How many times have you heard the saying "just be rich" and you'll have success with women? That's only partially true. Yes your success rate will dramatically increase in comparison to having no money at all. A majority of women value financial stability. But do you truly want to be with someone that ONLY values you for your money? That's no different than being with a professional prostitute or gold digger. I'm going to talk about techniques outside of the obvious prenuptial and postnuptial legal contracts.

Here are some simple applicable techniques where you won't be put in a compromising position:

In the beginning, it's okay to show your wealth but don't give it

This may seem obvious but I can't tell you how many times I've seen guys make the mistake of giving the girl too many gifts or experiences of monetary value early on. An easy way to do this without coming across as a rich douche is by talking casually about your passion with your expensive hobbies.

  • I personally love traveling and I'll talk about how passionate I am about learning different cultures, languages, foods, dances, traditions etc etc. Then I'll transition into hinting or telling her I'd love for her to romantically join me in my travels. To clarify, I won't pay for her trip immediately until I find out if she's truly into me which may take months.
  • Also make sure you have expensive hobbies that are impressive to women. If you're talking to a girl about your million dollar Pokemon collection she might not care as much as you having a million dollar villa on a Greek island you love going to during the summer.

Match her level of compliance and effort

For men we game for sex and relationships. For women they game for money and resources (outside of love). Meaning don't give her any money or expensive experiences if she isn't matching your level of generosity. Make her earn your generosity.

  • A simple technique for compliance I have personally used is if I'm driving over an hour out to pick her up for dates, after 3 dates I'll tell her "Hey I always enjoy driving out to see you, when are you going to drive down to see me?". This will help me gauge how much she's willing to go out of her way to see me. If she isn't willing to put in any effort for you then you can see how self interested she is.
  • For every time she matches or goes beyond your efforts and generosity make sure you REWARD HER. This is where a lot of rich guys mess up because if you don't reward her for her efforts then it will be seen as stingy and no woman likes a stingy or "cheap" guy. The reward doesn't have to be extravagant or expensive, but that will definitely set the tone for her to want to put more effort into being with you.
  • Make sure you aren't repeating the same rewards for the same efforts. For example, I had an ex that took a few days off work just to spend time with me. I saw that as something very thoughtful of her so I surprised her with a weekend trip to Napa Valley. But the next time she took days off work for me, I didn't reward her again. This way you prevent getting taken advantage of due to her expectations of your generosity. I have seen guys keep rewarding a girl in these types of situations but in the end she would still not have sex with the guy.

Setting yourself up to win for the long game

  • My favorite technique to use when a girl tells me to buy gifts for her is telling her "I would love to buy you anything you want. I'll be okay with buying you things once we are in a serious committed relationship". This will set the frame on the terms and conditions of when she'll be able to receive anything of monetary value from you.

Getting both parties families involved

  • If you're close with your family then you want to your family involved in your relationship so that she becomes emotionally invested into your family. If she's only financially invested in you then it'll be much easier for her to take advantage of you, but to have her emotionally invested in both you and your family then she'll be a little more hesitant to want to take advantage of you.
  • Getting her family emotionally invested is beneficial as well but of course this is dependent on your ability to win over her family. If her family get emotionally invested into you then there is a level of shame attached to her if she were to "fumble the bag". For example with Asian parents, if they're daughter is dating a successful doctor with good value the parents will tell the girl to not fuck it up.