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| 4 | Different sex drives in a relationship?This sounds awful. Firtsly that amount of sex a day to me is unsustainable. Secondly it sound like you’re not enjoying it as much as him anyway. A great seuxla relationship should involve sex which you enjoy just as much as the guy, if not more. He should be trying to mould to you and what you like and it doesn’t sound like he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 11:49 PM |
| 47 | Name a more iconic couple -- i'll wait.The Obamas. Even then though as someone has stated we don’t know what their relationship was like behind closed doors. I always liked that Barack chose Michelle when she outranked him at his job. That shows a man that actually commends and respects strength in a woman as a quality. I don't know much about this couple other than the late Bobby Kennedy had great hair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 11:45 PM |
| 14 | Using "red flags" about things that should be DEAL BREAKERS is yet another way to gaslight womenI totally agree and I've noticed even myself doing this too. On the way home from a date a couple of months ago in my head I said OK, I saw a couple of pink flags with this guy, not wanting to call them red flags...things like negging, disrespectful comments, general rudeness disguised as 'humour'...those were DEALBREAKERS. Funnily enough days after I decided toi block him, I found this SubReddit and was like, where has this place been all my life?!?! The problem is hat we as women are socialise… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 09:44 PM |
| 5 | What is everyone’s opinions here about SO liking other girls photos?Personally this is one of the many reasons why I prefer men that don't use social media or hardly use it. Its just obnoxious. I dated a guy that would like almost every single one of a certain girls photos, and juts like mine sparingly, OCASSIONALLY. It made me feel like shit. I also have married friends from school and Unievrsity liking certain photos of me and I always think, if I was this eprson's wife I would hate my husband doing that, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 09:35 PM |
| 26 | Rihanna says she'll have kids with OR without a partner!!!!The only thing I disagree with is 42 is NOT ancient and not too old to start having kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 01:43 AM |
| 82 | Finally! Not saying he’s hvm but nice to see a like minded male. They lie though. Time will tell.This is literally one conversation in an App. You haven’t met yet. I dont want to seem like a Debbie downer- I hope things work out but I wouldnt judge a guy until youve at least had several dates and at least had time to get him. Men can say these things but then act totally different in person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 01:38 AM |
| 30 | If he doesn’t want to take you out on a date, he probably thinks you’re not worth it/“ugly”...men on online dating are generally lazy anyway. If they matched with you, clearly they find you somewhat attractive. If they then don’t want to take you on a date it’s frequently because they’re lazy, only wanted validation and simply cannot be bothered. I’m just saying get away from framing it as not being attractive enough being the main issue. Trust me, it’s not. If you’re a healthy weight and make somewhat of an effort with your looks, trust me it’s not that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 01:33 AM |
| 134 | If he doesn’t want to take you out on a date, he probably thinks you’re not worth it/“ugly”It’s not all about looks. Men are freaking weirdos and can be very random and odd about who they choose to commit to, who they chose to marry and so on. If it was all about looks, then all the beautiful women would be in relationships and all the plain and average women would be single. Plenty of men will get access to beautiful women, women who are more attractive than them etc. and still treat them like dirt because of their own hang ups and issues. Having not so great luck with men doesn’t me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 01:27 AM |
| 7 | What’s some red flags when dealing with soft spoken, more feminine menThe same ones with men that aren’t like that. Douchebags come in all shapes, sizes and with all different kinds of personalities. Just because a guy seems shy or quiet, I’ve learned, doesn’t mean he’s not capabale of being toxic, abusive, narcissistic etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 07:04 PM |
| 10 | Went on a great date right before the lockdown...He lost interest sadly. Sorry to hear that. I’m at a stage with dating and relationships where I can now literally tell if I’m ever going to hear from a guy again on the date. Usually I know I won’t around a quarter to mid way through the date. Sad times but it is what it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 01:40 PM |
| 10 | Do men really like smart and intelligent women?High quality men do. Most intelligent, highly successful men are not married to bimbos and go for intelligent and age appropriate women. Barack Obama, Bill Gates to name a couple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 01:04 PM |
| 4 | Why man would lie with his profile picture?With all due respect...girl, why are you still talking to this person? It’s creepy, it means he’s probably not very attractive and most likely lacks basic social skills. Thats not the behavior of a normal guy, let alone even a high quality man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 01:02 PM |
| 30 | Instant Left SwipeFor me, firstly it’s photos that indicate that’s I’m not their type i.e a lot of photos with and groups of people who don’t look like me. Black women will know what I‘m taking about. Also one of two extremes: either seems very flashy with a high paying job and seems very conceited with a lot of photos with him with expensive items or with shades on etc. seeming quite into himself...OR seems broke, every photo is in a bathroom or something, he’s wearing sports clothes in every photo, has a lot of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 12:46 PM |
| 3 | Why do I only attract not well-to-do guys?Ultimately there’s more educated women than men out there, but it’s about who you’re choosing to engage with. Firstly I don’t converse with men if their photos give me indication that they’re not up to much in their lives and it doesn’t look like a lifestyle match. Secondly, I always ask where they studied and what they studied early in the conversation. That tends to prevent the issue of matching with men that aren’t very ambitious etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 10:02 AM |
| 7 | “Conversation” means we both get to talkThis has happened to me several times over the past few years and when it does I make a mental note never to see the guy again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 09:45 AM |
| 9 | Am I overreacting to this message?OK thanks I’m not going mad. It feels overly picky but it’s actually not. You can tell a lot through the tone of a text message. Lack of interest, casualness, lack of effort can come across in texting. His texting style was fine before this message this just threw me off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 10:44 PM |
| 22 | Am I overreacting to this message?Right. Thanks both of you. I didn’t like the message either it just smacked of rudeness and you’re right, this is the earliest stage of dating, he should be trying to be somewhat polite at least. Glad I’m not alone in feeling turned off. I’ve now unmatched. The date would have sucked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 06:02 PM |
| 4 | Am I overreacting to this message?Right, I guess I just expect better from someone capable of holding down a job in a corporate setting because my assumption is at least he’s smart and maybe has some level of sophistication to him? I’m constantly being proven wrong with this stuff though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 05:58 PM |
| 30 | Signs the LVM you are talking to will never ask you outI used to think a man opening up like that was a good sign that he liked me. I’ve now realised a lot of men don’t get much support and empathy from the people in their lives and will use women to get that. It’s pathetic. I’ve started cutting conversations like that short. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 12:17 AM |
| 48 | I’ve stopped responding to men who make ‘fake’ date plansWhat a douche. Men like this just like the feeling of having all these options when often they really have very few, and end up blowing off the few women who actually do give them the time of day becaus of their FALSE perception of having an abundance of options. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 12:15 AM |
| 6 | IntuitionI knew a guy I was dating wasn’t as into me, I just knew it but I lied to myself and made excuses for him over and over. Turns out he lied about when he was going back home and leaving the country so that he wouldn’t actually have to break up with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 11:44 PM |
| 45 | What is the most embarrassing thing you put up with as a former pickme?Non relationships. I was just SO happy to have a guy to boast about it didn’t even matter that he wouldn’t refer to me as his girlfriend, took me on low effort ‘dates’ and seemed mainly interested in sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 11:31 PM |
| 5 | cAn YoU dAncE?!Love Actually was the film LMAO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 10:30 AM |
| 3 | Anybody else here struggle with anxiety and find actively NOT stressing over dating means you need something else to be anxious over?If I’m ‘stressing‘ over a guy it’s most likely because he’s not giving me what I want and I’m aware subconsciously that it’s not going to go anywhere with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 12:11 AM |
| 5 | Dr. Laura Schlesinger — thoughts?I think she’s a racist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 12:09 AM |
| 29 | Don't reveal your hand to men, until you have THOROUGHLY vetted them.I made it sound like I go into dates and treat them like a therapy session. I don’t but I’m just honest about things and candid, in the way I would be with a new friend. The problem is being that candid with men doesn’t really work in ones favour. Like if a guy asks how I’ve been finding the dating scene I’ll usually be really honest and give a hilarious and honest answer, but in reality it’s probably best to give a vague answer...or if he asks about work, and I’m not feeling it, I’ll tell him t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 11:58 PM |
| 35 | Don't reveal your hand to men, until you have THOROUGHLY vetted them.This is good advice that I am SO SO bad at taking. I always seem to end up spilling my guts on dates about past bad dates, personal failings, things in my life I'm not happy about etc.- whether I even intended to or not. It just happens. Its annoying because I've gotten good at not allowing boundaries to be crossed with certain things i.e. sex and physical contact...but with that side of things, I suck. I guess there's a part of me that just wants to lay everything out on the table. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 11:11 PM |
| -1 | Can we talk about drinks dates?I’ve read that handbook, but it’s not a Bible ultimately. It’s suggestions. Most of which I totally agree with and think are great, bar this one because I personally prefer the casualness of a relaxed drinks first date over a formal dinner if we’ve only ever briefly chatted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 08:00 PM |
| 6 | Best Date idea You can come up with is Drinks!!!! GTFO! RantOMG sorry I didn’t even see this post. I just made a post stating I didn’t think drinks was THAT bad of a date suggestion LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Can we talk about drinks dates?I guess the casualness coffee dates is what I don’t like. Also coffee is cheaper than actual drinks. I guess I also don’t mind drinks because it can lead to dinner as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 07:54 PM |
| -1 | Can we talk about drinks dates?I get what you’re saying but you don’t have to drink alcohol though, necessarily. I’m just saying, I would PREFER dinner but drinks for a guy that I’m also just trying to evaluate isn’t horrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 07:53 PM |
| 17 | 3 Ex-Boyfriends Describe Their Relationship With the Same Woman - Jelenny | GlamourGood point- I do want a black family, black kids etc. but dating black men sometimes feels like going to the fucking Low Value Male festival LMAO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 01:25 AM |
| 33 | 3 Ex-Boyfriends Describe Their Relationship With the Same Woman - Jelenny | GlamourGood point. I feel bad bringing it up because I know this SubReddit invites and welcoems all races but as a black woman I find these videos irksome- but you're right. A lot of the men in them aren't HVM so I shouldn't even be complaining. Its just lowkey disturbing to me how most of the videos are Latina or mixed women and ALL their exes or most of them, are black men...or its a black guy with all nonblack exes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 12:55 AM |
| 150 | Am I wrong?LOL. Nothing is ever a man's fault in a lot of men's minds, including a woman ending up being mistreated by one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 12:51 AM |
| 77 | 3 Ex-Boyfriends Describe Their Relationship With the Same Woman - Jelenny | GlamourThe exes on this always seem to be very low value black men which there seem to be a surplus of [sorry I'm a black woman and I date black men, just keeping it real, it feels like swimming in freaking swamp water dating Millenial black men at times] with mixed, Latina or white ex girlfriends. They almost always come off as AWFUL boyfriends, extremely superficial and obsessed with looks, image and sex. I hate these SO much. I have watched a few and the men on them seemed SO awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 12:39 AM |
| 3 | In your experience, do men remember the things you say or do?The men that like me do. Men that like you will have a naturalinterest in finding out more about you. They remember everything you say, sometimes betetr than you remember yourself. Its instinctive when a man truly likes you. One of the many reasons I always know its going nowhere fast if a guy doesn't have an active interest in what I'm doing and does not remember important details about thungs I have said early on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 12:31 AM |
| 75 | 3 Ex-Boyfriends Describe Their Relationship With the Same Woman - Jelenny | Glamour**Flo Rida voice: LOW LOW LOW LOW LOW LOW LOW LOW LOW | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 12:20 AM |
| 81 | /r/femaledatingstrategy is BY FAR the fastest growing subreddit of the past year. Thanks for bringing it to our attention r/shortcels!I'm proud of this and us. You guys ROCK, Jammies and the other girls on here, I love you and you're great. It might seem like such a small thing, but this is major. I am so proud of the women on here who have built this SubReddit and made it what it is. I consider myself an intelligent woman but this SubReddit's brutal hoenstly has really made me rethink the way I look at myself and dating. Its important to have resources like this. Even the best intentioned friends will tell their girflriends t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 12:17 AM |
| 45 | If a man tells you he doesn't want anything serious, please DO NOT waste your time!Great advice. I recently went on a date, as I'm sure MANY of you now know LOOOL, which led me here and the guy said 'It takes me a long time to decide if I like someone' [amongst MANY other red flags]. The old me would have let that alide and though OH WELL...I guess I'll just have to convince him! NOPE. Two days later after finding this Sub and reflecting on the car crash date as a whole, I blocked him. RIGHT THERE, in my face he was telling me that he wasmost likely not going to commit with me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 12:13 AM |
| 167 | FDS is now considered a controversial subreddit via WikipediaWomen standing up for themselves, claiming agency in a difficult dating climate and resisting the tactics of men that do not have out best interests. Yes, the HEIGHT of controversy. LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 12:09 AM |
| 13 | Thank goodness for this satire sub exposing the misandREEEE of FDS!!LOL. This is funny because you can’t compare a woman’s dating standards to a mans. Men are very black and white about knowing if they like a girl. If they’re telling you they take a long time to know if they lie someone and admit to lowkey wasting the previous woman’s time, you know what’s in store for you as well. That guy I went on a date with was a pure time waster who spent the whole date negging me and that lien about taking a long time to like someone was just the tip of the iceberg. Women… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 04:12 PM |
| 4 | What is it with who talk about themselves all the time?Good point, I guess it’s just that I expect narcissism from attractive men, that’s all. Silly though because as I‘m learning shitty men come in all different kinds of packages. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 11:08 PM |
| 3 | What is it with who talk about themselves all the time?I spoke on the phone before one of the dates I’m referring to where the guy was self centred. The other one I met in person. I would not have gone on either date if I had realised they were so self centred. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 09:50 PM |
| 50 | Crusty Paul McKenna "It was time to stop dating hot women", marries loyal PA of 25 years, someone please inform her she's too good for him!Firstly, I actually thought he was gay. Also how offensive, basically implied that he settled for her over the ‘hot’ women he had been dating previously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:32 PM |
| 10 | What is it with who talk about themselves all the time?I appreciate the input but I think you’re missing the point a bit. Yes the guy should be trying to impress me and I should be assessing him, but he should also be trying to get to know the woman he’s opposite. That’s how normal, harmonious communication should be. In fact what’s really impressive is when a guy is genuinely interested and curious about me, as well as being an interesting person in his own right. What’s even MORE impressive is when he remembers small details we discussed and raise… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:30 PM |
| 12 | What is it with who talk about themselves all the time?OK RIGHT HERE is exactly what I'm talking about LOL. Thank you. Its not JUST the fact that they're talking so much about themselves, its when they have a chance to ask me about MYSELF its...OH ERRR...Yeah so what about you?! Nothing specific, nothing that shows any indication of actually caring about the answer etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:39 PM |
| 14 | What is it with who talk about themselves all the time?I totally agree with that feeling of being talked down to. It’s almost like the guy is asserting how much more important he is than you with his actions by monopolising the conversation. It’s a huge turnoff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 01:05 PM |
| 15 | What is it with who talk about themselves all the time?....but you often never even really know what a guy is like until you go on a date, that’s the issue. In phone calls one of the guys want like that, at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 12:29 PM |
| 28 | What is it with who talk about themselves all the time?NAH. That’s a basic social skill. Me being ‘too good’ at listening isn’t making them want to only talk about themselves, it’s a lack of genuine interest and narcissism. On is date I started showing VISIBLE signs of annoyance at his self centredness and he still did not take the hint. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 12:27 PM |
| 32 | What is it with who talk about themselves all the time?Yeah, WOW that’s super annoying. I don’t get it myself either! I naturally ask people about themselves even when I need to rant or something because it’s rude not to and also I’m genuinely interested. I’m just amazed that men will have a girl in front of them, supposedly one that’s somewhat attractive to them... and ONLY want to talk about themselves and have so little interest in her or her life. It’s sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 09:13 AM |
| 17 | Ladies, don't be afraid to leave in the middle of a date. If he is making you uncomfortable, or if you are not enjoying yourself, you don't owe him anything.OMG the last two guys I went on a date talked AT me not with me, and I should probably have walked out. It’s was really annoying. There seems to be an epidemic of men who only want to talk about themSeles these days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 10:01 PM |
| 12 | Another charming man I encountered on TinderLOOOOOL! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 11:23 PM |
| 3 | How do you feel about sending additional photos?I block men that do this. Its insulting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 10:11 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating and relationshipsNo- its about how secure the woman is within herself. Pick mes are just insecure women with low self esteem and internalised patriachal views, ultimately. Insecure beautiful women are one of the major reasons many men have weird attitudes and think they can score any woman. They see attractive women settling for low value men out of fear and lonelineness and want it to be them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 10:09 PM |
| 12 | Thoughts on Matthew Hussey?I think he means well, but I've noticed him encouraging women to do things like basically trying to negotiate and bargain with men that have shown themselves to be low value and a waste of time, which annoys me. Like I said I think he means well but he's ultimately a man and therefore cuts men way too much slack. His advice tends to err on the side of 'men are complex and sensitive beings and you need to do XYZ for them'. Which is not helpful...but then a lot of advice for women devloves into wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 10:03 PM |
| 8 | In other news... online dating continues to be trashUGHHHH. So I assume he expected you to start a conversation with yourself? LMAO. I can’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:30 PM |
| 23 | What are some HVM traits or behaviors you like?Listening and remembering things you like is so major for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:14 PM |
| 6 | Do HVM even use online dating, speed dating etc.?Right exactly. I’m in the same boat. I know as you say, I’ll just have to keep at it. It just feels like there’s nowhere to turn with this stuff and you start online dating as a last resort and then come to find it’s like the land of low value LOOOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:12 PM |
| 5 | In other news... online dating continues to be trashThat’s so sad LOL. I thought the liking was a matching process like you have to like each other’s photos to be matched? UGH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:43 PM |
| 25 | Just when I thought that I've seen it all!The fact that this loser actually expects the women in that hypothetical class to actually be impressed by that nonsense is hilarious LOL. Memes or comments like this are how certain men became convinced that things like negging actually work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:21 PM |
| 57 | This guy has been hinting for weeks that he hopes we can get together soon but never offers any ideas. It finally made me snap.Girl. This is one of my biggest pet peeves. When a guy wastes my time with pointless conversation only to end it with the suggestion of a date and no actual plan, that’s when I take my cue to stop messaging him entirely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:18 PM |
| 32 | Have a date from OLD this Saturday. Taking bets now!Girl... You know you don’t want to go on this date. Just don’t go. LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:16 PM |
| 7 | In other news... online dating continues to be trashAH! That’s god point. Some would argue that avoiding LVM entirely would mean most likely deleting online dating completely LOL. Where are you might I ask? I assumed Hinge was everywhere. Hinge LOOKS less sleazy but ultimately it’s not different from Tindeer minus that and also the fact that the app limits the number of likes you can have per day unles should wanna pay £20 a month! LMAO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:13 PM |
| 22 | I just realised that best looking guy I was ever with never negged me...He wasn’t a HVM but I appreciated that he never undermined me. It just dawned on me that the men I was least attracted to were the most keen to make me feel less attractive or less than, if that makes sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 11:58 PM |
| 32 | I just realised that best looking guy I was ever with never negged me...No regrets. LOL. The overall point is to further that argument that you shouldn’t settle for men you’re not as attracted to because here often insecure AF and use tactics to try and keep you ‘down’ because they know you can do better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 11:55 PM |
| 7 | It's over.**HUGS You should feel proud for being brave enough to break up with him. That’s not easy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 11:31 PM |
| 5 | Men in relationships who ‘can’t’ organise datesLOL. Thank you! Sounds amazing! xx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 07:01 PM |
| 10 | Men in relationships who ‘can’t’ organise datesThe crazy thing was he got a high grade in his fairly difficult Computer Science degree and was doing a Masters. But supposedly could not being himself to organise a date properly. HMM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 06:51 PM |
| 4 | What FDS strategy have you found to be most useful for you personally?Definately block, delete and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:24 AM |
| 35 | But I was the better girl?Sorry to say it but wondering what he saw in those girls and why you didn’t ‘measure up’ because you feel that you’re better is a ‘pick me‘ mentality. You shouldn’t care. He was a shitty boyfriend who disrespected you and you should be glad to be rid of him. It doesn‘t matter whether you’re ‘better’ than another woman in looks personality or both. Men like what they like and often have a certain type but may chose a girlfriend that falls outside their type because thy think she’s more respectabl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:19 AM |
| 22 | Jhene Aiko might be one of the worst pick me female celebrities of all timeThat has always really concerned me. I actually like her music a lot but it’s always seemed like her role as a mother was an afterthought behind being Big Sean’s girlfriend in recent years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 10:46 PM |
| 40 | Jhene Aiko might be one of the worst pick me female celebrities of all timeLOOOOL. The shade of it all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 09:45 PM |
| 8 | IMO insecurity is the biggest thing you should avoid in a man. What are some signs of insecurity that youve noticed???Negging. Bringing up things he thinks YOU are insecure about constantly, like your height or weight or soemthing. Bringing up other women to try and make you jealous. My ex used to do this a lot. I actualy ended up cheating on him LOL. I didn't intend to, but now looking back all his behavior was due to the fear, and knowlege, that I could do better than him. ALSO be wary of men that boast a lot about their jobs a lot, thats also a sign. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 09:41 PM |
| 60 | Watch as men get exposed for failing to know basic information about their significant otherAnother thing I noticed is how much more attractive the women are than their mate in each couple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 09:20 PM |
| 8 | Celebrity Pickmeishas and HVW. Who are good examples of each, to you?LMAO!!! Radioactive. LOL. I love this SubReddit, thats hilarious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 01:49 AM |
| 5 | A recent date with a LVMThanks. It just hit me at once all the instances where he was rude and nasty. I just put it down to his personality, again really it just shows how socialised women are to make excuses for shitty men. It wasn’t until he started making jibes about being late and how smart he was ‘redeeming’ the date that his bullshit just hit me all at once. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 09:13 PM |
| 5 | A recent date with a LVMGood for you! I love solo travel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:58 PM |
| 8 | A recent date with a LVMI’m actually most ashamed that I was still going to see him again until yesterday when despite me agreeing to meet him this weekend, I could see he wasn’t making any plans and was instead making annoying jokes about wing late. I feel SO annoyed at myself for overlooking all the awful crap he did because I was so desperate just to be dating SOMEONE after a long spell of being single. This SubReddit has really opened my eyes about self value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:58 PM |
| 46 | A recent date with a LVMIt’s a scare tactic to try to lower the girls self esteem or value so shes more susceptible to having her time wasted by the guy, it’s basically negging. These men know that most women look better respective to them, even as we age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Why are women so heavily sexualized, but not men?I agree. That’s partly why I loved Rafael Nadal when he first started. I liked seeing a man with a masculine body in tight clothing, that women found sexy playing a sport like tennis, it’s was refreshing. The media heavily sexualized him and really went on and on about his body and I’d never seen that before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 11:17 AM |
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