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Those options are not exhaustive. What about the guy who expresses his desires directly, but not subtly or tastefully (because he doesn't know how)? That would still be seen as "creepy", but does not fit your first profile.
/r/seduction29/09/14 03:10 PM
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Why do you think this is true? Why can't you just be like "hey I'm interested in you." Of course I could say that, but the point of seduction is to minimize the chance of rejection. By immediately declaring your interest before sufficient attraction has been built, you're allowing her a chance to end the seduction prematurely.
/r/seduction31/12/13 06:06 PM
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I could see that working moreso for the title question than "Do you have a crush on me?", to which it might be harder to pass the answer off as a potential joke -- but maybe it could be done. So would you say this is just an application of "agree & amplify"?
/r/seduction30/12/13 06:46 PM
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What would you recommend as a better location?
/r/seduction11/02/12 08:49 PM
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Thanks for the insights! When I was doing dinner dates, I tried to get her to park at my place and I'd drive from there. Though I'm glad I got away from the dinner paradigm, I didn't think about getting her to my place first. I'll try this next time. On that note, would you recommend I try to get her to come up to my place for a few minutes before we head out? If so, what kind of excuse could I use for that? Regarding the "crescendo" bit: Though I get the general concept, I'm having a hard time …
/r/seduction11/02/12 07:30 PM
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I don't lack confidence in general-- my self esteem is fine, if anything I'm too arrogant. But I do lack confidence in my ability to talk to girls. Based on experience, this seems reasonable.
/r/seduction11/02/12 04:21 PM
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I guess I think I can flirt once I already pick up on IOIs/flirting from her, but I don't know how to initiate.
/r/seduction11/02/12 04:19 PM
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I'd be interested, especially if a few more people chime in. I'm also from NH so either location works for me. Anyone else?
/r/seduction04/01/12 08:49 PM
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Yeah, it sucks. At least you figured it out pretty quickly. I was with this girl for 5 months--filled with her telling me she loves me, even trying to get me to move in with her--before she dumped me for another guy within a week of when I reciprocated.
/r/seduction28/12/11 11:06 PM
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I was horny as hell from not jerking off (which I highly recommend... Can you elaborate on this? My concern is that being sexually frustrated, while it may be motivating, will only make me more nervous and therefore be self-defeating.
/r/seduction28/12/11 04:02 PM
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That's exactly what I'm trying to avoid. Got any positive examples that I could use as fallbacks?
/r/seduction28/12/11 03:07 PM
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Read up on conversationalist techniques. Got any links?
/r/seduction28/12/11 03:07 PM
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Thanks for posting. This feels especially relevant to me right now. I wish I'd understood that my most recent ex was like this months ago. I just cut off all contact with her a few days ago. She had kept pursuing me, and I played it cool while fucking her for months, but eventually I gave in and became as emotionally attached as she seemed to want me to be. She immediately pulled back and found another guy.
/r/seduction28/12/11 03:03 PM
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I don't think the OP is looking at women like objects. I think he is just trying to counteract his own tendency toward outcome dependence.
/r/seduction25/12/11 06:48 AM
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I like that one. It starts an interesting branch of conversation whether you're right or wrong.
/r/seduction25/12/11 06:37 AM
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Hahaha, thanks!
/r/seduction25/12/11 06:30 AM
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Haha, I like the line. Obviously not intended for day game, though. "I'll make you breakfast" at 11am in a supermarket would be kind of weird.
/r/seduction25/12/11 04:51 AM
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Small talk is exactly what I need help with. I understand that practice is essential, but examples are very useful as a starting point.
/r/seduction25/12/11 04:40 AM
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Thanks for your response. I'm not saying you're wrong, but this advice would be a lot more useful with examples.
/r/seduction25/12/11 04:38 AM
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I'll be checking your profile in a week to look for the FR.
/r/seduction24/12/11 10:27 PM
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Can you expand on how to kino during day game? I mean, if I just stop a girl on the street, or in a super market, how can I kino without it being weird? Also, can you give me some advice on transitioning from situational openers? I'm pretty bad at small talk.
/r/seduction24/12/11 09:40 PM
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Thanks for the response. Yeah, I probably should have gone for it. Ah well, I'm over that encounter.
/r/seduction24/12/11 09:38 PM
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we develop a repertoire to develop a report Say it with me... rapport.
/r/seduction14/12/11 03:00 AM
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It's a little weird that you made her drive to your house instead of telling her to meet you at the restaurant. This was because I was going to invite her up for a few minutes before heading out, but as mentioned, it slipped my mind. I see what you're saying about setting a bad initial frame. I had wanted to make this a walking date to begin with, but gave up on that when I found out the place we were going to walk to was closed. "Let's sit here and talk for a minute first. I want to make sure y…
/r/seduction13/12/11 05:43 PM
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I'm interested in what you're saying but I'm not sure how to apply it. Can you boil down your advice to one or two concise sentences? Are you really saying anything more than just "Be yourself and be confidant about it."?
/r/seduction13/12/11 04:10 PM
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(A) I wasn't nervous about being rejected, which is how I used to feel before coming to terms (for the most part) with outcome independence. I was still somewhat uncomfortable, though, because I'm weak at conversation and it takes effort to constantly think on my feet. (B) I picked the crêpe place originally because it's within walking distance of my place, within walking distance of other places ("downtown" if my town qualifies for one of those), and because it's quick and casual. When that opt…
/r/seduction12/12/11 06:31 PM
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Hey, thanks. Yeah, I don't get hung up on things like that either. At first, I played it off much better ("Wow, Japan is going to revoke my sushi license" or something), but by the time I spilled the soy sauce at the end of the date she already seemed so disinterested in me that I wasn't as motivated to make a good impression. I know-- it's a self-fulfilling prophecy, and maybe I could still have turned things around, but when someone is giving me strong IODs, I usually just reciprocate. As you …
/r/seduction12/12/11 06:26 PM
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Haha, yeah, I gave her the benefit of the doubt. I never feed the same troll twice though (even female ones).
/r/seduction12/12/11 05:54 PM
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Thanks! I read your link; great post. I did try to move closer to her, as described, but obviously didn't try hard enough to make kino possible.
/r/seduction12/12/11 05:51 PM
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Haha, I love that show. I definitely want to try that sometime. Of course, the first two steps (Demonstrate value, Engage physically) are a lot harder for me than they are for Dennis, and I probably need to build comfort first before getting her into my pad.
/r/seduction12/12/11 03:00 PM
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4) Blaming the shitty date on the chick by saying you didn't find her interesting was a cop out. The date wasn't fun, therefore she wasn't having fun. Oh, I'm not deflecting responsibility for the date being boring at all. Actually the opposite: because I had trouble identifying with her, I had trouble having fun, which means she wasn't having fun either. Relying only on myself to have fun is a skill that I'd like to work on developing.
/r/seduction12/12/11 02:57 PM
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Thanks for the advice, brother. I'm going to try getting away from the dinner dates.
/r/seduction12/12/11 02:28 PM
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Actually, I've been eating sushi for years, and I'm the one who suggested it. I'm decent with chopsticks, it's the fidgeting with them that caused me to fumble. Also, I had just finished telling her about my trip to China when I dropped them the first time. I tried to make a joke out of that and let her give me some shit for it, but she seemed more put off than anything.
/r/seduction12/12/11 01:33 PM
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Why do you think that? Check my posting history.
/r/seduction12/12/11 01:19 PM
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Video.
/r/seduction12/12/11 01:14 PM
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Thanks for the advice. When you bounce from place to place, are you in a city where all these things are within walking distance of each other? Or do you keep leaving and driving somewhere else? I feel like there's a ceiling to how many times I can get a girl in my car and drive her somewhere new before it gets weird.
/r/seduction12/12/11 05:16 AM
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By setting goals, do you mean pickup-related goals, or just general life goals? From your post it sounded like the former, but now I'm thinking you mean the latter, so that I can generate qualifiers that pertain to my life goals.
/r/seduction11/12/11 02:18 PM
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I'm a newbie who has just recently learned to do (1) and (2), but I still have a lot of trouble with (3). Can you point me to specific resources or techniques that you found helpful in developing (3)? Also, would you mind giving examples of how (4) works?
/r/seduction03/12/11 03:22 PM
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Hey, thanks for the encouragement. Yeah, I figured the same thing. If she can't deal with my desire to help someone else, then she's not worth thinking about.
/r/seduction29/06/11 12:46 AM
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About her rejection? I'm fine; it's not a big deal. It kind of sucks because I just got back out there and the first 2 dates I've had were total flops, but like you said, there are many more where that came from. If I was really into her, I'd probably be a bit more persistent in trying to charm her socks off, but I think parting ways at this point is for the best. Thanks for the concern, bro.
/r/seduction05/06/11 09:04 PM
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Not sure that there is much for me to learn, honestly, though I always try to find something constructive to take from an experience. It was a fluke incident that ruined the date, but I would handle it exactly the same way if it were to happen again. I guess if I learned anything, it's that I'm okay with disqualifying a girl who can't deal with my decision to help others in need.
/r/seduction05/06/11 08:39 PM
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The guy has my contact info and can get the footage from me if needed. It was definitely worth it. Video is worth more than a thousand pairs of eyes. There's a reason that police departments across the world have been more thoroughly cracking down on their officers' abuse of civil liberties since just about every citizen has begun carrying a camera in his/her pocket. Just knowing that there's a camera on them makes most police more hesitant to become violent. This isn't a political subreddit, so…
/r/seduction05/06/11 08:33 PM
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As you can see in my reply to probama below, the emergency wasn't a personal one, though I felt a responsibility to tend to it. I think she really did expect me to stay with her and ignore what was going on, but I felt a moral responsibility to help the guy who was injured.
/r/seduction05/06/11 08:10 PM
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The emergency wasn't a personal one. While we were walking, there was a guy getting beat up by some cops. There was a large crowd surrounding, but no one was filming. I felt I had a moral responsibility to stick with this guy and video tape the cops until he was out of their custody. She didn't want to get that close to the scene. I felt bad ditching her, but hey, my conscience is clear. If I had left and the cops had kept hurting the guy, I wouldn't be able to live with myself.
/r/seduction05/06/11 08:08 PM
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I called and she didn't answer the phone. Then she sent me a text: "Friday night was just too much for me. i need a bit of a breather. i was just really uncomfortable & not feeling it. ill talk to you another time". Time to give up yet?
/r/seduction05/06/11 08:05 PM
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I called and she didn't answer the phone. Then she sent me a text: "Friday night was just too much for me. i need a bit of a breather. i was just really uncomfortable & not feeling it. ill talk to you another time". Time to give up yet?
/r/seduction05/06/11 08:05 PM
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"Cocky/funny" is a tone of voice/attitude, it's not dictated by content. Go ahead, ask me what I had for breakfast. "I had an egg white omelette." Yeah, I said that with a cocky/funny tone. Also, I feel like you completely ignored the fact that, as I said in the post, this only works when it's an obvious falsehood; so it's a joke, not a defense. And no, I just got called out on it for the first time yesterday; that's why I posted this!
/r/seduction24/05/11 03:28 AM
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I like this one the best. GorillaJ's is good too, but only if you don't already know the girl.
/r/seduction23/05/11 10:45 AM
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I agree with point #3 that the bench may have been a bad idea, but #1 and #2 make false assumptions: I did not get defensive; although I may have sounded annoyed in my post above, I do not think I displayed that annoyance in any way. Also, she didn't want to go back to my place; she wanted to go back to her car to drive home... In any case, I've just chalked that one up to a bad experience and moved on. I've never had another girl react so badly to everything I did. I really do appreciate the co…
/r/seduction22/05/11 11:57 PM
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