| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1589 | “Promising Young Woman” | #HeAin'tTheOne2021 | Hippofuzz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 09:12 AM |
| 1404 | I don’t even know where to start. | MALE DEPRAVITY | Hippofuzz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 04:51 PM |
| 996 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their words | #HeAin'tTheOne2021 | Hippofuzz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 08:11 PM |
| 17 | He gets mad WHEN SHE WANTS TO TALK ABOUT THE FACT THAT HE CHEATED. I can’t. | #HeAin'tTheOne2021 | Hippofuzz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | That’s why you should always ask for a proof | #HeAin'tTheOne2021 | Hippofuzz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 08:06 PM |
| 1 | “Promising Young Woman” | #HeAin'tTheOne2021 | Hippofuzz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 09:08 AM |
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| 12 | This post will probably be removed.I didn’t even know about the flair thing… wtf how childish and mean is that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 04:13 PM |
| 16 | Ummm. What?Through them all away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Pick me-ism is a hell of a drugIndeed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:14 AM |
| 7 | Racist scrote had it comingWhy tf would he even want to say this stuff to his PARTNER (or anyone else) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 04:32 PM |
| 16 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.A minimum of a 12 year age gap. And not even ashamed of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 08:20 PM |
| 9 | If ever in doubt, ladies, read this.Why are they like this… wtf is this. If I would be religious, I would have just lost my faith. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 09:06 PM |
| 105 | I don’t really have words for this one.I definitely learned something new today | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 10:43 AM |
| 20 | The level of mental gymnastics hereRight? My parents barely knew where I went to school but I don’t feel dirty laundry is a love letter to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 09:48 AM |
| 4 | The level of mental gymnastics hereLol… what? Some women “don’t come home” either, doesn’t seem to bother him that much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 09:47 AM |
| 28 | Jewish Women- Please Be Careful Out ThereYes it really is disgusting. And you’re right, it’s delicious! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 04:02 PM |
| 228 | Jewish Women- Please Be Careful Out ThereOne of my closest friends, of Ethiopian descent, told me, that one of the most common “jokes” she gets from dates is, they wouldn’t have thought she would want to go for a dinner date, since Ethiopians should be used to not eat…… a whole lot of men are absolutely vile. I’m sorry you experienced this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 11:52 AM |
| 4 | Have you taken your husband’s surname? Or, will you take your future-husband’s name?I have a double name now. Mine first, his in addition. I’m not fond of my own name, but I did some research and have some publications and I don’t see why I should just disappear. My husband wanted to do the same, but since he is from a different country, where men CANT change their name, the country where we married didnt do it either. So now only I ended up with a fucking long double name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 04:23 PM |
| 8 | Men and therapyThey are out there. But be ruthless in vetting them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 06:48 PM |
| 15 | Men and therapyWas one of the reasons why I fell in love with my husband. When he told me he is in therapy for a while cause he started feeling depressed SO HE DID SOMETHING ABOUT IT BY HIMSELF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 06:30 PM |
| 14 | A Man and Sexual Harassment (?), + I'm not crazy right?I hope he gets it tattooed on is forehead. You are not crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 08:22 AM |
| 18 | Sorry ladies but I gotta use this space to mock poly people 🤣I knew a poly couple when i studied. He kept having other women. She didn’t, cause she felt “fulfilled”😂 until one time she started to talk to another man. That’s when her boyfriend started to be super jealous and in the end broke up with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Times you need confort are good for vetting...I am so sorry that your aunt has past ♥️ I wish you all the best. And you’re right, that’s a really good vet. About 10 years ago my best friend drowned.. we didn’t find her for nearly a week.. until we did. It was beyond heartbreaking honestly… my then boyfriend said: everyone dies, that’s life. Gave me the strength to break up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 05:01 PM |
| 35 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.Collective 💀😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 05:24 PM |
| 10 | I just…🤦🏻♀️oh my god TW: DV… his 15 year old friend? Legos? I get predator/delayed vibes. Also just no all over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 09:08 AM |
| 3 | Scrote wants to start secret “poly “relationship with gfs sisterTrue, but still, I would screenshot it and send it, if she then chooses to be delusional, at least I don’t have any part in it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 07:09 AM |
| 3 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsI know a woman who was married for nearly 10 years with 3 kids to a lawyer. One day he disappeared, she woke up to people kicking her and the kids out of her home, he was a scammer, no education, so much debt… no one ever had a clue. She had to move back to her parents, thankfully they were both doctors and well off themselves, so the kids still had everything they needed financially and more but just imagine this shit happens to a regular person without the financial pillow of doctor parents.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 06:45 PM |
| 131 | Scrote wants to start secret “poly “relationship with gfs sisterWhy is she even asking for advice, I would have sent a screenshot one second after receiving it to save my sister Also. Why are they acting like one month means anything? And another also: why did he already get to meet anyone from her life? What is going on here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 05:32 PM |
| 5 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsThis makes me furious. I’m really sorry you had to go through that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 01:43 PM |
| 6 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsWow… I’m so extremely sorry. My lawyer once told me: if a man acts like he has a “weiße Weste”, i guess you could translate it to clean hands, it just means he is a good liar. A honest man will tell you what he did that might not be favorable towards him, but ONLY if he already changed, otherwise he will hide it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 12:00 PM |
| 4 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsI would try to annul it, who knows if I would be partly responsible for paying off his debt otherwise | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 11:26 AM |
| 6 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsThat’s the feeling I got from her comments as well, I really wish her the best, and I hope he falls on his ass over and over again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 10:41 AM |
| 13 | Imagine an unknowing woman finally gets her guy to go to relationship therapy and it's this guy. This is why we never utilize men for any type of therapy or coaching!Same with doctors. I found women tend to be so much more thorough, maybe cause we have to constantly prove ourselves in professional settings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 10:40 AM |
| 16 | Imagine an unknowing woman finally gets her guy to go to relationship therapy and it's this guy. This is why we never utilize men for any type of therapy or coaching!I’m a clinical psychologist…. I have hardly ever met a male colleague as thorough as my female colleagues, and a whole lot of them seem to be narcissistic… I would never go to a man for psychological help tbh Edit: except maybe Dr. Honda on YouTube 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 10:09 AM |
| 8 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsI’m so so sorry ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 08:01 AM |
| 19 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsThankfully most of the comments I saw this time were telling her to annul the marriage pronto or at least get a divorce, I was happy to see that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 02:49 AM |
| 14 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsYou just made me snort laugh in public 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 02:48 AM |
| 102 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsI was thinking the same. Even if you don’t like diamonds, it should make you think if he only buys brand stuff and buys smartphones left and right for everyone but you get a gum machine ring as a token of love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 10:14 PM |
| 162 | This is who really gets empowered by sex work.Exactly. And how stupid of him, he just said that the gf always finds out… and then you say you’re in the business of giving alibis when you couldn’t even do it for yourself. So he is bad in business too. Worthless all over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 07:43 PM |
| 42 | ‘Guy friends’: the real evil men?I basically only had “guy friends” at middle and Highschool. Guess who doesn’t have any friends from middle and Highschool anymore, except for two which are female. Yep, me. They all turned out to be not actual friends, and they did make a pass at me after years of pretending. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 02:09 PM |
| 81 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingShe has been “disfigured down there” and all he can think of is his dick. And the pathetic attempt to make himself look less of a douche by constantly writing about how horrible he is makes me want to throw up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 01:06 PM |
| 6 | Expose them early and often!Why would he think that works 🤣 pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 10:34 AM |
| 50 | Some women get so desperate for the ring they end up accepting any situation just for the sake of being married. Better be single than with scrotes like this...Wtf????? They are so talented in finding excuses/ways to be bad partners | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 06:26 AM |
| 26 | It's not him being turned off, it's meComplicated words he might not understand 🤣🤣🤣 I can’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 06:58 PM |
| 23 | Pick me-ism is a hell of a drugDon’t be too hard on yourself. Society tells us not to leave whenever we feel discomfort, it tells us to be the ones to bring harmony, the Peace makers of the world. It tells us to not leave when a problem arises, and it’s not specific enough. Also abuse has a tendency to slowly appear so your guard is down and your self esteem gets destroyed very slowly, until you experience the “battered person syndrome” (which I find to be a terminus that’s not picked very well cause you don’t have to beaten … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 07:34 AM |
| 3 | “Promising Young Woman”That is true… patriarchy doesn’t stop anywhere | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 07:24 AM |
| 9 | “Promising Young Woman”I honestly was upset at first that she didn’t go around killing them all … but after the movie ended I felt so touched by the difference in perspective and how like scooter_se said, women don’t usually get justice, and even if they do somehow get it, everything has changed. I’m a survivor too and although it is long gone by now, and I’m basically fine, I can’t get back who I was before, and that remains hard for me, it’s like I somewhat died there and a new me came out of it. And I do miss my ol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 07:23 AM |
| 3 | “Promising Young Woman”Yes, honestly my heart sunk so much that moment… I looked away too… and felt totally defeated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 07:18 AM |
| 2 | “Promising Young Woman”Ah we are super behind due to the pandemic EVERYTHING was closed for so long, now it’s like we are just a year back 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 07:16 AM |
| 3 | The victim blaming pickmeisha. Could it get any worse?We don’t have juries here, but I hope it wouldn’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 07:15 AM |
| 15 | The victim blaming pickmeisha. Could it get any worse?Im so sorry… I don’t know how it works in other countries, but where I live, when someone molests you as a child, it’s always punishable (sry I don’t know how to say it in English), just like homicide. For me, I first told someone 13 years later, was my ex, who then broke up with me and basically told everyone, until even a judge heard of it. And that’s another thing in my country, if a judge hears of a possible crime he/she HAS to start a case about it… im really this happened to you… in case y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 09:44 PM |
| 11 | “Promising Young Woman”Just realized how cold I was. I’m really sorry your friend fell victim to these predators. Truly sorry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 08:35 PM |
| 3 | “Promising Young Woman”It’s definitely a problem everywhere, but I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s even more of a problem in areas where white rich “boys” hang around honestly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 08:20 PM |
| 41 | The victim blaming pickmeisha. Could it get any worse?Thanks! You’re so right… and my grandma was such a pickme, she told the court she never left me alone with him ever 😂 my lawyer just asked her why not?? that shouldn’t be of concern in a situation without pedophiles… she said she never left him alone with other females 🤢 best part is, they stopped the case, couldn’t determine if he was guilty or not… it’s pretty sick really but I’m thankfully ok now. I do want to see the world burn occasionally when I hear about victims not getting justice thoug… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 05:42 PM |
| 75 | BruhI’m scared to ask what you meant with that reference Edit: I found it…. Wtf… he is slowly poisoning her and she is talking about love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 05:34 PM |
| 81 | The victim blaming pickmeisha. Could it get any worse?I was 6 and it was my granddad. Many years after it came out i was asked in front of court if I sat on his lap and tried to seduce him. I kid you not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 05:25 PM |
| 372 | Pick me-ism is a hell of a drugI told the new woman of my ex that he is abusive and dangerous. She told me, I was crazy and should leave them alone, it’s not her fault he “chose” her. 5 years later she contacted me to say sorry, she married him, had two kids and was beaten senseless for about 4 of these 5 years and is currently in hiding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 04:54 PM |
| 27 | “Promising Young Woman”Yes, it’s a hard watch, I have PTSD too unfortunately, and I have to say I didn’t feel great for a couple of days, although I thought I am much better already… it’s not an easy watch for sure, but it didn’t trigger me to the point of having flashbacks or a panic attack. But definitely mental health always comes first. I should have put a warning in my post 🤦🏼♀️ I’m sorry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 02:47 PM |
| 63 | “Promising Young Woman”Exactly, the lawyer that was forgiven and I would say the dad are both depicted as decent people, and like you said there are women in there who are obviously complicit and quite despicable… and I love that the movie showed the rapists as who they so often are, preppy rich boys who the saying “boys will be boys” was made for exclusively, no matter how old they get. I know so many guys like that. And that her love interest turns out to be one of them is more than relatable I think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.Honestly I wasn’t always, but she (and on another occasion a close friend of mine, who is also super high level), called me out on it hard one time when I cried in front of her cause of some low life who I gave time to when I shouldn’t have. She looked at me and shrugged saying, if you weren’t so focused on being liked but on checking if he deserves a second of your life’s time, you wouldn’t be crying now. I don’t pity you. First I was hurt but then I knew my sister doesn’t sugar coat things cau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 02:25 PM |
| 45 | “Promising Young Woman”Came back to say, my husband said specifically the reaction towards her love interest will be most telling, if he starts to suggest that he should be forgiven or he wasn’t a culprit since he was “only” present | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 02:03 PM |
| 183 | “Promising Young Woman”Very very true, that’s a 3rd date thing maybe, not a “he already knows I’m a feminist” thing. Although, some will still show themselves even then I believe. In general I am careful with men who directly claim to be feminists. My dad says the same, yet I haven’t even seen him carry his plate inside himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 12:26 PM |
| 10 | Do you believe that men are only as faithful as their options?100% character, look for a person that has morals, standards and discipline, and chances are, he has a higher developed character and integrity. Also I feel like it’s the really objectively ugly ones that tend to cheat with every chance they get… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.Definitely, and guess what, she is super successful and tends to be very happy, cause she always takes action the moment someone even thinks of treating her less than she feels she deserves. Love her so much for this (and many other reasons) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 10:15 PM |
| 5 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.I really don’t know but I do know that my sister found her now husband while sleeping around after her (and his) first divorce… they both kinda hd a time of “casual sex” until they met and just absolutely deeply fell for each other. He is awesome though, which makes sense cause my sister doesn’t play, she always had the attitude to cut people out once they don’t bring enough to the table, and she always lived by that rule, hence the quite abrupt divorce after her ex stopped treating her like she… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 07:29 AM |
| 12 | Why are the comments saying this is cute?!Yes thank you! It’s embarrassing in its entirety | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 05:02 PM |
| 20 | A Pickme's LifeA former friend of mine married a guy that’s too dumb to make packaged noodle soup for himself. She tells it everywhere all the time since years, as if it’s the cutest thing ever. My husband and I agree that that’s a sound reason for divorce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 09:29 AM |
| 97 | Living large and proud to show the world his mad skills as a home decoratorCouldn’t even put a bed sheet on??? At least now he is disrespecting himself instead of her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 06:41 PM |
| 13 | Psychologist ScroteWell maybe if that husband would make more of an effort in the marriage, household, raising children, the woman could actually 1. have more energy 2. could find him attractive still and not just see him as a chore in her life. I’m a clinical psychologist myself, I am telling you, most of my male colleagues are narcissists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 11:38 AM |
| 6 | I don’t even know where to start.🤯so good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 10:43 AM |
| 17 | I don’t even know where to start.I wonder if he isn’t the one doing all this online, just using his fling, saying it’s her… I have a feeling he just loves to torture his wife in any way he can | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 07:49 PM |
| 23 | I don’t even know where to start.With ALL his assets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 06:06 PM |
| 56 | I don’t even know where to start.I didn’t know that! Very good to know thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 06:04 PM |
| 118 | I don’t even know where to start.100% and press criminal charges, I doubt what they did with leaking her info is legal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 05:36 PM |
| 259 | I don’t even know where to start.I don’t understand (if any of that is true), how she isn’t worried that these people might hire a hit man for her if they already are in the dark net… she’s all like “my husband and his side piece are breaking me mentally right now and are also putting me in physical danger, should I tell him that I don’t love it?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 05:34 PM |
| 263 | I don’t even know where to start.I couldn’t agree more. She is so out of touch with herself, it’s like she doesn’t even feel the disrespect and danger anymore she is in. Like how is she not in contact with authorities and a lawyer by now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 05:16 PM |
| 319 | I don’t even know where to start.Sounds like it to me 💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 05:13 PM |
| 135 | I don’t even know where to start.Im shocked too… when you think they can’t shock you anymore, they still always manage to do so | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 05:12 PM |
| 8 | Sex work is not empowering. It’s exploitation and the men know it. Sorted comments via controversial and got all of these replies.I don’t even know what to say. I mean I know how disgusting they tend to be and yet still, it disgusts me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 06:50 PM |
| 30 | "WoMeN WeRe hAPpY JuSt In ThE 1950's WhEn ThEy WeRe MoThErS AnD WiVeS"Amen to that. My grandma was open about it all and I love her so much for it, her memory protected me from so many LVM and dangerous situations. She told me, she became happy when my grandfather died. She told me he cheated her, didn’t allow her to work, yet didn’t give them money cause he has to drink and gamble and pay jewelry for his affairs. He told me that she got pregnant during war (we are European) by a man (before she knew my grandfather) and he wanted to marry her, but when he didn’t s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 12:18 PM |
| 27 | Say NO to bonding over past traumaYes!!! 100 times yes! I used to do that cause for some reason my past trauma made me feel less than and like I worried people can’t handle it, so I came “clean” early on so people can decide if they want to still get to know me better or not… NOT THE WAY TO GO. Just attracts predators. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 07:48 AM |
| 29 | This is what we mean by all men. When they’re left alone, they allow misogyny to thrive.What gets me is that we all know that situation… and I remember as a schoolgirl of like 14 I would smile with them, somehow trying to blend in… I should have castrated them on the spot instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 07:56 AM |
| 1 | "there's a darkness inside me"I had one tell me his bad deeds were basically Satan… I’m not religious so I wasn’t convinced to say the least 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 07:42 AM |
| 6 | Reminder: Don't get transitioned into being the *forever girlfriend* if your goal is to find a life partner. It's counterproductive to allow a man to 'try on the relationship' for multiple years with no commitment.I’m so sorry. I learned the hard way too. I had an appointment with a lawyer and she told me two things 1. A guy from the west that gives you a whirlwind romance, where you’re engaged and moved in together, picked out names for children within the first 4 months is 100% an abuser 2. A guy that acts like he has “eine weiße Weste” a white vest, meaning didn’t do anything wrong ever and looks great on paper, is just a good liar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 05:07 AM |
| 25 | Reminder: Don't get transitioned into being the *forever girlfriend* if your goal is to find a life partner. It's counterproductive to allow a man to 'try on the relationship' for multiple years with no commitment.Exactly they try to hurry cause they can’t hide their true self for too long | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 09:21 PM |
| 50 | Reminder: Don't get transitioned into being the *forever girlfriend* if your goal is to find a life partner. It's counterproductive to allow a man to 'try on the relationship' for multiple years with no commitment.Yes, but also be wary of the guy who immediately wants to marry (at least in western culture), he is usually an abuser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 09:01 PM |
| 39 | “Free yourselves from the bondage of male validation” -@sheenie_weenie_, 2021 ADAre pickmes now trying to look as if they don’t have shoulders? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 11:00 AM |
| 12 | If you weren’t convinced of how far men will go just watch this. This is why it’s advised to follow most if not all of the FDS rulesThat’s why he is balding. All the stress. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 04:40 PM |
| 20 | Some examples of men who have hit the wallI knew a guy when I was like 18 and he was in his 30ies (wtf did he do in our friend group) who would always say he doesn’t like being with girls over 25 cause then their skin texture changes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 05:00 AM |
| 65 | What’s the most embarrassing pick-me thing you’ve ever done?!??? 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️We were all around 20, my very outspoken friend ripped her then boyfriend a new one cause he didn’t value her like she expected him to, and I rolled my eyes along with the other guys and purposely showed how I’m more easy going. My friend then and there looked at me and said :”I know you think this is going to give you value in the eyes of these boys but really you’re showing them how much of a doormat you are and in the eyes of actual women you are a boot licker right now”... this haunted me 😂 … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 01:24 PM |
| 27 | Probably a repost but fuck that 'friendzone' bullshit. A good friend is worth more than a good SOYES! I don’t have any friends from high school, cause I was the only girl in the group... I thought our friendships were super tight... well turned out they weren’t. This messed with me for a very long time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 05:27 PM |
| 24 | wow.That’s a reason for divorce in my eyes. Yelling at a 6 year old? Calling me out of my name? Feeling threatened in your masculinity by me trying to explain your assholery away (which I would never do in the first place)... every one of these instances is a reason to divorce by itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:10 PM |
| 7 | Once more for those in the back! (Credit: Tumblr user Autistic Abby/Stimabby, 2015)Wow that’s good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 12:11 PM |
| 3 | The "bed nest" post that was mentioned in the podcastSry 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 11:12 AM |
| 12 | The "bed nest" post that was mentioned in the podcastSo I’m a clinical psychologist... I once had a patient brought into the hospital with maggots IN his back cause they wouldn’t get up from it. Ever since I met this man (who was deeply deeply depressed) I believe these kinds of stories. People sleep in the weirdest, most unpleasant ways imaginable. Don’t lie down next to them though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 07:09 PM |
| 46 | The BarI’m actually hopeful for my daughter to have a HVM (if she is hetero and wants one of course) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 07:05 PM |
| 2 | I'll just leave this one here.Amen to that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 05:21 PM |
| 34 | I'll just leave this one here.And cook and cleaning lady and (emotional or even physical) punching bag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 10:48 AM |
| 15 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides.True, my husband is from a poorer country that is somewhat more conservative. Well the women earn same as men there, and still men provide. He from the beginning said we are equal in our worth, yet he still sees his money as ours and mine as mine. Works fine for us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 09:04 AM |
| 3 | Where does the idea that women will end up cat ladies and pass alone come from?I can attest to that, my first job as a psychologist was in a retirement home. Most men there had absolutely no one anymore. Even if they had kids, they would rarely visit them cause they were often basically deadbeats or just emotionally unavailable. I think men are seen as full. As complete. Women get completed by men in patriarchy, so if she doesn’t have a man on her side, she is seen as lacking/failing/ maybe even worthless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 12:47 PM |
| 18 | Where's the lie?I’ll be honest to you... my experience was absolutely underwhelming as well. I always felt used and basically like a tool for their satisfaction. Never ever had an orgasm either. Then I stopped dating LVM and eventually found my love to myself again. Soon after I found my now husband. He is everything they weren’t and deserving of my love. Never pressured me to do anything. He always courted and still courts me in every possible way. From the very first time on he made sure I would orgasm, befor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 01:16 PM |
| 5 | I am disgusted.I stopped a friendship because of that. I was the one witnessing her boyfriend cheating with one of her acquaintances. Went to him and told him, I’ll give him until tomorrow midday, if by then my friend doesn’t call me sobbing, I know he didn’t tell her and I’ll tell her for him. She called in the morning distraught. Well some time passed, she forgave him within a week and they made it a sport to hate the person he cheated with. So I ended the friendship, cause that’s just too dumb. They married… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:58 PM |
| 13 | Why does it seem that men are MORE likely to cheat when their partners are pregnant?I think it’s cause a lot of men see us as objects, so if we don’t look like they want us to anymore/are not in the mood, these types will stray with no regard for anyone but themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 09:43 PM |
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