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The way I get around this is dating super smart men in a different field. I love talking about my favourite topics unless I have someone who knows just as much about a different subject. This means I have collected amazing trivia on many different subjects over the years. You don't dumb yourself down, you take all the expertise you can get
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 11:17 PM
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Literally no way to tell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 08:14 PM
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Girl you're with a controlling asshole. Just because the scrote in the OP is insane doesn't make your bf any better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:49 AM
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I'm chatty but massively aggressive and angry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:42 AM
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Awful but statistically "normal"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 12:14 PM
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That's exactly a FWB tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 12:01 PM
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What's your point about high functioning autism? Just because this guy sleeps all day and is depressed/lonery and LV does not make him ASD. Autism is really a lot more diverse than you make it out to be. I am on the spectrum and so is my boyfriend, he was very direct about showing interest in me and he is a lot more functional than I am in some aspects. He is a total HVM, with a "rational" approach to showing affection. Which means he considers his actions and how they affect me. While I do know…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 11:46 AM
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Look, I think a lot of the advice here is geared towards American culture and I myself come from a European culture where this is different. I think you should still expect men to be chivalrous in their treatment of you, without being paternalistic. Being caring, thoughtful of your needs still comes out in many different ways while you are dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 11:35 AM
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Cheap ass "historical romance" fiction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 07:45 AM
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I personally am non-violent in my dom ways. I enjoy setting the pace and making a man want to please me. I enjoy the feeling of his pickmeishaness, because men often have sexual insecurity. only reason why I don't like the fact that FDS assumes BDSM has women subbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 07:43 AM
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What is positive feminine energy if you have no friends?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 07:39 AM
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I like dominating men, and have often myself hit on shy/coy/inexperienced/feminine men. But for me, light domination (no violence) in the bedroom feels equal or it feels like it offsets "vanilla" sex which still includes light domination dynamics. I also have trauma relating to sexual abuse and vanilla sex makes me relive it to some degree. That said, I think the OP only talks about female subs and I do not feel the need to undo my tastes, only the psychological underpinnings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 07:36 AM
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Lol Tell him you thought about sleeping with him and then never do. It's the thought that counts 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:10 PM
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That's just not true, I live in Italy and get gawked at by both men and women for being braless in an A cup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 09:08 AM
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Has physical contact with a man fundamentally changed who you are? Are you less valuable to yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 09:47 PM
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She even has her hand between him to push him away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 05:02 PM
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Girl, you need to work on yourself. Physically harming a partner is never ok, regardless of who is physically weaker. FDS principles are all about "giving the energy you get back 10fold" and it seems like he retaliated physical abuse. I'd say leave that relationship because he's touched you, but also it sounds like you're not ready to be in one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 02:30 PM
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As far as I understand, she wanted a 5carat diamond and he got her a 2,8 carat one Unsure tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 01:47 PM
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Nobody asked this scrote :))
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:29 AM
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CANT BREATHE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 07:51 AM
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And then all the pickme sob stories from FDSers can go over there!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 07:39 AM
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What if you need boundaries with your parents???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 07:06 AM
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Wowwwww thats a lot Look were all fucked up try and see how it works out - you will know if he fetishises you or if he doesn't treat you like a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:46 PM
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Girl you got love bombed. Reading this is painful you're making so many excuses for him and he just wanted sex. Never speak to him again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:47 AM
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Getting pissed off with all the random LVM complaint posts - that's what weekly discussion and pinkpillfeminism are for!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:21 PM
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Early 30s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 12:16 AM
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^ this. Avoid giving him too much information about yourself, he will find out your weak spots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 02:57 PM
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"knowing what to say" is actually a red flag here - this will actually be used against you later on. It means he has practiced
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 02:54 PM
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I don't think so - you dumped him, and he's the one who got burned tbh. But be careful of billing a LVM as such because of his status or his money - your ex is a LVM because he didn't treat you well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 09:29 AM
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Girl why you talking FDS in public?!??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 08:36 AM
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No they just get angry instead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 08:35 AM
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You will feel better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:41 AM
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Girls here: never make the mistake of thinking money or status make a HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:38 AM
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Stop stroking his ego for being a functioning human being. And status or intelligence per se Is not HV. God the bar is so fucking low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:16 AM
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Therapy usually doesn't help because it's still about your problems. I used to be a real overachiever, but as you age you realise the system is set up for you to fail. What is it exactly that you want to achieve? What exactly does a "not mediocre" job give you and the world? Sometimes we just inherit a vague notion of what a perfect life should look like in order for us to be happy and it just won't. So just focus on being happy. I know this is banal, but I've let go of the competition years ago…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:16 PM
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He just didn't like getting caught in the lie. Take the trash out if he resents you for having to act like a decent human being 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:10 PM
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This is why you don't ever talk about FDS outside of the sub 😎😎😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:08 PM
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Also lol @ editing literally the only role of men (feeding women while they be making crafts, inventing agriculture, making and raising children, developing tools and religious rituals) out of prehistory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 05:20 PM
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Nah look - there are pros and cons The misogyny of South and east european is very overt and it is easy to deal with for a HVM who wants to reject that and respect women North European praxis and etiquette just means you can't weed the LVM that easily
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 08:52 AM
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This happened to me too. I've been harassed, stalked and physically threatened because I have tried (and managed!) to sell my art irl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:30 AM
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Look, I'm personally neither a conventionally attractive gal, nor am I currently fulfilling society's expectations regarding grooming. Little makeup (basic skincare I know this is bad but I have nice skin for now) and I have a "personal style" which some may call frumpy, others "unique". I can try really hard to stay in shape and primp and I sometimes do not. I have noticed that I attract the most LVM when I have had mental health and a bad attitude to life, even though I might groom more as a r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 10:29 PM
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Sorry but it's true - I'm not emotionally intelligent at all and I've had repercussions from it But I would never go and jack people around
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 03:22 PM
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How is he a HVM if he essentially sees you as arm candy and isn't even shy about it? RUN GIRL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 11:12 AM
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Look, as someone with a dom kink I don't watch the porn and you don't have to. It's boring and it all tends to gravitate towards female degradation regardless. Standards are individual, beyond being respected and treated like a human being
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 10:30 AM
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It's HER HOUSE. she had shelves for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 10:10 AM
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How is this news? We learned this stuff in school and a scrote is getting credit for it😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 05:52 PM
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Yeah but you can also get kicked out almost immediately in so many states of the US
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 03:26 AM
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When you start feeling that the connection would warrant his decision by now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 04:33 PM
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I genuinely used to enjoy domming spontaneously. Also the biggest turn on for me was "equal" sex with no hint of domination. The thing is, you can induce most of these in women if you abuse them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:57 AM
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DEAD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 07:15 PM
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Guys am wondering if the people here consider height as a standard or a preference? Like obvs you ideally would want someone just a lil taller than you rather than your same height or shorter but like...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 07:12 PM
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I'm a big nerd, not particularly feminine and my field is also male-dominated (as well as my friends). Sexual trauma caused me to hide my body and try to attract the least attention possible and also I became a pickme as a result of social awkwardness and emotional manipulation. I have been working on it: to me, style and femininity just mean wearing something that suits me and makes me feel sharp.bNot being a pickme means being confident in my abilities, not acting as more of a tomboy than I am…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:09 PM
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No because that's a whore and we hate those too 😂😂😂 You can't win
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 08:12 AM
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Inspiring article. The lesson learned is: don't let any LVM get you pregnant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 07:47 AM
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As a result of Franca Viola's case, that law was repealed in 1981 in Italy. Rape also became a crime against the person in 1996 ( as opposed to being a crime against "common morals" aka the family)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 09:12 AM
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Yes!! Feel free to inbox this "manic depressive"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:08 AM
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There's a reason why he's an ex, I suppose it's negative value behaviour like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:46 AM
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It's not a fetish if it's what sex is supposed to do. It's just having children irresponsibly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:38 AM
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I consider this borderline - as long as it is flirting that's fine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 12:56 PM
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I've always found it really uncomfortable and though I have done it once I was extremely mentally unstable (suicidal psychotic etc) so that really shows you it is self harm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 12:54 PM
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What does it actually say?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 12:18 PM
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Yep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 12:19 PM
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That's disgusting it just shows how he sees you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 12:18 PM
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What explanation do you need? I was thinking all sorts of violent thoughts while reading that cause he treated you like a free hooker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 06:07 AM
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This is what female level up strategy is for and I'd like to see more traffic over there!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 01:03 PM
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If he's a good talker If he expects you to reciprocate his over the top declarations of undying love If he expects 24/7 contact and constant dates That shit escalates before you know it, you might be moving in, finding yourself needing something you left at his place, sharing cigarettes, putting up with HIS schedule. My ex got emotionally abusive and then physically so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 09:09 PM
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It sounds fishy though ??? Everyone has at least made a dead LinkedIn account at some point in their lives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 09:04 PM
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Thanks for the sub!!! I feel this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:05 PM
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"love kernels" is THE breadcrumbing song and it explains it perfectly hahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 08:43 AM
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It triggers my pickmeisha mom so hard when I make these jokes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 07:02 PM
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Men's fancy outfits had a lot to do with status
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:06 PM
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My mother raised me as a pickmeisha from day 1. I'm still recovering and not proud, I just don't think about it (I have deep-seated trauma I have rejashed) and celebrate every time I stand up for myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 09:26 AM
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I've spoken to red pill types about this - they do it on purpose to make you feel dehumanised
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 09:08 AM
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Who provides for you before you settle down, without you having to take shitty jobs or investing in a career? What happens if you divorce/if a man is abusive (and rates of documented domestic violence show this to be likely) ? I'd take this option if it wasn't so risky
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 04:48 PM
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Who provides for you before you settle down, without you having to take shitty jobs or investing in a career? What happens if you divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 04:40 PM
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It is about a good balance of comfort and sexual energy, do not be afraid to show your attraction. You can build this up by slowly touching/caressing women's non-sexual parts with sexual intent (delicate areas include neck, shoulders, legs) as women get aroused more slowly. And using porn scripts as inspiration will kill any ladyboner in no time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 04:27 PM
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She's lying to you bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 03:47 PM
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That's a common misconception. As an aspie, I can tell you we do care about being socially appropriate, we just don't manage it well. This said, in general aspies seem to have a much more "genuine" attraction for people that is based on personality more than socially enforced standards. Pros and cons, just not many pros when it comes to casual sex (aspie men get laid less, aspie women get raped/abused more) That said, every aspie is different and you need to learn how to tone down the aspects th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 03:34 PM
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