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Neither are without fault.
/r/seduction01/07/13 12:16 AM
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So does porn, but you wouldn't say that allowing porn to dictate your life's goals and ambitions is a good idea.
/r/seduction30/06/13 08:09 PM
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I think there's a happy medium to be found somewhere between "I'm nothing without you baby" and "bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks"
/r/seduction30/06/13 06:15 PM
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No he didn't. he came out with some romantic dewey eyed drivel I think you're chasing a fantasy. You think that love is some kind of blissful state and that once you attain it will you no longer have any more problems. You will live happily ever after. Loving and liking someone are two different things. You can like a girl but not love her, and you can love a girl while not liking her. Love isn't a blissful state, it's a pain in the ass. There is no point in the future at which you get to stop p…
/r/seduction30/06/13 05:55 PM
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Yeah, and it's not a recent phenomenon. My love is a fever longing still for that which longer nurseth the disease - Shakespere wrote 154 frickin' sonets like this! I mean, come on! Just turn on the radio and see how long it takes you to hear a song that tells you that you're nothing without a woman, or is about a guy begging some woman to come back. It's a deep and widespread problem in our culture. Well... only if the song was written by a white guy. Rap music seems to go in the exact opposite…
/r/seduction30/06/13 05:52 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction30/06/13 04:32 PM
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When you really find a girl that completes you, she will not be the icing, she will be the flour, what makes it all a cake at all. The problem is that too many people have shitty lives and think that their magic pixie dream girl is going to come along and save them and give them a fun and interesting existence that has lots of sex in it. It's an idle fantasy, and it's unhealthy for men because that's exactly what women are waiting for you to do for them Women don't want to take responsibility fo…
/r/seduction30/06/13 04:30 PM
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Great explanation of the differences between natural game and routines
/r/seduction13/06/13 07:25 PM
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plausible deniability. You think you're doing something that you have to apologize for, and lie about?
/r/seduction13/06/13 05:30 PM
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What's your game consist of? Routines?
/r/seduction13/06/13 05:03 PM
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Personally I like pushing her up against a wall, making out, putting my hands under her clothes, throwing her on the bed or couch, etc If she wants to have sex there are no special techniques or tricks necessary. Our ancestors have been doing this for millions of years. Try turning off your brain, stop strategizing and just fucking listen to your core
/r/seduction13/06/13 01:27 PM
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This video is good. I really don't like routine based game, I think it's too easy to be an emotionally immature and insecure wreck, but erect a thin façade of game through the use of routines. Then you get sex... but really sex doesn't make you happy. Also you're not going to attract the best girls if you are not fixing your real problems.
/r/seduction12/06/13 11:53 PM
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The 'friendzone'. I haven't experienced it personally but I have some theories about it from observing friends and reading different people's accounts. I think that there is a spectrum of friendzone that looks like this Where a guy is too scared to risk rejection my making his intentions clear from the start, and chooses to linger around under the false pretenses of friendship. (His fault) Where a man and a woman become friends, but the natural differences in male and female friendship dynamics …
/r/seduction12/06/13 05:03 PM
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Her
/r/seduction12/06/13 03:00 PM
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the most successful way to escalate Reason to dislike routine based pickup reason #641 People lose sight of the big picture and think that things happen as a direct result of an individual proceeding technique or trick. ... Sigh. If you have built a foundation upon which sex can happen, then it'll happen. There is no technique that will make a girl have sex with you if she doesn't already want to. Don't be afraid to make a move, but don't be a fucking robot either. You have to gauge her reaction…
/r/seduction11/06/13 09:06 PM
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That you think the source of your problem is women, rather than you, is not my problem. What problem? I don't have a problem. I'm quite happy with my life. That you think your problem gives you the right to manipulate and disregard other people's boundaries is my problem, since I have to deal with people like you so often. You're clearly coming from an emotional place here. You feel like you've been lied to and betrayed by someone. But that someone is not me. I do not use deception or lies or ma…
/r/seduction11/06/13 08:26 PM
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Oh sorry. I didn't realize the genetic inferiority of all women everywhere forced you to have to learn how to manipulate women into giving you sex without having to ask about boundaries or preferences of the other person. Look at all that emotion and sarcastic misinterpretation. I like that you complain about generalizations and preconceptions while at the same time conforming exactly to my own general preconceptions about how women argue with emotion instead of reason or logic. So I'm not going…
/r/seduction11/06/13 06:23 PM
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She's not into you. Get more girls.
/r/seduction11/06/13 04:36 PM
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This kind of satire is too subtle for Seddit's unsophisticated palate.
/r/seduction11/06/13 04:09 PM
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I'm not sure what I just read but... well at least you learned something (I think)
/r/seduction11/06/13 03:53 PM
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How to get over the anxiety? Do it and realise that rejection isn't nearly as bad as the regret of never having tried.
/r/seduction11/06/13 03:49 PM
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And yet you're the one with the dollface. Instead of just saying "back to the fifties" you could explain what you mean or make a point. Because I can't be bothered exchanging quips with you.
/r/seduction11/06/13 01:20 PM
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Back to the fifties with you. Okay, dollface.
/r/seduction11/06/13 12:52 PM
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Questions like this are why I hate routine based game. People think 'huh, kino, I'll just do that!" Touching for the sake of touching is a one way ticket being a creep. You don't awkwardly put your hand on her, you have to touch with purpose and intent whether it's holding her hand or physically picking her up. Putting your hand on her randomly and aimlessly isn't going to do anything but make you look weird. You're at a pool... Forget about game and outcomes and just concentrate on having fun. …
/r/seduction11/06/13 07:31 AM
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Good job
/r/seduction11/06/13 07:19 AM
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I hear what you're saying but you've entirely missed the point. Firstly its not about 'online dating' as such, its a step by step process of how to get laid via the internet. No it isn't. It's probably just a field report of how you got laid once off the internet, but you feel like such a boss right now that you thought you'd write it as a "relatively foolproof guide to getting laid through the internet" The fact that this starts off on the internet is inconsequential for all the information you…
/r/seduction11/06/13 05:13 AM
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Posts a thread about Online dating 3/4 of the post is about when you meet them in real life. The 1/4 of the post that was relevant basically said "all u gotta do is message the girls! xD" Mon visage You're bad at writing guides.
/r/seduction11/06/13 04:33 AM
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"Don't worry about" doesn't mean "completely forget" Just put her on the backburner, pick her up again and shoot her a text when she's back in town.
/r/seduction11/06/13 03:02 AM
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The only way to deal with day game obstacles is to build a giant sun blocking shield like in that episode of the Simpsons... because the sun gives women vitamin D which makes them harder to game... No, there are no day game obstacles, there are only obstacles and they're the same everywhere. Cockblocking friends aren't unique to the daytime, you have to deal with them on a case by case basis. I'm really not clear on what happened in your situation, and I don't usually like giving "here's what yo…
/r/seduction11/06/13 02:58 AM
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If its function is to build comfort then it's not game. Game is for building attraction, and this is not attractive because it's boring and safe. If you want to give a girl comfort then express approval for things she does that actually please you, don't just manufacture it for her with shit like "wow you have a tattoo", make her earn the comfort.
/r/seduction11/06/13 02:50 AM
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Are you seriously telling me that talking to a woman is going to inform me as to what she actually wants, and what will make her happy? If that were the case then pickup wouldn't even exist and we'd all be watching Dr Phil and reading Cosmo. Women don't even know what they want because what they say they want is usually mutually contradictory. I don't expect a woman to stay with me if she doesn't want to. As far as I'm concerned there is never any 'us', there is only you choosing to be with me, …
/r/seduction11/06/13 12:38 AM
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the problem is i'm a virgin, and ive barely started kissing women so i dont even know how to do that very well The first thing you have to realise is that there are plenty of people in the world who aren't virgins, but who are still completely shit at kissing and fucking, even women. You don't have to assume that women are automatically good kissers and that they get to judge you on your performance. If your virginity or anything else in your past is bothering you, just don't bring it up. If she…
/r/seduction10/06/13 10:25 PM
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Surely you've had the experience of having fun at a certain place or doing a certain thing, and then you've tried to recapture the fun that you had by revisiting that place or doing that thing again... but the fun didn't happen the same as it did last time? That's what it's going to be like when you start bouncing balls around
/r/seduction10/06/13 09:21 PM
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Your entire rationale is just a really long way to justify "I want to sleep with her but she won't sleep with me unless I don't tell her what I really want. This is only true if you're under the mistaken impression that the only way two people can ever have sex is through an exclusive relationship, or that exclusivity is assumed to exist as soon as two people knock boots. I agree that people shouldn't get involved with each other under false pretences. It would be immoral to sleep with a girl th…
/r/seduction10/06/13 07:26 PM
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So I was wondering if I could turn this into a good opening technique. Where you bring some kick able objects... JESUS I can't believe I have to explain this shit. It worked because you were having FUN, not because you were kicking an object around. The FUN part is the IMPORTANT part. If you can have fun you will be attractive. You have to be creative and spontaneously have fun with whatever environment you are in. And you don't do it because you hope that it'll make you more attractive, you do …
/r/seduction10/06/13 06:38 PM
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I don't know if you're a girl or not, but it doesn't matter. It works like this: Just because a girl is sexy and a guy wants to have sex with her, doesn't mean that the guy is sexy or that he is automatically entitled to sex with her. I'd hope we'd all agree that this statement is fair... Now... Just because a guy is lovable and a girl wants to have loyalty from him, doesn't mean that the girl is lovable or that she is automatically entitled to have a relationship with him... Men aren't automati…
/r/seduction10/06/13 06:13 PM
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1) “Tell me the three most important things you find attractive in a man.” 2) “Tell me the three biggest things that you want to accomplish in life.” 3) “Tell me the three most exciting things you have ever done.” 4) “Tell me three weird things about you.” Do you write articles for Cracked?
/r/seduction10/06/13 05:58 PM
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Yes, I hate dates that feel like an interview.
/r/seduction10/06/13 05:57 PM
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it is clear that her reactions are not based on you personally, but on patterns. This is why a lot of people have a problem with pickup Mystery method and routine based pickup are just a way for you to obfuscate your true personality and build a facade out of tricks and techniques instead of improving yourself and overcoming the problems that were preventing you from being successful Natural game is better because it teaches you how to be attractive from your own core and gives you the mental at…
/r/seduction10/06/13 05:52 PM
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There's no point in coming here asking for an opener, the opener doesn't matter, the only real function an opener serves is to make you feel better about approaching her. So you come here for the opener, and then it works... now what? Are you going to make another thread every time you have to say something? You can't plan out a conversation and then just hope that she sticks to your script. I remember you making this thread the other day, and you're still too up in your head about this. Interac…
/r/seduction10/06/13 05:40 PM
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Do what you want to do. If you do something that you wouldn't normally do or say because you think it will give you a desired outcome, then you will probably come across as forced and weird.
/r/seduction10/06/13 05:24 PM
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A lot of people undoubtedly have great experiences with it, whether it's for long-term partners or casual hookups. It's all about how you use it and knowing its limitations. When you have nothing to compare that experience to and you get what you want out of it, then you might conclude that it was a good experience. I know people do sometimes find someone through online dating, and I have too, but that's not the point, the point is that it destroys every advantage you have and forces you to put …
/r/seduction10/06/13 03:26 PM
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Don't. Just don't do online dating at all. OKCupid's blog released statistics showing that women rated 80% of the men on the site as 'below average' attractiveness. That either means that 80% of the men on OKC are below average, or it means that women have astronomical expectations, or it means women don't know what the word 'average' actually means. Online dating is a complete waste of time. The only thing it gives you is freedom from approach anxiety, it's effortless to message a girl compared…
/r/seduction09/06/13 09:39 PM
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The problem is you're in your head too much. You're thinking about things instead of letting yourself feel. You're strategizing and considering consequences instead of taking action. Alcohol works so well as a social lubricant and to get people laid because it turns all that chatter off for you, and you just do things. I feel this approach would be like going to a girl in a bar and asking her straight out for a number with no pre-conversation That is possible, because seduction is about more tha…
/r/seduction09/06/13 06:18 PM
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No. Don't 'slowly build up' You're afraid of making your intentions known because you're afraid that she'll reject you, so you're pussyfooting around and trying to play it safe. In the process of doing that you're going to realize that you have too much invested in it and it's going to be even harder to ask her out, because then she might reject you after you've put all this effort in. This kind of shit is exactly how you get a one way trip to the 'friendzone'. Make your intentions clear from th…
/r/seduction09/06/13 06:00 PM
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It's actually difficult for rich guys to get laid, because as soon as the girl sees his house she wants it as a part of her life, she sees him as a provider now, and suddenly she's all like "I'm not that kind of girl, you have to date me"... It's easier to pull a girl back to a rusty old van parked in an alleyway than it is to pull a girl back to a mansion. You have to realise that the girls who hang around you because you're in the VIP section or you're getting bottle service aren't necessarily…
/r/seduction09/06/13 05:45 PM
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My approach to dancing is to stay close and twirl her around a lot so that she can't see how bad I am. Also http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/search?q=dancing&restrict_sr=on
/r/seduction09/06/13 04:09 AM
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Good job bro
/r/seduction09/06/13 03:54 AM
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Go on Yelp.com and look for bad reviews that feature the words 'stuck up' or 'pretentious girls' or things like that. Yelp reviews are written by dorks, so any venue where they feel intimidated enough by the girls to write a yelp review is probably an awesome place for guys who can actually approach.
/r/seduction09/06/13 03:52 AM
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no hobbies except playing video games, and i'm just insecure about that. You'll be amazed at how common that is. Lots of people are boring. If it bothers you then the best way to fix it is to actually do things, and fill up your life with interesting things. The truth is though that people prefer talking about themselves more than listening to you talk about yourself. i've been told that sometimes my logic and mentality is actually very flawed. Elaborate
/r/seduction09/06/13 03:38 AM
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There's a reason women-only gyms exist, and being ogled all day when you're trying to work out is probably the main reason. Women may feel good if they receive attention from attractive men, but they certainly don't feel good if they receive attention from unattractive men, aka 'creeps'. This is a deeply ingrained psychological thing, because tens of thousands of years ago the consequences of having sex with an unsuitable mate were very high for women, so they have evolved a disproportionately s…
/r/seduction08/06/13 11:58 PM
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You could try Eckhart Tolle and Alan Watts as they're good interpreters of Eastern Philosophy for a western audience. It's not new-age bullshit btw, with psychic powers and all that nonsense.. It's about mental discipline, recognizing what conciousness is and what's going on inside your own head, focusing on the present moment, being free from outcomes, centering yourself. It also doesn't require any kind of supernatural belief system or anything like that, so don't worry you can stay euphoric. …
/r/seduction08/06/13 11:32 PM
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my harem Confirmed for 13
/r/TheRedPill25/05/13 07:29 PM
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What's it like being 13 years old?
/r/TheRedPill25/05/13 07:17 PM
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I kind of get the mindset that a guy might be in when he sends one... As men our dicks have a lot of power over us, and many men don't realise that the same can't be said for women. Women have completely different triggers and are usually less visual. Only time I've sent a dick pic is when a girl has explicitly asked for one, usually during a sexting exchange
/r/TheRedPill25/05/13 02:08 PM
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Forgot to mention that (in Florida at least) women will file a bogus claim of domestic abuse in order to get a restraining order along with their divorce. They can get a restraining order on nothing other than their accusation, the hearing usually lasts 3 minutes. The first thing a man knows about his divorce is the police arriving to evict him from his home. The woman gets automatic custody of the house and kids, he is left without a change of clothes and no access to documents needed to fight …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/13 10:56 AM
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When people believed that boredom with monogamy was a male trait for women to endure, interest in fixing it was pretty low. Now that we understand boredom with monogamy to be a female trait for men to endure, it’s suddenly a Problem—with possible solutions. Dohohoho my sides. This article says that a study shows that women respond to novelty... and fantasize about sex with strangers... therefore they get bored of monogamy and are more likely than men to want to "mix it up". Therefore evopsych is…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/13 10:32 AM
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Yeah, the red pill tough guys get on my nerves. Its obvious and embarrassing that some posters are coming from an emotionally wounded place. Its the same kind of shit that infests /r/mensrights, and if this weed starts taking over here I'll simply go somewhere else. I hope that the bitterness is just a phase and in time they will move beyond it.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/13 08:49 PM
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I prefer Patrice O'Neil's terminology. MFF is a threesome, MMF is a train
/r/TheRedPill24/05/13 06:31 PM
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I think you've had a taste of what you could have, but as you said in a comment you 'acted'. You don't want to act, you want to be yourself. You don't have to refuse to hold doors open or be aloof or put on any kine of show. You do things because you want to do them, not because you're trying to impress her or get validation from her, and not because its part of some persona that you feel you have to adopt. The key is freedom from dependence on outcomes and freedom from having your confidence de…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/13 06:07 PM
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The what?
/r/TheRedPill24/05/13 05:41 PM
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I googled my last name and I have a coat of arms... but no land or titles :(
/r/TheRedPill24/05/13 05:36 PM
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I had a gf who was bipolar, let's just say she was experienced... She said that it was a self esteem thing for her. She was impossible, didn't last long. Never again. Last I heard she was engage I personally don't care about a girl's magic number, and I'm not judgemental about it. That said, due to the correlation between a girl's number of partners and failed marriage rates, from a pure risk assessment point of view it would therefore be a conscious factor in choosing to get into a long term re…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/13 09:55 PM
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A twitter search? Are you kidding me? You know in a recent survey women said that DIY skills were sexy... Yeah... sure. I remember when I was an electrician and I always took my DeWalt power drill to nightclubs. I didn't even need to buy my own drinks Women say they don't like fat guys, fat guys can have game and still be successful with women, Patrice O'Neil was a pimp. - Replace the word "fat" with anything you want. Your problems are all in your head, you're trapped in a cycle of negative tho…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/13 09:34 PM
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The primary cause of unhappiness is never the situation but your thoughts about it.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/13 08:20 PM
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http://www.becometransformed.com/hoobie/ Are you shorter than this 5'5 Asian dude?
/r/TheRedPill19/05/13 06:30 PM
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Not with that kind of attitude
/r/TheRedPill19/05/13 03:42 PM
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Confidence can
/r/TheRedPill19/05/13 01:46 PM
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Yeah. Budhism, Tao, and Zen, etc. I've been reading about them lately and listening to lectures on youtube from people like Alan Watts and Eckhart Tolle. Practicing what the Buddhists call mindfulness (which is a misleading name) where you stop thinking, actually empty your mind, and become aware of what is, you forget the past and the future. It's very pertinent to the goals of people in this subreddit, particularly things like game where dependence on outcome and anxiety about consequences can…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/13 01:19 PM
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/r/GetMotivated /r/GetEmployed /r/GetStudying /r/GetDisciplined /r/MotivationalPics /r/MotivatedMusic /r/MotivateMe /r/FeelGood /r/GotMotivated /r/LifeRPG /r/Fitness /r/GetWell /r/HealthHub /r/C25K /r/LoseIt /r/100PushUps /r/CrossFit /r/90DaysGoal /r/StopGaming /r/StopSelfHarm /r/StopDrinking /r/NoFap /r/GetOutOfBed /r/StopDitching /r/PornFree /r/StopSmoking /r/DecidingToBeBetter /r/LifeImprovement /r/ZenHabits /r/SocialSkills /r/SelfHelpHub /r/Meditation /r/Purpose /r/SelfHelp
/r/TheRedPill19/05/13 11:27 AM
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Could be more charitable and say that it was a joke.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/13 10:47 AM
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Gender studies courses for men 0 Not true, it's called History. Good infographic, especially as you included sources
/r/TheRedPill19/05/13 10:25 AM
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http://i.imgur.com/CZPG8Gq.jpg
/r/TheRedPill19/05/13 09:50 AM
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And you know what? I'm not even conscious. I don't even know that I hate this. Everything about this world, life, and existence just screams "YOU'RE FUCKING MISERABLE", but I don't even know it. Yet here you are posting this. You might be depressed. I know how you feel. The fact is that you recognize how unfulfilling your life is. /r/getmotivated has plenty of sayings and things that might help you get into the frame of mind required to decide to actually start. "A year from now you will wish yo…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/13 09:43 AM
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In faith, I do not love thee with mine eyes, For they in thee a thousand errors note; But 'tis my heart that loves what they despise, Who in despite of view is pleased to dote; Pining for an ugly bitch? Pfft. Man, Shakespeare was a massive beta bluepill faggot, brah. He probably didn't even lift.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/13 03:04 PM
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Libertarian perspective on anything tl;dr: Blame the state. I see the state as a necessary mechanism that will naturally emerge out of human nature. It's a successful strategy that has always existed in one form or another throughout our entire civilization. But the state's function is defined by those who direct its power. Feminism has a powerful political lobby, it directs the state's power towards authoritarian interference with people's lives and spending taxes on special provision for women…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/13 01:26 PM
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It's more likely that the main factor in that increased attraction is that you've had a confidence boost because of your recently improved body-image. I'm not saying women aren't attracted to fit guys, but there are plenty of fit guys who still can't get laid because they don't have any confidence.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/13 11:06 AM
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Your argument is far too deranged for me to bother arguing against.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/13 09:26 AM
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It was a very reasonable, calm and measured letter. But no, its hurtful attack of cruel bullying. The email: "Being fat is unhealthy" Her response: "You don't know me!" "Your words mean nothing to me!" "Think of the children, the poor fat children!" "Kind and critical are mutually exclusive" "We are better than the bullies!" "Being called fat is just like suffering racial or homophobic discrimination!" "Thank you to all the other ham-planets who chimped out on the internet about this!" I was fat…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/13 06:10 AM
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As I say, I recommend that book. You should definitely read it as it gives you tips but also helps you get into the right mindset you need to actually do it.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/13 05:31 AM
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the monastery in Ecuador Sounds interesting. What kind of monastery was it?
/r/TheRedPill18/05/13 04:26 AM
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Becoming dependent on someone else for your emotional (or mental) well-being is a mistake, especially someone you're romantically involved with. Being dependent on her will make you needy, being needy will make you unattractive, being unattractive will push her away. I think you'd be setting yourself up for disappointment if you pursued this. I can't just start fucking barflies and collecting stamps. This girl Vicki might be the only chance I have at being with someone who understands the shit s…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/13 04:19 AM
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Better than lifting (but complementary to it) is to do something physically competitive, preferably combative. Sports, martial arts and sparring... Vidya games don't count. Food, Fucking and Fighting. The three 'F's. Everything a man needs. Well, not everything. Testosterone is great and all but in order to truly grow as a person you need to be pushing to expand your comfort zone and do new things. Don't fall into the trap of making the gym your comfort zone, because you'll eventually get to the…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/13 04:02 AM
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The person you're arguing with is an idiot. The woman as gatekeepers thing originates from the days when sex resulted in pregnancy. Unfortunately, it's taking quiet a long time to trickle out of society, in the advent of birth control. Its as if he thinks that sexuality works because people rationally weigh up the pros and cons, and that now we have the pill it's just going to 'trickle out of society'. Turns out sexual dynamics aren't dictated by instinct, they're rational and they make perfect …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/13 12:42 AM
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Mammalian females have always been attracted to the Alphas. That's why most male mammals have "harems". Because many females want to mate with the "best" male. I'm fine with using alpha and beta as descriptors for behavioral patterns that we can observe within humans, but as biological anthropologists are keen to point out, there is no such thing as alpha and beta the human species, because we are not a tournament species. It's important to bear that in mind. For example gorillas are a tournamen…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/13 12:29 AM
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Building tension is a large part of his comedic style. It just so happens that tension is a vastly important part of game too. http://www.girlschase.com/content/sexual-tension-7-ways-make-women-excited-and-randy
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 11:17 PM
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This is indeed important. I think that the subreddit's focus on game is reflective of men's preoccupation with sex. A preoccupation with getting laid is one of the main reasons some people can't get laid.. Women should be an afterthought to a good life come into your life because you are fulfilled and happy. I'm not saying don't develop and practice your game, I'm just saying don't be all game with nothing behind it. Don't define yourself through sex or you'll become dependent on it. It would be…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 10:53 PM
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Problem is that to say that women as a gender aren't equal to men, is tantamount to saying that you hate women, which is an absurd knee-jerk reaction and not the case. It's like the letter 'A' and the number '1'. They're different, they fulfill different functions, it's stupid to try to equate them. Simply recognizing the very obvious biological and psychological differences between the sexes is a crime, and we have to go around pretending that we're born as completely blank canvasses upon which…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 09:23 PM
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This one? Also congratulations on finding a passion in life.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 08:19 PM
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I let my interactions with women dictate my mood and behavio Indeed I know that feeling well. Not only that but your entire life may well be dictated or influenced by sexual/relationship pursuits. I remember when I first moved out, I thought how it'd be great to bring girls back to my new bachelor pad. And the first time I got a job where I could wear a suit, one of my first thoughts was my hopes for more success for women. I remember how my confidence suffered if my circumstances became diminis…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 07:00 PM
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It correlates with events as I remember them. I remember the woman's space raids, the /r/lgbt drama that basically spawned SRD, I've seen pictures of Lauralai sitting with members of Lulzsec, etc.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 06:06 PM
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I disagree with giving this guy a specific response to this specific scenario. That's the kind of pre-packaged routine-based PUA shit that infests /r/seduction. TRP is orders of magnatude better than /r/seduction. TRP should be about helping people understand a situation and different people's perspectives on it, so that they can formulate their own genuine response from within themselves when they encounter the situation. Giving people pre-packaged answers for everything isn't going to help the…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 05:02 PM
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I've stated before that I think that TRP goes beyond just seduction. It's about living in a world that is not what we've been told it should be. This applies to women, relationships, college, careers, accumulation of wealth, travel, Life in general. Women and relationships - We all know, it's pretty much all we talk about here. College - The baby boomers told you to go to college if you didn't want to be flipping burgers... Then you went to college, got out, and there are no jobs. Then the baby …
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 04:48 PM
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The doubtful tone of this article is disappointing. But when she goes on to declare that, “Women have to understand what’s going to make them happy,” the former athletic powerhouse has a strange notion of what being “truly” feminine means. Then right underneath that is a picture of the author. My face
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 04:03 PM
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Oh yes they can. If you want to be a player you need confidence, charisma and skill. If you want to be a slut you just need to be there.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 03:56 PM
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It's a shame, SA used to be a source of 'inappropriate' comedy. It's a ghost of its former self now. Read the Saga of How SA became SRS as told by 4chan
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 03:38 PM
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Top comment in that thread I would much rather look at you and let my imagination wonder a little bit, then see everything and go vomit in a bush. I can't even express how uncomfortable that made me, combined with the picture of him. And vomit in a bush? If seeing cleavage and a miniskirt makes him vomit, what the hell is he imagining? "How dare he judge women by their appearance... I mean, just look at him!" I love the hypocrisy. That said, there really is no excuse for a fedora
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 03:25 PM
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Maybe they should have decided that before getting married
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 03:12 PM
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The problem is there's a statistically higher chance of staying together, the fewer partners a girl has... So... Catch 22 Maybe work on day game and picking up women in places other than bars. Besides nobody wants to meet the love of their life in a bar.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 05:29 AM
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Are you sure about that? Seduce a girl, make her crazy about you, have amazing sex, then move it towards a relationship if you want to. You've already got attraction, you can build comfort with some romance. Or do you suggest the traditional routine of taking a girl out on dates? Maybe grab some milkshakes at the diner, catch a drive-in movie, take her to the school dance... If so the 1950s just called and they want their courting rituals back.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 04:21 AM
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To be fair though, Asian girls can afford to be more picky
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 04:07 AM
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I see the point of the article, but it was poorly executed.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 04:02 AM
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There are browser extensions that do that but no, I just choose to ignore them.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 03:48 AM
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I never browse /b/ and I ignore tripscum.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 03:02 AM
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I really don't want to offend you... but your post looks like the writings of a 13 year old trying to imagine what sex is like. I'm not sure why you're even asking our opinion about this.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 02:35 AM
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Have you ever wondered what your life would be like if you couldn't be sarcastic? How much of your humor revolves around going "huuurrr the people I disagree with are stupit dumpasses!"? SRS could at least bring some actual wit and satire to the table, upgrade your comedic arsenal from that of a 5 year old to at least a 10 year old by introducing some wordplay maybe. Just a thought. Good luck with your trolling.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 12:14 AM
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>Lifting for girls >Ever
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 12:12 AM
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This entire thread
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 11:52 PM
1

Brah I play Dwarf Fortress and squat erreyday. Get on my level.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 11:43 PM
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Its sadly very true. I have a Romanian friend who has brought this to my attention on many occasions. I didn't believe him at first but the sad truth has dawned on me. And that's one reason why I am genuinely planning to leave the country.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 11:22 PM
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Top lel xD /r/thebluepill is the circlejerk parody sub you seem to be looking for.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 11:18 PM
1

There's plenty of shit to complain about when it comes to feminism as it is, but there's no need to say things like this. I don't want this subreddit to go the way of /r/mensrights, which is basically just /r/atheism with a different enemy.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 07:16 PM
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The article says "the degree of friendship that you can experience with women (as a man) in comparison to same sex friendships will always be limited due to sexual differences." That's perfectly acceptable and I understand that. Where's the part about "subconsciously encouraging beta behavior"?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 07:10 PM
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Reddit combines the worst aspects of democracy with the worst aspects of benevolent dictatorship. As a format it has its redeeming qualities but also serious drawbacks. I quite enjoy 4chan's discussion format. Completely unregulated, only argument carries weight as there is no identity, any topics are allowed, there are no consequences to speaking your mind, you can withdraw from an argument without losing face because you have no face, and the stupid and gullible are exploited by trolls for ent…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 07:42 AM
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also i feel that hanging out with women or maintaining a "friendly" and non-sexual relationship will only subconsciously encourage "beta" behavior. What the fuck are you talking about? The only thing beta about having female friends is if you're secretly pining for them while faking a friendship just to spend time with them, i.e. you're in The Friend Zone. Women constitute 50% of the human species and there are plenty of reasons to interact with them other than just sex. If you think otherwise t…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 07:08 AM
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I try not to judge other people's relationships because there's no way I can ever truly understand them as an outsider, and its easy to view a situation objectively when you're not subject to that situation. That said, I think you're taking an irresponsible risk with your emotional welfare by refusing to take control of this situation. and now she's completely in love with me and wants to stick together Talk is cheap, and people usually have good intentions. But I can't see anything that indicat…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 06:52 AM
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C.A.L.M is a pretty well established and visible charity in the UK, TV adverts and all that. I haven't heard of any femtard shenanigans going on at their events.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 06:31 AM
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If you want to jumpstart your game and get this shit over with, I recommend RSD's Flawless Natural method. This is natural game, meaning it brings out your own personality and teaches you how to be attractive from your core rather than concealing your true personality with a facade constructed out of the cheap tricks and routines that /r/seduction seems to like. It helped me a lot anyway, you can take it or leave it. But whatever you do don't fall into the trap of endlessly reading or watching s…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 05:29 AM
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Whether being promiscuous is good for women or not, that's up to them to decide as its their life. On the one hand a hot girl will have turned down far more sex than I ever will, and they only have until they hit the wall to enjoy their assets, so I don't begrudge them making that choice and I'm not insecure if a girl has had more experience than me. However due to the correlation between the number of sexual partners a woman has had and failed marriage rates, her magic number would be a conscio…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 05:15 AM
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Keto I too like losing 15lbs of water that comes straight back the moment I eat a carb
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 04:21 PM
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Those exceptional few women were still allowed to do pushups on their knees during basic training... Because y'know, 'equality'. Also according to this article by former USMC captain Katie Petronio, women's bodies are simply not physically as capable as men's to withstand the rigors of front line infantry duty.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 04:13 PM
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This is why I hate this 'mating strategy is immoral' shit that gets thrown around here. People see that and go 'so ur sayin rape is ok?' People here try to use evolution as an explanation for certain behaviors. You need to be able to recognize the difference between an explanation of an observable phenomenon and advice on how to behave. I think that 'mating strategy is immoral' is an observation, not advice on how to behave. An organism's genes don't care about morality, they just care about pro…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 03:24 PM
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Thatcher was a lot of things but she wasn't a Feminist or a socialist.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 06:06 AM
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I agree that Game can extend to everything in life. As with most philosophical debates I see we've arrived at arguing over the use and meaning of words. Lets leave it there.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 05:17 AM
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As for there being different interpretations, not sure I agree. If that were true there would just be a set of texts to read, everybody would get it, and there would be nothing to discuss. For example you equate TRP with game. For me this goes beyond seduction and game. It's about how to live in a world where things aren't what we've been told they should be, it starts with women but it doesn't end there. If we're not going through the motions when it comes to women, why would we go through the …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 04:45 AM
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To be fair there are a lot of retards who will come here and fuck up the sub if the mods don't come down on them for being retards. You only have to look at /r/thebluepill to see what some people think of us. These people really don't have anything better to do with their lives than fight internet wars. Also I've disagreed with mods before and they haven't been colossal dicks about it.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 04:22 AM
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What I really want from a woman is to be loved by her and cared for. Pursuing women, asking them on dates, driving the whole conversation, none of that really makes me feel appreciated. I feel like women are deliberately using my needs against me in order to juice me. Considering that you said you were raised as a Zen Buddhist, I'd think that you'd have more appreciation of what the present moment can bring rather than seeing these things as a means to an end. Taking a girl out should be fun in …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 04:12 AM
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I disagree, sometimes these questions provide useful responses and insights on TRP. If you don't want to waste your time answering them, you are under no obligation to do so. There are plenty of interpretations of TRP, because TRP is not literally a pill that you can injest, it's a set of ideas, ideas are just perspectives on the truth, people can have different perspectives on the same truth just like you can view an object from different angles. Someone who may have only been exposed to one pe…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 03:21 AM
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I suppose all I can tell you is just try to be passionate. The only times I don't dwell on my failures with women anymore is when I'm doing my volunteer work, as I can tell these animals don't care what I look like or judge me based on my past. They are just happy to have someone caring for them and working to get them a permanent home with a happy family. I feel that you would benefit massively from listening to Eckhart Tolle, learning to think less and identify less with these thought processe…
/r/seduction14/05/13 06:48 PM
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I'm not sure about that. Ultimately being responsive to the moods and actions of others isn't what you want, you want others to respond to your moods and actions. You approach a girl with energy and attraction, you want her to mirror that. You want to draw others into your world and your reality, not to submit to their reality.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 04:40 PM
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Then I'd say that what I said is still true Generally men are attracted to women for their physical attributes. Sex comes first, then personal attraction and affection build from there. In terms of the initial attraction it's still physical, combined with your assessment of how available she seems to you and what your chances of success are. Remember our brains still think we're living 100,000 years ago where we'd only be likely to see a potential mate a few times over the course of our lives, a…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 02:52 PM
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There was one where researchers showed two puppet shows to toddlers, one where a puppet climbs up a mountain and another puppet knocks him down, and another puppet show where the two puppets helped each other. The toddlers would turn to watch the puppet show that depicted cooperation. Or hardwired by society while you are a toddler? But I see here you subtly try to invalidate the conclusions of any studies that investigate the behavior of toddlers (of which there are many, including twin and ado…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 02:40 PM
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overridden by rationally When was the last time anyone bedded a hambeast while thinking "I bet she can cook"? More likely they were thinking "she seems interested... and its been nearly a year since I got laid"
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 02:25 PM
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Perhaps you rely too much on intelligence and thought. Social interaction is one area where over-thinking can fuck you up. If you disappear into your head to strategize the conversation will fall apart. Plus if you think too much your topics of conversation will be too cerebral and esoteric or bland to have appeal to many people. I used to be quite up in my own head too, I remember when I started talking to random girls I felt most comfortable asking their opinions about shit, because that was l…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 09:09 AM
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Your link was fucked http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1e8t5w/my_mind_is_telling_me_that_you_are_a_great_guy/c9xyz
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 08:26 AM
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I don't know you or the way you're acting, but purely guessing... It's possible that you are building a facade out of routine based PUA tricks, and you're hiding your true self behind this front made of pre-packaged personality traits and whatever MFA told you to wear. People can perhaps sense that you're not being genuine, that you're putting on a show and that your behavior is not congruent with your true internal emotional state. As a result people can't connect with you, and it weirds them o…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 08:16 AM
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oneitis results in a ton of emotions. More emotions means more temptations. More temptations means more resistance. More resistance means ego depletion, and therefore performing worse. Oneitis>emotion>temptation>resistance>ego-depletion>bad performance... Man, this is the worst session of Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon that I've ever seen. Sorry but this looks like complete bullshit. Sure psychology is relevant to TRP, but trying to tenuously connect every phenomenon you observe with every study you…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 07:51 AM
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SPOILER: Day game is the same as all game if you're learning it right.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 05:39 AM
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I agree. I replied to RedHonest about an alternative way to have these things because his post basically said if you're not outgoing you can't be alpha which is incorrect in my personal view. To be honest I find neo-Freudian ideas and Jung personality classification systems to be pretty suspect, and unhelpful from a personal development standpoint. I don't believe that anyone is cut from a different cloth, it's all just a matter of having reference experience you need to convince your brain that…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 03:57 AM
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I did think that for a little while, but I've been listening to recordings of Patrice O'Neil lately, a philosopher of great wisdom and objectionable opinions. I've concluded that the problem doesn't lie entirely with women, if women's behavior has been damaged by our culture then so has men's. Masculine traits are frowned upon in the west, we've been psychologically castrated to the point where we find it difficult to behave the way women really want, or even need us to behave. We find it diffic…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 02:35 AM
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That article is so bad. Painting a sigma as some kind of 2kool4u super edgy lonewolf strong-silent-type protagonist in your own private movie of a life... This is probably the ruin of every awkward 14 year old. This image is probably also what's going through the mind of every one of those dorks who thinks that wearing a fedora that's two sizes too small for their fat head will suddenly turn them into Humphrey Bogart I know lots of people get annoyed with the alpha/beta terminology we throw arou…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 02:21 AM
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Your rights end where their feelings begin. It's sad that more laws have been passed to protect women's feelings at work than have been to protect men's lives at work.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 01:28 AM
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I don't know. It's all Greek to me. *Rimshot*
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 12:54 AM
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These are terrible times we live in. You just can't push people into pools these days without potentially ruining hundreds of dollars worth of electronics.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 12:48 AM
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There have always been women who have fallen in love with murderers. This isn't anything new.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 12:47 AM
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Generalizations exist for a reason, and you have to use them if you're talking about large numbers of people. If you consider yourself to be a special snowflake that doesn't invalidate a general observation. Generally men are attracted to women for their physical attributes. Sex comes first, then personal attraction and affection build from there. Generally women are attracted to men for their behavior and personality. Sex usually comes after some form of personal attraction and affection has al…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 06:29 PM
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http://www.mosuoproject.org/matri.htm
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 04:45 PM
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No no she's probably really intelligent and has a wonderful personality. Filthy privileged manpigs, always judging women by their appearance. Why can't you just completely rewire your brains and actively choose to value personality and intelligence above physical appearance when it comes to your sexual and romantic preferences? I mean after all it's just social conditioning and advertizing that makes you attracted to hot women, because sexual preference is a choice, and you can just flip a switc…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 02:38 PM
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I believe that during the Mosuo's old feudal system, the ruling classes did operate on more of a traditional patriarchal system with marriage (amongst themselves) and with men as the head of the household. Many have theorized that the matriarchal system enforced on the commoners is mostly a means of keeping them subservient to the ruling class. It seems to work very well. But yeah, the reason that every successful society in the history of our species has been patriarchal is because that's what …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 02:20 PM
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The end segment is just another showcase of how horribly beta and unattractive male feminists are.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 02:48 PM
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McDowell, Charles P., Ph.D. "False Allegations." Forensic Science Digest, (publication of the U.S. Air Force Office of Special Investigations), Vol. 11, No. 4 (December 1985), p. 64. The study found that 60% of rape allegations are false. The study of 548 allegations was only undertaken after it was noticed that 20% of accusers later admitted they had lied. The researchers did not intially believe the 60% result and conducted two follow-up studies. The 60% finding held but political interference…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 02:43 PM
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I prefer Patrice O'Neil's 30 point system 1-10 = Ugly 11-20 = A'ight 21-30 = Fine So when you talk to a 20, she's the best that an a'ight bitch can be, but she's still just a'ight, so you act accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 02:12 PM
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I'd advise against sitting in front of your computer endlessly reading about stuff. Especially stuff that pertains to increasing your success with women. In order to do that you need to actually get out in the world and practice what you've learned in order to internalize and properly absorb it. Something like for every hour of material you read you should spend 2 or 3 hours talking to girls. Don't fall into the trap of information overload.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 02:09 PM
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Its a fact. You can be an asshole, and beta as fuck. False. If you can use abstract thinking at all, you can relate the word 'hate' to the definition he provided. Eg- the word 'green' means happy in this next sentence: 'I feel pretty green right now'. If you understood the qualifying sentence, you know the person saying that line is pretty happy, and not pretty green. Whats hard about that? Nothing. I'm afraid my brain doesn't work like a C++ compiler, you can't just assign values to a variable …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 12:09 AM
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Your assumption that assholes are more alpha than beta illustrates my point quite nicely. Regardless of whatever declarations he made at the beginning of his post in regards to overloading the word 'hate' with a bunch of other meanings, the word will still retain its old meaning when read, and that makes it a poor choice. Its a poorly written post with a poorly made point.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/13 10:19 PM
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Defining yourself through hate, nihilism, and even thinking that you yourself are a bad person... Doesn't sound healthy, or in alignment with what I'd describe as alpha. I think one of the problems with this alpha/beta dichotomy is that some people can't tell the difference between being an asshole and being 'alpha'.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/13 07:00 PM
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one margarita at a time. He thinks that buying drinks helps to get him laid laughing_girls.jpg
/r/TheRedPill11/05/13 01:27 PM
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I'm confused. You say you try to call women on their shit tests but you fail.. but then you say you lack the will to act. It sounds like you are acting, but failing. Could you please clarify? However I lack the will to act on this new information. It's frustrating, infuriating; It's driving me mad. It's like my body is so high on blue-pills that it rejects the red-pill (excuse the lame analogy). I try to call women on their shit-tests, but I fail miserably. I try to not be a nice guy, but I can'…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/13 04:43 AM
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To be fair though we and everyone else on the internet is probably guilty of that too. It's easy to say what you should do in a certain situation when you're sitting comfortably in front of your computer, it's easy to give out advice from an armchair and look objectively at a situation in which you're not involved. But to have the ability to do the right thing when you are on the spot, it's not that easy. It may take mental and emotional discipline, confidence, or strength of character that you …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/13 04:19 AM
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The incident she described where she had sex with a guy, felt bad about it, said she didn't want to do it again... but still thought it'd be a good idea to go spend time with him and sleep in his bed. This shit is so ambiguous and questionable that even she wasn't sure if she'd been 'raped' or not, so much so that she felt it necessary to create a thread and ask Reddit, upon which everyone jumped on the bandwagon and said "Yes of course it's rape, you're a helpless victim! Here's a pity party fo…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/13 12:39 AM
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I don't complain about reposts if it's Patrice O'Neil
/r/TheRedPill10/05/13 09:29 PM
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I haven't been called a rapist yet, but I have been accused of 'trivializing her rape' because I dared to think that rape was a heinous violent crime, rather than thinking of it as an umbrella term for any kind of sexual act that a woman might feel bad about at any point for any reason. Having such a lax definition of rape probably makes me a 'rape apologist' to these people.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/13 09:24 PM
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You have to be careful with this If I'm talking to someone and I get the impression that they're qualifying themselves or seeking my validation, then it doesn't make them look good. If someone needs me to know a bunch of cool stuff about them, then it's like the "I'm kind of a big deal" scene from The Anchorman. They end up coming across as more of a dork than if they'd just shut up and play it cool.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/13 03:39 PM
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The state will forcably remove a man's wealth and give it to his estranged partner. This system costs money to maintain. On top of that the state will remove a man's ability to contribute in any meaningful way to the economy. and then incarcerate him which costs the taxpayer in the order of $60,000 per year Meanwhile kids raised by single mothers have a statistically higher chance of having behavioral problems, getting a poor education, getting involved with crime and gangs, and getting pregnant…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/13 03:32 PM
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Rather than not like girls, try to recognize them as different creatures with different motivations and thought processes. I don't think it's good for you or anyone else to pursue women without actually liking them.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/13 02:38 PM
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There's still time for these poor souls to realize the truth. Some aren't so lucky
/r/TheRedPill10/05/13 02:18 PM
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This should also make you mad: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Tz03pUFVDU&t 17 minutes onwards is when the examples start... until the end of the video.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/13 12:08 AM
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Do you want to sleep with third wave feminism?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 11:46 PM
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I'm working on getting back to the levels of trust we had before the incident You should listen to Patrice O'Neil. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNLEcwddl3o Some golden nuggets, such as: There's no such thing as 'trust' in a relationship, there's only routine. - around 20 mins
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 03:49 PM
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Maybe you were were confident because of the validation that you got from having another woman be attracted to you, and doing something new? I hope not because requiring an external source of self esteem is not a good long term strategy, however having new experiences in your life and breaking out of your routine is generally a healthy thing. Perhaps you were more attractive to her because you figured it was over between you, and you were pretty much free from dependence on outcome? Then you dec…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 02:57 PM
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Indeed. I don't even need to watch the video to know which one it is.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 09:02 PM
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Don't confuse the results of these studies and take them as an indication that you should become a piece of shit just to get some snatch. It's true that assholes get laid, and it's true that nice guys don't. The problem is that if someone is an asshole they embody traits that also happen to be attractive, such as being assertive, dominant, spontaneous, dynamic, and they'll give a girl a full range of emotions. On the other hand nice guys usually embody traits that are unattractive such as being …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 09:00 PM
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I believe that there was a study into the defecation habits of forest-dwelling bears that you might find very interesting
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 07:59 PM
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You can still do that without being a colossal tool.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 04:54 PM
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Lets not pretend that this woman has never gotten laid. If anything, the fact that this woman can even write an article about sexual promiscuity vividly illustrates the vast difference in power between men and women when it comes to sex.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 04:52 PM
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You Can Tell Something Is Bullshit If All of the Justifications for It Are Bullshit Okay, guy, so why do you feel like you want/need/deserve to settle down with a "pure" woman? I'm genuinely listening. <Insert a bunch of strawmen> Inconvenient facts are inconvenient
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 04:06 PM
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So easy
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 06:22 PM
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No. If a girl asks me "does my butt look big in this" I evade the question, because "yes" is a stupid thing to say, and "no" is not interesting. Instead I'd say something like "I'm not sure... why don't you take it off so I can check?" - That's a fun thing to say, she might actually do it and either way you'll make her feel sexy and desired.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 06:08 PM
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There are plenty of really good reasons for having a healthier lifestyle. Longer life, more energy and stamina, better sex, access to fun activities, and she would be less insecure and more confident. You know her better than anyone, why would she want to do it? How can you phrase it in a way that she would be receptive to? I think that there's enough to work with that you can broach the subject in a way that won't hurt her feelings. But you can't make her do it, you have to make her want to do …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 05:40 PM
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be honest with her. I don't think I've ever seen this combination of words on this subreddit before... Probably because it's awful advice. There is such a thing as tact, and it is necessary. If guys were honest with women all the time there would be a lot of hurt feelings. "Does my butt look big in this" is not generally a question that is asked while seeking honest criticism, it's best to evade the question altogether.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 05:24 PM
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Its because feminists insist on throwing the term rape around and defining it in a morally ambiguous way. It's like defining anger, shouting, arguments, hitting, and fighting all as murder. If you've ever been angry at someone you're a murderer, and yes everybody will assume that you're a danger to society because of this label... If you disagree with my definition of murder, then you're a murder apologist, and fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 05:15 PM
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I've never really been a fan of negging. Its far more healthy to learn the mental attitudes you need to just perceive yourself as an equal to someone, than it is to learn the tricks you need to make yourself feel superior to them. Freedom from outcome dependence is far more powerful than any kind of negging. Also negging is quickly becoming the hallmark of bad PUA, and the easiest way to get recognized and called out as such. It's not going to be long before every Cosmo girl knows all of these t…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 05:13 AM
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I know my anguish comes from my own insecurities It's good that you recognize this Here's an interesting perspective on this issue Looking at some of the responses in this thread, I think it's interesting that TRP is all in favor of having sex with girls, but many people here still look down on girls for having and enjoying sex. Maybe those attitudes are a tad incompatible. You can't have your cake and eat it too. Also I don't think that women cheat if they're happy with their current relationsh…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 05:09 AM
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I think they might provide a useful perspective on some aspects of the male psyche, after all they are guys, they just don't have to deal with women. As for how redpill applies to their lives you'd have to ask them. Perhaps a better thread title would have been "What are homosexual men's opinion of TRP?"
/r/TheRedPill06/05/13 05:21 PM
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candlelight dinner, wine + sunset at beach/park, driving to lookout spots, lighting a fire and feeding her chocolate.(Careful not too often otherwise they pork up) Those things won't make a woman attracted to you, and the misunderstanding that they do is a curse on our society and culture You've heard the stories. His marriage is failing, his wife is growing distant and irritable. He wants to save the marriage so he does nice things for her, flowers, etc. His attempts at romance just make her mo…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/13 04:52 PM
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From an evolutionary perspective women have inherent value, they're the only ones who can have babies. There is selection pressure to keep them safe and provide for them, because if you don't the tribe will have fewer babies or be wiped out altogether. Men have no inherent value, they're only useful if they're performing some kind of function. There is no selection pressure to keep men safe or provide for them, because even if 90% of the men in the tribe get wiped out the remaining 10% will be m…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/13 03:05 PM
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You can't take dating advice from straight women because they have no idea what they really want. A recent poll of women said that they found DIY skills sexy... Yeah sure, I hate it when I'm trying to pick up some washers in the hardware store and hot girls just won't leave me alone. All those plumbers with groupies... No. You don't take dating advice from women because women don't know what they're talking about. This guy, he's a guy. He's a bit camp but psychologically he's a guy. You ever won…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/13 12:48 AM
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This is why I don't really like this kind of technique based PUA. It's great in some ways especially if you're trying to build yourself up from nothing, but sooner or later some shit will go down and you're going to have nothing in your arsenal of pre-packaged routines to deal with the situation. In this case you were forced to drop everything and leave the venue altogether... I'm not saying that there should never be bad nights, there are always bad nights, but as long as you learn something fr…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/13 09:15 PM
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I can't say I've ever read Marie Claire or Cosmo. But nice ad-hominim attack there anyway brah. And, on top of that, he's gay. Oh. My. GOD! But so what? You realise that gay guys are still guys? They just don't have to deal with trying to please women. I think its a valuable perspective to have.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/13 05:53 PM
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You haven't activated Windows.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/13 04:00 PM
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A possible starting point could be a book called Search Inside Yourself by Chade-Meng Tan. It's a practical and scientific approach to developing emotional intelligence through practices such as meditation. The book has data from studies to show why certain things work and why certain things are important.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/13 03:52 PM
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I see that you're from Italy, I haven't been there but I get the impression that you have quite a machismo culture. Italy also has a 25% divorce rate which is far lower than the US and UK ~50%. You'll have to tell us how whether the ideas here apply in your own country and culture. As far as I'm aware game/pickup techniques will work with women all over the world, including Italy.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/13 03:43 AM
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You'll then get a free ride to college which will get you a great degree which will get you a great job Whoooah, slow down there. If you'd take a look at the growing tide of resentment among graduates and youth unemployment rates, you'll find that you're actually perpetuating a harmful myth. We're told all of our lives that "if you don't want to be flipping burgers at McDonalds then you'd better go to college"... and then we see people who went to college and there are literally no jobs for them…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/13 01:34 AM
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I usually try to avoid being judgemental about other people's relationships altogether, even if I know them in real life. If I have an opinion on something I try to make it an informed opinion, there's simply no way to have an informed opinion on a relationship as an outsider.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/13 12:07 AM
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TWB claims: "I am great Because I am strong" and woe on to he who loses his strengh. In other words you are VULNERABLE. TWA claims: "I am great in-spite of my weakness" you have seen the worst in you and despite that you come to a conclusion of self-worth. In other words, you are INVULNERABLE. Things I have been reading lately suggest that you can move beyond 'I am' and entirely disassociate your identity from thoughts and emotions. Eckhart Tolle is a good introduction to this concept if you're …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 11:18 PM
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You can get your confidence through doing all the things mentioned above. You lift, get your all-important testosterone etc. But people get sick, and everyone gets old... Where does your testosterone fix come from then? All of the things he mentioned are part of a routine, a routine can be disrupted. It's circumstantial confidence. I'm not saying don't do any of those things, they are good for you, but there's more to self improvement and confidence building than just a superficial layer of /fit…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 10:36 PM
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And yet, on the inside, we are all obsessed with, and driven by, and desiring of sex every day of our lives. I've found that the more you have it, the less you think about it.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 09:20 PM
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You make a good point, these things are helpful too. Confidence can be seen as a muscle, when you lift your muscles actually become weaker from the stress, and then they recover to become stronger when you rest. If you want to cultivate confidence you can 'lift' for confidence by exposing yourself to tough situations. In the moment you may feel less confident but afterwards you will generally recover and become a stronger more centered person for the experience. Just don't confuse feelgood hormo…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 08:20 PM
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Yes indeed. There are many scientific studies showing genuine therapeutic benefits to the practice of meditation, and it's not a practice that requires any kind of metaphysical belief structure. There are also many different forms of meditation and you can find one that suits your tastes, plus there is a massive body of literature on the subject.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 08:11 PM
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Here's a helpful flowchart that might help you through your existential crisis. My perspective People say that the universe is so big and that we are so small, but you can see it the other way around too. The atoms that make up your body and everything else were forged in the nuclear furnaces of massive stars that exploded billions of years ago. You are part of this whole cosmic drama just by being alive. You are the matter of the universe given form and thought, you are a means for the universe…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 07:46 PM
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Please be the Onion. Please be the Onion. Please be the Onion... Fuck.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 06:03 PM
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There could be lots of reasons. I'd hold off on judging someone's entire relationship based on a line of text.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 06:00 PM
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(You can berate me if you like, and by posting here, it kinda is foolish not to expect getting called a slut, cheater, etc...) I'd hope not. I'd hope that this is a place where we seek to understand the motivations and intentions of people, their thought processes and feelings, rather than having kneejerk reactions and judging their actions. Your post was very interesting and thanks for posting. I feel like this place is more helpful to guys than girls /r/fPUA might be more directly helpful in r…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 04:55 PM
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I don't really see how that analogy makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 04:40 PM
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The impact of a message can hinge largely on the delivery and the word choice. A highly emotive post will probably only elicit more emotive responses, a calm and measured response may be better received. But sticking up for men vs women... shit, you're fighting an uphill battle against millions of years of evolutionary psychological gender bias there. People have a natural instinct to side with women in disputes, regardless of facts. Pick your battles, don't waste your energy arguing for too lon…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 02:30 AM
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Women have always been precious, because they were the only ones that could have babies. The tribe that didn't keep their women safe were not going to last long as a tribe. So we evolved an inherent psychological bias towards women. Women will pretty much always side with other women in a dispute, and most men will too. Women are precious, men are disposable, we always have been. We're not rational creatures at all, we really are ruled by emotion and we're carrying a lot of evolutionary baggage …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 02:25 AM
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The problem with demonstrating status and value through material posessions is that it runs the risk of putting you into a provider role, not the alpha role that you want to be in. You know that guy who's getting bottle service in the VIP booth at the club? He sure is demonstrating a lot of value there isn't he? All the pretty girls are flocking around him, its the place to be... It's kind of a shame that he's not actually hooking up with any of them. The girls are there for the validation that …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 11:22 PM
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Why would you even want to keep track of this statistic? Or any other statistic? Even if you have a good ratio, sure you might get a self-esteem boost from it... which disappears the next time you get rejected "Nuuuhh my ratio!" Whether you have a good night or a bad night, whether you get blown out, or you get blown... you learn from every experience and you get better. Don't score yourself. We're not playing Counterstrike here, ratio means nothing. Hey I may have only ever approached 5 girls i…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 10:57 PM
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I see what you're trying to say, but I think that the term 'non reactive' is better. Kneejerk reactions and emotional reactions vs measured response. Responding is fine, reacting to things can mess you up. Lets say you're talking to your friends, a hot girl taps you on the shoulder and says hi. You react emotionally, suddenly drop what you were talking about with your friends and turn your attention to the girl. You respond to acknowledge her, finish what you were saying to your friends, and the…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 10:35 PM
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What were you like earlier in your life? Depressed, low self esteem, poor social skills, no interest from women. Beta as all fuck, it was awful. Was there any particular event or moment in your life that motivated you to adopt your current outlook or was it a gradual change? I have been improving my life and over time through actively trying to improve my social skills and build confidence, and become better with women, I have arrived here. It was a gradual thing for me which I think is a good t…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 08:06 PM
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I do like this subreddit, but I don't want to exist in an echo chamber, so I saw a mod calling someone out that was disagreeing and I became concerned. Also thought it was a bit silly to call people out in that way, its taking internet arguments far too seriously. I made this thread party as a joke that I thought would be taken in good humor, I frequent other places on the internet where this kind of humor is common and usually well received, I misjudged the culture of this subreddit. I understa…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 06:54 PM
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The nice thing about feminists is that they're completely incapable of being funny. Just look at /r/thebluepill
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 06:37 PM
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Ah yes, fat acceptance, for people who don't want to change.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 05:56 PM
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So... how about we go colonize mars?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 05:43 PM
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Its a circlejerk test. It's not going well.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 04:52 PM
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Your inability to recognize satire is troubling
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 04:52 PM
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The second their girlfriends are backing out of the relationship and my advice is hitting every mark though they start listening. Growth usually only happens through suffering. It's hard to get someone to change when they're comfortable and happy, and to be honest if someone is comfortable and happy why should they change?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 04:35 PM
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It's like a visual metaphor for western society. The guy on the right is paying taxes that fund affirmative action. The guy on the left is working in a dangerous, dirty, but very necessary job. The woman deludes herself into thinking that the men aren't there and that she's a strong independent womyn who don't need no man.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 04:25 PM
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Internet arguments
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 04:16 PM
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It was intended as an overview of the arsenal at women's disposal, not an inditement of a particular type of girl. Also those club-party type girls can be really nice people. Clubs and parties are just an activity, it doesn't necessarily dictate the 'type' of person you are.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 03:15 PM
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It is great that you have the kind of self-awareness to actually question your own views like this. It's a healthy sign I think.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 10:26 PM
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That's because men's rights is more of a support group for men who have suffered injustice at the hands of women than it is an actual movement. I know it sounds harsh and I tried getting involved but I really couldn't stand the victim culture or the casual misogyny. I find the redpill environment far more proactive and with a better perspective on things.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 10:17 PM
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True. /r/mensrights is basically just /r/atheism with a different enemy. Both are embarrassing circlejerks
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 09:45 PM
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A personal philsophy predicated on evolutionary psychology, no? Only as an explanation for observable phenomena, not as a guide on how to live and not as an excuse to be a dickhead. Evolution has hardwired moral imperatives into your brain and if you go against them you will suffer. Just because you've adopted an idea that there is no morality in an evolutionary context, that doesn't mean you can just ignore your brain's built-in emotional morality without any repercussions on your mental and em…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 08:44 PM
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Have fun. Still get that book though http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divorce_demography - Might help in planning your trip.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 08:32 PM
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Reasoned analysis can override emotional morality, but you can still feel shitty about it. Also the red pill != evolutionary psychology, it's a personal philosophy. Sexual strategy is indeed amoral in an evolutionary context, but it isn't amoral in a personal context. As I said in a later post, your emotional well-being and living in accordance with your values is more important than getting a bit of poon. Poon is nice but it doesn't make you happy, its a part of life and it can be healthy or un…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 08:06 PM
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Fair enough. I recommend traveling a bit first... y'know, shop around. Get the book Vagabonding by Rolf Potts, it has a lot of good advice for cheap long-term travel.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 07:33 PM
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Then why don't you emigrate to a Muslim country?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 07:17 PM
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I wouldn't say that men are unnecessary or obsolete, we're just seen as unnecessary and obsolete by feminists, and we've been herded into unsatisfying roles all in the name of smashing 'the patriarchy'. Men are the ones doing the dangerous and dirty jobs that keep our civilization running as illustrated by 95% of workplace deaths and injuries being men. Men keep the lights on in those nice comfy office buildings that women work in. Men pay a higher proportion of taxes that pay for women's higher…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 07:15 PM
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If civilization does collapse we're going straight back to a traditional family structure, because there'll be no safe, easy, indoor jobs for women to support themselves with. Patriarchy 2.0 basically. Also the religious fundamentalists will probably be the ones to pick up the peices... Tell me what you think of their attitude is to 'human instincts'. I'd rather it didn't all come crashing down. I like not having to grow my own food.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 06:37 PM
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Again, only from an evolutionary perspective. From a personal perspective it's about pleasure and propagation. Don't worry, the human race is in no danger of dying out, it's just our civilization that is in danger of collapsing.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 06:27 PM
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I wonder how many of them are majoring in womens studies...
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 06:25 PM
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the pussy bubble continues inflating I hope I never see that particular combination of words ever again.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 06:24 PM
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Sorry I missed out the part about the utilitarian moral center of the brain... I just edited it my last post before I saw your reply. Yes we do murder and commit other immoral acts, and we don't have to be psychopaths in order to do it because the brain is very complicated. But when we do commit an immoral act there are usually emotional consequences, and that's the point that I'm trying to make. Saying that sexual strategy is amoral is all well and good from an evolutionary perspective, but fro…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 05:45 PM
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Philosophers have been debating morality for thousands of years, but now we've got neuroscience so we can see what's going on in the brain when people make moral choices. The reason we don't generally murder each other isn't because of a social contract, it's because we have a part of our brain that seems to be based on Kantian deontological ethics, the concept that there are moral imperatives and you do not break these rules no matter what. This area is located in the ventromedial prefrontal co…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 05:13 PM
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Why does this feature work so well in men though? Watch: "Tits are sexy" See? Works perfectly.
/r/askTRP02/05/13 04:47 PM
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Good article. But the kneejerk reaction people have to pickup being icky, dishonest and a training ground for jerks... Lets take a step back and examine the other side's arsenal... Women: Wear makeup to change the apparent shape of their face and hide imperfections Use hair extensions because long hair is a sign of health and vitality Wear high heels to make it seem like they have longer legs and a tighter ass which is a sign of fitness and fertility Wear padded and pushup bras, and have breast …
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 04:38 PM
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Well you can understand why he'd be reluctant to mention it. A man being abused in any way by a woman is shameful, he would be openly mocked by men and women.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 11:08 AM
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"You are better off without him" is just one of many platitudes that people say to make women feel better. Because it is in our nature to want to help women with their problems. But I see the point you're making. The feminist idea of 'a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle' isn't a good thing. it really doesn't help women to devalue their meaningful relationships and behave like an idiot. A woman can break up with a man who loves her... She can't go out and just find love like that agai…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 11:06 AM
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I remember that guy. He stood up to her and refused to put it back on. And then divorced her when he found she had been cheating (what a shocker)
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 10:52 AM
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I would argue that it is feminists who have created and maintained the 'rape culture'. It's a fair point. Incidents of reported rape have dropped by 83% since 1979. Feminists have to keep moving the goalposts on what 'rape' actually is in order for it to be something that they can remain angry about. Rape used to be a despicable violent crime... Now it's Any sex that a woman feels in any way bad about at any point, and it's still a despicable violent crime. Feminists will write blogs and argue a…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 06:25 PM
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This one can be seen from multiple angles. On the one hand he's dumb for clinging on to a relationship in which he's not happy. On the other hand he seems resentful and unhappy because he expects his girlfriend to be and do more than she currently is... Where has this expectation come from? What happened to the idea that women could just be? Oh right yeah... feminists seem to look down on any woman who actually wants to do fulfil a domestic role, and criticizes any man who is happy for her to do…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 06:02 PM
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It's incredibly easy to become an 'expert' on any subject. Join two or three relevant organiations or associations Read the top three best selling books on the subject Offer to write one to two articles for relevant publications or magazines Give one free 1 - 3 hour seminar on the subject (can be organized at a university) Join profnet - one of many websites for lazy journalists to find 'experts' to quote You are now a real expert. You're not pretending to be an expert either, you are a bonifide…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 12:54 PM
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[–]Waxdec 337 points 10 hours ago* Um and you're still married? Grow a pair buddy. Edit: /s. It's a joke. Double orchiectomy = got both balls removed. [–]Manzander 69 points 8 hours ago OP must have had implants after the procedure. How does a wife not notice that her husband has no testicles?? It's like an invitation...
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 12:43 PM
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"I need feminism because I've decided that the blind servitude and protection of womyn is my only available route to creating a male identity for myself." - So sad. And yet despite this endless cavalcade of cringeworthy males, feminists will still somehow manage to dismiss MRAs as frustrated fedora wearing virgins.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 04:57 AM
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I recommend hanging out there and forming your own impression. The impression that I got was that there was too much of a victim culture and a lot of casual misogyny. It was clear that a large proportion of the community only arrived there after suffering some kind of personal injustice, and their emotional wounds manifest quite conspicuosly in the culture. When I tried to point this out to them they were like "but feminists do all this too, therefore this behavior is valid!" They seemed to over…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 06:57 PM
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That moment when you realize that feminism isn't trying to abolish gender roles at all, they're trying to create new ones. For some reason the new ones correspond exactly to the types of people that are found in gender studies classes. The ideology attracts 'strong confident' womyn who don't need no man and don't want to be submissive... therefore no female anywhere should want to be submissive. They attract the pathetic, cowed, submissive, beta mangina whiteknights whos only attempt at creating…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 06:43 PM
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But here I am now at 26 trying to turn things around...and it is overwhelming. I feel like a college kid that forgot to study for his final and is about to fail. One of the nicest things about being male is not having a biological clock to contend with. Your 30s are your prime if you take care of yourself. Don't worry, you've got your whole life ahead of you.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 03:40 PM
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But they'd rather have their ideology than their goals, so fuck em. They'll accomplish nothing because they don't understand the system. You just described most of the mens rights movement too unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 02:47 PM
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They used comic sans in their report Credibility: 0
/r/MensRights18/02/13 06:56 PM
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Its like the matrix. They are part of the system. You take the red pill. You can get other guys out but you can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped
/r/MensRights17/02/13 02:10 PM
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D: but sex is fun What if I get a vasectomy? I have been considering it for a few years now
/r/TheRedPill17/02/13 01:48 AM
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When they use the option: "A little bit extra" or "A few extra pounds" or whatever it is, we're into the realm of the ham-planets.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/13 01:07 AM
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MY BODY TYPE IS CURVY I fucking hate that. "ROUND" is not the same as "CURVY" Fucks sake
/r/TheRedPill17/02/13 12:35 AM
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Soooo... Can I still sleep around, have friends with benifits, and have one night stands?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/13 11:29 PM
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I'm not saying that feminists don't push and demand those things, and I'm fine with you being mad at them for not having any sense of perspective and believing in an ideology that is virtually indefensible on an intellectual level. But they just make little incremental changes to try to benefit the group that they're lobbying for, just like every other short-sighted special interest group. There's no Matriarch sitting at the head of the evil Fempire with a master plan to fuck up all of society a…
/r/MGTOW16/02/13 06:49 PM
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Going your own way means just that. You can go be unattractive and never interact with women again if you want to. Meanwhile I'll be over here improving myself for myself, and have a life that involves getting laid from time to time. I don't hate women, I hate the system. Nobody is consciously trying to fuck us over. Our current state of affairs is just the result of a skewed cost/benifit equation, there's no malevolent concious will behind it, and if you imply that there is then it makes you lo…
/r/MGTOW16/02/13 05:15 PM
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Calling women parasites? Sounds like you're coming from an emotionally wounded perspective there brah.
/r/MGTOW16/02/13 02:35 PM
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MRA is a stand up and make a difference In the time I've spent around this community, there has been far more sitting around whining than standing up making a difference
/r/MensRights16/02/13 01:35 PM
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I think this article makes a good point. Basically we can't beat feminists at their own game, we can't attack an ideology that is supposedly rooted in equality, and that consists of people who don't even have to argue logically in order to win an argument or have influence. All we can do is tell them to fuck off and be who we want to be. No more marriage, no more children. Improve our lives, acquire currency and confidence, spend the rest of our lives fucking hot girls 10 years younger than us. …
/r/MensRights16/02/13 12:53 PM
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This guy is awesome https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o7ZtjGJ4LD4
/r/MGTOW16/02/13 10:16 AM
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their values. You mean their emotional wounds which manifest as whining and bitterness, and which are prominent throughout MR/PUA/MGTOW communities.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/13 10:06 AM
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I agree. I do study PUA type material, though it's part of a wider program of self improvement efforts in all parts of my life. I follow RSD which seems to be more stripped down, free of jargon, and generally an emotionally healthier way to become more attractive to women. I listened to a talk by one of their instructors, Jeffy. He was telling his story of learning all the PUA stuff, but he described it as a thin layer of game on top of a mountain of emotional immaturity and insecurity. As a res…
/r/MGTOW16/02/13 10:01 AM
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Different guys have different tastes, and that's okay I quite like thick girls. It's all a matter of degrees of course, there's a difference between 'thick' and 'ham planet'
/r/TheRedPill16/02/13 08:45 AM
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>implying that they're not The number of times I've heard people say that they got a girlfriend, and just decided to write a ton of funny bullshit on their dating profile, suddenly they were knee deep in clunge, or at least messages from clunge. The profile makes a massive difference.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/13 08:21 AM
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I recommend trawling through one day. Male and female attraction work in different ways, and a lot hinges on a well written profile. A lot of people are shit at writing profiles.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/13 11:35 PM
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Wow, women on online dating sites deemed 80% of the male population on the site less than average. Is there any other stat that says it all so succinctly? Women are so incredibly shallow/picky and project that quality onto men more than ever. It could be more of an incitement of the types of men that sign up for dating websites. Case in point However from my experience of dating sites, the only women I've found tend to be: Fat Crazy Single mothers All of the above
/r/TheRedPill15/02/13 09:40 PM
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I'm sorry for what you've been through. I hope you can get through this. Every time I see a story like this I'm just reminded of how pointless marriage is these days. It's sad that so many people still think it's still a path to security and long term happiness when instead its just a massive legal, financial and emotional liability.
/r/MensRights15/02/13 08:13 PM
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I didn't say that, I hold both sexes in the same regard, that you can't consent while drunk. Holy shit, half your rant is coming off like I'm anti-man, where as I view myself as egalitarian. I can consent while drunk, and I can regret it in the morning too. Because I choose to be a responsible adult and not a victim. and I don't agree with that. So you're not at all familiar with the legal definitions of rape? They usually specify penetration as a requirement, since women don't have anything to …
/r/MensRights15/02/13 09:35 AM
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The idea that being 'drunk' absolves you of the ability to consent is ridiculous. It's speaking in absolutes when the very idea of 'drunk' is a matter of degrees as you yourself know from being "okay drunk". I'm not saying "get a girl so blind drunk so that she doesn't know what's going on around her or passes out, and then go for it". You can't sign a contract while drunk, probably because it would undermine the credibility of the entire contract system if you could, simply because people are k…
/r/MensRights15/02/13 12:35 AM
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But I were writing an article about a particular ex whose antipathy for my ladybird appeared to spring from a misogynist mindset. Problem is that people can make anything fit into a preconceived notion. If you're going around the world looking for misogyny, then i'm sure you'll find lots of things that 'appear' to stem from a 'misogynist mindset'. That doesn't mean that they actually do. I mean shit, surely you've seen how many whining babymen hang out around here, look at something that is a co…
/r/MensRights14/02/13 07:30 PM
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As is your right. Just don't cry "misogyny!" when you write an article about it later.
/r/MensRights14/02/13 07:00 PM
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But this is a pretty hysterical overreaction, involving an imaginary scenario, of something that just won't happen to you ever. If you're bothering a girl she will tell you to go away, worst case scenario some whiteknight or a bouncer will show up and get all up in yo grill. You're not going to go to JAIL for talking to a girl. I've talked to plenty of random girls in a variety of settings. This just doesn't happen.
/r/MensRights14/02/13 06:24 PM
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Implying that feminism has to be at all consistent about anything
/r/MensRights14/02/13 05:46 PM
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Nobody. Everyone else's perception of the MRM is that it mostly consists of butthurt whiners. And from the time I've spent here I can see that the reputation is well deserved.
/r/MensRights14/02/13 05:45 PM
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Really?
/r/MensRights14/02/13 05:41 PM
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Not sure if joking...
/r/MensRights14/02/13 05:39 PM
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Did you actually read what you posted? Saying "Men would generally fantasize about a woman jumping on their cock" is not the same as "men generally like to take a submissive role in sex". Men fantasizing about a woman making all the moves is perfectly natural when you consider that most men have no idea how to pick up women. It's simply easier to ride than to drive. But no, I think that generally in vanilla sex the male is usually the dominant partner. Some of the crazy feminists make the argume…
/r/MensRights14/02/13 05:25 PM
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Its typical of anyone who holds opinions. I recommend reading the book I mentioned
/r/MensRights14/02/13 05:09 PM
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Which is probably why the men's rights movement doesn't seem to be going anywhere.
/r/MensRights14/02/13 04:01 PM
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Does a dude have a 100% right to be like, “I don’t like giving oral sex, and that is a boundary for me and I won’t do it”? Yes. Without some relatively good reason for why he doesn’t like oral sex (other than “it’s gross”) Yeah we should come up with better rationalizations for why we don't want to do things that refer to some kind of vague and nebulous abstraction, and then confuse ourselves into thinking we have made a logical choice when in reality it's an emotional/instinctual choice. I mean…
/r/MensRights14/02/13 03:52 PM
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I agree that it's a stupid law, and there's plenty of ways to argue against it. But you're not going to get anywhere by saying "it's a stupid law and it only exists because women are cheating whores" which is what the guy I responded to was saying. Seriously. This doesn't constitute impotent whining? Does anyone find this shit constructive?
/r/MensRights14/02/13 03:06 PM
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Well you'd better be thinking less of everyone because it's just human nature. Not many people are above getting butthurt if someone proves them wrong. Should read How to Win Friends and Influence People.
/r/MensRights14/02/13 01:30 PM
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This eagerness to blame women for all problems is just as annoying as feminists who blame men for all problems. If you adopt a position like this then it's easy for them to just take the opposite position of: If it weren't for a significant percentage of men failing to satisfy their women... etc etc You're not going to get any sympathy by playing the victim. Seriously I can feel myself not caring about the guy who gets cheated on and tricked into raising a kid that isn't his. As a man I have a b…
/r/MensRights14/02/13 01:09 PM
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I think we'd do better without making terrible analogies like that/
/r/MensRights14/02/13 11:34 AM
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Shall we just keep playing bunnyhop asking each other to read the next paragraph? He is trying to make a point, and the point is that it's okay for women to cheer on a woman who is extremely violent against a man, but the idea of it working the other way around is, in your own words "disgraceful" I'll agree if you say it's a shit article, and that he's overly emotional, but he makes a valid point albeit in a very poor way. I think this is a mirror image of my point that MRAs are all too willing …
/r/MensRights14/02/13 11:31 AM
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Okay. http://community.feministing.com/2011/12/18/5-rape-prevention-tips-for-guys/ First line "1. Every guy is a potential rapist – including you." I guess feministing.com must be a radical feminist website that doesn't represent 'mainstream' feminism. It's not just this. The whole ridiculous idea of 'rape culture' that lies at the core of feminism, the idea that society condones rape when it clearly fucking doesn't. But we'll just move the goalpoasts by simply redefining what is and isn't rape.…
/r/MensRights14/02/13 11:12 AM
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Nah I don't think that drink buying is a result of friendzoning or the mentality of friendzoning... Well, maybe the same kind of mindset, that timidness. i.e. the average male. As for why men are expected to buy drinks. I think there's some deep instinctual elements to it, millions of years of being the provider and showing that you can provide, it has probably made an impression on a man's default mentality towards courtship There's also probably a cultural expectation for the drink buying whic…
/r/MensRights13/02/13 05:35 PM
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I think you've got an overly simplistic view of the situation. The nice guys thing is complicated by itself, factor in the psychology of why guys buy drinks and we reach the point where I can't be bothered typing. I don't think its anyone's fault per-se, I think it arises out of different attitudes and expectations and behavioural differences between the genders. It's all about the 'friendzone'. I see the friendzone as what has become an ugly word for 'unrequited love'. Once again you can see ge…
/r/MensRights13/02/13 04:20 PM
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Well it's obviously there to reflect the "wage gap"... Right guys? Right? Because it's real? Right? Yeah? Look, I'm sorry guys but I think it's submissions that highlight 'injustices' like this that are contributing to the wider community dismissing you as pathetic whiners. There are real, life wrecking injustices and nonsense going on, and posts like his just make you all look petty. I mean come on, 2 bux extra to get into a club that hopefully won't be a complete sausage fest... Fucking deal w…
/r/MensRights13/02/13 04:03 PM
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If that's the case then I disagree with your assessment. I simply haven't seen the sort of outright "all men are rapists" misandry you describe from mainstream feminism. Fair enough. As I said, I'm new in this scene and I'm getting this stuff second hand but I like to think that I'm aware of possible bias, and I'm open to reexamining things. That might be because hardly anyone in the MRA movement seems particularly well-funded, organized, or powerful. But would Paul Elam, founder of A Voice for …
/r/MensRights13/02/13 12:50 PM
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This is probably impossible to prove either way, since the concept of a "core" is pretty<sup>meaningless</sup><sup>for</sup><sup>a</sup><sup>movement</sup><sup>that's...</sup> I'm talking about the ones that have all the funding and political power. Any other definition of 'core' is meaningless in practical terms. It is nice to see feminists working to dispel the 'all men are rapists' thing though. Second, I reject the idea that identifying as a feminist means that I give either passive or activ…
/r/MensRights13/02/13 11:15 AM
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/r/mensrights outright hates feminism I suppose this is something that we should address. Both because it's simply bad PR, and because there are still feminists that want equality and anyone who wants actual equality should quite rightfully be an ally But the batshit insane 'men are all violent rapists' 'lets cull males down to 10% of the population' types that seem to constitute the core of the movement are a very big problem. And these people aren't on the fringe, they're in universities teach…
/r/MensRights13/02/13 10:05 AM
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I've found its better for my mental health to simply try to avoid argying with people whos beliefs are not even remotely connected with any form of reality or logic. You can't reason somebody out of a position that they didn't reason themselves in to. May as well save your energy. I mean sure you can get sucked down the rabbit hole and ride the roller-coaster of their mental acrobatics for a while, but it will inevitably leave you feeling nauseous
/r/MensRights13/02/13 09:36 AM
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I see you're having trouble with the Reddit format brah. Don't worry, it can be disorientating at first. You have to click reply on the post you're actually replying to, Reddit uses a threaded comment structure. Also yeah, welcome aboard. If you're stuck in involuntary celibacy I could direct you to some resources that might help you with that, without turning you into a soulless manipulative PUA douchenozzle.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 09:17 AM
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you're going to give people a complex about their penises Implying men don't usually have a complex about their penises. There are plenty of variables for guys to obsess and worry about already. I am ostensibly part of the demographic these comments are fighting to help. I'd disagree with that. The demographic that we are fighting to help are the babies that have yet to be born and circumcised. We cannot backdate the change to your date of birth. I'm uncut myself, so I guess I can't really relat…
/r/MensRights13/02/13 08:40 AM
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While I seriously doubt that heterosexual men would be turned away The clinic is situated in Scotland... so... yeah.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 08:18 AM
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I did some googling... "Its always the butch and masculine lesbians doing it!"
/r/MensRights11/02/13 06:51 PM
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Well, traditionally they kind of have been, and still are in psychological terms. If you've read the The Definitive Book of Body Language by Allan and Barbera Pease, during courtship a woman will evoke a protective instinct in men by mimicking juvenile mannerisms. Its quite an interesting read.
/r/MensRights11/02/13 06:03 PM
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implying that men are the only ones who use violence. There are plenty of examples of women being the instigators of violence, but if there is a man in the equation then other women will always have a cognative bias towards the woman and find a way to blame the man. Man beats woman senseless and sends her to hospital - "He's a monster!" - Fair enough Woman stabs a man in the neck with a knife - "Wow, what did he do to deserve that?" - Seriously? Woman chops her partners dick off and flushes it d…
/r/MensRights11/02/13 05:06 PM
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Our ancestors go back through other species of nomadic hominids that stretch back millions of years. Species is itself an arbitrary definition, there's no set point at which one species evolves into another. Just because what we identify as our species only emerged relatively recently, we do have a nomadic ancestry that stretches back millions of years. behavioural modernity is only 50,000 years old. If you read on: "many of the cultural and behavioral traits associated with modern humans such a…
/r/MensRights11/02/13 03:22 PM
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I see it more like: You're in the ring with a heavyweight boxer and you're on the ropes, maybe you should stop trying to fight him with one hand tied behind your back.
/r/MensRights11/02/13 02:53 PM
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If they were links that went to the same video, I bet the majority of people would click the second one. Thanks for helping me make my point.
/r/MensRights11/02/13 02:34 AM
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We can all think about slippery slopes, the problem with them is that they can run in whatever direction we want them to depending on the point we want to make. I think its good that you have this kind of reservation, but given that mens rights is for actual equality rather than pushing a specific male agenda, and isn't founded on some fucking insane assumptions, I don't really see how it can push things too far in the other direction. Also I don't think that our biological hardwiring would let …
/r/MensRights11/02/13 01:54 AM
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Appeals to emotion are necessary if you want to appeal for popular support, because emotion is a very strong factor in human psychology.
/r/MensRights11/02/13 01:39 AM
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Redefine 'domestic violence' to include raising your voice and namecalling. Welp... I'm glad I don't live in your country. My brain has just been fucked right out of my skull.
/r/MensRights11/02/13 01:33 AM
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They are incredibly well funded, permeate every aspect of our culture, and have a powerful lobby in national and WORLD politics... But it's okay! Because<sup>we're</sup><sup>right!</sup><sup>We</sup><sup>have</sup><sup>facts!!!</sup> I'm not suggesting an ideology, I'm not advocating lies. I'm suggesting a vehicle or method for delivering the truth in such a way that it will have an impact and change people's minds.
/r/MensRights11/02/13 01:18 AM
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I would like social change but it comes down to which do we want to change society or for us to change to meet society? Well, seeing as how we're all mostly here because we don't like how society treats men, and I can't change that I'm a man, I'd say... there's only one variable... Seriously, what? Also what exactly do you fear us becoming? A movement that gains too much power and pushes things too far in the other direction? I don't think that would actually happen unless there were a catastrop…
/r/MensRights10/02/13 11:57 PM
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I think that its an understandable fear that you have, however I am curious as to what you think the "product" is in this equation? In television the product is entertainment. If the MRM were about entertainment (and it probably is for some) then your argument would be quite valid. If the product is social change then surely in order to produce that product you need to gain popular support. The primary goal of a social movement simply cannot be accomplished if it does not appeal to the masses. A…
/r/MensRights10/02/13 11:05 PM
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Oh by the way most extradition treaties require dual criminality, as in it has to be a crime in both countries. There are few countries in the world as jail-happy as the US, and even fewer with such a retarded child support law
/r/MensRights10/02/13 09:40 PM
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If you think that this is a good subreddit then you must hang out here a lot. Have you noticed how many people seem to have been hurt personally and experienced injustice themselves? Do you really think that those people are here for purely 'rational' reasons? Do you value these subscribers less than people like me who hasn't been injured and who only came here after seeing some thought provoking videos? I know that the overall quality of a community decreases as its memberbase grows, but please…
/r/MensRights10/02/13 09:34 PM
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MRA tend to be okay with evolutionary psychology (it makes sense to me at least) - We come from a species of nomadic hunters and gatherers, wanderers. There's no fucking way that 10,000 years of civilization is going to wash out millions of years of nomadic instinct and create a 'personality type' that, deep down, does not feel the draw of far away places or feel that the grass is greener on the other side. The open road still softly calls, like a nearly forgotten song of childhood I know, it ca…
/r/MensRights10/02/13 09:15 PM
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I disagree, but upvoted because discussion I don't think that making people feel uncomfortable is going win hearts and minds. People don't like being uncomfortable, they will ignore the uncomfortable. AFRICA is 'uncomfortable' for fuck's sake, when was the last time anyone gave a fuck about that? 'The enemy' is not weakening, feminists are just getting crazier and crazier which is nice for us because it makes it easier to make fun of them, but also dangerous because they still have political pow…
/r/MensRights10/02/13 08:32 PM
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Has your passport actually been revoked because of child support obligations or are you just afraid of that being the next move of the femstapo? Money, yeah it's tough for everyone out there. You don't have to be a millionaire to travel bro, it is within the means of anyone who can save a modest sum of money. Read Vagabonding by Rolf Potts, it might change your outlook. Cambodia isn't bad, but that whole area of the world is very beautiful and cheap as fuck. Go out there, $300 on a motorbike, ma…
/r/MensRights10/02/13 07:50 PM
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Thanks for the well thought out post, but I disagree with some of what you said. Men have a history of brushing things off Men have a history of brushing things off, not only that but there is an expectation that we will brush things off. We are stuck with this. Men and women in general, are not wired to emphatically care about mens problems. If we were then we wouldn't be in this mess. Blame evolution. Even I can feel myself not caring about some guy I don't know getting slapped by his wife. I …
/r/MensRights10/02/13 06:54 PM
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Really? Because I'll be remembering it after escaping to a tropical country that doesn't have such a retarded law to extradite me under... In fact I'd probably find it hard to stop laughing.
/r/MensRights10/02/13 06:29 PM
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Spoiler: Sensationalism and appeals to emotion ARE how you spread awareness about a serious issue, because that's what people pay attention to and respond to. That's why the media does it, that's why your opponents do it, and that's why they're winning.
/r/MensRights10/02/13 05:35 PM
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