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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry24/07/25 09:12 PM
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double standardsJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/23 08:24 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry05/01/25 02:25 AM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry12/12/24 12:08 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry02/04/26 07:52 PM
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articleJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/02/26 09:16 PM
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Legal RightsJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/MensRights27/05/23 08:49 AM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry29/06/26 05:50 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry14/12/24 07:15 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry11/01/25 04:51 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry06/04/25 05:48 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry27/12/24 09:55 PM
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HealthJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/MensRights25/09/22 11:57 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry07/01/25 04:23 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry24/12/24 01:42 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry11/01/25 04:52 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry27/12/24 09:17 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry05/08/25 11:29 AM
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False AccusationJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/MensRights22/05/23 11:56 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry09/01/25 08:14 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry29/04/24 08:12 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry09/01/25 08:27 PM
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resourceJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/12/24 01:30 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry05/01/25 02:28 AM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry31/12/24 12:30 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry23/12/24 07:58 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry31/12/24 12:34 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry07/04/26 08:54 AM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry05/01/25 02:26 AM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry11/01/25 04:08 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry25/11/24 08:04 AM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry09/01/25 08:36 PM
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news/opinion articleJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry27/09/25 02:27 AM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry09/01/25 08:09 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry27/12/24 10:07 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry27/12/24 07:12 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry30/12/24 06:05 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry16/12/24 07:50 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry09/03/25 09:24 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry07/11/24 09:37 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry10/01/25 05:20 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry26/07/24 08:35 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry11/01/25 04:24 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry30/11/25 03:41 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry27/12/24 09:29 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry18/08/24 11:45 AM
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news/opinion articleJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry30/09/25 01:40 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry01/12/24 01:55 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry11/05/24 01:48 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry12/01/26 04:57 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry11/10/25 02:48 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry13/06/24 06:25 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry07/04/25 12:24 AM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry11/01/25 04:26 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry16/08/24 04:03 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry31/05/26 09:46 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry10/01/25 05:16 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry17/08/24 10:05 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry13/12/25 05:37 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry28/05/24 08:33 AM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry14/12/24 03:39 PM
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resourceJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/11/24 09:18 AM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/26 07:19 PM
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mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/24 11:01 AM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry16/03/25 01:04 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry25/02/24 09:25 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry11/12/24 12:33 AM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry31/12/24 12:50 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry09/01/25 08:20 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry14/02/25 07:58 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry23/11/25 08:56 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry24/12/24 01:47 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry24/12/24 01:47 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry09/01/25 08:40 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry24/02/25 11:49 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry11/01/25 04:12 PM
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GeneralJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/MensRights27/05/24 02:00 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry05/07/26 12:39 AM
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misandryJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/24 02:24 AM
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news/opinion articleJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry27/12/24 07:29 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry27/12/24 07:24 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry01/12/24 01:37 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry11/01/25 04:22 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry06/08/24 04:02 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry27/12/24 09:43 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry11/01/26 01:45 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry27/04/25 01:16 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry09/11/24 01:33 AM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry08/08/24 07:09 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry11/01/25 04:39 PM
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Marriage/ChildrenJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/MensRights18/03/22 10:40 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry08/04/25 01:37 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry22/03/26 06:30 PM
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Legal RightsJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/MensRights18/03/22 10:32 PM
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DiscriminationJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/MensRights06/11/22 10:44 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry06/04/25 06:15 PM
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Social IssuesJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/MensRights30/12/24 05:13 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry16/03/25 01:12 PM
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GeneralJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/MensRights24/11/24 09:06 AM
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GeneralJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/MensRights21/08/20 11:08 AM
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school/workJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry04/09/25 03:21 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry22/11/25 10:55 AM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry11/01/25 04:02 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry07/05/25 02:11 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry27/04/25 01:24 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry04/05/25 09:52 AM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry30/03/25 11:42 AM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:24 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:22 PM
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GeneralJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/MensRights14/02/21 07:29 PM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry22/09/24 11:58 PM
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GeneralJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/MensRights20/03/22 10:19 PM
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resourceJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/24 02:03 PM
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Jaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies17/07/21 06:56 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies17/07/21 08:03 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 04:13 PM
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False AccusationJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/MensRights14/02/21 03:38 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:23 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 02:59 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 02:57 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 02:46 PM
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Activism/SupportJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/MensRights08/08/21 05:35 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:14 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 02:50 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies17/07/21 07:25 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies17/07/21 07:06 PM
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Jaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 06:54 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:30 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:27 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:11 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:10 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies10/04/22 11:13 AM
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social mediaJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry07/01/25 03:32 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies17/07/21 07:57 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies17/07/21 07:19 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies17/07/21 07:07 PM
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Public HealthJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:29 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 02:49 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 02:45 PM
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Public HealthJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies10/04/22 11:18 AM
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Social IssuesJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/MensRights28/05/23 10:21 AM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies17/07/21 07:15 PM
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news/opinion articleJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/EverydayMisandry06/11/25 09:24 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 02:53 PM
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Public HealthJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies17/07/21 07:22 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies17/07/21 06:59 PM
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PsychologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:16 PM
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SociologyJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/Male_Studies17/07/21 06:59 PM
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ProgressJaffacakes-and-Jesus/r/MensRights22/06/21 03:20 PM
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Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
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When men don't have something we need it our fault, when women don't have something they need it's society's fault.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/26 09:37 PM
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Never have I seen so many groundless generalisations in one video.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/07/26 09:18 PM
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50/50 for money usually only applies to money while dating. When married with children it applies to time worked. Men do 2/3 of market labour and women do 2/3 of domestic labour/ childcare. That's a partnership.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/07/26 07:44 PM
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Convention rates. Which doesn't factor in all of the institutional bias (including definitions) that prevent the detection of male victims and female perpetrators. This is in direct contrast with the picture population level studies paint.
/r/MensRights09/07/26 07:38 PM
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It is definitely under diagnosed https://www.theguardian.com/science/2025/feb/02/female-narcissism-is-often-misdiagnosed-how-science-is-finding-women-can-have-a-dark-streak-too
/r/MensRights07/07/26 07:08 PM
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Awesome
/r/MensRights01/07/26 04:32 PM
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After being blamed for making women dress sexy for the male gaze, we're now being blamed for not knowing that women don't dress for the male gaze.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/06/26 02:09 PM
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Yes
/r/MensRights23/06/26 11:12 AM
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In this house we believe that trans men are men and should be embraced and celebrated as brothers and as dads!
/r/MensRights23/06/26 07:41 AM
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Interesting
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/26 06:48 PM
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Exactly
/r/EverydayMisandry17/06/26 11:55 AM
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Awful
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 11:31 AM
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Nice
/r/EverydayMisandry12/05/26 03:45 PM
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Literally a Matt Walsh argument
/r/EverydayMisandry30/04/26 11:07 PM
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A feminist recreating traditional gender gender roles on the grounds that women are victims and men are guilty? It's more likely than you think!
/r/EverydayMisandry29/04/26 08:49 PM
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Lol
/r/EverydayMisandry26/04/26 08:42 PM
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Nice
/r/EverydayMisandry21/04/26 11:57 AM
2

This is why it's worth criticizing the statistics. Because they're not being used to try and have a decent policy to combat drug facilitated assault in relationships. They're being used to have a giant bigotted moral panic.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/04/26 11:42 AM
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Dumb
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/26 07:13 PM
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Dumb
/r/EverydayMisandry11/04/26 03:09 PM
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This is more authoritarian than almost anything I've seen from any conservative.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/26 12:42 PM
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Sounds like you're in a good place. I'm kind of the same. Not in therapy now, but I've had some good ones in the past. Also on the left, but I'm British so not so much supporting the Dems.
/r/EverydayMisandry03/04/26 12:15 AM
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I get how you feel. Remember there's good therapists out there fighting the good fight, bigger and stupider ideas have fallen before. This nonsense will too. https://www.centreformalepsychology.com/male-psychology-magazine-listings/why-i-became-a-male-centred-therapist-a-personal-journey https://www.amazon.co.uk/Swallowed-Snake-Gift-Masculine-Healing-ebook/dp/B0048ELB5M/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=2Z6KFGVU01LFC&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.dRMnaMZf71aICzzqE8EmZMGheWr9LcIIJ_3OTv4-BKrC-CykOhUy8OMbMjetAi2ILw2iJncgGF1B…
/r/EverydayMisandry02/04/26 11:55 PM
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I've had posts removed for including JK Rowling's name before. I think the mods are a little overzealous about it, but I get why. They want to err thoroughly on the side of caution.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/04/26 10:04 PM
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Interesting
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/26 08:22 PM
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Conservative, transphobic misandry
/r/EverydayMisandry21/03/26 09:38 PM
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Remember how a key part of rape culture is minimalisation?
/r/EverydayMisandry21/03/26 12:17 PM
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Hmmmm
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/26 10:26 AM
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The whole "bare minimum shouldn't be celebrated" thing is very confusing. Because one the one hand taking care of your family is just what should be expected of everyone, but on the other actually doing that is super difficult and we should celebrate the little victories and express our gratitude to everyone who does that. Idk why harpies have to hate on other women who get that.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/03/26 12:00 PM
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Dumb
/r/EverydayMisandry14/03/26 08:32 PM
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Imagine the mental gymnastics it takes to make a higher rate of abuse sound like a virtue. The standard way of measuring abuse is the conflict tactics scale. It doesn't ask you "were you abused", they ask "have you ever been hit/ kicked/ shoved/ called names/ stonewalled/ etc). They do this so that they don't have the problem of people not recognising what's happening themselves as abuse. The "lesbians recognise abuse more" is really not an excuse.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/03/26 01:47 PM
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Interesting
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/26 10:41 AM
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Sorry I was saying that's what she was claiming. I've added speech marks for clarity.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/03/26 12:29 PM
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Feminists love reinventing gender roles from scratch. She's basically saying, "Women do reproductive labour so men should provide for them" which is literally traditional gender culture. Edited to add speech marks for clarity.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/03/26 06:04 PM
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Looking at the picture in the corner it says 47 women were killed in Missouri in 2015. According to this website the population of Missouri was 6.1million in 2015. Assuming half of them are women that means that approximately 0.0015% of women were murdered by men in 2015. That is not a larger number. There's certainly a case for having better provisions for DV, but not a case for the kind of claims by ideological feminists.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/03/26 05:45 PM
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The Epstein network had both men and women as perpetrators. There have been a few male victims and some men who have been hurt by being slanderously associated with him.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/02/26 01:24 PM
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You should!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/02/26 06:23 PM
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Do you remember 2015? Things were so simple then. C H-S would come out with another video, the anti-SJWs would meme it to death. You'd both learn and laugh. Good times.
/r/MensRights01/02/26 09:12 AM
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Both men and women should try to be warm, positive and friendly at all times.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/01/26 10:26 AM
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Poor guy
/r/EverydayMisandry21/01/26 06:42 PM
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Awful
/r/MensRights20/01/26 12:01 PM
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These are the statements that she considers to be sexist: Women have to be housekeepers and, therefore, take care of the children and do household chores (X2 = 720.50). • Women have an innate ability to take care of children and do housework, unlike men (X2 = 705.14). • Women should stay at home doing housework (X2 = 554.91). • Both housework and childcare should be done by women (X2 = 548.71). Women today have more rights than men just because they are female, and therefore, in a lawsuit, they …
/r/MensRights14/01/26 12:37 AM
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"We're calling you trash to help you"
/r/EverydayMisandry03/01/26 10:48 PM
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Frustrating
/r/MensRights01/01/26 11:28 PM
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I have never seen the whole "I'm only opposed to gender roles I don't benefit from".
/r/EverydayMisandry27/12/25 02:20 AM
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Love the shifting goal posts in the reply. Like so what if some of the main women I look up to are in my family? I'm also related to quite a few men I admire why is that bad?
/r/EverydayMisandry15/12/25 12:14 PM
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Bitches with no Biblical knowledge admiring Salome and thinking they're half the women Judith and Jael were.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/12/25 01:40 PM
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TL;DR the guy who ran it very consistently set things up to achieve his prederminned conclusion. https://youtu.be/fs02vYDH2EQ?si=KW6a4enszg2Eb7aA
/r/EverydayMisandry30/11/25 08:03 PM
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Anyone who views Gone Girl as misardrist hasn't understood it.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/11/25 07:07 AM
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Feminists can't help men without insulting us.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/25 09:51 PM
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Good stats work everyone
/r/MensRights21/10/25 04:34 PM
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It's frustrating because toxic people love playing victim, often appealing to sexist stereotypes to do so. Committing to assuming only men or only women do this is necessarily committing to fascinating abuse at least some of the time.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/10/25 10:33 AM
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Good grief
/r/EverydayMisandry17/10/25 06:16 AM
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Stupid
/r/MensRights16/10/25 10:52 AM
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"men should express themselves" "Not like that"
/r/EverydayMisandry14/10/25 05:32 PM
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The central feminist claim (ie historical patriarchy) is used to justify hating men, interesting.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/10/25 05:31 PM
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Agreed
/r/EverydayMisandry12/10/25 08:05 AM
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Most men do not perpetuate misogyny and do not deserve to be treated like potential rapists. We do not need to treat men like potential rapists to combat sexual violence. Gay, black and autistic men are already treated like predators so feminists joining with racists, homophobes and ablist people are absolutely making their lives worse. Heck, surely the fact that a minority of those men still perpetrate violence shows that treating innocent people like monsters won't stop guilty people?
/r/EverydayMisandry09/10/25 10:16 PM
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They once asked me to remove a post when I left JKR's name uncensored in a screenshot of a tweet, maybe I'm being overcautious but I don't want to say.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/10/25 03:08 PM
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Unfortunately it's a male journalist writing.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/10/25 02:38 PM
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It's fine
/r/EverydayMisandry30/09/25 08:06 PM
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Would the mods allow that?
/r/EverydayMisandry30/09/25 07:37 PM
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"they might not be doing it but they aren't stopping them" - literally how white supremacists talk about Muslim terrorism and black crime. Also that picture is of a Japanese school girl who was horrifically tortured by Japanese schoolboys and then killed by them. Obviously evil and that guy is being vile talking like that, but to turn either them or him into representations of men is ridiculous. Especially as there are plenty women who commit torture and plenty of girls who kill.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/09/25 09:09 AM
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" For example, the National Family Violence Survey (Straus & Gelles, 1990), a nationally representative study of 6,002 men and women, found that in the year before the survey, 12.4% of wives self-reported that they used violence against their husbands compared to 11.6% of husbands who self-reported using violence against their wives. Furthermore, 4.8% of wives reported using severe violence against their husbands, whereas 3.4% of husbands reported using severe violence (Straus & Gelles, 1990). S…
/r/EverydayMisandry26/09/25 08:56 AM
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Karen deCrow, Cathy Young, Natasha Devon, Betty Fridan, Christian Hoff-Sommers, Millicent Forset, Mary Wollstonecraft, Hellen Lewis and Camille Paglia. Perhaps not specifically MRAs, but they have all advocated against injustices that affect men specifically.
/r/MensRights22/07/25 01:15 AM
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A lot of anti Jewish and anti Catholic conspiracies rely on the apex fallacy. Asians as the model minority does too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/25 03:47 PM
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Here's a quite interesting feminist exploration of older male sexuality. https://kjonnsforskning.no/en/2015/10/men-soften-age TLDR: they are neither dirty old men or asexual.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/25 05:40 AM
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They are viewed as deviant men and therefore as dangerous.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/25 10:06 AM
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"what if all those were committed by women" just ignoring the population studies on female perpetration and male victimisation and pretend that those of us who think the conviction rates are not the full picture of gender and violence are basing it on pure speculation.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/05/25 09:08 PM
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Probably not, but mods have removed posts where I've not so I'd rather be safe than sorry.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/05/25 05:47 AM
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Maybe because men are underdiagnosed with ptsd? https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2006/11/ptsd-rates
/r/EverydayMisandry28/04/25 06:32 PM
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That's true. I guess it's hard to yell if they are making an accurate criticism of that shitty attitude or a sexist generalisation.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/04/25 07:51 PM
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This is evidence of very real institutional anti-woman sexism in Japan. It is not necessarily evidence the Japanese men and women relate as an oppressed and oppressor class. There are plenty of ways in which Japanese men are subjected to sexism. Doesn't mean Japanese men and women aren't on the same team.
/r/MensRights30/03/25 05:51 PM
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Instagram reels, aka hell.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/03/25 06:22 PM
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I think you're right. Most of the time bigotry is parasitic on real issues. "Kids do fucked up shit and need to be taught not to" is one thing "boys are predators" is another.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/02/25 10:30 AM
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American women were pre[and safe during WW2, and it's not like women don't commit atrocities during war.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/02/25 07:52 PM
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We have nothing to offer but guilt.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/25 03:21 PM
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Interesting I'll try to follow up on that
/r/EverydayMisandry15/01/25 09:03 PM
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The rape, stalking and DV stats are wrong. They included armed robbery but not child abuse (for obviously reasons). How many baby farmers are men do you reckon? Mass shooting is a very rare crime but it is included. Why include that but not infanticide? They also treat suicide as an act of violence which is really terrible. People deliberately say "die by suicide" rather than "commit suicide" because they rightly want to disassociate suicide from violence. This totally rejects that. Finally, men…
/r/EverydayMisandry12/01/25 10:44 PM
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Interesting. Do you have that data to hand?
/r/EverydayMisandry12/01/25 10:57 AM
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Nah it's fine. I'm aware that I'm doom scrolling and posting here helps me vent. Like I say when I'm back at work I'll stop.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/01/25 05:12 PM
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That's true. I've been off work for a few days so I'm on it more than I usually am. I'll have some real world stuff to think about soon.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/01/25 05:06 PM
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Asserting that most men are unwashed, lazy, misogynists who probably don't deserve love? Yeah I think so.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/01/25 05:04 PM
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The original tweet this is all in response to https://www.reddit.com/r/everydaymisandry/s/O1pZbqdIMQ
/r/EverydayMisandry11/01/25 04:10 PM
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Exactly. It's like trying to cut down on street crime by making normal black people afraid.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/01/25 06:31 PM
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Sorry to hear that man.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/01/25 06:19 PM
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They think keeping men collectively scared of false allegations will deter men who are prepared to commit sex offences from doing so.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/01/25 06:04 PM
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Thanks 😆
/r/EverydayMisandry10/01/25 12:47 PM
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/r/EverydayMisandry07/01/25 04:16 PM
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It's meant to be a woman being killed because she is a woman. It is a useful term when it highlights the ways in which sexism plays a role in why a given woman is killed, but is often used to just mean any woman being killed. Which automatically makes women being killed worse than a man being killed. Like in this case, what plausible role can sexism play in her death? Do we know he was motivated by misogyny? Would he not have killed a man in similar circumstances?
/r/EverydayMisandry05/01/25 03:00 AM
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There's also evidence of men being subject to violence by their mothersmother and wiveswives. Violence is a human problem not a male one.
/r/EverydayMisandry31/12/24 02:19 PM
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Thanks that's the one I was thinking of.
/r/MensRights30/12/24 09:00 PM
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Thanks that's the one I was thinking of.
/r/MensRights30/12/24 09:00 PM
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This does seem to be the case https://www.queermajority.com/essays-all/dating-double-standards#:~:text=Ironically%2C%20a%20survey%20by%20the,the%20aversion%20to%20bi%20men.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/12/24 03:20 PM
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There's this which found that benevolently sexist men are more attractive. But that's not exactly what we are talking about. There also this which doesn't look at sexism specifically. Though it is contradicted by other studies. Point is, sex is more complicated than "if you're not getting any you must just be a bad person and a sexist".
/r/EverydayMisandry28/12/24 03:33 AM
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It says they got data from "federal, state, county, city, university and college, and tribal agenciesf". So maybe not conviction rates, but apparently at least reporting to institutions. My point was that when we have direct comparisons to based on population surveys we find women perpetrating 50% of homosexual rape and about 1/3 of heterosexual rape: "Our results show that 29.8% of heterosexual males report having sexually coerced a woman at some time in their lives. This proportion was obtaine…
/r/EverydayMisandry28/12/24 03:14 AM
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Dworking could be trans exclusive when she wanted to be https://x.com/TheNumber1of1/status/1868922260331110734. People are often inconsistent. It wouldn't surprise me if she changed her mind over the course of her life. Though I don't know in what direction.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/12/24 02:41 AM
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Most of the feminists who created the concept of patriarchy (ie 60, and 70s radical feminists) were trans exclusionary. Andrea Dworkin, Sheila Jefferies, Janice Reynolds, Mary Dayly, Robin Morgan, Adrien Rich - all of them. Modern trans inclusive ideological feminists want to draw on their ideas while ignoring the fact that being trans exclusive is far more consistent with the belief that the world is a patriarchy. If you believe "being a woman" is something men made up to make uteruses easier t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/24 10:24 PM
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<image> Forgot to add. Typical formula - be sexist, get criticised, claim the criticism vindicates you.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/12/24 09:59 PM
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Exactly.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/12/24 09:44 PM
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Oh fair enough
/r/EverydayMisandry24/12/24 09:27 AM
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She calls herself a liberal feminist.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/12/24 07:52 AM
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The answer by the way is probably because they were raped by a woman in their childhood http://empathygap.uk/?p=1993
/r/EverydayMisandry23/12/24 08:14 PM
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Patriarchy can only hurt men in the same way that punching someone in the face hurts your fist.
/r/MensRights22/12/24 11:08 PM
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https://www.amazon.co.uk/Sexual-Abuse-Boys-Men-Neglected/dp/1803693770/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=2GFB34TI0DKL8&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.ei7xqMRYdC73UpuGszoeQ9ncILknSu5QhVJ5HprVOLYtFBgtcSs_LbKAfUTXnSEL2mGuB1OiagT7zy13GOcRC_Xw3Yg9cpV7R9i_plARebY_cu9MOa7zSpThiEU69V4z37vtj-nHuQkQGb00oZ1dQUlfjmZZP88opKs62Jo5T5quhP1ZEHh5M-kLTaSBRGwsamvapJMiCM0RyGIo8e_hQw.zU_wdxWP67z8A0elew01A9I2TTP_tpO0uuOvf8sWRhY&dib_tag=se&keywords=the+sexual+abuse+of+men+and+boys&nsdOptOutParam=true&qid=1734584997&sprefix=the+sexual+abuse+of+men…
/r/EverydayMisandry19/12/24 05:10 AM
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They mean something like: "The media keeps telling us that Israel is killing Palestinian women and children and that's wrong because women and children are innocent. But they keep forgetting there's loads of Palestinian men who aren't innocent and so we are allowed to kill them!".
/r/EverydayMisandry17/12/24 06:45 AM
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The guy who wrote the book?
/r/EverydayMisandry17/12/24 01:08 AM
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Oh totally. It's the use of it to weave an anti male conspiracy that I objected to.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/12/24 05:00 PM
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Generating AI nudes of real women yes.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/12/24 04:55 PM
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Ikr. Like you can oppose victim blaming without anti-male bigotry just like you can criticise the financial sector without anti-Semitism.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/12/24 01:55 PM
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"Young male", "single male" and the "protect the women" trope in the first one. They are deliberately emphasising the maleness of the people they want you to hate.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/12/24 07:03 PM
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Thanks
/r/MensRights24/11/24 10:21 PM
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I found it actually. An Examination of Sexual Coercion Perpetrated by Women https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-023-10102-1
/r/MensRights24/11/24 06:39 PM
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Ideological feminists love invoking a mythic guilty past to justify current suffering.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/11/24 07:24 PM
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Attributing bad behaviour of an individual to their immutable characteristics is bigotry. Imagine someone saying "Black men love to do this to women" and then getting offended at the "small egos" of the black people who objected.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/11/24 01:48 AM
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I don't think we need to debunk this. We are interested in rejecting the patriarchal interpretation of society and the "men enforcing patriarchy" interpretation of rape. The fact that rapists are more sexist than average could be interpreted to provide evidence for that claim. It could be used to claim that these men are taught to be sexist by toxic male norms and perpetrate rape to keep women in their place. However, it could also be interpreted to emphasize how different rapists are from the r…
/r/MensRights07/11/24 09:06 PM
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There does seem to be some evidence of men being discrimination in nursing and other female populated contexts: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/02678373.2022.2129514#abstract https://m.jpost.com/omg/article-725642 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/38133995 https://www.telegraph.co.uk/education/2018/03/14/majority-councils-have-no-men-working-nurseries-parents-assume/ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1976131721000645 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC926549…
/r/MensRights13/09/24 08:58 PM
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There have been comparable cases of women forming serial killer clubs and often targeting men. There must have been other women who knew or suspected and said nothing. But it would be ridiculous to spin that into something all women were complicit in by virtue of their failure to "hold women accountable" (which means what exactly). https://unknownmisandry.blogspot.com/2017/04/husband-killing-syndicates.html?m=0
/r/EverydayMisandry11/09/24 05:03 PM
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Ironically these boomer men are probably more likely to be hurt by a stranger than the women who think like this.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/08/24 05:51 PM
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Patriarchy - a society in which men and women relate as oppressor and oppressed classes. This describes no society ever. Rape culture - people can be ignorant and insensitive about rape, and our institutions are often under equipped to deal with it. Idk if "rape culture" is a good description of that problem. Female oppression - there are contexts in which women are oppressed by authoritarian institutions or cultural norms. In these contexts men are also typically oppressed and women are also pa…
/r/MensRights10/08/24 06:30 PM
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Ikr! Like obviously some people can be assholes on a night out, but it's never just cis gay men. And when it is it's because they're assholes not because they're cis and male. People of all genders and sexes can be assholes on a night out. I feel like I am talking to a racist uncle ("some black people are criminals but not because they're black, some white people are also criminals" etc). Why are we doing this?
/r/EverydayMisandry06/08/24 09:02 PM
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Although having said that it would be good to have a record of it. How would I search for it without a link? And what are those Reddit specific websites you mentioned?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/24 07:37 AM
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He also deleted comments on a post this subreddit and this https://www.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/s/cs1nRrhkJe has shown he's been very inconsistent with his life story which suggests likely a bad actor covering his tracks. The whole thing is very frustrating.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/24 07:32 AM
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Also possible
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/24 07:37 PM
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Oh I didn't know that. Maybe it was a bit too conveniently a perfect refutation to be true. That's even more frustrating because there were people in the comments that were sharing what seemed to be their real stories.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/24 04:35 PM
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Someone posted a comic on r/comics showing a woman being sexually harassed and the snapping at a man who paid her an honest and innocent compliment. The man is then drawn posting a "modern women are so mean" comment on line and the woman says that there's a reason why women are so defensive. Pretty clearly stating that women have a right to mistreat innocent men because of the actions of guilty men. In response the Redditter I mentioned posted a comic explaining that he had a been raped by both …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/24 03:17 PM
3

This is Robin Morgan one of the founding mothers of second wave feminism and notorious TERF.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/07/24 02:07 PM
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These women call themselves the defenders of women but they're actually the handmaidens of the prison industrial complex.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/07/24 02:02 PM
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Only one of her victims tried to rape her. The others probably didn't even try to sleep with her. She changed her story a lot so we can't take any of her claims at face value. She had a long history of armed robbery and dv against both men and women so escalating to murder robbery isn't surprising. She had a horrific life and it turned her into a horrific person. But that is true of a lot of male criminals and serial killers. Fred West was raped by his mother from the age of four. Edmund Kemper …
/r/EverydayMisandry28/05/24 10:49 PM
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Yeah that was me, someone found it. It's all good now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/24 03:45 PM
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They are either TERFs or agree with TERFs like 90% but somehow think they can/ are allowed to hurt men without hurting trans women.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/05/24 09:28 AM
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I think that's very brave and wise of you. When you combine a traumatic experience with a man, paranoia being standard trauma response, fear mongering statistics like 1 in 5, a narrative that "it's OK to hate your oppressors", terminal online syndrome, widespread ignorance about the reality of female perpetrators and make victims you have a perfect storm for this kind of nonsense. We need to keep pushing against it and offering a positive alternative based on equality, partnership and mutual res…
/r/EverydayMisandry28/05/24 09:27 AM
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You can also point out that this is the ultimate proof that rule by men is not rule for men. The fact that elite men are prepared to do this to the rest of us suggests that they are not acting in our interests most of the time. Leftist anti-war analysis 101 is that the ruling class exploits the working class through war. Why chuck out that analysis and take a very victim blamey stance of "men doing it to themselves" just because you know that if you acknowledge there are forms of class based exp…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/24 07:03 AM
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Excellent thank you.
/r/MensRights27/05/24 07:30 PM
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Thanks. That's the original study, but I'm trying to find the response that debunked it.
/r/MensRights27/05/24 04:19 PM
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That statistic isn't true. A study found that women had had stuff like being kissed/ fondled/ eaten out while asleep which the authors asserted was therefore sexual assault. However, there was another study which found that a similar proportion of men also experienced this and that almost all of the men and women were happy with this. Because most of the time it wasn't SA it was a loving partner using sex to wake you up - which most people quite like. I can't find either survey, but The Tin Men …
/r/EverydayMisandry26/05/24 10:18 PM
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https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-023-10102-1
/r/MensRights16/05/24 05:08 PM
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According to An Examination of Sexual Coercion Perpetrated by Women by David DiMarco and Ryan Savitz: "The weighted mean of those studies which were predominantly heterosexual indicate that, worldwide, approximately 17% of heterosexual women have sexually coerced a man sometime during their lifetime." Both studies probably suffer from substantial self selection bias and the real figures are probably below 2% for rape and serious sexual assault and below 10% for the more modern forms (moderate is…
/r/MensRights16/05/24 12:48 AM
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Real shame feminist can't call out gross sexist nonsense like this without pivoting to their own gross sexist nonsense.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/05/24 05:08 AM
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"I'm afraid to leave the house becaue of [black] male violence" "All [Jewish] men benefit from [Jewish] men being disproportionately represented in the government" "They're violent because of their male socialisation TM" "[Gay] male sexuality is toxic and needs to be changed" "Who would you rather have in your home, a Muslim refugee or a wolf?" I could also have had "How classists talk about working-class men's emotional literacy"
/r/EverydayMisandry11/05/24 01:53 PM
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All done, I can recommend doing it. Very short but comprehensive.
/r/MenSupportMen06/05/24 10:52 PM
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As hard as it is, you need to start with compassionate listening. They are running on fear not truth and need care not challenge at this point. They might have some personal trauma or have been fed a very paranoid media diet. That's hard to do when someone is calling you a dangerous predator but we have to. In terms of actual arguments. Try asking them "who would you rather be in the woods with a bear or a black man". Or if they're a guy "who would you rather be in the woods with a bear or a gay…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/24 07:19 PM
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"Men won't let me calm them potential rapists and that's why I'm justified in hating them"
/r/EverydayMisandry01/05/24 06:36 PM
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Especially given that a lot of trans folk use concepts like patriarchy theory and "teach men not to rape". Which are the concepts that form the basis of TREF nonsense that is used against them. They don't deserve to suffer, but they have made a rod for their own back.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/04/24 07:01 PM
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Men kill more women than bears is true in the same way cows kill more people than sharks. Humans interact with cows way more. There are literally trillions of interactions between men and women globally every year that don't result in violence. Most women have never seen a bear outside of a zoo, and that was probably years ago. So bears don't kill them very often. It's still the case that men aren't potential rapists. These people, like all bigots, just don't understand how statistics work.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/04/24 06:23 PM
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Referring to things (including traditional gender culture) that hurt men as patriarchal is victim blaming.
/r/MensRights15/04/24 08:28 PM
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Also: Women and Enlightenment in Eighteenth-Century Britain by Karen O'Brien Teachers of the Inner Chambers: Women and Culture in Seventeenth-century China by Dorothy Ko Women and Property: In Early Modern England by Amy Louise Erickson Rediscovering Eve: Ancient Israelite Women in Context by Carol Meyers Women and Spiritual Equality in the Christian Tradition by Patricia Ranft Women in the New Testament World by Susan E. Hylen Victorian London's Middle-Class Housewife: What She Did All Day by Y…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/24 07:41 PM
3

I think the stuff you have cited would provide a very good theoretical framework for thinking about gender in non-traditonalist and non-feminist ways. A lot of it is feminist in origin, but nonetheless gives use resources to think about gender in ways that provide alternative to either conservative or progressive gender based bullshit. Use the stones to destroy the stones. However, if we wanted to look for some more historical information we might have to look for sources that emphasise male vul…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/24 07:41 PM
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I don't say things like "all women are bitches" or "women are hoes" and I think it's gross when people do. Will you extend the same courtesy to me?
/r/EverydayMisandry10/04/24 11:21 AM
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This is literally just the logic of all bigotry. "We have to treat all Muslims as terrorists because some of them are so all of them might be" "We have to treat all gay men as pedophiles because some of them are so all of them might be" "We have to treat all black men as criminals because some of them are so all of them might be" "We have to treat all refugees as rapists because some of them are so all of them might be" How people who call themselves leftists don't get this is beyond me.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/03/24 09:07 AM
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"I view men as potential rapists and I'm right" isn't the understandable position you think it is.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/03/24 01:00 AM
1

Cringe, unemployment behaviour in the comments.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/02/24 10:46 PM
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All this shows is that misandry and misogyny take different forms. Yeah women get banned from the army army don't have access to elite education/ careers in some contexts, but men get forced into the army/ are in the death professions more. What has she proven exactly? Also 1/3 Kenyan men report abuse by their wives (including sexual abuse) so... https://nation.africa/kenya/news/gender/a-third-of-kenyan-men-mistreated-by-partners-4315336
/r/MensRights17/01/24 06:05 PM
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Here's the thing, the status of women is generally measured by how much access they have to the public sphere. So when that access increases the amount of crime they commit also increases (as does the amount of science and public service). I wonder if the increased rates of sa against men is a result of more female perpetrators against strangers and acquaintances rather than against their partners.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/23 05:27 PM
3

If something hurts men referring to it as patriarchal is victim blaming.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/23 09:00 AM
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They talked about girls being harassed (which does happen and does need to be dealt with) in a way that implied that it was normal for boys to do that. Or that it was a product of boys' normal behaviour/ attitudes. They did acknowledge that boys could be victims, but the anger in the room was clearly against the harassment of women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/10/23 03:27 PM
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I'm training to be a teacher atm. We had a session on gender norms in school. They did recognise that boys were behind in school. But we immediately pivoted to women's scientific careers, and boys as harassers. I brought up some stats on boys as victims of sexual violence and people didn't dismiss it, but it wouldn't have been mentioned if I hadn't. There was a real sense of animosity to boys. Not completely hopeless, but very frustrating.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/10/23 01:54 PM
5

Here's everything I have. This article does some good debunking of the OG "only 2% are false" myth. There are other sources, but they only count accusations that the police believe are probably false - if an accusation is not taken to the police (that is, is made in the form of a rumour or to a different authority) it won't appear in that stat. Similarly, an allegation that is false won't appear if the cops can't state with confidence that "no crime has occurred". So the actual rate will be high…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/23 06:24 PM
1

Honestly not sure. I guess give them a vision of why it's worth it and make them believe they can achieve that. Not sure how you do that though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/23 04:14 PM
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I've read some articles by the same woman, she takes the attitude of a lot of social conservatives which is that men have no innate desire for a family/ success/ etc and so we need to slut shame women into keeping their legs crossed to hold men's intimacy needs hostage to have a functional society. So I'm not a fan.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/23 02:30 PM
1

Obviously we don't know the full story from either of these couples, so we don't know if they are accurately characterising their husband's reactions. They might have been needlessly dismissive of their wives experience despite having been traumatised themselves, or they might be downplaying their wives experience in order to try and get their trauma recognised when it was being dismissed. Either way men can be and are traumatised by birth and should get the care they need. https://www.menshealt…
/r/MensRights04/09/23 11:35 AM
1

The Art of Manliness and The Liberation Podcast
/r/MensRights03/08/23 07:37 AM
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When people say they are opposed to "toxic masculinity" they think they are talking about a concept analogous to "toxic parenting". Opposing "toxic parents" is not an indictment of all parenting. The problem is they are talking about a concept more analogous to "toxic blackness". By claiming "masculinity is associated with dominance, violence and misogyny and we need to change that" is kind of like saying "blackness is associated with criminality, promiscuity and irresponsibility and we need to …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/23 11:03 PM
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A patriarchal society is by definition (according to the 2nd wave feminists who created the theory) a society in which men are an oppressor class and women are an oppressed class. And that we relate approximately like the ruling and working class in Marxist theory. There are no societies like that because the only kinds of men who could create and maintain a society like that are sociopaths. As for her examples? Even if they were unequivocally true, how would they provide evidence of a patriarch…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 09:10 AM
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Polanski is convicted and I've never seen anything to say he was innocent. But putting him in the same line as one guy who was investigated and cleared and another guy who won damages for being accused is pretty dumb.
/r/MensRights13/06/23 05:38 PM
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Yep there it is, I'm just dim.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 12:18 AM
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The study itself notes in the section on Strengths and Limitations "Method was grouped broadly into ‘self-poisoning’ and ‘self-injury’. It was not possible to subdivide self-injury (eg, into hanging, traffic) due to insufficient numbers" which might mean that some more male-typical forms of self harm (i.e. punching walls, getting into fights you know you can't win, reckless drug/alcohol use and unsafe driving - though I'd imagine these two are less common among teenagers)) were not being counted…
/r/MensRights21/05/23 01:00 PM
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This is also admitting that choice is a class privilege (because they are acknowledging that people have abortions because they can't afford a child - which means it's not a choice).
/r/MensRights10/05/23 04:48 PM
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Here's a scathing review by Cathy Young https://reason.com/2018/11/23/no-sex-wasnt-better-for-women-under-soci/ As a moderate libertarian she's obviously pro-capitalism but her critiques seem to be on to something here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/23 11:02 PM
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Art of Manliness is always worth a shot. Not everything covers men's issues, but a lot of it is great.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/23 10:44 PM
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Wealthy people
/r/MensRights20/04/23 10:01 AM
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Oh sorry, try this: https://www.thecut.com/2017/01/psychologys-racism-measuring-tool-isnt-up-to-the-job.html
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/23 04:35 PM
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Hmmmm I've heard some bad things about the IAT, not sure we can trust this https://www.thecut.com/2017/01/psychologys-racism-measuring-tool-isnt-up-to-the-job.html&ved=2ahUKEwjT_orzk__9AhWN_rsIHbGnAYEQFnoECAwQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3v2kn6YGW_h97GFS1JdMsm
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/23 05:33 PM
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Lamo it's a British biscuit. Though it's actually more like a tiny cake with chocolate covering and apricot jam.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 02:35 PM
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I'm left of centre left and bi as hell, so there's that.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 11:59 AM
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Joseph wasn't just falsely accused, he was harassed for months and then suffered an attempted rape.
/r/MensRights15/03/23 06:17 PM
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I'm happy to say I'm left of centre left on most issues. I think economic democracy is as important as political democracy for human freedom and flourishing.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 05:48 PM
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This article is great http://empathygap.uk/?p=1993 The fifth paragraph in section 2 has links to loads more.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/23 10:53 AM
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Abstract There has been a recent increase in the amount of research on male victims of female-perpetrated partner violence (PV), but research needs to be conducted to understand how the patterns of abuse persist in these relationships. In the current study, the experiences of 59 male PV victims in the United States, recruited through online advertisements in professional networks and websites (e.g., agencies that specialize in male victims of PV), were explored through a thematic analysis. Analy…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 10:52 PM
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The current study sought to explore the experiences of college students who have experienced female-perpetrated sexual assault, and to compare their experiences to those of students assaulted by male perpetrators. A total of 11,165 college students across 11 years completed an online, anonymous survey measuring self-reports of sexual violence, context surrounding their victimization, help-seeking, and well-being. Of the students surveyed, 531 students reported experiencing sexual assault and ide…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 06:55 PM
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This qualitative study explores the experiences of men who self-report victimization from a female intimate partner in four English-speaking countries. Forty-one men who reported any type of intimate partner abuse (IPA) from a female partner were recruited via targeted advertising in Australia, Canada, the United Kingdom, and the United States. Twelve online focus groups were conducted across countries using a phenomenologically informed design. Thematic analysis was carried out from an inductiv…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 04:13 PM
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A large body of research clearly indicates that men are victims of intimate partner violence (IPV). However, in Portugal, the phenomenon of male victims of IPV remains hidden and is not a target of research, public policy, or social attention. This exploratory study analyzed the prevalence of victimization, help-seeking behaviors, and needs of 89 men who defined themselves as victims of IPV. Men reported that they had been the victims of at least 1 abusive behavior by their current or former fem…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:31 PM
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International research has established that men can be victims of intimate partner violence (IPV). In Portugal, this phenomenon has not yet received scientific or social attention, although since the 1990s, IPV has been acknowledged as a notable problem. An online cross-sectional study was conducted with 89 heterosexual men who, after completing the Revised Conflict Tactics Scales, identified themselves as victims of IPV. We examined the prevalence of IPV, its context, its perceived impact, men’…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:29 PM
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In the last several decades, the field of family violence has paid increasing attention to children’s exposure to partner violence (CEPV). Most of this research has focused on the children of women seeking help for partner violence (PV) victimization**. In this paper we examine exposure to PV among children of men who sought help for PV victimization (n = 408), as compared with children of men in a population-based sample (n = 666). We examined children’s exposure to psychological, physical, and…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:27 PM
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The authors recently developed a psychometrically valid measure of legal and administrative (LA) intimate partner violence (IPV) victimization (Hines, Douglas, & Berger, ). The current article explores the impact of actual and threatened LA aggression on the mental health of male physical IPV victims and their children. In the current study, a sample of 611 men who sought help after experiencing physical IPV from their female partners completed a survey assessing the types and extent of IPV that…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:25 PM
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Researchers argue that partner violence (PV) is a multidimensional and heterogeneous phenomenon that needs to be measured in multiple ways to capture its range, extent, severity, and potential consequences. Several large scale, population-based studies show that about 40% to 50% of PV victims in a 1-year time period are men; this finding is consistent whether the study focuses on physical PV or a combination of several forms of PV. However, no one has investigated how the different forms of PV c…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:23 PM
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Although research has documented the prevalence and health correlates of sexual aggression among women who have experienced severe partner violence (PV), no research has documented the parallel issues among male victims of severe PV. Research also suggests that children of female victims of both physical and sexual PV have worse mental health than children of female victims of physical PV only, but no research has assessed the mental health of children whose fathers experienced both physical and…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:22 PM
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National population-based studies show that 40%-50% of physical partner violence victims in a 1-year time period are men. However, studies assessing the health concerns related to partner violence victimization tend to focus on women, and none have assessed the health of male physical partner violence victims who sought help for their victimization. To understand men's mental and physical health concerns that may be related to partner violence victimization. In 2012-2013, two samples of men-611 …
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:21 PM
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The problem of domestic violence (DV) agencies presenting statistics that are distortions or have no basis in research has been pointed out by several DV researchers in the past several years. However, the extent of this problem is unknown. The purpose of this study was to evaluate how frequently 15 identified false facts were presented on DV agencies' websites in their fact sheets. All member agencies of the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV; N = 2,180) were investigated to se…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:16 PM
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Research has established the risk of coexisting sexual assault (SA) victimization among female physical partner violence (PV) victims, but there is little research on this issue among male physical PV victims. We assessed SA victimization from female intimate partners in a sample of 581 male physical PV victims who sought help for their victimization (Mean Age = 44.21, SD = 9.37; 64.9% White). We also assessed their lifetime trauma history and current mental and physical health. 48.1% of the men…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:13 PM
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Researchers have documented predictors of life-threatening violence by men toward women. Little research has assessed predictors of life-threatening violence toward men by women. We investigated such predictors in a sample of 302 men who sustained partner violence (PV) and sought help. Based on prior research on women as victims, we examined the following as potential predictors: demographics of the participant, his female partner, and their relationship; relationship power imbalances; her use o…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:11 PM
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Research since the 1970s has documented that men, in addition to women, sustain intimate partner violence (IPV), although much of that research has been overlooked. A growing body of research is examining the experiences of men who sustain female-to-male IPV, but there is still much to be learned. This exploratory study assesses the experiences of 302 men who have sustained IPV from their female partners and sought help from 1 of 6 resources: domestic violence agencies, hotlines, Internet, menta…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:10 PM
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College students are at particular risk for sexual assault victimization, yet research tends to focus on women as victims and men as perpetrators. The purpose of this study was to investigate gender differences in the prevalence, context, and predictors of sexual assault victimization among college students. Results showed that women were significantly more likely to have been sexually assaulted in a 2-month time period, but the context of victimization varied little by gender. Victimization was…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:08 PM
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Extensive work has documented an association between sustaining intimate partner violence (IPV) and alcohol/drug abuse among women, yet little research has documented the same association in men, even though men comprise 25-50% of all IPV victims in a given year. This study investigates the associations among sustaining IPV and alcohol/drug abuse among both a clinical and community sample of men. The clinical sample is comprised of 302 men who sustained intimate terrorism-a form of IPV that is c…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:07 PM
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Researchers in the field of intimate partner violence (IPV) are paying increasing levels of attention to the notion that members of aggressive and violent relationships cannot always be dichotomized as innocent victims versus blameworthy perpetrators; nonetheless, no research has documented characteristics of IPV victims that may predict their use of abusive and aggressive behaviors in response to their partners’ IPV. This study fills this gap and is unique because it uses a sample of 302 men wh…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:04 PM
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Extensive work has documented an association between sustaining intimate partner violence (IPV) and posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD) among women, yet little research has documented the same association in men, even though men comprise 25-50% of all IPV victims in a given year. Previous studies also show that women who sustain intimate terrorism (IT), a form of IPV that is characterized by much violence and controlling behavior, are at even greater risk for PTSD than women who sustain common …
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 03:02 PM
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Over 30 years of research has established that both men and women are capable of sustaining intimate partner violence (IPV) by their opposite-sex partners, yet little research has examined men's experiences in such relationships. Some experts in the field have forwarded assumptions about men who sustain IPV-for example, that the abuse they experience is trivial or humorous and of no consequence and that, if their abuse was severe enough, they have the financial and psychological resources to eas…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 02:59 PM
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Research showing that women commit high rates of intimate partner violence (IPV) against men has been controversial because IPV is typically framed as caused by the patriarchal construction of society and men's domination over women. Johnson's (1995) typology of common couple violence (CCV) and intimate terrorism (IT) attempted to resolve this controversy, but he maintained that IT was caused by patriarchy and committed almost exclusively by men. This study investigates Johnson's theory as it ap…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 02:58 PM
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Evidence showing that women use intimate partner violence (IPV) against their male partners has existed since the 1970s when IPV was first systematically examined. This article discusses the various sources of prevalence rates of IPV by women against men, the dominant theoretical explanation for IPV in general, and its implications for female perpetrators and male victims in the social service and criminal justice systems, as well as the current evidence of the consequences of women's use of IPV…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 02:54 PM
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Although research consistently shows that men can sustain intimate partner violence (IPV), few studies have investigated the possible consequences of sustaining IPV among men. The current study investigated the association between sustaining IPV and posttraumatic stress (PTS) symptoms among 3461 male university students at 60 sites around the world. Because this was a multisite study, analyses were also conducted to investigate whether the association between sustaining IPV and PTS existed at al…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 02:51 PM
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Intimate partner violence (IPV) by women against men has been the subject of much debate. Feminists typically argue that IPV is committed only by men against women. Others argue that violence is a human problem and women also commit much IPV. To resolve these debates, IPV has been classified into two categories: common couple violence captured by population-based studies, and patriarchal terrorism, captured by studies of battered women. This typology ignores male victims of extreme IPV. The curr…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 02:49 PM
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In response to criticisms of the Conflict Tactics Scales, Straus revised the original scale to include sexual aggression and injury. The purpose of the present study was to use this new scale to replicate and expand existing knowledge of psychological, physical, and sexual aggression in dating relationships. Four-hundred-eighty-one college students completed the Revised Conflict Tactics Scales. As expected, females reported perpetrating more psychological aggression than males; there were no gen…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 02:48 PM
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This article discusses the research on abuse against men in intimate relationships with a primary focus on the effects of this abuse. We begin by discussing the incidence of physical aggression against men, then address methodological and conceptual issues associated with the incidence data. We next review studies assessing the effects of aggression against men and discuss ways in which this research can be furthered and improved. Finally, we discuss why men would choose to stay in these relatio…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 02:45 PM
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The goal of the current study is to test—among samples of men—some previous findings relative to Johnson’s (2008) typology of partner violence (PV). Among samples of exclusively women, Johnson found that the frequency and severity of PV—and victims’ mental health—are worse for female victims of intimate terrorism (IT) than of situational couple violence (SCV). However, such findings have rarely been tested in male victims of PV. Furthermore, although Johnson posited that mutual violent control (…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 02:43 PM
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International research has established that men can be victims of intimate partner violence (IPV). In Portugal, this phenomenon has not yet received scientific or social attention, although since the 1990s, IPV has been acknowledged as a notable problem. An online cross-sectional study was conducted with 89 heterosexual men who, after completing the Revised Conflict Tactics Scales, identified themselves as victims of IPV. We examined the prevalence of IPV, its context, its perceived impact, men’…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 02:42 PM
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Johnson's typology of intimate partner violence (IPV) postulates four types: intimate terrorism (IT), situational couple violence (SCV), violent resistance (VR), and mutual violent control (MVC). Johnson asserts that IT (i.e., severe violence is part of the perpetrator's use of coercive control and power) is primarily perpetrated by men and can be solely explained by patriarchal theory and MVC is rare. These assertions are based on results from samples that included data only on women and victim…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 02:36 PM
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This qualitative study explores the experiences of men who self-report victimization from a female intimate partner in four English-speaking countries. Forty-one men who reported any type of intimate partner abuse (IPA) from a female partner were recruited via targeted advertising in Australia, Canada, the United Kingdom, and the United States. Twelve online focus groups were conducted across countries using a phenomenologically informed design. Thematic analysis was carried out from an inductiv…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 02:33 PM
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Research suggests that there are differences between sexes in physical intimate partner violence (IPV) victimization that could lead to different injury patterns. In addition, research shows that men under-report their injuries yet may suffer grave consequences. It is, thus, vital to establish physical injury patterns in male IPV victims. A retrospective review of prospectively collected data was performed using the National Electronic Injury Surveillance System-All Injury Program data from 2005…
/r/Male_Studies23/12/22 02:24 PM
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Thanks 🙂
/r/MensRights13/12/22 02:05 PM
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Hey this is great, but your third link is broken. Could you link to that study please?
/r/MensRights13/12/22 09:51 AM
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The one (1) time Jeremey Kyle was good for something.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 09:11 AM
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Lots of the people who were accused of satanic ritual abuse in the 90s were women, even when exonerated the process of being accused and investigated will have been damaging. This one is ambiguous as it centers on the validity of some controversial facilitated communication technology, but I think it's probably true that this woman was falsely accused of sexual abuse. This book (which to be fair I've not read) goes into detail about men and women who have been falsely accused of sexual harassmen…
/r/MensRights05/12/22 02:37 PM
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Not "all" thanks to women, but the women are no doubt essential to that effort. Frustrating that feminists represent partnership as women doing all the work.
/r/MensRights24/11/22 01:40 PM
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I guess I've always heard of migrants travelling in families or as single young people (usually men). I'd be surprised if there was a boat of men and children but no women. But in this case either the women were taken on land (which is blatant misardry) or the children were separated from the only patent who was with them (which is even worse).
/r/MensRights07/11/22 01:39 AM
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Oh yeah I see now there's a difference between the headline and body of the article. It doesn't say what happened to the women. Maybe there weren't any on that boat? But would that happen?
/r/MensRights06/11/22 10:53 PM
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Awwww shame - here's a Soot House video of r/badmaleanatomy to remember simple times: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NQU8aXc0w8Y
/r/MensRights04/11/22 06:58 PM
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Yeah I agree. Mostly funny, but with people being unfair occasionally. But who cares about people being unfair online occasionally? I can also recommend r/badmaleanatomy, r/badmalepsychology and r/womenwritingmen for some laughs (and occasionally unfair as well).
/r/MensRights04/11/22 05:56 PM
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If it was a WW1 kind of situation (clash of empires) then no. If it was a WW2 (democracy vs fascism or moral equivalent) like situation then I'd be a lay chaplain or a hospital porter or something. The main way my country doesn't value me is by working for the 1% rather than by being woke.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 12:52 PM
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I think we need to break out of this zero sum gender justice game. Women have distinct needs and challenges and society needs ways of addressing them, and the same applies for men. And the good news is that we don't have to choose. We are and always have been in this together. It is fundamentally in men's interest to have well educated, cared for and politically represented women - and vice versa. The enemy is not feminism (or whatever name you want to give to the movement that is committed to r…
/r/MensRights09/10/22 03:33 PM
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Peace deals last longer the more people and the more types of people engage with them. A peace deal that includes the participation of people of all genders and from all sections of society is more likely to succeed because it is more democratic not because some genders/ sections of society are automatically more virtuous than others.
/r/MensRights16/09/22 07:33 PM
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Of course I'm sorry, would you like me to post just the article which criticises the concept of hegemonic masculinity? The one I mentioned in my other comment?
/r/Male_Studies10/04/22 07:30 PM
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One of the authors and another guy went back to this 20 years later and rethought some of the concepts here: HEGEMONIC MASCULINITY: Rethinking the Concept, http://www2.kobe-u.ac.jp/~alexroni/IPDreadings%202017/IPD%202017_2/Connell_and_messersmidt_hegemonic_masculinity.pdf The concept of hegemonic masculinity has influenced gender studies across many academic fields but has also attracted serious criticism. The authors trace the origin of the concept in a convergence of ideas in the early 1980s a…
/r/Male_Studies10/04/22 04:11 PM
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Connell’s hegemonic masculinity thesis (HMT) has occupied a relatively dominant position within contemporary research exploring the lives of men. Messerschmidt has conducted a review of recent literature that purports to use HMT, he describes in detail some of the ways Connell’s work has been appropriated. Taking Messerschmidt’s lead, this paper explores a small selection of men’s health research that employ HMT as a central organising theme. Such a narrow focus and limited sample enables the th…
/r/Male_Studies10/04/22 11:21 AM
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Turns out men and women have far more in common than we are different. (I know this isn't strictly a study of men as men, rather a comparison of men and women - so please delete if appropriate) Despite the common lay assumption that males and females are profoundly different, Hyde (2005) used data from 46 meta-analyses to demonstrate that males and females are highly similar. Nonetheless, the gender similarities hypothesis has remained controversial. Since Hyde's provocative report, there has be…
/r/Male_Studies10/04/22 11:17 AM
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Feminist historian Dianne Purkis did a pretty good job of debunking the "witch hunting is reducible to misogyny" claim of some of her more ideological colleagues in her book The Witch in History. It's worth a read and the relevant section is on Google Books for free.
/r/MensRights12/02/22 08:56 PM
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I think "tonic masculinity" might be a good idea.
/r/MensRights12/02/22 08:51 PM
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I hang around there a lot, but it has like 30+ times fewer followers so I also come on here because there are more posts and most of them are worth reading. I know this is an overall centre right sub, but I can respect centre right opinions especially when it's combined with a passionate and authentic commitment to equality, justice and freedom. I learn and heal a lot both here and there.
/r/MensRights07/02/22 08:51 PM
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That the current brand of antisocial capitalism is doing more harm than good to everyone including men. If we want to achieve the goal of securing men's rights, we ought to acknowledge that democratising the workplace and decreasing wealth inequality are as essential to achieving that goal as much as legal equality is. You can call that social capitalism, democratic socialism or distributism if you want but I think it's the best way to achieve workplace safety, fight discrimination, secure pater…
/r/MensRights04/02/22 12:37 AM
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I'm from the UK and I found most of what he has to say helpful. Some of it needs adapting, but that might just because it's like 30 years old at this point, but well worth it.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:36 PM
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Predictors of Sexual Coercion Against Women and Men: A Multilevel, Multinational Study of University Students https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17333324/ Here you are.
/r/Male_Studies10/08/21 04:08 PM
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NB: sociosexuality basically means how willing/ interested you are in casual sex. TL;DR promiscuous people are more likely to express sexual attention where it's not wanted and are also more likely to attract sexual attention when they don't want it.
/r/Male_Studies17/07/21 07:02 PM
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Very frustrating that they didn't have a "father being treated violently" or "parents being violent to each other". It also would be good if they had asked more questions about who (mother, father, both, other family, family acquaintance, stranger?) was perpetrating this.
/r/Male_Studies25/06/21 11:48 AM
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Never mind found it, it wasn't DOJ http://www.prosecutorintegrity.org/pr/survey-over-20-million-have-been-falsely-accused-of-abuse/
/r/MensRights16/02/21 11:26 PM
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Here you go: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/0886260515573576. Will do
/r/MensRights15/02/21 12:54 PM
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Here you go: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/0886260515573576
/r/MensRights15/02/21 12:54 PM
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Here's the link, which I should have posted originally: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/0886260515573576
/r/MensRights15/02/21 12:54 PM
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It's especially egregious when you compare it to the way in which they play Wunch assaulting Holt for laughs. A straight, white person in a position of power forcibly kissing a gay black subordinate they have been obsessed with/ professionally punishing for literal decades - lol! A man trying to (though not actually) kiss a woman - awful! Don't get me wrong sexual harassment is awful, and I get it's a sitcom and comedy violence is comedy, not violence. But the double standards/ overgendering of …
/r/MensRights26/01/21 04:18 PM
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I guess explaining just about everything we do by saying we're doing it because we hate/ want to control/ want to be better or different than women. It's annoying when this is used to explain how men refer to boats or why Alexa is a woman, but when it's used for why we are violent or mentally ill it's down right sinister.
/r/MensRights14/10/20 12:14 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/MensRights24/08/20 02:05 PM
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Thanks that's great
/r/MensRights24/08/20 02:05 PM
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I just straight up say that what I am hearing is that the reason I've wanted to kill myself on and off for more than the last decade is because I hate women so much I'd rather die than be seen to be like them. Then I explain that I don't consider this to be mental healthcare or a form of compassion or permission to be vulnerable - that it is at best insulting at worst actively gaslighting. Most feminist genuinely care about men but have inherited a very shaky model for explaining gender roles an…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/20 12:29 PM
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Some similar stories have been mentioned already but: - Calypso in The Odyssey pretty much threatens to throw Odysseus into the sea if he doesn't have sex with her, possibly also Circe coercing him by effectively keeping his men hostage. These are ambiguous as he does then choose to stay with them for years afterwards, but still. - Book of Genesis again: Jacob does not give informed concent to Leah when she pulls a bed trick with Rachel (also ambiguous as the text puts the blame on her father, b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/20 03:04 PM
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