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This is what I call a good reply!! I mean not too impressed about that final "you lot", but that's ok LOL
/r/seduction24/03/20 03:31 PM
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Thanks for sharing all this. I agree with you that communication is important especilally when in any sort of relationship with someone.
/r/seduction24/03/20 03:22 PM
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In order to do so I should be paying attention to them...
/r/seduction24/03/20 08:34 AM
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Just so you know ad blocks have been available since 2004, sweety
/r/seduction24/03/20 08:24 AM
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This is the same as saying all men only want sex. Its not true. Some men want passionate sex. So.e men want short sex. So.e want 3 hour sex. Some want a freakining relationship. The main problem is that that post of mine is part of a much wider conversation which most people are not aware of. If you read my post "Types of Girls" you can see how there are certain girls, namely the sweet, kind, graceful and feminine girls who I refer to as Sweet Girls, who have my highest regard. The post "most gi…
/r/seduction24/03/20 08:23 AM
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As strange as it sound, everything can be categorised one way or the other, and the more logic someone's mind is, the clearer this concept will be. I have a logic mind and was blessed at birth with... (this is not politically correct, so I won't mention it). Fact is, trends and patterns are everywhere in nature, even if at times they are not self-evident. This won't sound romantic, and "maybe it's something we shouldn't do", but people can be categorised too. You get started with personality tra…
/r/seduction24/03/20 08:12 AM
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Fact is, what I discuss in those posts of mine are not theories, rather observations I've made over an entire lifetime. After enough time of going through the same things day in and day out, distinct trends emerge and intentions become clear. I say this as a matter of fact: behind most of the smiles I receive there is a taken girl who is not even interested in cheating on her boyfriend, but cannot refrain from smiling when she sees me. I've approached countless of them, I've had many plesant int…
/r/seduction24/03/20 07:58 AM
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I’m sorry that’s offensive to you. It is not offensive in the slightest. The "best mate" is the one who will stick around, hence attractive non-submissive guys are immediately disqualified due to all the options they have. Attractive guys are "worst potential mates" by definition, simply because they are are out of your league and you know it. One of the creepiest thing I can recall as of recently was being prolongedly catcalled by two girls who were walking just behind me with their boyfriends.…
/r/seduction24/03/20 07:40 AM
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HPD = Histryonic Personality Disorder It's one of the four personality disorders in Cluster B
/r/seduction24/03/20 07:24 AM
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Thank you. I don't have the exact same post on men, but in the post below you can find a split that could give you some insights on his personality (the post talks about how different man dress for the gym): https://highvaluedaygame.com/2019/10/31/the-daygamers-gym-outfit/ Hopefully he is not a Try-Hard.
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:48 PM
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You only want to go with YES girls Spot on. And I'll tell you more: I only want YES girls who don't play games. The Divas, for instance, the more they are attracted to you the more they play games and behave snobbishly towards you at the beginning, since they need to feel reassured that you care about them etc. Basically, they are YES girls who need a good dose of patience to start with, and who will create some drama now and thenso that you can work a bit harder for them and reassure them that …
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:33 PM
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I can tell you I only want attention when I’m bored. It fulfills a small need the way eating a snack or taking a shit does. You’re thinking wayyy too into this, women don’t care enough about the guys we use for attention Bingo!! It just confirms everything I've written in my blog post :) Young men should be made to read your comment to better understand what *certain women* are capable of. Thanks for the insights!!
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:24 PM
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Yes, that's my philosophy
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:20 PM
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All the interactions you mentioned are pleasant and happen on a daily basis with people I know, and with strangers who have a considerate attitude. Those kind of interactions can really make the day more pleasant. On the contrary, the examples I describe in the post are about women I don't know, will never see again, who have a selfish and entitled vibe, and who are only after an ego boost. I got quite skilled at ignoring them pre-emptively.
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:18 PM
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I think we are talking about slightly different things. All the examples I discuss in the post (except the HPD girl) are about girls I didn't know and never saw again afterwards. Those girls were just trying to bait me for my attention, they were solely interested in having an attractive guy taking a look at them and then move on with their day. Girls doing such things are not shy and low self-esteem, rather entitled and arrogant. As such, I ignore them.
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:11 PM
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Great!
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:02 PM
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That's a good point, they are not mentioned specifically. Thinking about it, HPD girls are just Divas brought to the extreme.
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:00 PM
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I'd recommend the following: work on your fundamentals until you generate immediate attraction everywhere you go, spend a month like this, then re-read my post and see if it looks familiar. Cheers
/r/seduction22/03/20 09:54 PM
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They feed their ego from attention and leading you on Yes that's exactly my idea as well. All the examples I discuss in the post happened during daytime, with complete strangers I was sure never to see again. There were 0% probabilities of anything happening between me and the girl, and 100% probabilities of her just being interested in a little ego boost.
/r/seduction22/03/20 09:51 PM
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I'll give you an example I didn't discuss specifically in the post. When it comes to catcalling, there are girls who wait to be next to you and then make a positive remark about you, as if the were talking to their girlfriend, and girls who wait to be next to you and proceed to make a *negative* remark. I've heard all sort of thinks: "no, he's short" "no, he's average" etc I mean, even if that was true, way the hell do they wait to be next to me so that I can hear them saying so?! They may as we…
/r/seduction22/03/20 09:47 PM
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What exactly is degrading? Did you read the part where I talk about Sweet Girls and Pearls? Those are the girls I have the utmost respect for.
/r/seduction22/03/20 09:35 PM
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nobody can predict the future fake sense of knowledge Fake sense that you can read ppl You never never really know. accept any outcome. I think we see things from *very* different perspective What a load of shit this guy's theories are. I take it as a compliment coming from the same person who made the statements quoted above. As such, thank you :)
/r/seduction22/03/20 09:30 PM
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Looks like we have some quite different views on the two points you mentioned, but that's fine. Concerning daygame vs nightgame, where do you need the more confidence to approach a girl: in a club with low lights, loud music and a bit of alcohol in your body, or at the supermarket during the day, stone-sober and with people around who may hear the conversation?
/r/seduction22/03/20 09:24 PM
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It all comes down to personal experiences and reference memories. Simply put, all the examples I describe in the post are girls who I immediately filter out based on my previous dealings with girls who had a similar vibe and a similar attitude. We all have slightly different screening mechanisms in the end.
/r/seduction22/03/20 09:16 PM
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The post is mainly referred to girls you are not close with, and who keep baiting for your attention as the day goes by. The more you work on your fundamentals, the more you will have to face this annoyance. In summary: ignore all girls to start with, then only acknowldege a girl is she looks sweet & down-to-earth, and the situation is actionable in terms of moving things forward.
/r/seduction22/03/20 09:10 PM
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More than a matter of lines is a matter of being authentic: Don't treat girls like commodities
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:13 AM
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Thanks! And yes, pretty much all ONSs and SDLs are just a girl being horny and a guy happenining to approach her. Nothing fundamentally wrong with that, I've been there a limited number of times in the past, but I now steer clear of those one-time things since I don't consider them value-adding. There are also girls met during the day that will sleep with you on the second date, only to then disappear and go back to their ordinary life where nobody knows about that one-time fling, and those are …
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:09 AM
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Patterns are present everywhere in nature, and pretty much everything can be put into a category. What we call "experience" is simply the process of deriving meaning and taking appropriate actions based on how the situation we are facing right now compares to what we have gone through in the past, and the concept of "category" is implied in that process. Until a few months ago I had everything in my head, and the blog has really helped me to rearrange everything I've seen and learnt so far in a …
/r/seduction19/03/20 03:45 PM
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That means that you must TRULY NOT A GIVE A SHIT about them, you have your goals and priorities. Yes that's essential. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill17/03/20 05:58 PM
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your gut is almost always correct I fully agree. In general when dealing with girls, all goes well until a guy starts overriding his gut with some conveniently-made rationalizations crafted by his logic mind to force meanings onto things, rather than accepting things for what they really are. In my personal case, roughly 10 years ago I made a conscious effort to learn how to read body language and how to use peripheral vision, in order to be constantly aware of my surroundings while pretending n…
/r/seduction14/03/20 09:01 PM
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If I were you, the first thing I'd do is to completely get rid of dating sites and apps. Back in the day I tried pretty much all dating apps at the same time for one month, and at the end of that one month I uninstalled everything and never looked back. Fact is, the attention I was getting on those apps was just a joke compared to the attention I regularly get in real life. Based on some data I found, women swipe right on average only on 4.5% of men, a bit picky shall we say, and most importantl…
/r/seduction11/03/20 09:15 PM
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I just released a post on this topic based on my experience, and the first four examples all refer to girls fixing hair : Indicators of Attraction Most of the time it's an instictive reaction, a single and abrupt sideways movement immediately upon seeing you (sometimes they even have their hair tied back but they do it anyway, since it's a reaction). Other times is a more deliberate thing, slowly passing her hand through the hair multiple times, with a serious and almodt intimidated facial expre…
/r/seduction11/03/20 11:31 AM
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It's quite a long read and it can deliver some good results if you put in the hard work (meaningful and structural changes can only be achieved like that). Good luck
/r/seduction07/03/20 08:08 PM
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I wouldn't hand out free validation like that. Rather, you can open with an indirect opener and then proceed with some funny chit chat. Your need to be confident and self assured while doing so, literarily think that you are doing them a favour by approaching them. Then, why the club? Bars are much better (see: Nightgame venue selection)
/r/seduction07/03/20 08:02 PM
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I personally don't like that kind of Approach Invitation like bumping into you, and actually I don't like Approach Invitations at all. I much rather prefer Indicators of Attraction, which are more feminine and way sweeter than a girl bumping into you or "casually" throwing herself onto you on public transport.
/r/seduction07/03/20 07:57 PM
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When I was going out at night alone, I was using my signature “Quick Turnaround” Method. It helps with some of the disadvantages of being on your own. It's also true that at some point I stopped going out at night altogether, mainly because it was highly inefficient scenario and I was not really having fun.
/r/seduction07/03/20 07:46 PM
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Possibly these posts may be of help, in order of importance: Nightgame venue selection My “secret” Nightgame openers Common mistakes in Nightgame Quick summary: I would avoid nightclubs altogether.
/r/seduction07/03/20 07:42 PM
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A couple of things come to mind. First off, possibly there is some residual shyness within you. You are good at meeting people and socialising, but how about going on stage and delivering a speech in front of 100 people? Going out with a girl you really like can generate the same uncomfortable feeling within you, and the first thing I would if I were do is working on your Vibe (see: Constructing a dominant Vibe). Then, I would suggest only dealing with girls who are extra sweet and kind, as a mi…
/r/seduction07/03/20 07:34 PM
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This is a relevant post I've just written: Most girls only want your attention Cheers
/r/seduction12/02/20 05:16 PM
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Cheers
/r/seduction17/01/20 06:54 AM
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This my method for the gym plus a couple of stories: The 1-2-3 Method Gym Approach – Example 1 Gym Approach – Example 2 Cheers
/r/seduction16/01/20 08:21 PM
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Hi, this my method for the gym plus a couple of stories: The 1-2-3 Method Gym Approach – Example 1 Gym Approach – Example 2 Cheers
/r/seduction16/01/20 08:19 PM
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What you describe is a normal thing. I don't like nightlife to start with, and what I used to do was reducing the time spent in each venue to the minimum. It worked for me. Nightgame “Quick Turnaround” Method My “secret” Nightgame openers
/r/seduction10/01/20 10:04 PM
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According to body language expert Joe Navarro: "When the lips disappear, there is usually stress or anxiety driving this behaviour. [...] It is a clear sign that a person is troubled and that something is wrong. It rarely, if ever, has a positive connotation. This does not mean the person is being deceptive. It just means that they are stressed at the moment." The importance of understanding body language
/r/seduction18/12/19 06:37 PM
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Those are my nightgame indirect openers. Better suited for bars and lounges, but may work very well to break the ice in the situation you just described. They break the ice, what happens next depends on other things.
/r/seduction18/12/19 10:06 AM
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I think nothing beats the soundtracks of action movies like The Dark Knight, The Rock, Crimson Tide, etc. If you want to complement those soundtracks with some reading, feel free to have a look here for the confidence part: Constructing a dominant Vibe
/r/seduction18/12/19 10:03 AM
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My problem is that when I go to a bar or a place where I see someone I want to talk to, it's pretty hard for me to start that conversation... It's hard for me to push that initial button to go. So how do I start a conversation? Feel free to have a look at my nightgame indirect openers. Where do I start? How can I learn to put it all out there to get a woman that I want? I launched a blog two months ago, where I'm sharing everything I've learned on my journey. Posts are released in a logical orde…
/r/seduction17/12/19 09:01 PM
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This is my experience: Understanding women: after online dating And this is some interesting data provided by girls: Women show us how they use Tinder
/r/seduction17/12/19 08:51 PM
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This may be useful: Constructing a dominant Vibe Cheers
/r/seduction17/12/19 08:49 PM
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This may be of help: Sharpening your Social Calibration Constructing a dominant Vibe Cheers
/r/seduction17/12/19 08:42 PM
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I think oh, once I gain another 5 or 10 pounds of muscle, maybe girls will start giving me IOIs. Try looking at this: Happiness is only in the present moment Effort vs. Result is non-linear Overall, this may be the most relevant: The concept of “being good enough” Best of luck
/r/seduction16/12/19 11:54 AM
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Cool. I don't like drinking either, and actually I was getting something to drink very rarely. Girls were more interested in knowing why I was out on my own rather say why I was drinking an orange juice.
/r/seduction16/12/19 11:45 AM
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I have gotten some conversations going doing indirect approach, but I have never felt like I could turn the conversation flirty. This is exactly why I don't like indirect street cold approaching. In nightgame and situational daygame I open indirect, since interest is implied through my Vibe and the conversation can develop naturally if there is some interest on her side. Indirect street cold approaching just feel unnatural to me. Try looking here to expand the concept further: Comparing differen…
/r/seduction15/12/19 09:28 AM
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Here's my experience on nightgame, feel free to have a look. Nightgame “Quick Turnaround” Method My “secret” Nightgame openers Nightgame venue selection Common mistakes in Nightgame I always open indirect in nightgame (but direct in daygame).
/r/seduction15/12/19 09:12 AM
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I don't like nightclubs, too chaotic and difficult to distinguish yourself from the crowd. I always frequented venues like early-evening bars and cocktail bars, where most guys were held back by approach anxiety: Nightgame venue selection
/r/seduction15/12/19 09:03 AM
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When I was doing nightgame I was always going out alone. I summarise everything here: Nightgame “Quick Turnaround” Method My “secret” Nightgame openers Nightgame venue selection Common mistakes in Nightgame
/r/seduction15/12/19 09:00 AM
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Nightgame is not only about loud nightclubs, there are plenty of venues where you can actually talk with girls (cocktail bars, lounges, early-evening bars, etc). Nightgame venue selection Have a look at this as well, explaining why bars and lounges are superior to nightclubs: Comparing different types of Game
/r/seduction14/12/19 08:53 PM
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Hi, here's some material based on my experience in going out alone at night: Nightgame venue selection My “secret” Nightgame openers Nightgame “Quick Turnaround” Method Common mistakes in Nightgame Cheers
/r/seduction14/12/19 08:50 PM
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Some ideas to get you started: Men’s Fashion rule #1 – Style Men’s Fashion rule #2 – Fit Men’s Fashion rule #3 – Fabrics (optional) The above are not to help you dress "like a gentleman" bau rather in a sexy masculine way.
/r/seduction20/11/19 05:22 PM
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For approaching girls indirectly in night venues where you can actually talk to girls, have a look here and here. Feel free to have a look here for the confidence part. The most important part is fixing your Fundamentals though. This and this can be relevant if you have decided to put yourself out there. All those are not quick readings. Problem is, the "quick" readings make you feel good in the moment, but empty-handed in terms of knowing what to do to get some real results. Cheers
/r/seduction19/11/19 08:02 PM
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Number closes after just a 5 min convo almost never pan out in a bar environment, ESPECIALLY if you don't meet up with her again that night. Fact is, I managed to make this method successfully work several times, hence it's not just a theory of mine, but first-hand experience. We were talking for something more like 15 minutes though, rather than 5 minutes. Generally speaking, and not talking about you specifically, the problem when it comes to discussing Game is that different guys have differe…
/r/seduction19/11/19 07:40 AM
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Yes, for more outgoing guys the opener is something completely irrelevant. Problem is, quite a lot of less outgoing guys are still help back by the fact that they don't know what to say to girls to start with.
/r/seduction19/11/19 07:23 AM
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Fluff, contrary to pure logic and dry "how-to" lists, is what gives you an edge when talking to women. Cheers
/r/seduction19/11/19 07:21 AM
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I got bitter and fed-up roughly six months into my journey, since I was not getting the result I wanted. First off, I stopped meeting women in unfavourable environments (online dating, nightgame). Then, I took a break and focused my efforts only abroad for a while. I talk about that extensively here, feel free to skip directly to "phase 4:" The five phases of an Improvement Journey Seems like you are doing daygame already, which is good, but it comes with a bigger "barrier to approach." Try goin…
/r/seduction18/11/19 04:26 PM
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lots of times you'll be able to get the girl away from the group ("let's go grab a drink" or "let's go outside so we can hear each other") and then escalate to making out. This greatly differs based on the social conditioning and social pressure where you live, plus the age of the girls you are targeting. That final sentence is just utopian where I live, if you remove the places where guys and girls who are still in secondary school go. Say you live in a British city or Dublin, where there is a …
/r/seduction18/11/19 07:28 AM
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My recommendation is to start talking to a group of girls within say one minute after entering the venue, this is what I was always doing. The longer you wait to strike up the first conversation, the awkward it will feel later when you try to go for it. It's important to go for the right venues to pull this off (bar and lounges rather than disco clubs for me). My objective is to be sociable, as a matter of fact I don't approach, I casually ping girls to see if they are receptive, just a dude ask…
/r/seduction17/11/19 11:01 PM
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Cheers man
/r/seduction17/11/19 09:19 PM
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Thanks man!
/r/seduction15/11/19 10:33 PM
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Hey thanks! You can subscribe by email if you wish: just go at the very bottom of any page (like this one, which is a short one) and you will find the subscribe button. Like that you will receive notifications by email, and you won't miss any future post. Cheers
/r/seduction14/11/19 08:25 PM
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Great to know you liked the post! The point you raised is extremely valid: it takes time to get there, but afterwards you will live almost in a new reality.
/r/seduction14/11/19 06:51 AM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction14/11/19 06:35 AM
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The two points you raise are valid, and the reason why I tend to not approach a girl on the street (unless she has seen me first, she's clearly attracted, and she looks sweet and feminine) is because that "it just happened" moment is much more difficult to create. As soon as there is the slightest background (supermarket, bus, queue to the museum, gym, the mall, staff of the grocery shop, etc) things are much more natural, and the interaction is generally more pleasant, whether she's sexually av…
/r/seduction13/11/19 11:10 PM
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Let's assume the two of us are talking, and then someone arrives from the sides and goes: Hey smoothmax! If you were to look away from me and look at the person who was calling you instead, that gesture is what I refer to as breaking circles. Of course you wouldn't do that, but if someone hypothetically did it, that would be a subliminal signal that the interruption is higher priority than the prior conversation the two people were having, and also an indication that the person who looked away d…
/r/seduction13/11/19 08:20 PM
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Indeed!
/r/seduction11/11/19 07:53 PM
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I put together some data provided by six girls a few weeks back, and they were swiping right on 4% of profiles on average. Removing the "high swiper," the remaining five were swiping right on 2.5% (!) of profiles. Women show us how they use Tinder The 80-20 concept is very much outdated.
/r/seduction07/11/19 09:52 PM
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Hi there, This could be a starting point: Men’s Fashion rule #1 – Style Cheers
/r/seduction01/11/19 03:37 PM
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Hi there, Try looking in here as a starting point: Men’s Fashion rule #1 – Style Cheers
/r/seduction01/11/19 03:34 PM
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Great, thanks!
/r/seduction31/10/19 01:06 PM
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I like your dedication! I personally trim my stubble every three days at 2.5mm, and it remains in the sweet spot area during those three days, but it may be just that it grows slower in my case
/r/seduction28/10/19 12:24 PM
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Ah no! Everything on my blog is available for free!!
/r/seduction28/10/19 12:18 PM
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Hi there, I was in an identical situation, and here are some recommendations for you: Grow a little stubble if you can (it was THE game changer to me) (I know you like to clean shave, but this point is huge. Instead of growing a beard, you can just shave with an electric razor at 2.5mm every three or four days) Get the right haircut which keeps you away from NiceGuyLand Dress with a masculine edge (Elegant-Edgy see below) Have a look at my guide for the full details of what I personally did and …
/r/seduction27/10/19 06:31 AM
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I know exactly how you feel, since I had the same "problem" in my early twenties. First off, in a few years this will become a major advantage to you. Then, these are a bunch of things you could do right now: Grow a little stubble if you can (it was THE game changer to me) Get the right haircut which keeps you away from NiceGuyLand Dress with a masculine edge (Elegant-Edgy see below) Have a look at my guide for the full details of what I personally did and some interesting sources: Maximising yo…
/r/seduction27/10/19 06:25 AM
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Hi there, There two things to consider here: Your external "rebranding", as you all call it Your internal views on girls, life, etc And these two things are less correlated than most people think. For the first point, I just recently launched a blog to explain what I did two years ago when I decided to "rebrand" myself, aka max out my fundamentals. Just this morning I published my 11,000-word roadmap on Looks, feel free to have a look: Maximising your Looks In terms of image rebranding, stay tun…
/r/seduction26/10/19 11:31 AM
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All right... I've dealt with women like that already, and no matter how hard they try to hide it, there will always be leftover signs of entitlement and diva-complex in the way they move, they talk, they laugh, they text. Each guy should have a solid screening mechanism to filter them out quickly, already during the initial text conversation if you matched on some app. In fairness, I think in this day and age dinner before sex should always be avoided, and afterwards is only recommended with the…
/r/seduction24/10/19 11:25 AM
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Guys, that book is spectacular indeed. I read it twice just recently, the first time reading only the text, the second time only the stories. Highly recommended.
/r/seduction23/10/19 11:52 AM
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That's the right mindset man, good luck!
/r/seduction22/10/19 09:17 PM
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The high level is simple and easy to remember: Be happy of your own life (women not in the equation here). Max out your Fundamentals. Talk to women casually (they are not a big deal) but make sure you actually talk to them. When you've got these three things in check, the "what to say to girls" thing will pretty much disappear. But the devil is in the detail, of course. I just recently launched a blog to share my view on game and life. To me it all reverts around the above three points, and if y…
/r/seduction22/10/19 05:20 AM
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Not a rhetorical question at all, just genuinely curious. I was wondering whether guys consciously reflect on what type of game they are playing when they are going out at night, or not.
/r/seduction21/10/19 05:53 PM
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Up to halfway I agree with a lot of what you say, and I mean in general terms of life, not when you refer to this sub, since I'm completely new around here. becoming the best version of yourself This is the key to me. Once your own validation comes from within you, and not through your "notches" and "flags", then you have won at life. Nothing and nobody can take that way from you. Once you love yourself it matters so fucking little what you say that you should not spent to much time thinking abo…
/r/seduction21/10/19 04:15 PM
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Ping = casually and effortlessly breaking the ice by mentioning something trivial, or asking a simple question to which you most likely know the answer already, but whatever now the ice has been broken. And immediately GTFO. Just like the sound...ping...it lasted just a second, you have broken the ice, and now you are gone. Eventually I will start writing detailed examples of my pings and how they fit in my game
/r/seduction21/10/19 11:20 AM
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She definitely is interested, but in your attention only, and she know how to keep the carrot dangling in front of you to secure that. It has happened to everyone at some point. My recommendation is to move on, delete her number, and don't reply if she texts you.
/r/seduction19/10/19 03:53 PM
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Thanks for the clarification. I've just included the summary of my findings.
/r/seduction19/10/19 08:26 AM
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Well done for approaching them (mолодец), freedom is great. ABC = Always Be Closing
/r/seduction18/10/19 08:34 PM
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Excellent perspective, thanks for sharing it
/r/seduction18/10/19 03:01 PM
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The opener was not the best, but in all fairness she was just looking for a fight. No point in wasting time replying. Disrespect => unmatch
/r/seduction18/10/19 02:11 PM
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To me this new data just provided real evidence of the feeling I had at the time, and confirmed me that leaving was the right thing to do. Never looked back.
/r/seduction18/10/19 11:35 AM
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Some people don't understand that when they send her a "hey", she is one of the very few matched they have, their "hey" in one of the 90 unread conversations on the top of 30 ongoing conversations she has. What defines a "good opener" depends quite a lot on the culture: me I found an opener that was working like crazy in the UK, and a different one that was somewhat working over here, and I have another very different one for my trips to Russia. The three of the are completely different, and eac…
/r/seduction18/10/19 11:32 AM
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I fully agree with you, and I did my contribution back in 2017 (story).
/r/seduction18/10/19 11:26 AM
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The story of my one full month on Tinder back in 2017 is here. I literarily spend the day collecting smiles and glances in real life, one of my next posts will be about my experiences being catcalled by women, and still Tinder didn't work for me. Pictures were well taken, the matches I was interested in were being numbered-closed within 3 max 5 messages, but I was just too far away from the benchmark in terms of matches (have a look at the story what kind of benchmark I am talking about). For me…
/r/seduction18/10/19 11:24 AM
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This is the gym, just be social. Here's an initial ping done well: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/divaby/guys_i_fucked_up_so_hard_today/
/r/seduction17/10/19 05:47 AM
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This is as good as it gets for the initial ping that breaks the ice: I forgot my keys at a squat rack she was at Legitimate reason to go there, obvious to both of you hoping nobody drove off with my car You had bigger things in your mind that her 10/10 physique "Thanks for not stealing my car” Playful accusation “I appreciate it” Now you are evaluating her, higher status I walk away Excellent, not a social burden, you are a guy who gets it I'd recommend next time you see her you don't come on to…
/r/seduction17/10/19 05:45 AM
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I think you are referring to the concept of pre-opener. Sure you can, but make sure you know what to say afterwards. Or just ping her casually, leave, and take it from there next time.
/r/seduction16/10/19 07:23 PM
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I used the resources listed here. More specifically, I selected the Elegant-Edgy and Smart-Casual stiles and just replicated a few looks from the Pinterest channel.
/r/seduction16/10/19 06:53 PM
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Don't try to kiss her next time. You go somewhere in public to have a drink together, go for a walk, stuff like that. You tease her, you are sociable, you just have fun. She's clearly interested in you, since the advantage of a quick escalation is that screens for interested vs uninterested girls (the latter run away). Been in this situation very recently. Escalation rejected on the second date. Played cool like no big deal on the third and fourth date (cinema is your friend), then for the fifth…
/r/seduction16/10/19 06:47 PM
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The gym is my favourite place to approach girls, my last FWB and the last three girls I've been out with are all from the gym. Fact is, you need to be extremely calibrated to pull that off, since the gym is a place where you go back regularly and reputation is important. Players reputation is fine, but the right kind of player reputation. I will write quite a lot on this, using also many of my real life examples, but it's way down the line since I'm following a logic order in my posts. For now y…
/r/seduction16/10/19 06:39 PM
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Don't take my word for it: keep working on yourself and keep approaching, then start pushing the limits, and then your own experience and reference memories will tell you if and when you can pull off the 30s thing ;)
/r/seduction16/10/19 06:18 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction16/10/19 06:15 PM
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Some thoughts for your next approach: "your a good looking girl, I dont mind taking you out on a date sometimes" Like that you transmit the idea that all you care about is her looks, not ideal I cut the interaction way too short There is no universal rule on length of the interaction. If you frame it correctly and under certain circumstances, it can literarily take 30 seconds from approach to number and then she will actually come out on the date. I pussied out and ask for instagram rather than …
/r/seduction16/10/19 01:26 PM
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A friend of mine had the exact same thing happen to him in London. That kind of behaviour is as rude as it gets, entitlement at its finest. Two things: Think about if you look significantly different (better) in your pictures, because even if bitches like her are somewhat rare, other girls may still be caught by surprise when they meet you in person A much better option: get off Tinder. Back in 2017 I tried for the first time, wrote it off within a month, and never looked back. That part of my s…
/r/seduction16/10/19 01:03 PM
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I've got a full 2500 word post on Effort vs. Result coming up later on today, just wrapping it up. The key thing to consider is that some attraction parameters give you "ever diminishing returns" above a certain threshold, while others have a "sweet spot" after which the returns on any the extra effort put in are actually negative. I prepared a couple of detailed examples from my journey to explain all this: when I was in the market to buy a leather jacked ("ever diminishing returns") and when I…
/r/seduction16/10/19 10:45 AM
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