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IBeMadToo/r/askTRP12/11/17 06:15 AM
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Maybe, that's for OP to figure out. If she isn't suspect tho, I would just not give an f and move on.
/r/askMRP27/06/25 09:06 PM
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Tell us what the remarks are atleast. Agree & Amplify to show you dgaf. Or say you were looking for XYZ but we can't get everything we want. Simply just dgaf... It's a test. She's been with you for ages so clearly those things aren't that important to her.
/r/askMRP26/06/25 09:29 PM
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You seem successful but that doesn't always equal attractive. How's your dread game? It's debated that dread is like a covert contract (if you get to the FMOFY stage especially), but it has a few good things that you could be missing. How's your game? Are you gaming your girl? Or are you super serious around her all the time? A few more questions, was her libido high at the start? Is she on birth control? I've noticed my wife's libido change off of birth control, but everyone is different. If yo…
/r/askMRP24/06/25 06:17 AM
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Push, Pull, Legs could work if you've only got 3 days. 5x5 lifts can be incorporated into that if you want. Example: Day 1 Push 5x5 Bench 3x12 Shoulder Press 3x12 Tricep Overhead Press 3x12 Lateral Raise 3x12 Cable Tricep Pushdown Finish with 3xMax reps pushups Day 2 Pull 5x5 Deadlift 3x12 Barbell Row 3x12 Bicep Curl 3x12 Face Pull 3x12 Hammer Curl Finish with 3xMax reps pullups Day 3 Legs 5x5 Squat 3x12 Leg Press 3x12 Calf Raises 3x12 Leg Extension 3x12 Leg Curl 3xMax reps bodyweight squat 3xMa…
/r/askMRP22/05/25 11:12 PM
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You wifed her, then had a kid with her!? 🤯 Lawyer up fast.
/r/MensRights17/05/25 09:13 PM
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Pretty sure they all jumped ship because TRP was getting quarantined.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/24 08:32 AM
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Potentially, I may have dodged a bullet thank fuck.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/24 11:22 PM
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Crazy how this showed up at the right time for me. This 6/10 ghosting me out of nowhere, after telling me a week ago she is basically obsessed with me. Her feelings can change IN A WEEK. Am not giving a fuck but the things these broads do is crazy.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/24 10:32 AM
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What did I just read? Do women just want men to struggle as payback or something?
/r/MensRights11/12/21 05:34 AM
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Can confirm the rampant affirmative action occurs in Australia. In my workplace they confirmed a 40:40:20 gender target in their business plan. This has seen females hired into senior roles with minimal to zero experience. When the VPO was questioned about it he basically said: "We are happy to hire females with little experience and train them to meet our diversity target". What I am not happy with is that because my workplace is male dominated, they will be discriminating against male applican…
/r/MensRights19/11/21 05:09 AM
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I agree with you on cutting them out. I've had to do it with my mother, my sisters and some cousins. They just didn't align with where I wanted to take my life and were holding me back. Disclaimer though: I come from a secular white family, so deep-rooted culture and religion is not something I had to separate from. What implications that might have on your future I can't tell you (not spiritually, but culturally if you ever wanted to marry or reconnect with your culture). Hope you figure it out…
/r/MensRights18/09/21 04:44 AM
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I guess you need to make a decision then: Separate from your family, potentially ruining any relationship you have with them. Or Stay connected, and follow tradition. Or Stay connected, don't follow tradition and continue to get treated like you have been. Or They eventually come around to how you want to live your life. Up to you to weigh up the risk and reward here. You might think that family is very important and you don't want to lose it.
/r/MensRights18/09/21 04:22 AM
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On the car ride back home my dad said he never wanted me and only had me to please his parents. Apparently I was the reason he couldn’t pursue a better field of work. Now he “deserves” grandkids and I need to go through the same struggles as him. My mother agreed that I was an accident and it stifled her career. My brother was obviously planned and they shower him with love. Oh boy, that'd be hard to swallow. It sounds like your family life is very toxic and you need to separate from them ASAP. …
/r/MensRights18/09/21 04:08 AM
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She added: ‘When you look at the hierarchy of priorities within police forces, very often violence against women and girls doesn’t actually feature as the top three. Wait what? She is basically saying that we should place an issue in top 3 priority that may not be considered a top 3 priority based on occurrence or seriousness (eg. Terrorism that may kill MANY women and men and children). Wouldn't that potentially remove resources from bigger issues, then causing these bigger issues to be more pr…
/r/MensRights18/09/21 03:20 AM
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Thanks for the discussion. I will look into what you've talked about.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 09:08 PM
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i was pro-vaccine when this first started, but now that it is clear that no vaccine is going to actually give us real long-term immunity I don't believe any vaccine can give you 100% immunity only very close to it. i am not comfortable signing up for a lifetime of mandatory experimental injections All the technology in these vaccines have been around for many years now. That's hardly experimental. They didn't just make up mRNA vaccine delivery (for example) when COVID hit. on top of that are all…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 01:01 PM
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Stuff about health is just BS and it has no real ground. Women get free health checks because their women. 100%. An example of this: I remember when my child was born. We went to get whooping cough/tetanus vaccinations to prevent our child getting sick. My wife and child were fully covered but I had to fork out money to get mine. It was only $50, but still. How is this fair when I also take care of the child?
/r/MensRights15/09/21 09:33 AM
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Great advice. I've always lived by the mantra: "We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak."
/r/MensRights12/09/21 06:50 AM
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I keep forgetting NZ has heaps of the same stores as Aus. I still find it weird that Countdown is basically Woolworths just different name. Stores even look the same inside imo. Happy Father Day! Stay safe with Delta.
/r/MensRights05/09/21 05:55 AM
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Not only that but from what I've seen is that some of these women are bagging (what they perceive) as high value men through this fast food dating society (good looking, always taller than her, probably tells her he has a high paying job). Then they expect that same calibre of man every time. What women don't know is that majority of these guys are bullshitters and are just good looking. My wife has a friend that was duped hard by a guy who claimed he was getting 6 figures and buying lavish dinn…
/r/MensRights04/09/21 09:22 PM
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That's basically the attitude of my partner, unfortunately. She sees my job as a holiday because I fly away to a remote location to work for a week. She doesn't understand I could be killed or injured because it's dangerous. It involves long days, I'm always in stressful situations and always over worked (thankfully compensated very well for it). Then at home I get an earful about it. I do my part as a father and always try to be involved, I never slack. I do almost all the nappy changes, puttin…
/r/MensRights03/09/21 11:37 AM
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I got almost exactly the same as what OP got. I typed "mens rights reddit". If you do "mens rights subreddit" then this page will be on top.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 02:26 AM
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I got almost exactly the same as what OP got. I typed "mens rights reddit". If you do "mens rights subreddit" then this page will be on top.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 02:25 AM
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Women love doing the stuff you described when a relationship is ending. I saw my mother do it to my father. Painted him as a very bad guy to all their mutual friends and to alot of people in the town we lived in. He lost alot of great friends because of it. My father was amazing and much more present and loving than my mother. He had his faults, but he did not deserve the divorce he got. All my mother had to do was keep it civil, but she had to justify the divorce to everyone somehow. My father …
/r/MensRights07/08/21 07:50 AM
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Did it through an IVF/ART procedure.
/r/MensRights23/07/21 03:37 AM
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Doesn't matter, this is about CONSENT. The sperm was extracted whilst he was still alive (but unable to grant consent). Even the hospital was refusing to extract and preserve the sperm because there was no consent from the donor. But the High Court overruled it. Now if he said in his dying will that he consented to this, that's fine but that does not appear to be the case here. Imagine if this guy survived, and decided he never wanted kids and to enjoy his life instead after being on the brink o…
/r/MensRights23/07/21 03:34 AM
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Haha if it isn't your wife or girlfriend giving it, it rarely is believable. Most girls compliment men because they want something. Example: at my workplace a few females have admitted to complimenting guys because they want something done. This is why I take any compliments from women at work as if they're nothing, due to them mostly happening around when they want something. Dudes get blindsided by this - I usually only believe compliments given after the fact. Example: You've improved somethi…
/r/MensRights22/07/21 08:18 AM
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Was going to post this. My girl had never had a quivering orgasm until I showed her how to with clit stimulation. If she doesn't like your hands, then go out and buy a vibrator and let her control. Sometimes that's all it takes, but my girl was attracted to me so it may not be the solution for you.
/r/askMRP22/07/21 03:04 AM
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I'm guessing this is in a work setting? You can lunch with chicks but I recommend not discussing anything sexual at work (you're asking for it if you do). If they initiate it (and yes, some do), squash it quickly and move on or don't engage at all. If they don't drop it and you feel uncomfortable about it, just be honest and say that it isn't work appropriate or end the conversation and leave. Better yet, lunch in a group of mixed genders if possible.
/r/MensRights20/07/21 07:27 AM
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Working out helps. Heavy squats!
/r/MensRights14/07/21 12:54 AM
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Don't forget she is also offering sex on a platter "5-9 times per week". Fuck me, some fellas on here can't even get it once a week 🤦‍♂️
/r/askMRP10/07/21 08:59 AM
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Go read 12 Levels of Dread. If you say you've done the work, you'd have come across this post. It is in the MRP side bar.
/r/askMRP10/07/21 08:44 AM
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Lol I get this a bit. One woman (in a senior position) did it in front of everyone in the office, then later apologised. I joked about how I had reported her already, but thanks for the apology. She stopped it after that haha. Edit: On top of this, I've seen women call men babies/weak because men have reported this type of incident.
/r/MensRights10/07/21 02:30 AM
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We know it can, it's just that these graphs were chosen not to start at zero to fit a narrative and exaggerate it more. It makes the peaks and troughs look bigger than they really are.
/r/MensRights08/07/21 06:07 AM
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There was a massive case against the federal government in my hometown recently because a defence base used PFAS foams heavily in the 80's/90's and it seaped into the water table. Massive payouts were given to property owners. There is a high prevalence of cancer in my hometown, which PFAS could be linked. Thankfully I have no known health issues, I have recently had a kid with my partner who also lived there (we got pregnant almost instantly when trying, no issues thankfully). The government is…
/r/MensRights26/06/21 05:57 AM
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The good old de-facto relationship. In my country the men can actually (try) claim half the females assets. Have seen it happen but very rarely.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 01:11 PM
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Not really. You can basically have all the "benefits" of marriage without actually doing it. You can marry if you want but it is red pill on steroids. You have to constantly "own your shit" (as Married Red Pill calls it) otherwise you're screwed.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 01:09 PM
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Knowland Knows is his YouTube channel. He has this lecture posted there with links to support in comments.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 09:06 PM
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That comment is way out of context. Go watch the lecture and see for yourself.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 09:02 PM
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Definitely don't play The Last Of Us 2 then!
/r/MensRights31/01/21 09:46 PM
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KY is meant to have 420,000+ years to go before it ends, they think.
/r/MensRights19/01/21 04:30 AM
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Was going to chime in with something similar. OP's LTR? (Plate, gf, or whatever) is an Un-bonded woman who clearly has trouble with bonding. Most emotionally stable women would understand and be supportive of this situation, but my advice is to only seek emotional support from women you don't want to fuck, because it's a shot in the dark in terms of which women are emotionally stable enough for these situations (without heavy vetting). Most young hot girls just want an emotionally stable male an…
/r/askTRP15/11/20 03:07 AM
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Go to Google Scholar and find out. There are numerous articles on it there! There is even one there that studies cold showers treating depression.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 06:21 AM
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Watch what she does, NOT what she says. Her mind might change tomorrow. She is probably trying to make you jealous so you commit, plates try it regularly. I've had plates try to make me jealous by telling me other guys are messaging her, or flirting with a guy in front of me. Just DGAF and keep it going if you want to. Keep initiating and if she goes cold, drop the plate and move on. This IS covered in the main TRP materials. It's a classic FWB that tries to come off as not being a slut to test …
/r/askTRP02/10/20 06:07 AM
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Jesus christ, obviously you haven't read the sidebar. Him: "Shut the fuck up" You: "I'll shut up if you do" or "Hey man, why so angry?" or "You shut the fuck up" or "You sound like my old missus" or enter anything absurd that sounds like you don't give a fuck Seriously just give it back. It is classic AMOGging. Do a pressure flip and turn it back on him, make him seem like an angry little boy.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 05:53 AM
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In the 48 Laws of Power: Law 36: Disdain Things You Cannot Have: Ignoring Them Is The Best Revenge. "The less interest you take in things that irritate you, the more superior you seem." Just get the assignment done then hopefully you won't have to work with her again.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 10:02 PM
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Rule 30 I'm good with but I frequently struggle with Rule 38. How do you prevent resentment from people when you are a motivated (and muscular) individual? I guess it does come down to surrounding yourself with like-minded people, but those are sometimes hard to find (my personal experience). Most people aren't motivated or muscular, and they resent you for being so. Discussion welcome.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 05:38 AM
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Hahaha she is dreading you and it is working. Just dgaf, take her home and fuck her brains out, she'll love it. If you can't handle some dread you're fucked.
/r/askMRP25/09/20 11:43 AM
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Nice, a job I applied for here in Australia offered 4 weeks maternity leave, even for men. I was surprised especially with my first on the way.
/r/MensRights23/09/20 05:42 AM
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My question is, how long were you with her before marriage? Did you vet her properly? Did she show signs of this behaviour whilst dating? There has to be more to your story here - if she showed no signs over YEARS of dating (and it SHOULD be years in my opinion, before you decide on marriage), she is either a very skillful psycopath, or you are fucking up hard and you aren't as on track as you think. You definitely shouldn't deep dive into dread if you are being an absolute retard. First identif…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 02:20 AM
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How often do you invest and how much?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/20 11:11 AM
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I know how ya feel! If you are a woman or indigenous you will get loads of opportunities. Just keep working at it, it took me about 100 applications to get two job offers, but this was back in the slump, looks much better now!
/r/MensRights02/07/20 10:27 PM
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It can't. There is not enough women that want to work in these conditions (Central Australia which is desert, no mobile reception, long 12hr days, etc). The camp is also very basic as it is a junior company with a smaller budget. We have a few women but they seem to move on a lot quicker than males do and find the workload too hard.
/r/MensRights02/07/20 08:18 AM
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This is big in Australia. Can't say it has affected me as a male in the mining industry tho. I do notice females get favoured alot by the bigger companies, but not so much with the junior companies.
/r/MensRights02/07/20 06:00 AM
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Similar thing happened to my brother-in-law, minus divorce (yet). He had a kid with this post-wall single mum. She ended up cheating and demanding an open-relationship. He accepts, then moves interstate without her for work. He gets a side piece, she sees and hears about her: this petite big titty chick. She then flies immediately to that city (next day after finding out, apparently) and approaches the side-chick, demands for her to stay away, then a few weeks later moves to the city to be with …
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 10:33 AM
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Definitely an Aussie
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/20 11:20 AM
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Good chat
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 12:26 AM
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Sounds like you might have some underlying trust issues. Ever thought about seeing a therapist or something to figure it out?
/r/askTRP18/12/19 09:38 AM
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Try a different time maybe? If it doesn't work why keep going 12-6pm? Tried clubs/bars?
/r/askTRP18/11/19 09:06 AM
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You needy fuck. What is your mission man? Go do something other than sitting by the phone waiting for her reply.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 11:38 AM
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If you can dedicate more days to gym I'd definitely try Push-Pull-Legs. You can do 6 days straight, 1 day rest. Or 3 days on and 1 off then repeat. If you wanna keep the 3 days a week routine I'd swap the routine up - try 3x3's even. My routine is such at the moment: Day 1 = Ramped Squat, Bench, and Row + accesories. Day 2 = Ramped Deadlifts + accessories Day 3 = Ramped Squat + accesories Ramped Squat/Bench/Row is 2 sets at a percentage of 5RM/3RM, then 3 working sets. Ram ped Deadlifts are 2 se…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 11:33 AM
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Did you have issues socialising as a child/teen? I was similar but I ended up getting better at it. I still have some moments where I feel like the odd one out, or people just think I'm different (or I think they think I am). You just need to overcome it, sometimes even exit the social setting if you can't. Weirdly for me, I had a father around. He had alpha traits but then divorced my mother and he just lost it all (through my teens). Learning IDGAF is a tool I've used to overcome the fear of p…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 11:17 AM
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The same women that'd probably get bored reading a book? That only binge watch reality TV series? You expect them to read a sidebar like RP? Even read something like The Book of Pook and absorb it? The select few that would do such a thing are the ones you probably already know to stay away from (I hope).
/r/askTRP21/10/19 10:48 AM
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14 x 12hr shifts then 14 days off ;)
/r/askTRP21/10/19 08:59 AM
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Next. Some girls just get off on knowing they can get your attention. I had a similar scenario. Chick was hella into me, lower SMV than me, loads of IOIs. As soon as I suggested anything she would agree then flake. She'd even go insofar as saying "I'm on my way" then never show on one occasion. I nexted after about 3 strikes. She then tries to get my attention again by saying she never sees me anymore, but I stood my ground. Sometimes chicks just wanna fuck with you. Sometimes nexting is the onl…
/r/askTRP14/10/19 01:29 AM
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You gotta learn to not give a f*ck my man. People said similar things to me and I've only gained about 7kg. "Hey man you on the juice or what?" "Yeah! Orange juice, Apple juice...." "OP can you eat this with your steroids?" "Nah the label said I couldn't." "He'll be bald soon with the stuff he's on..." "Yeah I should slow down!" You are letting him get to you which is what he wants. Learn to agree & amplify, deflect back onto him, etc.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 12:36 AM
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Both
/r/askTRP04/10/19 10:14 AM
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"You're my first" (don't use if it actually is) "Didn't keep count" "Lost count after <insert ridiculous number here>" Basically say nothing serious. Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 11:59 PM
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Your ears are fine bro! You even look fine without beard.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 11:53 PM
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LMAO shoulda told her you'd help her with her application. She tested you and you failed miserably. She's going to find other guys hot you have to learn to understand that. I'd stop casually Facetiming unless you are away from her physically (eg. Overseas or away for work). You aren't her girlfriend.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 12:23 AM
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Not gaining means calories way too low. I'm on about 3100 at 5'9. 3 times a week - I'm guessing you do 5x5 or something? You could need more volume and assistance exercises. Try a PPLPP or PPL routine for a bit and reassess in 3 months. I'm a "hard gainer" like you but I really just wasn't eating enough or making the effort to. Count calories with a basic app (MyFitnessPal). Eat calorie dense foods and more fats: nuts, nut butters, drink good oils. Try drinking a 1/4 cup of olive oil spaced over…
/r/askTRP09/07/19 10:24 AM
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I'm exactly like you. More serious and stoic around other men because we can bond better that way. Around women I'm alot different: amused mastery, alot more negging, alot more joking and making them laugh. I do these things with men but not as often or at such a degree. I am also stoic and serious around women when it's needed but they will think you're socially retarded if you are always serious. Men are more logical, women more emotional.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:41 AM
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True - plate and LTR would require boundaries to be set.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 03:11 AM
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Makes sense. I have a plate that always tries to get a reaction from me by telling me 'so and so guy' has been messaging her to meet up or is asking her over. Best thing to do is not react and tease her about i.e. dgaf.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 10:17 PM
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Exactly, we all willingly came here in search of an answer. You can't teach someone who doesn't want to be taught. I say it's up to you. You find out for yourself if it was worth it and come back and let us know.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 10:48 AM
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She isn't really a plate yet after 1 time. Try again a couple more times, could have just been the day she was having, or you were boring as fuck. Who knows. If it keeps happening then next and move on. I have a plate where one day she just isn't into it, then another day will fuck my brains out. It just depends on feelz.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 12:28 PM
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Live in the gym but keep approaching, that way when you have achieved the look you want you'll have no trouble approaching.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 12:24 PM
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Expect it pretty soon unless she has made her intentions clear that she isn't looking for anything. If you don't want "the talk" then stop allowing all the LTR behaviour. Tell her you just want casual, see her less, don't let her sleep over. If you do want "the talk" then continue.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 12:21 PM
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Hardly ever (can't remember the last time) but she is always open to doing it. It could be every day if I wanted - hasn't rejected an advance for a long time.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 12:16 PM
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If fucking her (and him) goes against your morals, don't do it. Simple. Don't be captain save-a-bro. You don't know this guy or owe him anything. He probably brought all this on himself for not owning his shit. He'll also probably side with her anyway because he is in too deep.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 11:59 AM
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The type of chick usually depends on how aggressive the approach is. If she is shy you kinda ease in and build rapport. If she isn't then you can turn it up to 100 pretty quick.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 11:52 AM
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Fuck that gave me Tourettes
/r/askTRP17/06/19 11:34 AM
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It doesn't help that most video games nowadays are engineered to make you addicted.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 01:18 AM
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Pretty much. Similar thing happened to me but by an experienced worker. Half the time I didn't respond and just grinned and walked away. Sometimes I just threw banter back and laughed it off. Hardest year of my life cos I wanted to punch the guy in the face every day.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 09:52 AM
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Exactly what I was about to say!
/r/askTRP12/06/19 09:52 AM
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Yeah damn I'm 5'9 and 10kgs heavier. OP I'll swap you some weight fo height bra.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 09:46 AM
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The sidebar
/r/askTRP09/05/19 11:00 AM
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100% agree. Discipline being a part of that loop.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 12:03 AM
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But you already sounded successful and atleast had a frame. The majority of the guys starting here are coming from their low. That's why lifting is number 1 as it teaches discipline.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 11:50 PM
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I can't believe you'd put women to the same level as a dog.... Dogs are more loyal
/r/TheRedPill01/03/19 06:51 AM
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Buy 'Daily Stoic' by Ryan Holiday. A good place to start with Stoicism.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 03:27 AM
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I've only just staryed reasing this now at 26. I wish I had it earlier! Another Finance book would be "The Richest Man in Babylon" by George S. Clason.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/19 07:46 AM
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She has atleast 3 red flags (and probably more) not zero. Did you read your 2nd sentence? It's totally up to you. As long as she has a positive influence on your life I'd give it a try, but be ready to exit, quickly.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 09:13 AM
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Sounds like the Push Pull Legs routine I'm doing now. It's only too much if your body says it is. I find it the optimal amount and I've been seeing great results. Do you feel fatigued all the time? Seeing gains?
/r/askTRP28/12/18 11:37 AM
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Lift (Squat, Deadlift and Bench should all be incorporated) Eat food that compliments your lifting goals and body. For me that is moderate protein, high carb, decent amount of fat. Energy levels are great. Masturbate less (or not at all) but still have sex. I find it keeps my energy up. Find some bros and do bro things. Competitive sport is especially good.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 12:54 AM
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Depends on the individual. I know guys that can go low carb and have loads of energy and still build muscle. As for myself I can't gain without any carbs and I feel energetic and strong with them.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 12:45 AM
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I wouldn't introduce him unless he asks for guidance.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 07:42 AM
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"That sucks" coupled with being the fun guy usually works with chicks. They always try to offload problems onto you! If they don't tone down then I usually tell them straight up that they should forget their problems when with me and just have fun. Usually works depending on circumstance (when on dates). With dudes it's different, you can talk about it and empathize more. I work in a stressful environment where everyone is really negative so I've had practice.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 12:09 AM
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Chances are you are not even TRYING to approach women, and so wrongly assume that you are not enough. You are probably expecting women to approach you, and when they don’t, you keep assuming your SMV is not high enough. This. I had this mindset right out of monk mode. I did have a couple of women approach me but it's up to you to put yourself out there.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:09 PM
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Hands down (personally) but fuck it's tiring. Another alternative is PPLPP and blast Legs.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 08:54 AM
5

The last point is very important. They hate it but they love it.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 07:22 PM
1

Eat 5-6 meals a day. Use liquids (smoothies, mass gainers, etc) as much as possible as they are easier to consume. Eat more carbs too. As a hard gainer I use to focus too much on protein. Brought more carbs in and saw better results + more energy.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 05:25 AM
13

Daily Stoic Meditations Letters From A Stoic Enchiridion
/r/askTRP31/10/18 10:35 AM
1

Thanks for the advice. I will give both a try.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 11:16 PM
5

I have had a lot of success with dumbbell preacher curls and close grip barbell curls. Forearms I have no advice for mine are as stubborn as my calves.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 07:39 PM
1

Find your mission brother. For me, that was learning python to develop a model to predict sports results, learning French, exploring Stoicism, building my career, and travelling more. All whilst reducing the things that offer little to no benefit to me personally (eg. porn, masturbation, video games). I still do some of the 'no benefit' things from time to time, but gone are the days where I'd do them excessively. Figure out things you are passionate about and pursue them.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 12:05 AM
2

Yep, happened to me today at work. I'm always a real positive guy, do cool stuff, travel, the women I work with find me attractive/bring me food/compliment me - but I always get a superior and/or colleagues trying to keep me in check somehow when they see how I get along with everyone (espscially women), and that I have an interesting life. They do this by bombarding me with more work or suddenly questioning my work (coincidentally happens after they see me with women), or making comments that j…
/r/askTRP31/07/18 10:11 AM
1

Lifting should be in your top priorities because it yields so many benefits. But if you read the sidebar, lifting isn't the one and only priority. It just helps build a framework for your progress.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 09:21 AM
4

My father is basically the same. On the surface seems RP: very knowledgable, skillful, can talk to ladies, among other things. But he is BP as shit, overweight, puts women on pedestals, and tried to preach the same to me. I use to be the biggest people pleaser - so polite, say sorry for literally everything. Got me nowhere. My father once dated a bipolar crazy chick after his divorce to my mother and tried to hamster to me about how good she actually is, and treated her like a unicorn. He even p…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 04:44 AM
1

Favourite audiobooks (preferably available on Audible)?
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 10:17 AM
2

"My b*tch flirt with an entertainer, he can have her" - Royce da 5'9"; Mode II If your chick is doing that shit right in front of you, she definitely isn't worth having around. I'd have left and deleted all contact.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 01:45 AM
1

Why didn't you ghost after the 2nd time she asked? She is either clearly not into you or fucking with you, or both.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 11:28 AM
1

Why didn't you ghost after the 2nd time she asked? She is either clearly not into you or fucking with you, or both.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 11:05 AM
3

Travelling is something I value highly. I've gained an appreciation for other cultures; their similarities and differences. I also grew up in a small town - but my mother was born in another country so I've always been a curious guy and want to see the world. Most of my current friends just travel to drink and party. This stuff is fun, but I'd rather wake up at 6am and explore the places, experience the people, food, wildlife. Doing this sparks my other interests in art, photography, food, and f…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 10:28 AM
2

I rarely talk to anyone at my gym unless they are there with me or they initiate. I'm always in and out.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 11:58 PM
1

Basically. A guy did that to me (he is 50 and double my age), I acted mature, A&A'd, fed back the banter, or ignored. Now I'm his superior because my superiors see how mature I act. I also never flip out and get aggressive.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 10:17 AM
3

A Whole New World duet. Panty dropper.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 12:08 AM
1

Maybe, but how often do you hear it? Do they say it sarcastically? Are you actually butt ugly and they say it? Could just be hitting on you.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 07:41 PM
1

"Thanks" How is it a shit test?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 09:51 AM
1

Bulk. I'm the same height and 84kg with ~10% bf. Bulk first then cut.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 09:49 AM
1

Turn it off and walk away
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:28 AM
2

Mine cost $40 (in Australia). But I get free beer/drinks/coffee, cable tv in the mirror, head massage. And good banter.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:30 AM
1

A&A. Just show you dgaf because he is looking for you to give one. Had a similar situation at work, to the point where he'd have groups of people making fun of me. I just A&A and laughed it off - doesn't happen anymore.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 11:36 AM
3

This. What I did was got to know my supervisor personally, which got me exposure to higher up where I then did the same thing with those guys. That got me a promotion as a graduate. Just remember to use 48 laws.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 09:36 AM
1

Download where?
/r/askTRP23/02/18 09:43 PM
2

Between 3 and 4 and the amogging alpha stuff sucks. A lot of the time it is from guys I'm 'friends' with. They'll try anything to exclude you from conversations with chicks, even if you were there first. Brutal stuff.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 05:09 AM
0

The Art of Seduction Letters From a Stoic
/r/askTRP23/02/18 04:02 AM
1

Workout 1 Chest & Arms Workout 2 Back & Shoulders Workout 3 Legs & Arms HIIT cardio & Abs days in between according to your weight loss preference and time. Doing this atm and it's going great. I go high intensity on every lift - 4 secs lowering weights, and quick bursts up. It burns but you grow!
/r/askTRP19/02/18 09:48 AM
1

At the first opportunity, yes. Moved away for University. Best decision of my life.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 11:59 PM
1

Read stoic philosophy, read sidebar material, nap, guitar, create art of some kind (big into lino prints at the moment).
/r/askTRP07/02/18 11:51 PM
3

Isolate from other guys. Most of the time if she is interested in me she'll ignore others anyway unless they have great game. I've had girls tell other guys to flat out shut up so we can get back to our conversation.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 05:09 AM
7

Exactly this. Just say hello to people. If they have a cool shirt, a camera, a book, an interesting hat. Ask them about it, the brand, where they got it.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 05:29 AM
1

You'll get better as you experience them more. A&A is the easiest to implement.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 10:20 AM
1

Have similar guy at work. All I do is just feed it back, and AMOG him a bit when I can because he does it to me almost every encounter. Fun if you have some wit.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 09:32 AM
1

r/personalfinance would be a good place to start
/r/askTRP20/01/18 09:28 PM
1

For the first time? Where have you been dude?
/r/askTRP12/01/18 10:36 PM
1

Grandpa had Alzheimer's (not Grandma) if I read correctly?
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 06:02 PM
2

I know how you feel. There's a few guys at my work that are just engaging and funny. They are also quick witted with comebacks and jokes, and can make large groups of people laugh with ease. Only way I've gotten better is just hanging around them and conversing and joking with them.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 10:48 PM
2

Read up on investing and find your muse (passive income). I highly recommend 4 Hour Work Week for your goal if you haven't read it already. Work hard, and research methods to pay down your debts as fast as possible. Beyond that, you surely have other interests and hobbies that can be enjoyed now.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 11:36 PM
2

Yep, 6-7hrs a night usually. My circumstance is different tho as I work 2 weeks straight (168hrs) then have 1 week off to do as I please. Which I fill with all the above hobbies.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 11:12 PM
2

I work 84 hr weeks. I still find time for the gym, socialising, and learning new skills/acquiring new knowledge. I rarely play video games anymore because they just sap so much time for very little reward - a commodity that you shouldn't waste. Now I learn new languages (French atm), read books that interest me (really into Vagabonding and 4 Hour Work Week atm), gym 6 times a week, socialise with friends, photograph, play guitar, create art, and maintain an LTR. It sounds like you need inspirati…
/r/askTRP21/12/17 11:07 PM
2

"Not what yo mama/sister/friend said" "You into some kinky shit" (to the dude pointing the scissors) OR Laugh with and ignore and move on with your life OR Go nuclear and whip it out to prove them wrong. Basically say anything absurd or just laugh and ignore.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 10:12 PM
1

On to the next
/r/askTRP20/12/17 10:24 PM
1

Use youtube for form - form is very hard to convey through text, you need video or another teaching you. Start with 5x5 at light weight. Improve form then increase weight. When you get to intermediate you can look into different programs if 5x5 gets old.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 09:30 PM
3

Your mini FR basically answered your question for you: spend more time apart - get hobbies, and apply dread. When she sees you having fun around other hot women she won't wanna hop off.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 05:03 AM
1

Liquids! Milk, mass gainer shakes, etc. I used to have a small appetite but it goes away after you gain more mass and you start getting hungry af.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 05:00 AM
2

Dude I'm the exact same, do you work in mining by any chance? I have 2 weeks with all these fuckers and I get shit tested constantly. "You got enough to eat there?" "Oh you should see my nephew/cousin/insert relative here he is way bigger than you." me making a mistake "I thought you had a University degree?" It won't stop if you keep improving. I sometimes get ignored by people completely, especially beta dudes (tonnes here that are overweight and just drink). Females also get real nervous and …
/r/askTRP08/12/17 12:10 AM
1

Lift Play guitar/an instrument Photography Eat/find new eating spots with friends Learn French/languages
/r/askTRP07/12/17 11:51 PM
2

No amount of reading or watching will help with it (I tried). It's all about getting out there and trying it and learning from your own trial and error as well as others.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 09:55 PM
2

I was the same. Best advice I can give is hang around guys who know how to "flirt/joke" and learn from them. This is what I did - stole some of their jokes/moves and used with success.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 09:47 PM
1

"Don't want/need one" "I have more than one" "None of your business" "Why, you keen" (only use if you are quitting the next day and she is hot) insert smirk/smile/wink at the end of these
/r/askTRP25/11/17 09:56 AM
2

Say it with sarcasm and a smirk? You wouldn't just say it with no emotion because of course that will outcast you.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 09:54 AM
1

Women love a man who knows what he wants. My girl responds great when I'm assertive.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 10:32 PM
1

Go for low carb beer, or low carb alcoholic drinks (scotch & soda/vodka, lime & soda etc). Personally, I think you just need to cut the drinking or address the stresses that give you the need to drink. I've only known a few guys with freak genes that could sink beers every night and still be ripped af. As for workout, go on a full body program and hit cardio 2-3 times a week. Opt for high protein, low carb meals and add some good fats. Pretty simple really.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 10:27 PM
2

Yep. Similar thing happened to me. Some backpacker with a skinny boyfriend - was messaging me every day and tried to trap me into validating her heaps, showing lots of IOIs as I saw her heaps at my work. Whenever her boyfriend was around she acted like a complete different person. She ended up leaving town and ghosted me - haven't heard from her.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 09:40 PM
2

Male sports/hobbies.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 09:59 PM
2

That's how it feels!
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:03 AM
1

Thanks, will check it out!
/r/askTRP12/11/17 07:48 AM
8

Probs try to AMOG you. Or you'll get along. Both cases have happened to me.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 07:42 AM
1

Dread game boy. Don't bring it up in a whiny way either. She'll know it is a weakness and use it against you.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 09:31 PM
2

Sleep more if you can, unless you are one of those people who can survive off 6. What do you do with the other 18 hrs? 10 is work, gym should only be 1.5hrs max - so you have 8.5hrs. I'd read more, and maybe pick up a new or an existing hobby. Monk mode is pretty sweet when you come out of it more confident.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 11:51 AM
2

Good Gym is solid. Seeing gains and getting compliments from people saying I'm looking ripped. Gamed a backpacker who worked at my work in housekeeping (left a couple days ago). Got heavy IOI's and she became obsessed with me but I didn't pursue because shitting where you eat and she had her boyfriend hanging off her half the time. Practiced DGAF, A&A, Pressure flips, non-neediness, and got her doing stuff for me (giving me free food etc.) - ended it kind of awkward (see Bad section) but remaine…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 06:45 AM
1

I do 14 days straight of 12 hr days (days then nights) then a week off. What I do is eat every 3 hrs if I can - meals that contain around 20g protein, 30g or more carbs and some fats. Here is a rough idea of my day: breakfast - bacon, eggs, fried tomato, mushrooms, juice, toast snack - peanut butter sandwich/es and fruit lunch - meat, rice, and veg (big serving; sometimes double serving) snack - same as earlier gym - BCAA's dinner - Very similar to lunch before bed - casein shake I also work out…
/r/askTRP12/10/17 10:18 AM
1

r/stoicism
/r/askTRP24/09/17 10:27 AM
1

I got natural big glutes thanks to genes - I could exclude squats and I'd still have them. Have been complimented by ladies, also older girls seem to love them for some reason.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 10:27 AM
3

Surely your town/city has public transport? Tell her to come to you.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 06:43 AM
1

You can remove legs or limit them to just maintenance reps. I had T-rex syndrome also, and legs naturally build quicker than upper body. I just phased out legs then phased them back in slowly as my upper caught up.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 12:07 AM
3

Meditations - Marcus Aurelius for Stoicism if you haven't read it already.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 12:02 AM
1

Find other hobbies! I used to game-burn a lot but now I rarely play because I occupy my time with other things I enjoy. There is also nothing wrong with playing video games in moderation - but it sounds to me like you are addicted.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 05:59 AM
2

I've read both Mastery and 48 Laws in concise and in my opinion they are both in depth enough to get the points across. Currently reading Meditations and it is quite bland at times and takes some re-reading to internalize/translate the message/s.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 04:58 PM
1

I'm similar - I suck at eating in the morning. I always eat liquids which are easier to stomach. Hit a protein shake or meal replacement of some kind? If you can't do that, eat somwthing atleast - a piece of fruit even.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 05:55 AM
1

Any idea why?
/r/askTRP29/07/17 10:32 PM
1

Keeps me healthy and mobile. Attention from women is just a bonus.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/17 09:18 AM
1

Yeah I used to do this. Now I never give it unless it is asked. I always thought it was just the nice thing to do but now that I look back at it I was most probably seen as a wise-guy know-it-all.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 02:24 AM
5

"I'm a med student" - how boring does that sound. Try something absurd and interesting. For me, I'm a Geoscientist and had a job shooting X-rays at rocks. So something along the lines of: "I x-ray rocks to see if they're okay", "I'm a rock doctor", "I'm kind of like Indiana Jones". There's nothing more boring than "I'm a Geologist" it dries them up as quick as the desert I'm stuck working in right now.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 07:00 AM
1

Inside or outside elbow? I have golfers elbow atm which is inside. Tennis elbow is outside pain.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 09:43 AM
2

Sounds like she needs to read WISNIFG
/r/askMRP27/06/17 12:10 AM
1

Start with Thus Spoke Zarathustra imo
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 11:42 PM
1

"You wanna climb more? Well I've got something rock hard you can climb on ;)" probably the first thing I woulda said to my girl haha. Stop being so insecure.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 08:18 AM
1

5'10 - height hasn't been an issue. I'd love to be 6'0 but it really isn't that much taller than I already am. I'd only have an issue with height if most girls were taller than me (if I was like 5'3"), which is never the case.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:59 AM
1

I'd do Push-Pull-Legs x2 (PPLPPL) Currently I do PPLPP - only Legs once because my Legs grow really well compared to the rest.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 03:24 AM
1

This is why I never tell anyone about TRP! And Law 38 bro!
/r/askTRP16/06/17 05:42 AM
1

Are you progressing too quick? Is your form correct? Are you eating properly (enough protein, vitamins, carbs, etc)?
/r/askTRP13/06/17 07:11 PM
1

Yep! How did you react?
/r/askTRP13/06/17 10:06 AM
1

A&A (to absurdity if you want). I have a mate that does this all the time and it just destroys any shit tests for him.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 10:00 AM
1

Brooklyn Nine Nine is pretty funny if you like random. I like alot of stuff by Franco, Seth Rogen, Jonah Hill etc. Such as Pineapple Express, 22 Jump St, Hot Tub Time Machine, This Is The End to name a few.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 06:29 PM
1

I know the feeling, but you just have to over ride the anger.
/r/askMRP06/06/17 04:02 PM
8

"You're like my dad..." "I know I'm your daddy wink" Wtf is wrong with you man. Chill out a bit you sound angry af.
/r/askMRP06/06/17 06:39 AM
2

I started a YouTube channel, and did commentary over videos of things I was interested in. Improved my speech HEAPS. I did a video almost every day whilst at Uni - not saying you need to start your own channel, but that practice every day, improvising without a script, I learnt to think better on the fly. Another technique I've heard is saying a sentence, picking a word from that sentence, and continuing with a new sentence with that word. For example: Today I went for a 'run'. I run this compan…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 11:01 PM
1

I work 12 hrs days and nights on my swings. All I do is eat work eat lift repeat - just gotta push yourself man! On nights I workout before shift and days I workout after. Compromises are I only get about 1.5hrs to do anything else in my day. Only leg day has affected my performance XD
/r/askTRP23/05/17 10:41 AM
1

I work 12 hrs days and nights on my swings. All I do is eat work eat lift repeat - just gotta push yourself man!
/r/askTRP23/05/17 10:41 AM
1

I know what you mean. I am in the mining industry. Some of the guys here are on $100k+ with $90k cars, decked out (pun intended) boats, etc. I have another friend that was on $150k - his time off he'd go on trips and hit casinos putting hundreds down on the roulette table at a time (not in one session, in one bet!). He has nothing but a ~$50k car to show for that 5 years he was in the industry, plus a few experiences but he never left the country. They just throw money around - atleast I know wh…
/r/askTRP18/05/17 04:56 PM
1

You're probably just overthinking like I did. I am more introvert and good at 1 on 1 conversation compared to group even with strangerd - I can be extrovertive but isn't something I do a lot or naturally of. When in group I just do the listening and chime in with comments or questions or jokes every now and then - abdolutely nothing wrong with that, and people won't think lesser of you for it. I'd also not be too serious all the time, do you give off that vibe? In 1 on 1 you need to learn to kee…
/r/askTRP18/05/17 05:44 AM
1

I was the same as you. Only way I overcame it was more talking. I think my attitude before was because I thought people would judge me (anxiety): the way I sounded, looked, and the content of the conversation. I don't know why, I was just like that. I just started to talk more and stopped giving a fuck about what others thought (or probably weren't even thinking to begin with). I learnt to project my voice better and avoid dropping volume, and using my hands in the conversation, I also keep soli…
/r/askTRP18/05/17 05:10 AM
1

Solid advice! I know tradesmen who earn 100-200k+ p/a in my hometown because it is a shit place to live and noone wants to live/work there long so the demand for tradesmen is always high. Here I am with a degree and probably not able to hit 100k for a year or two yet. I sometime wish I just did a trade and I could have had my own property/properties by now. Your advice goes hand-in-hand with r/financialindependence values too! Suggest others to check it out.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 05:01 AM
1

I had this when I first started Uni. It took me a degree change halfway through the degree into another new 3-year degree to figure it all out. I then almost quit the new degree 2 years in. I just told myself I need to finish SOMETHING, even if I hate it at the end - well now I'm in love with my profession and have a sweet job straight out of Uni (just finished about 6 months ago). You just have to commit to it. You wouldn't have started if you didn't want it, even a little bit. In my last year,…
/r/askTRP18/05/17 04:41 AM
1

Learn a language? Try out Michel Thomas' stuff, it's all learning on the spot without homework or much memorization. I highly recommend it has improved my French heaps.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 04:17 AM
1

I was basically the same - was away for ~9 months for Uni. Only thing is I didn't find RP til I got back home. I was owning my shit and keeping myself busy whilst I was away, but still quite blue pill. It isn't easy transitioning back, I also had small living quarters with her cos I was broke. The transition back was easier for me as I came back to an LTR of 9 years. Just act normal when you are with her, you will get shit tested and in a few arguments at the start but just STFU and AA etc. I'd …
/r/askMRP09/05/17 10:42 PM
1

Get a pair or gymnastic rings and build some PVC parallettes. Both pretty inexpensive and add another dimensions to what you have - good for ring dips, ring muscle ups, ring pull ups. Parallettes can work for dips, ab work, handstand work.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 11:34 AM
1

Yeah, just my luck - few biddies out here but not many
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/17 05:06 PM
1

NMMNG Finished it first! Was a massive eye opener for me. did the scale factory break Out in the middle of nowhere at a mine site -> need to buy one when I get back home!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/17 04:45 PM
1

Thanks man - I will put it on the list!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/17 04:41 PM
1

OYS Entry #4 Physical: Had an active rest week on my week off work - Back into it this week. No scales or anything to judge by, although judging by mirror I'm making gains! Work: Been same as usual - trying to get a better position than I have, although I'm only about 3 months into my role, I feel I could be utilized better in a leadership position. That being said, I've already trained and mentored someone else, and work unsupervised on night shift, and my workmates respect me like my actual su…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/17 02:59 PM
1

Currently reading it - it is very insightful so far!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 08:31 PM
0

Are you a hard-gainer then? What are your stats (height, weight, etc.) I'm naturally toned and low body fat - i.e. I'm a hard gainer. I've tried low rep strength programs and I just didn't put on much size - even eating insane amounts of food. I'd suggest a 4 or 5-day body split. 4 day split could be Upper, Lower, Upper, Lower - or 5 day split could be Back, Chest, Legs, Shoulders, Arms/Abs. Eat clean high protein/high carb meals every 2-4 hours and cut out as much cardio as you can! That helped…
/r/askTRP15/04/17 03:19 PM
4

Treat it as if it was a work day. Don't go to bed late or get up late: treat it like a work day and keep a routine (weekends are an exception tho) Have a rough plan for the days and try not to "take it as it comes" because that's where you end up procrastinating and doing unproductive things Use time in the day to do something productive: volunteer somewhere or if you have relatives with a business - work for them cash-in-hand or for free, learn a new skill, go visit friends or family, workout, …
/r/askTRP13/04/17 01:13 PM
2

OYS Entry #3 Physical: Great gains - my work clothes are starting to get a bit tight in the arms already after a few weeks of this program. Work: Been great - into my 2nd week on. Next week is my 1 week off. Been experiencing a few shit tests from my (male) 2IC supervisor and responding appropriately. Applied and followed up a few positions that I want to lead in to - don't want to be in my current position forever. Finances: Great - haven't spent anything because I've been at work and getting p…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/17 06:43 PM
1

Jesus man - separating yourself from her is one thing, but wishing death upon her?
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:43 PM
1

Sidebar -> There's this one girl...
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:31 PM
2

Have you had a look over at r/personalfinance and r/investing? They might be able to help you out!
/r/askTRP09/04/17 07:08 PM
1

Are you giving her an excuse to do it? Reason I ask is because I have a friend who's GF does the exact same thing at the bar HE owns, and whilst he runs it. Now she is going to leave him because he is always too busy and doesn't provide enough for her (emotionally, mostly).
/r/askTRP08/04/17 12:28 PM
1

Great minds think alike!
/r/askTRP08/04/17 06:15 AM
2

You went alright - just go about your life and ignore. If someone brings up you getting rejected - just say you rejected them and that's it. Increase your social circle outside of college if you think this really hit your image that bad.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 11:16 AM
1

Personally: A nice pair of chino's in black, navy, or stone A pair of nice chino shorts that sit above the knee Plain coloured tee's with no prints - I have black, white, navy, charcoal A nice leather belt A few pairs of shoes - Personally, I have Clarks, a pair of leather woven boat looking shoes like this, and some sneakers (eg. Nike Roshes) in white or black. I feel like those are essentials, anything after that is a bonus. You could add extras in like a simple watch (eg. Timex Weekender; str…
/r/askTRP07/04/17 09:43 AM
26

Next her - only ever gonna be tests from her here-on-out. She wants relationship, you do not - it's pretty simple.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 07:54 PM
2

I know she kissed him "once" and watched him jack off on FT "once". I'm sure that's all that happened..... You don't go from kissing "once" to watching each other masturbate.
/r/askMRP06/04/17 07:24 PM
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Make a daily plan or plan out your tasks: I use to do this in a notebook at my previous job and did it daily. Keeps me liable and at the end of the day (or shift in my case), I'd go back and review - if I missed something I wouldn't fret over it - I'd do it if I had time, or make a note for it to be done the next day. Kept me liable and I ticked off tasks as I completed them. Learn to reward yourself: This applied mostly at Uni for me - I'd study an hour or so, then take a 15 min break and maybe…
/r/askTRP06/04/17 07:12 PM
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"Yes" - sometimes they just need comfort "Yeah, I can't stop thinking about you, I remember the day we met like it was just yesterday..." (in a sarcastic tone) "Nah, I never miss" "Miss dat ass" Just keep up A&A, sexualizing, and just sprinkle some beta at times - comfort tests won't ever stop!
/r/askTRP06/04/17 06:54 PM
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she was on her period That's what went wrong - she came looking for comfort. If you knew she was on her period beforehand you fucked up by letting her come over.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 06:25 PM
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Ghost her/soft-next - should've A&A the situation. Plate: "I'd never get with him" itsevergreen: "Not what you said last night" I wouldn't have even got that far tbh, you played yourself.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 06:04 PM
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After she said you have to wait should have ghosted and ignored. If she replies with "Why are you ignoring" - say you are busy af right now. I guess advice for next time XD. Advice now would be to just ghost and STFU at this point until she reaches out. You'll probably get tested for that comment you made, later. Act like nothing happened though.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 05:50 PM
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Did you initiate? Did she reject? Need more context
/r/askTRP06/04/17 05:38 PM
1

Maybe your SMV isn't as high as you think it is?
/r/askTRP06/04/17 04:53 PM
2

Go and read shit tests encyclopedia - your response was weak af I'd have A&A'd the shit out of that!
/r/askTRP06/04/17 04:01 PM
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Comfort test! Just be fun (A&A her statements "Are you upset with me?" "Yeah, upset you still have clothes on"), act like it's nothing, go caveman on her and go about your day. Read Married Man Sex Life Primer by Athol Kay - still has decent wisdom even if not married or in LTR tbh.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 03:41 PM
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Good that you are filling your free time with constructive activities - you need to hit the gym and eat more tho, 5'10 and 130lbs - you must be fairly skinny!
/r/askTRP05/04/17 06:23 PM
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Dude my Filo LTR holds grudges like crazy haha
/r/askTRP04/04/17 06:25 PM
1

Only advice I can give is to read hard books. By high levels I'm guessing you mean older works like Meditations. At one point I was reading philosophy (eg. Essays & Aphorisms; Schopenhauer) and that was similar to Meditations - old language and Schopenhauer ALWAYS digressed a fair bit so you were always like "where is he going with this?". Language was different; words I've never seen used before, EVER. I always kept a dictionary by my side and had to re-read passages at times. I don't recommend…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 05:33 PM
1

Get a job mate! Own Your Shit. Stop victim puking, read the sidebar, apply for a job a day (seriously any job possible) starting from today, then come back and make a post. I was in a similar boat but I wasn't resenting my LTR about it - it was all on me. I applied for over 100 jobs over a couple of months and only got a reply from about 3 of them and accepted 1 of them. You have no excuses - it's hard, and you sometimes have to defer your "dream job" for a bit because of it - but being in debt,…
/r/askMRP04/04/17 10:07 AM
1

OYS Entry #2 Physical: No problems still. Making gains on my new workout that I've been on for 2 weeks now - really enjoying it (besides Leg day!) Work: Just had my week off R&R for my Fly-in-Fly-out (FIFO) job. Worked 3 weeks prior - I'm now back to doing 2 weeks on 1 off. Really enjoying it so far and I feel that this job will really take me places - because it is a small mining company there is lots of room to learn and "volunteer" in other areas if you have some downtime which I'm going to t…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/17 05:30 AM
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Second the Under Armour - the best I've ever worn
/r/askMRP23/03/17 12:59 PM
1

Yeah I've heard - mining isn't where I want to stay forever (money is good right now). I've made my career goals clear with the LTR and she respects them - the time away is killer, but I just keep reassuring the LTR that putting in the hard yards now will set up our future. And I've mentioned it'll fund a few holidays that we've both been keen on taking (she responded positively to this haha). Thanks man.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/17 11:51 AM
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This shit is what I'm here for - thanks man.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/17 11:39 AM
1

First OYS - Been lurking and applying Red Pill for the last 2-3 months but have been unknowingly applying (sprinkling) RP since the start of 2016 - finally decided to post. Context: not married but in an LTR that feels like I am married. I'm in my mid twenties with a great chick I've been with since high-school. I know, a lot say I'm too young for such an LTR but it just happened; it started well - I was pretty alpha in high school, was a skateboarder, played sport, spun a couple plates when I w…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/17 05:28 PM
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Supplement info, although it sure feels that way we're not really married, in our country when you live together you are technically called wife and husband and I started calling her my wife as sort of a joke when we had our daughter. So you aren't married? How can you divorce then? Just walk away but take care of your child if you aren't happy?
/r/askMRP01/03/17 03:09 AM
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You need to eat way more carbs and good fats as a hard gainer. I am a hard gainer also and I am 180lbs at ~5'9. In the last 3 months I've gained about 11lbs - yes some will be fat, but I still look ripped because of the fast metabolism. I do zero cardio besides a walk about once a week otherwise I'd gain nothing. You need to move away from the 5x5 training tbh - I was the same as you, I wasn't putting on weight and only gained a bit of strength with it. I moved to more hypertrophy training and g…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 01:59 AM
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I avoid caffeine as much as possible in the afternoon. When I hit the hay I just tell myself that any problems I have today can wait til tomorrow (whether they be work, relationships, whatever). I also sleep at consistent times, or if not for consistent lengths (weekends I have some late nights). Those are my main things - I'm an easy sleeper, takes me like 10 minutes max. Other things to bring on sleep can be sex, exhaustion from lifting hard, calm music. Just avoid anything that makes you thin…
/r/askTRP28/02/17 11:20 PM
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What do you do on the weekends? After work? You should be incorporating socialising into your "self growth" plan. You don't need to go to bars/clubs for it either, start off at a sports/hobby club, or a cafe.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 10:45 PM
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Sounds exactly like my LTR right now - the past year she's been out of Uni (whilst I still studied), on ~55k per annum and only saved about 6k in that whole year. I finished Uni last November, got a job straight away, and saved almost 4k up until now (50k per annum also). She always claims she is the best with money too.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 10:41 PM
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I'm a hard gainer too. What is your diet like? Are you coming out of your workouts feeling worked? Or more in the tank? For me, diet is the major factor. I've introduced lots more high calorie items into it such as Peanut Butter/Nuts. You also need to eat more carbs than usual, which I get from Bananas, Rice, etc. I'm also not afraid to have a bowl of ice cream, or a bag of chips/crisps whenever because I barely gain weight and it doesn't detriment me. I'd suggest staying away from sugar though …
/r/askTRP22/02/17 02:31 AM
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You did shortcut to size multiple times and those are your lifts? Damn. Where did you start for each lift? Either you aren't eating right, or you aren't progressively overloading enough and challenging your muscles. Are you a hard-gainer?
/r/askTRP22/02/17 12:39 AM
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I got to your fake prenup and stopped reading - either troll or way too controlling - I would cheat on you if I were her
/r/askMRP21/02/17 12:41 AM
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Da fuk
/r/askTRP20/02/17 01:30 AM
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Just give everything a go tbh. Depends if you like contact or non-contact sport? Try a martial art!
/r/askTRP19/02/17 05:09 AM
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I got bored of fucking this plate I want to keep this plate So which is it?
/r/askTRP19/02/17 02:10 AM
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Then you obviously have underlying problems that you need to fix in terms of confidence.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 02:05 AM
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You are on the right track. Just do bodyweight for now, maybe buy some 10kg dumbbells to do accessory lifts like bicep curls, triceps (skullcrushers, behind the head ext), and shoulders (would recommend some 5kg dumbbells to do front, side, and rear raises as 10kg is bit much for that). Other than that, are you taking advantage of high school sport or groups? Join a sports club or a hobby group if you aren't into sport much. Join a martial art if you can, BJJ, Muay Thai, Judo even. Just read the…
/r/askTRP19/02/17 01:57 AM
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I'm with you on the 5x5 - I did it and got nowhere and plateaud out and gained barely any size or definition. Now I do one heavy 5x5 compound lift at the start of the session then hypertrophy for the rest - and I've gained size/definition and strength.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 01:35 AM
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Only to compliment a good study plan. I'd suggest a French class, a tutor, and a French audio learner first with Duolingo to do in spare time later. Best way to train (personally) is as if you were a kid, start off by learning how words sound and speaking first, then transition into grammar and writing. I'm learning French atm and this is how I'm doing it. Had Duolingo at the start and it didn't help much because I needed a better grasp on how the language sounded and flowed - French speakers ar…
/r/askTRP18/02/17 07:57 AM
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They still have these style of barbershops? I had one in my old city that was guys only, had sports on a big TV, beers if you wanted, barbers were cool as. Obviously not old old style, but has a similar atmosphere. Also went this really dark whisky bar in the middle of my city that was just a wooden door on a wall - no signs or anything - a friend took me there and it had every whisky you could think of on the wall, a blues guitarist, booths. Was sweet as!
/r/askTRP18/02/17 07:34 AM
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Just do it. Remove distractions - that seems to be your problem. I use to go to Uni and stay there from 8 til around 5 in my final semester. I had average grades before my final year but I knuckled down and got to my goal of above a credit average overall (5.0GPA in Australia). There's no easy way around it other than putting in the time and effort. You also need to reward yourself. Set goals to reach and treat yo'self when you reach them, then repeat until you are done. I also lifted, learnt a …
/r/askTRP17/02/17 02:51 AM
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Dude I have that pocket of skin when I sit and I'm like 8%BF - never been overweight. I think it's just genetics and how your skin carries fat. I hit lower abs like crazy but doesn't seem to do much. I reckon just keep lowering your body fat and hitting abs and it'll decrease over time.
/r/askMRP17/02/17 12:30 AM
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Don't do drugs, kids.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 11:09 PM
1

Surely his wife is fucking Chads - this guy is basically her son
/r/askMRP16/02/17 11:49 AM
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Sounds like they want to get to know you then?
/r/askTRP15/02/17 09:45 AM
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Law 38 - Think as you like but behave like others - 48 Laws of Power Just blend in, ask them about their nights. Surely that's not all they talk about tho - ask them about music even. I had similar Uni friends, ones that'd get wasted every weekend - I wasn't into that, but I just acted cool with it all and tagged along to a few nights out with them - that's their comfort zone and where they talk more about their interests I've found - after that it was less about them telling me how cool they th…
/r/askTRP15/02/17 08:50 AM
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Upgrade your socializing to outside of your school. Take a future employer out to coffee or something. Continue being social but dgaf about girls and just focus on improving yourself and having a good time.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 05:37 AM
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Spotify and Soundcloud for music and podcasts. LinkedIn for career. Dictionary.com app for words I encounter that I am unsure about (good for increasing vocabulary). Google Translate because I'm learning a language. That's about the extent of it.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 04:09 AM
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My question is how do i initiate kino when meeting her since I arranged to meet her in a public place, and how do i proceed with the coffee date and escalate? Read the sidebar maybe? Points 9, 10, and 11 are good for what you're looking for. should i try to aim for some particular benchmark Wtf are you talking about?
/r/askTRP14/02/17 09:35 AM
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Tried to dissect your post - it is long. but I disagree with their decisions Need to stop the victim mentality as mentioned already. I don't even have any real friends You probably do, but push them away. Don't have friends? GO out and make some! Keep in touch with the ones that have always been interested in you or do things you are interested in - be proactive and plan things to do. I was the same as you, I thought noone liked me because they never asked me to do stuff. It's because people pre…
/r/askTRP14/02/17 08:04 AM
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