Am I trying too hard?

Blueman0110 · 2025-10-12T01:24:09+00:00

What you need to change is your "purpose." You're too obvious about it. Your face practically screams "I want to fuck you." Clear everything out of your mind. How? By keeping busy, setting goals to do something "not related to flirting." Flirt only when you're free and just for fun. Do this, and you'll understand.

Altruistic-Patient-8 · 2025-10-12T01:38:08+00:00

Maybe their advice about you being too pushy is right. Women want sex too, but they may feel like you're pressuring them somehow. Are you immediately going in by flirting with them? Are you asking them to hangout at your house immediately? Do you display an air of desperation around you? Idk, but you probably need to take a step back, and get to them personally first. Sounds crazy, but women definitely have a six sense for touch starved men, and you're on their radar. Im not in college anymore, but it was the same situation for me. I eventually got laid when I wasn't even trying to flirt; just acting natural.

StealPantera · 2025-10-12T02:46:13+00:00

You are trying too hard. Your neediness and horniness are coming across and it’s turning girls off. They are forced to reject you.

Look, if internally you don’t feel good about yourself, if you don’t like yourself and consider yourself a catch, no amount of approaching and silly techniques will get you laid. Focus on eradicating the things that you don’t like in yourself that you wouldn’t like in a friend. Flaws that you can’t fix, these you need to learn to accept and no be ashamed of.

Only when you feel self satisfied and like you are an amazing guy that every girl would be lucky that you’d even look in her direction, that’s when all of this stuff will become easy to you. Be good to yourself first. Reward yourself with confidence, value and approval. If you desperately want these things from women, they will keep rejecting you. You will keep trying to prove yourself and win them over and they will run in the other direction.

burncushlikewood · 2025-10-12T05:29:20+00:00

My man, be more confident and positive, don't get jealous of others and compare yourself. Man up and talk to women, have fun building relationships, be yourself, and get on your grind and work out to get stronger. Go to university and enjoy life. Be patient with women

Title	Am I trying too hard?
Author	Infamous-Employ-2697
Upvotes	7
Comments	9
Date	October 12, 2025 12:32 AM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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