examples of hyper-competency and then low-value behaviorEmbarrassingly…..nothing Worse was said later that finally snapped me out of it. I had been roofied and assaulted a few weeks before dating this man……he asked if he could wake me up with sex or initiate while I was sleeping. This man knew I would wake up with night terrors every day and barely slept and was not coping well mentally. Thing that finally did it for me was when it got to the anniversary of what happened he wanted to have sex. Hard life lesson, I forgive myself for all of it, you can… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 10:33 PM |
| 54 | looking for examples of hyper-competency and then low-value behaviorMen with very impressive degrees/careers that are complete cowards in life, all the confidence is professional or tied to wealth but romantically/socially/sexually very insecure Are ambitious but intimidated by a woman’s ambition. Ex was not a fan I wanted to keep pursing my education after undergrad (although he was older and focused on his career at my age) Very uncomfortable with a woman having hobbies/skill that don’t serve them. I am an avid baker, was explain a cake I was making only to he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 06:49 AM |
| 10 | I hope she got picked 🙄It’s very tragic to me, how little she feels valued or loved by this man, she feels like she has to choose sex as the only form of closeness she can have. It’s a choice that shouldn’t even have to be made: finish in sex or let him finish and be able to have the intimacy and moments like cuddling that seemingly she wouldn’t otherwise get | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 09:40 PM |
| 7 | I hope she got picked 🙄This actually seems………really sad to me. The fact that the only genuine form of tangible intimacy offered is sexual or exclusive post sex. Very parallel to hook up culture in men and women the high volume of casual sex/hook ups isn’t sexual liberty is seems more like ……loneliness How unloved does this woman feel ? If she has to have sex to feel entitled to cuddle with her boyfriend. Moments like that aren’t earned through sex and shouldn’t be seen like a treat after sex like a cookie after a work… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 09:36 PM |
| 1 | I’d like to hear your opinions here.What a disgusting man. I’d say I love giving and buying things for family. I can’t imagine how disappointed his parents were when he wouldn’t even throw in a box of chocolates at the least with the card | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 09:52 PM |
| 19 | Yes I’m sure he “deleted” the video 🤡I’ve had so many men show me sex tapes/photos they made with other women, I’d never trust a man to have a camera pointed at me, they will 100% hold onto it for a life time and show god knows who | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 03:36 AM |
| 40 | I’d like to hear your opinions here.“My evil wife wants me to ~gasp~ contribute” Birthday money from parents at almost 30 doesn’t sit so good to me. Idk my mom would get a check from her parents every year and never cashed a single one, gifts things bought for one and other was always accepted but even at 22 I wouldn’t just “take” 300$ off my parents, a gift worth the much sure but straight cash maybe just me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 05:33 AM |
| 86 | I’d like to hear your opinions here.What I want to know is what he did/ didn’t pay up for that he wanted to cry she tried to take his birthday money? Like come on seriously a woman that well situated is not going to fight for 300$ with a valid reason | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 02:55 AM |
| 36 | I’d like to hear your opinions here.Ohhhh I feel like this is such a half assed story If they had a prenup to begin with then he fully agreed before to each pay their own ways. I feel like he agreed and signed it not wanting to give her anything 50/50 before he realized her parents have money and have given her a good chunk, now that he sees how well planned she is and financially stable he wants to pull back they’re “married” Why did she ask him for his birthday money ? That was thrown in to make her sound grimy but I want a back… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 02:53 AM |
| 9 | This is why pickmeishas are dangerous… she wants to be instrumental in causing a girl’s trauma all to be friends with her bf’s friends 😠😠What the actual fuck? If someone spoke to me like that I would never consider helping them, what is she begging to help? Actually why is she so interested in him finding someone ? He’s rude, intolerable, and will treat anyone he dates like shit, Why is she so interested in having a woman be mistreated as If this theoretically woman she’d help him find wouldn’t be miserable. How happy is she if she wants someone to have around to relate to and probably talk about how shitty they both are ? Grow u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 05:03 PM |
| 5 | The text that started it all … this is when I learned what gaslighting was …The revise is actually horrifying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 07:15 PM |
| -1 | I approached my first girl ever yesterday and got her numberSad reflection but it may seem like this 35 yr dude is approaching young women “girls” Super creepy | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 07:14 PM |
| 23 | The text that started it all … this is when I learned what gaslighting was …Did these other women know they were being filmed during sex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 04:22 PM |
| 17 | I approached my first girl ever yesterday and got her numberSomeone said it ! The weird tone of writing and the age thing don’t sit right with me, how old are there women he’s approaching? | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 04:17 PM |
| 29 | We need to start talking about pick me teachers who use girls to keep the bad boys in class behaved. Because I definitely experienced this and it was terrible.Omg this !!!! I have friends that grew up over seas old school, male teachers, role models and told to learn a skill for the land etc most respectful men I’ve ever encountered Men raised and educations by women? Over grown toddlers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 01:02 AM |
| 20 | We need to start talking about pick me teachers who use girls to keep the bad boys in class behaved. Because I definitely experienced this and it was terrible.I despise this so much because eventually it goes from a classroom to social setting. It sets up lifetime roles of a caretaker to over grown toddlers. You SHOULD NOT be teaching grown men how to act, feeling obligated to stick around a loser, or have a man hold a sense of entitlement that you owe him maternal care. Someone (their parents or teachers) should’ve | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 12:58 AM |
| 31 | So true. I may not be where I want to be at 31. But I am wayyy happier.Bc that’s the age men start to deteriorate Bc they don’t clean/cook/take care of themselves and it begins to catch up, and the age men want to find someone to “take care of them” while also being the age women are mature enough to not fall for that shit hence they go after teenagers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 04:29 AM |
| 7 | As someone who’s writing a story that young girls and women are likely to read, what are some helpful lessons/themes I can integrate?.Omg!! As a young 20 somethings the books peddled to me where romance novels during the hight of 50 shades, bdsm erotica Didn’t realize till I got older how horrifying they are!!! Why was it okay to promote these books to teens! Sexual, physical and mental abuses! age gaps! Pressured/taken advantage of by wealthy man ( no sex no job, you need the money for sick family I want to treat u like a dog for a week) So so much more I spend so much time mentally organizing what’s okay and what I learned i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 04:26 AM |
| 6 | As someone who’s writing a story that young girls and women are likely to read, what are some helpful lessons/themes I can integrate?.My god I was thinking of that books I read when I was young and how terrible looking back they are A Not convent. attractive women who’s not obsessed with being unattractive, has a life outside being insecure Creepy guys are actually seen as creepy ! Why was I reading 50 shades of gray at 13 thinking “wow he tired so hard” now that I’m grown the first book is a nightmare: wealth man with power won’t leave me alone no matter how much I’m running= court case not wedding ring Real hobbies ! Why do … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 04:22 AM |
| 4 | LVM Use Their Depression as a Guilt-tripIt’s such an excuse for them! I swear it’s like a mapped out plan for gaslighting ! Oh I forgot your birthday, cheated, treated you badly ? It’s my depression, I’m in my time or need and I don’t need to see how I treat you badly I know I do I feel so bad(but I’ll never actually change ) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 06:56 PM |
| 11 | your money? what money? lmaoOmfg this When I was in college I went to a guy I was seeings bathroom......it looks like a horror movie I refused to ever visit again he had to come see me ..... I even told him to grab the toilet cleaner from under my sink to take home and use ..... he said no he didn’t need it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 05:41 AM |
| 4 | LVM male guide to cheap dating. Watch out for these bright red flags ladiesHow did this go from “he kinda sucks” to “if she behaves I’ll give her have a lipstick my -mom- I mean last date left behind.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 08:37 AM |
| 4 | Realizing how much you put someone before your futureIt’s never intensional, it’s just being loving and nurturing beyond your means. Doing small things for your partner is lovely, but like this tiktok asking someone to cook for you when they have work to do? Very putting yourself second | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Realizing how much you put someone before your futureHi? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 11:24 PM |
| 12 | Realizing how much you put someone before your futurethe HVM that does this for me is my dad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 11:23 PM |
| 8 | Realizing how much you put someone before your futureIt’s really for all relationships not just dating. The quote “ how empty of me to be so full of you” resonates a lot here. It’s really sad but at some point we need to wake up and realize we’re not side charters in our own life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 11:21 PM |
| 8 | Realizing how much you put someone before your futureI feel!!!!! I would constantly try with my ex that had a victim complex you can never win | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 11:19 PM |
| 197 | um no tf it’s not. this is the kind of low value “wholesome” things young girls are subjected to all the time. time has shown again and again that love is not enough. men need to bring more to the table.Ughhhh I hate so so so much how this is marketed as cutsie/wholesome when it really is just saying “settle”. Why is it I am expected to do a dozen roles perfectly while a man that still hasn’t washed the crust out of his eyes from the morning will confidently stand in front of a woman and act as if the thought of having his love should be all encompassing to everything she could ever dream of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:42 AM |
| 3 | Exhausted and burned out from datingThe thing is And I know I’ve been guilty of it sometimes People are bored they want a person to entertain them for a little bit, talk about themselves and boost their ego while someone complements them Then ghost | /r/askFDS | 25/02/21 01:20 AM |
| 57 | Exhausted and burned out from datingThe apps are built with such a horrible consumer mindset it’s crazy. The goal of them isn’t for ppl to find each other but cycle through people constancy so everyone stays on them and swiping Dating is hard during a pandemic but sometimes meeting strangers/ ppl at work: or just spontaneously has such a better experience than the dozens of dates an app will find you | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 04:55 AM |
| 19 | PSA for the LVM in your lifeThis !!!! They attach like fucking leeches. If you saw me once and I had basic manners don’t think that’s an invitation to insert yourself in my life and never leave me alone !!! Bc then they’ll cry bitch and moan that they’re in the friend zone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 04:40 AM |
| 10 | When you have kids with a manchild, you are literally taking away resources from your children. It is child abuse to have kids with a man if you know he is immature, lazy, selfish, needy, and/or insecure.God my mom showed every day she resented her kids. My dad made/still makes all the money and reminds her constantly. Since he made money he felt zero responsibility in helping with kids, but constantly pushed for more until she had (6) six kids! We all joke around when she gets mad she goes to the next room to yell at someone else. But I swear she was vicious when I was younger I never saw someone who actively wanted to insult their child and refer to one as the ugly daughter. Interestingly enou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 11:59 AM |
| 22 | Saw multiple men repost this on FB - especially the "if I'm giving her (money), she giving me money" took me out... What's your take on that ladies?If he wants to say he can’t afford to live on his own he can just say it Why tf would I pay your bills? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 07:43 PM |
| 10 | It was bad from the start yet I still was not ready for the initials tattoo 😬😬Okay but she’s in high school.......I hate how much everyone is shitting on her for not knowing better this is the early/maybe first relationship in life. This probably hurt her a lot and now she has the experience and life lessons to know better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 05:21 PM |
| 12 | This is the energy!This! My dad has never once let me help put groceries even in pouring rain! Not me, my mom, or my sisters. Him and my brothers do it. Things like this start at home it shows how a man raised well will only be comfortable knowing you’re comfortable My grandma would never even try just go sit in the car | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 06:16 AM |
| 16 | Honestly I need a full series of this: a modern Cell Block TangoAmazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 03:54 AM |
| 3 | If you're looking for a sign, this is itWell this hit a little too close | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 01:14 AM |
| 46 | Men feeling entitled to touch you?The next time he grabs at you, jerk away and show visibly you are not okay with it. You don’t need to be polite, moments like that it’s valid to make a scene or be rude. | /r/askFDS | 15/01/21 10:54 PM |
| 90 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”What the actual fuck is he doing at 41 if he had kids with someone your age 2 kids minimum has to be 3-4 years ago assuming the youngest are maybe a year old rn The MINIMUM age gap would be 37 and 24 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 07:29 AM |
| 8 | Dear God, rape he raped herHer comments are off and her caption was to leave her alone and let her share her story She knows | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:52 PM |
| 6 | Dear God, rape he raped herMy guess is she’s trying to cope by make a joke of it, sometimes it feels better to laugh at a situation than admit how bad it actually was and be forced to realize you have trauma | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:48 PM |
| 6 | Circle the LieOr shaving too it looks like | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 11:12 PM |
| 27 | Scammed, bamboozled and hoodwinkedThen they turn around and say “ FuCk ThAt BiTcH ShE tUrNeD mY KiDs On mE” Nope they hate you, my immigrant grandma left her cheating husband in the 70s not knowing any English and scraped by didn’t ask for any CS. Her kids never spoke to there dad again, didn’t let him go to a single wedding, and pretend the half siblings didn’t exist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 03:47 AM |
| 235 | Scammed, bamboozled and hoodwinkedDon’t forget Your name isn’t on anything you’re paying for !!! Have fun buying him a house/car/etc that he’s going to enjoy with a new gf when he leaves you Unless you’re married or your name is on it DONT PAY ANYTHING | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 09:10 PM |
| 4 | The lows you stoop to to get picked.Nope For his birthday she put a picture he sent of her him taking a shit(as a joke about having her wipe his ass to my knowledge she’s never actually)on a candle She goes to NYU for grad school in a medical field My brother took 5 years to finish high School and dropped out of community college. I feel for her but deep down I think she’s an idiot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 10:17 AM |
| 141 | I told my Italian mother about FDS - her advice:God that’s beautiful to see a happy story from an older generation than the usual tragic ones Up until I was maybe 18 I had no interest in dating, I wanted my goals, and ambitions. I didn’t even want a family or kids I wanted to be some mold breaking revaluation in my family. The more the world beats you up the more comfortable it looks to take the old route and find a decent enough guy have kids and be boring but safe. This is such an amazing example to not do that and keep at goals and ambitio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 05:25 AM |
| 69 | The delusion. The scrotacity lolThe creepy recruiters at job fairs and old ass dudes in college bars for the win | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 05:10 AM |
| 13 | The lows you stoop to to get picked.I’ve seen some creepy porn where guy make girls beg or ask for his cum and ....... I really hope this isn’t some weird kink where she eats the remnants | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:30 PM |
| 27 | The lows you stoop to to get picked.Did anyone notice......this is over the kitchen sink......she’s washing it over dirty dishes and pots.....she’s WASHING HIS CUM ON TO THE THINGS SHE EATS OFF OF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 10:55 PM |
| 108 | The lows you stoop to to get picked.She’ll come in and wipe for him when he’s done. Most disgusting thing I’ve ever seen when my brother’s gf would literally wipe his mouth after eating and pick his boogers for him. My own mother doesn’t even do those things for him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 10:53 PM |
| 40 | What's something that made you realize you're former partner was LVM?When he asked me( a person who suffered from getting drug and assaulted with very active PTSD) if he could start/initiate sex while I was sleeping. I feel for a lot of the it’s “kink” rather than abuse concept but this stated the doubt and second guessing. I can’t fathom why he’d ever thing it’s okay to ask me if I’d be okay with him doing a version of my worst event of my life , knowing I often did wake up from nightmares/ terrified for months | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 08:08 AM |
| 4 | It do be like thatI can’t even fathom the oil spill that was his greasy hair | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:51 AM |
| 5 | It do be like that.......only showered when he had to do outside??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Not even incels are this pathetic. Biggest cope I have ever seenGod I’m not even gonna comment on that one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 10:03 PM |
| 9 | Level up 2021 and secure the bag!Marina had fight to her, even though she annoyed me she has a lot more social understanding. Penelope had repressed frustration and no regard for anyone her games play a lot more into the lives of others than she cared to think about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 10:02 PM |
| 19 | Level up 2021 and secure the bag!Exactly !!!! She literally played around in the lives of everyone close to her and shat on everyone but irl couldn’t even stand up and pick a less ugly color dress. Don’t forget shitting all over her family publicly too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 09:39 PM |
| 48 | It do be like thatOmfg I can’t I don’t leave the house unless I’m put together, I think I wore heels more than regular shoes all though mid high school-college(still in) They just don’t care about themselves that much it horrible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:10 PM |
| 181 | It do be like thatOkay is this real? I’ve seen so much stuff about guys having shit in their underwear online but I’ve never seen a battered ripped up pair? Tbh who goes home with someone that looks that sloppy ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:02 PM |
| 0 | Not even incels are this pathetic. Biggest cope I have ever seenLol go on LinkedIn you’ll see a lot of ppl talk out their ass with speeches that don’t reflect that great. Let ppl enjoy things, who cares? It was a gift to herself. What grave evil does saying “the next guy should treat me right and till then I’m working on myself and oh I got myself this ring” come on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 06:53 PM |
| 0 | Not even incels are this pathetic. Biggest cope I have ever seenI grew up around car guys, if they could fuck their car and forget about ever dating they would lol A ring a car hell a plant ppl are proud of different things I don’t shit on ppl that play video games and brag about even tho super not my thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Not even incels are this pathetic. Biggest cope I have ever seenHave you SEEN the car accounts on Instagram for guys have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 06:37 PM |
| 222 | Imagine being this much of a pathetic degenerate. 🤢🤢🤢Notice how the prostitute aren’t “real girls” to him. To men like this they’re the equivalent of a human flesh light and not people. Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 09:53 AM |
| 47 | Be careful who you send ANY texts and even selfies toSame I had a video taken of me I didn’t know about, terrified for the rest of my life on where it could ever end up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 09:50 AM |
| 42 | I owe my grandmother to be happyHeart breaking, I can’t stand being near older relatives and the stories of physical and mental abuse they carry out is horrific | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 09:11 AM |
| 11 | Not even incels are this pathetic. Biggest cope I have ever seenShe literally bought herself jewelry you all are weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 06:26 AM |
| 3 | You think this guy gets second dates?Who wants to bet the loser running this account has his mom come in and check to make sure he wiped his ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:55 AM |
| 10 | I just realized beauty is power. It is why men have wanted to possess us, as if I'm an object. I might not be as big or strong as men, but I'm powerful through my femininity.Beauty is a tool, and when you know how to use it and carry yourself you’ll never be able to let someone make you feel less than. Men use every advantage they have in life, so if I can flirt my way through situations, and use it as a tool to further myself why the fuck not ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:53 AM |
| 36 | After everything i've been through, there's no way I am ever going to let myself indulge that much energy into a person, even if he is a HVM, i have a lot more boundaries now and want to use that energy for myself and my career more.Men are vile I’ve seen it so much when they demand paying rent to live with them and use their gf to pay off the mortgage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:51 PM |
| 0 | "Where have all the good men gone???"An ode to the former president | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 07:20 AM |
| 2 | "Where have all the good men gone???"If they collect enough Cheeto dust he may be able to rub it on like self tanning powder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 07:20 AM |
| 1 | "Where have all the good men gone???"Jesus dude how much time do you have to sit and make ALL of these, go for a walk or something get some sun light | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Women's rules always get broken for Chad remember thatWhat a sad sad little virgin you are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 07:04 AM |
| 7 | What a lowlife smhOhh yeah he needed a smoke to take off the edge of dealing with a pregnant woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 02:08 AM |
| 14 | What a lowlife smhOh yeah and she bought the pack of cigarettes too for herself 🙄 ridiculous he made her get out and buy gas so he could stay in the car | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 12:23 AM |
| 40 | NYT Journalist Nicholas Kristof, whose article exposed Pornhub and instigated the unverified video Purge, has set his sights on Reddit. Reddit ALSO hosts underage rape videos, involuntary porn, pedophilic content, and extreme sexualized violence with zero verification.This man is doing Gods work, he’s saving the future of so many | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 07:12 PM |
| 8 | He gave her.......his old bath towels as a birthday giftWas cheaper than putting it a bag and less effort to carry it out to the curb. Two birds one stone I guess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 05:15 AM |
| 44 | He gave her.......his old bath towels as a birthday giftI saw that one too, but I thought It was more she’s his dram girl Bc she spelt out clearly what she wanted and what she wanted was relatively cheap too, For a birthday I’d be happy if my SO got me a cake but also.... I’d want a real gift or plans with it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 09:42 PM |
| 20 | Angry scrote doesn't think he should pay for date he asked her out onI was raised in a culture where you offer to pay for everyone regardless of who invited, and the other persons manners should be to expect this reaction decline, we go back and forth pushing but ultimately person who invited is Suppose to pay. I physically cringe trying to not offer to pay Bc to me it’s a lack of manners but in my culture if a guy accepts my offer to pay he’s not a man. And it’s always what I anticipate happening where I insist but the man says no and pays but the few times I go… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 07:10 AM |
| 11 | Angry scrote doesn't think he should pay for date he asked her out onHe had four reasonable offers and chose none 1) could’ve said “let’s go split dinner together at (restaurant) and been straight forward and avoid this giving her the option to know what she’s getting into before agreeing 2) gone somewhere he could afford to pay for both 3) used basic social standards, you ask your offer to pay is implied I ask my friends to eat of course I offer to pay it was my idea 4) not argued who pays at a nice restaurant and cause a scene and show how embarrassing he is to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 07:04 AM |
| 10 | Does anyone have a story about leaving someone who wasn’t abusive or terrible, but just wasn’t quite HV enough?I feel this so much, I have a hard time walking away when I’m not 100% happy because there’s no definite hard reason that makes me feel like it’s worth it. I e if it was physically/ emotional abusive, he was a loser, sex sucked, wanted different things that were hard standards like kids or life goals etc I’d be able to skip on my merry way But smaller things like, not as interesting, extrovert vs introverted, maybe not as affectionate I can’t pull myself to walk away from Bc they just seem on th… | /r/askFDS | 30/12/20 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Women choose the wrong menMagical thing called ~✨social skills✨~ I know movies conditioned everyone to believe that a stuttering mess that can’t look you in the eyes is endearing, shows an interesting and some unfathomable suppose to be cute. But it’s not Being nervous is normal, fumbling a little is normal sometimes but I’m not bob the builder, I’m not going to take on the responsibility and guilt trip of a guy that has zero confidence to build up and help when tbh it’s emotional manipulation you being unable to ask me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 09:20 AM |
| 32 | As captioned on Twitter: what it’s like having sex with menMaybe he’s never had someone go in dry Bc they don’t understand for play to know how easy sex is. You should’ve told him you’ll try out pegging so he could sit back and enjoy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:10 AM |
| 20 | As captioned on Twitter: what it’s like having sex with menThe AUDACITY I’m sorry but deep down I’m an ass hole I would have dreamed bloody murder at being told my virgin cooch was lose. And while having a micro too I want to know who tells them they’re in any way worth sex when they don’t even understand it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:09 AM |
| 29 | As captioned on Twitter: what it’s like having sex with menTrash took itself out of the room lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:08 AM |
| 26 | As captioned on Twitter: what it’s like having sex with menThe only thing that’s been keeping mine alive is not letting a man lead in anyway. I call everything I have to okay everything and I initiate. I won’t let a lead mostly Bc A they’re selfish in bed and B I enjoy know I’m creating a situation I’m comfortable and satisfied in rather than hoping he’ll have the brain to know I should enjoy it too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:07 AM |
| 29 | As captioned on Twitter: what it’s like having sex with menIt was just ~so~ close but couldn’t make it I relate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:05 AM |
| 31 | As captioned on Twitter: what it’s like having sex with menBc it’s supposedly shameful of women to want sexual pleasure, and we should only strive to have sex to get pregnant But guys get to focus all their spare thoughts into the next time they can “bust a nut” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:01 AM |
| 46 | As captioned on Twitter: what it’s like having sex with menJust wow what a pathetic man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 05:59 AM |
| 2 | LVM coerces woman into sex while sick and then calls her a disgusting pig when she voms on him. Because she was SICK.All he had to do.......was go stand over the toilet and jack off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 01:22 AM |
| 62 | This just doesn't seem worth it.18? I hope they gave her real advise to move in with her life, if she’s in college she’ll meet so many guys she doesn’t need to hold on to someone that sporadically decides to care about her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 11:03 PM |
| 8 | This is so disturbing. Who even thinks like this?So basically “either I rape you, or I rape a sex worker”? Such logic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 10:48 PM |
| 7 | An open letter to the women of FDS from a fellow female 🤪Just ✨gamer girlfriend things✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 06:31 PM |
| 48 | An open letter to the women of FDS from a fellow female 🤪As a changed woman I think I should now, pay his bills so he can pursue his competitive gaming dream, I’ll also bring him trays of food so he doesn’t need to get up Mountain Dew and poptarts his favorites while change out the plastic gallon he keeps under the desk to piss in so he doesn’t need to get up and risk losing game time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 09:26 AM |
| 41 | I did a bit of googling on attractive men vs unattractive men as romantic partners and lol at the search results—-as written by unattractive men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Am I being manipulated?Yeahhh I’m still in undergrad I’m 22. I see myself having the issue of not having time coming soon. I’m convinced it might be immature to complain about time when I haven’t experienced that part of life yet | /r/askFDS | 29/12/20 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Am I being manipulated?I see your point not to go running even though it was my first reaction It sounds stupid but.......idek how to ask him to make it up to me, I wouldn’t even know what to want or ask him to do | /r/askFDS | 29/12/20 04:21 AM |
| 29 | I am speechlessI’ve never had children to know, but how drastic of a change could having a child really cause? The doctor stitches you back up, women with children still have sex it’s not as if a child destroys the idea of ever having sex again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:12 AM |
| 3 | Am I being manipulated?Ahh lol thank you, getting ready to apply to law school so can’t say I’m going there just yet but it’s the plan He is a little older than me(22), but still young (28), so it really is terrifying the effects the virus has. it’s getting to a point where he’s starting to resent his job and the effects it has/brings mostly as they saved his current work project(programming) for him to do after he recovers and he’s voiced to me the lack of patience he has after this particular stunt. I feel like this… | /r/askFDS | 29/12/20 12:10 AM |
| 4 | Am I being manipulated?I believe I would try again, but if we agreed to do thing differently. I feel evil to try negotiating that we’d do xyz differently when he’s not well but I don’t want it to be like before where say I get a range of two days he’d be free if work doesn’t change anything, clear two days out and end up canceled on because some random project needs to be done that he wasn’t even on but now has to finish | /r/askFDS | 28/12/20 08:21 PM |
| 11 | New Hospital Rules/Regulations have me Thinking that no matter how HV my Husband is, I’d rather have my Mom in the Delivery Room with me.He passes out at the sight of blood But still | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:43 PM |
| 47 | New Hospital Rules/Regulations have me Thinking that no matter how HV my Husband is, I’d rather have my Mom in the Delivery Room with me.The saddest thing on earth to me is thinking of how my mom admits she gave birth alone each time because my dad was to scared to be in the room. She refuses epidurals so she gave birth alone with not even pain meds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 05:09 PM |
| 3 | I tried to teach the redditor about harmful effects of casual sexism about mother getting herself gifts but labelled from her husband, so they can have empathy for their mother. See how I was downvoted for speaking against LVM behaviour. :/I don’t understand why they try ? I get it do it for your children make them a nice Christmas, buy the presents etc But that husband? Give him nothing. It’s the “joy” of the season that’s all he needs. I get nothing then you’ll get nothing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 04:40 PM |
| 6 | Ashamed to say I’ve been there. Got the dummy prize of “wow he’s spending $60 on me so this can be more pleasurable” and the “I’m a dumb pick me tshirt” lol grateful for this message and FDS, merry Christmas.PLAN B DOESNT ALWAYS WORK. It freaks me out that no one is educated that yes it can mess with your cycle, your skin, STD risk etc BUT IT ALSO DOESNT WORK IF YOU ARE OVER 160LBS AND IF YOU ARE IN YOUR FERTILITY WINDOW the effectiveness drops It’s not just about raw sex and taking a pill the pill doesn’t fix everything. Do you really want to sit and have to contemplate an abortion or being a single mother because a guy offered to send you 60$ to pay for a plan B ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 11:18 PM |
| 22 | I always knew these movies were suspicious...I always loved belle because all she wanted was to read books and be left alone but the whole movie showed was deal with his anger issues, rudeness, and violent tendencies and he’ll turn into a prince because you “ sAw THrOuGh iT” nope you tolerated abuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Gifting birthdays gifts?I think a gift would be appropriate. Something of equal or lesser value to an average gift from him. Nothing over the top. Pick me behavior would be going all out and doing a very elaborate birthday for him | /r/askFDS | 25/12/20 10:56 PM |
| 7 | How do I deal with having been fooled by a LVM?Wow It is embarrassing but for him not you! He’s in no way attractive his personality seems bland and tbh the intellect that attracted you was most likely just a by product of his parents in academia not his intense interest or work in it. You’re smart you’ve had better guys go for you, you’ll be fine. He on the other hand I’d love to see who these “other” girls are Bc no one is going for the hunchback or noterdame | /r/askFDS | 25/12/20 07:53 PM |
| 16 | The older man conWow I needed this a year ago, 10 year age difference and I was the one the constantly had to make the mature decisions. Thank god I always pushed back and said maybe in a few years when he said he wanted to get married and have kids and take care of me Bc if I had I would have ruined my life for a man that need me to remind him to eat dinner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 09:52 PM |
| 15 | STupiD whAmEn wAnT chADs 🤡100% I’ve had a guy psychically in tears Bc I rejected him(nastiest rudest attitude in the world too) turn around to say I was the prettiest girls he’s seen with makeup but without makeup I’m terrifying He rates himself a 7/10 only Bc he’s 5’6 but if he was taller “would be a 9” He looked like a lizard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 10:11 PM |
| 92 | Does anyone else notice a personality change when they catch feelings for someone?I turn into an idiot. I’ve looking into why I was so attached in my last one, and I realized I took small comments about a future or “our kids would have amazing eyes” and I day dreamed a whole life and memories. I got attached to the ideas from my daydreams and not my actual experiences. So I learned daydreaming or imagining anything was not smart Bc when it fizzled out he lost the real memories and for me I lost the imaginary kids | /r/askFDS | 09/12/20 09:06 PM |
| 9 | If only there were a pill to cure delusions...Big point ! Nice isn’t a personality being nice and respectful are the basics you should ALWAYS be nice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 11:36 PM |
| -1 | How do I fix the power unbalance in my relationship?Like I made a joke about making a bet over something stupid and what he’d want, and he tell me, “well I know I have pretty much what ever I want in the bag there’s nothing I can think of” | /r/askFDS | 13/11/20 10:16 PM |
| -6 | How do I fix the power unbalance in my relationship?He was the one that called the break, I told him I’d give him x amount of time to figure what ever the fuck was his problem and then I’m going to start dating again The amount I gave came and passed I started going on dates and the apps and a month after he came back saying he couldn’t be with anyone else, didn’t do anything and only thought of me THHHEEEN I know he didn’t fuck anyone Bc drum roll he went all over porn hub to find a porn star that looked like me Bc he couldn’t get it up for anyt… | /r/askFDS | 13/11/20 10:14 PM |
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