How do you feel about sending additional photos?

Soulsalts · 2020-02-18T01:36:09+00:00

Two dudes have done this to me, and I asked both of them why. Both responded that I should do it in order to prove that I'm not a catfish. One even wanted me to hold up a piece of paper with my username on it, to prove...something or other.

Nothing about me says catfish or bot. I'm not cam girl pretty, my profile is long, articulate, and unique, and no catfish would claim to be my age.

All they wanted was to make me jump through hoops for their amusement. Or should I say, for their arousement. It's a power trip, pure and simple.

Needless to say, I blocked and deleted.

Evil_Rao · 2020-02-18T00:18:40+00:00

Don't engage them, it's a waste of time.

opalkhaleesi · 2020-02-18T00:20:02+00:00

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improbablystudying · 2020-02-18T01:09:57+00:00

That’s a slippery slope lol it starts with selfies then they’re asking for nudes. I usually don’t entertain that question. I’ve recently deleted my instagram and all of my dating app profiles because I was getting a lot of negative attention that I didn’t appreciate. But I agree with you, when i did have my instagram, i would just tell them to look there, i had over 100 pics so you can definitely see all my angles and pics with friends, everything. what more do you want? 🙄

purasangria · 2020-02-18T02:08:54+00:00

I never send more. I simply say that there are plenty of photos on my profile, and they accurately represent me.

I'm not going to sing and dance for a man. If he really wants to see more of me, then he can ask me out to dinner. Otherwise, I don't care.

opalkhaleesi · 2020-02-18T00:20:22+00:00

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venomous_g · 2020-02-18T00:42:01+00:00

No. He knows what you look like, if he wants to see more of you he'll plan a date. All he really wants is free customized spank materials (even if he isn't asking for nudes...yet).

purasangria · 2020-02-18T00:43:27+00:00

They just want the power of knowing you took that picture just for them

penelopekitty · 2020-02-18T00:37:43+00:00

Why would you have any doubt about whether or not this is reasonable? I've been asked this two times. My answer is a flat out no followed by a block and delete.

logician01 · 2020-02-18T03:51:31+00:00

There photos are already shit and they have half as many as mine...fuck off. It’s like that with everything.. they are entitled pigs only half as good as is but they always want more more more while providing nothing! Enough is enough!! (Said in a Bernie Sanders tone!!!)

Also they are probably limp dick porn fried brains

See our sister sub r/PornFreeRelationships 😉

DoodleJack · 2020-02-18T01:52:14+00:00

Once had a guy lie about being a dermatologist to get photos. My dumb ass almost fell for it because I'm so crazy about skincare and was excited to have someone to talk products with :/

When I called him out he tried to win me back with cheese.

Ms_Tilly · 2020-02-18T02:35:40+00:00

This has become an instant RED FLAG for me. It's such a LOW VALUE request that I won't even respond.

IloveKoreanfoodyaaas · 2020-02-20T22:11:43+00:00

I block men that do this. Its insulting.

HolyIsTheLord · 2020-02-18T02:02:59+00:00

I have a routine I do:

I already like to have a pretty healthy variety at different angles as well as full body pics on my OLD profiles. When they start to get pushy:

Tell them I charge $250 for each additional photo, $500 to smile, and $1,000 for a full body.

If they don't take the hint:

Tell them I'm sure there are several cam girls on the app who would love to offer them their professional services.

Then unmatch.

I'm happy to send more photos once meeting in person is imminent (nobody wants to be catfished, including myself!), but I'm not going to be their personal cam girl.

purasangria · 2020-02-18T01:41:21+00:00

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YveisGrey · 2020-02-18T02:10:08+00:00

I’ve has a few ask me I didn’t take offense but maybe I should have?? Lol I figured they wanted to make sure I wasn’t cat fishing them.

RiteWriter · 2020-02-18T05:45:27+00:00

ALSO one dude did to it to have a preferred pic of me to taunt his ex—I swear—glad I dodged that drama

Title	How do you feel about sending additional photos?
Author	opalkhaleesi
Upvotes	33
Comments	37
Date	February 18, 2020 12:17 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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