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| 1 | Have I been misinterpreting Models by Mark Manson?A video which explains the difference between good and bad vulnerability. Showing Vulnerability: Is It An Attractive Trait? | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Best books for game?Download the free desktop kindle book reading software onto a computer. | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Best books for game?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Books to readFundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 07:34 PM |
| 1 | What books would help me learn proper seduction?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Need a book to readFundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Good books to read?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Best books on masculinity and being a high-value man?Honesty has been a staple principle throughout this entire book. When being truly honest, your conduct is fully congruent and consistent; ergo your thoughts, words and actions are continuously aligned. Showing honest intent is synonymous with acting in a man to woman frame. Men who try to hide their interest or are ashamed of their desires are acting dishonestly. By acting like a friend, these men only ever become a woman’s friend. Every time you spend time with a woman that you like and hide yo… | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Need Advice Getting Off of Apps and Cold Approaching in CollegeFundamentals of Female Dynamics. A book written specifically for CS students and engineers. | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | BooksFundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight. | /r/seduction | 28/01/19 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Any good books to read?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 11:10 AM |
| 1 | PUA artist booksFundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Book recomendationFundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Australian University game as a STEM major? Have next to no opportunities to even MEET girls.Fundamentals of Female Dynamics - The engineer/CS student's guide to meeting women | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Best up to date seduction and pickup guide?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Looking for booksFundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 02:01 PM |
| 1 | I've Read Corey Wayne's "3% Male" Ten Times... Here Are My NotesFor the most part, yes. I wrote another article on exactly this: http://trueanomaly.org/2016/12/20/causation-vs-correlation-where-classic-pick-up-advice-went-wrong/ | /r/seduction | 24/10/18 12:47 PM |
| 4 | Oneitis = Lack of PurposeRelated: The Truth About the One. | /r/seduction | 24/10/18 11:22 AM |
| 4 | I've Read Corey Wayne's "3% Male" Ten Times... Here Are My NotesCritical Review of Book 3% Man | /r/seduction | 20/09/18 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Anyone Read "Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi? Thoughts on it....Critical Review of Book | /r/seduction | 15/09/18 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Worried about prospects during, and after college (long-ish post)Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Corey Wayne’s 3% Man is AmazingCritical Review of 3% Man | /r/seduction | 09/09/18 12:04 PM |
| 1 | If you could have only read 2 books to help with pickup, self improvement etc - what would they be?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics and Models | /r/seduction | 09/09/18 11:35 AM |
| 1 | I've realized the reason I am terrible with women is that deep down I "know" I don't deserve their attention. What are the best inner game books out there?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics Contains an entire chapter on Healthy vs. Unhealthy Entitlement. | /r/seduction | 09/09/18 11:30 AM |
| 8 | How exactly should I go about getting laid in college?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics The pick-up bible for engineers | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 10:58 AM |
| 1 | What are books that are a must read for a solid seduction foundation?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Insulted a girl, her friends called me nice and kissed meThe exact perfect answer to your question : https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4h8md4/how_nobel_prize_winning_physicist_richard_feynman/ | /r/seduction | 29/07/18 03:26 PM |
| 1 | How you even get a date after college?Here is a book written by a person who was in your exact situation: Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 07/07/18 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Can you help me pick the 4 best books from this list?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics Models How to be a 3% man No more Mr. Nice Guy | /r/seduction | 04/07/18 08:27 AM |
| 1 | My two cents on “Models”Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 08:18 AM |
| 1 | What are the fundamentals of being an attractive man?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 21/06/18 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Book suggestions after Models & 3%Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 21/06/18 09:56 AM |
| 1 | What are some good books in learning seduction? Or books that help you boost confidence?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 12/06/18 08:21 AM |
| 3 | Have you/would you ever give someone a book on seduction as a present?Review of "How to Be a 3% Man" Covers the book's strengths and weaknesses | /r/seduction | 11/06/18 06:14 PM |
| 19 | Just let it go..... Don't cling to your oneitis/crushes...Tony Robbins says that “in life you need either inspiration or desperation.” The pain you feel from heartbreak, rejection or loneliness can either be wallowed in or used constructively to make you stronger and to provide motivation. What may begin as a journey initiated from a place of pain, will hopefully end in a place of inspiration. You will be inspired as you witness yourself accomplish things which you never before imagined possible. When a great woman then comes along, you will have the b… | /r/seduction | 01/01/18 05:22 PM |
| 199 | Just let it go..... Don't cling to your oneitis/crushes...Most young males operating in a scarcity mindset catch the disease Oneitis at some point in their young adult lives. If not promptly caught and cured, Oneitis can take years away from one’s life. You can pour all your time and energy into a lost cause instead of using it to improve yourself. Having suffered myself from a very dire case of the disease, I am accustomed to the symptoms. The symptoms of Oneitis can include: Spending an abnormal amount of time thinking and obsessing over one girl. Be… | /r/seduction | 29/12/17 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Whats the best PUA self help online e book that gives the best advice on game?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 27/12/17 01:10 PM |
| 29 | I'm having problems with vulnerability.There is a difference between making someone like you and generating attraction. The majority of men focus more on ensuring that a woman approves of them, rather than risking becoming vulnerable by honestly expressing themselves. Unapologetic honest expression of one’s true self is at the core of what generates attraction. Thus by playing not to lose and to protect your ego, you are inevitably destined to lose. You need to be unapologetic about who you are as a person. It is OK and normal that n… | /r/seduction | 23/12/17 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Any books on reclaiming you masculinity and being more confident with girls?Critical Review of 3% Man | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Best PUA books with structure and learning curve?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 04:09 PM |
| 1 | 23 and never had a girlfriend before?Neither did I until I was 23. But by 26 I had overcompensated to the point that I was a RSD assistant coach. It's insane the results that you can achieve in only 2 years if you take action and apply the correct principles. Here is a reddit post I made about what you are probable experiencing. | /r/seduction | 26/05/17 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Are there any other pick-up companies/instructors beside RSD?Willy Beck was teaching the bootcamp programs for Simple Pickup, but the price is also a couple grand. There is the Art of Charm and Love Systems in LA. There are many small companies and coaches in Europe, especially in the UK. I have a friend who coaches in Serbia, and charges really reasonable rates since his clients are mostly locals. Given that Serbia is definitely in the top 5 countries in the world when it comes to beautiful women, it would not be a bad place to take a bootcamp. Many coac… | /r/seduction | 26/04/17 08:16 PM |
| 5 | Who do you think is the number 1 pickup instructor?I was his assistant, and I can confirm that when it comes to straight up pick-up (pulling, one night stands, making crazy things happen, etc.) that he is very good. And from actually going out and coaching with him, I can confirm that all his footage is real. I have spent time with a lot of people in this industry, and found that the quality of one's online videos does not always reflect the quality of the bootcamp experience that you would have with them. People often pay more for certain instr… | /r/seduction | 26/04/17 10:29 AM |
| 0 | Books similar to "The Game"Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 26/04/17 10:04 AM |
| 2 | Crippling ONEitis is killing meThe Truth about the One | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 06:25 AM |
| 3 | What are some good books or material on small talk?The majority of attraction in a conversation is generated not by what you logically say, but by what you emotionally convey. It is not what you say that matters, but how and why you say it. The how referencing the emotions being sub-communicated and the why being the intent behind them. A major breakthrough for me was when I discovered the huge difference between conveying emotions and conveying information while in a conversation. When it comes to building attraction, the subject matter of a co… | /r/seduction | 08/04/17 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Zen and the Art of PickupSimilar in that it focuses more on inner game, and is written with a more mature tone. Different in that it's more concise and focuses primarily on core principles similar to what RSD teaches (forcing rapport, outcome independence, reaction seeking, honest intent, confidence, congruence and consistency, etc.). | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Zen and the Art of PickupGreat Post! After I finished interning at RSD, I wrote this book where I delved deep into and condensed the great psychological ideas while leaving out the unnecessary crassness. | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Whats an essential book to read, to learn how to be good with women?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics Here is a preview: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5uyk9m/the_core_of_attraction/ | /r/seduction | 03/04/17 07:43 AM |
| 3 | Why engineers and guys into science have more difficulties with girls ?This, plus once you are in such academic of work environments, you encounter scarcity which both prevents you from gaining reference experiences, and makes you needy. Here is an entire book about it: Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 02/04/17 09:30 AM |
| 2 | About to go to college in a few months. Any good advice regarding seduction in college? Please note that this is an European college instead of an American one.Here is a book on meeting girls written specifically for engineers. The author studied at a small technical university in Germany. | /r/seduction | 24/03/17 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Where do you go?Outside | /r/seduction | 24/03/17 08:48 AM |
| 1 | In Models, he talks about being emotionally vulnerable and sharing deep shit about yourself but I keep hearing guys say this scares women off?Being vulnerable does not mean being weak or soft, but rather that you are strong enough to deal with the repercussions that may result from exposing your true self. There is no need for trying to always appear perfect. Women do not want to be with a man who is perfect. A woman does not want to feel that she can never relax or show any imperfections around you. Women don’t care that you have flaws, only that you accept and don’t try to hide them. Attractive women in particular are faced with a c… | /r/seduction | 24/03/17 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Matt Damon's epiphany for going for an audition can be directly applied to doing an approacht | /r/seduction | 19/03/17 08:21 AM |
| 5 | Went out last night and met a girl who was one of those "I'm better than everyone" types. How do you deal with them?"Basically, you can, you must be like the PUAs taught everyone, because their game is tailored to girls exactly like this." This is huge to understand. You attract what you are, so playing validation games gets validation girls. Which is all that PUAs taught for almost the first 10 years. But if you want to date a woman with a better personality, realize your own self-worth and passively show that you do not need this girl's validation by actively not trying to seek it. Then go find a girl who r… | /r/seduction | 18/03/17 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Hey Seddit! Your actual problem is not the questions you ask, but the very fact that you are asking them.It's fine to have the fear. That is normal. The goal is to face the fear of rejection instead of avoiding it. If you are asking the type of questions I listed above, then you are trying to avoid rejection. And by avoiding it, you never will get the reference experiences necessary to get better. | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 01:34 PM |
| 1 | business scriptOutcome independence. Show that you are comfortable hearing No from them early on, so that they feel in control of the interaction and its their choice. | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Books for Inner game and confidence?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight. | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Why you should never worry about going for the kissHere is another passage from the book which explains what I mean by being unapologetic. You are correct, without this addition people can misinterpret what I wrote. Thanks for the feedback! Many men are ashamed and apologetic about the natural and normal attraction they have for women, and thus are not secure with their masculinity. Being sheepish or apologetic about your actions communicates to a woman that you feel that you are not good enough for her and that you are seeking her approval. How… | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 11:31 AM |
| 13 | Why you should never worry about going for the kissWe have developed a bit of a Catch-22 in modern society regarding this. Every person is different, and some people even have personal rules such as never kissing someone on the first date even if they do like them. If a women verbally says: sorry I don't want to kiss you. Then obviously respect her wishes. But often if you are on a date and have already built some attraction, she may turn her cheek for reasons such as: Not to appear easy. Just to see how you will react and test your confidence. … | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 08:12 AM |
| 3 | Why you should never worry about going for the kissWell that "freeze out" type of move from the book The Game is a bit manipulative, since its based on withdrawing positive emotions as punishment when a girl does not give you what you want. But being outcome independent in general and comfortable with however the girl chooses she wants the relationship to proceed is a good thing. It's the showing of your intent combined with outcome independence which is key. I wrote about it here: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5uyk9m/the_core_of_a… | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 08:03 AM |
| 3 | Why you should never worry about going for the kissyep | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Can't close because, when she signals she is dtf, I lose interest and tell her to go away?Fear of success and proceeding to enter unfamiliar situations. | /r/seduction | 10/03/17 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Which advice is better about being open about your desires? Robert Greene's or Mark Manson's?Yeah, they think this because when they use certain tactics it brings them some success, which compared to having zero success before seems amazing. Then they think the entire philosophy surrounding the tactics must also be true. They don't know the difference between causation and correlation. | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Which advice is better about being open about your desires? Robert Greene's or Mark Manson's?This was a well thought out answer. You attract what you are. If you play the different sort of games detailed in Green's book you will attract the type of women that responds to them. I prefer women who do not play games, and instead respond to my confidence while also aligning with my values. | /r/seduction | 06/03/17 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Congruence and Consistency: The Key to Attracting WomenWhy do you feel the need that you have to contribute? Just be comfortable, unembarrassed and have the frame that a gentleman does not speak of such things. | /r/seduction | 05/03/17 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Congruence and Consistency: The Key to Attracting WomenEither to troll or to convince himself that self-improvement will not work given his self described bad physical appearance and thus justify his inaction. For women, looks are far from everything. When I taught bootcamps I witnessed ugly students pull off things that I did not even think was going to be possible for them, just because they acted with such confidence derived from the advice we gave them. | /r/seduction | 04/03/17 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Congruence and Consistency: The Key to Attracting WomenOnly excerpts. But I read Models which I liked a lot, and assistant coached bootcamps with RSD Max in Europe and the USA. | /r/seduction | 04/03/17 08:21 PM |
| 1 | How a One-Night-Stand with a Model gave me a Glimpse into the True Lives of Beautiful Women.before working with RSD. | /r/seduction | 02/03/17 06:23 AM |
| 1 | How a One-Night-Stand with a Model gave me a Glimpse into the True Lives of Beautiful Women.This event took place more than a year before that, and was an epiphany then at the time. | /r/seduction | 02/03/17 06:10 AM |
| 3 | How a One-Night-Stand with a Model gave me a Glimpse into the True Lives of Beautiful Women.Correct, I traveled and coached with RSD Max. I basically think of my book as core RSD principles but presented with a Mark Manson overall type of outlook. | /r/seduction | 02/03/17 06:07 AM |
| 1 | How a One-Night-Stand with a Model gave me a Glimpse into the True Lives of Beautiful Women.I actually traveled the world teaching with RSD, so overall I'm pretty confident with my data set. However, you are correct that everyone is different and this conclusion for sure does not fit every situation. | /r/seduction | 02/03/17 06:04 AM |
| 7 | How a One-Night-Stand with a Model gave me a Glimpse into the True Lives of Beautiful Women.I was looking for a real life example to illustrate the idea of people having different realities, perspectives, etc., so I probably did bend the analysis to help illustrate the point of the chapter. | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 06:40 PM |
| 5 | How a One-Night-Stand with a Model gave me a Glimpse into the True Lives of Beautiful Women.Both, since I wrote the book. | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 06:36 PM |
| 27 | How a One-Night-Stand with a Model gave me a Glimpse into the True Lives of Beautiful Women.My primary point was to show that not having a certain amount of status or wealth is not an excuse to cast yourself as being not good enough. And my second point was that the thing that many girls desire the most is an honest conversation, and any man is capable of doing that. But most men are too busy trying to impress them or buy their affection. No doubt if I was in a noisy club at some hotel resort where she had been given a free paid vacation in return for the hotel getting to shoot some pr… | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Can't get over my first loveMost young males operating in a scarcity mindset catch the disease Oneitis at some point in their young adult lives. If not promptly caught and cured, Oneitis can take years away from one’s life. You can pour all your time and energy into a lost cause instead of using it to improve yourself. Having suffered myself from a very dire case of the disease, I am accustomed to the symptoms. The symptoms of Oneitis can include: Spending an abnormal amount of time thinking and obsessing over one girl. Be… | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 01:21 PM |
| 1 | I am kind of salty about online dating. Can you tell me if it's justified, or I am having a limiting belief?Online dating should only be used supplementary. You should go out and lead an interesting life, push your comfort zone, and meet people in person first. This will help you grow, and when you do end up going on an occasional date from online dating, you will be that much more attractive in person. Also top girls who have tons of options rarely use online dating unless they are shy or just want validation. You will have a million times better chance with meeting a girl through a solid 5 to 10 min… | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Looking for an older text on Jealousy, Insecure PeopleThere will be many barriers to overcome on your journey of self-improvement. You may be surprised to find that lifelong friends may ridicule you and try to hold you back. There are multiple reasons why they may try to do this. Firstly, they may care about you and are afraid to see you get hurt if you fail, or may even fear your success because it means that they might lose you from their lives. Another reason is that they may not want their comfortable reality challenged, and your actions make t… | /r/seduction | 28/02/17 01:06 PM |
| 3 | I would like to write my thanks to Mark Manson.Those are all valid points. I know men who are only out for one night stands that heavily polarize to find girls DTF since that's their singular goal. And you are right, such behavior will filter out many girls who would be up for meeting for a date after you first had a decent conversation. But if you interpret being polarizing as just knowing your personal values and boundaries, and showing a person those from the start, then I would agree that being polarizing in this way instead of being sup… | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 07:30 AM |
| 3 | Psychologist Steven Pinker talks about innuendos and veiled language. A video not specifically about game but helped me understand game on a deeper level.An additional point on outcome independence also from the above book which is important to note: Most importantly, being outcome independent allows a woman to feel comfortable around you. If a woman senses that you will not be upset or disappointed if she decides to leave you, then she will be more comfortable staying with you. On one level, the woman does not want to feel that she is responsible for your emotional state. She may not want to hurt your feelings or create awkwardness by rejecting … | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 03:16 PM |
| 3 | I would like to write my thanks to Mark Manson.I would be interested to hear what else you thought Models was missing, since we often miss our own blind spots. In my own book: Fundamentals of Female Dynamics, I reiterated some of what Mark wrote about the importance of honest communication, but included chapters on Healthy vs Unhealthy entitlement (where misogyny comes from) and the importance of reference experiences. I also have a chapter on specific unattractive behaviors that 95% of all guys are showing. | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 09:14 AM |
| 15 | Psychologist Steven Pinker talks about innuendos and veiled language. A video not specifically about game but helped me understand game on a deeper level.I agree with the video, but in addition to plausible deniability, social conditioning also plays a role. "However, after attraction is established, you may still initially need to provide a woman with a logical justification that allows her to act on it. Societal double standards have conditioned women to feel extremely shameful about ever appearing like a slut. This is why you must be discreet with a woman while in public. A woman may want to give you her phone number, but refuse to do so if he… | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Three beliefs which must be ingrained in your mind before success with women can be achieved.Similar in that it focuses on honest communication and core principles over tips and tricks. It is more concise, and does not spend time on things like how to dress, and instead focuses on only core principles. People who like models will like this book. | /r/seduction | 25/02/17 12:24 PM |
| 2 | What are some things everyone should be doing everyday to become more attractive?The real question should not be what you should do, but who you should be everyday. Are you going through each day with personal integrity, authenticity, and honestly pursuing your self-avowed goals? Are you respectful to others as well as yourself? Are you honest and unashamed about your desires? Yes, still brush your teeth everyday, but also work on BEING an attractive man. | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 01:02 PM |
| 1 | The Core of AttractionUnless you are very physically attractive or have social proof, where the girl knows things about you before your first interaction together, then why would you expect her to find you attractive right off the bat? You need to display attractive behaviors during your interaction for attraction to grow. And one of these attractive behaviors is being confident despite if she does not love you/give you instant approval within 5 seconds of you saying hello. | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 06:47 AM |
| 2 | The Core of AttractionThe key is to overcome the fear of trying new things, and be ok with temporary setbacks and failures. The more you do and expose yourself to, the more you will figure out who you are as a person and what makes up your core values. | /r/seduction | 20/02/17 07:57 AM |
| 2 | The Core of AttractionMostly its simply not filtering what you are saying because you are worried that what you say will not be "good enough." Speak freely like you would to your best friend. Further behaviors such as not bartering for attention, forcing rapport, chasing and actively qualifying yourself are explained in great detail in the book. | /r/seduction | 20/02/17 07:52 AM |
| 1 | The Core of AttractionWell for just getting laid: status, career, stability and social circle are not necessary at all, although of course they are all beneficial things to have, especially in the long run. As a past assistant RSD instructor, I would show up in a new random city every week and thus had none of those things, but would still meet women no problem. Your problem is thinking that you think that you are a "piece of shit" and don't feel at all entitled to receiving love/affection/sex from a women. | /r/seduction | 20/02/17 07:44 AM |
| 1 | The Core of AttractionNah, I deleted it because I sounded a bit bitchy in my original post, and the next highest ranked post better articulates my point. | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 11:48 PM |
| 1 | The Core of AttractionMax. | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 10:25 PM |
| 4 | The Core of AttractionSpeaking from experience, its a good step, but true change comes from taking further action and working on yourself. Otherwise, you will find yourself repeatedly ending up in the same situation over and over and revisiting the same pain. | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 10:21 PM |
| 2 | The Core of AttractionHaving an initial polarizing statement like that would definitely filter your results. But putting any type of binary choose me now or not referendum type of statement early on in a conversation will also filter out girls who might of liked you if they spent more time with you. | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 10:08 PM |
| 3 | The Core of AttractionYes, showing honesty through directness and congruence in your thoughts, words and actions is key. Even the old evolution based advice comes down to the woman perceiving that you are showing honest traits. | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 09:50 PM |
| 6 | The Core of AttractionI added links. I thought the links were why I might be getting banned, so I stopped putting them. But I still got banned even without them, so I guess no harm putting them back. | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 09:47 PM |
| 3 | The Core of AttractionLink to Book | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 09:44 PM |
| 4 | The Core of AttractionFor working on yourself in general and becoming the person you want to be, then I would follow the lyric's advice. In the context of this passage, I was referring to an interaction with one particular woman, and explain the situations where persistence could be found attractive vs. when it would be viewed as stalkerish or needy. Persistence is like an amplifier. If you are showing attractive behaviors it will help, if you are showing unattractive behaviors it will make things worse. | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 09:30 PM |
| 6 | The Core of AttractionI used to use a username that was the same as the book author, so I thought it was obvious, but all my posts from that account stopped showing up, so I made this one. | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 08:35 PM |
| -5 | The Core of AttractionMy goal was to use a false dilemma to lower the chances of this post getting deleted again, but it did not work on you. | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 08:26 PM |
| 22 | The Core of AttractionTrue outcome independence would be an indifference to continuing a relationship. So if you are blocking the person or cutting off contact as a retaliatory action to make them feel bad for hurting you, then this would be an example of you reacting negatively and not being free from outcome. But if you are doing it, so that you can get over heartbreak, or refocus your attention positively elsewhere, then it would be a good move. Now if its an abusive relationship that's a different story, and you … | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 08:15 PM |
| 30 | The Core of AttractionYeah, I'm the author. I coached with RSD while doing research for the book. I try to subtly promote the book by posting valuable passages (exactly like the one above) and citing my text. But half the time my posts get removed by the admins. I would understand if they were click baitish, or hyperlinks redirecting people to other garbage, but removing simple text seems a bit undemocratic and not in the spirit of reddit. Give people the choice to down vote. Plus it discourages the few advanced peop… | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Finding a balance (too much game vs. too little)That post is the perfect answer to your question: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5kjnqm/the_secret_truth_about_learning_game/ | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 02:02 PM |
| 3 | What are the best books for transforming how you interact with women?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight Models by Mark Manson Read those two first, so that you start with a healthy mindset. Bonus books that contain a lot of applicable and related knowledge: No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini The Red Queen by Matt Ridley How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Quick question on ModelsNo, models is also a good book that stays away from techniques and tricks. | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 08:06 AM |
| 5 | THE TRUTH ABOUT WHY GIRLS FLAKE ON YOUI agree that having a solid initial interaction, where you show your honest intent, is the most important thing that you can do, and its worth improving your in person interactions then trying to make it up over "text game." I also agree that the emotional state plays a huge role. But the point is to achor the "yes" perhaps made during an emotional high to an actual event. Neither of these points contradicts the importance of also showing true intent and giving a reason why you want the number. | /r/seduction | 10/02/17 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Quick question on ModelsAlong with models, I would recommend the book: Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight. It focuses on learning attractive behaviors which you can show everywhere, instead of doing techniques and tricks, which in small community college environment I would not recommend. | /r/seduction | 10/02/17 08:22 AM |
| 1 | so..the difference between a pua, a man and a nice guy.Great! You have come to this realization by yourself, and thus have learned the practical lessons from pickup without letting it ruin your humanity. This is why I recommend people start with books such as Fundamentals of Female Dynamics and Models, so that they begin with this mindset from the start. | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Any good books on how to talk to womenFundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight. Half of the book focuses on what you are sub-communicating through your words and actions. It covers a lot of things that you are probably not even aware that you are doing: overtly qualifying yourself, bartering for attention/affection, trying to buy approval, trying to logically convince a girl that you are a good choice instead of appealing to her emotional side, etc. It is never what say, but the how and why you are saying it. | /r/seduction | 06/02/17 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Game from an Evolutionary Perspective. How game applied 60,000 years ago in 40-50 people tribes.I will recommend to you my book: Fundamentals of Female Dynamics. I have experience coaching in Muslim countries and I found it's style of teaching men to display attractive behaviors instead of running up to women and performing routines and techniques works especially well in Muslim countries where men can be very protective. As for your evolutionary question, here is a passage from the book about preselection: Pre-selection can save a woman both time and energy when looking for a mate. If a m… | /r/seduction | 06/02/17 09:40 AM |
| 11 | Honestly, where's the best place to find attractive/intelligent women?A general rule: NEVER GO INTO ANY DEBT TO ATTRACT A WOMAN. Self improvement and learning game is free! | /r/seduction | 06/02/17 08:50 AM |
| 2 | What is your View of Mark Manson books and courses Vs RSDMax The Natural ?Yes. The actual name of Max's product is a bit misleading. And it was partially picked just because he's from the Austrian mountains, and it fits well with his image/brand. Max's philosophy is to teach techniques so that you get enough reference experiences that you eventually become a person who behaves like a natural. And when you get that advanced, the very end of his program focuses on true natural game. But doing this makes sense, because otherwise the product would just be a five minute vi… | /r/seduction | 05/02/17 07:30 PM |
| 1 | What is your View of Mark Manson books and courses Vs RSDMax The Natural ?Mark Manson is about improving yourself overall as a man, i.e. improving your life and living more authentically, and becoming more attractive to women in the process. The natural is a step by step guide to being able to go out and game for the more singular purpose of just getting laid, having multiple girl friends, etc. | /r/seduction | 05/02/17 04:26 PM |
| 1 | What are some good conversation openers after you catch a girl checking you out more than once?"Hello." | /r/seduction | 03/02/17 01:57 PM |
| 0 | Almost 30 and newly single after having been in a relationship for the entirety of my adult life. How do I talk to women? I have no idea how to connect with people on an adult level.For long term success, you will need to build a life in accordance to your values which supports and reinforces the lifestyle that you want. Unnecessary struggle can be avoided by having your beliefs, desires and actions all aligned. The women in your life will be a reflection of your life. By taking personal responsibility and working towards becoming the man you want to be, you become the man that women want to be with. -Fundamentals of Female Dynamics (book) by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 03/02/17 01:55 PM |
| 1 | I have zero clue on how to attract girlsRead the book Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight. | /r/seduction | 03/02/17 07:02 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate beyond being friendly?There is a difference between making someone like you and generating attraction. The majority of men focus more on ensuring that a woman approves of them, rather than risking becoming vulnerable by honestly expressing themselves. Unapologetic honest expression of one’s true self is at the core of what generates attraction. Thus by playing not to lose and to protect your ego, you are inevitably destined to lose. You need to be unapologetic about who you are as a person. It is OK and normal that n… | /r/seduction | 03/02/17 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Going through Rules of The Game and want to complain about it with other peopleBook Link | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Going through Rules of The Game and want to complain about it with other peopleThe most important thing is that you are taking action, and the book inspired you and gave you a path to follow. And this was the secret reason why these original game books could work. People learned the core principles behind attraction by taking action and performing techniques. The techniques themselves were often arbitrary. Here is a blog post about this: http://trueanomaly.org/2016/12/20/causation-vs-correlation-where-classic-pick-up-advice-went-wrong/ | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Comedians and game?It depends if your a self-deprecating comic or Joe Rogan don't give a fuck type comic. Many comedians hide behind their comedy. | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 11:43 AM |
| 1 | [Need Advice] Trouble being vunerable and it's holding back my personal relationships"Being vulnerable does not mean being weak or soft, but rather that you are strong enough to deal with the repercussions that may result from exposing your true self." -Fundamentals of Female Dynamics (book) by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 11:41 AM |
| 4 | Going through Rules of The Game and want to complain about it with other peopleI think the biggest issue that screws people up with approaching in general (including mixed sets) is having the "pick-up" intent mindset from the get go. Also doing repetitive canned routines does not work in a small environment, or even in any relationship in the long run. You canned line should just be: "Hi, I'm trying to meet some new people and just wanted to say hello." True core attractive behaviors can be practiced in all environments with all types of people. It's the hidden underling o… | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Is projecting confidence and happiness when you're anxious and depressed a false reality and wrong to do? Should I be upfront that I am stressed out about work and it fucks me up?If you are nervous to the point of stuttering and shaking while talking to a woman, it is better for you tell the woman that you are a bit nervous than to ignore the effect that your behavior is having on her. By verbally acknowledging your nervousness, it will help remove any awkwardness in the interaction. While you may not get points for confidence, you will at least receive some for honesty. There is some validity to the phrase “just be yourself.” You should avoid becoming incongruent as a r… | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 11:10 AM |
| 1 | A Valid Criticism of Models: Attract Women Through Honesty by Mark Manson!I think it is time that you go outside and talk to some people. | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 01:30 PM |
| 1 | What's the difference between needy and vulnerable?"Being vulnerable does not mean being weak or soft, but rather that you are strong enough to deal with the repercussions that may result from exposing your true self." -Fundamentals of Female Dynamics (book) by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Reading Models: Attract Women Through Honesty by Mark Manson"Being vulnerable does not mean being weak or soft, but rather that you are strong enough to deal with the repercussions that may result from exposing your true self." -Fundamentals of Female Dynamics (book) by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 13/01/17 12:43 PM |
| 7 | Best booksFundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight Models by Mark Manson Read those two first, so that you start with a healthy mindset. Then you can read the other "classic" game related books, and take them with a grain of salt. Bonus books that contain a lot of applicable and related knowledge: No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini The Red Queen by Matt Ridley How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie | /r/seduction | 01/01/17 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Best stock openers?"Hello." | /r/seduction | 30/12/16 07:32 PM |
| 3 | "I am the prize!" mindset. How did you guys finally get this thought process to stick?By having personal integrity and living a life that is in line with my self-avowed personal values. | /r/seduction | 29/12/16 02:38 PM |
| 15 | To all experienced PUAs: what are you realizations?Your journey of self-improvement should be motivated by a desire to be the best that you can be, rather than from a place where you feel the need to prove something to someone else. If you are searching for fulfillment, you will need to find it inside yourself. You will never find lasting fulfillment in a woman or society at large. Trying to acquire it from external sources will only lead you on an endless pursuit. True fulfillment comes from embracing the never ending process of pursuing your s… | /r/seduction | 28/12/16 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Ask her out before getting her number?Giving a reason why you are exchanging numbers is huge. | /r/seduction | 28/12/16 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Book/Dating coach recommendations? Frauds to avoid?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight Models by Mark Manson Read those two first, so that you start with a healthy mindset. Then you can read the other "classic" game related books, and take them with a grain of salt. Bonus books that contain a lot of applicable and related knowledge: No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini The Red Queen by Matt Ridley How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie There really is … | /r/seduction | 28/12/16 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Best books for understanding and attracting women?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight Models by Mark Manson Read those two first, so that you start with a healthy mindset. Bonus books that contain a lot of applicable and related knowledge: No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini The Red Queen by Matt Ridley How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie | /r/seduction | 28/12/16 10:24 AM |
| 1 | THE SECRET TRUTH ABOUT LEARNING GAMEI agree. If you wear a unique necklace, etc, it gives a girl who wants to talk to you an easy opening conversation topic. People forget that girls often also don't know what to say. My real point was that, while the original authors of this seduction material often did realize such reasons, many followers were not always aware of them, and just saw what they were doing on the surface. Even when I ran bootcamps, students would be like: "Is this [one small specific thing] the secret trick." I pick… | /r/seduction | 28/12/16 09:31 AM |
| 4 | THE SECRET TRUTH ABOUT LEARNING GAMEThere is dressing fashionable, interestingly, and a bit proactively as a form of unique self expression, which I agree with you can be effective. But on the other-side, there is wearing a pink fur coat and looking like a gay Easter bunny. | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 08:51 PM |
| 4 | THE SECRET TRUTH ABOUT LEARNING GAMEI think Models is a great book. | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 08:47 PM |
| 10 | THE SECRET TRUTH ABOUT LEARNING GAMEI was his assistant, not his student. I traveled and coached with him around the USA and Europe. | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Confidence vs being delusionalSince confidence comes from experience, you may be wondering: “What’s a guy to do who completely lacks any past experiences?” This is where the old phrase “fake it till you make it” holds some truth. While I don’t recommend “faking it,” since it breaks our rules about honesty and can make you appear incongruent, it is still catchier than the more accurate phrase: “Accept your current limitations, but do not let them prevent you from putting yourself in new situations which may allow you to acqui… | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone feel like NYC is an extension of college in your 20s? Especially some neighborhoods?It definitely can be. There are literally bars with beer bong in the basement and serve beer in tin cans. Instead of continuing the typical college routine of just waiting till the weekend to get wasted, instead use your 20's to discover more about yourself and what you really want out of life. | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 05:59 PM |
| 2 | How do you stop yourself from overloading with information?Right, and that's why I recommended to stay away from them. In learning classic game, people thought that their actions caused their results, when in reality they were only correlated with their success. It was through repeatedly taking action that they eventually built a core confidence in themselves, which is at the heart of true attraction. | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Looking for some tips to start the right way...If you think that simply having money and a nice apartment will get you more women than you had in college, you will be in for a rude surprise. You will likely have to first overcome the scarcity mindset and backward social conditioning that a 4 year STEM degree impacted on you. I know that this was the case for me. The book Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight was written by a guy with a STEM degree who came from a similar background as you. It will provide the exact firmware updat… | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 10:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop yourself from overloading with information?I have only read Models, and not 3% Man, but I would focus more on general principles instead of specific techniques. Things like act mysterious or read her body language are naturally going to confuse a person who is new to learning this type of material, for the very fact that such a person lacks the reference experiences necessary to properly understand them. You will naturally learn to read body language after many new interactions, and will do so more quickly if you are present to the momen… | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 10:13 PM |
| 25 | How to stop relying on female validation to be happy?Your journey of self-improvement should be motivated by a desire to be the best that you can be, rather than from a place where you feel the need to prove something to someone else. If you are searching for fulfillment, you will need to find it inside yourself. You will never find lasting fulfillment in a woman or society at large. Trying to acquire it from external sources will only lead you on an endless pursuit. True fulfillment comes from embracing the never ending process of pursuing your s… | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Anyone read Fundamentals of Female Dynamics?Yes. The book is basically if you took RSD core principles such as showing honest intent, outcome independence, scarcity mindset, frame control, social momentum, etc, but expanded on them and explained them with a more mature tone similar to how Models is written. FoFD is much more concise and wastes no time on minutia like teaching a person how to dress better, or reminding them of the fact that they might want to start going to the gym, etc. | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 04:06 PM |
| 15 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.Here is another important point on going for the kiss: Many inexperienced men believe that if they show interest, e.g. trying to kiss a girl, and the girl does not reciprocate, then it is game over. The truth is that it all depends on your reaction to her reaction. If you go for a kiss and she turns her cheek to you, and you react by being hurt or overly apologetic, then it may likely be game over. If you react instead by smiling, and continue the conversation as if nothing had happened, then yo… | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 05:23 PM |
| 5 | Showing IntentThere is a difference between making someone like you and generating attraction. The majority of men focus more on ensuring that a woman approves of them, rather than risking becoming vulnerable by honestly expressing themselves. Unapologetic honest expression of one’s true self is at the core of what generates attraction. Thus by playing not to lose and to protect your ego, you are inevitably destined to lose. You need to be unapologetic about who you are as a person. It is OK and normal that n… | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 02:15 PM |
| 1 | I want to improve my game, looking to get a few books to get started - Complete beginnerFundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight Models by Mark Manson Read those two first, so that you start with a healthy mindset. Then you can read the other "classic" game related books, and take them with a grain of salt. Bonus books that contain a lot of applicable and related knowledge: No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini The Red Queen by Matt Ridley How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie | /r/seduction | 22/12/16 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Why being stuck in your head means rejection.Yeah that is why almost no one teaches that type of scripted game that you just described anymore. What you described is also much more techniques than actual principles. Now the more "natural type" of game is much more common, where you follow deeper core principles and don't get drowned by every small miscellaneous detail. Old school techniques definitely have some merit, and knowing how to properly escalate, calibrate, and setup logistics make a difference. But getting caught up in running so… | /r/seduction | 20/12/16 05:09 PM |
| 7 | Why being stuck in your head means rejection.You should not be filtering your true thoughts and beliefs in an attempt to impress a woman or tell her what you think she wants to hear. When a woman senses that you are stuck in your head and filtering your words, she loses the sense that she can fully trust what you say and realizes that your emotions are dependent on her validation. Conversely, when a woman senses that your emotions are not dependent on her validation, an immense pressure is removed from the interaction. Through removing one… | /r/seduction | 20/12/16 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Any missed essential seduction booksModels by Mark Manson Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini The Red Queen by Matt Ridley How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie | /r/seduction | 19/12/16 09:35 PM |
| 1 | How to be happy with my life?Your journey of self-improvement should be motivated by a desire to be the best that you can be, rather than from a place where you feel the need to prove something to someone else. If you are searching for fulfillment, you will need to find it inside yourself. You will never find lasting fulfillment in a woman or society at large. Trying to acquire it from external sources will only lead you on an endless pursuit. True fulfillment comes from embracing the never ending process of pursuing your s… | /r/seduction | 19/12/16 09:35 AM |
| 13 | No More Mr Nice Guy Book ReviewA lot of the "Nice Guy" behaviors break down into the following categories: Bartering for Attention or Affection Chasing or Forcing Rapport Qualifying Yourself / Trying to Impress / Seek Reactions or Approval Not Being Outcome Independent and Non-Reactive Taking Value instead of Providing Value Not Acting Honestly or Showing Congruence and Consistency Interacting as Friend to Woman instead of Man to Woman These behaviors are taken from the book Fundamentals of Female Dynamics, where they are des… | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 02:48 PM |
| 2 | 1st Reddit Post Ever: 25, Single Father, Needs AdviceAs an engineer, sitting in a office all day with dudes was also not conducive to me meeting women. So you will need to place yourself in new environments. You don't have to go to bars, but if you do, you don't have to drink. It's actually better if you don't drink at all. Not doing something because it is something that you have never done before is also a terrible excuse. Try stopping by for 20-40 minutes at a happy hour place a few times a week and just drink water. Start some conversations wi… | /r/seduction | 16/12/16 08:43 PM |
| 14 | The truth behind getting good at pickup"It's the techniques that will bring you to understand the principles." Ding. Ding. That is the secret. In learning classic game, people thought that their actions caused their results, when in reality they were only correlated with their success. It was through repeatedly taking action that they eventually built a core confidence in themselves, which is at the heart of true attraction. Check out the book Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight. It focuses solely on principles. | /r/seduction | 16/12/16 08:37 PM |
| 7 | 1st Reddit Post Ever: 25, Single Father, Needs AdviceDon't let having a kid be a limiting belief in your own mind about a women liking you. For quick hookups it won't be a factor at all, and for long term relationships, let the woman make the call about it. Be a great Dad, and thus attract women who value such a man. Other than that, all other pickup advice is the same at its core in all situations and cultures. So read the books Fundamentals of Female Dynamics and Models. | /r/seduction | 16/12/16 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Practising in small campus, don't do it?Yep, that's pretty much it. But to even further clarify, your job is not to go put on some entertaining performance for the girl in the hope that she likes it. Really just being able to have an honest conversation, where you are not seeking anything (validation, positive emotions, approval), is a rare occurrence for an attractive girl and is often enough. | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 09:45 AM |
| 2 | What to say when you are out alone?Yeah, the book is mostly on psychology and understanding social interactions and human behaviors (most specifically how women perceive them), as well as how we develop our own personal mindsets and sense of entitlement. If you are looking for specific routines, lines, pickup techniques, or sex stories then don't buy this book. Most other books contain that stuff, while this book is a bit closer to a book like Mark Manson's Models. | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 04:23 PM |
| 6 | I want to sleep with beautiful women because I was bullied in high school"Your journey of self-improvement should be motivated by a desire to be the best that you can be, rather than from a place where you feel the need to prove something to someone else. If you are searching for fulfillment, you will need to find it inside yourself. You will never find lasting fulfillment in a woman or society at large. Trying to acquire it from external sources will only lead you on an endless pursuit. True fulfillment comes from embracing the never ending process of pursuing your … | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 04:09 PM |
| 9 | What to say when you are out alone?The key is not being apologetic about being out alone. As soon as you seem insecure about it, you lose. It's the same as when a girl comments on you being bald or too short. "If you have a strong frame and believe that being either short or bald should have no influence on your desirability to woman, then many women will hold these said features less against you. It’s often your own insecurity which you project onto women that they find unattractive, not so much the thing that actually causes it… | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Practising in small campus, don't do it?I agree that running classic style type of game is a bad idea in a small environment. Doing routines and mass approaching is unnatural and weird in these cases. However, you can work on more "natural" game in all environments. The following points can be worked on in every interaction that you are in. Hold Strong Eye Contact and Smile Do not Barter for Attention or Affection Do not Chase or Force Rapport Do not Qualify Yourself / Try to Impress / Seek Reactions or Approval Be Outcome Independent… | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 03:57 PM |
| 6 | What is the key to attractive persistence?"Showing honest intent means that you are willing to express to a woman your interest in her. Outcome independence means that you are completely comfortable accepting that a woman may be unreceptive. Persistence often works with an available woman when you act with honest intent and are outcome independent. Women admire persistence when it illustrates the healthy sense of entitlement of a man who is confident of what he wants, but who also does not become emotionally distraught upon not getting … | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Books related to this sub and general self improvement. Which were the most influential?Models by Mark Manson Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini The Red Queen by Matt Ridley How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 03:49 PM |
| 6 | Is "The Game" a good pick up book?Right, the book can serve as an inspiration that drive home the point that 'Game' is a learnable social skill. However, for actually learning game read: Models by Mark Manson Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight After reading those books, which in addition to educating you, establish a healthy inner foundation about the process, branch out into other sources but be critical of them. Such as RSD youtube videos, David Deida, Rollo Tomassi, etc. | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 09:17 AM |
| 1 | How to build "real" inner value ?"Being honest extends well past your interactions with woman and into how you choose to live your life. While it is important to be honest with others, it is also critical that you are honest with yourself. Perhaps by now you have realized that the same core beliefs it takes to be successful with women mirror those needed to be successful in life. All the attractive traits and behaviors mentioned in this book are beneficial to you regardless of your interest in attracting women. Your attractiven… | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Can someone explain "Not Caring"?"There is a difference between making someone like you and generating attraction. The majority of men focus more on ensuring that a woman approves of them, rather than risking becoming vulnerable by honestly expressing themselves. Unapologetic honest expression of one’s true self is at the core of what generates attraction. Thus by playing not to lose and to protect your ego, you are inevitably destined to lose. You need to be unapologetic about who you are as a person. It is OK and normal that … | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 02:07 PM |
| 2 | A 100% Effective Method to Beat Your Approach AnxietyIn next 7 days lol, I used to do this at bars and say within the next 7 minutes! | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 12:22 PM |
| 4 | Describe YOUR 'game'“Confidently, unapologetically and assertively show your honest intent to a woman while simultaneously remaining outcome independent.” - Fundamentals of Female Dynamics (book) by Michael Knight I don't 'game,' in the sense that I perform actions (routines, lines, negs, etc.) with the purpose of getting a specific response from a woman. Neither is my initial intent to 'pick-up,' but instead just offer the opportunity for two different people to get to know each other. I focus on myself, how I am … | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 12:12 PM |
| 1 | nerdy guy who cant seem to get out with friends or hook up with girlsRecommended Book: Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Simple first date do's and dont's?Yes, it is being unafraid to be physical, in addition to having an overall frame leaning more towards romance more than friendship. "There is a difference between making someone like you and generating attraction. The majority of men focus more on ensuring that a woman approves of them, rather than risking becoming vulnerable by honestly expressing themselves. Unapologetic honest expression of one’s true self is at the core of what generates attraction. Thus by playing not to lose and to protect… | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 06:12 PM |
| 3 | I'm 31 and want to dive into this world. Anyone else here start their adventure at a similar or later age?Definitely not too old. However, I would start learning from sources that contain a more 'mature' style of game and self improvement. Not the old mostly outdated stuff which would recommend that you run around a nightclub 5 nights a week. Check out the books: Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight Models by Mark Manson | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Simple first date do's and dont's?Hold Strong Eye Contact and Smile Do not Barter for Attention or Affection Do not Chase or Force Rapport Do not Qualify Yourself / Try to Impress / Seek Reactions or Approval Be Outcome Independent and Non-Reactive Provide Value (Do not Enter Interview Mode) Act Honestly / Show Congruence and Consistency Interact as Man to Woman The following points are taken from the book Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight, where they are each described in-depth. | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 04:47 PM |
| 1 | is inner game a 'catch22'?I would say that you seek positive responses from girls before you feel comfortable talking to them or perhaps even entitled/good enough to talk to them. The better your looks/more social proof/status you have, the more warm your opens will be. However, you should realize that without these things, you will need to demonstrate to a girl that you are an attractive person, which takes time. I would guess you are the type of guy who does mass approaches looking for the small percentage of girls who… | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 01:51 PM |
| 1 | is inner game a 'catch22'?"The catch-22 of this situation is that it is easy to act with the confidence required to attract women when you are in abundance. But how do you initially obtain this confidence when you currently lack even a single woman in your life? Confidence is created by having successful past reference experiences to draw from. If you have beaten almost everyone you know at chess, then you probably are confident about winning a game against a new opponent. Imagine that you have dated multiple supermodels… | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Question about being non-reactive."Out of all the behaviors listed here, becoming non-reactive will likely take the largest amount of practice to achieve. Caring greatly about an outcome or having a disproportionate amount of investment early on in an interaction is advertised through the invested person being reactive. In an initial conversation where you barely know a woman, there is no good reason why the outcome should have a strong emotional effect on you. The opinion of a stranger does not shake the core confidence of an a… | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 08:49 AM |
| 6 | How To Get Past ''Hey, How Are You?''The key is to engage a person without forcing rapport. "Forcing rapport is when you forcibly try to engage a person, instead of letting a conversation takes its natural course. Of course it may be in your best interest not to let the conversation die, but it should be prolonged in a more natural and non-forceful way. When one is forcing rapport, they are not speaking freely, but instead seeking a response after every statement they say. Conversely, you can generate attraction by leading a conver… | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 01:37 PM |
| 7 | Seddit, what do you guys believe are the 5 most important things to have as a guy to be an attractive man to women? I'm 19 btw.Pursuing his life's purpose. Outcome independent with regards to women liking him (Not needy) Honest with himself and others/ Authentic Has strong personal boundaries and knows what he wants/values. Being a fun and positive person. The master theory for all attraction is: “Confidently, unapologetically and assertively show your honest intent to a woman while simultaneously remaining outcome independent.” -Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 07/12/16 09:15 AM |
| 2 | How important is body language?The fear of never wanting to interact with a women until you feel that she has given you a positive sign via body language will hold you back more than not being able to perfectly read a person's body language. | /r/seduction | 07/12/16 09:03 AM |
| 2 | What Is Your Favourite Seduction Book?Models by Mark Manson Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini | /r/seduction | 07/12/16 09:00 AM |
| 25 | College Pickup - Why classic "game" will hurt youI agree that running classic style type of game is a bad idea in a small environment. Doing routines and mass approaching is unnatural and weird in these cases. However, you can work on more "natural" game in all environments. The following points can be worked on in every interaction that you are in. Hold Strong Eye Contact and Smile Do not Barter for Attention or Affection Do not Chase or Force Rapport Do not Qualify Yourself / Try to Impress / Seek Reactions or Approval Be Outcome Independent… | /r/seduction | 06/12/16 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Rejecting Yourself"When something is outside of your reality, it can almost never actualize in your life; and for the cases in which it does, you will most likely mistake the reasons why. If dating great women is completely outside of your reality, then you will never take the actions necessary for it to occur. This directly relates back to the chapter on limiting beliefs. There have likely been multiple opportunities which you have completely missed out on, simply due to them being outside of your reality and th… | /r/seduction | 06/12/16 12:02 PM |
| 3 | Becoming More Effective With Women In High School or Small Colleges (Basic Overview)I agree that running classic style type of game is a bad idea in a small environment. Because doing routines is unnatural and weird in most cases. However, you can work on more "natural" game in all environments. The following points can be worked on in every interaction. Hold Strong Eye Contact and Smile Do not Barter for Attention or Affection Do not Chase or Force Rapport Do not Qualify Yourself / Try to Impress / Seek Reactions or Approval Be Outcome Independent and Non-Reactive Provide Valu… | /r/seduction | 06/12/16 09:03 AM |
| 3 | Negging- do you like to do it?"As previously discussed, a nice guy’s actions can often be interpreted by a woman as an attempt to buy her affection. Thus inversely, being disrespectful to a woman is the clearest way of communicating that you are indifferent to her opinion of you. After all, a woman who has not read this book would likely find it hard to rationalize why a man interested in her would be insulting. An insult can sub-communicate to a woman that you are not trying to impress her or are emotionally dependent on he… | /r/seduction | 06/12/16 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Hey, I'd like seddit's take on thisThe master theory for all attraction is: “Confidently, unapologetically and assertively show your honest intent to a woman while simultaneously remaining outcome independent.” -Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight Its fine if you honest intent is to find a long term relationship, the problem is you can't become reactive and emotionally distraught if a woman does not instantaneously reciprocate the same feelings. | /r/seduction | 05/12/16 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Who are your favorite PUA coaches? See my list:For a healthy mindset and long-term self-development(books): Models by Mark Manson Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight For Learning External Techniques: RSDMax | /r/seduction | 05/12/16 09:13 AM |
| 3 | Basics of College Game: Why Inner>Outer GameI agree that having the correct internal beliefs and mindsets are crucial for longterm success, no matter what the endeavour is. However, one will always need to take action externally if they want to see growth. And getting external reference experiences is what allows you to truely internalize knowledge. Good books on inner game include: Models by Mark Manson Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight No More Mr. Nice Guy By Robert Glover Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Rober… | /r/seduction | 05/12/16 06:50 AM |
| 2 | The main thing holding you back from women: your ego and prideI think it is important to differentiate between pride derived from external things and an internal pride/self-love. It is when you attach your identity and self-worth to external things (wealth, status, etc.) that you will forever be confined by them. However, if you have an internal personal pride about living your life in line with your personal values, women will find you more attractive. They will detect that you are self-secure and fulfilled by the very fact that you lack the need to show … | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 12:27 PM |
| 2 | What about learning 'game' takes the most time?There is a difference between knowing information and truly internalizing it. Depending on a person's personal starting point, it will take them an individualized number of reference experiences to fully internalize attractive beliefs, behaviors and traits. Many of the people that I see that have been in pick-up for years and have still only reached moderate inconsistent success at best, are not developing themselves as men and instead are only working on their "Game." They are focusing on perfe… | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 11:31 AM |
| 1 | ONEITIS MAJOR NEED HELP PLEASEMost young males operating in a scarcity mindset catch the disease Oneitis at some point in their young adult lives. If not promptly caught and cured, Oneitis can take years away from one’s life. You can pour all your time and energy into a lost cause instead of using it to improve yourself. Having suffered myself from a very dire case of the disease, I am accustomed to the symptoms. The symptoms of Oneitis can include: Spending an abnormal amount of time thinking and obsessing over one girl. … | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Studying seduction fucked my up my life. How do I fix this?The primary issue is that you have become reaction seeking. You have studied in-depth the topic of pick-up, so now you feel you need to implement some form of it in every interaction. It's one of the catch-22s of pick-up, you learn what women find attractive, then try to actively replicate that behavior. But since your actions are made for the specific reason of having the girl like you, you are not outcome independent, which makes the girl like you less. I would take a month off of trying to ge… | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 12:48 PM |
| 1 | If you could boil down seduction to 3 main concepts, what would they'll be?“Confidently, unapologetically and assertively show your honest intent to a woman while simultaneously remaining outcome independent.” Source Actually work on becoming an attractive man, don't just do routines, lines, and actions in an attempt to get a girl to like you. Enjoy the process. | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 06:11 PM |
| 1 | So, I am kind of confused about this subredditStart with these books: Models by Mark Manson Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini Stay away from the stuff that is preachy or negative towards women. | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 04:11 PM |
| 1 | [34M] Where am I, and where do I go from here?I bet you are breaking the majority of the the following points on each date due to having a scarcity mindset. Hold Strong Eye Contact and Smile Do not Barter for Attention or Affection Do not Chase or Force Rapport Do not Qualify Yourself / Try to Impress / Seek Reactions or Approval Be Outcome Independent and Non-Reactive Provide Value (Do not Enter Interview Mode) Act Honestly / Show Congruence and Consistency Interact as Man to Woman The following points are taken from this book, where they … | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 04:05 PM |
| 20 | Which program or Book really changed or made difference on your life.Models by Mark Manson Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 03:54 PM |
| 45 | Hey Seddit, if you had to start from scratch in pickup again, what would be the 3 things you'd start with?Realizing that the core of pick-up is "Being not doing." Most resources focus on teaching you a bunch of techniques and tricks. While these can be useful, they don't address the core issues. Books which teach the correct internal mindset to have from the start are: Models by Mark Manson Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover Look at pick-up as an all encompassing self-development process for becoming a better man, instead of doing specific actions… | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 02:45 PM |
| 3 | Possibly oneitis but need some insight and opinions (a unique situation)Most young males operating in a scarcity mindset catch the disease Oneitis at some point in their young adult lives. If not promptly caught and cured, Oneitis can take years away from one’s life. You can pour all your time and energy into a lost cause instead of using it to improve yourself. Having suffered myself from a very dire case of the disease, I am accustomed to the symptoms. The symptoms of Oneitis can include: Spending an abnormal amount of time thinking and obsessing over one girl. … | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 02:29 PM |
| 1 | The only lesson I learned during the almost 1 year of studying and practicing game, and why being yourself is actually a good advice.The corner stone of this book is also centered around Honesty: Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 11:23 AM |
| 2 | I read Models and SAONGAF by Mark Manson and I'm fiending for more. What other books do you recommend?This book if you like the more mature writing style of models and its focus on deeper principles. | /r/seduction | 25/11/16 12:33 PM |
| 3 | Fear of losing a girl after making a move?Most young males operating in a scarcity mindset catch the disease Oneitis at some point in their young adult lives. If not promptly caught and cured, Oneitis can take years away from one’s life. You can pour all your time and energy into a lost cause instead of using it to improve yourself. Having suffered myself from a very dire case of the disease, I am accustomed to the symptoms. The symptoms of Oneitis can include: Spending an abnormal amount of time thinking and obsessing over one girl. … | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Moving to Prague or Poland. Quality of girls in those countries?Both great overall compared to the rest of Western Europe and the Americas. Poland's best cities are Krakow and Wroclaw. Here are some guides for those cities: Travel Guides | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Are there workbooks or couch to 5k-like programs for seduction?The Rules of the Game by Neil Strauss was the original step by step guide to getting out of your comfort zone and learning game. While its challenges will definitely get you out of your comfort zone, its principles are a bit outdated. For learning the most well refined conceptual core principles of attraction, I recommend the book: Fundamentals of Female Dynamics. | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 09:33 PM |
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