Now let’s take a moment to look at the world through the eyes of an attractive girl. From the age that an attractive girl begins to mature, her view of reality will often develop differently than that of her peers. She will soon learn that she can use her beauty and flirtation to help her acquire what she desires. In her reality, most people are friendly and nice since they are always going out of their way to help her. She will develop a natural sense of entitlement which will be constantly reinforced by the way other people treat her. Both men and women will go out of their way to please this woman in the hopes of landing in her good favor. For highly attractive woman, receiving free favors and gifts can become the norm.

One night out in Düsseldorf, I hit it off with a beautiful woman who later invited me back to spend the night at her place. While sitting on her couch, I noticed a pile of exotic artifacts in the corner of her room. When I asked her about them, she told me that they were from some guy friend who she had only ever met once, but over the years has continued to send her gifts from places all around the world. The most recent gift was a mask that he acquired while visiting an Inca temple in Peru.

On her birthday, this woman was given two round trip tickets to a Caribbean island, again from another man who she has also never actually dated. While she ended up turning down the tickets, along with their clear implications, many women would have gone ahead and enjoyed a free week on the beach.

What I took away from this experience was not only a glimpse into the reality of an extremely attractive woman, but also an impression of what they desire but most men never offer them. This woman chose me not because I could fly her to a tropical island or provide her with exotic gifts. She liked me because I spoke honesty to her, did not hide my intentions, was unapologetic about finding her attractive and showed a genuine interest in actually getting to know her.

On the subway ride back to her house, this woman kept repeating to me: “Please do not turn out to be a needy guy.” Clearly, this woman already had enough men in her life who were continuously harassing her with attempts to buy her affection. The opportunity to spend an evening with a man who was completely honest and upfront with her was a rare experience.

Multiple men every day will directly and indirectly hit on an attractive woman. If this woman was to respond to every suitor, then she would likely be left with no time for herself. Thus she will often ignore or dismiss most men with little afterthought. Men who are of low value to her may not even appear on her radar, and register as the equivalent of being a piece of furniture to avoid while crossing the room. Attractive woman have great abundance when it comes to picking a man. Their problem will be finding a man who appreciates them for more than just their looks.

Just as a person born into wealth may become lazy, so can a woman who has won the physical genetic lottery. A woman may never reach her full potential if she can always fall back on her looks to live a comfortable life. However, physical appearance is incredible hard to maintain given that it deteriorates with age. Thus a woman who does not develop herself in other capacities will often be left with nothing but bitterness later on. While such a woman may be showered with gifts and experiences, it is important to remember that she is fully dependent upon others to get them. She herself could likely not acquire such things by her own accord if they were not provided to her through others. Since her beauty has provided her with intrinsic value, she may have never had to learn how to create value on her own. This is not a good place for a person to be at in life when they are entering their early 30s. These women’s blessing could soon become their curses. As a man (or as a woman), if you choose to build your sense of entitlement via personal accomplishment, it will only continue to grow over time. Your value will not depreciate but increase with age and experience.

Excerpt from the book: Fundamentals of Female Dynamics

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