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im curious about what questions you asked to get responses like that.
/r/seduction06/10/14 08:01 AM
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I think I want to quit drinking too. I used really enjoy it, but It's getting to the point where it's causing me more discomfort than pleasure. I started really drinking at around sixteen. You know parties with friends and just getting completely fucked up, it was really fun at the time, I'm sure a lot of you know what I mean. That went on for a while and eventually just turned into a fucking hobby. I was un employed a decent part of this time and not in school, so I was started to develop a hab…
/r/seduction23/09/13 04:25 AM
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If you said "yea I only go out to bars and talk to girls when I'm sober sure". If you have given up alcohol though and make it clear that you are trying to pursue a sober life, but still like the aspect of going out and being social, she should understand and respect you. She might find it strange at the most, but more times then not will probably admire your choices and even like you for it. Plus if you have your wits about you shell feel safer being with you knowing you're not going to crash a…
/r/seduction23/09/13 03:55 AM
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This really resonates with me. 4-5 beers is the perfect amount for me, it gets me the nice euphoric buzz but still feel sharp and alert. But once you peak from that and the buzz starts to dwindle off you want more. Also with me if I'm out at a bar I often get anxious if I don't have something in my hand to preoccupy myself with. So if I finish my beer I always get another. Same goes for cigarettes. There has been so many times where I drank way too much and smoked way too many cigarettes because…
/r/seduction23/09/13 03:48 AM
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I think what he means by small town is in comparison to places like say, NY or LA it is definitely a smaller atmosphere. I live in a fairly populated city but if you frequent any bar for long enough you start see the same people there.
/r/seduction23/05/13 01:50 AM
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Cause you a bitch. JK. Cause it's a great representation of exactly what happens/did happen to everyone.
/r/seduction23/05/13 01:07 AM
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Approaching used to be my biggest flaw, which I am really getting over these day (escalation is my new big thing to work on). Anyway I used to see a girl, get the classic butterflys, panic anf then ultimately chicken out. And then you just feel like crap cause you didnt take action. I've gotten to the point that the approach doesnt even faze me anymore. Seriously the worst thing they can do is tell you they are not interested, or just act completely un interested and ignore you. I think the best…
/r/seduction28/04/13 06:20 PM
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Seems like you talked about skin for too long. Was fine to start the convo with that but should have transitioned to something else quicker.
/r/seduction20/03/13 05:23 PM
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I used to listen to a lot of angsty music like Taking Back Sunday, that shit puts you in a weird headspace I swear. As well as anything too slow/sappy. Although I do believe a lot of this has to do with how you mood is at the time of listening to the music and what you are expecting from it. Different music also effets different people in different ways.
/r/seduction15/03/13 10:30 PM
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However if you genuinely think learning guitar is something YOU would enjoy then by all means go ahead. People will admire you if you are passionate about something. But don't do it for THEM.
/r/seduction03/03/13 09:56 PM
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Be a giver, not a receiver. Do not rely on receiving pleasure from others, give pleasure, and in turn gain pleasure from giving.
/r/seduction26/02/13 06:15 PM
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When trying to meet as many people as possible at a crowded party/bar/club/show, just wonder about and walk up to a group of people and say "hey, I lost my friends, can I be friends with you guys for a little while til I find them?" (or some variation of that). This does a few things. Gives you an excuse for introducing yourself, and it puts little pressure on them because like you said you just lost your friends and need some people to hangout with for a little while, so you are reassuring them…
/r/seduction11/02/13 09:20 PM
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The only time you should wave is if the circumstances allow for it. Like in a weird place where you are being introduced to like a dinner table of people, and it would be logistically awkward for you to walk around the whole table shaking hands. So unless a situation like that arises, initiating touch, even as little as just the handshake, should be what you aim for. Hugs are at the middle ground and kisses are when you are really confident. Stick with hugs and handshakes until you can actually …
/r/seduction05/02/13 02:58 AM
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Yea. I dont like to be rude or insulting but, man, what a dum bass.
/r/seduction27/01/13 07:04 PM
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Nice try, Audi sales rep.
/r/seduction27/01/13 06:50 PM
2

I laugh my ass off at his voices/impersonations. I agree it's not the most constructive/educational thing ever, and he does go off on tangents. But it's at the very least just funny.
/r/seduction25/01/13 02:31 AM
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Come on now it's entertaining. It may or may not be staged and you probably wont learn much but it's fun to watch. As long as you skip through the parts with the douche bag "pick up gurus" or whoever the dudes in the arm chairs who act as the judges are.
/r/seduction24/01/13 05:53 PM
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The way I look at it is like this; I once read that anxiety and excitement are the exact same emotion, the difference being anxiety stems from fear, while excitement is the opposite. So when you see a girl you think you would like to approach you get a wave of excitement, but if you wait too long you start formulating scenarios in your head of what could happen. So pretty much exactly what you said, approach within the first 3 seconds and ride that excitement all the way through. Even if the int…
/r/seduction22/12/12 01:21 AM
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Lol if this is actually a sarcastic post than upvote.
/r/seduction06/10/12 02:02 AM
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pretty sure Only one way to find out, * zip *
/r/seduction03/10/12 10:08 PM
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I think he's talking about his post.
/r/seduction18/09/12 08:16 PM
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By god its so simple
/r/seduction12/09/12 08:32 PM
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Well I dont find it better. But the OP seems to not want to approach strangers, thats why I posted it.
/r/seduction09/07/12 04:06 PM
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I agree though you could have worded this all better. Approach anxiety should be anticipated, rather than rejected. I once read about how anxiety and excitement are the exact same emotion, only one was negative, and the other was positive. So if you just think of that "anxiety" as being a good thing, and the faster you just get the approach over with you'll feel amazing. After you start to desensitize yourself to the approach, you start to crave the build up and release of excitement. It's inter…
/r/seduction09/07/12 12:03 AM
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So you want to find love, and a nice girl. But you don't want to go out and talk to anyone ever? That is basically what I got out of your post. I think at this point, given how far you are willing to go, your only options are social circle game, or eharmony. Good luck.
/r/seduction08/07/12 11:55 PM
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Exactly. About a year ago if I approached a girl I would have the feeling that everyone standing around me would be watching and judging me, which made the pressure of not fucking up even worse for me. You just have to not think about it. It's hard as shit but you gotta just go with it. After doing this, you realize no one actually gives a fuck about you or what you are doing. And in reality most people will actually admire you more for actually taking action. I'm still not quite where I'd like …
/r/seduction08/07/12 10:50 PM
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Good post.
/r/seduction08/07/12 10:35 PM
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Youre saying "how you'd want to be treated" as if it's entirely the guy in questions fault that you got treated that way. When in reality the girl is equally, if not more accountable in the situation because she is the one who is suppose to be in a relationship with you. And if she just get's drunk and bangs some other guy, than that's on her, man. Sure another guy trying to get with her has some influence on her, but ultimately she's the one who decided to get wasted and do whatever she did.
/r/seduction04/07/12 03:28 AM
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Well that's... a bummer?
/r/seduction04/07/12 02:37 AM
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Bro code doesn't really pertain to guy's you don't know or are close with, hence why they would be considered a "bro". A lot of girls lie about having a boyfriend, pretty much to just see how you react to it. If the girl is in a bar and showing signs of interest towards you, and you decide to take it farther, that isn't on you. It's on HER. You aren't the one cheating, she is. You're are also not forcing her to do anything, she is an adult and can make her own choices.
/r/seduction04/07/12 12:45 AM
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It's all good. I was just fallowing up on your statement. Not discrediting you or anything.
/r/seduction04/07/12 12:28 AM
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Gotcha.
/r/seduction03/07/12 02:26 AM
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You also have to take into consideration that what might not work on you, may, and probably will work on someone else if you try enough times. That goes for a lot of stuff in pick up though.
/r/seduction03/07/12 01:39 AM
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New rule. No asking what "a good conversation starter is". just fucking say something.
/r/seduction03/07/12 01:37 AM
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I'm not. I added the "fuck" for emphasis.
/r/seduction02/07/12 05:09 PM
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Me too. I also am always tapping/drumming with my fingers/hands, or whistling or something.
/r/seduction02/07/12 05:07 PM
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I hate girls like this. Like a girl could be perfect 10, but once you realize she knows it, and only wants to exploit people and doesn't care about genuine interaction, she automatically becomes the ugliest girl in the world.
/r/seduction02/07/12 04:43 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about? Who here is hating women? And men and woman are very different in a lot of ways, and I think it is pretty much an accepted fact that the main differences being women are more emotion based and men are more logic based. That's why when women talk with each other they just share stories and experiences, because they like to hear all the emotional details and feel enthralled in the story. When men talk with each other they share information and ideas and get fee…
/r/seduction02/07/12 04:32 PM
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Once a day is still too much. I've cut back and only watch porn/jerk off like 2-3 times a week.
/r/seduction02/07/12 04:23 PM
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I think if you generally are interested in something it's fine to use a slightly higher/excited tonality. But you cant over do it, cause then they see you are just doing it on purpose to everything they say. Also dont be overly excited either. I cant really demonstrate right here but, basically just dont get too high pitched and excited. But you can definitely put excitement in your tone sometimes, if that makes sense.
/r/seduction22/06/12 03:52 PM
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Cajun is awesome. He's definitely one of my favorite PUA's.
/r/seduction12/06/12 05:03 PM
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True but its still entertaining to watch. As far as reality game shows go at least.
/r/seduction12/06/12 05:01 PM
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The thing is is it doesnt matter. You can learn and get inspiration from anywhere. So this guy just doesnt give a fuck about approaching and makes it seem easy. Thats something to take note on. Look to someone else for other aspects of game, then compile all the aspects from different people and use it for yourself. tldr he may not have the perfect game, but there is something to be learned from everyone.
/r/seduction09/06/12 05:56 PM
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Thank you man
/r/seduction31/05/12 05:43 PM
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I have been using tea tree oil face wash for a few years now. Face still gets a little oily but havnt really had acne since I started using it, and I used to get it BAD.
/r/seduction31/05/12 05:40 PM
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its probably just really hard to write with ink on someones sweaty palm.
/r/seduction18/04/12 03:39 PM
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Cool I like it.
/r/seduction11/04/12 06:18 PM
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so its basically like a reverse psychology roll reversal combination.
/r/seduction11/04/12 09:17 AM
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Always assume sex is entailed.
/r/seduction09/04/12 10:03 PM
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Yea this was the first type of kino I ever figured out myself. When I was younger I would always think to myself "shit I like this girl, I need to sit next to her somehow to see if she likes me back". Its like the most basic and casual way to initiate kino.
/r/seduction12/03/12 08:41 AM
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better than puking it later.
/r/seduction13/02/12 02:28 PM
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Yea I like to drink about 1-2 glasses of water for every 3-4 beers I drink.
/r/seduction13/02/12 02:33 AM
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I thought blowing a raspberry was when you put your mouth to someones stomach and make a fart noise. EDIT: Nope I'm wrong.
/r/seduction20/01/12 02:54 PM
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Also true. Some people want that though.
/r/seduction12/01/12 04:53 PM
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I don't think it ever implied anything more
/r/seduction12/01/12 03:28 PM
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In my experience country girls will hook up with you faster than a city girl. City girls seem to be more pretentious and stuck up, while country girls are more laid back about sex and most things in general. I'm no expert, this is just what Ive noticed from personal experience. Feel free to clear this up if I'm wrong.
/r/seduction12/01/12 03:25 PM
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Yea and the more you approach the more you really realize, and i think this is fucking key, is that 90% of all success is completely random. I mean just think about it, there is hundreds of personalities floating around, the odds of you matching up with all of them are slim at best. So on top of it all just being your own attitude, it really comes down to which attitudes you mix with, and thus really becoming nothing more than a numbers game, with solid frame and confidence on top. My example on…
/r/seduction06/01/12 05:44 AM
2

This is true. If Im about to chat with a girl, it takes A LOT of pressure off if you are talking to at least 2 other people at the same time.
/r/seduction03/01/12 04:33 PM
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He just said strong, confident, decisive men are what woman are attracted to. What else are you looking for?
/r/seduction13/11/11 06:56 PM
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What happened is you waited too long to initiate any kind of kino. So in my opinion you answered your own questions in the end re cap. You didnt turn it sexual or make any kind of early escalation, and then you just put your arm around her back at her place, which to her might have felt out of place or awkward because youre just now getting the balls to do something, that kinda stuff has happened to me before. Never let this happen, because the worst thing ever is when you are with a girl and yo…
/r/seduction20/10/11 03:38 PM
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Well it would be an interesting thing to know i guess, considering he apparently bangs a lot of chicks.
/r/seduction14/10/11 10:52 PM
1

I totally agree with this. Ive never thought that they have actually been worthy enough of being side bar'd either. If they were gonna do something like that they should the named people be linked to a page dedicated to compiling all of said persons work. Like a little mini wiki kind of thing, instead of having single interviews.
/r/seduction14/10/11 01:48 AM
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I agree with that but you made it seem like there is no information to be found in them.
/r/seduction14/10/11 01:09 AM
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The interviews are pretty good idk what your talking about, ive read like all of them. Plus people post links and shit inside the threads as well.
/r/seduction13/10/11 11:12 PM
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Yea back a couple months ago the community had a bunch of people who came here very frequently and contribute a lot. It seems though as more people caught on to this sub reddit it got flooded with people who missed everything before and ask really simple questions that are in the side bar. However the side bar stuff is only so good, back a while ago there definitely was more contributing content being posted, so you'd always have something knew to read/watch. So I think its partially what the OP…
/r/seduction12/10/11 06:23 PM
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sounds like a great time.
/r/seduction11/10/11 08:06 PM
1

Have you hooked up at all in that time?
/r/seduction10/10/11 08:42 PM
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Dude be proud. If a guy starts watching and you notice he is, then hes prolly just thinking "man I wish I would have the balls to do that", and if a chick sees you do it, she prolly just thinking "wow, that guys got some balls, I wish other guys were like that". So you see there really is virtually nothing to worry about. Its all about how you frame situations in your head, and that will emulate itself into the physical world.
/r/seduction10/10/11 08:28 PM
1

Hahaha and the girl smells them too wtf haha
/r/seduction09/10/11 09:16 PM
1

There must be something wrong with him!
/r/seduction05/10/11 04:45 AM
1

Not bad man, just keep it up. Pointers, from personal experience, man the fuck up and just make the move, too many times ive sat there with a girl right there giving me the fuck me eyes and I chicken out. DONT DO THAT. Dont drink too much. For me, it fucks with my head and ill just end up going blank sometimes, and also, the dick problems it brings.
/r/seduction02/10/11 06:50 PM
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Say in the most intrigued voice ever, "Wow, where DID you get the idea for this top hat? I think its great"
/r/seduction02/10/11 06:41 PM
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Yea lets start by posting them lol.
/r/seduction02/10/11 06:39 PM
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Dont let it bother you, say something like; "SWEET! That should be fun! Dont forget protection!" "Cool, I dont really care, thanks for letting me know I guess" And judging from your last post you linked, why would you let this hurt you? She obviously is flaky/doesnt want you as LTR, so why act like its any other way. EDIT: If someone with more experience on this particular kind of situation wants to comment/correct what ive said that would be good, Idk how valuable my input here actually was.
/r/seduction02/10/11 06:30 PM
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Yea this is right on. We talk about comfort building and rapport, and essentially you didnt do that enough. Just cause you had a good first date doesnt mean you get to segue into some weird BF status shit like "hey babe Ima crash ur place tonite K", No you gotta build this shit up for a few days, especially cause its an OKC date and you never knew each other before hand.
/r/seduction02/10/11 06:21 PM
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Yea after that first or second text, you should have just said something extremely simple like you dont give a shit like "Lol ok", and then never texted her again. By playing into what she said you are validating her retarded behavior, and granted you did fuck up by saying you wanted to stay the night out of no where, but when she throws shit at you just put youre shit shield up and wipe it off and carry on.
/r/seduction02/10/11 06:17 PM
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I agree with this completely, though some will beg to differ. It makes sense to me though, lets the testosterone build up, and also if you say to yourself "no jerking" and abide by it, I think it will actually lead you to pursue vagina more so than you would when youve already squeezed 2 out that day.
/r/seduction02/10/11 01:52 AM
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You dont sound bitter at all
/r/seduction02/10/11 12:36 AM
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sexual possibilities
/r/seduction02/10/11 12:35 AM
1

Everything is a lesson. Take what you learned and apply it to the future. It'll all be ok :)
/r/seduction02/10/11 12:29 AM
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Learn to meditate and to have good controlled breathing. Meditation clears the thoughts from your head, and controlled breathing can be a good way of controlling anxiety. If I start to panic about something or have negative thoughts I just take a very deep breath and just remind myself that everything is ok. Your already taking steps that some guys never ever do, so dont get discouraged. Keep up the good work man, youll get there!
/r/seduction02/10/11 12:22 AM
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Good FR. This reminds me of myself. Im a good looking guy with good charisma (when im actually in state), but its just a matter of sucking it up and just making the approach. Best of luck to you, and keep up the good work my man.
/r/seduction02/10/11 12:18 AM
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i accidentally tried to upvote you twice. Good shit.
/r/seduction01/10/11 05:02 AM
1

this. its really hard to force yourself to get into a habit of this, but its so key.
/r/seduction29/09/11 04:48 AM
1

All I really say is "GO", or "DO IT, NOW". If you allow yourself to even think about anything more than a few words, you've already spent too much time waiting around. Basically the moment you spot a girl, you should already be in motion to talk to her. And once you are already walking to her its easy cause you've already committed.
/r/seduction28/09/11 05:35 PM
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That doesnt solve anything. Take the high road and make it seem like it doesnt bother you. By reacting to people like that its reaffirming that it bothered you, however if you shrug it off like nothing happened, there really nothing happened.
/r/seduction28/09/11 03:03 AM
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Just do what you think is reasonable. If she says something that doesn't sit well with you and you know deep down you shouldn't comply with or what have you, than don't be afraid to speak against it.
/r/seduction24/09/11 06:05 AM
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There are more girls on the planet than I can meet in more than one lifetime... And I'm gonna be perfectly fine. This right here
/r/seduction23/09/11 06:09 PM
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This is great cause it can turn any negative situation into a funny one., and will ultimately teach you to not take things so seriously.
/r/seduction19/09/11 06:52 AM
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Good FR. Keep up the good work dude.
/r/seduction19/09/11 05:20 AM
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Good FR. Keep up the good work my man.
/r/seduction17/09/11 11:57 PM
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Bring up topics based on your surroundings and branch off of that. Look up the conversation technique called threading. Edit: Ask questions based on surroundings as well, or like something she is wearing just comment on it/compliment it and then thread off.
/r/seduction11/09/11 06:10 AM
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Here are my two takes on it. Some people might have a lower sexual drive, so to let it built up works in their favor, while someone with high drive might need to release more, and more often. Another way to look at it is from a motivational stand point. If you tell yourself "no fapping" than the only way to fulfill that urge is to actively seek out a girl to do it for you.
/r/seduction07/09/11 05:52 AM
1

Lol what?
/r/seduction07/09/11 04:21 AM
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Or alternately; Not what you say, but how you say it.
/r/seduction05/09/11 07:05 PM
1

Or a sort of "quote to live by" if you will.
/r/seduction05/09/11 04:41 AM
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like calling them out on their coldness to disarm their shields. This is in itself sounds like youre talking about some kind of attack youd use in an rpg or card game
/r/seduction03/09/11 06:30 AM
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Seriously, helping community is unhelpful sometime.
/r/seduction02/09/11 11:27 PM
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you guys are both dick heads and ska is good music.
/r/seduction01/09/11 05:31 AM
1

whats that got to do with boosting your state though? Granted I usually feel happy and accomplished when I get off of work, but still.
/r/seduction15/08/11 10:01 PM
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Not sure what kind of hair you have or if this would work for you but, people always tell me I look much older with buzz cuts, as apposed to longer hair.
/r/seduction01/08/11 04:19 AM
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First seddit post without any terminology. Have an upboat. Ironic?
/r/seduction26/07/11 06:04 PM
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How I turned a complete wreck of a date into a total success story. Lol
/r/seduction17/07/11 05:37 AM
5

So you coulda driven out to that city 8 times and tried to meet woman, gotten more exposure and more general practice, for the same amount of miles.
/r/seduction17/07/11 05:34 AM
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Yea, but that response was pretty damn funny.
/r/seduction17/07/11 05:31 AM
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I... I want that...
/r/seduction10/06/11 06:37 AM
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grab her arm and punch her in the face "Why you hittin' yourself, huh? huh?"
/r/seduction08/06/11 03:17 PM
1

how is this a shit test?
/r/seduction04/06/11 04:37 AM
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This was a joke for the record
/r/seduction30/05/11 09:45 AM
0

He obviously wants you to where a glass cup with a sun on it, attached to a chain around your neck. In fact that would be a much better peacocking strategy...
/r/seduction29/05/11 04:50 AM
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Dude that was so fucking funny when he fell onto his ice cream. And when he asked them start peeling his orange, HAHAHA.
/r/seduction29/05/11 04:47 AM
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I like.
/r/seduction24/05/11 06:10 PM
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SIAATARN: Seriously, I Agree Are These Acronyms Really Necessary? For real though, you are correct, if you never open you can never close, haha.
/r/seduction24/05/11 06:55 AM
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No she could have never played the game before and in order to win just say "yes" she has on the last one.
/r/seduction24/05/11 06:41 AM
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Yea and its never what you say but how you say it. You could say the most simple retarded shit, but if you say it enthusiastically it will sound good.
/r/seduction19/05/11 01:35 PM
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Lol this right here
/r/seduction16/05/11 07:39 PM
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Idk dont worry about it brudda mane.
/r/seduction15/05/11 05:57 PM
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downvote cause I want to....
/r/seduction15/05/11 05:56 PM
1

Yea I hate those guys, like your typical loud mouth fat friend whos never gotten a girl in his life being like "dude, you just gotta go over there and [insert terrible advice], its easy, pussssy"
/r/seduction15/05/11 04:05 AM
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This, a lot of times its my close friends who talk me into things and say "just do it", so friends are a good motivation.
/r/seduction14/05/11 07:46 PM
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Off topic: heres a good remix of that intro song. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1moX7xYxnsU
/r/seduction12/05/11 06:19 AM
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Ive never done it but it seems like there could be lots of random things to approach people about. Ask some people to help build a sandcastle, or throw around a ball/play frisbee, ask some people to help you find seashells/rocks (kinda lame). Or just walk up to people and simply introduce yourself, and just talk about how you just moved there and all that jazz. But make it seem like you are just taking a walk and meeting people, not trying to latch on to there social group or whatever, unless th…
/r/seduction11/05/11 07:32 PM
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Yea the way I look at this whole "seduction" thing is, its just basically teaching you how to be normal, lol. Just how to talk with girls, all girls, in a natural fashion.
/r/seduction06/05/11 05:53 AM
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cause your brain doesnt work when your tired, and you gotta be in top shape
/r/seduction04/05/11 10:11 AM
8

Who fucking invited this guy?
/r/seduction30/04/11 03:45 AM
2

Thats almost like the neg that one dude posted a while back, he was like "man you have such manly shoulders" or some shit. Obviously urs wasnt as bad but its ya know, stepping over into kind of weird territory.
/r/seduction24/04/11 11:43 PM
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Im just saying it doesnt really matter how the guy might be himself, if you just learn from the lesson and what he said and apply it to your own life, thats all that matters.
/r/seduction19/04/11 03:38 PM
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Long live Seddit!
/r/seduction19/04/11 03:07 PM
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Why do you care so much about how the guy delivered it. Learn from what he said and move on.
/r/seduction19/04/11 02:58 PM
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Its so crazy too cause I used to look at guys trying to pick up girls and I would think that you had to be this sly dude with some underlying agenda who portrays some elaborate persona to get girls to like them. All the while Im thinking to myself "why cant I just go talk to girls and just be the nice playful interesting guy that I am". And I now Realize that its like the Pussy on a Pedestal Complex, girls are just like you and me, they are just people, you dont need to build them up to be this …
/r/seduction18/04/11 06:26 PM
6

This really resonated with me. Ive been just realizing myself recently that I am naturally good with woman, and it was just confidence that was holding me back. And that the perfect game is just acting yourself, and actually being genuinely interested in getting to know the girl. Once you start reading a lot of pick up it distracts you from your emotions and natural situational intuition, and gets you stuck in your head which makes you choke. If you just enjoy the moment you are in, and honestly…
/r/seduction18/04/11 04:58 PM
1

This post just put a bad feeling in my stomach. Stop giving a fuck about everything, most importantly woman, if they dont want you its there loss. Be the person you want to be. I feel like no one gets this ever, all there is in the world is YOU, without yourself there is nothing, so that means you control yourself and can influence everything around you if you choose to, we control our destinies. And just be HAPPY. Always, someone makes fun of you, laugh it off and say good one, a girl turns you…
/r/seduction16/04/11 06:28 PM
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The time spend copying and pasting this post into MS word to run a word count, could have been spent on something that actually mattered.
/r/seduction16/04/11 06:22 PM
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I like your rationality toward life. Orange Up for you.
/r/seduction16/04/11 06:20 PM
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Yea I think OP is right on one level. I was with this girl the other day and I said something sarcastic or made some joke and immediately after I laughed to make sure she knew it was a joke, she scrunched her face up and seemed to not like it.
/r/seduction15/04/11 04:49 PM
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Haha I like it. And its nice cause you transitioned to joking about having her be your girlfriend. I like the idea of a simple and extremely random opener, but at the same time plotted out to map the conversation to other funny or interesting comments. Cool.
/r/seduction15/04/11 06:02 AM
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This. Though Ive started to notice that with alcohol, and almost ALL substances, that your initial mood has a lot to do with how your going to feel after you take said drug. If im in a great mood im gonna be the most awesome happy talkative everyones best friend drunk, but if im feeling down to start than im probably gonna feel much more sulky and be in my head a lot. So the key is to never, ever feel bad about anything lol.
/r/seduction15/04/11 05:54 AM
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Were all waiting around here to die. You might as well just say fuck it and do what ever the hell there is to do in this life. No exceptions, just go fucking do it. Once you start to realize this is all there is, youll start to see how foolish it is to sit up in your head getting angry that you cant do something. Instead just think, If I dont do this now Im just gonna die one day and never have had the experience. And since life is pretty much meaningless in the sense that it all ends one day, i…
/r/seduction11/04/11 05:48 AM
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"just kissing her is somewhat disgusting, because she has some kind of dry mouth that feels like sandpaper" LMAO
/r/seduction08/04/11 04:55 PM
3

I like this story
/r/seduction05/04/11 05:21 AM
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L-O-FUCKING-L
/r/seduction05/04/11 05:17 AM
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yea what geneveve said, the fuck you talking about?
/r/seduction05/04/11 05:16 AM
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I think if you maintain a good attitude through it all and dont let it phase you if they say something about you being alone. Just act like its what you like to do and no one will care.
/r/seduction02/04/11 03:37 PM
3

Dont let shit get to your head. being a man is dealing with your emotions. yea some girls are flakes and yea sometimes shit doesnt work out or make much sense. but you keep on trudging and try and learn from every situation as best you can. Dont get mad at your friend or the girl either, step backa nd evaluate everything from a non biased stand point and really think about whats going on. Also, stop thinking so much about "game" and all that shit. Yea its help as a guideline and fun to read, but…
/r/seduction02/04/11 05:42 AM
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I just like everything Ive ever read here. Not just about getting with girls, but insights on life and motivation in general. Its really started to turn me around, and its great. This is also a really helping community here and everyone seems to genuinely want to help each other, I got a lot of love for all you guys. Stay positive everyone, its the only way.
/r/seduction01/04/11 03:31 PM
2

I fucking love life!
/r/seduction01/04/11 03:23 PM
17

For real, mom seems easy. Try and get em both at once :o
/r/seduction01/04/11 03:18 PM
1

Yea, you cant wait for anything to be perfect, cause nothing is perfect to begin with.
/r/seduction01/04/11 02:44 PM
1

This was funny
/r/seduction29/03/11 02:49 PM
1

This guy from some forum says it perfectly "Actually, I found Keys to the VIP very informative, and certainly more entertaining and realistic than the Pickup Artist. It is rare to see PUAs videotaped in field and rarer to see it video and sound recorded. My one gripe with the show is the fact that they are given such a tight time frame and the real goal is to get a number and nothing else. This leads some of the contestants to go to some ridiculous measures like claiming they want to do a photo …
/r/seduction29/03/11 01:21 AM
1

Well youve lost me too, so I guess were even?
/r/seduction29/03/11 12:57 AM
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There is no way they stage the actual interactions between the people. Its all way too genuine. The commentators are kind of douche bags, I just skip over them and watch the interactions and look for patterns in the successful/failures.
/r/seduction29/03/11 12:55 AM
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No im fully aware of that, I view it just like any other reality game show, but once you look past all the flashy tv bits, you can still pick up on general patterns and attitude traits that certain people have.
/r/seduction28/03/11 08:03 PM
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This is a very important post. Ive been watching a lot of keys to the VIP on youtube and just observing and comparing all the guys strategies. And every time the guys who come out with numbers/have a good reaction, are the guys who project enthusiasm and confidence. After watching those vids its become clear as night and day. The guys who have no game just start losing in half way through talking with the chick, they lose there enthusiasm and start sounding plain and creepy. just think of it thi…
/r/seduction28/03/11 06:35 PM
1

damn man ur missing out
/r/seduction28/03/11 05:52 PM
2

Id really like to watch the reaction to the fart one
/r/seduction27/03/11 04:23 AM
2

hahaha worrrd on that
/r/seduction27/03/11 04:11 AM
1

good stuff man
/r/seduction27/03/11 04:02 AM
2

"Was I supposed to do something? Like touch her?" This was funny for some reason. Should have tried gettin closer to her and read her body language.
/r/seduction26/03/11 12:24 PM
2

Yea stop hanging out with them. If they want to chill with you than thell come outside.
/r/seduction26/03/11 04:21 AM
2

Yea I think that its much harder to get if you dont come in contact with an open sore too. So kissing is less of an issue. Just wrap up and dont go sticking you face a pussy you dont know.
/r/seduction26/03/11 04:19 AM
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This is for real a HUGE step in, not just getting your game in order, but making your life in general feel better. Good shit.
/r/seduction26/03/11 03:03 AM
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Yea if you match his energy than youll both be awesome guys to hang out with, as apposed to one awesome one and a half awesome.
/r/seduction26/03/11 02:50 AM
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"We're all spoiled, lucky bastards. Every moment that you're not happy you are squandering a chance to be awesome." THIS is awesome
/r/seduction25/03/11 09:57 PM
9

lmao "this is just the perspective of a drunk person"
/r/seduction24/03/11 10:05 PM
1

Yea definitely called/texted her too much after not responding. Like if she doesnt respond after the first you can have a re do, but after that dont keep at it, it seems needy. As for the chick, she just seems kinda flakey so :/
/r/seduction24/03/11 03:56 PM
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