Three beliefs which must be ingrained in your mind before success with women can be achieved.

The following three beliefs must be ingrained in your mind before success with women can be achieved.

1. Attraction is not a choice.

2. Being able to attract women is a learnable skillset.

3. Failing does not equate to failure.

Firstly, attraction is not a choice. Think of a woman that you find attractive. While you can consciously choose to act on that attraction, you cannot choose to turn the feeling off. It is automatic and triggered by a combination of the woman’s looks and personality. Likewise, a woman does not consciously choose to find you attractive. Fortunately for men, most women find a man’s physical looks less important than his personality. Just as a man is automatically drawn to a woman who has a nice figure, women are drawn to men who show specific behavioral traits. While men often instantaneously find a woman attractive because of her appearance, women must collect further circumstantial evidence to judge a man’s attractiveness. When you cultivate the attractive personality traits described in this book, the percentage of women who find you attractive will greatly increase.

Secondly, becoming better with woman is a learnable skillset. Most men do not know that they can learn to become better with women. However, after giving it some thought, it should become obvious. If you can go to the gym and better your physical appearance, why would it not be possible to build a more attractive personality? Learning to attract women is a social skill, and as with any other type of skill, it can be improved through proper theory and training. While certain individuals will naturally be more inclined to picking up the skill than others, anyone who puts in the effort can increase their competency.

While this book hopefully contains many great epiphanies which will drastically increase your understanding of attraction, it is still not a magic pill. You will still need to practice applying the principles in this book with actual women to see improvement. Experience will always trump pure theory. There is also a difference between knowing something and truly internalizing it. You can perfectly memorize the theory presented in this book, but until you put it into action, your results will not change. Michael Jordan could teach you the theory behind a perfect jump shot, but you still must train your muscles how to properly respond for your shots to improve. The more you interact with women, and the more references experiences you gain, the greater your intuition and social intelligence will grow.

Lastly, one has to have the mentality that failing does not equate to failure. Your journey will not be a road paved solely with success. It is supposed to be difficult at times. As with gaining anything in life that is worth having, you will need to put in the work. As long as you are honestly working to better yourself, you should never feel disappointed. Your mantra should be: “I either succeed or I learn.” From every failure there is embedded a lesson which can be applied to bring you future success. In the end, the journey is often sweeter than the final destination, although it may not seem so at certain instances of time.

The process of self-improvement is incredibly rewarding and you will even learn to embrace the struggle. Resistance and failure are preludes to growth. You only gain muscle when you push yourself a bit further than you have previously before. Every barrier you clear puts you closer to your goal. When you finally achieve your goals and look back on how much you have grown, you will realize that you would have not wanted it any other way.

The underlying lessons taught in this text apply to all areas of life, but learning them through the route of attracting women provides a path with great motivation, rewards, and instant feedback. Additionally, by working on an area of life that many find to be their most hopeless, the improvements you make will be more impactful. You will be amazed when you see how your confidence and success in this particular domain will spill over into multiple areas of your life. By choosing to make yourself more attractive to women, you are simultaneously choosing to become a better man.

Excerpt from Book: Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight

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