| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 203 | Great success on Hinge, no success on Tinder & Bumble whatsoever | Field Report | FrankMiller_ | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 11:57 AM |
| 73 | Cognitive Bias and the way it's affecting your (dating) life. | Inner Game | FrankMiller_ | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 01:31 PM |
| 27 | Struggling With Escalation on Dates | Field Report | FrankMiller_ | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 07:19 AM |
| 9 | Girls first show interest, but stay passive | Conversation | FrankMiller_ | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 10:29 AM |
| 4 | How to proceed from here | Outer Game | FrankMiller_ | /r/seduction | 23/07/25 12:46 PM |
| 3 | Asked for a second date and got this weird answer: | FrankMiller_ | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 01:46 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Great success on Hinge, no success on Tinder & Bumble whatsoeverI‘m in germany | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Struggling With Escalation on Dateshey thanks a lot for the advice this is exactly what I was looking for No I don‘t think I did enough verbal flirting beforehand. Had another date today and things already went much better because I was in the moment and focused on her instead of some technique or progression. | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Struggling With Escalation on Dateswhy not do both? I'm having success getting dates in the app, so why not use it? | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Struggling With Escalation on Datesyeah I feel I'm getting too caught up in all the checklists and stuff like the escalation ladder instead of focusing on the person whos in front of me. Thanks for the reminder. Regarding the frame: I often disregard my own beliefs and opinions during dates, because I noticed a tendency to just agree with everything she says (recovering nice guy). It's not so much about overpowering her, but you have a point about me being too validation and outcome dependent I think. | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Struggling With Escalation on DatesI recommend checking out the guides from u/DoriansLost they have helped me a ton. Usually I send a few texts back and forth, building investens and going for the soft close when I get the feeling that they might be down to meet. | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 08:26 AM |
| 1 | I spent the last 2 weeks studying online dating algorithmssame here | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Great success on Hinge, no success on Tinder & Bumble whatsoevernah I‘m in germany | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Great success on Hinge, no success on Tinder & Bumble whatsoeverabove average, most of them 6-8 | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Old school tip: the Knee testAbsolutely. You can apply this to other areas as well. Say for example you are sitting next to each other and your arms are touching and the other person doesn‘t move, its a good signal to escalate further. | /r/seduction | 15/04/23 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Asked for a second date and got this weird answer:will do that. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Difficulties in sealing the dealYeah thats what I'm gonna do, hope theres a second date. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Why DO I KEEP GETTING REJECTED!?!!?!?Can you elaborate on "something to prove"? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 07:53 PM |
| 0 | Difficulties in sealing the dealWhat makes you so sure that there weren‘t any? Shes more of a shy / introverted type of person so I don‘t think she would show it that overtly. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Finally managed to kiss a girl at the clubCan you explain putting out your hand? Like, just putting your hand on her waist/shoulders or actually holding out your hand in front of her as if you're asking for a dance? | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 12:28 PM |
| 1 | For all the guys out there if you lock eyes with a girl and she smiles approach her please!The last few days I had two times where a girl was walking by me smiling and holding eye contact. Both times I didn’t react quickly enough and I missed my chance. Honestly I wasn’t ready for it because that rarely happens to me. | /r/seduction | 13/09/20 05:23 AM |
| 1 | How to pickup women using mushroomsLook at me I'm doing harder psychedelics | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 10:04 PM |
| 3 | How to pickup women using mushroomsSo what haircut did you get? | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 10:05 AM |
| 4 | Cognitive Bias and the way it's affecting your (dating) life.That's exactly what I wanted to get across. You shouldn't be expecting her to say yes as that's setting you up for disappointment. Instead just going with the flow is the way to go. | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 07:37 PM |
| 8 | Just witnessed a 29yo hot girl begging a 18yo guy for his number and it made me question lots of thingsClassic. Whats the best answer to that though? | /r/seduction | 02/03/20 11:20 AM |
| 3 | Just got rejected and I feel like my heart was broken before I even went on a dateReading Models at the moment and I gotta say, people are not overhyping it, its gold. | /r/seduction | 26/01/20 10:24 AM |
| 22 | Going out aloneDid those people you met talk to you first or did you take the initiative? I feel like I wouldn't know how to open up a conversation in a relaxed way. | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Saying "No" to a date. Any suggestions?Yeah, its mostly that I feel like I can do better. Gotta have some standards after all. Not nervous about it at all, honestly. | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Going for my first approach in about an hourMay I ask what you did on your first date? Need some ideas.. | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 10:40 PM |
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