STATUS - How it's different from SMV & why you should want it.

Hello all,

Firstly, thank you all once again for the wonderful feedback, appreciation and comments that I’ve been receiving – it pleases me greatly to think I’m helping others, even if it’s just one person.

I see loads on here about dominance, game, lifting, SMV-raising and the like but very little about what makes a man attractive when all the moving parts are taken away and you’re left with an objectively plain guy that’s looking to set himself apart. Furthermore I find very little about teaching people to walk before they can run, so let me try and take a stab at this…

Don’t be the man she wants, be the ‘ideal’ she desires.

Women are attracted to attractive men, you may word that and dissemble it as much as you like but it’s a fundamental truth. They might not sleep with attractive men on the first meeting, might not stay faithful to attractive men and might even try and beta the poor fellow. But it is true regardless.

What I have always noticed is that women, whether out during the day or night, alone, in couples, in groups or whatever are seemingly always on the lookout for one thing from the men they will let into their lives:

STATUS

But social status, not material status.

I don’t personally consider Status and Sexual Market Value to be the same thing and that’s because the former can be adopted by you RIGHT NOW and the other is built over time and is congruent on several factors and sometimes even just age – younger men will struggle to seem distinguished, accomplished and successful yet undoubtedly a lot of what makes good SMV ties back into just that.

So what, specifically, makes this so? Because it’s not just tall guys, not just buff guys, not just fashionable guys, not just rich guys, not just happy, friendly smiley guys that are the sole reservation of the pussy party.

It’s the socially graceful guys that nail it - Every. Fucking. Time.

More than confidence (you do need to be confident, but I’m saying you don’t have to go charging around like a bull trying to prove it), more than physique, more than income and more than any other factor (other than top-drawer personal hygiene and significant attention being paid to your weight/fashion) I’d levy this as the biggest moisturiser of minge in the game…except for one other thing, and I’m saving that for my Advanced/Mastery conversation post.

Women are fiercely protective of their own social status for myriad reasons – from an evolutionary standpoint it sets her apart as the breeder for the Alpha, it discourages other women from moving in on her turf, it discourages conflicts that she mightn’t be physically capable of winning – and woe betide any dullard male that dares try and make a move on her if he’s not socially aware.

As a man has his fists, a woman has her reputation.

To the female mind even being seen talking to someone of low status can be limiting to her choice of potential mates, because it impacts on the way people will perceive her – and this won’t be tolerated - regardless of her current relationship status.

A guy must raise himself up to her status, rather than expect her to stoop down to match his.

Please don’t send me comments saying “I’m buying into her frame by saying this” because I’m not – think of any given Hollywood actor, sports star or political great (hate him but – Bill Clinton) and think about how they conduct themselves.

So social status, on the surface at least, is all about appearance, demeanour and how you conduct yourself.

So here’s a few starting points towards building up both your perceived & social status:

1. Don’t rush around, a powerful man is in control of his time and is exactly where he needs to be at exactly the right time. If you’re not in control of you then how are you going to seem dominant to anyone else my chum?
2. Use slow, exaggerated, powerful movements and forever hold your head up high, chin parallel with the floor. Legs spaced shoulder-width apart with feet facing forward.
3. Don’t make eye contact with everyone, hold your eyes above their eyeline and only look at those you want to speak to. Don’t ever break eye contact downwards or talk into your chest either. Do not ever flick your eyes around the room, “scanning” as it’s called.
4. Wear clean, well-fitting clothing that are appropriate for the situation – I’m not going into what that would be here, y’all have got the internet.
5. Never say in 10 words what you can say in 5, keep it brief, keep it to-the-point. No one likes a waffler and trying to “over-explain” a point can make it seem like you don’t have faith in it. Want to be turning her on with your words? The less you use, the more mysterious you seem, the more she has to invest (dig) the more you get to reveal and the more turned on she becomes.
6. Don’t go beaming at people who aren’t being funny just to be polite, don’t laugh your ass off at every little joke trying to look like you’re having a great time to everyone around you (Life-of-the-party fallacy!). Polite attention and appropriate chuckling will suffice fine when dealing with your mates or random spods – no one likes a try-hard. To phrase it another way; don’t overreact to things.
7. Be polite but not fawning. The term “Jerk” is applicable quite often when dealing with young men who’re seeking the attention of desirable ladies, set yourself apart with some basic manners. !THIS WILL BE THE COMMENT THAT NETS ME THE MOST HATE I’D WAGER!
8. Don’t walk around scowling – this is something younger people lapse into when they’re trying to look serious and mature.
9. If you’ve been on TRP for a short/intermediate amount of time you might be tempted to adopt a demeanour of deathly seriousness to try and convey Alpha qualities, dominance, power or whatever you want to call that aura. I’m betting that if ever you’ve tried to game someone using TRP techniques and it didn’t work, it was likely because you went up to a Chatty Cathy who was out to have a nice time with her mates and you tried to overpower her with resolute grimness. Tone it down guys, no one likes a killjoy!
10. Avoid awkward body movements, don’t lean across people (if you can avoid it) and don’t contort yourself around others. Either ask or wait for them to move, preferably the former. Be the iceberg, not the titanic.
11. If you’re sitting down make sure you’re not slouching and aim to be the most comfortable, naturally habituated, relaxed dude in the whole damn place.
12. Do I have to tell any of you not to drink too much? No? No. Good, I didn’t think so.
13. BELIEVE ALWAYS - this is your space, this is your environment, why should you feel out of place? No one here is better than me. No one is in more control than I am right now.
14. You think you need to be stood flexing and staring people down to be dominant? Think you have to be stood in a corner scheming about how to get the prettiest girl to like you before you qualify as a top level seducer? No my bros! High-stress situations, IE social ones – for some of you anyway - are the preserve of the socially graceful. I personally am never going to be reactionary when dealing with a situation, I’m going to powerfully take it in my stride. There’s nothing new under the sun for me!

The gist of the above is that if you get these basics, and the many many more that exist, nailed down and internalised you will never need fear a “harsh brush-off” from women. Because they’ll know you’re operating on their wave-length and that you’re a pretty cool guy before you’ve even said a word – if you don’t think that’s valuable then…I don’t know what to say.

I think if you cast your mind back to when you’ve been speaking to a girl and she’s related a story about some jackass she was with one time, been grabbing a drink with your friends and you’ve seen someone acting up or you’ve thought “What a fucking retard.” at someone else’s behaviour….they were probably trying to conform to what some uneducated people think of as “Alpha” or shudder “Confident”.

For me – Show don’t tell, understatement is the new overstatement, put yourself out there by BEING out there and interacting with others.

A powerful man doesn’t shout with his voice, he screams the fucking mountains down with his actions.

Hopefully I’ve made my ultimate point – poor social skills are cancer to men who are trying to land women because poor social skills are cancer to women.

Thank you all for taking the time to read this.

Caveat: this is definitely a beginners guide, I’m not saying this is comprehensive. And this isn’t an approach guide either or a way to turn women on through passive behaviours.

EDIT: I'm sorry everyone, I originally typed a much longer document - realised it was way too much - posted anyway and when seeing it on Reddit had to cut it again and it's still way too long but I'm not going to re-write it. Thank you.