How to start a conversation with random girls.

give-me-the-Stonks · 2025-10-13T11:33:55+00:00

Ask what brand their microwave is

Prestigious_Water336 · 2025-10-13T09:50:45+00:00

Always comment about the situation, place or something happening first then introduce yourself.

Make some small talk and then ask for her number or take her on a insta date

Alarmed_Box1198 · 2025-10-13T13:30:55+00:00

It's not surprising that's not successful. Attractive women know they're attractive. When you open with a compliment you get immediately written off as just like every other guy.

ImpossibleBritches · 2025-10-13T09:56:06+00:00

People knock Mystery Method like its for dating in the 1760's or something. But the framework holds up.

In the club: open the whole group. Match their energy level and use a false time constraint. Build social proof.

Neither-Taro-9540 · 2025-10-13T11:48:55+00:00

Man, the 'desperate' vibe isn't in your words, it's in your attachment to the outcome. When you need the interaction to go well, she feels that pressure instantly. That's the real thing to work on.

Neither-Taro-9540 · 2025-10-13T11:42:06+00:00

The fatal mistake is making the opening about her (e.g., a compliment). It instantly puts all the pressure on her to react.

Instead, make the opening about something you're both experiencing. The terrible music, the long line, a weird painting on the wall. You immediately go from "random guy hitting on me" to "normal guy sharing a moment." It's a total game-changer.

Neither-Taro-9540 · 2025-10-13T12:04:01+00:00

The problem isn't the compliment, it's the intent behind it. A compliment opener is basically asking, 'Hi, please validate my advance.'

Instead of trying to get a good reaction, your only goal should be to see if you even think she's cool. That mental flip changes everything.

spacemangoes · 2025-10-14T05:31:11+00:00

You know how some homeless people just start taking to you out of no where. Shadow them. Taken internship and be a homeless and learn their skills. Soon you’ll be pulling left and right.

Title	How to start a conversation with random girls.
Author	Infamous-Employ-2697
Upvotes	38
Comments	24
Date	October 13, 2025 9:41 AM UTC (9 months ago)
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