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| -1 | Free in-person coaching in NYCTrue, but I picked game over gains 😭 | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Is it weird to get number and ask out without basically any rapport building or small talk?No it’s not weird. Building rapport does not equal attraction, those are two completely different things. If shes already attracted to you without rapport building then there’s no need to emphasize or push for rapport building. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?Are they living in a rich country? Poor country? Are they struggling models or are they nepo models? Are they religious or atheist? Are they constantly at the model after parties or are they home bodies? The list of factors is endless just like any other woman that’s not a model. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 03:58 AM |
| 7 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?I’ve dated legit models signed to agencies all from different countries. It’s an extremely mixed bag with multiple factors. There’s no way to categorize models as a whole to know if they have a high or low body count. Way too many factors. | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Frame control advice shareThe easiest way to have frame control is setting early precedence, think of it as a set up or preventative measure. If you initially come across as just a friendly guy in the beginning of a conversation then that’s the frame a girl will put you in. Vice versa can be said, if you initially come across as a smooth guy then that’s the frame you set up. This is why first impressions matter. | /r/seduction | 19/09/25 08:13 PM |
| 4 | Need help with a GirlYou have to make the approach, how else is are you both going to start talking? Only other way is to start being in her friends group and slowly make your way to start talking to her through her friends. But if you want to be as efficient as possible then just directly talk to her. So what if you don't have the confidence? Do it anyways. | /r/seduction | 17/09/25 08:43 AM |
| -2 | What would be the best phrases to talk to a woman?I have plenty of other footage. If you don’t believe me, come to New York and see for yourself. You can even pick the girl and record it if you want and I’ll do the approach | /r/seduction | 17/09/25 05:06 AM |
| -3 | What would be the best phrases to talk to a woman?It really depends on your personality, but for beginners you can use any canned or cookie cutter opener. "Hi, you're really pretty and I wanted to say hi to you. My name (______). What's your name?". Then just go from there. Here's some footage of my student doing this: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/C6Z1x69YpCY | /r/seduction | 17/09/25 02:31 AM |
| -2 | How to transition from a non-sexual casual conversation to sexually charged oneNo, I said gradual progression. what you explained is not gradual | /r/seduction | 13/09/25 12:46 AM |
| 17 | How to transition from a non-sexual casual conversation to sexually charged oneThe safest way for a conversation to become sexual is through gradual physical compliance. Think of it as a gradual climb up a set of stairs. I’ll use a very generic example. Handshake -> hug -> hand holding -> cheek kiss -> kiss -> sexual touch If she isn’t even willing to give you a hug then what makes you think she’s going to give you a kiss? It’s a gradual build up. | /r/seduction | 12/09/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | How to efficiently leverage your wealth and status to get a relationshipThen find a girl while you’re poor. That’s the only way to ensure she truly loves you for you and not your money. | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 12:00 PM |
| 3 | How to efficiently leverage your wealth and status to get a relationshipWell from what I've seen, those types of relationships don't last very long for a good reason. A girl that falls in love with you very quickly for your money is just as fast to leave you for your money. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 08:20 PM |
| 1 | How to efficiently leverage your wealth and status to get a relationshipA lot of young guys at that level aren’t wise enough to know how to downplay or hide their wealth. As for the older guys yes I agree they are able to successfully do so. But using your wealth directly to attract women is a good tool to use if one knows how to do it properly | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the Mystery Method still works in 2025?No need to tell other people to shut up, people can disagree and still have a civilized conversation. I told you already it’s outdated because there are better techniques out there. You can look at pickup like a sport or skill. Over time people are going to discover or invent better techniques. Rap is a perfect example, there’s a reason why a majority of rappers don’t rap the same as rappers from the 70’s anymore. Or look at combat sports, there’s a reason why no one in the MMA fight the same as… | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the Mystery Method still works in 2025?Negging is a backhanded compliment in order to not pedastalize the target. There are so many better techniques out there you can use that creates the same effect. Again same thing with false time constraints, there are better techniques out there that are more effective. A lot of mystery method is outdated. | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 05:45 PM |
| 2 | People who do PUA stuff .Do you get good results?I see from your profile you live in India? What I do might not be applicable in India. From what I’ve heard from my Indian students, cold approach is very looked down upon in India and not socially acceptable. | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 03:01 AM |
| 5 | People who do PUA stuff .Do you get good results?Pickup is just like learning and applying any other skill in life. Practice makes perfect, if you practice it long enough you'll get better and better results over time. I've been doing pickup for 10 years and I didn't get any results I was satisfied with until my 4th year into it. But to answer your question, yes I get tremendous results. I've dated all types of women throughout the years. I've dated the girl next door, I've dated fashion models, I've dated girls from prestigious families, I've… | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Free in-person coaching in NYCDM’d you | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the Mystery Method still works in 2025?A majority of the techniques and tactics do not work anymore BUT the ideas and principles behind the techniques are timeless. For example negging is very outdated but the idea behind negging isn’t. Same with false time constraints and the rest of his techniques. If you can understand the ideology behind every technique and formulate your own technique that is congruent to your own personality that that’d be the best. | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Seducers of Reddit: Who’s the Most High-Profile or Attractive Person You’ve Seduced While Being Broke or Low-Status?Pardon me, I don’t know anything about the UK Uni’s besides KCL and Oxford. Also I did date her 8 years ago so maybe it was more prestigious back then?? I don’t have a great education myself she either way she was much more book smart than me. | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 10:14 PM |
| 8 | Seducers of Reddit: Who’s the Most High-Profile or Attractive Person You’ve Seduced While Being Broke or Low-Status?Seduced then dated a fashion model from Vogue magazine UK. I was so broke (still am) that I couldn’t even rub two pennies together to start a fire if my life depended on it. Her dad was a billionaire (VP and part owner of a well known cosmetics/skincare company, her mom worked for parliament and she was Valedictorian of her class in King College London (elite school). She found me extremely charming and suave. We had really great banter so we hit it off immediately that day we met. We met at a r… | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 08:49 PM |
| 1 | High approach anxiety Chinese guy gets a date with a beautiful blondeThe guy that taught me pickup is a 5’6 Asian | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 03:02 PM |
| 1 | High approach anxiety Chinese guy gets a date with a beautiful blondeYou nailed it right on the head. It’s less about the technical aspect of the approach itself but the internal transformational process. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 01:44 AM |
| 0 | High approach anxiety Chinese guy gets a date with a beautiful blondeYou should take my job then. Seems like you know what you’re talking about. Show us video proof examples of how you go about doing it then we can compare notes side by side. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Got any recommendations for credible dating coaches/communities?If you’re in the New York area, I do free in-person coaching | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 09:36 PM |
| 18 | High approach anxiety Chinese guy gets a date with a beautiful blonde👍 | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 09:32 PM |
| 4 | Need masters adviceThere's a funny joke with some truth to it "women are already at the grocery store getting a bunch of things they don't need so they might as well get a guy too". Simple direct game (honesty) is always the best route. "Hi I see you working here sometimes and I just want to say you're really cute. My name's (insert name), what's your name?" Get her contact info "I'd like for the both of us to get to know each other better and I want to take you out for coffee, tea or ice cream whichever you prefe… | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 12:46 PM |
| 1 | How to salvage the situation after coming in too strongIf she's down to meet up with you again for another date, you need to bring that same level of excitement back to her. You can do this through humor or a fun date activity so that a level of bonding came begin. Since you played all your cards, you come across as the guy that invested in her too much early on so you need to change the dynamic and have her invest back into you. A few simple engaging date examples include mini golf, arcade, etc. Be fun and engaging so she'll feel like she's missing… | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 12:42 PM |
| 8 | How to salvage the situation after coming in too strongNever apologize, guy did nothing wrong. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Free infield coaching in NYC/Boston areaOf course go ahead and message me your name, phone number and a day/time you’re available for a free coaching consultation over the phone. | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Out of town for the weekendONS/Same day lays is all about logistics. Make sure the location you meet the girl and your pull location is less than 15 minutes either walking or driving. Also make sure to communicate with your wingman if you guys need to do a double pull back to the pull location. For example, if you and your wingman are talking to two girls it might be difficult to separate them so you all might have to go on a location together as a group and try to close there. If that's not feasible then you might have t… | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Flustered/ Nervous Girl?The best way to game girls that are shy is build as much comfort as possible and add in subtle flirtiness. A simple compliment about her outfit, hair makeup with very light touching such as a hug can be added in while creating comfort. Definitely gonna have to play the long game on this one, wish you the best. | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Why not just become a Passport Bro?I have a bone to pick with a lot of Passport Bros. If you don’t have a strong baseline foundation such as being in good shape, having a stable income, having a growing mindset, etc etc. It doesn’t matter where you go, a lazy loser in the West is still a lazy loser no matter where you go. Sure you might get a few girls, but is that really the end all be all for you? You should still aspire to be the greatest version of yourself regardless or environment or circumstances. | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Looksmaxxing Community is just Black Pill in disguise.The same reason why a majority of people at bad at pickup (awkward, uncalibrated, poor body language/energy/tonality, etc etc etc). | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 08:27 PM |
| -2 | What are unconventional places that are good to practice game?Bookstores and parks | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 11:58 PM |
| 4 | College was shit for getting laid for me. Is it going to get better?It only gets better if you make a conscious decision to improve your current circumstances. Are you in good physical shape? Are you growing your income? Are you practicing cold approach as much as you can? These are all things within your control to improve on. You can literally meet women almost anywhere. Coffee shops, parks, bars, clubs, hobbies, list is endless. | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 02:51 PM |
| 2 | What's the best way to deal with single race cliques in night game?The best way is to be comfortable in taking ownership of your own race. The more you own it, the less it becomes an issue for yourself and others. | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 05:09 PM |
| 1 | How is Belgrade like for picking up women?Coached in both Bulgaria and Serbia, I would highly recommend day game over night game. From my experience night game was very much based on social circle. If you have good fashion and pictures, most dating apps are really good out there as well. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 09:45 PM |
| 10 | Solo Cold ApproachingIn my opinion solo game is the best and fastest way to get good at pickup. It forces you to overcome more obstacles alone. Don't worry too much about qualifying yourself and worrying about how others perceive you. My first two years in pickup, I only did solo. Eventually when you get comfortable solo gaming then people will just naturally feel comfortable with you. Long story short, be comfortable with being uncomfortable as a solo and get used to overcoming all the inconveniences of a solo. I c… | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Quick Day Game DON’TsThese are general guidelines for beginners to folllow, doesn’t always mean it’s set in stone. There can always be exceptions. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 03:33 AM |
| 7 | Those of you who successfully faked it till they made it with confidence. How did you do it?I don't support "fake until you make it". I have a completely different perspective of "Believe it until it is to be". If I believe I'm confident then that's exactly what's going to be the result whether it be in the moment or 3 years from now. I completely took out the word "fake" from my entire mental module simply because I don't want to be associated with that. Why not let them think you're hitting on them? Own it. That's a big part of confidence, owning who you are and what you do. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 07:28 AM |
| 20 | Why is night game so much harder than day game?Most people naturally excel at one versus the other. Most introverts will excel at day game due to the lack of sensory stimulants. Most introverts cannot handle the sensory overload (loud music, lights, big crowds, etc). Extroverts thrive on the sensory overload because to them it seem fun and amusing. Night game is meant for the people that naturally have higher energy because the way these environments are set up are made to filter out people that don't know how to communicate over loud music,… | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Free infield coaching in NYC/Boston areaNYC/Boston area | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 12:37 AM |
| -1 | Free infield coaching in NYC/Boston areaFeel free to message me. Leave me your name, phone number, day and time you’re available to discuss more in detail | /r/seduction | 04/05/24 07:09 PM |
| 0 | Free infield coaching in NYC/Boston areaEveryone has the option for free or paid coaching depending on what they’re comfortable with. We do our best to create a win-win situation for all parties | /r/seduction | 04/05/24 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Advice on Approaching a Female whilst her Friends are thereFirst thing to do is the disarm the friend, make sure she won't cockblock you. Easiest way is to tell her "I think your friend is absolutely beautiful, can I flirt with her?. Easy, confident and straight to the point while able to disarm the friend. If the friend says no you can't talk to her then she was going to cockblock you anyways. If they're both equally good looking then say "I just want to say you're both absolutely beautiful, my names (insert name)" then go from there. | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 05:05 AM |
| 0 | How's The rules of the game to start learning pickup?Yes correct it’s supposed to be hard, otherwise all of us would be successful with women. It’s all trial and error and figuring out what works and doesn’t work. It may take you years or months, but it’s definitely worth it in the end | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 05:09 PM |
| 2 | How's The rules of the game to start learning pickup?There are many step by step guides out there, but the problem with game is that a lot of techniques out there may not be congruent for your personality. A guy that’s 6’5 and introverted is gonna have a different technique than someone that’s 5’6 extroverted. Like I said it’s best to find out your own techniques and your own step by step guide. | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 04:19 PM |
| 6 | How's The rules of the game to start learning pickup?A lot of the techniques from The Game are outdated, it's much better to find your own natural approach through trial and error. Direct approach is always a good start if you don't have much approach anxiety. If girls are receptive about your approach then you can slowly move on to other steps such as attraction switches, comfort, escalation, etc etc. Don't expect results right away, just focus on improving. | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 03:49 PM |
| 4 | What is the best way not to feel negative when you are rejected?Do not be results focused, be growth focused. Meaning don't let the results or lack of results dictate your mindset, focus on "did I improve or not?" and if not your mentality should "let's continue getting better". Results will eventually be a by-product of your growth anyways. Find an "interrupter" the moment you start having a negative downwards spiral. For me personally, as soon as negatives thoughts come in mind I would immediately approach another girl because I would then shift my focus f… | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 02:27 PM |
| 1 | How do I get more physical contact with my date on a simple Soda date?See how comfortable and attracted she is to you first. Is she giving you a lot of signs that she's interested in you? Does she enjoy your jokes? Does she give you good eye contact? Is she enthusiastic about spending time with you? Read both her verbals and non verbals to gauge how comfortable and attracted she is towards you. . Once you see that she's both comfortable and attracted towards you, you can start doing some simple touches such as hand holding, hugs, link arms, have her kiss you on th… | /r/seduction | 22/03/24 04:32 PM |
| 3 | What are some great books for Soothing your Musculinity?Texts Marcus Aurelius has quite a lot of information about masculine stoicism | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Question for intermediate and advanced guys!What made me progress was focusing on being growth oriented not results oriented. I was never focused on “did I get a phone number today? Did I get a kiss? Did I get laid?”. I was focused on “did I improve today? Did my approach get better? Did my escalation get better? Did my (insert skill) get better?” Results eventually and naturally became a byproduct of my growth | /r/seduction | 15/02/24 08:32 PM |
| 8 | Looksmaxxing Community is just Black Pill in disguise.The black pill movement was started by guys that tried pickup and sucked at it then came to the conclusion that it’s all about looks. Nothing wrong with improving your looks, but it’s best an individual improves all aspects of their life if they want an ideal partner. | /r/seduction | 15/02/24 03:27 PM |
| 47 | New York City is the best cities for instant datesNYC people are known to have the mindset of "get straight to the point, don't waste my time". So if you approach and immediately state your intentions, that won't be an issue at all. Issues arise when you beat around the bush too much without stating intentions. | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Would you consider it a good thing if women often think you are an athlete when they meet you?Absolutely it’s a good thing. Athletes are known to be in great physical shape so it’s an obvious attraction switch. | /r/seduction | 18/08/23 05:39 PM |
| 1 | I think most of men that can't get women are not masculine enough.Masculine is a state of mind, not a physical attribute. Look at all the pop stars, girls always swarm them and pop stars look extremely feminine. | /r/seduction | 19/05/23 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Did Tate help you change your entire seduction game (Explicit)They technically are by now. Before their rise to mass fame they were worth about $200m not including hustler university, crypto sponsorship offers (which they didn’t take), just his alone name can move hundreds of millions of dollars. Also he literally had taken over the YouTube and TikTok algorithm. | /r/seduction | 12/05/23 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Did Tate help you change your entire seduction game (Explicit)No seriously think about it logically. Both brothers have proudly and publicly admitted they do not pay for hookers. So if they did wouldn’t women jump on that immediately and put him on blast? Especially when he was the most famous man on the planet for a good timeframe? | /r/seduction | 12/05/23 06:06 PM |
| -3 | Did Tate help you change your entire seduction game (Explicit)Wrong, both the Tate brothers were already successful with women before they became rich. Tate has never paid for a single hooker because if he did, girls would be outing him and putting him on blast by now | /r/seduction | 12/05/23 06:00 PM |
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