I've been talking to this chick that lives a couple towns away for a couple months now. Since school ended, it's only been txt/facebook game but I have a really strong feeling like she's just leading me on and is all talk and no action. Reasons?

  1. Asked her out, like flat-out 'let's go on a date'. She said she works 6 days a week and is (and I quote) "a very busy girly". Told her to give me a date when she's free and I'll pick what we do. She said she would but hasn't yet and I'm not the type to keep chasing her for a date to hang out.

  2. During one of our txt convos she mentioned that she's "testing my limits here and there to see how it takes til I crack". I was ready to kill it with her here because I don't like games and I don't like being some chick's experiment but my brother told me to treat it like a shit-test and go on, to which I did.

  3. Her conversations have gone from flirty to full-retard. Everything I say she keeps trying to reframe into something completely irrelevant. Of course I continue to do my job of keeping my frame but I took a strong mental note of this.

I talked to my brother about this all and he said some girls are just teases and you just gotta be a disqualifying, DHV rock and keep the door open for when she's ready to see you. I understand this to a degree but I don't wanna keep this txting back and forth shit if it's not going to lead to anything. I'm ready to cut this chick and just tell her straight up "I don't like games and I don't like being lead on. Peace." but I feel like that would just DLV me hard if she is trying to see me.

What do you guys think?