There are a thousand posts listing day game openers on seddit. What about transitions?

cody_au · 2011-12-25T02:59:08+00:00

Opener

Light compliment

(What you're doing today for grounding)

Tease

Story

Qualify and sit her down or I'm thirsty (and walk her over to a cafe)

Story, etc

The rules were you insta-date within 5 minutes or get a number and call her later (if she is on her way to do something she can't avoid). Alternatively you can do it all standing up in the same spot for an hour and make out with her in the middle of the street... I sure have.

handoverthebanana · 2011-12-24T22:48:22+00:00

Talk to everyone until you figure it out yourself. You can't learn this stuff over the internet.

2011-12-25T00:04:39+00:00

I like to begin qualification early on with ambiguous questions that they'll enjoy answering. Whats your favorite blah blah blah. What do you do for fun? etc.

holst09 · 2011-12-25T04:20:17+00:00

The best one i've ever heard was

Do you wanna get out of here?

"Oh, im not sure, blah blah lbah blah blah"

I'll tell ya what. Lets get out of here, i'll make you [insert breakfast, usually scrambled eggs or pancakes] in bed

This has worked for me. Girls want an excuse sometimes to go back with ya, sometimes they think that line is cute, or clever, but it portrays confidence and your intentions, which is sexy. Nail that shit

rmbarnes · 2011-12-25T02:25:36+00:00

Look at the infields on krauserpua.com. He does direct daygame, and you can get a feel for the types of transitions he uses. It's mainly about noticing things about them, and asking questions / making assumptions based on this.

kruunch · 2011-12-25T04:08:16+00:00

What works for me the most is to ask, What are you up to today?

Simple and it allows me to thread to the conversation. For example, if they say, 'I'm going to go to uni.'

You can follow that up with a multitude of ways: 'Which uni do you go to?' 'What course do you do?' You can then change topic to talk about interests or passions.

And keep threading from there. Hope that helps!

ROCKSTARseduction · 2011-12-25T11:28:20+00:00

I believe what you're looking for sir, is frame control; direction of conversation to maintain interest while building attraction & comfort. Unfortunately or fortunately for you this really can only be learned in field.

There are some things you can do to practice though. For example:

You want to show value and interest about the fact that you've traveled the world, hypothetically(use something that is congruent to you)

take whatever she has said and manipulate the frame.

maybe you could get her to talk about school or work and while actively listening you should start to drop seeds like 'oh thats crazy that you knew what you wanted to take right away, i needed to take a year and travel before i could figure out what i wanted to be when i grew up'

if it is something that piques their interest they will ask you more about it and you could continue in that direction.

My suggestion would just to go out and try to have conversations with everyone, not just hot women so you can practice your conversation skills!

Good luck :)

hoyablue · 2011-12-25T20:24:47+00:00

Seriously man, you will not learn effective transitioning techniques by memorizing examples off the Internet. I promise you it's a more effective use of your time to just get out there and talk to anyone, then notice how the convo naturally progresses. Read up on conversationalist techniques.

Groovy_Peppers · 2011-12-25T00:50:47+00:00

Anything that is not related to the original opener is a transition. You can ask for their name. You can comment on something that stands out about them, i.e "i like your earings. where did you get those, those would make a good gift for my sister" Or you can always think of another question to ask. Practice is best.

sillymallard · 2011-12-26T23:05:13+00:00

Boring, mundane interview questions:

How do you all know each other?
Where are you from? Are you locals or just visiting?
Are you in school or working?
What are your plans for the rest of the night?
Besides drinking, what do you like to do for fun?

Protip: Don't be boring or mundane in your conversation. If you're doing it right, they'll ask you questions as well.

Title	There are a thousand posts listing day game openers on seddit. What about transitions?
Author	JustAnotherAFC
Upvotes	24
Comments	28
Date	December 24, 2011 9:50 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/npidh/there_are_a_thousand_posts_listing_day_game/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/there-are-a-thousand-posts-listing-day-game.1326127 https://theredarchive.com/post/1326127

Comments