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| 0 | Any good cold openers for sharing?Honestly, it doesn’t matter. If a woman is into you, she’s just happy that you’re talking to her. Find what is comfortable for you to say and something you can say 100 of times easily. I mostly go out to bars and clubs so I say “excuse me, whats your name” | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Performance anxietyDo you watch pron and masturbate | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Do women find it attractive when men wear thongs or men’s lace panties?Looooll | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 09:03 AM |
| 1 | You don't need more techniques or information... You've to grow a SPINE. No way around it.Great post. We all need to hear this. We need to grow some balls and do it | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Is reading women written fanfics a good way to learn seduction?Lol you are triggered because you know it. | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 09:29 PM |
| -1 | Is reading women written fanfics a good way to learn seduction?You do know what I am saying. You are a loser who puts women above him. | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 09:23 PM |
| -6 | How do you handle ambiguous answers to a date invite?Speak for yourself and your lackluster experience with women and dating. YOU are an average person who needs to pursue a couple of times because you don’t value yourself. You are a loser. Thats why you are triggered. Because you know it. Of course not every woman is going to be into you. That’s fine. But value yourself to only deal with the ones who are highly into you. You won’t do that, because you hate yourself and love random women. | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 09:20 PM |
| -2 | Is reading women written fanfics a good way to learn seduction?Why you putting women on a pedestal and worried about what turns them on?You’re the same type of guy that buys women flowers and dinner because she tells you she enjoys that. Meanwhile, you get a “lets be friends text” while shes sleeping with the dude who doesn’t do any of that. Because that dude cares about himself, not some random woman. | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 09:18 PM |
| 0 | Is reading women written fanfics a good way to learn seduction?Make* Stop focusing on grammar and focus on being a loser who reads fanfiction by women, thinking that’ll help him succeed with women. | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 08:55 PM |
| 2 | How do you handle ambiguous answers to a date invite?Exactly u/wilhelmtherealm | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 08:51 PM |
| -6 | How do you handle ambiguous answers to a date invite?Lol ask again a little differently? You know who does that? Losers who put women on a pedestal. She has shown that shes not a YES about you so why devalue yourself for a girl who just sees you as “whatever” Because you think lowly of yourself and believe she is better than you. Meanwhile there are guys she says YES to immediately and can’t stop thinking of their planned date. | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 08:50 PM |
| -1 | Is reading women written fanfics a good way to learn seduction?No, it will just makes you even more of a loser who caters to woman. | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 08:46 PM |
| 10 | I’m trying to become a man with options, but I’m struggling to understand how to navigate this?You look for the stares because theres a part of you that doesn’t believe you are attractive enough, worthy enough, etc so if you go up to her and she rejects you, that just confirms the negative thoughts you have about yourself. So you want the stares because you are looking for the women who seem like they want you in order to make you feel good about yourself, because you can’t afford to deal with a woman who confirms any negative beliefs about yourself. Aka you hate yourself and your self wo… | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 10:10 PM |
| 36 | I’m trying to become a man with options, but I’m struggling to understand how to navigate this?You said “I’m fit, tall, and I think I’m reasonably attractive. Some days lots off women look at me and even stare at me, and I feel confident and masculine. Other days, it feels like nobody notices me at all.” Thats your problem. Your self worth and confidence comes from the stares, validation of others. When it’s there you feel good. When it’s not you feel unworthy. What does this mean? 1.You are not a confident person and you actually hate yourself. You are very aware of the optics surroundin… | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 09:11 PM |
| 1 | How to control paranoia that a girl might post me on social media or compliant to police?Avoiding this is easy. Once a girl shows any signs of disinterest towards you, respect yourself and MOVE ON the first time. Don’t try to push through her disinterest or any of that tests bs. She is simply not into you. | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 01:22 AM |
| 3 | She wants back into your life - here is what you doDon’t give advice containing a loser mentality to losers. Thats how they stay losers. | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 07:42 PM |
| 6 | She wants back into your life - here is what you doThats not being helpful. Thats teaching them to continue being losers who value women above themselves. Nevermind the fact the woman doesn’t respect them. Akin to those family members on my 600 pound life who continue to buy their loved ones food. | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 07:07 PM |
| 30 | She wants back into your life - here is what you doIf she left on no fault of your own, how about respect yourself and move on. Only value people who value you the way you see yourself. If you accept her back into your life, she is going to see you as the loser you are with no options and no sense of self worth and will respect you even less than when she left the first time. | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Sexual allure is not hard to build up, and it's your fault if you don't have itGood post | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 10:41 PM |
| 5 | I Just Broken up with my girlfriend for not being honest. Please give a read.😂 | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 08:55 PM |
| 1 | If a girl texts you "sometimes later for sure" when trying to get her number, what does it mean?I never said attraction couldn’t grow over time. Go back and read my comment. Attraction could grow over time but that means the person SETTLED for you. Why don’t you love yourself enough to deal with women who are attracted to you right away when you know very well there are men she has interacted with for a few minutes and was instantly attracted to them? That’s how I know you’re a loser who values women above himself. Also shows me you havent seen the side of woman where they are instantly at… | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 08:28 PM |
| 1 | If a girl texts you "sometimes later for sure" when trying to get her number, what does it mean?Well, it is you who hates himself. Because you don’t value yourself enough to believe you can be a woman’s dream man. You are comparing yourself to another man and saying they are worthy of another woman’s desire but not you, as if each woman doesn’t find different things attractive about a man’s physical look. And as if you don’t have qualities, traits or unique characteristics that would add up to make you a womans dream man. You indeed hate yourself. And seems like you love Chris Hemsworth mo… | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 08:01 PM |
| 6 | If a girl texts you "sometimes later for sure" when trying to get her number, what does it mean?Please speak for yourself and your inadequate life please. It is doubtful FOR YOU that you will be a woman’s dream man right off the bat, because you don’t believe you are worthy. You hate yourself. Why would any woman be drawn to a dude who has low self esteem and considers his life over if he doesn’t look like Hemsworth? And notice how you are focusing on looks solely instead of behavior, attitude, mindset. Because a man who values himself and walks around with self assuredness is sure to capt… | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 02:01 PM |
| 0 | If a girl texts you "sometimes later for sure" when trying to get her number, what does it mean?Firstly, fix your grammar. Secondly, you said Overtime attraction builds?? So you want to be the guy who she had to build up attraction for, meanwhile theres other guys shes attracted to right away? What does that say about how you view yourself and how she views you? If women settle for you, you are in for a rude awakening as the relationship continues, because in the back of their heads they will always be upset/regretful they couldn’t get with a guy they were immediately attracted to. | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 10:12 AM |
| 20 | If a girl texts you "sometimes later for sure" when trying to get her number, what does it mean?You have to condition yourself to only respond to a HELL YES from a woman. Anything else, you just ignore her and move on, because she looks at you as someone who is just “whatever” and if you go along with it, you are conditioning your mind to believe that you are just an average dude who is beneath her. If you want the person across the mirror to smile, you have to smile. So if you love yourself and believe you are valuable, surround yourself with woman and people who see that value in you. | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 10:05 AM |
| 67 | If a girl texts you "sometimes later for sure" when trying to get her number, what does it mean?She has no interest in you. You think shes telling the guy she fantasizes about “sometimes later for sure” when he asks for her number?? No. She’s saying “of course, don’t forget to text me”. Whenever you are confused, just ask yourself, if this was her dream man would she be acting like this? Women make it easy for guys they are really interested in because they don’t want to risk the guy walking away from her. Just like if you really want a dream job, you are gonna say the right things to get … | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Approach Anxiety: How the brain worksGood post | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Unfriendly body language should I end as soon or reverse itIf a girl is enjoying her time with you on a date, you will know. You think shes acting the way she did with you with her dream man? End the date early and respect yourself. “Hey, im not feeling this. Thanks for coming, you have a good night” Why you tryna get a girl not into you to be into you, when you know that she will naturally be good natured toward a guy she actually likes? | /r/seduction | 26/03/26 11:17 PM |
| 1 | My face literally twitched every time it was time to close!Both | /r/seduction | 26/03/26 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain this?Yeah. A man focuses solely on what he wants. He doesn’t switch up for a woman, regardless of who she is and how good she looks. Thats’s the essence of a man. But too many losers praise women just because of their looks and thus abandon any sense of their self worth and identity for the hopes of acquiring a woman they know nothing about. | /r/seduction | 26/03/26 12:38 AM |
| 4 | My face literally twitched every time it was time to close!Good post | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Date with an exa girl being in your house don't mean anything. She knew he was safe and wasn't gonna demand sex from her, just like a gay best friend | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 01:55 PM |
| 7 | To the men over 25: I'm 20, full of chaos, and just lost the only girl who could quiet my min8dYou know the answer. Move on. | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Date with an exIm saying she has a boyfriend, YET hes going on dates with her. Why are you taking a girl out on dates who has a boyfriend? Thats the boyfriends job. He should be fucking her but instead she uses him as an emotional pillow telling him all her problems (when that should be her boyfriends job). Open my eyes? The girl didnt wanna have sex with him. You open your eyes. You have no idea how badly OP is getting played | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 01:21 PM |
| 3 | Date with an exYour ex aint into you bro besides being an emotional pillow. Move on. | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 12:56 PM |
| 5 | Date with an exSmh she has a boyfriend and hes going on dates with her. No sex, just trauma dumping. And hes someone she can trust to listen to her. And hes still thinking about her while shes going home to another guy. Goodness griefs | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 12:53 PM |
| 16 | Date with an exShe left you, had her fun, saw your new lifestyle and now wants the resources you can provide her. Didn’t help that She complained about her life like you’re her gay best friend and she didn’t have sex with you. | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 12:36 PM |
| -1 | Sitting down approach?Sit next to her and start talking | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 01:07 AM |
| 3 | I Slept With 80 Women From Dating Apps, Here’s How I Got 3 Hook ups This Week (Breakdown With Proof)Your comments keep getting auto removed because i assume ur cursing so i only see part of it in the notification. Long story short, if my body count is 2 and Im someone who only tells women straught up to come to my place for sex and yours is 100 but you lie all the time because you are scared she will say no, who is the most secure and confident invidiual? Not the loser who lies and is scared women will say no to sex. Rest assured the guy who is comfortable to not care if a woman wants to have … | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 06:19 PM |
| 3 | I Slept With 80 Women From Dating Apps, Here’s How I Got 3 Hook ups This Week (Breakdown With Proof)What does that have to do with anything, you insecure loser? I don’t want the dude who has to lie to women to get sex because it makes it easier for him since he doesn’t believe in himself to ask me that question. | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 04:27 PM |
| 1 | I Slept With 80 Women From Dating Apps, Here’s How I Got 3 Hook ups This Week (Breakdown With Proof)And if you have to increase the probability by lying, it does mean you’re a loser who has low self esteem. If you actually had esteem you would believe you are enough to get the women who want you and you would understand that if she didn’t want you thats not a girl you want to be dealing with because shes not aligned with how you value yourself so you wouldn’t need to increase anything. | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 04:20 PM |
| 1 | I Slept With 80 Women From Dating Apps, Here’s How I Got 3 Hook ups This Week (Breakdown With Proof)You see? You value the women and what she wants. You are literally scared she will say no so you want to make it easier for her to say yes, even if you lie. Disgrace. You have no love and value for yourself to believe a girl will want to come over to your place without lying. You’re a loser who hates himself. Just like OP. I don’t lie and women come over. I tell them what I want. And i’m not scared of a girl saying no to sex because there are others who will says yes. What is alpha about lying t… | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 04:11 PM |
| 1 | I Slept With 80 Women From Dating Apps, Here’s How I Got 3 Hook ups This Week (Breakdown With Proof)Hes a loser who is scared of a woman saying no to sex. And he values women over himself and his true desires so he lies | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 03:57 PM |
| -1 | I Slept With 80 Women From Dating Apps, Here’s How I Got 3 Hook ups This Week (Breakdown With Proof)Im not telling you to go on dates. I’m telling you to stop lying about a fake car scenario so that they HAVE to come to your place instead of telling them STRAIGHT UP to come to your place. Plausible deniability means you’re a loser who is scared a girl is going to say no to coming straight over to your place without a reason besides sex so you have to LIE and come up with a fake scenario so she feels better about coming over. You are worried about the girl and what she will say, so you LIE inst… | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 03:31 PM |
| 16 | I Slept With 80 Women From Dating Apps, Here’s How I Got 3 Hook ups This Week (Breakdown With Proof)I was With you on everything until the part you lie about having car problems. Why don’t you act like a man and tell her on the phone call, “hey how about come over to mine and lets hook up”. Tbh the results will still be around the same but at least now you know you aren’t some soft fake wannabe man who has to lie and create a fake scenario to get girls to his place. Don’t you feel like such a loser doing that? Man up dude. | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 11:08 AM |
| -5 | I Slept With 80 Women From Dating Apps, Here’s How I Got 3 Hook ups This Week (Breakdown With Proof)You say hes a chad because he slept with 80 women. But He literally just said in his post that 90% of girls didn’t work out. So imagine the amount of matches that led to absolutely nothing at all. Thats a TONLOAD of wasted matches. But he didn’t care because End of day its a numbers game, whether you are good looking and muscular or overweight and short. Stop making excuses and shoot your shot | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 10:35 AM |
| -4 | I Slept With 80 Women From Dating Apps, Here’s How I Got 3 Hook ups This Week (Breakdown With Proof)You act like hes a chad because he slept with 80 women. But He literally just said in his post that 90% of girls didn’t work out. So imagine the amount of matches that led to absolutely nothing at all. Thats a TONLOAD of wasted matches. But he didn’t care because End of day its a numbers game, whether you are good looking and muscular or overweight and short. Stop making excuses and shoot your shot | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Would you get into serious relationship if the girl has previous experience of ONS/FWBOnly insecure men who had to take a girl out on many dates and had to jump through all of her hoops before finally having sex because she wasn’t highly attracted to them and then one day she decided to settle down with them care about a woman’s ONS and FWB relationships. Because they can’t get over the fact that some guy didn’t have to do anything and they still got to have sex with the girl almost immediately. Guess what? She was highly sexually attracted to that guy. And deep down, these insec… | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Some guysBecause theres shorter, uglier people out there who have had success with woman. Listen. if you think your looks are horrible, just work on your confidence and women will be so intrigued by what it is that makes you so confident and they will be drawn to you. At least one will in this 8 billion plus world we live in | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Building attraction during quick day game encountersFlirt, be direct with your intentions. I think you’re cute/attractive/pretty and i want us to grab a drink/hook up/whatever it is that you want. Don’t just ask for number. She needs a reason to give you her number (and that reason is to do what you want from her) otherwise there is no point for you to collect numbers | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Some guysExactly | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 10:14 AM |
| 10 | Some guysI agreed with all except embody “both”. You don’t need to be embody both. Masculine, animalistic and confident is all that is needed because within that frame is the comfort that a woman needs. You don’t need to learn to be comforting | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 10:08 AM |
| 5 | Some guysTRUE | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 10:06 AM |
| 9 | Some guysAnd that is why you have trouble with women. Because you hate yourself | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 10:05 AM |
| 73 | Some guysPhysical appearance, style and behavior. Behavior is huge. Imagine the guy who believes he is the shit and when he talks to women he has this calm smooth demeanor about him and he says and does whatever he wants. Now imagine a dude who is shy around women and does not make eye contact and just agrees with everything she says. The second dude is gonna look like a loser to her who she is gonna assume does not have sex while the first guy has the presence and energy of a guy who knows how to handle… | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Is the only way to get over approach anxiety to just do it?What was your process like for beating it? | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Is the only way to get over approach anxiety to just do it?How did you get over that initial hump? | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 10:18 PM |
| 1 | As the weather changes remember to move like a gentleman!Naa imma tell her how great her cleavage looks and how i wanna spend some time in it later tonight | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 12:52 AM |
| 2 | was wondering what i am doing wrong ?Mode one is good. But the main takeaway is be direct with your intentions (you dont have to be sexual and super intense if thats not your style) so you can find the woman who want the same thing you want. If you want to date her, tell her. If you want to hook up with her, tell her. Just be honest. I love it. A lot of guys are very passive and weak and indirect and never say what they want because they are scared of the girl saying no. And guess what? Woman play games with them which is even wors… | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 09:38 AM |
| 1 | was wondering what i am doing wrong ?No. You want to train your mind to only deal with girls who have high interest in you. When you do this, you stop wasting time and energy on girls who are unsure about you. Because a girl that is unsure about you is saying YES to some other guy. So never disrespect yourself by letting girls get away with being unsure about you. | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 09:28 AM |
| 1 | was wondering what i am doing wrong ?Next time, when you’re in person with the girl, Don’t ask her what she is doing on a weekend evening. TELL HER, “hey lets go do so and so this weekend” while you are face to face with her. This way, she can either say yes or no to your face. Anything that is not a yes is a no. If she says maybe, we’ll see, i don’t know, i’ll let you know…. take that as a no. And say “ok, you have a good one.” Only get the numbers of girls who say yes to you in person. | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 09:21 AM |
| 1 | was wondering what i am doing wrong ?When you ask her what she is doing on a weekday evening, tell me how the convo normally goes after that before you get the number and if | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 09:00 AM |
| 1 | was wondering what i am doing wrong ?How many numbers has this happened with in the past two weeks where girls flake? And how many positive results? | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 08:54 AM |
| 1 | was wondering what i am doing wrong ?The only thing you are doing wrong im assuming is before you get the number you are not letting the woman know why you are getting it. Make a plan before you get the number and if she agrees then exchange contact info. If she seems weird or unsure, move on. Dont just get numbers to get numbers. | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 08:48 AM |
| 16 | Is it worth it to visit other countries just to fuck?Only if you are capable of fucking many girls here. Otherwise you will get to those countries and still be the same average guy you are here who has trouble getting interest from girls, nevermind fucking | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 05:09 AM |
| -1 | Why Do I Not Approach Women that I Am Attracted to?Good advice too | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 04:42 AM |
| 13 | Why Do I Not Approach Women that I Am Attracted to?you attach your self-worth and value to what these girls you find attractive will potentially say about you, so you don't wanna risk it. tips? immense self love, stop putting women on a pedestal(she has her own insecurities and issues), just keep doing the things you find tough so you can grow | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 03:17 AM |
| 1 | So Basically The Game Comes Down To Preselection…Curious, whats your craziest fun, random sexual encounter that had you soaking wet? | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 05:37 PM |
| 2 | To the women of this subInspired by u/Flavie69 and u/udontunderstanddad | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Please help….gods of RedditYes, just say “Hey, i had a good time. Lets go out tmrw at 8pm at the bar down the street” | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 05:35 PM |
| 0 | When a girl goes to bed with you but says no to sexAgain, they're not doing this with guys they are highly sexually attracted to. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 04:15 PM |
| 3 | When a girl goes to bed with you but says no to sexwhat's wrong with a woman who loves sex? I don't care. People like you who shame woman for loving sex are why woman are sensitive about this topic and won't publicly admit all the random sexual encounters they've had | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 04:05 PM |
| 0 | When a girl goes to bed with you but says no to sexAddressing your first paragraph, if you’re a dude who values himself, why would you accept less from a woman when you know she’s made the “wrong” guy not have to wait and will continue to make him not have to wait, while you the right guy has to wait and listen to all the reasons why she doesn’t wanna have sex with you. Answer: you don’t. Addressing your second paragraph why would she try to keep the guys interest if shes not trying to impress him, like you just said in the first paragraph. Agai… | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 04:00 PM |
| -1 | When a girl goes to bed with you but says no to sexNope, not with a guy they are highly sexually attracted to. If shes meh about you sexually shes gonna make you wait. A lot of women have had one night stands, sex on the first date, etc. But they’re only doing that for certain guys. If she makes you wait, rest assured you’re not a guy she is super excited about sexually. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 03:50 PM |
| 22 | When a girl goes to bed with you but says no to sexExactly. The truth is if thats her dream man, shes not saying no because she might not see him again. Why would she risk that? If shes meh about you, she’s gonna be okay with not having sex with you or seeing you ever again. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 09:03 AM |
| 1 | clever way to deduce who's texting you when you gave out number to multiple people?As a man always be leading. If you give out your number say “text me with your name” | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 03:18 AM |
| -25 | Mainland Chinese girls don't seem interested once on date?They’re not interested in YOU. It’s as simple as that. You bore them. | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 04:16 AM |
| -1 | What to say when a woman proposes or insists on meeting halfway for a date?No, you wait for them to tell you what to do, cuz you’re a lap dog to women. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 06:35 AM |
| 0 | What to say when a woman proposes or insists on meeting halfway for a date?Nope, what is sad is you care about what others think of you. Your life is dependent on others. How ironic. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 06:26 AM |
| 0 | What to say when a woman proposes or insists on meeting halfway for a date?You can’t do both. You can’t love yourself and care about what others think of you. Because if you care about what others think of you, you are putting them above you. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 05:55 AM |
| -2 | What to say when a woman proposes or insists on meeting halfway for a date?Yup, just someone who loves himself and doesn’t put woman on pedestal. Hbu? | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 04:18 AM |
| -1 | What to say when a woman proposes or insists on meeting halfway for a date?Again, you are making it about the woman. YOU decide where YOU want to meet up. If shes not okay with it, you simply move on and find another girl who is okay with it. But you won’t do that, because for you, any opportunity is once in a lifetime and you don’t love yourself enough to believe a girl will want to do what it is you want to do. So you will accommodate the girl and do all you can so she will have sex with you. Lol. Meanwhile men who love themselves accommodate themselves and if she ha… | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 04:06 AM |
| 0 | What to say when a woman proposes or insists on meeting halfway for a date?And thats why you dont hook up with girls on first dates. Cause they think you’re goofy | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 12:52 AM |
| -7 | What to say when a woman proposes or insists on meeting halfway for a date?No, they’re not unless it is supported with facts. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 12:28 AM |
| -8 | What to say when a woman proposes or insists on meeting halfway for a date?No, i am telling you to speak for YOUR experiences. So don’t say they are tough. Say they are tough for YOU. For some people, it is very easy. | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 11:59 PM |
| -8 | What to say when a woman proposes or insists on meeting halfway for a date?They’re tough for you. Stop speaking for others. | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 10:58 PM |
| 4 | Never know how to text for hookups or respond usuallyBe honest in person and online. “Im not looking for anything serious. How about lets get together and hook up” If shes into you, shes gonna say yes and appreciate the honesty. If shes not, shes gonna say no and hate your honesty. Doesn’t matter about her response. Be honest and the right girl will follow along | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 10:44 PM |
| -10 | What to say when a woman proposes or insists on meeting halfway for a date?Let me put it this way. If a woman has high sexual interest in you, she is going to meet at wherever you suggest, because she doesn’t want to risk saying no and losing you. She WANTS to see you no matter what. So , if she is resistant, she is essentially telling you “i dont really care if this date goes through or not, you are not someone I have high interest in”. And so if you agree to meet where she wants, do you think the possibility of her having sex with you is high, considering she doesn’t… | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Did my first fist approach while grocery shopping went badYea you gave friendship a chance. Meanwhile she continued seeing the guys she was sexually attracted to who didn’t give her anything else besides pleasure. And so then she settled for you when she realized she wanted and needed a boot licker who would cater to her every needs and provide her with resources and time and energy. Because the guys she was sexually attracted to didn’t want to only see her. They didn’t need her. She was just another girl to them. So now when you have sex with her she … | /r/seduction | 07/03/26 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Did my first fist approach while grocery shopping went badOP said “you caught my eyes, wanted to talk” That is a fine opener. If a woman is interested in you, she’s not gonna all of a sudden not be because you said that to her. You think if her dream man approached her and said that, she wouldn’t be enthusiastic? You see, the problem with guys like you is you look for the perfect way to get a woman’s approval. You try to find how to get a woman to like you. You want to make her happy, say and do the right thing, get a chance to smell the air she breath… | /r/seduction | 07/03/26 07:22 PM |
| 15 | Did my first fist approach while grocery shopping went badDon't listen to this dude. He lives life based on fear and staying in his comfortable safe space. There are so many girls that didn't give me a sign or had a resting mean face, and then I talked to them and they were friendly and willing to talk. If you rely on girls looking at you and smiling before you talk to them, firstly you are missing out on sooo many opportunities. Secondly, you are conditioning your mind to put women on a pedestal by waiting for them to give you the permission to go tal… | /r/seduction | 07/03/26 04:42 PM |
| 1 | A lot of guys don’t make it to the second date… but why?Well if it leads to a breakup it doesnt work. That’s what im saying You can’t fake masculinity. I mean you’ve seen dudes who just have something about them. That can’t be faked. Thats learned and developed over a loooooong period of time. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 03:00 PM |
| 0 | A lot of guys don’t make it to the second date… but why?Exactly | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 02:39 PM |
| -2 | A lot of guys don’t make it to the second date… but why?So what works is being an insecure little wimp who has to constantly monitor how he behaves in a gamified way to attract woman? And then if he gets the woman, she sees that he is actually a wimp with no masculinity who was playing games all along? Meanwhile the dude she is into doesn’t actually care about her more than he cares about himself and it drives her craZy. Yup, you have no masculinity in you. You’re weak. Stay that way. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 02:37 PM |
| -5 | A lot of guys don’t make it to the second date… but why?I was with you until you mentioned manipulation. Instead of acting busy and warm and then cold and doing things to try to get HER like an insecure little girl, just be a dude who values himself more than poothie. Aka do what YOU want when YOU want to. Stop focusing on how to do things for HER so she will like you. That is weak, soft, insecure behavior and you will spend the rest of your life trying to do things for women like a little wimp. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 01:01 PM |
| 5 | A lot of guys don’t make it to the second date… but why?As long as i did what i wanted and needed to do on the date, no second date just means shes not the one for me | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 11:31 AM |
| 1 | A lot of guys don’t make it to the second date… but why?Lol exactly | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 11:16 AM |
| 52 | So I just say hey to women?Yup, thats how it works. You talk to who you want till you find a girl who wants the same thing you do. It’s hit or miss because this is real life, not a fantasy. You are not gonna be sone girl’s type, some girls are gonna be in relationships, some have had a bad day, some get off on rejecting guys, some will only be looking for a guy they can use for attention and resources, etc. We are humans, so expect the full scope of human possibility. Even if a girl gives you her number, she might not res… | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Being direct and flirty isn't working for me.Well i wouldn’t use it as an opener but you should make your intentions clear when you first meet her some point in the convo | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 07:07 AM |
| -2 | Being direct and flirty isn't working for me."I may need to play the long game and try to be friendly over a good amount of time with a girl before attraction happens." You don't think a woman engages in a little bit of convo with a new man and knows whether or not she is attracted to him? She most certainly does. Waiting and playing the long game will not increase her attraction. She either finds you attractive or she doesn't and that first impression is huge. This is why direct always works. You get your answer right away and don't have … | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with my Energy on a DateAlso a great strategy | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with my Energy on a DateOn dates, focus on amusing yourself. Stop worrying about making sure she has a good time and just worry about you having a good time. So for example, if a girl asks me a boring question, i’ll say “thats too boring, what i wanna know is how’d u get so sexy?” Why? Because it’s more fun for me to talk about what i wanna talk about. And the right girl will see how much fun i’m having and she’ll end up having fun too. Women feed off your energy. Let’s say she got upset at my response and caused a sce… | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Does no contact work?Listen, my brother. When a girl is into a dude, she doesn’t want to risk him possibly leaving her. She’s not gonna say yes and no at the same time. She’s gonna be very clear that she wants him. So if she doesn’t want to date you or be romantic with you, that’s all you need to know. “No, no not like that” is her trying to let you down easy BUT also to keep you for attention. You know what girls love? A guy that gives them all their attention and she doesn’t even have to have sex or date him. A go… | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Does no contact work?Yeah it’s them being so uninterested in you that they don’t even want your free attention. They’d rather not have anything to do with you. So yeah, just move on | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 05:00 AM |
| 1 | What are you guys doing to address your insecurities?No, I have not because If a girl says anything indicating shes not interested, i just walk away asap. If you keep trying and pushing thats when bad things can happen. The goal is to find girls who like you right away without any pushback | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 03:53 AM |
| 1 | What are you guys doing to address your insecurities?Women don’t want you to approach them if they don’t see you as a man they are attracted to. But like I said, if their exact type of man approached them, they would be super excited and tell their friends. So how are you gonna know if a woman is into you or not unless you approach? There’s no other way. Unless you wait for a woman to walk up to you which we know isn’t super common. And if she says no or takes it to the extreme and yells at you and causes a big scene (which is gonna be rare, most … | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 11:07 PM |
| 14 | Does no contact work?No, she doesn’t want you. When a woman wants a man she will move mountains to get to him. Her saying she’s not sure and wanting to be friends is just letting you down easy. But also the thing about no contact is it’s not to get the girl back. It’s to respect yourself and move on. | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 11:00 PM |
| 2 | What are you guys doing to address your insecurities?The thing is if a girl’s dream man approached her, she would be all giddy. You won’t know if you’re that man for a girl unless you go up to her. If she’s not with it, just move on. Theres soooooooo many women in this world but more importantly you have to believe that there is a woman who will see you as that man for her. | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 10:42 PM |
| 8 | How to stop being used for attention?Exactly, once a woman isn’t on the same program as you, immediately move on. Don’t ask questions, don’t try to get a conclusion, don’t try to win her over. JUST IMMEDIATELY CUT HER OFF FROM YOUR LIFE | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 10:28 PM |
| 4 | Does any of you have experience with oversize girls? How was it?You’re so soft | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Should I let it go?Dont do this…its weak behavior | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 05:16 AM |
| 2 | Should I let it go?Agreed. Hunterpua is pretty spot on with most relationship content | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 05:01 AM |
| 21 | Night game sober is soo much harder but it’s got to be done.Yes sober is very important. Good work. You don’t want to have to rely on alcohol to talk to girls. That is very weak behavior. But besides that, its just unhealthy and can get expensive. Imagine being the man that gets to a bar sober, sees a pretty girl and just walks up and chats her up without a drink. She will marvel at your confidence but more than that you will marvel at the man you’ve become. | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 04:34 AM |
| 1 | When do you feel like your chasing too much?Again, speak for yourself. YOU don’t feel valuable enough. Stop generalizing to other people you don’t know. It’s YOU. YOU don’t feel valuable enough. | /r/seduction | 25/02/26 06:12 PM |
| 1 | When do you feel like your chasing too much?“It’s borderline impossible” Please speak for yourself. Again, you don’t believe you are valuable enough | /r/seduction | 25/02/26 05:54 PM |
| -4 | The first time you fuck a girl you have to slowly escalate to it without asking. But every other time you can just ask her, why is that?Who said you have to slowly escalate the first time without asking? Would her dream man she fantasizes about have to slowly escalate? Let me guess? You’re not her dream man and you don’t think you ever will be so you have to be indirect and give her the runaround in the hopes she likes you enough to allow you access to her. You live life on her terms. Yup, you’re right. You’re not a man with any value. | /r/seduction | 25/02/26 05:25 PM |
| 1 | When do you feel like your chasing too much?I did understand. You are a male who is focused on getting woman to like him instead of a man focused on finding the woman who like you for you. You are not the person I strive to be. | /r/seduction | 25/02/26 04:56 PM |
| 1 | When do you feel like your chasing too much?The right way to be is to be 100% focused on who you are and what you want. You should not be focused on the woman. | /r/seduction | 25/02/26 04:36 PM |
| 8 | When do you feel like your chasing too much?Nothing wrong with only texting girls you just met for logistics. You can save the chit chat for in person. Stop focusing on making girls happy and instead worry about doing what you desire and the right girl will be happy with how you operate. You ever wonder why girls chase the guys who just don’t give a damn? Because those guys put themselves first no matter what and women realize those guys have value because they actually value themselves. The loser puts the women on a pedestal, always tryi… | /r/seduction | 25/02/26 11:59 AM |
| 1 | How Do You Know If “I Have a Boyfriend” Means She’s Not Interested or Just Testing You?Yessir!!! | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 01:38 PM |
| 20 | How Do You Know If “I Have a Boyfriend” Means She’s Not Interested or Just Testing You?true!!!! | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 08:41 AM |
| 11 | How Do You Know If “I Have a Boyfriend” Means She’s Not Interested or Just Testing You?it's not your job to find out if a girl is lying about her interest or not, and to hold her hand along the way while she comes to a decision. That is you worrying too much about girls and placing them on a pedestal. You simply just find the girls who are showing they are clearly interested in you. That is all. | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 08:39 AM |
| 5 | How Do You Know If “I Have a Boyfriend” Means She’s Not Interested or Just Testing You?EXACTLY. If shes testing you at all, its because she does not give a damn if you walk away from her. Aka she doesn’t have much interest in you. Move on!!!! Love and respect yourself. Find girls who are scared of saying the wrong thing to you. | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 08:03 AM |
| 1 | How to stop letting fear of rejection stop me from approachingYou’re wrong. Thats why a lot of guys end up in situations where they’re chilling with a girl thinking they’re gonna have sex, but then the girl ends up coming up with an excuse. If the guy was clear about his intent, the girl would have only been chilling with him for the reason of his intent | /r/seduction | 22/02/26 08:24 AM |
| 1 | How to stop letting fear of rejection stop me from approachingAll good, my brother | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 05:41 PM |
| 1 | How to stop letting fear of rejection stop me from approachingNo he didn’t. You just can’t read | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 05:35 PM |
| 1 | How to stop letting fear of rejection stop me from approachingHow long did it take you to get to that level? | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 05:33 PM |
| 1 | How to stop letting fear of rejection stop me from approachingNo, he is saying you give your friend money at the beginning of the night and you ONLY GET SOME BACK WHENEVER YOU MAKE AN APPROACH | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 05:32 PM |
| -3 | 2 Questions: Do you think the girl I'm (not) dating is a hoe and how do I progress this relationship to where she wants to have sex with me?My brother, i happened to stumble upon your comment. I havent been keeping up with your activity, but i hope you’ve shouted out real game no theory at least once | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 04:58 PM |
| -6 | 2 Questions: Do you think the girl I'm (not) dating is a hoe and how do I progress this relationship to where she wants to have sex with me?I see youre still not shouting out Locario | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 03:52 PM |
| 1 | How to stop letting fear of rejection stop me from approachingThank you, how long did it take you to become used to it | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 10:54 AM |
| 1 | How to stop letting fear of rejection stop me from approachingThank you, i needed this motivation | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 10:52 AM |
| 1 | How to stop letting fear of rejection stop me from approachingWell tell me all the strategies you use and have worked for you, cuz theres a lot | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 05:14 AM |
| 1 | How to stop letting fear of rejection stop me from approachingWhich strategy is your favorite | /r/seduction | 20/02/26 08:15 PM |
| 1 | How to stop letting fear of rejection stop me from approachingThank you my brother. I needed this | /r/seduction | 20/02/26 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Quick and easy lay report! Here's how I did itLove this | /r/seduction | 19/02/26 12:02 AM |
| 78 | Guys who focused on career/ambition in college - when did women actually start caring about that?Women don’t care about that stuff until they’ve had their fun and are ready to settle down with a guy who will take care of them. So usually around mid 30s…but regardless you will never be more interesting to them than the guy who they’re sexually attracted to, whether he is career focused or not | /r/seduction | 16/02/26 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Beautiful Receptionist at work, need advice on landing her numberYou’re done | /r/seduction | 15/02/26 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Feeling lonely and depressed on Valentines Day.Well what happened with this girl? Are you still with her? And who are you seeing now? | /r/seduction | 15/02/26 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Feeling lonely and depressed on Valentines Day.Wonderful advice | /r/seduction | 15/02/26 01:50 PM |
| 9 | Feeling lonely and depressed on Valentines Day.Go out to bars and clubs solo, make guy friends while you’re there, and then go talk to girls while you are in a somewhat energetic state. Get an online dating coach to review your online dating profile. Could be pictures or bad messages you’re sending. It’s gonna be hard. All of this is a skill which takes constant practice and putting yourself out there. It’s not easy, otherwise everyone would have success with women | /r/seduction | 15/02/26 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Are singles going clubbing/bar during valentines day?Great point | /r/seduction | 14/02/26 03:21 PM |
| 6 | Are singles going clubbing/bar during valentines day?A little off topic but very true. I’ll go out then. | /r/seduction | 14/02/26 01:41 PM |
| 1 | How do I shift from “big brother vibe” to potential romantic interest with my younger flatmate?Agreed | /r/seduction | 13/02/26 12:46 PM |
| 3 | Girls and nicotineand when you can't offer them a cigarette, they will discard you. Because they don't actually like you, they like what you can provide. | /r/seduction | 13/02/26 06:22 AM |
| 0 | What income needed to date the most attractive women?Very true | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 06:43 PM |
| 0 | saying “use texting just as a tool to set dates” is straight BS adviceYou see, when you can't understand life outside of your inadequate existence, you resort to justifying it in any way to make yourself feel better. The truth is that in your inadequate life, if you don't text a girl consistently she will leave you. In mine, she stays. You have to put women on a pedestal to get them. But for me, I put myself on a pedestal and I still get them. | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 02:00 PM |
| -3 | saying “use texting just as a tool to set dates” is straight BS adviceI havent texted a girl in 2 weeks and we’re going out on a first date in 2 hours. Stop speaking for others using your inadequate existence and experience | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 01:31 AM |
| -5 | saying “use texting just as a tool to set dates” is straight BS adviceWhat are you talking about, you scrambled brain snark? People are saying you need to be texting girls constantly or else they will forget about you and move on. I am saying IF SHE IS HIGHLY INTERESTED IN YOU AKA YOU ARE A GUY SHE REALLY DESIRES SHE WILL NOT FORGET ABOUT YOU. You will always be top of mind because a lot of guys are just not it. | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 10:05 PM |
| 5 | saying “use texting just as a tool to set dates” is straight BS adviceYeah, they’ll seek attention from another dude. But It doesn’t mean that she’ll forget about you or stop wanting to see you if she sees you as her dream guy. There are a lot of guys women use for attention but have no intention of being romantic with them at all. | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Is it worth trying to get dates on Instagram if I don’t post on my profile?No. It will just hurt you. Just get numbers and coordinate from there | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 10:35 AM |
| -1 | Working On Your "Look" Ain't It And Will Only Get You So FarVery true. Good post, but it will go over a lot of simps/incels heads | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 11:16 AM |
| 1 | I like the chaseHes a loser | /r/seduction | 04/02/26 04:23 PM |
| 1 | I like the chaseMeans you hate yourself because you tolerate disrespect. You don’t value who you are as a man. You’re a loser. | /r/seduction | 04/02/26 02:30 PM |
| -6 | How Phone Calls Completely Changed My Dating Life (And Why Texting Was Killing My Conversions)Why are you lying about your car troubles and asking her to come over for dinner and all this bs when you just wanna have sex with her. You’re a loser who is not man enough to be honest and direct with woman. | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Asked a girl for a movie date, she said “Maybe this weekend. Did I push it?I just dmed you what i originally sent | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Asked a girl for a movie date, she said “Maybe this weekend. Did I push it?I dont delete ish. Mods prbly took it down cuz theyre soft | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 04:07 AM |
| 7 | Asked a girl for a movie date, she said “Maybe this weekend. Did I push it?No, you are a loser to her because she doesnt even want to watch a movie with you, doesn’t want you to get close to her to even hug her and won’t even text you back like she says. And you are here still thinking about a girl that treats like you scum. | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 03:58 AM |
| 12 | Asked a girl for a movie date, she said “Maybe this weekend. Did I push it?Bro stop living in a fantasy world and accept the truth. She has no romantic interest in you. She was iffy on a date, didnt want to get physical with you, never texted you. You are a loser to her but she likes the free attention you give her. Move on | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 03:52 AM |
| 32 | Asked a girl for a movie date, she said “Maybe this weekend. Did I push it?Shes simply not into you. If the man she fantasizes about asked her, she would have said yes and given him the times she is free. No maybes, idks or anything uncertain. If he gave her a hug, she would have embraced him like a teddy bear. Look at it like this. If you really want a job and the boss says i need you to start Monday, are you gonna say i dont know, im not sure, i’ll let you know. You only say that if you don’t care about the job. Move on. | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 03:45 AM |
| 4 | Your Volume SucksYou’re 100% right. People make too many excuses though. | /r/seduction | 22/01/26 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach week another failure but progress.Nice work brother, you’re doing more than 95% of us | /r/seduction | 18/01/26 06:47 PM |
| -51 | She is testing me. What would you do?No compromises | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 03:12 PM |
| -2 | She is testing me. What would you do?Agreed. And if you can’t leave, she will always see you as a loser. And women don’t respect losers. If they don’t dump you, they’ll cheat on you. If they don’t cheat on you, they’ll make your life a living hell because you’re a loser and she hates that she is with a loser. | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 01:00 PM |
| 0 | Is my female coworker coming onto me?Im not saying she thinks you’re gay. Im saying thats the treatment you’re getting. Trust me, she has no sexual/romantic interest in you. But hey, if you wanna know for sure just flirt and make an obvious move. | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Is my female coworker coming onto me?Shes treating you like a gay best friend, telling you about her problems and asking about your girl. You are very comfortable and safe for her. Imagine her dream dude she fantasizes about. You think shes gonna make her initial impression to him someone who complains about their sex and bf problems? You think shes gonna mention her bf all the time? Hell no, shes gonna make sure she doesnt embarrass herself in front of him. Hell she’ll be too shy to reveal that much. | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 04:25 PM |
| -8 | Is my female coworker coming onto me?No shes not into you, its all in your head. | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Never Say This at the End of a DateNope, i built it on not being a needy loser who has to “communicate” reassurance to women | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Never Say This at the End of a DateYes, they tell me as im inside them. Hbu? | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Never Say This at the End of a DateStop deluding yourself. Sounds like youre the person OP is describing | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Never Say This at the End of a DateOh yeah begging to be liked makes you a winner | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Never Say This at the End of a DateNo, it doesn’t matter how you do it because you can’t hide what your words already expose. | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Never Say This at the End of a DateYou just said it depends and finished by essentially saying “no way in hell im doing that”. Cmon bro, stop being soft to these losers and be honest with them. | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Never Say This at the End of a DateWhat is Tate | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 03:07 PM |
| 23 | Never Say This at the End of a DateNo. OP is right. Asking for reassurance if you’re a guy makes you a huge loser. | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 09:57 AM |
| 1 | funnyGo back to sleep since you want to keep living in your fantasy world. | /r/seduction | 03/01/26 01:47 AM |
| 2 | funnyWhy does she know the living situation of her gay best friend? | /r/seduction | 03/01/26 01:43 AM |
| 3 | funnyJust because you make her laugh doesnt mean she wants you romantically. Her gay best friend makes her laugh. The nice guy she puts in the friendzone is her favorite comedian. Only way you would have known if she actually wants you is by asking her out/making a move, which you didn’t do. So it’s all just a fantasy in your head. | /r/seduction | 03/01/26 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Hmmm self respect or play the gameNo, you delete her contact for yourself. To make room for girls and people who actually give a damn about you. Why would you keep the contact of someone who doesn’t respect you?? | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 07:26 PM |
| 6 | Hmmm self respect or play the gameFor women, any attention is good. Positive or negative. They feast on it because it shows you CARE. How do you show a women that she is nothing? You simply ignore her and let the simps have her. | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 07:06 PM |
| 6 | Hmmm self respect or play the gameWhy did you even respond to her happy new year text like a sucker? Shes looking for attention and she thinks so little of you that she said “im gonna text him back like nothing ever happened and i know he’ll respond because he acts like a loser like most of these loser guys i hang with” And guess what? You responded and gave her attention. And on top of that you’re still thinking of sleeping with her. She’s right. You’re a loser. A loser who values women above himself. You’re not a man who women… | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 06:58 PM |
| 2 | How to not get jaded/jealous of how easy women have it ?Yeah, its time to snap out of it and wake up | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 06:55 PM |
| -2 | How to not get jaded/jealous of how easy women have it ?How to not get jaded/jealous…how about because that is the mindset of a loser virgin? This is why dating is hard for you, because you complain and whine and wish you had a vagina so you wouldn’t have to do any work (which is false btw). Get your act together, put in the work, experiment and you will start seeing results. | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Is this message I am sending boring?Lol fr. Praising a girl’s character he doesnt even know because she looks “good”…talking about parents and the future… | /r/seduction | 30/12/25 07:33 AM |
| -4 | Trying To Be Alpha - The Most Idiotic Way To ExistHow else are you gonna be something if you don’t work towards it? At some point, the behaviors, traits, mindset will become you. So what? You’re just gonna stay a lil female dog the rest of your life? Besides alpha is the wrong term. You need to just focus on being a man who only cares about himself, not women. | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 11:33 AM |
| -1 | A trick I used to teach my studentsNo, the reason this sub exists and most men today are sexless is because men put women on a pedestal just because of their looks. The best way to stop this is to devalue her. You have to remember that she’s not special. In fact, she should be worthless to you until she continuously shows that she likes you. | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 04:09 PM |
| 13 | A trick I used to teach my studentsWhat would indicate to you that shes a keeper? Because let’s say: She has a nice convo with you in person but doesnt respond to your text She texts you back but ghosts when you ask for a date She shows up for date but is on her phone the entire time Shes not on her phone, but doesn’t want to kiss you (even though she kisses other guys she is into on the first date) She kisses you but she ghosts afterwards when you try to see her again What i am saying is a girl indicating she is a keeper shows m… | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 02:59 PM |
| 1 | From Beta to AlphaWuss | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 02:50 PM |
| 0 | From Beta to AlphaBro, now you’re trying to turn this on me even though you know you were in the wrong. Man up you wuss. Admit you were wrong and move on. | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 02:48 PM |
| 0 | From Beta to AlphaBro you used it as a humorous insult. Don’t be dumb. | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 02:39 PM |
| 1 | From Beta to AlphaGood | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 02:38 PM |
| 1 | From Beta to Alpha“Struggling with mental health issues”..why do you say stuff like this man. Maybe they’re ignorant, unaware, uneducated…dont talk like that man | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 02:38 PM |
| 2 | From Beta to AlphaCongrats. Some people never know. It’s sad. But truthfully some people never want to know because the work it takes to be the man they want is too daunting for them | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 02:26 PM |
| 0 | From Beta to AlphaYou’re taking it too literally. OP just means when did you stop being a loser simp and start being a man that attracts women. | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 02:25 PM |
| 1 | From Beta to AlphaWhy would you even like her if she doesn’t like you back. The problem starts with how we think. You should only even consider liking a woman once she feels the same about you. | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 02:23 PM |
| 2 | From Beta to AlphaYeah those are important traits to have but they’re not gonna turn women on. Gotta be assertive, direct, sexual, and selfish with your time and goals when it comes to woman being turned on. | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 02:23 PM |
| 6 | ONS ruins soul and mindHes lonely | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 02:12 PM |
| 8 | A trick I used to teach my studentsYup, thats the mentality you need for every girl. Shes nothing | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 02:01 PM |
| 55 | A trick I used to teach my studentsIt’s not about her Your goal is to see if she has value for YOU. That’s why you go talk to her So talk to her and see if she raises her value from worthless, (which is what every girl should be in your mind first time meeting them,) to anything more than that. And she should only become more than worthless when she seriously shows she wants you | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 01:07 PM |
| 190 | A trick I used to teach my studentsExactly, very good. Remember, women aren’t special. Their shit smells bad too, they have their own insecurities, plus they haven’t even done anything for you. You don’t owe them anything, not even niceness, so don’t let them occupy your mind trying to “get” her. They should be worthless in your mind until they prove to you otherwise. Don’t be that simp loser dude who looks at a woman like shes sent from heaven and so he automatically treats her like a queen when she herself even knows she is not… | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 12:25 PM |
| 1 | How do I get the man I fumbled by being too available?uve been on reddit for 2 days, watch where you stand boy | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 11:07 PM |
| 1 | How do I get the man I fumbled by being too available?Its obvious for us now, but rmr we used to be clueless as well, my brother | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 10:53 PM |
| 2 | How do I get the man I fumbled by being too available?Cmon my brother, you gotta chill. Shes new to reddit | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 10:45 PM |
| 2 | How do I get the man I fumbled by being too available?Exactly. This is it. Good work man | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 09:49 PM |
| -4 | How do I get the man I fumbled by being too available?Stop being mean. Answer her. You have an answer. | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 09:45 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about the nicegirls sub.Thank you, my brother | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 02:45 PM |
| 21 | If a woman checks her phone on a first date, do you just end it?Checks it often? Yes. | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 02:15 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about the nicegirls sub.Hear me out. You’re a man complaining about a woman online because she doesn’t want to date you and is being rude? That is horrible behavior harold. You know it girl. | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 04:31 AM |
| -6 | What do you guys think about the nicegirls sub.It’s cuz I can’t stand losers man. We are men. What is happening to us?? | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 04:02 AM |
| -7 | What do you guys think about the nicegirls sub.I asked a question about it. Where in my question was i mad? I asked how do you all feel? | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 04:01 AM |
| -13 | What do you guys think about the nicegirls sub.Aww a girl is rude to you so you will complain about her JUST LIKE A GIRL WOULD? Ignore that girl, keep it moving. It’s loser behavior to give more of your time to girls who disrespect you. | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 03:38 AM |
| 1 | If she’s not showing enthusiasm…NEXTWhy | /r/seduction | 14/11/25 02:16 PM |
| 1 | A girl having sex with you does NOT mean anything.This was an original thought. The problem with that post of yours i commented on first was it was literally word for word what Locario said after a live stream. | /r/seduction | 14/11/25 02:16 PM |
| 3 | This subreddit is not for everyoneMaking this way more complicated and deep than it is. Goal is to just find girls who are into you and into what you are into by being honest and direct with them, maintain that connection, and get rid of the girls who don’t want you. You can find love and pointless pussy equally the same. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 11:38 PM |
| 5 | She asked if i wanted something serious after one dateFor me its two dates max. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 11:03 PM |
| 106 | If she’s not showing enthusiasm…NEXTEXACTLY..a lot of guys don’t understand because they’ve never met a woman who is crazy about them or they just hate themselves and value pussy above everything. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 09:56 PM |
| 2 | She asked if i wanted something serious after one dateBut what if he only wants her for sex? Whats so special about her | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 09:36 PM |
| 0 | She asked if i wanted something serious after one dateLoool true | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?First girl might say no. 9th girl might say yes. I’ve done it, it works. Obviously i engage in a light ~2 min convo convo first cuz im not a fool, but I will always end up telling her exactly what i want to do with her. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?EXACTLY | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 10:04 AM |
| 0 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?No. I’m talking about being honest and upfront with your intentions with the girl and the relationship you want. What does you trauma dumping have to do with that? | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?Why do you equate being direct with being vulgar, acting a fool and lacking social skills. After flirting and teasing, telling her “hey honestly i don’t wanna date right now but how about we hook up” is being direct as well. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?Why do you think being direct means being vulgar and acting like a dumbass, you fool? Just telling her you’re not looking to go on dates and you just wanna hook up is being direct | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 03:05 AM |
| 2 | How stupid is this statement:"Stop Thinking About it, Focus on yourself, and it will happen".Everything matters. Not for her, for yourself. By saying real quick you are telling yourself you must make this a smooth process for the woman so she likes you. Fuck her. Its about you | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?Because they value pussy more than themselves. To be honest, they hate themselves. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?You know women fuck unemployed guys who don’t take them out on any dates right? | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?exactly. And they love these modern "men" because they can use them for their time and attention and resources. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 05:47 PM |
| 1 | How stupid is this statement:"Stop Thinking About it, Focus on yourself, and it will happen".don't say "real quick", like you're doing her a disservice. Stop saying things that put women on a pedestal. We have to reprogram ourselves | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 05:12 PM |
| 1 | How stupid is this statement:"Stop Thinking About it, Focus on yourself, and it will happen".Extremely stupid. focusing on yourself is why they're still pussies who can't get pussy. End of the day you have to put yourself out there every single fucking day, talk to women, practice being honest and direct. What good is a good looking, muscular, rich dude who gets shy when a woman talks to him and can't make eye contact? She dries up quicker than the Sahara because she thought he would be dope and cool behavior wise, but is lame and a pussy. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?You think they’ll learn one day? | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?Too many rom coms | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?Either way you'll get rejected. The only thing is if you lie and are dishonest you could lose your money, time, and sanity in addition as well | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 04:32 PM |
| 3 | How do I attain casual sex with girls without trying to setup dates?u/Necessary-Worry1923 But what do any of your statistics have to do with being honest and direct with woman? The issue could lie in not approaching women, not working out/being out of shape, not learning female nature, not learning how to socialize in general, not knowing how to flirt, not being able to read cues women are interested, etc. The solution doesn't come from lying and being dishonest. If it did, this generation wouldn't be as sexless because everyone would get sex by lying to women. … | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?What I say is: "I'm not looking to go on dates, I just want to hook up, have fun." It's going good. I'm not going on dates I don't want to go on and I'm not spending money on a girl who I only care about her pussy. Of course not every girl is down, but just approach enough. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 03:49 PM |
| -5 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?why would you care if it blows in your face if she is not attracted to you? You should be happy. You're not wasting your time with a woman who is not attracted to you. What type of loser thinking is this? Wouldn't you be sick to your stomach if your girl told you, "honestly I'm not attracted to you. Im just here because you're a good provider and it's time for me to settle." ? | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 03:43 PM |
| 6 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?I agree with your third paragraph. First paragraph I disagree with you heavily. You are encouraging lying and being dishonest because you say women need you to be coy. No, they don't. But the thing is you believe this to be true because you haven't experienced women who will have sex with you simply after conversing for a bit in person and letting her know you want to have sex. You haven't had women who after 10 minutes into a date leads you to her car and fuck you. These are women who are highl… | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?true | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 02:45 PM |
| -8 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?You also potentially waste a lot of your time with indirect. You think you're building comfort, but she just sees you as a friend who has no interest in being romantic with you. I say be direct, let her know how you feel about her and what you want to do with her. Better to hear an answer upfront than hide because you are scared she doesn't like you. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 02:45 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?My question is optimistic. If I can reach someone who reads this and thinks "yeah, why do I lie and beat around the bush with women" then I am happy. My perspective is optimistic. I know If I am honest and direct with woman, I will end up finding a woman who likes me being honest and direct. Yes, both people have to be honest and communicate clearly. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?No, you are too pessimistic. A lot of people care. You just have to put the most honest version of yourself out there, and you will find that person and situation. It's not easy, but nothing is life is easy. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 02:26 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?Says who? | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?Im at a point in my life right now where i dont want to date any girl. So before i even exchange numbers with a girl, I tell her “hey not looking to date, just want to have fun”. But even if i were dating, im not bending down and kissing the feet of any girl, thats just me. Gotta be honest. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?It is weak behavior to continue seeing her if blowjobs are what you want and she doesn’t want to give them. But honestly, best believe she is thinking about giving blowjobs to the dude she has a huge crush on and can’t stop thinking about. You never force a woman to do anything. You simply remove your time and attention. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 01:55 PM |
| -3 | Why do you think guys are scared to be direct and honest with woman?Damn, thats sad. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 01:48 PM |
| 36 | How do I attain casual sex with girls without trying to setup dates?He doesnt want to go on dates to have sex, so why are you telling him to go on dates? This is the problem today with a lot of men. They will literally sell their souls and jump through every hoop imaginable to sleep with a woman, instead of being honest with what he wants and finding a girl who is on the same page as him. It might be harder, but the honest truth is you have to talk to a lot of women and be upfront in that interaction with what you want, saying something like “hey i think you’re … | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 11:56 AM |
| 3 | How To Raise Attraction Levels?Her desire to have sex with you is not strong enough to outweigh whats going on with her internally. Aka she does not have high sexual interest in you. For the right guy who she has high sexual interest in, shes gonna let him do whatever he wants with her. You’re not that guy for her. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 11:43 AM |
| 2 | How To Raise Attraction Levels?Shes simply just not that into you. Low to medium sexual interest. You think shes not progressing further with the dude shes been daydreaming about and thinks of constantly? Find girls who have high sexual interest towards you right off the bat. Aka, go talk to more girls | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 03:41 AM |
| 1 | My initiation and escalation worked against meI said where you SEXUALLY ESCALATE doesn’t matter. I didn’t say where you have sex with her doesn’t matter. And we were talking about making out and grabbing ass like OP said. Hand holding made her uncomfortable because she didn’t view you that way in public. She was uncomfortable by you in public. Which means she had low to medium sexual attraction for you because for the guy she is day dreaming about and can’t get over, she is holding hands with him in public if he asks. Don’t be naive to thin… | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 09:50 PM |
| 1 | When she says “im going home” during night gameu/norwegiandoggo This applies to you as well | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | When she says “im going home” during night gameYou do know i ask questions on here to engage in discussion, so i can get a sense of how people think on this sub. Doesn’t mean i don’t know what im doing. I know exactly the questions i ask. Notice i dont even respond in the comments of my own previous posts. Actually I believe one of them i did, because someone brought up manipulating a girl to have sex, and I had to set them straight. | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 09:22 PM |
| 0 | A girl having sex with you does NOT mean anything.A man who respects himself more than pussy cares | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 09:03 PM |
| 1 | A girl having sex with you does NOT mean anything.If sex is your end goal, sure. Doesn’t change the fact she believes she is better than you. | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 09:01 PM |
| 1 | A girl having sex with you does NOT mean anything.She’s not highly sexually attracted to you. You’ve never encountered women like this. THAT IS OKAY. But don’t start spewing your loser mentality bs. | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 08:59 PM |
| 1 | A girl having sex with you does NOT mean anything.She follows your lead because y’all have the same desires! SHE IS HIGHLY SEXUALLY INTERESTED IN YOU. What don’t you understand? If she didn’t desire you highly, she wouldn’t follow your lead. | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 08:57 PM |
| 1 | A girl having sex with you does NOT mean anything.Lol, you see, in your world this has to be fake. There is no way a woman would always follow the lead of a man she desires, because that hasn’t happened to you before. You can’t even fathom this possibility. Sorry you live the life you live. Start loving yourself, my brother. | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 08:53 PM |
| 1 | A girl having sex with you does NOT mean anything.She follows the mans lead every single time, yes! Again, you’ve never met a woman who has high sexual interest in you. Otherwise you would know this. But you hate yourself, so you continue to mess with woman with low to medium sexual interest in you. | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 08:48 PM |
| 0 | A girl having sex with you does NOT mean anything.It means she has no interest in you and believes she is better than you. | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 08:38 PM |
| 1 | A girl having sex with you does NOT mean anything.A woman really likes a man when how she feels about the man reflects the same positive way he feels about himself. Therefore, there is no such thing as slaving because they are on the same page. She WANTS to fuck him how he wants when he wants BECAUSE SHE DESIRES HIM THE SAME WAY HE DESIRES HIMSELF. This doesn’t only apply to sex, it applies to FOLLOWING the man who she desires. The fact that you use the word “slave” tells me you’ve never met a woman who desires you to do as you wish. It also te… | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Girls are crazyyyy....I mean end of the day, women are content on their own if you’re content on your own. So it works out So when you ran out of energy, sure your woman wasn’t happy, but you also weren’t happy. So it didn’t matter you lost her, because more importantly you lost yourself. Focus on being content on your own, my brother. And thats where the energy and light will come to give your woman | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 03:26 PM |
| 4 | Girls are crazyyyy....Yes. Just make sure you always retain some of that energy and vibe that you had when you first met her. Always keep that. Cuz thats what she fell attracted to. | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 03:17 PM |
| 1 | My initiation and escalation worked against meAnd also if you grab her ass while fucking her mother. Cmon man. Lets be adults here. | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 02:40 PM |
| 11 | Girls are crazyyyy....Make sure the slope doesnt slip. | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 01:09 PM |
| 15 | Girls are crazyyyy....No. The key is to find the one who is crazy about you | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 01:00 PM |
| 0 | A girl having sex with you does NOT mean anything.Makes sense. You did provide valuable information. | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 12:01 PM |
| -1 | A girl having sex with you does NOT mean anything.I said “sex by itself means nothing” in the post. So the act of sex means nothing. I further explained the surrounding context as to why and also when it would mean something. You just wanted to comment huh? | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 11:25 AM |
| 0 | A girl having sex with you does NOT mean anything.If you dont wanna go on 3 dates, but you do in order to have sex with her, you are not having sex on your own accord. Stop making it complicated. And it’s not about being subservient and making demands. The reason why you have to do things on your own accord is because women are not challenging the men they are highly attracted to BECAUSE THEY ACTUALLY LIKE THEM and don’t want to risk them possibly leaving her. Because men that have options don’t mind losing girls and women know that. You think … | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 11:18 AM |
| 1 | A girl having sex with you does NOT mean anything.Ok, let me give you an example. If you tell a girl “come over, let’s have sex” and she says no we have to go on three dates first, that is not on YOUR own accord. That is on HER own accord. She is leading you. Because SHE DOESNT LIKE YOU ENOUGH TO DO AS YOU SAY And based on your posts, you would 100% go on those three dates because you value pussy above yourself. Don’t even lie. And to the second point, it is a deal breaker. Why would a woman want to fuck a dude who can’t even talk to them? That… | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 10:57 AM |
| -4 | A girl having sex with you does NOT mean anything.Understand reading comprehension. If they’re not having sex with you on your own accord, then yeah, they don’t really like you. Whats hard to understand? And whats hard to understand about women really not liking you? Your latest post you made is about how to handle college as a shy person. Why the hell would women be sexually attracted to a shy person? Why the hell would they do anything you tell them to? You can’t even talk to them. | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 10:12 AM |
| -11 | A girl having sex with you does NOT mean anything.Learn how to read and then learn how to comprehend what you read. | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 09:56 AM |
| -1 | A girl having sex with you does NOT mean anything.No one owes you anything. That’s why you walk away when you realize what you want is not being reciprocated. | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 09:55 AM |
| 1 | My initiation and escalation worked against meYou’re the loser who does things according to her plan. She now knows you’re a man who doesn’t have options. Who doesn’t value himself, who puts pussy ahead of him. She looks at you like “yup, just what i thought. i am better than him. I can fiddle with him now” Because if you did actually value yourself, you would have left her. Sex is not the goal. Doing things on your own accord because you love and value yourself is the goal. And a girl who is sexually attracted to you WILL FOLLOW YOUR LEAD!… | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 09:07 AM |
| 0 | My initiation and escalation worked against meI’m passionate my brother because i explained in my first comment that if she is into you, she will do whatever you want. Then you proceed to get me to double down twice. But i had already answered the first time. The problem is guys like you give every excuse to women who don’t like you, instead of understanding that women do everything for the guys they ACTUALLY WANT and will shut down guys they don’t want. Yall simply refuse to believe this. So yes, she will engage in PDA with the sexually at… | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 08:58 AM |
| -1 | My initiation and escalation worked against meIF A WOMAN IS SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO YOU, SHE IS NOT TURNING DOWN A MAKE OUT. Even if she is not into PDA, She will do it because she is into you. Hell, she might say lets go somewhere private or offer another spot, but she won’t shoot you down like this woman did to OP. Why? Because since she is highly into you, she does not want to give the impression she doesn’t like you and thus she loses a chance with you. Guys who women are actually sexually attracted to don’t just grow out of trees. More o… | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 08:39 AM |
| -2 | My initiation and escalation worked against meMaking out, yes, if she is sexually attracted to you.. OP didnt say sex. Don’t be dense in the head. | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 07:35 AM |
| 10 | How to introduce (the good type of) handjobs?If she doesnt wanna give you a blowjob, i suggest leaving her and finding another girl who will. This girl is simply not highly sexually attracted to you. You don’t think she wouldn’t want to put her mouth on the dick of the guy she cant stop thinking about? She dreams about it. It makes her wet. So if she doesn’t do it to you, take it as a sign of low to medium sexual interest. Don’t settle for that cuz thats how you then experience girls treating you like shit because you’re not who they reall… | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 07:26 AM |
| -5 | My initiation and escalation worked against meNo. She didnt like him. If a girl is into you, it doesn’t matter where you sexually Escalate | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 07:23 AM |
| 0 | My initiation and escalation worked against meStop being soft man. SHE IS NOT SEXUALLY INTERESTED IN HIM AT ALL. Girls make out with dudes they’re into on the first date. They sometimes even have sex with them. If no sex by that first date, then second date for sure. OP messed up a lot of places. Putting her on a pedestal, picking a place right next to her because he put her on a pedestal, taking her on two very romantic dates, first date she left early, second date she didnt want to progress more. She is using him for food and attention. N… | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 06:51 AM |
| 14 | She only wants sex ina relationship, I don’tNo. Thas how you get accused of r@pe you loser. Because you hang out with girls who tell you no sex and try to have sex with them. Just hang with girls who want to have sex with you and are on same page as you. Don’f be playing games with them, because they can instantly turn that against you whenever they feel like it. | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 06:45 AM |
| 13 | How approach effect your reputationAs long as you can walk away after a "no", no one cares. You're not a celebrity. Get over yourself. | /r/seduction | 07/11/25 04:45 PM |
| 10 | My biggest issue in life right now…The seduction sub is the last sub you need to be on right now. Get any job now to make ends meet. Figure out what you would like to do in the long term. Keep a positive attitude and keep your mental health strong. | /r/seduction | 07/11/25 06:17 AM |
| 22 | Anyone else feel like being average height/below average is better for day game?No, a bunch of nonsense | /r/seduction | 07/11/25 04:22 AM |
| 1 | There Are Guys In This Sub Who Don’t Know The Difference Between “Sexual Attraction” and “Physical Attraction “😳What i tell you about copying Locario and Game crew word for word? | /r/seduction | 06/11/25 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Girls take a day to respond.True, they saw your message right away and decided you’re not valuable enough to get back to in time. Get rid of her. | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Girls take a day to respond.Agreed, you’re not a high priority to them so why continuing dealing with them being their doormat. Also, you flip the tables on them cuz a lot of weak guys never cut women off. | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Girls take a day to respond.Great stuff. Simply gotta move on | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 05:17 PM |
| 0 | Girls take a day to respond.That or games. Either way, gotta let em go | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Girls take a day to respond.Exactly | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 04:48 PM |
| 7 | Girls take a day to respond.Gotta cut that girl off. No point being her lap dog who will come whenever she calls. | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Girls take a day to respond.True. Thats what it all boils down to | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 04:44 PM |
| 5 | Girls take a day to respond.True | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Volume and happinessYeah, they settled for you. You were not their first option. | /r/seduction | 04/11/25 03:17 PM |
| 6 | Remember: hell yes or noRespectfully, if im not bending you over i have no interest | /r/seduction | 04/11/25 05:13 AM |
| 32 | Remember: hell yes or notbh, it should be easier to follow once you understand the advice, because why are you spending time with a girl who you know has no interest in being with you. You are allowing her to shit on you and you are disrespecting yourself. | /r/seduction | 04/11/25 04:15 AM |
| 147 | Remember: hell yes or nothis is the only advise you will ever need. A lot of people don't want to follow it though because they value all and any pussy above themselves | /r/seduction | 04/11/25 03:51 AM |
| 7 | Fell in love with a girl with social anxietyYou say you don’t have problems with women. Stop lying. You have a lot. | /r/seduction | 04/11/25 01:55 AM |
| 4 | My first time approachingNice job approaching. My advice. Think how weak it is to alter your reason for talking to a girl midway in the convo. She’s over here thinking you’re asking for advice, then you change it to you want her number. That’s a weak switch up You’re young. Learn to be direct with women from the get go. Thats a turn on and sets you apart from these guys who beat around the bush and aren’t honest, because they are scared the girl won’t like them. Better to find out right away and set the frame in a mascu… | /r/seduction | 04/11/25 01:40 AM |
| 6 | No reply after strong interest the night before?Bro, stop taking girls seriously. Girls say a lot of things , especially at night when they’re having fun. Just go by their actions. Sure, maybe it’s cuz you didn’t fuck her that night. You don’t know. Which is why end of the day do what you want to do. Cuz if you didn’t wanna fuck and she got mad then who cares because you didn’t wanna fuck her. But if you did, then it sucks cuz you didn’t do what you wanted. But right now, this girl doesn’t want anything to do with you. And you can’t change he… | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 02:53 PM |
| 13 | No reply after strong interest the night before?Bro, she liked the attention that night. She woke up and realized shes simply not interested in you. Nothing to do with you. That’s just how it is. Best believe if a guy she really wanted said “nice seeing you”, she would respond positively because she would want to see him again! She didn’t even respond to you. Move on. Knowing this, when you have a chance to fuck a girl who is willing, Make moves. Because the next time is never guaranteed with girls. | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 02:39 PM |
| 3 | To continue or move ongo talk to other girls. This girl no longer wants anything to do with you | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 01:47 PM |
| 7 | Why is it so difficult in the moment?It can be tough. Main advice is just get those first two sets out of the way asap. Understand it might be awkward, feel weird, you’ll probably stumble. But it’s fine, because you will actually feel like okay I can do this. Momentum will happen and talking after that won’t feel like climbing mount everest. Otherwise, you will be stuck in your head the whole time thinking everything is impossible, because your brain has no proof yet that its not impossible for that day. Each day is a new day. | /r/seduction | 02/11/25 01:39 AM |
| 6 | She reached out like she misses, but now just watches my stories with her friendsThey want your attention, don’t give it to them. | /r/seduction | 02/11/25 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Volume and happinessLol they’re not fucking as many dudes as possible. They’re fucking the dudes they are sexually attracted to constantly. How many dudes on here do you think are sexually attractive with their loser and nice guy behavior, who are nervous talking to her and constantly treating like her a queen. They’re not fucking them. A lot of guys don’t make the cut. But the ones who do, best believe women are fucking them constantly. And those guys aren’t trying to be in relationships, because they have options… | /r/seduction | 31/10/25 01:45 AM |
| 41 | Where do I find MILFs/GILFs?Keep cold approaching. How the hell are you gonna expect to talk to one when you cant even approach because you are scared, but making excuses?? It is not disrespectful. Have you ever thought the ones who are down for you would see it as bold and a turn on? And its only awkward if you make it awkward in your head. | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 07:37 AM |
| 3 | What is the shift mindset of a seducer?html, css,javascript,web sockets, servers? | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 03:01 PM |
| 0 | What is the shift mindset of a seducer?Change and adapt? Why are you changing for her? That’s loser behavior. | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 01:15 PM |
| 5 | I rejected a girl 15 minutes before we were meeting for our date (story time + identifying red flags pre-date)The problem is you’re a loser who puts women on a pedestal, but you think you’re some hot shot. Right when she said it takes more than 4 messages and she’ not convinced, you should have said “all good” and unmatched and moved on. But you played with her going back and forth. Two females going at it with each other. Loser. | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 01:12 PM |
| -7 | I’m giving up on flirting and being seductiveGood luck being single forever. | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Is this a valid change of plans?Youre thinking too hard. Only deal with girls who show high interest in you right off the bat. This means it’s a smooth process to meeting up, smooth process when you physically escalate, smooth process to continue seeing you again. Any time they make it hard for you, you have to understand they’re not highly interested in you. In these cases, you hold your frame, tell them “have a good day, this isn’t gonna work out”. Or you can continue messing with them, but understand you are now beneath her… | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Is this a valid change of plans?Bro she doesnt have high interest on you. Just to even go on a date with you she wants to see your social media first and now she wants to propose a new spot. All so that it is worthwhile FOR HER. She is saying, “right now this guy isn’t really worth all of this so let me make sure it is worth it for me.” And if you don’t agree, she doesn’t mind not going out with you because she didn’t have high interest anyway. If i were you, I would say no. | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Volume and happinessLol cmon man. 4 dates, no sex, very deep talks, being vulnerable. When you meet a girl she's gonna put you in the guy I wanna fuck category or guy I can use for attention category. And this is all based on your behavior. Does any of what the commenter said make you think she has him in the guy I wanna fuck category? Hell no. How do you know? Because OP is fine going on dates without fucklng and she loves that. She finally found a guy she can use for non sexual attention while she gets her physic… | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 02:27 AM |
| 4 | Volume and happinessIf you don’t care about being her gay best friend while she fucks other dudes, good for you. But you’re her emotional tampon and she has no to low sexual interest in you, Just so you know. | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 01:42 AM |
| 2 | What's the deal about this?Scary ahh boy | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 02:14 PM |
| 1 | What's the deal about this?Or maybe stop making excuses because you are scared. | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 01:55 PM |
| 2 | What's the deal about this?And you’re a loser afraid to talk to them. | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 12:39 AM |
| 1 | second date inviting straight over?Ik, so i gave the solution to the other goal | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 12:27 AM |
| 2 | second date inviting straight over?And if your goal is to just have sex, invite her straight over and stop giving boyfriend energy. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 10:47 PM |
| 1 | What’s more attractive: the guy who sends 10 messages, or the one who replies when he wants?No, don’t be persistent with a girl who is semi-interested. What type of loser behavior is that? | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Need a wingman in LA, OC or IEOr it makes it more fun and easier to learn and progress and can push each other | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 01:39 PM |
| 1 | How to respond when she has a good comeback to your teasing?Nice | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 12:57 PM |
| 93 | 20M who wanted to hookup with a cougar/milf (update)You’re scared, my brother and now you’re coping. Its okay. We all do it. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Game men instead of womenJus talk to the girl, be direct with what you want, accept the outcome. Repeat the process | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Fuck dating apps we gotta learn cold approaches and build confidenceTrue | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 02:58 AM |
| 7 | What's your process once you get the girl home?Look at your post history. Right now, you’re a loser because your mindset is so bad. Not too late to better yourself, learn how to talk to women, and continue to fail and learn. You only have one life. Might as well achieve something | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 09:51 AM |
| 16 | What's your process once you get the girl home?Hes an incel. | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 09:45 AM |
| 28 | How big are u?You got much bigger issues to worry about. | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 04:58 AM |
| 1 | In daygame many approaches or how long does it take for you to get in state?The final boss of incels | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 02:01 AM |
| 2 | So honestly, wtfYup, just looking for attention, especially if they send it without you asking. In those cases, either tell her straight up to come over so yall can have sex or sfop talking to her | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Getting ditched by girls at barsWithin 15-20 | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 03:37 AM |
| 4 | You Are Simply Not Doing Enough Volume.Great post. It really is true | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Men’s careerIm asking you. How do you know a woman is with an “ugly” man because of his money, loser? | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 03:34 AM |
| 0 | Men’s careerAgain, how do you know shes with an ugly man because of his money, loser? | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Getting ditched by girls at barsBro, just get her number and go talk to another girl. Message her later. Why are you so worried about getting one specific girl at the club when that girl is not showing that she is down for what you want? This is a loser mentality. These girls are already going home without you even after all that making out and touching, so why do you think going back to the dance floor will change her mind? | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 02:18 AM |
| -1 | Men’s careerHow do you know it’s money, loser? | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 01:15 AM |
| 0 | Men’s careerWhy is he stinky? And yes, you’ve never seen an attractive girl with a dude that you’re like How??? You’re such a loser | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 12:49 AM |
| 53 | Men’s careerThats not why they’re not into you. You know women sleep with broke, unemployed guys right? Because something about that particular person they find them sexually attractive. Women don’t find you sexually attractive. It’s as simple as that. And I’m not just talking about looks. It’s the behavior and how you make them feel as well. Looks like you probably go around thinking people hate your career so that reflects in how you approach and talk to girls and therefore you come across as insecure, no… | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Those that go direct mass approaching to get in state, do you start going from not pulling to pulling once in state?You definitely feel a lot more comfortable socially, which helps your approaches and yeah that energy and confidence can lead to numbers. | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Getting ditched by girls at barsOnce she is reciprocating the make out, pull back and say lets continue at my place. 10-15 seconds or so. To be honest, i don’t even like making out in public anymore in clubs/bars because that is all a girl really wants and needs sometimes, so before it even gets there i’ll ask them home. Just at the height of the convo, when she seems interested and is giving me good attention, i’ll ask them. Whatever you do, don’t make out with them for long or have a long convo filled with nothing | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Getting ditched by girls at barsWhat are you going on about this time? | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 11:48 AM |
| 2 | My RosterNo, 2 are just showing interest while one flirts. | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 10:57 AM |
| 3 | Getting ditched by girls at barsHe doesnt need more rapport or friend building. He will just be wasting his time even more with girls who don’t want anything more that night. He just needs to cut to the chase quicker. | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 10:10 AM |
| 9 | Getting ditched by girls at barsGirls don’t know how much money you make when they hook up with you at a nightclub. Frankly, they don’t care. You either turn them on or not. They’re just going off your behavior and how you look at that moment. It’s not all looks, its your behavior as well. | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 10:06 AM |
| 41 | Getting ditched by girls at barsGood on you for escalating so fast. The problem is you are tiptoeing around what you want. After making out for a bit, invite her back home. If she says no, either take contact info or not and bounce to another girl. STOP GIVING HER ANY MORE OF YOUR ATTENTION. A lot of girls seek attention when they go out. They want to feel like guys want them and they love to make out and just have fun But they might not want anything more that night unless its with a guy they really want. So if you want somet… | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Women don’t trust me?You feel like women don’t trust you because you don’t love yourself and believe you are the problem. Therefore, you project your hate for yourself on to the women you interact with. Start with loving yourself, then work on getting an outside opinion on your approaches for things like tone, eye contact, etc. | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 09:56 AM |
| 1 | I like a girl, but she's in a long distance relationshipAsk her out. | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Where should a man move too in the USA if he wants the best dating opportunities? Curious about Miami Florida.Whats your dating life in Seattle like currently? | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Pro Tip: Make friends with womenWrong, you have no idea what you’re talking about. | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Importance of building yourself before pursuing romantic relationshipDo both at the same time. | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 12:22 AM |
| 26 | Is it possible to sleep with someone when you don't have your own place?Go to your car, go to a hotel, to her place. Hell go to your place if you have your own room and the occupants won’t care. Just say whatever it is confidently and she won’t second guess if yall are having a good time. But if you seem nervous and insecure then she will be turned off and the vibe will be ruined | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 09:58 AM |
| 4 | How to get sex fasterSure | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 09:41 AM |
| 21 | How to get sex fasterPersonally, i don’t. Why not? Because around the corner there is another girl who won’t say that and will instead show me that she is highly interested in me. So why mess with a girl saying shit like she has a bf (whether true or not) when there are other girls who won’t do that. I love myself to not put myself through uncooperative girls. | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 09:39 AM |
| 8 | How to get sex fasterGlad it works for you, but the romantic nice guy image can backfire very easily for a lot of people who are not trying to date or be in a relationship. I advise that if you are strictly looking for sex , just simply portray yourself as the guy who is only good for sex | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 09:28 AM |
| 56 | How to get sex fasterLet me add to this. On bumble and dating apps, make sure your pics and prompts highlight your sex appeal so women know you’re not looking for anything serious. Then, when you message them online after matching, get to the point quickly. Tell them “hey lets grab a quick drink to get to feel each other out and come back to my place” or something to that effect. Strictly message for sex purposes. | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 08:28 AM |
| 12 | Who else has worked long and hard for something thinking it would increase their chances at getting girls only to have fallen short?The only thing that will increase your chances of getting girls is purely just your self confidence. At the end of the day if you have no good career, no flashy car, no flashy clothes, no flashy body etc do you still love yourself enough to believe you are the shit to walk up to a girl you want, talk to her and ask her out/hook up? All that other shit can't hide a weak frame of someone who doesn't love and believe in themselves. | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Cunnilingus is starting to be more enjoyable than sex. Is that just me?Very true | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 08:14 PM |
| 4 | Cunnilingus is starting to be more enjoyable than sex. Is that just me?Whatchu mean? U give women head and she dont wanna reciprocate? | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 01:50 PM |
| 35 | Cunnilingus is starting to be more enjoyable than sex. Is that just me?Put this in ur diary next time. We don’t give a damn. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 01:07 PM |
| 0 | Classic, met a woman while wingmanning "it's complicated" after kissing. Need text deciphering or follow-up.We’re not taking advice from the dude who doesn’t know a girl is not into him . | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 12:29 PM |
| 3 | Classic, met a woman while wingmanning "it's complicated" after kissing. Need text deciphering or follow-up.No. I text girls the day or two days after meeting them at clubs/bars. The ones who are into me agree to see me again. The ones who are not make excuses or ghost. It doesn’t matter. Stop overthinking dumb stuff like this and just deal with girls who are into you. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 09:25 AM |
| 5 | Classic, met a woman while wingmanning "it's complicated" after kissing. Need text deciphering or follow-up.Lol man you met her out. Drinks, nightlife, all that. Girls go home, wake up and are in a whole different mood. None of the previous night means anything unless she wants to see you again, which this girl clearly does not. It has nothing to do with how fast you texted her. If she actually wanted you, she would have taken you up on your offer | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 09:20 AM |
| 4 | Anyone else lose complete interest in girls who play hard to get?Agreed | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 09:09 AM |
| 4 | Classic, met a woman while wingmanning "it's complicated" after kissing. Need text deciphering or follow-up.Shes not into you at the current moment for whatever reason. Maybe her relationship is on a better path, maybe she feels bad about what she did with you, who cares. She’s not into you anymore. No need to follow up. Move on. Meet other girls who aren’t dealing with relationship problems | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 09:04 AM |
| 9 | Love bombing vs Clinginess?It does lol. Don’t do it. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Is a second date really necessary?Very true. And if goal is just sex, second date is not necessary and it can in fact be a waste of your time and resources if she still doesn’t want to have sex at the end of the date. Or whats worse is she would have had sex even without the date but you never asked. So cut the bs and tell her to come over, so ya’ll can hook up. And if she insists on a date, she is not compatible with your values, so go find another girl who is. Stop compromising yourself for women. Love yourself and believe in … | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 01:21 PM |
| 2 | How to start a conversation with random girls.My brother, the words don’t matter. Confidence from you is is all that matters. Her response could have everything to do with you or nothing to do with you. You won’t ever know. | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 12:30 PM |
| 3 | How to start a conversation with random girls.It’s about who is saying what. If the guy she has been googly eyes staring at from across the bar for the past 10 minutes just randomly came up to her and complimented her, shed be beside herself. Thing is you won’t know if you’re that guy to her unless you go up to her. So don’t worry about her. Worry about doing what you want to do. | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 12:10 PM |
| 2 | How to start a conversation with random girls.It only feels tense and not natural if you’re tense and not natural. Doesn’t matter what you say. Of course, this all takes practice. She says ok thanks and you then ask her a question that progresses things along. The convo doesn’t need to did | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 11:55 AM |
| 1 | How to start a conversation with random girls.I mean if something comes to mind, great. Otherwise don’t force it. Because again, she knows why you are talking to her | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 11:02 AM |
| 14 | How to start a conversation with random girls.You don’t need to comment about the situation if you don’t want to or nothing to work with. Just introduce yourself first, small talk for a bit and then close. You’re doing better than 99% of guys already. She knows why you are talking to her so don’t stall and delay what you want for too long. At some point, tell her what you want. | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 10:20 AM |
| 2 | What to train physically to be attractive mGenerally, i would agree but this post is decent. She is being honest about what turns her on and she does conclude with self confidence is the key. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 10:48 AM |
| -5 | What to train physically to be attractive mUsually i dont like girls posting, but this is a decent post. But Remember guys, girls will find different body parts and physiques attractive, so just get fit for yourself. You don’t need a triangle back and big/strong glutes to get women. You do need to love yourself and be self confident like OP said | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 10:26 AM |
| 1 | I Think A lot of Guys Are Confused About Interest Level…No such thing as more game or less game. You either have game or you don’t. | /r/seduction | 10/10/25 10:03 AM |
| 13 | I Think A lot of Guys Are Confused About Interest Level…Why u worried about hoeflation? Just worry about yourself and what you want | /r/seduction | 10/10/25 12:54 AM |
| 1 | I Think A lot of Guys Are Confused About Interest Level…A post is you sharing knowledge to the community, so be upfront about that knowledge not being yours. The issue is your past 3 posts are literally word for word what Locario and others have said on live streams, my brother. The knowledge is not yours. I only make comments trying to help people dealing with certain scenarios. I’m not making posts. | /r/seduction | 09/10/25 09:03 PM |
| 1 | I Think A lot of Guys Are Confused About Interest Level…I dont give a damn about the backend. You last three posts are straight from him and some of the others on that panel and never once did you mention his name or the others in those posts. These are not your ideas And you’re a sneaky loser not revealing that information on the frontend. Aka you’re not being upfront. You gotta do better, my brother. All love. | /r/seduction | 09/10/25 08:33 PM |
| 1 | I Think A lot of Guys Are Confused About Interest Level…Where was your credit in the post, my brother. Or your last two posts. Thats the reason you had to make a pt 2 follow up post. Because the information isn’t coming from you, so you are confusing others. | /r/seduction | 09/10/25 08:06 PM |
| 1 | I Think A lot of Guys Are Confused About Interest Level…It’s good that you’re putting in work. I’m just telling you to cite your sources, give some respect to the original people, because i’ve also seen their videos and know that information is from them. Not you. Don’t be dirty now. | /r/seduction | 09/10/25 07:43 PM |
| 3 | I Think A lot of Guys Are Confused About Interest Level…Good information, but this information isn’t coming from you. And your past posts on here too are all from youtube. Start citing your sources. | /r/seduction | 09/10/25 04:54 PM |
| 1 | When do you try to kiss a woman again if she rejected you the first time?They simply don’t love themselves. | /r/seduction | 09/10/25 11:16 AM |
| 2 | When do you try to kiss a woman again if she rejected you the first time?It took you three dates to kiss and have sex with that girl while another dude did all of that in one date. Why’d it take you three dates? Because you’re a loser who bows down to girls and does whatever it takes to sleep with them, even if it means going on 3, 4, 5 ,6 + dates to do so. Which in turn also means she does not have high interest in you. I love myself and thus only deal with high interest woman. These girls don’t make me wait three dates. Therefore my standard is first date a kiss at… | /r/seduction | 09/10/25 04:33 AM |
| -1 | When do you try to kiss a woman again if she rejected you the first time?30 minutes is enough for sexual tension to build. She wasn’t into OP. Stop giving the kid hope. | /r/seduction | 09/10/25 03:29 AM |
| 6 | When do you try to kiss a woman again if she rejected you the first time?yes | /r/seduction | 09/10/25 03:19 AM |
| 16 | When do you try to kiss a woman again if she rejected you the first time?You don’t. Respect yourself and walk away, because she is not feeling you. Best believe she is at the VERY LEAST kissing on the lips the guy she is googly eyes over. She is not turning that down. She doesn’t feel you OP. You’re not that guy to her. You’re just a regular dude to her. | /r/seduction | 09/10/25 03:11 AM |
| 2 | I keep setting myself up for disappointmentContinue to better yourself and talk to more girls so you’re never focused on one girl. Understand that whenever you meet or hang out with a girl, that could be the last time you ever see her. Expect that. Don’t avoid it. Be unintentionally you. This also means you only have you to rely at the end of the day, so continue to love yourself. Stop worrying about others because anyone, guys and girls both, could come and go. | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 11:12 PM |
| 1 | I keep setting myself up for disappointmentVery good | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Is This Attraction Or Am I Just Dumb?Lol cmon my brother, stop lying to the kid. She has smelled his hesitancy and his fear through his actions and body language. That’s why she’s playing with the kid. Women are very keen to these sorts of things. The issue IS he is incapable lol. And if all of a sudden he gains the courage to take action, she’s not gonna say “finally”. She’s gonna say “no, i know who you are already.” | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Double Text Advice?You gotta start loving yourself and teaching your clients to love and respect themselves as well. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Double Text Advice?Waiting one or two days to reply to a text she hasn’t responded to IS CHASING. Waiting 5-7 days after a second non response IS CHASING. You’re a loser who needs to resort to those things because you don’t love yourself and put women on a pedestal. Otherwise you would see your value and move the hell on. But you’ve trained yourself to give women multiple chances because you value yourself so little and believe that she is above you. You justify your actions by saying you need reps and theres no e… | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 10:34 PM |
| 0 | Double Text Advice?The fact that you say OP isn't brad Pitt tells me that you don't believe you have ANY VALUE/ANY WORTH/ANY VOICE to be treated with respect and with attention from woman you want because you're not a high status celebrity. This tells me that you are a loser who woman walk over. You believe women can walk over you, show disinterest, play games with you because you're not Brad Pitt or any other high status celebrity. You believe you should make excuses and chase these woman because you don't deserv… | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 03:36 PM |
| 0 | Double Text Advice?Why are you chasing girls who don't want you? Women complain about men who give up at the first sign she isn’t interested, because THEY DON’T DEAL WITH THE GAMES WOMEN PLAY. THEREFORE, WOMEN CAN’T TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THEM. They need to resort to the losers who bow down to them. Start loving yourself and stop teaching your students to be losers who chase after girls who don't want them. Is a woman not going to text Brad Pitt or any other dude she has high interest in? | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Is This Attraction Or Am I Just Dumb?Agreed with everything except for that last paragraph. In her eyes, OP can’t all of a sudden go from a coward to a man with balls. It’s gonna register as fake to her, as him being someone he’s not, and she’s gonna laugh in his face, not all of a sudden be turned on. Best bet for OP is to man up with a different girl because it’s done with this current girl. She just using him for attention at this point. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 11:20 AM |
| 0 | Double Text Advice?5 texts back to back begging for a date? Yeah she felt sorry for you and settled. Doesn’t mean she had any interest in you. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 11:00 AM |
| 0 | Double Text Advice?OP took 2 days to further clarify a date that had already been set up but without any specific details. Lets say she ran into Brad Pitt or another dude she was very highly interested in for whatever reason, and he took two days just like OP to further clarify a date. Is she gonna take 2+ days as well to respond to the date inquiry or is she gonna respond in a somewhat reasonable time frame? She’s gonna respond in a somewhat reasonable time frame, if not immediately, because she knows if she does… | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Is This Attraction Or Am I Just Dumb?Shes not into you. Even if she was, you wouldn’t have the balls to make a move. Shes fucking the dude who knows what to do. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 03:26 AM |
| 1 | How to climb with a milfShes not interested in you romantically. You are her gym buddy. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 03:24 AM |
| -1 | Double Text Advice?Again, why do you really want this girl? You dont even know her. Why are you putting her on such a high pedestal? And stop making excuses for someone taking two days to respond to your date inquiry. Love yourself more. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 03:13 AM |
| -1 | Double Text Advice?Why in the world would you really want her when shes choosing to ignore you for two days? Love yourself more. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 02:58 AM |
| -1 | I love manhattanNo | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Double Text Advice?Don’t double text. She saw your message right away and its been about 2 days now. If she wants to get back to you, she will. Otherwise shes not interested, because best believe she is getting back to guys she is highly interested in within the day. | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 02:35 AM |
| 0 | Where to start?Coach kyle on youtube and jostenj | /r/seduction | 05/10/25 08:47 AM |
| 5 | What To Do When She Won’t Sleep With youYeah I agree, don’t react. But please just move on from her. Don’t be on three dates with a girl who won’t have sex with you lol. She is using you for attention and resources while shes fucking the dude she is actually sexually attracted to. For me, its first date or second date max we’re having sex. Otherwise im moving on, because there are other girls willing to give it up to me early because they are highly sexually attracted to me, which is my standard for myself. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 05:50 PM |
| 0 | Starting to lose hope.No. Don’t say everyone. You. You need others to make yourself feel good. Not everyone. You. The reason why needing others to make yourself feel good doesn’t work is because NOT EVERYONE is gonna like you. Okay so let’s say you’re walking and you run into three girls in a row who call you hot and you are now on a high, feeling dope and awesome Then you run into this fourth girl who is with her friend and she says “you’re kinda ugly for us. You could never get girls like us.” So what now? You feel… | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 05:16 PM |
| 0 | Starting to lose hope.How can you love yourself and then lose hope when girls start rejecting you? That means you are relying on the validation of others to feel good about yourself. Hence, YOU dont love YOURSELF. You need OTHERS to make you feel good about who you are. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 01:14 PM |
| 52 | How do I break the ice with pretty women at the gym?Ask them to sit on your face | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 09:00 AM |
| 0 | Starting to lose hope.His words revealed himself. He doesn’t love himself. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Follow-Up for the 2nd Date?Yeah i think its a wrap bro. But try anyway to schedule one more date | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 08:28 AM |
| 0 | Follow-Up for the 2nd Date?She pobably waiting for you to initiate but dont be surprised if she turns down a second date Did yall get physical at all? | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?Stop lying. Girls don’t want to have sex with you. Whens the last time you had sex with a girl that you didn’t pay for? | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?How come women don’t feel spark with you on dates then? How come your dating life sucks? How come girls don’t want to have sex with you? Because they know you are a loser and not a man. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?You CAN’T approach because you are scared. That is the reason you don’t approach. You see beautiful girls all the time and know you are scared to go up to them. So you tell yourself lies to make you feel better about the fact that you are a loser who is scared of going up to girls you don’t know. You are soft, weak loser. That is why girls don’t feel any spark with you on dates. Because end of the day, you’re not a man. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 05:51 PM |
| 4 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?Yeah i approach woman, because i’m not a pussy like woman are Woman don’t approach because they are scared, just like you are OP. Woman don’t wanna get rejected because all they have to offer the world is their looks and their pussy. If someone rejects them, their whole identity is ruined. You’re scared and emotional, just like woman are. It has nothing to do with effort. YOU JUST CANT DO IT BECAUSE YOU’RE SCARED AND EMOTIONAL. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 05:41 PM |
| 5 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?You are right with everything you said but why are you explaining your reasoning and going back and forth with her like a little pussy. You’re acting like a girl doing all that. Once she didn’t comply with what you wanted, you simply stop talking to her and move on. But you were just as emotional as her. Two girls yapping at each other. Man up, let your balls drop and stop explaining yourself to woman who don’t deserve it. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 05:36 PM |
| 8 | Starting to lose hope.Because you are looking to others for validation and don’t actually love yourself. Thus, since you are striking out left and right and using the response of others to judge yourself, you feel invisible and believe you are actually invisible. If you are starting to lose hope, that means your foundation of love for yourself was never there. It was built by others. Hence, You don’t actually love yourself. Hell, you should be thinking “im good, i’m gonna find a girl sooner or later who values me in … | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 08:08 PM |
| 3 | What’s wrong with me? There are girls into me but the ones I’m interested in are not interested in me?It doesnt matter if someone says something good about you or bad about you. The reason why is because one day someone can compliment you and you will feel good. Then the next day someone says something bad about you and you feel bad. You will be up and down and always be looking for validation from someone else. You will always be looking to others and you will always feel like a loser if they don’t like you. All that matters is how you see and view yourself. It has to come from you, no one else | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 07:49 PM |
| 2 | What’s wrong with me? There are girls into me but the ones I’m interested in are not interested in me?I just told you the problem. The solution is to start loving yourself and start positive self talk daily. I can’t tell you what is valuable about yourself. Only you can. The reality you believe is the one you live | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 07:32 PM |
| 5 | What’s wrong with me? There are girls into me but the ones I’m interested in are not interested in me?You feel like you are a “choice of the ones who are not chosen”, yet you reject and hate yourself daily because you don’t believe the girls you want will want you because you believe you are a loser. At least the “ones who are not chosen” love themselves and believe in themselves enough to go up to you. You can’t even go up to who you want. You’re the loser, just like you said. Fix your mind. | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 07:18 PM |
| 2 | What’s wrong with me? There are girls into me but the ones I’m interested in are not interested in me?Because you “feel like a big loser” and want to know “what is wrong with me”. This is your self talk. Furthermore, you don’t believe girls you like will like you back, meaning you don’t love yourself. You don’t think you are worthy of these girls. You think these girls are better than you and to them you are a loser, so you can’t get them. They haven’t said these things. YOU have. Someone who loves themself would never think this way. They would think “i have a shot with her because im worthy an… | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 07:02 PM |
| 6 | What’s wrong with me? There are girls into me but the ones I’m interested in are not interested in me?Because you hate yourself. Fix your mindset, start believing in yourself and get over the hurdle of talking to girls you want. Constant practice and you will get there. But it all begins with your mindset and willingness to face your fears | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 06:48 PM |
| 11 | Stop going to clubsYou aint pulling shit | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 04:36 PM |
| 37 | Stop going to clubsJust cuz it doesn’t work for YOU doesn’t mean it won’t and doesn’t work for others. Stop saying things that don’t work for YOU and applying to others. Don’t try to bring us into your lame life. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 04:32 PM |
| 13 | Moving to SF from NYC. Am I fucked?SF is a big downgrade from nyc in terms of diversity and abundance of cute/sexy/hot/beautiful girls you will meet. You still pave your own dating life so you’ll be fine in sf | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Am i a second choice or a bestie?Lol | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 03:25 AM |
| 4 | Pro Tip: Make friends with womenNo, you’re saying its a big deal. It is NOT a big deal unless you are sexually attractive, so stop leaving information behind. | /r/seduction | 28/09/25 03:09 AM |
| 5 | Is it a shit test?Say no lol | /r/seduction | 28/09/25 01:19 AM |
| 10 | Pro Tip: Make friends with womenDoesnt mean shit if they dont find you sexually attractive. You’re just a nice guy to them | /r/seduction | 28/09/25 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Dating a new woman who's hotter than what I'm used to. How do I get her to be more enthusiastic about giving head?You gotta look at like this. If everyone in the world thought you were ugly, you were not worth anything, you had no quality traits, etc, would you reject and dehumanize yourself as well? Or would you stand up for yourself, believe in yourself, love yourself and keep pushing forward because you’re all you have at the end of the day. Only you can love yourself, no one else can do it for you. Hell no one else might love you. But you’re alive right? So what are you gonna do? Loving yourself is a co… | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 02:01 PM |
| 0 | Dating a new woman who's hotter than what I'm used to. How do I get her to be more enthusiastic about giving head?Only thing it depends on is whether or not you love or hate yourself. If there is something you want and she does not comply, YOU LEAVE. Theres no compromising or common ground here. Why is that? BECAUSE THERE WILL ALWAYS BE SOMEONE ELSE WILLING TO TREAT YOU HOW YOU VALUE YOURSELF. But looks like you haven’t experienced a woman who will go above and beyond for you simply because they have super high interest in you. Sad. | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 01:16 PM |
| -1 | Dating a new woman who's hotter than what I'm used to. How do I get her to be more enthusiastic about giving head?Well, yes if you love yourself and you are not satisfied with a certain behavior after explaining to her, you absolutely must leave her. That is unless you hate yourself and value her above yourself. Sounds like you also don’t love yourself mrbubblepopper. Go figure. | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Dating a new woman who's hotter than what I'm used to. How do I get her to be more enthusiastic about giving head?Well if he stays with her and puts up with it, that IS how he views himself If he viewed himself differently, he wouldn’t tolerate that behavior and leave. Because you are right, his girl would give her favorite celeb the best head of his life. Hell, she would orgasm just giving it to him. | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 12:02 PM |
| -4 | Dating a new woman who's hotter than what I'm used to. How do I get her to be more enthusiastic about giving head?You’re welcome, my brother. | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Pro Tip: Make friends with womenYou have deep respect in the correct context?? Lol man, your language exposes yourself like i’m telling you. Get help. | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 02:39 AM |
| -7 | Dating a new woman who's hotter than what I'm used to. How do I get her to be more enthusiastic about giving head?I’m explaining how his mind is working. How he views himself compared to this girl. How he views himself compared to others. Looks like this also triggered you, so take a good look at yourself as well, my brother | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 01:51 AM |
| -23 | Dating a new woman who's hotter than what I'm used to. How do I get her to be more enthusiastic about giving head?She doesnt have to like it. But she should do it Enthusiastically when you tell her to. You have to tell her once, hey this is what I like. If shes not with it, you gotta end it my man. Stop focusing on her looks and her pussy and start loving yourself. Do things for yourself, not cause of another human being who is pretty. But you won’t do it. You’ll stay and put up with it. Because you value her looks so much and don’t think you can do better. You hate yourself. | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Pro Tip: Make friends with womenYou’re around them. You’re not fucking them. They’re not sexually attracted to you. And they never will be, that is why they are comfortable changing in front of you. Sorta like how they treat their gay best friends | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 01:11 AM |
| 16 | Pro Tip: Make friends with womenThat is true. All im saying is making friends with women isnt gonna help you get girls to fuck you, so you still have to do the work to be sexually attractive. That usually entails learning from and interacting with other men who know how to get girls and then practicing with girls using a romantic/sexual mindset | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 12:56 AM |
| 1 | I Know I’m Gonna Catch Some Heat For This But….Her not wanting to be used and any other excuse simply means her desire to have sex with you doesn’t outweigh the other concerns she has regarding you meaning SHE DOES NOT HAVE HIGH INTEREST. That is fine, but you just move on The condom thing you are right, so I take that back. Because there are a lot of girls who will have sex with you without one. Ultimately it does mean she doesn’t have high enough interest. However, personally I am willing to let that slide. End of the day it is up to you t… | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 12:54 AM |
| 0 | Pro Tip: Make friends with womenI said DONT BE. I didnt say YOU ARE. You called yourself a misogynist. You put those words in your mouth. That tells me how you really view yourself. Don’t be mad at me for calling you out. You did it to yourself. Get some help. | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 12:51 AM |
| 0 | Pro Tip: Make friends with womenI didn’t call you a misogynist. You said that. I just said dont end up being a woman hater. | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 12:13 AM |
| 6 | Pro Tip: Make friends with womenDon’t be a woman hater my brother. | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 04:41 PM |
| 3 | How do you keep yourself motivated?How do i keep myself motivated? Because I don’t want to be a loser that can’t attract women the way I want to. It’s not a prize thing or an ego thing being able to get women. What i get from it is the ability to handle rejection, better my inner game, increase my social confidence, respect myself and just become a man I am proud of. Forget the woman, it’s not about her. It’s about me winning. The side effect is me being able to attract women | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Pro Tip: Make friends with womenI’m telling him to man up, to hang around both men and women. Your social group as a man should not consist of mostly women. That just raises alarms. Unless you have feminine tendencies, in which case yeah that’s a different story….Do you queen, Yaas!! | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 03:25 PM |
| -11 | Pro Tip: Make friends with womenLol. Man up. | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 03:05 PM |
| 133 | Pro Tip: Make friends with womenI mean make friends with everyone. But making friends with women specifically isn’t gonna help you get more girls who want to have sex with you. Most likely you’re still not used to building sexual tension and escalating and flirting with women you are interested in. Women in general are not seeing you as a sexually attractive male, just a nice guy friend who they will tell all their problems to while fucking the dude who they’re sexually attracted to. So you got to put in work on that end still… | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Quick need adviceYou literally said “have no clue what to say or do” and you had to get on reddit to get advice before initiating a convo with her | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Quick need adviceNo you have not had many years of success in the past. Otherwise you would know how to talk to a girl who is sitting down. Stop lying. | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Quick need adviceLol its not a marketing strategy my brother. It’s real life. You dont just wake up and be a dude who can attract and maintain women. | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Quick need adviceMy brother. It all takes time. Inner game and social intelligence like you mention take years of work and repetition. OP doesn't know that saying a simple "hey" to a woman is a fine way to start and here you are talking about it's all a quick fix. It's not, my brother. Don't lie to the guy. | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel like they struggle due to their lifestyle or style in general?Agreed. The only way the person you see in the mirror is gonna smile is if you smile first. So, what I'm saying you are projecting all your insecurities and hate on to others and coming up with reasons to reject yourself. Love yourself first and foremost and then the people who are for you willl be drawn to you because your energy will be so magnetic. | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Quick need adviceWhat ujm556 is saying is, its not just about having an opener. Whats an opener if you don’t love yourself and believe that the girl is better than you? Whats an opener if you don’t know what you want out of that conversation? Whats an opener if you’re scared to be direct to a woman and tell her you want to hook up or go out on a date? Whats an opener if you can’t read tone and body language? Etc. If you’re looking for a way to start a conversation with a woman, you need a lot of internal work an… | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 10:24 AM |
| 1 | I Know I’m Gonna Catch Some Heat For This But….So why didnt you mention the condoms in that first message you silly girl?????? That IS a possible deal breaker and has nothing to do with a woman’s interest. Thats like forgetting to mention that you currently have a herpes outbreak down there Well then yeah, sex is off the table for good reaosn | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 12:22 AM |
| 8 | Why would a man follow predominantly women on Instagram? And they all look the same.. ie; Blonde, Tall, skinny.What a dumb question by OP | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 05:18 AM |
| 1 | I Know I’m Gonna Catch Some Heat For This But….That means your desire to have sex with him was not stronger than your reason to not have sex with him. Meaning you were not HIGHLY INTERESTED in him. Guys who get women and respect themselves aren’t gonna wait for you till you’re ready to have sex. Why? Because they don’t need to and they don’t want to. They move on, simply because they know there are girls out there who will show high interest right away, and have sex on that first date or second date max. That is their experience and hence th… | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 05:10 AM |
| 1 | What’s the WORST advice you’ve been given?Exaactly. | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 11:39 PM |
| 0 | What’s the WORST advice you’ve been given?Don’t even bother explaining yourself to them. They don’t understand because they can’t attract women. Only people who can attract women know it’s not about looks | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 09:49 PM |
| 1 | You’ve Got Her Number, Now What?!Good post, my brother. | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 03:03 PM |
| 90 | What’s the WORST advice you’ve been given?“Women only care about looks” Said by the incels who don’t love themselves and have no self confidence whatsoever. So in every area of their life, they are metaphorically ugly. That’s why women don’t want them. Because they don’t love themselves and it shows. Nothing to do with looks | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 03:01 PM |
| 0 | I Got My Gym Membership Suspended and Banned from the Shopping Mall for cold approaching women IRL. muh "just try offline bro, online is not real life is huge cope. online is real life."Nothing wrong with approaching. It works me for and my friends who do approach. And in this day and age where most guys are scared to interact with women, just like this entire comment section, you separate yourself from other men and you can be proud of yourself for having balls. Seems to me you’re just not calibrated in how you approach so you are scaring women right off the bat. All you need is someone else to watch how you approach and give you pointers and tons more practice. Also dont be i… | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 10:10 AM |
| -3 | I Got My Gym Membership Suspended and Banned from the Shopping Mall for cold approaching women IRL. muh "just try offline bro, online is not real life is huge cope. online is real life."Lol you’re worried about women seeing you approach other women you wanna talk to? So that means you’ll never talk to a girl unless she is completely alone or near guys? Lol youre soft and weak. I bet my life savings you don’t and can’t approach women. You’re not a man. Seems like op’s problem is his lack of calibration when it comes to approaching. But at least he has balls while you have an opening where your balls should be. | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 10:05 AM |
| 2 | I Got My Gym Membership Suspended and Banned from the Shopping Mall for cold approaching women IRL. muh "just try offline bro, online is not real life is huge cope. online is real life."Nothing wrong with approaching at the gym or any where else for that matter. Hes just not calibrated with how he does it. Also i bet my life savings you don’t and can’t approach girls in general. You’re the one who is not a man. At least OP has the balls to try, while you have an opening where your balls should be. | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 10:02 AM |
| 2 | I Know I’m Gonna Catch Some Heat For This But….Lol 7 sex partners. What fantasy do you live in my brother? And attractive is subjective you goofball. | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Why does this girl resist all physical affection?So he can go fuck some other girl besides her. BECAUSE SHES NOT INTERESTED and doesnt know how else to let this dude know besides making it painfully obvious | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Why does this girl resist all physical affection?It is using him for attention when hes clearly trying to be romantic. You’re right though, op needs to recognize this make an obvious move or leave asap. | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Why does this girl resist all physical affection?To be realistic with OP and set him straight. SHES SIMPLY NOT INTO HIM. Stop it, my brother. Shes not into him and will never be. | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Why does this girl resist all physical affection?I do the same. The problem with OP is its been 4 dates and 2 weeks. You don’t think he has tried slowly building up the physical intimacy? What dont you understand, my brother. You are dense in the head | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 12:05 PM |
| 2 | I Know I’m Gonna Catch Some Heat For This But….Wrong, you never seen a bald dude with a beautiful girl? Youve never seen a short dude with a beautiful girl? Youve never seen a fat dude with a beautiful girl? Just because you hate yourself and can’t get girls as a result doesn’t mean other people are in the same sinkhole you’re in | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 11:07 AM |
| -1 | Why does this girl resist all physical affection?She doesnt even hold hands or hug and you think arm around the back will work? Snap out of your fantasy bro | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 07:56 AM |
| 4 | Why does this girl resist all physical affection?Thats the problem. You’re trying to be this good, traditional, boyfriend, cookie cutter, nice guy type right away. And thats not sexually attractive to women. They appreciate it and will use up your attention and time while getting physical and intimate with guy she knows just wants to fuck. You can still be sexual with a woman first and then display boyfriend material afterwards. The other way around will bite you in the butt like it is doing now | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 07:20 AM |
| 5 | Why does this girl resist all physical affection?Gonna get married and have babies on first date? What???? Dude this is exactly why she hasn’t had sex with you or shown any sign if physical intimacy You’re that romantic guy who wants to court her and wife her up and will spend time with her not having sex. She knows this and will make you wait cuz she knows she will always have you on the back burner. Guys who have sex and get intimate with women constantly and quickly assert sexual behavior instead of friendly boyfriend behavior. You’re simpl… | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Why does this girl resist all physical affection?Shes not into you like that. Shes using you for attention and keeping you there as sort of her male best friend. You’re giving her that energy and letting her know its okay by spending so much non sexual time wither her. Hell, she might even think you’re gay. Best believe she would give it up (and is currently giving it up) for a dude who is sexually assertive and only spends time with her if it means sex. Girls love sex and intimacy too and are getting it from someone one way or another. Unfort… | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 07:04 AM |
| 2 | I Know I’m Gonna Catch Some Heat For This But….They hate their situation with women in life, so they need to project it somewhere else | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 05:00 AM |
| 3 | I Know I’m Gonna Catch Some Heat For This But….Girls dont want you, my brother | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 02:43 AM |
| 0 | I Know I’m Gonna Catch Some Heat For This But….I see you comment here all the time. You’re that dude she goes out with and continually puts in the friend zone cuz shes not “feeling the spark” and then goes home to fuck the dude she met on a random night out. Cuz that dude acts like a bold man instead of a little girl like you do always trying to accommodate the woman and out her on a pedestal | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 02:41 AM |
| 2 | I Know I’m Gonna Catch Some Heat For This But….Not looks fool. You still have to interact with her and she has to see you as sexually attractive. Combination of how you look, how you behave, and your style | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 02:27 AM |
| -3 | I Know I’m Gonna Catch Some Heat For This But….Regardless, OP is right. She is sleeping with you that night you meet or that very first date if she is highly interested in you. Anything else and her desire for you is not as strong as her reason for not sleeping with you. Which means she doesnt have high interest in you. | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 02:26 AM |
| 0 | I Know I’m Gonna Catch Some Heat For This But….Lol 3-4 dates?? You just missed his point. 3-4 means she aint into you because best believe shes having sex with the dude shes really into ASAP, on that first date. On that first time they ever see each other And stop saying attractive girls, cuz that is all subjective. | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Should you avoid calling attractive women cute?You did fine man, shes just not into you like that. Find another girl who is | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 04:23 AM |
| 10 | How to react when she shows disinterest/mixed signals?For me personally, yes. Because that means she doesnt value and respect you the way you value yourself. 18 hours twice?? Lol. One time and i’m done. You think shes taking that long for a guy she is really into? I’m not even asking for a response within an hour but you can’t respond within 6-8 hours?? Your goal is to find girls who align with you. These types of girls are very cooperative, consistent and easy because they have high interest in you. And the quicker you reject girls showing you res… | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 11:25 PM |
| 2 | How to react when she shows disinterest/mixed signals?You double texted and triple texted and finally got that date. She SETTLED FOR YOU. She said “fine, the guy i want isnt being responsive right now, so let me give this persistent thirsty dude a chance. Let me see if he has any worth to me.” Let’s say you fucked. You’re happy about being someones second and third and fourth choice, meanwhile she was being cooperative and consistent with the guy she really wanted? Lol you value pussy above yourself. When you say “You are losing an opportunity” it … | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 10:41 PM |
| 3 | How to react when she shows disinterest/mixed signals?I’m curious if you actually love and respect yourself. Because why are you contacting a girl who is showing disinterest and mixed signals 2-3 days later hoping that she will get back to you? When girls who are into you don’t do these things. The fact that you even do this shows me you care more about pussy than you do yourself. It also shows me you don’t have experience with girls who are highly interested in you otherwise you would never tolerate anything less | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 09:28 PM |
| 4 | How to react when she shows disinterest/mixed signals?Don’t listen to this guy. All the other comments are telling you to move on because they respect and value themselves. That is the right advise. This guy values pussy above himself and gives excuses and multiple chances to woman because he doesnt respect himself | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 09:04 PM |
| 3 | I realised what's the biggest thing holding me back. I need your opinion on it.How to solve this problem? Girls have multiple dudes theyre actively having sex with and have had sex with in the past and are out dressed nice and cute at bars and clubs looking to have sex if the right guy comes along and everything aligns for them. They love sex too and have crazy sex stories just like guys. Oh my goodness, if you only knew…Stop thinking girls don’t enjoy and want sex. Only guys who don’t have sex with many girls think otherwise, so just ask and tell her straight up what you … | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 08:58 PM |
| 0 | The Right Kind of VibeYou’re thinking too hard. Just smile your normal smile and go talk to her. Ya’ll make this too confusing. | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 02:52 PM |
| 0 | When she says “im going home” during night gameLol stop trying to mask lying. You are being dishonest with your intentions because you are scared she will say no upfront. You don’t care about that pizza because if she just said let’s fuck in the car you would say yes. You’re weak! You believe you are not worthy as is so you have to do more in the HOPES of getting pussy. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 11:00 PM |
| 0 | When she says “im going home” during night gameMy advise for you my brother is you gotta start loving yourself more than pussy. You lie and jump through hoops to get some when you could be honest and deal with girls who align with what you want. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 10:44 PM |
| -1 | When she says “im going home” during night gameWhat is sour about it? You’re acting like woman don’t just want sex too. If she does cool, we’re on the same page. Ive experienced that before. If not, oh well i move on. Lol what are you rambling on about? | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 10:28 PM |
| -2 | When she says “im going home” during night gameBro, of course a woman won’t always say yes. That is a given and it is why you get it out of the way asap by stating your intentions. No harm no foul if she says no, i just move on. She’s just not aligned with what I want. Doesn’t mean im a woman hater. Just means we don’t want the same thing. If i want to fuck a woman im not gonna lie about bringing her over for pizza and drinks. And i’m not going through with pizza and drinks just to get some pussy. Lol. On the other hand, If i want to date he… | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 10:24 PM |
| 0 | When she says “im going home” during night game“You cant just tell her your intentions upfront”… why should i lie and be dishonest to get pussy? I dont give a fuck about the pizza in my fridge or the liquor lol. If she says no, its a no. Lol no harm no foul. Im not mad, i just keep it moving. But im not lying for pussy lol. Theres other girls who will be down, im not chasing. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 10:12 PM |
| -9 | When she says “im going home” during night gameWhy would i invite her back to eat some food and watch a show when im just trying to have sex? Thats lying and no integrity. No point even bringing her back to my place if she doesn’t want sex otherwise im just wasting my time | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 05:25 PM |
| 1 | bored and down to have some fun over text or onlineGo out and talk to girls. | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding dinner first date — how would you guys handle this?Nope, if I suggest something it is cause I want to do it. If she doesn’t comply, that means she doesnt want to do it. Why should I or anyone waste time on a girl who is not down for you when you can easily find another girl who will be down? The truth, twilightfate, is that you don’t love yourself. You love others more than yourself, hoping to feel validated. Love yourself more. | /r/seduction | 06/09/25 01:38 PM |
| 0 | Avoiding dinner first date — how would you guys handle this?I changed it cuz the mods act really soft on here, otherwise i would have kept it. And no. A girl that doesnt comply with any date you set up, IGNORE HER. Shes not into you | /r/seduction | 06/09/25 03:51 AM |
| 2 | Avoiding dinner first date — how would you guys handle this?I literally said “if she doesnt agree, just ignore here”. What type of slow elephant are you? | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Avoiding dinner first date — how would you guys handle this?I said IF she doesnt agree, then ignore her. Read my first comment | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 09:46 PM |
| 18 | Avoiding dinner first date — how would you guys handle this?Stop being soft. A girl who changes your date plans and asks for food instead is a girl you should ignore. She’s not into you. OP get ready to ignore girls who arent into you and using you for attention and resources | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 03:27 PM |
| 25 | Avoiding dinner first date — how would you guys handle this?Next time dont just tell a girl “lets meet up”. Be clear with your intentions right off the bat so she cant dictate the outcome like she just did Tell her “i was thinking drinks. Theres this cool bar I wanna check out”. If she doesnt agree, just ignore here. | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 02:25 PM |
| 31 | What do I have to do to date/sleep with girls "out of my league"?We all have traits and qualities about ourselves that we love. Reinforce those qualities every day while working on being more complete if you see you are lacking in other areas you want. But all throughout this, you tell yourself that "I am worthy, I am valuable, I am attractive." Again, this all starts in your mind. If you want the reflection across the mirror to smile, you have to smile first. Additionally, you ignore and remove people who don't value you the way you do. This gives you the ti… | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 10:09 AM |
| 72 | What do I have to do to date/sleep with girls "out of my league"?The reality you believe is the one you live. So when you say “reality could be nasty to me” that tells me you are looking for external validation to prove to yourself that you are worthy and lovable. If that is the case, your whole life will be a rollercoaster because if a girl likes you, you are feeling on top of the world and then once the moment another girl makes a bad comment about you, you will come crashing down. You will never achieve anything that way and your life will never truly make… | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Maintaining interestBro, get some other girls around you. Stop living in a scarcity mindset worrying about ONE girl 10 hours away. Goodness griefs bro, you just met this girl. Don’t even worry about texting her until you’re back. | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Methods for handling girls who think they're better than you?Hold on a second . You walk up to a girl, introduce yourself confidently and talk to her for a bit and you’re asking me how is she supposed to see value in you without testing you?? So you’re not funny, smart, witty, unique, handsome, cool, confident etc. There are no redeemable qualities about yourself that you love which make you worthy for someone to love and get to know? Huh? If you dont see these qualities in yourself you will accept woman shit testing you. You will accept women who don’t s… | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Methods for handling girls who think they're better than you?It is serious. Cuz your words and actions expose how you truly feel about yourself You expect and tolerate girls testing you because they dont see value in you, and since you don’t either, you comply with their tests so hopefully you pass. | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Methods for handling girls who think they're better than you?She doesnt know this hot celebrity. What the hell are you talking about? And she doesnt have to treat you like shit just because she wants to sleep with you. Lol you see man? You don’t love yourself so you justify her behavior to get INTO HER FRAME so she can see you hopefully as worthy. Instead of finding a girl who values you in YOUR FRAME already and already sees you as worthy. But like i said, you probably don’t have girls like this in your life so you scrap and claw to get girls who have lo… | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Why do women show a lot of interest in me then suddenly it vanishes into thin air?You have to understand walking away because you value and love yourself is the most attractive thing you can do for yourself. And it is dominant behavior. Women are used to guys putting up with everything they throw at them, so when you understand your worth and start channeling it towards girls who are clearly interested in you, that is when you start winning. You cant only talk to one or two girls. You gotta continually put yourself out there talking to girls. Online, in person, whatever. Once… | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Why do women show a lot of interest in me then suddenly it vanishes into thin air?Bro, a girl knows you’re going on a date to get to know each other more. Stop letting that excuse of “i dont know you enough, lets talk more” string you along towards her just getting attention from you without having to actually invest any time towards actually meeting up. Any form of lets get to know each other first, cancelling on dates, flaking, not responding to you is her not having high interest in you to meet up to get to know you further. That’s all there is to it. So whats the solution… | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 05:02 AM |
| 0 | Methods for handling girls who think they're better than you?No. Thats what losers say to themselves to justify behavior from women not showing high interest in them because any form of interaction with a woman is good enough for them. Instead of WALKING AWAY because you value yourself and know there is another woman going to treat you same the way you value yourself And you’re over here saying “she doesnt know your value, you’re not jason mamoa. Of course she has to test you” and all this other bs tells me you don’t value yourself. It tells me you have a… | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Methods for handling girls who think they're better than you?Yes, they do. Just because you havent experienced it before doesn’t mean that it doesnt happen. And the reason why you probly havent experienced this before is because you accept these disparaging comments women make to you thinking “oh i just gotta pass her tests” because you dont love yourself enough to walk away. So you waste your time and get strung along by these girls who have low to medium interest in you when you could instead be on to the next girl who sees you very favorably. | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 04:07 AM |
| 3 | Why do women show a lot of interest in me then suddenly it vanishes into thin air?Yup non sexual attention for women is what they’re after. To resolve this, stop all the long winded chit chat about nothing and ask out on a date pretty quickly. If she is interested she will say yes. Anything else is her not being into you like that and just simply using you for attention. Also this girl that canceled on you twice saw you as a a loser with no spine. She knew she could play games with you. Stop giving girls who show low interest in you by flaking multiple chances. Even though ya… | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Methods for handling girls who think they're better than you?Thats why youre on reddit looking for girl to have breast play with instead of finding them in real life | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Methods for handling girls who think they're better than you?Why the fuck would she tease the frame of a dude she is actually interested in? Again, would she tease the frame of her celebrity crush she just met? Hell no, why? Because she wouldnt risk the chance of this guy she is super interested jn dismissing her and leaving her high and dry. She knows what she is doing has the chance of a consequence she does not want Would a job applicant looking for a job test the interviewer for a job he really wants and tease his frame? Hell no, because they’re inter… | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Methods for handling girls who think they're better than you?Thats not flirting fool. | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Methods for handling girls who think they're better than you?Lol the only problem is you didn’t love yourself and placed her on a pedestal. You viewed her as a 10/10 and walked on eggshells singing her praise while thinking and acting like you were lower value. Of course you fumbled. How come women sleep with and cry over bums all the time? The bums love themselves and don’t see anyone as better or worse than them. They just do them. | /r/seduction | 29/08/25 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Methods for handling girls who think they're better than you?Doesnt matter if he got the info or not. She already doesnt respect him. If she engages with him at all, its only to use him. | /r/seduction | 29/08/25 11:32 PM |
| 18 | Methods for handling girls who think they're better than you?Walk away from her. Set a standard for yourself that you’ll only deal with women who show high interest in you. You think shes gonna tell her celebrity crush “you should be paying for this”. Hell no, why? Because she wouldnt risk the chance of this guy she is super interested in dismissing her and leaving her high and dry. She knows what she is doing has the chance of a consequence she does not want Would a job applicant looking for a job test the interviewer for a job he really wants and tease … | /r/seduction | 29/08/25 11:15 PM |
| 1 | How Valuable Is Being Morally Upstanding With Women?I mean if everything is equal and the bad and good character guy make her feel the same way, sure shed prob choose the good character guy. What im telling you is if the bad character guy makes her feel like shes on an exhilarating, exciting ride whenever shes with him, and the good character guy bores her, she doesnt give a fuck about him being morally upstanding. In fact, he grosses her out. She will be bending over backwards to sleep and date the bad character guy, while ignoring that good guy… | /r/seduction | 29/08/25 09:37 PM |
| 13 | How Valuable Is Being Morally Upstanding With Women?Doesnt really matter. Just matters how you make her feel with your words and behavior | /r/seduction | 29/08/25 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Girl told me she’s not able to date right now but still trying to see meUr a simp, bending over backwards, following the woman’s frame just to get some cheeks. Respect yourself fool | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 07:45 PM |
| 0 | Girl told me she’s not able to date right now but still trying to see meUr ahead of the game, respect | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 07:44 PM |
| 0 | How did y'all beaten your lust and p addiction?Naa being away on vacation doesn’t count. You’re now back home in a familiar place, where your brain is wired to watching porn 3 times a week. Go two weeks starting from now and you’ll get your money. | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 11:21 AM |
| 1 | How did y'all beaten your lust and p addiction?Bro you’re addicted but in denial. Go two weeks without porn and let me know if you can do it. If you can, i’ll cashapp you $200. | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 10:42 AM |
| 0 | How did y'all beaten your lust and p addiction?Why u got a girlfriend and watching porn 3 times a week? | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 10:22 AM |
| 0 | How did y'all beaten your lust and p addiction?How many girls are you seeing right now? | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 11:43 PM |
| 0 | How did y'all beaten your lust and p addiction?Lol seven days in a week and you suggest watching porn 3 of those days. Good luck ridding yourself of your porn addiction! Just give that shit up man. | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 04:09 PM |
| 0 | Would you text back a girl who ghosted you for 2 days?Bro, have some self respect. Why the hell are you chasing a girl who waited two days to text you, meanwhile she was texting the guy back she’s rly interested in within a couple hours at most | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 12:01 AM |
| 2 | What helped get you over your approach anxiety?The hell does this mean? | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 10:40 AM |
| 1 | To all the playersGotcha, If she says going home, is she not feeling it at the moment? What does she need to say for you to know you can get her | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 10:38 PM |
| 1 | To all the playersI know. My question is what do you say to make it happen. How do you transition? Do you just be direct like hey come over to my place now? | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 09:26 PM |
| 2 | What do you do on a date if...Quick question. How are you conducting the second date if youre looking to smash. Are you making it shorter and trying to get to the point quicker. Or still taking your time and stuff? | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 09:26 PM |
| 3 | What do you do on a date if...Yeah makes sense | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 09:00 PM |
| 2 | What do you do on a date if...How many max dates do you personally do if you’re looking to smash | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Does she have low interest?Yeah once. Was a few hours and made out | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Does she have low interest?True | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Does she have low interest?What do you mean? | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Great breakdown of a successful interactionDisagree. Man up and open direct. Stop shying away from how you feel about her like a little girl | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Being transparent Gets You Higher Value InteractionsLol bro shes ur girlfriend after what, 3 weeks? How old are you? | /r/seduction | 08/08/25 09:40 PM |
| 9 | Older waitress flirted with me at a salsa club, gave me her number, but our 'date' felt like I was just a ride for her — what happened?First date keep it simple and cheap because you dont know each other and yall arent dating. Some ideas are: a round of drinks, ice cream, coffee, walk in the park or stroll on the beach, a game of pool, etc..If she rejects, shes just not into you and using you for attention or resources. | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 12:25 AM |
| 7 | Older waitress flirted with me at a salsa club, gave me her number, but our 'date' felt like I was just a ride for her — what happened?Dont do dinner and drinks lol. Keep it simple and cheap. You’re treating her like your girlfriend and literally just met her. Again, she knew you would simp for her. And once she got there, she was ready for all of it to be over. | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 12:14 AM |
| 18 | Older waitress flirted with me at a salsa club, gave me her number, but our 'date' felt like I was just a ride for her — what happened?Dont do dinner for a girl you just met. Why are you picking up a girl you just met? She just wanted attention for the night and she knew you would do anything for her. | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 12:01 AM |
| 3 | How many dates do you personally take women on before you cut them off for not wanting sex.Yup because theyve had experience where women theyre into have given it up by 2 dates or less. So if youve had those experiences why would you want or accept anything less? Know your value | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 03:47 PM |
| 2 | How many dates do you personally take women on before you cut them off for not wanting sex.Lol ikr | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 03:45 PM |
| -6 | How many dates do you personally take women on before you cut them off for not wanting sex.Exactly | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 12:21 PM |
| 5 | How many dates do you personally take women on before you cut them off for not wanting sex.Why are you chasing a woman who is not sure about you yet when youve been with woman who are sure about you right away? | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 12:02 PM |
| 2 | How many dates do you personally take women on before you cut them off for not wanting sex.Very interesting take, i haven’t heard this before. They’re willing to pay for dates? | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 11:54 AM |
| 5 | How many dates do you personally take women on before you cut them off for not wanting sex.Yessir, know your worth | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 11:52 AM |
| -2 | How many dates do you personally take women on before you cut them off for not wanting sex.When is it 3 for u | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 07:36 AM |
| 0 | How many dates do you personally take women on before you cut them off for not wanting sex.So ur always having second or third date at ur place? | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 07:35 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys feel about opening the car door for the girl?What are you rambling on about my brother. Keep being a doormat for the women you want, while they spread their legs for the guys that do things their own way. | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 11:07 PM |
| -1 | About "Models: Attract Women Through Honesty" by Mark MansonUnfortunately, you are right | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 08:29 PM |
| 8 | About "Models: Attract Women Through Honesty" by Mark MansonLack of self love. How do you view yourself? Why are you persisting, chasing after a girl who is making life difficult for you when another girl would be down for you immediately. Lack of self love | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 08:06 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys feel about opening the car door for the girl?A lot of men are here are simps. It’s hard to change their viewpoint cuz they don’t and can’t understand the life of the type of guy that consistently gets women drooling over them. Those guys defy all the rules that society has told us about women, but until you see it, you won’t believe it. | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 04:12 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys feel about opening the car door for the girl?Lol | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 04:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about opening the car door for the girl?stop being a simp | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 09:04 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys feel about opening the car door for the girl?lol no. Also sets the expectation that you're going to do it all the time for her going forward. She can open the door herself, she has arms. No flowers on a first date either. I will get her flowers randomly if I want to, not because of a certain occasion. | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 09:03 AM |
| 5 | It’s not so bad once you put yourself out thereNo, you’re wrong. If shes not receptive just walk away. That’s all there is to it. You guys always exaggerate your fears in your head | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 01:46 AM |
| 8 | It’s not so bad once you put yourself out thereNot true. Don’t listen to him. This is the talk of someone who is afraid to approach girls and lets excuses fill his mind to justify it. If you’re a man, you don’t sit there waiting for her to choose you. You go up to who you want. That’s why we’re men. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 01:39 AM |
| 1 | How did you actually improve your text game on apps?Nooooo, a lot of them won’t. You’re just shooting yourself in the foot | /r/seduction | 22/07/25 01:26 AM |
| 3 | How did you actually improve your text game on apps?Lol dark humour, multilayered meanings over text??? Not when ya’ll dont know each other because text complicates all that. That will turn into quick unmatches very early on so instead save all that for in person’s | /r/seduction | 22/07/25 12:38 AM |
| 9 | what’s a unique thing that turns you on?Big butts on women | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Opening Direct Is InauthenticWho cares what it comes down to. All we care is she has high attraction for us right off the bat. That can vary for a lot of reasons but looks def helps. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”I won the argument when you said i “disregarded her perspective.” She literally re hashed what i said in my last paragraph. Better your reading comprehension skills. Shes not gonna fuck you, my brother | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 03:32 AM |
| 0 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”you ever hear girls call assholes anything but ugly? Lol its a phrase, my brother. | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 03:27 AM |
| 12 | Opening Direct Is InauthenticDirect isnt us communicating we like her based on her personality. We are saying “hey im physically attracted to you that’s why im talking to you.” And from there we get a sense of whether we actually vibe with the girl or not. Who cares if she says no off the bat. We are filtering for girls that have immediate high attraction for us as well and wanna continue the convo. If not, on to the next. Many girls out there. | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”Very true | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”💯 | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 02:58 AM |
| 0 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”Women don’t fuck jerks? Lool. You’re gonna have a rude awakening, my brother | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 02:55 AM |
| 0 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”No, im the ugly asshole they realize only after they fuck me, while glossing over nice guys like you | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 02:52 AM |
| -4 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”You’re the nice guy many women gloss over huh? | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”Muscular??? Bro where in the world are you getting that?? Just be fit, gotdam. Yall are horrible at thinking critically. I said “fat, out of shape or super skinny”… the in between to that is fit, not muscular. And stop downplaying attractiveness to cope. Women fantasize about fucking Physcially attractive men. They’ll spill their hearts out to the guy with only the good personality though. | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”Whatever you gotta say or do to cope | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”Of course. But a lot of people in this sub don’t seem to know that | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 12:04 AM |
| -17 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”What are you rambling on about, my brother? | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 12:04 AM |
| 0 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”Its not the only thing that matters. And you don’t have to look like a God, but you do have to start looking the best you can possibly look. Mindset and social confidence is key too. | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 08:32 PM |
| -88 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”Stop being soft | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 08:29 PM |
| -26 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”Read my last paragraph buddy. Goodness man, you just came on here to argue just for the sake of it huh? Get a grip my brother | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 07:54 PM |
| -8 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”You can lead a horse to water but you cant make them drink. Thats alright. They’ll keep watching men they’re jealous of get women they fantasize about | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 07:49 PM |
| 0 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”Its not rocket science. Girls want attractive men fucking them. Doesnt matter what platform they come on to say that…but prbly better a platform that doesnt reveal their identities and they can be wildly honest huh? But whatever u gotta do or say to cope my brother. | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 07:45 PM |
| 5 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”Problem with comments like yours is for the most part we are living in a society of sexless and lonely men who can’t even get close to women. Its a pandemic. Glad its working for you being thin and average face. It’s not for most guys | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”It’s a hard pill to swallow because most men don’t want to do the work it takes to become as physically attractive as possible. They would rather be jealous of good looking guys they see and tear them down to make themselves feel better. In addition, the inner work it takes to feel confident and sexy takes even more work | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 07:29 PM |
| -1 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”Cool, im glad what you have is working for you. I’m talking about casting a wide net here. These girls you mention, best believe that a more fit, stronger, taller guy comes their way with good social skills, you’re gonna be just a memory to them. | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 07:26 PM |
| -7 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”Read my last paragraph buddy. | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 07:22 PM |
| -140 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”Literally what my last paragraph says baby girl. Also in first paragraph i mention “foot in the door” | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 07:10 PM |
| -15 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”Youre the dude they look right over huh? | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 07:08 PM |
| 1 | The text messages in AmIOverreacting sub have opened my eyes to how needy and intense a lot of guys areThere is none. Thats the fun of life | /r/seduction | 02/07/25 12:01 AM |
| 1 | The text messages in AmIOverreacting sub have opened my eyes to how needy and intense a lot of guys areI didnt say its a bad thing it takes years, im just being realistic | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 11:25 PM |
| 2 | The text messages in AmIOverreacting sub have opened my eyes to how needy and intense a lot of guys areDifferent time period we’re living in. Im not saying to be a gamer. Im saying you need to have all your ducks in a row: physically, mentally, and socially to attract and keep women. That is alll. Those guys you grew up with would have a really hard time today. You wanna know how i know? Look at surveys of the modern man today and how sexless and single they are | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 05:25 PM |
| 3 | The text messages in AmIOverreacting sub have opened my eyes to how needy and intense a lot of guys areSure, doesnt mean they can keep them. Doesnt mean they can get other options if they wanted to. Doesnt mean theyre not settling. | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 04:49 PM |
| 1 | The text messages in AmIOverreacting sub have opened my eyes to how needy and intense a lot of guys areNo, doesnt work | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 03:24 PM |
| 5 | The text messages in AmIOverreacting sub have opened my eyes to how needy and intense a lot of guys areNope, youre wrong | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 10:14 AM |
| 2 | Why are emojis seen as childish when you texting girls, but not using them makes you come off too serious?Bro u keep trying to argue what we’re telling you. You’ll learn on your own. Peace. | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Why are emojis seen as childish when you texting girls, but not using them makes you come off too serious?Yup, it will hurt it even more. She will wonder why does this guy i like in real life, he acts girly and immature over text? My dream guy doesnt do that…its all about staying congruent with your behavior and actions Just think about it, you think james bond acts cool in person and then in texts acts like a girl with all these emojis?? Hell no. You think girls would still find him attractive if h did that? Hell no they would be laughing about him with their friends every time he texts them | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 04:43 AM |
| 1 | The text messages in AmIOverreacting sub have opened my eyes to how needy and intense a lot of guys areAhah well worded my brother, very good | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 10:55 PM |
| 2 | The text messages in AmIOverreacting sub have opened my eyes to how needy and intense a lot of guys areYup once u fix this, its a lot easier to retain girls | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 10:23 PM |
| 18 | The text messages in AmIOverreacting sub have opened my eyes to how needy and intense a lot of guys areIt takes a lot of internal work, years of it | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 09:42 PM |
| 8 | The text messages in AmIOverreacting sub have opened my eyes to how needy and intense a lot of guys areAgreed, it is truly horrible. But that is the state of a loooooot of relationships currently | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 08:20 PM |
| 7 | Do you think you can bypass women’s standard with game/personalityInner game is how you mentally feel about yourself, your confidence and esteem. Outer game is how you talk to girls to get them attracted | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 07:42 PM |
| 21 | The text messages in AmIOverreacting sub have opened my eyes to how needy and intense a lot of guys areYes, it is due to a lack of options for sure. Theres only one way to fix it and it all ties together. Physical game, mental game, and repeated social practice. There will never be a way around it. | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 07:14 PM |
| 13 | The text messages in AmIOverreacting sub have opened my eyes to how needy and intense a lot of guys areYou know a good first step? Look at all those emotional men in that sub losing it over a woman and ask yourself, Is that the type of guy I want to be? If not, start taking the steps to not be that guy no matter how uncomfortable it may be, whether it is working out, learning cold approach, working on ur inner state, getting better at texting, learning how to manage your anger, etc. looking at that sub is all the motivation i need to not be a loser | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 07:12 PM |
| 6 | Why are emojis seen as childish when you texting girls, but not using them makes you come off too serious?This guy knows what he’s talking about. Ive learned it the hard way. All the silly emojis and too many “lols and hahas “ and dumb random messages to keep the convo going make women look at you like a kid, a girl like them, immature, weird, not attractive | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Yall ever use reddit as a dating app?How did the whole thing start? U dmed her? | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Yall ever use reddit as a dating app?For real. No ones letting the cat out of the bag. | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 11:03 AM |
| 30 | Yall ever use reddit as a dating app?Get ur horny ass outta here | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 02:38 PM |
| 5 | What's the one thing that improved your Flirting/Teasing/Being interesting stats?So true. When i get a below average haircut even that affects my confidence and flirtiness around women even though i probably look the exact same | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 11:30 PM |
| 13 | Got ghosted need helpDelete her number and convo from your phone. Work on yourself and go talk to new girls. That’s the recipe for whenever you get ghosted, which will happen A LOOOT. Thats just how it works even if you think you did everything right | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 02:36 AM |
| 34 | Teasing! The most important ingredient!He never said anything about memorizing, you gerbert | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 12:26 AM |
| 6 | feel like an absolute dumbass, didn't wear a condom during a hookupYeah but std | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 12:20 AM |
| 106 | Teasing! The most important ingredient!I love disagreeing. She says something and you reply “naaa i dont believe you” | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 12:20 AM |
| 2 | How can I find someone special as an adult?Loooooooooooooool | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Field Report (Fail)Hes a troll. I see him on here trolling all the time | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 02:08 AM |
| 0 | Field Report (Fail)Dont mind him. Hes a troll. I see him on here trolling all the time | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 02:07 AM |
| 1 | How do I change my beliefs?Put out so much attempts and opportunities that you see that your beliefs are holding you back because enough people have proved them wrong | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 05:38 PM |
| 3 | For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my datingScrew when its appreciated worrying about her. You worry about you. If she doesnt like it, then you stop. Youre the same type of guy who says dont approach girls in public because theyre not looking for attention | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 05:05 PM |
| 7 | For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my datingSo yes, physical escalation was indeed needed. Forget what ur talking about. Go back to sleep | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 04:59 PM |
| 6 | For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my datingWhat the hell does “just before having sex” mean. Is she gonna announce that yall will be having sex in 3 hours so it is nearing the time to touch her? Get a grip! You physcially escalate when it feels right to you, which starts the process towards sex | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 04:38 PM |
| 10 | For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my datingBro theres a difference between feeling up and light touching/physical escalation. Ppl like you always jump to the extremes. You gotta break the touch barrier my guy, not for attraction per-say but for successful dates. | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 04:32 PM |
| 6 | For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my datingWith regards to your advice on physical escalation…most of us on here arent nuns! | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 04:20 PM |
| 5 | how to make a second hookup happen?Lol you might already have, girls have very low tolerance for these sort of things but remember this: No one girl is special, they’re all the same. If you continue to work on yourself and socialize you will always find more girls. It’s a mindset thing | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Wtf is the advice in here??Agree, but dont tell her to shut up. Watch yourself my brother, she doesnt know any better like most women on this topic | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Wtf is the advice in here??The tactics in this sub still work for a healthy, lasting relationship. Just gotta do it in moderation and involve some other aspects as well. But seduction skills are life long | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 01:09 AM |
| 9 | how to make a second hookup happen?Youve messaged her twice already lol…don’t hit her up for a week or so and then when you do just say “wanna hang tn?” Or “drinks tn” | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Lady Killers of Reddit. Whom have slept with a lot of women and had a lot of girlfriends. Do you still cold approach? Why or why not?Yes, it is. Dont mind @superstalin. He’s one of those dudes who most likely can’t cold approach and so makes irrarional excuses like “all the girls will get together and talk bad about you” and talks down on it so he doesnt feel like a loser at night knowing he cant talk to the girls he wants to in public. You don’t know the amount of girls that told me wow you were so bold coming up to me and just found it a huge turn on Like i said, It is not efficient for dating, but you do it to build confid… | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Lady Killers of Reddit. Whom have slept with a lot of women and had a lot of girlfriends. Do you still cold approach? Why or why not?cold approach is not efficient, we all know that. It's so that you're not the ou$$y who can't talk to a cute girl in person and has to sleep at night thinking about how much of a loser they are they can't strike up convos with hot girls in person | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 02:44 AM |
| 126 | What did you do that made you go from unattractive to attractive to women?apart from fitness and dressing better, I stopped being needy over text, so I started texting less and not really thinking about them when I wasn't with them | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 02:39 AM |
| 1 | The Top 10 Reasons Why You Get Rejected By WomenWell said | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 03:12 PM |
| -1 | How worried should I be about this girl’s past?Lool forreal | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Content Creators are slowly ruining your chances to pick up woman/menYoure thinking too hard into this…trust me, the girls dont give a damn either way. Theyll continue to give their numbers out to guys theyre into and wont to guys theyre not into | /r/seduction | 14/06/25 09:31 AM |
| 9 | Content Creators are slowly ruining your chances to pick up woman/menMfs will come up with any reason in the world to not approach (im mf somtimes lol but we keep pushing) | /r/seduction | 13/06/25 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Content Creators are slowly ruining your chances to pick up woman/menWhatttt denmo! Thats crazy i follow him and he posts good stuff. Just went on his account and hes taken everything down | /r/seduction | 13/06/25 02:39 AM |
| 133 | Content Creators are slowly ruining your chances to pick up woman/menExcuses, go out and approach | /r/seduction | 12/06/25 08:32 PM |
| 4 | Y’all Overcomplicate Talking to Women Like It’s Rocket Science, It’s Not.U just said a whole bunch of nothing | /r/seduction | 07/06/25 07:00 PM |
| 1 | What does this mean?Wonderful response. One thing i would add though, is dont text much tbh. And when you do, dont think too hard to be cute or flirty or teas-y to make her want you like this guy is saying. Sure, if it comes naturally to you thats fine. But Over text, a lot can be misconstrued, causing you to come across as weird and needy and plus u cant create attraction over text. Just use texting to mainly meet her in person and once in a while send something light and fun. And yeah def dont be having extended … | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 06:18 AM |
| 1 | How To Get A Wingman If You Have No Friends?Go out, start talking to guys you see who are solo. Just friendly behavior and be like “hey lets go talk to these two girls over here”… or you can also be like “hey let me get your number cuz im tryna go out more, we could wingman each other out.” Get these contacts and hit em up when you go out. | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 09:44 PM |
| 13 | Any tips for winning her back while we are still in touchGreat response my brother | /r/seduction | 31/05/25 09:49 AM |
| 1 | What goes through girls mindsGreat response my friend. It’s hard being the guy who plans and invests too much in a girl from the get go. The only solution is to work on yourself and learn how to attract many girls so you never become obsessed with one because you know you can find someone again. | /r/seduction | 28/05/25 11:09 AM |
| 1 | How long does it take to learn game?3 years in and i get a spark going with more than half of the girls i talk to. I still need to get better at just approaching though. I feel like i need 2-3 more years to be exactly where I want | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Stop listening to women for dating/relationship adviceYou lost me after the first pargraph. We should lead as men, maybe you’re thinking about doing too much by obsessing over her. | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Stop listening to women for dating/relationship adviceHey man, we don’t give it a go for the girls. We give it a go for ourselves. We’re developing the skills that prove to ourselves that we have options in this world, so we will never live in fear ever again of losing a woman, because we know how to attract another. | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 03:42 PM |
| -1 | Stop listening to women for dating/relationship adviceBro, you think a loser with low self confidence can differentiate good advice from bad advice when it comes to women? Hell they’ll just trust the women cuz shes a girl. Again, i am making it simpler by saying cut out all advice from women about these topics. I’m done talking to you about this. | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 03:29 PM |
| 0 | Stop listening to women for dating/relationship adviceIf its red flags from women, i don’t wanna hear it. Same with green flags or any other color | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 03:13 PM |
| 4 | Stop listening to women for dating/relationship adviceMy original point is don’t listen to advice from women about dating or relationships or seduction ever. I don’t care the scenario or context. And Lol the examples I brought up in my previous reply are dealing with people who have been seeing and sleeping with each other for some time. After you sleep with them, they still don’t know what the fuck they want. Don’t think things have just changed all of a sudden | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 03:09 PM |
| 4 | Stop listening to women for dating/relationship adviceYup, exactly. Thanks for the insight | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Stop listening to women for dating/relationship adviceI am making it more simple by saying rule out ALL dating/relationship advice from women. Yes, of course there are always diamonds in the rough, but no point looking for that from women. They generally don’t know what they want and say things to keep losers orbiting just for the attention and validation. Stick with men who have results you can verify. | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 02:54 PM |
| 10 | Stop listening to women for dating/relationship adviceYup actions are the only thing you should rely on | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 02:48 PM |
| 4 | Stop listening to women for dating/relationship adviceGood. I’m saying it now. | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 02:35 PM |
| 10 | Stop listening to women for dating/relationship adviceOk. Be a pussy scared to go after the girl you want because you think she won’t like it/negative self talk. Meanwhile, some dude did it confidently cuz he doesnt give a fuck, got her number and is about to bend her into a pretzel later. | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 02:35 PM |
| 15 | Stop listening to women for dating/relationship adviceNaa, you hear all the tales of women telling guys they’re with, “i wish you would open up more and be more emotional”, “i wish you would text me more” and then the guy does just that and the women starts acting weird? In general, Women don’t know what they want. You don’t want to listen to them willy nilly. | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 02:33 PM |
| -4 | Low vs. High Commitment: Why Most Guys Fail in DatingYou are beyond lost my dude | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 01:56 PM |
| 9 | Low vs. High Commitment: Why Most Guys Fail in DatingHorrible advice. Response to your points: Whether direct or indirect, you’ll have the same issue of not knowing why she gave you her number. Hopefully it’s cause she wanted to see you again. But maybe she wants to get rid of you, is scared for her safety if she says no, etc. Just message her and if she responds cool, if not cool. Nothing to do with the type of approach. Why are you putting yourself in the female frame thinking about what she tells her friends and family and assuming she will say… | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 12:41 PM |
| 8 | Why I think getting a girl's Instagram is better than getting her number.The same women who say they want a nice guy and prefer guys with dad bods? Now they also prefer guys without a social media presence? Bro, do you see a pattern here? WAKE THE FUCK UP!! Stop listening to women when it comes to relationship/dating advice. Thats why theres so many simps out there. Cuz theyre watching women talk their nonsense on reels, where they spew what the loser guys who they have friend-zoned wanna hear so they can continue to orbit her. These loser guys are the audience of th… | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 12:22 PM |
| 7 | Why I think getting a girl's Instagram is better than getting her number.Lol thats a small minority my man | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Don't "Next" women, keep them in your orbit.Love to hear it | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 03:25 AM |
| 1 | What is some of the worst seduction advice you heard on the internet?True, if she aint into you, have some self respect and move the fuck on. Why do you want this woman so badly, you’ll let her keep shutting the door in your face until shes tired and she says “fine”. Fuck outta here with that. Too many girls in this world for that shit. Better yourself, face your fears and the world is yours. | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 04:48 PM |
| 1 | What is some of the worst seduction advice you heard on the internet?True. Women never know what they want. They just be speaking bullshit all the time when it comes to relationship/seduction advice | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 04:46 PM |
| 4 | Don't "Next" women, keep them in your orbit.Exactly, its a self respect thing. Even if she did come back, I wouldn’t even be able to cum happily knowing i’m acting like a little bitch. | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Hi! Iam 23m and i will start approaching women for the first time in my life so what are the fundamentals should I build and focus on?Rejection is expected. Y’all don’t know each other anyway. So just go in with the mindset of meeting someone and seeing if y’all vibe. If you do, cool. If not, no worries, y’all didn’t know each other | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Things going well with one girl in OLDTrue | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 03:04 PM |
| 5 | Things going well with one girl in OLDLool. Hes a beginner so small things like a steady text convo are good. But yeah OP, try to advance to a date if the bf thing isnt an issue for you | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 03:04 PM |
| 0 | If you live in Seattle, your f**ked, and will probably only have hookers to rely on. (unfortunate truth), please prove me wrong.Loooooool | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 03:21 AM |
| 2 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Its not simplistic. Better yourself physically and mentally. Me, whenever i go out, i believe I can get a girl to go on a date with me. That’s the work i put in myself. Where would i be if i stayed persistent with girls who didnt want me and spent time on them instead of myself? | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 02:57 AM |
| 1 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Youre the man!! | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 02:56 AM |
| 2 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Yes this. Exactly | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 02:55 AM |
| 2 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Why the fuck are you being persistent with someone who doesnt want you? Ok so lets say you go on a date after trying 4 times. How the fuck do you take yourself seriously knowing that had to ask 4 time while theres a guy that only asked once and didnt even have to take her on a date?? For me, its about self respect. Fuck all the other reasons. | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 02:54 AM |
| 1 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Exactly, brother | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 02:52 AM |
| 1 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Exactly. Inner game benefit is the most important here. You start acting and behaving like the man you want to be | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 02:51 AM |
| 3 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!You dont need all that bro. Cmon now, just keep it moving | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 02:50 AM |
| 2 | [ADVANCE] This one is for the guys with many options - how much do you tolerate non-compliances? For eg. if you newly meet a girl and invite her out a couple of times but she says no, how many times do you keep asking before letting go and moving on to the next one? Share stories of persistence!Agreed. Why he asking 3 or 4 times?? Value yourself homie. | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 02:49 AM |
| 1 | How to turn my girl on?They dont live together and he can’t get her in the mood. Cmon bro, dont be naive. Not saying that’s for sure going on, but it is a possibility one has to consider. Because if you’re not pleasing her, someone else is or will | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?Damn, thats why everyone is freaking out in the comments. Because deep down, a lot of these men know the answer | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?Lol i wish the world worked like that | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?Hell yeah. Im with you 100%. But i look at it like this: let me do my due diligence one time. So i know i did what I could do. Naa i aint gonna be loyalty testing her over and over. Marriage is a big thing, esp if you got kids and a lot of money | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 04:35 PM |
| -2 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?People here shouting “youre insecure, you’re fearful, you’re a douche”. I’m like naa, it’s more of a lets see what she does in this situation, esp if i haven’t seen it organically before. I’m not in panic mode about it. And lol girls test guys all the time, shit theres shows and movies about it and it’s seen as a requirement because “guys are unfaithful”. No one bats an eye when they do it, so why are these guys in here unhappy with me? | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 04:15 PM |
| -16 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?A common misconception is fear. Its more about ensuring you’re doing your due diligence, esp if you haven’t been with her in a similar situation to assess. Time and patience and shared experience is the best ingredients though | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 04:02 PM |
| -2 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?A misconception is we test out of fear. No, this is testing to ensure i’m doing my due diligence. But yes you risk losing the partner, so it is food for thought. | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 03:53 PM |
| -1 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?Tests aint gotta be made up and artificial. As simple as seeing if she calls you to check up on your dying dad. But yes, a loyalty test would be manufactured | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 03:44 PM |
| -2 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?Hey you never know. Your partner could be more/less loyal than you ever thought. | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?Agreed. People can cheat whenever they want. They might have passed one test at an earlier point in time, but fail another later on. I’m saying before you tie the knot, one test as a peace of mind. Kind of an insurance policy to make sure you at least attempted to see how she reacts in that situation if you havent seen how she handles it firsthand already | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?Very true as well. Time and patience will tell | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?If she passes, good. If not, move on. Ain’t much to it. Girls test guys all the time and people just accept it so don’t give me that roles reversed bullshit. More of a pre-req. The one thing i havent given much thought to is if she passes and she finds out, you’ve lost out on a good girl possibly if she takes it wrong. Food for thought there. | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 03:36 PM |
| -6 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?Very very good answer. The one thing i disagree with is “actively testing makes you come off like an insecure douchebag”. Obvs how you go about it is important. But small tests of trust, openness, and loyalty here and there are fine and give you an indication of who your girl really is, especially if you’re more of a calm dude who puts up with a lot | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 03:29 PM |
| 0 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?Yeah good point about her losing her trust in you if discovered. Nothing to do with insecurity though. You just wanna make sure. How many fathers have affairs while their wives are pregnant? | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 03:25 PM |
| 0 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?Fair. Consistency and seeing if she hides her phone are tests in and of themselves though. So maybe not one single test, but you gotta test throughout | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 03:14 PM |
| -2 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?They’re scared about an even more handsome, even more successful, even more interesting man being a better option than them, in their girls’ eyes. | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 03:11 PM |
| 0 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?They’re mad because it’s a scary thing to think about. I don’t know the exact details of a test I would do. But what I’ve seen, which prompted my question, is some handsome fitness influencer on social media with quite a large following will dm girls in relationships asking them out and shit, and this is at the request of their partners | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 03:08 PM |
| -6 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?Why she gotta know? Aint gotta be a big declaration or anything like that. Its more of a pre-req than anything | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 03:04 PM |
| -14 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?If shes someone i wanna be with, it’s even more important i do that. And if she fails it, i move on. That’s high smv, knowing i can move on quickly and not waste another second. If you’re scared she’ll fail and you lose her…thats when you’re in trouble bud. I will say, the caveat is if she passes and finds out, you could lose a great girl. So this is food for thought. | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 03:01 PM |
| -5 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?It might not be up ur alley but its far from stupid | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 02:54 PM |
| -40 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?Who u gonna cry to when you get blindsided? | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 02:53 PM |
| 5 | The biggest reason you should quit dating apps is overlooked in todays society.Needed this | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 12:40 AM |
| 6 | Top Reasons Why You Can't Get LaidAwesome post | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 07:06 AM |
| 0 | be careful for this new trend. Anybody else had this happen?Agreed, you just say no thanks and move on because it really is just a soft rejection. But get rid of the bitter tone regarding women. Better yourself and be positive, otherwise you will repel every woman. | /r/seduction | 14/12/24 05:58 AM |
| 3 | How I seduce and want to be seduced- A bisexual female perspectiveSure but it depends on how you say them and how you feel when you say them. One guy can make words sound silly and goofy and another can make the same words sound seductive and mysterious | /r/seduction | 14/12/24 05:54 AM |
| 5 | How I seduce and want to be seduced- A bisexual female perspectiveYup confidence and fearlessness | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 09:16 PM |
| 1 | How to stand out from other menReally great perspective. Great work | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 12:12 PM |
| 3 | Have a third date planned with a stunning blonde girl.Agreed. Two dates and no kiss is very bad sign. Nothing to be excited about. You think she wouldn’t at least kiss a guy she had high physical interest in? The Brad Pitt Rule. Third date, if a make out doesn’t happen, I would move on. Shes just using you for the time being while she gets over some guy. Not much physical interest in you. | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 11:36 AM |
| -2 | How Attraction Works.Great post | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 05:02 AM |
| 1 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?We’re good people/trying to be good people | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 03:02 AM |
| 2 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Hey at least you’re aware of ur biases. I dont mind big girls. Got some crazy wet pussy | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 02:55 AM |
| 1 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Great show. Would have stayed hard too | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 02:47 AM |
| 2 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Yup, u can. Why didnt you? | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 02:46 AM |
| 1 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Damn man. U met her at a club/bar? | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 02:44 AM |
| 3 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Ahaha u know where u stand. | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 02:43 AM |
| 0 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?OHH HELLL NO. I cant do bad breath, bad hygiene. U made out? | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 02:40 AM |
| 0 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Howd u stay hard???? Who were u thinking of? | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 02:38 AM |
| 0 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Well this is a subjective rating, based on how we feel. Beauty isnt objective. I too have unconventional tastes | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 02:32 AM |
| 0 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?We are being decent. We never told these things to the girls faces. This is a safe space where we are reflecting and learning | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 02:28 AM |
| 0 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?WHAT THE FUCK HAPPENED? Why?? | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 02:18 AM |
| 4 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?I dont mind bigger girls. Their pussy gets so wet too | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 02:12 AM |
| 1 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Its tough, cuz i love a smoking body. But i dont wanna up next to a girl i cringe seeing her face | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 02:11 AM |
| 1 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Close your eyes and imagine ur fave | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 02:02 AM |
| 1 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Howd u meet | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 02:01 AM |
| 1 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Ight i feel u. | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 01:55 AM |
| 1 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Gotdam, howd u meet her | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Step By Step On How To Do A Good ApproachVery good post! One of the best in a long time | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 01:45 AM |
| 1 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Crazy acne on the face??? | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 01:39 AM |
| 2 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Yeah the non-hygienic is a nooooooo for me. | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 01:38 AM |
| 6 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Some of the 4-6 know how to fuck your brains out | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 01:37 AM |
| 1 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?What it had to do with? | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 01:32 AM |
| 1 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Banshee is CRAZZZY… u keep fucking her? | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 01:27 AM |
| 13 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Ight well start talking to em. Stop texting me and go talk to em | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 01:22 AM |
| 2 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?GOTDAM!! Im a nice ass dude and i would have avoided her even | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 01:22 AM |
| 5 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Take care of urself physically to look the best you can and start taking steps to talk to girls. Ull get there bro | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 01:21 AM |
| 8 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Get your obtuse ass outta here. | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 01:13 AM |
| 3 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Ahaha fuck you for fucking her. Whyd it happen? | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 01:12 AM |
| 3 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Ur young or you just havent put in the work? | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 01:12 AM |
| 8 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Hell yeah man. Some of these bigger girls also got the best pussy too | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 01:12 AM |
| 3 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Ur a virgin? | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 12:59 AM |
| 4 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Lool blocking for a dinner is craazy. Should have gotten the free dinner (and most likely she could cook well if she was chunky like you say) and made some excuse to head home. | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 12:58 AM |
| 2 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?GOTDAM. Whyd you get with her? | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 12:56 AM |
| 2 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?What type of hygiene are you talking about | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 12:53 AM |
| 2 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?U had fun tho? | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 12:51 AM |
| 5 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Yeah overall hygiene and looks tends to go hand in hand. Im talking about BO, messed up teeth, dirt on nails and such. Not just a smelly pussy | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 12:49 AM |
| 1 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Yeah mine was a 3 cuz of overall bad hygiene and teeth. If not for the hygiene issues, probably a 5 | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 12:49 AM |
| 4 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Mine a 3 | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Confused whether she’s interested or notForget about her and know that in your heart of hearts you’ll be fine. There will be other girls who will give you attention as long as you continue to better yourself internally/externally and also just get better at dealing with girls. You got this brother | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Confused whether she’s interested or notIf youre confused, its a great sign shes not into you like that and to focus your energy elsewhere. If a girl likes you, you won’t have any doubt. And those are the type of girls you want to be chasing. Not ones who don’t like you, are halfway about you or are playing games. It sucks to hear it, but that’s the first step toward becoming a high value man, as opposed to a pussy who begs for girls to be in his life. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 04:11 PM |
| 1 | What should I text? Still learningGotcha..i agree then. Just dont be showing interest and trying too hard over text | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 03:08 AM |
| 2 | What should I text? Still learningOver text theres a great chance flirty will come across as too much as well. Also shows too much interest. I say take them both out. You can still be fun though | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 02:34 AM |
| 8 | What should I text? Still learningDont try to be sexual/flirty over text unless yall already sleeping with each other consistently. Comes across as too thirsty and available. Just be normal | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 02:13 AM |
| 5 | To guys with solid Instagram or any other social media, how easy it is for you to get girls online?Just ask her out immediately. Anything other than a yes, she is a playing you. In person be flirty and escalate at some point physically so she knows your intentions | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Lets hear it. Whats the cringiest moment of you acting needy/desperate around a girl and losing her?Yessir. I love those moments that trigger our self improvement | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Lets hear it. Whats the cringiest moment of you acting needy/desperate around a girl and losing her?Yessir. Glad to hear | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Lets hear it. Whats the cringiest moment of you acting needy/desperate around a girl and losing her?Some ppl never get it shattered so be thankful | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Lets hear it. Whats the cringiest moment of you acting needy/desperate around a girl and losing her?Shit man, i still cringe about a bunch of opportunities. But hey thats the motivation to be the best version of myself | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Lets hear it. Whats the cringiest moment of you acting needy/desperate around a girl and losing her?GOTDAM. This might be worst one ive read. U a better man now? | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 02:26 AM |
| 1 | How to transition from a first date to just a fuck buddy?I dont wanna be on pornhub on saturday night | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 06:21 PM |
| 6 | It feels great unhooking & peeling off a milfs bra with huge boobs!Damn 2 and a half months of hugs and kisses on the cheek??? Sheesh i couldnt do that | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 02:33 AM |
| 6 | First approach at the gymStop being a pussy. Cold approach in the gym is fine. OP should have had a slightly longer (nothing too crazy) convo before going for number but he did great just going for it. My homie approaches at gym constantly and gets occasional dates from it, just like approaching in any setting | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Captivating Hearts with ConfidenceLol why did someone downvote op post? | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Dilemma of girl proposing another day for a dateI like that | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Dilemma of girl proposing another day for a dateHow? | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Dilemma of girl proposing another day for a dateI heard asking her when shes free shows you aint got anything going on | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to ask my no contact situationship why he ghosted me?A conversation with someone who doesnt wanna communicate or have anything to do with you is pathetic. Stop being a pussy, my brother | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 12:32 PM |
| 0 | Is it a bad idea to ask my no contact situationship why he ghosted me?Scarcity??? How is moving on from a someone who is ghosting scarcity? Thats abundance. Dawg youre tripping. Youve lost my respect, i wont be communicating with you any longer | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 12:28 PM |
| -2 | Is it a bad idea to ask my no contact situationship why he ghosted me?Why would you see if someone who is ghosting you is still interested? Cmon man. Its fucking pathetic. That IS the closure right there. Someone who isnt giving you the light of day and isnt talking to you and youre over here begging them for attention. Stop it. Get a hold of yourself. Find someone who actually wants you. | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 05:15 AM |
| -2 | Is it a bad idea to ask my no contact situationship why he ghosted me?Hell naaa, thats for pussies and simps like you. Move the fuck on to someone who wants you | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 01:30 AM |
| 10 | Is it a bad idea to ask my no contact situationship why he ghosted me?Lol forreal. Girl is delusional. Needs to move on | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 01:30 AM |
| 6 | Stop Clowning YourselfGreat post | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 11:38 AM |
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