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5

"I'll call you"
/r/seduction05/05/15 12:02 AM
1

Colognes don't drive women crazy, you sound like cosmo.
/r/seduction03/04/15 11:34 PM
1

Why do wolf cubs play fight? My personal theory is that a lot of play is practice for more serious situations that may come up and if you look at a lot of what women find fun it's something a bit like a potentaly more serious situation made safe, a bit like how an inoculation is a bit of a virus made safer. So what I do a lot of the time is sort of role play but it's very very important that it's clear that it's safe so don't say something like "I'm going to rape you, only joking" but you can sa…
/r/seduction01/04/15 11:44 AM
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This is one I keeping getting in little arguments on reddit for. For us guys attractivness and being good looking are not the same thing. Natural looks is just a small component of attractivness, status and style are much more important.
/r/seduction26/03/15 04:59 PM
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My housemate climbing into my bed, we sexed, later we fought.
/r/seduction25/03/15 11:59 AM
1

Tell that to evolution. They're not just nonconfrontation with you, they are in general. Don't take it personaly.
/r/seduction10/03/15 04:23 PM
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You've got issues. She's not apologising as a power play. Just say something like "Buy me a coffee and call it quits". You are massively over thinking it.
/r/seduction10/03/15 04:10 PM
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vet her. Have a list of qualities you care about and ask her.
/r/seduction09/03/15 02:09 PM
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Just being silly.
/r/seduction24/02/15 09:46 PM
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So let your ego out to play when you are getting dressed and grooming and then put it away when you are talking to people. Got ya.
/r/seduction24/02/15 04:56 PM
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"Be yourself" is not great advice. It should be "Be the best version of you self". A lot of people think that their current personality is something precious that can't be changed. We're all changing every day. You need to find a way to improve but in the direction that's authentic to the bits of you that matter. Being quite isn't one of them. Talk about the things you care about, defend your opinions. Reddit has some weird collective self pity going on about being introverted, it doesn't matter…
/r/seduction24/02/15 03:18 PM
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"Who wants sex!"
/r/seduction24/02/15 03:06 PM
1

Kids are also covered in Jam because they don't care how they look. Is it possible to dress well, have good hygiene with no ego? Where does that motivation come from.
/r/seduction24/02/15 09:45 AM
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I sort of don't want to agree with this and I don't want to disagree either. Anger does get in my way sometimes, but it also got me out of bed when I was depressed, It's what made me run two miles to a job interview when I paid my last €2 to get onto the wrong bus. Anger isn't good but sometimes it's better than depression or apathy. If used correctly it can move your ass towards to something more healthy.
/r/seduction23/02/15 03:12 PM
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Nice explanation.
/r/seduction23/02/15 02:22 PM
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Just to be clear I down voted this for quality. You can't download people. I take no responsibility for not knowing what you're talking about, who could. You didn't use the description field to explain.
/r/seduction23/02/15 12:45 PM
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Not a bad example but they're doing that now. Asking kids to bring €5/€10 in an envelope.
/r/seduction23/02/15 12:42 PM
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I used to meditate a bit for stress when I needed it but I didn't see the point after the source of stress went away. I don't really have negative thoughts either. But I am looking for something to help me with confidence and fear of lead climbing, I think there is something in the area that can help just no one has been able to offer anything. Also what's so bad about the ego?
/r/seduction23/02/15 12:40 PM
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Doesn't work. I have problems keeping eye contract and have tried photos before, it does nothing.
/r/seduction23/02/15 10:04 AM
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I spent the last couple of years completely rebuilding myself. I'm now pretty well put together, fit, well dressed, doing interesting thing, an amazing place (which no one else has seen), nice new job, but I'm in a new city and know very few people.
/r/seduction23/02/15 10:03 AM
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Seddit, the seduction community in general. There is a percentage or good advice but also a percentage of skeeve. This place is mainly good advice covered in a thin layer of skeeve, mainly the terminology. The terminology seems designed to make something that's healthy into something that at best sound like a cheesy Tony Robins talk but mainly fratty and It's a vestigial bit left over from the cheesier early Mystery stuff. I like this place but I sure as shit wouldn't associate myself with the c…
/r/seduction23/02/15 09:57 AM
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I wouldn't believe anything that Tyler says. He comes across like a sociopath.
/r/seduction23/02/15 09:48 AM
1

I read it. It's a good book but I still have fear of intimacy.
/r/seduction22/02/15 08:46 PM
1

Maybe this isn't the right answer but I'd throw a "he" into the discussion somewhere and let her have a bit of a double take. I think it might create intrigue and start her asking about you. Though i kind of like alternative girls so this would probably vary based on demographic.
/r/seduction21/02/15 04:59 PM
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I agree with what this guy said, I'd just like to ad a piece of advice I wish I had at your age. Always kiss the girl. If you're not sure weather you should or you shouldn't, kiss her. They never never mind if you miss judge it and kiss but they always mind if you don't kiss.
/r/seduction20/02/15 03:04 PM
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Stop thinking negative thoughts. Distance yourself from negative things, including people.
/r/seduction19/02/15 11:10 AM
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mmm cider
/r/seduction18/02/15 10:56 PM
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I read that the other day, it's pretty good. It seems dull initially but then you start seeing progress it's very interesting.
/r/seduction18/02/15 03:02 PM
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I don't want to be mean but I'm getting really sick of reddit acting like being introverted is some kind of disease. 75% of reddit are probably introverts, 60% of this sub probably are. Probably about 60% of the well read, urbane men women are looking for are. You do like doing things you've just convinced yourself you don't go out and do something, go to a class, you may not like it, but do it again and eventually you'll find sometime you like. Keep doing that until you're going somewhere 4 nig…
/r/seduction17/02/15 04:54 PM
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I like it too. Our instructor is basically an eye contact coach too, something that I need and it turns into a Cuban themed nightclub at the end and opens to the public.
/r/seduction17/02/15 02:02 PM
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Ok I'm on seddit but I see seduction as a subset of building the life I want, not the other way. To put it differently, the inner game, having an interesting life is my primary goal and this stuff just fit's in. To that end... Wake up triggered progressively by lights coming on, radio coming on, then alarm. Get up, dress dapper and shit Eat healthy, meditate, read book related to current or next goals Go work Try to work myself out of a job Do some GTD on the sly Lunch: go to outside a cafe get …
/r/seduction17/02/15 01:52 PM
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Salsa and Rock Climbing. Salsa is great but climbing is surprisingly good, the ratio is about 50/50 and I've never seen a climber girl that didn't look amazing.
/r/seduction17/02/15 12:33 PM
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Guys are the accelerator/gas, girls are the break.
/r/seduction16/02/15 12:53 AM
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It's better to find a corner but It's always better to kiss her. They don't mind if you miss judge it usualy but I had a girl start crying because I didn't kiss her. If in doubt kiss, it's no biggy if you got it wrong.
/r/seduction14/02/15 11:19 PM
1

we've similar style in watches but I don't do hats. Cheers.
/r/seduction14/02/15 07:59 PM
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I have a few nice watches, I wear them all at once. Also multiple hats, it confuses chicks into being attracted, I assumed. Yeah. I have a black one with white hands that I really like.
/r/seduction14/02/15 06:52 PM
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you should be pointing out the woman's accessories, they love talking about themselves This is actualy advice. Thanks.
/r/seduction14/02/15 04:02 PM
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Well I'm with you there. You don't want to look like Howard out of bit bang theory. I do think a good bit about them but I do believe in subtlety too. At the moment I'm wearing a black italany belt, matching boots, a black minimalist watch, a well fitting black shirt and dark blue jeans. Ive come an incredible distance in distance in the last year, gotten a good job, post a lot of weight and got fit, started getting decent haircuts and dressing well and have a load of stuff in my live. To the po…
/r/seduction14/02/15 02:29 PM
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You listed a bunch of accessories that you use and then said men don't use accessories.
/r/seduction14/02/15 01:31 PM
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Your saying not to show your personality and then saying you're choosing closes that suit your personality.
/r/seduction14/02/15 01:30 PM
1

CBT/Mindfulness. It helped me a lot.
/r/seduction13/02/15 11:02 AM
2

"I have a pulse"
/r/seduction12/02/15 11:40 PM
3

Stop shouting.
/r/seduction12/02/15 03:19 PM
1

cool. I'll be getting that then.
/r/seduction12/02/15 09:31 AM
1

Does The Power of Eye Contact explain good eye contact in detail? I've looked for material on it and all I can find is stuff explaining over and over again how important it is but no advice, in detail.
/r/seduction11/02/15 10:42 PM
1

I go to a dance class and it's amazing. You're building a skill that leads to inner game. You're being thought stuff about casual thouching, eye contact ect. You're introduced to a class full of girls all of which you chat with and dance with at some point and the one I go to turns into a little cuban nightclub at the end.
/r/seduction11/02/15 10:24 PM
2

Murder wood it is.
/r/seduction05/02/15 03:32 PM
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Done! Agreed.
/r/seduction05/02/15 02:45 PM
1

That's exactly why facebook was invented to get yo know girls in your class at college.
/r/seduction05/02/15 02:42 PM
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Seconded! There is always an excuse, you could have money and think you're too old. You hear guys saying "Girls don't want a guy that's 6' 2"", or "Girls don't want a guy with an Irish accent". It's in your head. Most of the better date ideas are cheap. Swanky restaurants make for shit dates. Hiking, hanging out somewhere with a nice view, fun fairs, looking around shops and not buying anything are much more fun.
/r/seduction05/02/15 02:38 PM
1

I'm a good enough cook but can't really find a way to show this off on a first date.
/r/seduction05/02/15 02:32 PM
1

Just a question about logistics. Do you go with your climbing buddies, do you go to a wall or outdoors? Are they bolted routes?
/r/seduction05/02/15 02:22 PM
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Thanks. This is a really good idea. I like hiking, rock climbing and camping but never thought of using them as date ideas.
/r/seduction05/02/15 02:16 PM
1

Ice skating.
/r/seduction05/02/15 02:13 PM
1

No because you still can't look at each other and talk.
/r/seduction05/02/15 02:10 PM
1

I'd like to know when and how to transition further. Obviously you don't open with "Date me!" but obviously you don't wait weeks and weeks. Do you use anything in between like transitioning to phoning or do straight for coffee.
/r/seduction14/10/14 12:35 PM
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I actualy have this problem. I don't exactly scare them but when I'm scared I look a combination of angry and serius and well it's not exactly good in situations like this.
/r/seduction24/09/14 10:52 PM
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I'm comfortable.
/r/seduction15/09/14 11:35 AM
2

In your opinion what's the difference between sleeping with a girl and womanizing?
/r/seduction12/09/14 02:31 PM
1

It sounds superficial but the haircut thing is huge for me. It's a lesson I keep forgetting. I let it go a few weeks, start slinking around the place again. Then I get a good haircut and BAM! I'm the man again. It says a lot to women, If you have a together haircut in shitty clothes you look like someone temporarily wearing shitty clothes for some reason. If you're wearing nice clothes with a shitty haircut you look like you're wearing borrowed clothes. Never cheap out on the haircut.
/r/seduction03/09/14 10:49 AM
1

It wasn't starbucks. I don't think theirs a starbucks in that City.
/r/seduction31/08/14 07:40 PM
1

Thanks, this is close to that I was looking for. It sounds stupid but I was so unprepared, I was a little stunned.
/r/seduction31/08/14 09:55 AM
1

I'm sorry but this is as useful as saying "do stuff". Take the example of the girl asking for the lighter. This is obviously pretext but what should I have done? Specificaly.
/r/seduction30/08/14 11:39 PM
2

Calling the cops. Man.
/r/seduction13/08/14 02:46 PM
1

I can't really help with the the feeling shit afterwords but I dabbled a bit with exercising and pure just exercise is hard everyday. What really works for my is developing useful stills, I've started rock climbing and I love it plus its a social outlet and it's offering me the chance to travel too, plus it might look cool once I get good but that's not really a motivator for me. I felt similarly when I was kickboxing. Lifing heavy things doesn't do it for me.
/r/seduction24/07/14 12:55 PM
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I get the thing about external validation but it's the doing something physical that works. It's not joy from doing something good, it's that working out does good things to the mind, I hated working out. Getting your blood moving helps depression. When I talk about energy I mean two things 1 was I felt happier, more optimistic, I felt like I could do things and 2 I could run up the three flights of stairs to my flat. I was unemployed and possibly depressed I only went because I couldn't stand t…
/r/seduction24/07/14 12:00 PM
2

9 and 10 are ok but the rest seems to be there to weaken the reader so they can sell them some shit.
/r/seduction24/07/14 10:22 AM
1

Are you telling me that you don't get rejected and that I look shit without even looking at me. I get rejected because I go the fuck out there, everyone gets rejected. Who gives a fuck about the "truth", I only care about that gets me in the right headspace and this is damaging. Telling people that they will relive the pain instead of it being momentary is bad.
/r/seduction24/07/14 10:18 AM
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I didn't give a shit about how I look. I started going to the gym for my mental health. My energy levels tripped within a couple of weeks. I don't lift much but hitting the gym is good advice.
/r/seduction24/07/14 08:39 AM
2

I'm a little confused you look like a positive person defending a negative article. Your message and the articles message are opposites.
/r/seduction24/07/14 08:30 AM
4

This is demoralizing, why would you post it.
/r/seduction24/07/14 08:28 AM
1

Definitly
/r/seduction20/07/14 04:19 PM
1

Also there is are massive differences depending on how they are raised, and the patience of their parents etc.
/r/seduction20/07/14 03:17 PM
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Also there is are massive differences depending on how they are raised, and the patience of their parents etc. This is so true, people think about it in a vacuum but life happens to do to. I was nevered bulled at school unlike a lot of people but I had a shity homelife so I spent every night planning how to get out of there in a sustainable way. Excluding my social life (I moved to a new city) I have my shit together more than most people I know. I'm kind of opsessed with my own development.
/r/seduction20/07/14 03:13 PM
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Good on yeah man. I'd really love a detailed eye contact guide, like I'd love a whole book but every single guide seems to be "make natural eye contact" "don't stare" "Make sexy eyes" and that might as well be chineese. It's like that draw the owl joke. The thing is I'm actualy ok walking to girls if they're already part of the group and they've been opened but I'm crap at first impressions.
/r/seduction19/07/14 10:46 PM
1

WHAT?
/r/seduction19/07/14 03:01 AM
0

I watched a couple of minutes of him, I still feal dirty. He has a smell of psyco off him.
/r/seduction18/07/14 05:59 PM
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If NPH was straight we'd all be fucked.
/r/seduction14/07/14 01:08 PM
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I kind of wish people who compained that they're too ugly would post photos. I'm carefull just in case they have some disfigurement but I suspect they're agerage slightly out of shape guys.
/r/seduction13/07/14 12:12 AM
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Could you make the chair look a bit murderball-y. Look like you're living it up.
/r/seduction24/06/14 10:12 PM
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Completly passive girls are kind of annoying. I don't really know what I'm doing but I try to wind them up or annoy them until I get some kind of a reaction, pissed off I can work with.
/r/seduction04/06/14 12:02 AM
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