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SELF IMPROVEMENTJikira/r/RedPillWomen14/06/22 04:45 PM
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DISCUSSIONJikira/r/RedPillWomen18/09/17 05:02 PM
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THEORYJikira/r/RedPillWomen04/10/17 03:19 PM
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FIELD REPORTJikira/r/RedPillWomen22/04/19 04:58 PM
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OFF TOPICJikira/r/RedPillWomen31/08/17 03:35 AM
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FIELD REPORTJikira/r/RedPillWomen24/01/20 09:53 PM
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FIELD REPORTJikira/r/RedPillWomen02/10/18 06:46 PM
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DATING ADVICEJikira/r/RedPillWomen13/06/17 04:12 PM
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DiscussionJikira/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 10:59 AM
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Venting is not the same as asking bad faith question. You already provided 1000% better discussion starter , with your question! I just think that Mods should do more to remove questions that bait the men in the sub to be perceived as incels and give Reddit the fuel to ban your subreddit.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 10:42 PM
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Because everyone thinks they have it worse. You do not know how it is to be female and vice versa. You should be pushing back on that rhetoric because it literally benefits no one unless one is pushing for male supremacy or female supremacy.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 10:39 PM
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Thats even worse! Why ask such a bad faith question in a sub that is about mens right. This sub talks about a lot of serious issue that men face and you are taking away from that conversation. Fun fact my dude… dude can be used as a unisex term.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 10:34 PM
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I mean this is the problem with this sub. It doesn’t matter my dude who has it worse. The movement should not be about who has it worse. It should be about bringing awareness to the issues that effect you as a man. Talking about issue men face do not diminish the ones women face or vice versa. I am glad I am not chronically online, because if my only information about MRA was this subreddit I would not care about mens issues too. This subreddit does nothing for the movement if a majority of the …
/r/MensRights01/02/23 01:41 PM
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Hiya! I am also an autistic women. I would say as one poster said it is best to find your independence. Then decide what it is you want and enjoy out of life and relationship. I find that a lot of advice here is generic enough to where it could apply to anyone looking for a relationship. That being said a lot of advice or problems other poster share don’t really apply to me. I am also asexual so I approached dating very aggressively, I met my husband and just went for it. As an asexual autistic …
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/22 07:54 AM
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Yes.. exactly.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 06:02 PM
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OP, this is not a female issue. This is a You problem. The fact that this has happened a multiple times and had the same results is because of YOU… You are being taken advantage of because you allow it. A Companies priority is to make profit. They do not care if you are burnt out. You will not get rewarded for putting more time in.. If you think a male manager and male teammates won’t take advantage of the guy who doesn’t say no. You are delusional. I am sorry if this comes across as harsh. As a…
/r/MensRights01/12/22 05:56 PM
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Ray j recently released the contract in which Kris laid out the conditions for the release of the tapes . Kris has always been Kim’s momager.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 01:51 PM
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Lol! It is my personal property, I have a right to not allow anyone to live there, especially since I live here. As a women, there is definitely a bigger risk being roommates with a guy vs a another female. That just a fact. The real question is why are other men not advertising to other men.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 09:58 PM
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Totally unfair, but we might all be fucked together if they get rid of abortion lol
/r/MensRights26/11/22 12:58 PM
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Yes.. Definitely it is harder as men also prefer women roommates and almost impossible if you are a couple.. I can tell you it is a lot more than cleanliness… Also very few girls would probably feel comfortable rooming with a male stranger. I would definitely bookmark the male ones who say female only, there’s good chance they will have to change it . As someone who rents out room in my house, without my husband I would definitely not rent to a male.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 12:55 PM
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Agree, that stuck out to me as well. Hope OP got a paternity test
/r/MensRights26/11/22 10:14 AM
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Dating struggles are not the only thing in life people struggle with… I am asexual, so my dating life was non existent till I met my husband. I know I am lucky. Which is why I don’t give dating advice. My husband is also autistic and was pretty successful dating. As to Why I am on this sub, I used to run a non profit that helped high risk boys get excited for tech. My non profit got shut down because it was only for boys. That situation led me here.. I don’t hate men, but honestly I am tired of …
/r/MensRights22/11/22 09:30 PM
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How can you ask for empathy, when you don’t give it. Being autistic is hard and it is fucked up you think it some how an easier experience because a Person is a girl. Social cues are vital to being human. I pretty much was isolated and didn’t have a childhood because of my autism. What is being described is the experience of every autistic person.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 02:30 PM
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Agree, they are justified.. but 9/10 times the solution to their problem is not on a incel forum..
/r/MensRights01/11/22 04:34 PM
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Then use a condom + spermicide…. , pull out. Those are thing you can wear/do as a male to protect yourself. Limit the chances of being financially enslaved
/r/MensRights27/10/22 10:03 PM
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Vasectomy has a 1% risks, even abortions aren’t perfect. If 1% is to much of a risk for you then abstinence is your best option…
/r/MensRights27/10/22 10:02 PM
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Okay, use a condom + spermicide
/r/MensRights27/10/22 10:01 PM
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Okay, then go for the other option, pairing a condom with spermicide?
/r/MensRights27/10/22 10:00 PM
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I mean plan b is a thing? Pairing spermicide with a condom raises it effectiveness to 99%. I am just wondering why so many people are jumping straight to vasectomies… you can just wear a condom. If you worried about it breaking have plan b on hand.. or add spermicide…
/r/MensRights27/10/22 04:35 AM
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Serious question, but what about condoms?
/r/MensRights27/10/22 04:18 AM
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I see this advice on both sides. If both genders don’t pursue, nobody is getting pursued. I’ll say don’t be afraid of getting rejected, if you like someone go for it. Have boundaries and you will be set. IMO
/r/seduction18/10/22 06:50 PM
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A good partner is subjective, A good marriage in my opinion are ones, where you and your partner share the same goals. My husband and I have the same goals. Issues like time and sacrifice are not issues, because we are working towards the same goals. Yes. I do think you can. Motivations are a big part of that. I grew up with my dad working his ass off to provide for his family. According to your logic he wouldn’t be a good partner / his because he had to sacrifice time. I also don’t see spending…
/r/seduction17/10/22 06:10 PM
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Are you in a relationship with these women? I How do you know they are bad partners? Why would they not be focus on anything other than work, when they are at work. Maybe you don’t understand what assumptions are?
/r/seduction17/10/22 04:36 PM
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A lot of assumptions there
/r/seduction17/10/22 04:21 PM
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I am probably in your same position but, only 25. I am in a career that is rewarding both mentally and emotionally. I personally don’t think anything is wrong from just looking at your post. I disagree with the poster who says you have a history of bad relationship. As you seem to not be in one right now. It is true a lot of men are not gonna see your career as an added value. As a women you are gonna face discrimination the more successful you are in the SMV.. Those men are honestly not worth i…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/22 03:26 PM
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I find the rhetoric around this subject disheartening. I will watch this later while I work. I find that I am very happy as a career women. I was raised in a Christian family and taught that women can’t find joy in a career. I joined RPW at 14 and internalized the ideals until I was 20. Decided it was not for me. I feel that I am lucky though as my parents encouraged me to pursue the things that I loved. The truth is I could never be a SAHM. I see your life and thank god, I live in a society, wh…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/22 01:37 PM
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Preach and less stressful, this is the advice I give everyone or don’t stay there too long
/r/MensRights06/09/22 02:14 PM
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My husband and I also graduated same year. He has a non CS degree, but made the transition to tech after seeing my successes and now he is pursuing his masters. Before that he did have problem securing tech jobs. He is white and I am black, however it was never about our race. I always had no trouble securing a job but, I have always known how to sell my skills. I coached him how to interview and we worked on his resume and since has no issues securing a job… In my opinion that biggest issue is …
/r/MensRights06/09/22 05:15 AM
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Oh mostly shrooms and lsd. I personally took good doses because, on lighter ones i could still avoid facing my trauma… For shrooms 4-8grams and lsd 2-4 tabs..
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/22 05:35 PM
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Honestly, I am 184 now @ 5”2’. In my honest opinion you should really deal with the emotional eating. At my heaviest I was 195 it was a severe wake up call.. I have Binge eating disorder and for a long time I was stuck at 195. For the last year, I had been working out and have a pretty healthy diet.. Most of my work has been with my binge eating disorder, I could be good 6 days out of the week and One day of binge eating will destroy all my progress. Honestly, when I got stuck at 195 and maintai…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/22 05:26 AM
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Thanks,I appreciate it. The reason I say it is confidence as I never doubted I could learn to program though. My goal is to be a polymath. I study a multitude of subjects so I know the struggle. Bravery is usually the first step in developing confidence . By the time I started my CS career in college I had a multitude of accomplishments under my belt. As I am always learning new things so I knew what it would take for me. I guess in that since I did have evidence to support me from my pass exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:13 PM
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You don’t always have evidence though. People will come to conclusions about others without any evidence of their own. What if everyone around you said that you could not be an Apache pilot. Neither they nor you know whether or not you can until you try! Confidence in my opinion is about testing your boundaries. I went to a very competitive computer science program. I was the weakest link, nobody wanted to be my partner to the point the professors assigned me solo projects. I was always on the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:26 PM
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Not everyone cares of about THIS. I never said I was cool, or that I didn’t care. But I’ll take it as a compliment. Thanks!! Caring isn’t gonna change anything though for op. If he is ugly, in a way where losing weight, fitness, and a wardrobe change wouldn’t help. Then he probably should worry about things he can improve on. As a person who generally most people think is ugly that is what helped me. I stopped caring as it was not helping. Anecdotal in my experience ugly peoples tend to not actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:04 PM
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Hmm who cares? Isn’t that the point of being confident you don’t care that a few women laughed at you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:34 AM
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Non existent, I recently got diagnosed at 25. I never was able to assimilate within other in the black community. At first I thought it was because I was homeschooled and mostly around white people. However my sister had no trouble making black friends and such and she was raised in the same environment. I realize I just trouble connecting with people in general and kind of accepted that I don’t share same value and thoughts with most people. I got into red pill at 14 thinking it would help me a…
/r/ExRedPill07/07/22 05:43 PM
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Yes, lol
/r/ExRedPill07/07/22 02:42 PM
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Yep
/r/ExRedPill07/07/22 05:42 AM
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I think sometimes we associate money -> masculinity and providing, but money can be for nurturing-> feminine energy. Let him provide for him and in turn nurture him! Their is a difference between paying for bills and spending your money in a way your husband will enjoy. Also note I would say if he offers take it because, you trust your husband can take care of you. You married him for a reason if he says he can pay it let him. I wonder if you feel guilty because you feel he can’t afford it. Whic…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/22 11:15 PM
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The comment below sums it up. My fiancé and I spend the entire day together we work remotely, our desks are next to each other. After work we hang out, on weekends we go hiking and camping. We travel together and much much more. He is my best friend, and that is our relationship. Sex is like any other activity it brings us closer, but it is only a small part of what we do together. I understand some couples do not enjoy hanging out like we do and may only have sex as a form of communication/atta…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/22 10:55 PM
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Again maybe you can have sex and get emotionally attached, but plenty of women don’t get attached and plenty of men do. I am one of them. Sex is not that big of deal too me. I enjoy it and it is a thing we do as human. But there is so much more to a relationship than sex that determines how you bond in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/22 05:38 PM
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I’m black, I’m sad for him. I thought he made some good points. I think he had an audience, but his advice is probably not beneficial for someone not wanting that lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:14 PM
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Our profiles pics are quite similar what are the chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:15 AM
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Dam. This is almost the same way I met my now fiancé. Like except the elopement, I move in after two weeks and been together every since. Love it. I am 25 met him at 19, he popped my weed cherry too. Hehe I needed a place ASAP and he just ask me to move in we only hung out twice at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:14 AM
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Take a deep breathe. Do not engage in a discussion if you are angry wait. Even if that means you have to shut down in a middle of a conversation. Say I’m angry in the heat of the moment. Nothing else. Then step away and process.. If you need to scream in a pillow, break something, go for a walk do it. Take some time to figure out your triggers and discuss them accordingly in therapy with friends or people you trust etc. My SO and I are both very snappy and angry people. We grew up in chaotic hom…
/r/RedPillWives10/02/22 01:37 PM
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You just described me, hmmm now I know why my fiancé likes me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:15 AM
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I think your statement implies that women do not need these three things as well. Which is untrue, but since that is not what you said explicitly I agree with your statement, however if you think women do not need the same thing. Then I will apply some reasoning why we do need those things as well to succeed. Success is different for each gender. For a women locking down the best male is success. To accomplish that most women take on the same three things. For this women take on a lot of risk, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:03 AM
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In this example, the girl would more than likely be called a slut. No double standards here. People hate in both genders for showing off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:49 PM
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I don’t identify with RP anymore. I used too, but I realize that a lot of people on this sub are just projecting their inabilities onto other. I am the antithesis of RP, I am the breadwinner, I don’t want kids, I believe in equality. I am not conservative. I feel RP has good relationships advice though. I am glad that I found it at a young age. Hence why I come back from time to time. As I get older I see that it becomes less and less relevant for my life. I find myself exhausted with the consta…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/22 11:57 AM
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Yes! I personally do not want children nor care to be a sahw.
/r/RedPillWives09/12/21 01:46 PM
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Love the nuance this answer brings as life isn’t black or white. Things happen situations changes.
/r/RedPillWives09/12/21 01:45 PM
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For the most part men nor women need each other in the sense that we have resources to survive independently in modern society. However the vast majority of people, need community, and companionship. I personally don’t feel like I struggle or unhappy taking care of myself, but I do need companionship and there nothing wrong with that. I know there was a post in the other sub where I believe they said men don’t need women. Atlas humans need each other and it is rare that a human doesn’t want any …
/r/RedPillWives13/08/21 04:39 PM
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Update this plz
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/21 10:11 AM
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Totally possible my boyfriend and I tend to tackle most things like you described
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/21 07:59 AM
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Whoever created this should add education lmao
/r/MGTOW216/07/21 01:07 AM
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A lot of women on this sub purpose is too serve men. As a result they don’t see value in pursuing things that does not benefit from that. If a man is looking for the stereotypical Sahm and working dad. The men who pursue that probably don’t care. Men who are less traditional seem to care. It all up to preference. My bf really values education. He also does all of the cleaning as I work and he is pursuing his master. We also plan on being child free. It just wouldn’t make sense for him to want so…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 05:10 PM
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I got a full ride scholarship lmao.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 04:59 PM
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Amen 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:51 PM
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I mean you are the one complaining about how women fucked up society. I would think if women thoughts don’t matter your whole argument would be obsolete. As women would have not been able to influence so much. So please tell me as woman are voting members of society how their thoughts don’t matter?
/r/MGTOW219/05/21 05:08 PM
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I think it’s a good thing that more and more people are seeing not bearing children as a viable option.
/r/MGTOW219/05/21 04:59 PM
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Into who’s psyche. Yours.... That’s the issue. You obviously have a bad relationship with other women. You say you love all humans, but go on to describe a certain type of women who respects men. As if a girl who ultra feminine can not. The world is full of hate and competition because we try to pigeon hole everybody. Religion vs non religion. Black vs white. Feminine girls vs masculine girls. But literally none of that matters. I don’t know how you can not see what you are saying perpetuates th…
/r/MGTOW215/05/21 02:57 PM
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This has not like the other girls vibe... Respect for men has nothing to do with anything you listed. A job is not a personality trait. A women who is highly feminine who looking for a traditional male, can make a good wife. But she is gonna have this as an expectation This goes for both sexes 4.Noooooo Noooooo Noooooo. This does not matter at all. What... nothing to do with a relationship at all Again for anybody looking for a relationship, but not important as well Again basic human decency Pe…
/r/MGTOW215/05/21 04:47 AM
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It was the same for me I saw how bad being a sole provider was for my dad. my work ethic has been highly praised by men in my past, I definitely attracted men because of it. I never had trouble getting men, I honestly think work ethic not my career is what attracted these men to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:41 PM
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I’m a pumpkin pounder. I am watching Harry Potter with my boyfriend. Rupert grint is 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 05:18 AM
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Women get the same shit when it comes to sterilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 09:51 PM
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it’s employer-driven. But in the last 6 years I’ve quit 2 jobs (w/something else lined up) due to work-life balance I have been working for around 4 years now in tech, My first year I switched jobs at least 4 times. I’ve had 2 hiring managers lie to my face. Also had a manager (3rd employer) not understand why I couldn’t be at work the day after major surgery. They always lie, I prefer to ask them about what a successful candidate looks like/or about the last person to have the job.. this usuall…
/r/RedPillWives18/02/21 07:14 PM
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Hmm I work in tech, this seems more like a company issue then industry. I don’t know what field within tech you do, but I have been a software engineer, tpm, and currently am a devops engineer. I make it a point not to stay at any company that does not fit my lifestyle. Sometimes it just a team issue as well. If you decide to leave tech, be wary because most good careers have bad employers. Jobs have to be vetted as well and you have to be willing to walk away. Which is personally ok! I tell eve…
/r/RedPillWives18/02/21 03:23 PM
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Health Care is a big issue for me so I voted Biden. I used to be in the middle, but with each year I move further to the left. As I don’t agree with the majority of the Conservative party.
/r/RedPillWives20/01/21 05:42 PM
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This is the one thing I disagree with, being highly educated and in stem gave me a lot of opportunities to pursue high value men. To that point isn’t rp for men about not getting married. Isnt it a greater risk financially for a man to marry someone way below his socioeconomic standards. I think his standard are quite normal especially if he is rp. I think education/job doesn’t matter in more traditional relationship. But rp doesn’t necessarily mean traditional.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/20 04:28 PM
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My boyfriend friend introduced me to him. He was a mutual friend and my best friend also thought we be a good match. They were both right. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 04:07 AM
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Just look at the stats for this, till to this day women are the one mainly dealing with child care and cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 11:36 PM
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Women 23 Yessss. I just so happen to find a boy who likes me. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 06:47 AM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 06:45 AM
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Played it hehe thx though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 06:07 AM
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I play all games but my favorite are strategy games/survival. My friends don’t really play games but they know I love don’t starve together so they bought to play with me as I move to a different state and it is a great way to hangout. I mostly play with my bf and his friends. The difference I honestly see is exposure none of my girlfriends were expose to video games growing up. I grew up watching my older brother play. I still remember when he let me play teenage mutant ninja turtle with him fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 06:05 AM
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My bf got me animal crossing it was so boring. The real challenge is getting through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 05:58 AM
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From my experience that usually a sign he is gay or in the closet. If he has no male friends..
/r/RedPillWives22/10/20 02:22 PM
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This is so true and something I brought up to my boyfriend. We do almost everything. Most of my friends thinks it weird how much time we spend together, but we love doing so many things together. Sometimes we stay up all night playing a video game. He has me help him understand code since he is learning to code. It really works because we legitimately like doing stuff together. That being said we both have hobbies that the other person doesn’t like or care for. For example, I love shopping, cook…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 04:42 PM
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I ask my bf every now and then if I am doing something to get on his nerves, because he works long hours he may not have had the time to tell me. I think that honestly really improved our relationship. As we have little time to actually argue as we both work insane hours. This ensure we can spend the little time we have together hanging out and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 04:12 PM
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This is a dynamic I strive for, I do not want to have kids and am no rush to marry my boyfriend. Both my bf and I have very demanding jobs and at time he sacrificed for my career and I have sacrifice for his. We work together to build each other up. I follow rpw because there is some good advice on how to communicate with your partner. The advice I learn here really helped me be a better human in general. This dynamic is good for some women and the more trad is good for other. I think I am hones…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/20 08:22 PM
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I only had one and it been amazing so I guess 100% I am 23 years old and I have been in my relationship for four years, we met in college moved in after two weeks and he was my first bf. Since then we have moved through different states were long distance while I was in college. In my opinion I have always been very vocal about my expectations whether it is dealing with my family friends or boyfriend. I really value people who are open and self aware and can communicate about effectively about i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 11:28 PM
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Yes, I saw that and could not believe it. It made me sad because I know plenty of young girls are gonna see that.
/r/RedPillWives21/09/20 01:08 AM
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Ah your bf sound like a consultant, when I first started consulting someone told me it is impossible to keep a relationship. But as I started traveling and working. I was like the fuck anybody have time for dating. Lol I was so so glad had my bf to come home to the times I wasn’t working to help me decompress and relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 02:09 PM
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I agree I am pretty sure the only requirement I need for most of these guys is that I had a vagina. At the time I was dating I was still in school. So I didn’t have a degree still nobody ask if I was in school or really anything that will give them a gauge of my career or accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 07:03 PM
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I disagree, I believe that they guys who believe that this is what they want. However they always seem to settle for girls who make less then them. I never had a date ask me anything about my career, money, etc.. Then if you have some semblance of a career they expect you to drop everything and raise the children. For most men there career will always come before yours. I believe the men who value this are a rare occurrence, literally I only met one and he is my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 06:52 PM
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Yea, I am the same way, I made it a point that I would not be bringing a baby into the world early on in my relationship. Birth can be traumatic I have seen it go really good and I have seen go really bad. My mom had really bad post partum depression with me and my younger siblings and her pregnancies was really difficult. I think you should talk to your partner more about it as you should not be unsure or speculating what he wants. My bf and I talk about it a lot and now both want to be child f…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/20 01:30 PM
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When I was in college Not be in a Fraternity, Not be apart of the hookup cultures, must be in a stem major, Not be into parties, Strong focus on school and ambitious, not be super religious, no military Now, Have the same financial plan as me, focus on career, don't want children, NO religion at all, Able to handle criticism, self aware, a good listener, likes video games, have good self discipline, doesn't mind recreational drug use, can cook, can clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 04:56 PM
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It makes sense someone who is in a good relationship would be on debate sub about relationships...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 07:08 AM
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Everybody has different preferences I personally do not like big. To each there own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 07:02 AM
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It may be useless to you, but it’s obviously not a useless question for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 07:01 AM
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I feel my bf is out of my league, but he also say that he feels like I am out of his league. I honestly never feel insecure tho. I stopped being insecure about my looks in high school and my bf obviously likes me or else why would we be together. I don’t get jealous, I personally like when other girls hit on him. He on the other hand doesn’t like when guys hit on me but rarely do they so it works out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 07:12 AM
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There are many ways to do sex worker and also it depends on how you define it. I am 23 and most of my girl friends have had sugar daddies, only fans, paid to game with men, or being paid by men in one way or another and never tell they bf. I think more women will do sex work but they partners won’t know tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 07:48 AM
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cook, code, sleep....repeat my partner and I jobs have gotten ridiculous, Today I made a charcuterie board and the maid comes on the weekend. Hopefully I can get back to running in the mornings.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/20 07:06 AM
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The best advice I can give you is not to compare yourself to the others. I don’t believe your standards are really the problem. I think because you lack confidence in yourself, you have these standards that may come across as shallow in hopes that getting a guy will prove something. But even if you get the “guy” it won’t prove you are pretty and it won’t make you happy. It is very overused because it is true you need to find yourself beautiful first.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/20 07:02 AM
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Woah, she never said he needed to be rich just decent. She is an engineer, and most don’t make six figures. I am assuming she is going to date a guy her age or older and she is 26 I would expect at that age you shouhave a decent income unless you are getting a PhD or in school. Also you are ignoring the cultural context as well, a culture that places a high value in education and income especially when it comes to arrange marriages.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/20 06:31 AM
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Some people get married as that what they are supposed to do. Not everyone gets married for love or companionship. I’m sorry you went through this.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/20 06:21 AM
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True.. very few young people have anything going for them financially. I built my own wealth and my success gave me access to more successful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:54 AM
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I agree, but it is not a problem at all in my opinion, men choose younger women because they are attracted to them women chose men for what they can provide. It just human nature and most people buy into it. Some relationship /People can transcends this dynamic but the majority of guys are gonna end up as providers. That’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:45 AM
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You may see yourself differently but it doesn’t change female nature and how we see men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:19 AM
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That’s exactly my point, the commenter says women just need to be more attractive, but a fifty year old will never be more attractive than a 20 year old. I was pointing out the hypocrisy here. Just like a 23 year old man can never be more successful than an older man with way more life and career advancement. I was being snarky.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:12 AM
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You could do both. I invest in stocks and real estate. I don’t live in a house because my job as a consultant requires me to travel, but I do own multiple properties and the profit I make in rent is well worth the time and investment. As a women I value a man who has a strong work ethic and the capacity to provide. Simple as that and most guys at my age aren’t at that point. It makes sense to date someone who is older and more mature and have a better grasp of finance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:03 AM
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What makes you think that? IMO being able to have sex for shits and giggles, not thinking, just having fun is important. Sex = communicating with your partner though. Yes it can be in a way, but it also can not communicate anything. Many times we have sex just spur of the moment, or because of drugs. I don't think we are really communicating anything at that point. Sex is the last way I would communicate anything to my partner. Which is why is definitely not the pinnacle... I don't think it's po…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 12:07 AM
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Okay, but on the same note op can say younger men need to be more successful and stable so that younger women can find them attractive. It’s not our fault men takes soooo long to get anywhere in life. The average age to buy a house is 32. That’s a nine year difference from me. In addition I think his advice is beneficial to men , women date up not down and with more and more women in the work place. It’s gonna be harder for younger men to compete with older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 11:31 PM
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I’m 23 and definitely agree with op.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 11:09 PM
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I disagree I personally believe that mechanical sex and having sex just for pleasure is just as important as sex with genuine feelings especially in LTRs. If we take a look communicating with your partner which is equally as important in a relationship as sex IMO. In my relationship we don’t only have deep conversations where we sit and just talk about our feelings sometimes we talk just talk just to vent or maybe we talk about some stupid shit. Sometimes we talk at each other because the other …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 08:18 AM
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I’m gonna say I know a handful of men who claim to be asexual, I am in computer sciences so we are all successful financially comfortable at the moment. They have no trouble making friends even the socially awkward ones. However, the one thing they all have in common is there drive and ambition they don’t have one career wise. They are just content. I personally don’t like career driven people that much, and I think we are pretty successful by my standards at least
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:18 AM
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This makes me happy, growing up the library was a safe place from the abusive environment I was living,an escape. I would take a bus everyday after school to go to the nice neighborhood to use their library and just read. There was a librarians who was super nice to me and always challenge me to read harder books. Reading this just reminded me how influential that librarian was too my love of reading. How every time she talked to me about a book it really meant something to me.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 01:36 PM
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Women software engineer, my bf likes that I am very outspoken and he loves having a partner who doesn't mind engaging him. I make double the amount he makes but he still takes care of me and treats me like lady. We complement each other and help the other when one needs it. I have very close male friends and female friends it is never a problem for us. There is no one-size-fits all to how femininity looks imo taking care of yourself ,being happy and confident with your flavorings is what going t…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/20 07:18 PM
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Making sure you take your bc as instructed. Like don’t miss a day if you do don’t have sex for seven days, take plan b, and or get an iud. I personally don’t ever want kids so while I was on the pill I follow it to the tea when I forgot I just didn’t have sex. If we had sex recently when I forgot then I got plan b as a fail safe. Most of all I just followed the instructions to the tea I think I did this twice during the three years I was on the pill. With perfect use it is vey effective. I got t…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/20 03:42 PM
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I am not an home maker, but my SO and I are planning to transition me to a homemaker.(Which I voiced early on) I can speak on the motivation though. I find firstly it allows me to have less stress because I am not constantly worrying about climbing the ladder. The way I see it is that I am working towards my future. The money I make goes to providing a stress free environment, paying off debt, by having a emergency fund, a down payment on a house, and retirement. This keeps me motivated while I …
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 09:38 PM
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100% My bf and I lived in 750 sq ft the past three years. It is not enough space especially if you have a lot of stuff. I am counting down the days when my lease ends so I can move.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 02:54 AM
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This is exactly my setup with my bf he is in science as well and isn't pulling that much either. I make double his salary. He loves his job.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 12:59 PM
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Both my boyfriend and I are both. If he his really focused no amount of visual stimulation works. However if I grab his hand a rub it across my body he goes to a ten real quickly. Touch is a hit or miss for me, but if my bf wear a certain thing. Then I’m spreading like butter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:54 PM
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Technical consultant here. I have been s software engineer, business analyst, and information analyst at my current position. I understand your fear completely I had the same goal up until my junior and realized...shit I am not a career women. I will have to say IT sector can be pretty demanding, however you can handle by setting expectations. For example a lot of my coworkers pull ridiculous hours because they decide to add an extra feature or two because they can’t say no to the client and the…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 07:09 AM
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Men don’t usually do this because women get their stuff done without direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 09:25 PM
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I was waiting for someone to point this out lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 09:21 PM
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Personally, I am working full time and make double the amount of money as my SO. I would love to stay at home, but he is currently in the beginning of his career and is applying for a PhD. What motivates me even before I met my bf was saving and getting debt free and building a safety net for my family and I. Cooking and cleaning are not the only in which a women can take care of her family. When I work I do it for my future husband, so that our life can be easier. Building wealth so that we can…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 08:24 AM
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Yep exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:13 PM
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I actually experienced a familiar situation. I received a high paying job offer in another state. The thing is my bf is in neuroscience and at the time he was applying to position in our home town were he had connections, where as the new state he would be starting over from scratch. When we decided to move we were filled with excitement and when we did research we found out that one of the top neuroscience programs in the country was located in the state. However it is really hard to get into t…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/20 05:25 PM
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Yes as a single mother you are more likely to be poor, but if you are a single mother with money the outcomes are not the same. Children in lower-income, single-parent families face the most significant barriers to success in school and the work force. Kids who are born in a two family home but are in poverty have face those barriers as well. Poverty is the biggest correlate. It doesn't matter if you are white, black, married, single, christian, or jew if you are living in poverty you face a lot…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 06:16 PM
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I agree, what he did is terrible. However, if he is from china he probably did not think about how much of a emotional toll it could take on her because of his own apathy.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 05:08 PM
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In America if you have a good health insurance then doctors appointments aren't a huge worry If you have insurance, what if you don't. Most people still have out of pocket cost as well. Some babies dont even have cribs the parents find another arrangement. Do you think babies in third world countries live lives with no value? You still have to buy the other options. Unless you just sleep with the baby without a co-sleeper. I don't think baby understand enough to value anything... They certainly …
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 05:06 PM
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What about diapers, crib, doctor appointments, clothes, blanket, etc. . This situation is terrible because obviously she didn't want to have the abortion, however a baby does need more than your boob..... What if the child is born with an illness..? Healthcare in the US is expensive, so are baby items. I don't agree with what the husband did, but having a baby is not cheap.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 03:23 PM
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I was looking for this. If her husband is Chinese abortions doesn't have such a moral stigma attached to it. I lived in china my friends from there have and don't care if they have an abortion.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 03:13 PM
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Meal prep on Sunday for the entire work week and we go out on Friday and Saturday night! He helps me meal prep as well as we both work a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 07:09 AM
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There are things that can help widen your pool and things that make them smaller. Being black ain’t one! Tattoos imo may turn some guys off, but I don’t think it will lower your dating pool drastically. I know a lot of conservatives couple were the wife has a tattoo. My best friend Has around 9 tattoos and attracts a good variety of men. Also I know that as a black women you face a lot of scrutiny, but please do not fall into the black hole believing you have a small dating pool because you are …
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/20 10:19 PM
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I am an atheist, I make double my partner, I don’t want kids... However I believe in my partners and I partnership. I am still young 23 years to be exact. I have always been very driven and strong willed. I tend to get what I want out of life because I put 120% in everything. I am in a very demanding career but I would never consider my self a career women. Redpill in both subs help me understand more about my nature. It also made me realize that my standards in men are in the right place.(imo) …
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/20 09:39 PM
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Yea, it is the same here most men watch sports including soccer. lol don’t like it nopppppe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:38 PM
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I was just writing something similar on rpw. I believe shared interest is needed for a happy relationship. I dislike not like other girls for different reason, because they tend to pigeon hole other girls and judge girl for being girly. When there is nothing wrong with that. I love video games, camping, hunting, both my bf and I raised animals. I am in tech. I also sew, cook, and working on my homemaking skills. Just because I like getting my nails done or watching keeping up with the kardashian…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 07:49 PM
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They are plenty girl in the south who like football and cars. Sometimes I feel like the minority because i don’t like those things. I hate football to be exact my mom worked for the Dallas cowboys. In fact I hate all sports and would never date a guy who watches it . 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 07:38 PM
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I slightly disagree. I also make it a requirement that a partner of mine should have shared interest. For me I value intellectual and though I don’t believe that only smart people are found in college. Haha especially since I am have a little carpentry experience. However going to certain colleges require a particular level of knowledge and skill. Just like carpentry require certain skills and for me personally my knowledge and skills align more of those who are graduated from college. College i…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/20 07:30 PM
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Nope, you need 11 jk. No it makes you super cool. My bf raised cows too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:52 AM
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I actually agree that they are girls who share hobbies with there husband/SO. I am not really talking about girls who are genuine. I am talking about girls who literally have to advertise there “differences”. I did it when I was younger. Albeit I am still 23 I find that it is unnecessary to advertise you are different because people notices difference. I know a lot of genuine feminine women and women gamers etc. I don’t know what the 23 vs 30 scenario came from, but with the avenue of NLOG I won…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:44 AM
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So true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:30 AM
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I am not necessarily just meaning redpill women, I just used it as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 08:56 PM
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I think the difference is if you are really different you don’t need to point it out. The stereotype of NLOG are that they have to brag what makes them different all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 08:55 PM
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I personally played into the NLOG stereotype. I tried really hard to be different, but personally it got me nowhere. As I self reflected I found out that I did it because I was very insecure. I have a boyfriend now but that was after I gave up trying not to be like the other girls and just focus on me. I also was able to make both female friends and male friends and was all around a more like able. However, I see more girls who do this nowadays than when I was in high school. Is it effective? I …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 08:48 PM
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Yes. I just used feminine girls as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 08:40 PM
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True. I can see that. That why I stopped telling men about my hobbies tbh. I felt I was pigeon hole when I folded them I played video games and trap & skeet....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 08:10 PM
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I agree. When I started dating my bf who didn’t know that I game. But when I moved in with him and brought all my consoles he was really surprised. In hindsight, our relationship probably wouldn’t have last if I didn’t play video games or he would have been very unhappy. As I like gaming when we both come home for work we relax together by playing games whether together or separately.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 08:07 PM
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I’m sorry. I have a learning disability. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 08:01 PM
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I like this and I think it is true, but sometimes I wonder why men won’t date men. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:59 PM
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Do you think taking this strategy would attract the right kind or wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 11:11 AM
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Little Women is on of my favorite, but on the topic of serial dating try Eight cousins haha.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/20 11:04 AM
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There are more ways to be feminine. That is a strong assumption about your peers. I Majored in computer science with a concentration in cyber security. I personally considered myself pretty feminine in my hobbies. I cook, sew, paint, blah blah blah. I also play video games and love tinkering and building stuff. I don’t necessarily care that is feminine or not because those are things I love to do. I don’t wear makeup although I am good at it and do it for my friends. It’s not because I am trying…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/20 10:22 AM
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I don’t consider myself a feminist, I am African Americans and not apart of that movement either. As an software engineer I first became aware of the men’s right movement as a volunteer mentoring boys and teaching them how to code. I don’t like to consider myself apart of any movement, because all people can suffer in our society. I just lurk on the social issue subs so that I am aware of what my fellow humans are going through. It helps me to have empathy and a better understanding. I go thru t…
/r/MensRights29/12/19 07:55 PM
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I am an avid female gamer, I met my bf playing video games and we bond over it. However, If I was to do it all over again or if i have a daughter, I would recommend her not dating someone who is into video games at all full stop.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/19 07:50 PM
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No one is saying to lie, but this is not the sub for this and there is no need to be rude about it. I agree, I see nothing wrong with your response The original comment just seem mean and unhelpful to the OP. Your comment actually deal with reality of what OP might face, and is helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/19 06:07 PM
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This is not the right place for him to post, but your comment is unnecessary and mean.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/19 05:21 PM
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This isn’t the last thing, but it was the last big thing I did, but I flew all of his friends in and rented out a race track so they could race lambos!!! I also cook and back him special treats and just generally spoil him when I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 02:47 AM
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Ooooooh how do you do that!
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/19 12:01 AM
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I just want to add, that a lot of your micronutrients can be supplemented through your diet by added a more variety. Focus on replacing some of your foods with more nutritional dense foods will do wonders. Also I have the Nutritrack app to track nutrition. Also be careful with supplements because a lot of them are BS look up all of the ingredients and where the minerals and vitamins are sourced.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 04:23 PM
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Meal Plan 1. Cucumber Watermelon & Watercress Salad 2. Chick pea curry and rice 3. Pan fried chicken. 4. Roasted veggies I meal prep and put in fridge, my boyfriend can pick an choose what he likes. I measured all the meals so his are 800 - 1000 cal and mine are 400-600.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/19 06:14 AM
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I haven’t but it is on my to read list.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/19 06:38 PM
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I did not really introduce anything, I just cooked better food and portion out his food for him. He also eats when I eat and what I eat. I just removed most of our carbs and starchy food like bread, pasta, and rice with low calorie options. His weight was honestly never an issue to me, we just wanted to make healthier choices.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/19 03:47 PM
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I am usually an INTJ and I am a type 8!
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/19 02:20 PM
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I am not upset it is just so funny to me how I check all these things. It is literally a running gag with all my friends, that I live I guess the least holy lifestyle and I am the only one in a long term committed relationship. Lol They all are waiting to marriage type and super picky virgins. I believe the faster you fuck the faster you find out his true intentions. I just got lucky on my first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 02:25 PM
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Yay! I am a slut!!! My boyfriend never believe me when I say I am a slut because I have an n-count of 1. I smoke pot, I am not easily disgusted, and I love camping and festivals! Where do I go get my certificate?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 02:14 PM
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Self-Awareness, for me is a very crucial and under-rated trait. I believe that self-awareness is not only the ideal that we can see our problems, but it is also the ideal that we can change them. If I am going to to enter into a life-long partnership with someone. I want that person to have enough self-awareness to adapt and change. Growing up the most successful relationship around me are the ones where the individuals could see issues and not blame the partner, but look towards themselves and …
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 06:46 PM
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Overall, I personally agree that neither of these strategies are the best way. You must date with the intention of knowing what you want. My Bf and I always joke saying we started off as a hook up, because we did hook up before we became official. However we also moved in together before we became official. To paint a better picture, when I met my current bf I was a virgin in both relationship and sex. I had never kissed, never went on a date, and never had sex. I also have always been a person …
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/19 10:03 PM
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I noticed this as well, I am a INTJ as well my BF is a INTP.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 08:47 AM
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Technical/Hobby Goals Develop Back-End Skill Add One personal project to my Github. Review Data abstration. Sew a new outifit ​ Self Improvement Goals Continue Weight loss journey! Cut Cheats days from three days out of the month to two days out of the month ​ Relationship Goals Learn to spend more time alone again!(1x week alone time) ​
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 05:09 PM
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It funny because my boyfriend uses quality time to show love, where I like to get busy. One day I was so so so so horny that after about a month of horny jikira. My boyfriend told me he felt like a human dildo.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/18 06:02 AM
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I grew up very religious as well, so I can understand where you are coming from in regards to the whole sex and marriage. I personally do not believe that waiting for marriage is the best strategy for a women in this day in age. Especially since sex is given up so easily nowadays. In my opinion, whether a guy waits for you or not is not the best vetting strategy. I know many girls who are not married and can’t get a relationship . That being said I also know girls who didn’t wait and are in the …
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 02:43 PM
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Too clarify, when ever I bring up the ideal of AM traits vs AF traits, I do as a sort of comparison of each sexes strong and weak traits. Unlike men, women strength is not in her ability to dominate, but to influence. A man must fight for his way in the world. That is why traits like courage, strength, and perseverance are highly praised in men. Where as a women finds her power in how she influences other, whether that is convincing a guy to commit the rest of his life to protecting and providin…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/18 03:51 PM
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Okay! Let's take a look hopefully I can depart some helpful information too you. A man should be a nice mix of Alpha and Beta right? Well so should a woman to some degree. Yea you are correct that a guy should have a nice mix of Alpha and Beta traits. However, these are a comparison of masculine traits not masculine vs feminine. There are masculine alpha traits and beta Masculine traits. In my opinion, there are feminine traits that are alpha in nature and beta in nature. When I am speaking abou…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/18 10:57 PM
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I surprised my with the chance to race around a track in a lambo and a ferrarri. I also would recommend this to anyone looking for a nice surprise!! This was suppose to be his b-day gift, but april was all booked up, so I did it in November around International Men's day, as my excuse! I thought it was fitting!!
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/18 03:46 PM
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They only say that, because they are that desperate for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 04:22 AM
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Good read! Honestly, a big thing I learned in my relationship was how to get angry. I had to learn how to manage it not suppress it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/18 06:46 PM
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Girl here. My Bf is around the same size and the same thing happens to me. Basically what tends to happen is that when we change position. I believe that the reason is mostly do to the amount of lubricant produce. For me personally I could have missionary sex and be as dry as a dessert and not feel any pain. However, Doggy can be really painful if not properly lubricate. In addition, sometimes I just dry up during the process of changing position. Yea I enjoy sex with my bf, but I also get off t…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:39 PM
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Yea she does. My mom definitely looks better than when she was thirty, she had really bad acne while she was pregnant with my little sister and gained a lot of weight. I personally think that because we look so young in my family we don't tend to risk our peaks to later. Dating for me was hard because many of the guys shied away from me because they thought I was under age. My current boyfriend even ask to see id. I mean I also don't know a guy who is physically less attractive when he is younge…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/18 09:28 PM
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I am 21 and my mom is almost fifty. She looks great!! Her skin is practically flawless.. my grandmother didn’t have a single wrinkle, honestly most people thought she was around 40s to late 30s but she was in her late 70s. The women in my family just always look super young and have great skin. The only bad thing is sometimes people think I look really young. I just got a new job and was looking for my office and an employee stop to see I was looking for my parents. Lol it a gene thing some men …
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/18 04:25 PM
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Okay! I will just be very careful of your wording. I would personally when bringing it up too him would refrain from directly using any words like marriage, proposal, etc. You chose to get in a relationship with a guy who is very anti marriage. Can I ask you why you try so hard to find a loophole? He seems like he committed to you in the way that he deems appropriate already. Why not just accept your situation if you not gonna move on? Just out of curiosity?
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/18 04:16 PM
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Oh I remember you posting about your relationship some time ago. As I recall your man was very anti marriage. In my opinion, I think it is a bad ideal to propose. I am saying this not because you are a women, but more so from the limited information I gleaned from your post. You say he is committed to you he just doesn’t want to have to be committed to the government as well. I feel a proposal would be kinda of too much. Do you think he might feel disrespected or pressured? Because this would be…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/18 04:05 PM
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Yea of course! I grew up being taught that I should be a strong independent black women who does not need a man and of course it was hard for me to be vulnerable and feminine because of that. However, I feel the biggest issue that plagues African american women is our own self perception. I grew up in a predominate white area, was the only black person in my school. I constantly thought I wasn't popular because of how I thought other people saw me. However when I decided to look at myself and ch…
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/18 10:22 PM
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I wrote a post that was pretty controversial at the time, but nevertheless my experience. We do exist. In my experience the reason it is hard for some black women to find there femininity because of our own self perception. We are constantly victimizing ourselves. We let stereotypes and bad experiences weigh us down. When we are just as beautiful and valuable as any other women in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/18 06:51 AM
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It is really great that he has such a great friend. I am like you very nurturing and very caring. I had a guy friend who was very similar he only ate bran flakes and smoked cigarettes. I worried about him, not because he wasn't eating but because I knew he was depressed. I invited him for dinner and went over his place to make him dinner, but most of all I just listen to him and talked him. It is common knowledge that men are less likely to seek help if there is a problem. It may feel out of pla…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/18 06:23 PM
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My List: Since I met my SO in college. My deal breakers were... In a frat Party Boy Too many sexual partners. I have other deal breakers that are more flexible, but the minute I found out about these I lost interest in the guy.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/18 07:21 PM
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I literally am naked 90% of the time I am at home. The other 5% I am wearing comfortable lingerie and the last 5% I am wearing my kimono. I started doing this a a joke when we first moved in, but now I feel more comfortable naked than cloth....
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 01:19 PM
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We are both growing and learning so much about each other. Looking at old photos always surprises me how much he has change. Sometimes I can't believe he is the same person in the photos. ​
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/18 03:40 PM
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So true!
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/18 07:51 PM
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I just saw your other post and could definitely relate. While I was in china one of our biggest fights were the fact that I thought he was weak or not leader material, because he didn't match the ideal I had in my head. I wanted him to have x,y, and z while doing a, b, and c all on my time. It got so bad he literally exploded with anger, because he felt so frustrated with me. After that moment I realized I was wrong. I couldn't make him a captain he going to have to decide that for himself. Afte…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/18 07:25 PM
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Ehhh... This thread is getting weird. Do you want to...er... date your sister.....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 11:15 AM
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Yes, I like this sub because there are women on here who remind me of myself. Growing up I honestly thought I was a lesbian, then a I thought I was asexual. Now I am with my boyfriend and he thinks I am a total whore. I don’t really get off unless he is near. Nothing else interest me....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 11:06 AM
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Actually, I feel like this isn’t necessarily true. From my own experience it has been reverse. My boyfriend always wanted a relationship but could never obtain it because the girls all just want to ride the CC. Out of all the girls in my friend group I am the only one in a long term committed relationship. I also live in very liberal cities. In addition, the ones who do “want relationships” usually complain about how a man won’t commit to them, but the same girl has tons of orbiters.... But hone…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/18 05:00 AM
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I am in China for 11 weeks doing a language extensive. I have learned so much about myself and my relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/18 08:35 AM
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As a black women my self I remember feeling the same way as you about my appearance and looks. I was the skinniest girl w/ curves in my high school and probably one of the prettiest. But that didn’t matter I never had a boyfriend nor did any boy ever try to approach me. I was constantly made fun of and called ugly because I was not white. This really destroyed my self-esteem. Yes! I understand exactly what you mean when you say you are the bottom of the barrel. I have had times we’re a guy rathe…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/18 02:23 PM
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Plenty of guys find black girls attractive. I don’t think I’m alone in saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 11:24 PM
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Learn to make your own clothes? That could be an option.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 10:02 PM
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Black female here! First off, I had literally the same experience growing up. You were me when I was fifteen, I had the same thoughts about my beauty and femininity. I was also attracted to non Africa American men as well as African American men, but no one ever seemed attracted to me. I felt constantly judged by my peers and was bullied endlessly. Don’t get me started about what they did to me at prom. I went to an all white private school and they made sure everyday to remind how I wasn’t as p…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/18 09:44 PM
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LOL! Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 01:10 PM
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Then why would he care if she gained ten pounds if she was fat to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 01:08 PM
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Do what makes you feel comfortable and don’t worry about the outcome better to have the man leave now before you are married and have children. It okay to not know why someone doesn’t commit just keep working on yourself. The first time my boyfriend notice me was because he would see me running every day. I started doing that because I was having low self esteem and couldn’t look at myself in the mirror. Work on yourself and the rest of the pieces will fall in place :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/18 11:00 AM
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She only gain 10lbs!?!? That is literally nothing. Ten pounds won’t make that big of a difference. My So and I gained ten pounds neither of us noticed until we got a scale all of our clothes still fit perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 10:48 AM
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I’m a big believer of it doesn’t matter if you wait or have anal the first night if he not going to commit there he is not going to commit. However, everyone is probably going to disagree with my next statement because I don’t personally believe in the whole waiting thing. In my own OPINION, I have never seen it work unless both people are ultra religious. (I am talking waiting completely to marriage) My brother was like this he is ultra religious and broke up with one of his girlfriends because…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/18 10:40 AM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 02:18 PM
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What really I mainly lurk but I am an INTP and I don’t really care about how much my SO makes, as long as he is happy and fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 10:53 AM
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I agree with this. Sure he can have an angry phase, but I don’t think it should be at the cost of OP boundaries.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/18 04:55 AM
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Cool, It is cool to see other RPW in computer science.
/r/RedPillWives17/06/18 12:37 AM
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One thing I know. I am the jealous type. I have insecurities and fears. I can be clingy. |Addressing Your Husband| If you are a hyper sensitive person, then don’t allow this behavior. Your captain should not be adding stress to your life. He should be guiding you to calm waters. Relationship are complex and as a stranger to you I cannot tell you who right or who’s wrong. However, I can tell that you have a right as a human being to have boundaries. This situation, I would like to point out was d…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/18 02:08 PM
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My boyfriend likes to take breaks. We have sex 1-3 times a day and then take a break for a day or two once or twice a month. You should initiate like 50% of the time. Location, have sex in other places. Change your style, do a different look. This is my fav method to make sex more excited. I change my hair, dye it. Or change my wardrobe. My bf and I also do alcohol, psychedelic, and weed, but that’s not for everyone. These are a couple of things I do personally. My boyfriend and I only start to …
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/18 12:46 AM
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I work for a consulting firm.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/18 05:42 AM
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My problem with the long silky hair is it makes it seem that men don’t like other form of hair. Not everybody has long straight hair or can obtain it. But true men like healthy women.
/r/RedPillWives13/06/18 10:52 PM
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I understand completely, we all are women who value our relationship. My parents thought I was dumb too, and was sacrificing too much for my man. Lol. It seems like your guy found the perfect girl fr m him. I don’t judge every relationship is different.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 10:06 PM
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But you are not posting about those things on a forum, so I believe this child thing is something you really desire. You also willing to do whatever it takes to keep your relationship. Is that not an desire in itself. If those things are something you truly want then you would probably go to great lengths to get them, but there not.That is why you are going to great lengths to stay with him and now you want something for yourself. In that regards maybe you are compatible with him since your desi…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 07:10 PM
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Part of what makes a person a person are our wants and desires. It is not that anyone is trying to tell you to change his mind, because you can not negotiate desire. We are telling you can not change your own desire as well. You may be willing to sacrifice everything for this guy, but at what cost. You deserve to be happy. I admire that you are so willing to give up everything for the guy you love. That in it self makes you a valuable person and he is so lucky to have someone as kindhearted as y…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 06:45 PM
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I personally told my boyfriend the truth about my n count. That I sucked a guy’s dick before. Then let him decide whether or not I was a virgin.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 04:42 AM
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I agree with you. I for the most part ignore u/loneliness post. You describe exactly how I feel about most of his post. However, I do believe his post have some value for women who are new to red pill and don’t understand the pain men go through . I always saw his post as the voice of men. He really good at giving the male perspective in a none angry way. I feel we should have a flair category for post like these. There is a reason red pill discourages women from posting because it hard to see t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/18 05:22 AM
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Hmm, my SO is unemployed and probably not going to make more than me in his career. Money is not really that important to me either. I don’t think your example really works for us. By my example I do not value if my SO makes money because I make my own whether he does or not does not really concern me. That is why I don’t really put much weight in money when it comes to men. As a result it is not the reasoning behind what we value that is different it is what we choose to value that usually have…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/18 12:37 AM
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Agreed with u/glitterchild while I was looking for a partner. I specifically rejected guys who seemed to have a high n-count. The moment I found out that they slept around I ghosted. My SO only slept with one other person before me. In our situation we value n count the same as men. From mine observation the higher n count the man the less likely you are going to gain commitment or have a good relationship at my age.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/18 10:40 PM
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It funny how much relationships are intertwined with cell phone usage in today’s culture. My cell phone broke and I didn’t have a cell phone for 8 months. My SO and I shared a phone during that time. Then I got a phone and my SO phone broke, so we shared my phone for another 6 months. Lol. Now we have our own cell phones and neither of us feel the need to check the others phone or hide. We also aren’t attached to social media other then reddit. We also have excess to each other computers, emails…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 07:53 AM
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I have always believe this to be true and made sure that this would be me when I got into a relationship. That being said I grew up in a home were my parents had a dead bedroom. I always had empathy for my dad and said I would never do that to the future man in my life. While I was single I was scared that I would not enjoy sex or that it would become a chore. Luckily, in my relationship now I find that I really enjoy sex and our libidos are around the same. However, recently for external reason…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/18 08:30 AM
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I just want to add one more thing! How to handle being irritated or just when you are in a bad mood. I have been living with my boyfriend for a year. That being said there are going to be a time when everything is not perfect. I recommend meditation to help control stress and tension. Also, learn about how you deal with stress and irritations. Learn to control your anger and your emotions. I am lucky though my bf and I have not gotten into a serious fight since we move in because we both know ho…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/18 12:00 AM
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Can you do a post about cultural fit? I would definitely read it.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 04:24 PM
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Uh oh, not met a man yet who didn’t love a good blowjob. Actually, I have know plenty of men who don't like blowjobs, gay and straight. They are rare, but they do exist. Some guys find it to sensistive.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/18 06:02 AM
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A woman who's against period sex but cuddles up close with her man during her period while expecting him to lay off of sex, is not being reasonable or consistent. The examples are endless. I get this, except it is reverse for me. My Bf does not like the ideal of having sex while I am on my period. However, he would still expect me to give him blowjobs and other things. I love doing these thing but they only turn me on. It is literally torture for me. :( I told him I was not going to give him blo…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 06:37 PM
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It really depends on your relationship. My boyfriend values comfort, we personally have fart off. He likes that I am not overly girly. He likes that he can fart, burp, sometimes not shower, and I don't care. But that's me, and personally, I don't consider myself a gross woman, I am me and I am with a person who appreciate me being myself. On the other hand, my bf values working out, when we first met he saw me running. I really slacked off in the working out department after our honeymoon phase …
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 05:35 AM
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I don't really care about men dating younger women especially when they look very sexually mature. I don't know I am 21 and I have very baby like feature, I personally think I look the same when I was sixteen, so I can't hate. I always had the opinion that means were attracted to sexual energy more so then age. (Correct me if I am wrong). However, I have always had Boobs and an ass since I was 14, so I have guys think I am older because of those features and not really my face. Even though the g…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 07:52 PM
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My situation is probably unique as is everyone else. When I turned 17 I went to college and realized that I probably would not find a husband out of any of these boys. I decided to go for older men, I used online and even met some in person through clubs and activities, but it seemed to me none were really interested in me as a person. When I told them I was 18 they would go crazy take me out on dates and go the whole nine yards and that's before they knew I was a virgin(a whole other problem in…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/18 01:05 AM
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Maybe she missed a pill and want to be safe, If I miss a pill or am on an antibiotic I tell my bf we are using condoms for the next seven days to ensure the pills have time to put my hormones back.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 12:47 AM
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Both my boyfriend and I smoke occasionally, so my opinion is a little bias. If you are worried about him getting addicted to weed because he is addiction prone then weed isn't your biggest issues. My bf used to be a serious stoner, but went completely cold turkey. He said he didn't get withdrawals but he did have the urge to smoke everytime someone had weed. When I started dating my bf he vape nicotine, which is way more addicting then weed. He said he wanted to quit and he did, but it was reall…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/18 03:16 PM
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Wait! what, the live action sucked ass. It was pretty cringy and pretty gay. Please tell me you watched the Fullmetal Alchemist Brotherhood though. If not please do.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 05:46 PM
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AHHHHHHH Yes, This this this a million times. I am in computer science and I could not agree more. It so nice to see someone else who feels this way.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/18 02:52 PM
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Have you tried giving him flavor water to replace the soda? I drink topo chico or La Croix, some of them taste a lot like soda and doesn't have all the sugar.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/18 02:43 PM
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Because I don't know the guy or you, but if I did I would tell you to run away. he has never had a girlfriend and is definitely the player type. I don't know how old you are, and am I right for assuming that your primary goal is to have one really good stable relationship that will end in marriage. If yes, then you are swimming in murky water IMO. If you are looking for marriage why would you pursue a guy who isn't? but anyways I can go on and on about how this is a bad idea, so here's a bit of …
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 04:23 PM
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I feel I am still in it with my SO going on 10 months. He is the first and last thing I see each an every day. I still get super giddy and blush when he talks. I love just staring at his face and playing with his hair. I love the way he holds me after a long day and his smile. My bf and I literally spend all day together since we live together an go to the same school, yet I don't feel any less sick of him. The only thing that changes really is that we are more responsible with our time. In the …
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 01:28 AM
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Why are they called shit tests? Well when somebody "gives you shit" and fucks around with your head to see how you will react, what you are experiencing is typically a (series of) shit test(s). Everyone has been shit tested, gets shit tested and will continue to be shit tested; It's an unavoidable part of human interaction. A. These aren't shit tests. This is literally the definition of a shittest given by a prominent member of the red pill. My Boyfriend used to give me SHIT all the time to make…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 02:53 AM
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5 of the six teachers who died protecting their students were women in sandy hook.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 07:06 PM
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I have and I know, I was just responding to the fact that OP said that these shooters don't have girlfriends, a lot of them do.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 05:51 PM
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Easier said than done tbh. True, But I don't give a shit. If you think about most things discussed on this sub is easier said than done, but you still keep trying and pushing. Extreme case of Elliot Rodger: Would you have wanted to be friends with that guy? Probably not. For me in particular, yes. I spent all of the time with really weird kids. Yesterday, I threw a party for an Elliot Rodger weird type guy. Picture a guy who extremely hates women and been in a couple of mental institution. I hav…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 08:33 PM
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This is great. We should all reach out to that person in our lives because there is always someone.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 07:26 PM
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No, It did not come across as pity because I would bake everyone in my school cookies, but I might add a note to theirs or just have a conversation when I give it to them or invite them to hang out. I just included them.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 07:25 PM
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Elliot Rodger comes to mind when looking at the full picture I have sympathy for most things, but I do not have sympathy for people blaming others for things that only they can fix. You don't see teens with girlfriends doing so either. The Florida shooter had a girlfriend. An inoculation against school shootings if you will. Get the cheerleading team together and simply give blowjobs to the losers in your class. Do it once a year, and finally once again at graduation. Agree, When I was in Highsc…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 07:41 PM
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My friends always joke about how everytime I go somewhere I get something free or how guys are always willing to help me. I have a gained 45 pounds and it has not slowed down one bit, so it is not because I am attractive. It is because of my femininity. The more feminine you're the more masculine men you attract and masculine men tend to have a need to provide especially to feminine girls. I am a girl who plays video games, watch anime, and smoke weed. Most of my hobbies are not feminine(program…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/18 05:13 PM
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I am a graduating senior and had a pretty good college experience. I have a long-term boyfriend that I met in college and couldn't be happier. About Boys When I attended the college I did not expect to leave with a boyfriend, I focus on myself and my school work. However, at the same time, I was aware that if someone came along that met my criteria I would give it a go. My General Rule for Vetting College Guys -> Can not be in a frat or play a major sport that is idolized on campus. -> Does not …
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/18 02:23 AM
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I have a saying if "A guy wants what he wants" If he doesn't want to get married, it doesn't matter what you do. It doesn't matter if you live with him, sleep with him, or even if you are a unicorn. What matters is finding a guy who life plans align with yours. I will tell my daughter to look for a guy who wants the same things out of life and then go with what feels natural for their relationship.This ideology is why I vetted guys like crazy.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 06:32 AM
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Don't forget you can make a lot of money from social media if you are a girl. You don't even have to be that hot, you just need to know how to do makeup and work angles.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 10:46 PM
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True, it is mostly black women for me too.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/18 05:42 PM
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I am African-American and my boyfriend is white. They are always going to be people who say racist comments. However, it is your job to learn not to let those comments bother you. why does it matter so much to other people? You should ask yourself why it matters so much to you how others perceive you? That probably means dealing with your insecurity.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/18 04:46 PM
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I am not looking for a heated debate or lecture tbh. What?!?! Am I reading this straight? You complain about women being losers, yet you admit you only like hanging out with loser girls. I think you should have entitled your post "Why I date loser girls?"
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 02:53 PM
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This is why it is important to establish a relationship before you sleep with the guy. I lost my virginity at 20, but I didn't have sex until I was sure that this was someone who I wanted to commit too. Technically, I didn't wait for commitment to have sex, but I knew he wanted an LTR and I could tell he wanted to LTR me. A couple of weeks later we started dating and now live together. You do not need to be experienced or a seductress, you just have to be willing to learn. I am as awkward as it …
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/18 02:57 AM
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Best explanation ever!!!!!
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/18 10:52 PM
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Yep, he was dropping me off in his car and I told him --> Hey, I had fun, but I am not really just looking to have fun and I am looking for a serious relationship that will last. I don't want this to be a one-time thing, but I also don't want you to think I will be led on until you get something better. You either going to try for the long haul with me or move on. He then told me to let him think about it because of the level of commitment I was asking. A week or two, maybe longer he agreed. I a…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/18 11:40 PM
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Be sure you 1000% willing to next him if he doesn't accept monogamy or becoming exclusive before sex. I didn't wait with my boyfriend, but I did know him for over a year before we started dating. I watched him and we went on a couple dates and had sex couple of times. On our third time sleeping together I ask him if we were exclusive, but I told him straight up I am looking for a serious relationship that will last. I made it clear that if he not on board I am gone. Now, we have been living toge…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/18 03:25 PM
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Sperm can survive for up to five days sometimes longer. Girls also don't always have a period that lasts exactly seven days. A lot of girls have a period that is way shorter or way longer. If you have sex on day 1 cum in her, your sperm survives for the five days, sure you might be fine. But if her period is shorter than the seven days then you pretty screwed. Also, just a fun fact that the average menstruation cycle is between 3 to 5 days, not 7. If she has a five day period and ovulates the ne…
/r/askTRP26/01/18 04:34 AM
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I realized I loved my boyfriend, when after about a week of living together in a small studio apartment that was placed right in front of a nightclub, so it was really REALLY hard to fall asleep. A cockroach fell right into my mouth. I didn't get angry, I just knew at that moment that I love him. Now we live in a much nicer apartment. lol
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 12:12 AM
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Please do not give up a promising career for women. You are young and have more than enough time to build a social circle outside of work that involves women and besides there will always be easy girls.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 07:27 AM
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You do not need to pay that much money to do that. All you have to do is look at the job description and use the same keywords they use in your own resume.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 06:22 AM
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https://www.discountstripper.com/checkout.aspx You can try this website! they have cheap stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 06:23 PM
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I agree with all of your points, but it is also not the end of the world if you are not the perfect woman. Sure all of these traits would increase your chances of getting a high-value male, but nothing is set in stone. Though these are goals you should strive for as a woman.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 11:43 PM
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Good! He is happy and that is great, but I get the feeling you think you could be doing better. Good sex is good, but great sex is great! My boyfriend and I have a very active sex life, but in the beginning, I was just like you. He was happy, but I knew it could be better. Getting better at sex is all about communication and openness you should learn to talk about sex with the person you are having sex with and set goals for yourself. Learn about yourself in the process, find your kinks, quirks,…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/17 06:46 AM
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Honestly, I agree I think if those are such big issues then don't LTR girls who do those things in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 08:56 PM
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I don't know which federal government you are talking about because their stats line up with coco5440. https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2016/crime-in-the-u.s.-2016/tables/table-21
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 10:54 AM
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I agree with you because of my own experiences. If you are a high- value male, why wait! When you could literally have hordes of women. My story I agree let's be honest especially at our age there are very few guys who want to wait until marriage and personally I don't believe you should. I also believe you shouldn't sleep around either. When you are vetting a guy you should be asking yourself serious questions. You should know clearly what your goals are about finances, marriage, and kids. For …
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 03:50 PM
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Nope! My guy doesn't take bullshit from anybody. You can be nice and not a pushover.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 11:15 PM
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I get what you coming from because all the redpill guys do all day is talk about how they don't like our sexual strategy and complain and talk about how women are so bad blah blah blah. How we can't love, but if I want to argue or speak against their standpoint then I go to purple pill debate. Redpillwomen is better for talking about yourself and your mistakes and bettering yourself. It not really here to debate The Red Pill. Though I don't think there was anything wrong with your post.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 10:25 PM
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This is so true for guys and very sad. The reason I decided to pursue my current relationship. Because I ask one of my friend what she thought of him and she said she thought he was too nice... I knew that this meant he was good guy and I understood why my friend always ends up in abusive relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 04:39 PM
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I have social media accounts, but I do not use them. I also have not had a cell phone for over 6 months now. I have been totally fine. Social media have never been a big part of my life. It hasn't really effect me that much. I have a laptop but only take it with me to class or use it at home. I do put a lot of hours on it since I am a comp sci major, but usually I use it for work and reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 08:32 PM
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Sure, I understand money is very frugal for me too. Some examples: 1. Look for free classes/community clubs to try something new. 2. Do art/ ~Knitting, sewing 3. If you are at home change your on routine if you usually come home and watch tv do something different like in home yoga. 4. Go explore your town learn everything you can about the history and the places. (I personally like doing this.) Those are things I do. I also try to cook a new weird meal once a week, which also brings a little fu…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 05:40 PM
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Wow, you sound like me and my SO. We get stuck in routine sometimes since we are both in college. However, if I start feeling stuck as we preached in redpill you can't change him you can just change yourself. I think you should try just going on your own little adventure or do something different to change the routine. In my experience once I do this my boyfriend slowly start changing his routine or want to join.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 09:27 AM
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Agreed, starfish sex is terrible. I just find it much easier to be enthusiastic when I am having sex.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/17 07:44 PM
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I love giving my boyfriend head, but giving head takes way more energy out of me then sex. However, sometimes my boyfriend wants to just get head because he is too tired to have sex. If we are both too tired on that particular day I will give him head and he will finish by having sex with me. I just think it funny because stereotypically people say just give him head when you are too tired. But I rather just have sex.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/17 06:09 PM
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Yep, exactly it is called survivorship bias.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/17 04:26 PM
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For RPW, we try to avoid getting ourselves in relationships such as those simply because we do not want to waste our youth being somebodies...source of instant gratification. However, as with most things in life nothing is cut and dry. My LTR started as casual sex(For like three weeks and then we made it officially) We also moved in together before we started dating, something no one would reccomend. However, I had a feeling that he was different I knew he hadn't had a string of FWB and from wha…
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/17 03:41 AM
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I have a hard time believing that getting commitment is that easy for a man. If that was the case things like friendzoning and sex robots wouldn't really be a thing. I can see how someone would argue that sex robots are just there to relieve the sexual side and not fulfill any sort of commitment the man might desire. However, to strengthen my argument I argue this the reason a lot of guys get into relationship is for sex. On average it takes about 6 months to get out of the honeymoon stage(hm st…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 04:39 PM
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My boyfriend and i are both in school, so we are extremely busy since it is our last year. So we switch off on his busy days I do all the housework and on my busy days he does the housework. If we both have time we will cook and clean together for fun and for efficiency.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 02:50 PM
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You know I was thinking about writing about vetting and avoiding the CC in college. How do I properly vet people next time? Vetting guys in college can be very difficult because there are so many who don't want to tie themselves to one girl when there is such easy pickings wherever they go. However, I also think it makes finding that guy a easier because he will lead a different lifestyle from the one you see. Red Flags He goes to parties. There is only two reasons to go to parties drugs and sex…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/17 02:01 AM
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True, I agree with loneliness you don't really need experience. I did not have any with my first my current SO and I am pretty sure I scraped his man pride with my teeth the first couple of times. However, I made sure to voice to him my inexperience and told him to correct me and to tell me what works. We even had extra sessions strictly for practice. He really enjoyed that ;). If you are vetting a guy and he wants a LTR I doubt he will dump you just from lack of inexperience. He will more than …
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/17 12:41 AM
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What is it like? It like the best thing that ever happen to me. When you find someone who meshes so well with. How do you feel when you are with your Captain? Accepted, for the longest time I felt like nobody would be able to accept me. I wasn't the prettiest and I had a speech impairment. I was also really weird. Is it fun? Do you ever get tired or bored around your Captain? Yes, yes, yes! I always have someone to do something with and if it is a lazy day we just sit an snuggle or play video ga…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/17 10:46 PM
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Ah. Thanks I was trying to think of a better word for pressure, but controlling is great.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/17 09:50 PM
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/r/HB3234 said it perfectly, but if you know a special occasion is coming up you can definitely use this to show you are not a crazy spender. For example, I told my boyfriend this year for christmas let's make our own gifts instead of buying. Even then, he still likes to buy me nice things or take me to nice places. If he does I accept it. But I always make sure to let him no he doesn't have to buy anything super expensive.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/17 09:48 PM
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I agree, but terminology is very important to the Redpill community. I also tested my boyfriend for all three of these things when I was vetting my boyfriend. If the difference were based on how the test is presented I would image a shit test would be more aggressive or disrespectful way of finding a partner's value. Where as a compliance test will be a more respectable way. I agree with it does seem the same, but what you are getting tested on is different. Although most of what the other poste…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/17 09:41 PM
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I have natural hair. I don't think this is a point off your smv. If so there are some things you can do to work with the hair you got. Before, I started dating my boyfriend I wore nothing but weaves and permed my hair. On our first date I felt awkward when he tried to touch my hair because I had a sew in. After that I chopped off all my damage hair. It has almost been a year and though my hair is still really short. It has grown a lot and my boyfriend love playing with my curls. It was really ha…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/17 03:27 AM
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Firstly read the side bar. I did. I also saw my parents marriage struggle, but eventually even out when my mom took on a more feminine. Some things I learned and apply to my everyday life and relationships. Never yell always tell. If there is something bothering I bring it to him in a cool, calm, and collective manner. (I don't mean tell him what to do, but to explain in a non confrontational manner) Example, Yesterday I was really stress the apartment was a mess, my assignment were due, and I h…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/17 05:09 PM
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True, I tell my SO he can look at porn I really don't care. However, he says that porn just kind of loses its appeal to him when we got together. Lately, I am starting to appreciate that honestly. You can't want what you don't know paradox. It kinda like how I don't go out to clubs or get drunk with the girls, because I respect my SO and don't want to compromise our relationship. I guess he feels the same way about porn he respects me and doesn't want to open up temptation I guess.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/17 11:05 PM
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Truuu.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/17 09:52 PM
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Wow, I enjoy these way too much. My questions are, what are hindering me from being more driven in my career and school life. How can I renew my motivations.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/17 02:49 PM
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Nope, I don't believe so. My boyfriend had no idea that I was in to video games and anime until we moved in together. He was very surprised to see all my games and stuff. Your right as long as you stay in shape and keep your self up. You should have no problem.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/17 11:10 PM
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Yes! CS is literally the best. Your dad sounds really cool.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/17 06:17 PM
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This is a great story! My dad is from the caribbean and my mom is from good ole' texas. They both grew up poor, but they also were both outliers. My mom and dad valued education even though nobody in our family had any. Some of my parents issues stemmed from them not being able to completely break free of the ideology that they grew up in. Yet, if it wasn't for there mistakes I would not be graduating college with a degree in chinese and computer science. To think how different our lives would b…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/17 04:55 PM
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I believe that at the core all communities have issues no matter the race, gender, religion, or socioeconomic standing. This issues I believe can be changed if we talked about it and lead others to understand. Hence, why I love redpillwomen, because we understand that women have issues that need to be addressed and fix. Similarly, I believe that every race has their own particular issues. As a result, of me being african american I can only comment of what I seen within my own community. I don't…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/17 03:18 PM
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Then ask him to show you, my boyfriend is the same way about his coffee. He had things I didn't even know existed. He showed me once or twice , but I failed miserably.Therefore, every time he made coffee I would secretly watch him and when he wasn't home I would practice. He was so happy when I brought him a perfect cup of coffee just like he likes it. I think it would be worth a shot for you to learn.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/17 10:27 PM
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I usually make sure that when he comes home it is a stress free environment. I make sure everything is clean especially his area. I do all the chores he usually have to do when he gets home. I offer him a massage, any sexual activity, or just even some alone time. He usually prefer the alone time. I don't bring him any more stress. If it can wait to the next day I will write down things I wanted to talk about if they are and wait. Usually he just need to decompress, so I just help with that.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/17 10:22 PM
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Haha, l live in the bible belt my entire life actually lol(Family moved a lot but my parents always stayed within the bible belt). You should know that the bible belt is a bit different for people of color. I primarily lived in a predominantly white affluent neighborhoods, so my opinions of the bible belt are not very positive. (My family did live in black neighborhoods as well.) Sure, they are a lot more women who agree with my views, but I always had this weird paradox. Back when I live in the…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 02:46 PM
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Yeah, my dad's family were pretty extreme about it, but the undertone is all too real. From church to school to home, i would hear women talking down or just being disrespectful to their husbands.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 02:40 AM
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Well thank-you so much your post made me realize I should post about it. I hadn't really thought about it until today, but it was kinda of fun to think about how I got to this point.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 02:37 AM
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I totally agree with you and I don't talk about this especially to other black females because they honestly jumped down my throat. I used to actually be a debutante and go around teaching girls how to embrace their femininity(mostly those in the black community). Now that I am a senior in college I lead by example. Every time someone ask me what it is that I do. I tell them. :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 02:35 AM
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This is why I love you ladies, because when I say this everyone treats me like I am crazy.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/17 06:40 PM
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No, I haven't I will check it out . But I agree a lot of the movies are Redpill because they are written by men. Just food for thought, but I would even say a majority of the movie are this way because it is such a bad problem in the black community. The only way a man could possibly voice this issue is through a movie.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/17 06:36 PM
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Ahhh... This makes me so sad. :( I live in america and it is the same here and I also go to a really Liberal college, so the whole rape culture all men are pigs culture is really strong. My boyfriend and I relationship aren't that traditional, but I really strive to make my boyfriend life as easy as possible. For example, whenever we are out with friends. They will make comment like those said already, but the worst come from other black women because I am black and he is a ginger. When I am aro…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/17 04:11 PM
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This is so true, my boyfriend carries so light. He always comments on why I have to carry a big bulky backpack everywhere. However, I am a comp sci major, so I definitely can't go on campus without my laptop. :(
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/17 12:17 AM
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Ehhh. This comment makes you sound like you talking down on her for having the desire to have a good captain(which is the point of this entire subreddit). This is exactly what I would want in a guy and it is not asking for something to unreasonable. In addition, being nice doesn't mean you need to be a pushover and vice versa. If you want to complain about female desire to have a good man in her life go to r/TheRedPill .
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/17 12:09 AM
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Thanks so much, these are spot on and give me some insight on what I can do.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 04:44 AM
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What can I do to get over my compulsive lying? How can I help my So deal with stress? I really love this.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 03:53 AM
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haha, my cellphone is so old..I can't tell the difference from replies. haha, same I was very disappointed with the movie too.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/17 05:13 PM
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Um..., I had this username since 6th grade. During my obsession with death note and I was learning japanese at the time, so nothing special! lol
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/17 04:27 PM
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I know from my own experience that this is not the case for me. I did not love my boyfriend at first and neither did he love me at first. However, our passion for each other grew so did our love. I fell for him first and if you ask anybody I had no reason to fall for him. He was a stoner, and there was nothing really special about him. He didn't have a high social standing and wasn't really popular with girls. But the more I talked to him I began to see many things that I would want in future ca…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/17 08:45 PM
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Ohh This seem fun if you are still doing it. What direction is my LTR heading? How to get over my insecurities?
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 03:42 PM
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Please if you go to a good hair stylist, extension look real af. If done correctly extension can look great and help your hair. I wore extension for a little bit while I was trying to grow my hair out. Plus Coconut Oil can do more harm than good to your hair if your hair is protein sensitive or if you overuse it. Also, minimize heat usage as well as coloring dyeing.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 06:38 PM
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I know for me personally with my current SO whenever I see a redflag that I believe may lead to future problem, when we do leave our honeymoon stage I discuss it with him especially early on in our relationship. Because one of the traits I look for are his ability to self - reflect. For example, he is used to being alone and doing things on his own, which is fine but I can find this to be an issue for the future when we have kids, so I told him about it and he agreed. Comparatively he brought up…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/17 07:32 PM
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Haha, this is so funny. My SO always jokes that we are the most disgusting couple. He loves the fact that I don't get disgusted by anything. It got to the point where we tried to see who could disgust the other person first. lol. In addition we are both in the field of science so he loves to hear me explain how the birth control I am using works or what my symptoms are during my period. My SO also loves that I am so comfortable with explaining what's going on with my body to him. It works for us…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 03:10 PM
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Wow, You raise a very good point I have not thought about it in that way.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 03:05 PM
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That's sounds like a good idea. We need to start making a plan before our breaks ends.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/17 09:54 PM
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I agree with your mom about traveling abroad, it is really a fascinating experience and the best time is to do it is when you are a student. Like it is entirely possible for a women to go abroad and not ride the CC. (Went to China/Europe a virgin, came back a virgin) also leaving america also gave me a wider view on men, as well I realize that there are really good men everywhere and really opened my eyes to how big the world is. On the other note, I don't know why parents think you can't balanc…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 02:31 PM
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Like a month! We have only been on two official dates, but have spent a lot of time together.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/16 01:32 PM
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If you go on pro ana website there was some pretty amazing transformation from former obese girls.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 12:59 AM
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I'm not a rpw or a feminist, I have been reading redpill material ever since I enter college. I'm not going to lie as a women most if not all of the material is true when it comes to AWALT. However, reading what the men have to go thru is way more depressing then hitting the wall. In most cases even an older women will probably have someone willing to fuck them. It is just not Chad. I personally do not worry about one day that my partner will leave me. Why? We been together for 10+ years. We wer…
/r/askTRP12/08/16 08:03 AM
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I agree, 100%. However, that is why I believe our relationship works because he looked at me with his eyes and not his dick and I wasn't trying to trap him through sex. lol basically we were basically what you see us is what you get and as cheesy as it gets we fell in love with each other personalities. We really helps when you going through really tough times. Though I know it really difficult, but if a guy wants to find wife material. A guy should focus on the long term traits whether then sho…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 10:10 PM
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It is my belief that nothing is black and white. I mean if it was life would probably be a lot easier. For example, as a girl reading the sidebar material there a lot of things I agree with and a lot of things I don't agree with. Similarly, when we are looking for a relationship we get stuck on all the things we disagree or don't like about a person, but if you want a relationship to last you really got to love the quirks as well. In my own personal relationship, the reason I like my boyfriend w…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 06:01 AM
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I don't usually comment, but I do enjoy reading a lot of the materials. Personally, I just enjoy reading about different views and learning as much as I can. As a girl, I found that this group helped as well when it came to my own relantionships.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 05:49 PM
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Cool! My favorite blog to follow is http://norecipes.com. If I'm mistaken I think I tried his version of wine spaghetti years ago. He has a lot of recipes primarily asian, but they make good date night meals or meals when you trying to impress a couple of friends.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 02:57 AM
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Dude, I totally understand your situation. You see I am a girl and growing up I always knew the way my mom acted was wrong. Then and there I made a vow that I would never treat any guy in my life the way my mom treated my father. One day I was on google and I looked up "What to do if you being emotionally abused by your wife" and that how I discover the red pill. I begin reading your theories and your point of view and I couldn't help, but to agree because many of the conclusion I was able to fi…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 02:53 AM
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I can't answer the first part because I'm a girl, but on how long it takes well that depends on what you are trying to accomplish. If you are just trying to make healthy meals for yourself to eat everyday or even meals for a date nothing too fancy, but still impressive. It could take a day to learn a recipe and three to master it. Cooking isn't hard, all you do is follow a recipe which can sometimes take some extra practice. What can make cooking hard is altering the recipes to satisfy the taste…
/r/askTRP09/07/16 04:43 AM
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What the fuck? have you watched anime?I watched it my entire life, and there are very few anime's that can be characterized as childish. I personally love genres, psychological, thrillers, or anything sci fi. If you live in america you know there are very few movies/shows, that actually require brainpower. Personally, to me your feelings towards people who watch anime is biased and misinform. In my opinion it is very childish of you to not like something because you don't understand it/get it, o…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/16 02:52 PM
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Maybe, she didn't plan to give you the note and because of the lack of communication she is supposedly feeling,she decided to express her feelings through the note?
/r/askTRP05/04/16 05:22 AM
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