Flaking

chemical-miracle · 2019-10-13T09:57:11+00:00

Next.

deathhandmachiavelli · 2019-10-13T13:15:20+00:00

Wait for her to contact you.

She has to take the initiative now (if anything is to happen at all).

Don't bother contacting her again.

Don't feel bad, this is all part of the game. It has happened to me too.

A girl met me at my work, she introduced herself to me. We had a date set up, I was already to go. I called her, she said she would call me back. I waited and waited. She didn't. I called her, she didn't answer. Finally, she called me again and told me she had to do something else that came up, some bullshit excuse.

Second girl, almost an instant replay. I was going to pick her up at her house. Same thing, I called, she didn't call back and ghosted.

Two good experiences for me though, I learned a lot. The importance of saying NEXT and fuck it.

Always be ready to next, always have a back up plan, and always be ready to walk away.

masterpiece00 · 2019-10-13T13:41:05+00:00

You're her beta bux time whore that she 'made plans with' in case the two chads she met after clubbing before meeting you didn't come through for a fuck session, they came through.

Jabbermouth · 2019-10-13T14:51:50+00:00

Hard next. She doesn’t respect you or your time at all. She agreed to a date and then flaked because she was “too tired”. She knew she had a date with you, and she willingly chose to go get drunk with her friends right before your date.

Would she have been too tired for Brad Pitt? Fuck no. She might have even flaked on her friends so she could be extra ready for her date with him.

Some people are saying soft next and I disagree in this case. This girl has demonstrated that she does not respect you at all and that she will flake for the flimsiest of reasons. Does that sound like a girl you want to date? Or even plate? Hard next.

IBeMadToo · 2019-10-14T01:29:10+00:00

Next. Some girls just get off on knowing they can get your attention.

I had a similar scenario. Chick was hella into me, lower SMV than me, loads of IOIs. As soon as I suggested anything she would agree then flake. She'd even go insofar as saying "I'm on my way" then never show on one occasion.

I nexted after about 3 strikes. She then tries to get my attention again by saying she never sees me anymore, but I stood my ground. Sometimes chicks just wanna fuck with you. Sometimes nexting is the only option i.e. the juice isn't worth the squeeze.

Self-honest · 2019-10-13T11:22:22+00:00

Polarize her and be willing to walk away

gaznip · 2019-10-13T16:19:13+00:00

As funny as it is to call each other betas I would appreciate some legit advice too lol

Title	Flaking
Author	gaznip
Upvotes	4
Comments	11
Date	October 13, 2019 9:38 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/dh8h66/flaking/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/flaking.290147 https://theredarchive.com/post/290147

Comments