Hey Seddit. Another FR incoming, so woohoo!

Met a girl on OKC, we have a really great time chatting together. We end up meeting, having a nice chat. I make sure that I stick to the basic rules - kino, smile, open body language, etc. It works, and we make out within a few hours. However, I have to go back to my place alone, 'cause she got too much homework to do. Happens.

This Thursday I had to work a night shift at the city where she was staying, so I decided to send her a text message, asking her if I could crash at her place. It exploded right in my face. I get a voicemail from her:

"Hey Dorman, this is [name]. I got your message - you wanted to know if you can sleep at my place tonight. Maybe I gave you this impression, but I'm not a hotel. Don't get me wrong, I really enjoyed your company, but I only met you once, and it doesn't mean that you can come knocking on my door to crash at my place whenever you need it. I think you should decide what you want from this. Enjoy your night train back home, and if you'll try to contact me immediately I really don't want this."

(this girl was in an open relationship, just to point that out)

I didn't hear the last part of her message clearly (was at work), so I sent her a message saying "Hey, got your voicemail. You got the wrong impression. I do not see you as a hotel in any way, shape or form. Wanted to clarify that. I'm going back to work now."

Didn't hear anything from her. Yesterday (Saturday), I send her a text saying "Yo. I'm gonna call you tomorrow to clarify this for the both of us. This should not be done via texting. I'll call you on around 12:30."

And it blows up in my face. Again. I get the following message:

"Don't bother yourself. :) The fact I'm in an open relationship doesn't mean that I'm an easy one and that I don't deserve respect. No hard feelings, but I don't want to see you any more (and a tip, next time try to think the way you should treat a woman through)."

At this point my mind is racing - what in the hell just happened? Then I remembered something a PUA-friend of mine from Brussels taught me. It was one of Mystery's rules, the 7 Hours Rule.

I looked at the situation for a few minutes, and decided that this situation cannot be salvaged. I send her one final text message -

"If you ever want to hear my side of the story, I'm always open. Have a nice life. :)"

So yeah... wanted to share this with you guys. I suppose that this girl, because she's in an open relationship, increased her need to prove that she is not a slut (hence the voicemail and what she wrote in the final text message), and me taking it so quickly meant that she would feel like a slut. I failed to see that, and thus it blew up in my face.

What does Seddit think?