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| 0 | [FR] First approach, shot down in flamesYea, I expected swearing, slapping, and a bloody scratch or two. 2/10 would not read again. | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 02:44 PM |
| 35 | The 20 Rules For First DatesPardon my french, but this fucking stupid. If outcome-independence is one of the rules (number 9, I might add), then do what you want as long as it's congruent and it's moving you forward. How are you supposed to have fun on a first date if you're going through the 20 rule checklist in your head?? | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 08:13 PM |
| 1 | 3 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Drink When You Go OutI understand that but that's still no excuse. Go out and be social. If you're constantly worried about what people are going to say to you, you have a much bigger problem to worry about than just picking up women. Nuff excuses, man. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 09:37 PM |
| 2 | 3 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Drink When You Go OutDude, you need to stop worrying about what people are going to say to you and just go. You're making a ridiculous amount of excuses up for going out sober. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 09:28 PM |
| 8 | 3 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Drink When You Go Out'Because I'm here to socialize.' 'It's better than a movie.' 'My cat has been bugging me all day to clean the floor and I just can't stand to be in the same room as her right now.' Stop giving a fuck. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 03:11 AM |
| 2 | 3 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Drink When You Go OutIf you have to sit there and worry what people think about you and what people are going to say to you, you're doing it wrong.. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 02:35 AM |
| 12 | 3 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Drink When You Go Out'Why aren't you drinking tonight?' 'I don't want to drink tonight.' 'Why not?' 'Because I don't feel like drinking.' Done. You don't have to explain shit. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Girls I approach keep asking me this...Own that shit, dude. If you're always honest, you never have to worry about being clever. 'Yes, I approach random women on the street. Why, should I sit and wait until I meet the girl of my dreams?' | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:39 AM |
| 2 | AA is nothing. Escalation Anxiety is what needs to be overcome. Here's, IMO, how.Here's how I got over my EA pretty quickly: I realized women like to be touched. You don't need to have a certain number of steps to get from talking to kissing, you just need to make some bold ass moves. This is what I like to think is going through a girl's mind when she's being touched and handled by a boss: 'Wow, this is hot. My heart is pounding like crazy. Holy shit, this guy is making me so hot right now.' Realize that sitting there not touching her is more awkward than actually touching … | /r/seduction | 28/09/12 10:14 PM |
| 1 | I am Cajun: woodsman, alcoholic, beard connoisseur, and lead instructor at Love Systems. AMACajun, big fan, actually learned a lot of what I do now from you and the Love Systems crew, so before I get into my question, big big thanks for changing my life! In the past year, my IDGAF persona has really evolved. I can say what I want and act how I want 90% of the time. I have no problem getting over shit-tests, bitch shields, AA or anything at this point. The talking part I have no problem with. My verbal game is good. As of late, I've been really trying to step up my kino/intimacy game. M… | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 05:32 AM |
| 12 | Feeling weird and guilty about sexGo a month without masturbating or watching porn. Then sex will really feel natural. | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 04:56 PM |
| 1 | How to end a conversation?"Aite, home-girl, I'm out. Keep it real." | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 07:49 AM |
| -2 | How to feel like I'm not bothering girls?Well, that sucks. Guess you shouldn't do things to improve your life if you feel like you're bothering people. I'd stop. | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 07:48 AM |
| 4 | 5 Things That Will Get You Laid/facepalm. I overlooked the obvious. | /r/seduction | 21/07/12 05:54 PM |
| 3 | 5 Things That Will Get You Laid5 Things that'll get you laid: Having a penis. ... I couldn't think of the rest. | /r/seduction | 21/07/12 04:42 PM |
| 2 | You Are InvisibleRead a similar thing a member of Project Rockstar 2010 said in his journal "Turn off the cameras." Ever since I learned that, I've stopped generally giving a fuck what I do. The only cameras you should have on are your eyes and they should always be in focus (ie. live in the present, bitchez). | /r/seduction | 21/07/12 04:32 AM |
| 2 | While picking up in a bar, how do i move the topic from an ice-breaker to more..."pickup-related" topics?Edited! Thanks. | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 06:27 AM |
| 3 | While picking up in a bar, how do i move the topic from an ice-breaker to more..."pickup-related" topics?I've come to realize that asking questions I really don't give a fuck is not only boring for the girl, but for myself as well. Ask yourself this, do you really care what she studies at this current stage of the interaction or are you using it as a conversation thread? If the answer is the latter, you need to switch up what you're talking about. The best way to get a more personal and intimate conversation is by asking questions you actually give a shit about. Ask her what's the craziest thing sh… | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 04:41 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Grocery Store # CloseAnd let me guess, you're just 'lurking'. | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 10:27 PM |
| 1 | A great example of how powerful confidence is in all aspects of life…The lion at the end was like 'wtf just happened?' | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 03:13 PM |
| 1 | I'm ugly as fuck. It's a huge mental block. I can't just "accept" it, and it's crippling my life. How do I proceed?You accept it by realizing you can do whatever the fuck you want now. You know what being ugly means? It means you can walk into a group, be already labeled as ugly and not a potential suitor; thus giving you the opportunity to act and be whoever the fuck you want. Fuck what people think. Seriously. If you're ugly and you realize that, the world is literally your oyster. If I was ugly, I would be fucking with people all day with my ugliness, just because I can. It would be awesome and I would fr… | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 05:25 AM |
| 5 | This is just kind of a reminder not to be too hard on yourself and to show that even the best fall into AFC behavior.This was me last night. Chain of rationalization. THAT WAS ME! Even when I tried opening after realizing I was in AA, I wasn't hooking and I let my rejections get to me. Minimizing time in between sets would've helped. Also, not being hard on myself is a plus. Thank you for posting this. I've seen this video before but it's a helluva great reminder. | /r/seduction | 30/06/12 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Note to self.Yea, I'm not too worried about that. My verbal game is pretty tight and I always aim to be respectful, honest, and genuine with people, not just girls. Thanks for the comment tho! I didn't think anyone would actually read this post. | /r/seduction | 24/06/12 04:53 PM |
| 4 | [FR] 'Hi'. It's the only opener you'll ever need.When he said 'I actually don't give a fuck', I knew I won. Guys who approach you trying to act all alpha and try to cockblock you are really just super threatened by you. If someone is threatened by you, you have no reason to be threatened back or defensive, you've just gotta keep a smile. This only angers them more, which in turn drops their value. Keeping your cool is a win/win situation for you all the way around. Win because you're proving to the AMOG's group/girls that you're friendly and t… | /r/seduction | 24/06/12 02:14 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Pool babe, DDs, already had sex multiple times, wondering about the next moveThis X1000000! Honesty is the best policy, even if it means rejection. Just tell her straight up; if she feels the same then you might have a fuck-buddy in the works. If not, fuck it, there's a billion other chicks to bone. | /r/seduction | 24/06/12 01:12 AM |
| 1 | What's a good way to disqualify yourself?This X100. I've seen many a friends shit where they eat, even after warning them not to, and it never turns out pretty. There's a billion other chicks who need dicking. Let this one go. | /r/seduction | 22/06/12 04:54 PM |
| 8 | Interrupted by betas"Are you done?" "I don't see a fork in my ass so no." | /r/seduction | 19/06/12 02:50 PM |
| 4 | "Aww, you're so sweet/cute!" Seddit, how do I react to this?Accept it and move on. Just because she called you cute/sweet, doesn't mean it's the end of the world. You can still get physical, say sexual things and plow forward. You're choosing to let this COMPLIMENT affect you. It's the same as when a girl is cold during an approach. Do you sit there and go 'how do I react? oh I guess she's not interested, I'll move on'. FUCK THAT. You ignore it and keep doing you. Don't overthink it, man. Being called cute/sweet is better than being called creepy and hav… | /r/seduction | 17/06/12 02:53 PM |
| 15 | [FR] Grocery Store # CloseI'm with this guy. The clothes shouldn't make the man; the man should make the clothes. | /r/seduction | 05/06/12 03:14 AM |
| 1 | What's your best response to the "I have a boyfriend" line?Me too! He'd be so jealous if he saw me talking to you ;) | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 04:11 AM |
| 5 | Shortcut I use for remembering conversational topics:You do realize relationship doesn't just mean boyfriend/girlfriend, right? | /r/seduction | 12/05/12 01:33 AM |
| 1 | I suck at asking girls over. Help?Don't think it has anything to do with being weak/beta. I met this girl last year during school. We've made out before, I've been over to her place; I know she's attracted to me. I'm cool, calm and collected when I'm with girls but when it comes to inviting girls over or inviting them to hang out with me, I don't entirely know what I'm doing and I fumble a lot. This is where I need help. As for age, I'm 21. | /r/seduction | 07/05/12 06:26 PM |
| 8 | I suck at asking girls over. Help?This kind of advice I needed. Thank you! I have feeling she thinks I'm a bit of a player, which is why I think she was saying 'maybe'. I'm gonna try using your advice on other women and see what that does. | /r/seduction | 07/05/12 06:05 PM |
| 1 | "The Game - the movie" (based off Neil Strauss's book) now has an empty Imdb page. Question is, how far will this go and how will it impact the PUA community?The sky is falling! The sky is falling! Really, this movie shouldn't affect who you are or what you do. If it does, you need to get out more, stop using as many canned openers, and stop giving a fuck what people think. | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 11:09 PM |
| 3 | There's so much PUA material out there what would you rank as the MUST-reads/watch?Tyler Durden infield videos on YouTube. That is it. No more. | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 11:17 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Absolutely epic night. Four-way with porn star, crime scene investigator & ex-cheerleader MILFOne day this will be me. Thank you for the inspiration! | /r/seduction | 18/03/12 10:01 PM |
| 2 | What to do when someone says.."Who is this guy?""Prince charming, nice to meet ya." | /r/seduction | 11/03/12 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Do tall girls perceive themselves as of a higher value than "normal" girls, or am I projecting wrongly an exclusively male behavior on tall females?Probably, but it doesn't stop me (5'6" guy). At the end of the day, shorter guys look less threatening to taller girls, which means more play for the shorter guy. That's the way I see/experience it. | /r/seduction | 07/03/12 01:30 AM |
| 10 | I really, objectively SUCK as a personYou're only as shitty as you feel. Fuck the 'high-quality' bullshit. There's no such thing. I don't see myself as a 'high-quality male' or a hot chick as a 'high-quality female'. I see us as people going through this fucked up thing called life. We all have emotions, reactions and thoughts. You're right that being a PUA is about confidence, but it has nothing to do with tricking people into liking you; it's about liking yourself. 90% of the shit I say to women is utter stupidity that I say for m… | /r/seduction | 26/02/12 12:26 AM |
| 4 | All you guys who fear to talk to girls are insaneCan't tell if sarcastic or just making up excuses. | /r/seduction | 08/02/12 02:11 AM |
| 4 | [FR] First f-close, okcupid ONSYeee buddy!! | /r/seduction | 18/01/12 01:34 AM |
| 3 | How to proceed after a girl rejects a kissIt just means she's not ready yet. Don't let it affect you and try again at another point. | /r/seduction | 16/01/12 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Had a realization the other day and it seriously messed with my inner game.I went through the same thing minus the vacation. Grew up an AFC, after high school decided I wanted to change and began learning how to talk to people. I was doing good for a bit but after a while, friends, family and strangers started telling me I was rude and arrogant. The thing that I realized about this was the fact that I was unintentionally being rude, and I felt awkward because I was both giving too much of a fuck what people were thinking and I wasn't as calibrated as I thought I was. S… | /r/seduction | 16/01/12 01:54 AM |
| 1 | A Rough Look at the Evolution of a Ladies ManDamn straight. | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 09:48 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Brought a chick home. LMR'd all night.It looks like the general consensus here was let her take off her own pants and thinking about it now, I can see why it would work better than me taking them off. Gonna give it a try next time I run into the LMR-monster. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 05:11 PM |
| 5 | [FR] 24y/o virgin no more! Thanks Seddit!!(Long Read)How's the neckbeard coming along? | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 06:47 AM |
| 2 | A Rough Look at the Evolution of a Ladies ManIf this is correct then I'm at phase 5. Holy shit, just three years ago I was an insecure AFC starting at phase 1! Can't wait to see what else is in store for me. | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 02:55 AM |
| 2 | You texted a girl when you were drunk and it was just bad. How do you recover?How do you recover? Continue living your life. | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 01:30 AM |
| 7 | You texted a girl when you were drunk and it was just bad. How do you recover?I don't see why you're getting downvoted. OP just said 'it was bad'. Drunk-texting an 'I love you' to a girl you just met is bad for your game too, but I wouldn't call it hurtful. | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 01:29 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when you just can't think of anything to talk about? (Or anything interesting at all)This. And if I can elaborate, stop worrying about what to say next. You're the man! She's attracted to you, so with that logic anything you say will be awesome. Talk about what you wanna talk about and expect the group/girl to be interested. | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 03:10 AM |
| 4 | Guys, Is There A Way To Shut The Switch "Off"?I don't understand why you want to switch 'it' off. You're clearly social-intelligent, you put your intentions up front and judging by this, I can tell you take moves when you actually want to. My question to you is, if everyone is having fun around you and you obviously know what you're doing and know your own boundaries, why switch off? | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Honest Question: Why Are You Here?When I first started my PUA journey 4 years ago, I just wanted to be better at talking to everyone and I wanted to gain that 'I don't give a fuck' mentality that I admired so much. Today, I can safely say I've come a long way. With that being said, now that I'm much better with people and give less of a fuck what people think, I just wanna have some fun with some beautiful women. | /r/seduction | 27/12/11 04:29 PM |
| 0 | Marijuana and seduction. The single most amazing experience I have ever had.This is maybe but only when I'm drinking too. It's ridiculous how easy words come out and kino is when I'm blit! Also, I don't know if this is a phenomenon that only happens to me but whenever I'm blit, I seem more approachable. I'm usually pretty friendly as it is but I hardly ever have people approach me. When I'm high, people approach me, people touch me a lot more and I'm just a magnet for attention. I don't know what it is about it, but I love cheeba. | /r/seduction | 26/12/11 04:23 PM |
| 4 | There are a thousand posts listing day game openers on seddit. What about transitions?This. Anything can be used as a transition. Look at your environment, look at what they're wearing or doing. Just be aware. That way, you'll be out of your head and in the present and ready to move your interactions forward without having to worry about the next step. | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 01:07 AM |
| 4 | Seddit, what have been books you have read and feel everyone should?Mystery Method is the only thing I read but experience triumphs over intellect. Do less reading and more doing. | /r/seduction | 17/12/11 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)It's interesting that an objective of yours is that the platonic friends are "hot" - can I ask why? I've also met tons of awesome attractive women that I just enjoy the company of and that I'd rather be friends with than start anything sexual or romantic with. . Honestly, the rule is to treat them pretty much like one of your male friends, only talk about sex less. That I understand and know already but my problem lies with the txting because txting isn't something I do much with my guy friends.… | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 05:26 AM |
| 7 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)I'm working on having more hot platonic female friends. I have a lot of girl's numbers in my phone but I don't know how platonic male-female friendships work when it comes to txting. What's the rule of thumb on txting platonic female friends? When does txting become too much txting? | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Any casual herb smokers find that smoking ruins your game?As a rule, I never smoke up to get high when I know I need to be social or I'm gaming. If I'm at a party or going to a party though, I'll take one or two puffs to relax me and get me in my zone. | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 03:08 PM |
| 8 | How can I make myself more vulnerable?With the amount of downvotes you're getting, I can tell you're on to something. I really appreciate your honest opinion, man and I feel like what you said may be right. I've learned how to talk to someone but not with someone. I'm not letting them see the real me, just the part that remains unaffected. | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 03:13 AM |
| 10 | How can I make myself more vulnerable?This is great advice but those examples to me are just elements of great story telling. Being vulnerable is totally different to me. It's letting your guard down and being open to be hurt. An example of this is being the first to say 'I love you'. We as PUA's get taught to be nonreactive to everything but in a moment like that, you care to see what the other side thinks because your heart is on the the line. It's that feeling of not knowing what's going to happen. I notice that I tell myself I d… | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 03:10 AM |
| 2 | just in case any of you need a laugh today and a reminder of just how easy it can beI wish I was old enough to be able to truly appreciate this show when it was on TV. | /r/seduction | 11/10/11 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Best ways to get rid of guys (puas) who hit on my gfLike this. Notice how the guy plays along and doesn't give a fuck while the other boyfriends (if you watched the rest of the video) were really insecure about some dude hitting on their girl? Yea, it's much more attractive to the girl when you're not jealous or insecure. | /r/seduction | 02/10/11 11:21 PM |
| 13 | Apparently I'm 'creepy', yet girls still love me. Is this a shit-test?Holy shit, a normal username on Reddit?! Am I seeing things? | /r/seduction | 02/10/11 11:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Fuck AA.Correctamoondo. | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Critique my planYou don't need the "really cute" bit. This would work better on the street during day-game, but you're in class; you have a commonality. Just go up, introduce yourself, ask for her name and just tell her you saw her around and wanted to say wuddup. | /r/seduction | 30/09/11 02:37 AM |
| 1 | [FR] HB7.5 F-closeI don't think the whole, "Great job on laying an HB8 bro! Just for future reference I think you should try more kino and work on being a pua though. Again great job!" is constructive. I don't believe that mindset is constructive. Sure, it's not hella constructive, but it's better than your destructive keyboard-jocking ass. Have fun on your WoW tourney! | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 02:37 AM |
| 9 | A Rant on NegsAgree 100% and upvoted. Never neg a girl about her physical appearance. Guys can handle that shit (most of the time). Girls can't. | /r/seduction | 19/09/11 01:01 PM |
| 25 | Tips for first date with a stripper?Whatever you do, don't take her to a strip club. | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Is porn really affecting us?Masturbation? Maybe not. Porn? Yes. Last month I stopped watching porn and beating off all together due to a hunch that I might've had a porn-induced ED moment. It's been a month since I did either and I've definitely noticed a difference. Not only am I hornier now but I'm much more attracted to real girls than I was before. I used to only get hard when I'd see a chick that looked like a pornstar. Now any girl with a nice bod/face get me fucking horny. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 03:43 AM |
| 6 | Help me [F]Close an HB9 while out at a club with her and group of HB8-10 female semi-famous friends. Group DHV/Push-Pull/Kino crash course?Use her friends to DHV you. You already know she's into you but you have to treat meeting up with her in front of her friends like you're opening a new set. Talk with her friends more than you would with her initially, then once you've won the group over and everyone loves you, shift your attention slowly to her. By the time you've got her friends laughing at all your jokes and interested in all your stories, your value to her will be through the roof. | /r/seduction | 01/09/11 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Jokingly addressing a girl as "woman." Good or bad?Nothing is good nor bad. Thinking makes it so. | /r/seduction | 31/08/11 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Confusing ex, worth it or not?This. Reply with "Cool, let me know when you grow up and figure out what you want" and go fuck ten more chicks. If she's confusing you and playing games like this, she's not worth the time/effort. | /r/seduction | 27/08/11 04:56 AM |
| 9 | [FR] Got AMOG'd badly last nightWow, I wouldn't even be mad about that either. He played that shit like an art. | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 10:00 PM |
| 6 | Rudest thing I've ever heard from a girlAnother one I thought of: Um, you're too fucking short for us. What you like 5'2"? You: Us? Bitch please, you're not good looking enough for me. I'm here to talk to your friend. | /r/seduction | 22/08/11 04:19 AM |
| 8 | Rudest thing I've ever heard from a girl"Oh I didn't know you guys had requirements. Sorry to bother you sir :)" and just walk away. You're calling her out on the stupid statement she made ("You're too fucking short for us") while still appearing nonreactive. Also calling bitches sir is always fun. | /r/seduction | 22/08/11 12:42 AM |
| -2 | Epic rejection by text message. What the heck happened?Her: Hi TofuTofu, my friend and I talked about ya and we're giving ya a thumbs down. Take care. You: That's too bad, I was just finishing up your mixtape. Her: What?/Really?/Something that shows interest again. You: PSYYYYYYYYCHE! You're cut. Bye! | /r/seduction | 15/08/11 10:32 PM |
| 7 | i don't know how to take a compliment or how to deal with being hit on without being awkward.Girl: You're hot. You: Tell me something I don't know. Cocky-funny. Do it. | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Outcome Dependence: View From The Other SideAgreed, if I can go for it, I will, but they are no longer the reason I approach. | /r/seduction | 07/08/11 08:37 PM |
| 11 | Outcome Dependence: View From The Other SideYour frustration is what the post was about... | /r/seduction | 07/08/11 08:20 PM |
| 28 | Outcome Dependence: View From The Other SideThis is something I was thinking about yesterday. 90% of my AA is all outcome-dependence. When AA strikes, it's usually "fuck, I'm not gonna be able to get her number/kiss her/fuck her etc...". Then I thought, "what if I just talk for the sake of talking. I don't even need to get numbers." Totally flipped my mind on me. | /r/seduction | 07/08/11 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Thanks to Seddit, I manned up and asked a girl out for coffee.This guy knows. She wasn't saying 'no' to your invite or you, she was saying no because she had work and probably thought you were going for coffee anyways. Personally, I would've knocked her for saying 'go ahead' and made it more clear that I was asking her out, but that's just me. Keep doing you and go for it again in the future. | /r/seduction | 06/08/11 12:34 AM |
| 5 | "A morning of awkwardness is better than a night of loneliness"Not the point but true nonetheless. | /r/seduction | 05/08/11 06:57 PM |
| 7 | What's the best way to take compliments?Like that. | /r/seduction | 22/07/11 01:53 AM |
| 1 | "You should know, I'm always right about everything" A shit test, except the princess actually believes itSounds like a brainer. | /r/seduction | 20/07/11 08:11 PM |
| 13 | What to say when girls giggle shyly?Relevant username. | /r/seduction | 20/07/11 06:29 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Had my first major blowout yesterday (among other things)!That's actually a sick way of using the over-the-shoulder that haven't thought of. I'll give it a go next time I'm out but in most cases, I never go directly into the set because of how much interest it gives off and how intimidating it looks (i.e 'oh my god, this guy's trying to pick us up'). I usually use over the shoulder or off the side with the look like I'm walking away. | /r/seduction | 17/07/11 05:04 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Had my first major blowout yesterday (among other things)!I doubt it. She just seemed like a girl that feels good after being a bitch. Funny thing is, the set wasn't even attractive (all 6.5 and under). I just wanted to talk to them to keep the momentum going. | /r/seduction | 17/07/11 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Shining a light on my inner-game problems.It's weird; in the beginning of the year I was none of these things (especially #5). Then I guess I got comfortable. I feel like I need to go on a spiritual journey to figure out what's going on. | /r/seduction | 16/07/11 10:02 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Never toking before a party again (Long-ish post)I do! After learning game for what it is, I really wanna just focus on spreading joy everywhere I go. Any dude can spit some lines and call himself a PUA. It takes a man to get other people besides himself feeling special. | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 11:15 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Never toking before a party again (Long-ish post)I wish it had that effect on me. It's not that I can't talk, it's just that I'm always too stoned to have conversations. Someone will be telling me a story and I'll be zoning out and thinking about cheese on donuts. | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 10:12 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Never toking before a party again (Long-ish post)If I'm at a big event where there's alot of people, I can smoke well beforehand because A) I do get really calm and B) I know there's alot of people so the chances of me fucking up don't matter. In this case, I knew everyone there was one set and the one and ONLY set so the fear of fucking up got really high. Lesson learned. | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Warlizard the Natural (xpost from/r/bestof)If you're teaching your kid what you know now, your kid's going to be an OG! I have a question tho: when I started learning all this social interaction stuff I started off as a super-niceguy (i.e pleasing others, spineless etc..). Two years later I flipped it and became a complete dick who did whatever he wanted, said whatever he wanted and disregarded people's feelings. Now I'm on my third year of 'development' I'm moving to find that balance in between because I don't want to just be the guy t… | /r/seduction | 08/07/11 05:20 PM |
| 10 | Warlizard the Natural (xpost from/r/bestof)We were dicks until we matured and if we can save our sons from being such utter jackasses, we win. This guy just became my hero | /r/seduction | 06/07/11 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Would you go along with this shit?Good 2¢, thanks. | /r/seduction | 25/06/11 04:15 AM |
| 1 | I'm frogma. AMA.Common AMA question: how long did it take for you to get good? Also what is the biggest realization you had once you started getting good? | /r/seduction | 24/06/11 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Would you go along with this shit?Just like I initially thought, thanks. | /r/seduction | 24/06/11 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Want to watch an alpha do work among betas?From what I've seen on youtube, this guy's a G! 90% of the youtube comments are from pissed off girls getting mad at him for being abusive and manipulative and blah blah blah blah but he's hilarious. Sure he lied to her but honestly, would she rather hear him say "you're seriously not my type. I've been playing you from the start and I don't care" or "I value my daughter more than I value you and I need to see her"? What you said about him having great inner game and abundance mentality is so tr… | /r/seduction | 21/06/11 06:26 AM |
| 1 | How to get past a wall, generally speaking ofcourse?I think what OP is referring to is getting vulnerable with someone, telling them deep shit about himself. | /r/seduction | 21/06/11 02:51 AM |
| 1 | How to approach someone in a non-social setting?The line you thought of was perfect, especially since it would've been a genuine compliment. Bitches love genuine. | /r/seduction | 21/06/11 02:48 AM |
| 3 | How to practice game without trying to get laid?As much as this is true, OP can still approach women with no sexual intentions to be more social. It will help him in the future and let's say the relationship with this one doesn't work out, at least then he has the tools to make the approach, all he will need to do is sexualize it more. For now OP, what you can do is be more social as heckz mentioned. You can even focus on going out with your boys and help THEM get laid. Then you're not only being social, you're also learning the skills it tak… | /r/seduction | 14/06/11 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Looking for tips on how to open and maintain some long and interesting conversationsStep 1. Open the group with whatever you can think of. Even if it's "I have a small penis". Step 2. Say whatever you feel like with no intention of getting in anybody's pants. Step 3. Repeat 1 and 2 until you're comfortable enough to start implementing PUA tactics. | /r/seduction | 11/06/11 12:07 AM |
| 1 | I don't know how long to stay in set if I'm not getting IOIs.Until you get bored of them and realize that it really isn't going anywhere. | /r/seduction | 10/06/11 11:21 PM |
| 15 | My husband and I may have the chance at a threesome.I don't have any advice to give you but I support this thread 100%. | /r/seduction | 09/06/11 03:26 AM |
| 5 | [FR + Q?] First time trying to talk to women - also my first lap dance - also my first time on MDMA.I've taken MDMA and yes, it is amazing. It virtually breaks down all social barriers and lets you enjoy everything. I think the reason it works so well in pick up is because of how much internal fun you're having and, as PUA teaches, when you're having fun, your targets will have fun. Don't do it too much though, the come down is a bitch after doing it to the excess. Also, don't call yourself a 4. If your MDMA trip has taught you anything, physical appearance means nothing and that it's all abou… | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Do you txt your chick friends regularly?I appreciate the concern but the chicks I'm making friends are already like my guy friends. Most of them have already openly volunteered to wing me when I need it and vice-versa. It's mutually platonic. | /r/seduction | 06/06/11 11:17 PM |
| 9 | Do you txt your chick friends regularly?I blame the cellphone companies and their radiation. | /r/seduction | 06/06/11 09:38 PM |
| 6 | Do you txt your chick friends regularly?Exactly my mentality. I just want hot friends I can chill with. Not only can I learn from them by the way they think and whatnot, but they're actually cool chicks I want to just kick it with. | /r/seduction | 06/06/11 07:58 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Experimenting with "momentum", "not giving a fuck", and "going direct".He is. Let's add him to the threesome. | /r/seduction | 01/06/11 01:07 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Bus conversationDo you live in Markham by any chance? | /r/seduction | 11/05/11 08:45 AM |
| 3 | Kino Escalation Guide by Mystery & LovedropDoes anyone know which DVD this video clip is from? | /r/seduction | 11/05/11 12:40 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Weird night. Got kicked out of a wine lounge. Told offensive jokesI agree with Kumar. It sounds like OP was just having fun amusing himself and his boys. I know many girls that like offensive humour and if someone does get offended, good, treat it as a shit-test and move on. | /r/seduction | 08/05/11 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Hey seddit, what's your ideal woman like?Nice body (booty and boobies), beautiful without make-up (but sexy with), can sing and/or play an instrument (or be creative in any sense that isn't 14 year old girl 'photography') and knows how to have fun with anyone in any situation. EDIT: Also, hair colour isn't an issue as long as it's at least shoulder-length | /r/seduction | 08/05/11 01:08 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Still think your race is an issue?Thanks and yes it was! I've never had anything like that or close to that happen to me so it was quite a shock when it did. | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 05:32 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Still think your race is an issue?"Excuse me, I need to go sue her for sexual harassment." FUCK! That would've been perfect! Using this next time a MILF in red licks my face during a conversation. | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 05:25 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Still think your race is an issue?I have a preference for fine women. White chicks I find are just more fun. | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 05:23 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Still think your race is an issue?Like yokhai said, you're ahead of the game. Most brown guys I talk to about game complain that picking up white chicks is 'hard' because they're not white. | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Getting calm without weedIf you've smoked up before, you'd know that the calm is no placebo effect ;) | /r/seduction | 03/05/11 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Getting calm without weedYou believe your best nights are when you get high. Are they really? How can you evaluate that when you're high? Let's be clear, I'm not talking about being high, I'm talking about AFTER the high and when I've definitely sobered up. Although I'm not stoned anymore, I still have that calmness in me and the reason my nights are better is because of how calm I am on the outside and in. I have alot less negative thoughts and it's very much less about thoughts like "can I do this?" or "I don't think … | /r/seduction | 03/05/11 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Champy or chumpy?Yes. | /r/seduction | 17/04/11 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Champy or chumpy?Agreed. No more over-thinking this. | /r/seduction | 17/04/11 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Champy or chumpy?The problem though is that she should be the one earning points, not you. This is something I'll remember for next time. While she responded positively in this case, that's an exception rather than best practice. This is very true. The only reason I think this worked is because it fit with my situation with this chick. | /r/seduction | 17/04/11 07:32 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The beginning to probably the best week of seduction in my life so far. K/F-close last night, #-close today and a scheduled F-close tonight!Why I love reddit? You tell a guy he has an awesome [FR] and you still get downvoted. | /r/seduction | 11/04/11 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Does this chick like me?I've already let her go bud. There's no problem with making sense of mixed-signals in case I encounter another Crazy. | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Does this chick like me?This post is the reason why I had the disclaimer at the beginning and at the end. I appreciate the advice but I have no intention of running game on her again. It's not that I have "no interest" in her, it's that I have no interest in pursuing her anymore. Thanks tho! | /r/seduction | 07/04/11 02:22 PM |
| 1 | 1 year repost: What are your motivations for being in the community? Are you here for as many women as possible or to find the perfect partner?To be the best me I can possibly be and to get with as many women as I can before I find the one that I want to stick with. | /r/seduction | 01/04/11 09:37 PM |
| 4 | Stop calling yourself an AFC!It doesn't matter, you're both acting like queers. | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Stop calling yourself an AFC!Yea, stop being a faggot. | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 01:14 AM |
| 2 | A small suggestion: FR=Field report, LR=lay report, OR=opening reportIt's not about the close, it's about what you learn in the set. | /r/seduction | 27/03/11 06:19 PM |
| 1 | What makes you happy?My life. It's not amazing but I'm more than satisfied with the way things are going. | /r/seduction | 23/03/11 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you guys ever feel that color is a issue?I wish! I'm nowhere close to the amount of game this guy has. | /r/seduction | 15/03/11 03:59 PM |
| 2 | How do we have 18,000 members in Seddit, but only 780 members in AskSeddit?Question belong on AskSeddit, jerk. It was made for a reason. //sarcasm | /r/seduction | 12/03/11 09:58 PM |
| 1 | What's your opinion on sloppy seconds?You'll be getting somebody's sloppy seconds every time unless you're fucking a virgin. I knew this was coming up hahaha. I have no problem with this but when it comes to fucking a chick your friend already fucked, it just feels low value. It feels like hand-me-downs: friend fucks hot girl, friend gets tired of playing with her so he passes her onto me and then I get to play with her. I'm not saying I wouldn't hit the chick if she's hot because pussy is still pussy but it makes me question hittin… | /r/seduction | 11/03/11 11:08 PM |
| 7 | Do any of you guys ever feel that color is a issue?Yea it's an issue...for the other guys. Look, I'm pretty much in the same position as you. I'm 5'7", brown and in a school surrounded by white chicks and Abercrombie and Fitch looking dudes. But does that bother me? No. Why? Because white girls think they prefer white guys more, but when a brown brotha comes under the radar and charms them, it's unexpected and I stand out THAT much more. When I walk into a party, it's 90% white people, 9% asian, 1% me. I walk in, everyone notices me and I make s… | /r/seduction | 10/03/11 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Hey Seddit! How Would You Train Your AFC Friend To Make A Solo Close?If he doesn't WANT to do it, fuck him. He has to actually want to change, not feel like you're making him change. | /r/seduction | 09/03/11 02:09 AM |
| 5 | Need advice on pulling off two places at once without blowing my chances.Do your job and tell her straight up that you won't be with her the whole night. First, if she's a fan of Chong, she'll be happy just to be at the show. Second, it'll make you look like an important person so if anything, it'll just boost you up in her eyes. | /r/seduction | 08/03/11 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Your best/most successful OkCupid openers?I didn't get that at first but then I 81818181'd out loud | /r/seduction | 03/03/11 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Your best/most successful OkCupid openers?Saw a cute HB7 with something along the lines of "Your mother saw me naked and now she's bisexual" on her profile so I sent her: Subject: My mother is a saint! So if you made her a bisexual, kodoos to you She replied with a "hahahahaha" which later turned into a number. | /r/seduction | 03/03/11 08:15 AM |
| 1 | When opening through txt/IMI have girls on my IM lists and phones. The problem (as stated above) is starting the conversation. | /r/seduction | 02/03/11 07:58 PM |
| 14 | THIS is "alpha as fuck", that's what this is. Just watch his attitude, body language, everything. Epic :DIn all honesty tho, I do think his responses were good. Usually when a celebrity fucks up, they try to fix it and try to make their public image better. He handles this well by basically saying "lay off my fucking ass. All of this publicity is nonsense" which is true. I wish people would stop giving a fuck about other people's lives (mainly celebrities) and just focus on theirs. Just goes to show how fucked our society is... | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 10:04 PM |
| 28 | THIS is "alpha as fuck", that's what this is. Just watch his attitude, body language, everything. Epic :DI don't think there's anything alpha about this. He just looks like he's in denial and trying to rationalize everything. | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Going to start doing the "newbie mission"I have a couple of my own openers already, I just wanna do the newbie mission. Although I'm not technically a newbie since I've been in this for about a year, I haven't gotten over my AA in the traditional way so instead of looking for shortcuts and doing it MY way, I'm just gonna do it and then I can say I've atleast tried it. | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Girl from POF won't go online on FacebookThanks for the input! | /r/seduction | 22/02/11 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Girl from POF won't go online on FacebookExactly why I wanna get her on IM. Usually I'll have one IM conversation (or txt if this chick had a phone) and then I'll invite them out but she's not going online at all. | /r/seduction | 21/02/11 09:58 PM |
| 1 | How many guys always ignore the target in the initial (indirect) approach?I don't think you read my post too well haha. I have no problem ignoring the target, my problem starts by NOT ignoring the target. I go for the target right away, try to keep the obstacle in on the conversation but in the end, the target doesn't have a strong attraction for me but the obstacle does. I'm gonna try ignoring the target when I first jump into a set but I was wondering if anyone still ignores the target as it is a "rule" | /r/seduction | 21/02/11 07:37 AM |
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