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When you go out into the world and get a job, you will have female co-workers, perhaps even a boss or a CEO. I've met them. I've met also girls as classmates and as teachers. I know which of them still work reliably when they're wet, anxious, in pain, just like men are expected to do. And which of them are, well, chatty and decorative. I mean, who knows where I've developed such deplorable, despicable views about women. Where do guys like me get that from? It can't be women, can it? Aren't women…
/r/RPChristians09/04/19 05:45 PM
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No offense but you sound mentally ill. I'm a nerd. Think of me as an extremely stable genius. I own a business (two if you count my subcontractor gig). Yet you confuse the prefixes macro- and micro-? I read Hoard's Dairyman. And? Read something harder. It might do you some good. Aristotle, Shakespeare, Aurelius, Kahneman, for instance. Haven't been in a bar in 30 years. Can't be bothered with carrying a purse. It was a metaphor. Did you miss the point or are you deliberately avoiding my question…
/r/RPChristians09/04/19 01:53 PM
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You're one woman. There's this big, long math-word, 'statistical anomaly', which may describe you. Words like 'welfare queen', wife, whore describe the rest of them. Besides, do you know of how much money you've already received from taxes? Have you yet paid for everything since your birth? Think of it as a long, big tab from your birth. What you've paid so far, is it even getting close to what you've gotten since your birth? Do you know of the study of macroeconomics? If you look at the numbers…
/r/RPChristians09/04/19 12:58 PM
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It is a concept I have never thought about before and I wanted some more opinions as I dig in and study on my own. If you're smarter than me, and we both claim to follow 'love your neighbor as you love yourself', then, from now on, you handle all the smart-people problems for me. Just as tall guys take down things from the toppest shelf. Just like the non-crippled help the crippled. If you claim to be The Godfather, and you're not insulted at the thought of your followers not bringing their prob…
/r/RPChristians06/04/19 09:28 PM
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Why does it seem to be so much harder for men? Men here train themselves to become selfish, because they aren't. Women are trained to become selfless, because they aren't. Just look at macroeconomics. Taxes are paid by men, fathers and bachelors. To women. Look at any action movie. Count the number of nameless men who die, in order to save a girl. Is she even afraid? Now look at a thriller. What's the difference? A girl is afraid. The plot is that she might be in actual danger of pain and death.…
/r/RPChristians06/04/19 08:27 PM
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LIFTING IS NOT OPTIONAL Neglecting or accepting the non-optional duties is key. If you neglect any typical logos-based you-have-to-do-this, if men do not drop the childish things and pick up the man-duties, then you're not on the road. You're in the prodigal son's path to play with swine-feed. I can't imagine being in a marriage where I do not accept that her problems are my problems. I can't imagine being married, if my problems aren't her problems.
/r/RPChristians06/04/19 08:10 PM
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The problem with fictional characters and celebrities is that they're not living in the same "world" as you are. I've lost count on how many teachers had a fixation on Mr. Darcy and Austen. And how many guys who started assuming that girls who read fiction are just like that. Oh, you're one of those. I'll go talk to that girl over there instead.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/19 11:19 AM
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If she stopped nagging and showed respect Nagging, like complaining, is a confirmation of inability. You can't get what you want, the same thing that girl over there is getting, and thus you complain. She doesn't need to nag, because she does get it, because of what she already does right and well. Guys don't nag, but the men who complain about, well, I'll not be the judge of what men complain of too much. However, the men who do not need to complain about women, they play their game-moves well.…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 07:55 PM
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If you want monogamy, find someone who has that interest. Find friends and have who want it too. It's easier to have it and keep it, if everyone you know look down on everything else. Look at your friends and his friends. Both of those two sets of friends will betray your feelings and thoughts about it. What they think is good and right and true, they will help to maintain.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/19 03:34 AM
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"I'm 32 but it's ok because I'm always mistaken for a teenager" As mature as a teenager?
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/19 08:57 PM
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Aim for strong and tough. Unless your profession requires you to have a perfectly sculpted ass, or something of that nature. You need time to read and write and think and get paid.
/r/RPChristians16/03/19 08:49 PM
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If you don't understand the rules, or the purpose of them, follow them until you know when to break them. When I women who don't even know their own recommended rules, well, they can't notice that I take pity on them as a suggest them rules for being a lady. When did humility become something frowned upon? When did the Logos stop being relevant? If he or she doesn't yet understand basic hygiene, why wouldn't we give rules to follow? We give training wheels to kids, don't we?
/r/RPChristians16/03/19 08:41 PM
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Oh yeah, the old "You just can't handle a strong woman" accusation. 'Bossy' is a pejorative women can't do anything about. If she can't bear the idea that you use it, as I use it, go talk to another girl.
/r/RPChristians16/03/19 08:38 PM
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I’ve been in a relationship with a man who was a lair and manipulative. Stop being a subject, and start being an agent. An agent who either fails or succeeds. Is it the bank's job to not get robbed by thieves? Is the manager a helpless person who got targeted by thieves? Do we hold the manager accountable? Is the manager a victim, or someone who royally fucked it up? Is there anyway to be prepared to the next relationship? Why would he choose you? You expect him to improve your life, right? How …
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/19 05:13 PM
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I wonder; do these guys know how children always imitate 'the elders and their morals'?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/19 05:09 PM
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the man's accomplishment in the game doesn't have value to her life. The guys who played and quit playing, they understand this. They've done things which meant nothing outside. I had to quit when I realized that my vanity of what I wanted to look like both in-game and in-real-life demanded more of me than there are hours in the day. Eventually in-game-me had to die.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/19 03:42 PM
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Some men are strong utilitarians who prefer to maximize the reward to risk ratio, who in the past probably made great partners, but these days are raised with too many games and too little real world responsibility, so their great minds and skills stay locked up in virtual worlds. I've learnt languages, several subjects from video games. I've done mental simulations, I've learnt math, statistics. Games have made much of me. As books and sports has made me. I'd like to get a Dickensian time-trave…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 02:12 AM
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I disagree with your first statement, I think if you’re a high value woman Remember that the guy decides which girl gets to marry. Remember, girl, that you only get to choose between the boys who ask you out.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 01:47 AM
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It is less common to find a young man who has a stable job and is ready to settle down and have a family Meet him and help him. Guys already in couples, they already have someone to impress. Aloof, haughty, single girls motivate no bachelors. Girl-gaming, headstrong girlfriends, however, they send 'em to war. Stop thinking he'd remember you, if you have no skin-in-the-game, if you're to dainty and fragile to do some work. Men rarely remember the names of the purely decorative girls. Every girl i…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 01:38 AM
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It’s very disheartening to look at the “men” from our age group Whatever you do, don't 'punch' the "men" in your age group. Say you had a brother in that age. You're not helping him, or them, by disrespecting them. Just as I don't get anywhere by looking down on, let's say twenty-year-olds.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 11:45 PM
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In my experience these people are very taxing as friends and high value men despise them quite frankly. My current SO was quietly horrified I was “bestfirends” with someone in that lifestyle. Thankfully she was on her way out of my life after I was refusing to go drink with her. Men take who you have as friends seriously. This may not be a worry to you which is fine, but just keep it in mind. 'Birds of a feather, flock together.' It doesn't even look good when one of the girls are like these. I'…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 11:42 PM
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I don't play any sports or have any social hobbies so I don't know how I'm supposed to use these to meet men barring joining random college societies. Don't do 'random'. Bird-hunters look to the sky. Fishers look to the sea. Know what you're looking for. If you're looking for a fit, social guy, take up a social sport. Fitness of any kind, it is something you get from the practice, the place. Fat drunks are made in the bars. Fit men are made in the court. Strong men are made in the gym. As nerds …
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 11:35 PM
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Your first true love is your parents. Your first love is with your parents. That's where boys and girl learn how love looks. Doesn't matter, if it's a harmonious or not. That's how children believe it is supposed to be. What their future looks like.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 09:09 PM
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Don't cheat on boyfriends. If your friend betrays you, and you forgives the friend, the friend isn't going to respect you either.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 12:10 AM
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There's absolutely nothing to add or retract in this comment. I'm here to highlight everything. It is that good and true and relevant.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 12:07 AM
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Rollo writes. Period. As brewers brew. The fact that he's able to sell the texts, as brewers succeed to sell the beer, that's something completely different and secondary. If he'd be pretentious and useless, nobody here would give a slightest fuck about what he concocts.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/18 07:58 PM
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I could write like that Of course. That explains why everyone here talks about your big name. Save us, with your great commentary! I think Rollo has made a niche as the "ivory tower of the manosphere". No. He thinks in these words. These big words are useful, and he knows how to use them. As big burly men know how to use big, difficult tools. You've not spent time with nerds, obviously. Imagine a group with a theologian, a banker, a couple of doctors, some accountants, engineers, marine-biologis…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/18 07:50 PM
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Not all of us have PHDs in writing. Then start reading. Peasants read less than feminists. Are you going to stay a slave? The words 'library' and 'liberty' come from the same root word. 'liber pater' is latin for 'the free father'. 'Pater' as in patriarchy, where 'arch' means rule. Patriarchy is therefore 'rule of fathers'. Am I to be surprised twilight-reading women would know more words than MRPers know, because of how much trash they read?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/18 07:38 PM
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Take up a sport. Anything which leaves you in sweat and exhaustion. Anything which demands you to become stronger, quicker, more nimble, more enduring. Something which is fun. A kilo of muscles has much more daily upkeep than a kilo of fat. So, if you get muscles, but do not eat more than before, they will burn up everything extra.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/18 07:25 PM
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I've heard this: "Looks are bait. Personality is the hook. Character is the line. You can't fish without all three." But I'm stealing that.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/18 07:18 PM
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Do you have any go to phrases or tactics? If your SO has an argument with someone, always publicly agree with your SO. Save your disagreements to when you're behind closed doors. If I ever met a friend, and his girlfriend fails to show her loyal union and agreement with her boyfriend, I always have the urge to tell my friend to get a new, decent girlfriend. I have been very blunt and likely critical Then be that against whomever disagrees with your boyfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/18 11:41 AM
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Like who do these people think they are?! The kind which can't admit that they made less than average moves in life.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/18 09:26 PM
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What do "realistic expectations" look like? If you're not royalty, don't expect to marry a prince. If you are lazy, why would a man with good work ethic choose to marry you? If you don't work out regularly, why would a hunk choose you? If you're not reliable, why would a man choose to trust and rely on you? If you do not treat men lovingly, why would a good man choose to open up to you? If you won't or can't pay for the best choice, why do you expect it? If you lie, why would honest men talk to …
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/18 09:23 PM
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She feels threatened. Make clear that you are not a threat by showing that you like and appreciate her. Isn't that flattering? I mean, you wouldn't give that comment to someone impotent, unable, unattractive, would you?
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/18 09:13 PM
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Between dates two and three, things really died down. Died down? What? No! If you two had a kid or a dog together, then it wouldn't 'die down'; one of you, or both of you together, you killed it by neglect or by holding it beneath water. What kind of words are that?! If you plan to have an active role in your life and potential, future marriage, start treating and talking and thinking about yourself in an active voice, in active words. He ended it. Or you did a wrong move in your dance. I can't …
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/18 09:04 PM
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The only way to win is to convert people to your beliefs. I wouldn't try to convert you, if you don't seem to be enough, to be strong enough to carry my beliefs. Would you give big rocks to weak men, so'd they carry them? Books to monkeys? Would you give a wedding-ring to a woman, if she doesn't look like she's a good fit for the trade? All of those quotes are reenactments of the cowboy films Mattis grew up on they're stupid materialstic and shallow. The bible is also an incomprehensible book, t…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/18 01:08 PM
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But if the beautiful, slim, glossy dog immediately bites when you reach out a hand, and the fat/scruffy dog is gentle and kind, you'll wish you hadn't made such a quick judgement. I've met enough of both kinds to know that the former dog's bite is far worse. And it's kindness is also better. The latter is too anxious for my taste. But it is true what you say. Which one feeds you, nourishes you, helps you, is there with you? What good is it to have a dog which does nought but eats sugar, plays wi…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 01:03 PM
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Seriously, don't judge a book by its cover, that's a very basic lesson we should've all learned as children. The size of the dog, it can tell something about the dog. It's fur, it can say something as well. Fat dogs, for instance, they say something completely different compared to the fitter dogs, wouldn't you agree?
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 11:24 PM
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And? Is it a bad quote, something not recommended to take it to heart? Didn't the Afghanis outdiscipline him, and everthing else, didn't they beat him, as you claim they did? Do you have something else, other than your soundbite? Isn't it a good quote, something to take to one's heart? Something to observe devoutly? If it's a bad quote, why the fuck are you talking? Why this whine about talking big, without walking big? They know that he comes from a corporate timeline culture. Do you mean the A…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/18 11:09 PM
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I wouldn't mind reading more about this.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 10:11 PM
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"Because you are smart, you can get away with dumb beliefs just by arguing well." It's death and reality which purges the bad ideas. Smarter people usually starve less, so they can afford to believe dumb ideas. The dumber die quicker, when they believe the wrong ideas.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/18 11:42 AM
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Which is why smart men go for dumber women. Unless they really want smart babies.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/18 11:39 AM
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I am in no rush or hurry to get out there and court men. Do guys like younger women? I'm not trying to scare you. I'm merely trying to say to you that, I and other bachelors, we fall in love with the women we meet. Not the good one's we haven't met. Not those who stay in their dormrooms, but those we meet daily. I believe in a higher power and when it is time for me to meet someone, that other person and I will cross paths when it is meant to be. What, like Korean-influenced buddhism? Life is su…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/18 09:35 PM
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It is more action than presentation. Considering how often I've met guys who wouldn't say no to burning a witch, and how they talked of a girl who they'd happily help, well, I no longer consider femininity something shallow.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/18 09:14 PM
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Ignore the guy. He's obviously never been a poorly curated library or bookstore. Or browsed on Netflix, hoping to find something more than awfully shallow. God, his comment is bad. By my second look, it seems he is dreaming of an idealized third-world country, where life is simple, like in a traditional disney movie.
/r/RPChristians01/04/18 09:02 PM
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I'm concerned with personal development. A guy who doesn't know his cinema, his literature, his music is a fool. I reject the pious idea that being a Christian means limiting your leisure time to praying, church-going, Bible-reading etc. To "Christian" things. In fact that idea gives me despair. It's an infinitely small way of looking at life. C. S. Lewis knew his Bible; he also had a vast literary erudition. To be true to yourself, to live life to the fullest, means following your passion -- yo…
/r/RPChristians01/04/18 08:55 PM
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He is a big boy. You've told him your piece. Let him now do as he wish. I'm sure you've had questionable issues older have looked down upon, as you look down upon him now. You do know that bit about throwing the first stone, don't you? That's why there's no point actually answering the question. Considering how OP talks of a awfully bad access to good books, even theological books, and what's available online, he'd be foolish to not go online.
/r/RPChristians01/04/18 08:55 PM
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So? Go in there and fight. Right? Jesus beats feminism, doesn't he? As scissors beats paper. He is backing you, isn't he? God's followers have mocked and shamed people before, haven't they? Who knows, it might be fun doing that. I mean, can you imagine you making an orbiter of a christian:ish feminist as you mansplain on her with the power of The Word and your accurate scripture-quoting, and she realizes that she wants you? Can you imagine that?
/r/RPChristians01/04/18 08:48 PM
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If you are a lurker, stop hanging out in the shadows and post. And post what? Hopefully you guys won't use too many big words and pseudo-KJV-spelling. I can use big words too, but I'd rather read big thoughts in small words. I'll happily join you, but I deleted reddit from my phone, so I might not be the most active. Just don't clothe your thoughts in too many long words, okay?
/r/RPChristians01/04/18 08:44 PM
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I’ve had a pastor at my church admit that if he spoke out against Marxism, the church would only retain 1/5 of if it’s members. So, you have an excellent Gideon-test. Go do it, and tell me how you purged the lukewarm and the heretics from your believers.
/r/RPChristians01/04/18 08:29 PM
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Most people's problems to move forward come from fear. Best way to get out of this, it is to realize that men with scars are hotter. A dead man, a dead friend, that is something to mourn over. We can talk of him, of what he did, and why we will miss him. But a man who never did anything, a man who never failed, a man who never took the shot, his life was never anything to talk about. Why mourn him? We never even heard of him. He didn't exist, because there were never any story of him or what he …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/18 08:23 PM
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This is old news. Ignore this. I can easily find ancient, revered, great men talking about how heterosexual patriarchal man-to-man men is the best kind of friendship. It never stopped them from marrying women, marrying their daughters to good men. The best men I know, they're either married or about to. Women have this odd annoying way of taking and holding the attention of the best bachelors and eventually turning them into serious married men. A good wife is a boon to these men. It seriously r…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/18 08:09 PM
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Do you have any deeds, any 'field reports', any stories of how you attempted to do what /u/Arima779 suggested to you? What went right? What went wrong? Any metric of courting a man? Where did you go?
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/18 08:03 PM
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I like nerds and not meat heads? Sweetie, you underestimate how difficult it is to build muscle. You need to be 'this smart to be this well-built'. If you're not nerdy enough, you're fat. You need to bury your nerdy nose in the knowledge, the study of man-building architecture. You need to understand that. And do that. And to do it right. If you're not nerdy enough for that serious book-reading, go sit and eat fat. You think dumb people can think long and hard enough, if or when or why eating a …
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/18 07:58 PM
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"I like girls without makeup better" and "Girls look best in sweatpants and a hoodie" I don't know what girl-brains translate that to, but what it means is that no boy likes being lied to. Make-up makes girls pretty, yes, and hopefully she cares about being pretty after they've gotten to know each other. Girls care about making their boys seem impressive by association, don't they? You know, as girls like that what boys say about themselves happens to be true.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/18 07:51 PM
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Sort of like the doctor, whose german surname, translated from german, is Butcher. I'm smiling at this again.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/18 07:37 PM
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I understood that. She's not hot anymore. You don't look at her the same way, because she's not hot. And then she disrespects you for not doting on her as you did when she was young and hot.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/18 07:17 PM
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Liars and thieves are lonely and exhausted from keeping up the lies. Cognitive load. And they call it 'honor among thieves' for obvious reasons.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/18 06:37 PM
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She wants everyone in our life to think I’m some kind of monster. And I know it’s my fault for tolerating it. I feel like maybe I shouldn’t have taken her phone. That doesn’t justify bringing the cops to the door but I know there’s some shit in here that needs owning by me. Why did you marry a 17-year-old? Let me guess, she was hot, and you were too horny to notice that she was disrespecting you too much.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/18 06:32 PM
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Why state the obvious? We state shit like 'Don't go looking for a wife in the town's red-light district', because intelligent men who should know better go looking for a wife in the town's red light district.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 07:24 PM
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If you're trying to STFU, bullshit more nonsense. If you're a talker, unable to keep your mouth shut, then talk nonsense. You can't talk the sense you ought to shut up about, if your mouth is full of shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 07:22 PM
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You forgot to add a complete lack of hurry. And to be somewhat present, there. It's impossible to develop anything with a girl, if she's too cool, too busy, too stressed, too preoccupied with something else. If she doesn't have or make the time to pay attention to him, to play with him, it's not going to. I'd imagine that above-average men are rare, and if you don't take the time to talk to him when available, well, someone else might make him hers before you do.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/18 07:11 PM
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Should I put on my big girl pants and roll with the punches and try and get to know her better even though she's said some horrible things about me? Do you think she's asking too much of me at this stage? Is your man something, or is he shit? Because if is something, his mother might have been a part in the making of him becoming something, she will be strict about not letting his beloved son marrying someone who doesn't appreciate him. It's not in her interest to give you the benefit of the dou…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/18 07:01 PM
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I've been thinking of the old saying, "Women should not speak unless spoken to." Although I completely disagree with the absoluteness of this advice I do agree sometimes it is very necessary. "Rules are laws for fools and guidelines for the wise." If you've ever seen an autistic train himself, or being trained and raised by a devoted mother, friend, then there's a long list of things to never do and to do. Most of them are written and said as "Women should not speak unless spoken to." Neither of…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/18 06:52 PM
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Proverbs 28:1 The wicked flee though no one pursues, but the righteous are as bold as a lion. You can do anything, there's nothing to fear, so long as your intention is right.
/r/RPChristians22/02/18 10:12 PM
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Don't consume media that isn't built for you. What would you recommend in its place? Old books? Being active in sports, i.e. boots on ground? Old movies? Journals? Hobbies? As much as I agree with you, an educated man can entertain himself. He doesn't do bread-and-games or it's newer name, corn-n-porn. But what's your substitute?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/18 10:51 PM
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Kindly tell that to those who fail to get that.
/r/RPChristians20/02/18 10:40 PM
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Good. I was worried you were one of those who fail to read OT, because of how it supposedly is gray and dusty and boring compared with Jesus of NT. I don't like those who don't read OT.
/r/RPChristians20/02/18 09:46 PM
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Read your Bible regularly, especially the New Testament. What's wrong with OT, exactly?
/r/RPChristians20/02/18 07:54 PM
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Do women wear men's clothes or dresses? Is there any women talking scripture? Do they talk ill of masculinity? Do the women look hot, yet covered? Do the men look like men you want to have a beer with? Do they walk the walk and talk the talk? Are you willing to leave, yet again, for a real church, when you find poor answers to the questions you want good answers for?
/r/RPChristians20/02/18 07:52 PM
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Both of us understand that women treat alphas better than their smartphones. And betas are like smartphones. They get enough to survive and function, but no more.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/18 02:46 PM
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A male who abandons a woman only loses the evolutionary game if that is his only woman - and therefore, nature should select against one-itis. You're forgetting the men who raised another man's child. Women who slept around, they made sure betas stayed beta. Why wouldn't they make sure that betas survive, that betas are useful? What good are they doing in the mud?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/18 12:06 PM
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Details like this one makes me chuckle.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/18 01:22 PM
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How is this disconnected from sexual strategy?
/r/RPChristians12/02/18 09:27 PM
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Didn't understand a word of that, but sure, whatever.
/r/RPChristians30/01/18 02:56 PM
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How is the guy supposed to fight a decade old accusation of an ass grab if she won’t reveal herself? Don't be a feministic comedian from India? Girls treat hot boys better than the not-hot, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/18 05:13 PM
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If not my wife should I talk to someone or strictly hash it out in prayer? Don't ever admit weaknesses to women, especially not your wife. As the man is jesus, and the woman is the church, well, would Jesus ever admit weakness? He is strong. Be strong. Look strong. She married you because you showed yourself to be strong, in the future. If you want her to be angry and vicious towards you, stop being strong, because that's her retaliation towards breaking your marital vows, as she looks at it. Sh…
/r/RPChristians25/01/18 08:34 PM
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I’ve been reading self help for 25 years. What's the best book(s) you've read?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/18 10:14 PM
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"I can't stop it, but I still love you, it's not that I don't love you, I just don't know why I keep doing this." Translation: "I want to have a good reputation, you're good at paying for me, and I can't for the life of me understand why I shouldn't keep doing this."
/r/RPChristians19/01/18 03:31 PM
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How many of those who despise Christianity, how many of them have read or understood Proverbs 31:10-31? I'd say none.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 09:55 PM
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The quickest way to say this, as I've read it before, it is as follows. "Rules are laws for the foolish, and guidelines for the wise." Good of you to explain it thoroughly.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 09:41 PM
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Reminds me of divorce lawyers paid by the hour, joking about their priorities. Their top priority isn't winning the case for their client swiftly, decisively. The top priority is to to fight long and hard in court, because winning the case means that the salary ends. And how are marriage counselors supposed to get paid, if mother and father have such a harmonious marriage, such a great marriage that they don't need pay for any counsel? Drug dealers might want you to feel happier, but do they eve…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/18 05:01 PM
1

I was just curious what to do when you start questioning your faith ? I love it. It's like going to the gym, testing your muscles. What are you able to do with it?
/r/RPChristians10/01/18 09:33 AM
1

If you’ve ever felt comfortable in being smaller than someone else, when you’ve known someone who ‘dumbed it down to your pay-grade’, then that’s what you need to do in order to understand Christianity. Theologians might get the details of how and what and why better than you do, but they too are smaller than God. And they also are small in the comparison with God. Neither of us fully understand why ‘Shut up and go to church’ helps us, how the things we are expected to do there helps us. Everyon…
/r/RPChristians09/01/18 11:33 AM
2

That would be like claiming that God or a king is guilty, when the believers or subjects are rebellious. Absurd notion.
/r/RPChristians01/01/18 10:04 AM
1

The fuck did I just read? Did you recently learn the alphabet or something? You’ve only learnt enough to read signs, but no further?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/18 09:56 AM
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The words doesn’t really matter. So long as you’re disgusted, insulted, disciplined, whatever, about how you’re not paying for strange women, then you’re going to say the right words smoothly, correctly. If you have the attitude, your words do not matter. If you’re going with canned words, without the right attitude, she’s going to empty your wallet and you’re going to feel used.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 09:25 AM
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I love how this is, right now, at 440+ upvotes.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 09:10 AM
1

read your Bible for a change. Which part do you recommend?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/17 10:18 PM
1

Firstly, are the views expressed here Roman Catholic views or Christian (any denomination) views? I don't know, and I don't care. I'm a late convert, later than you at least. I only care about what the members of the denominations do. Christians are far too good at rhetorical big-talk. I'm not saying that being able to read and write and listen well, that it's a bad thing, as good orators and good christians ought to be able to do well. I just want to know what they do, and what they stand again…
/r/RPChristians20/12/17 02:49 PM
2

I am fully aware of that. But unmasculine churches repel boys from becoming devoutly observant. And eventually those single-ish women grow old. So if preachers want something else other than a quick buck, if they want to grow the church they have to attract men too. Men who have wives or get wives, wives who help their husbands part with their money.
/r/RPChristians17/12/17 08:48 PM
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$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ What morons these preachers must be. Attractive men with attractive wives tithe much more.
/r/RPChristians17/12/17 04:19 PM
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I’ve never heard a preacher approach this topic...they won’t get even close out of fear of offending women (but will quickly tell men to “step up” in areas). A complete indifference towards those offended women works excellently, in my opinion. I doubt anyone else like their misplaced indignation, their pride. Show them your strong frame, and they'll stop talking that nonsense. It's walking on eggshells, talking about beauty. Remember that some are plainly born with better looks. Then there's a …
/r/RPChristians16/12/17 02:10 PM
1

Yes and no. They have empathy, but for the men they care about. And if you’re not part of her social circle, her interests, the men in her extended family, she doesn’t know you exist. And you don’t expect empathy from her, if she doesn’t know or want to know you.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 07:36 PM
1

Any further-reading-books you could recommend?
/r/RPChristians15/12/17 07:00 PM
2

Where do find that post? What’s the words to search for? I want to read, vomit out of disgust, laugh at them. We need to know what we ought to abhor.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:53 AM
1

The study of the soul and the study of geometry, geometry of our bodies, that’s two different subjects. If you’re interested in the former, search for ‘The Art of Stoic Joy’ by William B. Irvine/Irwing.
/r/RPChristians11/12/17 10:50 PM
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My point is, I can't help but want a sexy girl. I guess my question is, should I abandon this desire like I do many of my other desires? Is it unbiblical? Solomon quotes about wanting a sexually attractive wife come to mind, but I am not sure it's enough to convince me that it's better for me to pursue more attractive but less godly women. Where is that balance? If you can successfully mansplain to the hot, non-christian girl to become a sister, to become your devoted wife, why not? I have found…
/r/RPChristians11/12/17 05:13 PM
1

Is marriage, as institution, something for you?
/r/RPChristians06/12/17 08:20 PM
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I’ve learnt to pretend stupidity, and do the RP-move anyway. Your brothers and sisters will follow along with your moves. Do your thing, and you'll find people of your own colors as you'll repel those who talk the opposite colors. Say your opinions, without needing approval from mommy or daddy or girlfriend or whoever. Think James 2:14-26 Those who believe bluepill-bullshit will annoy you and preach to you, but they’ll quit, when they think you’re too dense to get their divine wisdom. And if it'…
/r/RPChristians06/12/17 11:46 AM
1

The society we live in currently, tells us a plumber or electrician is worthless, until we need them. These men need to learn how to hold a grudge. Or at least, to charge usury-level prices, for when the shit stops working.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/17 01:29 AM
1

Don’t talk about our English, or lack thereof, when yours that terrible. If you’d improve yours, our thoughts could make sense to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/17 06:04 PM
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Sorry it's not some sort of magic land for the lovers of tradition. People with ideals about tradition know so very little of traditional attitude towards men. As much as decadence hurts women's femininity, it hurts men's masculinity just as much. And a richly decadent western man, he will be fresh meat in 'traditional cultures'.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 01:55 AM
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Piers is a first class asshole. No frame, can’t control his temper, is unable to listen to another persons opinion. He doesn’t provide any sense of calmness or leadership to the people around him. This is what gets you promoted in Pier's world.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 11:25 AM
1

Take walks in nature, look at something grand near you. Mountains, oceans, the sky, the fields. Wonder, basically. Develop a new hobby? I've read all my life, like a nerd, but thanks be to MRP, I've also sort of become a jock. Noticed that I've developed a categorical attitude towards those who don't exercise regularly enough. I know I'd haze and put ten-year-younger-me into the gym, if I'd ever meet him. Can you think of something positive you can develop similarly? Something you've always want…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/17 10:21 PM
1

I've basically doubled my exercise regimen, doubled my time meditating, been furiously looking for a new job, just anything to distract myself. But I'm fucking empty. I'm a zombie. I can barely keep my composure. Get a hobby? Do you have something which makes you happy, both during and after? Like playing the guitar, or something. You need light, something to look forward to, so you can endure everything for X amount of time, a countdown, until you get that light again.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/17 10:13 PM
1

My life isn't working. That's probably why this hit me so fucking hard. You're aware of how awful your life is right now. If you choose to take the hard and strenuous path upward, then it's going to be tough. As bad as it is right now, it could be worse. You could be blind, deaf, uglier, fatter, somehow worse. You could not be subscribing to MRP, and we wouldn't care about you. Unless you're severely disabled, you can get up. And if you are, do you have another option, other than the hard things…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/17 10:06 PM
1

Your reasoning is good but your conclusion is wrong. The conclusion is not to turn off Read/Seen, the conclusion is to keep it on and deal with the fact that the bitch is playing you. Besides, it would be rude to your friends and family to not give them the info that you've read their texts.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 01:27 PM
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Any other Christian dating advice in general? Christian or not christian, do you look like a man who women want to date and be married with? Are you a catch? Are you someone they'd wish to be with? Do men want to be with you? Do you do interesting things with your friends? Do they want to pick your brain? Do men and women want to make friendships with you? Have you yet learnt what 'Be attractive. Don't be unattractive' means? Because if you don't have finances in check, your discipline in check,…
/r/RPChristians22/11/17 09:59 AM
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Dude, considering your teenage sons behaviour, considering what he did already, he is on the path of manliness. Don't expect him to be an old, wise man, when he is still a teenager. As much as you'd wish him to be more, he is already a lot.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 11:43 PM
1

Things that generally improve your chance of getting laid, are generally indicative of improvements of your life. Videogames are generally indicative of something awful of some kind. Sport and exercise is always good, books and music are also always good. So you may have a point, which I am going to be polite and decent towards, but your exceptions to the rules are very small.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/17 08:06 AM
2

Did you succeed in being more autistic than a genuine autistic? Because with it's something one ought be categorical against. I meant that All Videogames Are Bad For Men, just like AWALT. Sigh... No, I'm not going into how it's statistically bad for you, due to its sedentariness or due to the opportunity cost. What makes them a particularly useless medium compared to movies, television shows, music, or books? Because reading and writing awesomely famous books makes you smarter and richer, becaus…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/17 10:37 PM
3

video games are seen as weak and for children. The simulations of the games might be useful for children, but for adults, it's something one ought be categorical against. If you're not already, can anyone mention what's positive about those games?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 05:08 PM
2

Jordan B Peterson talks about how a gentleman is man who is capable of being a monster, but chooses not to be. In comparison with a butthurt whiteknight, who is unable to actively improve anything or to be competently violent.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/17 02:08 PM
1

I'm not one of them, but it was hard to know if you were arguing from the economical/practical point of view, or the moral point of view. The latter is frowned upon here.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/17 10:25 PM
1

Because men like the idea of being with several women. Where does it say that you have to be one of them?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/17 08:42 AM
2

Anyone else run into this? Any tips? Aim for competence and usefulness. A man solves problems, he is a force of nature. He doesn't look for approval, but for problems and solutions to those problems. Yes, he listens to women and children, as he listens to men. But, everyone's feelings are secondary to the problems and solutions everyone has. If the problem is big, start looking at how the 'big problem' is a bunch of small problems bunched together, and start taking care of every small problem, o…
/r/RPChristians08/11/17 02:56 PM
2

Hah! I was paying attention!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 02:38 PM
0

After reading your comment about 'taking down people with class', I'd say it's the former.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 02:01 PM
3

Then why are you here? Sure you don't have to go back, to TRP?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 01:51 PM
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Why is TFA compared with GLO? One is a married dude who wants to stay married, writing about men and marriage. The other is a not-married dude who likes being not-married, writing about selling t-shirts about not being married. Why the fuck are these two dudes compared with each other? It's like comparing catchers with pitchers. Oh, yeah, right, I forgot. These subs are full of faggots who know everything, read nothing, and think even less.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 01:43 PM
1

One of the best videos on the internet. Which link are you talking about?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 01:39 PM
1

Read the text again. It is there, in plain sight.
/r/RPChristians31/10/17 04:25 PM
6

Veteran, as in 'a long history of being able to get serious shit done, despite how the shit tries to kill you'. Soldiers are expect to shoot and kill the enemy, despite how they're getting shot at. And those who fail to do that, they stop walking and talking and shitting, and so on.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 09:11 PM
1

Now, you pointed out some of the more crucial negative consequences that go into interpersonal relationships and the impact on one's life beyond just pregnancy and STDs (i.e. emotional, legal, relational entanglement). But there are a list of spiritual ramifications that could be brought up as well - ones that are even more daunting if understood appropriately. I was thinking mainly of bodily behaviors. Dopamine and hormones and so on. People who share a bed with another have a habit of getting …
/r/RPChristians30/10/17 06:25 PM
1

You don't want your body to bond with a irresponsible moron. You don't want to get legally chained to a foolish girl. You don't want to be shamed into staying loyal to dim-witted fool. You don't want to have knocked up a girl, a girl who will marshal all her and her network's combined forces into staying with her. You don't want to get despised by men and women who thought you could do better. You don't want to be with a financially illiterate girl. You don't want to be with a girl who can't kee…
/r/RPChristians30/10/17 01:47 PM
2

When my mom was married to my Dad, she was feminist in many ways (not fem-nazi, but she definitely leaned toward it). When they divorced (her decision), she later remarried a Navy guy. She's now an NRA instructor, voted Trump, and flies a Confederate Flag in her front yard. I've successfully stopped caring about what women think of things. Before I had the urge to mansplain and try to teach them about thinking for the sake of the future. Now I merely know that, if her thoughts and opinions are t…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/17 10:01 PM
1

You have to consider how necessary "Don't eat paint" is for the guys subscribing. Would we be telling each other to "Don't be a faggot", if we hadn't spent so much time as faggots?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/17 11:08 PM
1

Yeah, I know. Just like gold miners instantly leave, when the gold is no more. Desirability is dependent on what they want.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 02:53 PM
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It's exploitative. If they appreciated and respected male sacrifice, I'd commend it. You are missing the point. If they are looking for husbands, they are not going to respect undesirable men. Likewise, I don't know what kind of woman you are after, but I doubt you are going to pay much attention to those you find unattractive. The fact that the women might be not enough to become married by the men they wish for, I'm not talking about that either.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 08:06 AM
3

It's not insane...it's rational. Sane. Coldly sane. Would you teach a daughter or sister to behave any differently? This behaviour is commendable in women. Feminists are right to bash men for this, men are stupid if they do not judge themselves on the same standards.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 08:10 PM
1

Being average is considered okay. It takes frame to rebel from what everybody else is doing. Way back when, everybody, including the average, they were gaming women nonstop. Today, we needed to relearn what they did, and we needed to give these thoughts and ways a name.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/17 01:46 PM
1

Those politically right-of-center men, they know how to be quick and witty. Spend long enough time in sports or in the gym, and your words will be quick, few, and every single sentence will have a punch. The left-of-center fatties, I wouldn't call them men, they won't shut up about the reasons why they aren't wrong. Once I got fed up with this awful imitation of a man, normal women I couldn't stand became lovely and charming and good company. Even the centers here in Europe, the economists with …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 09:54 PM
1

I do feel sorry for the guys who will stick around. I know that it might be the autism in me, but I don't feel sorry. I hope you don't either. Try not to. For me, it's not much of a choice. Maybe not for you either. Know that those guys who listen to him, they can choose to Own Their Shit. You choose to OYS. I choose to. The moron can too, unless he's a faggot. copypasting jacktenofhearts is the surest sign that someone is autisticly codependant (jacks words). I still have to reverse-engineer wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 09:32 PM
1

Thank you. Now I get why I like Ayn Rand.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 03:10 PM
3

I sent a question for examples of what 'manipulate, demeaning and psychpath' is. Should I make some popcorn in advance of the reply? I think I should. Because it felt too rhetorical, too 'we are not like those mean guys who say mean things to each other'.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 02:55 PM
1

Welcome to the hard and narrow Way, right? I have no wife, but that's what I imagine that married life would be. A lot of ideals, mistakes and hopefully, God willing, forgiveness.
/r/RPChristians11/10/17 11:36 AM
3

"It is always bad boy that makes the good girl's heart best faster." Best? Are you sure it's not 'beat' faster?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 01:15 PM
1

What happens if one of those women gets invited? Will there be a hunting accident for the guy who invited her?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/17 01:13 PM
1

Good thinking. Hopefully, you'll understand my choice of words, for the sake of everyone else. I'd recommend men to avoid every university where courses in feminism and other bullshit is mandatory. Because men vote with their money on good products, with their dicks on hot girls, and likewise, they avoid universities which make feminism mandatory.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 09:01 PM
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It was just bizarre to me because my parents are the type of parents to stay together even though hate each other and barely tolerate each other. I always thought they were perfect candidates for divorce, but when I met other parents who were divorced - they didn't seem to 'qualify'. Can you imagine how horrible it is to be locked and expected to stay with a person you don't respect? Can you imagine how it is to look at a spouse and despise them as much as the cheaters do? Don't you think they'd…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 08:31 PM
1

I would like to hear more of this, if you're talking.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 11:28 AM
1

Interesting way of looking at it. You own, both her and this guy. You own them, and control them within some limits, due to the fact that you own your shit in ways that neither your ex or this guy do not.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/17 11:10 AM
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Then find a good one. Or get into a trade. Why the fuck aren't you dropping out of that hellhole, if they think it's a bad thing? Why the fuck are you there, if not for a good, sane, classical western education? If you're merely trying to get laid, get your tinder in order.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 10:48 AM
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“Most CEOs are male, white, well-educated and from rich families.” Go to a better university. If they don't do the math on why 'Most CEOs are ...', then what are you doing there?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 01:29 PM
1

She'll simply respond with things like, "Stop trying to fog and broken record me!" What's your thought on that? That it's worth the cost. A decent, good wife who has read WISNIFG is much better than this kind of unbearable MIL. Besides, you ought to be able to fog and broken-record her better than her. Cutting yourself on a good wife is less dangerous than this MIL.
/r/RPChristians05/10/17 04:28 PM
2

You're an inspiration, man. Shit like this is motivation when you're feeling down.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/17 12:35 PM
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You need to have something else that gets your time over her. This is the essence of removing your time and attention. She literally has a lesser priority in your life vs that other thing or things. Then when you decide to be with her she will then know her priority in your life. There's a huge difference between ignoring something(her) and being that cognitively busy that you're unable to pay attention to something else(her). The former is like a baby hiding his eyes behind his palms, and the l…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/17 06:57 PM
1

It's no different from parents and children, or wives and husbands. The bitch and the boss get along well, if the bitch wouldn't survive without the boss.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 06:39 PM
1

Because the man is obviously shit. Why would she stay with an useless man? Would you expect a man to keep a dumb woman? So why do you expect her to stay with a dumb, weak man? Or because she is not one of the smarter women. Have you never met a tall, hot and smart woman? I'm not talking about average women.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 11:45 AM
1

If you knew how genetics really work you'd know women actually fail to spot good genes based on first impressions. You should try to talk to smart women sometimes. They spot good genes in quality men. Most of them are married to quality men. Most of them are raising boys and girls with good genes. They do talk to you, don't they?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 02:44 AM
1

Women don't even try to spot good genes. They look only for the guys who stick around. Well, the night after. Girls care about his character and what his name, the night after. They have that already. We call it socialism. It was implied.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 10:38 AM
3

After my understanding of all things TRP, I can't decide if it's the dumbest or the smartest law there is. Either it's great to get rid of all of the non-alphas out of the french genepool. Or it's stupid when betas check out of the ambitious work, the tax-paying for their children.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 09:10 AM
3

Next time write /u/ before the name, so the user gets a notification about being talked about, if you're not directly replying.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/17 09:50 AM
5

Seen that, but thanks. Gorilla Mindset by Mike Cernovich and Jocko Willink's Extreme Ownership and P.D Mangan's Muscle Up is way manlier, however. Psychology and the reasons why you still do fucked up shit, they are good too, but books and men who talk about how shit gets done, it's manlier.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/17 08:23 AM
2

Anyone who doesn't take responsibility for the shit on his ass, he needs to be properly hazed.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/17 07:25 AM
3

"in order to be a man, act as if your father is dead" Now I understand why the men my age with alive fathers are as they are. My father died when I was 15, I learnt that I can't rely on my mother to teach me manliness, despite how grateful I am to have been raised by her. This explains why men with fathers are so often passive and compliant and so 'useful'.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/17 04:56 PM
5

"True friend stab you in your face."
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 01:40 PM
2

Is it somehow different? You sacrifice an arm and a leg for a piece of meat, or you get a piece of meat for free? The goal was a piece of meat, so why pay extra for it? Dread game is dread game.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/17 06:06 PM
1

We got adaptibility. Put us in the desert - we form packs to run the big mammals to death. Put us in the arctic - we learn to hunt through the ice using only a spear. Put us in the forest - we learn to camouflage and set traps for creatures far more nimble than us. Anywhere we go - we adapt. We survive. We THRIVE. Other animals got freakishly large claws, other's got large teeth. We got brains, and we systemize and theorize everything. Okay, maybe it's my autism doing the talking, but that's how…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/17 05:56 PM
1

I'm attracted to men, but many male petroleum engineers, especially in the field, take to chewing dip and crass behaviors. I get along well with them, but any physical attraction is shooed away pretty quickly by their behavior. The first girl who enters and breaks the whole 'all-male-anything-goes-no-girlfriendly-nonsense', she is as respected as she is hated. If she is successful in pushing them to 'clean up their act', she is looked upon as a person with a man-brain with womanly bodyparts. Som…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/17 04:06 PM
3

Make a good one, if you can. Just don't cry, when the men around here scar and stab you with profanity and sarcasm. That's how we talk here. Get used to that, or gtfo softie.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/17 10:15 PM
1

Maybe you are right. But I just saw one girl, a girl I respect very highly, she is happily married. She might have seemed desperate, when she did just that to me, but neither I nor her care about how it looked like. She is happily married to a man I respect, and I still chat with both of them. If you are husband-shopping, why wouldn't you let the salesmen know of that? It's legal, isn't it?
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/17 10:13 PM
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There's other forums for you, where they give pillows and soft hugs, if you prefer that.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/17 10:00 AM
1

He'll think you are just husband shopping, men don't want that. Because no men want to become husbands? Can you tell me what else men don't want?
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/17 09:21 AM
1

Mixing this with the (learned) fact that men seem to enjoy women that are fun, cheery and like a little ball of light in their lives, this leads me to ask: should Red Pill Women not date if they are depressed? The girls who aren't depressed, they have something else which is 'unattractive to men'. Go ahead, date, present yourself well. The girls who aren't depressed, they have something else to manage. I feel like I need to cling to my captain for help, security and guidance, and yet I burden th…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 07:40 PM
2

Take a look at the book 'what every BODY is saying', by something something. Joe Navarro is the author.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 05:10 PM
2

Don't forget to bring up marriage. Mention the words 'marriage' and 'future' in the same sentence. You're going to repel those who don't want it, and attract those men who want to get married. Remember, you only need to attract one good man.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/17 04:01 PM
1

Then guys have to learn how to watch the ungrateful drown in the sea of bluepilled piss. Without wasting valuable emergency material on them.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 03:45 PM
1

I keep asking myself what is wrong with me? Why am I doing so poorly in the dating and love world. I literally feel forever alone and that I won't find anyone. Can someone give me any advice? Do you know what kind of body language you're showing to the guys? The guys who you'd like to come up to you and talk with you? Do you know how inviting, open 'please, talk with me' body-language looks like? How 'leave me alone' looks like?
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/17 09:57 AM
1

Does it matter, if telling the retards to own their shit is the solution to both problems?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/17 09:51 AM
3

What do you think? In your own life, when you think about times you've been exercising faithfully and times you haven't, do you see a change in behavior? When you go to the gym, you will always feel better afterwards. If you're happy, you're happier. And if you're not feeling well, you'll feel good afterwards, despite everything. And the discipline you develop from going to the gym, it is useful in every other sphere of your life. You keeping your head cool, focused on the task at hand, everyone…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/17 10:09 PM
2

He knows he's doing it all wrong, and wants to know specifically what he does wrong. And how he must change it. He wants to get hazed.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/17 12:31 AM
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stopped drinking as a hobby, Completely off-topic, jump at me if you want, I don't care, but the fact that 'Drinking' is considered a legitimate, permitted and unhazed hobby, it's a sign of a weak culture. Hope someone can take something from this. Don't skip on sleeping? Don't listen to drunk, old aunts? Don't let them drink? Don't take women's feelings too seriously? Don't fail to shoot back, when people critize the president you like? No seriously; you've already outed yourself as a MAGA-man,…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/17 12:27 AM
1

Jane Austen. William Shakespeare. Make sure you also watch good versions of his plays.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/17 11:47 AM
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Dress traditionally. Regardless of what trades you two have. Set the tone with your clothes and styles and manners. It would be ridiculous and suicidal for you to hamstring yourself by not study [that very masculine subject], because of how women don't do that. And it would be equally unmanly of him to be impotent, unable to do the dishes. But if he is wearing a suit, and you're in a beautiful dress, then eventually he is going to lead and you're going follow. Until a problem pops up, a problem …
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 01:44 PM
1

Do you think I care about how legible this is to you?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 10:48 AM
1

My money is on german. 'der Dressur' sounds like grooming, i.e. shaping and rearing and selecting traits, breeding. Sounds too french to be something else, and it's not the first time the germans loan words and phrases from the french. 'Kunst' means Art, and 'griff' sounds too much like grasp, i.e. getting, understanding the Art.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/17 08:21 PM
2

Das Ende der Dressur? The End of Training? I don't know what it is, but it sounds like I want a translation to english, if you have one.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/17 08:00 PM
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2+ more people with wants and expectations, in his life. 2+ more who can't feed or clothe themselves. He has to work much harder, much smarter, because it's his wife and his children. Unless he fears that he is going to get thoroughly fucked in the ass by divorce court. If that's true, he doesn't give a shit, just like a teenager doesn't give a shit. Before the wife and the children, he didn't have to care about anything. Now he has to care about his wife and his children, and maybe even about h…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 07:36 PM
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Those statistics imply a 'good wife', as in she isn't an useless mouth to feed. One who is cherished, one who does her job, one who only sleeps with her husband. Everyone who does math knows that cheaters are as useless as feminists.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 09:16 AM
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Funny you say that. Statistics say that men earn about 10 times more when they get a kid. Because now they have 3+ mouths to feed. And he eats much more than he did as a bachelor.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 08:57 PM
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I was only fighting it out because I felt like I needed to convince her I was right - which put me completely in her frame. Incidents like this one, it makes him as masculine as a schoolboy handing in homework to a teacher.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/17 11:02 PM
1

She's a good kid, but she's a natural "people pleaser." Make sure you and your wife have a healthy relationship. Make sure that you two frown upon what's unhealthy. Your daughter will want to please you two, if you two have something good and enviable. Daughters take their cue from their fathers.
/r/RPChristians21/08/17 02:54 PM
1

Thanks for the advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/17 09:11 PM
1

All the side bar stuff is several years old. Don't you think it would be removed, if it got old like dairy gets old? Shut up and start reading, moron.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 03:43 AM
1

If anyone has dealt with these issues in the past or is working on them now, I'd really appreciate some suggestions. Develop your skills by doing hobbies. Self-esteem misses the mark completely, when it tries to believe in itself. Go for competence, so that you're that good that you, and the men and women around you, that you know and feel how reliable and thorough you are.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/17 12:18 PM
2

I agree with /u/Sl0wRideTakeItEasy Fuck off.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 12:07 PM
2

Always look on the bright side of life, like they sing in Monty Python?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 02:31 PM
3

How do you get comfortable being uncomfortable? Stoicism recommends going on about how it could be worse. You've got it bad? It could be even worse. You couldn't have a MRP-sub to whine on. You couldn't have WiFi. You might not be able to read and write. You could be living in shittier places. Your situation could be way worse. You could be blind or deaf. You could be lonelier, that nobody cared about telling you to shut up and go lift. Your woman could be worse. And so on. Where does it say tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/17 10:54 AM
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Read it. Or at least, watch it. The Taming of the Shrew is one of the few movies I can watch together with my mother. My sister is afraid of it, it worries her, makes her anxious, but who cares?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/17 02:06 AM
1

As if we lived and died on our good reputation.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 11:19 PM
1

Wait. Wait, wait, wait. I am getting commented on my tone? From a guy ...?
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 11:04 PM
3

I read a long time ago that a lady should know a bit about every topic and be able to discuss it. Wit doesn't sag.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 10:18 PM
1

I had to show that I could be a good mother and wife before I got proposed to. How you do that is up to you. I'm going to highlight this, for the sake of the rest of the subscribers. Ladies, are you paying attention?
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 10:07 PM
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Don't get many people brave enough to post anything about the Bible - like asking for punishment on the internet. The idiocy of their illiterate interpretations are so annoying. When even the midwit christians get it so wrong, why talk about it with atheists and agnostics?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 12:24 PM
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What does he spend his money on? What does he work on in his 'free time'? Who does he spend his time with? Answer every other question you have about him, once you've got a firm grip on those first three questions.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/17 07:09 PM
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Just like the library isn't exactly a place for physical exercise, and the gym isn't exactly a place for quiet reading, the bar and the club isn't exactly a place for finding husbands. Similarly, a man might find an excellent wife in the town's red light district, it's just not very likely, and therefore not very recommended for men to search there. When you talk to men, ask them about the future. If they don't move the conversation towards subjects relating with marriage or children, then they'…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/17 11:30 PM
1

They need the legitimacy the church brings. It's politics. If they didn't dress modestly and conservatively, everyone would treat them like lepers are treated in OT, and they know it. Feminist are slightly less leperous when they pretend to be modest christians. That's how it is where I live. Or they're just in serious doubt.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/17 02:20 PM
1

Long hair doesn't go with the matrix-asskicking. How would they animate it? Or the steely alien-slaying. Long hair is like a veblen good.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/17 01:20 PM
1

Where did read this? Here on TRP or someplace else?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 01:07 PM
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But with my current bf its like he tamed the tiger in me and I'm a purring kitten who wants to do everything for him. If you like him, if you want him, show it to him. I wouldn't believe it, if a guy said that he didn't want to see how attractive women think he is.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/17 12:54 PM
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Any suggestions for how I can help him feel more masculine as he recovers? If you believe that this is a temporary thing, downplay every part of the disability as if it was a minor cold or a stuffed nose. Are you two making the problem look smaller or bigger? If it's a big, black, evil cloud following him, haunting him, then he is not going to feel very masculine. If it's a 'minor detail' to him, he is going to handle it much better, and you'll like him so much more.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/17 07:03 AM
1

The Play-uhs report that sexually repressed good "Christian" girls are the filthiest most submissive sluts ever known. Considering how prohibition only made alcohol more 'expensive' and 'attractive', lack of a better word, why wouldn't forbidding sex make sex as attractive as the Apple Eve ate?
/r/RPChristians19/07/17 08:13 PM
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That's where you find friends! That's where families live throughout generations! Cities are where people go to die, Because they're all hiding in plain sight, becoming forgotten and never marrying. Talk. With. The. People. You. Meet. Talk!
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 08:03 PM
1

Look elsewhere. Read up on "How to win friends and influence people" and other similar books. You'll find them.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 08:59 AM
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I too would like to thank you for this. I have to reread this slower and thoroughly.
/r/RPChristians18/07/17 02:38 PM
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That's how you find your friends! You make it known what you think and feel, and you look around who gives you public support. And you forget the names of everyone else.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 09:41 AM
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The nationalistic movements are too wise to speak up, too cautious to get found. They know how to keep pravda on their lips. In fact, the difference between smart westerners and idiots, it is that the idiots believe the pravda.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 09:35 AM
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I was raised to believe that men and women are equal in the sense that both have to work hard, pursue higher education and get a good job. Soviet ideals, you know. But when it comes to relationships gender roles are essential: Girls have to look the best they can, it'll make them feel more confident and make her man proud to be with her. Guys have to demonstrate that they have what it takes to protect their families. Continue listening to what your babushka told you. Western feminists are trashy…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 09:32 AM
3

Yes, we get it. You're more than the next guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/17 03:25 PM
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So, rpw, how do you deal with girlfriends acting "bitchy"? You stop inviting them. The women I respect the most, of the women I respect, it's those who know how the be the best hosts. Not merely because they're the one's who have learnt how to cook, or because they are wise enough to get that well-fed men stick around. But because they know that they can stop inviting the women they don't like. The hostess chooses who gets to eat. Indirectly and covertly, she chooses who starves and who lives. S…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 10:45 AM
1

You think I'm an American? Oh, you are cute.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 10:40 AM
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Men are afraid of rejection. Men have read about the inconsistencies of when they get punished. If men can have their reputations ruined, because a woman change her mind and relabel the consensual sex they had as rape, then men have cause to be cautious. If men are assume to be pedophiles, for mere interest in the lives of their younger brothers, then they have cause to be cautious. If men get in trouble with HR for mere jokes at work, then men have cause to be cautious. Men are good at spotting…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 10:31 AM
3

I can usually tell what sports a woman did by where she places her feet, the angle she holds her hips at, and the width of her ass. Is this quickly learnable or is this a 10 000 hours thing? Because it sounds like this sport-spotting-eyes is useful on men too.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 05:36 AM
1

In non-merper's terms, this is called 'not even wrong'. When a comment or idea is that bad that even attempting to correct it, it would be such a waste of time, that it's better to just ignore it and start with the sense instead.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/17 10:44 PM
1

Pastor preached, "Your body shape should never get so bad that it hinders your ministry." Meh, I was still actively involved in ministry and a leader in my church, so no problems there. I remember that I didn't think much of christianity. Not before I met masculine men who made me believe that christianity and manliness is not mutually exclusive.
/r/RPChristians09/07/17 11:01 AM
1

How do you go about finding this unicorn? I've searched endlessly. I found them by getting into disagreements with the non-unicorns. I don't hide my views, and those who disagree with me, they've helped me find those who agree with me. For instance, when I talk against women in the pulpit, I quickly learn who disagrees with me, and if I need to find new friends.
/r/RPChristians09/07/17 10:52 AM
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It's cute when americans try to talk sense about europe.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 10:28 AM
1

Practice negative visualization. When you notice how it could be much worse, you start cherishing how good it already is.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/17 08:57 PM
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The stopped what she was doing and looked up at me like I slapped her. I suppose she was expecting the whole "Yes, I am. She's far too good for me" speech. When those women who expect to be respected like that, it's a slap in the face to them, when men imply that men are to be equally respected. She gets coffee and everything else for free, despite how bitchy she is. And suddenly she has to pay expensive premium respect for the premium coffee. Of course she is pissed, why wouldn't she be? You wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/17 08:55 PM
1

Dindus, women and children don't understand money or time. Women do it when they it's their own, but never when they can't make any money off it.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 09:24 AM
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I have no doubt of that. That's why I suggested another list. In a different post.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/17 09:22 AM
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If you're writing a list with things you women 'never do', because of they wouldn't let ladies do, consider writing a similar list of what your gentlemen never do.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 08:09 PM
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Don't expect teenagers to understand money. Artists and sportsmen have been known to starve and die poor. Because they don't understand money. They haven't been taught, and their bankers will never teach them. If they're black, don't expect them to learn. Stupid people are too valuable to ever make them not-stupid.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 07:54 PM
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Will you fuck off, when I tell you to, as I am doing right now?
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 05:22 PM
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If you can get the audio file downloaded, you can open it in iTunes and label the file as an audiobook. Then you transfer it to your iPhone/iPod and play it as a normal audiobook. Or you can play the helpless girl for your boyfriend and let him do it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/17 11:26 AM
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I don't think needs to hear of it, considering how he talks.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/17 11:21 AM
1

I don't think medication is a good long term solution but at least it can get you over that initial awkwardness. Find out what you're anxious about and why. But first you need to flush the pills.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/17 08:08 PM
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We comprehend so much that we mock you.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 06:45 PM
1

Boys like the girls who likes boys. Those who choose boys, instead of politics. Boys don't like the girls who like politics. Those choose politics, instead of boys. So why would a girl who likes boys be seen choosing politics over boys?
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/17 05:08 PM
2

Learn why it's wrong. Imagine explaining it to a precious, younger sister. Imagine her asking you if you'd recommend it. Imagine her asking you why. Imagine you explaining it to her. Imagine mocking it to your hot boyfriend, when you show off that you do not believe the bullshit. Imagine the relief on his face, when he notices that you're not like every other girl.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/17 05:04 PM
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It's their job to lie to you, if you pay them. The best ones make you believe it. And you believe the lie.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 04:59 PM
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How is helping your daughter's boyfriend unmanly, but helping strangers online manly?
/r/askMRP28/06/17 04:58 PM
1

Current situation? This is a guy you might be married to, and you seem to care more about the zeitgeist? I know, you're not married yet, but do you want to give the impression that you might be? Because it's hard for others to believe it, if you don't seem to believe it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/17 01:56 PM
1

I don't trust him fully, but I want to get there. What is it you've done, that you do not trust each other?
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/17 11:15 AM
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No need to dig that up, your reply is enough. Thank you very much. I've seen enough of those couples with my own eyes, so unless I might be rude, please save your kindness for someone who needs it more.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 04:51 AM
1

Listen to the complaints of men. Listen to men's anecdotes about couples. That's everywhere. If they complain about women not being loyal, fill them with alcohol, or use some other way/tool that will make them talk more, anything to get them talking about women's loyality.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/17 11:13 PM
2

I have never had a father figure or mentor to teach me these things. Neither did I. Buy the books on 'course prerequisites'. Read it. Understand it. Lurk every new post, and try to understand why the most upvoted are the most popular, why the nonsense is mocked. Spot that, in your own life. Don't post anything new before you can spot the stuff from the books or the sidebar in your own life, and how you solved your own daily problems with that stuff. When you do post, and when commenters explain …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/17 10:56 PM
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General Mark Philp cares more about his Abu Grauib prison rape dogs then he does about the health of the American people. Having opinions outside of 'permissible thought' gets you fired. Well-decorated generals, in America, they don't get promoted by doing 'what needs to be done'. In America, currently, they do what their teacher grade them on, ehm, I mean their politicians grade them on. Rebellion isn't cool, if you're in that Army. Don't think Russian thoughts, when you're thinking about weste…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 10:14 PM
2

Fat Mexicans vs Middle Easterners is not a war. That's an event in The Colosseum. With bookies, with commentators, with beverages and snacks and everything else. They've done it before, why wouldn't it be done again? Protesting Leftists and Counter-protesting low-class right-wingers, that might be something we'd potentially classify as 'warfare'.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 10:04 PM
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It's as if women have a radar for sorting 'Guys under covert contract, guys who want a golden star from mommy' from 'Guys doing shit, cleaning shit, because there's shit in the fan'.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/17 09:45 PM
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What happened to the men who had women who left them because of their suffering? They died. Slowly. Don't underestimate what loyal women can do for the men they love. When they choose to care for men. Save the post u/SouthenAthena wrote. Go listen to any man's story of how feminism ruined his life, really listen to his story, and compare it how the woman in Athena's story behaved. Do that a couple of times, and you'll know how much men cherish loyally devoted women. If they do it at all.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/17 10:05 PM
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I actually take the husband's side. If you're planning to become married, or to stay married, I'd recommend this. I've seen enough guys dump her, because he noticed that she cared more about what her friends think. If his opinions are secondary to her friends' opinions, why would he keep her?
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/17 07:51 AM
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(and Dr. Laura Schlessinger will agree with this). Where does she talk about this? A book? Blog? Youtube or other video?
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/17 12:17 PM
1

You failed to get what I said. intelligent wives, yet overweight Intelligence in women, and in men, it correlates negatively with obesity. In plain, short-word english; smarter women are thinner.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/17 03:41 PM
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I'm toying with the idea of writing more than just a reply to this. To write or not to write. And another question is what I ought to highlight and suggest.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/17 01:07 PM
1

And the guys they're engaged to aren't losers or anything, the men are genuinely intelligent guys with a good heart. Read this a couple of times and tell me that you're not denying anything. That there's nothing you want to believe.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/17 01:05 PM
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I need to be the first girl, even though it's obvious the second girl gets married. Go ask the coupled guys why they picked their girls. Go spend time with them, and see if they happen to have friends who are both untaken and not-useless.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/17 12:49 PM
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Go hang out with the married boys and girls. I've noticed that they're generally of higher caliber. Assist them in their lives with their marriages, and they'll help you find someone worth a damn. Be good and kind and useful and decent. Be worth a damn, to them. I know personally that the already taken men and women, they know why the taken are taken more intimately and more accurately and more insightfully. They've rejected and approved people already. They know what behaviours they've left beh…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 08:34 PM
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In Defense of Women, by H.L. Mencken. It's one of the funniest and most accurate descriptions of both men and women.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 08:15 PM
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I go to a very, VERY liberal arts university and about half of the men there either do not identify as male or they are only interested in men themselves. I didn't read more that this, before I started writing this comment. Go meet well-muscled, manly men. You're not going to find any men among 'Very liberal men'. I am aware that mods might jump at me for talking politics, but here we go. Mods, this is relevant to man-finding. There's an direct correlation with muscle-mass and right-of-center ma…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 01:14 PM
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I've heard women using the rating system which is what bugs me more than men doing it. Hahaha! They think they get a vote on that? Oh, this would be funny, if it weren't so annoying.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/17 05:17 PM
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Guys have a habit of thinking in math. Even if they're bad at it. It's how we think as a group. It's not supposed to make sense for women. Looks and attraction are entirely subjective. I don't think I'd agree with that. Guys like what guys like. The ideal men, the men women like, they're very similar too. Women just use different ways of explaining and describing what makes them great and attractive and masculine.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 03:35 AM
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I miss those awful times. I didn't have the time to feel sorry for myself, to wish for something else, to be pretentious, to be self-conscious about shit nobody but me noticed, to worry about people I didn't give a shit about or what they might say, to aimlessly waste time, to do non-essential shit. I only got important work done, because I didn't have the time for anything else. And sadly, that time of difficult bullshit ended, and my life got easier. And I got less shit done. And I stopped sle…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/17 10:52 PM
1

Why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free? Because that cow is the best cow ever and can't be replaced, so you don't want to lose it. Let me fix that for you. Because if it's too much girly-girly, he's going to get fed up with her. I just heard a guy dump an excellent girl. Why did he dump an excellent girl? I'm glad you asked. She wanted to hug him too often. She was easily replaced, but he wasn't. You see, if he hasn't got the time to miss her, he isn't going to want more of her.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/17 10:38 PM
1

Never serve these losers! They're plain idiots if they don't serve these women back. If they have brains enough to charge the batteries on their electronics, you'd think they'd understand why other men serve their women back. Apparently they don't learn, because phones stop working for them instantly. Unlike these women.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/17 10:33 PM
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Any tips on making it through this phase and staying strong? Feel the pain. Suffer. Infatuations, or crushes, they have been compared to addiction. So if you're not in pain from lack of drug-use, you're not ending it. If it's not hard on you right now, you're doing it wrong. Imagine a drug-addict trying to stay normal, despite any and every symptom, despite how much you'd want some more.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/17 10:09 AM
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The kind where the woman really wants to be a doctor, and retires when the man-doctors retire. Think really nerdy girls grown up. Think nannies. Think families where universities and lots and lots of books and money is the norm. Think people who are both street-smart and book-smart. Their kids have mixed feelings about it, but the money doesn't hurt.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/17 07:01 PM
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I've heard similar kinds of arguments. "Demographics is destiny." Meaning, once men have wives and children, that's when they start caring about the future of western civilisation. Before that, they have no reason to give a shit. They're not yet over the point of no return, and that's why they don't care. Men don't care, if they're not committed to kid or wife. Nor will they truly work for anything substantial. I understand the arguments, but knocking a girl up just like that, that feels way too…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 10:03 PM
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There is two kinds of girls in this world, those who get respected by men and those who don't. Start looking at how differently those two girls behave.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/17 07:32 AM
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Yes, there is. You need to show in the beginning that you are one of the girls that boys need to treat with respect. If you're not, you need to stop talking with them. Until they show that they do respect you. Don't give in to desperation.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 06:40 PM
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I'm not sure how to phrase this in a nicer way Don't be nice. When people ask these questions, they've gotten 'the nice version' so many times, and it has never helped them before. That's why nice is bad. Be true and honest. People want the harsh, stabbing cut. Fuck, I wanted it. And I still want to hear my loved ones tell me the true and honest and stabbing version.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 03:57 PM
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The funny thing is that they complain about girls fucking them over, being single and just having bad luck with girls and I'm sitting here like "hello, I'm right in front of you. The perfect girl!" and I can't make them notice me but I always try and I guess I just get stuck in the friend zone and I can't get over them. Why are you guys' man-friends? If guys are drunk-complaining about life, women, work, whatever when you're present, then you're one of the guys. Guys don't marry those friends. F…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 03:41 PM
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The fact that you've admitted this, that's sign enough that you're on the path to becoming a better wife. So long as you don't revert to your old path, you'll do fine.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 08:48 AM
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And? We look at med students and doctors very closely. Some of us are married to them and the rest of us have them in our family. They're as crazy as the rest of us. Don't date an addict. Does a med student need to be told this?
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/17 10:39 PM
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Respect is a big, big, big thing. Men do whatever they can in order to get respected.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/17 09:37 PM
1

Have you got any odd replies about this?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/17 08:05 AM
2

Because if mods remove this, what are we to take a piss on? We're supposed to haze this shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/17 09:01 PM
2

It would be better to convert everything into 'For The Good of The Cause'.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/17 03:26 PM
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You basically gave him everything he needs and wants and waited a year and 7 months before broaching the subject of your needs and wants. What reason does he have to suddenly commit two tons of obligation for the rest of his life when now, he's getting all the perks without commitment? As the saying goes, why pay for the cow when you can get the milk for free! Consider writing a piece about not cohabiting before marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 06:11 PM
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The red pill truths that fall from this woman's mouth have been gold. Start talking with older, still-married grandmothers. They don't give a shit anymore. They have no need to impress everyone, when their personal duties consists of two things. Enjoying the rest of their lives, and red-pilling the shit out of children, grandchildren and other people they care for.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 09:07 PM
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Another reason to call each other faggots here. Non-subscribers who won't take the hazing well, they ought to be disrespected until they leave.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 06:10 AM
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So, the short version of marriage is 'it's scary and you might get hurt from it, so do not do it'? Or how you put it, without writing a wall-of-text?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 12:04 PM
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She dumped him about 7 years ago and left him broken hearted. I know he isn't over what happened between them. I wonder if she is his one true love, even though he cares about me very much and wants a future together. I trust him in that sense, which is a plus. He is a good guy. Respectfully, if she dumps him, she didn't want him. And if he also wants her more, more than he wants you, then you really ought to let him go. I can't stress that enough.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 09:32 AM
9

If you have problems understanding that, I'm going ask you if RPW is something for you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 11:21 AM
15

If you act like a lady, you are one. If you smell like a troll, you are one.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 01:49 AM
3

This leaves me wanting to pull my hair out because they complain about how he never makes an effort…when he clearly has. Your parents are the last persons you should talk about who is a good person. If what you've said about your childhood is true, then they've proven themselves to incompetent and iliterate on the subject of marital or parental goodness. You should be looking for someone who isn't liked by your parents. Because if you're dating a man who is well liked by your mother and your fat…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 12:26 AM
2

So long as your helpfulness aims at the same goal as his chosen and explicit plan, then I don't think you're mothering him.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 04:06 PM
2

He has ADD and trouble planning things but when we come up with solutions and work around the ADD it helps. That's just argument for paying extra attention towards him planning things. Not that I'd suggest you to be a mother to him, because if you plan for him, he is going to behave like a kid and rebel. Yes, good wives have their own 'plans' for what good husbands do, but just as you chose 'to not be a bad wife' as you showed in this short story, it is his thing to be a good husband and choose …
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 01:42 PM
2

Really regretting I didn't sound proof my room. Buy yourself a pair of Sennheiser Momentum Bluetooth Wireless Headsets. They filter out 20dB. Few possessions of mine are this annoying to women. I've yet to meet a woman who haven't given me that kind of aggressiveness towards my anti-bullshit-ear-protection-headphones.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/17 07:35 PM
1

Does she also whine about how strange it is that father is listened to, but not her?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/17 05:46 PM
6

And that work, which the absent fathers are expected to do, it's going to be done by policemen.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/17 05:45 PM
5

Maybe there is something I can do to calm the nerves.... ? You're fine. In public speaking; If you're not nervous about this speech, as you are before and during every other speech, then this you shouldn't open your mouth. If you're not high on stage-fright, you don't have anything important or meaningful to say. Dating with the goal of being happily married, it's been called the 'most important interview of your life'. So if you're worried, stressed, hopeful, scared, intrigued, and every other …
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 10:19 PM
1

No, I'm just pondering if it's from Proverbs. And your analogy is good.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 07:55 AM
1

"The man is the head of the household but the woman is the neck." Is the next line something about she being good for him, is like being a crown on his head? The one after that, something about she being bad for him, that's like rot in his bones?
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/17 08:29 PM
3

Do most couples have conflicts so deep and wide that the only way to settle them is for the husband to make a unilateral decision even if it's contrary to his wife's wishes? You might not have seen how couples, marriages turn awfully sour when she isn't submissive and deferential enough. Or when he doesn't 'rule' enough. Remember that 'AWALT' isn't 100% true; it's homespun, rhetorical wisdom. So is Captain and his obedient, loyal First Mate. Yes, a marriage is an union between two hearts and two…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/17 08:13 PM
6

My mom is naturally very independent and strong willed. So is mine. I've noticed that her independence means that her will and her wishes will always take priority to her promises. The interdependence of, for example, a observant faith, a healthy marriage, or of an honor-group, it doesn't go with a person's independence. It will clash daily, and it will be uncomfortable, but you're not looking for comfortable life a with an independent woman. How can I stop her from influencing me when I have to…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/17 07:52 PM
1

Then you're missing the point.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/17 09:26 AM
10

If you're dating a white guy, you ought to expect that he wants white food.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/17 07:13 AM
5

It would be wise of you to notice that guys who have X are predisposed to do Y. Those guys are like that. Just like AWALT.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 06:13 PM
3

Inquiries into his past about his previous relations with women; mother, sisters, aunts and girlfriends, it will tell you more, and it will explain why he is like this.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 10:14 AM
19

Testosteron sure is one helluva drug, isn't it? It's what this world has been built with. Not that you would know anything about it.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 10:00 AM
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It's unfortunate that Western society doesn't carry the same respect. IT's a while since the last time westerners properly took care of thieves like that. Bags aren't going to left unattended so long as thieves get to keep their hands attached to their arms.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 11:07 AM
1

The problem is that most western women don't understand some of the extreme views of patriarchal Muslim men. The easiest way to find the western women who understand what islam is about, well, they talk ill of islam. It still amazes me- to be an intelligent enough person to gain maximum level security & work for the FBI.... only to end up working as a hostess in a hotel lounge because she wanted to marry a terrorist. Being useful, like a replaceable phone is useful, it is the best way to get pro…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 11:03 AM
3

Why is a wet paper towel useful? In what way?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 08:08 AM
2

'Freak-out-and-panic' or introspection as it's also called, it's healthy. Or in this case 'it looks like I am going to end up alone'. It doesn't matter if it is men or women who are completely unaware of their current future path. Boys and girls who don't yet get they're on the highway to unattractive loneliness, due to their repellent behaviours, they can't be saved yet. If we would meet these friends in person, these who are worried, and if we'd be respectful with how they could improve their …
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 08:47 PM
1

I'm not a likeable person. If you're likeable, that isn't a question yet. You can first make the case that you're a human being.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/17 06:25 PM
1

Even worse then.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/17 06:23 PM
5

Considering what an ugly soul you seem to have, I wouldn't recommend any woman to carry your child.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/17 03:35 PM
2

There are reasons for why men need women and why women need men. People won't say no to an extra pair of hands. For instance, men live longer, if they get along with a wife. And women with husbands got more money/work from him.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/17 10:05 AM
1

Then you're already doing what I recommend you to. If your heart doubts him, he'll know.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 08:43 AM
2

Search for reasons to genuinely and visibly respect him. If I'd meet you two in real life, and I would be doubting how smart you think he is, how wise you think he is, how huge you think he is, and so on, then I'd be worried for his sake.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 08:10 PM
6

Know that the cheater isn't going to get kept by the the next guy. Because if she can't stay in one marriage happily, she isn't going to stay in the next one.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 07:55 PM
7

That he seems like an amazing guy.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 05:54 PM
7

What has your husband done to deserve this, Sadie? By the way, have you got any recommendation for a good crock pot?
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 05:24 PM
3

When I Say No, I Feel Guilty is better.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 07:15 AM
33

You need insight. Incite means 'to start a fire' as if you were a crazy woman. Insight is more of a 'wise woman'.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 07:30 AM
2

Make it a job. Measure yourself how much you do for his sake. Being a wife is trade, and your 'salary' is dependent on how pleased your boss is.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 11:09 AM
10

"I'd like you to lose weight." Being too heavy, it is linked with depression, for many different reasons. He might be giving you the usual insensitive, facts-only, but loving man-talk. The kind of talk which works wonderfully between men but sounds so cruel in the ears of women. I should be around 145 to be at a healthy weight. I'm aware of this and keep telling myself I need to get the ball rolling. Should doesn't do anything. Stop telling yourself. Find some sport you'd willingly do. Find a sp…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 01:08 PM
1

Where do you find your books? Mobilism?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 10:27 PM
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Go to a top British uni, and study law if you like, but don't rule out meeting your husband there and becoming his full-time wife. That you might abandon your studies in favour of 'wifely duties'. It's quite common for women to go to uni with that purpose. For now, do your homework, drink tea with your friends, spend time with your family, cousins and grandparents. Read classical works. Old British writers are excellent. Especially Shakespeare. Also, find out if there's a sport you can partake i…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 08:36 PM
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I keep talking to him about how much I want kids and discussing these future scenarios, am I really just freaking him out or turning him off to the idea? The fallout of him being freaked out is way smaller and less radioactive, if you'd just let it out that you want lots and lots of babies. Compare that with you sneakily getting pregnant and telling him it his.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/17 10:54 AM
4

I do worry about not meeting someone before 30. Any advice on that? Be genuinely respectful towards men everywhere. Despite how they can be complete assholes. Just as I'd recommend men to be respectful towards women. Even if their manners aren't always awesome. Because men talk as much as women talk among themselves. Just as women listen to how men treat the lowliest of women, men keep an ear to the ground, pay attention to how men get treated.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 08:57 PM
2

What are your thoughts? Save your best behaviour for your closest. I've discarded very close people, people who saved their best for outsiders. They haven't understood it yet. Nor am I going to tell them.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 01:34 PM
1

The library is RP as fuck. Knowledge acquisition, peace and quiet, cute studious women. You've found lots of good girls at the library?
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/17 08:17 PM
1

Stop being unmanly. I was being as serious as I was joking.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/17 07:21 PM
1

Do go on.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/17 07:17 PM
8

Yeah. That's the thing about men. Sometimes we just say what we mean, and mean what we say. And nothing else.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 09:52 PM
1

:)
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 09:43 PM
1

I write so much I think I'll soon start feeling like I'm turning into a female. It's called writing. It's what writers do. And manly writers write better than women. Like Hemingway, for instance. If you're worried about being too female, then punch someone, question someone's manliness, stop giving a damn what other people say or something else manly. You're a man, aren't you? Just don't shoot yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 12:04 PM
2

Talk to him about deathbed regrets, what he would regret. When you know what he would regret, you know what goals you ought to help and guide him with. If you don't know what he'd regret, you will be continue being frustrated by how you can't help him.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 11:57 AM
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Don't lie. Let him know. You don't want a guy you can fool, and thus dominate. You don't want him to resent the fact that he got fooled into marriage, and got to know this fact after he became legally bound to a deceptive girl. How is the rest of the marriage look like? Would you like to be married with a guy who successfully lied to you about details you really don't want falsified? How would you feel being legally bound to a guy who made a fool out of you? Do you think you could love a guy lik…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 11:45 AM
3

Now I need to watch the rest of that movie.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/17 11:33 AM
5

This is what subscribers here come for. A daily dose of this.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/17 11:31 AM
3

You heard of 'Show, don't tell'?
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 01:09 AM
3

You're missing the point. Those guys are either looking to get rid of her or they're whipped and henpecked. Alphas don't let themselves get disrespected by women. And last time I checked, you're not looking for whipped betas here.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 03:25 PM
4

Imagine a guy you would want to sleep with, but you wouldn't want to get seen in public with. She has the same kinds of faults as he does.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 10:41 AM
12

If you don't have a reliable boyfriend, you don't. Women with men have it. Women without men don't have it. No exceptions.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 10:39 AM
4

Make a point to do this, even when men are coarse, terse, clumsy, vulgar and generally ungentlemanly. Because, unlike the manners men get from feminists, dressing and acting like a princess will make men clean up their acts very quickly.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 04:50 PM
1

Thanks. And that rule is worth following.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 08:12 PM
1

Do you have the link to the quotes?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 06:17 PM
6

If there's many more women than men, women are objects for sex. If there's many more men than women, women are objects for relationships. And men have to work harder than slaves. And women are in demand. And are permitted to have opinions.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/17 05:24 PM
2

It always boggles my mind how some people consider a natural reaction to be a sin. Because you're supposed to behave properly, but I am supposed to be judged by how hard I'm trying. Can't you imagine how hard this is for me?!
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/17 07:14 PM
3

Some parts of scripture talk of 'whomever looks at a woman in that kind of way sins'. Some parts talk of 'you can look and think anything wrong, so long as you do not open your mouth and let those bad thoughts spread'. The tongue is generally described as something dangerous, something to be careful with.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/17 07:12 PM
1

Without reading anything but the title; He said something, and you trusted him without verifying anything. Always verify, woman!
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 10:04 AM
6

It's important to dress yourself along with what fits your age. The young can do odd fashion, but it's rare that the old can wear anything but classical style well.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 09:19 PM
10

Maybe this concept only exists in certain communities? Again I am not saying it doesn't exist, I just haven't experienced it. Ask men, men who will not lie to you due to politeness, about how attractive women past a certain age are. And listen to liberal women's sadness about how men aren't paying attention to them as they used to when they were younger. Those are the easiest ways to find The Wall.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 07:20 PM
4

My instinct is to start a new post and discuss a variety of strategies and tactics that a First Mate can use to influence her Captain whenever there is some disagreement. Influence how? Do you lead and control him like a puppet-master? Or are you an attractive dance partner who is more attractive than the other girls, and that's why he chooses to lead you?
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 01:17 PM
3

Once again you write an excellent piece of text.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/17 08:40 PM
1

Can you imagine how rent free TRP lives in his head? Could you get better publicity than this?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 08:39 PM
2

Read Martin Seligmann's Learned Optimism and Flourish. I recommend those two very highly. He is, or was, the president of American Psychological Association. He got there by making the study of positive psychology from scratch. Everyone else in the Association dealt with 'less negative'. He works with adding positive. He is the only one who knows how happiness looks like. Everyone else works with less misery. They were happy to elect him.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/17 08:28 PM
3

Anyway, have any of you ladies had this experience? And how did you learn to be more sensitive? Say thank you for the smallest thing. For the food in front of you, for the replies to the post, for internet, for your eyes, your brain, for the beauty you have, the connections you were born with, for the lack of disability you could have had, all the stuff your dad gave you, for the money you have, for the debt you don't have, for your clean water, for how safe you feel when you're with a man you t…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 06:58 PM
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This idea that a woman can reclaim her virginity and is "not that girl anymore" despite fucking Chad1 thru 99 for the past ten years is amazing. I'm a politically right-of-center, devout christian man. And I've not laughed this much for a long while. The idea that guys wouldn't spot whores and sluts from girls who keep themselves chaste, it's fucking laughable. It's the first, second and third thing we judge Our Sisters on, and I'm like, we've learnt how to spot that shit a mile away. Any new gi…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 06:52 PM
1

Don't assume verbosity indicates ignorance of the language my man, What the fuck?! I don't, stop that bullshit. I assume that you're writing for the sake of someone else. If you are, then you need to rewrite it a couple of times. I need you to understand that this isn't your diary or journal. This is no difference from you being a barista. Your job as a writer/barista, it is to make good text/coffee. Remove the bullshit, the bullshit I don't want, or else you're a waste of bread, of air, of mone…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 06:45 PM
0

Cut more. Just like alcohol can be boiled to be less watered, and less shit, you ought to boil/cut your text more. Say more with less. Show us that you follow the rule. If you need better words, or if you need to understand words better, read more.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 05:59 PM
3

That axiom is an introduction for new redpillers. Just like 'babies happen when mommy and daddy are hugging'. Older redpillers understand the axioms and the rules better, and they know better when they don't apply. AWALT, for instance.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 05:56 PM
9

Get well-muscled, get well-dressed, get well-behaved, get well-groomed, get well-read. This doesn't happen to 'hot' guys. Ever.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 09:52 PM
9

Get yourself a copy of 'When I Say No I Feel Guilty'. It's for both boys and girls. I have a copy. The examples in it use both sexes.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 10:18 PM
0

It's an acquired skill. Argumenting, debating, fighting. Fortunately, those scars aren't visible to the common eye, so long as nothing flies towards you. And those who can spot them, they have them themselves, and they respect them more for having them.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/17 08:00 PM
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Does anyone else here have this similar living experience? How do you deal with it? Do you just tell people what they need to hear, feelings be damned? It's a conflict you need to start, if this bothers you this much. Just as you start 'Dear boyfriend/husband/whatever, stop leaving the toilet seat up.' Put your warpaint and your wargear, and everything else you need. Then go pick a fight.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/17 06:30 PM
2

engineering or medicine? How much do you want to work daily with people? Because engineers don't. Not in the same way as doctors do.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/17 03:17 PM
-2

If you're counting in celsius, it's still a warm room. Sauna begins at 90 degrees celsius.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 08:17 AM
3

If it's a person who is capable of listening and being respectful to ideas and thoughts which aren't 'heretical', 'blasphemy' or otherwise 'triggering', yes. If not, it's either a waste of time, or a time when I choose to be an asshole.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 02:29 PM
2

As a result, I don't ever feel like I have to "fish" for compliments, he pays them all on his own and I knows he means them since I didn't have to ask. Those who earn them, they never need to fish for them. They're given. Much like alphaness, you can't kickstart it in a guy, and do you even want that kind?
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/17 03:01 PM
3

He thinks and chooses. He might do what everybody else is doing, but that's a trivial matter. He thought about doing that, and he chose that for himself. Children don't think as he does.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/17 07:08 PM
4

I cut out my beta orbiter male 'friends' and the girls I'm surrounded by don't really further my redpill goals, so I am looking for like-minded female friends to support each other :) Think of a hobby which is mutually excluding to the betas and the surrounding girls. Something which is completely antithetical to them. Do that. Not to suggest anything, but betaboys don't do boxing for instance. It's way too masculine to ever find betaboys there. I wouldn't dream of suggesting you to ruin your no…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/17 07:09 AM
5

Even the conservatives I've argued with disagreed with me on this. Then they're children. If you're done with your puberty, you're always in charge. If I'd hear that crap, I have a reason to stop talking with whomever that foul noise comes from.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/17 07:05 AM
1

I would love to comment, and discuss this. However, I'll do that, once you format this whole thing. I can't read this, when it's a single line of text. Leave 'the quote' written as poorly as it was in the original. It's much easier to take you seriously, if you take your own spelling and punctuation seriously.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 04:31 PM
11

My husband doesn't know about RP(W) and guys from TRP would probably call him beta but he is very driven, successful, dresses nicely, is fit, smells amazing, great grooming, and is not a pushover. Don't read too much TRP. Every group idealizes itself, and both confirmed bachelors and cheating men, they will never understand the rationale of men who daily choose to be commited to their wives. They will not understand them. Not before they allow themselves to doubt the value and philosophy of TRP.…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 10:10 PM
15

I'd say to be ambitious at work. Yes. Work for your salary. Hunt, stalk, kill. Go for it. Men who are planning to work at work, i.e. the men who aren't there to dip their pen in the company's ink, they don't look at co-workers as either men or women. They look at them as persons who are reliable or not. Hard-working or not. Women who make as much as men understand this. That's why they're not whining about equal pay, since they do the equal work or suffer the equal hazards. That's why they don't…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 07:12 PM
6

Unlike most guys in FWB, it seems like he's actually keeping me around for the emotional connection instead of the sex. No, no, no. No! You're projecting your wishful feelings. If you're FWB, you might has well be his hand. If anything, he's lying very successfully. I think it's mostly that he's incredibly busy and can't really handle things like long talks, meeting up everyday, etc. He says that's what he needs to do to be a good boyfriend, and I think his inability to do this lead to him feeli…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 12:21 PM
2

Here's 'The Truth about Sex'. 40 minutes of Youtube, with statistics about sex. RP assumes women capitalize on their looks and youth, so what prevents them from going all out? Getting a man worth a damn, that's worth more than a couple of rents.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/17 10:09 PM
1

I wonder if all of that is worth it, when game-aware men, the men she's starving for, when they understand the value of 'get the fuck far away from girls like that'.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/17 09:52 PM
2

"I'm doing it my way today."
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/17 12:41 PM
2

She gets rid of him and she gets the attention.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/17 01:55 AM
1

I feel like I need to "contribute" to the relationship and it makes me feel like I'm not useful when he's always giving me suggestions. You don't need to. Unless he has commented about that. Is he is passively, indirectly and unmasculinely sulking or pouting about how you're not doing enough for him? If not, carry on, as you were. But for example, I feel like a woman is supposed to know more about cooking than a man, so when he suggests me to change a cooking method, I definitely accept it (beca…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/17 11:26 PM
1

Your friend has asked for your help and appreciates it. You're a great friend. Thanks. OP wants to do something different and is being emotionally blackmailed to do what her boyfriend wants, through his "pouting." Tell him to back off? If he is pouting, then you should really be on that. That crap is unmasculine. OP isn't a fat person looking for help getting fit. She's a fit person with different workout preferences and her boyfriend is being juvenile. Who knows? This boyfriend of hers might be…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/17 11:22 PM
3

You're funny.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/17 01:44 PM
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It's also a great way to check her discipline. Is she a quitter? Fit girls with a nice ass, they appreciate how much a nice ass costs. Fit girls, they don't quit working out.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/17 01:43 PM
6

Well he has me squatting the bar and deadlifting and he's extremely critical about my form. It makes me feel like I'm one of his bros rather than his girlfriend. That's what love sounds like when it's coming from a man. Either you do the work, or you leave. I'm doing this to a friend who wants to stop being fat. If he weren't grateful for every single one of my critical comments, then I'd stop helping him. In fact, he said he wanted to do this with me, because I'm completely indifferent towards …
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/17 01:31 PM
1

Bodyweight exercises. Indoor hobbies. And if you're feeling like a prisoner of a woman's baby, you're locked at home, then you're not thinking outside of the box yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/17 11:38 PM
3

Lies like that one are tests of 'how gullible, naive is this girl'. Oh, and scars like the one you've got right now, they're the best kinds of motivations of not doing this mistake again. Keep an ear out for other people talking about scars like this one. If you do that, you don't have to get stabbed again.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 10:57 PM
1

I'm a battered woman when talking about issues in my relationship and mentioning things that I've done to create the problem. Girls who cry wolf. If only girls knew how much they fed sheep to the wolf, how much they let the wolf tear everything to shreds.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 10:38 AM
1

The stuff has some meaning to him. Alcohol has some evasive real-life avoidance, or liquid courage, or a time to be social, or something for the drunks. Video/computer games has something for the gamers. If someone would sit down with a drunk/cocaine addict/master league player/whatever, and really listen, then you'd eventually find the meaning of the issue. Same thing with hoarding. It has some attached meaning to him. It is useless and cluttering to you, but not to him. I frequently declutter …
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 10:15 AM
1

How can I help him and free our lives of junk? What would be the best approach to this? No idea. I just want to mention that it sounds like he has difficulties cutting off from the past. A guy who still has old crap stored, say for instance his video/computer games, he has still not said goodbye to the time when teenage-him played that. The grownup man might have already throw that gear away.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 10:09 PM
1

Should I hang on to my friendship with her until I can get to a better place with a better chance of me making good friends, or should I drop it? Be very careful with who you spend your time with. Whenever children turn into teenagers, they start needing to conform to other teenagers. And if those have a culture with 'bad values', you're going to judge yourself based on those 'bad values'. It's called 'birds of feather flock together'.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 11:06 AM
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It makes me wonder if MGTOW are truly happy if they don't have women giving them stable and long-term respect. They hate themselves. And everyone knows that they're less, because they don't try anymore. They lack something. But everyone else is still in the game trying to get that something. Imagine a group of women who'd like to spend time with a man, or perhaps several hot ones without ever learning their names. Now, imagine them being completely frustrated with men, and how men make no sense …
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/17 12:14 AM
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Issues like this is mostly about what you want guys to think about your guy. When guys are arguing, and one of them has a girlfriend who is completely and totally indifferent to the argument, but it's obvious of how happy she is with him, because of how respectful she is towards her guy, then it's very common that the 'boy with the respectful girl' wins. It's really hard to argue against that. There's very little to say if you're to persuade the not-horny, not-stupid guys to ignore her and what …
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 09:59 PM
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Anyways - I couldn't tell if you are agreeing with my "empty" answers or thinking I'm being"patronizing" like the other guy. I don't need to prove my respect for my boyfriend to strangers on the Internet - he knows I do and that's the only thing that matters. You're doing exactly the right thing. I thought I was being clear. If he's not looking for help, you're right to not give him any.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 09:21 PM
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I'm going to say that about 85% of men who get raises immediately increase their costs of living and the raise means nothing for the future. Are you expecting that short people are going to reach to the top shelf, without assistance? Dumber people think about money in worse ways. Smarter people understand math. Height is easy to understand. Longer is additively better. Nice to reach the top shelf. Intelligence, on the other hand, is completely different. It's exponentially better to have more na…
/r/RedPillWorkplace17/02/17 09:19 PM
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I'm not quite sure why you're taking my response negatively because I love my boyfriend very much. He doesn't see my responsiveness as "patronizing," he sees me as a loving and supporting girlfriend because I am. If he is 'babbling', and he wants to tell you about observations A, B and C, how he looks at it, but he doesn't want you solve your problem, then giving him a respectful, attentive and 'empty' answer without any real 'data' or 'this is how you ought to respond to that', then you're doin…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 09:06 PM
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Don't ever again tell the magic trick. The only time you're allowed to show how the trick is done, it's when you're raising a son or a bro. So he can do it too. Rule No. 1: Nobody talks about Fight Club.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/17 09:56 PM
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Do you also talk about how well you're gaming her?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/17 07:38 PM
3

Are there specific books/resources you had in mind? I have a couple of these recommended books I've read in my hand already, taken from my bookshelf a second ago. Some of them aren't in physical copies, because being publicly seen interested in 'that subject' is really bad, so I have to search my devices for them. Some of 'the recommended material' are blogs and sites elsewhere. Some of them are just aphorisms, quotes and quips. Some of the books are sort-of-not-related-at-all to this subject, b…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 11:51 AM
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Need solutions that actually will work. I'm open to anything. Read. Read more so you know more how you should fight against this. Read more about how and where and why and from whom you catch STDs. Read about the nature of hormonal pair-bonding pre-sex, during sex and post-sex. Read until you know when and where the hardest parts of this issue/problem is. Read until you know enough that you could chaperone a hot and horny fifteen-year-old girl from making these mistakes. You already know that 'b…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 10:55 AM
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When I found out he proposed and said he was just scared of losing me so he didn't tell me. He is not choosing you. He is keeping a hold of you so you don't disappear from his clutches. A man who wants to marry her, he doesn't gamble all he has on red or black, but on her. If you're in a country where you don't divorce, now is the time for you to gather your brothers so they can beat the shit out of him if need be, in case he doesn't yet understand that you're not his plaything.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 10:36 PM
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A friend of mine wants to go abroad to study Liberal Arts, but doesn't even know what career prospects it has or even what they actually teach. There's very little. You don't find a career through that. It's a tool. The traditional purpose of that was to make free leaders of the sons of the elite. Only the elite was permitted to read and understand those sacred texts, because that gave you the tools to think like a free man. Today, universities can't teach that well enough. Unless you're an auto…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 10:10 PM
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i have no problem w the girls theyre really good to me - just select guys. Isn't this proof enough that you're not going to have any serious problem? If it's the despairing, fat, pathetic men who are attempting to be aggressive towards you, have you anything to fear? Is there any who can throw a decent punch, or any woman with serious enough of an influence to harm you? If not, is there anything to fear?
/r/RedPillWorkplace13/02/17 09:48 PM
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Wait! So shiksa-appeal is a thing? And jewish mothers know intuitively that boys who don't date girls who are like their mothers, like young copies of their mothers, those boys don't like their mothers?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 09:36 PM
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I'm a black millennial, Hopefully you're an Oreo. For everyone's sake. it's becoming less about race and more about cultural upbringing. Not true. Search for those who write against Black Lives Matter, and you'll find those who despise blacks categorically. Read what they write. I think white guys who get angry at seeing interracial couples are just ignorant, and jealous, really. You still haven't read the math on interracial vs married within your own? Don't you think that parents want white gr…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 09:33 PM
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I verbally acknowledge that he's being a leader and everything he's done, small or large In other words, he's not a leader of anything. If mommy or anyone else tells him that he's in charge, he's not.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 06:15 PM
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It's even better when hot girls wonder why they don't get married, as they've seen less hot women become married. 'Sweetie, it's because you're a bitch. Men with self-respect will avoid you, once they've talked with you. And men without self-respect won't start the conversation.' Of course, no guy tells her anything. Because if she didn't listen to grandmother, mother, father, brother or anyone else in her family, she's not going to listen to what I say. Or to what that guy has to say.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 04:07 PM
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What do you give him for leading and going head first into your problems? How do you reward your great Captain?
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 03:35 PM
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I just feel like once you realize how difficult some of these men's lives can be, your inner shrew is automatically dissipated. There won't be anything to complain about anymore. Few things make women as attractive as realizations like this one do.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/17 12:19 PM
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I've also sexually dealt with a man who had issues with his penis. I know that men put a lot of weight on their penis - the size/girth, whether it functions when needed, and sexual prowess in the bedroom. Having it malfunction, as I've seen, is utterly devastating to the man in question. Guys are insecure about their small frames and their shortness too. However, those guys who respected despite their small frames or their shortness, they're the one's who choose to become masculine despite their…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 10:10 AM
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I basically took out some gasoline and poured it on my frame, set it on fire, and decided to vomit blue pills all over the place with a drawn out emotional argument. Ended up sleeping downstairs due to mutual disgust with each other, something that hadn't happened since unplugging. Thank you for catching and putting my own thoughts about alcohol in to a sentence. I'm stealing this.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/17 11:47 AM
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I want to stay in shape. I really do, but it seems like when I exercise regularly I end up gaining weight instead of losing it. I'm overweight (5'2 and 145 lbs approx) but not real big. Do you sleep regularly? No beauty-sleep, no beauty. Do you eat healthy? No healthy food, no healthy you. Workout is the demolition crew that sets in the order than your body needs to build stronger muscles. Like when builders rig the whole building full of dynamite and light the fuse. They don't bring building to…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 11:24 AM
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Then other times where i spend about 6 weeks not seeing the inside of a gym, eating crap and just wasting away. Make the problem smaller. Don't go to the gym with the goal of making an awesome workout. Don't set the bar that high. That's an excellent way to shoot yourself in the foot. Set the bar at only going to the gym. If you do a workout when you successfully went there, that's great. But give yourself credit for merely going to the gym. Or for only packing your bag. That's much better than …
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 11:00 AM
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The prodigal daughter returns?!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 10:41 AM
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Change the conversation to her successes. Make a point to talk about how great she is. No matter how small her new signs of greatness is.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 01:29 PM
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I've met 'the type'. What I'm suggesting, and what I'd do, is to bluntly tell her to shut up. I know, it's almost rude. But I wouldn't recommend anyone, boy or girl, to share their intimate details concerning relationships. Among guys' poker tables, it's known that those who share their whatever-problems, they are doing poorly. They're begging for help. Those who keep their mouths shut, they don't have problems to talk about, they're doing fine.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 09:39 AM
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we do look forward to her stories sometimes because its a daily dose of drama, Have you thought about telling her to stop sharing? To silence her, to keep her from making this mistake again?
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 09:07 PM
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Marilyn Monroe, for example, is not actually some fascinating and unique woman. I mean she was, but she was mostly just miserable with a pathetic level of self esteem. She was tragic but not romantic. The culture paints people who are a mess as the most interesting, but they aren't feeling too good at all. People only like those like Marilyn Monroe in the beginning. She got loads of comments about she needed to turn of the sexiness during the takes when her character wasn't supposed to be sexy. …
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 04:59 PM
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The only problem is, I don't have any friends/family who truly subscribe to the RP way of thinking. I feel so lonely. Coming to read you all's posts on here makes me feel like someone finally understands the way I think. Push them. Convert them. If you came here trying it would be easy and comfortable, you're in the wrong sub. Did you think that having an RP-boyfriend/husband is going to be easy and comfortable? A kid? A friend of mine has finally decided to join me to go to the gym. He's a bit …
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 04:42 PM
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Yes. But it's not a question of 'not listening' to the adult. It's a question of the adult who hasn't made the rule understood. If someone, a pet or a child, has taken a shit on the floor indoors, then it's the fault of the adult. Compare how girls talk girl among girls, but need to 'translate' the same message if a boy is supposed to understand the same thing. If the girls want the boy to understand something, but the boy doesn't understand it yet, then it's the fault of the girls. Pets and kid…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 12:09 PM
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If he's a rich dude with beta tendencies he almost always will walk from across the room and come introduce himself to you so he can subtly show you that she's his territory. This is when you 'game' him and show the guy you're not just a wife snatcher, but an awesome friend too. If you can make his girl wet, and be a bro to him at the same time he'll like you even more. Do this on a man and his woman, and they both have good and legal cause to hurt you severely. Do this on anyone I hold dear, an…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 06:24 PM
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I raise to you guys is a couple of questions: have any of you ever observed "red flags" with the way a person acts with their pets? Do any of you have pets? If you do, how do you treat them, and how do they react to you? I look the same at the treatment of pets, cats and dogs, as I look on the treatment of smaller kids or people who hold less influence. If they're domineering, they're awful people. If they're stewards as a mother/father, they're good people.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 06:02 PM
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Heard it before from loud unattractive overweight women. Yes honey - it's TOTALLY your intelligence that's the problem. Obesity corrolates hard enough with stupidity. Smart people know why being fat is a slow form of suicide. If you can't understand, comprehend and fathom how obesity is dangerous, fine. We'll leave you to fend for yourself. I meet well-educated, sane, attractive, very intelligent women daily, and they all despise fat people. Their children are thin, their friends are thin, they …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 11:29 PM
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Read or listen to the stoics more closely. Stoics care more than you think. They just take a longer time finding out what they're going to decide to give a shit about. Just like dogs decide where they take a their shit, where they make their mark. They're simply not mindless about the shit. They only look like they don't give a shit. Stop being aimless about what you give a shit about, where and when you give a shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/17 12:40 PM
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I love drinking. Trust me, you don't. You don't even look like you like drinking. Join AA. Get rid of your fat friends. Get new friends. Whatever, stop drinking, because so long as you drink yourself a big gut, you're toxic. Nobody likes fat guys, no exceptions. If they're liked, they've got some really redeeming traits. You're only drinking because you're fleeing something. You're trying to drown your uncomfortable feelings in your drinking. Maybe only at special occasions? Only when your abs a…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/17 12:38 PM
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So long as you don't bully or give negative commentary towards fat people. That doesn't help, but it only worsens the fatness. Shame doesn't lead to improvement. Shame leads to comfort-seeking. So, shamed fat people will only eat more.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 12:31 PM
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How can a woman do so and remain charming, non-nagging? Make sure his workout-gear is clean and washed and ready for more work-out. Make it easy for him to go to workout. Enable him. Don't let his gear stay dirty.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 12:28 PM
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Not in front of other people. Love is defending in public, and pointing out mistakes behind closed doors. Friends don't let friends get fat. Behind closed doors, he should be able to handle direct comments.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 12:28 PM
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After that, it comes off as 'looking elsewhere for a better man'.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 12:18 PM
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"I love that trait in a man" Don't forget, 'because that shows awesomeness in some specific way'. You might want to hint why you like it. Make sure the trait is something he can work on, something he can get better at. If you're going on about how you like tall guys from sane, rich families, you're being a basic bitch, because everyone's doing that. Don't overtly talk about height, skin-color, how rich his parents are, or anything else he can't influence. Set yourself apart from the other girls.…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 12:10 PM
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The Mother The Confidante The Waitress The Whore The Cheerleader All of these nouns are trades. So long as you work somehow on these trades on your husband, you'll do fine. After all, wife is a trade. No different from baker, miller, smith, tailor, soldier, governor, doctor. No different from husband, and the trade of husbandry. Because marriage is a financial contract, with duties and a term limit of 'until death to do us part'.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 11:43 AM
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Trust me, men know. It's not unknown for men to measure dating in money. Time is money, and time spent dating is time not spent on 'the guys', the hobbies or the work. I'd be surprised if eligible bachelors would believe that it's somehow different for women.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 06:41 PM
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Stop talking, start reading and listening. Your thinking still isn't good enough for you to post anything read-worthy.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 05:58 PM
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Women's requirements for an sexually attractive/dateable man: Good face and skull (facial and cranial bones can't be changed) Tall (inherited; limbs and spine bones can't be changed. f.e I'm only 5'9.25 whereas my brothers are 6ft2 and 6ft3. Nothing to do with childhood diet - I ate better than them as a kid!) Good Hairline (inherited, can't be changed without expensive surgery). Decent sized skeletal frame/width robustness etc (i.e. not 'stunted' and kiddy looking; either inherited or due to di…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 05:55 PM
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You're right. 'Text is only for logistics' is what plate-spinners think, because they're afraid that if they talk too much, they're going to fall in love with the wrong girl, or because they do not care about her. Guys with girlfriends, guys who look for girls they can get seen with, seen with without loss of face, they know that they will talk with girls. About things other than logistics.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 09:54 PM
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How can I be less opinionated and more agreeable? Stupid people hang themselves, and the best way to find people who agree with you, is to do what you believe. Let the stupid people hang themselves. Stupid people will continue to annoy you, until you let them do their stupid choices. If you're discussing your beliefs with these people, you're giving them permissions to vote, your allowing them to influence how you're supposed to live. Be respectful and decent and proper, but don't discuss your b…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 01:08 PM
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TRP teaches men, "Text only for logistics." That's for not keeping oneself from idealizing her as the queen of all whatever. Why would a guy listen to her problems for free, if she isn't her girlfriend or something?
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 11:38 AM
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men age like wine and women age like milk. The purpose of that maxim is to remind people that men aren't sexy when they're young, and to pinpoint that young guys need to make themselves great, as wine is made great from boring grapes. And to remind people that women are attractive when they're young, but they're not that hot when they're older, unless they keep their value as milk is kept in the fridge. It's rhetoric. Don't mistake it for dialectic. Then there's the question of conversation and …
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 03:55 PM
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All of the prey which predators stalk, hunt and kill, are animals which would eat, fuck and overpopulate the breeding grounds, until they fuck it up completely for everyone. Every vegetarian animal would ruin the ground they sleep on. They eat the grassy bed they sleep on. And they'd eat their starlit sky too, if they could. The absence of the hunt is bad for everyone. The hunt keeps the vegetarians from eating their beds, and from getting disgustingly obese. As the hunt sharpens both the hunter…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/17 09:32 AM
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Imagine a passive beta-male trying to become ambitious and automatic alpha. Does it sound easy to you? I'm not trying to be mean. However, your challenge, as big as it is, it is as big as anyone else's. The question is if you're going to suffer your daily trials. Another girl might not, as she chooses the easier choice. Good luck and work hard. And know that I have my RP-trials, as you have yours.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 11:23 PM
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is there any way I can work on what feels like quite a deeply rooted sense of being "unwomanly"? It's the same way for you as it is for those who start lifting at the gym, as it is with those who get into reading books and texts, as it is for those who get drinking, as it is for those who start doing cocaine. You, someone you trust, or someone with guile, will lead and push you into it. In the beginning, it will feel weird. But if you continue despite the weirdness, it will be automatic.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 03:45 PM
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Can you blame them? After all, it's not like women are able to kickstart a man into being alpha. There's a limit to what women can do for the men around them. To sacrifice himself, his boyhood, to become a man, that's something either he or another alpha has to do. So if he is being a sad man-bitch, or mitch, why bother being feminine towards him? That shit is saved for alphas, right? Just like men of understanding, they know that there is no point in trying to make a housewife of a whore. That …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 02:16 PM
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So I want a guy who likes paying for me etc. Before you meet him what are you willing to do for him, in exchange for paying for you? Why would he choose to pay for you, instead of the girl next to you? What do you do better for him?
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 09:10 PM
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Why didn't you let us guys take a look and describe how inferior he is? It's like you don't like us at all. :(
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 07:00 PM
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If I be myself, then I tend to feel unnoticed in group settings as I sit back and let others do the talking while I quietly observe and listen. I don't necessarily want to be loud and outspoken, and I don't even want a ton of attention, but I don't want to be the fly on the wall either Find out what you want to do and how much and why. If you're going into socials or daily conversations without any idea or plan of what a 'successful social' or a 'good day' looks like, then this will continue. Ju…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 09:55 PM
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I love this guarding behavior I see. TRP, MRP and RPW all have member ferociously aggressive against any attempts at trolling. It's nice to see this great love for it and this great hatred against the outsiders.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 09:15 PM
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I got that. I continued on that, with curiosa to that. This ties to leadership of showing your 'commanders intent', and so on. A leader shows what he does, and allows his followers i.e. men, women and children to follow along. Own your 'real man' title, and do what you want with it. Mold it to your own uses.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 05:14 PM
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"Strong men can cry" "REAL MEN show emotion" 'Real men' are malleable to women. 'Real men' are predictable and ought to be useful to women. 'Real men' ought to be slaves to women and children. Remember that the words 'slave' and 'hero' are both people who are bound to save and care for the people. The former is bound with chains, the latter bound with morals. They want to own our wallets, so why wouldn't they want to own our emotions too? Is this man an alpha or a beta to her? She needs to know.…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 04:58 PM
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The author goes on to paint a picture of a fairy tale man who will literally do anything and everything for her even while she's at her worst. She gets to be at her worst, he always needs to be at his best, rubbing her back and kissing her feet. She wants a gold star, despite how she did? Everyone, boy or girl, would hate that. After all he does for her and the little to nothing she does for him, comes - I'm boooooored. Sweetie, of course you're bored, you're being catered to day and night and y…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 04:47 PM
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In name she still thinks she is a feminist and it's gonna take a while for her to let go of that fake pride in "women power" or whatever you would call it. Don't do anything. Besides, why are you not asking this on MRP?
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 04:43 PM
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Orders, ways how things are done, basic maintenance, everything need to be understood. They need to be taught. Just as kids needs to be taught by parents. You're an officer, or something, aren't you? Because the talk the grunts talk here at TRP/MRP, it isn't as perceptive as your is.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 04:13 PM
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Hitting the head? Can you translate this to civilian?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 03:19 PM
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You have a good point, but is it inadvisable to discount a guy if there's no physical attraction after some back-and-forth, period? Yes. Full stop. The punch-happy-drunkedness, the butterflies-in-stomach of 'in love' has no say in how well that relationship will live 1 year, 5 years, 10 years, 20 years later. The marriages that last are very similar to the arranged marriages, for instance the ones ridiculously observant Hindus, Jews, and Christians do. People joke about trading daughters for a c…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/17 02:06 PM
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Nicely done. You've shown that you understand what 'bros before hoes' mean.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 12:13 PM
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Through the three hour flight he would complain about a few more things, and each time she would attempt to soothe her man-child. The sickest exchange was after I told her about the plusses of taking private ski lessons, at $900 per day, she was cajoling hubby into paying for some private lessons while simultaneously stroking my bicep with her finger tips. This was so amazing to watch. There was absolutely no malice or hint of impropriety in her demeanor towards her husband. Mothers do not cheat…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/17 05:00 PM
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The very reason that it is my absolute belief that allowing the increasing activity from female posters on the Red Pill subs, no matter how "interesting" they are, will come at a price. Unless they get that injection which shoots their T-levels ten times up to a healthy masculine man's T-levels, that injection which we substitute with lifting and sidebar, then her 'interesting-ness' is just useless rhetoric masquerading as man-thoughts.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/17 04:00 PM
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Manipulation is covert and against the other person's interests/wants. Manipulation is never admitted, not even when threatened. Persuasion is overt and makes the other person's interest/want. It's leading, not pushing. It's latin for 'sweeten', 'sweetening'. To make a hard choice taste less bitter, more sweet. Nobody's arguing that persuasion happened. The salesmen sold me an old car, but I like this car. Manipulation leaves the target bleeding, in tears, feeling cheated, hurt, disrespected. Sa…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/17 03:49 PM
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I see this list in couples, and I'd imagine that singles looking should know this list. Because if they don't keep this in mind, 'abandon all hope, ye who enter here'. If they don't, they have no business making any vows.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 09:58 PM
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Since I've read and understood the sidebars at TRP and here MRP, and I noticed some changes. I can have a conversation with non-assertives, but then I have to remove the staccato-ish, burst-firing, fact-stating Mansplanation. I have to remove it, and replace it with slow and legato-ish and colourly, flowerly painted and unjudging and anything-permitting speech, so that they feel comfortable saying the opinions. It's not that the non-assertives necessarily can't handle burst-firing man-splanation…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/17 04:22 PM
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Overcompensation might read as distress to him. So very true. You don't want him to think you're going to give him a pair of temporary training wheels, because of how he isn't riding his bike as well as he's done it before. Read the rest of this comment a couple of times.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 09:21 AM
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I cringed at the story with the feminists on campus. I'm on my local campus quite often and I get to observe interactions there. I can totally see that happening. I think another major stumbling block in the way of men and women meeting one another is cell phones. People walk and text (and walk into walls...) and are oblivious to their surroundings. Imagine how many new people one can meet if they'd just walk around while looking around.... That feminist thing about banishing bids away from boys…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 09:43 PM
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Don't stop writing, don't. This piece is golden. Not to mention, even if you're not the hottest girl around, so long as do these bids better than other girls, I'd wager that you'd succeed better than those who do not 'bid'. Because boys like the girls who talk with boys more than they like the girls who don't talk with boys.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 09:38 PM
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Same way you find sharks. You go to where the sharks you're looking for are. Pinpoint the traits and characteristics of the sharks, and go to where that kind of shark swim. For instance, if you're looking for a vegetarian, don't expect him to spend time in the meat-packing industry or among butchers.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 01:11 PM
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Not everyone is American. Not everywhere is America. This is reality.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 07:34 PM
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The word 'Lady' presumes manners and decorum and proper behavior. 'Women' and 'Man' should mean that too. The girls who you meet in your social event filled with people around 50 might behave like ladies, but girls closer to twenty aren't decorously feminine as the term 'woman' implies. That's why we call them females, because of how rarely they are ladies.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/17 10:29 AM
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No, it's not new. But this is an example of which the sidebar is talking about, and that's always good to highlight.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 06:56 AM
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I don't feel like I have full control over my image. I want to get to the point where I no longer adjust my behavior based on the behavior of the women around me. You need to stop, or at least minimize the extent of how much you care about opinion. Forget your image. Start thinking about your virtue and how you get your money. 'Only saints and thugs tell the full truth'. Both of them get hated, for their own reasons, but they are both more reliable than people who are full of their nice reputati…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/17 06:41 AM
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Or is there something I've overlooked? Do you want to be friends with a person as yourself? Is that a question you've asked yourselves? Imagine a twin who behaves just like you; would you recommend a fellow RPW to become BFFs with her, this woman who behaves exactly like you do? Are you allowing people to treat you poorly? Some who come to TRP/RPW realize that they're not good people, and need to become more pleasant and lovelier. Others realize that they are too kind and forgiving towards peopl…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/16 03:20 PM
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My first rule of keeping a married home is that your bedroom is your sanctuary. It should be peaceful and tidy, reserved for sex and sleep (no laundry piles, exercise equipment, messy projects, etc) and always make your bed. Do you have books there? I'd imagine that a Christian ought have a bible close at hand, but are other books too profane for that sanctuary?
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/16 07:20 AM
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Start cooking from scratch. Start cooking the dishes you like, what interests you. Ten years ago I got shit from my family about how I always eat pasta, and how I should eat something healthier and better tasting food. Today, they ask for my pasta, and they comment on how healthy it is. My mind is filled with these ideals of highly educated women who work full-time or win the bread, or at least get a say in every decision. Take a small step towards that. Daily.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/16 05:48 PM
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I think I came to TRP due to a reason such as this one.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 08:55 PM
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Cartman is able to whatever possible. He doesn't care about feelings. He only cares about failures and successes. If we'd embody parts of his personality, we'd get hated, but we'd also stop caring what people think.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 11:44 AM
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It's awful to force-hire anyone for morale. If there rest of the company doesn't want the person, and the person government-protected from being fired, then everyone has to tolerate that person.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/16 02:20 PM
1

What has helped your friends and what has helped you in the past? Tough love. The best friends I have, the best friendships I've developed with people I genuinely miss, they're those where we have the courage to tough love each other. Because it's so difficult for me to continue with a person who wants to hear how it wasn't his/her fault. There's always something you could do or could avoid doing, in order to not fall again into the shit you're currently in.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/16 12:53 PM
2

You can get some STDs from saliva. If you kiss the wrong person, then you can get it.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 12:25 PM
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If this sub ever gets to a point of being "PC" or nice, I will feel let down. If this sub ever gets PC, I'll know that everyone here has shit their pants, and aren't disgusted enough to wash themselves.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/16 12:21 PM
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Do go on. Don't be shy. I can take it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/16 12:10 PM
1

Somewhere, somewhen I read at TRP about how 'Fucking you is a collective decision'. Considering what women find attractive in men, what they are repulsed of in men, and how they oh-so-fear not being at least 95% alike the rest of the women, it kind of makes sense.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/16 07:17 PM
1

It's even worse with tie-wearing guys in suits who are educated. "But, but, but ... I'm smart, look I have a paper which says so! I payed a lot of money for it at the uni!" Sigh... Then why do I get a headache from listening to you...?!
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 05:21 PM
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Girls like the guys who could be with other girls. They don't like to be with someone the other girls wouldn't choose. Because having sex with you is a collective decision for girls. If girls don't find you attractive, why would anyone of them have sex with you? If you're attractive to other girls, she wants you.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/16 05:18 PM
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What, no titles of the movies? It's like you don't want us to watch them too. Don't you like us?
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/16 10:06 AM
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Intentional or not doesn't matter. In fact, if it isn't, it probably hurts more. When she truly notices that she's merely decorative for him.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/16 10:03 AM
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The title is the giveaway. "Doesn't want me to do laundry? Help!" He doesn't need her. She is dreading his potential absence. Remember, thriller feeds on maybe and might happen. The deed being done isn't half as scary as the deed might be coming. If he'd be forgetful of how laundry is done, because of how many times she has done it for him, then she doesn't dread him forgetting her. Dreadgame here, is him not needing her.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 08:39 PM
1

Like some sort of Pre-Negotiation book?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 05:45 PM
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How high is your IQ? What has MENSA measured your IQ to be? Because if you don't have high IQ, you don't know what you're talking about. Just like short people don't understand tall people's lives.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 05:39 PM
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MRP says that this is excellent passive dread game. He doesn't need her, she's merely fun to have, if she stays pleasant. So long as he does his own laundry.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 05:23 PM
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It's a question about holding these big idiots' hands throughout the conversation. Not education. An uneducated smart man is easier to tolerate than a dumb fuck holding a degree as proof of his intelligence. Some degrees are nowadays signs of idiocy.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 05:15 PM
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I can't help but resent her even though I love her. And I believe this is how men feel when they are constantly nagged by their women. Sure you can beat them into submission like I have been with dear ol grammy, but at the end of the day the feeling of being trapped is a breeding ground for resentment and resentment will overpower love. My main question about this is, it is about the reason why a person does this, let's say, "You need to eat better!" Why I am eating better? Am I eating better in…
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 03:37 PM
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"I don't like to discuss my marriage, but I will tell you something which may sound corny but which happens to be true. I have steak at home. Why should I go out for hamburger?" Paul Newman
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 10:56 AM
1

Pre-Suasion by Cialdini Is this one as good as Influence?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 10:51 AM
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It's mainly a saying describing the culture of a group of women, a group of women where they don't have each other's back, where they don't realize how everyone's life would be better, if they'd stop being so greedy. I have no idea if nurses are awesome at their job, but some of them don't know why they're single, and they're the angriest.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 10:36 AM
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I've heard a saying that says 'nurses eat their young'. It seems that this applies to other trades women do.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 07:50 AM
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law school bitches. What's up with them? Are they full of themselves?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 07:23 AM
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The correct answer is always obvious, when you know why the answer is correct. It's never easy when you're lost. It's like when you're humming on a tune, expecting me to to know what you're humming on. I will never know, because it so obvious to you, so obvious, that you're not going to hum it well enough for me to hear what tune it is. You already know what song it is, so if you want me to know too, you need to be more methodical.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 03:30 PM
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My profession has deemed to be almost impossible to effect intelligently and efficiently due to the mentioned regulatory nightmare and bureaucracy involved that most of the times serves the purpose of nothing vital or even important and in the best case it's just about repetition. The only purpose of buraucracy is to slow everything down so that no female, woman or cuck, is ever going to get their feelings hurt by what men are attempting to do. The money they get through their process, it doesn'…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 04:16 PM
2

Bitter how? I curious why you chose to leave it. I've been there a while, but I think I can handle their military-styled and coarse manliness, only because of how long time I've spent so much time in the world of online gaming. In both places you'll only survive, if you develop a hedgehog's spiky exteriour and a quick, acid tongue. In both MRP and in online gaming, you're expected to prove yourself and your manliness daily. Introspection and humility is frowned upon on both settings, unless it's…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/16 03:37 PM
1

Do you also want abs without the hard work?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 07:05 AM
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You have a good point, but I must have phrased myself poorly. I've heard jews talk about how 'The road to Auschwitz was paved with indifference' so, I care more about the children raised by adults. Migrants and single-mother-spawns are harmless by comparison.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 05:52 PM
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That's beside the point. Look for male only headship; any female pastors is a negative. If they're not overtly or covertly against it, it's fallen and a waste of your time. The company of atheists is better for you. Look for balls, military-trimmed haircuts, muscles, and men's clothing on men. No hipsterbeards. Anything hiphop, 'fuck the Man', or teenage-whateve-attitude is a negative, because christianity is built and maintained by men. This World is out to get you, but these guys go for it, de…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 04:43 PM
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Read history. The children of adults are way worse.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 02:38 PM
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So? Hypocrites will take care of themselves. It doesn't matter if it's traffic laws or Ten Commandments; if you don't follow the rules, the rules will not guard you. Break the fence, and you can't lean on the fence anymore. I prefer the company of atheist and agnostics than those who think they can have two sets of standards.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 02:37 PM
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Do you fear the children of teenage parents?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 01:55 PM
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Tracy and Kyle understand the concepts of sanitation, and why you don't do cousins. As Putin said: Migrants need Russia, but Russia doesn't need migrants.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 10:13 AM
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I'm christian, and I see marriages. Where I go to church, we look very aggressively against feminism and its political allies. Where I go, everyone self-police themselves for fear of getting kicked out. Where I go, girls look down on and make fun of feminists. Where I go, boys look down on cucks and make fun of guys without spines.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 09:46 AM
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I'm proud of my virginity, but I am a joke to all my other woman friends, and I feel I'm the same way to men. That I should be more sexual. Every girl who has had sex with a guy they shouldn't had sex with, they know that you're more attractive than they are. They're trying to make you less attractive, when they try to deceive you into sleeping with the wrong guy. Because they can't become virgins again. I am scared my virginity, something I am proud of, my loyalty, is a joke. Girls who resort t…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/16 10:59 AM
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Lefties can't use big words properly, but I've seen some people on the right handle big words as well as other people on the right handle tools. Sometimes you need big words.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 10:43 AM
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Big words are a good sign of trying to hide poor thoughts. Very few know how to handle big words and good thoughts at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 10:08 AM
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He is smarter than you. That's why you're downvoted, and he is not.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 09:57 AM
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Read what this captain says. Talk with guys who give plain, straight, postive, not-ambiguous compliments. Past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior. Married guys, like this one, do not tolerate this kind of shifty, double-dealing behavior, because it isn't reliable enough for married people. If the married spot this in people, even if they spot this in their not-married friends, they're going to both overtly and covertly banish those people, because this kind of selfishness is so ut…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 06:44 PM
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Also, a number without context is meaningless. I agree. Scroll up or down on discussion and look for another comment of mine, where I explain how 'get her n-count' is a short, terse and simplified rule of thumb for the not-so-quick guys.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 06:25 PM
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Sleeping with a lot of people doesn't cause depression or divorce. Streets full of water doesn't cause rain either, nor do grey hairs cause aging, nor do used condoms cause sex, nor do a house without any books cause illiteracy. They're all signs of something interesting and meaningful and important. Why are the streets full of water, what's with the grey hairs, the used condoms, where are all of the books, and what's up with her high n-count? Just like the measurements which sort guys of qualit…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 04:17 PM
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Do you have a link to the study? Or something to search for? I want to look at the numbers.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 04:09 PM
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I think the argument of this 'don't just be known by men', is that if you're known by girls/women, then some women vouch and speak for you. They speak for you, and imply that you're not 'creepy'. Doesn't matter if you satisfy you them, in ways their boyfriends are not able to. And if the women which every bluepiller wants to have, if they cordially talk to you, then bluepillers can talk to you and be influenced by you, without losing their good reputation. Yes, women lack the stuff to be the fri…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 03:54 PM
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You're missing my point entirely. I was asking if the women who despise SJWs ever cheerlead men into witchhunting. Just like cheerleaders work on football players to fight harder. Just like Spartan women told their men to 'come with the shield or on it'. Just like women today send their men to work with a happy memory for when they come back home.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 11:36 AM
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I was betting on that you wouldn't reply, but it would be a happy surprise if you'd did. Take your time, by all means. However, if you do find time to reply, I'd be grateful. If you don't, have a nice holiday.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 11:33 AM
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How do you know who the bad men are? I don't. Are you going to take a woman's word for it? Of course not. I don't need to do anything, because dumb fucks fuck themselves up. Fatguys ruin their own health, inconstant liars ruin their own word, lazy people ruin their own discipline, and so on. I don't need to do anything to them, when they do enough harm to themselves, without my help. I merely hate the presumption that I'm an asshole, until proven otherwise. You see, on occasion, from time to tim…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 03:23 PM
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The education of manners died hand in hand along with the death of the family and the death of the extended family. This generation which didn't get to learn 'the old ways' from The Family, they never got that education of how not to be rude. You wouldn't need to observe this on reddit, if your uncle/aunt/someone had taught you, right?
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 03:13 PM
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If you're not taken seriously before 35, will you be taken seriously after? I don't respect old women because they're older than younger women, so why would I respect an old man more than a young one? Idiots survive too today. If old people want to get respected, I want to see something which culls the dumb, the foolish and the lazy, on a regular basis.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 02:58 PM
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The narrative is that men abuse women, and all must follow the narrative. The narrative needs no facts. The narrative is always true. And women wonder why men don't trust them, until proven otherwise. I wonder, way back when, when men burnt witches; did their women ever cheerlead their husbands and brothers and fathers into getting together and burning some women? Because I certainly want to do something to the few men who ruin the reputation of all men.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 02:52 PM
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I'm curious of where you met this woman. Obviously you're the man in this relationship/marriage/whatever, but where did you meet her? What made you know that she was worth the gamble?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 11:46 AM
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The rationality for 'get her n-count, before commiting to her' is that it simplifies everything. A guy who can't yet pay attention to the other metrics, the difficult metrics of how committed she might be to a potential marriage, he has it much easier if he knows how many she's been with. So, when a not-so-quick guy asks another guy what he should look at in single girls, the phrase "Dude, just find out how many she has slept with. That's all you need to know." it doesn't insult his intelligence…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 11:19 AM
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I think it's a question of maturity. Some people haven't learnt the meaning of private and privacy. I've met young who have understood why they keep things private, and I've met old who speak so much, that I make a point to not talk anything of substance wih them.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 08:59 PM
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If I'm confused ... I err on the side of manly. This is what makes liberals so unmasculine. A hit on your record for being violent is better than you or your woman physically injured.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 08:15 PM
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Men give advice when the other man shows signs of complete incompetence. If he accepts it, he agrees with the giver. However, if he doesn't accept it, it is an insult. That's why we don't recommend women to give advice to men, unless men ask for it. It is insulting, if he doesn't ask.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 03:43 PM
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Logistically there are going to be problems in a relationship where the man has an IQ of 150 and the woman has an IQ of 90. It's simply unlikely to work. There's enough confusions and misunderstanding between girls and boys of the same IQ. If either the boy or the girl has much higher IQ, then it's going to get even worse for both of them.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 12:12 AM
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I use this test on both sexes. If your phone is visible, I'm wasting my time on you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 12:06 AM
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For a woman, the "modern day micro-threats" are unclean dishes in the sink, a dirty pile of laundry near the bed and kids toys all over the carpet. Since when did her opinion of the dishes become a higher priority than your opinion of the dishes?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/16 11:59 PM
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Now, how could I talk to women platonically without creeping them out or making them think I'm interested in them? Find a hobby which is woman-friendly instead of woman-repulsive. If you're into trains, your fucked. I'm not expecting your to take up knitting, because then you need to cut off your balls. But if you take up dancing or something where testicles and vaginas are both welcomed, women will indirectly select for those who have the touches of autism.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 12:15 PM
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I have too. Hopefully you're HFA. Read so ridiculously many books. Anything and everything which you can think is related with small talk. Remember that our odd personalities are considered useful. We're too financially valuable, despite our negative traits, otherwise natural selection would have discarded us. Read about anything you still feel to be less than average in. About aspergers, read what Temple Grandin have written, and find more books through her. Lift religiously. Eat healthy food r…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 10:53 PM
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Learn from their mistakes. Be useful to them. Older people won't help you, if you're just a parasite. If you are a parasite, salt will be rubbed in your wounds.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 08:42 PM
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it's weird to me that you automatically assume its because I'm not physically desirable. I didn't. Your personality may still be unattractive, even if your body is awesome. When you get older, your body will sag. What gets you and keeps you married, however, it's your heart and your mind. They won't grow old as quick as your body. Men who choose to keep a specific woman around, they look long and hard at her personality.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 07:35 AM
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Do you have a point to make, or are you being shy?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/16 06:37 PM
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Have you considered that men who are more than the 'poor selection of men where you live', they might not find you that attractive? I'm single, and I will continue to be single until I meet a girl isn't a waste of my commitment. If she hasn't been working hard enough in a long enough period of time, in her 'nun-mode', then I will not waste my commitment on her. Even if you'd move somewhere, where the pool of men are better, they still might not find you to be enough. How long and how hard have y…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 05:34 PM
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In defense of women, by H.L. Mencken
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 01:30 PM
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It's a well observed phenomenon that bachelors become completely different men when they meet a woman who isn't a waste of his time. Even if she is a girl the bachelors respect, all of her boyfriend's friends will complain about how he has changed, about how she 'stole' their friend, about how he hasn't got time to hang out with his friend. Never to him or her, of course, that would be disrespectful to both of them. But everyone of them understands the process, just as they dislike the loss of t…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 12:09 PM
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Funny men are my weakness, but he just isn't funny. Is he intelligent? Humor is a sign of intelligence; you need to be smart to make good jokes. But if he shows signs of intelligence in other areas, he might not have started to joke yet. He might think that his kind if humor isn't your kind of humor.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 11:32 AM
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if a guy says he is going to improve himself in certain ways, and you give him adequate time to do these things, but he continually fails, then what is the procedure then? Should you just leave him? Because otherwise, you're just unhappy.. and this leads to nagging, right? Leave him. I wouldn't hesitate to leave a girl who wants help, but doesn't do her own work in helping herself. If you want help from me, but you do not do your own part in making yourself greater, then I'm wasting my time on y…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 11:26 AM
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You misunderstood me. Read my part about gloves and shoes and replacement of them. If she's bad for you, she's bad for you. If good, she's good. I haven't met her. And if you decide to leave her, fine. I don't care. If you keep her, fine. I don't care. If you get a girlfriend on the side, it's not my issue either. Just don't try to state that I told you to stay loyal, when I haven't. hedonism with singlehood and asceticism with married life. It was an example and and a comparison. Don't like it?…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/16 12:31 AM
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Statistics is binary. Just as I can't say if your gloves or your shoes are so bad that you need to replace them, so bad that you need to get a new pair, I can't say if you need to get a new wife, a wife who is good for you. Because I haven't had them, or I haven't lived with her. I can't honestly speak of how good your wife is, because she's never been my wife. However, hedonism isn't statistically good for anyone, on a macrolevel.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/16 11:03 PM
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angeladuckworth dot com The book is worth it. She goes methodically through the ins and outs of grit. What grit is. How you practice it. How you teach it. And so on.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 11:11 PM
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Talking about how tall, intelligent and awesome you are, it isn't bragging, if it's true. It's isn't bragging if I explain and highlight how I'm better than the measurably lesser.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 11:08 PM
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That's how I feel about guys who do not groom or exercise religiously. I look so much better, thanks to them.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/16 09:33 PM
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Christmas songs started playing, Baby it's cold outside. Besides being a fantastic song, it's pretty much an entire main stream song about busting LMR. I want to play that song to a bunch of feminists and see if they become offended at his lack of understanding that 'no means no' or if they get flattered because of how slowly he's going.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 07:19 PM
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I'm looking forward to the whine-post about a guy who listened to this, did this, and then fucked it up in every possible way. The Schadenfreude would be so delicious.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/16 10:55 PM
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Am I happier? Again, who knows? Statistically, you are. The statistics on the selfish, hedonistic life versus the meaningful, self-sacrificing life, those statistics say that those who choose serve something, those who honor the call of duty, they are happier. Doesn't matter what they choose to do; Kids, family, wife, church/synagogue, saving kittens, the army, whatever. It's a better life, for those who personally choose to do it. Just like going to the gym to lift is a better life than going t…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/16 10:39 PM
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I was being hyperbolic to highlight a point. Hyperbole is usually that ridiculously pretentious.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 09:56 PM
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If they charge you, feint and dodge. Once those hairy animals finally get to running speed, they can't change direction. Too fat for that.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 02:36 PM
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Sex is the best sign of a man being a good man, a moral man, a competent man, a wise man, a well-read man, a cunning man, a strong man, a perceptive man, a consistent man, a reliable man. Good men get laid. Those who are less than them, they don't. He doesn't get laid? He isn't good enough, because she found him to be lacking somehow. And if you're not letting him get any, well, what you think about him, it is loud and clear. Any other measurement of his goodness, they're much harder to use. Nob…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 01:44 PM
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Go to somewhere, somewhere the group selects for intelligence. Just like rollercoasters only allow those who are 'at least this tall', some groups and hobbies only allow those who are 'at least this intelligent'.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 09:47 PM
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Factors for success for creating S.M.A.R.T. goals: Specific (simple, sensible, significant). Measurable (meaningful, motivating). Achievable (agreed, attainable). Relevant (reasonable, realistic and resourced, results-based). Time bound (time-based, time limited, time/cost limited, timely, time-sensitive). The bad goals are the V.A.G.U.E. goals, but I don't remember what those letters stand for.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 11:36 PM
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How should I proceed from here? Don't forget your past relationships. Use them as a metric of 'I will, will, will do better than what I've done before.' That's the only thing you can do. Don't waste your time on your 'number'. It doesn't do you any good to list it. Nor does it matter to him, because if he needs you to tell him your 'number', if he needs you to tell him how good of a wife you'd be for him, if doesn't read that without your help, then I don't think you want to be with him. I'm com…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 11:06 PM
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No, he is an idiot. Or he haven't yet read sidebar yet. Or bought his own copy of WISNIFG. Or he is a troll, who tries to push the discussion towards something more pathetic and unmasculine. I'm an autistic, and I notice that he fails to notice how self-reliance makes her sort of redundant. If he doesn't need her at home for basic man-maintenance, she might get replaced or discarded.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/16 09:45 PM
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(My boyfriend once said, admiringly I think, "You're like a dude with tits!") I don't recognize a lot of the RP characterization of females as applying to me. I don't tend to be very emotional and I'm pretty focused on the mission. I have clients and livestock and family members who are counting on me to have my shit together and I'd like to think I rise to the challenge most of the time, lol. Girls who aren't charge of the thing which money comes from, they are better described by the RP charac…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 09:34 PM
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Haha! I want to see him try to gather the women for that randomised controlled trial. Doesn't he get that women are too elusive for that, that women need to be studied in their natural habitat?
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 02:19 PM
1

You're funny.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 02:44 PM
1

huh, what?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 01:49 PM
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Thank you for that comment. Glad I could help. But if you're going to need that as a motivation to go the gym, you're going to stay fat. You can't expect Terpers here write shit like this every day, for motivation. You need to go to the gym, even those days when you don't feel like it. The only reason why I'm not going there now, is because the doctor forbade me to go there, until he removes my stitches.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 12:17 AM
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I kind of fell for him. We became really close friends and basically spent all our free time together. Stop spending time with him, if you don't want to fall more or again. You get the idea. Past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior. Keep the 'you-two-only-time' at an extreme minimum. Book yourself somewhere else, or where someone/something blocks you two.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 11:43 PM
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Demonsthenes. The guy's name was Demosthenes. I'm a history nerd, so I've read a lot of guys like him. I hope you don't mind that I changed a bit, so it would fit to TRP. He was a spoilt, rich greek. But when his parents died, and he thought he would be able to walk the street in bling and have sex with hot bitches. Because that's the kind of money his father had. But the dudes who took care of his heritage and his inheritance, they took all of the money for themselves, and left him with nothing…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 11:26 PM
1

What the hell am I supposed to do if I love him enough to marry him? Assume that he will not change in 50 years. Can you still live with him? I wont wanna go try to force the same family dynamic I will want to do my own stuff and have my own family time and traditions with just my new family even if it doesn't include kids first which will cause them to complain that I don't love them anymore when I'm just ready to move on and live my life/not be under their thumb anymore. Go somewhere, somewher…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 09:18 PM
2

Women are also becoming financially independent through mandatory gender quotas in colleges, universities and the workplace. There is nothing independent about women, or pathetic socialistic imitations of men, who exchange their votes for socialism. They're as independent as crack-addictic whores are independent from their pimps. Follow the money, and see how they bribe those people for their votes.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 09:01 PM
5

Some people cannot be lead. I don't think it a thing about being lead. It's a thing about doing something together, where everyone has their own duties to do, where everyone is in charge of their own thing, within the our-thing. Just like an army or any other team. Sure, there might be a 'leader' but he is collectively elected or permitted to lead, because everyone chooses to follow his lead. And everyone who doesn't choose to follow the 'leader' is either shot or expelled from the team. I don't…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 08:56 PM
2

Because it's difficult for the weak. If you've successfully wedded yourself with no more videogames/alcohol/whatever, then you make other people look worse in comparison. If you got a nice, ripped body, and a hard-ass frame, then you make the whipped dadbods look like zombies. It's difficult to cheer and smile and raise a glass to your friend's successes. It's even harder if you're envious of him.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/16 06:53 PM
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