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ConversationInfamous-Employ-2697/r/seduction13/10/25 09:41 AM
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Escalation & CalibrationInfamous-Employ-2697/r/seduction02/10/25 02:42 PM
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Escalation & CalibrationInfamous-Employ-2697/r/seduction13/09/25 08:20 PM
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Fundamentals Infamous-Employ-2697/r/seduction12/10/25 12:32 AM
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Inner Game Infamous-Employ-2697/r/seduction07/09/25 12:37 AM
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Escalation & CalibrationInfamous-Employ-2697/r/seduction23/10/25 09:51 PM
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Fundamentals Infamous-Employ-2697/r/seduction11/09/25 05:57 PM
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Good advice
/r/seduction13/10/25 11:39 AM
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Same situation happened with a friend twice. It was a bit more complicated since we were in a friendgroup and it was all about talking. The guy knows I didn't have sex in three years and he is a fuckboy so more magnetic. The second time he did that I straight up confronted him and said he embarrassed me. Fucking angry. I even said the friendship would be over if he did it again. He apologized sincerely and said he didn't want our friendship to be over for it.
/r/seduction12/10/25 08:50 AM
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How do you approach by not being pushy then? I thought about maybe JUST having a bit small talk, asking a number and walk away. I give compliments at first. Any tips on how you do it?
/r/seduction12/10/25 08:37 AM
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Maybe I'll take a step back and work on myself a bit. Make friends along the way. Try not to think about girls too much. I think I need therapy for that though but it will get better I guess.
/r/seduction12/10/25 08:35 AM
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Thnx man it's only a littlebit difficult since I've been rejected so much. They tell me all the time to be confident yet "women have a radar for desperate men". It makes you feel screwed for life 😅.
/r/seduction12/10/25 08:32 AM
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What'd you recommend then?
/r/seduction06/10/25 10:56 PM
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"That's what you get for being good", wtf thanks these vids are awesome haha
/r/seduction02/10/25 10:27 PM
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Oh you fixed the women in the lessons? 😂
/r/seduction02/10/25 07:57 PM
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You went to do dance classes?
/r/seduction02/10/25 06:25 PM
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More intimate area's like what? My intuition says it's not to big of a leap iykwim 😂
/r/seduction02/10/25 03:44 PM
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Thanks man, will open when I feel like it :)
/r/seduction13/09/25 07:49 PM
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Profile is very important. I hate taking pictures, my insta looks like nothing. You can find tips online. If you update your profile try to game like a player and you'll get some successrate. But girls look at your followers, if your stories are interesting and if you have an interesting life, then your dm. If you're a couch patato, it will be a long time before succes. But I don't do it for now cause I'm trying to level up my fitness, social circle and carreer. Eventually will try tinder maybe …
/r/seduction12/09/25 11:39 AM
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Not only a question if the girl likes you. If she has menstruation at the time you try for example, screwed. Just try playing smooth game and attract eventually
/r/seduction12/09/25 11:33 AM
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Bro I wish I started trying when I was in high school. Be ballsy, your classmates will rather be jealous than laughing at you. Think about your inner confidence and don't care too much what other people think. Try to make it easy for yourself with starting light conversation with new people. If they really reject you or give you weird eyes, demand respect by walking away unaffected. You'll probably not come across like some kind of Guru in the beginning, but that's okay. If progress starts from …
/r/seduction11/09/25 09:18 PM
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You have one advantage over 40 year old dudes. I've seen older women flirting with me and I'm 24 year old. A mom, today. And some others. Not into milfs tho so I didn't go for it. The advantage you have is absolutely that a lot of the guys who are 40 are boring as fuck. Got this from a convo from one that was dating through tinder. I started joking a lot at the cash register (I work in a supermarket) and she started approaching me more and more and joking back. Another was eating me with her eye…
/r/seduction11/09/25 07:48 PM
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Nice advice. I'll try experimenting and I'll let you know. If a girl doesn't make eye contact and I don't know shit of her, maybe I could better try cause there ain't no way it gets heavy consequences. Btw, when do you start making sexual inuendo? Directly in daygame seems creepy haha
/r/seduction11/09/25 06:52 PM
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Oh okay yeah then it's different. But long-term goals tend to fail more often. Break them down in shorter time goals, otherwise it is too vague. 200 in 6 months is... calculator... 33,33 in a month. That is about one a day. Better do it this way. Got this advice from motivational stuff and not from pick up stuff but it's valid 😂
/r/seduction11/09/25 06:48 PM
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Your goal is definitely too high. Start by a daily 2 or 3. You'll be rushing it. Small steps are the way for improvement. You don't bench 120kg the first day, you start by 60 or smth
/r/seduction11/09/25 06:25 PM
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Get therapy.
/r/seduction11/09/25 06:15 PM
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They don't pay for drinks kinda attitude, I get yah 😂
/r/seduction11/09/25 06:11 PM
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In fucking deed 😂
/r/seduction11/09/25 06:10 PM
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True, I got the same feeling. There is ugly women I know, but for real insane. There'd be getting guys talking to them, getting tinderdates and they have 100x my sexlife. Really depressing when you see them as a 0-5/10 😂
/r/seduction11/09/25 06:08 PM
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Everyone is slow in the beginning. Most of the time I knew what to say only after the situation arrived. It's like 'AH CRAP WHY DIDN'T I THINK OF THAT' I only became slightly smoother because I was able to talk to a lot of women. Take your chances even with less smooth game if you get hints. It's a skill which takes time to adapt.
/r/seduction11/09/25 04:49 PM
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Nothing will be cringe bro, don't make it cringe. If she won't give you a chance, just say aight idc. I saw girls again after I got rejected and it is really just in the way you act when they reject you. Be playfull when you see her again even when rejected and don't ask for shit. Don't expect anything to happen then. Be your own fun and they'll come around. Who cares if a secretary you see 1 or 2 times a year rejects you. When you are rejected find a few funny ways to cope with it and respond t…
/r/seduction11/09/25 04:42 PM
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Oooof even better than mine. It is a skill to respond that smooth, he needs time to adapt. But that is an awesome response.
/r/seduction11/09/25 04:26 PM
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Count the ioi's. She was definitely flirting back. Then take the chance and ask her number. Litterally just ask and don't hesitate. When a girl is interested and chances are high you won't see her again. Just ask ''can I have your number?' Or playfully like "you know you can get my number but I bet you'll spell it wrong too.' That chance you missed a littlebit cause you waited. You can still try what you said, but if it is gonna work I don't know. Oh yeah and don't you care about how you look, n…
/r/seduction11/09/25 03:19 PM
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I'm doing a pretty good job already I think. I get happy with small things and do a lot of fun things in life. And I am gratefull for my friends. Only thing is that my mind sometimes gets triggered when I have yet another rejection coming in. But, I think it starts to get better and better. Today I faced another rejection and I didn't really care like I did with the previous ones. I took a step back from the flirting stuff and it helped.
/r/seduction08/09/25 08:02 PM
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Okay it is a pretty extreme case, but I hear you. I'm not entirely in the same situation but I've gotten reaaally frustrated with the game. Hear me out because I know where your depression comes from. I haven't slept in 3 years with a girl and my last relationship is 4 years ago but I have started playing only about a year ago. At a certain point I became better at talking, maximized my looks and social skills. I became depressed with getting rejected. Read books, watched youtube channels... not…
/r/seduction08/09/25 07:48 PM
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Yes I have thought these things before. I really need to work on my social game a lot apparently since competition is always crazy high. Today I talked to a girl I knew pure platonically and she was talking about that she went dating with someone from Bumble. She said she had a dating fase, "you know because...". I said "Because what?" And she said "Why not, you know?" Yeah like I knew 😂. The girl was not so attractive and gets the one date after the other. I began to see that with litterally ev…
/r/seduction07/09/25 10:49 PM
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Well believe me or not this post is very enlightening to me. Last couple of months I tried approaching 20+ women in different context. I thought at a certain point I was unlucky or unattractive, but it seems a really low rewarding game in the beginning. After approaching that many I got close to getting 1 date, but eventually ruined it by getting too emotional, because rejection kinda ruined the way I saw women. I regret the resentment I had at a certain point. But what I wanna say is that I too…
/r/seduction07/09/25 08:29 AM
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Nr 2 ain't true. Not every woman will cheat on her boyfriend, but few do. Especially in early interaction when you have nothing in common a woman will more often make you avoid escalating if she has a boyfriend. That is part of the reason why you are getting rejected, or getting a very low response. Second, we are not some liquid that can fit in everyone's mold. One girl will be really attracted to a tattooed guy, while the other will fall for a blonde guy. Some girls like beards and others don'…
/r/seduction07/09/25 07:58 AM
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Will try, thanks
/r/seduction07/09/25 06:44 AM
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I think you got a point here. However I think these repressed emotions come from past experiences and not from the break up. I'll try to figure them out.
/r/seduction07/09/25 06:43 AM
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Will try these, thanks :)
/r/seduction07/09/25 06:41 AM
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It's just an intrusive thought I suffer when talking to girls or getting rejected. Logically I see people liking me, logically I can say I'm not a loser either. But my self-esteem is pretty low, and I try to find a way of breaking through. I can distract myself from thinking it, but it's really a mental blokade when I see someone attractive.
/r/seduction07/09/25 06:40 AM
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Thanks for the tip! Got a lot of friends and love to be around them. However it seems to be a form of anxiety I have. I spent time with a lot of people but when I think about making a move these intrusive thoughts become automatic...
/r/seduction07/09/25 06:34 AM
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