You have just entered a not-so-big cocktail bar. The lights are low, some catchy music is playing in the background, and there is a good vibe overall. Some people are standing up, sipping their drinks while talking to their friends, some are gathered around the high tables spread throughout the venue, and some more are sitting down on the sofas next to the walls.

The place is not big at all, maybe there are 100 people there. And even if the lights are low, it’s nothing like a nightclub: you can clearly see everyone there, everyone there can clearly see you.

You calmly walk through the venue as if you were going somewhere specific, and you “casually” pass by a group of three girls standing around a high table next to a column. Those three girls seem to be not only sweet & feminine, but in a particularly good mood as well. You are alone, there are three of them, but you still have the impression that they may react warmly to your approach. If only you knew what to say to them…

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Most guys struggle a lot with what to say to girls in places with a fair amount of social pressure. Back in the day when I was still doing nightgame, I had identified two go-to openers to be used in venues like cocktail barks, lounges, pubs, etc. Plus another one to be used in the street at night.

Here is what I used to say, with good results:

My “secret” nightgame openers

For the purposes of summary, it's absolutely nothing special.