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Thank you gentlemen, very good advice and I appreciate it all very much 🤘
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/23 04:04 AM
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Fair enough lol been in this group for a while so. But yea I see what you mean, that was kind of gay to say 😂
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/23 04:03 AM
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I know. I need to start doing that. I would stand up for myself but I would rather take abuse then her take my daughter from me right now
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 10:02 PM
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Karma is a bitch, thanks for the advice man
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 06:53 PM
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It's been a hell of a few months my guy lol I'm just mentally drained. It's bad that work is my escape
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 06:52 PM
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Oh I know unfortunately for both of us financially it's not feasible I would never say that to my child. I literally just wanted a hug or to snuggle her. 3.Move over for the picture. But i got overstimulated. And I guess I yelled( raised voice to talk over her so she will hear me) that I'm trying to wipe my child's face. But she got a nasty tone with it so I walked away. And yea that came out somewhere. Oh the standing up for herself. Last time my wife n I argued I heard our daughter coming in a…
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 06:41 PM
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Thanks alot man, sorry you are going through this shit as well. I'm just try to focus on my kid and my sanity but with her constantly bringing up shit from years ago and blaming me for everything it just gets old. At this point it goes in one ear n out the other lol
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 06:19 PM
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I'm trying man, it takes a lot for me not to lash back. So I just bend over n take it lol. Friend of mine told me she's doing all this all the time to try and justify all the shit she put me through prior, cheating on me n all that. Which makes a lot of sense. It's just mentally exhausting lol
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 06:03 PM
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This is a great thread, amazing advice within these comments. Sad stories, and it's fucking sad to see, so many of us have gone through similar shit. I cohabitate with mine since we have a 4 year old and she has no job or car, goes n sees her new man, who I feel bad for. All fun n games now till he realizes. But not my problem anymore. It makes me extremely sad, but I stay strong for myself and my daughter who is the only female (besides family) I give a shit about. Best of luck to all of you. F…
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 11:09 PM
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Good point, thanks man
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 07:49 PM
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Soon To Be ex-wife
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 07:25 PM
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No no no, cohabitating still so trying to keep things civil. She brought it up, I chuckled and looked at my daughter and she giggled, but we will probably just do some crafts for her from my daughter
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 12:46 PM
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Fair point
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 02:54 AM
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Good idea
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 02:28 AM
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I'm sorry to hear this man, things will get better. This is the place to vent, we have all been through alot of shit so you are not alone. Feel free to message me whenever if you like or need someone to talk to.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/23 12:14 AM
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Yea it would be, if I got out I would still have a year left then I would be out. We are starting the process soon
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 02:00 PM
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Yea that's true I know, just hard accepting the truth of it all. And she's pretty much severed ties with her family since her grandmother died. I'm closer to her side of the family than she is
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 01:53 PM
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I feel this, I'm in a similar situation. You are not alone brother. Times a rougher than ever, just have to take it day by day and see the light at the end of the tunnel
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/23 04:38 PM
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This gives me hope 👏👏
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/23 01:35 AM
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I just want to say thank you, you guys have gotten me through the day. It's good to know I'm not the only one going through this. But it's also fucking tragic that some of us had /are. We are good men, for the most part as much as we can. I know I'm a good man, I am an even greater father. Guys like us deserve happiness too, for any of you, you can always message me and I will listen(not to sound gay) but it's time we have an unfiltered to the point group therapy session. 🤘
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 04:57 AM
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That's a good idea, I have a week of reintegration n RSRP n all that shit then I'm taking 26 days of leave and going back home to stay with my parents for a while. Who has been my best support through all this. She is a good mother, for a while I didn't believe she was, but since I've been back and seen how my daughter is and how much she has grown as a person that reassures me.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/23 09:59 PM
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Thank you, that's also part of the conversation. I'm a SSG with almost 10 years. Next one is determining factor. Don't know if I should do another 10 and give benefits to daughter for a less present father figure. Or get out and try to give my daughter the best life I can
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/23 09:48 PM
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Thanks man, if you ever want to talk hit me up. I'm always down for a vent sesh. Having someone's outside opinion is always nice too
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/23 09:24 PM
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I see it now, I mean she is on tons of medication. And had like dual personality disorder or something like that. I'm just trying to reconnect with my daughter and enjoy my time with her
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/23 07:37 PM
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Oh did I mention she had one of these mother fuckers living in my house while I was gone 🤣🤣
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/23 07:31 PM
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What she said when I asked if she was sorry, she said she was sorry she didn't tell me sooner. She explained how she could do it. For actually doing it She didn't say.... . I just want to fucking die
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/23 07:02 PM
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I want to build a new relationship with her but she's not even giving me the chance. I'll sit here in silence and she'll just come out of nowhere saying "and that's another thing that is wrong" and just keep laying it on. As I bite my tongue
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/23 06:11 PM
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Yup this is currently my situation to a T. Makes me glad but also fuckin sad that this shit happens to so many men, hope all you guys find your peace 🤘
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 07:17 AM
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Found out while im overseas, been completely crushed for the last month but I'm still alive. Just for my 4 year old, that's the only thing keeping me going. Now I have to go back after 9 months when she's been cheating multiple times for the last 4 months. My heart and soul are crushed, 8 years down the shitter, through the thickest and thin. In a financial shit storm currently so that's cool. For a while I wanted to make things work and move past it, see the emotional damage I've done to her wi…
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 03:15 AM
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