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False AccusationGrumpyGayGuy/r/MensRights15/12/19 01:50 AM
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Activism/SupportGrumpyGayGuy/r/MensRights28/06/20 07:52 PM
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FeminismGrumpyGayGuy/r/MensRights20/12/19 12:14 AM
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Activism/SupportGrumpyGayGuy/r/MensRights06/12/19 09:21 PM
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DiscriminationGrumpyGayGuy/r/MensRights22/12/19 01:15 AM
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DiscriminationGrumpyGayGuy/r/MensRights10/12/19 05:46 PM
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GeneralGrumpyGayGuy/r/MensRights15/02/20 03:28 PM
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GeneralGrumpyGayGuy/r/MensRights17/02/20 01:41 PM
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HumourGrumpyGayGuy/r/MensRights12/01/20 06:00 AM
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GeneralGrumpyGayGuy/r/MensRights06/02/20 05:21 PM
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HumourGrumpyGayGuy/r/MensRights04/01/20 11:52 PM
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DiscriminationGrumpyGayGuy/r/MensRights06/01/20 12:50 AM
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GeneralGrumpyGayGuy/r/MensRights12/06/20 08:08 PM
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Social IssuesGrumpyGayGuy/r/MensRights06/11/21 03:04 AM
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Activism/SupportGrumpyGayGuy/r/MensRights03/01/23 05:15 AM
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I wasn’t even aware something like this was even out there. I’m actually interested in seeing this study performed in other aspects as well.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 04:04 AM
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Honestly as long as you don’t do what I do and get angry easily, then that feeling should go away eventually. It might sound selfish, but start off by retraining your mind to understand that you are doing what is best for you. Then eventually that thinking will expand to all men.
/r/MensRights28/06/20 09:51 PM
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I have actually been trying to find lawyers who are MRA friendly who take on pro bono false accusation cases, but sadly I haven't found any yet.
/r/MensRights26/06/20 05:52 AM
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You wont hear about this anywhere else because people like myself are systematically silenced on this subject, but I owe my dad literally everything. When I was a child, he fought for me and lost, not once, not twice, but three times. After he gave up fighting, my mother found herself homeless and that is how I came to live with him. From that moment, he put his own life, dreams, and ambitions on hold so that he could raise me. He was a single dad who sometimes had to work 2 jobs so that he coul…
/r/MensRights21/06/20 05:24 PM
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It happens lol. but I do know there are some open-minded feminist groups that aren't so fanatical. I just dont know them personally
/r/MensRights12/06/20 09:02 PM
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Would they even read it? Most feminists I talk to usually get kind of angry when I tell them men arent as privileged as they think we are. If there is a feminist page that is willing to admit that male privilege is a myth I wouldn't mind submitting it but I don't know of any. I am only a part of MRM groups and pages.
/r/MensRights12/06/20 08:26 PM
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Sadly that is the state of the country anymore. And it isnt limited to just straight men. Any man who incurs the wrath of a woman is subject to any form of repercussion from physical violence to legal reprisal. If you make her mad, she could very easily say that you raped her and its practically illegal for anyone to not believe her. I myself had been out of the closet about ten years when I somehow pissed off a feminist who accused me of being a threat towards women.
/r/MensRights11/03/20 01:03 AM
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uh oh. Trigger warning lol. Facebook would have this post deleted in two seconds because women can be fathers and husbands now too. Also, the feminists would have a field day with this.
/r/MensRights29/02/20 08:38 PM
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I almost forgot what we were talking about for a second lol. Was about to say, I know I am not 2 inches shorter than Schwarzenegger lmao. My Brain went somewhere else.
/r/MensRights29/02/20 01:35 AM
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good thing I am 6 feet tall lol
/r/MensRights29/02/20 01:06 AM
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I have seen like only one James Bond movie for this specific reason. It's why all my favorite video game/TV characters are women because they are motivated by self-improvement or sustainability. Sex is a part of life and people do have it obviously, but it does seem disproportionately stacked against the male character. I cannot watch anything with Seth Rogan or Matthew (cant spell his last name lol) because I absolutely detest that "Big Butch Alpha Male" trope. I won't lie, part of me dislikes …
/r/MensRights23/02/20 03:33 PM
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The sub I made (and am still working on) is r/Help_For_Men. I have what is essentially a mission statement pinned on there. Basically I want to provide men with more safe and inclusive spaces. I also want to be able to provide them with the services they might need. I did find a couple of MRM themed law offices and shared them in a post on my group. There is a lot more that I want to do with this group, but most of it revolves around getting more members which I also do not know how to do.
/r/MensRights23/02/20 02:12 PM
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I am trying to do something like this both in my area and here in cyberland. I have a sub and an idea lol. Not sure how to go about getting something like that started in the real world though.
/r/MensRights23/02/20 02:21 AM
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Maybe some locations have a janitorial service and other dont? I remember when I worked at Elder Beerman when it still existed, they had a separate Janitorial service for the region. The three stores had to share the same 3 people. Then there were the stories that had a full time janitorial service and even others who didn't have one at all because corporate wouldn't pay for it in stores that didn't make much profit.
/r/MensRights23/02/20 02:03 AM
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Well we already knew that. This isn't news lol. These companies claim to be woke because they are literally terrified of cancel culture which is a very real thing. Only the most wealthy can stand up to that kind of scrutiny. They really don't care about any of this. They just want to keep their jobs. Who knew that one day our country would be run by a bunch of bitchy overly emotional teen fuck-faces.
/r/MensRights22/02/20 07:52 PM
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This is something that I have said as well. I actually fell into that trap myself prior to enrolling in the university in my city. I thought that the Men's Rights people were crazy nut-jobs and that real men (gay or otherwise) supported feminism because feminism has always supported equality. As a young gay teen growing up in an extremely conservative city, I took a personal interest in these atrocities because I knew how it felt to be marginalized for something you have no control over. Then I …
/r/MensRights22/02/20 07:46 PM
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So am I going to be the one to call the cops or is someone else going to do it? He said "all men" and he is a man. How many women and children has he killed lately? As a pacifist, the only fights I have ever been in have been verbal ones. I am quite proud of the fact that I have been able to dodge all physical confrontations with my words. Can he say the same?
/r/MensRights22/02/20 04:59 PM
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In my estimation, from what little research I have done since making my own sub, women are more likely to be the givers of domestic violence in todays society. Some of the things I found basically say that Men are less likely to beat their partners for a plethora of reasons, but what is essentially the fact that we don't want to be seen as monsters anymore. Whereas women are more likely to be givers because they are in societal limbo. Society still sees them as delicate fragile flowers as much a…
/r/MensRights21/02/20 01:37 AM
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This charity is exactly what I have been looking for to add to my group. Because it is hard to find mental health or legal professionals who focus solely on men, I need the help of generous individuals to share things like this. I will most definitely post this on my page in an effort to help spread the word if you don't mind. I will go ahead and make a post and if you wish me to take it down, I will do so. I have also found a few Men's Rights lawyers for those who are interested. I also found l…
/r/MensRights21/02/20 01:01 AM
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I hope they realize that by saying this, they are essentially saying that women have no autonomy with their sexuality or that they are sexually inferior to men. This statement is saying that only men have the power when it comes to sex and that women have so little autonomy that even when they rape someone, (which most rapes are about power and authority) they still are so sexually inferior that it isn't rape. Just thought I should mention lol. Saying a woman can't rape a man is as much an insul…
/r/MensRights20/02/20 10:05 PM
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I technically am an ex feminist. I turned against feminism and to Meninism because those same feminists accused me of being a sexual/violent predator towards all women. At the time I was distraught but now I’m kinda pissed cause it’s pretty obvious I’m gay. Also I turned from Meninism to the actual Men’s Rights Movement cause the Meninist group I was in turned pretty racist pretty fast 🤢
/r/MensRights19/02/20 02:52 PM
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I sent an email and got two replies to it lol. The first was a Customer Service Rep I talked to when I called. He said that he can't see where it is or how far away it is but that its estimated arrival time is Wednesday. The second reply was an email saying that sometimes books get lost and that they were sorry but they issued me a refund. I would like the book more than I would like the refund honestly
/r/MensRights17/02/20 06:39 PM
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That may be the issue, but I received the email and the put in the order the very next day. According to the screenshot I shared, I placed the order on the 7th and it is now the 17th. I just find it extremely suspicious that the very first time I have an issue is with this particular book. I hope that it is all just in my head.
/r/MensRights17/02/20 03:46 PM
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I purchased Paradise Lost and Paradise Regained because that is one of the three essentials for my bookshelf. The first is Canterbury Tales which I also bought through this site and the next is Dante's Inferno. This site is usually good at getting my books to me really fast, but I find it a little curious that the very first book I have an issue with is a book with this title. It just seemed a little suspicious to me. The irony is that I bought it because I received an email saying that "An item…
/r/MensRights17/02/20 03:18 PM
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Dude that is awesome. I mean I still want the physical copy for my bookshelf because I am a book nerd but this will help me with my paper.
/r/MensRights17/02/20 03:12 PM
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Just for added clarity, Thrift Books puts the state the books are shipping from in parentheses at the end as depicted above. I’ve received the first two books on the 10th but the third one is I guess nowhere to be found.
/r/MensRights17/02/20 01:43 PM
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Thanks :-)
/r/MensRights15/02/20 03:41 PM
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As a matter of fact, I would like that. I have the same username on there.
/r/MensRights15/02/20 03:41 PM
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I hope you are right. Luckily my Masters Program is online (or would that be unlucky?). I have one more Literary Theory course and then I start working on my Master’s Thesis. But anyway, I would like to think that people aren’t so vile in the real world.
/r/MensRights06/02/20 06:49 PM
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The only one advocating against equality is you. I am clearly the only one here fighting for true equality, and I am not the one who advocated suicide. Again I say I know that reading is hard for tiny brains like yours but do at least try.
/r/MensRights06/02/20 06:20 PM
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Or you could make the world a MUCH better place and stab it in your own neck. The world and this country needs a lot less sexists bitches who make it their life goal to oppress men. Go on with your imaginary problems that don't exist. The facts speak for themselves.
/r/MensRights06/02/20 06:14 PM
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I just put that book on my wishlist on Thrift Books. It doesn't look like it is a common book though. Luckily it isn't that expensive. Hopefully they still have a copy when I have the funds to buy it. There is also a book that I wanted called Destroy A Man Now and its counterpart Destroy A (wo)Man now. I have heard that these are satire, but would rather find out for myself. Unfortunately, it is out of print and I don't think I can get an out of print book.
/r/MensRights06/02/20 05:45 PM
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There is the potential for it to come up in just about any place there are women. This time it came up on the Drop the T sub. There is a page on Facebook called The Boxer Ceiling in which the admin periodically makes a post on the subject. It is pretty much the only topic of conversation on the LGB Alliance group on Facebook. It has come up in the Right Wing LGBT sub here on Reddit. it is also pretty much the only topic of conversation with college feminists who like to consider themselves "woke…
/r/MensRights06/02/20 05:42 PM
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I just have one comment to make on this subject. Even though we know what TERF stands for, only something like 10% of them are actually feminists. Even though TERF stands for Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminists, the trans community and the subsequent TRAs affix this term to just about anyone who refuses to date or sleep with trans people. From what I have seen, the focus is on the TE much more than it is the RF. Just before my recent ban on Facebook, I myself had been called a TERF a few times …
/r/MensRights06/02/20 05:09 PM
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EQUAL-TARIAN lol. Sorry. That is just what I think when I see that word lol.
/r/MensRights06/02/20 05:01 PM
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You aren't wrong but you aren't right either. There are technically two (or maybe three now) forms of Feminism. There are the traditional feminists that are working towards true equality in every aspect of life. Then there are the Third Wave Feminists. I can't remember who wrote the fancy essay but decades ago a woman wrote an academic article stating that feminism comes in waves and that (when I was an undergraduate) we were in the third wave of feminism. Third wave feminists are the ones like …
/r/MensRights06/02/20 04:58 PM
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It is comments like this that make men less than empathetic toward women in general. Don't forget that old saying "An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind".
/r/MensRights06/02/20 04:51 PM
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I find it super hilarious when I hear that a man is a feminist and supports their rhetoric. I simply tell them that I was in that position myself once upon a time too, and how was I rewarded? I was accused of being a sexual predator towards women. I don't have to try and convince them that feminists are vindictive vermin. I just have to sit back and wait for their rape trial because no man is safe from the feminist's slander.
/r/MensRights06/02/20 07:33 AM
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Unfortunately, the only thing that we see is society constantly blaming men for everything that is wrong with the world. Men are the reason the world is a shitty place basically. I am a pacifist but I swear hearing that blaring from every form of media from old school radio to new age social media forums makes me want to throw someone down a very large flight of stairs. Not only does this hit close to home for me as a man, but also for the men that I offer support to. I was talking with someone …
/r/MensRights06/02/20 07:26 AM
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I apologize for being a bit bitter about the subject. 7 years and I still carry the scars of what happened to me. I have shared the story several times here throughout the subs here on Reddit, but the short version is that back toward the end of 2013, I had the misfortune of taking a class taught by a feminist professor. Not sure why she didnt like me but she didn't hide it. She would warn my female classmates to stay away from me because i was a predator and just pretending to be gay so that I …
/r/MensRights05/02/20 10:11 PM
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The problem with your argument is that you assume that all victims will be treated with fairness and respect. There are no well known examples of men who have shared their stories of abuse who have not be the target of disdain and ridicule. Any man who shares his story, whether it be past abuse or an egregious accusation of some sort, or even any instance where he was discriminated against is almost immediately met with a plethora of negative replies. Women in general are just plain heartless. "…
/r/MensRights05/02/20 03:27 PM
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I have started using #MenToo as well as #HimToo and #BelieveHim. You would not believe how many angry feminists that I have upset by using these. Every so often, an article about another sexual assault will come across my Facebook timeline and I will just comment with these hashtags and people keep trying to report it for hate speech, harassment, or anything else.
/r/MensRights05/02/20 03:10 PM
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If this were on Facebook and you reported it, they would simply state that nothing they posted go against any community standards.
/r/MensRights01/02/20 09:43 PM
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First I want to say that I am not going to judge you for your own feelings. It would be really crude of anyone who wants to tell you how you should feel. I myself feel like I am in the same boat possibly for the same reasons you feel this way. I have health issues as well as some mental issues and I find that I am just waiting out the clock so to speak. Mentally I have checked out but I keep going because my absence would make a big impact on those around me. I know I am just some guy on the int…
/r/MensRights01/02/20 07:41 PM
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I would have to disagree here. What it seems like you are saying is the same rhetoric that perpetuates continuous oppression. I have seen this many times over in my English Literature courses when the women try and use the argument "This poem proves that female oppression existed when it was written, so it also proves that it exists today." What you are basically saying is that because it existed in the past, it exists today which is extremely flimsy logic. The fact that you think men have any p…
/r/MensRights31/01/20 12:31 AM
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You have literally described my whole experience. Hell, the woman doesn't even need a 4.0 or a college degree at all. I, a college graduate of excellent standing, was beat out on one occasion by some junky who couldn't stop shaking long enough to answer any of the interviewer's questions. I showed up to that interview professionally dressed, showered and shaved. She showed up in paint covered sweats that were like 3 sizes too big for her. I answered all of his questions and she couldn't stop cou…
/r/MensRights31/01/20 12:01 AM
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It is a cup that people use to mix things like whey protein or preworkout. It is basically a cup with a metal spiral thing in it. You put pre workout in it then you put the water, then you shake it until its mixed.
/r/MensRights30/01/20 11:23 PM
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I say one semester. Even less if they refuse to include trans.
/r/MensRights30/01/20 11:06 PM
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Straight White Men technically are a minority group these days. They are being systematically oppressed in multiple areas of life, and other groups try to prevent them from succeeding. I would also venture a guess that there are fewer straight white men than almost any other group. I could go on, but I think that it qualifies.
/r/MensRights30/01/20 10:57 PM
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I really hope that by "minority men" they don't mean "trans men". I am beyond done with having to relinquish male only spaces to women. But the idea sounds pretty good. We just need to make sure that 1) we don't let it become overrun or infested with women or trans and 2) that we don't let groups like this bully men into feeling bad about problems that only exist in women's minds.
/r/MensRights30/01/20 10:50 PM
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I really wish there were more that I could do as far as being an advocate for suffering men. Sadly, I lack the means or know-how to start up something in the real world. I really do wish I were able to do more. I have a huge soft spot for men who are falsely accused of practically anything. I myself was falsely accused of being a "predator to women", but there are men who have been accused of much worse. I have the passion and drive to do something, but outside of offering my cyber-shoulder, I a…
/r/MensRights30/01/20 10:02 PM
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Do people still use gay to mean happy? I kinda hope there are because I like talking with people who use old timey lingo :-)
/r/MensRights28/01/20 07:41 PM
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Well that clears things up. There are days when I subject to that philosophy because it seems really fruitless to try and fight the discrimination, but then I see something else the gives me a little hope. One example is the Boxer Ceiling page on Facebook. While it is suppose to be a group about encouraging and uplifting men, I think it is run by an angry feminist because several times a day the admin will post pro-feminist anti-male rhetoric. There was one occasion in which the admin stated tha…
/r/MensRights28/01/20 07:14 PM
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Then you haven't been looking very hard at all. That is pretty much the only kind of woman enrolled at my university. I have had several run-ins with them when I was an undergraduate. If I were you I would count myself lucky to not live in a place where this is true, but it really is true. What really doesnt help hurts our cause is when men plug their ears and bury their head and say "This isn't real" while men continuously fall victim to whatever a woman can think up. I understand that you are …
/r/MensRights28/01/20 07:01 PM
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Edgy but true. Women dont need or want help from men in any for so I say we just leave them to their own devices. Stay the fuck away from women because you will go to jail. I know for a fact that there is no such thing as a women who knows how to tell the truth.
/r/MensRights28/01/20 06:54 PM
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My username is pretty plain and to the point lol. It's kinda hard to misinterpret it :-P
/r/MensRights28/01/20 06:47 PM
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I dont know. And it isn't my definition. The definition comes from the feminist group at my alma mater. I mentioned in another post that I haven't seen anyone else use that definition outside of the university, which is good, but they still use that definition there. I am honestly worried that several men have been falsely accused of rape because of this definition. I am not sure if you have seen the Netflix documentary Heroine, but I live in that city and know Patricia Keller personally, and I …
/r/MensRights28/01/20 06:41 PM
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I rather like the peen lmao
/r/MensRights28/01/20 04:19 PM
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We all already know what is going to happen. Either nothing will happen because "women can't abuse men", or he will be charged with assault. I can only imagine how the feminists are spinning this one.
/r/MensRights28/01/20 03:49 AM
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erm ok... lol. Your words say that we agree but your tone implies that you dont like the fact that I really dont care. You are a very confusing person lol.
/r/MensRights28/01/20 03:19 AM
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If thats what you like lol. Again I ask, is there any reason at all why I should care? I mean you mentioned daughter and I dont give two shits about women anymore. They are "brave" and "empowered" individuals. Let them fend for themselves. I dont give a fuck what you do to your daughters.
/r/MensRights28/01/20 03:03 AM
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and? Is there any reason at all why I should care?
/r/MensRights28/01/20 02:59 AM
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TheRedPill was shut down before I started actively using Reddit and I have not ventured into MGTOW territory, not that I am even sure what that really means. I know what the letters stand for, but people make it seem like a bad thing that men want to be individuals. But there could be a whole context that I am missing. I can't say that it doesn't happen but I have not been personally shunned from MRA related communities either in real life or online. Here on Reddit I am only a member of the Men'…
/r/MensRights28/01/20 02:16 AM
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Very true. If they are unconscious then they cant consent to you saving their life. There are like 10 different felonies for a man helping a woman who is unconscious and bloody in the street. I hate to say it and it would make me feel bad, but I would have to just keep walking because I refuse to go to prison for something so petty.
/r/MensRights28/01/20 01:06 AM
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Unfortunately it is about men and women. Women in today's society have showed that they bluntly don't like men being around them, let alone something like this. There are a slew of false accusations ranging from intimidation or menacing to full on rape. Yes one person did a nice thing and we all see that, but men have been systematically punished for good deeds. Being nice to women lands a man in jail. The only thing the woman has to prove is that a man was near her and she can make any claim th…
/r/MensRights28/01/20 01:02 AM
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Very well said. I have male friends who are literally terrified to be in the same room as a woman. As someone who has been falsely accused myself, I say let them get hit. She cant accuse you of rape if she is in the hospital.
/r/MensRights28/01/20 12:51 AM
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You are clearly enforcing your patriarchal standards upon her by telling her when and where she can walk. You are also taking away her constitutional right to choose whether or not she wanted to walk in front of that car. lmao /s
/r/MensRights28/01/20 12:44 AM
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Women should know better, especially when the feminists keep proclaiming rather loudly that they are the smarter gender.
/r/MensRights28/01/20 12:41 AM
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Completely true. And I have been advocating for years now that even we gay men are not immune to it. I have my story buried somewhere deep in r/SupportForTheAccused but the tl:dr is that an old feminist professor warned my female classmates not to hang around me because I was a dangerous predator to women.
/r/MensRights28/01/20 12:37 AM
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I have said this a few times before but according to the feminist group at my undergraduate university, rape is now defined as any forceful penetration of a woman. Which includes things like personal space. This basically means that if a man stands too close to a woman crossing the street and she starts to feel uncomfortable, that man raped her in broad daylight. Luckily I have not seen this anywhere else outside of my old university, but I still worry about the men enrolled there.
/r/MensRights28/01/20 12:27 AM
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I am an MRA but I honestly don't have any opinions on circumcision. The only argument that I could make is the overall aesthetics. I like being with circumcised men, but it isn't something I would go to war over lol.
/r/MensRights28/01/20 12:17 AM
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So when is his rape trial?
/r/MensRights28/01/20 12:13 AM
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It would take something that I really disagreed with for me to downvote it. I prefer to upvote on things so I try not to venture into threads where I will be tempted to start an argument or get involved in one. Also, I don't know how much you are on Facebook, but you don't want to join or be associated with The Boxer Ceiling page on there. I don't know who the admin is, but I can assure you that they arent real MRAs. Hell, I don't think they are MRAs at all. How can one advocate for real gay men…
/r/MensRights27/01/20 02:01 AM
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I was also downvoted for saying that. I can't remember the group I made the post in, but I remember I received a lot of hate for it. It was also the reason for one of the many bans I received on Facebook. I have not said anything that isnt true and I wont be silenced by people who are working against true equality.
/r/MensRights27/01/20 01:47 AM
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I hate to admit this but I haven't worked since 2012 because no one would hire me. There were several places that bluntly told me "We don't hire men". I mentioned this in a different group and I still get attacked by people saying "They didn't say that because they arent allowed to say that." or "the other person was just more qualified." or something else to make it my own fault that more that 30 jobs refused to hire me. I have several degrees now going all the way up to a Master's. In my last …
/r/MensRights27/01/20 01:41 AM
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There are a few things that arent on this list. My biggest issue is with "workplace diversity" or whatever they are calling it now. In an effort to be more diverse, employers are hiring/promoting women and overlooking qualified men. You can bring this up to women, but they will just say that it doesn't exist because they don't want real equality. They want superiority.
/r/MensRights27/01/20 01:16 AM
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I am honestly loving how gay marriages break that system. Men do not receive alimony and women don't have to pay alimony, thus nothing happens when they get divorced. With that said, I am still highly annoyed that men receive almost no sympathy in instance like this. Time and again I have seen good honest men get taken advantage of with things like this.
/r/MensRights23/01/20 07:37 PM
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Honestly anyone can be dangerous. So far from what I have seen, women are much more dangerous than men.
/r/MensRights22/01/20 05:24 PM
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This video cuts a little deep for me and boils my blood a little bit. Something similar happened to me when I was much younger. Almost when I too young to remember. For the first 8 years of my life, I lived with my mom, and my dad (her second husband) was required to pay child support for me, but he wasn't allowed to do much more than that. My birth certificate listed her previous husband as my dad because they had been separated but not totally divorced (which is a completely different talking …
/r/MensRights21/01/20 03:13 AM
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I can see this happening. Post Partum Depression has been used to justify a woman killing her newborn or young children (since post partum can last several years). What's stopping her from doing it before the baby is born.
/r/MensRights21/01/20 01:04 AM
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I assume you are being a little facetious with this but they really are like this. In fact I have seen the exact words that you used but in a different conversation. There is one radical feminist who made the claim that all PIV is rape and she goes into explicit details about how men force women even when they aren't even forcing women. She says that women cant consent because there is no such thing. I dont have the site on this computer but google "All PIV is rape", and yes she is serious.
/r/MensRights19/01/20 09:43 PM
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I wonder if these people realize that there is literally no winning with women like this. I can say with near perfect certainty that if someone had offered one of the better seats, that this woman would scream about how men are dictating where and how she can sit and she would subsequently bitch about how men are oppressing her freedom of choice.
/r/MensRights19/01/20 06:52 PM
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I am one of those people shouting that men need more respect than we deserve. I find it painfully un-ironic that my claims are met with the only two words in the feminist vocabulary "patriarchy" and "misogyny".
/r/MensRights19/01/20 06:49 PM
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The really sad part is that there are a lot of women who honestly believe with everything that they have that men honestly never deserve it.
/r/MensRights18/01/20 07:28 PM
1

No we are not immune. The funny thing is that they do not discriminate against different type of men because they hate them all equally. I am not sure exactly what I was accused of exactly but there was a professor in my old university that would constantly warn the women in my class about me. I guess she thought it was her responsibility to rid the world of scum like me. What hurts the most is that the women just believed her. Well, no. What really hurt the most is something she insinuated when…
/r/MensRights17/01/20 05:14 PM
2

I like your hashtag much better. I fully acknowledge the fact that the ones I use are purposefully the opposite of the ones that they use in an attempt to be antagonistic. I don’t do this all the time though. I only do that when I see unruly feminists hanging up on someone in the comments section of whatever article has been shared. I don’t pull them out preemptively because I don’t intend to cause a ruckus. I just want to help out where I can because I would hope the same would be offered to me…
/r/MensRights17/01/20 12:03 AM
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I have actually had some of these arguments before. I tend to find myself on the subject of false rape accusations lately because that seems to be something that is becoming more and more of a problem here lately. There are several movements and hashtags now that are technically encouraging women to make false accusations. I know it is a bit of a troll, but when I see posts such as those, I will reply with the counter hashtag. I am trying to get #BelieveHim more well known.
/r/MensRights16/01/20 05:17 PM
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I can confirm this actually. it is a large part of the reason I am single right now. The sting of being single and alone is nowhere near as bad as the sting of being cheated on.
/r/MensRights14/01/20 02:25 PM
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I stand by my assertion. No one is going to deny employment to a victim of rape. No one is going to deny a rape victim from opening a bank account or from enrolling in a university. And in general, no one is going to refuse to date a rape victim. Being the victim of a false rape accusation has a much larger impact on a man's life (because let's face it, a woman will never accuse another woman of this crime). As I said before, this accusation will follow him when he goes to apply for a job or whe…
/r/MensRights14/01/20 02:22 PM
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A man in a room full of women is also terrified because that's how many rape accusations he will have to fight. Being a rape victim is traumatizing just as being the victim of a false accusation, but I would argue that being falsely accused it much more detrimental than being the victim of rape. As a victim of rape, the person can get some help dealing with and working through the trauma. This person may have to re-learn how to be in public spaces and this could end up taking years. Being the vi…
/r/MensRights14/01/20 02:34 AM
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Posts like this make me really glad that I am gay lol. I've never met a man that didn't want sex lmao.
/r/MensRights14/01/20 01:55 AM
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This is an old one but still a relevant one. If being drunk means that one cannot consent, then both of them are the rapist and the victim. And the liberals can't play the "Different genders have different brains" card because they have disavowed the notion of gender. They can't claim that gender doesn't exist in one breath and then blame it for something else. Either it exists or it doesn't.
/r/MensRights12/01/20 09:08 PM
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I know it is bad, but one thing I like to do occasionally is troll the comments section of some of the "news" groups/pages on Facebook. Every time there is a violent crime where the perpetrator is unknown, I will make the comment "I hope they catch the woman who committed this violent crime". This is a satirical kind of troll meant to bring attention to the fact that the assumed perpetrator of any crime is a man.
/r/MensRights11/01/20 02:43 PM
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So, at this point in our societal development, should we change the old phrase "The boy who cried wolf" to "The woman who cried rape."? Thanks to the 'Me Too' and the 'Believe Her' movements, only about 10% - 15% of the reported accusations are actually true.
/r/MensRights09/01/20 03:04 PM
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I really hate to say this because it sounds horrible, but I honestly don't think that an accusation like this should be taken seriously by anymore. When I was an undergraduate studying rape and rape culture for a class essay, I stumbled on a few research articles as well as a couple of regular articles in one of those trashy online click-bait articles. Most of the people doing the research came to similar conclusions. I believe that they each found that roughly 60% - 70% of legitimate rape cases…
/r/MensRights09/01/20 12:27 AM
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One of the things that annoys me the most is that some of the more radical feminists (whom I am sure were standing in the crowd of "supporters") honestly believe that all PIV (penis into vagina) is rape, end of story. I think this initially started as a joke or satire, but a radical feminist stumbled onto this concept, spruced it up with a few feminist buzz words, then regurgitated it to the feminist world and of course it was embraced with open arms. Now there are whole groups of lesbians that …
/r/MensRights07/01/20 04:58 PM
2

The most cringe worthy aspect of this, as well as every other false accusation, is that they go on the sex offender's registry (at least in America they do, not sure about other countries). The problem is that the Sex Offender Registry is a no-takeback list, meaning that once you are on it, you are on it for as long as the registry exists so that people can posthumously ridicule the accused. As far as I am away, the man stays on the registry even if there is irrefutable proof that he is innocent…
/r/MensRights06/01/20 02:49 AM
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This comment speaks volumes. I think this is why around half the people in the SupportForTheAccused sub use throwaway accounts for anonymity. Not only are these men being falsely accused by women and being forced to miss work yet somehow pay lawyer fees and court costs and the like, but they also face ridicule by Feminists and Feminist supporters.
/r/MensRights06/01/20 02:43 AM
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I just watched this today on an app called Tubi. Very informative. I like that she interviewed Feminists as well as MRAs.
/r/MensRights06/01/20 02:27 AM
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Those Matriarchal societies still depended heavily on men to do the physical labor and grunt work. Also, men were most likely slaves, so without men those matriarchal societies wouldn't even exist because they literally did not have the ability to sustain it without men. I am not seeing a single way women would be able to survive without men.
/r/MensRights05/01/20 06:26 PM
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Sounds pretty helpless to me. Excluding the reproduction argument, without men there would have been no one to protect the women and children in their villages.
/r/MensRights05/01/20 06:19 PM
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Oh, let's not forget the Pink Tax that they somehow think only applies to women. *rolls eyes*
/r/MensRights05/01/20 06:13 PM
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In my experience, those are all now gender-neutral job positions now because 'equality'. I would use this as another opportunity about my misadventures in finding gainful employment, but you can just look through my comment history on my profile lol.
/r/MensRights05/01/20 06:03 PM
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How much do you want to be that the women defending the men and speaking out against this hashtag are themselves getting reported for hate speech and subsequently banned?
/r/MensRights05/01/20 05:59 PM
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She might understand more than she is letting on. That is how my best friend is. As a lesbian who defends me, she gets tons of hate for supporting me. She has seen me be verbally attacked by college feminist in real life, and he has seen it online as well. Honestly from how I have seen people treat my friend, it seems like it might be dangerous for a woman to openly be an MRA.
/r/MensRights05/01/20 05:49 PM
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My question though is why is it acceptable for women to sell men's underwear and men's clothing? How is that fair? When put into a greater context it is sexist to both men and women on a variety of levels. I do understand that they are trying to protect themselves legally, but at the same time they are refusing to hire be because they incorrectly assumed that because I am a man, I am just pretending to be gay so that I can get close to women and their undergarments. It is technically more illega…
/r/MensRights05/01/20 05:39 PM
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I know not all women are like this, and I know this because most of my friends are women who understand that it is difficult on all sides. However it just seems like there are more and more of the radical feminists all over the place.
/r/MensRights05/01/20 05:22 PM
1

This question came to me because I was in another group on Facebook where I somehow managed to get into an argument with a 3rd Waver and another guy jumped in and defended me (not because it was me but because he is gay and an MRA) and as he continued to defend my points, I thought to myself "This is kinda hot" lol XD
/r/MensRights05/01/20 04:53 AM
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Not a bad idea lol. If you took a stroll through my facebook you would see a couple convincing pics I took of me in drag :-P (but most of them are kinda disasters lmao)
/r/MensRights05/01/20 04:37 AM
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They only sold women's clothes and a big chunk of the store was women's underwear and lingerie. One of my friends told me that some women think that some guys just pretend to be gay to get close to women, but even though I am not super flamboyant, it is still obvious that I am gay lol
/r/MensRights05/01/20 04:27 AM
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I do have a plan in place but because of my luck with finding employment, it is just a rough plan. It is my plan to apply to teach English at the Junior College where I made my start. There is only one English Professor there and she has been there for several decades now (3 that I know about). I figure I might have a good chance of getting the job since people aren't exactly lining up to teach English at a Junior College in a small town that nobody knows about.
/r/MensRights04/01/20 11:44 PM
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I ended up doing what I have always done after months of not finding a job. I went back to school. I tried applying at a great many places over the course of half a year with no luck, so I enrolled at my towns community college. I honestly believed that my associates degree would help me find work but another 6 months went by and no offers. I then enrolled at my town's unversity. After graduating with a BA, I spent the first year after graduation unemployed yet again. So yet again, I went back t…
/r/MensRights04/01/20 09:03 PM
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Unfortunately no. After I went through the application process, I talked with someone about placement and the only job placement she would give me is some assembly line job that she knew I couldn't get to. I asked about reception jobs and she said she would prefer to place women in those positions.
/r/MensRights04/01/20 08:51 PM
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One of them was a women's clothing store but I applied because I am the kind of gay man that is interested in outward appearance and making people look good. I was told that working in an all female clothing store would make the customers uncomfortable. After a while I went to a temp agency and asked if there were any reception/secretary type positions open. The temp agency I went to focuses primarily on that type of work, but yet again I was informed that they only place women because they thin…
/r/MensRights04/01/20 08:33 PM
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While I am quite annoyed at this as someone who tried looking for gainful employment after I finished college the first time, I can still understand certain jobs. For example, there was one job I applied for that specifically sold women's clothing and a good portion of the store was lingerie and underwear. This is one of those instances where the Hiring Manager specifically told me that she can't hire men because it would make the customers uncomfortable. While I fully understand that rationale,…
/r/MensRights04/01/20 08:30 PM
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I am so glad that someone else has noticed this. For me personally, I have been denied many job opportunities because I am male. There were a couple of them that were bold enough to tell me that they can't hire me because they don't hire men. At the place where my dad works, they dont mind hiring a man but only under the stipulation that he understands that he will never be promoted from his starting position. I have noticed that the reason for this kind of behavior is because the so-called "opp…
/r/MensRights04/01/20 07:44 PM
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I am constantly getting into quarrels with with feminists about this subject. I argue that women are preferred over men in a growing number of industries. Also women are more likely to be promoted than a man. The issue comes when I cite a personal anecdote and they always reply with "honestly, it's just you.". The other comment I get quite often is "That does not happen and you are making up stories".
/r/MensRights04/01/20 07:34 PM
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No. I was the one that left the page myself. They were great in the beginning, but administration changed after the page got a 30 day ban. maybe the original admin was banned from facebook or found it too stressful, but after that the content because a little racist. The bad N word was thrown around quite a bit. It became more and more racially motivated and less and less about mens rights as a whole.
/r/MensRights04/01/20 03:02 AM
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There was a group on Facebook called the Meninists. For a while it was a place where I finally felt accepted. The group and I have parted ways for personal reasons, but it did give me hope. I finally realized that there were other men out there struggling like I was.
/r/MensRights03/01/20 08:53 PM
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In my experience, men dont even have to have done anything wrong at all. In some cases all it takes is a woman just saying that a man did something horrendous and the whole country is up in arms to ruin this person's life. Thanks to the emerging MeToo movement another movement has also come into light called the BelieveHer movement, in which we as a society are expected to believe the woman based only on the premise "A woman wouldn't lie about something like that".
/r/MensRights03/01/20 08:50 PM
1

How are male feminists still a real thing. I find it funny that men like him choose not to see the inequality. I used to be a feminist myself back in college because I though that women were dealt a pretty bad hand in modern society. It didn't even take them a year (It actually only took one semester) to come after me simply for being male. I was accused of being dangerous to women. Several of you have seen a couple of posts about this already, but a feminist professor would secretly leak that I…
/r/MensRights27/12/19 08:51 PM
4

the friend who went with me to the dollar store was wearing a purse the same size of my back pack and it didnt have a zipper. It just had one little snap in the middle. My back pack has like 20 zippers. it would be much easier for her to steal than me
/r/MensRights22/12/19 01:47 AM
1

My hair is super important to me lmao XD
/r/MensRights22/12/19 01:22 AM
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After the second time that it happened, I went and complained to one of my college friends about the incident and she explained to me that it is probably one of two things. First it is because the terrorists pack bombs in back packs and the manager could be worried about being blown up. Secondly, it is easier to steal with a back pack.
/r/MensRights22/12/19 12:49 AM
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There are double standards everywhere. Boys aren't supposed to wear earrings or ear studs. Note: here comes one of my famous anecdotes. A few years ago, my friends and I were working on some craft projects together and we ran out of some of the things we needed. We go to the nearest dollar store (because the things we needed were much cheaper there). It is necessary to note that I carry my back pack around everywhere because it is basically my purse. I think I may have more stuff in my back pack…
/r/MensRights21/12/19 09:25 PM
1

I love drama so I might join just to watch the carnage unfold lol. Although, joining now would be like starting a daytime drama on the third season XD
/r/MensRights21/12/19 08:47 PM
2

I actually have a friend who was also the victim of the believe the woman crap. He was studying Criminal Justice while we were in college and when he graduated, he applied to be an officer in our city. Unfortunately, he had a vindictive ex-girlfriend and she called the police department and said that he beat her and that he is violent and that he is a predator. He ended up moving to the next city over and did not tell anyone he was applying there until after they had already accepted him.
/r/MensRights20/12/19 08:43 PM
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I posted this mainly because of a conversation I had with someone who said something along the lines of "They are all bark and no bite" and I was like "but they try to destroy people's actual lives". And I happened to see this today.
/r/MensRights20/12/19 02:14 AM
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I went through my Facebook and found the conversation but I ended up reporting all of her comments so now they are hidden. I did take a screenshot of the article where the conversation took place. Now if I can just figure out how to send it in a comment.
/r/MensRights20/12/19 02:04 AM
2

There was an article posted by The Advocate about a Trans Power Couple who got pregnant. Most of the comments are saying congrats, but one man was not enthused at all which of course sparked an argument with this woman.
/r/MensRights20/12/19 01:50 AM
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My main point with this is to basically show that Feminists and TRAs do more than cuss you out online. They sometimes affect people’s real lives. I took this screenshot because someone once told me not to worry about them because they are all bark and no bite. If this woman is willing to complain about the guy to his boss, what else is she willing to do?
/r/MensRights20/12/19 01:39 AM
1

For added context, this was a conversation a gay man had with a TRA. I stumbled across this while browsing Facebook. This is both terrifying and annoying.
/r/MensRights20/12/19 12:16 AM
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OMG I love that video. I think I need to go to an AC support center lmao
/r/MensRights19/12/19 02:35 PM
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The problem is that the Feminists actually believe that the imaginary Patriarchy is forcing them to pay more for stupid things like shampoo or razors or other necessary sundries. It's kinda frustrating that they took the original meaning or intent and turned it into a way for them to be "oppressed".
/r/MensRights19/12/19 03:06 AM
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I honestly was a little scared after I heard that conversation. This was before I knew about Meninism or MRM so I thought there was nothing that I could do except be extremely careful. It was all for nothing though because there was a female feminist professor who told people that I was a sexual predator to women. I guess the fact that I am obviously gay meant nothing.
/r/MensRights19/12/19 01:35 AM
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You talk as if this isn't a real thing. Just look up the Pink Tax. I am 90% certain that is the name of the tax. Feminists have been complaining that feminine products cost more than man products.
/r/MensRights19/12/19 12:09 AM
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yup. I remember getting forwarded a YouTube video or article stating exactly why Air Conditioners are sexist. I wonder if I still have the link archived somewhere.
/r/MensRights19/12/19 12:04 AM
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When I was a Freshman undergraduate, I joined a feminist group thinking that I would do something to help society. After I joined, I overheard some of the other group members talking and apparently rape is now defined as any forceful penetration of a woman. This includes personal space. A woman can literally cry rape if a man stands too close to her because he forcefully penetrated her personal space.
/r/MensRights19/12/19 12:02 AM
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Does it bother anyone else that some of the people who believe that "all men are rapists" or "All men should die" actually have sons?
/r/MensRights18/12/19 11:52 PM
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What you described is already a thing in the Feminist world. They say that "All PIV is rape". PIV = Penis Into Vagina. I don't have the link to it anymore because I had to get a new laptop, but if you just look up "All PIV is rape" you will see it. There are those who say that it is satire to prove how silly people think Feminists are, but even if it started off like that, there are Feminists who have adopted that way of thinking and now preach it as truth.
/r/MensRights18/12/19 08:27 PM
2

yup. Sadly, whatever you are going to court for, its pretty much determined that you are going to lose if you are a man.
/r/MensRights18/12/19 08:20 PM
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What you just said is basically the premise of a book I have been writing for the last few years. My foundation quote is "A truth is still a truth even if nobody believes it." There are a lot of people who have had basically perfect lives who told me that I am either exaggerating or making things up completely. It was almost like they were saying to me that nothing bad has happened to me and nothing bad could ever happen to me simply because I am a man. I was first told this by a former friend b…
/r/MensRights18/12/19 01:42 AM
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Unfortunately, several of us have already been victims of some form of harassment. There are issues as big as false rape accusations or it could be as small as a woman filing a complaint against a man simply because she doesn't like him. I am somewhere in the middle. When I was an undergrad in college, someone spread a rumor that I was a sexual predator against women and that I am just pretending to be gay so that I could get close to women. Like you I am also worried because I have a nephew. Wh…
/r/MensRights17/12/19 11:09 PM
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Even if this meme isnt real, the concept surrounding it technically it real. While I am not trying to justify anyone's behavior, part of the reason some guys can be crude is because they are raised seeing that people are praising little girls for just about everything while little boys get little to no recognition what so ever. Little girls are told a million times that they can be anything they want to be and that they should shoot for the stars while little boys are scolded and told "dont be a…
/r/MensRights17/12/19 10:53 PM
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And yet I keep getting scolded by feminists saying that false accusations are a conservative patriarchal lie and that they never happen
/r/MensRights17/12/19 10:45 PM
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Honestly no but that is because I tend to stay away from women like that. All of my female friends are either in a serious committed relationship with someone or they are respectful of my sexuality. But then again my circle of real life friends isn't that big, but it is mostly women.
/r/MensRights17/12/19 09:12 PM
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Its a lot harder than you think to let go of an anger like that. I myself am still every bit as angry now as the day something similar happened to me. Every time I start to heal and forgive a little bit, something else happens and I get discriminated against because of my gender and that refills the anger. I might be able to heal if this country stopped discriminating against men.
/r/MensRights16/12/19 09:54 PM
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I just want you to know that you aren't alone. When I was an undergraduate, there was a professor who "warned" all of her female students and a couple of her female colleagues about me. She told them that I was a violent predator and to stay away from me. That if they didnt steer clear of me that I would attack them either physically or sexually, and because she is a woman and I am a man, everyone just believed her.
/r/MensRights16/12/19 09:46 PM
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My University has this online Title IX Sensitivity Training Course and I absolutely refuse to acknowledge its existence because I am more than convinced that only the male students are being sent this sensitivity training course. As of right now it isn't mandatory, but I am still abstaining from it until I know for certain that not only are female students are given this course but that it is exactly the same as the mens course.
/r/MensRights16/12/19 07:46 PM
3

Here I was thinking that dressing as your favorite anime or video game character was you showing your support for that anime or game, but nope. That is cultural appropriation and me showing my male dominance and superiority by wearing a woman's costume.
/r/MensRights16/12/19 05:45 PM
2

Ive noticed that this is something that is happening more and more lately. I was talking with a guy online a while back and as we were talking getting to know each other, he mentioned to me that he had only one or two female friends that he trusts, but other than that he tries to avoid women. Its sad that it has come to that and that certain men fell that way.
/r/MensRights15/12/19 11:31 PM
2

I am not even ashamed to admit that I actually stated seeing a therapist about a year before I graduated. I will always have that pain with me but my therapist did help me a great deal
/r/MensRights15/12/19 05:34 PM
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The only info I have about her was that during the time this happened, it was her first semester teaching at my university. She had been let go from Ohio University and immediately applied at Marshall and she was quickly approved because she studies poetry (the department chair had an almost sexual fetish with anything poetry so the fact that she taught it was the only requirement). Also, I mentioned me sexuality during one of our discussions, and then I mentioned that I sometimes dress in drag …
/r/MensRights15/12/19 04:57 PM
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I filed a complaint with the department chair. She talked to the professor but ultimately nothing happened. My worry is that by reporting her, she now intimidates her male students to the point where they dont want to report her. I know I cant be the only student she did something like this to.
/r/MensRights15/12/19 04:51 PM
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What I wonder is what happened in her life to see men in this way. Everyone has a story and I am sure hers is tragic too, but at the same time I will always hate her and I will always be angry at the situation and the university. Not only did she spread a horrible rumor about me but it was believed by someone. There is no sob story that would make that forgivable.
/r/MensRights15/12/19 04:49 PM
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I hate to say it but there are people that I do hate. That professor for one. I hate her because I know now that she isnt above spreading rumors about any man.
/r/MensRights15/12/19 04:45 PM
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That actually is my biggest concern honestly. I felt bad because I ended up dropping the class leaving the only other male in the class alone. I hope he was able to pass the class. I also went on Rate My Professor and wrote a review about her basically warning men not to take any of her courses.
/r/MensRights15/12/19 04:40 PM
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I honestly was a little nervous posting it. There have been other times when I have shared a personal story from my past where people have said that I am exaggerating or making it up completely. I actually did tell this story once while I was still attending that university and the person said that she also had that professor as well and she "knows for a fact that I am making it up". The thing that concerns me the most is that she is still in that University teaching English which means she coul…
/r/MensRights15/12/19 04:37 PM
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What I dont understand is why my friend was so ready to believe what the professor said about me. I do have a slight stutter when I talk and I tend to not look directly at people when I talk because I am self conscious about my lazy eye, so maybe that is it?
/r/MensRights15/12/19 05:36 AM
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There is a lot more to the story. I did file a complaint with the department chair but she didn't do anything. She just told me to avoid her classes in the future.
/r/MensRights15/12/19 05:32 AM
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It really is and I have stewed over it for years now. The only thing that I can think of is that regardless of sexuality, I am still a man and men are violent monsters.
/r/MensRights15/12/19 01:56 AM
10

I was told just yesterday by a feminist that false rape accusations are extremely rare and that the ones who do falsely accuse a man are angry teen girls. She then went on to say that revenge rape accusations (such as what this woman did) are just the media making things up to "push their narrative and anti-woman agenda".
/r/MensRights15/12/19 01:13 AM
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I really don't see what MGTOW is a dirty word. What is hilariously ironic is that I was called an MGTOW by an angry feminist when I made the mistake of asking what it meant. I was thumbing through Reddit looking through the few subs that I have subscribed to and came upon a post made by a woman complaining about MGTOW and incels. I was curious so I made a post asking what those words mean. The woman quickly replied as if she were waiting right by the computer or phone for my reply defining what …
/r/MensRights15/12/19 12:55 AM
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As someone who has basically been a career college student since about 2010, I am very disturbed by the evolving definition of rape for campus feminists. These feminists are technically called 3rd Wavers because of an old academic article that states that Feminism comes in waves and we are currently in the 3rd wave. This is also the wave that has completely gone bat-shit crazy. I was an undergraduate at Marshall University and being young and a new student and gullible, I joined the Feminist gro…
/r/MensRights14/12/19 11:33 PM
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I constantly get told that I can't be gay and conservative lol. But I didn't technically choose my political affiliation. It just turned out that long standing opinions that I have that were once liberal are now considered conservative.
/r/MensRights14/12/19 05:45 PM
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When I was an undergrad I also had a class that ended at 9pm and I had to park several blocks away from campus because my university charged a fortune just for the opportunity to think about parking on campus. And like you I also was in a sketchy area, and guess what. I fucking got robbed at gunpoint. The guy took everything in my wallet. I really feel a deep rage for women who assume that men are safe walking down the street. I am literally proof that we are not.
/r/MensRights13/12/19 01:59 AM
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Hmm... I wonder how long until I am a Wiki entry lmao. Grumpy Gay Guy should definitely be a link on there XD
/r/MensRights12/12/19 02:02 PM
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I am well aware that there are most likely still places where women are still looked over for jobs or promotions, but I am noticing that that is far and few between. Right now it seems that most of the discrimination is towards men. For example, my dad works a Wal-Mart and they absolutely do not promote men if they can help it in any way. I remember back when I worked there with him, I applied to work in the clothing area. They told me that that is not a man's position. Men are allowed to bring …
/r/MensRights11/12/19 02:56 AM
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I've often wondered exactly why he wanted her to stay lol. I shop for clothes in that store regularly and I never saw her there after that interview.
/r/MensRights10/12/19 10:21 PM
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Sadly, when I was 17, high schools openly discriminated against girls and women. The best principal my school ever had was a woman, but she was run off not even halfway through her first year due to harassment. There was a female English teacher who fell to the same fate. I am assuming that the Feminist teacher you mention is closer to my age and was a tragic victim on this kind of bullying and is taking her now anger out on men since men were allowed to bully her when she was in high school. Th…
/r/MensRights10/12/19 10:19 PM
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Thanks for sharing this. I am going to save this pdf you sent. The two things that I constantly get told is that I am "making up facts" and that my experiences are unique to me and that they have never heard of another man being treated like this. Instead the Feminists claim that they are the ones mostly discriminated against in the workplace.
/r/MensRights10/12/19 10:15 PM
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For those that are curious, there are a few of the times that I was simply refused employment because I am male. First, I asked to move up in the company I worked for. I was in a community college getting an Associates at the time studying Human Resource Management. I was told by management there that HR is a woman's position. There were several clothing stores that I applied to (as a gay man I love fashion). A couple of these stores only sold women's clothes and the managers at these stores tol…
/r/MensRights10/12/19 08:25 PM
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Believe it or not I actually have a similar story to this. When I was in college I had a friend who was taking Criminal Justice courses. His goal was to be an officer and eventually work up the ranks using his degree. He graduated one semester before I did, and I remember that he had to move out of the state because his ex-girlfriend kept calling the police stations he applied to and telling them horrible lies. She would tell them things like "He beat me regularly", "He yelled at me", "He bullie…
/r/MensRights10/12/19 08:13 PM
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Something similar happened to me too. One place that I applied for held group interviews (which I didn't see as too uncommon, it actually seemed kinda beneficial). The two people being interviews was me, a nicely dressed man who just got an Associates degree (I was super excited about that), and a thin woman dressed in red paint stained sweats both her shirt and pants. The interviewer would ask a question then allow both of us to answer. I thought I did pretty well, but after about 3 questions, …
/r/MensRights10/12/19 08:07 PM
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I am also an Atheist struggling with depression and anxiety, so I know exactly how you feel. I am on a few different medications and they are helping, but like you, I think I just want to do something that means something. Like with some of the groups I am apart of here on Reddit and Facebook.
/r/MensRights10/12/19 04:59 PM
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So this does happen to other men. I am so sick and tired of people telling me that "Nobody has ever said that they dont hire men." The then end that by saying "Its illegal for them to say something like that so of course it isnt true". Yes. Places are most certainly allowed to say that they refuse to hire men because they are men. I am just happy to see that I am not the only one this has happened to.
/r/MensRights08/12/19 05:49 PM
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I actually wanted to make a post like this here in this sub but was ultimately scared off by someone who said that this kind of discrimination isn't real. I can't remember what we were talking about but I remember giving a lengthy reply about all the ways in which men can be discriminated against in the workforce and why they wont get hired for jobs and the reply I kept getting is "The problem isnt the company, the problem is YOU". While that may be true in some cases, it is actually much more c…
/r/MensRights08/12/19 05:43 PM
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The type of behavior you mention isnt limited to Straight/Bi men either. As a gay man I have had, for the second time now, someone called me a predator against women and the guy who made the most recent accusation continues to warn women about my predatory behavior. What is truly sad is that some of the women he comes in contact with just accept it as fact mostly because I am a man first and nothing else matters. The fact that I am Gold Star really means nothing because, as a man, I "could" atta…
/r/MensRights08/12/19 02:25 PM
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So basically this is saying that the media shouldn't "Waste its time" covering male victims of rape because that will take column inches away from women. Talk about blunt sexism.
/r/MensRights08/12/19 01:40 AM
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This just proves that feminists out there who actually believe that only women are victims. I keep getting cursed out for "Playing the Oppression Olympics" but they are the ones that technically never stop.
/r/MensRights08/12/19 01:34 AM
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From what I have seen, a Feminist or SJW will throw out that word just as someone in the 90s would throw up their hand and say "Talk to the hand". It is that plugging of their ears mentality. They can't stand that they arent the only victims in society anymore. Men are being victimized and discriminated against in almost all of the same areas that women are, except there is an extra stigma attached to men because he just needs to "man up". Honestly from what I am seeing, women cling to "Patriarc…
/r/MensRights06/12/19 08:45 PM
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Toxic Masculinity basically just refers to the trait of any man who disagrees with a woman. This is also what Mansplaining is.
/r/MensRights06/12/19 08:03 PM
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Unfortunately, the Salvation Army is the only place around me that I can donate my old clothes to that wont just put them on a shelf and resell them. I am extremely morally opposed to giving my clothes to Goodwill because I dont like the idea of someone making free money off of my stuff. That just sounds crooked and criminal. At least the Salvation Army would give my clothes to people who need them. I also have a few stuffed toys that I want to donate. I am also morally opposed to groups who onl…
/r/MensRights06/12/19 07:30 PM
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The transphobia only makes me want to donate to them even more XD.
/r/MensRights06/12/19 07:23 PM
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You are absolutely right. Once we reach our late teens we magically become evil malicious villains whose only goal is to destroy society while women are the poor victims locked in the tower.
/r/MensRights06/12/19 07:22 PM
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I saw a meme that actually called attention to this subject too. It is only rape when the woman is drunk because it takes away her ability to consent. Yet somehow being drunk does not seem to affect the man at all. This exemplifies the hypocrisy of rape culture. A drunk man isnt raped because he was "able to get it up" and that is basically means consent.
/r/MensRights06/12/19 04:49 PM
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There is one thing that should also be taken into consideration too that will most certainly affect the numbers and that is HOW one defines rape. I have eavesdropped in a few feminist communities back when my undergraduate years and I have heard them define Rape as "any invasion of a woman's personal space". If you go by this definition, then any man who stands too close to a woman who then becomes uncomfortable is now a victim of rape, and because he most certainly did stand too close to her, i…
/r/MensRights06/12/19 04:25 PM
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Facts dont stop being facts just because you plug your ears and close your eyes. And failure to acknowledge the issues is in essence only adding to the issue because you are allowing the discrimination to continue. In fact your comment shows that you are encouraging this type of discrimination which honestly makes you a sexist bigot.
/r/MensRights06/12/19 03:33 PM
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I am sure there is a lot of "proof" and "Statistics" out there that show that women are still marginalized or oppressed in the workforce, but that is only because that real statistics go against the liberal narrative. I actually did go into several stores around where I live and the neighboring areas and more often than not, management was overwhelmingly dominated by women. The media opts not to actually study this, but that doesn't make it untrue. If you actually go out and start talking to men…
/r/MensRights06/12/19 02:49 PM
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It actually is a Men's Rights issue because of the circumstances that lead to this unemployment. I am one of those unemployed men that have officially given up because I have been told many times over "We don't hire men." I think this occurs when a woman who probably was harassed in her younger years gets into a position in which she can choose who to hire and who not to hire. When they get into this position, they essentially opt to hire a woman over a man because at some point a man was hired …
/r/MensRights06/12/19 01:55 AM
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I feel that those numbers are a bit high but that could just be my own experience. When I was an undergrad, the professors did not take too kindly to the fact that there were male English Majors. And in my area, most of management is women and in an ironic attempt to fight back against the oppression the probably dealt with in their own day, they make sure not to hire or promote men too regularly.
/r/MensRights06/12/19 01:43 AM
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Academia is in NO way a boys club. It is exactly the opposite. I am not sure if you saw my post in a similar thread, but I was actually targeted for the major crime of being male when I was an undergraduate. I had a professor that would ridicule me and make fun of me in class all the time. I took this bullying for several weeks, then I finally went to the department chair (also a woman) who dismissed me and told me never to bring up the subject again unless I want to be kicked out of my major. N…
/r/MensRights05/12/19 01:01 AM
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Unfortunately, Lesbian and women's rights way supersede Men's rights. All a woman has to do is scream that she is oppressed and the whole world practically bows to her and her wishes.
/r/MensRights05/12/19 12:51 AM
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Back then I still considered myself a leftist so that wasn't me. And I ended up just getting a Regents degree which basically just means that I graduated high school more than 10 years ago and took 4 years of college. Its basically the GED version of a college degree, but it did get me back into college and I am studying Creative Non-Fiction now so that I can learn how to tell my story most effectively with as little backlash as possible.
/r/MensRights04/12/19 02:15 PM
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Her name is Hillary Brewster and this occurred back in 2013 when I was first starting out as an undergraduate (I am now halfway through a Masters). The University is Marshall University. I did go on there a few years back and write a review that warned men against taking her classes if they could help it. And yes I did report the incident to the English Department Chair who basically told me "Its you word against hers". The Department Chair, also a woman, basically told me not to bring up the is…
/r/MensRights04/12/19 03:43 AM
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Something slightly similar happened to me while I was an undergraduate as well. There was one major professor who advocated to remove male students from the English Department. She wanted all men removed but she wasn't a Ph.D. and some of the male professors were so she didn't have the respect or authority to actually do anything. But she did have the ability to give her male students a failing grade and tell them to "Get out of my major" and that is exactly what she did.
/r/MensRights03/12/19 10:48 PM
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I am sorry but I am nowhere near convinced that this is satire. The people stating that it is are probably feminist or feminist supporters. I have seen way too many times that women use many of these tactics to attack the men around them. I myself am working on a Master's Degree in Creative Non-Fiction, and one of the first thing that is taught is to make sure the characters in your book are non-descript and that no real names are given. That is what this book does. It takes real scenarios, remo…
/r/MensRights03/12/19 10:31 PM
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