Coffee date tomorow

SkorchZang · 2017-02-14T10:16:46+00:00

You can really sit back and relax, you already did the all the hard work, girl's into you. The less you worry and plan shit now, the better you'll do for yourself.

It cannot be overstated: you already got this ball rolling. There's nothing special to do now. The whole point of "going out" with a girl is to be with her 1:1 and let natural sexy tension build up between the two of you. It does that by itself, you just sit back and let it happen, enjoying yourself. Mostly letting her talk, while you don't really listen and enjoy observing her sexy self instead.

After about 20-40min of having coffee and listening to girly bullshit, cut it short and charmingly go to leave ("would love to stay but I got some appointments. You're pretty fun..."). As you're leaving, make a gesture like you want to give her a grandma hug. IF you feel like she's into it and seems super enthusiastic about being close to you, you can tease her that she's a bad hugger and did it all wrong. When she's confused by this, you go for the charming kiss ON THE LIPS. No more grandma, the man is in the house.

That's really it. And one more little tip, try as hard as you can to avoid talking about how you'll call her again or when you plan to do it, or that you'll "be in touch". Leave it ambiguous, so she isn't too sure if you will or you won't. The drama this can create is very helpful and it's too easy.

You can kinda plan out some logistics about where you'd take her if she wants to jump your bones immediately. But that's more for the giggles, because chances are you're not going to be fucking her right away after this coffee. It's just an excuse for her to see you're not a rapist/weirdo, and to let the two of you keep on texting now and then and meeting up for more fun stuff to do together. The coffee you're going to is not a big deal, and doesn't have any expected outcomes or prizes for you to lock down, although if you get that kiss and never tried that before, you deserve a pat on the back.

cleanstreetwear · 2017-02-14T07:11:08+00:00

Just go there and have a good time. Remember the only person you have to entertain is yourself. You will learn a lot.

FrameWalker · 2017-02-14T18:21:33+00:00

Little nymphos do on occasion turn coffee into a quickie. If you get the look go for it.

abdada · 2017-02-14T12:50:07+00:00

This isn't the place for this post. Sidebar FAQ first link says so.

Go out on the date, write a field report after and ask for thoughts.

You won't learn without trying, making mistakes and correcting them with the next gal.

IBeMadToo · 2017-02-14T09:35:31+00:00

My question is how do i initiate kino when meeting her since I arranged to meet her in a public place, and how do i proceed with the coffee date and escalate?

Read the sidebar maybe?

Points 9, 10, and 11 are good for what you're looking for.

should i try to aim for some particular benchmark

Wtf are you talking about?

Dildobagginsaa · 2017-02-14T04:52:14+00:00

If you're asking this question youre probably not the guy shes looking for

Title	Coffee date tomorow
Author	All_hail_disney
Upvotes	7
Comments	10
Date	February 14, 2017 4:44 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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