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almost like movie level shit too!
/r/seduction22/07/18 03:26 PM
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I've never tried it but something to consider (read it on here): say along of the lines of 'I've never kissed a [something about them e.g. teacher, phycology student]' then make the move. No idea if it would work wesimus but something to try?
/r/seduction22/07/18 01:35 PM
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my friend is sitting there how to answer?
/r/seduction13/07/18 05:18 PM
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plus, think of the development prospects for OP when he is forced out into the real world. Critical time to get a solid skillset.
/r/seduction13/07/18 01:49 PM
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Something I've been trying is if I bail on an approach I'd normally beat myself up, but now I accept it, become aware of all the bull shit excuses and downward spiral of thoughts and shift it to a positive 'i missed this one, but I'm out here approaching. I've done sets before I can do this, just then wasn't my time, it's time to improve and continue on my journey' ect.
/r/seduction12/07/18 05:31 PM
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Sounds legit, cheers!
/r/seduction02/07/18 06:41 AM
18

Surely it still takes a while to build that momentum shooting shit with everyone? I'm week 3 of talking to more and more people every week and nothing has changed as of yet.
/r/seduction01/07/18 09:51 PM
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Bonus frame points if you throw the faecal matter first
/r/seduction28/06/18 01:33 PM
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Maybe try homing in on the hobbies and all that reading? Go hard on them and convey passion! Just a thought, I'm no Casanova
/r/seduction28/06/18 01:31 PM
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Bro I'm checking google maps now xD
/r/seduction28/06/18 09:18 AM
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Yeah you're right. You know what did me in I reckon, I predominantly dated uni students living away from home. I think they 1) had the option to find other uni guys with their own place and 2) got caught in a bubble - once the student loan goes, mummy and daddy await
/r/seduction27/06/18 10:41 PM
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Kills to deaths to ratio, became mainstream when call of duty recorded your kills and deaths online
/r/seduction27/06/18 10:39 PM
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Yeah you're right bro. Plus, 3 out of 24 are MY stats of me doing my best, I shouldn't compare myself. Cheers for the reality check.
/r/seduction27/06/18 10:38 PM
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Appreciate the response dudE!
/r/seduction27/06/18 06:00 PM
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creativity points needed
/r/seduction27/06/18 05:35 PM
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I was doing a masters, commuting to save money with plans to get a flat in a city center, I got 3 second dates out of 24 :/ Something was going wrong :(
/r/seduction27/06/18 05:29 PM
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What was your strategy dude? I feel like you found a needle within the atomic structure of a needle in a haystack; A girl on tinder looking for something other than casual and she accepted you living with parents. As someone living with parents tinder got me first dates but nothing else, I need your tips!
/r/seduction27/06/18 04:20 PM
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As long as it's not at home with parents you'll be fine bro. Living with parents kills tinder game.
/r/seduction27/06/18 01:33 PM
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chad
/r/seduction26/06/18 10:43 PM
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As a shy noob I've founded it pretty bogus. The idea is you think negative thoughts after seeing a girl for 3 seconds. I get it immediately. Sometimes I approach through it, others I can't.
/r/seduction26/06/18 10:27 PM
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A girl grabbed my ass in a bowling alley when I was a fat 14 year old. She used the 'molest open' but we never got to the hook point as she never verbally opened and walked off after the open. Does this count?
/r/seduction26/06/18 10:24 PM
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yeah makes sense. I think travelling to the 'better' city is just costing too much i.e. taking a lot just to meet girls (never works). I'll try and make my local area work and obviously stick with the 'work on yourself'. Thinking diet, hobbies, cooking, bars and day game as and when.
/r/seduction21/06/18 12:24 PM
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Written like something out of the game!
/r/seduction21/06/18 10:17 AM
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Although I bet he'd still teach the best friends test!
/r/seduction15/06/18 10:32 PM
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He shows the root to take and what the other guy mentions, start with routines, get comfortable, build your inner game.
/r/seduction15/06/18 09:50 PM
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Thing is though even style, who regularly uses (used?) routines, says to develop your own routines and be the best version of yourself.
/r/seduction15/06/18 07:24 PM
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but I could try. i feel like that mindset needs some work. You bought the book for a reason. Remember why sticking to it will help you.
/r/seduction05/06/18 01:28 PM
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As Neil Strauss said when he did his double your dating seminar 'learn it in chunks'. So many people want to know how to get hot girls but can't open girls.
/r/seduction05/06/18 01:25 PM
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Fucking yes bruh.
/r/seduction03/06/18 02:28 PM
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What kind of demographic are you looking for? Would be interesting to see what the other 'dating' subreddits would say/what skew would ensue.
/r/seduction03/06/18 02:28 PM
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while I never stop working to fix and improve those things I always take the opportunity to talk to women, meet new girls etc whenever I can. The way I see it is, for example, you don't have your own place and live with family, you'll have a bigger chance of finding a girl who is ok with that by approaching multiple girls both night and day. Why not approach and miss that chance?
/r/seduction03/06/18 01:59 PM
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How do we find the results?
/r/seduction03/06/18 01:58 PM
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Hmmm no attempt to rearrange from her.... Having been rejected a lot that's usually how it ended. You could message her once more in a bit. If she says why, well, tell her 'take me as I am' ;)
/r/seduction02/06/18 05:57 PM
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which gives her little to no plausible deniability for going to your house. Nailed it! xD I will be using. Damn that text shows how easy it is. Did you kiss on date 1? Can I pick your brains? I've got at least 2 months (maybe even up to a year) living at home (with the fam).....Any date ideas? Or shall I just ride the wave of shit and try and improve and improvise? Improvise. Adapt. Overcome.
/r/seduction02/06/18 10:15 AM
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Cheers fam
/r/seduction31/05/18 09:23 PM
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Second this. I like the girls in book shops but not had much success yet. OP hit us up.
/r/seduction31/05/18 05:56 PM
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As a noob I came to the realization the interview mode i've been dropping in is from a lack of an initial structure. All these guys in here shitting on a structure/plan I guess have forgotten what it's like when you have no social skills and a heart running at 280bpm. Oh wait, most of them were never there. The London day game model seems to have a structure that can be used but very flexible. Direct opener 'You look like you are from [country of origin]' Find out where they are actually from 'W…
/r/seduction31/05/18 09:46 AM
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I feel like we haven't even BEGUN to truly understand the effect that social media has had. Agreed. Give it 20 years and I think we'll see the effects of social media and tinder- esque dating in statistics.
/r/seduction30/05/18 11:37 AM
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How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? 6 times today xD Thought provoking post man. Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction29/05/18 10:02 PM
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Only his betrayal could break my heart open wide enough to allow another man in. He would have to shatter me before I could move on. This is a very personal to you and is not echoed with others. You only need to spend 30 minutes on r relationships to see this.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/18 04:12 PM
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when we fall in love with a man he becomes the most beautiful person in the world A level of attraction is needed before then. This is why self development is so heavily stressed on trp, some guys need this instilled in them so strongly that is not experienced outside. i.e. in your comment. TRP isn't the way to do it but at least every day, every second it forces the process of self development.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/18 04:09 PM
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Austen summers. Some good inner game that you can develop early.
/r/seduction28/05/18 03:56 PM
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No. Just another step in my own journey and personal development. The past is the past.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/18 03:36 PM
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Austen summers
/r/seduction28/05/18 03:16 PM
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I disagree man, if you choose male friends well they are great. Mine are really building me up, rock solid with their support.
/r/seduction27/05/18 10:17 PM
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Agreed. I reckon nearly everyone who says that has been boning/riding shlong/in and out of relationships regularly. Such an easy place to say that you should accept being single for ever, don't seek and you'll meet someone. I don't buy it. Opportunities everywhere. Day game. Scared? Find a way that will help you beat that. Meet ups. Festivals. Art shows. Take up yoga/salsa. Bars. Follow girls. What are they doing? Rock climbing? What are guys who have abundance doing? Meet them? I think stage 1 …
/r/seduction27/05/18 05:01 PM
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I'm exactly the same word for word. No girl friends can only harm social development. A person doesn't interact sufficiently with ~50% of the population and can surely miss the developing a certain skill set to healthily interact with girls. I dont think there's going to be anything wrong with following where girls go. Force yourself to mess up and LEARN. I'm trying and by getting out I'm 'close' with 2 girls. Maybe this is the hard to hear but necessary step: Follow and talk to girls. Who gives…
/r/seduction27/05/18 01:59 PM
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Glad you've got a website up. Like the style - very easy to digest.
/r/seduction26/05/18 10:29 AM
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I don't try to pick up at networking events because I just feel that is incredibly rude. I'm no Casanova and unfamiliar with these events but what if you just 'socialised' with a subtle bit of pickup, surely you could go under the radar?
/r/seduction25/05/18 03:22 PM
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Hmm I wonder of she's dropping hints 'lonely' = please hit me up. Have fun dude. She seems good fun and friendly!
/r/seduction23/05/18 11:17 PM
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I would love some video footage of myself too. I know I fidget, would be good to see how bad my fidgeting is. Do you have a date 2 lined up with this girl?
/r/seduction23/05/18 07:56 PM
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Quality stuff man. It's crazy to think what can happen from one simple hello there xD Those laughs early on, sounded like you were in asap. Good luck with future endeavors. What did you record on? Smart phone? I've been thinking of doing a similar thing to assess my own tonality and whether I'm nailing breaking rapport.
/r/seduction23/05/18 07:43 PM
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Sounds like a class idea. I will be trying it.
/r/seduction22/05/18 09:46 PM
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to my internal dating coach for 2 minutes to get into social mood is this pretending to talk to someone on the phone
/r/seduction22/05/18 04:33 PM
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Just pick a hole and get to work. Noice
/r/seduction21/05/18 05:35 PM
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It happens all the time. You just have to say hi. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FhWY7Nv_XEs
/r/seduction21/05/18 02:02 PM
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Just think. You see your ideal 8 looking over a book in a shop. 'Hey, I thought you looked cool and wanted to say hi'. She beams. Turns out you have a shit tonne in common. 4 days later after getting her number you meet up for a drink. It goes amazing. Your like, bruh, who is this girl? date 2 you kiss. date 3 you find out she has her own place............................................................. So you go back to hers to play monopoly. you get the idea. This may not happen, it may happe…
/r/seduction21/05/18 01:55 PM
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should I bother cold approaching or should I wait until I get a job and move out on my own before starting cold approaching? A 100% you should start now (ideally start yesterday) for two reasons. 1) You get a shit tonne of practice in for when you are in an advantageous position. You won't be a beginner when you have your own home. 2) You may meet a girl you really like, who likes you and doesn't give a shit about your living arrangements. And in response to your edit. I'm a 22 year old weirdo t…
/r/seduction21/05/18 01:41 PM
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o then I said she could be my mom and then I asked for a hug and left. hahahahaha bro sounds like a result. Own that shit. you said something you wanted, you didn't die. Fuck it. Approach some more.
/r/seduction21/05/18 12:47 PM
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Probably get to the point where that golden f close is boring in comparison xD
/r/seduction21/05/18 02:03 AM
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Is there anyway to do this without looking desperate? Who gives a fook? you've identified a process YOU need to do for YOUR personal development to achieve the success YOU want, who gives a fuck what they think?
/r/seduction20/05/18 07:16 PM
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I took one for the team bois
/r/seduction20/05/18 06:05 PM
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I almost feel guilty for putting my little man in there. Poor guy. hahahaha xD Reads like a comedy sketch man xD
/r/seduction20/05/18 11:46 AM
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Use it to push you into a period of self development with the end goal: no more missing opportunities.
/r/seduction20/05/18 09:53 AM
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I believe he lifts your mum over to doggy style
/r/seduction20/05/18 09:52 AM
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Day game for me in 4 hours! Currently in the beginners repulsing period xD
/r/seduction20/05/18 09:52 AM
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Inb4 an emotionally charged response ironically you have provided no statistics. I can feel your heat on my keyboard. This is why I said chill. You're too up in your head. Over analysing stuff. I've done, mate I still do it, but it isn't needed. We've agreed not to pedastalise so go in with 0 expectations and have fun. FUN. Not 'oh fuck this girl be raised like a western hoe and wants all my monies'. I have been out there. I've been in social work environments and the gym quite often. I listen t…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/18 09:33 AM
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Best place to be. Abundance. All on your terms.
/r/seduction19/05/18 10:54 PM
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Hmm sounds about right. I can approach now, just I bail on some girls. Still way to nervous to converse effectively.
/r/seduction19/05/18 06:38 PM
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I got you man. Cheers for the comments!
/r/seduction19/05/18 10:51 AM
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Hmmm puts more pressure on me to get my Instagram improved xD So day game ask for Instagram/snap?
/r/seduction19/05/18 10:31 AM
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Once the momentum starts its really fun. How long does this take? I'm pretty new into the direct day game. I've heard ~100 approaches - seem legit?
/r/seduction19/05/18 10:03 AM
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> Number close Totally usless A complete waste of time Use social media instead This intrigues me. Is the number close dead in the ever evolving world of pick up?
/r/seduction19/05/18 09:42 AM
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I've just finished uni. Day game all the way. It's scary and hard but worth it.
/r/seduction18/05/18 06:30 PM
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I like that line to grab her details. Nice and chilled and isn't loaded with 'we WILL meet later'
/r/seduction18/05/18 09:03 AM
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Definitely using the IG close after hearing about a bf. If anything it artificially inflates my worth online as I get more instagram followers xD Having said this I still need to build my instagram.
/r/seduction18/05/18 08:59 AM
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I also wondered if it is because I don't give out any sexual vibes and seem like harmless friend material? Which is ok for now as I need friends but no good later down the line.
/r/seduction17/05/18 10:47 PM
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Cheers man. I think I'll go silent, approach a lot more for a bit and come back with any real sticking points.
/r/seduction17/05/18 10:27 PM
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Awesome man, I'll plan out/look around for a good structure for tomorrow.
/r/seduction17/05/18 09:46 PM
2

His legacy lives on, albeit evolved.
/r/seduction16/05/18 08:06 PM
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sex before relationships or friendships or etc. Well it was the premise of your whole post so I thought it was appropriate. k
/r/seduction16/05/18 05:13 PM
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Mystery desrcibed it as 'getting a foot in the door' which can then lead to sex/relationship/friendship ect.
/r/seduction16/05/18 04:22 PM
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No points, only a speech/set of speeches
/r/seduction16/05/18 04:19 PM
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Very very true. I think his openers are solid but yeah..... Success is mostly down to looks
/r/seduction16/05/18 09:14 AM
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James Tusk as well. Absolute machine
/r/seduction15/05/18 10:45 PM
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Any idea on how to turn this into 'meetup game'? So those meet up.com events at bars?
/r/seduction15/05/18 08:23 PM
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> "What coffee are you drinking?", or "Wow, gorgeous eyes, they really match your hair", get the same bizarre response. My favorite was a girl eating hot sweetcorn. 18-20. I finally managed to get the balls and asked her, 'hey where did you get the sweetcorn from?'. her eyes hit mine, she looked me square in the phase with a wtf? Her eyes then slammed to the ground, she pointed the wrong direction and paced off. K.
/r/seduction14/05/18 03:08 PM
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Same! Thought it was just me! After a 3 hour date in a noisy bar my voice has just gone. When we leave the bar I sound like a cartoon character. Tagging on for some advice.
/r/seduction13/05/18 12:19 PM
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'You have to be interesting for girls to be interested in you' -Mystery
/r/seduction13/05/18 09:39 AM
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> man was it bad, as awkward as could be. No one who hasn't done it doesn't realise how hard the start is xD
/r/seduction12/05/18 08:54 PM
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“don’t worry it’s only going to be a quick 10 minutes and then I have to go to a (insert place you need to go here)” It's not lying, it's flirting - Neil Strauss. ' If you have a job that you’re doing temporarily but you have bigger plans then let her know and speak about it with enthusiasm. Or if you’re working at your dream job then express how amazing it is and why you love it. ' Hmmm good point. Something I need to work on. ' I recommend you approach a minimum of 1 woman (that you find attra…
/r/seduction10/05/18 09:30 PM
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' It's sad that they don't want to actually bond with other humans but try to control them like tools ' dafuq?
/r/seduction09/05/18 10:26 PM
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I guess who gives a fuck? Approach in both.
/r/seduction06/05/18 02:28 PM
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I agree with marriage later on. But with more sexual partners to me it seems to make sense that they would be the most likely to split. They've chased new partners in their life pre-marriage, they'd be the most likely group to chase new partners when married. Infidelity and divorce stats are terrifying. I won't link them as no one needs to see that xD the internet is not going to convince me to disregard the reality I see around me. Be careful with this. Your reality can be what you make it to b…
/r/ExRedPill28/04/18 09:36 PM
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I have a pretty big presentation due in a few days. I'm going to give this a try.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 08:56 PM
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Nothing exposes and opens up as many people like tinder does. There is no fear involved. Swipe swipe swipe.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/18 04:27 PM
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I've been fat through all through my 4 years at uni (was ~35%bf, now around 18-20%bf, one last cut coming) and it is my biggest regret. It kills everything. Anyone reading this who is 17 or under, DO NOT be fat at uni. Get lean, get a sharp jaw line and dress well.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 11:53 AM
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Superhydration when losing weight helps improve your body's efficiency at burning fat. http://www.drdarden.com/readTopic.do?id=383704
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 11:49 AM
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Thanks man, I appreciate your time and thoughts. A lot for me to think about and implement.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 03:09 PM
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I see now. I have said things like 'i used to be shy and fat' ect. So that's out the window now. Regarding being vegetarian. I'll mention it when needed, stress my beliefs in health without sounding like a preacher but stick to my guns to show I'm principled. Sound decent?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 12:50 PM
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Compassion --> do not discuss things that require compassion I'm vegetarian but pretty close to plant based for ethics and health. Shall I, if pressed to, tell them it's a health based decision?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 08:57 AM
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What I'm saying is it's all in our heads. Women with 10 or more partners were the most likely to divorce https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability/
/r/ExRedPill22/03/18 04:08 PM
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Why don't you suck him off bro?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/18 01:49 PM
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Nailed it bro
/r/ExRedPill27/02/18 11:59 AM
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Tell me, is it toxic when women do it or is it just men? What a surprise, you only got down votes, not an answer.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/18 12:07 PM
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example to take a class in something that you like, So I took up Pilates at my uni as I want better posture and a stronger lower core. Was just me, 2 older dudes and 98% middle aged women xD Most importantly i would tell you to not give up on your search. I gave up on tinder but waiting to lean up before I go back on it. But I haven't given up, I'm always looking. Just sometimes it feels so far away xD Well the advice has been said to me a lot, everyone essentially says the same thin. That conti…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/18 09:31 AM
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I guess not, because you're posting here about it. You're correct but I think it also reflects my previous poor dress sense and poor social skills/nervousness ect. Take the advice or don't I appreciate it. One question, where do I meet girls? You've told me one avenue that I shouldn't do, so where do I go? The advice of 'go out' like the other redditor also misses out the important steps in between like navigating dating in the social circle, getting set up with friends, don't shit where you eat…
/r/ExRedPill02/02/18 10:51 PM
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that no woman ever has liked being approached by strangers. That is false. What you should have put was: I find it insulting I fucking hate it when someone that doesn't know me at all asks me for a date or compliments me on only my looks. I'm so much more than how I fucking look I get it. YOU don't like it but some girls do and will. I see what you are saying, I can see your point but let me tell you this. If a dude is talking to a girl and asks for a date/peruses/chats I can guarantee you he th…
/r/ExRedPill02/02/18 10:34 PM
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Obviously ask for the date after introducing myself and having a really good 5-10 minute conversation. You're dense dude So, you don't approach strangers. So either 1)you're a girl in which that itself provides natural abundance from guys chasing you in your social groups 2) a guy and a pussy too scared to approach strangers so you insult someone online who wants to. 3) a guy who's always had abundance/fell easily into a relationship and can't comprehend why someone would do a cold approach.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/18 10:57 AM
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OK so: 1) Do activities and meet/date people through this 2)Ask SOME strangers for dates Sound good?
/r/ExRedPill01/02/18 10:57 PM
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so why not go out and do things you enjoy anyway, and encounter people that way? Why not both?
/r/ExRedPill01/02/18 10:11 PM
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you're approaching them solely based on 'I find you visually appealing', rather than because of a shared fun experience or liking their personality or something along the lines of 'life is more fun for us both when we interact'. This can only really be said by those with abundance as you are voluntarily limiting your dating pool to only those you share experiences with. Some people can't afford to set a limit like that. At least with the you look nice you know why they are there and what their i…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/18 07:06 PM
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Solid analogy bro. That has some weight.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/18 01:15 AM
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You're right bro, I misread this completely. Please excuse me as I see myself out...
/r/ExRedPill30/01/18 12:22 AM
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Although, you can still be nice and gentlemanly without being a pushover or lacking confidence. T Not to please the other sex, but for his own happiness IMO. Nah you've nailed it bro. This is fucking key. Essentially a mother fucking tank who's also NICE Dating apps, hookup apps, less patience and more pettiness are some factors that make the dating game either very difficult or impossible for anyone around 25 to meet a lifelong partner. More so is the influx of desperate people reaching their 3…
/r/ExRedPill29/01/18 10:09 PM
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the contempt for my gender What is this bs? ironically you just switched from hating 1 half to the other half of the population?
/r/ExRedPill29/01/18 06:58 PM
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I can guarantee you if any of the popular MGTOW/Red Pill channels were to appear on a news station or large audience show they would be torn to shreds and ridiculed. I think you'd be surprised. Everyone has had to live through seeing the dick heads at school attract all the girls. Everyone sees cheating. Everyone knows that being 'nice' is nothing in the dating world (We both no there is a LOT more a genuinely nice guy needs to have a successful dating life e.g, dress sense, body, mind, drive, e…
/r/ExRedPill29/01/18 06:45 PM
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According to TRP, 99% of all women are vile creatures always ready to backstab when you show the slightest weakness... Not really how the red pill see it. It's more a case of show a set characteristics and biology will determine that you lose out to a guy who shows a set characteristics. Whether this applies to all women (AWALT), who knows. Even the red pill detox admits that AWALT hasn't been disproven though. many as these vampires as possible. By most the unproven AWALT is just accepted. 'It'…
/r/ExRedPill29/01/18 06:42 PM
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The Red Pill monk seemed like a downward spiral True as after all they want women. Seems like the numbing that can be gained from it just leads to bitter MGTOW lifestyles. but not everyone does so for sex or getting bodily pleasure. Well, true, but people want LTRs on TRP which does require a girl. Only so much your right hand can do.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/18 10:55 AM
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I got my fill heh technically she did.... Jokes aside, you've had your fill, I haven't. I don't really want to be lectured about how it isn't important after you've had your brains fucked out by some crazy nympho. If you've managed to stop thinking about sex/women without getting a fulfilling sex life then I'm all ears. I was already experienced I felt satisfied in that respect. You support my initial point. discard the notion of dating. While I agree, surely I need to put in some effort with th…
/r/ExRedPill29/01/18 10:53 AM
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Stop Projecting your issues on others. Just because you are all about women doesn't mean every other man is too. I'll agree. Too a point though. No one wants to die alone as a kissless virgin. So at some point, a guy will make it about women. How much will vary on the dude. While is true that a great part of life is about sex Yeah, so you can see why it has infiltrated a lot of my thoughts right? It's easy to say 'just forget about' 'there is more to life'. Everyone wants a fulfilling sex life. …
/r/ExRedPill28/01/18 07:24 PM
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From MGTOW/Red Pill I adopted the idea of focusing on better health, career and not stressing over the idea of being single Whilst this is preached, did you ever truly feel this? Did you ever feel embraced in monk mode? At the core, lets be honest it's only ever about women. You love yourself to get women. You lift to get women and get the body/health that gets women. You go MGTOW because of women. You develop status, wealth and wardrobe for women. Everyone find the red pill because: women. I di…
/r/ExRedPill28/01/18 03:12 PM
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Over training is mainly a myth. What? We both know if you trained for 23 hours a day you would over train. So it is a problem then and it isn't a myth. Be aware though I'm talking extremes with the 2 week plebs xD 1/2 workouts a week for the sub average is normal. Edit: I guess the 3 day split for the average and 5+ for the elite. Just guessing. There is always those who are just above super non responders.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 02:58 PM
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but you're 95% recovered Seems a bit arbitrary? But what is the time frame to recover that 5%? very minimal amount of recovery to happen. But over training occurs when not fully recovered, which for some it takes 2 weeks. (This is what what Mike Mentzer found)
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 02:51 PM
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so it is pointless to wait another 3-4 days. There's still some recovery to occur after. This is where the genetic plebs with poor recovery ability get stuffed.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 11:20 AM
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f you can subject them to enough stress in two days instead of five, you have more time to recover and therefore are better off. If your put them under too much stress and they don't recover you will get injured if you try to load them again. Solid advice. I would add, recovery must occur before growth. Over training inhibits growth which stops us looking juicy. Have you ever come across people who need 6-7 days recovery in you PT travels? I know Mike mentzer trained average Joe's, he only manag…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 04:28 PM
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he will tell that you must have all of them. This is more like 'Look at this giant stack of supplements I take, you should take them all and get big like me. They are the reason I'm big'. Sure bro, but that stack of trenbolone acetate and test looks like it's helping you out. That guy on the website which I linked, is saying that whey protein is a scam and your body will not fully use it. If you have more protein than your body needs you will literally piss it out. And also he is saying that mos…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 04:25 PM
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A lot of women lie and lower their numbers. Why?
/r/ExRedPill24/01/18 04:15 PM
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Behavior is much easier to see than your number. Are you referencing the red pill? :O ;) 'Follow their actions, not their words'. I think this is a powerful message that they have.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/18 04:14 PM
1

So that means that the upper bracket (n=10) should actually higher?
/r/ExRedPill24/01/18 02:57 PM
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I really think deeply caring about n count is a sign of an immature and insecure man. I would agree with that, but women with a n count over 10 are the most likely to get divorced and have less happy marriages. https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability/
/r/ExRedPill24/01/18 11:33 AM
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A high n count (over 10) correlates to women who are the most likely to get divorced. Earlier research found that having multiple sex partners prior to marriage could lead to less happy marriages, and often increased the odds of divorce. Women with 10 or more partners were the most likely to divorce, but this only became true in recent years; https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability/
/r/ExRedPill24/01/18 11:31 AM
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Cheers dude, means a lot.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/18 01:06 AM
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Yeah I see what you mean. I need semester to start again so I can get a routine. That will help take my mind off things and chill.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/18 11:07 PM
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you are trying to become a better version of what you think other people will perceive as you. eh? Since when is getting leaner, dressing better, improving my game, improving social skills not directly or indirectly for me? Although fuck bro you make some strong points. I was ready to argue (come on - it's reddit ;)) but I can't. I would strongly ecnourage you OP to spend some time doing self-discovery and working on projects that have nothing to do with trying to get laid. Your energies are bei…
/r/ExRedPill20/01/18 10:56 PM
1

Solid advice. Cheers bro. Lots of food for thought.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/18 06:20 PM
2

27% of women don’t care about height. That’s a good amount. It's not too comforting knowing that only 27% of women would be attracted to me because of my genetics that determine my height.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/18 01:20 PM
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Personally, I couldn't care about height, and find muscles/built guys unattractive. Was that different when you were under the age of 25?
/r/ExRedPill20/01/18 01:17 PM
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I think you are on the wrong sub reddit mate? the above was basically red pill Confidence, KNOWING you are the shit (both gained from lifting/meditation/boosting income/learning a skill) and then this: i'm glad this guy knows what hes doing i.e comfortable, he has game, a leader, hunter, healthy masculine male, someone she can submit to But yeah, the red pill has so much truth in it, it's that uncomfortable advice that no one gives you. I see your history dude, you're red pill as fook and you mi…
/r/ExRedPill19/01/18 08:52 PM
2

Sounds like a great idea. Get some report with the bartenders bouncers too
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 08:46 PM
1

Thanks for helping me work through it.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/18 07:36 PM
1

Probably the best and most influential reply to me you've made. Thank you.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/18 03:43 PM
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It's clear any interaction with him leaves you feeling negative. Get him out of your life. Spell? Fuck the spell, just get him out of your life. It's done. Move on. Easy for me to say but you have to appreciate it's what you have to do in regards to him. I'm going to be a social worker The right winger foams at the mouth about STEM careers forgetting the book they read was probably co edited by someone who studied English, the shoes they are wearing for the gains had inputs from sports scientist…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/18 02:25 PM
1

Make it a party hostel. They are like medieval brothels. You will get laid.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 01:23 PM
1

We all know the girl who had the army of orbiting nerds who did her homework XD
/r/ExRedPill18/01/18 01:07 PM
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Let them see it irl But we both know they only went back to yours for that ice cream bro..... heh.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 12:51 PM
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Great work on #3. Was like reading a scene from a well written/directed film. Good job OP. Something for me to aspire to.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 12:50 PM
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Quite a contrary to sitting, alone, waiting for your princess I've been 1 hour 30 minutes early to a date and let them know subtly that...... Christ. The above statement was me, Charlie Chode waiting for my peach xD
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 12:47 PM
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I see.... Sort of, let your game do the work then finish them as they unbutton your shirt and get to the abs xD
/r/askTRP18/01/18 12:41 PM
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Strange how it would be the ultimate fantasy for a 14 year old dude beating into his sock.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 12:34 PM
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Not to constantly upload shirtless selfies. It has to be the 'woops, I'm topless cos' I'm at the beech' kind surely?
/r/askTRP18/01/18 12:33 PM
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Got to keep that clutch safe though bro..... The stone chips too.....
/r/askTRP18/01/18 12:29 PM
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Will second vadim. Honestsignalz on yt has god tier game.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 12:22 PM
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Height is always an issue when the guys is sub 5'5 (up to sub 5'9 for most girls). 73% of women in one survey said they want their guy to be over 5'9. I'm 5'8. http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2016/01/07/women-reveal-their-ideal-male-body-type_n_8928112.html I'm not having a go at your preference by the way, who the fuck am I to tell you who and what you're attracted too? But that survey burns for short guys - essentially, welcome to the red pill xD When I try to think of things in terms of gende…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/18 11:59 AM
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here is just a lot of noise I'll agree with that bro. Social media pushes the party girls. 7/10 Jane with the glasses, studying and a member of the drawing society, gets left behind and made invisible.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/18 11:11 AM
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Volunteer for a cause you're passionate about Definitely a possible one. There is a growing homeless population around in NW England and they'll need volunteers. Jared Leto 5'11, lean jawline and abs. If he put on another 10 lbs of muscle I guarantee you would like the result. Just what is attractive. Stop trying to be who you think you're supposed to be and be who you want to be and you'll attract the right people. No, I KNOW that I need to be a better version of myself to actually attract girl…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/18 11:09 AM
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I am afraid of asking out a girl. I am able to approach them but I can't ask them out. To be honest the approach is really difficult. You can tell her that you are afraid man, it doesn't matter because if she really likes you then she will think it is cute Bro, we both know how 'cute' goes...... 'Oh btw, I'm a bit nervous right now', her 'aaaaw ok, that's cute'..... Ask for the number, she gives it. My number gets saved in as wet lettuce chode and gets ghosted for eternity. Most guys would think…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/18 11:04 AM
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She uses her sexuality to get what she wants from men. Not uncommon....
/r/ExRedPill18/01/18 10:59 AM
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Not sure, maybe some of them. But I have connected well (until the spooky ghost arrives) with some nice left wingers on tinder. I disagree with her political views though for sure. I love how the royal family are getting some colour added (she commented about Megan markle tainting the royal family's seed), makes all the crazy right wingers foam at the mouth!
/r/ExRedPill17/01/18 10:30 PM
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Are there any sports you enjoy playing? yeah, esports. I play video games because I like them and don't want to stop playing. I'll just moderate use. I'd rather lift than sports.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/18 07:09 PM
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I guess the party girls probably do YES. The girl on tinder wants the chad. She can GET the chad. but hopefully you don't want the party girls. Nope. Not for a relationship. I'd be lying though if I would say I'd turn down some action though from a party girl. I say get yourself into decent shape Currently on one last bulk before the final JUICY cut. join a support group to get off gaming/social media I've never heard of this. Video gamer anonymous? XD Yeah I've considered yoga. Cooking classes …
/r/ExRedPill17/01/18 06:55 PM
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hahaha no xD more Alice in wonderland. Do you constantly compare yourself to other guys? hmmmm. Yeah I probably do. Has this affected any of your current friendships? No. Everyone is generally supportive of me trying to get success with women (started 3 months ago, when I got a bit down on tinder and was like, what is going on?). red pill is fight night though, don't talk about it. The ones I have talked to it with are generally supprtove of red pill ideas. It really really really matches well w…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/18 06:29 PM
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Do you believe that the only part of the relationship is getting your dick wet? Do you not want someone who you can be emotionally comfortable with longer term? In response to the edit: A connection with a girl and that comfort for sure BUT you get to get the Winnie up the pooh if you know what I mean. That's what I want. The connection is key, but of course I want to get the Alice in wonderland. Limp bizkit sums it up perfectly: I'm only human Its so easy for your friends to give you their advi…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/18 06:05 PM
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Young women have been sold a bill of goods with this hook up culture, made more confusing because feminism these days says it's good to be sex positive (good in theory, but I believe quite bad in its current practice, since hook up culture benefits men, not women). This is why I believe it won't last. So much truth it hurt. THIS^ 1 million times. Maybe I'm riding the hook-up wave and it's just about to break. What was your experience with Tinder? below average number of matches (low match rate, …
/r/ExRedPill17/01/18 05:57 PM
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You are only attractive to women who are into red pill. Is that the type of women that you want to date? No to both. Red pill is recent, (3 months) and I haven't been dating since deleting tinder. I would like a 'nice' easy going, chatty girl, with similar interests and sense of humor who's about a 6/10 (what I will be in 6 months after completing the gainZZ). Edit: you say you have to be the best 'man'. Well, best I can be. Build it and they will come. Money, status, looks, personality, humor, …
/r/ExRedPill17/01/18 05:26 PM
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If what you are saying is true, young people have no problem meeting strangers for sex That is very true. Edit: Interesting how you are older and unfamiliar/uncomfortable with modern dating. it kind of supports my viewpoint that red pill wouldn't work when you were young, but is essential now. Interesting perspective. I will consider match. I think tinder has the left over dregs who will ride male genitalia till they're in a hospital bed. ie. the party girls to avoid.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/18 05:24 PM
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Something like: when I've sat down next the them to do some work on a PC 'hey, you look as bored as I'm going to be n 30 mins of this work ;) What are you doing?' ?
/r/ExRedPill17/01/18 05:23 PM
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Tinder has been terrible for women the validation and ego boost has been good and bad for them, I'll give you that. But to say it has been bad is something I find hard to believe. Tinder is getting old now, maybe I've been left with the veteran cock suckers and all the normal girls who I want have left? I will be trying match when leaner. No guy of my generation would have thought this. I still remain adamant that the dating scene has changed.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/18 05:21 PM
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Why you're so sure you know what you're talking about I listen. I've heard a lot. you're trying so hard to talk yourself into See at as trying to talk myself out of something that resonated with my observations. making you crushingly boring to all but other adolescent males# If you could see my fingers on my keyboard you'd take that back ;) making you crushingly boring to all but other adolescent males I'll agree with that. My head is fucked. But what you refuse to realize is that for the vast m…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/18 05:19 PM
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Savage as fook bro! Thanks for sharing, I'll bare it all in mind if a girl ends it with me.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 02:26 PM
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Yeah, I agree. Will be interesting to watch the continuing trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 02:13 PM
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I lost interest in swarthy Italian guys Laughable. 'interests changed' heh. They're the obvious douchebags I guess it depends on how I do it (thinking at the beach and woops I'm topless) and I'll check the statistics regarding the success. I'll consider what your friend said but we both know she realised they were douchebags after she liked the pics, matched with them, chatted, had a drink, went back for ice cream and woops rode the shlong cos' it just happened right? Only to be dropped. Then me…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/18 02:11 PM
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The website IllicitEncounters.com had its busiest year so far and over 120,000 people joined the site. Are men or women more likely to be looking for extramarital affairs on the site? According to website sign ups women are more likely to seek out affairs online, with 54 per cent of new sign ups being made by women. https://www.express.co.uk/life-style/life/900668/cheating-wife-husband-caught-boyfriend-girlfriend-spouse-men The main takeaway is that women are cheating more and more and it is bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 01:42 PM
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I think the statistics showing that men cheat more often, contradicts this. Times are changing..... A report out of the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University found that, for the first time in modern history, women are cheating at nearly the same rate as men. Another study, published in the National Opinion Research Center’s 2013 General Social Survey, found that while the percentage of men who admitted to infidelity has held constant over the last two decades, the percentage of wives who report…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 01:31 PM
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I have a boyfriend! Honest? Mate, isn't that a dishonest way of putting down a dude that is commonly used by SINGLE women?
/r/ExRedPill17/01/18 01:11 PM
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Sounds pretty cool. I can tell you why I joined but I haven't officially left, hence my posting/lurking on here. Would be super weird to hear myself talking about it on radio 4, I listen to it in the car XD
/r/ExRedPill17/01/18 01:08 PM
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gaming and porn addiction that leads to crippling social anxiety among so many young men today Already on it. Porn down to like twice a month. Gaming..... bruh the Assassins creed is just too good..... When I was young, I had a strong attraction to dark, swarthy Italian guys Chasing your chad? To be brutally honest and I mean no disrespect, it sounds like you've settled with your husband after going post wall after exhausting yourself chasing the chad you desperately wanted. I've given you advic…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/18 12:45 PM
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I have seen losers with hot and fun chicks a lot. We all know why dude..... Forget approaching and just sit next to a girl that sits alone and strike up a conversation without an expectation I feel as though a 'hi, I thought you looked nice and I wanted to say hi! That page of notes looks disgustingly hard ect...' is the only way to justify to the girl why I'm there which is still basic day game. Some good points mate that I'll consider, thanks!
/r/ExRedPill17/01/18 11:21 AM
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you can barely make eye contact with the person across the table from you Bit of a gross exaggeration about the status of my eye contact. You guys are wringing your hands because you're "only" 6'2 or you're convinced your life would be perfect if you just had a more masculine jawline. For a start I'm 5'8 which is not ideal and a jawline would help. Life would be different at 6'2 with a lean jawline. Edit: On reflection you only ever wanted to tell me that losers approach girls on the street and …
/r/ExRedPill17/01/18 11:18 AM
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Mate I've got it all planned for the Abs. Tinder pic 1: Topless messing in the sea. (got those model shiny abs) Tinder pic 2: holding my cat whilst flexing THE SHIT out of the minuscule muscle I have Tinder pic 3: Me drumming Tinder pic 4: undecided but girls wont care. As a side note, someone on here reckons I'm on the spectrum resulting in my lack of success. If true, what do I do?
/r/ExRedPill16/01/18 10:02 PM
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You're not getting anywhere because people with autism are very hard to date But if I went with girls who were my level of attractiveness.... ;) Women don't give a shit about your abs or your jawline but you will never understand this Hang on.... We agreed people like to date attractive people and abs and a lean jawline are attractive traits. They will help. My uni offers free therapy. Maybe I should look into it. Cheers, all the best!
/r/ExRedPill16/01/18 09:50 PM
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You think like a horny young guy SeNd NudEs Loneliness, desperation, pressure, or liking a guy and thinking this is the only way to show it, none of this comes into it for you, does it I think that whilst true, they still miss another factor - that they want to go on a ride. Which of those young women do you think are going to be better sexual partners in the end? I'm not sure I could answer it. I feel like it is a trick question. I'm going to say the Scandinavian girls? But similarly they will …
/r/ExRedPill16/01/18 07:08 PM
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Topless pics only get you so far Will be something to try. Some dating sites record few visits with topless photos. Will do!
/r/ExRedPill16/01/18 06:57 PM
1

Nice words. Thanks, bruh.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/18 05:59 PM
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We'll see what happens. As internet strangers I will tell you what I'm going to do: Reach 175lbs then cut to sub 15%bf. Will look juicy at 5'8. Will be lean for my holiday for topless pics to restart my tinder Expand my social circle with FRIENDS of all gender focus on uni work and gainzz talk to PEOPLE on my commute. If I like a girl after talking, time for a date. after I graduate this summer, I will look for a sociable hobby and a job to create a social circle outside of uni. Thoughts?
/r/ExRedPill16/01/18 05:58 PM
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Your entire response is generalisations. Many of us learn the hard way that if a total stranger comes on strong, he's not for real. What if he's just keen? 'strong' is also arbitrary. As a male, how do I know if I've come on too strong or weak? That would differ between the woman. Sorry but quality guys don't try to pick up women on the street. Not a single one? That guy who hit on you on the train station, what a disgusting, low quality man? You're telling me if a chilled, confident dude who wa…
/r/ExRedPill16/01/18 05:06 PM
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Thanks for the response. I have some questions to ask based around trying to get rid of the red pill ideas in my head and how they related to your comment: Ever You're telling me if a chilled, confident dude who was your ideal in looks (your 9/10) opened you when you were single and looking, with an easy, natural opener you would blank him or say he harassed you? Or 'is that a good book' when you are sat in a bookstore and you'd tell him to leave? pure harassment 'Hey, how's it going?' is harass…
/r/ExRedPill16/01/18 11:51 AM
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Read it with your husband. The author has worked with 'nice guys' and their partners/wives for 20 years.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/18 05:36 PM
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ASD and LMR is definitively a thing. A girl met my mate off tinder and she explicitly said 'no, I don't have sex on the first date'.....Well she smashes on the first date now..... The fact that they lived 2 mins away meant woops she just went to his house after drinks and woops the sex just happened. Gave her that plausible deniability cos', woops it just happened right co's they lived near right? Anti Slut Defence making sense when you read the various definitions: 'This is a defence mechanism …
/r/ExRedPill15/01/18 05:34 PM
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Making honest-to-goodness friendships with women will help teach you that they're not really any different than you Probably the next best step. Ask yourself why getting a girlfriend is so important to you Probably a mix of societal pressures, fear of missing out (closeness/romantics/sex/support/a great friend ect. that relationships give and I've never had), forever alone bullying I took at 16, also at 22 it would be very nice :D I'll let limp bizkit deal with it though.... 'I'm only human Its …
/r/ExRedPill14/01/18 12:11 PM
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do not hit on people in the office Yeah, don't shit where you eat XD
/r/ExRedPill12/01/18 09:00 PM
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That's fine- your goal should always be to go make friends. Go out to meet people, not women Volunteering? Walking shelter puppies? Political activism? All 3 would be the dream. I think volunteering really is the way to go for me. Volunteering, rock climbing in the near future and cooking classes = FlipModeEngaged becomes chad? ;)
/r/ExRedPill12/01/18 08:59 PM
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Don't ever "fake it til you make it"- you deserve better than that negative outlook Kind of what I was hoping for, but I realise I couldn't maintain that person and would crash a few months in to the relationship. Lost of food for thought. Ty for taking the time.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/18 08:51 PM
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Thinking yoga for posture (beneficial to me). Martial arts would be good fund, used to do it when I was a pimp at 7 (6 pack - gone down hill since then xD). 100% could start up again. Would like to smash the gym for now though.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/18 05:15 PM
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Cheers for the reply. Looks like I need to get into/invite people to a social gathering and just chat and observe the dynamics. Now to do this....
/r/ExRedPill12/01/18 05:14 PM
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Not sure if the first bit was the tough love I needed or a pretty unnecessary slap in the face. Post uni is terrifying. Suddenly 70,000 students are gone. 100% solo. I've wasted 3.5 years at uni, didn't want to waste the last semester if you know what I mean? But I definitely will be very busy. So, maybe chill to I graduate. Get a job. Chill with co workers and peruse some social hobbies? it shouldn't but I've never convinced anyone In some ways it shouldn't, but it has led to a path of self imp…
/r/ExRedPill12/01/18 05:10 PM
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But it really something you have to feel confident doing This is kind of the end goal. I want to be ready for when the right girl comes across. Still struggling with approaching girls who seem interested. I.e never done it. having expectation while doing it I'm sat in the ask and see what happens camp Having something to do also makes the first interaction far easier for both parties, giving 'escape ways' for both so to say. Being honest this seems to put way too many variables into the equation…
/r/ExRedPill12/01/18 10:26 AM
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might be a bit different if you are in the US UK based bruh. So the hobbies again crops up. This is where to 'be yourself' is BS. My yugioh, warhammer and video games is a bit sparse. I'm really not sure what to go for man. Maybe yoga? Rock climbing when I'm leaner (less stress on my joints). I actually started doing vegan meets but the group was a bit too intense. Joined another vegan meal group, end of the night asked out a girl. Ended up being the organiser, got rejected. Couldn't face going …
/r/ExRedPill11/01/18 10:43 PM
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but I am talking to people In what way? Approaching on campus? Just be a normal guy and if you like a girl then slowly build a connection That opens a lot of questions for me. Could you elaborate? Already harder as I'm the guy who commutes. Saved me money, parents helped push me out and stop playing 10 hours of video games a day and helped with grades but FUCk my social life with girls is 0.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/18 10:33 PM
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Don't immediately mack on the pretty girls either How soon do I wait? Enter the event: see a girl I like. What do I do so I don't be the mack (something I had to urban dictionary....)? How aware are you of your own body language? 90% of human communication is non-verbal, and it's very likely that you're communicating a lot of stuff without realizing it. My body language is poor in the sense that I fidget with poor eye contact. I don't slouch too much but the aforementioned things just seem to ha…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/18 10:27 PM
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Yeah, I was 200 lbs @ 35% bf. Sat at 165 @ 20% bf as of this morning. By June I should be 170 lbs then going to cut up to 145lbs with a slight 6 pack at my measly height of 5'8. Need to pack on 0.5 inches on my arms for sure.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/18 10:12 PM
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just that most "game" as preached by TRP is sexist and kindof dumb Is it the scale eg mass approach that makes you think that? Nothing wrong with approaching women if you're able to take a hint and leave them alone when they're not interested. Makes sense. Would be nice to approach that hot girl at the station on my commute from time to time. I get pretty nervous though, that's way I've been doing multiple approaches (mainly directions) to get more comfortable for when it matters. s to expand yo…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/18 10:11 PM
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What I meant was hitting on total strangers like in your examples. I'm thinking along the lines of, if I'm sure my dream girl just walk passed, sack it, if I can't say hi, there's nothing wrong with that. I may make her uncomfortable (I've been so nervous each time I actually struggled to speak) but I wont push it if I sense that. girls-contact-first apps like bumble or whatever it's called, less effort? I heard the traffic on bumble has dropped and my mate who has tinder success says bumble has…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/18 10:05 PM
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thanks for the response. Got some questions as like I said, I'm confused. Girls generally don't appreciate being approached by a stranger the same way a guy might. That's really vague, please could you elaborate? Is 'hey, I know this is forward/random, but I thought you looked nice and wanted to say hi' a valid approach? This is what I've tried on campus, 2 numbers, no reply. Lots of boyfriends too..... Or on the train, 'hey nice coat, we match! Good day in x-city?' Dating apps are hard work to …
/r/ExRedPill11/01/18 03:14 PM
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where do I meet girls on campus? Already been said but day game is the way. Approach on campus or on your commute if you you take public transport. Day game at your nearest city/town during weekends to supplement/hone your game. I commute to my uni and it makes parties and night game difficult due to public transport ending at midnight. I'm not very good at day game yet, but I've met a few girls who share a lot of my interests and were a lot hotter than the girls I matched with on Tinder......
/r/askTRP11/01/18 10:23 AM
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