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I feel this way some days worse than others. I focus on self improvement to make the day. I’m tired and feel like I’ll never. Escape the evil bitch. But it does get better just take it one day at a time.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 03:23 AM
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Thank you, I have hundreds of pages of evidence from the last year including my family wizard text and recorded phone calls from my family, friends, and emails / text from my partner and her family. Minus a small handful of bad days I have been 100% by the “BIFF” book with her. I hoped this would stop and she would tire out but it looks like that is never going to happen.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/23 10:05 PM
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I would suggest a hearing. Usually working together will create a better outcome but as it seems that is not possible it is better to have a judge divide it for you.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/23 03:47 PM
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Be glad because it is the kids that will win. But I will say a bad relationship can be draining, sometimes splitting up frees the mind to do other things. Other times people can become complacent when someone handles work for them. After the divorce I had to learn how to do bills and budget. I always could but I just didn’t care much for it so I let her do it (big mistake!!!)
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 09:05 PM
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Girls take it personal when they can’t get a guy up. They don’t understand the factors involved. It can be a number of things: You are tired after a long evening You are over 40 You have been drinking You need a more emotional connnection. You are not ready and you subconscious knows it.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/23 12:50 PM
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Also change all your passwords and hide your computers before hand. Mine stole all my computers, and tried to threaten me with them to bad she couldn’t find anything to use on me!
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/23 04:49 PM
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Mine went full out psycho even though I warned her if things didn’t change I was going to divorce her. I sat down and explained all the ways I changed for our marriage and how I feel she has not made any effort to change, she told me I just need to change more! Don’t tell her and give her warning, serve her! Mine started moving money, hiding things and immediately turned the kids and family against me with lies. To this day It still has not gotten better and I’m watching my kids being turned aga…
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/23 04:44 PM
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A lot of truth to that. When my ex crossed boundaries I simply don’t engage. She gets so upset but I have found that this prevent my energy from going to her and thus giving her more steam. Also keeping communication to 3 words or less gives them less words to use against you.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 10:13 PM
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Never date at the office! You need to end it ASAP. If a person can’t control emotions you are in for a ride.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 06:33 PM
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The opposite for me. I stopped allowing her to control me and things went south quick. She molded a easy going low self-esteem kid into a powerful, self sufficient man that didn’t require another person to be happy, and I realized how valuable I actually was.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/23 12:32 AM
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+1 sounds like my story other than I’m divorced. But the abuse didn’t stop, she still uses the kids to continue the controlling abusive behaviors.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/23 12:26 AM
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Yeah I was dating just for something to do. At first I thought I was ready. I unfortunately got hooked on one and found out I am not ready. I’m now battling my old issues and new. Worst part is I’m messing up someone else with all my own issues. Don’t do it.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/23 02:24 AM
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Am I the only one that wish my ex was banging someone so she would leave me TF alone? Seriously man you need to talk to someone. It is not healthy to be all up in her business.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/23 01:02 AM
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I pay almost 2k a month CS yet still called a dead beat parent. The mother also makes about 30% mor than me yet every time I pick up my kids they have no socks. Yes it is annoying and I have dropped them off with brand new un opened packs of socks many times. It is annoying and sucks but I do what I have to do. It is the price I pay to be a father.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/23 09:30 PM
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Ok 50/50 custody doesn’t mean you can be a parent to only one child. Your duty as a father ends at the door unless the children are being abused or harmed. From what I read they are not. Just because you have value in expensive shoes or clothing doesn’t mean your ex has to. I grew up on off brand torn used shoes and I would like to think I am better for it. Now considering that you are the one receiving child support even if it is $1 that makes you the primary parent. So suck it up and stop trea…
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/23 07:38 PM
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Better get that baby tested!!!
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/23 10:02 PM
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Has it really been a year ago that I wrote this? Wow. So I have been doing a lot of growing and had consoling. I truly can’t stand my X but her actions don’t really affect me anymore. Or as my consoler said don’t give the bitch your energy she doesn’t deserve it. I did meet someone new that honestly was only to be a single weekend date to keep my mind off not having my kids. As much as I have tried to keep walls up she has been working to get them down. She is showing me nice people do exist. Sh…
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/23 07:49 PM
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My Ex did this to me after the divorce was signed and almost done. I would like to say crazy is a part of the grieving process but really she is just a nut case. I would let it go as the more you put in the decree the more that can be used against you later by a irrational spouse. Also yes billable hours!!
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/23 10:08 PM
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Pardon my ignorance but how do you file such an order?
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/22 05:37 PM
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We are court ordered to use AppClose. The app is great but doesn’t have a silence feature. Not to mention the harassment extends beyond the text app. I just found out today my new girlfriends family is being contacted by Facebook by my ex. I can’t explain how upset I am not to mention she was!!! She must have really did some digging as I don’t have Facebook and I have never said her name.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/22 09:33 PM
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I just can’t believe in this day and age people have no protection against this. I have been in and out of depression and hopelessness.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/22 08:12 PM
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Just don’t respond. No words are the best words. And no if it is your place and your time she doesn’t have any right.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/22 01:43 AM
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Do not leave until you have finished mediation and have a document saying who leaves. Get ready she will make your like a living hell to get you to leave. I my self had the cops called on me to get me to leave and I refused, the cops ended up making her leave instead. (Grin).
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/22 02:02 PM
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Wow for a second I wondered if I was the OP. Best I can help you is don’t engage with her. When she is nasty just be silent as she diserves no more than what can be said in 3 words. Have your lawyer force all communication in apps like my family wizard. Where all her abuse documented. It still is hard, I have been in and out of depression because the same daily abuse but I just keep trucking along and doing what is right. Last as much as you want revenge don’t go down to her level. It will just …
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/22 03:01 AM
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I dont think I allowed it maybe when I was young and dumb but later I knew who I was and what im willing to put up with. It just got worse at that point.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/22 09:09 PM
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Thanks I have been working hard on my self and the more I do the more I find to improve. Not to mention I feel so much better about my self and gain more confidence. But the fact remains every time I see a woman my brain tells me she must be a real bit*h and I want nothing to do with her.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/22 01:37 AM
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Did I say something wrong? Or are you joking about woke redit?
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/22 12:50 AM
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